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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:36 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:05 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:19 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:15 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 03:59 AM
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Question For WomenJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:21 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:04 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:49 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:02 AM
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Question For WomenJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 06:57 AM
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Question For WomenJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:29 AM
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Question For WomenJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 05:36 AM
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DebateJetproTC23/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:45 AM
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Say the gender who constantly check their SO's phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:18 PM
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They are everywhere on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 04:12 AM
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It's real and goes for women too. They are also accustomed to some privileges, and to them equality feels like oppression. This is a pretty niche sub, but in most modern spaces, misandry is rampant.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 03:59 AM
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No. What I am saying is, Attraction is not a mysterious quality that is entirely innate or uncorrelated with external influences. It can change based on your environment, the dating pool around you, the type of media you consume.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:39 AM
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It was like that 3-4 years ago. It's women who are saying that attraction is everything and they are attracted to only a small amount of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 06:36 AM
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I agree. Women will always be naturally attracted to the top 20–30 men they have access to. The difference now is that the pool of available men is vastly larger. Instead of choosing 20 out of 100 men in a town, it’s now 30 out of 10,000. As a result, the standard has shifted upward.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 05:50 AM
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Why do women are in a relationship reply to DMs of men who are clearly into her? Is it the validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 04:45 AM
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People act like prioritizing physical attraction is a cardinal sin. No one says that. The problem is, when a man cannot find any date, he is not told to improve his looks, instead women blame his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:17 AM
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Women complain about men's Tinder bio, but they also have absolutely awful bio and opening text.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 06:32 AM
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She is aware of his intention and breadcrumbing him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:57 AM
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Women claim that they can read men like a book and then say stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:29 AM
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He is still suffering because he is getting false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:39 AM
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Question for women: Why do you respond to "innocent" compliments of men in your DM, when you are in a relationship? Specially because women know that those men actually want to get into your pants. I saw all of my exes doing this. "He is just complimenting my artwork", "I am just being polite", "we just share a common interest".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:20 AM
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Not the point. lasting longer in bed doesn't matter if you focus on her first and make her cum a few times This mostly doesn't exist in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 07:04 AM
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Premature Ejaculation
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:18 AM
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Every woman (and a lot of men) on the internet claims that lasting longer in bed doesn't matter if you focus on her first and make her cum a few times. As a sufferer of chronic PE, that has not be my experience at all, most women (>90%) want to be pounded for at least 5 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:13 AM
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Women of PPD, how true is the 7 second rule? That it takes a woman 7 seconds to see if a man is date-worthy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 07:16 AM
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He is pretty clear here. Women constantly complain about their grievances too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:54 AM
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What does it mean when a girl who flirts with you keeps complaining about other guys asking her out constantly? Is she trying to make you jealous? Or she is signaling that you shouldn't ask her out because she is annoyed by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 05:10 AM
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Not the point at all. No one is entitled to kindness, doesn't mean we shouldn't be kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:11 AM
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No one is entitled to I hate this line so much. If I found out that one of my friends saw an elderly person trip and didn’t offer any help, I would think very poorly of them. But hey, no one is entitled to receive help just because they fell.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 05:21 AM
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Q4W (and men): What's your advice to a guy whose main obstacle is his thin voice (sounding like a early puberty teen)? I can get matches in dating apps, I have rizzed up a few girls in instagram through texting too. But as soon as they hear my voice, I feel like they lose interest. Totally voicepilled right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 04:48 AM
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they aren't dating yet
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:48 AM
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<image> This is a 26 year old woman btw. Why are they like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 05:41 AM
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What if he was uglier?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 10:16 AM
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How? What are the things that you would do to express your interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 09:11 AM
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What are some good ways to cope with a rejection (except going to the gym, I already do that)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 04:26 AM
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The line is different for different women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/25 06:15 AM
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I was taught to be nice to everybody. It's entirely a different thing. Most parents teach their kids to be nice to everyone. We are talking about girls being taught to be nice towards men specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 05:15 AM
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How old are you? What are the things that you were taught?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 04:10 AM
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Sometimes you don't even know if you want to date her before spending time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 09:01 AM
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It doesn't bother me at all. What bothers me is the perpetual victims complex of women, falsely claiming that the most misandrist society ever to exist is still forcing women to learn about how to please men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 08:23 AM
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What was the other person doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 06:18 AM
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What is your actual advice to "demisexual" men who don't fall for a woman until they get to know her better and it may take months? Because it seems that women are scared shitless about their male friends asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:26 AM
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You guys are fucking delusional. I have two sisters, many female cousins. There is no chance that modern women are teaching their daughters about how to please men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 05:24 AM
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Lmao you don't know how most women (in their early 20s) treat random men these days. You think mothers in 2010s were teaching their daughters how to be accommodating and nice to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:41 AM
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Not anymore. This isn't the 70s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 04:14 AM
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The examples you gave are not unique to women. Men do these too. And are expected to perform grand gestures on top of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:00 AM
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buying thoughtful gifts organizing a surprise party writing notes of affirmation in his packed lunches making his favorite meal when he's stressed or having a bad day massages/backrubs asking to/holding hands while out together cuddling Lmao men do all of these things too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:57 AM
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In all my romantic relationships I have bought my partner gifts, flowers, taken him on dates you have no idea how rare this is. Specially among young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:55 AM
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What is your actual advice to "demisexual" men who don't fall for a woman until they get to know her better and it may take months? Because it seems that women are scared shitless about their male friends asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 07:52 AM
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How do you land a girl with anxiety who is very hesitant to meet with "strangers" but very enthusiastic over online?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:39 AM
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Once. But it was more like 3-4+ hours. But it seems quite common (seen a few reels depicting this exact situation). Girl has no problem flirting all day, but as soon as the guy asks out, she bails.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 07:07 AM
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Why would an otherwise nice and kind girl would text with you for 8+ hours everyday, having no problem with flirty texts and then tell the guy that she is not into him when he asks her out? It seems pretty common nowadays, but why would you spend this much time after someone who you are not into?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 06:38 AM
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She wanted to focus on herself (that's what everybody says) due to family issues (parents going through divorce). Didn't want to leave me hanging, and moved out of town later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:04 AM
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it depends from person to person how long it will take yeah that's what I am scared of. It's been a few months. No improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:25 AM
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She is the kindest person I have ever met. No other girl (or guy) can even come close.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 09:25 AM
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Any advice for getting over a girl except going to the gym (I already go), finding another girl (I am on my incel arc) or focusing on hobbies (not enjoying any of them atm).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 08:23 AM
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As an average man, having a truly kind girl as your first gf can really doom you. Every other girl seems so fucking rude and mean nowadays. You have to entertain them for a long time to get basic decency out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:53 AM
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If women tell them what they want Actions speak louder than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:37 AM
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It entirely depends on the reasons. If you think bi men are serial cheaters or STD-ridden and that's why you won't date them, it's biphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 05:03 AM
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I get that. But women actually avoid bisexual men. They don't avoid high value men with lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 04:00 AM
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Aren't women always trying to find reason behind men wanting to date younger and/or low N count women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:52 AM
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Men tell you a lot of things. Do you abide by all of those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:51 AM
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We can see that some women also think like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 03:49 AM
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it is a massive turn off why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:06 AM
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The reason behind women not wanting to date bi men is important. Specially because a bi man and a het man has no biological differences when it comes to relationship and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:05 AM
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I think he would cheat on me and possibly bring home disease. Isn't that what incels say about high N women, without any scientific basis?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 06:10 AM
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Interestingly, many men feel the same too. The thought of their woman getting fucked by other men makes her unattractive to them. I guess, having sex with men somehow decrease your market value by a ton.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:44 AM
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Straight women who hate men caring about a woman's past, why do you avoid dating bisexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:17 AM
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Women are just not kind these day, when kindness is the most attractive virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 05:33 AM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:04 AM
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It's so tough to move on from that one kind girl you had as a girlfriend. It's been almost 2 years and I still haven't met anyone like her. Most girls are downright mean at first, so it's tough to see who is actually kind and warm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 09:55 AM
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<image> At least 6 girls from my class shared it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 04:10 AM
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How do you know if you really like someone if you don't spend time with them in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 08:00 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 07:06 AM
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Why do some women talk with you for hours (like 10 hours a day), go on hangouts (50-50 tbh), laugh at your jokes, doesn't mind your flirty text, then say "I don't see you that way" when you ask them out? I cannot fathom spending so much time with someone unless I am really into them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:21 AM
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23 year old woman said “no” is the really obvious core reason If she says yes, then? As a fellow 23 year old, I see many women (at least 20%) around my age going for men aged 28-30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 09:15 AM
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You are literally supporting my argument (that 25 is not a magical cut-off point, brains keep developing even in late 20s and early 30s. https://www.scottishsentencingcouncil.org.uk/media/mi0aavav/20200219-ssc-cognitive-maturity-literature-review.pdf "While we do not therefore recommend the use of stringent age ranges in sentencing guidelines, it is however recommended that the brain’s continued growth, until as late as 25-30 years of age" LOL. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/15251877/ Again, do…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:26 AM
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Please read the whole study. They have defined adolescence as age 10-24 and based their research on that. Of course, their cut-off point is going to be 25. No one's denying that brains keep developing even when people are in their 20s. My point is: it doesn't stop there, prefrontal cortex continues to develop in late 20s and early 30s too. Are we gonna call these women immature too? https://www.cell.com/neuron/pdf/S0896-6273(16)30809-1.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:14 AM
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How do you define maturity? Are you sure that a 27-year old is always more mature than a 24-year old? in order to maintain control over them What if he or she genuinely likes his/her younger partner? You know, the most common way of men maintaining control over their partners is through financial means. Are you against "hypergamous" women going for much richer men, as these women are going to fall under their control?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:58 AM
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its considered to be fully developed around 25 And there is no scientific backing behind this common belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:54 AM
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Also, there is research about the brain not fully developing until after 25. That's not my point. The thing is, brains continue to develop even after 25 for many many people. https://www.cell.com/neuron/pdf/S0896-6273(16)30809-1.pdf This one found evidences of brain development even at the age of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:54 AM
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Gavin L, MacKay AP, Brown K, et al. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) Sexual and reproductive health of persons aged 10–24 years – United States, 2002–2007. MMWR Surveill Summ. 2009;58(6):1–58. There is no mention of brain development in this one. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/pdf/10.2147/ndt.s39776 They defined adolescence as 10-24 years old and based their research on that age range. Nowhere in the study they say that development stops at 25. Now look at this one. https://www.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:52 AM
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Yes, women lie a ton and want to be permanent victims till the day they die. But that doesnt discount the fact the brain isnt fully developed till around 25. There is nothing magical about the age 25. Most studies show that developments aren't linear and prefrontal cortex has shown to be changing at 28-32 age too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:44 AM
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Date whoever you like. We don't care! Ohh. I wish that were true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:42 AM
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It's not about the age it's about the added risk of a large age gap where our person has more resources. I agree, but they are usually fixated around the age 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:42 AM
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I have been told the brain development thing by several high up medical professionals Next time you meet them, ask for a source. Myths among professionals aren't very rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:41 AM
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Link that study.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:39 AM
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It really doesn't affect me personally. My point was more centered around how they also use fake science to justify their pre-conceived beliefs (and it became widely accepted).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:23 AM
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Consooming literature contents (reading books or blogs/listening to audiobooks) constantly also causes brainrot and is not very different from doomscrolling. It doesn't make you special or enlightened, being a reader is not a personality trait. Saying this as a reader myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:44 AM
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Just delay sex. But commit more time and spend more resources so that he doesn't think that you are not interested at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 04:40 AM
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Women are pretty insecure about their man following unattainable insta models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:31 AM
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Would you check your husband's phone or scroll through his insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:17 AM
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You are never getting an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:54 AM
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I've heard an awful lot about starfish to say that society puts the burden of good sex only on men. That's ancient. Now the common opinion is, those women are really into their partners cause she is not aroused by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:27 AM
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Women know how a woman's body works better than men - genuine shocker. Nothing you said disapproves my claim that the burden of good sex lies on men (whether everyone of them are taking it seriously is not the point). You guys are just lucky that you can just lie down, do nothing and your male partner will still get an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:24 AM
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The orgasm gap will always exist due to purely biological reason. 99.999% men can achieve orgasm every time they have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:12 AM
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If it didn't work, why are they still dating that men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:10 AM
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Not when comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:50 AM
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Then how do you decide who is a boyfriend/husband material and who is a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:02 AM
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why does this topic constantly come up? Mostly because men who want to become husband material see that hookup materials are gaining easy access to her while he has to jump through hoops. he gets her loyalty, her effort, her support, and yes, sex too but that happens when they are actually in a relationship, not during the early stage of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:00 AM
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If you see a stranger, what would make you want to befriend them and what would make you treat them as relationship material?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:21 AM
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So are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:55 AM
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We are talking about teen girls here, who should not, under any circumstances, date adult men. Not the point I am making. Boys should date more in their teen years because you cannot just transform into a charming guy in your mid 20s. socially active boys prefer socially active girls A lot of them actually prefer women with less social presence. They don't punish the awkwardness as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:46 AM
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They usually omit the "ugly" part. When women are complaining about men hounding them for posting pictures on social media, they are rarely talking about attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:44 AM
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dm saying "you look beautiful" is creepy Not when it comes from attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:36 AM
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You really can't comprehend that a woman can be so awkward it keeps them from dating? I know that some women are so awkward that they don't even want to date and find the interactions too tiresome. That's not the point. I am specifically talking about people who want to date but fumble/act awkward while flirting due to inexperience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:35 AM
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I think most women would agree that there are clothes/dresses which can make a woman feel "sexy", specifically designed to attract male/female gaze. The same reasoning applies here too. Of course, some men would sexualize a woman just for existing. Those are creeps and nothing can excuse that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:57 AM
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I disagree with the premise that women/society think that sexualizing women is bad. It was never the case. They just hated average/ugly men sexualizing them. Before anyone brings up consent, it has nothing to do with that. If you post a thirst trap publicly but expect only chads to reply to you and get angry when gross men also fall for the trap, that's just stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:38 AM
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You did. No. They would find it endearing not because they are kinder, because they are also prone to making similar mistakes at that age. More experienced women who have already passed through that stage wouldn't be this much forgiving. Again, these women are not bitter assholes, they are just more mature and would prefer similar men. My 20-year-old sister is really into her major and isn’t going to have any more experience at 25 than a 24-year-old man. She's rare. But she will still have more …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:08 AM
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I don’t think most teen girls are so much more mature and deep than adult women, such that if you don’t get some idealized, sweet, flexible young teen girlfriend and practice your weak social skills on her angelic ass, you are doomed to be surrounded only by the judgmental, catty, cruel, impatient adult women that her and her ilk grow into in this example. Who said that they were? In your teens, both of you are inexperienced and awkward. But when you are 25, the woman has significantly more expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:42 AM
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There are ways to improve confidence, social interaction, flirting skills, etc. without risking your reputation or becoming jaded toward dating. Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:29 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:28 AM
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I think most people can spot fake confidence, as most people aren't very good at acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:26 AM
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Maybe, but they still have many options and also get attention for confident and experienced men. They have no reason to choose an awkward guy over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 05:13 AM
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but they are mentally underdeveloped and developmentally predisposed to hyperfocusing on social norms and group dynamics But you will be the same at that age. It's not that detrimental.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:59 AM
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Make up for lost time if you really believe this. Not that easy. It's hard to land even one date. Also the point is, dating confident women who don't like awkwardness in men is pretty soul crushing. You cannot just make up for the lost time. The only way would be dating women who are also awkward, inexperienced and nervous, but those are pretty rare to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:58 AM
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Unlike men, being awkward and inexperienced does not harm a woman at all. Most men would find those traits cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:55 AM
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Maybe but the woman won't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:54 AM
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Surely, some kids are overly mean. But most kids are generally well adjusted and not utterly psychopathic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:49 AM
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A woman who has 5 LTRs within 2 years in better than the woman who slept with 2 guys within a week. It does not matter when they lost their virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:17 AM
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Why are both men and women obsessed with getting a hot/beautiful partner who doesn't know that he or she is beautiful? Do people enjoy their partners' having insecurities?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:34 AM
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It's not a closed space at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:02 AM
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Bi women also dislike bi men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:40 AM
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Straight women (like straight men) absolutely judge their dating prospects based on his sexual past. It is clear as daylight when you see straight women's extreme aversion to bisexual men. Most, more than 90% of modern, straight women will not date bisexual men, especially is if the man is "receiver". As a bi man, you can see their outlook change entirely when you reveal your bisexuality. Yes, some of them will fetishize you, but that's rare and also not a very good thing. I already know what ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 04:39 AM
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In current age, men's ideal look (toned muscle, less than 15% body fat, jawline, HEIGHT) is at least 10-20 times harder to achieve than women's ideal look (average BMI, no qualms about height). Hourglass figure, huge tits and ass are just preference for a few men. No one else puts any pressure on women about those.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:45 AM
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Not the point. When they complain about it online, do they also expect A public shaming kind of thing or a letter in which men express their regret?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 04:45 AM
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If you didn't want to be a parent then you shouldn't have sex or at least have safe sex. Say the same thing to women who go for abortion for non-medical reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 04:17 AM
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Biological parent, yes. But that has nothing to do with social parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:56 AM
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Neither men nor women can unilaterally discharge their financial responsibilities to a child. They should be able to if they didn't want to be parents in the first place and if the state/other person forced them to be one. But most women don't want that. Even male rape victims are forced to pay child support. Isn't that brutal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 06:05 AM
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Obviously. Did anyone ever deny it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 03:55 AM
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Not a single woman feels bad or ashamed because men are thirsting over her in social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:28 AM
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“conventionally attractive” body includes an hourglass figure Not true at all. Any girl with a healthy bmi is considered peak physical beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:19 AM
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Reminder: Women won't even read your bio before swiping. They won't even care about your hobbies if you look ugly on your Insta pfp. I am not a doomer, but looks are the single most important thing in modern dating, both for LTR and casual. And it's true for 99.9% of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 08:17 AM
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You are the one who equated homosexual experience (where you know everything about your partner's body) to heterosexual experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:16 AM
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And gay men have the most amount of sex and reported highest amount of satisfaction. So men are not universally deliberately inept and incompetent?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:10 AM
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Most women have complaints about their exes. Most men don't, because they haven't dated anyone. So they are stuck at high school where they could at least interact with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 05:03 AM
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>are universally deliberately inept and incompetent Women are not? Where are they getting their magic sex-eds from?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:42 AM
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Just visit r/sex or find any post about a man complaining about his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:37 AM
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Believe it or not, 2000 is a quarter century ago. Things have changed a lot due to internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:34 AM
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And no one is blaming those women for "not communicating" or saying "he isn't just interested".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:33 AM
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a lot of men are bad in bed Not the point. What I said was, women can be bad in bed too, but even when women are bad in bed, the burden falls on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 09:21 AM
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Orgasm gap comments are typically general and not personal Tons of women share personal anecdotes while talking about orgasm gap. If a man does the same, he will be faced with "maybe the fault lies in you".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:21 AM
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Where are you publicly talking about your sexual relationships Most complaints about sex on the internet come from women. Would you say the same thing to women who complains about orgasm gap or men not going down?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:47 AM
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What does this look like? A public shaming kind of thing or a letter in which they express their regret? Do you say the same thing about women who complain about orgasm gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:44 AM
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Is that what you are here for? To fight with women? Yes, it's a debate sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 07:42 AM
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The same reaction that a women would get when she complains about her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:25 AM
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No one takes sex advices in real life anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:14 AM
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"Have you considered that she just doesn't like performing oral sex? What about your hygiene?"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:08 AM
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Sometimes it’s not even about being aroused, some of them are just the most boring unsexual beings to walk the earth. This is where the narrative takes effect. Women are not seen as boring, they are seen as bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:06 AM
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If a woman thinks you suck as sex then stop having sex with her and move on. Maybe a good solution personally, but it would still affect you mentally when you see people putting the blame on you, not your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:04 AM
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They can be, but as a man, you cannot say it out loud in most spaces without hearing "have you considered that she is not attracted to you?".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:48 AM
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It's pretty common in conservative countries where most people remain virgin before their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:50 AM
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That's true for women too. They say that they want marriage and commitment and then run after chads to make them commit who have clearly no intention of settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 07:48 AM
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If you see women constantly saying how much they value height and it is the first and foremost thing for them (and receive no backlash for it), it's not shocking that most short men would be too insecure to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:45 AM
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I don't know how old are you. Currently most people in their early 20s meet through social media or dating apps. Height is the primary filter for women there.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 07:43 AM
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Yeah 5'9"-6' is survivable. 5'8" and below is death sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 05:36 AM
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They tend to fall for any woman showing them any kind of positive attention, they speak in a certain way, they tell self-depricating jokes and their flirting is awkward and they might rely too heavily on plausible deniability even if it's absolutely clear they want to shoot their shot with you. This is literally me, fr. I tried being direct, but it was far more embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:40 AM
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Then who are hetero women having sex with during their hoe phase if "men are not able to go through that journey"? A very small portion of men and a lot of those men are in their late 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:28 AM
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That's not the point I was making. I tried to date average women too, and failed repetitively.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:21 AM
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I am not talking about meeting a particular partner or soulmate. I am talking about general dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:09 AM
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They aren't as average as you think if they managed to cheat. You cannot say that most women do not want to date average men because they add nothing to their lives and then go on saying the same men are managing to find multiple women to cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:08 AM
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All people are terminally online these days, specially in their 20s. Almost impossible to date a girl without meeting her through social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:40 AM
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I wonder how all those single men are managing to live alone without a woman helping them to cook or clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:22 AM
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Believe it or not, modern women are not being truthful. Most men do not have anything inherently wrong with their personalities. Most women are capable of falling in love with most men if they give the men a fighting chance without any preconceived notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:33 AM
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This. I started approaching (not cold approach) women since I was 17. Led nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:13 AM
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That's different because average men who cheat are getting attention from other women (probably this never happened to them before). Most men do receive more female attention when they are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:01 AM
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