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Excuse me? I just said the post got me thinking and triggered me because I am in a similar situation with a narc ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 05:33 AM
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Ask for phone sessions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:02 AM
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It's not your fault that no one taught you self respect. We live in a toxic misogynistic environment that teaches us we are not worth it etc so I understand that mindset. He was LVM. End of story. And don't pay attention to people telling you it's your fault you were playing games and got what you deserved. Narcs KNOW what they're doing when they target someone with no self esteem. They know. Now however, you need to get yourself into trauma therapy immediately. This is gonna take some time to u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:48 AM
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I thought you were going to say elongated dick lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:27 AM
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This is good advice, I will definitely use this tactic. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:41 PM
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I asked up front and early. He told what I wanted to hear on purpose to lure me in and then later revealed the truth. He was a narc I will definitely assess his hobbies and social media if I ever want to date again which I don't and never will probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 10:39 PM
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Lmao just laugh at him and don't reply nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:18 PM
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So what do you do if he tells you you're his type and pretends to be really into you and crazy about you only to reveal afterwards that he wants the opposite of you. Males will say WHATEVER YOU WANT TO HEAR to manipulate and deceive you into fucking. I DONT KNOW WHATS REAL COMING OUT OF THEIR MOUTH ANYMORE. I DONT KNOW WHAT REAL GENUINE INTEREST IS ANYMORE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:17 PM
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I have this post saved for times when I need a reminder on what a real man is supposed to be ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:08 PM
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You now have solid evidence that he knew you didn't want it and ahead anyway. Keep a screenshot of that message locked away somewhere if you ever decide on going to the police about it. A similar thing happened to me but I deleted all the evidence because even looking at his messages triggered me during that time. Now I wish I hadn't deleted. So don't ever delete them. Just in case
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:52 PM
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I feel that being picky sets me up for scarcity mindset. One of my deal breakers was finding someone who didn't use Instagram or watch porn and was aware of the dangers of porn. I met this one guy who was a bit weird personality wise, but on the first date HE brought up the topic of how relationships are going to shit because males are obsessed with porn and they end up finding their SO less attractive because of it and are never satisfied. HE brought it up all on his own. It's so rare to find s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:01 PM
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"Im the only one with standards :)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 03:30 AM
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Yes I have experienced something similar. He was a narc and said a lot of stuff directly and indirectly. Words stick to me and it's been a year and I am still not over it. I'm working on it in trauma therapy. It's definitely helped a lot but still bothers me enough to ruin my mood. I suggest therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:27 AM
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I'm talking about chatting on an app too. I always ask em what they're looking for and some of them say marriage or a wife. Nothing weird about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 08:54 PM
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Op don't say stuff like "was it really necessary to tell me that" when he's telling the truth and showing you who he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:43 PM
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I've had guys say they are looking for marriage or a wife. If a guy says "I'm looking for a relationship" that to me sounds like he wants a "forever girlfriend". Plus the fact that he said he doesn't wanna rush anything sounds like he isn't serious and wants to "go with the flow"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 03:21 PM
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I didn't ask for criticism I asked for advice. Yeah I'm gonna self care and continue therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:25 AM
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You're right. Thanks I will stick with the therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 07:21 AM
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I'm working on stuff in therapy but the problem is building a relationship with my body is going to take years and by the time I'm done I'll be old enough that I don't get any marriage proposals because everyone in my culture sees women over 30 as damaged low quality goods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:57 AM
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Firstly don't talk down to me. Secondly I clearly wrote in the post that I don't have confidence and that I am looking for advice. Don't comment if you have nothing of value to add
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:50 AM
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If he was looking for marriage he would've said it. He didn't. Therefore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:44 AM
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They do it so you are given a chance to critique their bodies :) Take it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:48 PM
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Love ittt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 12:42 AM
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Exactly. Some posts on here take it too far. I'm sitting here thinking about the sex I had with him and if I really enjoyed it or tolerated it. This is gaslighting and making people doubt their own likes and dislikes. Fuck this shit. I never had a problem with my sex life and now I'm being made to feel like I didn't actually enjoy it because I never fantasized about anal before I met him so it must not have been a REAL liking on my part. Like go fuck yourself if you're gonna tell women what they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:06 PM
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"Males love to jack off with one hand and point fingers with the other"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 01:10 PM
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That hasn't been my experience at all. They're all trying to meet me immediately or latest within a couple of days, and I'm always the one to tell them I like to talk for a week before meeting. I'm really fun to talk to and flirty though and only talk to the ones that are interesting to me so I guess when the convo is good they can't wait to take it further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 05:23 AM
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What do you mean by correct any minor items
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 04:46 AM
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Love it. Im gonna use that one. Also: "Cant take rejection? Weak." And "looks like I hurt your weak ego :)" or "aww :) I hurt you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 11:41 PM
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So according to you I should just take it and stay in my lane because women cant win against males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:49 PM
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I dont like feeling attacked. I have ignored it in the past and didnt say anything, but it nags at me. It makes me feel passive, like I just took the abuse. I want to feel in control of the situation, and feel like I can hurt them worse. I want them to regret opening their shithole in the first place. From what Ive learned, bullies dont back down if you stay quiet. They dont learn that youre not one to mess with unless you show them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 08:27 PM
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Id like to hurt them verbally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:04 PM
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Fucking with their heads is fun sometimes, you do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:00 PM
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Excellent! I'd love to know the reply
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:06 PM
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Who would want to have sex with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 05:24 PM
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The more you use it the more you get used to it the longer it lasts. It's the same as porn. The brain is plastic and gets used to any repeated stimulus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:32 PM
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You can masterbate without it. These things DO affect sensitivity. When you're used to a higher stimulus, a lower one will not be enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:55 PM
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Yes it does. It will desensitize you. Anything that provides a higher stimulus than real life (porn, vibrators, etc) will make you relatively disappointed by reality. When you're used to a higher stimulus, the lower stimulus is not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:54 PM
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This would be a great thread of its own, there's a lot of women who feel dread at getting older because no one will be attracted to them anymore. Knowing that that is incorrect and that women will always be in demand will really be beneficial for all women. Please post this as a separate thread!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:42 PM
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GTFO. He's insulting you in your own damn house? Tell him to leave immediately or you're calling the cops. And if he starts to become aggressive in any way call immediately YOURE in power here. This is your house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:25 PM
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You're right, it's not. I made the mistake of categorizing which aspects of my life he was uplifting. It should be the whole, not one part. Right from the beginning. It wasn't about him looking good because nobody knew about us and neither of us was planning on marrying the other. It was a genuine selfless act. Too bad he made me feel like shit about other parts of my life later on So the point is don't look at one aspect he's uplifting early game and categorize him as HV. It takes a LONG TIME t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:44 PM
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No. My psycho ex always uplifted me regarding career moves. Always told me I should believe in myself and conquer the world etc. He even paid to have my resume fixed to apply for jobs. He also treated me with zero respect and crossed all my boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:18 AM
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I love this ♥️♥️♥️ guys who are nice to everyone and marry young are the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:24 PM
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Make a fake Facebook account and send it to her and then deactivate the fake FB account. Youre not the one violating her trust. He is. You're not the one ruining the relationship. He is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:12 PM
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This is the correct response 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:05 PM
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That’s what I’m saying. Pickmeishas are emotionally unhealthy. It has nothing to do with being pretty or successful or nice. Why would LVM go for someone emotionally healthy who is hard to manipulate when he can go for AN EASY TARGET.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:35 PM
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HVW walk away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:32 PM
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That’s the excuse my psycho ex used to continue being poly. “Men don’t mature til 40s bro”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:29 PM
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That suggests that pickmeishas are unclean, ugly, mean, stupid, and unsuccessful, which they are not. Pickmeishas are simply women that have never been taught to respect themselves. I have a friend who has all the good qualities you mentioned but has no self esteem and thinks of herself as not deserving of someone great because her crap parents taught her that she is worthless. These type of women find it hard to assert any standards. That’s a pickmeisha. So a LVM could easily find a pickmeisha …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:26 PM
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Fds is great but some of the posts are triggering me. For example showing toxic males comments about “roasties” aka outie vag lips in one of the recent posts. I come to this subreddit to feel safe and shit like that attacks me and brings me down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:24 PM
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Point is he could've fucked me while looking for a wife on the side but didn't take advantage cuz he's a decent human. If u want to be deliberately obtuse that's on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:05 PM
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That's male double standards for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:04 PM
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I just remembered this one guy I went on a few dates with. He was 26 and was looking for marriage. After like three dates I mentioned I made up my mind and that I don't think we have a future together but I think he's still really great and wanted a casual thing with him. He refused and said that he is looking for marriage and not casual and he wished me luck. I was offering myself for free and he didn't take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 06:40 AM
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Funny how pair bonding is the womans responsibility, meanwhile they have already desensitized themselves with porn and deceiving multiple women into sleeping with them and then dumping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:42 AM
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Once a day atleast. Multiple times a day ideally. Anytime a male has not messaged me multiple times a day, I wait for him to message the next time. I ask where he has been. He makes some excuse. I say "Well I want to hear from you every day 🤗" and if his behaviour has not changed permenantly, I ignore/ghost/reject. Most times the male has stepped up and messaged me multiple times per day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:36 AM
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But why wouldn't he just marry some pickmeisha who will do everything for him while he does whatever he wants. It's in his interest to be LV. Why change?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 05:21 AM
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Why would he want her if she's more work. There's plenty of LVW who will pamper him why bother going for a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:27 AM
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You don't have to agree 100% with any way of thinking. You can have your own thoughts and preferences and likes and dislikes. This isn't a religion. Think about what life choices youre making and if it serves and benefits you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:49 AM
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He will ask you to explain why you want to break up so they he can refute all the reasons and talk his way back. Or he will just start attacking you. Do NOT bother going back and forth with anyone. Don't waste your time. Say what you gotta say once and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:25 AM
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Well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:14 AM
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But pickmeishas hurt themselves. Toxic males hurt women. That's what I dislike. It's like sure you're high value NOW, AFTER you've deceived and used and abused and manipulated and hurt women for your own enjoyment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:45 AM
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This is a good comment. Makes me think there's humanity in males after all. And it makes sense. If there are good and horrible women, then there must be good males along with the horrible ones. Not as good of a ratio though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:42 AM
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Where can I get one of them 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:48 AM
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They all want sex. Why else would they want a woman. To be platonic friends???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:15 PM
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" I am a LVW. I am very poor " Being High or low value woman is not about money. Its not poor vs rich. It's about SELF RESPECT and how you stick to your boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:14 PM
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Thank you, I will try this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:38 PM
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Cut all LVM out of your life. If you live with him then go as much no contact as possible until you can go full no contact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:46 PM
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This is more for the beginning stages. Once you’re in a relationship you can do these things sometimes but it’s still the males role to do them most times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:00 PM
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Anytime a man says “we’re just friends” you know he forgot to add the last two words “with benefits”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:50 PM
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Why waste time with someone who can’t communicate? He sounds a little off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:35 PM
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Yeah because your pornsick man can’t get it up anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:29 PM
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You think they live in a one bedroom apartment together? Or do they have all the money in the world and a giant house and all the space they need?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:04 PM
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I had all of this in email. Except that I was so triggered by him and having straight up panic attacks and episodes of severe depression due to his messages that I deleted all of them. I couldn’t help it. It was degrading my brain, reading it all. And now I have nothing. No evidence. I even had a recording of our phone conversation where I asked him why he continued even though he could see I was crying. I don’t know where I saved it. Probably it’s gone forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 02:44 AM
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Thank you for this wonderful message ♥️ I have to remember to see things in that way. Id victim never blame another girl in this situation. I completely agree; Anger against oppression is just and fair, which is why I know I need to report this because I can't let him get away with it. I am scared he will leak my photos though. I am sure he still has them. He threatened to leak them a couple times when I wouldn't shut up trying to hold him accountable. He never actually did though. But if I go t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:31 PM
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I wonder if any woman would be dumb enough to fall for this. It clearly says he wants to use you for sex along with a bunch of others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:05 PM
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Thank you, I will def check it out Edit: I realize after seeing the cover that I have read this book in the past and I remember vividly that it had triggered me repeatedly and I cried alot and it didn't help one bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 04:09 PM
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Thank you. I was actually doing fine with self care until yesterday. I came across this sub and I saw that post about if it's not an enthusiastic yes then it's not consent. I just realized yesterday, a year after the fact, that I was COERCED AND RAPED. And so yesterday and today my self care has been shot. I haven't eaten. I can't move. I can't do anything except lay there and continue getting triggered on this sub by reading all about how toxic males are. I need to call my therapist because I j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:49 PM
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Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:44 PM
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This is the third time a male has crossed by boundaries. The first two times (relatives attempting to touch me inappropriately) were tame compared to this guy. I feel like I have learned nothing from the first two times, because I clearly didn't protect myself this third time. I can't trust myself. I can't protect myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:43 PM
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Thank you. This is what I've come up with so far: -the memes in this sub made me laugh harder than I have in years -eating yummy healthy food -talking shit about my ex with my therapist and us both laughing at his delusions -spending time with my friends -online shopping -looking hot and receiving male attention while giving them nothing in return Mostly I just end up apathetically watching Netflix and zoning out. I am not really interested in anything anymore. I used to be big into fitness. But…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:38 PM
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A creature that has a scrotum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:43 PM
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Thank you. I unfortunately don't have friends or family that I can tell about this toxic male or what he did to me. Only my therapist knows, and now all of you guys. I have been going it alone since the day I met him until now. It feels good to confide anonymously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:39 PM
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Thanks for your reply. Its possible he was a narc, although he doesn't fit all the criteria for it. Either way he is pure poison and toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:36 PM
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I'm not currently taking any meds, because I don't want to become dependent on them. Yes I think I need to have a routine. Aimlessly spending my quarantined days on the internet isn't good for me. I will definitely play relaxing games too as most of the media I consume agitates me. Even the stuff on this sub ended up triggering me. I was fine before I stumble upon a post that said something about rape and how consent is only consent if it's given freely and enthusiastically, and it made me think…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:32 PM
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You've got to value your self respect and mental health over comfort and convenience. He doesn't care about you. But why don't you care about you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:05 PM
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Scrotes are fucking toxic. All of them. This is the problem. How do you vet these parasites when they know our tactics. Only thing you can do is withhold even more. Withhold til marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:27 AM
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Every boundary I put in place, he broke. He went out of his way to NOT comply to my requests, even simple ones like not calling me bro. And I put up with this shit for money. I ALLOWED HIM to abuse me. It's my fault and I deserved to be abused. I asked for it by not putting myself first. By valuing money over my self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:24 AM
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I like how you operate. When I used to date I used to give a fake name to them as well. How do you give a fake number though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:27 AM
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When you have that feeling of "Why don't they get it? How can I explain it to them?", know that they DO get it. It's not a difficult concept and they are not two year olds. They just don't care. They don't want to admit they're hurting you so they can protect their ego and continue being a fucking selfish cunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 05:37 AM
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Men only commit when they are all used up, done their whoring, balding and can't pull as many girls as they used to. "Oh no my hairline is receding... Time to settle down"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:38 PM
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This is 100% true. I dated a narcissist and he seemed to be HV at first but he was the worst thing to happen to me. I have been no contact for a year or so and I'm still broken. He ruined my brain. He made me hate myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:25 PM
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I feel sorry for the love of his life. Who the fuck wants a male that treated all his past women like trash?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:23 PM
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Actually it's a good idea to practice talking to many guys so when the right one comes along you won't put him on a pedestal. AVOID SCARCITY MINDSET
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 06:47 PM
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I'm still like this. I can't stop caring about their acceptance. I don't know how. It's not easy when you have a void from neglectful and absent parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:29 PM
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I have not laughed this hard in such a long time 😂😂😂😂 I fucking love this subreddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 04:50 PM
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