What's up? Gatsby here. Figured I'd start giving you guys a few more field reports since I still get messages about my introvert seduction guide.

I'm hanging out tonight (alone) at a place in town that's a hotel/bar/resort, but way upscale. Not the local dive where every bro asshole loves to hang out. I like to hang here and read a book, maybe see some people I know (or don't know) and play a game of chess. Whatever shit I like to do. A few minutes into my night, this hot little blonde (I'm guessing 5'0) starts invading my space to order a drink. I don't say anything, but she looks toward me and I give her the look.

Now let me tell you about this "look."

The look is what I give when I know a beautiful woman that knows she's beautiful is trying to come at me and get my attention, but I make her work for it. I don't fall all over myself in the presence of a beautiful woman and become eager like I care at all if she talks to me or not. Now, this is hard to fake, because I'm not joking, I don't actually care. This can only come from speaking to so many beautiful women that you realize there aren't any inherent "special" qualities they have over other women other than being a lot prettier. And, even this will eventually fade. Plus, none of them look like they do in the morning without makeup. Trust me.

Anyway, here is the look. When a woman invades my space and locks eyes with me, I look her dead in the eyes and raise my eyebrows and nod my head, as if to say "Yeah, I see you. What's up?" 9/10 the woman will engage me first, because she doesn't want to sit in silence and have it be awkward. Me? I don't care. I will sit in silence and make it awkward if I have to.

She says "Hi, how are you? I'm Abby." I tell her I'm great. She notices one of my bracelets and says "like yoga?" I go into my spiel about how I've studied it intensely, how I live by a lot of Buddhist beliefs, etc. I noticed a cross necklace she was wearing and said, "I noticed your necklace. Not a Jesus freak, are you?" She says that she is, believes passionately, how come I don't believe? I tell her that I don't see anything wrong with gay marriage, homosexuality in general, and a few other things that irk me about mainstream Christianity. She says she supports none of that.

Now, here is the key. A beta man will let her get away with that shit and say, "yeah, to each their own I guess." But me with my masculine mentality? I'm calling her on that shit ASAP. I look her dead in the face and say "Why are you such a bigot Abby? We could've been cool." She gets a crushed look on her face and says "I'm confused. Are you joking.." I said "The idea of gay couples being married is unacceptable to you. Homosexuality is wrong in your eyes. What part aren't you getting? Unless you're lying." She fires back with "I never said it was wrong, it's not for us to judge, it's for God to judge." "Just unacceptable then?" She says "so you basically think I'm an asshole?"

Again, here is a beautiful woman that is trying to gain my approval. She is not used to being challenged, not used to men not bending over for her. At this point, she's probably expecting me to concede and say "oh no, you're not an asshole. I'm sorry, I think you're great! I was just saying.." But do I? No, of course not. She spends the next 5 minutes qualifying herself to me, trying to justify why she's a great person and all that. Keep in mind I never asked her to do any of that. This is all her. I'm letting her talk, shooting down her ideas and telling her my opinion. At one point, she stops and gives me sexy eyes and says "you love arguing, huh?" I said "Just curious. I don't hear an argument." Finally, she says "Well, we are both entitled to our opinions." I said "Yep." I turned the other way and she walked away.

About 10 minutes later, she's back. She gives my shoulder a poke and says, "So what's your philosophy? Do you believe in anything?" I tease her with an American History X line and say "I believe in death, destruction, chaos, filth, and greed!" She laughs and says "what's your name by the way?" I tell her my name and we chat for a few more minutes, then I let her walk away again.

Now, here comes the shocker of the night. Another woman comes up to me just a few minutes later and engages. She looks me right in the face and tells me "You seem like an interesting person to talk to, I'm Abby's friend." I tell her "Oh great, this is the 'let's try to convert the bar guy to Christianity' plot isn't it? Are you guys gonna gang up on me?" She's another hot blonde, just like her friend, but a bit taller. And this girl starts running game on me. She's telling me how she's not Christian at all, thinks Abby is way too devout, how she is more of a believer in Buddhism and generally being nice to people and not judging their beliefs. She thinks of God as an energy source, but not an entity. Keep in mind, I have never met or spoke to this woman in my life, so this Abby girl was telling her friend all of our previous conversations. This new girl is spending the entire conversation qualifying herself on why she's so much better than Abby. I get her #, leave the bar. I didn't get Abby's # because I didn't want to. She was a Jesus freak, and I don't have time to deal with that bullshit.

And this is why masculine behavior works. Women don't want me to bend over and act like it's some huge favor that I get a beautiful woman to talk to me. If I had given in to her questions, didn't call her out for being a bigot and challenge her, guess what happens? Attraction is gone. If I had said "well, I guess I can understand why you feel that way about gay marriage, we are all entitled to our opinion!" Guarantee she would've walked away and said "Yes. Have a good night!" And I would've never heard from her again. Is it "nice" to call someone you barely know a bigot? Probably not, but I don't know Abby, and I have no investment to her in this interaction, so if she gets pissed and storms off, what do I care? If I dominate the conversation, don't give in to her questioning, and turn away when I get bored and let her walk away, guess what happens? She wants it. Bad. And, look what happened with the other girl. I don't know how close these girls were, but this chick was backstabbing this Abby girl who she claims is her friend, all for a chance to get some of my dick.

Why? Because I'm a challenge. She is the one who came up to me and said I was interesting. This is what Seddit means when they say "be a challenge." This interaction is a textbook example of how to be difficult while also maintaining an undertone of seduction. It's also a great example of how to display masculine behavior without turning into the textbook "alpha bro" that every introvert fears becoming.

Lessons of the day.

  1. Be difficult (I've given you examples of how to do this effectively)

  2. Let them walk away

  3. Display dominant masculine behavior

Now go approach some women and try my methods out.