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Holy fuck you're that guy! I remember your first post about your solo trip somewhere!
/r/seduction01/06/16 09:32 PM
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From the czech porn I watched, all you have to do is offer these women money and they will fuck you in the street.
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:53 PM
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If he still lives in NY, a part time job isn't going to help him move out most likely.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:50 PM
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I'm guessing the next step is to try to keep the conversation going and go for the number if I feel good vibes. Basically try to read the vibes I get from these little interactions and go from there.
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:16 PM
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Good on you man! Don't take it personally. Some people aren't in the chatty mood or just can't hold conversations on their end. It's not a big deal. You did it so now keep it up!
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:15 PM
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Haha yeah, I just recently noticed that I'm not as awkward as I thought I was and can actually talk to people and the good vibes from that have led to me being more open and positive in life, which snowballed to developing other areas of my life.
/r/seduction25/05/16 08:37 PM
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It's actually not hard. Standing in line or something? Talk to someone about what they ordered. Or compliment them on their wardrobe even if it's a lie (though ideally it isn't). Or jump into a conversation if they're talking about something you know about or some show you watch (I just did this last weekend when I overheard some table talking about game of thrones). Start small and go from there.
/r/seduction25/05/16 07:52 PM
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I have the same issue. After my first serious relationship, I just get bored of the girls I date, hence me not dating them for more than a month or just having sex with them and then not seeing them again (not on purpose). I also do the online dating thing mainly and it's partly the reason for it. My advice is to be more upfront or date multiple women or you just somehow find clingy women.
/r/seduction18/05/16 05:34 PM
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You like the chase. I know the feeling, I had it when I was in my serious relationship. I never acted on it, but I always felt like "Yeah, I could probably get with this girl" or something.
/r/seduction17/05/16 01:04 PM
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Well the only thing you can do is force yourself to execute it.
/r/seduction16/05/16 06:02 PM
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You're in your head too much. Honestly, I don't socialize much these days either because most of my friend group is scattered at the moment. My advice to just talk and not think too much about it.
/r/seduction16/05/16 05:54 PM
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Do you live in NYC? Because I went on a date with an MIT graduate recently who was 29 and works at a startup...
/r/seduction16/05/16 04:10 PM
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My advice (though I'm no master), is to just try to build from those questions you ask people. Like for instance, if she traveled somewhere ask what it was like, what the best part was, etc. If not, ask where she wants to, where you traveled and where you recommend, how it was, etc. Shows ask whats her favorite character, etc. Try that next time. It's easier said than done but you'll get into a habit with it after doing it enough.
/r/seduction16/05/16 04:06 PM
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So...who broke the wall?
/r/seduction16/05/16 03:45 PM
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When you meet these girls, are you saying you find them cute? Because that is what would make them view you more as a potential mate if that makes sense. That's what I do. I just keep a flirty relationship with all my female friends.
/r/seduction16/05/16 03:34 PM
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Did you post this before? I could have sworn I read it like a month or two ago.
/r/seduction11/05/16 12:52 PM
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I have the same issue. I never had a wild social life, was never all that popular, but people knew me. I was awkward (still am a bit). My advice is to just remind yourself that you have experience with all that you just said. You had sex, relationships, you have a good job, etc. That's what I think you should do.
/r/seduction11/05/16 12:49 PM
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds online dating awkward on the first date. It's the main reason i'm trying to break the habit.
/r/seduction09/05/16 02:25 PM
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I want to know this to.
/r/seduction09/05/16 01:56 PM
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This was hilarious to read. Also, made me feel like I share some mannerisms with the guy and it hurts.
/r/seduction09/05/16 01:44 PM
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Which is why I always use condoms when getting down to business. She says she doesn't want kids just yet but I'm not taking any chances.
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:58 PM
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It was actually after 10 minutes ;) But in all seriousness, I first went in after about 40 minutes since I was feeling out how she acted around me. Lots of touching. I'm pretty sure she even eyed me up and down a bit with fuck me eyes.
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:43 PM
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25 and 35
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:36 PM
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25 and 35
/r/seduction04/05/16 03:36 PM
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From what you wrote, I don't think you cockblocked unless you went out of your way to get involved in the conversation after he already opened her, which you already said you didn't. Also, unless you started downplaying him to look better or something to get her attention, you weren't cockblocking. If I ever get into a situation where one of my friends is talking to a girl, I either leave him be, or if I get bored, go talk to them and hype the shit out of my friend.
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:47 PM
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I agree with this but I don't think OP did anything wrong by just asking her where she was from. Unless OP explicitly did something to sabotage his friend like talk shit about him or poke fun at him, I don't think he cockblocked by just trying to get a little involved in the conversation.
/r/seduction03/05/16 02:41 PM
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Considering I'm currently interviewing and not getting offers, I should probably start approaching more in public before an interview haha.
/r/seduction02/05/16 02:03 PM
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I'll keep this in mind for the future. I have to rethink my interactions with people haha. The party itself was fine and low-key, which was fun for me.
/r/seduction02/05/16 12:49 PM
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Holy fuck man, get professional help if you're serious about all your problems and not just trolling. All I see is you talking about your problems with no effort being made towards progress. Either shit or get off the pot!
/r/seduction28/04/16 09:00 PM
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25 and I'm at 16. Most of them are from online. It's easier than approaching for me, though I shouldn't be bragging about it. I'm constantly trying to work on approaching in person.
/r/seduction28/04/16 06:35 PM
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This is fucking OkCupid. You message her anything and don't expect a response.
/r/seduction28/04/16 02:46 PM
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I hate clubbing. This is more of a bar situation.
/r/seduction26/04/16 12:52 PM
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That's actually a good idea...
/r/seduction26/04/16 12:51 PM
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This type of shit is why no one should take this stuff so seriously. It's not a bitch thing to be sympathetic! It's not hard to say "I'm sorry, hope you feel better. Rest up and we'll do something next week." Why do some guys feel like they can't be sympathetic and have to look all "alpha" or some bullshit with a woman they like?
/r/seduction21/04/16 05:02 PM
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It reads like something from penthouse. I could believe the kiss, but the rest of it just sounds like bullshit. It's a fucking plane, not a nightclub.
/r/seduction21/04/16 01:09 PM
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I'm not one to judge if someone cheats on someone else, as long as it isn't me being cheated on it doesn't affect me. That said, don't be surprised if you are one day cheated on or if you get your ass kicked.
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:41 PM
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Wow, he just deleted the whole thing :(
/r/seduction20/04/16 07:06 PM
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I can tell from your post you are a little bitch and probably made half of this up.
/r/seduction20/04/16 06:07 PM
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I had this feeling in my last relationship. I told her about it. I didn't want an open relationship but I felt like I missed the whole "chase" thing and didn't have much experience with women like I thought I would at my age. If I was you, just take a step back and be objective with yourself. If you really like the girl, trust me, it's not worth it to break up with her just to fuck around and fail a bunch of times.
/r/seduction20/04/16 03:26 PM
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Life is about risks for rewards. If you're going to keep making excuses, you're beyond help. It's like a fat person complaining about not losing weight because it's too hard while not going to the gym.
/r/seduction20/04/16 01:00 PM
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I used to be like you. The best advice I have is to just go for it. Usually it works for me. When it doesn't, the worst they do is move away, say no and we move on with the conversation.
/r/seduction19/04/16 09:17 PM
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Can I hire you to give me pep talks when I'm feeling down?
/r/seduction19/04/16 12:51 PM
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You act like you expect women to just materialize in front of you to suck your dick. You have to talk to them you know... Or you can continue being bitter.
/r/seduction19/04/16 12:49 PM
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Looking through your post history, I can tell you are either a troll or have issues which need professional help.
/r/seduction18/04/16 05:56 PM
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I have this same problem. I just deal with it by forcing myself to at least appear busy and not let my horniness get the best of me because horny me is needy me.
/r/seduction18/04/16 01:38 PM
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It happens. I cried around my ex a lot more than I care to admit (mostly during sad shit though). It's called having actual feelings.
/r/seduction15/04/16 01:22 PM
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I had this problem about desperation too. I'm not exactly looking for a serious relationship but I noticed the longer I went without sex, the more desperate I became. With online dating, I was only getting/mostly getting women who weren't my type at all (Read: Fatter than I would go after in person). Also, it doesn't really do much good for me since I'm not someone who settles just because I'm getting my dick sucked and I'm not going to go after a girl who I consider a downgrade in looks from my…
/r/seduction15/04/16 12:39 PM
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Upvote for you. I already have a tinder so I've been using it a lot. I do agree that face to face is how to go though. Like I said, most of this is just for my own enjoyment.
/r/seduction13/04/16 08:08 PM
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Yeah, I went into it expecting it. I don't really care though. It was just for my own entertainment. I expect nothing to come of this, just shits and giggles. That said, I can totally see how the creepy guys get addicted to this. It's low investment and basically throwing shit at a wall to see what sticks. Another issue is a lot of the girls I can do it to only know me as I was in HS and not as I am now. Not that it would be much better, but I'm a different person now. Plus, I'm only doing it to…
/r/seduction13/04/16 07:45 PM
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Yup. Honestly, I don't even care. I just did it because I thought it would be funny.
/r/seduction13/04/16 06:05 PM
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Way out of high school...like over 5 years out. Just bored and curious.
/r/seduction13/04/16 05:49 PM
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When I was able to actually k-close without getting all nervous about it. Like I still get nervous, but I got better about actually kissing the girl instead of wondering when the right time to do it was. Also, Tinder helped make it easier.
/r/seduction13/04/16 01:34 PM
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Damn man, I live in NYC too. Teach me.
/r/seduction13/04/16 01:31 PM
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The only thing that makes us different is that I still drink since I never had a problem with it lol. Otherwise we have the same problems. I've been talking about her a lot more to people lately (I stopped for a bit but all of a sudden started again). The thing that scares me is that IF we start dating again and it doesn't work which would make me depressed again. Also, it's petty but I'm nervous about what friends would think given how I acted post breakup (nothing bad, I just couldn't stop tal…
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:11 PM
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Yeah man, I got a better hold on my emotions after it was all over. I was depressed for a while, did the whole tinder thing for a while (still doing it actually haha), but it didn't really help me as much as trying to fix my own issues. I still run into her every now and then and she seems to be doing well. I'm honestly thinking about trying again with her lately but I'm way too scared and way too preoccupied with other life things to do that. Not seddit conversation, I know, but fuck it. Lately…
/r/seduction11/04/16 02:47 PM
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Well, I haven't had any serious relationship after that. I have dated various girls for no longer than a month though (that's another story). Anyway, how I solved it for the most part was accept I had problems that I was neglecting towards the end and I don't neglect them anymore. I'm also more in control of my emotions because I don't fly off the handle as easily as I did when I was 23. I just know my problems and I'm trying to take charge of fixing them instead of being more passive than activ…
/r/seduction11/04/16 01:09 PM
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Are you me? Because this is what contributed to the end of my relationship and caused a weird subconscious feeling like I don't think it's over for good. It fucking sucked and I beat myself up about it for a very long time.
/r/seduction11/04/16 01:06 PM
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It depends on your relationship with the girl. Just met her that night? It's possible he has better game/better looking/whatever Dating her? He did you a favor.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:45 PM
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This was awesome. More FR need to be like this.
/r/seduction08/04/16 08:07 PM
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What would you have done? I would have probably done what he did but not try to be funny constantly and mix it up.
/r/seduction08/04/16 04:36 PM
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Are you kidding? His facial features are all scrunched together! How is that attractive? Maybe it's not ugly but it's definitely not above average. But then again, I'm a straight dude and all that matters is that some people find him attractive so w/e
/r/seduction08/04/16 04:33 PM
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I like this advice, I'll give it a shot next time. I'll just say hi and avoid talking to him too long next time I see him.
/r/seduction08/04/16 02:14 PM
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I thought about this a bit in the past. Growing up, I was a lot closer to my mom because my dad worked more hours, was not really "present" in the sense that he didn't really try to bond with me over my interests, etc. My mom I could talk to about anything. My dad was/still is much more aggressive than I am in regards to things. He is a great father now that I'm older and wiser but growing up, I wasn't all that close to him. He did try to teach me and push me to get with women, telling me some o…
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:45 PM
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I've been at internet dating for over a year now and it's just how it is in big cities. I've been ghosted on so many times I don't care anymore, it happened before a date, after a date, after 3 dates, etc. This is why I just don't care too much about online dating anymore. I noticed the girls of substance don't do online dating either.
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:38 PM
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I just watched his other videos and some of his stuff does work for him. It seems like this didn't work for him because the group was huge. I find his voice cringey and his mannerisms weird but no one is perfect (at least he tries).
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:36 PM
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I think it depends on how you portray yourself. This guy was good in his approach, but he didn't really seem to frame it in a romantic level. That said, I have no idea what I'm doing half the time so I'm probably talking out of my ass because I act like this guy generally...
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:12 PM
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I like this post. This should also apply to relationships and being worried if your girlfriend/wife will leave you for someone with more money/better looks/etc. I fell into this trap when younger with my first serious relationship when life was kicking my ass and making me depressed. It did not help the relationship.
/r/seduction08/04/16 01:08 PM
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Holy shit. His face and voice...I definitely would not expect this from him. Good stuff.
/r/seduction07/04/16 06:08 PM
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The thing is, I never really noticed this behavior from him when I first met him. I don't hang out with him often so I only noticed it after some time passed because at first he was a nice dude. Then I noticed he started acting more and more like a dick, talking down to me and a few other people while having genuine conversations with other guys in the group. I even brought it up to other guys and they agreed with me, the ones he shows respect to notice it and the ones who think he's a dick noti…
/r/seduction07/04/16 04:04 PM
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Upvote for Hunter x hunter reference.
/r/seduction07/04/16 03:35 PM
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I wouldn't try anymore with her. If she wasn't feeling it, she wasn't feeling it. No point to overthink it. It happened with me where I ended up having sex/making out with the girls and then never hearing from them again.
/r/seduction06/04/16 07:23 PM
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I want to know how you got so close and why this thing is so edited. If it was really done in 3 minutes, it would be one continuous shot, not multiple shots from different distances and angles cut in.
/r/seduction06/04/16 01:43 PM
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*should have
/r/seduction06/04/16 01:39 PM
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I thought the fake part was how close the camera got at one point. Like, it was edited strangely.
/r/seduction05/04/16 08:24 PM
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Passive? That lost me.
/r/seduction30/03/16 04:03 PM
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So what is a good way? Send pictures of myself first?
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:46 PM
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I'm good with the whole sexting thing in regards to getting it to progress once it happens, but it's never led me to get a picture, just actions about what we would do to each other. And I also have to ask for the picture...I just want to receive unsolicited pictures once in a while! lol
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:35 PM
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I had this issue with my last girlfriend when my life was going through shit. My advice is to remember that she is out with YOU, not the other guy. And if she leaves you for that guy, she's losing, not you. With my ex, I was worried that because I was going through such a tough time, she would find someone better, with a car, a better job, etc. It was not helped that I was constantly told by parents that pretty girls always look for someone who can provide for them and will leave the guy with a …
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:29 PM
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I want to know how to get them all wet and ready for sex just by texting. I can never seem to do it. Or get nudes. It's pretty shallow I know, but I just want to know how to do it.
/r/seduction30/03/16 03:25 PM
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I have the same problem. My advice is basically never stop working on yourself. What I noticed is it helps me every time I accomplish something. For example, after my last serious breakup, I was all mopey and depressed about my ex. Eventually, things started getting better because I was doing and accomplishing new things. I got a new job, moved out of my parents, and suddenly I noticed I thought about her less. It just helps.
/r/seduction30/03/16 01:59 PM
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I would just tell them you're a trial attorney and let her ask for more details if she's curious. You don't have to tell her in a bragging way either that you have your own firm.
/r/seduction24/03/16 03:44 PM
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Good job, now get to talking to more girls just so you don't focus too much on this one at this stage.
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:15 PM
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Huh...this sounds like me in my first serious relationship. I didn't think I was over committing but I did commit a bit more than I should have looking back at it.
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:14 PM
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This is how I see it as well. Text game is a bunch of crap. As much as I myself want to get better at text game, it really is a bunch of crap outside of just not texting her constantly to annoy her.
/r/seduction22/03/16 07:14 PM
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I don't really give her too much.
/r/seduction21/03/16 03:36 PM
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I already did. I told her I won't get feelings if she's worried about it, told her I've been with an older woman before, etc. It's weird.
/r/seduction21/03/16 03:36 PM
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Been there at 23, it sucked. It does get better though as soon as you realize that now you have more freedom. Basically, it's fine if you want her back, but don't improve yourself for the sake of that (if that's what you want).
/r/seduction21/03/16 01:45 PM
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I have the same exact issue as you. When it comes to texting, I just can't not respond and a part of me takes it personally when I don't get a response (even if it's miniscule). I just accepted that I do better in person than in texting. Like, I keep hearing about guys getting nudes from girls and I just can't get that...ever.
/r/seduction21/03/16 01:43 PM
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I think you can. It can help you be more calm around women. You can also just flirt with her lightly and see what works/what doesn't. Practice getting comfortable with physical contact.
/r/seduction18/03/16 12:45 PM
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This is really cute haha
/r/seduction16/03/16 08:52 PM
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That's really what I do now. I flirt with them but don't really expect anything.
/r/seduction16/03/16 07:40 PM
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I do this once I know the girl better haha
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:30 PM
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I have the same problem as you. I'm not a student anymore though. My advice is to just try and use online dating as a supplement, not main thing. I started using online dating A LOT in the last 2 years, got a lot of hookups from it, but nothing stuck/lasted. I got a lot of ghosting, rejections, etc. from it. I also noticed a lot of the girls I met from online dating just didn't look as good as I thought they did from pictures and approaching in person actually helps me pick who to approach. Like…
/r/seduction16/03/16 04:19 PM
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Just make your attraction known by breaking the physical barrier and reading their reaction.
/r/seduction15/03/16 01:37 PM
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I mean...you have to make a move. I've been on several Tinder dates and some ended in a hug, some in a kiss. There's nothing special about it.
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:44 PM
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Ended with sex. First time having sex after my breakup so it was pretty nice.
/r/seduction14/03/16 04:02 PM
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I have this problem too. I typically do online dating and I find that although I meet a lot of girls and a majority of the girls I slept with were from online, I didn't really find many of them attractive when naked. Then I just stop talking to them after sex because I don't find them attractive anymore. My solution? Cut down on online dating. Getting laid is proving to be harder, but at least I meet women I find attractive.
/r/seduction11/03/16 05:00 PM
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Dressing better helped me a lot when I first started to wear more fitted clothing. In terms of women, I just embraced my awkward side and I'm just really sarcastic when I poke fun at them. I'm trying to build up a new social circle and get more male friends outside the guys I know so I'm still working on that.
/r/seduction11/03/16 04:48 PM
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Yup. Girl I'm friend with rejected me before and I ended up making out with her one night. It was cool.
/r/seduction03/03/16 09:58 PM
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I'm planning to pick up guitar, maybe buy a few group lessons to meet new people in general. You can try that.
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:42 PM
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I never understood the need for coaches. They seem appealing for a time but why not just go out with friends and make them force you to approach? Like why is a coach necessary for something like this? Sure, you can get a new perspective with a coach, but that's pretty much it. All pickup is about is talking to people and trying to pay attention to what you do in those interactions.
/r/seduction01/03/16 02:41 PM
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I barely have people posting funny memes or stuff on my facebook as well. I never had to explain it though because most of the time I don't care.
/r/seduction29/02/16 06:04 PM
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We fooled around a bit every time I saw her so she's attracted to me for sure. She just stopped me whenever I tried to get past the make-out stage.
/r/seduction26/02/16 06:56 PM
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I've had this when I finally got into my first serious relationship. I loved my ex dearly but there were times I missed the chase. Then I became single and it wasn't as easy as I thought it would be to get laid again. Tinder helped though.
/r/seduction23/02/16 09:15 PM
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For me, as soon as I see the potential for sex, I suddenly want to talk to the girl all the time.
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:40 PM
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This. I can only remember once where I had a girl on my bed and it didn't lead to anything.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:17 PM
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Yeah Tinder is all about casual sex so it's already expected for the most part.
/r/seduction19/02/16 08:09 PM
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I started setting a date and then telling the girl that I would hit her up the day before to set up logistics. It's worked for me.
/r/seduction19/02/16 07:38 PM
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It's because Tinder is an obvious thing. I was over at a girl's apartment last night, first time meeting each other and we hooked up. Now it turns out that I really like her and it's a whole other issue -_-
/r/seduction19/02/16 07:37 PM
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Mine is probably being a little too desperate at times if I really find myself liking the girl. Being cool and chill just doesn't work for me 6/10 times. I get really excited.
/r/seduction19/02/16 07:35 PM
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Yup, just like I thought. Thanks.
/r/seduction11/02/16 04:47 PM
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My question is, how do you let a girl know she isn't the only one you're talking to if she asks? I don't only talk to one at a time, but I don't let any of them know either just because I'd rather have her feel like she has my attention. I just assume she's talking to other guys as well. Can someone answer this? Do you guys just say something like "Oh I'm talking to hundreds!"
/r/seduction11/02/16 04:40 PM
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Yeah, don't take texting too seriously. I've had great conversations with women from tinder/okc and the meeting in person just sucked. Then there are those where the opposite happened (currently having one of those possibly).
/r/seduction10/02/16 08:05 PM
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This sounds like terrible advice towards the end. Being fired and having no income is not a good suggestion.
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:08 PM
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I happen to agree with this which is why I want to take up contact sport like boxing (I did it for a month then had to stop because not enough money to keep paying for a membership and I never got to the sparring part). It seems more fun and less risky than getting dropped into a warzone (which I'm sure is fun to talk about as well but not while getting shot at).
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:56 PM
1

Happened to me before multiple times when I was with my ex. One time I saw a guy walk up to her while I was walking toward her in the street.
/r/seduction09/02/16 03:52 PM
1

I mean, I guess. I'm personally more bold in online dating and don't give a fuck. In person, I'm more reserved, still direct about intentions, but it comes off differently...does that make sense?
/r/seduction28/01/16 02:01 PM
2

I have this problem too. Though I also have AA a bit that I'm constantly working on. No idea how to fix it aside from making your online dating persona and your in person persona more congruent.
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:59 PM
7

Who?
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:58 PM
10

What?
/r/seduction21/01/16 04:44 PM
3

Can this become a meme here? It's actually hilarious.
/r/seduction15/01/16 01:42 PM
1

Others just kind of waffle around. They wake up when their alarm goes but they kind of just roll around doing nothing or go on their phones instead of getting out of bed. THATS ME!
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:31 PM
3

You know, I believed that not fapping for a week actually helped me for the longest time to hook up with girls, until I started hooking up with girls despite fapping the previous day. Now I just believe it was my own fear.
/r/seduction14/01/16 02:13 PM
1

I mean...I do all that. Probably more than my friends!
/r/seduction13/01/16 09:05 PM
1

So basically they do, not think about doing? Like some of my friends literally do nothing when it comes to picking up girls. Girls just start liking them all of a sudden and I don't understand it. I'm not saying I put off a desperate vibe (I don't think so) but who knows. I'm just confused because I do a lot of things that on paper should help, but I still seem to be struggling (not too much but it's confusing).
/r/seduction13/01/16 08:50 PM
1

I feel EXTREMELY awkward. Which is why I recently cut down on kino a bit to focus more on reactions to it.
/r/seduction13/01/16 07:32 PM
2

HAHAHAHA I just imagined myself pelvic thrusting.
/r/seduction07/01/16 08:01 PM
1

It's only mixed because of how she acts around me. Believe me, I only have one egg in that basket as opposed to multiple eggs in other baskets. I'm not focusing on her at all (or on any woman really, just going out with them while trying to improve myself and get some sex on the way).
/r/seduction06/01/16 04:12 PM
1

Oh oops, nevermind my situation then, I'm just dealing with mixed signals and/or a girl who wants to take things slow or something.
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:45 PM
2

This is the right response. How clear are you being with these women? Like, I've been friendzoned MANY times but I also tend to eventually makeout with those friends...basically what I'm saying is keep flirting with them but don't be all invested. My advice isn't the best though because I have my own problems with attraction that I should be working on.
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:28 PM
2

Honestly, I find myself playing this game more often than not. I'm basically playing it right now with one girl that I really like who may or may not feel the same about me (met her at a bar and have hung out with her a few times, nothing aside from decent kino is happening and she already told me she wants to hang out as friends which makes everything confusing for me lol). The only issue I have with this play is it can lead to mind fucking if you focus on one girl at a time which is something …
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:25 PM
1

Wait until they ask, that's what I do.
/r/seduction05/01/16 03:25 PM
1

My advice is to just talk. Like, you have to put it all behind you if you want her back and vice versa. That's what I would do in your situation if I was in it.
/r/seduction09/12/15 05:18 PM
1

That fucking sucks because you may be right. I tried to have a friendly conversation with her post-date just about random crap and she just doesn't respond. I was actually really hoping she was genuine about the friend thing.
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:42 PM
1

I think you're right. I tried to have friendly conversation with her after the date through text and she just doesn't respond. Oh well.
/r/seduction30/11/15 01:40 PM
1

Yeah, I wouldn't think too much about it. People are all different.
/r/seduction23/11/15 07:21 PM
2

HAHA, thanks man. Honestly, I'm not stressing about it. I'm just going to be friends with her if it happens and then if it leads to anything more, cool.
/r/seduction23/11/15 01:36 PM
1

Only seems bad if it continuously happens to you throughout your dates. As in, if EVERY girl you continue to meet just wants to be friends then you can start to panic. See, this is something I'm starting to worry about. at least 90% of the girls I'm meeting either don't like me enough for a second date, or lately say "You're cool, but I just want to be friends." The thing is, I don't mind having more female friends because i'm trying to network now and just be a more well-rounded person with an …
/r/seduction23/11/15 01:35 PM
1

I don't know why people think it's my wardrobe...or if that's an actual joke...
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:43 AM
2

That's how I view it at this point. I also want more friends in general so it's a win for me if this actually works as a friendship and not just a "I'm gonna suggest being friends to let him down gently and then get out of his life" thing.
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:34 AM
1

I mean, the conversation flowed really well, which is why I was confused and made this topic.
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:32 AM
5

I did...and I honestly don't care too much. I don't pay for girls and expect to get laid because of it. I just prefer to pay, unless the girl is a complete bitch in that case I don't.
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:31 AM
1

Basically what I did with kino on a lot of dates was I took it a bit too far without reading body language or their reactions. I basically jumped into the water without seeing if it was hot or cold. With the date this time, I decided to try a different approach and kino little by little (which was honestly difficult given that we sat at a table at the bar and were across from each other).
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:30 AM
3

You're fucking retarded. I have no idea why you got hostile here and you must be a blast to hang out with! I'm not going to try and justify myself to a stranger online who is probably trolling.
/r/seduction21/11/15 07:25 AM
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I mean, I need more friends so if that works out, it's fine for me. I already work out and am told I dress well, I'm not a slob at all haha. Oh well, not everyone is going to be attracted to me, whatever.
/r/seduction20/11/15 10:12 PM
4

Kino: check though I'm revamping it just because I did it far too much too fast without feeling the girl out before, tried it differently this time. Eye Contact: Always Sexual Tension: Need to look this up Thanks man.
/r/seduction20/11/15 09:44 PM
1

Oh I'm not offended. I'm working on it all after realizing I'm probably doing it wrong.
/r/seduction19/11/15 05:23 PM
1

I actually haven't really put too much effort into changing core behaviors at this point. When it comes to speech, just work on speech. You can focus on work and speech at the same time.
/r/seduction18/11/15 10:15 PM
1

Focus on one thing at a time I guess. That might help you. You seem to want to work on everything at once, I'm guilty of that too. My suggestion is to just start with one thing, focus on that, and then move on to the next.
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:22 PM
7

This has to be trolling...
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:21 PM
5

I can speak from experience this is a bad idea.
/r/seduction18/11/15 06:56 PM
1

I embraced that texting should only be done to make plans recently. There's a girl I'm interested in and I'm just texting her every few days right now, considering I won't be able to see her for a few weeks given the situation. I made a rookie move and texted her this morning with something stupid after I forgot to respond last night and got no response, though I do feel bad given what I texted her made me sound like I was bragging a bit lol. My suggestion is to just text her like, once or twice…
/r/seduction16/11/15 10:08 PM
1

I don't debate it, but what works on one woman, doesn't mean it's going to work on another. That's what I'm noticing about this sub, a lot of people (unsurprisingly) treat all this as a manual...what about just being a decent person? I guess it also depends on what you want with the woman. Like, yeah don't be too easy, but don't be too complicated either by thinking "Never give her what she wants". Though, I'm also not a casanova so who knows, maybe I'm the one full of shit given my sporadic res…
/r/seduction13/11/15 08:32 PM
2

I think you look far too deeply into this.
/r/seduction13/11/15 06:56 PM
2

I see you everywhere in this sub lately!
/r/seduction13/11/15 02:59 PM
1

Holy fuck, I cringed reading all this. That said, take control of the situation. Physical contact is good, go from there.
/r/seduction12/11/15 08:04 PM
1

I was the same way in HS though I didn't bug the girl, I was just too shy to do anything. It was one of the popular girls in school, she was really nice to me, invited me to parties at her house senior year, etc. Great girl. I just was too pussy to be like "Hey, you're cute, let's go out!" and also she was hooking up with some guy in her friend group and since I wasn't as close to the group as him, I wasn't looking to get dirty looks from people in the group or something :( Anyway, looking back …
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:57 PM
1

LOL
/r/seduction12/11/15 02:49 PM
2

...how good are you at this that it only take 1-2 texts a week for you? lol
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:04 PM
2

I have this issue myself. I constantly struggle between what's persistence and what is annoying/clingy. The problem with my situation that I noticed is I'm always the initiator so I'm basically used to being persistent otherwise I don't see anyone. Not sure why it's like that, but it's been like that for a while and I'm used to it (not to mention annoyed so I'm trying to work on it a little bit). Anyway, I view persistence as not really trying too hard but still trying. Like, persistence for me …
/r/seduction11/11/15 05:00 PM
2

ATTA BOY
/r/seduction10/11/15 01:46 PM
1

I don't understand why you set this rule. I mean, I'm 24 and while I wouldn't date a girl under 21 now, I would still sleep with 18 year olds if they gave me signs. My first serious girlfriend was 18 when I was 21 and the only difference was I couldn't go to as many bars with her. But I wouldn't be able to date anyone under 21 at this point.
/r/seduction09/11/15 04:42 PM
1

Shit so I gotta be conscious of two people now?! Too much work! But seriously though, I think I'm just going to take some time off from all this and reset my life.
/r/seduction27/10/15 02:32 PM
1

Yeah, I'm not saying I like doing it this way. I just never really bothered rationalizing it until recently and even though I'm trying to work on it, I keep moving too fast without intending to just because I got so used to it. I guess I have to keep myself in check from now on and be more conscious of it.
/r/seduction27/10/15 01:15 PM
1

Thanks dude. I'll probably just send her a text tonight or tomorrow. She has taken her sweet time to respond in the past and even told me she's a bad texter, so I'm going to take her word for it. I also met her online like with all the women I date lately (which is a whole other issue for me) so it makes it more difficult for me. Edit: Nevermind, I got impatient and shot her a text.
/r/seduction26/10/15 05:58 PM
1

I see, thanks for your input. It's just hard to do all that at once and I'm feeling a bit discouraged as is haha. As for 3, I contacted her last night asking if she wanted to go on date 2, she said yes, then I suggested a date (which was actually for today) and haven't heard back from her. My instinct is telling me it's a lost cause but I'm going to give it one more shot in a few days if I get no response from her today. I just hate the whole excitement thing girls seem to pull lately and then g…
/r/seduction26/10/15 05:48 PM
1

I think the latter. I think it messed up many dates I've been having in the last few months. Now I'm basically paranoid. There was even one that I liked who I went on a date with on Saturday, kissed, she said she had a good time and wanted to see me again, but I haven't heard from her to confirm plans for this week! Now I'm thinking she just kissed me to be nice or because she had no way of saying no. Ugh. I may have been too touchy with her too, even though I tried not to be.
/r/seduction26/10/15 05:19 PM
1

I don't think I'm awkward about it though. I just own the space and it leads to physical contact, which actually sometimes is awkward...fuck I'm confused. Just going to become a monk I think.
/r/seduction26/10/15 03:40 PM
1

See, I hear all the time "Make women/people more comfortable around you" and I can't figure out how. All I do is basically throw shit at the wall and hope it sticks since my ex didn't seem to mind me being touchy a bit before getting serious.
/r/seduction26/10/15 03:34 PM
1

Oh I plan on doing...just not today lol. Plus it was a girl from Tinder so I have others I want to attend to before circling back around.
/r/seduction21/10/15 03:16 PM
1

The problem is we only went on one date and she never really let me know her availability for the second despite telling me she would so I took a break from her. It was weird since she was responsive whenever I texted her.
/r/seduction21/10/15 01:38 PM
1

I think I might just end up doing this in a few days. I thought about it and canned lines just don't seem like good ideas, at least if I really like the girl.
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:54 PM
3

This one is pretty funny!
/r/seduction21/10/15 12:53 PM
1

My question is how do you even lead to a conversation like this on a first date? I don't judge anyone for their sexual preferences or anything but I can't figure out how to even discuss sex casually on a first date. I don't imagine you can just bring it up randomly. My issue is steering conversations in directions I want them to go to.
/r/seduction20/10/15 06:06 PM
1

That's not a bad idea actually!
/r/seduction20/08/15 08:36 PM
0

This is extremely solid. I'm having an issue lately where apparently I kino way too much, too fast. Any advice? I haven't gotten any comments on my kino until recently and I'm very self-conscious about it now (especially after a second date I had last night where I kissed the girl and held her hand on the first date but on the second date I couldn't get any kino reciprocated from her at all despite having my hand on her leg under the table we were sitting at with her friend).
/r/seduction20/08/15 06:40 PM
1

This is awesome. I just want to say to you that I only recently noticed the whole "eyes on the lips back to the face" thing myself. It was pretty awesome when I caught myself noticing it.
/r/seduction20/08/15 01:15 PM
0

That's the only type of job I'm considering on the side, a bartender. Unfortunately no experience in it.
/r/seduction02/04/15 09:32 PM
0

Yeah, no thanks lol As nice as some extra income would be, I don't want to work another job unless necessary.
/r/seduction02/04/15 09:27 PM
1

I hate the term "friendzone". Like, I've made out with women I'm friends with, what does that mean? Does that mean I'm not in the friendzone really? I have no intention at this point of dating them seriously (or any other women for that matter since I just want to fool around an sow my oats for a while). Personally, I don't believe in the friendzone. I believe that sometimes a woman just isn't interested in you romantically or anything, and that's fine as well as frustrating. I just cringe whene…
/r/seduction02/04/15 04:00 PM
1

Haha thanks man. I'll deal with things as they happen. I'm no longer as hung up about it all as I was in the beginning.
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:53 PM
1

I mean, every relationship is different. I don't know how I'll feel in the future so I try not to think about it. I do get what you mean though and agree with you.
/r/seduction06/03/15 07:45 PM
1

I feel like these are all good points, especially 4. Since I got out of my first serious relationship a year ago, and I'm open to trying again with her if it happens, it took me a while to accept that I have no control over the situation anymore. I experienced 4 and 5 hard. I also said some asshole things unintentionally in my relationship (though I never called her a whale...). I would say that 1 and 2 vary among people. Like I can say without a doubt that at the moment, I am in love with my ex…
/r/seduction05/03/15 10:08 PM
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