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No, and ex's depend on how close they were, or how much he cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 02:11 AM
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1) What's your N count? 35ish/ age 38 2) Age you lost virginity? 15? 3) Current number of partners/relationship status? 0, single 4) Ever have a hookup or FWB as a teen? Yes 5) Pill identity Purple
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 12:31 AM
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Haven't heard José, but have heard of Sancho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:57 PM
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Since vegetarian is taken, doesn't smoke weed, or somehow consumes cannabis. I don't care if she's just, "cool with it, and didn't mind an ex doing it..." not good enough. I just turned down meeting a pretty nurse over that. There's things that are just so much fun and funny things to do together, it's a bonding experience in its own right. Eat some edibles and go grocery shopping, or on a plane, and tell me it can't be an adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:08 PM
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Have you seen the show Californication? There's a character on there named Charlie that tried that. and it didn't work out so well for him. It would probably end up with me being hooked up with some guy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:08 PM
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Yes, there's even a saying, "No matter how hot woman is, there's some guy somewhere who's tired of her shit." Yes, this is why you occasionally ses people post about seeing some hot guy walking around with a woman that he looks out of her league; people can care more about other things than how good her selfie game is. You can "bring it" in other ways. Girls can be so cool that it helps them be attractive, for example. This is a both sexes sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:27 PM
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Not going to argue with affirmative action being a bad idea, and counterproductive. It does seem like one of those things that looked good on paper, but doesn't work out like that in real life. Ok, I'll agree outside being the CEO or president, or upper management of a fortune 500 company, being gay is a plus until you get to levels where married straight men have the advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:41 PM
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Believe it or not there's a difference between finding another woman attractive, and thinking you would have sex with her if you were single, than willing or wanting to cheat on your gf/wife. When I'm in a relationship I don't really look at or imagine other women, but I'm usually fortunate enough to be sexually satisfied, so there's no thirst there. Where I'm in the minority probably is thinking that sex gets better with one person, and comfort and emotion just adds more that. Basically I see n…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:34 PM
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Everything from social media to career advancement. Unless you're applying for some mechanic job in redneck bumfuckville, everyone wants to see the gay person excel in life. You're good PR, just like any other minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 02:23 PM
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I don't want to get into a "who has spent more time with gay people," argument with what I'm going to potentially put my foot in my mouth by assuming is a bi woman (?) but I see a lot of projection here. I also don't assume it's, "just like dating a woman, but men." That's the point, I know it is different, and that difference is what I'm saying makes it better. As for society/social hierarchy/social acceptance/etc. gay people have the advantage now, as you dodged around admitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 01:59 PM
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I don't like anal sex, I think my own cum is nasty, much less somebody else's, and I have a fetish for cunnilingus, and the smell of women in general. So that's a big no across the board for me fam:D
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 11:10 AM
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If I could choose to be gay, I probably would. I think life would be so much easier for me as a gay man in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:30 AM
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Higher n people see other higher n people as being like minded, or as likely having similar life experiences that they can relate to. They don't tend to worry about, "how big/how good was the last guy." They don't care. The "has she slept with Chad" doesn't compute. It's all, "Oh I'ma bout to fuck the hell out of this bitch." We're talking about to opposite perspectives here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 03:25 AM
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Option 3. A little bit butter face:D If she's all pretty face, she'll just take those angled head shots, and live on social media to hear how pretty and perfect she is. She'll just keep doing that and let the rest of herself go.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 05:58 PM
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Yeah, guess the others were probably more somewhere between love-lust and "we can not be assholes enough to get along along long enough to sleep together again. We must be compatible!"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 03:12 PM
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I wouldn't know she had been with 20 guys literally, as in an actual number b/c I try not to shoot myself in the dick with loaded questions. I wouldn't ask, b/c then she'll ask, and I know how dumb I would feel if mine was higher (and I believed her) and she was put off by that knowledge. That whole type of conversation just seems like a good way to have a bad night for a man. Or at least set yourself up to not get any. I'm highly sceptical of any man who's had this talk, and turned it around in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:28 AM
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You may be right about the end of human interaction. People are already losing real life interpersonal skills, and apparently more and more people are going asexual. Everybody's going trans, all the girls want to be boys, the guys are all femininized... Guess this is the start of the human mouse utopia experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 08:53 PM
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She's going to have to have believable orgasms, and actually smell like a real woman. I still don't see it being for me ever. It'll just feel like I'm masterbating in a doll. Maybe if they could make them like the women on Westworld, and feel like real bodies, and sell you on really being able to think for themselves. I get that's what you're saying, but I'm just skeptical we'll ever see it. We'll probably have Boston Dynamic terminator dogs like that Black Mirror episode first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:47 PM
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I'm not worried about seeing that as competition anytime soon. We'll probably have the planet unlivable before I have to worry about getting cock blocked by a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:31 PM
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Maybe better than the average guy in bed, or most guys, but not every guy. I get it, you think you can just program some movement combinations in it, and it can just beat a person by having a tongue that doesn't get tired, but it doesn't work like that. They'd have to put sensors on her for it to be able to feel and recognize changes in her pulse, her breathing, how her muscles are moving, what those signs and combinations of signs means to that specific woman that day or that mood... It's not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 05:16 PM
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I guess some will. Women will still want their coochies licked, and guys like me will still want to eat coochies, so there will probably be some real sex going on into the future. In before you tell me some android is going to eat pussy better than me, good luck to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 04:49 PM
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Maybe they can make something to make some guys happy. I've got a fetish for eating pussy, so they can't help me any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:49 PM
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I've yet to smell anything synthetic that really smells like the real thing. They still can't get bananas and vanilla right. I'll still believe it when I sniff it:D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:15 PM
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What are they going to do, grow a lab meat vagina, and inoculate it with the right flora to try and replicate it? What about sweat and pheromones? I just don't believe it till I sniff it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:07 PM
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That was a bit low of a blow, I apologise. I'm fine, people kill themselves, shit happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:31 PM
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Oooh, goes for blood. Yes, I've loved and lost, the one I loved most is dead. I was probably supposed to run and save her save her again, but it had always seemed like everybody including her own father were right, and it wasn't really helping her. She just got her way from a temper tantrum after causing a problem from showing her ass. Her own father called her a spoiled brat, and the last time I talked to him he basically threatened to kill me (insinuated) if I ever took her back. I left her al…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:12 PM
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There's men who would agree with you (myself) and men who would disagree with you (him) but unfortunately his side is probably in the 55-60% majority. We're arguing about personal taste here remember. Some men love red sports cars. I hate looking at red cars, it is almost nauseatingly too much too me; like an eye sore. Different strokes for different folks, but yeah, I'm in the camp that would rather you keep some cushion, than tone it flat, and lose a good cup size, and those thick thighs I lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:40 PM
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he compulsively cheated. Was caught multiple times, would apologise, and then turn around and do it all again. Didn't even try to cover his tracks. Ummm... Probably something before this, anyway. Take one, take two.. dust off... Not that I have a whole lot of room to talk, "just sayin'." You found your way on to greener pastures (not calling you a cow, figure of speech) and learned from your experiences. Sorry I went there, (both places;) but you poked first:D
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:22 PM
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I didn't say or mean to imply you were dating out of your league, just saying that was the "you" of the moment, and you were determined to make it work; Despite the obstacles, and flags in your way. Don't put words in my mouth either;P I'm glad you found a better overall package deal for yourself👏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:46 PM
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I said "between the lines narrative," or otherwords the direction it was going. But I'll back off on the putting words in your mouth technically. 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:35 PM
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This lil side thread actually. Not that so much bad that was said, just the understood between the lines narrative, I guess you'd say. Same ol' "lil innocent woman, did know wrong, saw no signs of hard turns ahead, hit the gas anyway- but all men's fault anyway..." :P
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:17 PM
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Yes, didn't mean you to take that personally, just a playful interpretation of your little circle flick (what's a female circle jerk called 🤔) with anothergumnut.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 05:03 PM
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Maybe women are just more guilty than men about trying to have a relationship with everybody their goods want to sleep with, and need to take a good self reflection about who's more controlled by their loins and urges. You could have flags of him being a cheater, or worse yet, get burned once yourself by him, and stay or go back. Or, "he's almost perfect but..." you don't really give a shit about the but, we'll worry about that later when it becomes his problem. You hook up with a criminal b/c t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 03:57 PM
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I'm 38. Looking back I really only think two times. At the time I thought I loved a couple-three more, but it was probably mostly love-lust, so not really the same level of thing. The first real love I had dated at least several months to a year before I think I really fell in love, and now I question that one b/c I can't feel anything for her now, or look back at any moments and feel anything again. Don't know if that just means I had true closer, or that wasn't true, lasting love. The second w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:53 PM
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It would only have an effect on the job market, and most people who wanted relationships would still want people. They can't make an android smell like a woman for example. I also wouldn't enjoy sleeping with somebody that can't really enjoy it back. It just wouldn't feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 11:42 PM
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The first catch I see to that is you also usually have a window to have sex with a woman, before she just starts a relationship around "well we had sex..." with someone else. A lot of women don't like that initial power dynamic of sex being the carrot switched on them. They like being the carrot, and deciding who gets to eat the carrot, (i.e. works hard/shows enough they want the carrot) and don't feel right about being the one being judged worthy to have sex with or not. It can easily and quick…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 08:53 PM
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Think it's a real thing, based on personal experience. I know that's only evidence to me and my situations, but there's at least one woman I'd probably still be with if it wasn't for that. She talked like she thought I was out of her league when she first got comfortable enough with me to say so, but I got "oneitis" or however you spell that for her, and basically lived to try to be the perfect bf/partner for her; b/c I thought she deserved it. It ruined the dynamics of our relationship, or was …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:24 PM
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I have too. She didn't look bad- yet. I saw her mom make her take a bite of an orange, and she made a dramatic ewe face/dance as she spat it out in the garbage like a little kid. I was way more turned off than I thought I'd be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:08 PM
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I agree with your deal breakers, and will add redneck, or drives a big, jacked up truck. Only ever known one redneck I don't think sucks in bed, and yet to meet the guy who drives a big truck that passes my, "can this guy fuck" test. Basically they've never seen a real female orgasm, or if they have, she did it herself. I'd also not date a serious gamer, but plays about as much as most people watch tv is fine. That playing all day/night, no eating/showering shit is too much like a bad drug habit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:45 PM
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God, you're an amazing woman. Just full of info; thanks👍
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:09 AM
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I know you're a busy and popular lady, but if you have time, what is HBD? Tried looking it up and only got Happy Birth Day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 12:33 AM
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It doesn't feel right arguing with somebody who actually has a vagina about how vaginas work, but I've witnessed what appears to be different kinds of orgasms, and women said and acted like they were different as well. Maybe just the "internal clit" can feel different than an external clitoral orgasm? Edit: Sorry bout asking about the button you say you don't have:/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 11:28 PM
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Not the slightest bit intimidated by him either. Don't see any tongue action, and let's see how he changes rhythm, strokes, and moves with her, and adjust according to what her body says she wants. I'm sure they'll love having to give it verbal directions like they like having to tell real men what they like /s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 08:37 PM
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Obviously I don't want her to get cheated on or abused, so I'll do my best to call those possibilities if/when I meet that person that gives that vibe or reason, and we'll see how far that news goes. I hate the words alpha and beta, but I guess I'd have to say I'd prefer more alpha to help protect her. Not that she's not going to be a dangerous handful on her own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:04 AM
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There's probably at least one you know that's up there with them on numbers, but has figured out bragging about that usually isn't a good way to get on course to getting his gf/wifey's panties down later, so he STFU about it, and they both let the past die.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:50 PM
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Thanks as well, and I'm an old 38. In my defense I had that Elijah Wood syndrome of looking like a kid into my twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:43 PM
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Well just like how some women argue here that women can change, and not not necessarily be AF/BB settling, men can do the same. Yes, before I get hit about AF/BB being a real thing, yes, all stereotypes exist, that's how we get stereotypes. They're still just broad generalizations though. I do have what you would probably call a grossly high n-count (35ish:P) but would be very loyal in a relationship, and try to make this one my last. I haven't had casual sex in almost a year, for this very reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:19 PM
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Yes, but there's at least two sides to both of those. I know a woman who thinks her husband cheated/cheats on her but won't leave him because of how much he gives her, and doesn't have a guy guaranteed lined up who can replace that. She doesn't really care about sex (we think hubby just sucks in bed, and she doesn't diddle herself right or enough or something) and just went old woman on him. He went elsewhere for his need, and probably buys that in some fashion too. Yes those couples exist. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:01 PM
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Sounds like you really just loved at least one woman before, and are possibly not as in love now as you once were. You're just the male version of every woman having to compete with the memory of an ex. Or that's just projection on my part, and you just have impulsive sex high issues, like each woman is a new drug. My problem is more the first one, b/c I loved one woman more than all the others. No pressure on the next one b/c she's dead, and I'm looking for what is basically her polar opposite.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:48 PM
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She wouldn't do it I don't think. I mean I think at least part of her wanted to, but if I was reading her looks right she was basically thinking, "why did you have to.. nah you fucked that up, don't even look at me like that... But yeah, had you not..."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:49 PM
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As an almost 40yr old man, who has predominantly dated women in the early to mid twenties for the last 15yrs, I get the allure of what you see. I now see differently, and would like a woman more my age. The reasons being pretty much what a few women here have said. I get it though, but will just say 30-40yr old you may change his mind and views on some things too. You'll just have to see. Edit: FTR I'm told I still look young for my age, which probably adds some context. I was one of those baby …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:36 AM
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I can't think of any real life examples of older women (that I knew from childhood anyway) that I still crush on, but celebrities of course. My first real tv crush was Gillian Anderson, and I'd still probably go down on her until she came so hard she scared herself. There's several older women I know that are still hot. Had a gf's mom for example that I wish I would've met and tried to seduce first b/c we had chemistry; which was a bit awkward sometimes of course. We both seemed to know it, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:59 AM
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'Ello snowflake😁👋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 02:27 AM
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Did you not get an xbox gold card for Christmas or something? Did your pass expire- why are you still here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 12:06 AM
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Bout as clever and as much thought put in as, "you're ugly." Also, I'm a guy, like Jake from State Farm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:26 PM
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Not sure how gay you are Mr. Codeine, but you'd probably jerk it to me making the whoopie🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:07 PM
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Most of the people I've met who identify as gamers are usually pretty lazy, dirty people. Not saying all gamers, and lots of snowflakes exist, especially here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 10:16 PM
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I wanted to take a lil tinkle tinkle in the cereal bowls here. Can't you see all the triggereds I made👍
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 09:59 PM
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B/c hard core gamers tend to be dirty, stinky people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:32 PM
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Rare exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 08:30 PM
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If it started to come to the point that it took a toll on them to the point they didn't care about themselves, their own appearance, or the rest of the house, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:51 PM
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It just has to be borderline all encompassing, to the point the real world around you starts to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:50 PM
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It's purge day, and I thought I'd rant in a lil different direction than picking out individual people or races, and pick on a common demographic here today.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 07:48 PM
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The, "I'm a gamer!!! I live to game!" person. They/we know who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:58 PM
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Fair enough on this. There is a line that needs to be maintained though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:28 PM
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Guilty. I'm not putting anything in her butt, don't want anything in my butt, and I'm not slapping, or choking, or trying to hurt anybody else ever again. There's a lot more guys that will do that for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:26 PM
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Should I tell her from the beginning she's going to gain, or just wait till it happens, and she gets self conscious about it- then tell her I already accounted for that the first time I saw her and picked her up?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 03:41 PM
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Purple, and don't care much for feminism. There was a time in the not so distant past that I would have identified as a feminist, but not anymore. The more extreme feminist pushed me away, and I think feminism has "jumped the shark," so to speak. I don't read like I used to, but have mostly read fiction in books, but have read books about real life, philosophy, religion, etc. I've went through a couple religions, and was even Christian enough at one point to read the entire Bible cover to cover.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 02:42 PM
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Purple, 38M, white Vegan/vegetarian Cigarette smoker Doesn't consume cannabis in some way Has ever been a recreational user of amphetamines, opiates, xanax, etc. Has more than 2 kids Wants more kids Abrahamic religious Weighs more than about 170lbs Much younger than 30 Virgin or less than 3 partners, other women and oral only don't count.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 01:45 AM
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Not her obviously, but think I understand. Maybe another way of saying it is that hot is usually thought of as a strickly physical trait, and sexy is more of a state of being, like presence, or a trait that someone has. You can have a hot body, but not a sexy walk. That analogy reads dumber the more I look at it, but leaving it for now:D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 04:56 AM
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I have a kid is the biggest reason. Waiting for them to have their own life on their own two feet before I take any real risk, or make any big changes. When it's only me I have to directly worry about, I'll do some things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:33 AM
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and move around until I land somewhere near this type of person. So much this. This is the answer I keep coming to but can't do that in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 03:18 AM
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Ok so you could say you have slept with so many women that they are sometimes blurring together, or you have deja vu on conversations with and meeting them, and it's starting to bother you a bit? If so I don't have an answer for that except look for different kinds of women than you usually date, or find a way to filter out and find the polar opposite of a woman you never want to date again. I admit I like the way some women here appear to think, and kind of case study them. Even though the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:51 AM
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Sorry we're all dickheads here at times. Yeah, you gotta watch how you answer a lot of things, even if you're intending on telling them the truth. Like how she probably automatically started trying to lump you in with her ex b/c you had stepped foot in the same bar as he did. Like you could help what bar is down the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 02:13 AM
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Since we're having a not so humble brag circle jerk, no, I'm actually trying to not have casual sex right now, maybe hopefully never again. My modest compared to yours 35ish N count already makes some women here not want to trust me, and I'm somewhat concerned with meeting a woman like them IRL. Very few women IME ever ask a number, but they do ask about ex's, and keep track of which one to which story, and they can count, so... I really want to find the last woman I'll ever sleep with, and don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:46 AM
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I don't meet them like him very often. He doesn't seem to have a real sexual drive either. I mean there's no sign of bitterness or anger in him, just an asexual looking indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 04:09 AM
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The mid twenties virgin male? According to this place it is, but I can really only think of the one right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 03:25 AM
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Hate to be that guy first, but yoooou didn't sleep with the guy you are telling them to be. Yoooou slept with the asshole that you're telling them not to be. All they are seeing is confirmation that the asshole got laid. Don't shoot the messenger, just laying out their perspective for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:40 AM
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I like the ordeal, and the shit testing though. I get people not, but I like having women fucking with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 01:33 AM
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Notice how the red reply to you was regarding numbers, or implied numbers, "the majority of," and such. That's the basis of the view, you bet according to perceived odds on a given situation. If a man believes something he is doing is bettering his odds with a certain woman, it's a hard thing to argue against. In fact, so hard they're still having this argument here and now and tomorrow too probably, if you come back and look. No, not every rule of nature applies to all people, or each and every…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 12:11 AM
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As one self aware asshole, you need to be a self aware douchebag. Runners are assholes. I've yet to meet the runner who isn't a bit of a dickbag or cunt. Everyone does it for show, but I give you credit for at least being honest about it. People who get up at 4 in the morning to go show out in public just to make a point to rub it everyone's faces... Most people don't usually really like this person, b/c this person is usually a cocksucker or mega bitch. You have to date your own kind, and surpr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 10:57 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't think low n men are all immature losers. I do think a virgin in their twenties is probably a red flag for both sexes though, and those people probably fit their own stereotypes. The only guy I can think of who I think fits the, "early to mid twenties virgin" category still lives with his mother, and she apparently still treats him like a little boy. He acts and seems to think like a little boy. Stereotypes exist b/c enough of those people really exist to make those stereotypes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:34 PM
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Haha, I'm a dude, how am I maintenance? I'm talking about us cleaning house, and taking showers and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 08:25 PM
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Probably b/c they've actually dated a real man before, know what it's like, and don't want to have to teach a guy how to man. They want somebody somewhat attractive, who knows how to be attractive, don't have to correct all the bad women's anatomy he probably believes, and she can maybe have an orgasm again that she doesn't have to make herself. She doesn't have to replace mommy picking up after him, and make him put the Call Of Duty down and go wash off the doody b/c he smells like shit, and ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/18 05:26 PM
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Lol, surely you're joking. That tea video is cringy AF. Yeah let's just substitute "You want some tea," with ["you want some fuk?'] (https://youtu.be/-TcLxlkc2pA) and see how that works out for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:10 PM
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I like the top answer given for his situation, and am for once impressed by the r/relationships_advice linked here. If the kid was old enough to recognize the situation, I would tell them the truth, that I'm not the real father. Then we'd go from there based on how they took it I guess. If child was a baby, or toddler that wouldn't really remember, I'd probably just be gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 03:31 PM
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They don't have to ask your n count to be interested in you or a relationship. Like as been said, there's guys who also have double digits (ahem) and would laugh and/or roll their eyes about your big 16 count. We really don't care, and is why you've never been asked. I'm guessing the problem is you come off as too free and miss independent, and "don't need no man..." and guys pick up on that... and think they're giving you the only thing they know they're good for. You probably "fuck" good, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 02:07 PM
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No, more like the opposite perspective. People seem to look at you as more responsible, credible, and not just a partying bachelor, afraid of committing to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 04:06 AM
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Those guys are so funny (not really) b/c they usually never even slept with her, but are willing to risk bodily harm for her. They don't know who she really is, or what she's like when they're not around. She has one personality (fake) for them, and one for you when the world and Instagram aren't watching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 08:31 PM
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Well she can still freak out on you, or in public or try and get you in trouble somehow. As for the argument that you have to do something to set her off... What usually happens in my experience is she gets on a puppy dog love high, bf is trying to make it all perfect for her, and she thinks she doesn't really need these pills. Then my understanding of what happens is her body tries to make an equilibrium for itself, and boost chemicals throwing her brain chemistry off. This just compounds the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 06:56 PM
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Yeah, I liked the earlier internet and more living, less documenting breakfast and lunch, and less phone camera fireworks and concert days better too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 08:33 PM
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Yeah, that doesn't carry the same weight does it?! It's just a mutual boost in credibility too, to be married. I see men warning of inevitable dead bedrooms, but have met and know older men who seem to have active love lives, and I believe them that their getting laid, so still think it's a get what you put into it sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:12 PM
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It seems that way. I'm admittedly lost on what letter is what now, and am too afraid to ask. I liked being the last of the gen xers, instead of the start of the millennials. I think the defining factor is if you remember a world before the internet or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:37 PM
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It seems if you get rejected by one it hurts you with thenother women. I wish it was independent meaning if I get rejected by one it doesnt affect outcome of the other. This is just how it is, and the second part is not going to happen. Everything else in your post may be debatable, but nobody wants to be second or last choice. Think of hitting on a woman as like getting your credit checked. It goes down a little bit regardless. The only exception to this is actually having another woman or bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:48 PM
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Haven't seen it mentioned yet, but people take you more seriously, and seem to respect you more, or hold you to a higher regard immediately. The phrase, "my wife..." also has more clout than, "my gf says/does.." and people just immediately seem to have more respect for her thoughts or what she does, or why you're even talking about her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:18 PM
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I have to agree with you on wanting someone older as well. I'm almost 40, and in my 30's I still have mostly dated women in their early to mid twenties, b/c it just worked out that way. They were easier to pick up, and more eager to sleep with you. I get what you mean about things in common. You are in different places mentally than them, or your 20yr old self. The last 22yr old I dated couldn't do laundry, and didn't even know her own girly stuff like you're not supposed to put bras in the drye…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:09 PM
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Yes, so long as you cover your ass and bases on making it "disappear" and you looking broke. I know a guy who found out his ex wife was likely going to get his retirement, and he pulled out $9,999 (iirc) in increments, then put that in a safety deposit box in someone else's name. He told the judge he would rather blow it himself, than her do it. Had pictures of him partying in Vegas, and such he said. He got away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 11:17 AM
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Think you just got a broken dickwad, and it glitched out on you in a weird way. Sounds like you already tried the turning it off, and back on again, and need to return it for a new unit. Maybe it's a bad run in that area, and you might try a different model number.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/18 05:10 AM
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B/c to them it's not. They'll put in the work to get that stem degree, and put in the work to get those, "I lift" arms, but then drop the ball in the bedroom. It all turns into demands on what he wants, questions and accusations about her past lovers, and passing the blame to her about how, "it's up to her to tell me what she wants in bed, and what I'm doing right or wrong. I tell her what I want and expect..." Then they wonder what she's not fucking or horny with him. Pass the blame some more, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 03:17 PM
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Normally I'd want to LTR up the 6-7 b/c she is probably more human acting, and not so self obsessed with her likes and following. I don't want to have to stop and take a pic of her posing every time we pass anything other than a restroom or a McDonald's. I have a rule about not sleeping with virgins though, so that would be a deal breaker for me. Hot ho wins here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:55 PM
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2hrs later... Not dude, but going to guess the same argument a friend of mine says, "she can't get pregnant in her butt." Not an anal guy myself for real, as in I won't do it. Have met women who claimed to like or be fine with it, but have yet to meet the woman who demanded or asked for it. Couldn't care less if the last guy got it, don't lay in bed at night thinking that some other guy knows what her butt hole feels like and I don't. He could know what her shit taste like too if he wanted but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 03:49 PM
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[Why thank you mi lady! Just knocking the dust off this ol' account.] (https://thumbs.gfycat.com/RashUnlawfulBee-size_restricted.gif) Thought you was somebody itchin' fer a fight... But pleased to make the pleasantries with you🎩
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 01:28 AM
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A lot of people would probably argue that there's incels who claim to be mgtow, but the point is they're not the same thing, and this post makes it read that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 03:33 AM
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Incel is not interchangeable with MGTOW. It's like how a square is a rectangle, but not all rectangles are square, type of thing. There has always been mgtow in movies and stories. The classic single man vs nature story probably qualifies. Also a lot to possibly even most action man movies involve single guy, doing his own thing as a loner. James Bond wasn't married. Rambo wasn't married. The Expendables... The A-Team... mgtow men everywhere. Now incels have some catching up to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 01:46 AM
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I’m not good looking, overweight and I have terrible social skills. Then you need to make that paper, boo boo. You could lose the gut, and learn some jokes or card tricks (but don't be obnoxious about it, fine line on too much here, just drop one or two here and there) and add something to the social setting. Don't slouch, try to smell good but don't over do it here either. Less is more on cologne. The idea is to smell better the closer she gets to you, and her have to get close to smell you. No…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 02:05 PM
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I agree with u/UsedAlgae that you shoulda had fun with it, or attempted to. It sounds like she handled it better than you did, no offense. My curiosity and inner fuckwit usually wins over my fight or flight, or in this case fight on fight. Yes, I'd initially be kinda ticked, or put on guard, but think I'd quickly see the social experiment opportunity, and get a little giddy inside to see how this game of kick ball plays out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:46 PM
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Well in her/their defense, the women come to them as wanting a woman. The straight women are just using them like the hated beta bucks scenario here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:39 PM
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Male Drug addiction in history, other than cannabis Does not in some way consume cannabis Smokes cigarettes Is Christian, Islamic, or religiously Jewish Has more than 2 kids, or wants more kids Is vegan/vegetarian/pescatarian/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 08:37 PM
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What she really had in mind was or was really talking about was straight or mostly straight women taking advantage of lesbian women. Apparently a lot of lesbians get suckered into helping and saving straight women who end up just using them. Straight girl gets pissed off at some asshole she should've known better than to mess with from the beginning, then b/c of that/those guys she goes on a man hating kick, and runs to a lesbian to take her in, and fill in the bf position as a place holder unti…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:47 PM
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Hey guurl;) Not him, but close. No imitation vanilla here, that real deal genuine vanilla bean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:25 PM
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"They say it don't be like it be but it do.." 🍻😁 There needs to be a pass the pipe emoji.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:57 PM
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Thank you! I saw him and thought oh shit, that guy looks like me. My nose isn't as wide, and I keep my beard more groomed and shaped, but we could def be brothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 05:48 PM
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The only kernel of truth in that is that getting a woman off is a very manly feeling, and can be more satisfying than getting yourself off. Especially if it leaves lingering effects on her. That is definitely an ego boost. "Mmm hmmm... Yeah I just did that."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:23 AM
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That women who are only completely attracted to men or women are probably/possibly the minority. I don't know if most lesbians would take the right D, but most women would apparently play with the right P under the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 11:10 PM
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Huh. The more you know. TIL
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:30 PM
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No, I already know I'm not looking for my "looks match." I've discovered the mindset of the types of women I'm really interested in don't usually fall into the Stacy girl level of looks. I just have to try and keep her from looking up some ex's, and getting a complex before I've at least seen her naked, and made her feel sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 05:51 PM
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Never stopped you from talking, or never stopped you in your tracks to talk? Two totally different things. Guessin' you mean you might could overlook that particular fashion no-no if all other things are on point? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:17 PM
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I'm sorry to hate on your footwear... Women hated on our cargo shorts for being obscenely uggly although very comfy and practical;P Oh and our tactical sandals. Now I have to wear leather flip flops for a woman to talk to me in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:59 PM
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May be safe to say most women in general are bisexual. I've heard at least one lesbian and one bi girl say different versions/perspectives on this. The lesbian says pretty much all women will sleep with a woman for the right reason or circumstances, and the bi girl said she could sleep with any woman she had a chance to work on and seduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 01:52 PM
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Think it's more a coin flip between what Mr. White said about them being cucks in training to them having homoerotic tendencies. They get off on or get excited by seeing big goobers in a similar fashion as they do from naked women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 01:45 PM
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Are those Ugg-ly ass, alpaca foot looking boots ever going to go out of style🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 01:38 PM
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And incidentally also likely a bad drug dealer, as in won't be a drug dealer much longer from doing something stupid. On a side note there's a drug dealer/some cartel rule that says you can tell how someone handles their business by how neat their money is. Some have a rule that all presidents have to be watching each other's backs (facing the same direction) or they won't take the money, and/or likely penalize you somehow on next deal. Basically the idea is, when someone is slipping, and fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 04:20 PM
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What kind of help are you offering, exactly? You some kind of therapist?
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