On another sub that shall not be named, I just read about this poor woman who is dependent on her porn addict, already has one kid with him and another on the way. She wants to leave but she is trapped and all I can say is NEVER let this happen to any of you.

This is why FDS focuses so much on self love and independence, because nobody deserves to be trapped with a LVM.

Thankfully when my porn addict ex suggested we live together I shot that shit down so fast I probably gave the idiot whiplash, cause he was mad at me. I knew I didn't want to live with that man and I made the right choice for myself. But it breaks my damn heart to see so many women trapped and with kids. I get the general impression the women decided to have kids with these losers in the hopes they would change.

LVM don't change, because they don't see anything wrong with themselves, it's always YOU that are the problem.

So ladies please don't date unless you're financially stable, got your own home or apartment, because you do not want to end up trapped one day. Never depend on a man always depend on yourself <3