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I love this thread. I have so much help and insight. It’s hard to be married these days and this group helps us poor bastards get through the days.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 04:58 AM
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I put Ex.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 01:31 AM
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You are lucky! Go out and enjoy my buddy. I wasted 13 years of my life on a woman, I got a wonderful daughter out of it though. Other than that women are no longer what they used to be. Self centered and always looking for the next guy
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 01:25 AM
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Wish you the best. It’s a fucked process and worst contract in the world. Meaning marriage. I’m packing all my wife’s shit in boxes and throwing them in the garage. She refuses to come get her stuff. Technically she owns half the house, so I can’t change the locks. She is the one that left though, which is bullshit she’s still allowed to come and go freely
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 04:54 AM
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Minimum 6 months in California. My buddies took 5 years
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/23 12:49 AM
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No lawyer yet. Lawyers are $300-$400 a hour where I live, Plus they want $3000 retainer. I don’t have the funds to support that. We have $400k in equity which would be split, but you can’t even buy a condo in the ghetto for $200k where I live. Rent on a 2 bedroom costs $2,500 minimum
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/23 08:37 PM
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Holy shit, this sounds exactly like my ex. Like exactly
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 07:17 PM
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Be lucky you didn’t just spend $4,000 having a will done 2 years ago. Only to be going through a divorce and going to have to pay for it all to be redone. 🤦‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 10:33 PM
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I think it’s easier when kids aren’t involved. So much harder to write off the ex when you still have to communicate about the kids. I finally told my ex she’s dead to me and I’ll only Contact her for my kids info. No I miss you, or how’s your day. Literally done!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/23 10:12 PM
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Atleast you have your kids. My ex bitch has my daughter every holiday. Be thankful for your time with your kiddos. Women are nothing more than life sucker outers.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/23 10:05 PM
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Your expressing what most of us have felt and gone through. It’s like a blueprint copy to my situation. Other than me not being in the military.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/23 05:55 AM
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Great wisdom man!
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/23 05:18 AM
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Just being honest bub, but your kind of the asshole that most of us men can’t stand. Nothing worse than a cheater. Many of us were cheated on. That being said, don’t continue to have sex with her. It will only make it worse. Cut her off and find new puss. It’s harder than you think nowadays, but eventually you’ll find some.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 08:05 PM
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Sounds exactly like my stbx. Says I didn’t do enough chores, raising our daughter or cooking. The liar detector proved that was a lie! (Maury povich)
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 02:50 PM
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I wish she would have agreed 18 months ago. Now I feel she’s just going to make me get off her back. I have a counselor in mind, but the stbx doesn’t want to see her. She specializes in sex therapy. Lol, my stbx is very non sexual. What women fail to realize, is sex is a huge part of marriage
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 02:49 PM
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😂 true
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 05:31 AM
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Jeez, sounds like my ex. Can’t tell you how many times we would have sex and then she would get up and want to argue. Women are f’ing looney
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 09:00 PM
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Mine has declined therapy this whole time. I have a hard time telling if she’s totally checked out. She still does so many things that most women who have checked out wouldn’t do. But then again, i might just be fooling myself
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 08:52 PM
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Your Reddit name describes my life lol. Yes, I tried 18 months ago for counseling. She refused back then.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 01:51 AM
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You guys are my therapy lol. No I have not yet. I will though
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 01:01 AM
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That’s what I figure
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 12:32 AM
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Sounds like my stbx
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/23 12:01 AM
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Thank you everyone for all the help. I can’t respond to everyone individually, but I will say this. I agree with what everyone is saying. Counseling sounds like it’s when problems arise, not when she’s already left. While I do agree with one person about this page being biased. I also understand some have been remarried and wanted to hear what worked for them. Obviously it sounds like I am wasting my time and money if I go. I guess I have to take a hold of this mentally. Divorce to me is easier …
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/23 10:40 PM
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Nope! I tell everyone don’t do it. Stupidest thing to do. Divorce is at. 56% rate in America now. If people don’t want to believe it, then they will soon regret it
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/23 06:59 PM
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Keep the house dude. Our numbers are almost identical. But I have a kid involved. I’m trying to leverage the house against her 403b and pension. Fuck the cunt, don’t ever move another woman in.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 11:29 PM
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Why does every divorce sound so similar for us guys. Wtf?!? I will never remarry
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/23 08:45 PM
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Welcome to many of our lives. Women want nothing more than a long list of things. Men just want intimacy,trust and respect. It sucks bud. We’re all going through it or been through it
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 11:20 PM
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My wife isn’t going the lawyer route currently. It says no lawyer attached to case. Yup, her moms been divorced 4x lol.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 02:13 PM
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Way different than my situation. But that definitely sucks for you. What’s could about where I live, I can call the courts and they will tell me if the paperwork has been submitted and if I’m going to be served. My situation is, my wife filed but she doesn’t know if she’s gonna serve me yet. We actually went out to dinner tonight and we got along. I agree I need to lawyer up, but if I can keep her some what leveled headed. Then I can sway it in my favor
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 02:36 AM
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Probably why she did it. Her moms been divorced 4 times and knew the consequences if she didn’t file. I’m entitled to half her pension and retirement. I’ll also be asking for alimony. She makes more than me, so might as well fuck her with the financial support.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 10:40 PM
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Everything I’ve read says they don’t expire. I did some research and in California they don’t expire. 🤷‍♂️ Reason for me not filing- Our mortgage is only $1,600 in California!! She left on September 22nd and still gives me money for half the mortgage. So I’m living in my home and she’s still paying half the mortgage. I was just curious if anyone else has been in this situation and how it worked out for them. I’m still seeing my kid 50/50 too.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 03:09 AM
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No sex for 6 weeks now. I went online and saw the open case file. But no papers have been served yet.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 01:17 AM
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No prego, got fixed long ago. Haven’t had sex in 6 weeks. She’s filed but I haven’t been served yet. So as far as responding, I don’t know what the terms are yet
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 01:16 AM
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Having kids involved is the worst. I’m only seeing my kid 50 percent of the time. It’s horrible. I agree with someone above. Time apart isn’t really the best, It’s a false sense of hope. I’ve been separated for a month and it’s more mentally challenging than actually getting divorced. She’s filed papers but hasn’t served me yet
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/23 08:50 PM
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Epic detail my friend. Thanks for this info
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/23 06:42 PM
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Haven’t even been served yet. It’s meant for support and advice. Many of us are in a fucked spot and just wanting to chat with others who are in the same boat. Have had a lot of good advice from this group
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/23 04:03 AM
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This right here. Not the same person we fell in love with. I can’t express how much this is true. It’s very sad that we as men are dedicated to our wives and children. Yet the women will walk away and find someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/23 05:54 PM
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I don’t know you. But if you want to chat just send me a message with your number and we can chat. I went through the same shit brotha. I lost my brother to suicide 1 year ago last week because of marriage: many of my friends are going through it and I’m knee deep myself. The thoughts have crossed my mind. That’s just the demons wanting to win. Don’t let them. Surround yourself with good people. Fuck the rest of the fake ones. Focus on your kids. Divorce is nasty as. Fuck!!! Your a warrior. Look…
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 02:46 PM
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Sounds like my block
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 12:51 AM
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🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 sucks man
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 12:50 AM
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I’m trying to leverage the house against her 401k,pension and alimony. I just want the house. It’s where my kid feels safe
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 12:49 AM
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My wife makes more than me. I’m gonna try and get what I can from her. She ruined my life and 13 years I can’t get back. Only thing that came of it was I have a beautiful, smart daughter. She is my world. Other than that, my ex is a bitch and I should have known, once a cheater always a cheater
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/23 06:26 PM
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No kids make it way easier. Shitty part is interest rates if you plan on trying to buy something. Marriage is ficked and most of us in here will never do it again
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 06:12 PM
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😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 05:23 PM
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F’ing a bud
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 04:39 AM
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Man, this page is depressing. For the fact we’re all Going through the same shit. Stay strong fellas
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/23 03:46 AM
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Unfortunately your story is like many of us men. We strive to get married and have a family. Then the wife decides she wants out and makes our lives a living hell
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 03:41 AM
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Sonoma county. Hour north of San Francisco
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 11:55 PM
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Unfortunately the days of honest dating are gone. Everyone male or female want to have many partners before they even want to start serious dating. Social media grants instant gratification. So if someone sees a better picture, they go for it. It sucks
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/23 10:05 PM
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I married a woman who makes more than me. Starting off she made substantially less. Now she’s worked her way up. I’m entitled to her retirement and possibly alimony. But I think I’m gonna use that as a bargaining power to keep the house. I won’t touch her stuff if I can keep the house
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 11:31 PM
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My wife just left for not sure how long. Trying the whole time apart before final divorce process. My daughter is 9 and all three of us were crying when my wife took her for a few days. I was never emotional until my kid was born. She is my world and not being with her is killing me inside. I wish there was a easy to tell the kids, but there isn’t when they’re under 15
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 10:20 PM
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Fucking spot on man. Exactly what I’m going through right now!!
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 10:15 PM
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She refuses counseling.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:28 PM
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I’ve tried booking trips and day fun days, to no avail. We both have done and said mean things to each other. Her constant lying and hiding things is what sent it in motion for me. Lack of any accountability for her wrong doings
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:27 PM
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A month ago, only because we had been drinking
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:26 PM
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Financial impact will be huge. I live in California. Our mortgage is only $1,600. If we sell, I can’t even rent a 1 bedroom for less than $2,000 in my area. Not looking for child support
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:25 PM
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I’m in the same boat. Except we make the same amount.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 05:17 AM
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My biggest concern is my daughters well being. We both come from divorced families at the same age. It was absolutely horrible to go through. I’ve asked her to leave, but she refuses. I will never get married again. It’s the biggest joke and scam.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 04:39 AM
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