Seems like there trend lately of women online getting angry whenever their husband's or sons can't do anything and are coming up with these conspiracies that all men are manipulators that purposely do everything wrong so they don't have any responsibilities. The term used is "weponized incompetence" and is often about things like not loading the dishwasher correctly, not being able to cook well, etc. Apparently if you're a man and you can't do these things you're an evil sexist manipulator

But if a women doesn't know how to change the oil in the car or mow the lawn or clip weeds or fix something when it's broken...nothing. a women will scream at her husband for not cooking and accuse him of being a manipulator but the second something needs to be fixed then "it'd the man's job".

What's worse is that a lot of times the things the husband's do "wrong" aren't done wrong. They're just not done how the women wants them to be. For example a guy could do the dishes but if the cups aren't put up in the cupboard exactly how the women wants it she'll get upset, act confused that her husband isn't a mind reader, then demand to do it herself instead of explaining and somehow the husband is still the one to blame when he was just trying to help.

It's definitely sexist that usually only women are taught certian chores while men are taught others. But it's hypocritical that feminists expect men to be able to do every household chore known to man but the women aren't expected to lift a finger to learn the traditionally "masculine" chores. And they certainly aren't accused of being sexist manipulators