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| 1 | Mona Lisa Smile Discussionoriginal trailer It’s pretty cringe. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/23 08:28 PM |
| 6 | Mona Lisa Smile DiscussionMajor Spoiler: I think that Kirstin Dunst was very hurt when she lashed out here I have a lot of sympathy for her fear and ego. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 7 | Mona Lisa Smile DiscussionJoan’s speech | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/23 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Divine femininity makes me feel less of a women.I encourage you to read some of my posts as you wander around the internet, including all the links and character analysis of the Angel vs Human Chapter Also know that it’s not your responsibility to teach or preach anything to your nieces. You can only control yourself. Let others notice your happiness. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 14 | My husband doesn’t want to get a jobHi Friend. I want to offer the best advice I can. Stop looking at your husband as someone who “Doesn’t want to get a job.” You sound like you are both young and you’ve said that he in University. This is an exciting time. Please review any of my post history regarding the book Fascinating Womanhood. I especially recommend chapters 3, 4, and 5. In order to give the best support to your husband you need to accept him, admire him, and appreciate him. This might be difficult right now because you ar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/09/22 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Reflections on dating after 9 years of marriageI am not usually one to go with my gut but I do think that sometimes you know. That’s a tough one. Because I really want to offer sound advice to the women here who have zero or low n-count. But I “thought” I knew many times. But it was a painful process. But when I really knew…it was different. But that’s an emotional explanation. I can’t give advice here: I have a high n-count. And maybe, just maybe, it's as important to decide that you ARE going to be with someone than that they are the "righ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 8 | Reflections on dating after 9 years of marriageOmg I just realized who you are. I remember you from way back when and I know I’ve seen you and your matching-user-name-husband’s posts. YOU inspired me to do the FW posts because I so enjoyed your contribution to RPW theory. Big fan!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/22 07:33 PM |
| 12 | Reflections on dating after 9 years of marriageI am so happy to hear your thoughts. And I think we should do AMA here. Thank you for sharing some of the more private details of your sex life. I haven’t felt “bold enough” to write theory about vetting men. But I share a similar story to “just knowing” and I also relate to being impressed by the sex where “it could have been a problem” if he was a bad guy. I’m coming up on my 10 year anniversary. I’m proud, and it’s totally worth it. Again, thank you for your thoughts, and MODS: let’s do AMA’s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 13: Sympathetic UnderstandingAww! Thanks for inspiring me to reread it. I love how it showed what men REALLY VALUE about a woman’s attitude. The wife was so beautiful, singing and playing with flowers. The husband had legitimate, humiliating fears about his role as a provider, when “the misfortune” befell them. I don’t mean the following comments as a way to minimize or simplify unhealthy relationships: But I have faith that the husband maintained his motivation to delight his wife, instead of falling into addiction or abus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Book Club: Anna Karenina Part 4Poor Alexey never even got the chance to get a description other than having a shrill voice and big ears. But he really does seem like a good man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/05/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina Part 3New post coming soon | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina Part 3New post coming soon | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept Him at Face ValueI was actually responding to your thread on my regular username. These strategies don’t fix abuse. You have to be starting from a healthy relationship. The “Things we shouldn’t try to change” section of this post does not cover the behaviors you are experiencing in your relationship. In some ways, you have to leave room to accept non-masculine behavior when he’s relaxing at home. In other ways, feminine behavior and creating a warm space for him at home should minimize these behaviors. These fas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/22 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Book Club: Anna Karenina: Part 2I just wanted to add that it bothered me so much that Vronsky kicked his horse. He knew that she was probably injured to the point of having to be put down. The horse broke her back and needed to be shot, but Vronsky had no where else to have a temper tantrum. I thought that was quite an awful detail. The horse race was very tense. I could just see Ann’s losing the color in her face and all the tension and releases of her emotions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Book Club: Anna Karenina: Part 1I love your take on this. And sorry about Oblonsky. I’ll keep him in mind for next time. Levin immediately gave me blue pill vibes. But I’m looking at him through a different lens and pointing out the foreshadowing of his true red pill potential. As far as giving Kitty grace…well… Kitty is in many of us. Especially the unmarried RPW trying to vet…trying to find a commitment. She’s pure, pleasant, inoffensive, attractive, high society, kind, friendly. There’s really nothing WRONG with her. As som… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/22 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina: Part 1Yes, I don’t think Kitty’s mother is exactly wrong for meddling in this arrangement. It’s just that an older woman evaluating a charming young man might be —dare I say— more emotional than Kitty’s father doing the evaluation. Her mother wasn’t meaning to be cruel…she just made an error in judgement and there were consequences. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/22 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina Part 1Through Part 1. Multiple chapters…but it’s also broken up into “part1-8” | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/22 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina Part 1I’m listening to the Maggie Gyllanhall version on audible. But I also have the kindle book. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/01/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!I made another post. Read part 1 to discuss on February 1st. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/22 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Anna Karenina. Let’s do this!!Most novels, tv, movies, plays, etc…have an element of “tragedy” to them. So… the answer isn’t “no” but it’s not always the happy stories that are compelling. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Back to Basics September: Education, Profession, and the RP WomanI’d like to respond to this post constructively, so first I’ll take notes and then I will reply. Takeaway: - women tend to focus and dwell on their education and profession when on a date. They place too much emphasis and confidence in these things, and expect those accomplishments to be the main reason a man decides to pursue them. I agree with this. So I think conversational skills can help you out here. When I feel silence or awkwardness, I fill the time by talking about myself. A solution co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/21 12:14 AM |
| 2 | I feel like a failure :)Everyone says the same advice to younger women…you don’t know who you are!! But man when I was 16 I really thought I did know. But I was wrong. It’s an ego thing, and unfortunately no text or book is gonna tell you how to avoid that thought pattern. I dropped out of school. I got a GED. I swore I would go to college early to make up for it…but I didn’t. I got married when I was 18 and it was a fucking disaster. So, I don’t have the common Red Pill Wife path, and in fact I’m not married, but I wi… | /r/RedPillWives | 18/08/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I feel like a failure :)Hi!! So first off, you are over thinking things but I am still going to try to help you. But I love books, so I’m going to recommend a lot of books. I don’t mind that you are getting a GED, or want to be a homemaker. Some people are really judgemental about these topics but you need to have thicker skin. You should continue to educate yourself and follow hobbies, and I don’t mind what you choose, but you do need to be an interesting and educated person. So…for example, I’m very interested in bir… | /r/RedPillWives | 17/08/21 11:42 PM |
| 3 | My husband walks on eggshells around me and I’m not sure what to do. Help please!Aww… thanks for mentioning me! And as far as OP u/homeandpages Keep having sex. And look for my appreciation and admiration posts too. Everyone can change and babies are stressful. Take care of yourself. He will get used to it. I’m actually having a really depressing episode right now. TMI!! But there is always hope, yeah, stay strong. But OP are you really okay? I mean you said he’s stressed that you are doing good? That’s possibly true…but a little weird that you made it through the whole preg… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/21 06:38 AM |
| 7 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch21 The Feminine Role vs The Working WifeRE: Should Daughters Be Trained for Careers? I have a lot of objections to this part of the book. I have conflicted feelings because I am not a parent and I don't pretend to know the complexities of raising any children, or trying to bestow Red Pill values on them. I think that a lot of the cultural influences on children and young people today are hard to ignore, but it would take some special finesse to relay the message that you should Plan on being dependent. It may give the wrong impression… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 12 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch21 The Feminine Role vs The Working WifeRE: My Thoughts on the Whole Chapter, Motherhood, and Feminine Careers I want to end this Chapter stating that I disagree with most of this advice. I believe that it is aspirational, but I don't know if it is reasonable, or could be considered as a universal truth. I think this is something you have to explore within yourself as you move through life. We all hope that we know ourselves well, but sometimes that takes a deep look within to determine our inner values, our true intentions. One of th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody read the Handmaid’s Tale? I’d love to discuss it from a rpw perspectiveOh u/HappilyMrs I would love to discuss more books with you. We should have our own private book club! We should read Anna Karenina together. I discuss it sometimes in my posts. So the 1st season is very similar to the book BUT the book is only from OfFred’s perspective. There is no outside hope. It’s only in her head. The plot lines are the same, going to Jezebel’s, seeing Moira, interacting with Aunt Lydia, falling in love with Nick, but Serena used to tease her with cigarettes. And at one poi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 8 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch19 The Feminine MannerI think there are so many nuances to the topic of abuse. So I’ll be clear: No manner or magnitude of femininity, patience, kindness, or submission will change an abusive man. And it’s a hard place to be in, to identify as submissive, and yearn for a man to give and give to...without finding yourself with the wrong man. That’s why it breaks my heart to hear women on this subreddit lament about...”well, I’m 22, and I’ve already been with 4 men! My n-count is too high! Should I just buckle down and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/21 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch19 The Feminine MannerI thought of Audrey Hepburn during that part. She seemed very cat like. And Jackie Kennedy too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch19 The Feminine MannerYes!! I read it again today. Such a good way to present simple information and make it really hit home. If you are as motivated and patient as that woman...the answer is right before you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 10:37 PM |
| 4 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch19 The Feminine MannerThere are chapters later on being childlike and expressing delight. I don’t consider myself to purr...lol. But I say “Mmm” when he hugs me when I come home, smell a nice perfume. Or “Aww” when I see something cute. Or “ohh!” When he suggests a new recipe he wants to try or place he wants to visit. I think this is about really small expressions, instead of just being harsh and going, “damn, that looks cool!!” | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch16 A Worthy CharacterI so enjoy your comments!! I hope you appreciate how I tried to summarize things. Some of this book was…yeah… old and difficult. But yeah, still an awesome resource :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/21 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch18 The Feminine AppearanceFENSACE Women's Scoop Neck Sleeveless Midi Casual Flared Tank Floral Printed Dress stuff like this | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/21 08:08 PM |
| 18 | How to act more feminine?Sorry to self promote, but the next few Chapters of my Fascinating Womanhood Summaries are about being feminine. Watch for them over the next week or so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch15 Inner HappinessChapter 2 | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/21 12:06 PM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch8 The LeaderYes. I didn’t summarize any of that nonsense because it was so...wrong. I summarized things and topics that I didn’t agree with many times. But I left this whole topic out for that reason. I am liberal. Not that it really matters. But I chose to be a RPW. But hating gay people, and blaming them for the collapse of society...no way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/21 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept HimI am not religious at all. I think the author is Mormon. Just try to look past it :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Clothing for an early twenties girl?ModCloth!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch7 Masculine and Feminine RolesThere’s another Chapter of this book that addresses this. It talks about how men go out to work and provide. They use their intellect, assertiveness, brilliance, and passion at work... And then they come home and we just see them watching baseball and forgetting their socks on the floor. It asks women to remember that they might only see their husband in his relaxed, or might I even say “lazy” mode, but we shouldn’t forget everything that goes on behind the scenes. I agree with TRP that seeing m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 0 | Late bloomer -- how do I start? Or is it too late?Question: do you have to get braces? I know that culturally braces can be a sign of wealth, but Invisalign’s is a lot nicer. Can you change courses on this? I got veneers and it was expensive but soo worth it. If you consider the cost as financial, comfort, and aesthetic...it might be a more palatable option? Subs that I would recommend: the glow up, vindicta, curly hair, and also if you are not white many of those subs have other subs for more focused content. This may be controversial: but why… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 5 | What is your favourite lingerie to wear?I have really large breasts...so using the sub “A bra that fits” is important to at least be starting with the right size. I love silky robes. Even if I’m wearing more casual cotton pjs underneath...the silk robe adds to the look. I like to wear stay up thigh high stockings. My trick for these is to buy a larger size. When you are looking at the size chart and you think you are gonna fit into a size based on height and weight...get the next size up. Even if you are slim... having the stocking sq… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 08:27 PM |
| 2 | What is your favourite lingerie to wear?Comfort can be important...but male underwear isn’t feminine. Cant you find boyshort style women’s underwear to feel comfortable in? And do you really think your answer is helping OP? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch6 Make Him #1This is so well said! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch6 Make Him #1Yes I agree. I think if you REALLY want to be a SAHM where you are being provided for...then you need to be introverted and focused enough to completely make him and then your kids #1. Personally, my compatibility with MY partner is contingent upon me having my own interests, hobbies, and educational pursuits. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/04/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveAre the beginning Chapters about this Angelic vs Human topic? All I can say is that Chapters 19-22 (I think) really dig into the topic and description of feminine qualities. So maybe it's just out of order. And if the books are really very different, I'm sure it's not a bad thing...maybe you can do some write ups if the differences are interesting :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept HimOh man...that could happen. I loved it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept HimI didn’t know that. It’s interesting. I’m sure the author of FW is biased about things. I think if you did look into it you’ll find criticisms about her. It doesn’t make everything she wrote right or wrong. I didn’t mean to bully Sophia and I didn’t do any due diligence in researching her...but I think it’s plain that no one wants their marriage to END like that. Through death or divorce. I think it’s sad when old married couples grump at each other. Both partners need to practice acceptance. Bu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 8 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood Ch 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveI disagree that RPW wants you to be perfect for a man. FW might be pushing that idea. RPW is more of a theory and a strategy. Not all men want the same thing in a partner. Intelligence and creativity are valued. I don’t live up to every ideal in this book, and my partner certainly wouldn’t want me to. It’s just about exploring femininity from a more old fashioned view, something that we might not have been exposed to in modern culture. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood: IntroductionIt might be...and this one might be too. You will find that some of the advice is weird, or unimaginable. Or you might think that finally someone is speaking your language. I put a lot of thought into these summaries. I talked about myself, referenced old and new movies, books, and cultural icons. I even disagreed with some of it. I don’t “live” every part of this book. But it is an important reference material on this sub and I treated it with respect. Hope you enjoy! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Revisiting Fascinating Womanhood: IntroductionSomeone mentioned last time...there’s a chapter about sex in the updated one that seems to be missing from the 1965 one. My opinion is that my write ups were really thorough. I went page by page to summarize and pull quotes. If this version is $30...which it appeared to be when I clicked my old Amazon link...then buy a vintage one just for the novelty of it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/21 08:05 PM |
| 2 | TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradConShould I link to the old posts and ask for new discussion? Or just copy/paste into a new post? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | TradCon is RPW but RPW is not TradConCan I repost some of my old content About Fascinating Womanhood? I wish there had been more comments and discussion when I was doing it. But it’s all there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 18 | What’s your frequency of sex?NSFW: I am 33, he is 48. We have been dating for 8 years. I am the live in girlfriend for the last two years I’ve been TRP aware for 6-7 years. I’ve been RPW active for about 2 years. My post history is mostly just a comprehensive review of “Fascinating Womanhood” check it out!! Our sex life is fantastic in my opinion. I’m very receptive, and he’s a high value man. Most of the time he initiates...by a look, a touch, or a kiss. Nothing more needs to be said, we immediately know what we need. Some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/07/20 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Fascinating WomanhoodMy post history has summaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/20 04:32 PM |
| 24 | How to deal with my masculine side (F21)Review my post history about the book “Fascinating Womanhood” to develop your feminine side. Also stay tuned for a new book club starting in the new year. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/11/19 12:28 AM |
| 4 | My Boyfriend Isn't Excited for My BirthdayFW: Ch26: Asking For Things Please review my recent summary of asking for things in a “Childlike Way” You can’t be the chill girlfriend who doesn’t need much and gets along well, if you have actual expectations. That’s kind of called a covert contract in the RP world and it leads to miscommunication and disappointment. You need to communicate: I want to celebrate monthly anniversaries. I like food more than flowers. I expect to spend Thanksgiving with my family. My sibling and I have the same bi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 27: Fascinating Womanhood Applied to SexWe read this versionFascinating Womanhood It was the final chapter and it extensively carried on about virginity. I wouldn’t mind having a copy of the original version. I’ll have to look into finding one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/19 04:43 AM |
| 10 | Newbie looking for advice on how to startCheck out my post history where I’ve been summarizing Fascinating Womanhood. I’ll be posting the Final Chapter tomorrow. You can also look up a free PDF called “The Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood” which is a summary with some cheesy characters and back stories. I also recommend the book “The Surrendered Wife” I can’t believe that comment (which is now deleted) is still live. But the discussion below it is good advice. I just can’t believe somebody said that. It’s not a representation of this s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/19 11:01 PM |
| 2 | The consequences of being an alpha widowI hate to be rude, your post history is long and vague. Are you the young lady that was mistress to the emotionally abusive married man? Either way, this traumatic past relationship does seems to be haunting you. Do you have hobbies, passions, educational goals or something else to distract you from constantly reliving this relationship? Therapy really would be a more efficient use of your time. You still have the opportunity to be lucky in love someday, you just have to love yourself first. I a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/19 01:47 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop making passive aggressive comments toward my boyfriend that I love?I don’t understand how you could add a sentence at the end that says “We have shared values.” You don’t. You’ve done a lot of growing since you’ve met him, but it seems to have come from you. Has he been a leader in any aspect of your life? The reason I ask is because if he is not leading, then you will resent following someone that’s going no where. It sounds like a really tough personal situation with your mom being sick, and you leaving work to care for her. But that’s no excuse to prolong th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/19 04:47 PM |
| 3 | [advice] what does it mean if I miss caring for babies but don't want one?I am certain that I am childfree. It doesn’t mean I dislike children. Luckily my brother and his wife are having children and satisfying my parents want for grandchildren. I plan to take my role as an Aunt VERY SERIOUSLY. I’m saving for his education, I’m planning to travel with my nephew, watch him while his parents have brief getaways. I could help him financially if he had whimsical wants to study abroad or take up a music lessons. In that way, I can satisfy that desire to nurture children wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/19 05:33 PM |
| 7 | (advice) How do you stop your ego from getting in the way of making connections?It's true that you shouldn't trust and submit to a man who hasn't earned it. But in order to attract a man that could be worth it, you have to lighten up. I wonder if you could date a few people for the purpose of defining what you want in a partnership. Don't sleep around, learn about yourself, and try to have fun. Spend time dressing feminine, and see if getting dressed up helps with your energy. When you are looking for a partner, seek someone out whom you respect. Not someone you feel the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you/have you (seriously) dated someone who was a parent?Are you child free yourself? Or do you have children? I am child free. I like children, but it's not for me. Did/would you consider the age of the child to be a factor, and to what extent? When I met my boyfriend she was 13. I was evil when I was that age, and I didn't know how serious of a relationship we were going to have. I did not end up meeting her for 4 years. Is whether his child is out of a previous marriage or an illegitimate child a factor in your decision-making? I feel equally sorry… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Do you try to get friends to take the RP?What a world. I identify as liberal, childfree, poly, egalitarian And I still find the RP beneficial. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/19 09:28 PM |
| 3 | What do you offer?Find a man that doesn’t want children. You won’t be “done for” Your compatibility with his desires on this important issue will be a strength. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/19 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you offer?How did you earn one star? How do I upvote this and say this should earn you another one. Fantastic! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/19 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Introduction to Childlikeness and Chapter 24 Childlike AngerIt’s been a really long time since I’ve had issues with anger within a relationship, so I can see that I didn’t spend as much time on it as might have been useful for others. A long time ago I read, “Boundaries in Relationships” by Dr. Cloud and Dr. Townsend. There’s a lot of religious themes in that book (though not more than this one) I also read a book called, “You Can’t Make Me Angry,” by Paul O. This is a book by a recovering alcoholic about not letting the behaviors and short coming of oth… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 23 Radiant HealthHello my fellow RN! Yes a lot of the information was very specific and not quite evidence based. I didn’t want to pick a side. It’s not my specialty. I have experimented with veganism. I did it to learn something and add more variety to my diet. What started as a 3 week “cleanse” experiment has turned into years of favoring plant based eating. I’m constantly cruising the blogs to figure out what’s in season and picking up vegetables at the farmers market that I don’t know how to prepare or incor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/19 08:33 PM |
| 9 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 21: The Feminine Role Vs The Working WifeRE: My Thoughts on the Whole Chapter, Motherhood, and Feminine Careers I want to end this Chapter stating that I disagree with most of this advice. I believe that it is aspirational, but I don't know if it is reasonable, or could be considered as a universal truth. I think this is something you have to explore within yourself as you move through life. We all hope that we know ourselves well, but sometimes that takes a deep look within to determine our inner values, our true intentions. One of th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/19 02:44 PM |
| 5 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 21: The Feminine Role Vs The Working WifeRE: Should Daughters Be Trained for Careers? I have a lot of objections to this part of the book. I have conflicted feelings because I am not a parent and I don't pretend to know the complexities of raising any children, or trying to bestow Red Pill values on them. I think that a lot of the cultural influences on children and young people today are hard to ignore, but it would take some special finesse to relay the message that you should Plan on being dependent. It may give the wrong impression… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Resolution: cleaning for my CaptainI used an app called Chore Checklist for a while until I found my groove. You can customize daily, weekly, bimonthly, monthly tasks and check them off as you do them. Tasks start turning yellow or red as they approach their due date. That way you’ll know if it’s been 3 weeks since you dusted this or that, or 5!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/19 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood (The Real) Chapter 20 The Feminine NatureFor me personally, I think about it like this: it’s kind of like the expression about changing your hat when you get home. I work as a Nurse, I’m well versed in science and math. I’m competitive at work, frequently in some sort of leadership role. I speak to bossy Doctors and Residents and I know how to be demanding to get the right things done for our patients. I’m also strong, capable of lifting things and doing frankly disgusting things without issue. But when I come home I don’t micromanage … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/19 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 20: The Feminine MannerOh, I've made a mistake. This is Chapter 19. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/19 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 18 The Feminine AppearanceLook up Fensace Women’s A line sleeveless dresses. Those are comfy for me for summer. They also have multiple sleeve lengths. And 100 different patterns. Nothing special. But it works for a “nothing special” day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/19 06:08 PM |
| 12 | I hate children.To play the devils advocate: How do you know you really want to be RP or feminine? How do you know your sexual orientation? How do you know the CC isn’t the greatest ride of your life? “This is a phase”... is very dismissive comment to make to an adult woman making a decision. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 4 | I hate children.Very well said! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: FascinatingWomanhood Chapter 17: The Domestic GoddessNo! No way. When they invest in you and you invest in them you can gradually start demonstrating your Domestic Goddess. Do this for a man who leads you, not a man who needs a mother. Please see posts about vetting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/04/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men.So... You have the ability to self reflect. You can identify your areas of weakness You can visualize an end goal. You described an emotionally mature relationship. You just doubted that it could ever be you. Try to visualize that it could be. You are at a crossroads. You know it will take work. But for some reason you still think you have an attractive(?) opportunity to avoid this work. You’ve demonstrated good self reflection and visualization so far. What would that look like if you got your … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 14: Pandora's BoxSaying things like “You were so level headed during that tense family issue” “The way you save and plan for the future is so responsible.” “I couldn’t stop noticing your sexy shoulders when we were at that pool party.” “Your long history with this company show how valuable your skills are.” Compliment something manly. Be specific, | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 14: Pandora's BoxCongrats on your blossoming relationship. It’s hard to answer your question, it’s not very specific. I guess I would recommend picking up the book. There’s also my post history that has a lot of information in it. Some of my recommendations would be to practice listening. Find things to appreciate, admire, and compliment him on by listening to his ambitions, strengths, and tales of his successes and good character. Learning to compliment others is a skill. You have to practice, start small and b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/19 06:48 PM |
| 20 | How to lower my sex drive?This is a bad idea. I think that sexual incompatibility is so devastating but it’s not something that can be ignored. I think some progress could be made if he could get his own place but I also think this could just be extending the timeline of a relationship that is not a good fit. I think there would be some benefit to posting this question in r / sex or a similar subreddit. Even though the advice would be “less red pill” they can be a very warm and supportive group when called upon. I think … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/19 02:55 PM |
| 17 | How to undo the negative psychological effects of Red Pill?Abusers blame others for their actions. Some blame the victim, some blame God, some blame the red pill. You were abused. You need help and healing from that. But none of this has anything to do with the red pill. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Suggest podcastsI have been loving Rachel Hart’s podcast. It’s about taking a break from alcohol, but it’s also so much more. It’s basically Cognitive Behavioral Therapy in a podcast and can be useful towards breaking any unwanted habits, or establishing wanted ones. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 31 | How to undo the negative psychological effects of Red Pill?Being emotionally abused and being “red pilled” are not the same. In fact abusers are weak, and are not red pill at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/19 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 12 Masculine PrideI think that most of this was obvious to me. The things that I was missing were unintentional. I think this chapter just adds to my mindfulness about the things I say, and don’t say. I also think the subtleties in this chapter can be the difference between good and great. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/19 12:50 AM |
| 6 | In LTR, boyfriend wants threesomeThe only advice you are going to receive here on RPW is to not go through with it. And possibly to break up. However, if you open yourself up to the world of polygamous relationship and ethical nonmonogamomy my advice would be—well exactly the same. Don’t do it again. Possibly break up. Having a mild attraction to the female form does not make you bisexual or polyamorous. A desire to be submissive and pleasing to your boyfriend does not make you polyamorous. You need to be DEEPLY interested and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy doesn’t careI know this isn’t purple pill debate, but aren’t they both at fault. She didn’t realize what she would be attracted to and she valued the wrong qualities in him. He didn’t realize how to be attractive to her and he valued the wrong qualities in her. I get it, women are very vapid and rarely realize the damage they cause to men, and when they do realize they deny, minimize, and rationalize. But for every vapid whoring female there is a weak man putting pussy on a pedestal and making us feel disgu… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 10: The ProviderI don’t need my husband to bring in money to add value to my life. He adds value in so many other ways that are more precious than gold. I love this sentiment. I try to express this to my Captain and you put it very nicely! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 10: The ProviderI'd have a conversation about money. I don't know what your career or motherhood aspiration are, but that should all come out into the open. Tell him you want HIM to manage the finances. Tell him that you want HIM want to be responsible for, and worry about the money. If you will be contributing a paycheck, tell him that you plan to give it to him, and have him decide what your spending budget will be. Add in some "I like the way you take care of me," "The things you provide to me make me feel s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Losing trust in my fiancé’s ability to leadI had asked him to take the lead on the move and get some quotes for moving services. He hasn’t said anything to me about it since then, and it is causing me anxiety to the point that I mentioned it to him this morning: I told him that we’re within the 3 month mark and if he could keep me informed on any updates about the move that it would help with my anxiety. Well, I do think this is nagging. It's not his job to manage your anxiety. Your anxiety isn't going to be alleviated by an external s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 10: The ProviderI linked the book we are reading to an Amazon link. Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood was interesting, and similar, but there's a lot more in this book so far. I would recommend them both, even just because they present the same information in different perspectives and it reinforces the message. As for your question and example about providing cab fare, I need more information. Is this within the first couple of dates? Is this your husband or LTR? Are you communicating your expectations about … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 07:19 PM |
| 5 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 10: The ProviderHe started to say “no we aren’t rich” but I reminded him how much we have compared to some, and especially how self sufficient we are Amazing!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 11 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 10: The ProviderDefinitely not an ideal situation. First of all, the position that the book takes is that there are Masculine Roles and Feminine Roles. The Masculine roles are to be The Guide, The Leader, The Protector, and The Provider. They are all tied together. If he is going to Lead, then he should have some authority to do so. Some of this authority is ordained by God, in bible passages, but sometimes people on RPW have said, "I just want the man to lead, it feels natural" so it doesn't all need to be a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/19 06:31 PM |
| – | Own Your StuffI have been having a pretty good month actually. I've been trying to not drink alcohol because I always overdo it and it really effects my calorie intake. I was hoping to complete "Dry" February and today is my 27th day without alcohol. I am down 7 lbs and I really don't miss it! I've been feeling really energized and full of gratitude. I might just keep going! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Examples of vulnerability?I was just trying to make an example of vulnerability. Don’t rush things! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/02/19 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Examples of vulnerability?I can’t fully answer this question, but for me being vulnerable would be like saying “ I like you, I want to be in a committed relationship with you.” You are being vulnerable, well, because he might say no. I’m not saying to hide past hurts or experiences that shaped you, but that’s a different topic for me than run of the mill vulnerability. RPW, please correct me if I’m wrong! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/19 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 8 The LeaderVery well stated! I always enjoy your contributions! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/19 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 8 The LeaderI really enjoyed the section about giving feminine advice more than I thought I would. I went into it thinking, “How about, No!” But I also see now that I definitely “Get man to man” when giving advice. Sometimes I am looking to impress. I think my bossy nature has been subdued enough for now that maybe instead of just avoiding advice, I can try it a new way. I actually look forward to using the “sense” verbs. I also have noticed, that though I think I am a good listener, and take pains to not i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How to get over redpill rage?Start with learning more about the Think/Feel/Act cycle. I’ve been applying these techniques towards over indulging in alcohol and listening to podcasts on the subject. You can apply it to anything though. If you notice yourself thinking thoughts like: i want to inflict pain, I hate women. They were cruel. I want revenge. Why should I be the better person? Try to change them to something more palatable like: Those experiences helped me grow. I learned to have higher standards. You never become s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 7: Masculine and Feminine RolesInteresting! I am not Christian and I feel awkward quoting the more overt Christian themes. There’s a lot of it in the summaries for the coming weeks. I definitely invite the discussion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/19 01:47 AM |
| 6 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 7: Masculine and Feminine RolesDoes any one else feel their biases coming to the surface? I’m reading and/or summarizing things these next few Chapters and I find myself belittling “things that men need.” I don’t mean to, but it just happens. It’s making me realize that even though I’m pretty Red Pill Literate, that there is still more work I need to do to internalize some of these things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/19 05:42 PM |
| 7 | When did you know he was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life withI knew something was up when I genuinely wanted to impress him more than I wanted to get my way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/19 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Division of Labor in the HomeI work 3 12h shifts. So I’m home 4 days a week. My SO has his own business and works many more hours than me. I don’t know how much money he makes, but I expect that it’s similar or he makes a bit more. Someone is paid to take care of the pool. We have a cleaning service come every 6 months for a deep clean. We talked about expectations when we moved in. I am home more, and therefore do more. I would ideally like to split the chores with his adult daughter. But sometimes it’s hard to make that w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/19 02:38 AM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI’d like to really dedicate myself to intermittent fasting. I’d ideally like to do an 18:6 split, but a 16:8 would be acceptable on some days. I’d like to make a good impression when I travel with my Captain to a funeral. This is not about me. It’s about him and his family. I am really nervous about making a good impression but I’d really rather it make an impression, and just focus on being there for him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 8 | RPW and ChildfreeI am childfree 32years old, very serious about it. If my Captain wanted another child, we would break up. He doesn’t want more children, But he does have a daughter who is a young adult. Being childfree, for me, is about many things. I don’t want to be pregnant. I don’t want to have an infant. I change my mind a lot. I can be controlling. I like my independence. I used to work with abused children and it really impacted my perspective about the gravity of a decision to bring life into this world… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/19 07:32 PM |
| 10 | Marriage and Prenuptial Agreements.Respectfully, there is probably a huge difference in the quality of a woman who frequents this sub, or shares our values, versus other SAHM women. If you take your role as a wife and SAHM very seriously, and still find yourself needing to divorce after a decade of not working plus kids, that’s really really unfortunate. If you passively become a SAHM because you don’t know what else you’d be good at, and then you accidentally find yourself bored with your husband, and then you “can’t believe thi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/19 08:54 PM |
| 3 | I'm studying to be a nurse and my two happily-married RPW friends think this is a terrible idea.Being a nurse is a dream. You have to put in some long hours to get through nursing school. In the end you make a ton of money and work 3 days a week. People I work with are pregnant all the time. Lots of people work night shift to be present for school drop off/pickup. You could even work 2 days a week with little ones. Your job is portable and in demand and you could follow your husband wherever his career takes him. It’s a feminine job, it makes me feel good, the skills also help when caring … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/19 03:19 AM |
| 4 | When it comes to deal-breakers, what are some of your more irrational ones?Men who were adopted. They end up having deep, deep neediness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 5 | How to encourage (and inspire) your Captain without seeming pushy?I feel like I’m getting a lot of great quotations about this subject from reading Fascinating Womanhood. A brief summary would be to show appreciation frequently, and be specific. Never assume that he knows. Another way to navigate a failure or a setback would be to reassure him that you know he is better than this small setback. That you know that his masculine virtues will help him to succeed in the future. That you saw how hard it was to take a risk. Also make sure you believe in him with all… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/19 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 4: Appreciate Him Look to His Better SideI relate to this as well! It helps me see things in a whole new light. My boyfriend runs his own business so I know he has many things on his mind. We don’t think about the same things or think in the same way. It’s better to be helpful to him than ask for conformity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 4: Appreciate Him Look to His Better SideWelcome! These first few Chapters are doing a lot of foundation building. We are going pretty slowly. If you can spare a couple pages a week please jump in! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 3 | How should I express my fears over his career change?I don’t mean to be mean or dismissive, but this is precisely why your post is silly. You are dating a successful man (Doctor?) who is moving to a new hospital 10! Miles away. And you are worried about him meeting a nurse and leaving you. You said you currently know his coworkers and friends. Is he having inappropriate relationships with them? Does he have poor judgement? If you are fit, care about your health, and participating in tough mudder races with your Captain, and look nice in clothes, w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I be paying or standing my ground?I have a bit of a different take on this. First of all my love language is "shared experiences" so if I was in your exact same situation, as in, student, birthday, boyfriend was the one who made the suggestion, whole nine yards, I would consider the "shared experience" of going to a hotel and having a nice, memorable, overnight in the city to be a great gift. I would accept, and I would consider it a gift even if we split the hotel and the dinner too. If shared experiences is not your love langu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/19 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept Him at Face ValueI think that defeats the purpose of the post: “Accept it” | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/19 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood Chapter 3 Accept Him at Face ValueI hope you love Anna Karenina. I’ll have to look up Kristen Lavransdatter. Never heard of it! Energy spent worrying is such a negative way to pass the time. Interesting insight about how it causes your fears to be realized. Hopefully we can find a new way to be. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/19 03:32 AM |
| 8 | New and very confusedI think men and women in modern society start out equally far from the goal post of a “stable, healthy relationship.” Women are entitled, they don’t understand why they are attracted to certain guys, give it up on the first date to others, and suddenly find their libido tanking once they found Billy Beta. They just don’t get it. Men have a different problem. They try to be nice generous, good listener, open wallet, patiently orbiting so that they are “respectful” and then they find out their fat… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/19 10:27 PM |
| 9 | New and very confusedIf taking the red pill really means being aware of our biological imperatives and engaging in amoral sexual strategy, then shouldn't red pill women be thrilled that in this day and age we can have sex with as many alphas as we want while we are young and beautiful, bear their genetically superior offspring, and then rely on alimony, child support, welfare or our equal wages won via feminist activism or naive beta providers once we are past The Wall? If we are going to make generalizations about … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveThis is a tough one. Sometimes when I read through parts of the book that I don’t agree with, I think “well this doesn’t apply to me, so I’ll ignore it” but I’m trying to be open minded too. I think this book was written in a time where a man providing one income could support a family. If you consider a “woman with options” to be the opposite of a dependent woman, well, the women with too many options in our modern society seem to be less content, and making poor choices. I also have an SO who … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/01/19 04:24 PM |
| 5 | I think I fucked up and married the wrong guyI fear men with video game issues. It must be so frustrating. But I’ll do what i can to dig deeper into your post. 1) Is his time playing video games taking away from time or attention you wish he would spend with you? Could you phrase the problem as “I want you to spend more time with me?” Instead of “I don’t like your hobby?” 2) How is your social life as a couple? Do you double date? Could you host outings, board game nights etc? Maybe if you got to see your husband being his usual charming s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/01/19 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveI agree with a lot of what you said, including that 25 is over indulgent. I also like scaling each of the attributes. I think I rated myself highly on things that come naturally to me. I rated myself as neutral on domestic because I have to make an effort. I mean, I enjoy cooking, but I’m not intrinsically very neat. I’m trying to be better because I respect what my Captain provides. Childlikeness is difficult, but I like some of the interpretations of other commenters. More playful than helples… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveEven if you can’t tell us 25 qualities, can you tell us 5? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 05:02 PM |
| 8 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 2 The Ideal Woman From A Man's PerspectiveAssignments: In Becoming the Ideal Woman, you are not starting from zero. Take a good look at yourself and you’ll find things to appreciate. Write down 25 things you like about yourself. I didn’t get to 25 but I started a list. I am kind, even tempered, generous, unselfish, educated, driven, stylish, Healthy, passionate, and peaceful. My career helps others. I am trying to improve myself. I am a good cook. I am a generous lover. I have beautiful hair. I have a good relationship with my mother. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/19 03:05 AM |
| 7 | I was nice to my boyfriend our whole relationship and he was a selfish asshole and used me and compared me to his ex and wouldn’t appreciate nice stuff I did for him all while making fun of me. We discussed being friends when we broke up but I want to send him a final text.You said already that he doesn’t read your texts. He’s not going to read this one. You need to honor yourself now, and stop giving him the power. Are you gonna stare at the screen after it says “read”? Are you going to block him am soon as you push send? Why bother? You need nun mode, and when you are done, you can find a true partner, not an ungrateful person who takes your light and your happiness away. Edit: OMG get off the porn subs. Are you joking me? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/19 06:01 AM |
| 7 | Thank You Helen AndelinYes, please come join the book club. I’m going quite slowly, but everyone is welcome to read ahead. I would love to hear testimonials like this in the weekly discussion. Helen has so much wisdom that we can apply. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/19 05:44 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI’m going to start doing “The Curly Girl Method” with my hair, I also want to improve my skincare/moisturizing consistency. Happy New Year! | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/19 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 1 Celestial LoveIt’s hard to say...But see for yourself if the summaries that I post are good enough or if you want to get the book. I think my kindle version was only $8. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 1 Celestial LoveI’m a couple chapters ahead of what I’m posting. I think the content of Chapters 3-6 are beginning to address the “First Secret” There’s no backstory about the different characters that are attending the group sessions. Was “Helen” the name of the group leader in that book? Helen is the author here. “Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood” has a male author. There are several “testimonials” at the end of each chapter. The assignments surrounding the First Secret seem similar so far. So maybe a similar… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/18 01:38 PM |
| 29 | Being sexually dominant as a RPW?I disagree. Sometimes the most powerful men like to be dominated in bed. They spend all day managing people, projects, and corporations. It’s a “fantasy” to “role play” being at someone else’s control. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend might fail out of his program, what should I do?I saw this today in Fascinating Womanhood: “Remember, it is not by push or persuasion that you bring out the best in your husband and impel him to a more successful and righteous life, but by an unwavering belief in his better side” | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/18 06:02 PM |
| 4 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 1 Celestial LoveI think it’s valuable to know the love languages. For me, I value shared experiences. Please don’t buy me flowers. My Captain wants gifts. Now that we communicated those things I appreciate the shared experiences we have even more, and I’m not considering those experiences to be a satisfactory demonstration of our love. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/18 06:18 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend might fail out of his program, what should I do?A couple of things came to mind reading your post: 1) You sound wonderful and so does he. I hope you can get through this. 2) I thought it was a little odd that you said you set up study time for him. I also thought it was odd that you said he misses class at a prestigious, technical school. Background: I never did this, but I majored in a science (Nursing) and I was generally smart and was at the top of my class in (pre college) school. College science is tough. Missing just one organic chem la… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 1 Celestial LoveI had thought they were the same too, so I’m excited to read the original. I relate a lot to what you said about naive love and growing away from it. I never thought I’d feel so deeply affectionate for anyone after being hurt a few times. I thought something similar when I read the introduction. I think my relationship is wonderful, but if it could be even better, then bring it on! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Scared of ending up alone .. pls helpFellow sarcastic/aggressive person here. First, when you meet the right one, you will be interested in keeping him. You’ll weigh the cost/benefit analysis of keeping him around. You don’t need to change your personality, you’ll just realize what’s really a priority. For me my love of yoga pants vs love of my Captain, well it was no contest. Second, don’t change. Be sarcastic, be aggressive, Just take that hat off when you get home. I’m plenty smart and stubborn, but with my Captain, I’m gentle, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/18 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Book Club: Fascinating Womanhood: Chapter 1 Celestial LoveHello all, there's not much of a discussion question in this chapter, however next week's chapter is much longer. And much more in depth. I'm still giving some the opportunity to purchase the book and begin reading along with us. But I appreciate all the interest we've gotten so far. I hope everyone is having a Happy Holiday. Next post will be in the New Year! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/18 11:49 PM |
| 4 | Typical Week Day + Tips for OthersTypical day for me is a day off. 6:30 Wake up, coffee, sunscreen. My SO wakes up anytime between 5-8 and is his own boss so no deadline for being at the office. 7:15 Stretch 7:30 Run 3-10 miles (depends on how close I am to a race day) 9:30 Shower 10:00 Let my hair air dry. Wear a dress. Go grocery shopping 12:30 Mealprep 4-6 salads, eat one of them. 14:00 Coffee or nap (no longer than 45 minutes) 15:00 Any other errands that need doing. Straighten my hair, makeup 17:00 Start making dinner. 18:0… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Lets Do a Reread or a Book Club for New Years.I like FW a lot more than SW. maybe I’ll edit my comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/18 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Lets Do a Reread or a Book Club for New Years.I think that’s a really interesting idea and I will do some research into choosing a book. I am NOT someone who struggles with being very hormonal so maybe someone else would be better suited to lead that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/18 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Lets Do a Reread or a Book Club for New Years.It sounds like a lot of votes for Surrendered Wife. If you want to vote for a different book, please reply to this comment. EDIT: I would much rather do FW, so that’s the plan unless someone changes my mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/18 04:33 PM |
| 1 | A Unique SituationWell, to be honest, I didn't "expect" it. It just developed over many years. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/18 08:30 PM |
| 5 | A Unique SituationMen can be both monogamous and polygamous in a healthy way. Women can only be monogamous, no matter what she told you she feels like, you should expect her to only be yours. That’s cuckoldry. A woman will resent you for allowing her to do it even if she wants to do it. This answer really bothers me, but in some ways I think you are on to something. This might be the tough pill that I have to swallow. Being polyamorous and agreeing with TRP are often at odds with each other, but the longer I've… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/18 08:20 PM |
| 5 | Opinion on threesomes?I’ve had threesomes with boyfriend. Three actually. I’ve had threesomes in the past as well, so it wasn’t a major bridge for me to cross. I’m not saying that you “owe” your current partner every sexual act you’ve done with someone else. I’ve heard RP men say not to wife someone who does threesomes. But I’ve also heard them complain about women who’ve done threesomes in the past but won’t do it now. My advice is to carefully consider the consequences of being sexual in that way, but if it’s somet… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | The progressive case for TRPFair point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/18 06:37 PM |
| 4 | The progressive case for TRPI’m definitely on the left! I came to the red pill left, sexually progressive, jaded with my current relationships. It struck me how true it was! Why BP behavior repulsed me. Why RP behavior attracted me. Why I thought no man was good enough for me. I would not be where I am today without: help from my parents, help from previous BP boyfriends, help from government grants, help from financial aid, and help (in the form of inspiration) from my current RP boyfriend. Now that I’m financially stable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/18 03:27 AM |
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