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I tried to talk to the title IX department before and it didn't really go well at all. The situation was about another man who abused me and a few other guys and they laughed in our faces and mocked us. So I'm not super comfortable really going to them about this...I mean I know I probably should but at the same time I feel like they may take it the wrong way or escalate things
/r/MensRights15/12/22 02:23 AM
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A few years back when I was still in high school I made a post about how I was being sexually harrased by an adult castmatw in a community theatre produciction and how the theatre director, who happened to be female, didn't do anything about it. I got bombarded by feminists in my comments calling me an incel, a "sad virgin", and was accused of "blaming all women" for sexual harassment and then told it's really mens fault because they're the ones who don't belive other men (even thoigh that was n…
/r/MensRights15/11/22 03:23 PM
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I didn't fail to explain thoroughly...every other comment knows what I meant. So either you are purposely misunderstanding me to prove some point (which I'm pretty sure you are considering you're still claiming I'm going on some "emotional rampage when I've explained several times now that wasn't my point yet you persist anyway) or you're just dumb Your account has no posts, you've only commented on this sub, and you have negative karma. Troll account.
/r/MensRights11/11/22 10:54 PM
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You misunderstood my post, which considering the fact that every other commenter understands what I'm talking about...that's on you, not me. No point in arguing. You misunderstood and went on a rampage because of generalization that's you made about this sub, that's my fault how? From your post history seems like you create this account just to troll on this sub, so whatever, go ahead
/r/MensRights11/11/22 07:07 PM
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Nobody used the word oppression here exept for you. I also never claimed I wanted a stay at home wife or anything life that. Don't put words in to other people's mouths All I'm doing is point out the irony. Sure, women have the right tohave these standards. But what they don't have the right to do is treat men like physical objects to fulfill financial and emotional desires- not treating us like equals, and then to make it even worse demonizing us for our own standards and needs. Like, I don't c…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 06:43 PM
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Yeha this is something else I see a lot as far as dating advice goes. "Men should pay for the date because women spend money on new clothes, getting their hair and nails done...' Like.. no man asked yoi to do that. We don't care
/r/MensRights11/11/22 05:33 PM
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feminism went wrong when it claimed to care about men but evidently it doesn't. If feminism truly believed that the patriarchy is a system that in the US equally harms men and women then I could get behind it. Problem is anytime a man's issues are acknowledged under feminism they're automatically brushed aside as being "mens fault", therefore it's not a real problem and women are the real victims. For example, if you point out the higher incarnation rates for men feminists will usually say that …
/r/MensRights05/10/22 09:33 PM
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This is the most retarded take I've ever seen. Of course gender stereotypes are going to effect both genders. That doesn't dismantle anything we're saying
/r/MensRights05/10/22 08:07 PM
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I'm a trans man, lived "as a women" up until the last 4 years. So according to this commenter I'm not "accustomed" to my "male privileges" I felt way more privileged as a women than as a man
/r/MensRights05/10/22 03:01 PM
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Yeah I mean I'm not saying it never happens. I just think the notion that it's happening whenever a man can't do something is ridiculous. It has nothing to do with gender
/r/MensRights02/10/22 09:37 PM
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According to feminists men are now purposely acting incompetent to manipulate women. I'm sure some people do this but it has nothing to do with gender and like you said, most people don't want to be veiwed as incompetent.
/r/MensRights02/10/22 01:55 AM
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Um, no. They aren't asked to do the tasks. Because they're women. I don't know how to get through your think skull that she ONLY has men do these tasks
/r/MensRights23/09/22 03:07 AM
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Jesus dude, I literally got back after a week of no men working and the back room was dilled with garbage, literally week old rotting food and cardboard all over the floor because every. Single. Women. REFUSED to do the job that only 2 employees do- the 2 MALE employees.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:44 AM
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I'm not an idiot. I see the schedule. I see that we're always scheduled to close. I see that every single shift I work she asks me to do those tasks and never the women. I see that when the men aren't working that these tasks don't get done. If you refuse to believe it fine, but every job I've worked has had some gender divide in the tasks. Just has never been this extreme before
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:33 AM
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I mean...she literally purposely schedules at least one of the two male employees every day during closing to do these specific tasks
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:21 AM
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Lol I wish
/r/MensRights22/09/22 11:14 PM
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Seriously. I get women naturally aren't as strong, on average, but if you aren't string enoigh to do the job you shouldn't be doing the job
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:53 PM
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Exactly lol. I think they just assume that in this situation that men would always perform better and therfore they wouldn't have an issue. But seriously, I constantly see guys on this sub upset about women's only gyms, women's only organizations, etc, but then we propose women only companies and suddenly that's ok? I don't really buy it
/r/MensRights28/08/22 01:13 PM
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Exactly. Buys learn from a very young age that women hate them. They have no place to verbalize their very normal thoughts and emotions without being accused of being disgusting. By the time they turn to guys like Tate they're already radicalized and angry. Feminists of course won't acknowledge it. They take it as an attack. They play the victim and say these boys have been "socialized to hate women." No, you've hated them since the day they were born and now they're rightfully angry and confuse…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 12:28 PM
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What are you even talking about? There is no legislation forcing anyone to hire any group of people. It's extremely ironic you're complaining about that when it's pretty much exactly what OP is suggesting- write in to law that certian companies are forbidden from hiring people of certian genders. I mean how would that even work anyway? Are certian companies just supposed to fire all of their male or all of their female staff and start fresh? I can't believe any one could possibly think this is l…
/r/MensRights28/08/22 02:10 AM
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Tax has nothing to do with it. My point is that certian employees are now barred from higher paying jobs just because of their gender. It's discrimination whether it be men or women who are negatively effected. Long story short it creates more hostility and takes us a step further away from equality, not a step closer.
/r/MensRights28/08/22 12:18 AM
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This would just create more hostility. What happens if one of the one-gender companies is performing much better and therfore can pay more? And then one sex is barred from even applying to these better positions? Even if that doesn't happen it just sprites men and women further which I don't think would do much good.
/r/MensRights27/08/22 08:10 PM
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Not always though. People are effected differently by alcohol. Especially if you're also drunk it's really difficult to tell if another person is drunk and by how much.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:44 PM
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Yep. I think pretty much anyone who's drunk before can agree that you still have a pretty good control over your actions. Yes, inhibitions are lower, but it's not like you become a mind controlled robot with 0 will. Unless a guy purposely gets a girl as drunk as possible so he can have sex with her without her fully realizing the consequences, it's not rape. Yeah, you may regret the things you say or do when you're drunk, but ultimately you're accountable for those actions because you chose to d…
/r/MensRights26/08/22 04:41 PM
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Seriously. I don't know what causes this entitlement but it's absurd. I've seen women try to argue that they give just as much as men because "we have to do our hair, makeup, get our nails done, and dress nicely. It's expensive!" And that's their justification for why they deserve to be taken out to an expensive dinner, planned for them, and be treated like princesses the whole time. As if guys don't also need to buy nice clothes, groom themselves, and wear a nice cologne. And no one asked these…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:50 PM
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A lot of people are mentioning hoe men are afraid to flirt because they don't want to be viewed as creeps. But besides that, I think it's really sad how a lot of women can't recognize that men want to feel wanted too. They complain how they don't get asked out, flirted with, taken out and treated to dinner. But why do they feel entitled to that treatment when they never give it back? Why do they deserve to be spoiled and "treated like a lady"? Granted, I'm gay, so relationship dynamics are diffe…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 02:20 PM
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They don't really want equality. They want men to be 2nd class citizens. They want their man to go 50/50 on house duties and taking care of the kids, but they also want their mam to pay for all of the dates, pay for their nails and hair and clothes, to be the breadwinner and bring home a tome of money. And if they ever leave they want to make sure they get full custody of their kids, not the man. Basically, they want to option of being independent and equal while still having the saftey net of a…
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:01 PM
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This is understandable. I guess it's just frustrating because men are told we must understand and humanize women. If we make any generalizations about women, any assumptions, we're mysogonists. We are told it's our duty to "unlearn". We must see women as equals in all ways and always empathize with and understand them. But women are not told they must do the same. They can generalize all they want, make as many assumptions, vilanize us, create stereotypes, and it's all fine and excusable. There'…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 10:08 PM
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Well, yes. Obviously everyone is the "main character" in their own lives. What I meant is that these women can't seem to conceptualize that anyone other than them has their own lives, values, and feelings. They can't seem to understand that other people's actions are not always all about them- especially thr actions of men. They seem to have very low empathy to a concerning degree which is ironic because that's what they accuse us men of. They can't even try to see the world outside of their own…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 09:58 PM
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They're only a fan of stereotypes and social standards when ot benifits them. According to them, men belong at work, making 6 figures, paying all the bills. They need to be strong and dominant and protect the family. But if you try and say that women, I'm turn, need to be home makers and shouldn't work they'll freak the hell out and call you sexist, saying they're a "strong independent women".
/r/MensRights10/08/22 01:22 PM
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Yep. I think any group is entitled to their own space to vent and let their true feelings out. But a lot of women feel entitled and think this only applies to them. They vilinize men for having our own spaces, they invade gay bars and lgbt groups, etc.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 10:56 PM
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Fucking seriously. I dint feel safe at gay bars because women grope and sexually harass us yet they claim the reason they're there is because they dint feel safe at regular bars for the same reasons...how the hell do they not see the hypocrisy? They are perpetually victims
/r/MensRights03/08/22 11:09 PM
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Every situation is going to be different, but I wpuld say men generally suffer more financially and most of the time when it isn't the case its because of the women's choices (choosing to be a SAHM with no income, choosing to fight for full custody of children, etc)
/r/MensRights31/07/22 06:39 PM
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Um...because this entire post is about trans people and how their "wokeness" shouldn't be welcome on this sub? The only posts and comments I see about trans men are from trans men who are pro men's rights and what to share their own unique experiences. So you need to be more specific about what "wokeness" you're referring to because it seems us simply existing on this sub offends you...explain further and prove me wrong if you want but you need to be more specific
/r/MensRights31/07/22 01:30 PM
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Being trans isn't "wokeness", there are plenty of trans conservative people. And weather you want to admit it or not a lot of trans men present as and are viewed as men by society and therfore face the same issues. No "wokeness" about that We so know we can't change our biological sex, we're not stupid or delusional like you apparently believe we are
/r/MensRights31/07/22 01:22 PM
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I'm FTM and don't tell anyone exept for sexual partners. A big reason for this is so that crazies like this can't accuse me. I read a story once of a FTM guy who was accused of rape and he only got out of it because he proved his trans status therfore it was impossible that he penetrated her as she claimed
/r/MensRights31/07/22 12:30 AM
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It's not Women on average have a lower sex drive than men and unfortunately as a result many of them shame us for our sex drives and see sex as a negative thing, like an antithesis to romance. I obviously can't speak for every man but I would say that most of us veiw sex as an important part of a relationship, that it's an extension of love. But we all know women...especially feminists...love to try and figure out how we think and state it like a fact. They've decided that we see them as sex obj…
/r/MensRights31/07/22 12:19 AM
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In a trans man. Walked in a women's shoes not for a day but for 15 years. Mens rights is not a joke, and most trans men that actually look like and live as men will tell you it isn't a joke. Tell your girlfriend that... Women's hatred towards men is definitely not justified. You can't claim to be fighting against a system but take it out on individuals
/r/MensRights12/07/22 10:04 PM
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This is a really weak argument. Just because Women spend more money on makeup doesn't mean they have more power than men in deciding our elected officials. A women who spends doesn't have more power than a male congressman or CEO. she does have more power than a men who doesn't spend. Like I said it's like a sandwich. But by definition we live in a patriarchal society. The definition isn't based in who spends more or who, by choice, votes more. It's determined by who designed the dynamics of the…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 08:17 PM
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It's not their job to console us but somehow it's our job to console them when R v W gets overturned
/r/MensRights01/07/22 07:20 PM
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I'm having a hard time phrasing this correctly A single man does not have inherently more power than a single women. I'm not saying that men, as a whole, as in every single man, have more power than every single women. What I mean is that most people in postions of power are men. It's like a sandwich. The most powerful and the least powerful are men with women in between- which is why this system also harms men as I mentioned. Women have the power to vote but so do men so I'm not exactly sure wh…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 07:18 PM
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I think you can, yes. Women's rights and men's right should not have to be either or and I don't see why it's impossible that someone is a feminist while also fighting for mens rights Now...most feminists don't. Or they'll claim to care about men but only when they can make women the real victims of the situation or blame men for their own problems. But still I don't think it's fundamentally impossible. I think it's fully possible to acknowledge we live in a patriarchal society (which against co…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 06:47 PM
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There weren't any cases that specifically mentioned vasectomies because no man, so far, has had to take someone to court for refusing him one and said case got brought to the Supreme Court. That being said the right to sterilization follows the same precedence as cases like Roe vs Wade and Griswold vs Connecticut. You have the right to a vasectomy because you have the right to privacy and bodily autonomy- which the courts deemed to be a constitutional right (or at least before the recent decisio…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 09:39 PM
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Contraceptives were decided on through a Supreme Court case and deemed a constitutional right. If that's not a right what is? If you define not being able to opt out of child support as a violation of men's rights I don't see how you can't acknowledging the right to sterilization and contraceptives as rights. You can't pick and choose for what fits your narrative, it doesn't work like that
/r/MensRights28/06/22 08:13 PM
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I don't know about the UKs laws, I'm speaking in terms of the US and from what I've heard
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:08 PM
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The right to be able to use contraceptives as well as the right to a vasectomy. For a long time all forms of contraceptives were banned in the US, which is a right that impacts both men and women. The right to sterilize yourself is also not guaranteed, and it's certainly more difficult for women/females to get similar procedures (for example, I'm FTM and to get a hysterectomy I need ome year of hormones therapy, a doctors recommendation, and two therapist recommendations. You don't need this sor…
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:42 PM
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I'm speaking in general terms, not about this person specifically
/r/MensRights28/06/22 01:16 PM
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Yeah, exept its an irreversible procedure not to mention they still have a failure rate of 0.1 - 1.5 percent making them not much more effective than birth control when used properly. The reality is that a lot more women are going to be more cautious about having sex, even protected sex now that they don't have a plan C to fall back on. Not sure why that's so vilanized or controversial to point out
/r/MensRights27/06/22 08:33 PM
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When I said more cautious I mean people have the right to not have sex because they know they won't be able to get an abortion if it comes down to it. You implies in your first comment that women are crazy for not wanting to have sed when abortion isn't an option Also, even if abortion isn't the only solution that doesn't mean something people aren't going to need them. If you seriously think that most people were just having sex with no protection without a care in the world you're wrong
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:52 PM
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My mom got pregnant with me on birth control. Nothing is 100% effective. People have the right to be more cautious Edit: lol, I'm not sure why I'm being down voted. My reply was because this guy is getting angry at women for wanting to be cautious and not have sex since abortions are there as a backup option. I'm not sure why that's viewed as a bad thing...just pointing out birth control doesn't always work
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:25 PM
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The "sex strike" automatically blames men for the ruling which completely ignores the fact that Qual amounts of men and women are pro choice. This wasn't mens fault, it was the Supreme courts fault. Do they really think that the Supreme Court is going to care that 19 year old Chad isn't getting any?
/r/MensRights27/06/22 03:23 PM
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I also find it incredibly annoying that they're blaming men for this decision even though it's a known fact that both men and women are equally pro choice. It'd about a 50/50 split for both genders. Even if the Supreme Court was conservative women the same decision would have been made. I've also seen them complain that we were vocal about amber herd but not about this. Well, yeah? Women didn't give a fuck about the amber situation, so it goes both ways. Why are men expected to care equally abou…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:07 PM
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This isn't really a gender role though, itd a biological truth. Testosterone causes you to grow more muscle. That doesn't mean that when you compare 2 individuals that the man will always be stronger than the women- but it does mean that you naturally grow more muscle than women even if you don't work out. There's a reason people use Testosterone as a performance enhancing drug
/r/MensRights23/06/22 06:53 PM
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I didn't transition to escape being a women, I transitioned because I was never a women in the first place
/r/MensRights21/06/22 08:06 PM
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Yep. Feminists are "trans allies" until our experiences as men drive us away from feminism. Then they turn nasty and mean. I'm a trans man but have definitely been accused of being a misogynist. I've even had people accuse me of lying about being trans because they cannot possibly fathom that I'm not a feminist or that I think being a man is harder. They think I'm a conservative trolling cis guy. Like atf do you want, a picture of my cunt? Jesus Christ
/r/MensRights21/06/22 08:01 PM
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As a trans man I can confirm all of this to be 100% true. As a women I was supported, encouraged, listened to. I received special attention and praise because of my sex. Sure I experienced sexism. Rude remarks on my appearance, cat calling etc But it's even worse as a man. Why? Because I experince all that same sexism only nobody gives a fuck. People want me to be quiet, not speak up. Behaviors that were previously seen as enduring are now seen as aggressive, rude, etc. I've experienced just as …
/r/MensRights21/06/22 07:58 PM
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My guy you literally said in your last sentence that men have it worse. I red everything you said very clearly but you're constantly contradicting yourself Don't want me to reply then block me dick
/r/MensRights19/08/21 08:05 PM
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If you're reading the news and thinking only women are being painted as victims you're dense. Seems like a lot of the people on this thread are just looking at social media and click bait headlines because no reliable news source is claiming that only women have it bad.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:58 PM
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Oh great, so you're also one of them. If you genuinely believe men have it worse than women in this situation don't bother to continue this conversation. Completely ridiculous. You people need to start acting like adults and not whiny toddlers. Plenty of people die when there's a government take over, no shit, this is not shocking information. Women's rights under the taliban is a highly controversial subject, so yeah of fucking course that's what news sources are going to talk about, because th…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:57 PM
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People have had the nerve to reply to me saying that men rules by taliban have it worse than women which is just objectively false. This has nothing to do with "overrfocus" and everything to do with a lot of men on this subreddit not willing to admit that they are not always the victims
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:26 PM
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I really hope you did not actually mean that. Frow up and stop throwing a tantrum- not everything needs to be about you all of the time. This perspective is honestly so childish and immature I'm not even going to engage
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:24 PM
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And no one is denying that
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:23 PM
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Link?
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:23 PM
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Because people don't like to admit that they are sometimes wrong and that not everything is always an attack on men. There is definitely a widespread problem with men being ignored when discussing issues that affect us as much or almost as much as women. Domestic violence, for example. But this is something that objectively harms women significantly more- their country has been taken over by a government that believes women deserve absolutely 0 human rights so of course that's going to be the fo…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:22 PM
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Do you have any evidence of sedual assault against men by the taliban? Genuinely curious
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:19 PM
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Are people doing that?
/r/MensRights19/08/21 03:54 PM
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Because the taliban are known for being very oppressive against women. When they ruled previously women had absolutely no legal rights or autonomy- they couldn't even leave their homes. Because this was a big political controversy it makes perfect sense why the conversation of the taliban rising again would center around women. I don't think this is in any way blatant sexism, both men and women are being murdered but women, in this case specifically, also have to deal with a whole load of other …
/r/MensRights19/08/21 03:38 PM
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Yes, this is what I mean. Men shouldn't be forced into child support if women are allowed to opt out
/r/MensRights17/08/21 02:06 PM
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This is why legal abortions should be allowed for men. It takes 2 to make a baby and if women should be allowed to opt out so should men.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 07:19 PM
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So here's the thing- testosterone is much more powerful than estrogen. Trans men who have medically transitioned blend into the crowd much more easily as regular run of the mill men. For trans women, not so much. Mostly because of their facial structure and voice which does not change on estrogen. Additionally, trans women are seen as much more controversial than trans men. No one really gives a fuck if a trans man plays in mems sports or foes to the men's bathroom, but when it comes to trans wo…
/r/MensRights16/08/21 07:17 PM
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Definitely not the case. Feminists love using us as political pawns but the moment we don't agree with them and say how much easier it is living as a man they lash out at us with 0 fear of being "cancelled" or any nonsense like that. They love us if we agree with them but if we don't they aren't afraid to lump us in with "evil cis men".
/r/MensRights16/08/21 07:12 PM
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I mean it's slightly different, but it really depends on the individual experience. I am a Trans man and after hormones and surgery I look, sound, act exactly how a biological man does. I libe in a city across the country from my home town and not a soul (exept my doctor) knows I am trans. I am treated just like any other man.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 07:09 PM
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In ambiguous situations women are automatically labeled the victim. Two college students get drunk and have sex? The women was raped and the man took advantage. A man hits in self defense? He's stronger and there's no excuse. Basically society views women as more empathetic, kind etc and so anything wrong she does most be for some complicated reason where she is the true victim. But men are viewed as aggressive and when they do anything wrong it's viewed as villainous.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 07:02 PM
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