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If you tell her you're doing something and ask her to go, but her response is just "I'm busy" and no attempt to follow up with another suggestion then the day is probably already lost. I wouldn't keep bombarding a girl with invites to things if she's always busy and never tries to make it work another time
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:05 PM
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Yeah man you creeped out the friend, which is bad on its own. Women talk and protect each other so gaining the approval of the friends is important.
/r/seduction13/10/16 01:00 PM
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I don't mean to be invasive, and you don't have to answer, but what's your money situation looking like? You're young, and hotel parties can be really fun if it stays chill enough to not have cops come. You could easily grab a room and an Uber, I know i would if it meant banging a 9 and I had nowhere else to go
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:42 AM
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Doing this works so well. It makes you have the physical need to go talk to women, not just the mental desire. Needing something physically makes the mental part so much easier. Use that physical fap addiction to your benefit
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:37 AM
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Younger girls use it a lot where I'm from and it's definitely a good thing. I feel like it might be because they are afraid of sounding like a whore for saying a dude is hot but I'm not sure. All I know is I've been spending a lot of time with my sister and her friends in the 24-26 range and they say it a lot about dudes that they are into
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:34 AM
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Listen to this guy, he's right. Being close to my sister has brought me a lot of female friends, and hearing them talk about guys got me over that stigma real quick. Cute is a good thing, and often seems to convey more than just physical attraction.
/r/seduction29/08/16 07:43 PM
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I have the same problem, I feel like I lose my frame quickly and get boring or whatever if I'm not shitfaced. I have a history with drug problems though, but I'm sure that those problems were brought on by the same mindset. It's hard
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:02 PM
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Understandable. But, in OPs situation he clearly does want sex and is in the friendzone. If he didn't want sex, she'd just be his friend. He's basically asking how do I sexually touch a woman who does not want me as a sexual partner. I'm sure there are ways to manage but I guess my main point is that he is setting himself up for failure or heartache most likely
/r/seduction12/08/16 04:32 PM
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It's just a story so if you're looking for a guide then move elsewhere. It's a fun read though I thought
/r/seduction12/08/16 12:48 PM
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Yes, but honestly do you really want to be putting yourself in that situation? Once you're friendzoned then advancing sexual touching seems pretty weird and will almost certainly just creep her out or put you in the position to be lead on
/r/seduction12/08/16 12:45 PM
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Feeling like you shouldn't get on social media just because a girl told you to is asshole behavior. I'm not saying texting will get a girl to fuck that wouldn't anyway, but refusing to text or snap because you're old and closed minded is just dumb. If attraction can't be built through texts then tinder wouldn't be so popular. It's another tool to use and it's a huge part of the social interaction of this generation, and one that is only going to become more and more important. Times change, just…
/r/seduction09/08/16 03:45 PM
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It's pretty closed minded to think that girls who grew up with cell phones in their pocket since elementary school don't value or gain attraction through text. Sure, if we are talking 30 year old and up then it's not a big deal. But that 18-24 year old demo has interwoven their lives with text/social media to an apparently unbelievable (to older men) degree.
/r/seduction09/08/16 03:31 PM
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Isn't that straight out of The Game?
/r/seduction09/08/16 02:51 PM
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Haha no problem dude. It sounds like they are doing what I'm saying without realizing it. They never approach but women want to be a part of what it is they're already doing. I guess if they're meeting at work or something it could be different and they could be approaching there. Either way though it sounds to me like youre on a good path, I need to man up like that with my cold approaches
/r/seduction08/08/16 03:02 PM
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Also, side note, approaching girls all night despite your admitted AA and repeated refusals is exactly what makes me think you have platinum balls. You are anxious, you don't know what to say, you've already had a lack of success but you take action anyway because you know what you want to accomplish. Don't forget that dude! That really is a big thing and remembering that may help you reduce the AA down the line.
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:38 PM
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I guess the idea I'm trying to convey is if what you're doing (approaching them where they are) isn't working or is making you nervous, then try something new. For instance, you and your friends get an area and start having a mini party there. Get the fun going, find some little game to play, whatever really. Once the momentum is built you are involved in something and you can bring in girls who pass by or are near. If you bring them into the fun you're already having then you've got the upper h…
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:30 PM
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If you don't want to strip, at least wear tight fitting clothes to help the sexiness. Also don't wear jeans, try to find something that will feel softer and you can feel through a bit more. Take it slow, guide his hands around. He will still love it if you go straight to face in boobs and ass on dick but you will really get his shit going if you do it slowly and ramp up over time.
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:22 PM
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I agree man, I feel like the pua community is a bit behind on texting. Maybe it's an age thing, maybe not, but texting isn't going anywhere and every year the younger girls are more and more used to texting.
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:14 PM
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One thing I've found recently is that just having fun with your friends isn't usually going to cut it. Have fun with them but actively try to pull other's, namely women, into your self created fun. If they don't want to join then who cares, you're already having a good time. If you pull a girl or group of girls over and you and your friends are laughing and having a good time already, they will want to be a part of that even if they have no intention of staying with you when you first pull them.…
/r/seduction08/08/16 02:05 PM
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Quiet girls just give you a reason to get in closer and start Kino.
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:47 PM
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I'd just start up another conversation and if she's replying then quickly ask her out again. Don't drag it out. Have a date and a spot or ideas ready to go. Tell her straight up that you liked spending time with her and want to take her out again. When you see her give her a proper two armed hug and hold her close, that can help get physical touch to be more comfortable.
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:45 PM
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He wants to make it clear that it is a date he's saying.
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:43 PM
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Man I know exactly what you're talking about. People who are more natural at this may not have noticed, but I've had to work on my anxiety so when this first happened it was really obvious and strange. It was like once I got on a roll my confidence spiked to the point that I just didn't even care or think about any of the possible "bad" outcomes of approaching. This will lead to me approaching without even really realizing what I'm doing when usually I'd be all up in my own head. This happens to…
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:16 PM
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With lesbians being friended is a good outcome in my book. If she is bi or straight, and this is an excuse, then she's already rejected him anyway. At this point being her friend would have way more benefits from a seduction standpoint than ignoring her because she could give social validation with her friends, could help pickup, and seems to be generally just a cool person.
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:11 PM
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This and the first one are good to remember. On top of the benefits with meeting other girls, I've found that in general lesbians are cool as hell to hang out with as friends. I'd say just be cool with her and see if you can't find a way to hang out in a group setting with her one day.
/r/seduction08/08/16 12:08 PM
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This sounds like a true story
/r/seduction06/08/16 05:19 PM
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Would you be willing to get your approaches in tonight, at a pub or bar? This would probably, at least for me, be much more natural and a beer or two helps calm the nerves. Don't get completely trashed though, it can work but you'll most likely be getting a very specific type of woman that some people aren't into haha
/r/seduction05/08/16 06:28 PM
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I can only give first hand input from the opposite side, when I'm the one leaving. I wondered the same thing a while back, and ultimately decided to just make it clear when I was leaving and returning then not text during that time. The result? A few days in a couple of the girls i was talking to texted me to ask how it was going. So, I would say that it's probably safe to say don't text unless there's a reason. If they text you then that can't be a bad sign but I wouldn't let that start a long …
/r/seduction05/08/16 06:25 PM
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I really just wanted a clear explanation as to why you were in a sub about seduction telling people not to read about seduction. It sounded like you weren't on the same page as the people who come here with serious and deep seated insecurities that can't be just wished away, which makes the advice of "just go do it" invalid. I feel the same way when I see people tell depressed people to just "start being happy" or anxious people to "just stop worrying". I just see it too much around here is all,…
/r/seduction05/08/16 06:05 PM
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Haha well care to tell me why a sub dedicated to conversation about seduction techniques exists? I'm curious
/r/seduction05/08/16 04:41 PM
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Learning how to gain the mindset and skills to speak to women in a meaningful and productive way? I'm not saying only read, that's stupid, but no more more so than saying that nobody needs to read.
/r/seduction05/08/16 03:59 PM
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Some people need to put their shoes on first or they won't get far and they'll return home with bleeding feet and the desire to never walk again. Just remember not everyone is the same mentally, some need advice, information, etc to compliment the real life experience. Not everyone can just go out and do it, otherwise these types of subreddits wouldn't exist
/r/seduction05/08/16 03:25 PM
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The idea would be that you stop focusing so much on possible bad outcomes because, since your dead, who cares. Trying to trick yourself into having that carefree approach demeanor
/r/seduction05/08/16 02:17 PM
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She was giving you an excuse to come meet her and instead you just jumped right into "how about you smoke on my man dick". Dude chill out, make the sexual comments less creepy and stop putting out the rape vibe asking them where they are within the first 3 messages.
/r/seduction05/08/16 02:16 PM
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Catcalling at least has a purpose, and it's not to get the girl. It's more to get a laugh and shit with the rest of the guys. I'm not saying it's good to do but I understand it. This right here though is just creepy, especially the asking where she is bit. "You can sit on my dick! Where are you?" Is the worst tinder game I've seen. I'm borderline convinced this is a troll post to be honest.
/r/seduction05/08/16 02:14 PM
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That's totally true but some people need more insight and inspiration. Deep seated mental hangups and whatnot aren't so easily overcome when depression and other problems are involved. It can take books and real life experience
/r/seduction05/08/16 02:02 PM
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I think he's more advocating the idea that if you present yourself honestly and know what you want, while minimizing the amount of validation you need from women, you will naturally attract the kinds of people that you won't need to run heavy game on. Not that you shouldn't use game or techniques to keep conversation and attraction at a high level
/r/seduction03/08/16 11:31 AM
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If you want to learn a lot about neediness and how to minimize/control it then Models is GREAT. It focuses a whole lot on that single subject, and even when it's in other places it still brings it back around to not being needy.
/r/seduction03/08/16 11:29 AM
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Despite the ridiculousness, I actually think this is a great little bit of life philosophy
/r/seduction03/08/16 11:25 AM
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When they said something, which sounds suspect, what did you tell them? This whole thing sounds irregular as all hell
/r/seduction03/08/16 02:23 AM
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Haha yeah good decision, if you fuck her good enough you may end up meeting the friends anyway.
/r/seduction03/08/16 02:02 AM
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Haha yeah I won't lie it made me laugh too
/r/seduction03/08/16 02:00 AM
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Hard seduction techniques are great, but when you get a girl ready to go just by being yourself you've won. That was a great report, keep it up man!
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:01 PM
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Don't listen to that guy lol
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:40 PM
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Wait, she let you choose between fucking her or being introduced to her friends? What did you choose?
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:40 PM
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I've seen people tease girls with the stipulation that if she does x again you're going to make out with her or whatever. Depending on the reaction to that statement you choose whether or not to go for it when the time comes. I've seen it work but I'm not sure how well itd work in most situations. If she's playing along with the hating then she's probably just waiting for you to make some sort of move though
/r/seduction02/08/16 03:32 PM
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This helped me a TON. There's an audio version that I bought, it's great. All about inner game and how to set yourself up for successful encounters naturally without having to rely fully on mind games and routines
/r/seduction02/08/16 02:53 PM
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Awesome man good luck! You seem like you really want to make it work so like you said just give it a shot and see what happens. You can do it
/r/seduction02/08/16 02:50 PM
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No problem man I'm always down to help if I think I have input someone might find valuable. I do understand the idea of wanting something to condition your question when you ask her out but I'd definitely avoid the things you mentioned. Doing it that way is basically saying "hey I want to go out with you, but since I'm insecure here are all of the reasons you should say no". I don't mean that offensively mind you, that's just how it'd sound if you went that route. If you do want to condition it,…
/r/seduction02/08/16 01:02 PM
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Again I'm no expert but I'd recommend forgetting that the possibly awkward conversation happened. Just let it go, be confident about the fact that in the end that awkward moment does not matter in the least. Bringing it up again will just come off as incredibly insecure and seem like you need her approval for what you say. Just find something fun to do and ask her straight up "hey I'm going to go do ________ on ________ day, I'd really like it if you'd join me!". This is low pressure as you've c…
/r/seduction02/08/16 11:26 AM
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Just ask her to go out with you somewhere if you want to continue to pursue it. If she declines outright, then moving on would be best option. Also, I don't know if anyone else agrees around here, but I've found that it's easy to go overboard with the inside jokes. I've always felt like if I use them constantly then it's like nothing new is happening and I'm saying everything only because I think she'd like it rather than because it's what I want to say. Still use them but it felt like you beat …
/r/seduction02/08/16 10:25 AM
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Nofap is great but be careful with the culture over there. They are very shame based, which i find a bit sad. Overall though since I began cutting back to once every week or two I've had much much much more success, half of it on accident. I've just been fucking ready and putting in effort without even thinking about it. I get home and just need to go hang out with people, or find new girls to meet. It's crazy how much more sexual stopping porn and cutting back fap can make you
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:51 PM
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Nofap is legit, but I'd recommend people be weary of the culture on that sub. They have built up a very strong culture based on shame and it's a bit sad. The general idea is awesome though, it's helped me be much more clear with my intentions and feel the need to go out and meet women
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:21 PM
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Life changing advice
/r/seduction01/08/16 06:18 PM
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If it's a rave with lots of damn Kandy girls bring bracelets and stuff to trade. Just walk up and make eye contact, give them one and keep holding her hand to start dancing. If she pulls back don't be creepy though of course Haha
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:07 PM
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I'd love to see a tinder close, I feel like I've missed some opportunities because of boring chats
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:03 PM
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I wish more people took this advice/outlook to heart.
/r/seduction01/08/16 01:02 PM
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I can't argue with that, like I said we should be improving ourselves every day. Dwelling on the idea that there's something wrong with you, and that you need to improve to gain the approval of others just seems unhealthy and extremely needy. Some people take this thought too far and the idea that there's something inherently wrong with them as people leads to depression and long term frustration with women.
/r/seduction28/07/16 02:57 PM
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I've found that, in my case, the flaky women usually are usually the ones who I put little or no effort into meeting or connecting with. It was more like they got me, then flake out when i try to set things up. I imagine with this type they are doing that to tons of guys and once they have lots of plans they choose which one to actually go to.
/r/seduction25/07/16 06:46 PM
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Thinking about it as "what's wrong with me to make her flake" is a great way to undermine confidence and build depression and frustration. Of course you should be improving yourself every day but doing it because there's something wrong with you that makes girls flake seems unhealthy.
/r/seduction23/07/16 03:23 PM
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Everyone does this whether they realize it or not. Maybe the point should be to not rely on canned jokes but use them when needed? I know some people that just go too far with scripts when talking to girls
/r/seduction21/07/16 12:43 PM
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I've seen people use canned jokes followed by real answers. "What do you do?" "Whatever/whoever I want [insert laughter here hopefully].... Nah I work for _______" I'm not saying it's a good idea, but probably better than a full canned joke with no substance. I have no idea how it worked out for these friends, I've just heard them do it the same way multiple times
/r/seduction20/07/16 07:24 PM
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I did that, and quit smoking weed all the time and now it's all I can think about. I am finding myself flirting with girls without even realizing it, it's ridiculous
/r/seduction20/07/16 07:19 PM
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Hell yeah man thanks you keep pushing too! It's nice to get out there and have some success
/r/seduction19/07/16 11:18 AM
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I can tell you that when I finally came to the realization that denial was just saving me time and money, everything changed. There's no real difference between a girl denying you and you avoiding the risk, except if you avoid it you'll never ever have the chance of success. I can't say I'm any better as a person, but I'm definitely more confident with women since reading here. Just tonight I had a conversation with a girl I've known a while and when she left i realized that I was much more forw…
/r/seduction19/07/16 02:47 AM
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I started reading here after I was pursued by a lady recently. This was after years of depression and came right as I was working myself out of it on my own. A little reading here and reading Models got me thinking about myself and what I have to offer which helped my confidence big time. 3 weeks ago I had no prospects, no action in years due to depression and drug problems, etc. Now I've got 2 girls I'm trying to balance time between and a few others just texting for now. What the fuck? Small t…
/r/seduction19/07/16 02:43 AM
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That's the point of this sub, let's all get to it!
/r/seduction19/07/16 02:38 AM
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