JayTheKing981 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Question about touching and vulnerability		JayTheKing981	/r/seduction	23/03/22 12:24 PM
1	Balancing serious and funny in conversations	Conversation	JayTheKing981	/r/seduction	24/09/22 10:25 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	What lesson took you the longest to unlearn ? Escalating touch when a woman is neutral wont make you seem confident and she wont suddenly see you sexualy. You have to calibrate or you are a creep.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 01:04 PM
1	I’m a mid twenties kissless virgin and I feel like I will lose everything good in my life that I’ve worked hard for if I don’t get laid soon. Yeah, I have gone for touch and kiss earlier than I should have just because we were on a date so she must want to as well. Not as simple apparently and I ended up creeping them out	/r/seduction	22/10/22 03:59 PM
1	I’m a mid twenties kissless virgin and I feel like I will lose everything good in my life that I’ve worked hard for if I don’t get laid soon. Been doing social circle and hobbies and I seem to encounter some issues. The moment I find a girl who seems interested I will ask her out/make moves quickly in fear of another guy getting with her before me. I have been told I move too fast by a couple of girls. Any suggestion on fixing that? Also what do you mean by hard attractive features?	/r/seduction	22/10/22 01:36 PM
2	I've got this feeling most of the people here don't want to grow or change. In fact, I've got this feeling that most people are here to have their world-view reinforced. The thing with social circles is that while people can enjoy your company and invite you out, the girls might still find you undesirable for anything more. I am in that situation and I cant really tell what to change. I can make assumptions and try to change certain aspects of my personality but it is not a guarantee that it will help. I know that ''something'' has to change, I am just not sure how to find it	/r/seduction	07/10/22 07:32 AM
1	How do some of you always know what to say? You can start by asking the basic question ''how did you get into that'' or make an assumption about the thing being discussed. If you cant think of an assumption on the spot dont panic but later or next day try to think of something you could have said. Also the other person has to engage you too, dont put the blame on yourself	/r/seduction	03/09/22 06:51 PM
1	Question about touching and vulnerability >Finding a balance of when to touch and when to show vulnerability (or not), is based on context, how well you know her, how attracted she seems, and so on and so forth. You have to adjust to every situation Cant that take more than a few hours though? From what I have read it is either you pull it off within 2-3 hours or you get friendzoned, which I can understand in a party/nightclub setting, but why rush in an environment that you will meet more often	/r/seduction	23/03/22 02:12 PM
2	Question about touching and vulnerability Yes, I often rush because of the ''act fast or get friendzoned rule'' that seems to exist, like there is a timer with every woman I want to get with.	/r/seduction	23/03/22 02:05 PM