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Slow. The. Fuck. Down. It's a dance, not a sprint. Also, use your hands. Caress her hair, side of her cheek. During pauses don't be afraid to kiss the neck, nibble the ear and breathe deeply. Smile and make strong eye contact in between. Don't over think it. Show your desire and it will be reciprocated
/r/seduction12/11/15 07:43 PM
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I agree entirely. Maybe OP didn't think he had the balls that his new friend thought he had, but he acted the part and was willing to get shot down, which is more then most guys are willing to do! I also enjoyed how he posted a FR regardless of the outcome - I see so many success FR's out there, it's rare that you hear of the failures, and really, that's what most of us are going to learn from. We need to know others are failing so the sting isn't as bad when we ourselves fail. OP lives on, and …
/r/seduction20/09/13 04:18 AM
1

MMSL?
/r/seduction24/07/13 12:19 PM
1

Sounds like he even tried to respect the ring but she want having it lol
/r/seduction24/07/13 09:18 AM
41

"...but I heard OP is a fag"
/r/seduction11/07/13 11:29 AM
1

I love jaded's comment as well as his story. I do want to add my 2¢ however. What it sounds like you're asking to me isn't simply "should I tell everyone my story?" I think you understand the answer to that is no. However, if you're talking about a LTR and being in a committed relationship where the other partner and you care about each other I think it is a good idea to share your past and how you felt AS WELL AS how you worked through it and became a better and healthier man. Just the same way…
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:26 AM
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Id like to see a picture describing what was in that link you posted. The way it was worded was quite confusing to me
/r/seduction24/03/13 09:28 AM
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People are quick to dismiss is because in person is bounds and leaps better. However, the fact of the matter is we live in a technological age of facebook, smartphones, email, skype etc. And people are often communicating more and more through these avenues. It's just another way to communicate and just like in person there are different techniques to it since you sacrifice body language.
/r/seduction24/03/13 12:59 AM
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Except that seduction techniques have tangible and reproducible results unlike faith and prayer... I see your point, but I'd say learning to meet women and being more attractive is as much a skill as learning guitar or playing basketball. Everyone knows practice makes improvement, all one has to do is be willing to repeatedly fail and learn from the mistakes that are made. Given this mindset I think a good majority of the subscribers at least attempt to make small changes towards their goals, ev…
/r/seduction24/03/13 12:58 AM
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Snap chat and texting are ok for MAINTAINING attraction, but the majority of your sexual frame should be created in person. The massage was excellent, you should have tried to escalate from there and certainly set up a time and place to meet up to escalate in person. Any other form of contact is usually a means of meeting in person or maintaining that attraction until it is possible to do so.
/r/seduction23/03/13 10:49 PM
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What? you already had a girl bringing you food? I'm not quite sure what you're getting at here, elaborate a bit more. Typically a girl bringing you food sounds like A) close friend or B) girlfriend.
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:49 PM
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In my experience online dating is an even more unbalanced dating dynamic then the real world. Online women have all the screening power and you're unable to open them with strong body language or kino. You literally have to make a strong impression with them either through looks, profile info (income) or unique messages (which is difficult since some don't even write basic info in their about me). Basically for guys it boils down to a huge numbers game. Out of 50 messages you'll likely get 10 re…
/r/seduction23/03/13 09:02 AM
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Ya I was surprised. Usually it seems like most of their articles are all jokes
/r/seduction23/03/13 08:26 AM
1

Looks do matter. However, that being said, confidence is bounds and leaps more important. Your personal appearance is the first impression a women will get of you, while you can't control things like height, working out and dressing nice helps not only your initial impression, but will help work on that inner game that your speaking of.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:38 AM
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It's not an ideal situation, but don't take shit from mr. kick_me_when_im_down. You'll have to get more creative with your logistics as you probably shouldn't bring girls home to your parents place. I would definitely work on getting your license and a car as it is essentially "traveling logistics". Confidence is key bro.
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:35 AM
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well jeez, I know what song I wanna learn on my guitar next...
/r/seduction23/03/13 04:32 AM
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People tend to bash things they don't understand. /r/fitness of all places should understand self improvement. many members here also subscribe there as well as /r/malefashionadvice Keep at it and good luck in your pursuits bro. Look forward to reading a FR from you
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:43 AM
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glad at least one person enjoyed, feel like this post got buried lol
/r/seduction23/03/13 03:41 AM
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There are over 115,000 subscribers to this subreddit. Unless we are all complete idiots, I'd say something has to be working. The thing about "seduction" is that, like any other skill, it takes time and a lot of effort to develop. You can learn all the material, canned lines and psychology you want, but if you don't put in the work to learn how to apply these skills in real life, it won't do you any good. As for the community getting a bad rep, it's mostly a lack of understanding on what this su…
/r/seduction23/03/13 01:48 AM
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After shooting the shit for a bit she said she still had my number and would call me soon to set up a "date where she wouldn't flake"
/r/seduction23/03/13 01:40 AM
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Wait for them to bring it up. Then be real with them. You're living in the moment - not looking for anything serious. They should be fine with this realism, either they will move on because they want more, or they will be fine with it and keep fucking you. Remember, always leave them better then you found them.
/r/seduction23/03/13 01:13 AM
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dude, this is so true. Went on a date about 5 months ago with this girl, things went fairly well, but she wasn't super receptive and blew me off when trying to set up another date. I shrugged it off as whatever and went on with my life. Was working out the other night when this same girl came and approached ME, out of nowhere. Called her out on her flaky-ness in a joking way of course, but there is no reason to burn bridges, like you said, you never know how things in the future will go.
/r/seduction22/03/13 10:19 PM
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We need more FR's like this. Sure it was long winded but you explained every detail of the night and explained what you did and why as well as your thought process. Hope this gets more upvotes. Look forward to more of your posts
/r/seduction20/03/13 12:27 PM
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I have a good story to add to this: One of the best things I've ever learned from my father- My parents have been married together for over 20 years, like most relationships they have their ups and downs but manage to make it work. I was at a bar with both parents and some friends one time celebrating my birthday and this one guy was pretty openly hitting on my mom both in front of me and my dad. I was pretty irritated to be honest as i didn't understand why my father did nothing about this as m…
/r/seduction17/03/13 07:28 AM
4

Ghandi or something I laughed
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:41 AM
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If she punches you pull her in closer to "deflect her punches" basically restrain her, but in reality you're getting her in real close which can lead to play wresting...from there on you just need to escalate cause she's pretty high up the escalation ladder
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:39 AM
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my names is Quinn... :(
/r/seduction14/03/13 02:36 AM
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I think the idea is that by acting aloof you increase value because you give the impression that you are used to lots of female attention as opposed to clinging to any female that gives you any attention. Females want males that other females find desirable, and a sort of aloofness comes with the confidence that you are desirable. Don't confuse being aloof with not showing interest, instead, show that while interested, you do have other options and won't bend over backwards for her
/r/seduction11/03/13 11:23 AM
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Thank you for the article. Great read. I was confused they said that psychology never looked into other cultures influence on behavior. Is that not the whole field of sociology? Its a sublet of psychology
/r/seduction02/03/13 06:52 AM
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I love this description so much, this completely clicked with me for some reason.
/r/seduction23/02/13 07:27 PM
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thanks for the tip, might check it out
/r/seduction23/02/13 05:02 AM
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But what exactly is "confident" behavior, or alpha male behavior? The first things to come to my mind at least are outgoing social skills, likable, charismatic, life of the party etc. What are some introverted, Alpha behavior that exude confidence?
/r/seduction23/02/13 05:00 AM
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Invite her over, do something with her that you have in common. Really, if you've built enough sexual tension and invite her to come back with you, she'll know what's going down and take any viable excuse to come back. You just have to give her that excuse.
/r/seduction23/02/13 04:42 AM
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I agree with you on your point about social anxiety, however, how do you feel about our society favoring the extroverted? What if introverted behavior became more acceptable and favorable in society? Would we start to see more introverted behavior as Alpha behavior? Or is ALL Alpha behavior extroverted in nature?
/r/seduction23/02/13 04:23 AM
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But you balled up and did it, in the big scheme of things her rejection means nothing and the approach wasn't as bad in hindsight. Good job man! Keep doing that shit and you'll get there
/r/seduction22/02/13 11:28 PM
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But in forum comparison we could vote. However, seddit already not having a great reputation would probably seem a bit more scummy
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:54 PM
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That's the problem with this whole rating HB system is. You rarely hear less then a 7 and never lower then a 5, as no one will admit it. And every time you hear 8 and above you wonder if they are actually what you would consider that high. Either way, I agree! Pics for science lol
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:53 PM
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Good FR. It's amazing what you can get done once you get rolling with that social confidence. Sounds like your small talk got you in state and allowed you to capitalize on an opportunity you may have otherwise missed. Bravo sir, make sure to do a follow-up after you get the date :)
/r/seduction20/02/13 06:57 PM
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What I got out of this post is that you're looking to others for self validation. Validation that you are liked, that you are funny, that you are attractive etc. These are normal desires, however dwelling on them seems to have the opposite effect. By making these your core focus, you are giving your own happiness into the control of other people outside of your control. Instead be that awesome person you want to be without needing approval. The air of confidence will radiate, and all of a sudden…
/r/seduction13/02/13 06:20 AM
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May be true, however women act irrationally during breakups. They can do some very hurtful things, if not to your career, then to your psychological health
/r/seduction12/02/13 04:20 PM
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This was beautifully written. Thank you for your post
/r/seduction07/02/13 02:39 PM
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Made me sooo happy lol
/r/seduction31/01/13 04:35 PM
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Guess I'm SOL in Seattle lol
/r/seduction30/01/13 07:49 AM
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Good guide. Love the examples of report and escalation
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:29 PM
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Ask him to be your valentine. Gauge his reaction, if he treats you like a date hes probably interested. If he friendzones you he's probably only interested in being friends.
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:16 PM
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I'm no expert, so take this with a grain of salt- but I believe in answer to your first question that your ability to listen is a good thing. If conversation is natural and flowing with women it wont hurt you, where you may be failing could be your escalation or making your intentions clear. I.e) let them know you're interested in them as more then friends. I don't really have any advice for your second question. With more conservative girls it's generally a good idea to escalate slower with kin…
/r/seduction27/01/13 01:14 PM
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ALPHA AS FUCK!!!!!
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:31 AM
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"Oh jeez, I just remembered I've got redditing to do! Those links won't upvote themselves you know"
/r/seduction24/01/13 01:17 AM
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An alpha female is just a confident women. Most 10's are alpha. An alpha female is still craving for an alpha male though. Just cut through her bullshit and show you're not afraid or going to submit to her, that you're the man, and she'll find that there is just something irresistible about you
/r/seduction15/01/13 05:56 PM
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Good ol' ThrowawayPUA
/r/seduction14/01/13 03:19 PM
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Lol for realz
/r/seduction14/01/13 03:15 PM
1

I believe in masturbation as sex conditioning. Gonna be harder to last on that sprint if you haven't been training
/r/seduction14/01/13 03:15 PM
1

Whats the idea behind a disqualifer? That by pushing her away she gains attraction?
/r/seduction29/12/12 09:59 PM
2

Sounds like a great wing. After enough of that shit I would've ejected haha
/r/seduction25/12/12 04:57 PM
1

A healthy relationship is one where both members are comfortable being apart now and again. 1 on 1 friend time is important. Hang out with a bro and make sure to let her know you support her going out by saying "Have fun!"
/r/seduction23/12/12 01:01 PM
1

Point made
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:17 PM
1

Most of the women I see are in workplace settings such as nurses at work, waitresses, or girls at my gym. Where do you draw the line for who to approach and when to not shit where you eat?
/r/seduction19/12/12 12:59 PM
1

No dount you fucked up. But you know that. Move on. Honestly it sounds like she's being a bitch. She knows she wasnt acting like a good date, nor was she acting interested or attentive to you prior to you leaving. Ditch the broad and learn from the mistakes.
/r/seduction19/12/12 11:07 AM
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Where I live I find it difficult to FIND cute women that I want to approach. This includes bars, I'll maybe see 2 or 3 cute girls. Makes it difficult to not worry about getting blown out
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:10 AM
1

I've read several of your posts on this subreddit and I must say your posts are always very informative and come from a place of what I and others can tell is true and tested PUA wisdom. Thank you for this. You sir have my upvote and will likely get it again
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:01 AM
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Its difficult to keep a long term FB. I'm sure it's possible but I've found it to be a few month thing. Eventually one of a few things happens. She gains feelings to be more, loses interest, finds someone else. The same can be true for yourself.
/r/seduction19/12/12 06:22 AM
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I will be doing this!
/r/seduction17/12/12 11:18 AM
2

Ever consider just being honest and telling her you had but aren't looking for more? You'd be surprised at how well honesty works. Typically the best policy
/r/seduction17/12/12 11:17 AM
1

But don't you know? Men NEVER ask for directions.
/r/seduction17/12/12 08:22 AM
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Works 2 out of 3 times
/r/seduction16/12/12 05:53 PM
1

Hehe "feet"
/r/seduction16/12/12 11:10 AM
2

The number of legitimate LOL's I just gave is too damn high! Lol the rhinoceros one
/r/seduction15/12/12 10:44 PM
3

Exactly! Treat the turban like a peacock. It's a great conversation piece.
/r/seduction03/12/12 08:10 AM
2

Beautiful last sentence
/r/seduction03/12/12 08:05 AM
1

Yeah this place called Trinity was a pretty cool club, no cover. Had 3 different dance floors and 2 bars inside. Other then that I haven't been to any, and as I'm sure you can imagine Tacoma is pretty limited haha
/r/seduction03/12/12 07:46 AM
1

Tacoma man, been wanting to hit up some seattle bars if you know of any good ones
/r/seduction02/12/12 12:42 PM
1

Tacoma bro
/r/seduction02/12/12 12:41 PM
3

Don't expect to read an FR and comment or learn anything in a tl;dr. It's the details that matter here on seddit.
/r/seduction02/12/12 11:27 AM
3

Couple things. Never follow as it appears needy, however, with the smoking bit a great opener for new girls or ones you've already met could be to ask for a light (even if you have one). Also since she was already avoiding you, next time just shrug it off and meet someone else, don't shake her and and say nice to meet you- comes across as beta and effectively would kill any small chances of reengaging her later. Other then that just work on going out more and maybe make it a point to not drink. …
/r/seduction02/12/12 11:25 AM
1

You should elaborate on what your main issue is. Is it escalation? Building connections? Conversation? Approach anxiety? Perhaps maybe you have high standards and/or are scared of sex now that it's been longer and longer. Sounds to me like you need to pinpoint your area of shortcoming and then go from there.
/r/seduction02/12/12 11:04 AM
4

Also I'd add it's important to make eye contact with different group members as you speak. Switch your eye contact around while you talk, makes everyone feel more involved and connected to what your saying. Not to mention you can sneak in a big ear to ear grin for that cute HB
/r/seduction02/12/12 09:28 AM
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Small steps, you learned from the experience. I agree with not buying drinks next time. Next field report talk more about the conversation and anything else you noticed or did. Any IOI's? How did you thread convo? Was this encounter the end of your night? The more details the better, we all help critique as a community and it teaches us as well as yourself. Upvote for balls to the walls and going out alone
/r/seduction02/12/12 08:03 AM
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Falling in love in one night? Come on bro. You experienced a strong connection I don't doubt, but love is built over time. That being said, try and get back in contact with her. Talk to her about the situation, you're interested in her and not her friend, nothing is going to change that- thus why should she stop seeing you just for her friend? She needs to talk to her friend and you both should see out this connection to see if it leads somewhere.
/r/seduction02/12/12 07:29 AM
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"Look at those traps girl!" "Dayumm he must be good at shruggin" "Mmmhmm"
/r/seduction27/11/12 09:14 AM
3

Ah if I only had more then 1 upvote to give!
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:04 PM
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In my experience, the best LTR's have been when I wasn't looking for them. You may think you know what you want, but in fact you're criteria could disqualify many who if you got to know would have been a great match. Try not to take dating like a sprint in which marriage is the finish line. Dating is as much about discovering yourself as it is about finding that person. Fact is you will meet people that are important in your life, and you will get heartbroken and have to start over. Through thes…
/r/seduction21/11/12 11:32 AM
9

Quick! Someone make a good guy homeless man meme!
/r/seduction21/11/12 11:15 AM
2

Nah nah nahnah! Lol
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:57 PM
27

Figures 'need_more_lube' might get a bit aggressive with his romance lol
/r/seduction19/11/12 04:28 PM
4

The last sentence lol
/r/seduction19/11/12 11:22 AM
2

I agree. I feeling like setting a number would add to the stress and make the interactions less natural and more forced
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:34 AM
2

You have to be a real asshole to not reciprocate a high five to a smiling individual that says hi. It's the same as how people will almost always say hi back when it is said to them
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:28 AM
1

After you approach, its pretty much 100% better then the nerve racking feeling leading up. Conversation either flows or you get shut down and know to move on. It's repeated exposure to this fact that will help ease the nerves.
/r/seduction11/11/12 10:23 AM
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Doin work son!
/r/seduction07/11/12 03:36 PM
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YES! I posted not to long ago about the naked man wanting someone to try it! You sir are the man! "Works 2 out of 3 times " ;)
/r/seduction03/10/12 05:48 PM
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Any advice for opening guys? With ladies I usually compliment or talk about some sort of logistic to our setting. I guess I just feel like guys can see what you're up to right away and will immediately be guarded.
/r/seduction03/10/12 03:28 PM
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Any advice for approaching mixed sets? I'll often see cute girls at a table with some guys and it can be hard to tell if they are taken or not unless they're clinging to each other. How can I open the set and show interest with out pissing off some AMOG bf?
/r/seduction03/10/12 02:59 PM
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How did you find a pic of me? Lol
/r/seduction02/10/12 08:26 AM
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There is a difference between hitting on someone and casually flirting. One is ok for work the gym etc, the other is not. Just don't be the creepy guy, being the fun flirt isn't bad, as long as you are respectful and leave them better off then they originally where you aren't causing harm to your career or there's.
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:49 AM
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Lol wtf is "bear mode"?
/r/seduction02/10/12 06:21 AM
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Lol so you've been in a situation of danger with each of the girls you were interested in?
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:07 AM
2

People love being around someone that is smiling. It enlightens everyone's moods and is actually an attractive trait. The only way I can see a smile could be negative would maybe be if somebody was getting aggressive with you and you kept smiling.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:02 AM
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Thank you sir. I'm fairly good at dancing, but this is a great guide to advance using it. I usually get them to dance but because the music is loud talking isn't much of an option thus physical communication is a must and that's where I struggle to show my interest as opposed to just a dance partner, even if I do turn the dancing sexual
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:38 AM
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You my lady, are an elegant women. But you better not have a psychological issue like passive aggressive disorder. If you do, I'm not interested. I'm completely single and I know what I like. Lol I also love how he starts off by saying her friends were jealous
/r/seduction29/09/12 05:50 AM
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He shoved it down onto his dick!!! ALPHA! Lol
/r/seduction26/09/12 12:33 PM
1

I wish I had read this advice several months ago. Thinking back on my past relationship I think I smothered her because I was so insecure about myself. She was my core and thus losing her wasn't an option in my mind. I'm finding myself slowly picking up the pieces now and working on improving me and my happiness before I can ever hope to find something so special again
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:27 AM
2

Blow me or Blow Me Out Truer words were never spoken
/r/seduction25/09/12 09:45 PM
1

Happens man. Sounds like you did the right thing, attraction can't be forced and if she was giving you IOI's it doesn't mean it was to waste either. If anything you showed you were confident and fun and didn't chase her or try and impress her. Next party it might be you taking her home and getting more done then your buddy
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:24 PM
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Inner game is infinitely more important then outer game and you proved that. Having fun for yourself is contagious and people are drawn to people like that regardless of looks. Good job man!
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:19 PM
2

Good post. That's something that has bothered me in this community. The idea that you can just have an endless stream of sex in your phone book. Women don't want that, just like you said. I'm no pro but I'm assuming after awhile it's not even that fulfilling for the PUA. I see seduction as a way to improve myself and essentially improve my connections with other people. If I find someone worth sticking around, then there's no reason not to
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:30 PM
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Keep the texting minimal as a means to set the date and maybe some light anticipation flirting. Then the rest is what I'm sure you have read, eye contact, kino, some negs about her age maybe. You'll do fine, Lol what I wanna know is why you carry around a pokemon id card haha
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:03 PM
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This was solid advice before he got into not using condoms. STD's might be rarer then your high school sex ed class made it seem, but condom use unless you're in a committed relationship is a good idea. Sunn_ is right about the rest though. Too much time for them to think about it if this comes up before you've had sex once. I'm assuming however this is an issue that came up after having sex with these girls once or twice and they want that "commitment" to not fuck other girls. IMO that's bullsh…
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:58 PM
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Lol i actually don't smoke regularly either. If I know im going to a bar Ill get 1 or 2 cigars so that I can always have the option to say "hey lets have a smoke" or like I did as an opener. Great way yo get some isolation in if you don't mind puffing on a cigar, a good compliance test is if they will share with you also
/r/seduction17/09/12 11:52 PM
1

So approach the table and talk to the guys? I'm not really sure what I would say to open a guy in that situation because it would be going out of the way to introduce yourself. Any suggestions?
/r/seduction17/09/12 07:31 AM
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Time and practice. You've got to be willing to fail. You're goal should be to do what you know you need to do regardless of the outcome. Odds are you will fail many times before you succeed. Everyone here has. A real PUA isn't really so different except that they have failed so many times rejection no longer bothers them. This confidence and self worth overflows when they talk to women and they notice and ironically because of all the failures, these men are more successful. Don't give up bro, t…
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:53 AM
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Yeah I would never recommend that for a taken girl. I respect relationships and I've been the guy that gets screwed over in that situation and it hurts. But yes be the fun friend she likes to be around and realistically everything will fall into place of there is an attraction there at all
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:25 AM
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Never good to go after a taken girl, especially a LTR relationship like 2 yrs. If she becomes unhappy she can figure out whether she wants to leave him on her own. You're better off being respectful and being the confident friend that she might decide she likes better anyway
/r/seduction16/09/12 12:07 PM
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The key here is you put yourself out there. Getting the rejections is part of the game. You learn and move on! Props for staying at the party and getting out of your comfort zone
/r/seduction16/09/12 11:21 AM
1

Agreed. Should have already made that clear earlier. Now it would be best just to be honest if they ask if you're exclusive say no
/r/seduction16/09/12 05:53 AM
1

Might not be a bad idea to flirt with girl B in front of her without it getting super sexual. Can be a DHV to show you're desirable. And she might even start flirting with you to try and steal the attention
/r/seduction16/09/12 12:15 AM
1

Sounds great to me man. Have a fun date and don't forget to lay on the kino and be the confident alpha you've already shown you can be. Good job keeping the texts short and to the point
/r/seduction16/09/12 12:12 AM
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No prob man. Update us on how it goes
/r/seduction15/09/12 11:50 PM
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Indicator of interest
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:42 PM
2

Opened a 3 set last night with something as simple as "hey do one of you ladies have a light?" Me and my buddies ended up dancing with them all night. Lol and the kicker is I definitely had a lighter
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:14 PM
1

Wrist watches are classy. Nothing wrong with them
/r/seduction15/09/12 07:53 PM
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Bagged a milf at 21. Although she was my age ;) lol
/r/seduction15/09/12 09:40 AM
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Don't stress bro. Remember you're an alpha male now you don't have time to worry about that stuff. Try not to get that oneitis either. I know you really like this girl, but there are plenty out there. You keep doing your thing and being confident and you won't have to chase her. She'll chase you!
/r/seduction15/09/12 09:38 AM
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Truth. Still getting over my breakup. Read up on this subreddit over the week, got motivated and went out last night and made a few approaches. Nothing real significant, but still a small step closer and that much gain in experience and confidence.
/r/seduction15/09/12 04:09 AM
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This post makes you out to be a god. I'm in awe lol. I'm going out tonight with a buddy to sarge and you've got me motivated. Fuck ya!
/r/seduction15/09/12 03:03 AM
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Yeah I don't think you messed stuff up. Sounds like she likes to tease you which is another way to flirt. That's another thing you could do. Confident guys don't constantly praise a girl, it's good to give them shit and show them that you're not scared. Yeah have fun getting stoned and literally get rid of those negative thoughts. Have fun and treat her like a buddy only don't be afraid to kino
/r/seduction15/09/12 02:02 AM
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Id say some IOI's that I noticed the flirty talking, the idea of sitting on your lap, laying on your bed. Really thr fact that she has a bf yet still goes swimming with you and pokes at you and everything. This is kino on her end. As far as some of those conversations I would honestly avoid them. Don't talk about the flirting or how you feel, just act confident and fun. Talking about something natural like flirting takes away some of the thrill and excitement of it. Takes the wonder away. Be the…
/r/seduction15/09/12 01:05 AM
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Exactly what I've been proposing!
/r/seduction15/09/12 12:57 AM
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That's the craziest thing I've read all day. Did any of the girls complain at all do you know?
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:37 PM
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No great success comes without potential risk lol
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:31 PM
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"Local man tries stunt on television sitcom....Great success! PUA nation wide applaud creative thinking!" Lol love the irony of your name for that comment btw
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:13 PM
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That's the thing. It's definitely alpha, over the top and very risky but plausible at least. I figure if anyone has the balls to do a move like this it would be in this subreddit
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:05 PM
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It sounds to me like she's skating a fine line. Sounds like she is attracted to you as I noticed several IOI's in your story. Buuuut she's probably also somewhat reserved because of her bf. Typically it's not a good idea to get involved with a taken girl. Keep playing it cool and being a good friend. But if you are interested in this girl some harmless kino such as tickling wouldn't be bad. And don't be afraid to lay on your own bed with her, don't overthink things. If she wants to make a move, …
/r/seduction14/09/12 09:02 PM
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Lol I'm not trolling. In no way did I say it would be successful. Just saying the show did, which like you pointed out is not proof. However if someone is brave enough to try I would love to hear about it! Would you not?
/r/seduction14/09/12 08:47 PM
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Physical contact of any kind
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:12 AM
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Personally I'd only feel bad if they were in a committed relationship. I don't like cheaters, I've had it happen to me, I won't do it to someone else
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:48 PM
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"Mature" behavior seems to go out the window after a bad breakup..
/r/seduction13/09/12 08:37 AM
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Excellent read!
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:06 PM
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I agree. Sounds like outcome independent to me. That's exactly the attitude you need for success. Keep doing what you're doing man and get us a good FR
/r/seduction12/09/12 05:25 PM
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Wtf I'd be pissed. As a paying stayer at the hotel I would have complained if the roles were reversed. That's a bummer man. Good story though
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:35 AM
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Keep us updated on your progress and let me know of you need any tips on a particular area :)
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:30 AM
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Upvote for wanting to hear more opinions on this! On a side note I don't have a problem if someone is religious but it definitely a turn off if they are very devout.
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:29 AM
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How well do you know the mutual friend? That can be a conversational piece
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:25 AM
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Consistency friend. Also check out your eating habits. 80% of abs are made in the kitchen
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:37 AM
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I feel like this needs a meme... like 1st world problems lol. "I had too much sex and now it's not as fun :(" lol
/r/seduction12/09/12 06:31 AM
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Might be possible. But like you daid- I think I'm better off haha
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:36 PM
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Really disappointed they dont have one in my state :(
/r/seduction11/09/12 09:41 AM
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Yeah that's good advice. I'm definitely like that. I'm very argumentative. Mainly for love of debate but I think a lot of people just take it as me being a dick lol
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:55 AM
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What would you suggest for an opener? I was trying to be playful and somewhat suggestive. and you're right about the argument, I guess that was just my stubborn side coming out, plus like I said I wasn't SUPER excited to meet up with her anyway
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:25 AM
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That definitely might have something to do with it. Since you're in public she might be worried about other peoples impression of her if she was to show to much PDA or receptiveness towards your kino. As far as I'm concerned kino is always recommended. Especially light and not to aggressive. This girl could very well be an exception, as a PUA you just gotta read her cues and adjust your next moves accordingly. I think you did fine slowing down on the kino since she even made it a point to say sh…
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:24 AM
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Im glad you agree!
/r/seduction11/09/12 05:05 AM
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It is possible that being russian her culture might be a bit more conservative at first. At least the russians I know are. What kind of conversations were you two havimg?
/r/seduction11/09/12 04:54 AM
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Inspiring story! Makes me wanna go out lol
/r/seduction10/09/12 06:30 AM
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Thank you good sir
/r/seduction09/09/12 03:10 PM
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Im on a mobile reddit app
/r/seduction09/09/12 01:10 PM
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