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I have said for a long time the only woman most men can depend on are their mothers. That right there is unrequited love, it’s why women don’t like men who are close to their mothers. It’s why “mommas boys” was used as an insult. Your mother will tell you straight if she things a woman Is good enough for you, she will always be able to tell. It’s why toxic women don’t like strong female personalities in men’s life.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 09:41 AM
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“Thousands of years of oppression and disrespect” this has to be the most ignorant and uneducated sentence since I hear Americans say “I’m going to vote for Trump”. Women have not been oppressed or disrespected for thousands of years. For all of early human history women were revered for their child bearing nature. What an absolute crock of shite, the first deity in the world is Sumerian and is a woman.
/r/MensRights07/02/24 08:44 PM
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Red pill That if you have 2 out of three of these (height, money, looks) you’re going to be fine with women Having a unrealistic body count for your age rules you out (I hold myself as man to that standard as well) Blue pill. As a man you’re allowed boundaries, however men need to be better at how they externalise and communicate those boundaries. Actually working on yourself will give you a better chance of dating someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 04:49 PM
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There is some credibility to this, so a lot of medical diagnostic tools and procedures are based on treating men. The same is also said for ethnic groups, especially in western countries. A lot of it is based on white men, so when a black women comes in with side pain a lot of doctors play it off as wind or something else, whereas in most cases it’s a heart attack. However saying it’s “medical misogyny” is ridiculous because doctors don’t hate women or are prejudice to women. They are also victi…
/r/MensRights22/01/24 04:42 PM
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Your comment reads like it was written by a red pill bot. The whole point of a coffee date is so you can’t hide behind falsehoods. Men cant hide behind a falsehood of money & women can’t hide behind falsehood of manufactured beauty and character. You really think there’s a saturation of attractive men with money? That may be the most delusional thing I’ve read on the internet. Look you can believe what you want, and congratulations on your current situation but it’s anecdotal at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:25 PM
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Forget all notions that you’re seeing on social media, majority of people women & men, are permanently single. Read, travel, make friends, enjoy new experiences. Dont ever change for someone, you do not need to. Work hard and retire early.
/r/MensRights20/01/24 01:28 PM
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Honestly this is a non issue in the Uk, you can request the vaccine if you want it. The only people who can’t are people who’ve gone into anaphylaxis as a result of the vaccine before or to one of the ingredients in the vaccine. As a man who loves and adores women like hell am I giving up eating pussy 🤣 I enjoy that far too much!
/r/MensRights17/01/24 01:08 PM
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Okay, I see your point you’re also young and most women at a young age do prefer men older. However I would like to pick up on a double standard. You say that men constantly say they want a young, beautiful, sexy any descriptive words you wanna use, But they should be aware they will have options so they aren’t going to settle. So with that line of thinking do you not believe the same for men? So an older, financially stable and attractive man who has traditional values of paying for dates. Do y…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 01:02 PM
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Wrong, I took a year break from dating after getting out of a long term relationship. I never once said I wasn’t receptive to a relationship, because I am just starting to date again. I’m not too sure what I demonstrate, maybe a the fact I’ve asked question about current dating sphere to learn, maybe the fact I’ve spent the last year getting in touch with me feelings & emotions after a heavy break up two years ago and have spent the last 12 months having therapy & doing the work. The fact you’ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 06:07 PM
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I’m not basing my world view or perspectives on tick tok. Hence the reason I authored the post 🤦‍♂️ fuck me, like arguing with someone who eats crayons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:58 PM
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This retort of go touch grass is such a cop out from not having a valid argument. The video I watched had been viewed over 1 million times, it had close to 100k likes and 8k comments. This idea that they’re “all bots” is just a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 05:56 PM
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It wasn’t a YouTube video. It was on TikTok, it randomly popped up on my timeline. The issue I have is that the gentleman whose account it is has over 200k followers with it being a 70% female following base. This is why I can’t take this talk of it’s a small minority of women. This is just one account of many that constantly push this stupid 1950s male gender roles ideology. And if they all have respective followings in the same number, you start to realise that this notion is not a minority th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:52 PM
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Oh trust me in the last two months trying to date I’ve already found that out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:51 PM
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You’ve misunderstood my point, which is summed up at the end. The whole thread was that for a man to be considered a potential person to date they must pay for their time. There was a lot of talk about expensive makeup, how long it takes to get ready for the date. It’s not about paying for someone’s food. It’s the expectation that if someone is going to date them they have to pay for their time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:51 PM
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Thank you. Finally an actual response to my post instead of some rant about equality in 1970s. Honestly I have a type, I would say my type is an extension of myself more than anything. It’s just as I haven’t dated for over a year I was wondering if dating had changed that much in such a short time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:26 PM
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I completely agree with what you’ve said. The issue I’m currently finding is that there is this expectation on that men should pay. Regardless of the circumstances, also this idea that it’s not a real date unless it’s a meal & drinks. As I’ve said I’m very financially responsible, I have goals I’m trying to hit. And I’ve always been under the impression a first date is for you to get to know somebody, not to see how much they can spend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:18 PM
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Im not entirely sure what point you’re trying to make. Well if you’re going to have gender roles you can’t pick and choose what gender roles you want. Thats my point, if you want men to have traditional gender roles you should expect those men to want the same thing. Which is what a lot of the women who are claiming this seem to be missing. Also, not too sure what your point was with stay at home mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:16 PM
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I don’t go after anyone at the moment it’s just when you see a lot of videos and posts online about dating, and the theme is always the same questions get asked. I’ve seen a lot of “coffee dates aren’t dates” as well, which is really annoying because for me a first date is about getting to know someone, not seeing how much they can spend on you. Like I’m very financially responsible, I’m currently saving for my second house deposit. Why would I want to spend £60-100 on a first date and that’s if…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:09 PM
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I’m 32 and I gave up when I was 26. It’s pointless. It’s widely accepted in society unless you’re deemed as handsome by a prospective woman, you’ve got no chance and the possibility of her throwing a drink, slapping you or claiming SA is high. I just wait for women to approach me now, and in the last 6 years I can say women cannot handle rejection and it’s worrying.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:06 PM
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If she thinks it’s weird for men to have had only 4 sexual partners I think it’s disgusting if women have had over 6. See we can all be judgemental of others.
/r/MensRights04/10/23 10:57 AM
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Funny thing is you’re missing the most crucial thing. The stereotypes you happen to put in your comment are all driven, reinforced and put onto men by women. You even said it yourself! Which proves that the idea of toxic masculinity is a myth & its nature vs nurture and this time nurture won. Toxic masculinity is internalised misandry passed into us by our female relatives.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 03:10 PM
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The issue you have with the left is it’s been born out of virtue signalling. Women, ethnic minorities and religious minorities can do no wrong whatsoever. So the idea that toxic masculinity isn’t just toxic people that happen to be men, because toxic femininity exists, is preposterous. Toxic masculinity is the left & feminism once again deciding what is masculine and how men should live their lives. It’s happened throughout modern society, the radical left and feminism decided that men as a whol…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 03:07 PM
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You’re acting like submission isn’t earned, any sub that gives submission without throughly vetting the dominant is just as a bad as the dominant. You’re dismissing the responsibility of both parties, you wouldn’t do that In any other context. If two adults are having sex, one them is black out drunk, you would argue it’s the responsibility of the person sober to not do anything. This is the same thing, the dominant has a responsibility to ensure what they are engaging in is in a safe environmen…
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:33 AM
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You’ve misinterpreted it. The “Findom” is the enabler, and people are saying enabling is okay. Now considering how deep some of these men get into this kink, yes it’s the same as giving a beer or heroin to an addict. If you enable the addiction knowing what it will do, regardless of whether the addict wants it, you’re the worse kind of person.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 06:29 AM
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The responsibility does not rely at the just the sub. It is also on the dominant to ensure they are practicing the dynamic is a safe environment. We follow RACK, PRICK & SSC. These practices are for everyone, diminishing the responsibility of the dominant is just wrong.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:47 PM
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Wrong, it’s up to both parties to recognise it. As a Dom myself & having been in the community and lifestyle for over a decade, I do not engage with submissive if I feel they aren’t in the right state of mind or vulnerable.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:45 PM
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You can be humiliated and degraded by a professional dominatrix who will actively respect you wishes & ensure you can afford her session. She won’t degrade you and engage if you’re not in the right frame of mind. The men engaged in Findom are vulnerable, they have an addiction. They aren’t in their right mind. They shouldn’t be discarded because they’re men, if this was the other way round Findom would be banned if men were doing it to women.
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:44 PM
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Sweet, tell you what when I see a homeless person struggling with addiction I’ll stand there and had them a syringe of heroin & bottle of beer. Hey, they are consenting adults and they want it so fuck em right, they can’t be victims. What a stupid comment!
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:42 PM
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It did, don’t you remember the tinder swindler?
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:40 PM
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I have been part of the BDSM/Kink community for over a decade, and any time I’m at an event and meet a “Findom” I report them to the authorities at the event as it’s not usually a kink that’s accepted. I actually think it should be banned as a practice and any woman caught engaging in it should be at the mercy of criminal charges. They constantly target vulnerable men, men who are divorced, lonely, low self esteem, depressed etc. They are genuinely predators, the biggest thing in kink is consent…
/r/MensRights26/09/23 09:39 PM
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You can be a MGTOW and still be critical of both men and women. I’m also MGTOW and one of my biggest gripes is the pedestal society sticks women and female societal expectations from dating. Critiquing them isn’t misogynistic or sexist in anyway, and it’s quite funny that as a man we can critique mens dating strategies and get applauded. But the other way round we get vilified. I could get into a relationship quite easily if I wanted, but I just don’t want too. They offer no value to my life, I …
/r/MensRights23/09/23 06:04 PM
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The problem you’re going to have in asking this question is that you, I assume are a man, and are quite logical, thoughtful, find solutions. Now it’s been proven many times I’ll even post some studies, that men and women have not only biological difference, but also psychological differences as well! This is where the disconnect happens. https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-mens-brains-are-wired-differently-than-women/ https://stanmed.stanford.edu/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-differe…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 10:39 AM
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Bad apples 🤣🤣 you’re talking as if I’m raping or sexually abusing women. I’m stating pure factually evidence. Like I said, if you can find me one thing women contribute to society that men can’t or haven’t done in the past I’ll retract my statement.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 08:34 PM
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Oh sit down. This is pure facts. I tell you what, you tell me what else women have contributed to society, and something only women contribute and I’ll retract my statement.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 08:33 PM
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Grow up. This is just a response to another comment about men being solved as slaves to women. I find it funny you haven’t made a comment against that, but have found an issue when I’ve pulled out the fact that women have one role in society.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 08:32 PM
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Nah it will never get to that. Like I’ve said for years, the biggest issue when it comes to the human race is how do we reproduce. The biggest issue for society is that women are the incubation chamber and that eggs are sparse. The next huge scientific breakthrough will be removing that genetic disadvantage. It won’t be synthetic sperm, it will be women’s ability to Carry children and the reproduction of eggs. This is what women fail to think about. For the entirety of human civilisation, women …
/r/MensRights18/09/23 12:06 PM
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Funny thing is according to feminists porn is oppressing women. But it’s okay when they do Onlyfans and advertise it on a billboard. I’m 32, when I was 14/15 I had a Nokia 3210 which didn’t have internet. Most kids now have iPhones, they would be straight into her link to see what it’s about. Absolutely shocking.
/r/MensRights18/09/23 11:59 AM
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Well for me this is quite funny. So I have severe nerve damage from a sports injury, I can still get erections (regularly) however I have no control over them and have no idea I have them. I have a huge lack of feeling in my lower pelvic region spreading across my hips, thighs and lower back thanks to this injury. This means it’s very rare for me to actually orgasm from penetrative sex and when I do I rarely feel it. Because the sensation isn’t there my body has no idea that I am indeed having s…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 09:29 AM
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Do what women do, make your complaints about the relationship in a questionable sarcastic manner, somewhat similar to nagging. Pull away slowly, emotionally and physically. Start entertaining new women, chat to the in the coffee shop & exchange instagrams. Then when you feel like you’ve potentially got enough options, leave her. She’ll get blindsided and then you can explain all the ways you’ve communicated you’re unhappy & she’s not acted on them. Obviously she will deny that you’ve communicate…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 09:16 AM
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No the patriachy isn’t real and in my personal opinion it never actually existed. In modern society, 2023, and for the last 50+ years we have lived in an oligarchy. For someone with critical thinking it shouldn’t be difficult to see, you only have to look at the definitions of “patriarchy” to see. In nearly all western countries now women make up over 1/3rd of government, it’s higher in a lot of countries such as the Uk, American and Germany. But with it being worldwide there are some outliers t…
/r/MensRights16/09/23 07:51 AM
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Confidence & attraction go hand in hand. But that attraction can be a mixtures of looks and social standing when it comes to men. Men with money who are conventionally attractive have a lot of confidence, because the ability to pay for anything and everything gives them that. However if you’re an average looking dude with no excess capital, doesn’t matter how confident you are it will come across arrogant, narcissistic & cocky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 09:15 PM
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Men aren’t allowed to have preferences! My ex was an A cup and had really small boobs, I loved them. But if I ever made a comment I was a misogynist! But of course she was allowed to tell me she prefers bigger dick and how she could never be with a man who had a small dick. Double standards. She also said my dick & height were the only reason she was with me! I’m 6’2. Women are the most shallow & don’t understand double standards/hypocrisy
/r/MensRights11/02/23 10:36 PM
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Not every single mother has made bad decisions. You are the type of bloke who needs therapy, because this unchecked anger isn’t healthy and it will only get worse for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:49 PM
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I feel like you’ve missed the point of my post and why are you so angry at single mothers. Honestly pal, if you don’t see how you’re contributing to what I’ve said then you’ll never be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:42 PM
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Honestly that’s not the first time, it’s happened to me quite regular. It’s not like I’m even putting on a facade that I’ve got money, if I was going to expensive restaurants, driving an expensive car etc then I’d expect the question. Because it’s warranted as I’m showing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:04 PM
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Honestly I’ve seen it in person as well. Most recently I went on a date & actually got asked what my annual salary was. Like I said this is my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:53 PM
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Like I said it’s my opinion & experience of what I’m seeing. So if this isn’t yours then fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:48 PM
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You make no sense whatsoever. Not all men have benefited, but doesn’t mean most men didn’t overall! What on earth is that sentence, my point which the entire post is based on is that the Uk isn’t a gender divide it’s a class one. You’ve agreed majority of men didn’t benefit, so how can men benefit overall. That doesn’t make sense whatsoever. This idea that women have always been thought of as “lesser beings” is just ridiculous. The first deity was the Summarian goddess of fertility and war Inana…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 09:05 PM
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I haven’t complained about women being in roles. My post is literally about discussing with a feminist and point out that the Uk is a class divide not a gender one. You’re constantly moving the goalposts. What’s hilarious is you agree with me, nobody benefits, which means it’s not a gender divide. If you can’t see or understand that then I have nothing else to say.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:18 PM
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I haven’t ended my post at all! My post was about how i was a debating with a “feminist” and my point was the Uk has always been a class divide. Which I’ve just proved and you’ve agreed too by saying nobody benefits 🤣 You have no idea what my posts about because you’re arguing about other things. Not once have I said I want women at home cooking my meals. However I’d like to pick apart your last statement. Is men dying at work a trivial issue to you? Because that nonchalant statement sure makes …
/r/MensRights16/01/23 06:46 AM
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So tell me who benefited? Mens life expectancy was always lower as the Industrial Revolution wasn’t exactly a great time to work as most jobs killed you? War & famine heavily effected men more as the rationing was given to women and children. My point was nobody benefited & even since women entered the workforce men & women are still both suffering. Nobody is benefiting.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 05:10 PM
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Please tell me you reported this therapist?
/r/MensRights14/01/23 11:39 AM
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You’re arguing as if equal pay was only for women. The equal pay act in America in 1963 was based solely on sex. Whereas in the Uk it was to disparage companies from paying different rates of pay to everyone for the same job regardless of age, sex, race or disability. Once again proving it was a class divide not a sex one.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 11:32 AM
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What about it? Women only entered the workforce in what the mid 50s of the Uk, before that their was never any expectation for them to work. They’ve always been provided for by a man, their father or their husband. But equal pay has been legal in the Uk since 1970 I believe. The “gender pay gap” has been widely refuted and disproved more times than I can think of.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:49 AM
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Holy shit you’ve literally described the entire conversation. My only point was that the Uk has always been a class divide. To back it up I used statistics that showed working class men & women were both complete ignored by the 1% middle & upper class. However she argued Suffragettes University Rape Child care Bank account Domestic violence The standard patriarchy I constantly had to keep moving my argument to something new and disproving it.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 07:46 AM
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I read somewhere about the white feather movement. They used to hand them to young men walking around town and it’s where the actual meaning of gentleman comes from. It was used by women as an insult for not going to war and dying as well.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 11:02 PM
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Not really your opinion isn’t flattering, needed or wanted. But hey you know what they say about opinions they’re like arseholes. Everyone has one.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:09 PM
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I’m worried for your mental well being. Do you stalk a lot of people on Reddit & look for comments they’ve made on posts?
/r/MensRights06/01/23 05:01 PM
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Jesus Christ stalker alert.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 04:57 PM
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There is a simple answer to this and that’s the integration of women into the workforce. For most of human society women have the been the nurtures, caters, mothers, wives ect. Women then entered the workforce, a workforce which is highly competitive & downright brutal. It’s always been man v man in the workforce, you got in line did your job, trained at doing something, got educated at doing something and competed against others that did the same. Women where never exposed to this until they we…
/r/MensRights04/01/23 12:23 PM
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So do women have more testosterone than men? No, so it’s mainly a male hormone isn’t it. What happens if you give a woman high levels of testosterone? She would start to exhibit masculine features, qualities and her body would change. Same thing if you have a man on high dosages of Oestrogen. Which is why Oestrogen & Testosterone are sex based. It’s literally in the name O = Ovaries T = Testicles 😖
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:19 PM
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What’s actually funny is that when you look at the research which I’ll link, men go through hormonal changes daily at the same level that women experience during their period. Which is also affected by what we drink and eat throughout the day, exercise & sleep. I’ll link the article below. So you could say men are more emotionally mature as we have to deal with hormone imbalances daily 😂 https://www.myhormonology.com/learn/male-hormone-cycle/
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:15 PM
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The difference between us and the feminists that we are talking about, is that what I’ve written is a joke and a shared experience amongst many men about being given the silent treatment after stating the obvious. Demonising, vilifying & generalising all men like rad fems do isn’t a joke as is it leads to actual real world consequences. A boy of 14 I believe killed himself because of the hate he’d gotten and being told he was a predator because he was a boy online.
/r/MensRights31/12/22 10:38 AM
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But no man is born into this world with an understand of electrical engineering, mechanical engineering, plumbing, construction ect. So that’s a moot point
/r/MensRights30/12/22 07:37 PM
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It was one of my favourite memories from lecturers. I was massively outnumbered in sociology as it’s a social science and quite heavenly women dominated. The class was 70 and there was only 6 of us lads 😂
/r/MensRights30/12/22 06:29 PM
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That was Camille pagilia I think.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 06:18 PM
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Day 4 - men return Men return to women moaning about how everything went to shit and how it’s all their fault. How nothing got done because they couldn’t get ready, they had an awful headache and haven’t drank or ate in three days. Every man makes the same comment about why women didn’t band together and suddenly every woman has started the silent treatment.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 06:09 PM
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Oh it was. But it was just to prove that there is no battle of the sexes I’m his opinion
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:10 PM
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Ahah his point was we both need each other. Women provide support with caring for children & elderly. Men provide the support for the infrastructure. We both benefit from each other. Was nice though to see the women in their group shit themselves after they got all cocky and confident with some of the remarks and comments they were making.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:04 PM
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When I was a Uni my sociology professor did a hypothetical thought experiment with the group when we were covering sexism & the battle of the sexes within society. In a seminar he split us into two groups of men & women and asked us to right down the potential benefits & cons if the opposite gender disappeared. The group of women wrote more benefits than cons i can’t remember them all but Less crime, Less sexual assault, Feeling safer, Less unplanned pregnancies. Their cons where stuff like, Car…
/r/MensRights30/12/22 03:49 PM
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I know what you mean about being respectful. But the way he describes people who partake in hookup culture is just wrong. He is actually disgusted by them! The logic you are questioning is that in my experience. Men who criticise other men for hook ups usually struggle with sexually chemistry with women, don’t understand a female orgasm and refuse to learn. They also dislike women who engage in hookup culture because they don’t get picked, so it gives that resentment vibe. Yeah but it’s still a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:47 PM
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Jesus Christ you’re projecting so much! Stop being a whiny little fucker, if you don’t want to partake in hook ups don’t. If you can’t make a woman orgasm just say it dude! Jesus Christ, your entire post is all me, me, me self entitled bullshit. Leave people to their sexual proclivities and stop judging people! Fun fact you dad has probably ploughed your mom more than 300 times in their marriage. What’s the difference between that and fucking 40/50/60 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:22 AM
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Sugar babies, Findom, spoiling kink. These are kinks made up by women to justify prostitution. They are manipulative and predatory, they prey on weak men who are usually old, unattractive & want some attention/companionship and then try to shame anyone’s questioning them by calling it kink shaming. I’ve never seen a sugar baby with a young/conventionally attractive man. Don’t get me started on Findom, I lost my shit at a friend who told me she was a financial dominatrix as she basically drove a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 08:42 AM
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Because accountability is an unknown term to women. There is a huge misconception in heterosexual relationships & it’s held only by women. This is that it’s up to the men they date to make them happy, that when they start dating someone their happiness becomes another responsibility of their partner. In the last 120+ years women have gained more political and social power & yet when it comes to relationships they still expect them to be like the 1920s.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 08:29 AM
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You’ve had the same response I had when I told a woman I rejected I was Bi. In a gay bar, I approached her friend (male) as we had been chatting a little bit and I thought he was down for a ONS. She tried to push herself onto me, when I told her I wasn’t interested she said the reason I was Bi is because I failed with women, she was just taking pity on me 😂 problem is women don’t suffer rejection like men on a regular basis, so when it happens it kicks their fight or flight into action.
/r/MensRights10/12/22 03:39 AM
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Since the Industrial Revolution men have always “dated down” women are the ones who date upwards or at their level. No man is worries about whether a woman he’s dating is making the same money as him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 05:39 AM
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The reason we don’t talk about men “hitting the wall” is because the wall is there for men as soon as they hit dating age. Once men hit 18 they lose any value, unless they are extremely attractive or incredibly wealthy. A man of 18 has to work 100x harder than any woman to scale the wall they eventually hit. Once he does the world is his oyster and he’s noticed. If a man doesn’t scale the wall, he is never in a position to hit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 08:40 PM
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Toxic masculinity is another bullshit term made up. The idea that there is something inherently toxic about masculinity is ridiculous. Also the women who make the claim of “toxic masculinity” do what every woman does, which is have their cake an eat it. They want men to express these toxic traits but only when they deem necessary. I was walking home recently, a woman came up to me and started walking by my side (I’m 6’2 & about 17 stone) basically she was being followed and wanted me to step in …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:17 AM
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Nailed it. Women don’t see it like that. It’s a fact that women on average contribute & hole more debt than men. They are also the biggest consumers which is why most adverts & products are marketed towards women. When it comes to families & household’s women still hold gender roles close to their hearts. They want a man who makes more, so when they do eventually have children they can become SAHM. They do not at all consider their husband wanting to do it, the issue you have as a woman if you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:56 AM
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I’m struggling to understand why your comment is so far from the actual point of the post. Nobody is talking about what the men you’ve dated expect for taking you out on a date. We are speaking about the fact governments for the last 70 years have manipulated society into thinking Dual incomes to survive are better than one. And to why a lot of women in the dating pool still want traditional gender roles, even though society doesn’t work in that frame anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 07:49 AM
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I didn’t say you have to stop thinking. My point was you have no right to invalidate someone’s experience & dismiss there comments as “silly” or add context to them by claiming they come across angry. You’re doing everything women have done to men whenever we speak up.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 07:32 PM
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This is his reality. You have no power to tell him that his life & feelings towards it are silly. What he says has some weight. Throughout entire human history, men working was rewarded with a woman & children. And as society change that became a happy marriage, house paid off, children in University and them carrying on values they learnt from their parents. But what’s the reward now? A small flat to rent, if you’re even that lucky as renting in some areas is now as ridiculous as mortgage rates…
/r/MensRights03/11/22 12:03 PM
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Well that is just factually incorrect. When it comes to society & its infrastructure if men went on strike indefinitely society would collapse. Whereas if the reverse was to happen, we’d have some minor inconveniences but not the level of men striking. Women do not play that much of an integral part of society where them striking would cause worldwide shutdowns.
/r/MensRights03/11/22 11:56 AM
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I’m sorry but there are no polygamous tribes. There are some tribes such as the Tuareg where female promiscuity is celebrated and the norm. But there isn’t much polygamy, it’s more centred around women having as much sex a possible to ensure they get pregnant. Your claim against Ancient Greece is also false. There is no evidence that young men were submissive to men until they got married & created a family with a woman. There is evidence that Ancient Greece was very liberal, with homosexuality …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:52 AM
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I wouldn’t say I’m unhappy with my single status. I have a want for adding someone to my life and sharing it with them. Well I have a good career, I go to therapy, I read (book worm), work out, have hobbies. You name it I’ve done it, but I haven’t done it for someone else I’ve done it for me. My hobbies wouldn’t be considered typical for women such as tabletop gaming, sports ect. Honestly I don’t go anywhere. I went out last week, ended up speaking to a lovely woman. We exchanged numbers, I orga…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:19 AM
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I’m not reading into anything. Also, there was no need to specify your careers. You felt the need to show how superior you are by explaining how you needed to get a degree & work all these extra hours. Also I’m from the Uk. So no I don’t know how hard it is to become a lawyer as we have workers rights in this country, so I’d be surprised if any Uk solicitor or barrister is working ridiculous hours. Also you didn’t have to point it out twice. You’re initial post made it out as if you and your par…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:11 AM
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You really can’t see it can you. Your post could have read something like this. “Due to our age gap and different careers, me and my partner shared the household chores” But it didn’t. You had to throw it out there, that you’re more educated & had to work longer hours than your partner. The intricacies in you becoming a lawyer aren’t important, they could have easily been summarised by my example. You didn’t make it clear in your initial post, it can easily be read as you’d been together since c…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:50 AM
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Your post, as well thought out as it is can be summarised into one word. Jealousy. Men will be jealous at the other men for being with younger women. Men will hate older women being with younger men. Women the exact same. Hate younger women for being with older men & hate older men for going with younger women. The problem with society though is there is a unique double standards. 45 year old women with a 22 year old man - Yes Queen I’m so happy for you. 45 year old man with 22 year old woman - …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:35 AM
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I’m struggling to understand how gender roles are societal. Because most gender roles actually pre-date society and civilisation as we see it today. The problem with discussing gender roles in 2022 is that we have this notion that inherent biological behaviours are somewhat toxic, wrong or immoral. Whereas if the world was to enter a third world war/apocalypse we’d regress to our designated roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:31 AM
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It’s not a red herring comment. You’ve made it a key point that your career requires a degree & required more hours to become successful. That’s not your partners choice that was yours, so really it has no bearing on the matter. If you weren’t with him you’d have still done it anyway. He didn’t support you financially through college? You literally put and I quote. “During this timeframe he contributed a lot more financially to the shared expenses than I did” I’d class that as supporting you. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:25 AM
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I took a career break very early. So for background I went to college (Uk) worked full time at 16, got promoted to manager (big retail chain) at 18 and went to Uni. By the time I graduated I was 22 was now a senior manager/deputy earning £42k (+bonus). At 25 I met my ex partner, she was already renting a place so after a year of dating we moved in together. At 27 I decided to take a career break as I was literally burnt out at this point, I left my job and took a year out. We didn’t have kids, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:20 AM
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I find your post somewhat hypocritical. You’ve mentioned how you and your partner have different careers and how he was established. However you’ve pointed out that your career requires a degree, thrown around the fact you’ve had to work “harder” with more “hours” for your job than he has. So you tell people not to throw around their pay check and yet you’re acting somewhat superior to your partner because you went to college for a degree. Also I’d like to point something out. “Yes, during that …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 03:07 AM
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I was actually falsely accused by a work colleague. Thankfully, her very strong feminist friend actually saved me, which makes me believe some women are here for Justice and the truth. We hooked up at a Christmas party, this woman was extremely attractive. We were both in our early 20s (21 me, 20 her) I was career driven, a manager and she was a store colleague. The difference was she had a boyfriend and I wasn’t her “type”. She told her friends that I had forced her, she didn’t want to sleep wi…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 09:06 PM
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I was told by someone I considered a good friend, that her misandry & our acquaintances, should be accepted by me. I should take it on the chin for the oppression & lack of privilege women have suffered for years. To which I had to point out, in all of our friendship group she herself hasn’t had to pay for Uni, her car or her house as she had help from her family. She is the only one to come from a two parent household, got a job working for her father as soon as she graduated (so she was shield…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:12 PM
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I don’t have a 6 pack. I am 6’2 and I’m close to making 6 figures. I can tell you know I’ve sacrificed so much for my career and have started regret it in the last year. And I’m single! Because I don’t have time to meet people or the mental energy to invest into someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:18 PM
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The thing is though, having a six pack isn’t a aspect that every man can achieve. Similar to 6 figures, trust me as someone who’s worked out majority of his life, 6 packs are genetic. They also need serious dedication in gaining & maintaining, any woman who is pulled over the line by a six pack will leave the moment you lose it. Which in a serious relationship will be about 2 months in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:46 PM
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Women have standards. If those standards are 6ft, 6 figures ect there isn’t a lot men can do, men need to be more secure in themselves and realise that not everyone will want them. Saying “just get more money” or as you’ve said “maximise strategies” tells me you don’t see women as equal and just commodities to be paid for. Have you ever just been confident and approached a woman. Regardless of whether they reject you, that confidence and being yourself can be worth more in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:18 PM
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Why is it men need to do this or men need to do that. At the end of the day it’s always on men to take the initiative and approach first. Dating apps is lucky dip! If someone goes fishing they don’t just stay for 10 minutes never get a bite and stop. They keep trying and trying. This attitude of become better, be more strategic ect is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 03:24 PM
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Because social media, influencers & reality Tv stars told women that being a “boss bitch” and fully independent would give them this amazing life. However what they didn’t tell women was that it’s actually fucking hard to build successful businesses or empires. That the wage scale for women is £28-35k in the Uk, if you decided not to have your own business but have a career you would be competing with hyper successful men who are willing to trade their social life for huge wage, and the cherry o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 07:06 AM
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Do you genuinely think single parents aren’t on dating apps? You can’t move in my area without seeing a single dad or single mother. Me & my friend (woman) decided to see how many we could find one night as we were complaining we couldn’t find someone who didn’t have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:34 PM
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Single women won’t go for single dads. It’s actually proven by dating app statistics, single dads are the least favourable of male options within all categories of women. Which you may see as hypocritical, which it is! But it’s rooted in that women want a man to love her unconditionally & care for her child. She doesn’t want him to have his own child she has no bearing or commitment too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:27 PM
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Look I won’t disagree with your point that women are happy to stay single well into there thirties. However I want to add a caveat to this. Women in their 30s (30-40 isn’t old anymore) who are single without kids let’s be honest are more likely to keep themselves very fit & attractive, both physically and mentally. So they will have no issue getting casual sex, the issue where their unhappiness kicks in will be when they reach 40s and age/time catches up to them. At this point they will start to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 06:24 PM
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I’m a bisexual man, I’ve been sexually assaulted by both men & women (more so women) in both gay & non specific bars. So I am sorry this has happened to you, also I disagree with your disclaimer in a sense. So in my town we have 1 gay bar & it’s class, it’s also the one of the only places to stay open past 2/3 o’clock. Which means most of the revellers will end up arriving there or the other bar (which is a rock club where I am as a greebo) after all the Het places have shut. I find it quite ann…
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:20 AM
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I completely agree. The government should be nowhere near marriage. The finances of each party shouldn’t have a bearing on divorcing apart from the splitting of items of joint ownership. And children should automatically be placed 50/50 with each parent.
/r/MensRights28/10/22 04:21 PM
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There has been a change in marriage attitudes since millennials came of age. (1991 baby) We grew up with our grandparents & parents enjoying amazing marriages. But when we got to the same crossroad in our life and went the same way. We discovered it’s heavily weighted in favour of benefiting women rather than being equal. In a changing world and society, marriage is slowly becoming like a video player. Nostalgic, but it holds no value or worth in todays society. I personally believe marriage sho…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:07 AM
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Use the same argument that debunks every blanket theory = data That the idea a minuscule number of hyper successful men, dictates how every man is perceived. How regardless of qualifying statistics whether it be sex, age, race. You will always see a wage gap if you don’t look at the specifics and compare LFL. How when it comes to crime, majority of sexual offenders comes from a single parent household - most being a single female household. How men & women doing the same crime leads to different…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 05:02 AM
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“Buyer in a buyers market” absolutely nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 04:52 AM
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Please tell me where I’ve bashed you? I know nothing about you. I’m sorry your understanding of virtue signalling is poor, I haven’t stated once I’m better than you, I just have a different perspective from my experience with background on myself. If you feel attacked by that, that’s on you not me. I gave you my opinion with my personal experience. Similar to what you’ve done, don’t want me to respond they why comment? I won’t sit back and let you dismiss my point. The fact you commented on Redd…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:22 PM
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But there isn’t any discussion to have. You’ve laid out what you perceive to be the only way for people to date. I’ve just tried to tell you that as a man this isn’t a great way to date whatsoever. The fact you call me a narcissist and yet cannot see how this “Men who want a relationships should instead look for sex. Because that’s the best way to start a good relationship” Isn’t narcissistic smells of irony. This post has got to be satire right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:14 PM
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I’m sorry but this sentence is anecdotal at best. “Mens commitment is not nearly as valuable, also Women’s commitment has become valuable” I’m what world have you been dating, because I think most people would say either parties commitment is valuable to the person they are committing to. You are not entitled to someone’s devotion or commitment, you have to work for it. It’s also proven that women make men they want a relationship with wait for the physical, but men they don’t see a future with …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:02 PM
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You can help by calling our the narrative that is so prevalent in todays society. There are many female creators on Tiktok that call out radical feminists/shitty womens behaviour. Men cannot fight this alone as there are “male feminists” who will always help back up these people. The problem is these male feminists are the predators we tell women to be worried about. We need women to hold other women accountable, same way women expect men to hold their friends accountable for what’s said and don…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 08:29 AM
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The fact you’re gay & have an issue with the rhetoric this woman was spouting and yet she still carried on, just proves it’s not about actual justice or fighting to reform society, but demonising all men. The idea that men are inherently evil and women are the most oppressed beings on the earth is a wonderful fallacy that’s been pushed for the last 20 years. Both men & women have suffered the same amount of oppression. The suffragettes for example, it’s constantly pushed they fought for female e…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 08:14 AM
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As another commentator said, it’s an ad hominem attack because they have no actual basis for a retort. Also, I point it out to feminists a lot. The more you use the terms, misogynist, misogyny & incel. The less powerful the word becomes, it will eventually lose all meaning and just become another slanderous word to use in a verbal tirade. Similar to Twat, prick, cunt ect. Very much the boy who cried wolf scenario.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 07:51 AM
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I remember we had some gender studies students at my university, when they decided it should be a 3 year course this was in mid 2000s. It was not what it is now! A lot of people dropped out because it didn’t hold any weight. How can something thats only been relevant in theory since early 1990s be serious university discipline.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 07:22 AM
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You’ve misunderstood my little paragraph, which isn’t your fault. It’s mine as I didn’t explain myself. If I were to chat with someone who claimed to be an incel I wouldn’t dismiss them off the bat. I’d would get a better understandings of their motivation, their actions and how they perceive women. Also I didn’t mention anything about incels that murder women I just spoke about the term as a whole, and neither did the OP. So it does feel like you’re adding something to what we’ve said & are spe…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:32 AM
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So I studied Philosophy & sociology at university. As a male that is actually outside the normal as it’s not the standard for men to be studying within the arts/social studies. The two subjects were actually far apart from each other, sociology although based in theory was driven by numerical & empirical data. Both of them driven through experiments. Whereas philosophy, is driven on critical thinking and the expansion of not taking elements of life at face value. My lecturer said in our first cl…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:13 AM
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Women across multiple countries are actually the highest and most likely perpetrators of Infanticide, just as your proved with your stat of America. In the Uk it’s actually worse. So 45 per million children under the age of 16 are likely to be murdered in the Uk. Within that number 70% of it is by a parent or step parents, and within that number 75% of it is by female. Now a bit of backstory. Up until the 1830s, parental custody of children was automatically given to the father when divorce happ…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:01 AM
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What you have to remember is that women on the left and within that ideological sphere don’t actually understand the words they throw around. Incel - a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile towards women and men who are sexually active. I would say most men who are involved within MRA do not identify with this ideology and in my personal experience I can’t stand an incel, and if a man …
/r/MensRights22/10/22 09:45 AM
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I wouldn’t even say it’s just the type of extreme radical feminist you have described. I have been out on dates with women you would class as the”boss bitch/independent boss babe” mentality. They are exactly the same, some what worse! These women usually stick within societal beauty standards (which I have to add are policed and implemented by other women) and they usually have strict, narcissistic standards that they refuse to change. I went on a date with a women I have described, half way thr…
/r/MensRights22/10/22 05:21 AM
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I’m so thankful a few people have actually understood what I’m trying to say in my post. I’ve had a few left leaning (feminism focused) redditors claim I’m advocating for violence against women, where I’ve said that I don’t know. I’ve also been called an incel, even though I’m not and despise the incel community. You’ve hit the nail on the head. We cannot do anything right, men are shamed for being bold and chatting to women and approaching. And then we are shamed for listening to them moaning a…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 12:04 AM
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You’ve added context to words and have made my statement out to be something it’s not. I don’t think men are under “threat” I think men are being marginalised and mistreated due to ideological fallacies. Also I haven’t once said it’s inevitable, I said I feel like we are never going to see true equality as both side can never see eye to eye. Right now women are no longer trying be equal, they are wanting to be superior. I haven’t once said “I can guarantee or I know for a fact” I said I feel and…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 10:40 PM
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And once again you’ve completely missed of the important part of my statement. Thanks for the Ad-hominem as well, kind of already assumed I was talking to someone who couldn’t debate. Just proved it jumping straight to insults after being called out for making an irrelevant statement in regards to my post.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 10:21 PM
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There is a war against men and the issue we face in society. If you don’t believe that it’s up too you, but to many men this is the reality. Also not sure where you got a threat to women when my exact words were “Sooner or later there will be a rising and it won’t end well for either side”
/r/MensRights19/10/22 10:05 PM
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I take it you don’t understand irony 😂 it is a misconception. For both genders. Men don’t need women and women don’t need men. But either side may want the each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 09:02 PM
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I’m a Dominant and an active member of the BDSM community! If you are uneducated on kink that’s up to you, but don’t attack my sexuality. I’m also a bisexual man & enjoy dominating bisexual men? Two of my closest friends are queer Dominatrixes who enjoy extreme sadism on other women, is that just internalised misogyny? Sit down and don’t attack someone’s sexuality your bigot. Actively kink shaming people because they hold a different opinion than you. Congratulations you’ve shown yourself for wh…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 09:00 PM
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How is my “standing ground” whatever that means, hypocritical?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 08:57 PM
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No I don’t blame women’s suffering on men, where you’ve come up with that idea is beyond me. Also, this fallacy that women where mistreated for centuries shows the danger of radicalised ideology. Up until the Industrial Revolution women were always equal if not celebrated and protected by society, the earliest god like deity is the Sumerian goddess of fertility & war Innane. And even during the Industrial Revolution and until 1910 in the Uk, men under the age of 21 couldn’t vote & men over the a…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 08:56 PM
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No if men were to revolt until they felt their frustrations, prejudices and inequality is constantly downplayed and claimed doesn’t exist. While also being constantly blamed for problems in the world we have no control over.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:44 PM
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I have no issue with someone holding a different opinion to me. However to be ignorant to accountability and blame men for women’s own problems is just moronic. Also, we live in a world where there is reality and truth. If someone wants to live outside of reality & truth then that’s up to them, but spouting their ridiculous notions of there own opinion which has no weight to it other than feelings is a detriment to not only herself but society. You allow people to get away with it, it catches on…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 04:57 PM
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To be fair I’m already there. I’ve decided that romantically I gain nothing from a relationship with a woman, that I already couldn’t gain from just being friends or causal acquaintances. Society assumes we want sex, however feminism has done a fantastic job of glorifying hook up & sex work culture. There are plenty of high end escort companies in the Uk which are actually cheaper than trying to start a relationship with a woman considering time, money and energy you exert. I have plenty of fema…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:15 PM
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Women have more rights than men in current society. They are also held devoid of any accountability for their actions. In certain areas there are hiring preferences & we are now seeing more companies be openly discriminatory towards straight white men. Because feminism has done a great job installing the fallacy that straight white men can never be oppressed against, as we are in positions of power. Regardless of context and the fact that it’s a small percentage of hyper successful men (which is…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:11 PM
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We don’t vocalise our anger because we hats been the point. We have no support functions or safe spaces in society, when we do try to hold talks about male suicide they are protested. The difference between us and other targeted and marginalised groups, is that other marginalised groups had a sense of community. Whereas men don’t, we don’t have the access to each other. But thankfully the internet is providing that. If men were to revolt society would crumble.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:07 PM
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What’s MGTOW?
/r/MensRights19/10/22 03:04 PM
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You’re talking as if I’m American I’m from the Uk so a lot of my experience is from the Uk. Every company you join will have a Hr which will be dominant by female leadership. Are you talking about the pay gap? It’s been illegals to pay men & women differently for the same role since the 60s in the Uk I believe. Nope I don’t think the Nazi social workers will rise up! Look if you want to be a cunt you don’t need to be on Reddit to be one. My point of using the Nazi comparison was for that, to com…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 07:04 AM
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I argue that it’s matriarchal & gynocentric. The question is what do you define as a position of power. CEO of Forbes 500 companies & politicians don’t really control much of my life, as they govern for the many not the few. However, women control Hr departments, they are controlling universities & education, social services, more women are getting into the judiciary. When it comes to control it’s not the big entity you need to be worried about it’s the smaller entity’s and how they garner power…
/r/MensRights19/10/22 05:19 AM
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Yeah sure I’ll elaborate. So I call out incels for their attitudes towards women. I tell them they need to reevaluate their life choices, take accountability for how they’ve acted and what they’ve done to be a functioning member of society and just a nice human being. I call them out in their attitudes with being friends with women, you can 100% be friends with women. And if women don’t want them that’s not women’s fault that’s their own and they need to understand that. I also call out women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:42 AM
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You’re generalising your hatred against a a small percentage of an entire gender. Women also commit crimes, women are actually the main perpetrators of infanticide. So are we saying that all fathers should be protesting and demanding that women act like them more for the safety of their children? Women are also more likely to experience Domestic violence in same sex relationships. The world is not a nice place. There are people who are inherently evil on both sides, you cannot justify your anger…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:27 AM
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I wasn’t talking commenting on your initial part of your post because I don’t agree with the Lock & key analogy. If you’d have left it there I’d have whole heartedly agreed with you. But then you went on this rant about what’s easy vs hard and it has no bearing on your first part of your post whatever. And it’s also where I disagree because calling people out for their actions and holding themselves accountable is a fundamental behaviour we teach children. Yet for some reason when it comes to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:15 AM
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Right can we just address that contradiction please and also the wider aspects of your claim. Hating men is because of the frustration of how they treat women. So you hate all men because some men hate women? Okay if you wanna be that prejudice go for it. But hating men is misandry regardless if you don’t believe it in. Ive been in tow abusive relationships at the hand of women, I don’t hate women. I’ve also seen my mate seriously wounded by the hands of his ex who is now in prison. He also does…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 04:09 AM
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Hatred against men is real, if misandry isn’t real maybe we should ring up every dictionary and get them to remove the word. And maybe we need to say misogyny isn’t real. Well done, you’ve just contradicted yourself. So men who are promiscuous are morally wrong even though to be promiscuous they the access that women own. Women who are promiscuous are morally right, even though they own the access and control the sexual space. You’re a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:57 AM
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Thank you for identifying yourself as a misandrist. The fact you claim indisputable facts are in my head just shows me you are not intelligent enough to understand accountability, and consenting adult relationships. Men take blame for their own promiscuity, we have already agreed men do because we are fuck boys. But this post isn’t about men it’s about women being promiscuous. But obviously women don’t control access to sex and men can just demand they open their legs and give them access. Grow …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:51 AM
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You said let’s discuss men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:48 AM
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No I don’t agree, if anything you’re advocating for women who’ve get laid a lot to be classed as easy. Because being constantly laid is not normal & is actually quite surprising. If you’re getting laid every night or twice a week that’s not normal. Morality takes no part in anything when it comes to society, morality is on the individual. A person beating up a load of people is a crime, crime is based on liberty & freedom and whether it is impacting that. A moral crime has no victim. It’s victim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:48 AM
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Yeah sure what do you want to talk about with men? Because I’ll be honest as a man we rarely get any air time. Shall we discuss Higher work place deaths Higher suicide rates Higher homelessness Lack of parental control Lack of birth rights Discrimination in the courts Higher jail terms for the same crime Misandry Sexual assault Lack of shelters for domestic violence victims Fact that in certain countries men cannot be the victim of rape Higher mental health crisis Lower life expectancy Societal …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:29 AM
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Morality takes not part in any of this. An act being simple or hard involves no morality or moral element. Also easy doesn’t equal bad. Easy equals exactly that, it’s easy. You talk about nuance and yet ignore context of situations to justify your points. It’s easy to steal, it’s harder to make money to pay for what could be stolen. I’m not backtracking I’m including context because you haven’t considered that, which is why your opinion and post is entirely straw man. Yes I said we celebrate som…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:23 AM
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And women need to stop sleeping round. You see how circular this argument can go when neither party takes accountability for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:04 AM
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Jesus Christ picks up on one grammatical error while I’m on Reddit at 3:55am 😂 I’m not “moving” the goal posts at all, because of course context matters. If I went outside tomorrow and beat up 100 people I’d be thrown in prison and not celebrated. If you cannot understand this then my point still stands about your rose tinted view of your own opinion. Also what do you mean I haven’t elaborated on it? I gave you examples of context literally in my comment. I’ll write it again here for you because…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:03 AM
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See there you go. Nobody is blaming anybody, but if you want to stop an alcoholic from drink you deny access to beer. You want to stop a drug addict from taking them, deny them access to drugs. Women want to stop fuck boys. Then stop fucking them! See no accountability, a full refusal to see women are also part of the problem as well as part of the solution. Men can stop glorifying fuck boys, still won’t stop the fuck boys, how naive can you be to think that. If you refuse to accept women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:50 AM
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But it’s not just men that are giving them slack! It’s also the women that allow them to be with them, women need to accountability for who they fuck same as men need to take accountability for who they “celebrate”.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:44 AM
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Want to know something. I completely agree, bet you didn’t expect that did you? let’s think how should he be shamed. I don’t know maybe called a fuck boy, toxic, user, Narcissist. Stop acting like it’s only women who get called out for this behaviour. A conventionally attractive man shouldn’t be celebrated, same as men/women who were born into money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:39 AM
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But it is a factor that influences the topic. But if you want to ignore that then that’s your prerogative and also what people do when they hit the wall. Can’t deny reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:29 AM
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My point wasn’t about being an easy lay, my point was about the delusion. It happens to everyone in life, but in dating it massively effects women. Men have the same issue in the workplace and masculinity. A 45 year old balding man will not be able to compete with the 35 year old energetic, fitter man. There comes a point where you hit a wall, you cannot compete and you need to realise it. If you don’t you’ll never be fulfilled and always bitter. The difference is women refuse to hold themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:24 AM
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You’ve made an assumption I’m mad, I’m not mad at all. If people want to advocate for inadequacy and the bare minimum go for it and celebrate it then go for it. Just don’t expect me to take part in this delusion. The entire history of the human species has been about getting better & improving. The day we start celebrating the easy things we do in life we stop moving forward, because we will rest on our laurels. Yay I woke up this morning used my lungs to breath! Oh my god, I can’t believe it I …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:20 AM
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But context matters! If some bloke is going round the public beating up innocent strangers he won’t be celebrated. If he/she is doing it in a regulated environment such as boxing, judo, ju-jitsu or MMA then yes they will be celebrated. You seem to keep missing the point hugely. Which tells me you’re so enamoured & overwhelmed by your own opinion, you cannot possibly fathom that your thought process could be critiqued.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:10 AM
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There’s a common misunderstanding amongst women, it’s builds in their youth and they believe it into middle age. The misconception is that men need women, they believe this because of the attention they got when they were young. They cannot separate the desire men have for sex, with men wanting a woman. When women reach their 30s+ and are still single they start to hit a wall. Men they rejected in their 20s are now successful, financially settled, more mature both intellectually and physically. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:27 PM
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Wow look at you taking two sentences, editing them to look as if I’ve contradicted myself. Whereas what I said was. Nobody is celebrated because it’s hard to beat up everyone in a crowd. We celebrate somebody doing something hard because it takes effort, skill, knowhow, patience, determination & dedication. No, women are not being shamed. They are having their reality called out! There aren’t 1000s of men walking the streets yelling at women telling them they should be Ashamed of themselves. Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 11:12 PM
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Your second part is inherently wrong. Women are not being shamed, they are having their reality called out. I would be convinced to say that 99% of women could get laid whenever they want to, regardless of race, age, disability, looks and any other classification you can think of. Nobody is shaming that, because it is a indisputable fact if reality. What we are doing is saying you can’t celebrate it and act as if it’s a good thing! If the lakers played a team of disabled players we wouldn’t cele…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:56 PM
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I have never been blue or “beta” it’s probably why I’ve managed to get to where I am in my career and why I’m good with women. But yeah I refuse to be the guilty party, I didn’t vow to be monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:33 AM
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Men aren’t, the rise in more masculine men tate/Peterson who tell men your wife having close platonic male friends isn’t natural is now considered toxic. But it’s true! My grandparents have been married for 54 years and together for 56. I asked them, throughout their life have they ever had friends/close friends of the opposite sex. Obviously the answer is no. Women get annoyed at the idea their husband has a work wife which is understandable! But they call it toxic when their husband raises con…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:21 AM
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Also get rid of the financial backing in divorce. If women want to leave they can helped by the government for 1 year until they find their feet. Women for 100+ years and counting have so many safety nets in society, it keeps them devoid of having to take accountability for their actions. Get pregnant - abortion or plan b Get pregnant but keep the child, child payments from the father. Divorce because she picked the wrong guy - take half of his assets and money to continue her lifestyle. Didn’t …
/r/MensRights16/10/22 07:17 AM
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Yes it does. It’s based on the early years doctrine, where women were still the main child careers. I’m 2022 we are still basing child custody on a law from the 1800s. Women are assumed to be the better parent for the early years children When if you actually looks at the statistics, women are the highest demographic for infanticide compared to men. This is using date from both single parent families & couples.
/r/MensRights16/10/22 07:14 AM
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Internalised unhappiness, teamed with dating apps & social media. Let me preface this by saying 1st wave feminism wasn’t what it’s been made out to be. The idea is great and I stand by it, equality for the sexes however you’d class it more as egalitarianism. However first wave feminism wasn’t equality, it was class equality. In the Uk suffragettes we’re middle class white women fighting for their right to vote. They didn’t want poorer women or poorer men to vote, just them. What history doesn’t …
/r/MensRights16/10/22 07:12 AM
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Yeah a lot of my encounters are pretty natural, I wouldn’t say I’ve ever been to worried about situations. For me if a woman has a boyfriend or a husband but fucks me that’s up to them, at the end of the day it’s not up to me to remind them they committed to a man. Wouldn’t even say there’s drama to avoid. In my experience, 60% of women who are either in a relationship or married cheat. They are very good at it, they hide it well & I’ve seen this a few times, are excellent at manipulating/gaslig…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:55 AM
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I’m casually dating 3 women. But I have also had a ONS stand with a married women and a woman who has a boyfriend. So the boyfriend one I work with not directly, but I am her best mates manager. So I’ve seen her around a bit (I’m a regional manager) we got to chatting when shes in her mates store, it seemed a little flirty but that’s my personality anyway. I was heading home and saying my goodbyes to everyone when she came to me outside, she gave me her number and it pretty much went from there.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:30 AM
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I wouldn’t say they shame the women for their dating preferences, I would say they call them out on the double standards & unrealistic reality they have created. Also, men are extremely fed up of being generalised by women because of the behaviour of a few. You only have to look at the statistics and realise how idiotic these preferences are. Let’s say a 80% of women do want to the top 20% of men, but firstly we have to understand the actual percentage & numbers these women are after. I will be …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:15 PM
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They don’t. Many men identify as Egalitarians, which people assume is like feminism if they aren’t aware of what feminism has become. Women are slowly turning away from feminism. The only men that claim themselves feminist are the ones us other men warn women about. They are the predators, abusers, gaslighters, narcissists. They use it as a way of gaining trust and friendship with women so they can manipulate them. They truly are the most loathsome men on the planet, they are worse in my opinion…
/r/MensRights15/10/22 09:50 AM
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You’ve missed the point entirely! Men are also doing what women are doing, but it’s a hyper minuscule percentage of men that get the opportunity to indulge in polygamy. Whereas compared to women it’s a vast majority of them. Women control access sex, which means that the men getting casual sex from multiple partners are these top high value men. Whereas any women, regardless of her age, sex, gender identity, values, height, weight etc can put out an advert saying “bored, lonely & want sex” and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:20 PM
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So if a consenting woman opens her legs up to multiple men. Those men are sexually harassing her 😂 you cannot make this up!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:03 PM
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What a stupid analogy 😂 basketball requires skill & natural ability/genetics (height, standing jump) Opening your legs to every man that glances in your direction or chats to you or when you’re bored requires nothing but willing men. Which I can tell you now there’s shit loads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:25 PM
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Your entire comment is just inane dribble. My point was any woman can get sex, I didn’t mention anything about 20% of men or women. My point was it’s extremely easy for a woman to get sex compared to a man, regardless of how she looks. Whereas the men getting casual sex have to be attractive, intelligent, independent, earn good money. No average man is having casual sex on the level that women have it. Why the hell would you wanna make the ho a housewife! If you don’t have any integrity that’s u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:18 PM
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Women who go for older men don’t have daddy issues but are unable to let go of their father. They unconsciously want to replace their father, a man who is strong, dominant, protective & provides for them. Women who date younger men are also predatory, they don’t want a man their own age because they know they cannot compete against the women he would have choice from. So they pick young, naive, simple boys. They use sex as a weapon to control them & don’t ever interact with them on a intellectua…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 03:03 PM
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If periods are connected to sex then so are mens erections. The only need for a man’s erection is to participate in penetrative sex, cease its use as a way to empty urine and become the device to inseminate. You see how stupid it would be for men to moan about their erections (in the same way the commentator used periods), which can be painful, random & embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:58 PM
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But you didn’t argue like a seven year old. In my opinion you made less sense & valid points than the actual OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:55 PM
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But we don’t celebrate or encourage things that are easy. Nobody is encouraging your to drink water for the tap, because you have easy access to it. Any woman can go online right now no matter age, race, gender, sexuality, size and say “I’m free, bored and want sex” she would be inundated with requests. If a man was to do the same he’d be greeted with absolute silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:54 PM
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Hold on a second. Periods - Every woman has them including ones that aren’t overly promiscuous. Pregnancy & childbirth - Every woman & man has to deal with the consequences of this. It’s a reason we have birth control. Sexually violent men - What is a sexually violent man? Are we talking rapists or abusers. Because either way it’s a very small percentage of the male population when taking all scenarios into consideration. For example, lesbian/same sex relationships for women have a higher sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:53 AM
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100%. The study done in the Uk which said 94% of women have all experienced sexual harassment was so flawed it wasn’t accepted by academics. Small number of women, leading questions, one of the biggest categories being “other” comments, jokes, staring. All of these were categories, a Dr of sociological research made the point if men were given the same questionnaire you’d statistically get a higher percentage, as female led sexual harassment is quite high and yet highly under reported.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 07:49 PM
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The fallacy in her logic is just hilarious! So men who have suffered at the hands of women have a right to be misogynistic? Men who have been abused by other men have the right to be homophobic? Also, a woman taking control of her life and a man either disagreeing with her or questioning isn’t misogyny! Misogyny is the hatred or prejudice of the women.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 07:45 PM
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98 hours a week you’ve got to be joking! Do kids not go to school? Do kids not sleep for 8 hours. Hoovering, mopping, polishing takes an hour if that. Washing 1 load at a time takes 2 minutes to organise and put it in. I meal prep for 2 weeks, so Sundays I cook huge meals. Pasta bakes, stir fry’s, curry’s, biryanis. They take literally no time at all & can be made on bulk. There have been multiple videos of men on Tiktok, Instagram & YouTube who’ve been either labourers, corporate or middle mana…
/r/MensRights03/10/22 06:44 AM
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100%. But these white knight/simp/insecure men don’t hold women accountable for their actions. Which then encourages an ego amongst them, I had this conversation with a woman I took on a date. She said that she’s saving for a house, which I was really impressed by on a minimum wage job. She then told me she’s using her OF money, to which I kindly told her I would like to end the date as it won’t be going any further. I was called misogynistic by her and a couple of women who overheard, they told…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 04:40 PM
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House hold chores are not multiple times a week. I’m a 31 year old single man, I do all my own house work once a week, usually a Saturday morning & it takes about 2 hours if that. Women have no right to tell a man he’s incompetent with anything! If a man has lived on his own he has more than likely been doing the work himself. If you ask a man to do a task or if he does it on his own accord, if you’re unhappy with it that is a you problem! You have no right to judge or critique what he has done,…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 06:09 AM
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It’s one of the double standards in our society! Also you’ve hit the nail on the head, I’m a 31 year old man. I was raised by a career single mother, she and my grandfather (her dad) taught me everything I need to know to survive on my own. However with every ex I’ve been told I do majority of household chores wrong. When you’re in a relationship with a woman and move in together I suggest you don’t do housework. Because as you’ve said they’re not mad that you’ve done it, they think they are, bu…
/r/MensRights02/10/22 06:03 AM
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Men have never and will never be the expendable gender. What you see as expendable is actually strength and security! If you want to overthrow a country, democracy or civilisation you attack the males that make it up. Women are the expendable gender. This was shown for the entire history of the human race, they were expected to only bare children and keep the house. They had no other intrinsic value, and I hate to say it, but even in 2022 if every man was to disappear off the face of the earth t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:18 PM
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There are many double standards when it comes to women & men in the dating sphere. The problem is that women have insecure men in their corner backing them up. I would never date an Onlyfans worker, it’s a personal preference as I wouldn’t want my entire friendship group and her friendship group being able to see her do crude & humiliating acts for £7.99 a month. However when I say that I’m labelled misogynistic, controlling and toxic. This wouldn’t be the case if it wasn’t for weak insecure men…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 05:12 PM
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Jean Luc Picard said it best himself “you can do everything right and still lose, that’s not a negative it’s human nature” Do you live in a big city? If so there’s a chance that you just don’t stand out compared to other men. Also, and I don’t mean this to sound awful, but you may not be physically attractive compared to other men in the same area. It’s the same with every woman, they may complain that men they date have no substance but they will always go for the conventionally attractive man …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 06:27 AM
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Yes, and those articles have all been done on a small proportion of males on dating apps. There has always been a disadvantage for men on dating apps. But what the article didn’t take into consideration was the age and relationship status of these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:22 PM
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Number 3 I disagree with completely. I think there are more men that are satisfied and happy with their own company, than there are women. For example, I’m 30 and have a close knit group of friends 3 to be exact. Only one of us is in a long term relationship, whereas me and the other two are happy being single and planning on being single for the rest of our lives! We are fulfilled by our careers, hobbies, personal health care and own company. Whereas the girls in our wider groups are always moa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:18 PM
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That women are the sole reason we have a crisis of masculinity right now. We have allowed women to dictate what’s masculine for the last 50 years, and Millennial men & boys are pushing against that narrative. They want the chivalrous gentleman, strong protector and provider their grandmother told them about. But they want that in a man they can walk over, cheat on, manipulate. Without giving anything back!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 11:11 PM
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Honestly dating as a man isn’t hard. Understand that you aren’t your just your dick or physical properties. Get some hobbies, read a book, work out on yourself physically and mentally! Be ambitious with your career.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 01:26 PM
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Reddit isn’t anti-male it’s anti stupidity! It’s okay shouting from the rooftops or behind a keyboard about mens rights, but words need actions. I’m currently considering starting bi weekly mens dog walk. Don’t need a dog, but come for a walk and talk to other men! Let’s help each other deal with the issues we have.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 11:08 AM
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I wouldn’t even say it was extreme feminism, it’s the modern interpretation of modern feminism and the exclusion of men from society as if they aren’t a valued member. Andrew Tate isn’t the first and won’t be the last man to enter a sphere of male incompetence. It’s not hard to realise that the idea of being a man in society is being decided by people who aren’t men! Men need to get their backbone back and start standing up for themselves. Jordan Peterson, Joe rogan, Andrew tate. These are just …
/r/MensRights28/08/22 01:00 PM
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Yeah sorry for some reason my phone adds them instead of a full stop. I need to check my keyboard shortcuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:14 AM
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This take on average man dating is extremely reductionist. Your average man, not wealthy, not interesting, not overly attractive. There is a good chance his dating life can be surmised into these categories. Old romantic (married his high school sweetheart) serial monogamist (only had 2 relationships) and loner. Average number of sexual partners is 7. This is taking men who are incels & just lost their virginity! And men who are in the top 10-20% of female desire. I can guarantee an average man …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:06 AM
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I’m not discussing India! I’m discussing the term in general. Also when I say new concept I don’t mean in the last 20 years! I’m on about in the last 100. Especially in western societies. Also, I don’t see women as inferior! The definition of hypergamy is women dating upwards in social status! In 2022 that still hasn’t changed, the data is there to be quantified. Dating apps show that 80% of women are swiping on the top 10% of men. Which means 90% of men are fighting for the other 20% of women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 02:33 PM
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Hypergamy is a new concept. It has come around with female empowerment and liberation. Women no longer have to be baby factories or housewives! Which has meant modern men are more independent themselves. The issue I find is that women haven’t improved themselves in the same way men have. Women date up, it’s always been that way because they never had social status, they were usually daughters until a young man made his move. However men have always had to date below their social status, so in 20…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 01:01 PM
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I think this is a great solution! Actually how about we give men Vs with some healthy sperm taken to be stored and all women have some eggs taken and then have their tubes tied. That way when both parties want to have a child, they can visit the medical facility and have IVF. No more unplanned pregnancies, both men and women will feel safe. No abortions! No trapping of men! No more worrying when the condom breaks. Also, no men having children and running off, no more paternity tests. Everyone wi…
/r/MensRights20/08/22 01:55 PM
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Criticising women & the current wave of feminism is not hating women. This is similar to being called a misogynist when you’ve just expressed an opinion! Society has change so much in the last 60 years and unfortunately men have been left behind.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 11:59 AM
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A lot of feminist and female dating groups are holding this as some kind of win! As if it proves they are better single & men are trash, but what they don’t realise is this has a bad impact on feminism and the current social climate for women. Single motherhood has shot up in the last 20 years, with a lot of men fighting for their kids in court. Which means the primary care giver of boys is women. The vast majority of teachers, from nursery - high school are female as teaching is a female domina…
/r/MensRights13/08/22 11:52 AM
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I don’t disagree. I think it’s just more abundant in American society & culture than it is elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:30 AM
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I don’t know I think that’s down to the women and the man’s upbringing! Obviously I’m a man, I cook, clean, do my own washing, do my own housework because i genuinely enjoy it. My Grandfather is early 70s, so he’s learned a lot of DIY skills over the years and from an early age has taught me. I can build a wall, plaster, tile, bleed radiators, lay flooring, decorate and even some basic car maintenance. My issue is I’m not searching for a woman to come into my life and take any of these jobs away…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:00 AM
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My honest opinion! Men have a self esteem problem. I was lucky enough to be raised by my mother & Grandfather. My mother taught me confidence around women, from an early age I wasn’t scared to talk to them or approach them just in a friendly way. My grandfather taught me that it’s okay to be chivalrous, but at the right times and not all the time. Men need to wake up and realise if they don’t love themselves & have a healthy relationship with their own mental and physical well being, why on eart…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:45 AM
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