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6

How does an awesome date with a Cuban model look like?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 10:03 AM
1

Redpill theory is a direct reflection of life. Should be anyway. Also, that's some backyard broscience you got nested in your brain.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 09:33 AM
23

Free ticket to your local venerologist.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:11 PM
2

There's no right side of 30 for this to work. A cunt is a cunt is a cunt.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/07/21 12:00 PM
2

Sounds like it was a crazy chick anyway, so don't be too sad about it. It'll get better with time and with more chicks you bang. Or with more time you bang one chick. You know the rest, stop watching porn, stop masturbating more than once in three days - at your age - eat clean, work out, you'll be fine before you know you're already fine.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 08:38 AM
3

Just wanted to stop by and thank you and the mod team for holding the line for us. Don't wanna be brown nosing here, but the negative feedback you guys get from making these changes is surprising. The website is just different and some people just resist change till the very end. Shame it also holds true for the the people here.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 01:44 PM
2

Tell her and see how even something you consider a deep relationship can deteriorate in mere months. It's actually an interesting learning process and she's too insecure for an LTR anyway, so just do it.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 02:11 PM
4

Don't let them cool off for so long. Month is too much.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 07:36 PM
5

Both.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:06 PM
7

Why don't you just fuck her, get some experience and then move on when it becomes unbearable? No, not all girls are cunts who shit on you for fun. Some are kind, fun and caring. But you don't get them by watching anime and not putting yourself out there.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:06 AM
1

With time. Change your outlook on life. Remind yourself every time you start slipping into old mental models to not think this way. Find a way to think about the world that is effective and enjoyable FOR YOU.
/r/askTRP12/06/21 05:41 PM
1

Don't pay for her shit.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:47 AM
1

You said it yourself, she is not your LTR, stop treating her like one.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:47 AM
6

You don't ask if you use powertalk.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 09:27 AM
6

Send text. Calling is ancient and some people find it awkward. Usually I text the next day, she knows you're interested in her, no need to play a long game.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 05:52 PM
2

Stop being a character in a romantic novel and just ask her out, please.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:33 AM
4

Do you have other girls? Find other girls. You're really not punishing her by not texting her while she's choking on a cock that she sees as sweeter than yours.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:30 AM
34

Beta bait. Fascinating how primitive these hoes are when they want attention. Don't answer at all.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:24 AM
5

Practice more. These things will happen, so don't take it to heart.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:21 AM
1

Yeah, stop hiding behind excuses. Holding out cause of exes? She just doesn't see you as an attractive enough option. Online dating "never worked for you"? You just never created good enough profile and simplified your text game. In person is weird cause of the pandemic? Did you even try?
/r/askTRP04/06/21 06:06 AM
1

You'll break your condom and she'll say it was meant to be. If a girl believes in this shit, stay away. There's a lot of pretty girls who aren't bananas.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:26 AM
1

Yeah you were being a bitch. Probably could have fucked her too. You never really know how she's going to react until you go for it.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 08:02 AM
2

So let me get this straight. You met the girl once, since then you've been texting for a year. She declined to see you but continued to write you love stories, which kept you on the hook for several months. She then went for a summer vacation where she "hit you" with "the talk" even though you two never were anything. Are you happy being a pen pal to a girl that's sucking off someone else while texting you how sweet you are? Why didn't you end it the first time she wrote you she can't see you? S…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 06:31 AM
6

She didn't feel responsible in the moment. She just didn't want to lose the certainty of you. They hate being rejected in any form. Crying is their first and most used form of manipulation. And no, they don't feel responsible for almost anything. Just listen to them sometimes. It's always fate, bad circumstance, something external that she couldn't predict. You, your "inability to accept who she is", are the external in this case.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:44 PM
2

Make other friends, find something that fulfils you.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:13 PM
4

Leave her now, save your face and don't answer any of her texts or calls. Send her a text saying something like you don't feel a connection and are ending this. Then don't contact her ever again, find something fulfilling to do, game other girls, and forget about a person who won't share her life with you as you want to. And stop developing feelings for people who won't reciprocate.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:12 PM
19

50-50 is the way to go. If she expects you to pay, or is angry that you won't, she goes to the curb. You don't want these girls in your life. I always go for a drink on the first date, and I buy the first drink stating something like "I'll take the first one, the second one is on you?" That clears the air and sets the tone for more drinking. In LTR, definitely split. You don't have to autistically write everything down, you both should be in an understanding who paid for what and who is expected…
/r/askTRP28/05/21 03:00 PM
0

Changed my mind, definitely don't go into exclusive relationship with her. That girl is broken.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 07:00 AM
2

You gotta give them at least some comfort man.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:50 AM
0

I don't know how did you figure out the n-count, but I wouldn't be too sure about it. The tattoos and nose rings don't help. Other than that, she sounds like a cool girl, for the moment. LTR is not a life sentence. You can leave it as simply as you entered it. Give it a try, don't get complacent, see what happens.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 06:43 AM
3

If it's not in your nature, it won't work past the opener and a few lines. It'll show. She'll know. That being said, you can definitely learn to be that way, if that's how you want to be. So just play with it and decide.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:16 PM
1

It's not clear what you mean by making sexual advances. Is it in work? School? While you're out one on one? Take them out for a drink. Escalate and invite them to your place. Correct mistakes on the go. If they sleep with you, you don't have to worry about what they're telling you. It's working.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:14 AM
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If it's really bothering you that much, just text them something like "sorry, I just don't see this going anywhere" or just "i just realized you're fat through thorough examination of your pics, so I'm ending this." Really though, you don't really owe an explanation to a random stranger you met on the internet. Shift the spotlight on your needs, not theirs
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:31 PM
3

She doesn't sound like a catch to me.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:51 AM
1

Those "some reasons" - are those dicks? No honeymoon takes two years. She most likely has one or more guys that are waiting to fuck her/fucking her already, and you're too scared to leave the relationship. Do yourself a favour, leave and find someone better.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:39 AM
1

Bury them in your backyard. It doesn't matter. People change. Some might not mind, some might leave, some you may find undesirable to talk to now. This doesn't require some drastic change in your lifestyle.
/r/askTRP03/05/21 10:34 AM
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Response to all of them: "Nvm I was drunk af"
/r/askTRP26/04/21 09:31 AM
2

Sometimes, I just simply ask them to explain. "What do you mean" is a simple response. She's trying to get you to react to her stupid games, don't get entangled. Just tell her you don't know what she's asking. Cause you don't. She doesn't either. It's not fun, it's not cheeky, it's not smart, but it's a simple way to get her bullshit disappear quick when you don't wanna play.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:29 AM
7

This would be a good field report on the main site. Good post, but it doesn't really belong here.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 08:12 AM
10

The answer to all your questions is "sometimes" and "maybe". It doesn't mean much in today's western world. It shouldn't bother you if you don't have someone very specific in your mind.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 08:56 AM
0

Don't be facetiming at all. Just ask her out. If she wants to have sweet calls with you first, you should consider finding something better to do.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:28 AM
5

Sitting close to her while checking his phone, not even lifting? That's a sign of a lone wolf apha. Your insecurity is the only thing to blame here. Maybe he wants to steal your girl and maybe she'll let that happen. Either way, you're there to lift heavy shit and help your girl do the same. to become better. Nothing more. Talk to him like nothing is happening, cause it ain't. Don't bother yourself with this crap.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 02:45 PM
1

Yeah don't do it.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 04:18 PM
1

Just tell her that. You're on your own path, not looking for relationship, but you value what you have and want to keep it casual, if she's ok with it.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:44 PM
2

How about reading the sidebar and not being banned for not reading the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:38 PM
7

Nothing. It's a broken system that's set against you. Either leave the class, the school, or keep your head down, get your degree and start doing your own thing.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 08:36 PM
1

What stuff
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:22 PM
6

Figure out what you want. Then go in the direction you think will get you there. You can change your mind on the way. Cultivate original thought and don't conform to what others (family, friends, gf, state, employer) expect of you. Enjoy the process and be happy for every little step forward, cause one day, you'll be dead.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:14 PM
6

Purple t-shirt, coat and cigar ones are good. White shirt one doesn't add any value. Gym pic maybe for grindr. I'd just go with those three.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:09 PM
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Probably. Why does it bother you though. If you like her, get to know her, fuck her, enjoy your time with her. Every other girl on campus will be like this. Some just won't share. The rest will be ugly.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 04:06 PM
1

Take it home as a trophy.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:13 AM
34

I'd never fuck my friends LTR. Former plate or mutual friend, after discussing it first only. It shifts the dynamic of the relationship. But girlfriend, never. And I wouldn't be ok with a guy that fucks a girl I had strong feelings for. Maybe I'm too emotional, maybe I'm insecure, but that's a hard no for me.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 01:43 PM
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I believe this "relax and enjoy" mindset is meant to alleviate the stress inexperienced guys feel when approaching. Just like with BJJ, you don't have to roll only for submission. Especially if you don't have that competition drive. So for beginners, it's ok not to go for the kill right away. More important is to learn how to have fun and stick with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 08:31 PM
3

Don't make rash decisions. This kind of shit is not gonna fade away easy. Act normal, it's up to her to decide now.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 02:34 PM
1

No one's stopping you from breaking it. Maybe you'll get away with it, maybe not. Try it out and learn.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:51 AM
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If it was one dude, sure. If it was twenty, I'd think about it some more. Girls like hooking up too. You likely won't find one that didn't try casual dating before. Look for other cues when making this decision.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 08:48 AM
6

I honestly don't know. I can tell you I don't think it's a good idea, she isn't a good pick for long term and that you're probably acting out lack of options, but if you're ok with her shit, you can try it for now. Don't get married, don't get her pregnant and you can change your mind anytime.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 12:36 PM
1

Yes. Get out there and do things. Don't be afraid to fail, cause you will, and that's ok. Have fun and enjoy your life while you can.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:56 AM
5

You do you, try investing all your sexuality into this girl and see what happens.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 11:49 AM
1

You're developing feelings for her. This is a her-problem. However she deals with it shouldn't bother you. The more you think about this, the worse it gets for you, so focus on these other girls and let her do her thing.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:06 PM
1

Stop measuring dicks with other men. Become friends with them instead.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 07:59 PM
1

What a cunty excuse. I'd withdraw attention and wait for her to enthusiastically set the next date. It's probably over though. It seems like you're both using each other as a fall back option.
/r/askTRP24/03/21 05:28 AM
5

That's insecurity talking. If you're right about this and he really is hitting on your gf, just say "sure, let's go", have a nice weekend trip with him, his girl and your girl. Test your frame, test your relationship with your girl, have fun, learn.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:17 PM
23

I wonder if the only stop to this madness is societal collapse.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/21 04:54 PM
6

They're never on their phone for the people they don't care about, yet want to keep in orbit. It's a simple lie that keeps the hopeful, naive boys in her sphere of influence.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/21 07:39 PM
1

Nah, but it'll probably make you develop feelings for her.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:45 PM
1

You don't have show you have options. You have to have options. Chicks like that are a headache, don't waste your time unless she comes to your place and start sucking you off.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:43 PM
9

I don't think she is commanding you or testing you with the STD check. She may just be cautious. That's reasonable. But I'd also guess she has some first hand experience with it.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:40 PM
5

Club/online date, alcohol, escalation, invite to your place, sex.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:30 PM
14

Walk around these questions. "I don't even remember" - if she pushes further, add "like yesterday?" or anything obviously dumb. Act like you aren't taking that question seriously (don't take them seriously). Or do a simple pressure flip - "I don't remember, what about you?" Your case wasn't that bad. Some girls value that - if she sees you as high value, which it seems like she does. Beware though, she's probably fucking around. If you're gonna do the STD tests, let her show you hers as well.
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:28 PM
3

It's not wrong. Just make sure you ain't doing it out of scarcity. I mean yeah, girls can be boring as fuck. Finding a hot girl that's interesting is basically unicorn hunting. Just make the date interesting for you and enjoy the company of a hot girl. Also fucking them is a reward in itself, however petty it may seem.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Eat clean. Vegetables, fruit for sugar craving, meat, rice, whatever. Simply don't eat poison that has ingredients you can't even pronounce. Natural shit. As for building muscle, a lot of protein (2-3grams X your bodyweight/a day). If you're losing fat, keep that protein intake even higher. You'll hate the chicken you eat. If you're gaining, just eat so much you can't eat anymore and then eat some more. Again, clean.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:49 PM
8

Start now. Start sparring with girls now so some LTR fight night in the future won't be your death.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:41 PM
12

You just move on. Realize that dwelling on it does nothing for you. It only holds you back. Your brain loves jerking off to past misery. Fuck him. Remember your lessons, find drive in those memories, move on.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:37 PM
4

You don't respond to this. Don't play her stupid fucking game. Like others said, she probably failed snatching some strange dick that was better than yours and now she's crawling back to you. I'd still fuck her, but make sure you don't bring any emotions.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:32 PM
2

Try krill oil brother
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:30 PM
2

She doesn't seem very interested but you can try to make another date. If she declines or wiggles out like this again, be cool about it, don't ask again and go for other girls. If she agrees, go for other girls anyway though.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:29 PM
10

Depends. If they are your good friends with otherwise positive qualities, you may nudge them in the right direction, or simply ignore it. I made the mistake of talking about nothing but redpill when I discovered all of this. It was childish and annoying, so make sure you aren't in that same predicament. Be tactful about it. If however your friends are a bunch of cunts and you're friends with them only for the sake of having friends, find your better self and then some better friends.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 02:23 PM
2

Yeah I agree with that. I'd still go through with it if she was top and I knew I could fuck her that night though.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 12:39 PM
63

I walked out on a tinder chick that was with me at a bar and was exactly like this. After an hour or so I just got up, paid for my drink, said I'm leaving, left. Don't even waste your time with this type. Edit: maybe if she's extra hot.
/r/askTRP19/03/21 09:26 AM
10

Your body just reacts differently. Don't drink that much.
/r/askTRP15/03/21 12:32 PM
2

You lost your options at the same time she regained hers. Now you are afraid of losing something that you didn't know you cared about. Be honest with girls from the start or don't keep them for so long. If you're keeping it vague, you're probably keeping it vague for yourself as well. And with time, you develop feelings while they lose them and this shit happens.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:54 PM
4

Well, getting other plates and focusing on your mission is the only cure here. You probably missed your window, but it seems like you want her out of insecurity anyway. Start fucking other girls. Control your feelings.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 06:36 PM
1

Free threesomes.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:50 AM
21

Maybe tell your friends not to act like autists.
/r/askTRP13/03/21 08:39 AM
2

There are a lot of soyboys mind controlled by the feminine imperative.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:09 PM
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It's not. He is not her family, not her close friend. He doesn't owe her anything, especially when their previous relationship wasn't that intimate. I say leave her. It's not gonna feel good, but this is not his fight, even if she's trying to make it so.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:03 PM
1

It's probably from her then. Especially if you got symptoms after you two had sex. Women are usually asymptomatic. So keep this in mind. Steategy depends on if you wanna keep her. If you do, just tell her plainly. Don't apologize but don't blame her either. Tell her you got this and that, you're going on a medication and you want her to go test herself and get cured as well (if she has it) so you two can keep fucking clean. If she becomes a bitch and start blaming you, then you can go on the off…
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:47 AM
-1

You wanna know what it feels like to be banned, don't you.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:36 AM
-1

He can do whatever the fuck he wants. That's the beauty of life. So what he cheated on her. Why is that making you so angry? Coming here and waving your white knight sword, screaming "be the man you think you are" is not helping anybody. OP can go back and keep fucking her while cheating on her, he can try to make it an open relationship, or he can move on. Only he has the right to make that decision and the duty to take the responsibility for the outcome.
/r/askTRP10/03/21 11:28 AM
2

Asking if you're being beta is beta. You do whatever you have to do. I don't really understand what your relationship with her is. Are you two exclusive? Because she obviously doesn't see it that way. Let's assume you take her as your girlfriend. If you do, you shouldn't. Even if she's not cheating on you now, which I doubt, are you really gonna continue a relationship with someone who cheated on you multiple times? Keep fucking her, find new girls, start fucking them, break up with her, move on…
/r/askTRP08/03/21 04:02 PM
4

Nothing wrong with being straightforward, just don't be situationally inept. It's a delicate balance, but if you're unsure, bold is always better than timid. Just text her "hey, let's go grab a drink on Friday". Take her somewhere close to your place where you guys can drink, escalate and then just invite her over to your place. It's simple really, if she wants to, she will come along. If she doesn't, she just won't.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 03:45 PM
25

It depends on the situation. There's a really good post somewhere that explains the differences. You gotta feel the difference in her attitude towards you. If you know you hold the power in the relationship and she's acting out of fear and insecurity, it's probably a comfort test - and vice versa. This balance can of course shift on a macro level (frame of the relationship) or a micro level (mood in a particular day).
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:30 PM
17

So you have been careful not to have your own kid till 33 only to invest your time and effort into someone else's kid now? Only cause she cooks, cleans, is not fat and takes some care of herself. Sounds like a shit deal to me.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 04:20 PM
6

You can reach out with something simple (hey, wanna hang out), but don't apologize. Don't even mention it. What would you even apologize for? You were talking about sex, she wasn't interested, end of story. If she doesn't answer/doesn't wanna hang out, move on. Or just move one without reaching out.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:52 PM
10

Dude she was just bored and reaching for attention. Just ask her out for a drink, invite yourself to her place, anything. You don't know if she wants to fuck until you go for it. Don't send these hoes free snaps.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:20 AM
1

Your girl sounds like a cunt. Wouldn't recommend going exlusive. Just plate her.
/r/askTRP06/03/21 08:18 AM
1

I guess you put on a blindfold and drink a lot of whiskey. It's not different. Actually, treating hot girls as you would a fat girl is the trick. Not caring in the slightest.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:59 PM
5

If you didn't pre-cum or did a second round without taking a piss, that's as safe as it gets. If you did, still a low chance. Chill. Also maybe don't fuck women that trashy.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:48 PM
1

If there's an angry child kicking your shins and being an overall cunt, do you tolerate it and act like nothing is happening just to look cool? There's nothing bad about blocking some idiotic female that's poisoning your life. Don't say a word, block her, delete her number, fucking get a restraining order if you have to. Don't let her disturb your peace for her own amusement.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:17 PM
1

You write like a fucking lawyer. Next time send an "eh". Or better yet, don't answer at all.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 03:07 PM
2

You should write romantic novels.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:22 PM
20

Jesus Christ dude. Sorry to break it to you, but you're her bitch at this point. Face timing every night? Don't do that. Not even with a mother of your kids. “No way you’re coming anywhere near me hahahaha”? Fuck. This is not a shit test, this is a show of disgust. She doesn't want you, and is using you only for attention. Fucking get rid of her now, stop texting her until she comes knocking on your door.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:18 PM
6

Everyone has those thoughts. The trick is to construct and consult your values and make the best decision at a particular time. For the next few months, you may wanna explore the relationship. After some time, you may come to a different conclusion and break up with her. Look around, soak up new information, consult your values and emotions, make a decision. For that to happen however, you have to know where you're headed. Have a mission.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:35 AM
2

Why the aggressive moralizing? Save this shit for your kids.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 10:12 AM
5

Come on dude. That was below you. You don't have to treat them like they are below you. But stop fucking praising them. The point you should learn here is to praise yourself only. When it comes to women, they have to prove themselves to you. Stop validating them.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 05:33 PM
46

Read the sidebar here and on the main site. Soft is removing all your attention. Hard is removing her from your life.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:13 PM
1

Short, simple and beautiful.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:09 PM
2

It's probably even higher. The mistake was to make her your gf before you even got to know anything about her.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 02:08 PM
5

Tell her it's an interesting book. That's it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:08 PM
3

You ask her. This is not the time to fuck around.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 06:07 PM
1

To protect yourself? Don't plate girls from broken homes with tattoos and definitely not the ones with BPD. If you do, don't get all salty when she hugs you. Be prepared for shit like this.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:31 AM
1

Enjoy the rape charges bro.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:30 PM
1

What do you hope to achieve by this?
/r/askTRP25/02/21 07:29 PM
1

She occupies way too much space in your head. If she wants to hang out, let her come to your place. By the sound of it though, you'll be her plate more than she'll be yours.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 11:18 AM
5

You have to realize that dwelling on it will not help you in the slightest. So why would you tyrannize yourself over it? It's mental self-flagellation. You wanna drown in that feeling of guilt and shame. In a twisted way, your brain craves it. Understand it's your mind playing tricks. Parts of your brain wanna bring those memories and jerk off to them. Don't let that happen. Instead, get angry. Use those memories as fuel in the gym. Push that extra rep, run that extra mile, finish those few page…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:54 AM
4

Just to clear things up, when a girl is 16, she's legal in most european countries. Also, attraction towards a girl of this age is definitely not pedophilia and therefore should not be considered "predatory". Look up ephebophilia. You didn't really say this, but if she's legal in the country you're at, why do you care so much? This is none of your business. You may advise him and try to explain your viewpoint, but why would you lose your shit.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:37 AM
9

Agreed. OP, don't you even consider being your gf's footstool. If you wanna spice things up, just stick your dick in a hot sauce or something. Still better than this. Bury her thoughts of you being her little bitch right now.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 05:20 AM
5

Eh, I'd just leave this relationship. She'll demand more attention from you. If you give it to her, she'll consider you a conquered beta who doesn't excite her anymore and leave you for someone else. If you don't give it to her, she'll consider you an unattainable aplha who doesn't care about her and leave you for someone else. You can't win with these girls. Just fuck her for a few weeks/months. Don't get attached. If you feel like you're starttimg to like her too much, leave for your own safet…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 08:02 PM
16

The bio sounds hurt. Write long original bios only when drowning in pussy. It'll show. Until then, just copy something funny and sexual or just put some plain interesting facts or short stories about yourself. Plenty of guides on how to do that. Before you do all that though, invest your time in getting some good pictures. You're not a bad looking dude, so dress up nice, find some good location and ask a friend to take some pics.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:58 AM
1

Sounds like an evil queen in a disney movie.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 07:51 AM
8

If you can have kids with a smart and kind 9, why have kids with a mediocre and boring 6? Cause you can't have kids with that 9. She doesn't want you. Work on yourself till she does.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 11:30 PM
45

Giving into emotions towards a girl is like eating sugar. Might feel good. Might give you short energy bursts. But if lose control over yourself in the long run, you'll end up a fat, lazy cunt whom nobody respects. It's not about living with a woman. It's about letting go. It's about getting complacent. If you have a vision, plan and discipline that will allow you to reach it - if you are on a mission - go and live with a woman. Otherwise, you'll lose yourself in that sweet poison.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/21 08:57 PM
3

No. If you have to pay, pay a hooker.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:54 PM
12

In a year you two didn't specify the relationship? Did she even know she is a FWB? FWB has to be verbalized. That's why it's a "friend" with benefits - you both know what's up. This just looks like you overstayed your welcome with a plate and she assumed you two are LTR. Year is just too fucking long man. You can continue doing what you doing and play it vague, but at this point, I'd just put my cards on the table. Too much drama. If you wanna keep spinning plates, explain that to her in woman l…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:28 PM
2

What good does it do? Why not find a new plate? I'm don't have anything against you manipulating them, but this just seems counterproductive.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:44 AM
186

"I don't want to hurt her feelings" bro stop. I don't see a problem with this. She just disqualified herself from the ltr conversation and she's into you, so just continue fucking her and be extra careful.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 07:56 AM
0

You leave.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 12:08 PM
2

You do what you wanna do and see where it goes. But you have to know where you want to go first.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 11:58 AM
9

Use corny compliments only when you're levels above her and everybody else in the room, or you have true outcome independence and do it for the lols.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:34 AM
1

Just compare her to a cereal you had in the morning or something. Treat stupid questions with stupid answers. If you feel like you are completely in control, say she is a little worse than your last girl/girl you had last night, whatever. But never ever rate a girl honestly.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:25 AM
1

Enough said.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:13 AM
2

That's old rules. Multiply by 5-8. Other than that you're on point.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 11:10 AM
0

You don't have a choice. Either you find a perspective that will let you have fun with it, learn to love it, or go to ex-trp and fall back into the sweet delusion.
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:55 AM
4

Why would you pay for something others enjoyed for free?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 08:51 AM
11

Fuck more women. Develop relationships with some of them. That girl was a fantasy in your head. Perfect in every way, except she was a total hoe. Be careful to develop deeper feelings only for those girls that will prove their worth to you first.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:46 PM
2

Happy house. Sure. I wouldn't count on being the first guy she'll cheat with. I'd keep the investment at minimum, fuck her, see what happens. Let it be another lesson on the nature of women.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:37 PM
7

Dude. Don't do this to yourself. You already know the answer.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 10:32 PM
0

She's at fault for being an entitled cunt. You're at fault at putting up with it and not defining shit like this earlier. If she expects an expensive gift, it's because you let her have that expectation. Obviously Birthdays are different. But letting her pull you into the trap of bullshit gift giving on a day like Valentine's is a mistake. Frame it sexually before it happens. Make it a day you two should try some weird kinky shit you or her might have. No kisses, dinners or gifts. Fuck that. Tha…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:01 PM
1

What the hell did she do bro. Don't leave us hanging.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:47 PM
2

More importantly, what the hell are you doing? Maybe he wants to kill you. Maybe he wants to fuck you. But why would you want to be in an exlusive relationship with a girl like this in the first place?
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:39 PM
6

Don't forget you're doing this for fun. Sure, you may not feel great after a particularly bad day/week, but you should shape your life in a way you're looking forward to living it even if you get rejected all the time - which, if you're living such a life, is impossible.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:34 PM
1

Sounds a bit like a BPD. Might be a better idea to invest your energy into something or someone else. In the meantime, read a post called "beta bait" somewhere on the main site or trp.red, can't remember where it was.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:29 PM
3

I bet there's a number of cute autistic girls. Understand your condition and figure out the best way to live with it in today's world. Don't just accept it and capitulate on your desires because of it. Living with it will be hard, but I don't think a life of complete isolation is the best idea.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:28 PM
7

I don't like the tone of the question man. Sounds a lot like a serious case of oneitis. In an ideal world, she would be asking asktrpwomen this same question and you would be chilling in your place after a hard workout with some other chick on your lap, having anything else but this wedding on your mind. Try to get to that ideal world.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:18 PM
3

I'd never put up with a girl that would slap me, personally. Not in sex and definitely not while in an argument. I'd just leave.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:07 PM
11

Playing it down was weak. Trying to show off is weak as well. Based on what you told us here, I'd say something like "yeah I use it from time to time". And continue with more interesting subject. If she pressed on and said people are trashy there, I'd go with "some people from there are cool, some are trashy. Just like everywhere else." Don't show off. Be indifferent. Treat it like a basic shit test - ignore, deflect, agree and amplify. Whatever fits your narrative.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 04:04 PM
1

Staying with a girl you considered dumping "because of lockdown", in an "ltr" no less, is really shit idea. Are you afraid of being alone? Will you miss the average pussy so much? Can't you make it a few months just by yourself, gaming other girls? Will you put up with this dead bedroom marriage-like bullshit for the rest of your life, just because you're being complacent? I'm intrigued.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 12:10 PM
5

So, a fat girl that's getting fatter, no self-control AND ex's name tattooed on her? You already know the answer. Stop doing this to yourself, thank the god you two don't have kids and stop seeing her this second.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 08:42 AM
12

Maybe she was nervous dude. Girls are autistic, either they talk too much or too little. No point in overthinking it, just escalate as you would with any other girl and see how that plays out.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 10:52 AM
2

Definitely reduce watching porn and masturbation. If you beat you meat like two times a week, that's ok in your age. Don't be surprised if you do a porn marathon and the night after you can't go. You can't be deadlifting 24/7 as well, can you. Other than that, you're young, so this shit is completely normal. Being nervous and overthinking doesn't help in fucking, like at all. That'll go away only with experience and time though, so don't be too hard on yourself because of it. A little alcohol mi…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:13 AM
1

First, assuming she is not cheating cause she's "introverted" and living her parents is really stupid. Second, yes it's not criminal to ask people things. But ask a neutral questions. "Why are you using your phone under the bedsheets" is better than "what are you hiding from me". Don't assume, that will only bring up defences.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:52 AM
1

You know what this means. She doesn't wanna fuck you. She is fucking the other dude. She's too asocial to meet you yet she'll "break her charger" so that guy can fuck her without interruption. Do yourself a favor, move on and don't text her again. It's gonna hurt, but that's ok. Find some other girls (plural) and keep yourself busy figuring out what's the best way to enjoy your life.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:39 AM
26

Dick. You can wrap it up in like heart themed wrapping paper if you're feeling fancy.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:21 AM
2

"We did the deed". Did you kill his housecat and bathe in its blood or something? You should really think about what each of them means to you and base your decision upon that. If you consider the guy a close friend or want to develop a close nohomo relationship with him, it's not a great idea to keep it a secret. Be straight with your bros. However, if he's just an acquaintance, it's probably not an issue. Also, how hot is this chick? I hope fucking her is worth it.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 07:24 AM
7

Fuck her one last time, cum in her eye or something. Then go no contact. Don't answer her messages, knocks on the door, nothing. Let her figure it out.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 05:37 AM
1

Maybe some. I'd say the emotional emptiness they feel after many sexual experiences with no commitment also contributes to "hitting he wall". The lockdowns may also be a big factor, considering it isolates, breaks habits and forces some level of introspection.
/r/askTRP10/02/21 11:48 AM
3

Habit. You gave her the power by expressing your feelings towards her. Don't ever do that, let girls fall for you and keep your feelings under your control - and definitely don't talk to them about it. Don't try to salvage it. You're young, read through the sidebar here and on the main site, try the books discussed here, find some hobbies you like and get good at them. Focus on yourself. Lift. Figure out what you like and don't like, what you want from life, what is important to you. Socialize. …
/r/askTRP10/02/21 10:07 AM
1

She's gonna fuck you. Not in the good way. Women are vindictive. Walk away with your head held high while you still can, cause they never forget this shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:29 PM
9

Do NOT fuck fat women. Why would you do that to yourself man. To answer your question, be handsome, have a good profile and substantial social media following.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:21 PM
3

Imagine you had infinite amount of cash from 16 to 23 years of age. So much at such a young age you wouldn't even know what to do with it. You may buy some toys first, then a car, a house, expensive trips to foreign and exciting countries. Whatever you pleased. And then, around 23, when you finally start realizing what you have and how to enjoy it properly, what you really want to buy, you also start realizing that you have like 2, maybe 5 years before you run dry. And there's nothing you can do…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:09 PM
11

Why didn't you follow up with specific time and place?
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:15 AM
13

You should be texting three other girls. She's already in your head cause she's your only option. Now you're left here thinking if her unavailability is justified or not. Doesn't matter and you can't know. Start gaming other girls.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:50 AM
6

Good old streets. Don't look for excuses, look for solutions.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:43 AM
3

Gaming gym receptionists is the same as gaming bartenders. It's a stupid idea. Even if you are the most handsome dude in the land and she really is interested in you, don't do it. Get any other chick instead. If you aren't that handsome, she isn't interested anyway.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 08:56 AM
9

Jesus dude you're at a gym. Focus on the weights. If you're really that fucked still, use those memories as a fuel and go full beast on the deadlift.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:41 PM
2

How about the official redpill podcast.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:35 PM
43

By how you describe this you don't have many experiences. Tbh I think you're her plaything and she knows it, so just enjoy the ride and learn. But study the basics in the meantime, start with the sidebar here and on the main site.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:06 PM
79

That's being a woman 101 bro. Of course they do this shit.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:59 PM
6

Fuck other women.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 03:57 PM
1

You may want to consider professional help. Join a group, find a good male psychologist, maybe both. No shame in it. This shit can get anyone.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:29 AM
2

Same as strange hair-colored girls. Attention grabbing. Insecurity. Probable BPD. Stay away or wrap.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:25 AM
1

I wouldn't shake hands. You did good for a first try. First time at anything is gonna suck, and this shit ain't easy. Just keep at it and you'll be getting numbers in no time.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 03:16 PM
5

Forming your hobbies by design only to meet women is a shit idea and a recipe to a shit mindset and life. Find hobbies that actually fulfill you and start meeting women any other way. There's plenty.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:32 PM
1

Like others said, you should learn how to escalate and close in real life. Once you get that in the bag, and are truly comfortable and confident in it, make time to have fun through texts if you want. There's just no upside to that though. No girl will give you head through a speaker. If she wanna fuck you, she will - even without pouring your time in her through texts. If she doesn't wanna fuck you, you just plainly waste your time.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:14 AM
20

If you base your self-worth on an excel spreadsheet made by some used, bored cow, shared through autistic social media platforms, that is your problem right there. Ask yourself why should you care, and why do you care. It might reveal deeper insecurities you need to work on.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:06 AM
4

Tough to say. Is she your friend? Do you have mutual friends? How far apart do you all live? Generally, no girl is worth a drama in your life. Don't do it only because you don't have enough options. Or you know, go for it anyway and see how it all plays out. Consult your values.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:43 AM
8

If you don't know the guy, go for it.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:32 AM
2

You invalidated most of the advice you got here. If you wanna go play a good little beta, go out there and be our guest. The point is to do what YOU want. You like this girl and lie to yourself that she "needs to know you first". You're scared of what might happen if you refuse to be "friends" with her. Your decisions are dictated by fear and complacency. That's a shit way to live.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:20 AM
1

Try kissing first.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 11:47 PM
6

Status is King.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:09 PM
2

Dude you don't owe her anything, you two barely know each other. You said you're looking for something fun at first, serious maybe later. That's solid. So why are you now overthinking what she may be feeling or may be looking for based on what she says on her online dating profile (quick tip: don't LTR girls you meet through online dating, ever). It's not gonna get you anywhere. It's none of your business. You do your thing. Know what you want to do, tell her (or don't, you don't have to) and ju…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:18 PM
2

Frame is not your mask. It's literally who you are, how you approach problems and relationships, how you interact with the world. She says you're a pussy and you break down crying? You've got issues you need to work with - you got a weak frame. Your world start collapsing, you lose your job, family member gets sick, something terrible happens and you still deal with the situation with a cool head and positive attitude? You are a strong and stable individual. You got a strong frame. Lot of smarte…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 12:07 PM
1

If you want to see it, just tell her you'd like to see it, cause you're careful about this shit. Also tell her you're willing to show her yours. You kinda answered yourself.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:14 AM
5

Try being born 70 years ago
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:05 AM
-1

Don't use crutches. In any aspect of life. It's gonna suck, maybe you'll end up with a limp dick and blue balls. Learn how to handle that. When you fail a few times, you'll actually get more comfortable, won't stress about it and next time, you'll fuck the chick no problem. Use viagra when you got it in the bag for fun, not to compensate for lack of confidence. Instead, try paradoxical intention, meditation (just get out of your head), make fun of it, talk to her about it - in a joking way. Work…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 09:01 AM
1

Write her the most desperate shit you can think of. Like so bad it's gonna get you either a restraining order or a top place in some demented subreddit. Something like "I'm so in love with you I can't stop thinking about you. I just wanna hold you in my arms and kiss you. I can't get over the fact we will never be together." You get it. Send it to her. Look at it. Let her see it. Think about how fucking pathetic it is. What you did: 1) definitely disqualified yourself; and 2) realized how dumb y…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 04:00 PM
1

That was probably more of a comfort test. Be prepared for the 'the talk' soon. Decide now what she means to you and if you want to commit more, or just leave her.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 02:00 PM
1

3-6 months is about the limit anyway, especially if you're not super clear about your relationships beforehand. There's nothing wrong with not answering their demands for exclusivity and letting them figure it out on their own, but expect them to develop feelings and stalk you like that. You could just tell them from the start that you will fuck other women and let them decide if their ok with that, but then you'll lose some from the start instead of during the first months when they slowly real…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:22 PM
1

First step: stop using their autistic language.
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:43 AM
3

It does sound you might have mild OCD with obsessions being the stronger component. You might wanna start exposing yourself to those social situations even if it's uncomfortable at first. Gonna be the armchair psychologist here, but look into it.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:24 PM
3

She's gonna come back with crabs, and not the coconut ones.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:14 PM
1

There isn't one. Guy only wanted a shoulder to cry on.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:30 AM
4

Do whatever the fuck you want, but if you post here, make sure it's a question seeking knowledge, not permission. Otherwise you'll get this kind of deserved blowback.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 01:12 PM
1

Bro even if she's not fucking someone on those nights out with her friends, I honestly don't think you're ready for LTR. Especially if it's messing up your mind this much. Might be the hard decision today, but if you curb her now and develop yourself as well as fuck a few girls on the way, it will be better in the long run.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:29 PM
1

The problem here is that you're overinvested in this one girl. There can be a thousand reasons why she unfollowed you, said that one thing or did the other. What matters is if she's eager to fuck you. You'll find that out by wanting to fuck her, letting her know, creating the "right place and the right time". If you have enough time to think about shit like this to this depth, you have too much time. Don't waste it like this. Distract your mind with good shit, like lifting, reading or planning y…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 11:36 AM
1

I wouldn't be so generous with the "prime years" description. 25 is the begining of the Big Slide
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 11:13 AM
1

Girls are vindictive. Even your "unicorn". The cat is out of the bag now. Even if you tried to make it work, she'll just use this as an excuse to cheat later or rationalize some other evil shit. Build your own values and principles, figure out what you want and go for it. You can have a LTR and cheat, sure, but the fact that you feel guilty means you don't yet have the mindset for it. In the meantime, break it off with this girl, the damage is done I say.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 10:04 AM
1

You can't trust people who aren't trustworthy. Otherwise you're digging yourself a grave. Also, I can't shake the feeling that your gf is speaking through you here. You put all the blame on yourself, which I'm sure she does, too. That's noble, but you need to put your sights at something else than your temple every once in a while. Put trust in your instincts before words of any man. Especially a woman. Especially a woman who you're dating.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:18 AM
1

Know yourself. Discover what is important to you, set your own moral code, your life philosophy. Go in your own direction. Whatever don't fit into your picture - frame (girl wants to open a relationship; "friend" just uses you; boss is being a bad leader and a cunt; family members are manipulate bitches), you deal with accordingly. Curb the girl. Cut the friend. Find a way to get the boss to cooperate or leave the job.. you get it. It's a process. Figure it out on the way, but get going.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:41 PM
2

Solipsism, beautifully demonstrated. She just described herself. Time to grow up, beauty fades, what's "inside" matters. What was inside of her that is. Years before. A lot of dicks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 01:21 PM
5

We all know what the "modern stuff like partying" entails. And if you really go partying for the partying, not for the possibility of a cock, which i doubt, every sane guy will see you as if you were into it for the cock anyway. So don't get your hopes up, you'll be treated the same. Either lie, like every woman, and enjoy your youth with the recoil that's coming later, or just don't go "doing the modern stuff". The guys who you want are the guys who can tell the difference. I know, it sucks, yo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 12:27 PM
1

If he's your siamese twin. ..otherwise, it's not your business.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:05 PM
1

Maybe she's just plain crazy. Girls from tinder that are into crazy sex on the first night aren't usually "decent LTR girls" dude. Wait for her mask to drop off.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 10:02 PM
2

You're now in her orbit. Whispering sweet words of validation over the phone while some other dude is assfucking her. Not good. Instead ask yourself, why would you invest your valuable time in a girl that gives nothing back to you? Are you still clinging to the fantasy of you two being together? Just cut her off bro, if you don't want to be the dude on the other side of the phone in that porn you were watching.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:55 PM
4

They're gay. Girls use them. You see it because girls and feminine men rule social media. By using them, you use feminine language. And in most cases, that's neither attractive, nor good for your development as a man. Look for masculine examples - in books, in people around you. Build yourself upon their examples.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 03:49 PM
13

Up front and honest? You just made that up. Getting advantage of, in this context, means being irresponsible and ignoring consequences. Which is kinda point of this sub. You should think before posting something stupid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/01/21 12:40 PM
2

You know the answer to this. You just gotta talk to people. Look for social situations and engage with everyone. Play a group sport. Take up pair dancing. Find a job where you have to deal with people. It's gonna suck bad, but you'll learn quickly, as long as you stay consistent.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 04:07 PM
1

It works wonders on everyone with scarcity mentality. So almost everyone.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:19 PM
1

They're easy
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:15 PM
1

If you really want to invest, you need to prepare for the long war with the possibility of failure. Lead by example and feed him small bits you think will help. Plant seeds. Be patient. And be prepared to fail.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:13 PM
2

Get monstrously buffed. 5'8 is not that short. Just look for small girls. And don't bother with shit you can't change. It's simple as that. It's gonna rot your mind, take away your focus and fuck you in the ass. Put your energy into shit you can change. Like getting huge, popular and dominant.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:11 PM
1

LTR of 3 months? Dude. Obviously I don't know the context or the girl, but from what I read, you don't enforce boundaries with hoes. You demote them or leave them for better girls. Also, don't give into your feelings so fucking soon. Listen to yourself. "Might be ok with our faces hidden".. i mean really? If it's not ok for you, it's not ok for you. Stand your ground on shit that matters.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 03:07 PM
1

Yeah. For girls, it's more real than reality these days.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 02:58 PM
64

Pretty much yelled at me = gave me a definitive answer after hysteric episode on my part, pushing the relationship to the limit with my insecurities about a stable and happy life. Girls will never realize that the utopia they created for themselves will tear them down. They burn through all they have to offer and wonder, too late, what the shit is happening. The biggest ilusion our brain is playing on ourselves is that we can be happy when we have everything we want. We can't.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/12/20 08:42 AM
1

Be honest with us dude and repost what you sent her. It's probably gonna be fucking horrific but that's how you learn.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 12:51 AM
2

I liked uncle Vas's view on the scale women sort men by, i believe he postulated it in the latest red pill podcast interview. You're either 1,5 or 9. 1 being a random street hobo, 5 being basically everyone and 9 being the guy she wants to fuck at the time for any given reason. Your objective is to make your game, looks, status or whatever else carry you into the 9. Also, listen to the redpill youtube podcast, it's pretty damn good.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 08:23 PM
0

If it is a joke, good on her. I still pity their situation, the entitled upbringing and lack of responsibility conditioning in combination with the power they know too late they had.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 09:26 AM
1

I simply can't understand their point of view, being conditioned from early age to think they can afford this and that it could somehow work. I really pity them sometimes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/12/20 06:22 AM
1

Bro she's fucking him 100%. There's no good way to handle this. Even on the off chance he is really such a beta cunt that she isn't fucking him anymore, and I highly doubt that, just don't LTR girls with these habits. You pick for the ones that don't do this type of shit and then it's up to you that she doesn't start doing this type of shit.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 09:01 PM
3

I feel you. Gotta stump that cunt.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:46 PM
1

Honestly, your description fit any 24yo girl on the planet. But you're here, and you're asking. So I assume your gut is telling you this is a dealbreaker. Do you want a family with her? If it's anything but a hard yes, break it off and fuck another women/don't break it off and fuck another women. Up to your tastes.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:39 PM
2

Don't use so many gentlemens. You just gotta get burned enough times. Stop putting them on pedestal. See then as they are, just humans with a pussy, screwed up endocrine system and a lot of power without any idea of how to handle it. Don't judge them, fuck them. Fuck enough of them enough times to understand that they all can break under the right circumstances. And check your emotions. Don't fall in love with a girl with a pretty mask.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:32 PM
3

Get rejected a lot.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:22 PM
308

True. Always play this game. Let them open up to you. About everything. Never judge. Nothing should bother you anyway, especially with some rando you just met. The life is hers to live. Observe, listen, remember and sort.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 07:56 PM
1

If you'd have obsessed with your growth and betterment as much as with your long gone ex, you'd probably been much better off.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 10:11 AM
1

I suppose you're young. You're at a huge disadvantage when dealing with girls your age or older. They mature sooner and get much more social experience. Your time will come. Yeah, this is the equivalent of a shark throwing around a young seal. But don't think you're a loser. You're learning the hard way, let it motivate you to be better, to focus on getting better in every aspect of your life. As for the girl, block and forget about her. Find new hobbies, read and get better. Find new people to …
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:49 AM
1

You didn't give much info, but I really doubt a girl with these types of friends and a past of abuse is a "unicorn". You said she's older. My take is that she is playing you, what you see is a mask, cause of her experience she can tell you are a good guy and want to lock you. I'll go a step further and say you can bet she's getting into that threesome either after you break up, or straight up during whatever is going on between you. Step out of this mess. Focus on your life, not on her drama. Be…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:41 AM
8

This shit is just getting ridiculous.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:30 PM
2

If this is even genuine, at least put it under "blue pill example" please. Or just delete.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/20 10:14 AM
1

Well try to format it a bit next time, this sounds you just wanna pour your heart out. To your point, hating on women gets you nowhere, true, they are slaves to their nature. But red pill is using a specific language to counter our culture's so pervasive all-postitive female description. Sometimes you have to call someone a cunt to show his true side, emotions aside.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 01:38 PM
2

How Is this word salad a field report
/r/TheRedPill06/11/20 01:30 PM
8

The problem is thinking you're gonna make it to 60. Anything can go sideways. Changing the present because you're afraid of the future is not the way to go.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 06:34 AM
1

Bottle of wine, park, escalate. Or drinks at a bar, then escalate. Don't overdo it. Start simple, get comfortable, learn how to play the game before you start taking random girls to cruises.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:05 AM
16

Smiling is not the problem, it's what you tolerate, how you act and talk. You can be disagreeable, strict and commanding respect and still be open and happy. Not in all situations of course. So I'd say smile and laugh while focusing on your other behaviors, such as agreeing with people from the outset, letting them shit on your head without establishing boundaries etc. Not smiling is certainly a simple solution, and people won't have the tendency to test you that much, but it's temporary.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 04:33 PM
1

Happened to my close friend as well when we were in our teen years. Wouldn't believe it until I saw it.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:53 PM
14

Sounds like you care. Hot and wild is an easy cocktail to get addicted to. Ignoring is good, spinning it so next time she'll do coke with you is better, if you're in that sort of thing. If not, just forget about her so she won't get used to texting you every time she tries coke with a bit of cock.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 01:18 PM
2

What are you looking for here? Words of comfort? Friendly nods? You are all over the place man. It wasn't that serious, you fucked other girls and it wouldn't last long anyway, so you decided to do an "experiment". Ok cool. But suddenly she is "unique" and you secretly hope she will put up with your shit (not being exclusive and yet acting like a bitch). So what were you looking for - confirmation of ideas, or her being uberhuman? You can't expect a girl to be with you - her rationalizations asi…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 08:04 AM
1

I agree with most of the shit you guys talk about, and thanks for the replies. But. Do you really do not care about the n-count? For a girl you want to invest in, I just find it too important a factor to just let go - may be insecurity, but hell, it's a huge part of her history. Gonna tell you more about her than anything. And I completely agree with the fact that truth is fucking hard to get, I just wondered if there are any practical tips to uncover it. In any case, good talk.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 03:59 PM
1

Dude, I'm sorry for what happened. But you can't start with "my relationship was perfect" and "there were no prior indications of impending break up" and continue with a mess of a story like this. Don't wanna seem like an all-knowing cuntgod, but you need to get your shit together, learn how to better command yourself and read people better. Don't fall into another LTR before you're fucking sure you know what you're doing. Good luck on your journey
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:19 PM
1

I was just fucking thinking about this. Agree 100%. One question however - how do you overcome this? Is it too much insecurity, or just the plain fact of how things work today? How do you counter this? Do things change when you are so chill and fun to be around, not worrying about shit? Do they ever lose that mask? Or does it even matter - you still know you're not the first.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 06:23 PM
1

I know I'm late to the party, but shit like this seem almost fake to me. Not saying people (women) are not capable of it, but in a setting like this, saying "I should've fucked John when I had the chance. It's time I start fucking real men...", seem over the top. If it's 100% real, that's fucked.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/19 08:49 AM
1

Women just mimick men's frames - whichever those happen to be. If my frame is, I want you as my sex toy and you don't matter to me besides that, they will accept it (or not - and leave). But if it's weak, I wanna cuddle, watch Netflix, eat popcorn and do jackshit, hoping you make your move, that's what I'm gonna get. Boring sex "out of fear of looking like a whore". They just feed from your frame, your vibe, your whatever. They lack their own.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:00 PM
2

As with everything, you'll get used to it, with time. Another question is, should you? Always be aware of all intersexual mechanics we read about here. Never get comfortable, always be on your guard. Witnessing it on your close ones could be hard, but that more important to internalize.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 04:59 PM
1

Same here. Don't tell me it's gone guys.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 12:23 PM
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