I need some advice.

Everyone knows males are shallow and they decide our mate value based on looks first and foremost and then other things after that. They don't put in as much effort to please women that are less hot. The hotter she is the more they will chase and want her because every male wants a 10/10.

So how am I supposed to have good self esteem when I know I'm 7/10 and I'm aging and my attractiveness will never get higher, only lower. How am I supposed to act like a Queen instead of being desperate when I know males will soon stop being interested in me and I need to find a mate quickly while I'm young otherwise I'll be left with the leftovers of society that no one wants.

Every male has an image of his dream girl and he would do anything to get her. I'm no one's dream girl. That's why no one is chasing me that hard except for the ones who are scum of the earth negative value males. I don't see any decent guys chasing me or making any effort.

How am I supposed to instill this confidence in me when I KNOW my value is not high and getting lower every day.

I'll always have this pick me mentality because I don't like myself because I KNOW Im not hot and I'm aging now, and that makes me desperate and not confident. I don't have ALL THE OPTIONS IN THE WORLD to walk away from whatever male I am with at the moment. And knowing that I'm not really hot makes me feel like I have no choice but to settle.