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| 0 | Sex guide for beginners?This book is great. | /r/seduction | 05/06/15 09:48 PM |
| 8 | How often should you be seeing a girl?This. I think 2-3 times a week is plenty if you're not exclusive (or maybe even if you are exclusive). | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/14 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Kill Your Inner Raymond: Demanding More from Yourself, Women, and the WorldGlad you enjoyed it! | /r/seduction | 04/11/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Ok Redpill, We need to talk about this. Mods need to take action before we are over-runThis. 100% this. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/13 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Recently broke up with my GF because of alleged cheating, need help.Trust me, brother: I've been in your shoes, got back with the girl, and it was a HUGE mistake. Time to move on. There's nothing but more pain and heartache with this girl if you get back together. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/13 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill Movies!"Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill Movies!How-to what? I love the film but I'm not sure I understand your point. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/13 02:26 AM |
| 4 | Tonight I finally got "That girl" that we all have. I just want to thank you guys, so, so god damn muchShould a guy like this still keep trying ? Are you trolling? I don't think there is anyone on this sub who would say "No." | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone recommend good redpill books and blogs for people who are married and want to better their relationshiphttp://www.solvemygirlproblems.com My pick for the best, most concise relationship game advice on the web. Enjoy. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/13 05:43 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill role models in movie and televisionHumphrey Bogart in just about anything. Perhaps "Casablanca" aside. Rhett Butler (Clark Gable) in Gone With the Wind. "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn." The hamster is strong in Scarlett. Sean Connery as Bond. I would also argue Daniel Craig as Bond (for the most part). | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/13 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Patrice O'neal: Leading professor at TRP UniversityIf you dig Patrice, make sure to check out the Beige Philip Show. A sort of spiritual sequel to Patrice's Black Philip Show. Dig: http://www.beigephillip.com Edit: spelling. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/13 01:50 AM |
| 19 | My dad described himself as MGTOW.Do you think he is happy? Serious question. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/13 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that.The OP gives the impression that it was an amicable parting and a well-considered move on his part, but what's more: I don't think any man needs a "reason" to break up with a woman. Be classy and gentlemanly when you end things, sure, but I don't think you should have to justify to others why you chose to end a relationship. Life is too short to commit to something that you're not feeling 100% about. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 07:38 PM |
| 8 | Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that."Bigger and better things" sounds like the opposite of trivial to me. Anyway, obviously only the OP knows whether or not he made the right move. I just want to give him kudos for knowing when to peace out. Too many guys don't. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 04:58 PM |
| 10 | Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that.Now onto bigger and better things Sounds like the right move to me. | /r/seduction | 02/08/13 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming oneitis for an Ex? Advice, please.http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/category/get-over-a-girl-get-back-an-ex-girlfriend-break-ups/ | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Is Zen the ultimate Red Pill?I'd also strongly recommend "Zen Mind, Beginner's Mind" by Shunryu Suzuki. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/13 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Have fun. Its the tip that everyone is forgetting.Which one of these should be making me nervous? That's fantastic. Very well put. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 02:32 AM |
| -1 | Texting Rules For When You've Already Landed The Girl?How on Earth is this comment getting downvoted to oblivion?? | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 11:20 PM |
| -22 | Texting Rules For When You've Already Landed The Girl?You lost me at "Dude, are you retarded?" | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 09:31 PM |
| 3 | How to Hold Conversation Like a Man | Nick SparksIn a single word: presence. There is nothing sexier to a woman than your complete, non-needy presence. Embrace the now. Check out Eckhart Tolle's masterwork "The Power of Now" for more info. It's a terrific read. | /r/seduction | 29/06/13 03:02 PM |
| 2 | At the mid-way point of the Above The Game kickstarter campaign... AMA about the book, girls, whatever!What will make your book different from other pickup material out there? Where is all of the money going? | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 03:07 PM |
| 1 | 25 little things you can do to make your partner love you even more"Attach a mat to your back so she can walk all over it with greater ease." | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Red pill analysis of The Great Gatsby movie. For those that have seen it and thought past the cinematics, please punch in.I had a very similar interpretation of the film. Fitzgerald himself was a beta in many ways, whose main ambition was holding onto his crazy wife at any cost. His wife's insanity just about destroyed his talent, and his career. Some revealing glimpses into his character in Hemingway's "A Moveable Feast," for the curious. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/13 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Question was asked "What women want in a man?" This reply stood outAre you on to the Beige Phillip show yet? I was initially skeptical (huge shoes to fill), but it's fantastic. http://www.beigephillip.com | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Abroad: How do you Approach in a Foreign Country?I can imagine that it would be difficult in your situation. White dudes have the exotic factor going on. What might work in your favour is that you're not -- from what I can tell -- creepy and local. I say do what you can to make that known. Act like a baus NRI and you'll be treated like one. So many guys in India are whipped beyond belief. Show the girls there that there can be another way. PM me any time -- I'll be curious to hear how you make out. Also: not from the Bay, or the US. I'm not su… | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Question was asked "What women want in a man?" This reply stood outRest in Peace, Pimp. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/05/13 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Seddit Abroad: How do you Approach in a Foreign Country?You're going to need luck, persistence, more luck, alcohol, and sound logistics. If we're talking about Indian girls, it's a hella difficult game over there -- if you're white, can demonstrate sound social proof, have a classy-esque place to bring her back to (ie. not a shitty backpacker hotel/hostel), escalate escalate escalate, and are ok with holding her by the hand and leading her through, you might get lucky. But for the most part, it's pretty frustrating. Also, many backpacker chicks in In… | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Abroad: How do you Approach in a Foreign Country?Jealous! Enjoy your time there. Re: your question. There are certainly many universally attractive traits, behaviours, etc. but there are often large differences between cultures when it comes to dating and sex. I can give you some pointers for gaming girls in India, but it might not help you for your time in Spain. I suggest you post something asking for advice for dealing with Spanish girls specifically. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Seddit Abroad: How do you Approach in a Foreign Country?Where are you? | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Looking for wings in Seoul.Really? I've heard conflicting reports about the ease of picking up in South Korea. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 05:17 PM |
| 3 | Seduction and relationshipsSee here. Read closely. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 08:10 PM |
| 1 | A little bit about what seduction has meant to me as a reforming AFC now in an LTR, and some helpful advice I learned on the way. And a big thank you!A blogger on game named Shark. He posted frequently for a couple of years, leaving an impressive and extremely valuable body of work, and then disappeared. His archives live on here, and his book The Black Flag is still for sale on the site. Just in the interest of clarification: I'm not him, I just plug his stuff because it is fantastic. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 09:52 PM |
| 1 | A little bit about what seduction has meant to me as a reforming AFC now in an LTR, and some helpful advice I learned on the way. And a big thank you!I'm always blown away by how few people (relatively speaking) are aware of his work. Absolute legend. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 08:18 PM |
| 8 | A little bit about what seduction has meant to me as a reforming AFC now in an LTR, and some helpful advice I learned on the way. And a big thank you!Well done, chum. Don't make the same mistake I did, however, and revert to AFC-esque, needy behaviour just because you've got a cool chick who you want to keep around. I share this blog on here all the time, but I do so because it's the best resource on LTR game on the web. Enjoy. | /r/seduction | 09/05/13 12:41 PM |
| 17 | Why are woman attracted to confidence?"It ain't why, it just is." - Van Morrison | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Just curious, what's your age and how many girls have you slept with?As someone who once lost a comparable amount of weight, let me tell you: keep practicing, flirting, etc. regardless of how the scale reads. Throughout my own weight loss process, I had a similar mindset, and I really regret it. Wasted almost a year of prime gaming time because I was waiting to look "perfect." Don't make the same mistake I did. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | From Proto-Red Pill to Swallowing the Pill Whole: My JourneyI feel you re: Seddit becoming one big circle jerk. And I think I understand your perspective better now. My original comment was borne out of something I've been wrestling with a lot lately: how do you successfully initiate other men into red pill thinking? I know so many men who I know would benefit immensely from the manosphere, but I know that they would be extremely resistant initially, as I was (me, and most of my friends are academic-types and very much products of the modern, feminized u… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/13 12:47 AM |
| 1 | From Proto-Red Pill to Swallowing the Pill Whole: My JourneyGood on you, chum. I would strongly suggest reading all of these articles, if you haven't already. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 09:08 PM |
| 1 | From Proto-Red Pill to Swallowing the Pill Whole: My JourneyTo me, this is the problem with so much on this subreddit. When I was introduced to "the red pill" a number of months ago, I was instinctively on the defensive. So many of the guys who posted about related issues on the manosphere are condescending and unnecessarily bitter, and I was initially unenthusiastic about delving deeper. Now, several months later, I accept most of TRP premises, and feel lucky to have gained an invaluable new perspective on relationship dynamics, masculinity, and the man… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/04/13 09:07 PM |
| 2 | [Life Report] How Seddit Changed My Life: A Thank YouWhich philosopher? Alan Watts had a similar impact on me. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 04:49 PM |
| 1 | David Deida (Way of the Superior Man) on shit testsHis "Enlightened Sex" is terrific as well. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 04:48 PM |
| 2 | David Deida (Way of the Superior Man) on shit testsWould you be angry at a horse for being a horse, and acting like horses do? | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Is going to a Daniel Johnston concert on a first date a good idea?This made me laugh out loud (no disrespect, to you or Daniel). It all depends on your intentions, but if you play it right it could work out. (Drinks at some stage are recommended.) | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 02:45 AM |
| 2 | I have a serious problem with oneitis and could use your guys' help.Food for thought. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, Where should I start learning this for a man(20) in my life's position? (4 years went to an all boys high school)I strongly suggest familiarizing yourself with the principles outlined here. The relationship advice and Alpha sections are the best. Start reading. EDIT: Spelling. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Regarding Marriage & long-term relationshipsI think the best blog out there (RIP, unfortunately) for LTR and/or marriage advice from a red-pill-esque perspective is http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/13 09:03 PM |
| 11 | Also useful for short-term seductionThis was terrific. Thanks for sharing. | /r/seduction | 18/04/13 07:39 PM |
| 1 | What music do you like to play when you bring a girl back?This might be the best sex album of all time. D'Angelo FTW. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Had a two and a half hour conversation over the phone, feeling good.Take it or leave it, but: 2 and a half hours on the phone? Good lord. I don't think I've ever had a phone conversation that lasted longer than an hour, nevermind with a woman. I think some moderation might be helpful here. Remember to maintain mystery, mon frere. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 06:13 PM |
| 1 | "Hey you" -- hearing these two simple words means that you have a good shot at getting laidThere often is on Heartiste posts. The trick is sorting through the rubbish for bits of gold. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 04:52 PM |
| 1 | "Hey you" -- hearing these two simple words means that you have a good shot at getting laidAlso: Canada represent | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Podcasts/AudiobooksI highly recommend you check out the Black Philip Show. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 05:41 AM |
| 27 | So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place?"Would you care to come upstairs and take a look at my etchings?" NOTE: There are no etchings. | /r/seduction | 09/04/13 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Men/Women of Seddit, I had oneitis relapse, I forgot about abundance, and I got played for a fool, /startrantIt sounds like you learned from it, and are a stronger and better man because of it. Regarding oneitis and the like: this website has been a major help for me. I strongly recommend you check out the "Alpha" and "Relationship Advice" sections. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 06:30 PM |
| 8 | Seddits: let's talk about hygiene for both parties before f closing!Gentleman's wash for you. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill Music? Just realized half my fucking playlist is bullshit love songs, even some of the rap songs revolve around chasing a girl.The Rat Pack! Jam to some Dean, Frank and Sammy. Life is good, brother. Also, depending on your taste: Fela Kuti. Motherfucker was alpha as fuck. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/13 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I think I'm in the right area.I wasn't trying to be snarky. I just think that it's a non-starter for a discussion if you don't have confidence, and are looking for pointers on how to get better with women. Improve your confidence and everything else follows. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 07:55 PM |
| 5 | I think I'm in the right area.I'd love to know what you guys think my problem is... Alright. I've always had low confidence and hardly ever talk to girls... Done. | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 07:00 PM |
| 1 | I just found out my girlfriend likes a specific race, and it's killing my confidence.You will lose her if you can't get over this. Insecurity kills attraction -- I know from experience. Work on yourself, work on your confidence, grow into a better man. I might also add that if she's dropping hints that she's into other people, she might not be worth your time in the first place. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you best defend yourselves from having a SO cheat on you? What do you look for in a partner, and what do you do in a relationship, to protect yourself from cheating?I think the short (and most obvious) answer is to never stop working on yourself. Be alpha. There is no easy or simple answer to your question, but the more you work on yourself and believe that you are the best man you can be, the more she will believe that you are the best man for her. And, if she honestly thinks that you're the best man for her, she is much less likely to cheat. Also, if the girl in question has a history of cheating, it's a red flag. That is not to suggest that people can't … | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 03:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you best defend yourselves from having a SO cheat on you? What do you look for in a partner, and what do you do in a relationship, to protect yourself from cheating?From the best LTR game blog on the internet: You cannot stop her from cheating by being overprotective. What you can do is draw a line in the sand and tell both her and yourself that if she chooses to risk your relationship in that way, it’s over. But asking her “who are you going out with?” trying to keep her from hanging out with slutty friends, or butchering her with interrogative questions will never, ever prevent her from cheating. If a girl WANTS to cheat on you, she will find a way to che… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I get scared a lot, so I created a site that will send me stories about fearless leaders twice a week in order to help me become a badass. Think it'll work?Terrific idea for a site. Well done. Attractive layout, btw. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?1.) Resist the temptation to put her on a pedestal. Don't do it. 2.) Never stop cultivating your inner alpha. 3.) Do not let her be your everything, ever. 4.) Read this. Then read it again. 5.) This website is also your friend. 6.) Seriously. Kick her off of that pedestal right now. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, what are your favorite seduction resources outside of Seddit?http://solvemygirlproblems.com The best resource for LTR game that I've ever encountered. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 05:59 PM |
| 2 | itsmevichet's BS-free Guide to Dancing in a ClubThis should be sidebar'd, or something. It's important for an aspiring ladies man to know how to dance. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Notes from my Social Psychology professor on AttractionCould you (or someone else on here) expand on "the best way to view a relationship ending?" I'm not sure I understand. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 11:16 PM |
| 2 | On Why You Should Never Take Dating Advice from WomenConfirmed. Lesbians are GREAT wingmen (wingwomen?). I encourage all Seddittors to seek out a lesbian friend. | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 11:13 PM |
| 7 | I have a tip for you. Before going, go to r/dirtypenpals and look at the female submissions there... Stay with me.I feel an AMA coming on... | /r/seduction | 14/03/13 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Since writing our top post on relationships, “My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the Girl,” I’ve helped a lot of Sedditors via PM. I’m now a professional dating coach specializing in relationships. AMA!Respect for the Beatles poster in the background. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Developing social proof and a decent social circle?I've been there re: grad school, breakup from hell, "what does it all mean?" etc. It gets better. Sounds hollow I'm sure, but trust me -- it does get better. Approach, approach, approach. Also -- get in better shape. Again, might sound obvious/hollow, but it really does positively impact one's confidence. Especially for intellectuals -- speaking for myself, after my first big breakup I lost a bunch of weight and started running. Getting out of my head in a big way. Did wonders for my game. | /r/seduction | 11/03/13 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Complacency will kill your game. My seduction story thus far.Thanks for sharing, brother. For people interested/married/in LTRs, I just shared this terrific blog that deals with maintaining attraction in a relationship. Highly recommended. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 08:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you remain 'alpha' while in a relationship?This is the finest manifesto on game and relationships I've ever read. | /r/seduction | 07/02/13 06:36 PM |
| 4 | Have any of you guys "given up" after years and years of trying to improve? I'm very close to.Man, "only having sex" can bring happiness? The only person who can make you happy is you. No pussy on the planet can make you happy -- that's your job. You. You are responsible for your own experience. I would also preach caution re: Chateau Heartiste. Don't get me wrong, some of his stuff is brilliant - I'm thinking specifically of the Sixteen Commandments - and has helped me a great deal, but there's a whole lot of misogyny in between. The community that has embraced that blog is incredibly n… | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 12:59 AM |
| 7 | Have any of you guys "given up" after years and years of trying to improve? I'm very close to.I should also note that I don't want to suggest that "sorting out" depression is a walk in the park. I've gone through some dark periods in my life, for sure. What helped me was exercise, and meditation. I adopted a ketogenic diet, lost a bunch of weight and got into much better shape, which was great for the self-esteem. Meditation has always been a huge help as well (and is EXCELLENT for maintaining equanimity in my interactions with women). I'm not suggesting this will work for you, but at th… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:49 AM |
| 27 | Have any of you guys "given up" after years and years of trying to improve? I'm very close to.You will have little to no success with women if you don't like yourself. It sounds so obvious, but we all too often forget it: why on Earth would anyone else like us if even we don't like ourselves? I'm sure you've heard it before. My advice to you would be to stop putting pressure on yourself re: your interactions with women, and work on yourself. That's it. If you have some mental health issues, take the necessary steps to sort them out. Hit the gym, or do something physical (I'm more of an i… | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice to get back into the gameBad man... | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 12:31 AM |
| 2 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.Colour me interested. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 11:06 PM |
| 3 | My transformation. Thank you Seddit.Congrats, chum! Sounds like a great story. If you ever feel like elaborating further on how you went from brokenheart to player, I'm sure the community would be interested to read. | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 10:32 PM |
| 136 | Useful seduction facts.That's some Bond shit right there. 20 mins seems a bit much though, no? | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Musings on an aspect of Inner-game. Sincerity with self, and Sincerity in interaction. What do you think?Very solid post. It seems to me that your "sincerity" is another man's "mindfulness." As a meditator who is also interested in game, I've noticed an improvement in all of my relations with the opposite sex when I practice mindfulness in my interactions with them. Relevant: stop listening to your iPod all of the time. I don't always abide by this, but taking time to be totally present in whatever you're doing often yields extraordinary results. You can take greater pleasure in the beautiful women… | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 08:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm in a relationship as of today. Just thinking out loud. Advice would be cool, too.Wow, this is all rock solid advice. I will just reiterate to NOT overdo it with the complements. She should never expect complements from you, especially regarding her looks. Another thing to keep in mind, and which has helped to guide me in my relationship(s), is to (for the most part) not TELL her that you find her attractive, but actively SHOW her. Aside from being a hell of a lot more fun, you can be more creative and original this way. One more thing: although I definitely demonstrate the f… | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 07:32 AM |
| 11 | I'm in a relationship as of today. Just thinking out loud. Advice would be cool, too.Also: don't be like my flatmate downstairs. He's been with his girlfriend for a while, and all they do is sit at home in front of a television on their laptops. GTFO, mon frere. Don't stop actively "dating" her, if you catch my drift. He's fairly dense, and I don't think he yet sees that bored look in her eyes. I do. | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 03:35 AM |
| 20 | I'm in a relationship as of today. Just thinking out loud. Advice would be cool, too.DON'T STOP BEING AWESOME. I'll take a moment to clarify. As a man your age in a LTR with a woman I'm really into, I've noticed that the tendency is to become overly invested and, in the process, neglect the aspects of myself that attracted her to me in the first place. This is pretty much standard advice, but don't stop talking to other women, being flirtatious, doing your own thing, going out without her, pursuing your interests independently from her, etc. etc. No matter how much you like her,… | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 03:33 AM |
| 9 | How do you keep a girl interested after a while?If you rely on money to keep a woman interested, you're going to have a bad time. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Hello, I'm new here and planning to stick around for a while.Welcome -- you'll certainly find a lot of good advice on this forum. Start with the sidebar... | /r/seduction | 21/01/13 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Girl im interested in keeps bringing up my ex girlfriend... Is this a shit test?Congrats for staying relatively unphased by your ex getting engaged. After four years together that's pretty intense. Also: methinks it's a shit-test. Deflect or escalate, IMO. | /r/seduction | 19/01/13 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How to create and maintain sexual tension in a long term relationship? (Books, web pages or posts)It's not for everyone, but David Deida's "The Way of the Superior Man" has helped me out a ton in terms of maintaining a LTR. Also, tread with caution on this site (lots of misogyny -- often quite a downer), but there is much wisdom to be found here. | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Going on a date for the first time in a long, long time. Any advice welcomeAbove all else make sure you RELAX before you take her out. If it's been a while since you've had a date she might smell it on you, and you don't want that. Re: convo. Keep it light and funny. No need to delve into anything too heavy for a first date. Be calm, cool, collected, and "easy" in your self. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on Facebook MessagingI was speaking to a larger point about text game more generally. In this instance I would definitely initiate contact (go get 'em, OP!). | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on Facebook MessagingThis is terrific. "YOU: {nothing}" I make it a point to only very rarely initiate textual contact. Roissy's two thirds rule applies here as well. (Give her two texts for every three she sends your way.) Guys who are constantly on their cell phones look preoccupied and insecure. | /r/seduction | 19/12/12 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you use game in an LTR?Take everything from Chateau Heartiste with a spoonful of salt, but the Sixteen Commandments should form the basis of relationship game, IMHO. | /r/seduction | 18/12/12 05:45 AM |
| 2 | When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"?I'm not sure, I've yet to encounter that in the field. Hopefully some more experienced PUA's will chime in soon. I think I would do something along the lines of (casually, jokingly) calling her out for being flaky/trying to be cool. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 06:42 PM |
| 1 | When I remind a girl about our date tomorrow, she said "oh yeah I forgot about that" but it's still on. Was this a "shit test"?I would say almost certainly yes. | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 06:24 PM |
| 3 | The blog Chateau Heartiste has a ton of good info - what's your favorite post from this goldmine of information?This. So much of this. His Sixteen Commandments, and his series on Relationship Game are terrific, but I too have stopped visiting his blog regularly. After a couple of years of checking it daily, I noticed that Roissy and the majority of his readership had begun to seriously skew my perspective on women and dating. Game seems much less fun and fulfilling through Roissy's eyes. | /r/seduction | 27/11/12 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Reading more is a common recommendation. What are your favorite (not necessarily pick up related) books?I think "The Book" by Alan Watts, and "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida would be of interest to many of the members of this forum. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 09:19 PM |
| 1 | In a relationship-- how to keep the Seddit vibe? I'm feeling like I'm becoming a little beta bitch.Certainly not. That blog is the product of a mysterious character named "Roissy." | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 06:20 PM |
| 3 | In a relationship-- how to keep the Seddit vibe? I'm feeling like I'm becoming a little beta bitch.This is all terrific advice. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:33 AM |
| 4 | In a relationship-- how to keep the Seddit vibe? I'm feeling like I'm becoming a little beta bitch.I can relate. This blog (if you're not already familiar) has a lot of great stuff on relationship game and has helped me out a lot. Otherwise, I would be thrilled to hear more from the community regarding beta backsliding. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Just out of a long term relationship - trying to get back into the swing of things!My advice to you is to go to Chateau Heartiste, read the Sixteen Commandments, and explore. Have fun. | /r/seduction | 23/07/12 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Recommended books for people looking to improve inner game and social skills? A few listed inside.The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. A bit overly New Agey in some places, but a tremendous read regardless. | /r/seduction | 10/07/12 05:15 AM |
| 4 | My Relationship Manifesto: What To Do After You Get the GirlFor more on relationship game, I can't recommend Chateau Heartiste highly enough. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 02:15 AM |
| 1 | The real truth behind shit-tests [long read]I would also highly recommend the audio series that is meant to accompany the book. | /r/seduction | 04/05/12 01:41 PM |
| 2 | We are Simple Pickup AMABut seriously, they chafe and I hate them. | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:51 AM |
| 6 | We are Simple Pickup AMADon't you hate pants? | /r/seduction | 02/02/12 03:51 AM |
| 2 | SEDDIT PODCASTWould seriously appreciate some content related to LTR game. | /r/seduction | 31/01/12 02:27 PM |
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