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Field ReportJavares/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 01:19 AM
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Field ReportJavares/r/seduction13/08/20 01:26 AM
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Javares/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:29 AM
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Javares/r/askTRP17/08/19 12:31 AM
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Field ReportJavares/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 02:38 AM
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Javares/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 02:23 AM
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Javares/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:32 PM
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Javares/r/askTRP13/06/20 06:23 AM
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I texted last but it was a convo ender. But she hasn't texted me since. This is what i call a females fuckboy tendencies. When they stop being curious about you and eager to text or call. They become lurkers and just wait you out to show interest first then they reciprocate. I'm at that stage and I dislike it. She is blatantly playing games. At this point I'd rather wait 2 weeks and see if she texts me. If not I know it's GG. I'm not gonna play this game with a girl who refuses to show desire fo…
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:09 AM
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Don't stall. As soon as you play that game you become her pawn. I recently let go of 2 girls last night because I played the stalling game and realized it far too late that I was setting myself up for months of investment with little sexual ROI. Don't stall is the lesson I learned. Try and be as clear about your sexual intentions as soon as you can. If she rejects you so be it. The world isn't over. Let some other sucker spend the time and money trying to win her approval. Go for women who like …
/r/seduction14/02/25 07:07 PM
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Maybe. Maybe not. Wouldn't hurt to try. Experiment man. Take down some data.
/r/seduction04/12/24 11:09 PM
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Dating apps from what I understand are pretty casual and for ppl dtf. If she finds you attractive, you don't need to truly flirt much. Chat a bit. Maybe move it to WhatsApp or messaging, then arrange a date. Flirting over text is an inborn trait lowkey. Far too high of a chance the girl won't get your innuendos or find them cringe. If she matches you the focus should be on not fucking up if you lack that previously mentioned talent. I've only been successful flirting over text when I'd known the…
/r/seduction22/11/24 04:21 PM
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An alpha male is inherently impossible to stray from his goals. His goals are his own. A gamer might not be a typical version of an alpha, but the traits are still there. And gaming and anime can be very social hobbies. Plenty of hour long talks and debates can be had. Many a community has and can be built revolving around those topics. The new experiences things is woman like lmao. It's all about how the alpha male views it. Sometimes he may just put his head down in routine for 5 or 10 years. …
/r/TheRedPill08/11/23 02:34 AM
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Agreed. I just recently went back to college after 2 years of getting by off savings because I was trapped in apathy. Every day I go to school it's a challenge between trying to focus on straight A's and self improvement into a man I respect, and tossing it all out the window for a romantic adventure with one of the many pretty girls I come across. My heart yearns for a love story, and if I can't get that I'll settle for a passionate fuck. I want to feel love and give love again. But I know I'm …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/23 04:48 AM
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To be fair. What you describe is just the one most capable of leadership. You don't have to be dominant to be a leader. Proof of competency and respect are all that is required. We are conflating dominance with competency. In a room we all inherently look to the most capable person. Him/her being "dominant" has nothing to do with it. If we are speaking on someone who is dominant I like to think of a temporary dispute between men. Only when there are equally competent/qualified people going head …
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 06:29 AM
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Damn. I'm usually the guy who types a bunch in order to explain fully an idea and tell others my pov. But damn. I would have read it if It was less than 12 paragraphs. Damn near 30? 30? On a reddit post on something as straightforward as dominance? Wild. But I get some people obviously read the entirety of the thing. As an adult, I'm just past this "obvious info" stage. It's still good as a refresher don't get me wrong, but a 30 paragraph refresher?? Nah, I'm good.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/22 05:31 AM
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Wow this was a great read. Especially the last bit. I find myself responding to agitating comments far too often. I realize now they should earn my detailed responses at the very least. The needing more sleep bit is also interesting.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 04:57 AM
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It's my favorite passage from the book of pook. Any day I'm out of practice and feeling a bit of anxiety, I listen to the audiobook and seek this passage. Without fail, it lightens my mood and I remember how I should feel and perceive the world.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 04:19 AM
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It has a loser vibe as it sort of shows you as incapable of staking claim to a woman and making her yours "forever" in a sense. You are afraid to give your all as you fear her slipping from your grasp and hurting your heart. So you don't fully invest to save themselves the heartache. On the other hand. There is "I'm not hers, it's just her turn". Flipping the power dynamic. Now you are constantly looking at her for reasons to remain with her rather than the other way around. I can choose to rema…
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:56 PM
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Problem is most girls are for the streets. During hs I was a god, every girl wanted to fuck me but I refused most. I thought the immature easy girls would grow up or I just wasn't in the right area. Turns out every girl I've ever met is just about the same. Same ez, pz process. No matter how creative I get with my seductions. It starts of as the girl being a little dustant but then when I get her she doesn't ever hide her desire for me. Men have to develop our game to make the girl attracted to …
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:39 PM
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I agree that this advice works for some men, the small minority of men...say 20%. I learned this early on since 8th grade. Girls were pretty yeah, but often boring. I was popular so I had my picks in Hs, I was in high demand so my "frame" was built up early on. Not game though, I had frame but no idea how to escalate for a while because girls who I talked to in hs were dtf from the start, there was no need to really hesitate or worry about sexual assaultcharge. That's another story though. Howev…
/r/seduction04/01/21 06:06 AM
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I agree whole heartedly. I find I even lose respect for men around women they don't plan to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/20 06:04 AM
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Honestly this post is true af. I am a gen z male, though not a simp. Every girl I have fucked or been "friends" with, they all like you say, have hella males they go to for attention. I asked a few why they have them or if they fuck any of them. They all gave the same response, "I'm just entertaining them". The guys are led I to believing they have a chance but the girl just milks them whenever they want to feel desired.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 11:55 PM
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I fucking agree.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:52 PM
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As long as we can pretend nothing ever happens it is fine. But, the past has a tendency to rear its head. Better to be honest upfront to prevent a waste of time.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/20 03:30 PM
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Ohhhh. Makes sense. My brain didn't even register another possibility tsk tsk. I know it might warrant a longer response, but hey when the tool is there why not. There are many times people give hasty explanations that don't dont say much, but allow me to see how others view my problem. The occasional person will be elaborate, this is what I prefer, but I know most redditors are not willing. When I do get a longer answer it is a bonus. Again, I appreciate you taking time to respond to me.
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:16 PM
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I appreciate your response. I'll reflect on it and read that book. Btw, I still can't discern how it is a loaded question, wanna fill me in?
/r/askTRP11/10/20 04:35 PM
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Most people don't care about covid. Also, there are no rules to approach, generally just come from 12,6 or 3 o'clock. Just do it. You might be more attractive then you thought, and never get outright dismissed. Remember what matters is not how good looking you are, but sex appeal.
/r/askTRP24/08/20 03:26 PM
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Appreciate it, you're the first to find it funny. Granted I think the whole situation was jokes.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/20 05:29 PM
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Thank you. Also, I dont think I will reach granny levels of regret. Appreciate the warning though.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/20 07:14 PM
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For sure. But there is a line there, I had to convince them I really wasn't there for them at first, which is hard to believe because I came up to them. This took about 5 min with the friends and like 30m with red bikini. If I had failed to convince them I don't need them, then i would have fallen into their frame. This was hard, being my first real group approach.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:34 PM
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Yeah I was desperately typing on my phone. I made a second version which was supposed to be posted here but idk what happened. But thanks, idk if there will be a pt.2, only time will tell.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 04:21 PM
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I will say this. Most girls who approach me generally make me dislike them a tad from the jump. Why? well, now I don't really get the thrill of a chase, and even feel the need to conform to your expectations of me. I don't like being approached/chosen. Once a girl I would've approached tried to approach me, and I was so turned off by it, I asked her to walk back the way she came. As she walked away I initiated and felt at ease then, leading the interaction. Thats another thing, girls are pretty …
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:23 PM
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Appreciate it. I have walked off, but because I have, I know how half assed the attempt felt. I wasn't pissed they insulted me, more upset that was all it took to get in my feelings.
/r/seduction13/08/20 02:45 PM
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Appreciate it. Honestly she jacked she didn't save it because "it died". She wanted my socials bad. Either way I don't care to keep her around. I want a girl closer to home. Less work you dig.
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:49 AM
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Lol. You're like the big brother I never had.
/r/seduction13/08/20 03:45 AM
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I like you. Thanks for the advice. I knew you weren't so bad. Will implement what I find useful.
/r/seduction13/08/20 02:57 AM
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By that I meant I just began to feel better in engaging conversation. I would make statements about her or ask questions. Basically how she related to the group, why today blah blah. The goal was to build comfort here, after she was so angry at first. Not necessarily about her sex life, I ignored that. How I saw it there was hope because she began to speak in my presence. Other girls who dont want me I believe would be utterly silent until I leave. And thanks, it was pretty damn fun.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 02:54 AM
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Strange, I sent in a new post with better grammar and spelling after my first post was auto removed. I wonder what happend to that post?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/20 02:45 AM
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Lol your a dick trying to belittle me. And I do. Any other reccomendations?
/r/seduction13/08/20 02:40 AM
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Let's just say I suck at being aggressive. First time in a long time. But I appreciate your comment if you did read the whole thing. I may have your take if I read this too. I can't write and probably sound cheesy.
/r/seduction13/08/20 02:05 AM
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I lowered it to a quick wave of the hand for a acquaintance. He failed to do that, we tried for weeks. Some guys have deep scars. He is not gonna get better by failing to even engage, this is ultra cowardice.
/r/seduction26/07/20 03:49 PM
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I remember my first approaches. I thought I'd be the greatest since I naturally attract girls. But this would be me on offense this time around, couldn't be that hard. Little did I know that my pride was too much to continue talking to a girl after she showed a hint of disinterest. She would give me the wrong look or her friend would steal her attention, and I would walk away. I had zero patience. I was approaching from a domineering perspective and that fucked me over. I was results oriented wh…
/r/seduction18/07/20 01:55 PM
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Dope. What is weird to me as a city boy is that I'd much rather kill or draw blood from another human than an animal. I've been in fights etc where things got bloody. But I still hesitate to even approach a harmless animal with the intent to kill it. I justify myself by saying I just don't want to kill an animal for no reason. But it truly is disheartening, not being "willing" to kill, like others before me. Humans are normal and their parts make sense, grabbing a weird body and snapping just fr…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 08:19 PM
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NIKES. They are rare breed. Don't just cop Nike though cuz of brand name, I had another pair that was gone in months. My current pair went out of production.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:58 PM
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Sneakers. Bought for 40. 3 yrs strong. Running hills, on the beach, hiking, sprints, jogging, the occasional bball game.It has been through it all and still in one piece.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:26 PM
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Not a smoker. Maybe a past trauma. Not very anxious. I began to lose feeling, I'm guessing gradually since sophomore year. I'm 20 now. BTW, Wym by anxious personality. Like prone to anxiety or does it relate to a category of Myers Briggs personalities?
/r/askTRP16/06/20 10:56 PM
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"Look, you know I think your beautiful, I want you. If not at least send nudes." I had cuddled with her before, but she was a big tease. Only occasional grinding and I could hold her at my beck and call. Wouldn't allow me to kiss or undress her. I could grope. Basically she had me simping. I was 13/14 she was 16.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 11:58 PM
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I'll look into it. Thankyou.
/r/askTRP13/06/20 02:16 PM
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You are not a pussy. You just got got. I would, like you feel tremendous shame in having been in such a vulnerable position. Maybe for you it's even more emasculating as he was 5'5. Perhaps it's the closest thing you've had to a potentially violent encounter, and you shattered the tough guy self image created for yourself. All I know is that it's a very humbling experience when another has the option to take your life if he so willed it. The anger will go away soon, but make sure to never let yo…
/r/askTRP10/06/20 11:52 PM
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Honestly it's not that bad. You have to understand, the people who were meant to "break out" will find a way. I've done it, though I have yet to meet a real all around red pill guy. You have done it. It seems that the masses will generally be blue pulled. We can't all be red pilled, and that's not exactly a bad thing. Being red pilled is hard work. You must be working always, learning always. I think more people would rather relax and sink into the soft flower bed of comfort. I have faith that t…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 07:12 PM
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Lol, same. The first time I fingered a girl I did a sniff check. She did not pass. Had to get up and dip real quick. I was very upset for a long while. Scrubbed my fingers like they were stained with blood.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:36 PM
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For me it's just natural, what held me back was the urge to follow rules. Take the enneagram test. As a type 8 I've never had a problem. Other personalities tend to be less inclined to accept certain ideas. So take it and get a sense of how you think now and work on changing your approach. I don't know if therapy will help but yeah I'm sure it is worth a try. Gl.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 09:20 PM
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Me and my boy during summer had a funny chat on this topic. During summer when more skin is exposed, we found ourselves looking at the feet first. The feet often go neglected, cute clean taken care of feet often went hand in hand with beauty. And it was often the tie breaker between girls with equal looks. When feet are not exposed, face, hair and body obviously. Even skin tone is a given. Very rarely am I attracted to a girl without even skin tones. Like a light skin with dark knees, does not l…
/r/seduction26/05/20 05:21 AM
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I like this
/r/askTRP18/08/19 06:35 AM
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Damn I have shit writing. But thanks for the response.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:10 AM
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After reading The subtle art of not giving a fuck I learned to not give a fuck about the things that irritate me. It was as simple as that. Am I gonna let an inferior problem when compared to my end goal disrupt my mood. Hell no! So what if that guy just bumped my shoulder... I'm moving towards something greater and a little bump can't change that. In fact it's too little of a problem for me to care for.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:08 AM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:44 AM
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Hmm maybe A. I'm not so focused on her as you say. B. I care about my word, which I gave. C. me asking for an opinion is to hear others perspectives. Who says I don't have courses of action laid out. D. Ur assuming something holds me back so that I can't fuck her. Maybe this was your experience but not mine.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:27 PM
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This book is long as hell lmaooo. I got the audiobook and have been knawing at it for weeks now. I regret getting the audio version as many of the stories he associates with his lessons often don't stick. The numerous sermons he gives when he says " as a student of human nature you should..." in various occasions i wanted to jot it down but I was running or lifting an the moment passes. These written summaries are a great supplement.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 07:48 AM
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