JewelThroughCoal Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	[27M] virgin in college		JewelThroughCoal	/r/seduction	20/08/19 11:37 PM
1	What Am I Doing Wrong + Tips to Modify My Approach		JewelThroughCoal	/r/seduction	26/08/19 01:09 AM

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2	What Am I Doing Wrong + Tips to Modify My Approach That's a really positive take on things and a lot more helpful than you probably realize. Let me ask you though, what kind of openers do you use? How do you just start these conversations without context provided by your environment? I'm great at "having" conversations but not necessarily great at starting them in a way that feels natural and that I'm comfortable with. People always say, "talk to people around you" but seem to ignore the most important part or treat it like it's a given.	/r/seduction	26/08/19 02:55 AM
1	What Am I Doing Wrong + Tips to Modify My Approach I respect what your saying, but a little context is no order. I'm 27 and just now coming around to going to school and going through a lot of the same social experiments and rights of passage most people experienced in their late teens/early 20s. I never had much of an opportunity for relationships when I was younger and I'm starring down the barrel of 30 now, and these issues, however immaterial in nature weigh heavily on me, and don't allow me, psychologically, to have the same disregard for t…	/r/seduction	26/08/19 01:38 AM
1	[27M] virgin in college I think you hit the nail on my problem. Outside of the psychological dimensions, I don't really "get" cold approach. So what, are you just supposed to walk up to women on the street and start talking to them? At what point does this cross the line between socially acceptable behavior and harassment? You see these "in field" videos from these dating experts, but the fact that they're able to do something this extreme points to the fact that they're outliers: either inordinately extroverted or oth…	/r/seduction	21/08/19 10:00 PM
1	[27M] virgin in college DM sent.	/r/seduction	21/08/19 07:32 PM
1	[27M] virgin in college I think having a long-term girlfriend, moreso than a lot of casual flings or unattached sex, would go a long way to resolving a lot of these issues. I don't think that goal is unattainable, but as I said, my environment, and the psychological preoccupation I have with my age introduce a slew of complicating variables, although I'd like to think I'm still making progress. More broadly, in the time I have left, I want to make up for all the experiences I've missed out on, whatever that means(I don…	/r/seduction	21/08/19 07:32 PM
1	[27M] virgin in college Everything took so long based out of circumstances. I went into some amount of detail but there was a lot I left out as well. Essentially, the last few months are the first time all the stars aligned to the extent that I could make a legitimate play at meeting/approaching a lot of women without being sunk by a combination of isolation, over-work, severe social anxiety and crippling poverty. I'm probably going to regret asking this but could you go into detail on what those lingering scars relati…	/r/seduction	21/08/19 07:28 PM
1	[27M] virgin in college Why exactly? I mean I'm not exactly going to go around telling people I'm a virgin, and I'm reluctant to go into much detail on homeschooling and a lot of the other experiences that have marked my life in pretty significant ways. If I met someone I felt I wanted to spend the rest of my life with I absolutely would, but for the casual relationships that characterize much of college, why should radical honesty be a prerequisite? There's a difference between lying in a way which would be damaging t…	/r/seduction	21/08/19 07:27 PM