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| 1 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?OK. Because the general comment was relevant to people's specific experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?as I said, and I'll now say for a second time, I was not explaining your marriage or family life to you. I was explaining what happens when people have kids and the sex drops off. It's a dead bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?I.... don't think I was explaining your marriage or family life to you. I think I was explaining in general the problems a husband faces when he's suddenly deprived of sex following the birth of children. I didn't mean that that was a reflection of your personal life. I don't understand why people take everything here so personally as if everything said is a direct statement about them personally. It was intended as a statement of what happens to husbands in general, using my own personal experi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:41 PM |
| -1 | Q4All: Do you know anyone in a "dead bedroom" situation? Why do you think their bedroom is dead?If a husband isn't getting the sex he wants, he's in a dead bedroom, regardless of the cause. I get it - children born, taking care of kids, yes. I get it. But if husband has a problem, then wife has a problem too. And if husband isn't getting the sex he needs, it's the wife's job to help the husband with that, regardless of external circumstances. The dishes can wait. The vacuuming can wait. The deep cleaning can wait. Wife can give husband 15 minutes while the babes are in the crib sleeping. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?FIne. Most of what women say about men is based on their feelings and bitter resentments, so I guess it's even all around then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Man here, I have a problem with the whole 'market' philosophy and want to know what you thinkThis get removed because "woe is me"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 07:00 PM |
| -1 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Disagree, especially with that last part. No, women do not usually do this. But they do it more than men do. and they don't do this with "random" men, they do it with attractive men. OP was talking about a cute girl, not just a "random" girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Man here, I have a problem with the whole 'market' philosophy and want to know what you thinkI think that the sexual marketplace is in fact a market. There are buyers and sellers. You must bring to market something that someone else wants, and you must "sell" it for a price you and the other person agree on and can live with. If you have nothing to "sell", or no one wants what you're selling, then you have two choices: (1) you don't get to participate in the market. You don't get to buy anything for yourself because you have nothing to sell. (2) You need to go out and get something that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:47 PM |
| -4 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.It's equally inappropriate to say that to a woman in that situation. Something like "you're too cute to be working here"? That's inappropriate? Why? It's an innocuous compliment, from a guy who isn't her superior. It's not sexual harassment. I'm saying that would be the equivalent. But it isn't, because of the sexes of the people involved. Men comment on women's looks. Women comment on men's looks. Then why do you expect that to be okay with a woman who's just trying to do her job? Because it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:24 PM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Yes, I know you said that happened then. I guess I wasn't clear. Given today's current social, sexual and political climate, is that same conduct that was directed toward you at that time offensive or harassing now, today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Did you find any of that offensive or feel harassed? Put yourself in that same situation today as a 15 year old. Is it offensive or harassing now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:15 PM |
| 2 | A discussion, not a debate. I recently held back from giving an innocent zero further intent compliment, and thought to myself, well isn’t this ironic.Why would a straight man say that to other men? He's trying to draw the equivalent to a man telling a woman she's cute. Straight men don't comment on the appealing physical appearances of other men in common conversation where detailed nuanced gender issues aren't under discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | The Prison RuleThe source is very relevant. The only guys who say anything like this are guys who other guys wouldn't fuck with in prison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | When you say "men/women do XYZ", how confident are you in that generalization?Generalizations are never 100%. No one has ever said a generalization is true 100% of the time. No science makes this kind of claim. No social scientist with any kind of professional competence or integrity would ever make that claim regardless of how reliable the methodologies of their studies are. They just mean that the described phenomenon or observation happens a sufficient number of times to give it predictive power. one should never take "Men do XYZ" or "Women hate 456" or similar stateme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?Good. Because most of what men say around here about women is based in reality and based on men as men watching, talking with, and fucking women. Not women watching men. But experiencing it firsthand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:39 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?Nah Just doesn't work that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?It is not. It's a first move. Pursuit means you have to make a first move and then do more after that assuming you get a green light to move forward. As you might say, I'm right and you're wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?the vast majority of men who chase don't enjoy it. The only ones who do, are the ones who pump and dump. Utter bullshit. How do you, as a woman, know what men think and want and enjoy about chasing women. How do you know this? 44 years on this planet spent watching men, talking with men and dating men. I’ve never heard a man who a truly likes women and isn’t a sniveling anxiety ridden turd say he wants women to chase him. So, then, when men draw conclusions about women based on watching women, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?Making the first move or making the initial approach is not "pursuit". It's showing interest. It's one step above "i'm open to an approach". The OP is about first moves and approach, not "pursuit". First moves and approaches are small motions that can be dropped off at the first sign of lack of interest, and no one lost anything. Pursuit requires sustained effort for a longer period of time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:52 PM |
| 7 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?women do “approach,” just not the way you think. Girl game is not "approaching". Girl game is "being open to approach" or "inviting approach" or "giving the clear green light to approach". Signaling "please approach me" or "I would welcome a skillful, well handled, attractive approach from you as long as you are hot and you don't fuck it up" is not "approaching". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:51 PM |
| 2 | The Prison RuleSpoken by a guy who no one in his right mind would ever fuck with. Spoken by a guy who no one would fuck with in prison. And, spoken by a guy who treated women pretty much however he wanted. Spoken by a guy who cheated on Maria Shriver with the help, and got found out only because the maid bore him a son who looks just like him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women refuse to make the first move?Women don't approach because they don't like being rejected. They don't like risking rejection. They can't handle rejection as well as men can. In a normal world, women almost never have to risk being rejected because most men can sack up enough to ask the girl out and bear the risks. When the risks became nuclear rejection, getting accused of sexual harassment, getting MeTooed out of a job, getting kicked out of school... that's when men started saying no thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | People in relationships, who does the housework?I do home repair/replacement, yard work, bills/budgeting, and car maintenance. I do dishes and vacuum rarely, only when Martha is not available. I do not do laundry or cook. Have more sex now than we did several years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.Shrugs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/19 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?I don't enjoy interacting with that type of men. What type of men? Men who say "women are x"? Men who criticize women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.I didn't say it's why you go out dancing. You want to go out dancing because it's fun to go dancing in public? Fine. Just expect that men are going to hit on you. Including men you aren't at all interested in. Because a woman dancing sexily in public will attract attention from men, whether you consciously intend to attract that attention or not. Most women who go out dancing in public are doing so to attract attention, and for validation and affirmation of their attractiveness. They're doing so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.As if any weird dude is going to rape you on a dance floor or in a bar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?But this place is also rife with women responding to legitimate complaints from men with "But I am not like that, therefore, you are wrong and you're just a mean poopyhead" or "You just hate women". It's because women take these general criticisms so personally and construe men saying "women are X" as "that mean man is saying I am X! That's so hurtful He just hates women!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.Oh well. That's the price women have to pay so they can play in an unregulated sexual marketplace . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.The point is you'll have to put up with being approached by a lot of men you aren't interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?Nah. Women promote their own self interest at the expense of others all the time, and that's not called toxic. It just goes both ways. If a man sees a woman profiting at his expense, she's a bitch. If a woman sees a man profiting at women's expense (because if it happens to any woman, she takes it personally as a personal affront to her), he's "toxic". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How common was/is marital rape?I don't think it's common at all. Think back to late 19th-early 20th century America. Supposedly, every man who wasn't upper crust was an evil, sadistic drunk who reveled in the chance to force himself on his hapless, put upon wife. Reality is that if most men did that, the wife would go to her family or other men in the community, usually at the church, and said men would go "talk to" her husband. "Talk to" meaning tuning the husband up and giving him a black eye and broken rib, and telling him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?One team was playing under rules that gave them a disadvantage. So they changed the rules. This is the entire history of relations between the sexes. Women (and top men) had it better when most women got to fuck the top men. Men weren't getting anything they wanted, and no one could get those bottom 80% men to do anything. So men changed the rules (Christian morality). Nearly all men had it better under Christian morality. Then a lot of men started abusing those "privileges". Women weren't getti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?Self-interest is not toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.Then you're going to have to put up with a rando grinding on you sometimes and telling the rando to shove it where the sun don't shine. You'll also have to put up with assertive and aggressive men approaching you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.Sure you can. But men, especially assertive, aggressive men who fuck, are going to approach you assertively and possibly aggressively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?Women do understand that TRP is for men's interests. They don't like what's being said or the way it's being said. Women do not like men "cracking the code", so to speak, because it lets more men in on what's going on in the casual sex culture. Women don't like the idea that a man can learn this stuff. Women hate the idea of men learning this on the internet because if a man is learning this on the internet it means he didn't "just get it", he's not a natural, and he's a fake. Women don't like s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?I think more women view AWALT as "women are shitty" than men do. What I see more often is Men: Women are shitty in X way, or act in Y shitty way. Or, X or Y is not shitty, but results in unfair consequences. Women: "We do not! Or, at least, I do not!" Men: OK. Most women are shitty in X way, or act in Y shitty way, or it's not shitty but it's unfair to men. Women: "You hate women! You're saying this because you hate women! You're saying women are shitty because you hate women! Misogynist! Asshat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:50 PM |
| 4 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?Sure it is. It's looking out for your own interests and getting what you want and need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Why do women/bp fail to understand that TRP is for men to chase their own selfish desires?When women look out for their interests, they're just being smart and sensible. When men look out for their interests, they're toxic, sexual harassers, commit sexual assault, and are just not nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: How many of you aren't interested in casual sex, and desire sex mostly only with someone you have a strong emotional connection with?But casual sex is broader than "sex with strangers" and going home with a different guy every weekend. Casual sex is just sex without a commitment. "No strings attached". You can know the person very well. You can really really like that person a lot. It's just that there's no commitment or expectation of commitment. So let me ask you: with that definition, are you still opposed to "casual sex"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 04:49 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexThis entire post is apex fallacy. Just because male rockstars can get hot women to have sex with them, this doesn't mean that as a general rule, men have it better than women when it comes to sex. Attractive men, men who actually fuck, might have it better than women when it comes to sex. Most men, men who don't fuck, don't have it better than women when it comes to sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 04:41 PM |
| 2 | After having discovered RP and/or becoming more successful with women, have your standards increased?The only standard that actually changed is my being much less willing to put up with drama, games, and crappy behavior from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?Sorry, you're not doing any better job making your point. The fact remains that if you want to talk about sexual attraction you've got to break it down and make it clear. No one is refusing to talk about how to avoid cooking fires, nor is anyone refusing to acknowledge the importance of sexual attractiveness. But in order to talk about sexual attractiveness, we first have to identify what that is. Have a great day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?Yes. It's possible. I'm sure that has happened. Again, we agree. Because for men, "sexual attractiveness" is more than physical appearance. I'm not sure what point you're trying to make here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?I didn't whinge at all nor did I use "special red pill man" words anything. I just fleshed out what you said. "I feel unloved" is shorthand for "I'm not sexually attracted to him" which is in effect "i don't like his appearance, he has no game, he's unconfident and submissive". Also, kino or seduction don't work at all if the other elements (attraction, confidence and dominance) arent there. No wife will allow her husband to touch her or interact with her in a "loving" way if the other things ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?We're in agreement. Women evaluating men for sexual attractiveness is a function of men's "physical appearance, game, confidence, and dominance". using your words, a man's "desire or quality of arousing sexual interest" in a woman is his "physical appearance, game, confidence, and dominance" As much as you want to disagree with me, it appears to me that we agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find UnattractiveDefine "16th century paternalism". I don't think so. Even if you're correct, that's not subservience or slavery, nor is it expecting women to be doormats. Even if you're correct, so what? No real relationship in 2019 actually looks like 16th century paternalism, nor could it. A woman can leave a relationship any time she wants. If she's married to the man she's leaving, she'll get cash and prizes for leaving him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?Not really. Sexual attraction is a function of physical appearance, game, confidence, and dominance, not "I feel unloved/unwanted". Women have sex with men they don't love. Women have sex with men who don't love them. Women have sex with men who don't want them for relationships. Women have sex with men they don't want relationships with. Women are having sex with those men because they're sexually attracted to those men. "I feel unloved/unwanted" is a reason women stop having sex with their hus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: why do men get angry about women who get free drinks when the free alcohol is intended to make us drunk and therefore less likely to say “no” to sex? Alcohol affects consent.Men get angry about this because men are the ones paying for that alcohol and then the women they buy it for don't sleep with them. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?It doesn't matter how many she could sleep with. It's not academic. It's how many she in fact would sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:07 PM |
| 6 | [Q4RP] What does PPD get wrong about TRP/MRP that you'd like to correct?That TRP/MRP want women to be subservient slaves and doormats. They want women to be "submissive". They want women who will follow their men and go with their men. Men want to direct the course of their own lives and have women who will go with them and follow the path their men lay out. MRP talks about women being "first officers" and "first mate" to the man's "Captain". A first officer or first mate cannot be subservient or a doormat. The first officer must be intelligent, capable, resourceful… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find UnattractiveTRPillers want women to be subservient No. Submissive is not subservient. Submissive is not "doormat". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 02:00 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find UnattractiveReddit TRP started largely because break with seduction/PUA which said "tips and tricks, just fake it" and TRP which said "self improve and don't fake being that guy, instead you have to actually be that guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:54 PM |
| 5 | CMV: TRP Encourages a Mindset which Women Find UnattractiveFeminism. There's more of them than you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:53 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?I don't think this is why DBs result. DBs result because sexual attraction either was never there or has dissipated over time for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What’s the RP Take On Non-Sexual affection?How does this explain the RP take on nonsexual affection? It looks to me like this explains your take on nonsexual affection, which, while somewhat interesting, has next to nothing to do with the RP take on nonsexual affection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?And will sleep with one or two of those men. Maybe. I stand by what I said, "dude". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 01:17 PM |
| -1 | is TRP still about "enjoy the decline" and getting laid with women?Are you a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/19 07:32 PM |
| 12 | is TRP still about "enjoy the decline" and getting laid with women?Sure, for most. But a growing percentage of men can’t get sex. That percentage will only increase as time goes on. More and more men will get left behind. For those guys it’s porn, PlayStation, weed, McJobs, Cheetos and Mountain Dew. Don’t expect more from them because there’s no reason for them to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What word definition mix-ups have you witnessed on here?When men say "attractive", they generally mean "visually sexually desirable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | What word definition mix-ups have you witnessed on here?"Attractive". I don't even think it's a word mixup. I think it's just men using the word as shorthand for one thing and women using it as shorthand for many different things. Just means different things to different sexes. When men use this word, it means "sexually desirable". I think when women use this word it means a lot of different things. It can mean sexually desirable. It can also mean "would be good for relationship" or "is sexually desirable and good for relationship" or "might be sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/19 08:20 PM |
| 0 | What word definition mix-ups have you witnessed on here?I don't think women use "respect" to mean "polite". I think when women say they expect "respect" from men or from the men they date or have sex with, they mean they want the kinds of respect men show other men. Deference and admiration. And they expect men to simply give it to them without it being earned. At least that's what it looks like to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.That’s your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.I'm not saying one gender has it worse than the other, at least not here. I do think men have it much worse than women do, in many ways that truly matter, but that's not what I'm saying here. What I am saying is that what men offer (sex) is real and has value. What women offer (fake friendship, let's just be friends") isn't real and has no value. That's all. Otherwise, I agree with most of what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.Maybe I'm just dense. I'm still not following you. Are you saying women don't like men who just hang around and do things for them? Women don't like having men as "friends" who say "how high" when she says "jump"? Women don't like getting free stuff from guys who don't (overtly) ask for anything in return other than the chance to just be there with and for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.It's what women are offering men, and men are correct to decline it. Her: "Please be my beta orbiter. Please be a guy at my beck and call to do things for me and give me things on a moment's notice, while I give you nothing in return." Him: "No thanks, I'm good." Her: "Asshole!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.I don't understand your comment. What "weird socially disliked behavior" are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 05:14 PM |
| 2 | What works better for you? Going for the kiss during the first date or the second?You go for a kiss. On the lips. On the first date. Do not leave the first date without attempting a kiss. If she does anything other than enthusiastically return the kiss, you don't ask her out again. She's not attracted to you. That's anything. Backs away. Pushes you away. Grimaces or cringes. Turns her head. Offers her cheek and not her lips. Gives you a peck and not a real kiss. Any of those happen, immediately disengage, end the date, and don't ask her out again. She's not attracted to you. … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.If what you're saying is true, then why do you women have so much casual sex? If he's thirsty, he's unattractive and can't get pussy. Why are you giving him your pussy, then? If you want to be valued as more than a p-sleeve, why are you women acting like little more than p-sleeves? Take your "incel" and "autist" insults somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?any links to this man's youtube videos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.Which those men are. Yeah, if they're spending all day on reddit, that's a problem. But most men aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.Decent looking women are valued and desired by men because they're women. If you think otherwise, youre not looking carefully enough. How many women have you dealt with as a man? None. Men are not telling women that it means anything if she gives him sex. If that's a lie, they're not hearing it from men. No men are telling women "if he sleeps with you it means he loves you". Men are telling women "if you want any chance with an attractive man you have to put out", but that isn't the same as "if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.He is actually walking the walk. He is trying to mentor in his small way. That's what TRP and related subreddits are. That's what the manosphere started out as. Men could do things to help with male anger but they would rather not. No, men really can't do things to help with other men's anger. Not unless we emulate the sissyboi men in the Gillette commercial from a few months back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.What names are women being called because they're getting pissed off? What lies do women get fed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I think the importance of Voice is ignoredSorry. Men will forgive a female shrill or otherwise unsavory voice, if she has nice tits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.But none of that means sex is worthless to women. If sex is worthless to women, why do so many women have casual sex with attractive men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.But no one calls women incels or other derogatory names for their getting pissed off. What lies do women get fed? Certainly not by incels or RPers since you're not listening to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:11 PM |
| 0 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?Well you made it sound like all men do this. NAMALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?You don't know this. Again: you've not interacted with women as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?I need to look this up. How does everyone know so much about this man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?Respect my authoritah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?Seen the same things many times, unfortunately. But not as severe. I've seen girls openly laugh in a guys face. I've seen then nuclear reject guys specifically to embarrass those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?And it seems men laugh off male bullying and want to kill them selves AND OTHERS when it comes to female disinterest. A few, very few, men want to kill themselves AND OTHERS when it comes to female disinterest. Most men come to terms with it and learn to live with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?But I know for a fact no woman told him that. That’s not how women communicate. We don’t go around telling people to die lol. But you don't know that unless you've followed him around for the last 10 years and seen every interaction he's had with women. How many interactions have you had with women as a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:37 PM |
| 1 | What is it about women laughing/smirking that set some men off?and snicker and stifle laughs while trying to conceal it. This guy's probably seen it enough that he knows what it's about and why women who were previously neutral with blah facial expressions are suddenly mildly amused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:36 PM |
| 15 | What's the reddest and bluest thing you believe?Reddest: Female sexuality is much, much more feral and primal than most men think and most women will admit. Bluest: Men should support the children they create. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.No. Most men are not angry incels. But most men get rejected and frustrated, and, yes, angry. The fact that a man gets pissed off about being lied to and the crappy advice he gets that doesn't work, doesn't mean he's an incel. It means he's human. According to you, if a man gets the least little bit frustrated and expresses that frustration on an internet forum dedicated to discussing gender and pillsphere issues, he's an incel. That's just not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.I suppose you could look at it that way. But consider that women really desire sex from attractive men. Women will take sex from attractive men, if sex is all they can get from attractive men (and many times, it is all they can get). Women don't really think men are good enough for friendship. what women consider "friendship" is really beta orbiterhood. When women say they're offering friendship, what they really are offering is an opportunity to do things for her, give her things, loan her mone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.Sex is meaningless? So sex really doesn't mean anything to women and women don't want it? You can call whatever names you want, but if you think sex doesnt mean anything to women, you understand even less about women than you think I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 03:10 PM |
| 7 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.No it isn't. A woman who comes on to a man and gets rejected is just a woman who came on to a man and got rejected. A man who comes on to a woman and gets rejected is an incel and the lowest form of life there is, according to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 02:21 PM |
| 4 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.At least they're getting something. At least they're getting sex. At least they're getting attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 02:20 PM |
| 9 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.This. All of this. Every bit of it. [women] complain about being used for sex or being seen as only being useful for sex. You're still getting attention. How you make it work for you is up to you. Exactly right. They're still getting sex. They're still getting attention from the opposite sex. Sex is something. Sex is not nothing. Sex is not worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 02:17 PM |
| 5 | Women experience "the anger phase" too, and it's just as toxic.halfway decent-looking women aren't valued and desired by men just for being women. That just because men will fuck anything with a pulse, it doesn't mean shit if one sticks his penis in you. This is something women are explicitly told and internalize by age 14. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How important is weight to a man's attractiveness, to you?K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 01:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women: How important is weight to a man's attractiveness, to you?Same. (Grabs popcorn) I'm' interested, because it looks to me like height is the absolute must have. But from the responses here, you gotta be trim and in shape or it's a no go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why don't bottom tier women and bottom tier men just get together?Everyone thinks higher of themselves than they actually are. Not really. Men overestimate their own attractiveness. Women underestimate their own attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Why don't bottom tier women and bottom tier men just get together?Some of them do, because they want to be with someone more than they are repulsed by their partner's unattractiveness. And they're ultimately disappointed and break up. The main problem with your thesis is that unattractive people want attractive people as much as other attractive people do. Unattractive people, though themselves unattractive, want and are attracted to attractive people. (That's a mouthful.) Martha and Bertha still want Chad even though they can never, ever get Chad even if he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 06:46 PM |
| 9 | Why do men think most women will accept having their children outside of marriage?Evidently, women are accepting this. Sure, if you take away all the government bennies, you better believe women will keep their legs closed more often or at least will make damn sure their Mirenas are firmly implanted where they should be. I'm also sure women will hold out for a guy who will marry them and father their children, even if that guy is a less attractive specimen. Because when she needs a man's time and money to help raise a kid (because there isn't any government money or Daddy mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 04:25 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating, who are more entitled: Men or Women?You're overstating it but I get what you're saying. I don't agree with it, but I understand what you're trying to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 04:20 PM |
| 17 | Why do men think most women will accept having their children outside of marriage?Because we are seeing more and more women actually doing that. Because we are seeing more and more women settling for impregnation by an attractive man, instead of marrying an unattractive man, or at least a less attractive man. Because society incentivizes this. And society incentivizes this because women demanded that it be incentivized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 04:14 PM |
| -1 | When it comes to dating, who are more entitled: Men or Women?Not really. Men see unattractive women, but aren't sexually interested in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, who are more entitled: Men or Women?That's because the only men women "see" are men they're attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:45 PM |
| 0 | When it comes to dating, who are more entitled: Men or Women?Women. Hands down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:44 PM |
| 39 | Do you think there will ever be a push against socially acceptable forms of male shaming?No, because men compete with each other. Men don't care about other men as a group. When one man gets out of line or complains about "shaming", what happens is what you saw in that video: Other, stronger men shut him up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there will ever be a push against socially acceptable forms of male shaming?No, men have been trying to "create that push" for 100 years, and it has gone nowhere. "Men" will never do that. Men are too individual for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 2 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."The misandry is strong... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."Being nice and pleasant does not mean "have no boundaries" and "don't ever expect reciprocity". I was a pathetic stupid doormat who put everyone’s needs before mine. That right there was your problem. And that does not mean you were "nice and pleasant". "Be nice, and be pleasant" does not mean "be a doormat that puts everyone else's needs before your own". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."No not really, watch out for yourself. Don't make your needs small and speak up. It doesn't matter if he feels uncomfortable when you do this. If he does- kick him out the door. Learned that in hindsight. I don't care if any man thinks I'm a bitch anymore. I refuse to be taken advantage of again. "Be pleasant" and "be nice" is not about "never ever say anything about what you need, make your needs small, ignore your own needs, light yourself on fire to keep your man warm". You're looking at this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: The future of mating/childrearing in the west might look a lot like the Mosuo ("A Society Without Marriage", kinda) and it already echoes somewhat the practices of the lower classes hereFWIW I agree. Marriage is for wealth consolidation. UMC transfer of cultural norms and status is done before and after marriage, through example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:16 PM |
| 3 | For guys who go to the gym, when do you stop? At what point are you like, okay, this is enough?You don’t. You never ever let up. That’s because when you do let up you start losing all the progress you made. Jason Momoa level is the absolute best most men could ever get to assuming they work for years to get there. Most men will never be Jay Cutler or the Mountain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 4 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."Doesn’t this put the lie to your belief that men require a lot of tending? These are things a woman need only refrain from doing. All she needs to do is not do these things. Requires no effort on her part beyond simple restraint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."Perfect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 0 | "Be Hot, Be Nice, Be Pleasant."What does a woman need to do to be pleasant? Don’t be a bitch. Be a nonbitch. Don’t complain. This doesn’t mean that you never point out things you need or should be fixed or that you ignore your own needs. It means you don’t whine incessantly about unimportant things like the fact that you have to settle for Robert Mondavi wine instead of more expensive wine, or that you have to wait till next week for your mani-pedi. EDIT: What about "don't be a bitch" do women not understand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?Link to where I said anything about men voicing opinions about women's bodies in the workplace. You're the only one talking about that. You said that, not me. Don't put words in my mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?Sure. I mean, those women could fuck ugly unattractive men. And sometimes, rarely, they do. But that doesn't make it easier for women to get sex with attractive men, which is the sex that really seems to excite women. They want sex with attractive men. If they want sex with attractive men, most have to settle for casual, because that's the only kinds of sex most attractive men will have. It's sheer numbers. There aren't enough attractive men to go around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What's up with these rich men hiring escorts for "companionship" ??I like this post. Have my upvote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:33 PM |
| 0 | What's up with these rich men hiring escorts for "companionship" ??But why must they pay for it? Why is it such a common thing? Lots of reasons. They're hideously unattractive. They're hopelessly socially awkward. They're insane. They don't have time for a real relationship. They're sociopaths who don't want a real relationship and would rather just pay instead of make a real relationship. It is something so accessible and easy to have, I don't understand why they do it. The companionship of a woman (even platonic nonsexual companionship) is not accessible for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Is there such a thing for women as "knowing how to talk to men"?Women do need to know how to talk to men, but "a woman who knows how to talk to men" does not look the same as "a man who knows how to talk to women". A woman who "knows how to talk to a man" is a woman who can use charm and subtle seduction. Or is very nice, cheerful, and optimistic. Follows the conversation, doesn't try to lead it so much. A man "who knows how to talk to a woman" looks different. More assertive, in charge. Directs the conversation. Sexualizes the conversation appropriately. Ap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?Her ability to get casual sex from uggos doesn't make it "easier", though. Because she's not going to. Just my viewpoint, that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?She's not going to sleep with unattractive men, regardless of their availability. So the fact that there are 1 million unattractive men and 20 attractive men doesn't make it easier for women to get casual sex, because the only men she'll even consider sleeping with are the 20 attractive men. It is easier for women to get casual sex, but the number of men who also want casual sex doesn't make it easier for women to get casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 03:05 PM |
| -2 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?But no more willing attractive men. That doesn't change. It also doesn't change the number of women she's competing with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 02:15 PM |
| -3 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?That's always been so. That doesn't make it easier for women to get casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?How do these true things make it easier for women to get casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What are the main factors leading to women having an easier time getting casual sex?Near-complete elimination of the risks. Pregnancy is no longer a risk. There's abortion. There's cheap, safe, effective and widely available birth control that any woman, regardless of age, intelligence, station, resources or marital status, can get and use. STD risks can be sharply reduced through condom use. Just make him suit up. Risks of slut shaming effectively gone. The most important factor is removal of all social constraints. There are no social constraints at all on women now. Women ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.That has nothing to do with whether these men can get any woman, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.No it’s because of men’s nature. Men and women are never going to change to make this “equal” so this is little more than a thought exercise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.But women will never have to work hard to get laid. Thatscjust not how it works. It’s never been that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Those men still have to do some work for it and bear the risks. They also had to do the work associated with getting handsome, charismatic, famous, rich, and confident. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Are men just mad because women are acting more and more like men have acted historically? Consider within the context of the lyrics of Can’t Hold Us Down by Xtina ft Lil Kim.Paying the money and time costs associated with it STD risks Social approbation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/19 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Do men have the same taste in women?I didn't say conventional good looks. I said conventional attractiveness features, which includes looks but also other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Do men have the same taste in women?Women don't get into LTR's with men they aren't sexually attracted to in the first place. I disagree with that. That's not true. Women get into men they have a little attraction to. Women don't have to be sexually attracted to a man to have sex with him or LTR him. Women LTR and marry men they're not attracted to all the time for all kinds of reasons. Sexual attraction is not necessary for a woman to get into an LTR with a man. TRP assumes that it was because the woman was never attracted in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Do men have the same taste in women?Having actively sexual and loving relationships doesn't mean the men in those relationships are sexually attractive. Nor does it mean the women in those relationships with those men are sexually attracted to them. The fact that a man is in a relationship with a woman does not mean the woman in that relationship with him is attracted to him. Watch and look at who women are actually attracted to. It's a small subset of men. the real argument is that, apparently, women are only attracted to one spe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Do men have the same taste in women?From observing women both in their natural habitat and on media, from listening to what they say about what they find attractive, and from seeing what they write, as well as the research on this (don't ask me to quote it chapter and verse). All you have to do to reach this conclusion is to watch women and see what they respond to sexually. Women, almost universally, think Channing Tatum and Brad Pitt are more attractive than Steve Buscemi and Jason Alexander. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Do men have the same taste in women?No, you really can't say that. Men are attracted to all sorts of women of all shapes, sizes and colors. Whatever woman you can think of, a cohort of men likes that type. Some men are into black women, some white, some like only Asian women. Some men are into really thin women, some are into supersize BBWs . And everything in between. Men are into all shapes and sizes of breasts from tiny mosquito bites to huge fake ones. Sure, WHR might be more or less universally attractive. But it's not a requ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Do men have the same taste in women?The same ones Steven Tyler of Aerosmith has - fame, money, talent, and the fact that he's on a stage with people listening to him perform and most men aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Do men have the same taste in women?I mean, all you have to do is look at the men whom women show attraction to. Conventional good looks, tall, trim, in shape, muscular but not musclebound, high status, has money, confidence/charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Do men have the same taste in women?Except that all of those men have conventional attractiveness features. Jack Black is "attractive" because he's funny and famous, and I'm sure there are niches of women who would be sexually attracted to him. Men need more or less the same suite of traits to be attractive: Good looking, in shape, trim, good face, charisma, confidence, fame, status, money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?This: men keep their hands to themselves in the workplace, when the conduct is unwelcome or unwanted Is not too much to ask. What IS too much to ask is that men cease being men. No, I don' t think men should keep their opinions to themselves. You don't like men's opinions, you don't have to listen or you can go somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?The point is outlining for rus what a battery is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed?OK | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 05:36 PM |
| 4 | Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed?Sounds like you would be alpha widowed if you and he broke up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed?do you think you would ever marry again if you and your H broke up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed?Sex with a borderline can be out of this world intense. But ultimately not worth it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Have you even (been) Alpha Widowed?I'm noticing among at least some women acquaintances from high school and college, they follow this pattern: --go head over heels for high school or college guy. Or at least a guy she meets before she's 22. --date Mr. Head over Heels for about 2 or 3 years, very seriously, she's "married" to him for all intents and purposes. --break up at some major life event or milestone, usually graduation, moving away, or taking job. --marry someone else, have his kids. --divorce after at least 10 years of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 04:25 PM |
| 5 | CMV: "Why won't the girls I want fuck me" is no more "entitled" in character than "why won't the guys I want relationship me"many guys women have sex with are not the least bit interested in relationships. Which is part of those guys' appeal to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Disagree. I don't agree with you. Personal attack "I don't know how old you are" OK. I'm done here. I'm not interested in dealing with personal attacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?It's confusing because you first said one thing, then you said something else, now you're saying it's both. This indicates an opinion that's not well thought out. But OK. I don't agree with you. I can't agree or disagree. I can't tell what you believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Men are constantly warning women if she doesn’t fuck men leave. It is some projecting too. Really? Do you think women are actually listening to what men are saying? I'm confused. First you said women have sex with men because they project their own wants and desires onto men, and think that if they have sex, men will love them. Now you're saying no, that's not it, it's men telling women they have to have sex or the men they want will leave. Which is it? I can't respect your opinion either. I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Agree to disagree. I don't agree with you at all about this. Girls and guys are doing it differently: Girls project, while guys get info externally and apply it. Most of the info guys get is bad, unworkable advice that is exactly what they shoudln't be doing. Girls have exactly no one telling them they should fuck guys to get those guys to love them. No one is telling them to do that. That's all 100% internally driven projection, as you say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?You're moving the goalposts. You're saying girls and guys are getting false info. When I debunked that, now you're saying girls and guys are projecting. The point is girls project internally outward. Guys get information from external sources and then try to apply it. So for guys, the problem is garbage in, garbage out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Here's the thing though - most women aren't on here bitching about men. Red Pill and Blue Pill are about sexual strategy for men. Most women aren't complaining about men, and if a woman is complaining about "men", she can get all kinds of good information from all kinds of places. Not so for men. There's a distinct deficit between what info is available to men, and what's available to women. Women get better and more accurate information faster. It is literally exactly false info about how attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:44 PM |
| 9 | why do men think feminism is dating advice?Yes, your second theory is closer to it. Yes a lot of men believe feminism contains dating and sex advice for men, because most feminists are women and they see women and feminists talking to each other about marriage, dating and sex. What they want from marriage, dating and sex. What they like and don't like in marriage, dating and sex. A lot of men thus believe there's a lot of good information men can get from feminists, if they just ask feminists for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?they do believe from these books that a guy could love them as devotedly as Edward. Again, are you as harsh on girls for their naivete and stupidly believing what they see on a screen, as you are on boys for their ill-considered "beliefs"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Girls do things like sleep with a guy thinking it will make him love her. If she whines about it, they blame her for being naive and falling for it. Parents all warn girls about boys, they get told “boys will be boys, they will trick you and say anything at all to get sex” they don’t tell the girls it’s so unfair, girls are just told that’s how men are, it’s your job to work around it. And they don’t expect good feedback from the guy who fooled them. It’s just “that’s life.” None of that is misi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?The dating/romantic experience of boys is something that simply has to be experienced to be understood, I guess. It's horrifically debilitating to fail over and over and over again, and not know why, and have everyone telling you the wrong things to do. In most things, when you fail, you get good feedback. You fuck up with a friend, or in a team sport, or when out camping, you process it and learn, or someone shows you, and you do it a little better the next time. Not so with boys and failing in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Apples and oranges. Twilight and vampire stuff is clearly fantasy. Most romcoms aren't clearly fantasy and certainly aren't presented as such. They're presented as plausible real life real world situations. Everybody, even young kids, knows vampires and werewolves aren't real. Not everyone knows "How to Lose a Guy In 10 Days" isn't real. There's a big difference between vampire fantasy and "cheesy romances". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 06:10 PM |
| 31 | why do men think feminism is dating advice?it seems to me like lions asking gazelle how to hunt them better It's a bit broader than just "do men think feminism is dating advice". It's more you see women complaining about men and since you all believe "women talking=feminism", you assume that asking organized feminism is the correct way to get the correct information on how to deal with women? I think the thought process is: Men communicate clearly and honestly most of the time. I understand men's communication. Women must also be communi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 05:52 PM |
| 0 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Life and art imitate each other. Yes, movies are not real. But movies purport to depict reality, especially in male-female interactions, romance, and sex. In most movies it's often not presented as fantasy - it's presented as actors depicting real people with real motivations and real consequences. It could play out the way you see it in a romcom. The fact that it often does not play out that way is something that most young audiences don't know, and they aren't shown or taught or seeing anythin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Easier said than done. Pretty difficult to tell an awkward 15 year old boy who's been rejected 100 times by girls to keep going. His counterpart, the 15 year old girl, has mostly positive experiences with boys, while he has had overwhelmingly negative experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:58 PM |
| 2 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?Battery is just "touching that would be harmful or offensive to a reasonable person". If i come up to a woman and put my hand on her ass. Just put it there. No slapping. No rubbing. Just palm one of her ass cheeks for 5 seconds. That's a battery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Because they're kept away from that reality because of their upbringing, their weird parents, or weird religious beliefs. In this context, because their single moms talk about how wonderful and special and great and sinless women are, and how evil, terrible, base and sinful men are. Because they're slightly on the spectrum and believe what they're told and what they hear, over what they see (assuming they're even seeing any of it). Because they believe what girls say, instead of what they do. Or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?Yeah. It's a simple battery, really. Sexual harassment arose as a direct response to men (mostly) doing things that were not technically illegal but were still resulting in women's lack of advancement at work, or women having to sleep with the boss to get ahead ("quid pro quo" harassment). Hostile work environment arose later and is where most of the interesting things happen. "Hostile work environment" really means men have to stop acting like men and instead have to be neutered automatons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 04:30 PM |
| 4 | what kind of men sexually harass women or send d*ck pics?What are you defining as "sexual harassment"? Sexual harassment is an employment discrimination concept and occurs only in the workplace. For this discussion are we now describing any and all "unwelcome sexual behavior" as "sexual harassment" regardless of location or context? Because if the definition is that broad, every man alive has "sexually harassed" a woman. The answer to your question is that all kinds of men "sexually harass" women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 03:10 PM |
| 3 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Widowed moms are not single moms or divorced moms. Widows with kids are married moms for all intents and purposes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?A single mom with 5 kids from 5 dads is getting support, sometimes, from maybe 2 of the dads. Of the remaining 3, one is dead, one is in prison, and the last is nowhere to be found. A single mom like that lives in grinding poverty and has no time to be telling her sons not to watch porn or helicopter them. She's doing great just keeping her kids from getting shot, beaten up, or addicted to drugs. The divorced mom who gets to keep the house and gets child support (not usually alimony)? She's usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?I thought we were talking about pushy overbearing moms. Those moms would have a very watchful eye on the kid helicoptering him around. I think we have a very different idea of single moms and divorced moms. Your average single female parent (divorced or never married) in the US is not a pushy overbearing mom, nor is she a helicopter parent. She's frazzled, overextended, burning the candle at both ends, cash poor, and neurotic. She doesn't have time or the mental fortitude to be pushy or overbear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 02:38 PM |
| 0 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Lots of reasons. Sex is an incredibly strong drive. If the only way you can get that drive satiated is to watch porn, you do it, even if mom says don't. Same for boys who grow up in intact homes. They still watch porn too, even though they have both parents telling them not to watch porn. Because the sex drive is so strong. Boys can sneak around and watch porn. They can just hide it or lie about it. Most of the time, mom is too busy, too absent or too exhausted to keep 24/7 tabs on everything li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 5 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?That's part of it. He internalizes that dad doesn't want to see him because mom tells him that dad doesn't want to see him. But more to the point, it's that mom is the dominant adult figure in his young life. Mom is completely alone and unchecked. So whatever she does is how her children live. Whatever mom does is "right" because no one else is around telling her it's "wrong". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | What are the best things a guy can work on to become more attractive to a woman?Best things: Physical appearance. Get in shape. Lose excess weight. Put on muscle mass. Good hairstyle. Good facial hair. Well fitting, in style, appropriate clothes. A guy should start with what he can fix immediately, and that's usually his hair and clothes. Getting in shape and losing weight (or putting on muscle mass) will take longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a threshold in which you would be ok with being a beta bucks?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 01:18 PM |
| 10 | How would men from broken homes get a "Women can do no wrong" attitude?Because they live with their moms and get indoctrinated into "mom as goddess" thinking. They have to learn to appease, placate, and cajole mom, who most likely has a cluster B personality disorder and has learned to become a supreme manipulator. They never see their dad, or any strong father or father figure, holding their mothers' emotional excesses in check. No man ever acts as a check, guard, boundary or limit on Mom. No one ever calls Mom out on her shit. Mom also shittalks her son's father … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Think of the guy you've known in your lifetime who was the best with women, i.e., had the easiest time getting laid. How good looking was he? Was he getting laid because of his looks or did the sex happen for him because of his other qualities?Girls also talk about guys' dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/19 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?Then maybe you should have said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?I never said all stay at home wives are shacking up with the gardener. Yes, you did say that. Traditional lifestyle = take care of me and pay my bills, toil away at the office while I shack up with the gardener | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodOkay, agree to disagree. I don't see a woman getting sex out of a date as remotely comparably "bad" to being out some money and getting nothing for it. Women's perspective doesn't matter to me in this particular area. Of course you think it's worse, it affects you. I think being out money without getting laid is worse than getting some sex and no return call. At least you got some sex out of it. Sex is worth something. It's not worthless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodIt's a matter of opinion to a majority of men. A woman getting pumped and dumped is a risk you take. A man paying for a meal and not getting laid is a risk we take. We all have our crosses to bear. But your cross is no heavier than mine is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodSO, basically, what you're saying is that women's pain is objectively worse than men's pain? Again - matter of opinion and perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodBeing used for sex when you love someone is much more hurtful for women than it is to lose the price of a steak That's a matter of opinion and perspective. that is why we don’t really find it all that heart-rending when we hear that men are sad they paid for a salad but didn’t get laid. That's why men don't find it all that heart rending when we hear that women are sad that they liked a guy who pumped and dumped them and didn't get a return call the next day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:15 PM |
| 17 | Between 22-33% of women go on dates purely for free foodYeah. A lot of women get kind of offended if you won't buy food for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to not make girls cum when you first have sex with them? I stopped after I finishedYes, it's fine to not care about her orgasm the first time. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Dad potentially cheating on mom? What to do?Nothing. You do nothing. Your parents' marriage is not your business. It is their business. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Why doesn't the argument that "Woman and Men are likely to pair up because the population is 50/50 " works?But what's the quality of those relationships/marriages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Why doesn't the argument that "Woman and Men are likely to pair up because the population is 50/50 " works?But it isn't just that. It's that increasingly, women cannot marry. Or women put off marriage until their mid to late 30s, and then marry a leftover guy or a divorced guy or a simp. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Have you been sexually penetrated?No. And I would not be. Edit. This leads me to believe that a lot of women's "reactive" or "lower" sex drive has to do with being the penetrated partner... which is why a lot of sex therapists tell couples to focus on non-penetrative sex when frequency is an issue. Interesting theory, but I don't agree. This suggests women don't like being penetrated. It's not my experience that women don't like P in V sex. On the contrary, my experience is they enjoy it a lot, especially with attractive men. A … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?I think i acknowledged that women keep working when I said "contribute to the family bottom line, while she continues to work". Most women don't want to have kids unless they have husbands to help them. Most women will be single moms, but they don't want to be single moms. They want that guy who impregnated them to stick around and care for them and support them when they're at their most vulnerable. A lot of women take time off work, and it's more than a year. That's in white middle class land,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever – in real life – witnessed a relationship that was turned into an "open relationship" and worked out for the couple?Yeah, it works well until they break up. And they almost always do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?OK. I thought you were single, the way you'd written your reply to me. Well done for finding someone and something that works for you. The point I was trying to make is that good men who won't hate women are very common and are everywhere. It's just that a lot of those men aren't very attractive and get passed over. Any woman can easily attract one of these men for marriage, but the marriage will be difficult and fraught with conflict, and deeply unsatisfying in one or more key respects. But at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?You'll never have to deal with a man who secretly hates you, as long as you vet and screen properly. You will be able to find an average beta guy who works, has a job, isn't particularly good looking, but is a decent, hardworking, faithful, loyal, kind man. He just won't be hot, or interesting. He'll be kinda boring. But he will be completely devoted to you, will do anything for you, and will worship the ground you walk on. Those guys are a dime a dozen. Marry one of them, and your life will not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's reasonable to judge men's resources by standards of women's sexuality?OK, but I'd just respond that generalizations are how we all get through life. We can't get through life without generalizing about things, people, events - everything. For example, you can generalize that if you drop a rock from a third story window, that rock will fall and hit the ground. Why? Because every time you've dropped a rock from a high place, it fell until it hit the ground. You can also generalize about people. For example, if I'm in a biker bar, I can generalize that most of the pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's reasonable to judge men's resources by standards of women's sexuality?It's fine to make negative generalizations about men as long as they're rooted in observable reality. Here are some negative generalizations about men that are rooted in observable reality: --they're not very good at dealing with and integrating their emotions into their lives --they can be cold, uncaring, aloof, unfeeling, and unconcerned about anything other than what they want at the moment --they can have tunnel vision about something - focusing on one thing to the exclusion of other, very i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?I have a house to live in, just bought a car, and I get three weeks paid vacation a year. Its called a job and 'most women' are doing that instead of putting up with men. Most women do that until they decide they don't want to anymore, and then find a man to do it for them. Most women do that until they decide they want children, and then they find a man to work that job and support them or contribute to the family bottom line, while she continues to work. Most women can find a man to do that fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:41 PM |
| 0 | Do you think it's reasonable to judge men's resources by standards of women's sexuality?I see. Bad faith debate is your specialty. I generalized about how women actually act. You generalized about disgusting crimes, which has nothing to do with anything. Noted. Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: Do you expect TRP men to shoot themselves in the foot?The packaging just looks different. No. The manipulation looks different. It's just different kinds of manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Do you think it's reasonable to judge men's resources by standards of women's sexuality?Education, experience, training, knowledge, looking around and watching what women actually do and how they actually act in real life, in real time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Do you think it's reasonable to judge men's resources by standards of women's sexuality?It's not stupid, it's just a generalization: Women, in general, feel as if they're entitled to their male partners' money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Do Single Women Seek Attached Men?Yes, correct. But most women can steal another woman's man and live off his resources, even if those resources are limited to a house, a car she can drive, and a week's vacation a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Is sex like water to women?Is sex like water to women? As in, it comes easy for you but because it makes you feel so good you're willing to have as much as possible? This post looks at the "sex is like water" question all wrong. Sex is like water to women, but not because of what OP posits. Sex is like water to women. It's cheap. It costs next to nothing for a woman to get sex. It's plentiful and is everywhere around her. She can get it anytime she wants, as much as she wants. She just can't always get the sex she wants, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?Wait. Are you saying a man cannot neutralize or subdue a threat to him, even if that threat is a woman ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Question for TRP men onlyI don't know. The quintessential MGTOW/incel is that Eggman guy. Made a lot of videos. Shitty hair, feminine moonpie- looking face, pudgy out of shape lumpy body, likely diet of processed food and junk food laden with polyunsaturated fats and HFCS, rambling thought processes which are half brilliant and half utter incoherence. When I'm talking about the incel wing of the MGTOW movement, guys like Eggman are what I'm talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Question for TRP men onlyMarrying Blue Pill men is only part of it, though it's a big part. The bigger part is with the institution of marriage itself and its constraining nature. Women don't want to be limited or corralled, so to speak, in what they can do or what is socially acceptable for them to do. They don't want to be accountable to a man or a church or a social group. They want no limits on anything they do. Now that we have a society that gives them that, they still don't like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Question for TRP men onlyI can't disagree with most of MGTOW's core beliefs. MGTOWs have great points: Don't marry, don't have kids, don't father kids, don't cohabitate with women. I have no problem with a man, or men, or groups of men, saying they don't want those things. I do disagree with something many MGTOWs espouse, which is "have nothing at all to do with women, ever, under any circumstances". That's untenable and unreasonable and most men won't do it. I disagree with the hatred of women, whether that's rational … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?Does this mean that a man should not be allowed to neutralize or subdue a woman who's actively attacking him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?I don't see that men on this sub think men are magnificent. It looks more like "men aren't always shit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:31 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?I've known lots of Catholics but wasn't raised as one, for sure. And I've never heard or seen anything like "Men are Magnificent". I've seen and heard "Men are stronger and smarter and better than women and should be in charge", and "Women are silly and need men to keep women's silliness in check". But that's not "men are magnificent". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?Women on men violence has been normalized. Women are more likely to deploy violence because it is normal now, and it isn't punished. And a woman can be a threat to a man, especially if she uses a weapon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Question for TRP men onlyI read a lot of Red Pill and subscribe to most of it. But I wouldn't say I'm completely totally Red Pill. My criticisms of MGTOW are that a lot of them aren't honest about why they're MGTOW. A growing number of men are MGTOW because they can't get laid. They can't secure a woman. Or they can get women, but the women they can get are unattractive and undesirable and thus not worth the effort. That's why they're MGTOW. Not because they don't want to deal with women or don't want women in their liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?Women hitting men isn't a joke. It's a crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?But if a guy does try to "protect" himself against a girl, he is the one going to jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:19 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?So, because a woman is violent but doesn't do as much damage, it's OK for women to act violently? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?Women are FAR more violent than men. They just suck at it. And they're not penalized for it. They're encouraged to be violent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: How often do you hurt women?I have never once put my hands on a woman or physically injured her. Not once. Women have attacked and injured me. I've been slapped, punched, kicked, pushed, and struck. Women have thrown things at me, thrown drinks in my face, and brandished knives at me. Women have threatened me. Yes, I've seen men act violently. But I've seen women act violently more often, and I've seen more women hurt men, than I've seen men hurt women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Let's try this a different way. Q's4Men about violence.1) Have you ever seen a woman hit at home or in your friends/family? Did she "deserve" it and why? Only once. And yeah, she did kind of deserve it. She was going off about something and had really just lost her shit. She was verbally and physically attacking her husband. she wasn't really "hit", just kind of pushed. 2) Were the cops involved? How did it resolve? Was it repeated? No. It resolved when she left to be by herself after her husband pushed her. I don't know if it was repeated, but know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do people despise MGTOW?guerrilla warfare? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Are ‘backups’ really as common as I’m being led to believe?Huh. I thought some women said there's some guys they'd only have sex with, but not date. Just for fun sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 04:47 PM |
| 0 | Are ‘backups’ really as common as I’m being led to believe?Probably she would be with any of the guys, who ever asks first. For what? A relationship? Sex? I doubt it. Women here have said there are some guys who are no good for relationships and are good only for sex. And some guys who are good for relationships and sex. So I'd have to disagree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Are ‘backups’ really as common as I’m being led to believe?I agree they're other guys she's seeing. But all the men she's seeing aren't necessarily on equal footing with each other. She's got a favorite. She's got a guy she'd be in a relationship with if he wants to. One of the guys is a FwB she keeps around for sex. And a couple are probably orbiters she might have sex with eventually. She has them in a hierarchy, most likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do people despise MGTOW?What's MGTOW phase 3? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it possible for a hot girl to turn you off with her personality so much, that you don't even want to have sex with her?Yes. Men can put up with a lot of shit from a woman, if she's hot enough. Her personality can be so grating, so offputting, and so annoying that her looks and body and the prospect of sex with her aren't worth it. For example, she spends all her time with you, next to you, playing with her phone. She texts others. She talks to others on the phone. She responds to email/texts. Or, she has nothing interesting to say at all. She isn't interested in anything, she doesn't know anything about anything… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do people despise MGTOW?MGTOW started out pretty well. Somewhere along the line it became "never ever have anything to do with women, ever" and "women are all evil all the time" and "you shouldn't even be alone with any woman, ever, for any reason". It morphed from "women are not the focus of my life, I will not get married, I will not be a father" to "women are evil and I hate them". Around the same time and continuing to now, there has been a huge influx of loser men whose inability to attract women or unwillingness … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Someone you had a thing for years ago shows up. Would you rather have them smack you on the face, or not even remember your name?What a weird question. why even consider this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?Sorry, your sarcasm doesn't work... and youre wrong. Sarcastic/snarky retort != "I'm right". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?Except your analogy is off. No, no woman deserves to be raped. She can do things to avoid it, though. Chances are, if she doesn't get drunk, alone, with men she doesn't know well, she won't be raped. Many alleged rape "victims" are liars making false accusations, are emboldened by the fact that no one will call them out on it, and are blinded by misandric rage. The rest of your statement assumes that the man involved is a rapist. Which can't be assumed. Most men don't rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019)Ooh. Getting drunk and tearing your boss a new one.... means there's a problem. Yes, he does have a problem with alcohol if that happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (30 June 2019)She's being sarcastic, probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?Men can be sexually assaulted. Happens all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP think of male rape victims (of women)?The point is that it's not very smart for a woman to get drunk, alone, with men she doesn't know well. Just like it's not very smart for a man to walk around the bad part of town at 3 am with Benjamins hanging out of his pockets, leaving his car unlocked and the keys in the ignition, and expecting no one to hassle him, rob him, or steal his stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 19 | Q4ALL: Has dating in the past 10 years become easier, or more difficult? Why for either case?And because of this, most people have completely lost the ability to interact in person or using voice communications. Most people won't talk on the phone or meet face to face before meeting a date. If you're accepted or rejected, it's based on your photos and your text game. Many times you haven't talked on the phone before meeting in person. If you have, it's not for very long. If you get rejected, you won't hear about it directly most of the time. You'll either get ghosted, or you'll get a te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: Has dating in the past 10 years become easier, or more difficult? Why for either case?If you are average-looking with realistic expectations, dating has gotten a -lot- easier. If you're not a hot guy, just an average-ish 6, but you're okay fucking kind of chubby but not obese, decent-faced 5s in their 30s, you can get your dick wet with regularity. Usually because it's easier for those people to find each other now, with social media and online dating sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Q4ALL: Has dating in the past 10 years become easier, or more difficult? Why for either case?The flip side of celebrity level validation is the huge amounts of choices women now have due to online dating and social media. Even 25 years ago, women were limited to extended social and family circles for meeting men. Family, friends, and social circles extending out from that. Friends of friends, friends of relatives, work friends, school friends, college friends, church friends, bar scene. That was about it. Now, women aren't in any way limited to connections through extended social circle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men Are DangerousWomen’s fear of men, at midnight, in parking garages is completely rational. No, it's instinctual and subrational. It makes no logical sense in light of today's society in which almost no women get beaten up or raped by men they don't know. Usually, when a woman is beaten or raped, she knows her assailant/attacker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: are men “emotional gold diggers?”And this is a big reason why women leave men, I don't see that men demanding emotional support from their women, or that men don't reciprocate, is a big reason why women leave men. When men do reciprocate emotional support, their women call them pussies. I know what you said in your post. You're wrong. When men show themselves emotionally, their wives/GFs call them pussies and demand to know why those men can't stand on their own two emotional feet. There are a few big reasons why women leave me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV - men don’t need any help from “society” for the “WaW” effect to creep inThe body of your text is true as far as it goes, but you ignore external pressures on men that lead them to WaW. It isn't just men's internal view of themselves or their views on women that lead them to WaW. I think that boys more than girls conjure this “perfect angel ethereal being” when they start crushing on a gal they like. Only because blue pilled men and other women insist that that "perfect" illusion is reality. I think men value purity and innocence and submissiveness and passivity whic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP is negative, misogynistic and likely harmful to some people. Tone does matterBut the guy who says "I had NO IDEA women would only be interested in a guy if he didn't meet at least a bare minimum standard of physical attractiveness because no one ever spelled it out for me with a fucking skywriter" does not have empathy for women. If he did, he might look a the girl crying over a jerk who dumped her and think "I, too, have been hung up on hot people who were not good partners to me--possibly even right now. I know how this feels." You've identified two concepts that have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/19 09:39 PM |
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