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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:10 PM
1

Or maybe guys just don't want to hear it?
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:50 PM
2

You too, RideProof! <3
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:21 AM
2

A regular therapist can help you with that, too. Here's the thing: if you don't like the therapy, you can always stop it. No harm in giving it a try. Don't let your virginity make you feel like an outcast. Also, don't put too weight on it...it's very nice if the first time is with someone special, but it can be with anyone you trust or feel attracted to. Usually the first time (even in a committed relationship) is not so great. Sex is something that gets better with practice, and by paying atten…
/r/seduction24/07/22 05:05 AM
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Therapy will definitely help. When you're happy and at peace with yourself, it radiates.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:50 AM
2

It's hard to jump from friendly to romantic...I've had so many guy friends who gave mixed signals. But, I eventually found the one. Looking back, I would now tell my younger self to date more people and not get hung up on the one or two that I really wanted. And maybe give a few of the boring guys a chance. I don't know. Chemistry is important to me (the kind where you laugh easily and know what the other person is thinking) as is attraction. I was always more attracted to the guy who wasn't cha…
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:49 AM
1

I'm sorry. You're just going through a rough patch. It will get better! <3
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:37 AM
1

Here's another thing. If I go to a job interview and think about the 100 other people who also applied, I'm going to flub the interview. But, if I go to the interview realizing that I have talent and skills to offer and I want to show them that, I'll do well in the interview. Will I get the job? Maybe, maybe not. Will I feel good about myself? Yes, because I gave it my best.
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:58 AM
2

Rereading your post, I think your self-esteem is standing in your way. You don't think you are enough. A therapist can help develop your confidence. :)
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:48 AM
2

When the hot guys just want to use and discard, you realize that someone with an actual soul is so much more important.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:37 AM
1

You don't have to...we eventually figure it out for ourselves.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:28 AM
2

Good advice for both genders! Self pity is understandable (it's a cold world out there) but doesn't help you get back on your feet. I really think successful dating boils down to meeting the right people, people you have things in common with. It seems like a lot of people complain about not being able to get the "hot" girl or guy. Well, if you aren't similar in looks, you won't get the hot girl or guy...but you can get someone who is a better match. Same with intelligence, humor, values, etc.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:20 AM
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And the fact that women get sex easier...yes, they do, but often it is unsatisfying sex (no orgasm, no intimacy) and then they get kicked to the curb like used goods. Dating is hard for both genders.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:13 AM
1

I do agree that men choose who they marry and often it isn't the person they initially pursued. But many women are unhappy in relationships (google the stats). Men in relationships often become less attractive.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:08 AM
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I'd say it's more than 20%. It becomes a shameful secret for many...they don't talk about it, especially if it was someone they know.
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:05 AM
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Most girls don't talk about date rape or assault....it's her word against his and she often feels ashamed. (Same with abortions...girls don't talk about it.)
/r/seduction23/07/22 10:01 AM
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All of this is true.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:59 AM
8

Sometimes all you have to do is smile and maintain eye contact.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:49 AM
1

Trust me. Married 20 years to a fellow teacher. We make the same amount of money. He's average in size, which is perfect for me. We love each other because we think alike.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:48 AM
1

Could care less about size of his wallet or his member. I want a person I gel with. Looks are nice, but everyone has a different definition of good looking.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:43 AM
1

Not necessarily. I like it when a guy is a little vulnerable.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:40 AM
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How did you do that?
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:40 AM
1

Ditto.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:38 AM
3

Confidence is when you like yourself. Arrogance is when you think you're better than everyone else.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:29 AM
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That's going to be specific for every girl...just like guys like different body shapes. Each person probably has their ideal "type", but the right person can override that preference.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:27 AM
1

Well said!
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:23 AM
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love bombing
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:23 AM
1

Nice face, nice smile are very attractive, but he has to be a good person as well. Acting like an AH is an immediate turn-off.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:21 AM
1

Average guys get average girls all the time.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:15 AM
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I'm married and dated a lot before that, also had friends who were guys, so yes, I've approached people a lot.
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:04 AM
2

I see your point. I will say that guys who have sisters usually have a better understanding of women. (On the other hand, my husband had a sister, and he has zero understanding of women. lol)
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:50 AM
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Yes, there's a difference between liking your mom as a person or treating her like a saint. Option 2 is a red flag.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:42 AM
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I know guys who don't get along with their mothers. It's not uncommon.
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:28 AM
2

It's a challenge for everyone, I think, because everyone has slightly different signs. :)
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:10 AM
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I guess you take your cues from the other person. I know you're trying to not offend your date (and that's good!) but if you're not easing into your real self, then neither of you will know if you're a good match.
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:58 AM
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Same here!
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:49 AM
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I prefer a specific compliment, specific to me: your eyes are beautiful, or I can't stop looking at you. Something like that.
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:26 AM
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As a woman, if the conversation is too superficial, I'm not interested. Deep conversations are so much more interesting and personal.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:28 AM
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Just find your own style and avoid the women who are a hard sell. (Who needs that?) Go for the girl who is naturally receptive. You'll have a lot more fun with her and she will meet you half-way.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:25 AM
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So true...every word. Thank you for sharing this astute observation of both men and women. I think you would make a great partner...you understand people. :)
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:16 AM
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True. I wouldn't be able to maintain a flirtation through texting....ugh. Call me and have an actual conversation. And if it's sex that guys want, well they need to read about it and figure out what women like. (Porn is NOT educational.)
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:11 AM
1

Have you considered meeting disabled girls?
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:07 AM
1

You really nailed it. (Saving this.)
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:06 AM
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So are guys.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:01 AM
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Only if he's looking for an above average woman.
/r/seduction23/07/22 04:00 AM
1

Whoa, just come out and say you hate women. Geez. Many, many women are self-sufficient. That doesn't mean they don't want a man, it just means they don't need a man to survive. If you want a woman who has to marry you because she has no options, than go live in an undeveloped country.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:59 AM
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Wanting a partner out of your league is entitled.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:55 AM
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This^ I wish guys would stop whining about the girls they can't get and start focusing on the girls they could get.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:54 AM
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So pick out a girl who isn't as hot. She doesn't have as many options.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:52 AM
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Some people are blessed with social intelligence. It's good to study them in action and pick up some skills.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:49 AM
3

That affects both genders, though. Yet, guys who are fat often reject women who are fat.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:47 AM
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But you are relating to a woman (your mom in this case) as an actual person, which does help you socialize with women.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:10 AM
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Men reject women all the time, too. Pick someone who will actually like someone like you.
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:07 AM
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If a guy has good rapport with his mother or his sister, he already knows a lot about women and how to act around them.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:53 AM
1

This^
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:51 AM
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This^
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:45 AM
5

Yes, it will help!
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:39 AM
26

28 is not too old! You're never too old.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:37 AM
1

Yes, that's good! (I deleted my comment because...downvotes.)
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:26 PM
2

You're blind, I'm afraid. Touch her back. Easy as pie.
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:04 PM
5

Even just please and thank you will do...
/r/seduction22/07/22 06:36 AM
2

Kudos on having a nice conversation, though! That's a great skill...you'll meet some great people this way. :)
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:56 PM
1

You said you weren't feeling anything from her. Trust that instinct. She's paid to be friendly...
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:42 PM
2

This.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:40 PM
2

I hope OP messages you...I think you could probably help him more than anyone else. :)
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:59 PM
5

Cooking, photography, painting classes
/r/seduction20/07/22 04:45 PM
2

She seems reluctant and you won't know why unless you're willing to ask. If you don't want to do that, you can just continue to go slowly, getting a little bit more intimate each time.
/r/seduction19/07/22 09:14 AM
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That's cool. I don't feel comfortable with a guy unless I feel like we click, at least as friends. I need to know what kind of personality they have.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:31 AM
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But, also, the older couples are more comfortable interacting because there is no sexual component. When they say hi to a younger person, they know it's just a friendly greeting.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:23 AM
0

Why would someone give their number to a complete stranger?
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:21 AM
2

No, myartificalself is right. That smile is way, way too eager. And creepy.
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:20 AM
2

Well, it might get the ball rolling, but it's a double edged sword. Religion and politics are tricky topics.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:40 AM
7

Tickle her? Then whisper in her ear. I would love that, at least.
/r/seduction18/07/22 11:19 PM
2

Yay!!
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:00 AM
2

Have a great night! (Just doing it will be empowering....doesn't matter if you meet any one.)
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:50 PM
1

Sounds like you need meds as well. Talk to your doctor. (The meds really do make a difference.)
/r/seduction17/07/22 06:48 PM
1

Well, you could suggest group dates. In other words, "Laura, a few of us are going out after work. You should join us."
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:08 PM
2

Don't give up. Do you have a friend you can practice on? Also, maybe you're just picking the wrong people. Are those women very good-looking? If so, they are already being pursued. And they may already have a boyfriend. You'll have better luck with someone who matches you in looks, wealth, and education--or style and smarts. Since you are still getting your sea-legs, pick someone who is a little eager.
/r/seduction16/07/22 06:02 PM
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You definitely need to spark their interest before you even think about asking for a first date. In other words, don't ask a girl out until you have: made her laugh, held eye contact, complimented her on something she's done (NOT her looks), shared...as in had a back and forth conversation about something relevant to both of you. See? That kind of chemistry starts well before any date.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:55 PM
2

This^
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:13 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:12 PM
6

They're telling you not to expect it...that way they can say no, later, without feeling like a tease. If after two hours of making out, they change their minds, well, good for you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 08:10 PM
1

Exactly...talking to people can be very natural.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:44 AM
2

Yes :)
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:39 AM
2

Your guitar is missing the G-string??
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:41 AM
2

We're about to lose the G-rating. ;)
/r/seduction08/07/22 12:33 AM
1

The safest bet is the woman who truly loves you. (Her body count is immaterial.)
/r/seduction07/07/22 11:12 PM
1

Women are rarely "celebrated" in male dominated fields (certainly not by their male colleagues) which is why they work so hard to be exceptional.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 10:39 PM
2

You're not a low value woman, you're a woman who is not recognizing her own value. A gorgeous red flag is still a red flag.
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:13 PM
4

I know, right? She's flirting at defcon 5.
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:05 PM
6

Love this!
/r/seduction07/07/22 12:02 PM
1

Do the wives/girlfriends have any friends. Maybe they could help.
/r/seduction07/07/22 09:42 AM
0

Sure it is. /s
/r/seduction06/07/22 07:48 PM
1

True!!
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:02 PM
1

My friend got a girl pregnant when he was 12 years old. As soon a kid hits puberty, they need guidance.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:39 PM
1

Yes, STDs can be life-long. Kids need to know this.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:38 PM
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But, then they get their advice from their peers, which is usually awful advice. And sons need to know about enthusiastic consent and preventing pregnancy.
/r/seduction06/07/22 04:19 PM
2

Totally agree.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:32 PM
1

Strong disagree. I'm passionate and love intimacy. Intimacy is the best part of sex. And cuddling. If I shared my body with someone, it was a gift. (I did make some stupid choices, but that was part of growing up. It's to be expected.)
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:27 PM
1

But each girl's definition of "funny, handsome, sexy" is different. So, again, no one approach works for all women.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:19 PM
1

Although there are attractive qualities that are universal. Women like guys who are funny, handsome, sexy. (And, by sexy, I mean a guy who probably knows how to make a woman feel good.)
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:18 PM
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An older woman (me!) can see past the BS and reflect objectively, I'd like to think. But, you said something important: But they don't know the preferences of women in general. No one can know the preferences of women in general because each woman is different.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:07 PM
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Actually, it was the professor and his wife at a boy's prep school. In the meantime, you need therapy, dude. Seriously.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:01 PM
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I think I gave examples as to how to talk to women, including NOT commenting on her looks. (Attractiveness is trickier...I don't want to shame guys who feel they look bad. Often, they don't. Plenty of average guys get girls.)
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:59 PM
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Monty Python had a scene like that. ;)
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:55 PM
2

Yeah, okay, nightmarish. Don't do it like that.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:53 PM
4

Great movie scene with Alan Arkin. He opens a book with an anatomical illustration of a woman and says to his teenaged son, "See that right there? Rub that and you will make her purr."
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:49 PM
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I would guess that you're either funny, a natural flirt, and/or very sexy. So, your advice to guys who are struggling won't work either--because you're a natural.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:46 PM
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Why should she trust you when you're already thinking about sex with other girls? She's probably looking for someone, who, you know, actually loves her.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:44 PM
1

Well, we know that some guys are too insecure to realize that a healthy woman also has sexual needs and has had sexual experiences. Do you want a woman who really enjoys sex, knows how to make her lover feel great, and wants to have sex for the long term? Then choose someone with experience.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:39 PM
1

Here's the deal. I know what I like as a woman, and I bet other women would agree with me. So, if you want a woman to like you, maybe it's not a bad idea to listen. Just sayin'
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:18 PM
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Actually, I'm usually the one to start it. (I like interacting with people, men and women.) But I'm an outlier.
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:15 PM
1

Am I so far off the mark?
/r/seduction06/07/22 02:01 PM
2

Good for her! She broke the cycle
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:55 PM
1

You scored a date with the first girl you asked, and she was out of your league. Success!! Keep making connections with more people. Yes, it's stressful (at first, gets easier) but it's worth it!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:40 PM
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30 is still young! And there's a big middle ground between nerd and buffed football player. If you want to meet people and make friends, you do have to risk yourself and let yourself go out and be friendly and open. It's actually a great skill that's worth developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:38 PM
2

So spot on. Teasing is fun...negging is mean.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:26 PM
1

Sounds good...extroverts are easier to talk to, you're right.
/r/seduction06/07/22 01:21 PM
2

That is wonderful! Well-done. :)
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:59 PM
1

It depends. If you're picking a girl out of your league, it's not going to work. (And everyone wants the one they can't have.) If you're doing this exercise as practice, then practice with a slightly less attractive or shy girl, because you will be more successful.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:58 PM
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It takes a really astute dad to give valuable dating advice to his son...most wouldn't know how. One thing I wish dads would impart to their sons is a little sexual know-how about satisfying a woman in bed. Too many young guys have absolutely no clue how a woman's body and mind works. On the other hand, my mom never gave me any advice about dating or how to pleasure a guy.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:51 PM
2

ok, zoolander :)
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:08 PM
2

So when you text her, what are you going to say? You don't know anything about her.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:07 PM
1

Exactly!
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:05 PM
2

It's not your job to chase every cute girl on the planet...geez, you don't even know her. She could be a bore, or a psycho.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:03 PM
2

This^... every word. Also start chatting up grandmas and other types of women...get used to talking to people. :)
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:55 AM
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That's true. BUT, when she finally indicates she's really NOT INTERESTED, walk away.
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:53 AM
1

Do you mind if I share some thoughts on cold approaches? (58 year old, married woman) Don't let the first thing you say be about her appearance, unless you are way hotter than her. (Cute girls know they're cute and get tired of strangers telling them so. They get tired of having to fend off creeps.) Cold approaches already have the odds against them, so pick someone who is not as attractive or not very confident. Don't foam at the mouth. Overly eager is a turn-off most of the time. (It's also a …
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:46 AM
1

You must be downright beautiful, then :)
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:04 AM
1

Geez (I do have conversations with guys all the time, but it's just friendly...I mention my husband early on.)
/r/seduction06/07/22 11:03 AM
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As a woman I can confidently state that cold approaches almost never work.
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:58 AM
1

No counterplay. If you offered a seductive gesture and she ignores it, then she just wants to be friends. (Unless she is nervous.)
/r/seduction06/07/22 06:22 AM
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I appreciate all the thought you put into your replies. I really, truly hope it's not as bleak as you say...I mean people get married or cohabitate all the time. (The pandemic has not helped, though.) I hope you meet someone special. :)
/r/seduction03/07/22 10:30 PM
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You are being so pessimistic. :) The guy in the mall must have done something creepy to get banned, OR the girl had a lot of clout (rich family or something like that). As far as matching, I guess I should have said pick a girl who is as good-looking or not quite as good-looking as the guy. Guys who have graduated are a little more mature now, so their luck has not run out...but, of course, they need to practice their social skills. How to avoid being creepy? That's a good question, because "cre…
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:45 PM
1

Whoa, that's a rather dramatic conclusion. It's a numbers game, and as long as you are polite and back off at the appropriate time, you will not face "grave" consequences. The trick is to pick a match...someone who matches you in looks and wealth. And it takes practice. But, it's also so much easier to meet people more organically, like through school, clubs, church (haha), etc.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:45 PM
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I think binge-watching an entire series while losing sleep and skipping meals is pretty ambigious.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:41 PM
1

I guess it could. And this is the problem with cold approaches...you really have to be able to "read" the woman you're approaching. If you don't have that skill, it's probably a no-go.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:33 PM
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No, that's just being friendly.
/r/seduction03/07/22 07:23 PM
1

Yes!
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:36 PM
2

Yes, you'd be uncomfortable.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:14 PM
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You're right, it really depends on the guy. Creep vibes? Nope. Friendly? Yes. Flirtatious? Maybe. If I think he's looking for just sex, it's a firm no. If he seems to be interested in me as a person, well, that's a yes.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:09 PM
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Some girls like guys who are forward. I'm more cautious.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:04 PM
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Someone who likes himself. (Not an egomaniac and not someone who's controlling.)
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:26 PM
2

Love this.
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:55 AM
6

I'm a woman and I have to say this predatory approach would creep me out. Don't call a stranger cute. The best you can do is smile shyly and comment about the environment or ask a question like, "What's good here."
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:44 AM
2

Flirting is a dance...and she has to dance back. If she doesn't want to dance, you're not going to change her mind. Pick people who show some initial interest--eye contact, smile, etc.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:24 AM
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yes
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:20 AM
2

It's the opposite. We like being strong irl, but in the bedroom it's nice to not be in charge for a minute. It's like an adventure.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:20 AM
2

Yes!
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:12 AM
23

I'm a woman and this is a good analogy.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:12 AM
1

Me too.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:57 PM
2

The fact that she was dancing with three guys shows that she was not serious about any kind of meet-up. Bullet dodged....she's a party girl and you really don't need that.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:12 PM
3

My niece was using her best glamour shots on a dating site and I told her to put up normal photographs. When you meet someone in real life, you want him to think you look BETTER than your pictures.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:09 PM
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Yay! It will pay off!
/r/seduction02/07/22 12:33 PM
6

It sounds like you need more opportunities to have casual conversations with people, not just girls you want to date. (Small talk, the non-boring kind, is a good skill to have.) Start chatting up any one (ask questions, too). I enjoy deep conversations, also, but you can't get to point B without starting at point A.
/r/seduction02/07/22 10:55 AM
1

I have liked short guys and also broke guys. I wouldn't have a non-platonic relationship with someone who is "unattractive", but my idea of attractive is different from another woman's idea of attractive. So, yes, it may not be typical, but lots of those guys find women to be in relationships. I think the problem for all of us average people is insisting on perfection. I'm not going to attract a gorgeous male for anything other than a friendship. Same for a corporate millionaire. I am going to a…
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:37 AM
1

You will probably have to give it up completely. Once you're addicted to something, you can no longer have just a little. Therapy will help.
/r/seduction02/07/22 02:27 AM
2

I always try to let nice guys down easily....I know it's tough to make the first move.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:16 PM
2

As a woman, it would hurt my feelings.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:05 PM
2

I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings and I don't feel it's polite to just say "you're not my type." I'd never do that unless the person offended me.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:42 PM
3

Exactly. :)
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:12 PM
4

You need to time to grieve...you're really not ready for a new relationship right now. Why were you so selfish? Do you know if you'll act differently in the next relationship? Maybe you should talk to a therapist.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:07 PM
3

This. There has to be a connection.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:57 PM
5

Or, more realistically, she doesn't know you. Going out with a relative stranger often feels weird.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:57 PM
6

I always pretended I had a boyfriend...it's an easy let-down.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:52 PM
2

Teenaged romances are just stupid drama, most of the time. You didn't miss anything.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:51 PM
3

I have a couple of questions: Did you know this girl at all? Is she better looking than you? Did you have a conversation before you invited her to a bar?
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:49 PM
-2

Therapy. A therapist will help you.
/r/seduction01/07/22 09:45 AM
0

This.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:38 AM
0

Woman here...physique is not the most important thing. Nor is money. The most important thing is to be interesting, genuine, and have a sense of humor. In other words, someone with a good personality who also knows how to listen and give-and-take.
/r/seduction30/06/22 10:17 AM
1

If you watch any Hugh Grant movies, you'll see he does self-deprecation in a completely charming and adorable way. Of course, he has stunning good looks, and that adds to his charm. In general, don't put yourself down. You can make an upbeat (not depressing) joke about yourself once in a while (because that usually is charming, especially if delivered with a playful smile). I'm not asking you to be someone else, but it's important to try to be your best self...the self you're proud of. :)
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:41 AM
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