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I don't think he intentionally fumbles a little on purpose. I can't tell without seeing the context. He's probably just trying to be spontaneous and congruent with being confident in the moment. Yes, RSD made a switch from routines to a natural style of game awhile ago so that was what drew me to them originally. But, yeah how he games in person and off camera is the same. I've also met and had the chance (very briefly) to go out with Max. He is the life of the party and just a lot of fun to be …
/r/seduction22/09/15 10:10 PM
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Yes, try going direct and compliment something genuine about her. The best compliments are compliments on things that she had to work at (like her fashion or her look) rather then things she has no control over (like her eye color or that she is cute). If you compliment her physical beauty then practice doing it in a way that stands out. It all depends on the venue too. During the daytime, most guys don't approach so just going up to her and saying anything conveys a lot of value already. Make s…
/r/seduction20/09/15 10:03 PM
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-Mixed martial arts gyms - Surprisingly a lot of cute girls and good instructors to learn from depending on your gym -Indoor rock climbing -Dance classes (hip-hop and salsa) All of those plus the classes should have you busy for awhile
/r/seduction20/09/15 09:51 PM
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What this video it's from Richard LaRuina: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9_BPoC7Ru54
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:47 AM
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Hard to tell without being there and seeing the actual context. Just assume a positive mindset because if it wasn't a hard no, then just think: "it's not a no, but she not comfortable yet." You'll know when you ask her out again. If she agrees, then you know she is still interested. Edit: Grammar
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:37 AM
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Good job on still asking for the number. I found the best times to ask for the number are on the highs of the conversation when she is laughing, smiling and having a good time. Another good time to ask for a number is when their a good reason to like share passion or commonalities. If you are both dancers and you ask about how you both like taking salsa dance classes, you can use that as a good transition to get the number.
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:28 AM
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Max has a video about getting back into the game if you were on a break: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mJGQHow4yWw
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:23 AM
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It's a little intense, but if you have a free month or two. Sign up for RSD's Las Vegas Immersion program. I haven't personally taken the training. But I've known countless friends from all over the world go through that training program and reach fast success. Also, Todd's new daygame program looks amazing, and if you attended the pre-webinars before the launch (there were 4). And it pretty much summed up my biggest takeaways that I learned from this year. Plus, I know Todd personally, and he k…
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:18 AM
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I don't often as I want. And thanks, my friends and I started a blog. www.pompousgentlemen.com But, I haven't had a chance to put up any written content yet.
/r/seduction20/09/15 01:05 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOrlmABYtSM from Adam Lyons
/r/seduction18/09/15 05:42 AM
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Don't trip about the opener. You could say the right thing at the right time, but it could go horribly wrong. Or you could say the wrong thing at the wrong time, but it could go extremely well. I have had each happen to me. Focus instead on creating a fun and playful vibe after the opener. Like Lasvegasfun's opener, have a default opener just in case you can't think of anything. I've always like this break down of openers (from Adam Lyons): 1. Functional: it's a functional question where you nee…
/r/seduction17/09/15 04:48 AM
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I know you're nervous, but do your best to relax and have fun on the date. Do what you need to get into a good, positive mood before hand. For some people it's working out, or listening to good music, or it could be spending time being social with your friends and family. In terms of confidence, she decided to go out with you. She's interested in meeting and getting to know you. She is attracted to you. So know that you two are equal. Don't place her on a pedestal. You're going on this date to h…
/r/seduction17/09/15 04:34 AM
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I have been in a Frat, and it is one of the best ways to find cool people, both men and women. I'm graduated now, but some of my closest friends still are people I met in our fraternity. In terms of meeting attractive women, it is a plus and you'll be able to meet a continuous amount of women because of the mixers with sororities and you'll be constantly be making new friends. Do research on the fraternities you are thinking of rushing. Get to know the people first and go to their rush events. I…
/r/seduction17/09/15 03:47 AM
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I agree with Vonzipp3r1. Add in Daygame Podcast, Pompous Gentlemen (shameless plug), How to Talk to Girls (Tripp), and Dating Skills Review.
/r/seduction17/09/15 03:07 AM
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I agree. A transcript will just place you in your head more. You'll be over thinking the conversation way too much. Focus more on getting to know them and filling in the information you don't know. I know you're nervous, but try to approach the conversation comfortably and relaxed. Don't put so much emphasis on the conversation. Do you run out of things to say with your friends or family? Try to embody that level of comfort and ease when you are talking to your friends. That being said, question…
/r/seduction17/09/15 03:00 AM
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I think this is the video you are talking about. Here is Nick Spark's talk at the 21 convention on conversation: http://youtu.be/b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:43 AM
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It was slowly deteriorated by being complacent with us as people and where the relationship was. We settled and became -- like most couples -- comfortable. Plus, the last year and half was long distance. To be honest, a full year before I felt ready to date and be single. Then, I got my heart broken again by another girl. And that's when I wanted to learn how to meet girls outside my social circle. And here I am now.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:20 AM
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Daygame better results and higher quality girls (in my experience), but the learning curve is higher. Just be efficient with your time and go to a place with where you'll run into more attractive women for Daygame. I'm short so I get filtered out faster from online dating, and I got into Daygame for this exact reason initially. Plus, I was only meeting average girls online. But you can have a lot of success online if you take the time to learn it or invest in it. I just prefer meeting girls in p…
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:58 PM
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Why am I here? There’s multiple reasons, but… I have a clear, vivid memory of me at work, sloughed in my chair and staring off into the distance. My heart ached. I felt a lump stuck in my throat as I tried not to reminisce and dwell on all the past, happy moments with her. The irony is that those happy moments could make you feel so… sad and alone. It didn’t help that I was listening to depressing rainy-day indie music, but it was embarrassingly comforting. There goes 6-and-a-half-year relations…
/r/seduction16/09/15 02:43 PM
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Like everything, it depends. But when you can be a fun, social guy and win over the girls as a whole, they will be completely cool with you getting their friend's number. When you can do a good job on winning over the friends, they will often wing for you. Also, I have just focused on one girl and completely ignored the friend as well and have done well. In my experience, winning over the friends makes everything easier. No, there is nothing wrong with starting with an introduction. The reason s…
/r/seduction16/09/15 01:11 AM
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There are multiple ways to attract women. You'll see different styles of creating attraction and chemistry because men have different personalities. But, from all my friends who are good they have similar qualities. Learn to embody these qualities. They are confident. They are self-amused. They know how to be in the moment. Also, it's fine to be friendly and build rapport to get social comfort, but to be a man that she is attracted you'll need to transition out of boring conversation. Two easy w…
/r/seduction16/09/15 12:52 AM
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