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Are men so insecure and lacking in personal meaning in the 21st century that they have to LARP as Ancient Romans to feel masculine? I leave this sub for a few years and come back to find it infested with goons from 4chan or lonely dorks from Jordan Peterson. TRP was an amoral forum about sexual strategy. Jesus, what happened?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 08:20 AM
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You don't think civil rights movements would have taken advantage of social media to connect with their base and spread messages all around? Seriously? Why is anyone on this sub still arguing about social media? The debate has been settled. Like anything, it's a tool. Social media is useless if you're addicted, indispensable if you're building a business, and fine to dabble in moderately. Start thinking for yourself. None of this post has anything to do with living your life. Who gives a shit if…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 04:20 AM
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How do you captain a football team and manage your girlfriend between all your Starcraft and DOTA 2 sessions?
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 04:15 PM
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I love Fight Club, but Tyler Durden is not a TRP model. You do know the whole thing was satire, right? Jack has no clue what it means to be a man. Tyler Durden is the manifestation of what society told him a "man" should be. Tyler wants to wake up the sleeping drones of wasted male potential to finally realize their own destiny. Yet his Project Mayhem, the premier philosophy of frat houses, doofy pick up artists, and "bro" science, is doing exactly what he claims to rebel against. The shaved hea…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 09:24 PM
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Well, lying and manipulation comes easier to women because they are essential to female biological survival. The natural passivity and physical weakness of women make the prospect of violence more frightening to them--particularly when it is sudden and unexpected. If a woman is caught cheating (not in the actual act), she has to lie to save herself from potential life-threatening violence. Even a threat of violence that isn't carried out (Do that again and I'll fucking kill you) has a different …
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:09 AM
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Mmm, sweet, delicious, impotent rage. Of course, while this is unlikely given my armament and training, I encourage you to research the gun and self-defense laws in the state of Georgia. And if you're still up for it, pay me a [visit.] (https://imgur.com/nprOuBO) We can find out how much of a neckbeard I am. You're a tough guy on the internet, right? So c'mon, no one likes a tease.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 04:06 PM
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You're really doubling-down here, aren't you? I almost felt a scintilla of sympathy for you for being such a stereotype, but after seeing your FOOTBALLL post today, I've disabused myself of the feeling. You massage the rancid root chakra of the typical braindead bro, dog whistle at the top of your lungs about the SUPERBOWL FAGGOTZZ and crank your "REAL MAN" charismata to eleven. That is to say, you're strikingly retarded. You are breathtakingly, crudely, and proudly retarded. It's adorable in it…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 09:04 PM
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As someone that's studied martial arts (and MMA), it only works when you're legitimately sparring with other people. Even then, unless you've been in a street fight, you're not going to be prepared. There's no self-defense involved in air kicking and doing cool poses in the dojo. Furthermore, your opponent in the street is not going to circle you like in sparring. They are going to come at you full force, likely with flailing limbs, and you'll have a split second to react. If you think BJJ prepa…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:53 PM
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Merely lifting will not save you. Telling a lost man to "go lift!" as a savior to his problems is the same as your mom saying "just be yourself!" as the savior to your relationship woes. It offers no real, tangible advice. When we speak of a fully realized man, you have to look at life as a temple. To hold up the temple, you need pillars. You're only taking one part of a foundation. If you need to hold up the temple, but only have one pillar (lifting) as your foundation, that's not going to be s…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:48 PM
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Here's the thing: I don't believe in equality. Would you say you're more athletic than Lebron James? Would you pretend your idiot friend can become president if he studies really hard? No. We deny these inescapable truths of society because it feels better to persist in delusion. A man that's born 5'7" will never match the athletic ability of Lebron no matter how much he lifts, eats well, or becomes knowledgable about fitness. Why pretend otherwise? Rebelling in the sense of accepting truths lik…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:21 PM
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This is a typical comment. I experience this talking about literature and art too. "You're using big words, you must be pretentious!! If I can't understand this, it must make no sense!" And I'm the egomaniac? ;-) It's a shame these aren't the golden days of Rome though. I could rise to emperor and have your body wilting on splintered stems of a crucifix by sunrise.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 12:08 PM
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I care about me and mine. I have a family and tight knit group of fellow equals I call my friends. No man is an island. The only difference is that I admit what people don't say. People are too afraid to admit they don't care about starving people in Africa, war torn middle eastern regions, or 3rd world shitholes. So we play this pretend game where we donate $1 to a cause, post on social media about "injustice", and lie to ourselves about our immense well of altruism. The reality is that it's no…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:55 AM
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--> implying imaginary internet points matter to me.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 11:48 AM
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thanks a lot this reply was so gay i need to get a bloodtest now to make sure it didn't give me aids
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 04:36 PM
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What is this faggotry? I swear, this sub is being dominated by more faggots than ever lately. This is some MRA bullshit with guys who enjoy arguing with women who don't even matter. Trying to be logical and point out "fallacies" in a woman's thinking like they at all give a fuck? "Ha! Nice try with the reductio ad absurdum!" Oh yes, you're such a powerful male now. Don't ever answer to a woman who calls you out like this. All of these comebacks show that you're butt-hurt and letting her bother y…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 03:36 PM
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Wow, extrapolate much? You're getting one line in the story. How are you extrapolating that to the supposed PURE EVIL of this woman? What was the argument about? What was the cultural impact of her dating a Jew when the Nazis were invading? You're the one acting like a woman right now. This post is how an extremely short-sighted, whiny feminist views the world. You're looking for a reason to be offended and go "pfft, women, see!" Nothing in this article confirms any "TRP truth" whatsoever. Not t…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 10:23 AM
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The actual Jay Gatsby from the novel? No, he wasn't at all. He had no true ambition. The only reason he wanted to become fantastically wealthy was because of his oneitis (aka true love!!) for Daisy. He throws these lavish parties, but secretly loathes everyone that comes. When he talks with Nick, you realize he doesn't care about wealth, social status, or any of the people in his life. He is driven by one sole (and foolish) emotion: love. Gatsby was a deeply troubled man that was constantly rest…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:06 AM
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A more visually arousing photo for women would be you in a well-fitted suit. Well, assuming you're not 18, then go shirtless.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:43 AM
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Any sexual interaction does. That's not exclusive to online dating.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:42 AM
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Oh, I agree that online dating is racist. Since I'm white, black/asian/latina girls already see me as a prize because of the social implication of claiming a white guy. I've joked about marrying a few and they've said "I wish I could have a white husband" and then given me the puppy dog eyes.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:40 AM
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Yep. Think of how many selfies/stationary photos boring men on there have. Pictures should be you doing cool things: riding a motorcycle, playing sports, surfing, rock climbing, etc. etc. Avoid selfies, pictures of you alone everywhere. You want to seem like you're the lightning rod to a great adventure.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:35 AM
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I know bro. Replying on here via mobile is weird. I wasn't referring specifically to you, but the entire thread of "it only works because you're good looking."
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 09:33 AM
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I would never use a routine in real world interaction. Eventually, the canned material you rehearse will run out. Randomly walking up to a woman and saying "who lies more, men or women?" is complete faggotry. I don't teach that or any PUA bullshit. It's much easier (and more relaxing) to be your authentic self.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 09:01 AM
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Here are some filters I use to show when I know men have no real world experience with women. "It's all about your looks." "You could say anything. You are attractive." "This actually works? Please." "If this works they must all be ugly." "You're probably 10/10 looks." Unfortunately, the truth is much worse. I'm probably a 7.5 in looks. I make up for the lost points in charisma. And, if any of you guys think that all you have to do to get laid on a Tinder date (or any online date) is show up, yo…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:58 AM
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What people go to dinner on a first date? That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:53 AM
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You're gonna be sorely disappointed when you realize I'm not in the top 20%.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:51 AM
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No deck. We had patio. It was much better.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:50 AM
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Having a shitty and bitter attitude (like you currently have) isn't going to help much with attracting women. If you had any experience with real women, you'd already know the "looks are everything" doesn't apply.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:48 AM
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Every woman I referenced is under 23.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:46 AM
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I live in a major city and know for a fact that 90% are not utterly fucking disgusting. Maybe around the parts of podunk that you reside, but not by me.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:44 AM
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Have you ever watched The Trip? Me and my buddies always bust that sentence out when they do Michael Caine impressions. Bit of an inside joke.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:43 AM
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I don't have standard texting on my phone. I use iMessage or WhatsApp with WiFi only. If I do text, it's in response to what they send and probably something immature/sexual. Being able to text anywhere makes me too available, so I don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:42 AM
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She had an umlaut in her name ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:37 AM
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No, it took a lot of embarrassment and saying stupid things that didn't work until I refined it. You ever watch 500 Days of Summer with JGL? Now go back in time 3 or 4 years. That was me.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 08:36 AM
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Okay, after 2000 edits, it's fine.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:15 PM
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God damn it, why the fuck won't these conversations format?
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 05:13 PM
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There's zero to gain from doing it. It's like going around and saying "yeah so I'm following the 48 laws of power."
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:07 PM
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I've seen him multiple times now around here talking about TRP as pseudoscience, misogynist, and here he's saying please don't compare women to cars. He's a troll.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 02:05 PM
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For a beginner, cut back on these things: Video games Social media Porn Soda TV Then, replace the time gained with these things: Exercise (weight lifting) Reading great novels Focusing on a career Learning skills (languages, cooking, etc.) Creative outlet Also, avoiding doing these things: Talking to women on social media (Facebook, liking pics on instagram, etc.) Spending time with people that do a majority of what you should cut back on. Feeling sorry for yourself. Being a time ho (search for …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 01:23 PM
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Who is this concern troll? Ban him ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 01:13 PM
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When did I say anything like that about police? My feeling on this topic is that the cop got away with murder, but, when it comes to a cop, unless you have absolutely irrefutable evidence, it's easy to raise the slightest doubt. Remember Denzel in Training Day? "It's not what you know, it's what you can prove." As a community, you can't complain about the increasing violence and militarization of the police force while simultaneously turning your city into a warzone. At some point, an elected of…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 06:41 AM
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This all boils down to the fact that it's easier to be a victim. With some women, it's easier to embrace feminism than hit a gym and lose weight. Sexist body standards!!! Misogyny!!! Privilege!!!!!! They also fight an invisible enemy: THE PATRIARCHY. With some blacks, it's easier to embrace that everyone is racist than take responsibility for your own life. Didn't get a job? Racism!!! A person was disrespectful to me? Racism!!! Don't get special treatment because my ancestors were slaves? Racism…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:29 AM
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A man gettin money doesn't give a fuck about money. Same with a college degree. "Uh HUR she has a PhD therefore more value." Yeah, except women are the ones that attach value to the status of what a man can provide her. Men don't give a fuck. We can't stick our dick in her college degree. If you're hot and broke, we don't care. What don't you understand about men attaching no value to a woman with power or money? If you're broke and a 5, you're still a 5 to a man. If you're rich and a 5, guess w…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/14 02:38 PM
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Terrible post. What the fuck is this bullshit? Stop posting threads and begin reading.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/14 12:19 PM
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Honestly, the only one a TRP man needs to truly succeed in the world of business and interpersonal relationships is Machiavellianism. You can be a chameleon, adaptable to any situation and ready to play your part to whomever you're attempting to impress or deceive. In this trait, you can still play the social game to your advantage and sleep soundly at night. You can still love your family, play with your dog, and enjoy the ball game. Seeing the world in a strategic way as one big game is a grea…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/14 02:19 PM
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Now this is blatant sexism. This is the kind of "affirmative action" I don't like. The best person for the job should be hired. Whether that's a man or a woman is irrelevant. My problem is when you specifically state "we aren't stopping until we have 50 women." So if a male candidate is vastly better qualified, educated, and prepared for the job, you'll take a inferior candidate because she has a vagina? That's where it's bullshit and has nothing to do with equality. Being equal means you compet…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/14 02:40 AM
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By turning bitterness into amusement. Once you learn how to play the game (female behavior), it's enlightening to the point of empowerment. You won't be angry anymore when you learn it's not personal, but their nature. Women are fickle, emotional, hilarious creatures that can be easily reigned in and controlled. It's fun, they're like puppets. Don't be angry you have to become a puppeteer, have fun pulling the strings.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:06 PM
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Because narcissism is a mental disorder.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 11:01 PM
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He claims it was a statement about the scientific community not caring about what you look like. It's all about your brain. That's why he was also interviewed about his tattoos. You don't expect a man wearing a shirt like that while being covered in tattoos to be intelligent to the level of a rocket scientist. If you see him in the street, you probably assume he's a convict or a hooligan. When you think "rocket scientist" you picture some nerd in a button down shirt with a skinny tie, some awful…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:57 PM
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To touch more on this (since I agree), let's put this in perspective: This spacecraft traveled 300,000,000 miles which took 10 years. It landed on a comet traveling 30,000 mph. So many things will be learned from this mission! We could answer questions like how water was brought to Earth, the origins of comets, and if we can possibly dock on one in the future and attach thrusters to deviate a comet's trajectory that's heading straight for Earth. That's important. It's an amazing feat for humanit…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 10:54 PM
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Ohh, you poor little rich girl, someone enhanced your boobs on a poster. What a hate crime! I'm sure she had no moral dilemma about cashing the checks she's received from the companies. This has nothing to do with ideology or "standing up for women." Is she going to stop posing on magazine covers? Is she going to demand she not be on the poster of her next movie? No, of course she isn't. She'll make her little statement and be photoshopped on an upcoming issue of vogue whenever her new big movie…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/14 08:59 AM
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It's not funny because it's indoctrination. The swearing isn't the issue, it's the implied meaning of the statements they're making. Do you think a 7 year old cares or has any idea of what feminism is or can logically construct it in their mind enough to make a decision to support it? Children this age rarely have thoughts more complicated than their desire for candy or cookies. They couldn't possibly begin to mentally unpack "the patriarchy". The left loves to bash conservative women because th…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 07:47 AM
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First of all, if you speak how you type, we need to help you out my man, because this is rambling and damn near incoherent. We need to get some conversational power into you. I'll try my best. "You know, people that joke all the time are socially damaged. I'm worried about you." Said, of course, in the most I know something you don't know way. Is this true? Who knows, who cares? It will at least pressure flip the situation on her and give you control of the convo. The object of the game is to ke…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:56 AM
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Well, being a cynic can be viewed as failing to rise above your problems. Instead of striving to be a better person and overcome, you give into the comforts of complacency and perpetual anger. Think of Nietzsche. During his time, he felt God was dead, but the morality of it remained, because to the ruling class, the appearance of religiosity encouraged a docile society. He thought their inability to eradicate religion and move forward with new human virtues was cowardice, because they didn't hav…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/14 06:34 AM
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I think you're reading this from a perspective of a guide to nutrition = bodybuilding. It's a guide to forming healthy habits if you don't know anything about food. I'm a musician, so if you want to get jacked, I'm not the guy.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:01 PM
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I'm a musician, so I don't have any tips on becoming a bodybuilder. For some reason, a few people in this post have equated a guide to nutrition with bodybuilding. I never stated "eat this to get ripped." It's a guide to forming healthy habits if you don't know anything about food. If you want to get jacked, I'm not the guy.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:59 PM
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I've honestly never heard of any of this man. Where did you get it?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:54 PM
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After a heavy endurance training workout, yes. On a daily basis? No. I don't subscribe to a lot of bro science, so the "spike ur insulin bro" after workout isn't the reason I do it. My muscles are glycogen-depleted after repeated endurance training, so it works for me.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:53 PM
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Do you think you're going to stick to a diet where you eat the exact same thing every day for every meal?
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:47 PM
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Dude, I just gave you the "cook in bulk" method so you don't have to consistently make things every day. I'm not Gordon Ramsay either, but cooking edible food is not an unattainable goal for the common man.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:45 PM
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Only mentioned it because we're in season. Sunday/Thursday nights all weeks of the year regardless.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:42 PM
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I don't think there's a big enough sample size yet to definitely prove anything. When it comes to my health, I'll take the overly cautious over the reckless route.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:42 PM
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To me it's more about portion control than counting calories if you're coming from a weight loss perspective. If you follow the correct meal plan, you'll know "I can have this, this, and this" and the portions (or calories) take care of themselves. You won't have to spend time thinking "this is 200, this is 150, and this is 300, plus some butter is 5 calories." It becomes a neurosis.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:37 PM
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Maybe you didn't read the post, but nowhere did I reference this as GATSBY'S GUIDE TO BODYBUILDING.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:33 PM
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Yeah, I should have clarified. I have never come from the perspective of losing weight, but strictly gaining. However, even if I had to lose weight, I wouldn't need to count calories. I can eye the portions and know what foods add up to what. I still stand by the statement that it can drive newbies to neurosis and be detrimental to gaining or losing weight. Starting is important, tweaking can come later.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:29 PM
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Yeah, the really hot ones disappear fast because it reminds them too much of real life. Except this time the neckbeards feel they can be more vulgar. That's why I advise a few messages, get the #, and get face to face ASAP. Don't waste more than 15 mins per interaction.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:18 PM
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I don't consider any women for LTR's from online dating. Odds are if a woman is LTR material, she's beating them off with a stick offline. You may find the rare exception, but I don't have the patience for that. Like I said, everyone lies online, so you can't go off the profile. A suitable candidate depends on what you personally like. Do you want a girl into video games, books, a good cook, someone that loves children, etc. This is why I advise men to sleep around before getting into an LTR. If…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:14 PM
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In person also alleviates their agency. If they met you in person, then slept with you and their friends found out how old you were, how did they know? You seemed younger! If she met you online, she knew your age and can't hamster that away to her friends.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:03 PM
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That's a nice car man. My dad has a 69. THE JUDGE.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 01:00 PM
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Are we talking Kobe Bryant or Aladdin?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:59 PM
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Constantly bombarded by offers from losers and neckbeards willing to worship them (aka their daily life). There isn't an ocean of attractive men bombarding them with offers online. Most are goons. That's why it's so easy when you're actually attractive.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:58 PM
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Never googled marceline vampire, still haven't. I assumed it was some twilight bullshit. She never mentioned it on the date. Most women 18-21 will be into pop culture garbage in some form.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:55 PM
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Correct. Interesting photos are better than contrived ones that look like they're from a high school yearbook.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:54 PM
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You don't think offline dating is a series of lies and sales tactics? What I don't get about an attitude like this is that you assume outright lying only applies to women in the courting process.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:53 PM
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Have been sleeping with women on and off the internet for over a decade and have contracted nothing.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:50 PM
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Guys do the same bro. If they're 5'8", online they're 5'10". If they make 50K, they make 75K online. Some are skilled at using shadows to appear more muscular or taking a pic right after a pump. Everyone lies online dating. That's the reality you have to accept when using it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:49 PM
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First of all, I weed out all women's studies people. If they're heavily into feminism, gender, or any sort of "acceptance" movement they get an automatic next. Any girl that says negative things about men one to show me you're not ALL the same gets a next. I go for women who seem fun, feminine, and non-brainwashed by muh opresshunn. I only read the profiles to find a quip. I don't actually care what they're writing since everyone lies anyway.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:48 PM
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You're talking as if this is any different than real life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:43 PM
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Ignore it. Women have good reason to reply selectively if you look at some of the spergs they get messages from. Imagine you're a fit and attractive man. Now imagine 300 pound women bombarding you with 30 messages a day of "hey babe" "u like sex?" "wow ur hot" "date sometime? her number" How frequently would you reply?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:41 PM
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Exceptions don't disprove rules though.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:39 PM
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Protection aspect too. You can't automatically kick a short man's ass because you're 6'2" (could be MMA, scrappy guy, etc), but women don't think that. They perceive height as dominance.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:38 PM
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If you're a 6 yourself you will, but not if you're attractive. More like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:37 PM
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Right, but I am tall and good looking. I would also suspect some men here are as well. Hence, the tips.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 12:36 PM
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The entire spectrum of western culture has a low opinion of men. We've been raised on this idea our entire lives to such a degree that people like Emma Watson don't even see it when it's right in front of their face. Feminists are pro-woman and anti-man, but it's been packaged so nicely they believe it's about equality. She's a world renown actress, yet clearly hasn't watched a TV program/commercial/movie in her life. TV (especially sitcoms) revels in the notion that men are stupid, slow, and us…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 09:03 AM
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If you read what I wrote and thought I was somehow bashing Star Wars, you've missed the point entirely.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:41 AM
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Took the words out of my mouth.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:39 AM
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Being an introvert has nothing to do with being an artist or enjoying music. Much like being extroverted has nothing to do with being a business man or a club guy. Do you find more of those "types" at certain places, sure, because they all cater to a demographic, but people are individuals. I'm not exactly sure what you're getting at with your comment, so I'm not sure how to respond, but thanks for reading. We're all on our own path. Good luck, sport.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:41 AM
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Honestly, I haven't thought about this too much, because when I see a guitar (especially mine), I instinctively pick it up and start jamming. I couldn't give a shit if she doesn't like guitar playing. You know that cliche of how men pick up the guitar initially to get women, but stay for the music? That's how I am now. I don't consider myself "guitar guy" even if it's my biggest passion/hobby. It's a part of who I am. However, I will say that there's never been a negative consequence to being ab…
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:38 AM
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The best way to get over complete rejection is to get completely rejected. Walk up to the most beautiful woman you see. If you're new to social interactions with gorgeous girls, there's no way you'll have enough conversational power to get her interested. You're gonna fail hard. Try it once, it's hilarious. Worst case scenario, guys will laugh at you. But guess what? They'd never have the balls to do what you just did. Plus, it's your hazing ritual. Every guy in this community that's good with w…
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:32 AM
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Sounds like flirting to me, sport.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:14 AM
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What else would you like to see?
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:14 AM
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Glad to hear it. Where are you located? Hit me up.
/r/seduction06/02/14 11:13 AM
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Of course, this is how we've all had to do it to become great with women. You have to burn through girls. You can read every post in this sub and still not be great in live action. Let's say it like this. If you're into sports, then Seddit is your practice field. You're watching film, studying, working out, and practicing/ boosting your skill set. However, game time will come and then you hit the field and play against real opponents. There are things that will happen in the course of a game tha…
/r/seduction11/01/14 11:56 AM
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Yeah, you can do something, go date some other women. Let's see how "not ready to date you" she is then. If she doesn't care at all, you have your answer. Why are you so heavily invested in a woman that's given you absolutely nothing? You've made the fatal mistake of investing in her emotionally before she invested in you sexually. Why would she ever want to date you? She's getting everything she needs right now without having to do anything sexually with you. You're nice to her, boosting her se…
/r/seduction11/01/14 11:48 AM
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You know, I always did feel like I'd make a great pirate. "I'll give ya the map if ya give me some gold!" It's appreciated, thanks.
/r/seduction11/01/14 11:33 AM
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Thanks a lot, sport. Glad it could help you.
/r/seduction11/01/14 11:31 AM
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Sure, come on over. We can start with a salad, play a game of chess over some herbal tea and have a chat. Then we can paint, listen to James Blake, and see where the night takes us.
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:12 PM
1

Go outside and find one?
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:06 PM
1

Sure thing.
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:06 PM
1

Of course they aren't phased by attention. If 30 women of varying degrees of attractiveness approached you every day wanting your dick, eventually you're going to become a bit jaded. I haven't had #'s 2 and 5 happen. All women are bratty. And most women are going to make fun of you at some point. It's a test. They want to see if you're able to laugh at yourself and not be so goddamn serious. If a woman pokes fun at your weight (say you're not muscular), a horrible response would be "yeah I got t…
/r/seduction09/01/14 12:06 PM
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No, it isn't regular for me to be approached. If you're asking me to guess a rate, I'd say 75% of the time I engage, 25% of the time they do. So, 1 out of 4 girls I talk to will say something to me first. Dominant, masculine behavior doesn't have anything to do with a serious face or stone face or whatever you may think it is. For me, dominant behavior means I am completely secure with myself, call someone out if they're being difficult, taking subtle, but funny jabs, and leading the conversatio…
/r/seduction09/01/14 11:58 AM
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Well, yes. I'm not going to waste my time on every pretty girl who gives me attention. We had nothing in common. She was absolutely gorgeous, but a religious freak. You think she's going to have an open mind sexually? Will she even let me touch her before I submit to Jesus or ask for her hand in marriage? These are all questions I don't have the time nor desire to find out. I'll find a beautiful non-religious girl and cut out the hours of bullshit that comes with a woman who thinks god is watchi…
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:07 PM
1

Every conversation will be different. You have to be able to flip words into sexual meanings and catch women when they crack open the door. Not in a mean way, certainly not in a "that's what she said" way. This is why listening is your #1 wingman. Hearing something interesting she said early in the conversation, then hanging on that until she shuts up so you can say it is a fatal mistake. Listen, don't anticipate. For example, if I were to frame a religious girl who isn't a freak about it (don't…
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:04 PM
2

Touché, green light.
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:49 PM
2

You definitely killed the interaction in a lot of ways. Which is okay, because there's an abundance of women out there and one doesn't matter. I'm not sure I trust you to "understand everything" yet, so let me show you what went wrong. You asked to kiss her. - This is a cardinal sin of dating and you should never do this again. Ever! You're placing her above yourself by insinuating that she should allow you to kiss her, because she's a beautiful creature and you're a putz. You got ONEitis. - I k…
/r/seduction07/01/14 01:11 PM
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I'm sure it's difficult and even a bit embarrassing for you to interact with a stutter, and for sure it will disqualify you to a lot of girls, but keep your head up and continue practicing and engaging and talking. Trust me, some woman will find your stutter adorable.
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:51 PM
1

"I need to go find my friend." But Gatsby, what if I don't have friends at the party?! Yeah, you know that, but does she?
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:44 PM
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Oh, and for you OCD folks out there who need stories to have complete details with nothing left out, the 2nd girl's name is Jennifer.
/r/seduction07/01/14 12:19 PM
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Loving that you listen to their problems and wanting to sleep with you are 2 different things. Women are impressed by a lot of things; it doesn't mean they want you in their pants. You're treading a dangerous line my friend. You aren't doing anything that their best girlfriend wouldn't do, so always push the envelope and escalate with them to show interest and relay that your "advice" comes with a fee. Don't give away your most valuable asset (time) for free.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:36 PM
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Eject with respect? Sounds like you're asking my advice on how to cum on a girl without her getting upset about it. "Gatsby, how can I eject on her face while having her still respect me??" Say whatever you want. Say you have to get up early in the morning, say you have work, say you have to go pick someone up, say you have to go feed your dog and let him go poop, say you have to return some video tapes. If anyone presses you on it, ignore them. None of their business; you answer to no one but y…
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:31 PM
1

Great. Glad I could help.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:28 PM
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Thanks bud.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:28 PM
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This is true. People aren't aware of how narcissistic it is to offer your help without someone asking you. Unless your help is specifically asked for and you feel you want to do it, then that can be your choice. I hate to be so Machiavellian about this, but if the ends don't justify the means, it's best to keep your nose out of it.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:28 PM
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Don't engage. If she starts being a bummer, I say "yeah" and change the subject. If she doesn't get the hint, I'll give her another chance by playfully telling her to buck up or stop being such a Debbie downer. If she continues, I find another woman. I don't have time for constant negativity. If you have a girlfriend, you're going to have to listen to her problems from time to time just as she will do for you. Part of being a great partner is providing emotional support. But, if it's not the eve…
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:26 PM
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Hey there Afro.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:21 PM
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Hey bud. It sounds like you're a bit frustrated because you think this should be easier and not ignite so many fears inside of you. And, you are misconstruing social anxiety and introversion. But, lucky for you, I deal with both! You've made a terrible assumption when reading this post. You read a guide that highlights my "greatest hits" and assumed they were common reactions I get from all women. You're getting the 5 great interactions I've had, but you're not hearing about the 30 colossal fail…
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:18 PM
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Yes, it would. Source: I lived in Georgia for 2 years. Florida for 3.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:01 PM
1

I studied the classics in an AP class (3 years in high school) where I learned to speak it. I've forgotten a lot, but it's still interesting. It's funny how fast the language disappears from your brain when no one else is around to speak it with you.
/r/seduction25/11/13 01:00 PM
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What's there to not understand? Create a moment and have her bestow a nickname upon you. You wouldn't crown yourself Sir ZiRaLiX of Seddit, would you?
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:58 PM
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L'Homme is my favorite scent. I have received quite a few compliments on it. And, for any guys reading this, no I do not recommend it. I don't recommend any cologne. There are certain scents that match your body chemistry. You'll have to go find it. For example, musky scents smell terrible on me. Something with lighter notes of freshness and sensuality; perhaps something with more woodsy and earth tones smell the best on me. Anyway, before I rudely hijacked your comment into a monologue about co…
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:56 PM
1

Well thank you. I do have singular girlfriends from time to time if that's what you mean. That special someone is out there, but I'm not concerned about finding her. I'm happy with my life. Happy is England, sweet her artless daughters! Enough their simple loveliness for me. :)
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:46 PM
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Hey there. You definitely present an interesting dilemma. But, what if it weren't a dilemma? Being a 19 year old virgin isn't a problem. I was one at that age. Do you have any proof to back up this theory of social exchanges being confrontational? If you put yourself out there and become vulnerable, you'll get more positive results than negative ones. Even if you don't get any dates, it appears that you aren't getting them now, so what do you have to lose? You're alive in a wondrous and obscenel…
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:44 PM
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That's not my definition of fluency. I define it as being able to express any thought or idea I have in the language without second guessing myself on meaning or context. I doubt I'll ever lose my "accent" unless I immerse myself in a French city and completely stop speaking any English. Either way, it's not important to me what others say about it. All I know is I can talk to cute French girls and make American ones swoon by dropping le français on them.
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:31 PM
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Thanks bud.
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:26 PM
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The limits of your language means the limits of your world.
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:26 PM
2

If you think it's easier to get in a woman's pants as she gets older, I have some bad news for you.
/r/seduction25/11/13 12:21 PM
1

Well, I wish you the best of luck on your pilgrimage of zen seduction kōun ryūsui.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:48 PM
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If a girl has C cups instead of DD breasts, how much, if at all, will you be disappointed when she gets naked? That's how women feel about the size of your junk.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:43 PM
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Speaking a foreign language is an easy translation to game. And you make your own chocolate? What part of these activities do you think women aren't going to like?
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:40 PM
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If you're at all into finance, "what will be my return on this investment?" is the most important question to ask. The same applies to your personal life. Going to the gym 3 times a week can be a drag, but the return on your investment is far too great to not take the time. Buying clothes that fit instead of buying another video game is a hard thing to do, but the return on the investment outweighs the temporary pain of indulging. You have to decide if you're worth it or not.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:12 PM
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You're welcome my friend.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:04 PM
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Well, with that attitude, I doubt it does.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:04 PM
2

You're welcome. :)
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:04 PM
1

Better late than never bud.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:03 PM
1

Thanks, glad you could get some use out of it.
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:03 PM
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Become Vulnerable. - If you want to sleep with a bunch of women without strings, that's great, you can skip this step, but if you're attempting to find a girlfriend like I believe many of you are, this is a crucial step in going from attractive guy ----> boyfriend. The good women of the world are a lot more accepting of your flaws if you're open and honest about them right away. If you have issues with intimacy, let her know! You'll be surprised at how many people have the same problems as you d…
/r/seduction21/11/13 04:01 PM
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I am not sure what this big proposal was, but it sounds like it was overwhelming. Perhaps things would've gone different if you were a little more low-key and direct instead of making it out to be a big event. Which, really, it wasn't. Going on a date isn't a big deal. How do I tell myself to go for it? Well, I am not afraid of "ruining" female best friend relationships for this purpose: if she is an attractive woman worth dating, and by the sounds of your affection toward her, seems likely, you…
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:14 AM
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I must say, I did not quite expect this response!
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:07 AM
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Thanks friend.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:06 AM
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I hope it helps you. :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:06 AM
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My pleasure bud.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:06 AM
1

You're welcome.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:06 AM
1

Not someone I would ever be interested in!
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:06 AM
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Cheers. :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:05 AM
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You are very welcome.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:05 AM
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My pleasure bud.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:05 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:05 AM
1

Thanks bud! What kind of artist are you?
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:05 AM
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Then continue doing what works for you. :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:04 AM
2

You're welcome. Are you referring to "Quiet: The Power of Introverts" by Susan Cain? If so, great book, although a bit too snobby for my taste. We are just a different breed, not a superior one.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:04 AM
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You got it.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:03 AM
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Thanks bud.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:02 AM
1

I'm not against strength training, but it isn't for me. I have other things to worry about and am not all that concerned. I'm lean enough already. If I were in a situation where I had a poor body image, perhaps things would be different.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:02 AM
1

What are your interests?
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:01 AM
1

You'll have to stereotype a bit, but I would warn against this in the long run, because you can miss out on great people who don't dress the part. Every woman who likes art won't dress in high fashion, have tattoos, or carry a camera around their neck. Just as not every bookworm is going to be a meek, glasses wearing nerd. You have to find women you're attracted to, and then proceed from there.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:01 AM
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If lifting weights is vital to you, then it is, and you should continue to pursue that. If some people are fine jogging a few times a week, then that's their prerogative as well. I'm not against lifting weights or any kind of physical exercise, but I'm simply uninterested in it as a whole.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:58 AM
1

This is true. You just have to believe it when you say it. And by the way, this is extremely difficult to do.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:57 AM
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I did have a relevant experience, which is why I mentioned in the main post that you will have to interject with knowledge or commentary at some point. You can't just ask questions all day and expect results. You have to express your personality. The experiences in your own life can make for great stories, but not necessarily make you a great communicator. After all, not everyone who travels is interesting. Some people go to France and spend all day snapping photos with their iPhone instead of v…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:56 AM
2

Being attractive by following basic hygiene is a universal trait that is genderless. We all appreciate how much time women put into their appearance. Albeit some a bit more than others, but you understand.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:40 AM
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Yes, being well-groomed will help immensely. You can still have a beard, but lord, maintain it. Wash your face, use moisturizer, keep it trimmed.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:39 AM
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I wouldn't be a very good introvert if I didn't blab on about topics I'm interested in. :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:38 AM
2

"You never know someone's story" is a good piece of advice to consider when you interact socially with people. This also applies if a woman is rude to you on an approach. You can't take that personally. What if she has a family member in the hospital, what if it's that time of the month, what if she just lost her job? Don't take offense to anything.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:37 AM
2

Sounds fun, but I have never gotten sexual via text (or Facebook messages) until we've actually done it. Now, I will make innuendos like crazy, but I won't mention sex outright. Once when I was making French cuisine, a woman asked what ingredients are in it. I named the basic ones, then mentioned that I have a secret one, but she'll never guess. She pondered for a moment, and plain as day, says "sperm?" She cracks herself up, amused. I just respond plain faced with "whoa, we aren't that close ye…
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:36 AM
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Make sure to get to know a woman before you invest anything emotionally. Just because she's beautiful doesn't mean you're compatible. I've arrived at the point where I turn down gorgeous women every once in a while because they are so off-putting. One thing I dislike is ignorance, so if a beautiful woman is all about makeup and clothes, but has nothing to do with reading books or any kind of intellectual pursuit, I'm not interested. They can love makeup, but they have to love reading too.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:30 AM
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I'm not sure about pornography, but some members here have stated that abstaining has given them extra motivation. An existential crisis can also help. You only have one life, so it depends on what's important to you. If you can get by on 6 hours of sleep instead of 8, you could use those 2 extra hours to improve yourself. Whether that's by working out, reading novels, picking up an extra hobby, learning a language, etc. It's all up to you. It's your life, no one else is in control.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:27 AM
1

What are your hobbies and talents? :)
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:25 AM
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All I can say is this: if you read my entire post and have "well he gets women because he's good looking" as your main takeaway, then I think you may be beyond my help.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:25 AM
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Thanks bud.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:24 AM
1

What kind of things are you uncomfortable doing that they suggest to try out?
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:24 AM
3

It's important to remember that women are insecure too. Women tend to be more afraid to make moves because of the social stigma behind it. They don't want to be thought of as a slut in any way. Sadly, that's how a woman who goes after men is often viewed by a vast portion of society. I have never had a woman initiate or make the move unless we were seriously dating. On brief encounters, first dates, it's always me.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:20 AM
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Remember kōhai, what the superior man seeks is in himself; what the small man seeks is in others.
/r/seduction22/10/13 08:18 AM
1

You could be. I'm not out there with you, so I can't be sure. Do you have any specific examples you could give me?
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:57 AM
1

Right, but 7.5/10 is average. That's like saying my test score was 75/100. I think there are a multitude of men out there I can't hold a candle to in terms of looks. But, I believe in myself, I'm confident, and I know how to play with a woman's mind. That's what makes me attractive, not my 7.5/10 looks.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:55 AM
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Glad to be of service.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:47 AM
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I hope you find her. :)
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:47 AM
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You're welcome bud. Glad you could get something out of it.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:45 AM
1

Even better, you can save the money I spend on haircuts and use it to improve other areas of your life! If you're bald, own it. Lots of women think Jason Statham is god's gift.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:44 AM
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I hope you find that person too. There's nothing like connecting with another human and sharing a piece of yourself, even if it doesn't last.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:43 AM
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I would say that I am a neurotic introvert that's giving the advice, but yes, some of it is universal. :)
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:42 AM
1

Where are you located friend?
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:42 AM
2

My best tip for harnessing comfort and connection is to be vulnerable. There's no way around it if you want big time results. There comes a point where the seduction needs to take a back seat, and you need to have a real human to human conversation about your dreams, fears, insecurities, and flaws. If you want to get into a woman's mind and connect with her emotionally, you're gonna have to risk looking like a flawed human. Which we all are, so it's okay. Thanks for the support. I'm glad you cou…
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:42 AM
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I can honestly tell you that the best women I've met have been ones I've had to approach. Why? Because it seems like the great women get approached all the time, so it's up to you to make that "wow" impression and get her attention. Having her back turned doesn't mean she isn't interested. What if she saw you googly-eyeing her, but then you went back to talking to your friends. What if that signaled to her that you weren't interested? After all, if you were, you would've gone up and talked to he…
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:38 AM
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You're welcome bud. More to come soon.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:36 AM
1

You're welcome my friend.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:35 AM
1

Congrats on getting all of that negative stuff out of your life. Misanthropy is a bad way to live. You can be disappointed with the mass of humanity as a whole, but at least try to look on the bright side. Not just women, but people in general love a positive man. You know what it's like to be having a good time and have that person walk into the room and suck all the energy out. You want to give value, not leech it away from other people. If you don't think there are attractive women who apprec…
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:35 AM
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You're welcome bud.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:02 AM
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Congrats man, that's a great start.
/r/seduction21/10/13 07:01 AM
1

I wish I had a more elaborate answer for you, but it's really a just a basic notebook. Just something like this. http://www.amazon.com/Second-Notebook-Recycled-Assorted-74135/dp/B00275ZYDO/ref=sr_1_3?s=office-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1382173963&sr=1-3&keywords=3x5+notebook I don't have any other special tools. Just whatever pen I grab as I leave the house.
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:14 AM
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You're welcome, sport.
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:11 AM
3

You don't even need an exaggerated doodle of your face first?
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:11 AM
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Haha, I wish I had known. I would have called her on it. Good catch.
/r/seduction19/10/13 09:09 AM
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I have never had an issue with this, because I was never a big porn watcher in the first place. However, I don't see how this could hurt, so give it a try if you're a constant watcher and see if you experience any different results.
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:57 AM
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I've already said this to another person who felt the same, so I'll paste it here for you. I hate to break it to you bud, but this is a terrible way to approach people. Western society is built upon frivolous "ice breaker" conversations. While society as a whole may not contain what you're looking for, there are individual members who, if you knew them better, would be able expound on many intellectual ideas, and you'll miss this by restricting yourself to only speaking about "deep topics" and n…
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:56 AM
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I hate to break it to you bud, but this is a terrible way to approach people. Western society is built upon frivolous "ice breaker" conversations. While society as a whole may not contain what you're looking for, there are individual members who, if you knew them better, would be able expound on many intellectual ideas, and you'll miss this by restricting yourself to only speaking about "deep topics" and not exploring the surface level stuff first. A man you may initially find boring because of …
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:55 AM
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You can talk about serious topics and have them be lighthearted. When a woman recently asked what book I was reading, I mentioned that I was reading a book about the Rwanda genocide. I said "It's really a great book." Then, I paused for a moment and went "Well, I obviously mean the prose, nothing is great about genocide, but.." and she giggled. If you're a naturally nervous or anxious person, then learning to listen and ask observant questions is going to be your best friend. The worst thing you…
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:48 AM
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That's what it's about. There will be uncomfortable passages where you will have to get out of your comfort zone, but you aren't changing the person you are. If you hate sports, I'm not telling you to get fit and join a softball team. You have to be you if you want that authentic attraction. And, really, who wants to play a character for the rest of their life?
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:26 AM
2

Thanks for the support!
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:25 AM
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Thanks man!
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:25 AM
1

Keep in mind that when I say I come off like Brandon Boyd, this is what women have told me. I have the same kind of exposition and ideas about the world. Could you imagine Brandon being the alpha male club guy? No, of course not. You don't have to be. And trust me when I tell you that he doesn't get women because he's in Incubus. If that man couldn't sing a lick, the ladies would still be lining up for a chance with him. This is how I typically look and dress. http://26.media.tumblr.com/9kFjAAZG…
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:24 AM
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I rarely give my first name without being asked. Women will always bring this up if you are having a conversation that goes longer than a few sentences of meaningless "lovely weather we're having" banter. I also never ask permission. Saying "can I.." anything with a woman is the death knell of romance my friend. Don't ever ask if you can talk to her. Just begin speaking. When I catch a women looking at me, I walk up to her and use my powers of observation to strike up a conversation. As I stated…
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:11 AM
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What makes you think I'm attractive? I'm sure I am to some women, but then again I'm sure some women would think I'm hideous. It's all about finding your type. If 75 women think you're unattractive, but 25 think you're god's gift, isn't that enough to have fun and be joyful? Is it that you think I'm attractive, and that's why my stuff works, or that my mindset now has me actually believing that I am, and that's why? There's a big difference my friend.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:54 AM
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How many have you talked to? If you've only approached 5 women and they've all acted like you were some kind of freak, that's not a good enough sample size to form an objective opinion on your ability to be an attractive man.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:51 AM
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I am not aware of that, no. So, unfortunately, I have no opinion to express. What are your thoughts on it?
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:49 AM
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The allure of the artist is something that has pervaded through centuries. I don't know the meaning behind it except that it's a talent, it's unusual, and it's different than what other men do. I didn't see out to be different from other men, because as you have noticed, this is who I am. I'm not playing a character. I'm sure there are women who think I'm strange, a weirdo, or some new age California asshole, but hey, that's who I am. Take it or leave it.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:48 AM
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Thanks bud.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:46 AM
3

Well, to begin, you just have to do it. You read my first time doing it and how awkward it was. There's no way around that. You can't go from not playing a guitar to sounding like Eddie Van Halen without some horrible sounds in the moments between. The great thing is that once you get to the Eddie Van Halen level of kino, no one remembers when you couldn't even strum an E chord correctly. What I would advise if you are absolutely at square one with kino and have never been comfortable touching a…
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:45 AM
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I still smoke mary j on occasion. I find that it sparks my creativity and helps me to focus on my visual expression. It's only a vice if you let it control you.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:41 AM
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Eventually you're going to come to your dark night of the soul. We all have the existential crisis that propels us forward into what we choose to make our life purpose. It takes some longer than others. It took me 26 years. I would highly recommend devouring everything Ralph Waldo Emerson has ever written. He will help you through the tough times in your life when you don't know what to make of life. He's like the wise grandfather I never had. You can get the essential writings in a Barnes and N…
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:39 AM
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Part 2 is coming soon. ;)
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:29 AM
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Yes, my "game" is being myself and incorporating my personality into the more seductive elements. You can't pull off this drawing stuff if you aren't an artist, because it's going to seem forced. I'm sure I appear meek to the average muscle man with PUA game, but he can't intrigue and be mysterious like I can with a simple 3x5 piece of paper. I am still reserved, but I could be a lady killer if I chose to use all of my free time chasing women. Obviously, I wouldn't, that's what makes me intrigui…
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:28 AM
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No problem man. There's no one fits all approach to life. My techniques don't work on all women, but why would I want them to? There are some women I would never date. I don't see why it's so strange to have women feel the same about certain men.
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:24 AM
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I haven't been a heavy user of reddit, so I wasn't sure what it was until I researched. Thanks man!
/r/seduction19/10/13 07:23 AM
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Anyway, I get her out to the car and she is lingering. She is having conversation with me, looking straight into my eyes, and I awkwardly (god, emphasis on that word) try initiating kino by placing my hands on her rib area and tell her how cool her jacket is. Why? Who cares, I have no idea, I'm scared shitless right now. She giggles and says thanks. I keep mumbling god knows what and because she's a sweetheart, she is listening to the bullshit and still smiling. Eventually, I grab behind her nec…
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:26 AM
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3. Go where you're comfortable - Remember when I said I'm introverted and will never be the life of the party? Right. So guess where I never go to meet women? Bars and clubs! I hate bars. I don't care what time of day, what holiday, or what party is happening, I just can't deal with it. The drunks, the obnoxious bros, the bikers, and anyone else who thinks the best times in life come when you're nearly blackout drunk. I hate clubs. I love dancing, but I hate yelling over music. I hate raising my…
/r/seduction17/10/13 09:25 AM
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This seems more like an advantage to me. If a girl is in a club and overheating from dancing, the last thing she wants at that moment is another sweaty person draped all over her. I would use this to your advantage. I live in a climate that's cold at least 6 months out of the year. It's so easy if I see a woman freezing to be like "aww you look cold" hug It also is an easy way to get someone back to your place on a date. "We're totally freezing right now. Let's go drink some hot cocoa and warm u…
/r/seduction16/10/13 06:14 PM
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I think you take life far too seriously my friend lol
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:53 PM
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Think of all the perfect innuendo after the kiss. "Is the oven warmed up yet?" ba dum tiss
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:50 PM
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But I'm not asking to win because I'm not outcome dependent. It's more like "yeah, we're playing a fun game, but I don't care if win."
/r/seduction08/10/13 04:47 PM
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Of course she's interested because I didn't respond. As the women in this thread have stated, beautiful women have no problems getting attention. So when a guy they are perceiving to be like the others doesn't react negatively to her lack of affection, she gets confused. "Why doesn't this guy like me? Why isn't he bothered? What's going on?" It's exciting. Once you reciprocate, yeah you don't go 100%, it's push pull. You give attention and affection, then pull back, repeat repeat until you're bo…
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:26 AM
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Seduction is a game. Haven't you ever watched a chick flick? It's all a big game. I think you're not giving women enough credit for their intellect here. They aren't stupid. They know it's game. They just enjoy playing it because it's exciting.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:22 AM
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One of the worst things you can do. Only do this if you're genuinely teasing! If you're honestly butt hurt about it, you won't be able to hide it. If this woman flaked on me a second time, I wouldn't call her out like "you know I don't deal with people who waste my time" etc. etc. Discipline doesn't work. For example, this woman is a hair stylist, so if she flaked twice, I'd tease her next time she messaged me like "I don't get it, you're a hair stylist, I never thought you'd have a problem with…
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:20 AM
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Me too bud, but she is aware that I don't care if this interaction goes great or not. That's a powerful stance to have.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:15 AM
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I don't think it's anything serious. If she had drove out of her way, yeah, maybe a bit creepy, but you're talking about a 2 minute walk. It's not so strange.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:14 AM
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How long will I be able to keep it up? I'll let you know after she asks me that question.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:13 AM
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We work in the same strip mall. Not the same place.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:12 AM
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Me either. Too early to make any sort of assumption about that.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:11 AM
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I did. I told her that I may have to give her prize to contestant no. 2 if she keeps playing so hard to get.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:11 AM
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I did, she's attempting to make it up to me through baking.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:10 AM
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No, it's showing her that if she doesn't respect my time, she shouldn't expect me to give her the same amount of attention. I don't have any obligations to initiate a conversation with someone because they send me a text. It could be a phone call, but who gives a shit? Just because you call doesn't mean I'm obligated to answer. There's no fake tough guy aloof image here. I eventually reply, but when it's convenient for me, just like she is doing.
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:09 AM
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And that's all I'm doing. Just a little push and pull. Why would I blow up her phone like all the other dudes before me? I will initiate once in a while, otherwise I let her come to me. Do you know why it works to strategically be an aloof dick sometimes? Because it's attractive! It means I'm not desperate, it means I don't CRAVE her attention, and it means I have a life of my own outside of this woman. I know of one guy (because he used to be a coworker) that was the creepy interested guy who h…
/r/seduction08/10/13 11:04 AM
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Being mysterious doesn't mean you're some enigma with a secret life (aka you aren't batman.) It just means selectively giving away information. If a woman asks about my heritage, what's the first thing most people would do? Reveal it right away! "oh I'm and 50% " Having an aura of mystery means you say something like "what's yours?" And then let her tell you. If she says something like "I'm 100% Irish!" I wouldn't say "oh I'm 100% Italian!" I would say "you must have a crazy tolerance for alcoho…
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:46 AM
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It's nothing I've "learned" though. It just comes off the top of my head. It's like asking someone to teach you how to freestyle rap. There's nothing to teach because it's an individual act. If you want to freestyle, starting rhyming phrases that come from your brain. And, I also should mention that it wasn't a completely random riddle. She knew the band, so it was relevant to her interests. If I made a riddle about Alaska, it would've had no relevance to our convo and probably been a bit weird.
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:39 AM
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You may be right, because lately I have been getting a lot more compliments and winky faces in text messages. Things like "if I make you personally decorated cookies, can I get another riddle?" She hasn't been texting really late at night until last night. Sending me winky faces at 3am, offering to bake me things, and complimenting me and offering me gifts. It's wild, I've never had this happen before. FWIW I do want to hang out and get to know her. I'm not looking for a one night stand kinda th…
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:31 AM
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I wouldn't say I'm that good. Listen to her own words. She said essentially that I made the best first impression she's ever had. And she knows basically nothing about me except that I have artistic ability to draw and can be intelligent/clever with riddles. I don't do the whole rating scale, but this girl is ridiculously beautiful. I only mention this, because how many guys in bars, public, wherever, go up to her and basically fall all over themselves? Telling her she's hot, sexy, beautiful, et…
/r/seduction08/10/13 10:25 AM
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LOL okay Dr. Phil, thanks.
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:55 PM
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"OP isn't just going to make this girl a priority on a whim, especially after she blew him off." Thank youuuuu. Seriously don't understand what you guys aren't getting about the fact that she blew me off an hour before we were supposed to meet. And then you think I'm a dick because I don't respond to every text she sends? Hilarious, really. Not going to say anything more when she said it perfectly here for me.
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:42 AM
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She said no one has ever approached her like I have and that I was clever and very intriguing. FYI I am a musician, love reading books, can recite poetry on cue, so excuse me if I think I'm pretty fucking cool. I probably give off that vibe because I really feel that way. I don't care about what happens because I am at no loss without a woman in my life. If this doesn't work out, then it doesn't matter. I don't even know her enough to have "lost" her. I've had 3 suicide attempts in my life. I no…
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:36 AM
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Be David Caruso in JADE. Ohhhhhhh.....
/r/seduction06/10/13 08:26 AM
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No, I'm just being playful, not an asshole. Everything I've done up to this point has been a light tease. She has reciprocated with giving me attention and saying she is enjoying herself, thinks I'm intriguing, and thinks the riddles are great. I genuinely like her so far and am enjoying the fact that she isn't uptight and having fun playing along. This isn't a ploy to get in her pants so I can go "LOL SUCKER" and move on. I'm just trying to make her comfortable and enjoy herself.
/r/seduction05/10/13 08:05 PM
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And how are you getting that vibe? I haven't blown off a date with her, so I fail to see your point about me being flaky. I haven't been strategically ignoring her, I've been busy with other people who were more respectful of my time. Now that she is being respectful with my time, she's getting my attention. There is no game being run.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:49 PM
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That's a good point, something I would never think of doing because it's really ballsy and I'm just starting to figure this stuff out. I'm still working on the "just kidding but not really" sly style with my voice. I'm afraid I'd currently come off like an asshole. But thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:43 PM
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I have another tattoo of a band I like. She noticed that one as well and pointed it out. The tattoo she asked about first was a lyric from that band. So, I drew a series of pictures that related to songs from that band and with little snippets of lyrics at the bottom. She figured it out.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:42 PM
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Oh, of course. I told her maybe I'll hang with her Sunday if she can figure out the riddle in a very playful way. To me, that's giving her a "pet" if you will. I sure hope no one is reading this interaction and thinking I am seriously saying I won't hang out with her if she can't figure it out. I'm teasing her. She seems to be enjoying herself.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:39 PM
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You're reading into this far too much my friend. Women like to be seduced. This is all a tease. All I'm doing is slowly seducing her and not letting her get what she wants right away. Not once have I been a jerk to her or completely ignored her. I'm just giving her bits and pieces instead of letting her have the whole plate right away. I'm not "running game" or giving her pick-up lines. Every interaction we've had has been genuine. I don't used canned PUA material dude. It's funny how she doesn'…
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:36 PM
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No bunny boiler vibe. Has big beautiful green ones though.
/r/seduction05/10/13 07:05 PM
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My tattoo says "in sex, there is truth" in Latin. So, naturally she saw the tattoo and asked what it meant. I asked her what she thought it meant. She said she didn't know, so I said google is your friend. She was all "aww I can't reception in here so I can't check." I asked her to give me paper and a pen, so I drew a picture along with the riddle of how to figure out the tattoo (it's an easy find if you know where to look) and gave it to her. I gave her my # and told her that she can message me…
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:46 PM
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Hmm, maybe play a little harder to get next time with the first one. You said you chatted all the way up to the day before our get together, but what has worked for me is to NOT talk to them. I approached this woman and we exchanged #'s, but that's the only time I ever came to her. She messaged me first, came to me at work, initiates the text convos, etc. I never send her texts like "good morning! :)" or "how's your day?" or whatever other mundane stuff I'm sure 20 other guys trying to get with …
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:36 PM
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No dude, I totally agree. I was just being unnecessarily bitter because flaking was part of my daily life in the past, so it drummed up old feelings. I did play it cool though. And, in the defense of the women in my past, it was my fault for being a wimpy bitch.
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:18 PM
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Yeah, I have no idea how I played that so cool. I surprised myself. I guess this sub is working for me. I have been answering all her questions with one of my own. Aka, she asked what my heritage was, so instead of telling her, I asked what hers was. The riddle had a wolf, so she asked what my power animal was. I asked her what animal does she think I am? Just little shit like that. I have been basically mindfucking her since she flaked. I sometimes second guess myself thinking I'm being ridicul…
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:14 PM
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Oh yeah, she's gorgeous. I just didn't care the day she flaked because I called another girl I had been trying to get with and just hung out with her instead. I'm not used to courting super attractive girls, so ignoring her was about the last thing I would EVER do because the old me would be desperately afraid of losing the attention of such a hot girl. Now since she flaked I don't care what happens lol
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:03 PM
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What do you mean? Wednesday to Friday night does not = 6 days. We spoke last night in person too.
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:02 PM
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How is that? (Using the attention to my advantage, not the crazy part.)
/r/seduction05/10/13 06:00 PM
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Haha, getting a crazy vibe?
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:27 PM
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I'm on a mobile phone and new to Reddit, so I'm not sure how to do the fancy quotes, so you'll have to bear with my old school methods. "I was not trolling. My phrasing was pointed, but was not "inflammatory" in the slightest. It's the wrong place is not accurate. r/feminisms claims to be exactly the place to discuss the intersections of feminism... intersectionality is all about problematic class and power structures." By the way you phrased it, you weren't looking for rational discussion of an…
/r/MensRights02/06/13 06:56 AM
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Give me a break, man. You were trolling. I think you knew exactly what you were doing, because it's phrased in a way that's meant to be inflammatory. If you want to have debate, then do it, but don't go about it in that way. Not to mention, it's the wrong place to attack someone who is doing a lot of good in this world for people. You don't go into a reddit where blacks talk about racism they deal with and say, "yeah, but look at this black speaker only talking about black racism! Whites have to…
/r/MensRights01/06/13 10:19 PM
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