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I'm thinking 3 levels ahead here but: What if the hope you have for happiness is based on something that doesn't exist? Sure you want a happy marriage with someone...but does she even want a happy marriage with you? What if you were doing this because you thought she actually wanted to be happy with you and you could save face in front of other people...but she doesnt? What if the second you get fed up with her not following, you said "well fuck it...I'm done trying" and she actually says "good,…
/r/askMRP16/07/18 06:09 PM
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Does this reply involve frame too? Because if so...point to STSK
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:59 PM
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As much as you laughed through this...I'm smelling an underlying scent that this bothers you and you care. So...is your real question: Hey guys are all women like this? Or is your real question: Hey guys this bothers me...what should I do about her and/or the fact that this bothers me?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:56 PM
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Is it now? You see no link between being an enabler and requiring someone else's validation?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:43 PM
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Enabler
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:19 PM
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Depends. If it's a bone/nerve/cartilage injury...those don't respond well to continued use. If it's a muscle however, and it just hurts (but can still be used) I'll suck it up and push through.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 12:50 PM
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It sounds simply socially retarded. There is a technique that mystery and friends went over in YouTube videos where they say displaying low value is a way to show OI but I'd say to use it in a strategic way with women of lower SMV. and in this case he did neither.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 11:48 PM
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Now
/r/askMRP14/07/18 03:49 AM
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Sort of? You need to learn to lie better. Don't protect your ego if all you did was walk away and are calling it withdrawing attention. If you can't be honest with yourself, you won't grow. Removing attention is a way to negatively reinforce a behavior. A shitty way. "But a stage of dread says to!" Yeah. We lied. In fact dread is a lie. All the levels are there to improve YOU as a man. They may have the consequence of influencing her. But that's not why you do them. If it was...it's just a big c…
/r/askMRP11/07/18 07:52 PM
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People will do to you as much as you let them. What's her consequence for doing it?
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:13 PM
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I looked in your history to see what got you into RP in the first place. But you have none. So what drove you here?
/r/askMRP11/07/18 04:10 PM
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Here you go
/r/askMRP11/07/18 11:35 AM
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/r/marriedredpill
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 04:47 PM
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Wrong sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 04:37 PM
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Seconded
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 12:44 PM
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That book was one of my least favorite.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/18 12:48 AM
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Haha. The thing I do tend to forget is what it's like lower on the order. Dog ever turns on me (I can't imagine a situation it would but) I'd just end it. Im sure id come out of it bloody and bitten. But it turns on my kids or wife tho...again cant imagine why it would...I teach them the boundaries of the dog, the warning signs, etc. But the thought still scares me every now and then.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 02:49 PM
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Don't make excuses. Improving yourself is for the purpose of improving yourself. Leading her to better sex i's for the purpose of better sex. Leading her to a better diet/workout is for the purpose of improving her looks. And flirting with gym hotties is for the purpose of plates and abundance. Untangle your goals and paths.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 02:36 PM
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Title: Be a nice guy with attitude Post: I was nice with an attitude and got sex (once) Above reply: Being nice is different than being Mr nice You're trying to take RP and blend it as much as possible with old nice guy tendencies in hopes you don't have to change as much as you thought. Regardless of what your point is, my point is there is no blend here. You're going to have to drop the model you were working with before. Not blend it. This is something that you'll ignore until you learn first…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 01:55 PM
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You're associating your success with the things you did to/for her. Now you think "be nice (but not a nice guy) and get sex". This is nice guy behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 12:27 PM
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You qualify yourself that since you're red pill aware, that you should be able to pull women. As if it's some kind of check the box thing. As if (sarcastically) you put it in your tinder bio women would flock to you for it. Read the sidebar books. Develop a frame. Go practice picking up women. Master that. Then: No reason why I shouldn't be able to line the up IMO.
/r/askMRP07/07/18 12:13 PM
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Have you put these exact words in your bio? I mean if the women knew you read them...
/r/askMRP07/07/18 01:48 AM
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How have you lead her to better sex?
/r/askMRP07/07/18 01:46 AM
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ones who are nasty to other dogs Kind of like the boys who grow up under single mothers are the ones that are nasty to other kids. No discipline. All makes good sense to me
/r/askMRP06/07/18 06:40 PM
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Ive always had a dominant relationship with my dogs. The one bit me over food once...11 years ago. He learned pretty fast never to do that again. The other has had more beatings, only as necessary, and he's stopped a lot of the behaviors that require them. He still greets me when I get home, licks my face, and loves to be pet and play. Not arguing for one method over another. To each their own.
/r/askMRP06/07/18 06:22 PM
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My schedule operates on first come first serve. If I write it down on the calendar on an open day, I'm doing it. Likewise of she writes it down and I had something to do but was too unorganized to schedule it on the calendar, my fault. There's no need to consult unless there's a conflict. And no, 'taking yourself away from the family' is not a conflict
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 01:12 PM
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She puts a smile on peoples faces all day long, why not put a smile on my face. It wouldn't take that much effort. Surprises me sometimes. How much effort is sex? No really, we both get massive rushes of feel good chemicals for taking 10-15 minutes to move our hips together...and then afterward we feel more bonded. It's not that hard. But for some reason, there's this massive resistance to it. I'm not actively trying to find the answer to this question. In fact a lot of my unplugging involved si…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 02:14 PM
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I'm really hoping you wrote 'check her box' as a euphemism here.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/18 01:46 PM
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every single day she’s mad at something So? giving me attitude because of me just being me So? and I never am that So? I can’t even look in the direction of another woman without it being a hugeee issue Huge issue...to her cause her to stfu. Sounds like what you should be doing. almost beg for me to explain myself And you dont...right? like I’m some dick head clown Ah the "you're supposed to be my little faggot...how can you act like that?" face. I went back to your first post to see just what t…
/r/askMRP05/07/18 01:36 PM
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GF: "I didn't go in, you dragged me in there!" You: I did. And now im going to drag you on top of my dick.
/r/askMRP05/07/18 12:55 PM
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Troll
/r/askMRP05/07/18 12:28 PM
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You're not special.
/r/askMRP04/07/18 04:40 PM
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Dont understand your line of thinking. Are you saying a guy who reps 155x10 going twice as slow as a guy repping 165x10 is less strong?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 02:12 PM
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Dah Fuck??
/r/askMRP03/07/18 01:11 PM
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We're not married Just pulling the important piece out. Go fuck, have fun .
/r/askMRP03/07/18 11:39 AM
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Don't worry too much about the 1RMs right now. Focus on form. Drop the weight 10 lbs and do the movements SLOW. Bench: Slow downward movement. Elbows not flaired. Do not bounce. Try not to lock out at the top. Feel shoulder blades down and back. Feel balance between left and right side. Squat: Focus on sitting back, not down. Go slow so it's not a 'drop to 90 then catch the weight' movement. Keep core tight. Push with feet down, don't crank back up. Dead: Focus on tightening up before the lift. …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 10:58 AM
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Forest for the trees here. The entire set of levels is the forest, you're looking at tree #4. Yeah, you remove time/attention for rejections, but in the grand scheme of things this is to open up your time for other things of value whether it be hobbies, work, or other women. It's not to train her. Thread the needle. When you remove time/attention, yes you are asking if she'll follow, if she'll change. No, you don't care what the answer is. It's literally like saying "hey are you coming?" and the…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 10:48 AM
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How do you keep track of this lol
/r/askMRP02/07/18 10:03 PM
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Here's your cure. Go tell her. In public. Make as big of a fucking fool of yourself as possible. Flowers, balloons, fuck get a cheap ring. Make it scary, like omega level scary. Boom she'll hate you and never want to see you again. Then you can't pine over the what ifs anymore.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 09:18 PM
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Do you think it's wise to start this business with her as a 50% investor on your half with $0 at risk?
/r/askMRP02/07/18 11:42 AM
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Sounds like a lot of work turning garbage into gold. She worked before...I wonder if seeing a lawyer he could get an estimate on her chances at alimony...or if he could demonstrate an ability to work.
/r/askMRP02/07/18 10:36 AM
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Yeah I'd like some clarification as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 01:17 AM
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risk aversion Analysis paralysis. A plague to many.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 01:17 AM
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I dunno man. It definitely sounds like he's got some emotions going on there. Is there a line between a man who stoically concludes separation is in order, and a man who has a lot of passion for the good in his marriage but a lot of anger for the bad, but says fuck it and picks a path and doesn't look back? Is the divide as obvious as it is between that same passionate man and the one who cannot take action? I know I don't want to be a man who can't take action. But do I want to be a man who doe…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/18 01:16 AM
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Curious...what do YOU think that action is saying to the kids?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 10:09 PM
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Tomorrow I'm not even going to take pre-workout. I'm just going to read this again. This is what ownership looks like.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/18 01:43 AM
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Your wife is so fucking annoying I couldn't read more than a third of her antics. Get away from her. Get your daughter away from her. Fucking toxic.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 11:47 AM
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Ah...I was about to link you. Did you read Taipanshimshon's top reply?
/r/askMRP29/06/18 11:42 AM
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I don't get you man. I really dont. For anyone else that wants some red pill eyebleach, check out this guy He's doing the work, experimenting, being an ass, and getting laid.
/r/askMRP29/06/18 11:32 AM
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I'm busting your balls, don't DEER me. I'm skeptical too...but it doesnt matter what I think. If you're happy, great. Seriously. Even if you weren't RP and you're happy being plugged in, good for you. I've also been down your way. Nice people. If you see Kate, tell her sorry I didn't call to hang out. It wasn't about being dishonest...I'm just not at that stage. There is a difference though..."knowing" you can get numbers, and actually getting them. Guys say they don't want to "test themselves".…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 08:38 AM
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Tomorrow we'll be getting the 5 year thank you from the guy who lurked MRP before it was even created and totally 'read the books', but didn't 'lift', cause 'the dread', or post because of moralistic fears.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 06:56 AM
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If I had a penny for every time my shit was moved and now it's lost...I could simply rebuy said shit instead of worrying about finding it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 06:46 AM
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You felt silly? Work on not being insecure.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 07:06 PM
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Going a bit against the grain here. When you get to the level of a high value male, and you arent yet, but when you get there: "Stop doing that. That behavior does not fly with me."
/r/askMRP27/06/18 07:05 PM
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I'll add more in a bit once I clear my head. Please dont. That was painful to read.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 11:03 AM
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What you have just written translated: "My efforts to invoke dread in my wife have not produced the changes in my wife that I was going for. So now, I'm going to double down and try to change my inner mindset and see if that works." Fuck doing this for your wife. Do it for you. You ask the question: "Do you want to come along?" But you are not vested in its answer...you're going either way. If she does not follow, you got your answer. Move on. Guess what moving on requires...abundance, frame, an…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:57 AM
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lol
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:03 AM
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OYS for journal entries.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:39 AM
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Testosterone. I almost feel sorry for those that don't get to experience the driving, empowering, head-strong, DNGAF, come with me or get out of my way feeling it produces.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 06:12 PM
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Aggressive (the nuke) is one way. But aggressive can display weakness as well. Take mate guarding. It's agressive, but you appear weak. Aggressive (shaming) is another, but is very weak, as I have explained. AM is another. If you convey her poking means nothing to you...why would she keep doing it? AA is another. If you tease her that her concerns are absurd, she may rethink her reality. STFU is another. If her concerns are not worth your time or thought...then what good is bringing them up? All…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 02:40 PM
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Dude. Bobby is right your hamster is going nuts. Yes. Ok. You're right. Every example you're giving IS your wife being a cunt. But every single example is also her testing whether or not you are the alpha, or if you're still swayed by what she thinks. It's cunty behavior. You shouldn't stand for such behavior. But amused mastery, instead of you trying to prove to her that she's testing is: Haha it's hilarious that you think I'm not the prize...not just because I know I am...but also because I kn…
/r/askMRP26/06/18 02:13 PM
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Leo D. I'd pay 50 grand to tug on his mechanical wang at will.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 11:02 AM
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Im curious, compare this to taking steroids to more easily acquire muscle. Or accepting an inheritance of a buttload of money instead of making it. From another more playful perspective...imagine a scenario where the world we live in is the matrix. We cannot tell if we are currently in a simulation, or even a simulation within a simulation. What if all women right now are simulations? What''s the harm in going one level deeper?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 10:35 AM
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I understand your post. Do you understand mine?
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:30 AM
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Why does what we say matter? His frame...is it acceptable to him? No? Then it's not acceptable. Yes? Then it's acceptable.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 09:14 AM
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Your weak ass passive aggressive comment to her followed by compulsive rant on askMRP has all the markings of a beta bitch.
/r/askMRP23/06/18 11:18 PM
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Seriously...lift heavy with too much pre-workout. You'll know exactly what in life you want to dominate by set 3.
/r/askMRP22/06/18 10:44 PM
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Read the sidebar books
/r/askMRP21/06/18 05:56 PM
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The question more simply stated is...if "equal opportunity" is already in effect but doesn't result in equal outcome by nature of the statistical distribution...and the success of equal opportunity is measured by outcome (how else can you measure it? Opportunity is not a measurable quantity because it hasn't happened yet) then how can you put yourself in a camp of "I'm for equal opportunity but not equal outcome"? Even more simply stated: the argument is: Premise 1: Women are oppressed because t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 08:57 PM
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Again, women, I support you, will you support me? The answer is no. You know this.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 07:03 PM
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I mean what isn't equal about the opportunity now and for the last 30 years. Women are allowed to apply. They just may not be selected. And rightly so...because the last X thousand years have shown what each sex can and can't do. When they aren't selected though...they claim inequality. And that's in unequal OUTCOME. So the line between the two doesn't really exist...they are one in the same. One just results from the other. Compare that to the dating market. There's equal opportunity for fatty …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 07:03 PM
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TBH I forgot OP existed. Hope he sorted out his book crisis. Toughest part of my transformation let me tell you.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 04:01 AM
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razor near your neck. Great opener to break into that "lower energy" vibe. Last time I told the wife I was going to slap her around (playfully) she goes "maybe I'd like that". If she's your go-to beard girl maybe not a good candidate for catch and release...otherwise that's a story you can # close with. "Sounds like you have a lot of drama going on...gimme a call if you ever want some straight up fun."
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:28 PM
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Can I still lift tho?
/r/askMRP17/06/18 06:49 PM
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So in the infinite pool of women out there, some which will have a better attitude and some worse, is it worth it to stick around??? That's assuming you've become the type of man where she knows her attitude will not stand...and she's willingly keeping her attitude in defiance of your awesomeness. That is the case right?
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:28 PM
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I don't care? Where's everyone's motivation? All I see is a bunch of faggots looking for someone else to push them to the top.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 08:22 PM
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Trash post.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 07:31 PM
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But I’d be gone most of the day if left every time she annoyed me. Why do you come back then?
/r/askMRP16/06/18 07:27 PM
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Dont...and get cucked. Motivated yet? Wtf do you want, a private invitation to get your shit in order? You think you're special?
/r/askMRP16/06/18 06:51 PM
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The extremes always remind me of the Ultimo-Dragon versus The Giant wrestling match some 20 years ago. One was skinny, looked good, and could out maneuver, but if the other got a hold of you he could break you like a twig.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 06:56 PM
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Not surprising. 2-3 years in was the peak. I wonder if this place isn't as unique as we may think. If Athol's sub, sosuave, seductionbase, and now MRP all go through an evolution of creation, quality, repetition, saturation, and ultimately fade away. We aren't special...it was just our turn.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/18 06:48 PM
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The wrong lesson and/or the thought that as long as they check the skittles box, their woman should then display all the associated traits of the skittles man''s girl. Equal outcome for unequal work...funny...men do it too.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 02:35 PM
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I thought it was sex and violence.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 10:13 PM
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There's no reason you need to be following the hard dates like Valentines Day, Mothers day, or even an anniversary. But usually that's because you're normally a fun guy and being with you is a special day. You don't sound fun at all. You can choose to be that way, no judgement, but women run on feels and if you aren't providing them...well...
/r/askMRP14/06/18 12:15 AM
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Iron John
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:24 AM
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fight to get it back to the ways things were Basically the phrase that brought every man here.
/r/askMRP12/06/18 02:28 PM
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Hahah it doesn't shouldnt.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 03:39 PM
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So what you're saying is...women are zombies?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 01:36 PM
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Yeah. This isn't even a question. Just pussy-ass whining. Hope mods remove. Maybe it'll send the message OP needs.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:04 PM
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Why is BFF not welcome? What is this your grand stand against hypergamy? Fuck man see the trees in the forest. Everyone has their own story. Hers follows hypergamy because woman. His? It sounds like he has a cool fucking life (with a drug thing, no judgement) and doesn't need her. I'm currently thinking AM her like a child, knowing that AWALT and I may as well be mad at the sky for being blue. You're a fucking genius and don't even know it.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:41 AM
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Stop.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:34 AM
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Yeah what kind of idiot picks that one. Ask next time before you waste a download you retard.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 10:54 PM
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I'm never one to pass out sympathy on here. It sounds like he's taking this twist in stride. Curious how this'll play out. I'd take a guess wife is running from something. My guess of that something is that she cheated.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 07:06 PM
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PRs make everything better. Tied a PR of 315 squat today and felt good enough to go for 2. Didn't have a mirror so I feel like I went way past 90 on 2 and couldn't hit it...what were we talking about again? See I already forgot.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:59 PM
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Stop
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:56 PM
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Check out the other flaired guys as well. Sometimes we're generous and spell it out. But similar to the fact that you can lead a horse to water...you can tell someone that 2+2=4, but until they have two things and add two more things, and see themselves that it results in 4 things, they don't get it. Reading something, and having your own mind coming to the same conclusion, are two different mental processes of understanding. I can only show him the door. He needs to walk thru it.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 07:27 PM
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Awww. It's really nice that you're making him feel good. What a great world we live in.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:21 PM
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Question: I want to do X. How can I do this most effectively? Any recommended sites? Question: I think I want to X because other people would think Y. I'm not sure though because I'm waffling. I know in the long history of shaved heads there have been people that love and hate it...but I'm too worried that I'll fall into the hate it category...can you make me feel good about doing it? One question is for askMRP. The other is for askPeopleForValidationOfLifeChoices. Can you tell which is which an…
/r/askMRP09/06/18 06:19 PM
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No need to deal with her at all. Her feelings are her problem.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 04:04 PM
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If reading a book is winning, and he keeps the pill down, he's in for a really fun winning streak.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 03:27 PM
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You need to be asking how to not get sucked into the womens' frame of hating him for being alpha. Set your ego aside, admit that he has some alpha tendencies that you can learn from him, do so, discard the rest.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 03:23 PM
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The reason I did this is because I know if the tables were turned and she’d discovered a message from me to a girl she would have completely LOST HER SHIT. You're right. Logically. Completely. She would have lost her shit had the shoe been on the other foot. There. Does your ego feel better? See there's something to be said about pointing out hypergamy to a woman in an effort to tease her. It works because it comes from a guy who gets it, and is secure in his position regardless of how hypergamy…
/r/askMRP09/06/18 12:36 PM
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No care for the Coriolis. AWALT.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 08:07 PM
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Whatever you have to hamster to yourself.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 08:05 PM
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Love your posts. The eye opening part of this one is, even if a guy were to have a supply of sex with random women whenever he wants...that does not erase the anger of the one that has your balls on the chopping block. I try and think of it like this...there are things in life you just can't control. Think of all the people you walk around every day. Think of the ones standing behind you in the elevator. At any moment, one could pull a gun unknown to you and blow your head off. But they dont. BU…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 07:57 PM
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Decision paralysis. You should see him in the grocery store..."Store brand or name brand...shit...better ask reddit."
/r/askMRP08/06/18 07:03 PM
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This would be a really bold move for me and would pretty much shock anybody who has known me for any length of time, but I feel like I'm ready to shake things up So is this for you or for them? Has anybody tried a full head shave and not liked it? Any good results? You sound timid. Do you usually consult random ppl before making a decision about yourself?
/r/askMRP08/06/18 07:02 PM
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Stop diagnosing her actions and just go be the man you want to be.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:44 AM
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Correct.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:42 AM
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I know we're talking abs but...nice forearms.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:13 AM
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Bicycle abs crunches: left-right-left. That's one. Right-left-right. That's two. Go to 20. Then, without stopping or letting feet touch the ground, put legs straight out and raise to 90 degrees taking 20 seconds. You should hit 45 degrees at 10 seconds. Then, still without stopping or touching the ground, 19 bicycle, 19 second raise, 18 bicycle, 18 second raise. When you can do that down to 1 without stopping, then you will have abs.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 02:11 AM
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Print out all of MRP onto standard paper, double sided, 6 point font. Grind it up in a blender with the tears of your potential, and inject it into your asshole.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 12:33 AM
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Do guys really worry about things like this?
/r/askMRP08/06/18 12:31 AM
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K
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:16 AM
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BOLD!
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:13 AM
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Shatter the glass window in your stomach Are you drunk?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:13 AM
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Can I masturbate to that?
/r/askMRP07/06/18 12:15 AM
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Either Models or TWOTSM. I believe the latter third of TWOTSM i's all about meditation and mind/body connection.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:48 PM
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Your idea of what MRP "is" is completely flawed. Captaining your family is a subset of the possible goals this sub can have, but we do not ascribe goals to men here. They define them. You're idea of what TRP "is" is completely flawed. Lone wolf in for poon is a subset of the possible goals that sub can have, but they do not ascribe goals to men there. They define them for themselves. TRP and MRP are exactly the same at their core. Become th better man that YOU want to be.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 10:17 AM
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OP is bulk_king. Bulk_king is troll.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 09:44 AM
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Why wouldn't he? Why are you assuming he would continue? In fact how can you, given the limited information you know about him and his motivations, nay given his entire set of motivations, know what he's going to do next? Why does it matter if hes going to again or not? Why are you even defining it as cheating? Have you read the post that "cheating" is blue pill by default because of how the word itself is framed? That the red pill version of cheating is a decision made within your frame? What d…
/r/askMRP06/06/18 09:37 AM
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If you cheated 3 times then you know you’re gonna cheat again. This statement is retarded on so many levels.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 10:53 PM
1

Why doesn't it work. Tell me without using the words she/her/any version of 'my wife'.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 09:52 PM
0

Do the work.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 09:50 PM
1

What have you read. I see 4 big issues to comment on, but with a 2 week old account you don't get the summarized version before putting in the work.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:14 PM
1

rough patch To me...this just screams uncertainty and insecurity.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:40 AM
1

A lot of times, it's not the thought of doing something that gets you moving...it's the chemical rush from doing something that makes you want to do it again. Put the cart back behind the horse...and do something not because of the motivation, but in order to create it.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:37 AM
2

Agree with Bobby that you have to know that it doesn't always work out. Today I'm walking thru the store, walk past a cute girl pushing a cart. I'm approaching from behind, so not much I can do. See her later in a crayon/coloring book/paint aisle. I walk down. If she makes eye contact I say "wow looks like you found the fun aisle" but she doesnt. So no go. If she has head phones in that's pretty much a no go unless when you sit down she meets your eye again. She didnt. Oh well. Not your fault. M…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:33 AM
1

Big point of NMMNG is covert contracts...expecting others to do, because you X. Likewise, expecting others to do, even though you dont X. If you want to be a fat slob...go be the best fucking fat slob you can. Be proud of that. But don't expect women to be IOIing you and getting numbers left and right. Not because "you aren't respecting my want to be fat nyah" simply because in the game of life, fat slobs don't get IOIs. That's the way it is. Expecting anything different is the equivilant of wan…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 03:26 AM
1

"No stick, so what do?" Life lesson, sometimes you can't do anything. He wants so much to get back home and make MRP work, I predict 30 days after he's home some askMRP posts about why things aren't working the way he envisioned. Which is good...in the long term he'll wonder why shit doesnt work with the magic formula, decide to live his life on his terms anyway because that's what he can control, and then realize that's what women will follow....oh shit quiet, OP is listening.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 02:58 AM
1

It sounds like you are still afraid to engage and set that boundary. Your intention is clear but your boundary is nebulous. This is important right? Missing talking to your daughter is a thing that just doesn't jive in any reality you can think of right? Then tell her: "I understand there are things you need to do and errands that need to be run, but while I'm away I expect to be able to talk to my daughter during the short time I'm able to do it every day (?). I need you to work your errands an…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 11:40 AM
6

You're not even trying to negotiate desire...you're trying to negotiate compliance.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 02:26 AM
2

1) OP has no past at all. So posting some secondhand story about someone else''s success is borderline LARPing RP. 2) The story is no example at all. You're filling in info based on OP saying it's an RP example, but sounds like OP''s friend had onitis, took awhile to get over it, then immediately caught onitis again next girl he met 6 months later, enough so that he moved to her country and is working several backbreaking jobs to give her a life where they can go to concerts (what's she doing fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/18 07:38 PM
1

So you think it's better to teach him than confront your mom, but you aren't teaching him. Then you're leaving the matter up to your first mate to confront your parents. Then not backing her up in the matter. Then walking out instead of leading the family to a solution. Then talking to your mom even though you disagree with that approach. Nice captaining there...
/r/askMRP03/06/18 04:30 PM
2

My default disgust level for women raises exponentially the closer they are in weight to me. Loyalty She's only loyal because no one else will have her Honest Have you read the rational male? Moral virtue Her feelings for you are one giant manipulative lie. Again, have you read the rational male?
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:51 AM
6

Because you've never used them before.
/r/askMRP01/06/18 02:23 AM
1

Sex isn't the problem You are
/r/askMRP31/05/18 12:53 PM
1

WISNIFG
/r/askMRP31/05/18 12:45 PM
3

If my SO even raised it then she has crossed a hard boundary and our relationship is now void. Exactly. She tells him exactly where he stands with this...why even stick around and try to play catch-up?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 10:24 AM
7

Something to be said about seeing it first hand. You weep for a hope that died in theory, but now dies in practice. I would imagine it's like seeing your first shit test in real time, seeing a woman get turned on when you act like you're not interested, or seeing a woman cuddle up to you when you push her away, and push you away when you try and get close. It's like seeing an 18wheeler overturn on a car. Like a video of a skydiver whose chute doesn't open. One of those European parkour idiots wh…
/r/askMRP29/05/18 05:46 PM
1

Well that's more detail then before. Serious question to contemplate: Are you inadvertently trying to most efficiently meet multiple goals by fantasizing about a single solution? Growing a business and having friends are two separate goals, but you seem to be mixing them into one.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 07:51 PM
2

I would wager a bet that it's not so much that you're lost, but you're hamstering the usual big dream goals of mainstream men and you're conflicted that they don't quite appeal to you. What you want to do is already inside you. Quiet down the hamster, and it'll show itself. If your current locale doesn't offer that, hurdle one is to start looking into a move.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 06:33 PM
5

It's the same. Any amount of 'special' you put on it is onitis. You haven't answers my Q, have you read the sidebar?
/r/askMRP27/05/18 03:37 PM
3

I can tell you read NMMNG, that wasn't nice at all! /s
/r/askMRP27/05/18 01:20 PM
3

Every time this guy posts I can't figure out wtf he is. Over a year ago he's hitting TRP and Seduction with advice on how to lead, a guide to not giving a fuck. Then he writes about this oneitis in MRP. Then goes back to TRP and starts advising everyone how to not over complicate things with a strong frame and non-neediness. But then back on askMRP asking what to do when his woman says "are you upset with me?". The guy is jacked if those pics are for real. Then goes over to askTRP because he's w…
/r/askMRP27/05/18 01:02 PM
2

While you're at it...read them all
/r/askMRP26/05/18 11:30 PM
1

It seems like you still haven't accepted that this is truly wonen''s nature. It's one thing to read it, but another to internalize it. Women really really aren't like men. They do love when you're cocky, confident, and have high status but will say they don't like it, or butch to you to try and break you of it. Once you have accepted that their highly illogical and ass backwards approach really is how they operate, you can simply laugh and make peach with the fact that that's how women are. AM a…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 02:12 PM
1

Hey hey hey, this guy is trying to be a respectful pimp.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:39 PM
1

The guy is being given a win win and blubbering about his feelings. Hot rich girl who fucks him, isn't married, and gives him money. The fucker has is made...and he's unhaaaaapy.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:37 PM
8

That's because it IS different for every guy dumbass. We're not a cult with a standard set of behaviors. If it bothers you because you're an insecure pussy then the advice is stop mategaurding. If it bothers you because in your frame, your girl doesn't do that shit then set a boundary. If it doesn't bother you because you believe she's a snow flake that wouldn't turn you into a cuck, then AWALT. If it doesn't bother you because in your frame you have AM and OI, then you wouldn't be asking Intern…
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:30 PM
1

Have you read the rational male, or practical female psychology?
/r/askMRP25/05/18 01:22 PM
1

Yup. The BJ, the assuming close, the teasing and laughing, the sleeping elsewhere. The whole thing.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 08:21 PM
1

How long does your movement take, both the push and the reset. Is it slower and concentrated or as fast as you can to get thru the set?
/r/askMRP24/05/18 05:36 PM
2

Covert contract...the whole thing.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 05:34 PM
2

Funny. I don't train for intensity, Its just a result of the aesthetics.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/18 05:31 PM
2

Kneel!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 07:23 PM
1

What is love? I love high quality IPA beer. I love a steak that's so rare I honestly question if I should take it off the grill. I love that feeling of shaking while I'm in the locker room drinking a protein shake. Replace "love" with "appreciate" and i think that's what love is. An appreciation of the value provided even though none was expected. And that appreciation results in a free expression of value back through commitment, leadership, excitement. Love/appreciation is only really that whe…
/r/askMRP23/05/18 02:17 PM
2

What went wrong halfway through?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 12:07 AM
4

First of all I'll tell you that there are times that I will simply leave in silence and go talk to someone else. Much like the tactic of creating drama with your wife, it's more backwards psychology because that same awkwardness you felt because of the dead air...THEY felt too. And now you're off being social with someone else and they feel at fault, or jealous that you're still talking and they aren't. And it makes them want you back. It's an impulse feeling because you were giving them social …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:02 PM
5

So how do you learn to open? Men and women both, I will tell you the way to learn is to do it. Reading the textbooks on game and frame will tell you what's going on. Hell reading this post will give you an idea. But until you actually LIVE it, you won't learn. Opening is a constant work in progress. I will still take time every now and then in a conversation and reflect on the dynamics that are going on right then and there. What is she talking about? What does it mean to her? What's his mood? D…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:01 PM
8

Unplugging...socially: Why? Why did swallowing the pill, and introducing myself to a world where guys were coming from across the world to swap notes on how to fuck their wives agan help me socially? Why did that help me? More fuel for the fire. It stoked the drive inside me that if I wanted to become a social god, I needed to put in the work. Part of that was experience. Part of that was getting out there, no matter how uncomfortable it was. And a lot of it was throwing off this blanket feeling…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:01 PM
5

When the laughing wore off, before they got back, I found myself on the balcony talking to a bunch of girls on the balcony above. Granted they were a few years younger. God knows why they were there. But me? Talking to girls? Alone? What did we talk about? Whatever. I just started talking. I just started talking about whatever the heck came to mind. I'll come back to this tactic later as it becomes a big part of my toolbox when I'm in my ideal social state. It was as if I didn't have a filter. C…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:00 PM
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Hoooooolllllyyyy crap. For the first time I believe I agree with /u/simbarlion here. Those who know my account know that I've been spending a lot of time digging myself out of a social hole that I was in since, well, I was 3. I'm going to give you a pretty detailed breakdown of some of the things I've been noticing during my social pursuits. Strap yourself in, it's a read. nbsp; The beginning: To begin and show you how far you can go, the start of my social story goes all the way back to pre-K. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 06:00 PM
1

It's odd that while you say you stand strong against the pull of their frame...you post a question about their "frame pulling" online. Seems like it shouldn't matter either way. I'm going to go out on a limb here and say women don't have frames. Or should I say...they don't have an individualized frame. What they have, because social influences are king in a woman's world, is a collective frame (oxymoron) based on what they think EVERYONE ELSE THINKS is right. In other words, it's group frame, b…
/r/askMRP22/05/18 11:11 AM
2

the purpose of said hobby or activity is to generate a certain amount of dread because I’m out of the house and she’s wondering what I’m really up to. No, the purpose is to get you living a life that is fun and exciting for you. Of all the things you need to do to improve your life this was the easiest for me. I'm out at least 3 days a week if not 5 days a week climbing, running, swimming, going to bars, going to play sports, boxing, meeting friends. I didn't do any of it in order to make my wif…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 09:45 PM
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OP, read this again and again until your ego moves out of the way, and you accept that he's right.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 05:39 PM
1

You only want swallowing and anal because of porn. quit the porn. you don't need that to be fulfilled. But do whatever you want. If you're not happy with your life, implement dread or quit your relationship.
/r/askMRP19/05/18 05:27 PM
2

Why is this so hard? "But she's doing it just to agitate me." So? Enforce the boundary. "But he's just a beta to her." So? Enforce the boundary. "She thinks I won't really do it." So? Enforce the boundary. "But if I enforce the boundary and divorce how will this change her?" It wasn't supposed to change her. Enforce the boundary. "But I really think my boundary went too far and it doesn't really matter to me if she dates him." Well...then you're an idiot.
/r/askMRP18/05/18 05:27 PM
2

I think the problem is YOU don't see that she IS feeling dread. First she takes away sex thinking you'll fall in line. Then she acts like she's DTF only to pull it away last minute. (It's great that you could joke that she has to ask for cuddles...but if you gave them to her anyway...be careful...you are enabling.) Then she is OVERT in her communication that you only get sex from her. Then going main event when you ace that test and share a vision. Then becoming submissive after you leave. Do yo…
/r/askMRP16/05/18 08:22 PM
1

It looks to me like she wants to fuck him. No seriously. If what you say is true that she is seeing changes in you, it sounds to me like she is trying to head this off at the pass...by one upping you by fucking him and putting you back in your place. "It's been so long." Is womanese for "I want to feel emotion from him again". Women don't meet for practical reasons to catch up...they meet to feel emotion. And she misses it...from him. If you would have successfully banged her after giving her pe…
/r/askMRP16/05/18 01:44 PM
1

Hamster: I was tired anyway. man of fewer words and more action. being the busy guy I am but I remained focused. She must've picked up just busy and IDGAF about what happened I'm busy AF. You're butthurt.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 04:38 PM
2

I personally would imagine bouldering as the better option for the entire class to avoid the belay problem altogether. The negatives to having the parents there is that parents tend to enable their child and/or may have a different way of dealing with the child's inability to focus then you plan to. So not having total control of the situation paints you in a negative light. In addition, if you have other teachers belay, you would need to pay them and have them on board with your program. Boulde…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 01:55 PM
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I feel I owe my kids college College is there as a transition into adulthood. What adult lesson would you rather impart on your children: 1) I need to sacrifice myself and my finances to offer a free ride because "kid". 2) "Son, I understand I've paid for your tuition so far, but money is tight and I have some restructuring to do. You are going to need to get a job and help fund your education. This isn't ideal for you or me, but it is the situation we're facing."
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 01:17 PM
1

Wanted to talk about your rock climbing group. Where are you at with this...or is it just a dream? Obviously unless you buy your own space, this is going to be setup in your current rock climbing gym. Do you have background credentials to teach and in the psych involved in those types of behaviors? Enough to convince parents and staff that you're the real deal? Do you have a lesson plan? Teaching rock climbing in and of itself requires focusing on the mix between strength, balance, and technique…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 01:09 PM
1

Post history. Stop being retarded.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 09:41 AM
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This has to do with her wanting to not have to do anything. I agree with you from the perspective of a man who hasn't been able to sit down on the couch in the last 11 days save for 30 seconds to collect his shit before starting the next task...if you are balls to the wall running your ship, and she comes in and nags "Your tools are cluttering up the counter." And it's because you just finished patching the roof, checking the brakes on the car, and are now elbow deep covered in dirt from plantin…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 07:13 PM
2

See and I was just about to agree. Every now and then you see a name pop up on askMRP and for some reason they stand out. Clusterfucks but with potential. You want them to get it. You're one of them. And from that whole OYS I see nothing but you working on you and living a productive life discovering truths. So what the fuck happened between 6 days ago when you wrote this and 5 days ago with the damn hanging chair???
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 05:49 PM
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I dunno...but you totally need to figure her out. Invest as much time into figuring her out as you can. Because there's no way you could totally live your life...and just fuck her whenever. That's too like...spontaneous, adventurous. No...lock her down. Ask if she wants to be bf/gf. Maybe write it in a note with a check yes/no box. Make sure you put return postage on it so she can mail it back. Bitches be cheap.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 12:35 AM
2

You got it all wrong. I'm taking the opportunity today to make a stand. My wife has been acting like my mom for too long. This morning I got up and I usually make coffee for us, but I didn't. She's totally going to notice and when she asks I'm going to act all OI and NGAF. When she asks me if everything is ok I'll tell her no, I'm fine, but say it in a way she'll know I'm not. See I can talk covertly like women too. She'll probably get on my case at some point about it being the weekend again an…
/r/askMRP13/05/18 05:15 PM
2

Use the hundred days to get your mind in the right place. If you come at this like you're about to step into the ring...gearing up for a challenge...you're going to flop. Understand what you'll be facing, but then content yourself with the fact that this is for you. She is just a NPC in this game, not the final boss.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:48 PM
6

Six months ago I bet you said it like "Do you want to grab a quickie?" as well.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 01:09 PM
2

24%...I have been working out daily in one form or another 3 months ago you were 225. Wtf does "one form or another" mean. It better mean on days you aren't lifting it's cardio. It better not mean "I broke a sweat today on patrol so that's working out." You're worried about going Rambo...I guarantee you'll regress a bit when you get back. It's one thing to know the material...it's another to spar IRL with your wife. Dread level 1 is passing shit tests. Theyll be a lot different in person than ha…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 07:55 PM
0

sit her down Stop doing this. The whole sitting her down thing. That makes so much logical sense to a man doesn't it? Clear the field and talk about this situation in an open way. She knows she isn't supposed to stray. But it looks like she is. What would a confident man do? A confident man would not be asking a one-off question at the 11th hour of how to unfuck himself. You're behind...you should already be bigger. Fuck your excuses...if you don't have your diet right and aren't lifting heavy e…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 12:51 PM
2

Fucking lazy.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 11:50 PM
2

Mission Mission is always there. It's visceral. I would say you see it most clearly when you remove the clutter of everyone else's mission, and everyone else's thoughts on your mission, out of your mind.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 05:57 PM
3

Your logic on the possible peado What? For one the odds of that happening are so low that it's logically retarded to stay with a bitch in order to protect your kids from that. For two, if I honestly knew the guy who replaced me was a peado and no one else either knew or cared, then you do what you need to do to remove him from their lives permenantly.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:01 PM
6

For chickens, it's no flap.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 11:48 AM
3

This isn't about the chair at all. It's about your wife taking an action that you never set a boundary on...and you realize that if this behavior continues it may need one. But you're conflicted because this particular time, it's ok because you like the chair and thus she hasn't really done anything "wrong". I defer to 470_2_700 here.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 02:13 PM
1

The line here is the rallying call. It's basically giving into that anger and needing that fixed now, before the problem. Further, it's underlying message is: "I need my anger validated by the group." That, combined with a speculative case on reddit's reasons, no matter how probable (and it is very probable), lead me to believe in the lack of a frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 07:36 PM
1

Sure you may be angry but don't act in anger. The need to feel and the need to act. It's like ripping two neodymium magnets apart. The best approach is to acknowledge: "Yes this is life. It happened. I cannot change that. It makes me angry...but I can take time later to be angry about it. Deep breath, handle the problem now, and the anger later."
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 07:29 PM
4

At a glance it is: Guy brings his kids to a party and is able to bang 2 women, one is host's wife, whom he fucks twice, at said party. But with the work he put in to get there: the man clearly lifts, his frame is locked down, he has plates who are preselecting for him. It takes work to get there. But seems easy when you are there. I think of the gap between me now and OP, and I've got some work to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 05:57 PM
1

Hear me out. I have no problem with this guy getting himself into a business helping men with a red pill style. I have no problem with him bringing the community's attention to the perceived denial of advertising he is getting from reddit. Shit I can even allow the request to "Get me some clients brah." But the fact of the matter is, though highly likely he is right that he was denied due to being part of red pill...it's still speculation on his part. I don't know what reddit's policy is for adv…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 05:12 PM
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Have you tried talking to her about her dryness? /s
/r/askMRP08/05/18 01:55 PM
1

should I expect You shouldn't expect anything. Live your life. The relationship is her problem.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 11:31 AM
3

Good to see you getting shit done. I recognize your name. Seeing a name around making their lives better is the minority. Most just flounder on askMRP. I heard it repeated recently, 80% of guys are beta. With 18.5k readers, I'd say that stat is well into the 90s. Here's to year 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 08:50 PM
7

No physical element toward the Mrs. or kids A lawyer will tell you, even a statement like "you'll regret that" or banging a coffee mug on the table...anything that she can use to "feel threatened" and you can be in hot water. A lot of guys including me will tell you, even a threat that she'll call the cops and we're done. OP isn't 'wrong', but he is playing with higher risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 08:43 PM
2

Simply means your wife has more respect for her friend's opinion than trust in your drive. It's easier for her to hedge her bets and expect failure. This behavior should not be unexpected. If it is, then you simply gave your wife's good behavior too much credit.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 11:39 PM
3

It's kind of funny when you think about it. A lot of guys here belittle TRP's strategy to "just NEXT the bitch". But for real, beyond dread level 5, what are levels 6-12 doing? They're getting you to just next the bitch! The only difference is the timelime this happens on (and the known idea of lag this collective of notes has revealed) and the fact that we will stay in a marriage if she turns around.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 11:30 PM
7

Many of us have to spend a lot of mental energy making the decision to stay or go. What I spend a lot of that mental energy on is the question: Am I satisfied at the moment because she improved? Or have I hamstered myself to a lower threshold of acceptance? And it's opposite: Am I unsatisfied because...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 12:16 PM
1

It's why I wrote what I wrote instead of this...which will probably get downvoted to oblivion. The fact of the matter is, what seems like a boring conversation is actually a massive (and I like to use the word) dance of pretty much all the books on the sidebar at once. The true act of making a rock solid vision is condensing all their ideas into one single life...feeling. because when I think about my vision...I don't think of if-then statements, I don't think of books and ideas and tactics, I h…
/r/askMRP04/05/18 04:23 PM
3

Yeah. I got tired simply proofreading it. Take what's useful I suppose.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/18 03:58 PM
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/r/askMRP04/05/18 09:00 AM
1

The problem with askMRP. Most of the time OP doesn't want the red pill, he wants a band-aid. So it's wasted breath. He seems like he has trouble dealing with situations where his and others' wants/needs clash. There's a book he can read to help him out with that. Oh wait...
/r/askMRP03/05/18 04:53 PM
1

I didn't expect this, but it's eye opening If you did, it wouldn't be. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:35 PM
1

Despite the the poor gut kick story your point was made. That's all I could ask of it. So is a battle plan emerging from all this feedback?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:24 PM
2

She can’t even be bothered to wake up from her nap when I come home from work. This is your entire marriage in a nutshell. She can't be bothered. But you know what? This is also how you are treating your marriage and thus the path of your life as well. You can't be bothered. I get it. You go to the gym. You have a side piece. You know the material. But a guy who can stand there and accept a life where his wife attempts to drain his blood every chance she gets? Of course it will likely end in fai…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 03:03 PM
3

There's a fine line between leading, and enabling. You can't stonewall her concerns. The mere fact that you listen and parrot back her concerns means something to her. You need to be the leader to address real concerns, but also promote an atmosphere of self reliance and strength. I have to But you have crossed that line. 1) I have to...because I feel like I have to - you are trying to fix her problems. You feel compelled to. So you are in her frame and she will continue to complain to continue …
/r/askMRP03/05/18 12:22 PM
8

What would you do if this was an overt message instead of her covert one? What if she actually said to you: "You really arent worth me not putting myself in the opportunity to have a threesome."?
/r/askMRP03/05/18 11:46 AM
1

I was targeting the audience.
/r/askMRP02/05/18 10:07 PM
2

You're trying to push your frame when you haven't even established it for yourself yet. Here's what I'd say to someone who had that frame: I asked simply ‘Why?’ Why? Why did you ask why? She goes "I'm mad at you." You go "Huh, that sux." Don't ask about or solve her problem with you. "I don't even want to split the profits anymore You: "Hmmm...no I don't see that working." Don't explain why or even respond with emotion on how idiotic that is, just state your vision. But you, you aren't there yet…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:43 PM
2

Ego
/r/askMRP01/05/18 09:29 PM
2

I was once friends with a Pook. To see him be so comfortable swimming in the discomfort was inspiring. Others would be so shocked at his boldness but then love him for it. And no matter how much negative social pressure he received from haters, his lack of care actually brought many of them around to be his friend. I don't think he knew what he was doing. I think he just didn't know any other way.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 03:44 PM
3

Because AWALT, right? More than you think. I'd link you to CaptJohnLukeDiscard's post but it seemed like he deleted it. Same kind of place. Your prescription for how to fix sex is to get from 90% to 100%...to iron out to perfection the same things you said you've been doing that haven't produced the results you want. It's obvious you're holding back...and instead of continuing on with the levels of dread in order find the life you want...you're feverishly aiming for perfection in hopes you won't…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/18 01:13 PM
0

If I had found it before. If I knew then what I know now, absolutely never would have married. But having the ideals I had before...had I stumbled onto this sub...I would have thought you all were disrespectful assholes and hoped karma would one day smote you.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 01:39 AM
3

Detached from reality...use it as a fallback tool when the other option is adopt her frame. But ideally you want to be engaging reality on your terms. Not withdrawing from it.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 01:36 AM
1

When you "set a very clear boundary"what was your punishment? Or did you just throw a random boundary out without thinking about it.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 11:08 PM
7

"I'm disappointed" is hamster catnip. It's usually used on kids and thus carries an aura of superiority. But it's not something she can fight. It's not like saying "You are at fault" to which she can say "no I'm not". She can't argue that you're not disappointed.
/r/askMRP28/04/18 11:08 PM
1

I mean...you certainly can, and should do what you want. But if doing that is currently counterproductive to your ends, should you be? Many of us got here from putting pussy on a pedestal. It's what we wanted to do before...but it didn't work. Now we could continue to do it because that's what we want to do...but if a higher want is to hold a relationship where value is mutually shared, and putting pussy on a pedestal is detrimental to that...then no matter how much we're doing what we want, it'…
/r/askMRP27/04/18 10:55 PM
0

all that kino goes largely unreciprocated How the fuck is this giving her 2/3 of what she gives you? 2/3 times zero is zero.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 10:20 PM
3

I'm pissed that my wife isn't 100% of the way that I want her to be yet I guarantee that the reason she is not where you want her yet is because you are still holding back, consciously or unconsciously, from being the you you would be if you your wife wasn't your wife, but your plate. Compare it to a law of diminishing returns. If you put in exactly what you think it'll take to get where you want to go...youll fall short. It's why she's always behind. Don't be afraid to go harder, then try to ca…
/r/askMRP27/04/18 09:44 PM
1

He's so cute when he's sensitive.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 09:38 PM
3

45$ for a baseline on which to make decisions over the next year is money well spent. With some easy math, you can calculate how your % will change with X pounds lost or gained, and set a target weight / % from that. You sound like me with all the injuries. Ankle, knee, back, shoulder, elbow. Not sure when the last time I was at 100%. I get the psychology behind exercising and not tracking it. Makes you feel good. Problem is, feeling good =/= being good. Track it and know what you're loosing so …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/18 01:52 PM
1

READ THE FUCKING SIDEBAR. FOCUS ON YOU FIRST. Fuck how many of these are there going to be?
/r/askMRP27/04/18 02:43 AM
2

Oh god. I can see Rambos using this one: "I told her to shut the fuck up. Then went for a hug. She didn't give me one. Did I do good?"
/r/askMRP27/04/18 02:11 AM
1

Great minds think alike, it seems.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 06:11 PM
3

Going to explain not eating paint and parse this a bit more. STFU does not literally mean don't fucking talk. You are right in some cases. STFU can be translated "Don't say anything stupid." Stupid stuff draws you into an argument. Stupid stuff dries panties. Stupid stuff puts you in her frame. At a bare minimum, starting out you need to talk logistics. But even a few years in, I still STFU, literally, to arguments I am caught off guard on that I refuse to get sucked into. It's setting the bound…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 06:08 PM
3

"Well how long will this seriousness last?" "I don't know, until you do something funny?" Hilarious. The difference is...I say this trying to provoke emotion. You say it and you're scared of her emotion. See what I mean when I say it's not about the specific action...it's about your frame, your vision, what you want. Of course my wife would hit me playfully and know that I'm flirting. Yours is scared. Why is she scared? No really...why is she scared? Stop reading right now and think on it. If yo…
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:21 PM
2

It's funny that by the very nature by which most kids are raised...the idea of someone hating...or even disapproving of you provokes a conditioned response to care...and try to convince them otherwise...rather than just saying "ok". It sucks when used against you and you don't have the OI to not care, but then again, it's a big tool in the toolbox of attracting women (the neg, showing disinterest, waiting to call games, freeze-outs for LMR).
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 12:03 PM
6

The majority of people suck I have a friend who thinks like this. I don't understand it. In his case I think it's an excuse for antisocoal behavior. So everyone doesn't suck? No, that's not true either. That's Disney-like...imagining the whole world is full of fun, good-natured people. Instead, the world is full of people who can potentially provide value. Each and every person could. But just like opening women...some will tell you to fuck off, some will try to get something from you, some will…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 11:58 AM
5

I'd say if you are screening your women based on the attitude of her father you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 09:23 PM
2

Well, were her attitude/actions following what you said what you wanted? See this is like you going out to approach at a bar with a PUA, making an approach and chatting for 4 seconds, then running to the PUA and saying "do you think I did good?" Did good according to who? If her response in the next 24 hours is what you want...hey you did good. If not, then what was it? What didn't you like? I can show you a different tool to possibly get you closer to what you want...but you never said what you…
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:25 PM
1

Think about what?
/r/askMRP25/04/18 02:20 PM
1

Am I going to meet some woman that blows my socks off ? But you said your Disney view was dead? Think about it...in a world where everyone is using whatever tactics they can to get what they want...do you think there's a woman out there that is going to come into your life and do everything you want and be everything you want for your benefit? No man. Can you lead a percentage to that? Yeah. But, just like anything else that's "worth it", you are going to have to put in the work. Don't think it'…
/r/askMRP25/04/18 11:36 AM
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"would talking to my wife you right now add or subtract value from my day?" 10 bonus MRP stars to the next guy who answers a call from his wife like this. Offer not valid in all 50 states. Must be 18 or older to play. Must collect prize in person. JoATMoN9 reserves the right to substitute prize of equal or lesser value without warning. Not eligible if you've won a prize in the last 90 days. Not eligible if you are flaired. See website for full list of contest details.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 10:30 PM
1

Keep it to herself No. What I'm saying we disagree on is if he messed up by not telling his wife where he was. You believe he did, that he could have sent her a text letting her know, and that doing so is not a loss of power move (and further that his relationship should not play power games). Nothing wrong with this approach if that is your frame. What I'm saying is, I do not believe he needed to tell his wife where he was, that her hamster is caused by her worrying about something beyond his l…
/r/askMRP24/04/18 02:06 PM
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Read your post. Agree. As jackten said (paraphrasing) when you get there, it's not a power game anymore because you're not playing a game anymore. It's just you being you. We have a different opinion on the timeline of when information should be conveyed to the wife. On one hand it leads to the solution you're talking about where it's ok to tell your wife where you are, it's not a power game. On the other it leads to the solution of leading her to a different attitude on communication of whereab…
/r/askMRP24/04/18 12:34 PM
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Seasoned MRP, newbie, beta you, alpha you. You are you. You are a seasoned MRP. You're just separated by time. Stop categorizing yourself. If you continue to put yourself in a box, you will continue to take on the characteristics of that box. If that's a little too woo woo for you, then I simply repeat...answer how YOU want to answer when you get to the person you see yourself as. I'm going to quote another motivational speech I listen to: "The first level of success listen to me the Very. First…
/r/askMRP23/04/18 06:57 PM
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I agree with you. However, I think in this case it's a little extreme. Depending on how far the gym is from the house, gym closed at 10, let's say gym is 15 minutes away, she's calling 30 minutes after he's MIA. Then still badgering when he gets home after he gives her a reasonable explanation over the phone. Then blocks his way. Her whining has an entirely covert message that is only loosely related to going MIA. His leadership is lacking because he has yet to set a standard to correct her inab…
/r/askMRP23/04/18 09:56 AM
3

Ah the shitty comfort test. "It really hurts my feelings and makes me lonely when you act like a giant inconsiderate asshole who only thinks about himself you fucking waste of human feces."
/r/askMRP23/04/18 09:41 AM
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You're making it harder than it should be. You're standing there frozen, thinking of the best way to respond in order to affect her some way. Instead, respond congruently with your way. Are you okay with letting her know? "That's fair." Are you not ok? "I don't think I'll do that". Any other stance? Congruent response.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 11:42 PM
2

With all the sarcastic posts lately I can't tell what this is.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 01:52 PM
1

Good luck
/r/askMRP22/04/18 03:07 AM
5

I have a similar story: I woke up this morning and realised I was fat. I cried in front of my computer as I wanked off to a video of 6 guys fucking a fat girl at a frat party. My son walked in just as I was cumming into my sock and said "Daddy, what are you doing?" I used a messed up mix of fogging and negative assertion on him. It didn't work, because he told my wife. She came in, angry and told me I could no longer do this in the house with the kids there and that she was sick of finding my wa…
/r/askMRP21/04/18 01:09 PM
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So you actually set that boundary right? You didn't just make an analogy that her facebooking an ex is just like you inviting an ex for drinks...and then totally not communicate to her that not blocking his account immediately was grounds for divorce...going even so far as to assume that by him simply sending a message that said hi...without her even responding...implicitly means she was breaking your boundary...right? Because only an idiot would be so absurd.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:46 PM
1

I recall a time a friend's sibling yelled at his mom for doing his homework wrong. The similarity here is almost funny.
/r/askMRP20/04/18 11:36 PM
5

You guys are making me feel bad about my wardrobe.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 08:53 PM
3

Exactly. As much as it means to you, let it mean nothing as well.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 04:42 PM
3

Be aware of hypergamy. Do not let yourself get wrapped up in this "glorious gift she's giving you" /s. Do not become a dancing monkey. Appreciate her token of tribute, then continue to improve for you.
/r/askMRP19/04/18 04:07 PM
3

Pride for you. Fear for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 03:15 PM
2

It's just a check to make sure you aren't saying no because you're scared, tired, unfamiliar, (insert negative word here). The ideal is being in control of your mind enough to know...but it's a common problem problem not to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 02:49 PM
2

Get to a position where you tell others what you will do, and say yes to those opportunities early.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 02:43 PM
1

because there is no margin Who is setting the margin?
/r/askMRP19/04/18 11:00 AM
1

interproximal brushes I didn't even know these existed. Ordering.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 09:16 PM
1

Theory I don't have much. I think the distorted mind from alcohol or drugs or an altered personality of a killer just meshes with the overall attractiveness of a man who wants shit to go his way. Decreased inhibition to follow rules and an increased tendency to, like Rian's post yesterday, violence are attractive because they are a means to get what you want. If you have an ability to impose your will onto others...that's attractive. The guy who's the life of the party does it with social finess…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 03:32 PM
1

You will probably at some point find you're doing it for reasons beside you. I have as well. How do you truly know what is what? When the nuke hits and you are all that's left...what things do you still do...and what falls away.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 03:06 PM
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If I was “made” it was at such a young age that I have never experienced beta life until I tried to LTR I don't see how this disagrees with what I said. I also wouldn’t consider someone who read about it in any form a natural. I wouldn't either. From an outsiders perspective though...everyone who gets it looks like a natural. They don't consider that at some point they werent. When I hear natural...this is the perspective that comes to mind. Some magical being that simply got it because magic. N…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 02:43 PM
1

It's kind of like a haystack argument in reverse (does one piece of hay make a stack? Does two? Does three?) Someone who completely doesn't get it, completely blue pill and autistic, sees a natural as anyone who gets it. Like the entire population that gets it, gets it because they have it and the autist doesnt. If the autist finds a book on it, and starts to learn by theory...he concludes a certain segment of the population of "naturals" are not naturals because those ones read about it to lear…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 11:38 AM
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Entire first half Your ego knee jerk response to some other poster. The entire thing could have been a PM. A very faggoty PM since it affected you so much. They are almost universally ashamed of having "given it up." This being the basis for your entire second point is sad because is completely false. All women are not ashamed of giving it up. Have you heard of the 'trophy walk' discussed by women after a good fuck? And there is no biological shame attached to when they give it up. Any shame fel…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 09:57 AM
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There's no such thing as a natural. People aren't born with knowledge, they acquire it. 90% of "naturals" are guys who learned through trial and error, books, the internet, PUAs, red pill, whatever how to look like a natural to some idolizing pussy. The other 10% simply chose the correct methods to follow and stuck with those methods the same way blue pills stuck with theirs when they chose them. Chancing to choose that set of tools first doesn't make you a whimsical natural. Drug addicts and al…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 09:27 AM
1

"You're just butthurt." "K" (Leave)
/r/askMRP17/04/18 11:22 PM
1

Reflection
/r/askMRP17/04/18 08:22 PM
1

The coconut husk charcoal powder? Is it effective at whitening?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:38 PM
1

Appreciate it. I'll give it a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:31 PM
2

I would guess before Elon had a mission to make humanity a multi planet species, he had a vision for money. He didnt just wake up one day with that as a main mission...his mission evolves over time. The man who lives in a hut and hunts for his food every day, his mission is most effective hunting / farming, etc. For either, once they get that, their goalposts move. As they should. Food is not a mission when its plentiful. Money/sex is not a mission once you have it. Lifting regularly is not a mi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 01:26 PM
1

All this is utterly irrelevant. The importance of any of it comes from just you. Most men in life have a common grand vision that involves sex and money. You have a plethora of both. So your sights need to be set on something more exotic. It's probably why Musk is shooting cars into space.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 12:46 PM
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If you're smart enough to see the possible covert contract, you're smart enough to realize it's life advice to be more attractive for you, and reap the benefits of her tingles as a side effect.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 12:22 PM
9

-Eye contact (followed by looking down, to the side, or smiling) -Looking at you then drastically changing where her attention is (often if you catch her and she purposefully overreacts to hiding her attention) -Playing with her hair -Playing with her hands -Touching you (with her hands, or brushing against you, especially with her tits). -Buying into a conversation much more than you'd normally expect, or trying to keep one going that's dying. -Standing closer to you or finding some reason to b…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 11:15 PM
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So you won't spin plates because of your word. Which also means you likely won't develop your game. Which means she won't react to your game on her or others. And shes already shown that as far as you have come now, she still has no respect for you. And I'm not surprised since you shoulder more than your "share" of duties like a good plow horse and smile doing it telling yourself you're honerable. And accept her lack of sex because "it's bad anyway". Meanwhile you say things like "if divorce com…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 09:16 PM
1

Obligatory if you have bad breath, check for tonsil stones. Clean em out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 06:21 PM
2

Can you elaborate on the not cutting your sack open part?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 06:18 PM
2

Crabs in a bucket.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/18 04:02 PM
3

He'd write about that specific situation on a forum, then continue unchanged until the next issue came up, of course.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 02:56 PM
2

If true, it might because of your recent parody post of your favorite part of a woman. You need a specially designed [serious] tag.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:55 PM
1

Funny, because you can have all the affairs you want now...and she can buy all the shit she wants now. What's holding either of you back? Oh yeah...that thing called marriage. Doesn't sound like she wants any part of that. How bout you?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:20 PM
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First time ever a man had to call the cops on his wife because she wanted to give him a blowjob.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:15 AM
3

I've the feeling that you don't give a shit if you understand what we tell you or not. For you it's like, if the information sticks in your head fine, if not, whatever you were only looking for a quick fix anyway.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:11 AM
2

Actions, not (facebook) words. It's either you want to come or you don't Not for women. What if she clicks that she's coming and then no one else does and shes the loser who is the only person showing up to your 'I'm special' day event. That's negative social points for her. The maybe button is like plausible deniability. Of course she's going to click it. Don't understand that? Read Rollo.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:05 AM
1

Our experiences are quite similar. I believe we both agree in everything said so far except the definition of a few words.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 10:21 PM
1

True. They're pieces to a puzzle but the pieces really don't fit together. Sometimes you need some glue and sometimes brute force. My daughters are young. Sometimes I'll teach them a lesson about science, life, or people that's way over their heads. I don't expect them to get it or take it as concrete truth. But I would imagine it builds some kind of vague foundation in their heads and when they encounter that topic later, the groundwork is somewhat there and they can more quickly build on it. T…
/r/askMRP13/04/18 04:01 PM
1

Not arguing the goodness of any tool. Let's not forget MRP exists in and of itself in large part due to the failure of man.
/r/askMRP13/04/18 03:39 PM
2

Kill your ego has been a long-standing goal of the noob swallowing the pill. Classically, the ego is there to manipulate (put its spin on) reality to suit the rigid ideas of the id. Only when it's out of the way can the raw reality of life smash against noobs' idiotic frames and demolish them. The ego you speak of is your confidence in yourself of your success. It's called ego because OTHERS view this confidence AS your ego, because that's what THEIR ego needs to tell themselves (to protect them…
/r/askMRP12/04/18 06:37 PM
2

It lost its impact for a bit, but came back long before /u/Gregory_McLightningpussy said it.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 04:32 PM
2

Because I didn’t think I needed to reply to a fellow new-guy’s boiler-plate MRP pseudo-badass comment, yet here I am anyway. This comment itself is a good reminder to kill my ego, so thanks This is like stuffing your face with a gallon of ice cream and then saying "I shouldn't have eaten that." Though you are correct, the fact that you feel intelligent for being able to see your problem does nothing for the fact that you continue to be a total fatass.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 04:31 PM
1

Yep. That's the feeling I remember after my 300 level classes.
/r/askMRP12/04/18 02:59 PM
1

Is there a coherent thought in there? All in...but with an out? Have you established the boundary of no GNOs?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 02:52 PM
1

Posted for everyone's benefit
/r/askMRP12/04/18 11:30 AM
2

Strip everything away...you owe her nothing. Really, you could look on her with disdain every time she feels depressed. What should you do? Morally? Bad question. What should you do...best path forward? Whatever you need to to get where you want to go. If that means supporting her, putting up with her, or leaving her...make that your decision. Do not let her be the anchor that weighs you back. God knows with the roles reversed, she wouldnt
/r/askMRP11/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Here's a mind bender...are we all cocky assholes? Or is that just how you see us / we present ourselves.
/r/askMRP11/04/18 10:27 PM
1

Nice. Glad you found something that's working for you. Tell me, does being a giant make deadlifts easier or harder?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 10:09 PM
3

I use measuring tape to measure my dick. A ruler doesn't work because of the curve.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 07:31 PM
0

Sometimes I picture someone almost a decade older than me typing on a keyboard "Is this the right place for me?" And my balls shrivel a little.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 10:09 PM
2

They're just not telling the secret...
/r/askMRP10/04/18 10:05 PM
8

I must have missed the raging dick part...
/r/askMRP10/04/18 10:02 PM
1

Bod pod measures body fat. You literally sit in a little pod and they change the volume of air rapidly and measure the response. It's on the higher end of accuracy (more so than calipers and resistance but less than dexascan and I think hydrostatic weighing). More info. Bod pod does not measure resting metabolic rate. There's a different test involving a mask they put on you for that. You are going to lose some muscle mass/not gain it as fast on a cut. That's guaranteed as you are depriving your…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 12:33 PM
2

I know you've been at this awhile SorcererKing. Congrats on the 30lbs. Where are you at now and what's your goal (both weight and time)? Myself and what works for me: I'm currently 180 and 10%BF. I usually go down to 5-7 in time for the beach, eat like shit there, and then hover at 7-10 until winter where I let it go 12-13 during the holidays. I'll repeat previous advice for all to go get tested in a bod pod for body fat %, and get your resting metabolic rate MEASURED via CO2 emission. Knowing t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 11:11 AM
1

An open wound.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:39 AM
2

Stopped reading after wife keeps mentioning divorce. Your wife is Kim Jong Un. She keeps threatening to nuke everyone but won't if you provide some aid to her shitty country.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:18 AM
3

Wow we're being awefully nice in askmrp today. The guy sounds like he hasn't read a single book and is skating by on the here and there advice. There's no internal move to change. It's like: "Ok I used the hammer and banged some things...should I try a soldering iron now?" I'd even go so far as to suspect troll.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:14 AM
2

Deployment hamster does that
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:09 AM
1

Cyanuric acid? Rian you've gone too far.
/r/askMRP10/04/18 09:02 AM
1

I'd have to agree. And this is no diss to OP for his well thought out and motivational piece, but seemed to resonate with a lot of my experiences over the years in how things are taught versus how they are learned...and general curiosity to seek the ideal for both.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 04:47 PM
1

What answer exactly were you looking for here? A percentage? Permission? Has a woman ever gone back to her place with a guy and fucked? Yes it's happened. What now?
/r/askMRP09/04/18 03:14 PM
6

Nice job. You are finding the tools needed and effective ways to use them to get what you want. Don't stop asking that question of "what do I want" as it will shape what you build with your tools.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 03:05 PM
4

If frame is the structure in which you view the world, and your rules for how you live life and engage it, the strength of your frame is the inability to which the world can change those ideas. Every interaction may break a microstructure of your frame, like your muscles microtear every time you work out, but if the muscle can complete the activity without rupture, it becomes stronger after the exercise. The way we learn though is through feedback. "Does this work? (Test it) Yes it does." Growin…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 01:05 PM
1

Your social skills are inspiring. But it does read like it's focused on the wife. Do you think a DL10 roller coaster is a normal part of an LTR just due to women getting complacent? Or is it just necessary for yours and if so, what are your thoughts on continuing it in perpetually.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 01:26 AM
2

Best non-sequitur I've seen in awhile.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/18 01:01 AM
5

encourage, share, and support each other Da fuq? This isn't a pansy-ass support circle...faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/18 01:23 PM
2

Could you describe for me a scenario where you wouldn't have a reason?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/18 12:42 PM
1

Focus on slower movements for proper form. You won't advance in weight as fast but you'll save much more wasted time later.
/r/askMRP07/04/18 12:37 PM
5

This is a shit fucking post. Not only do you not know what you want...you don't even know what want is. It' a full time job No, it's not. Considering taming your woman is a job is you doing something for her. The things you should be doing for this "job" (game, flirting, initiating) should be what you normally do as part of your own life, to any woman of interest. Not something you're slogging through for her. You have no plan here, just you wallowing in indecision. You want pity? Fine, here. I …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 10:19 AM
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Owe? She didn't get the best of you so now you owe? But she never gave the best of her...and now you get it only because it's benefitting her.
/r/askMRP03/04/18 10:46 PM
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What needs to be brought back is the push to find a lawyer, get educated on the paths, save a fuck you fund, and develop a plan that can be executed at a moments notice. Fear of the unknown holds a lot of men back.
/r/askMRP01/04/18 02:00 PM
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Appreciate the reply. Definitely something I'll keep in mind and try out.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 01:20 AM
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Let's hear about these amazing results.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 01:08 AM
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Got some reading to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 11:23 PM
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Every single example of BP context building you gave I agree with. The fact of the matter is they are all try-hard. In fact, I like this post. Mastering social interactions and opportunities is a goal I put right up there with being a sex god. That said, what are your thoughts on internalizing and realizing better opportunities to open, versus context based openings, versus opening anyone anytime. Here are a few examples I've been going by when I go out: -It's inopportune to open a set when ever…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/18 10:42 PM
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I have an answer, but I won't go into specifics.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 05:40 PM
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The narcissist does exude confidence and 'alpha-ness' everywhere he goes. The narcissist is also an ideal (in the sense that his internal narcissism is the same as his external narcissism). And the narcissist is always vulnerable to a narcissistic injury. Contrast your idea to a guy who has narcissistic-like confidence and abundance, who knows that he has the ability to excel if he chooses to, the realism that he may not excel or is second best if someone else walks in the room or a chick turns …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/18 04:41 PM
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The elephant. Everyone has a herd of them now and it seems like social interactions between people revolve around tip toeing around each other's elephants, real or not, because God forbid the person's ego is too big and can't accept reality. And this is how nice guys are made. They spend so much time tip-toeing around others' wants/feelings that they start trying to short cut the process and predict/project someone else's feelings onto them, then act accordingly, then get mad when the completely…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/18 01:35 PM
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Do you think all that comfort...that you're there to fix, that you do not want, that you give total security, attracts her to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 10:50 PM
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I freeze thinking hmm I don't wanna be like no baby your fine and built comfort with her current state which isn't what it could be, she's prob 5-10% over ideal bf. I also don't wanna blow her out by saying no this girl looks better and demoralize her progress on dieting. hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster hamster. "Nope". She gets mad? She knows how to fix it.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 08:06 PM
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Your account is 10 days old and you just got through WISNIFG. You're micro analyzing everything that happens. Instead of sounding like a bunch of separate events this all sounds simply like you haven't changed your blue pill self at all. I blue pill puked and whined about it....ignored the shit test and went to bed "Oh I fucked up and completely shattered any bit of manliness I had...but I'll pat myself on the back for ignoring the overt declaration that I have no other options for her and proba…
/r/askMRP25/03/18 01:38 PM
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Stop posting dumb shit.
/r/askMRP25/03/18 12:57 PM
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More swapping notes, less interpreting others' notes. Nice FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/18 03:57 PM
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If it did...would you change your mind to suit hypergamy?
/r/askMRP24/03/18 03:22 PM
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Oneitis? For a woman who doesn't love you and is dating other men? Yeah she sounds great. It's over...but you're looking to rebuild the wreck? Get your head out of your ass.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 11:17 AM
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Yes. But first you have to stop trying to get it back. Sidebar, work on you.
/r/askMRP23/03/18 10:52 AM
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I could be wrong, but I think it predates that as a prayer starting out "God, please give me the strength....".
/r/askMRP22/03/18 11:02 AM
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It's clear that he does a good job in his lectures in helping to figure out the psyche and can debate logical issues well in the face of female manipulation and shaming...but thats it. And even in all his debates all the fan boys declare (OMG Peterson nuked her!!!11!) when he simply logic'ed her to death and she had to listen because they were on the public radio or television stage. And to be honest it looks fucking exhausting...like hearing cats or something. He's never shown a hint of support…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 10:57 AM
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I mean...if I added that they also cut your left foot off and you're cool with that then I think the answer is clear: If you are ok with the outcome then do what you want.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:47 PM
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Maybe it's just like everything else...you do it for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 09:45 PM
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I did keep the 100 pushups from his MoM as a workout on chest day. That's about it. It's fun to make my pecs dance.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 09:42 PM
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I put it down as well. The first law was good and then he just drowned the next few in Bible analysis. I don't give a shit how your improvement ideas relate to the Bible.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/18 09:40 PM
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What's the saying? Grant me the strength to deal with the things I can change, the serenity to accept the things I cant, and the wisdom to know the difference. And I'm not even religious.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:32 PM
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That's the thing though. A lawyer may say "Not only can she immediately file if she has proof, but it indicates that you were the one to break the relationship. The judge will still go close to 50-50...but he/she may go 45/55 now instead. Plus, someone has to get kicked out of the house because you won't be divorcing living together...guess who is a good candidate for that? And since she's still living in the house...she may file for you to help her pay expenses for that." Now how does this chan…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:26 PM
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What do you want--- Did you want to talk to her late at night with work in the morning? No? Good, and you told her so. Did you want to fuck her before work? No? Ok so u didnt. It's not wrong but don't go complaining later that she's not fucking you enough. Yes? Then yeah you fucked up. Why do you want to remove your presense the next day? To follow dread level 4? No...dread level 4 teaches you to get hobbies for you...it's not an if/then reaction to her. Because you wanted to do something the ne…
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:20 PM
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Yeah...it really does. Tell yourself all you want, until you're actually doing it, your ability is all fantasy in your head.
/r/askMRP21/03/18 09:11 PM
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Do you fear competition?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 06:59 PM
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She expects it To be clear...it's not that she expects it because she's a selfish bitch. She expects it because she's following the example YOU set. If you're a nice guy and do things expecting nothing in return but secretly wanting points, she will see you doing nice things for nothing. She will get behind this idea because A) it benefits her and B) it seems like what you want. YOU made the monster. YOU did. Realize that YOU set her expectations with YOUR overt expectations. She doesn't set tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 02:43 AM
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No. But if you look back on the many 'fights' MRP has had over definitions you'd see everyone would define it different...and getting that context through the Internet is tough. But I'll try: Arrogance has an air of superiority with an uncaring or ignorant world view. It's one dimensional. That's not really what you want. I can't tell you how many times in the past week alone I've encountered people who do something or act or believe a certain thing and I smile, entertain their idea as if I know…
/r/askMRP15/03/18 01:38 AM
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Deadlift is the only exercise I'll say this for...but you should NOT be fucking with mixing up weight and reps. Because of the massive importance of form in deadlift, your body needs a routine where you know exactly what lifting that much +/- 20 lbs feels like. "Surprising" your lower back by mixing up weights and reps will leave you with a surprise back injury.
/r/askMRP14/03/18 05:59 AM
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I agree. But any of us reading or posting here isnt carnal. Carnal is out there, action, doing shit. This is just post-game. The locker room. But I'm not writing so others comprehend it. I'm writing so I comprehend it. Guys answer questions in askMRP, why? The OP won't learn a thing unless he fucking does something. He likely wont. But if he does he'll stumble along his MAP all the same until he himself acts in a way that brings about that same conclusion. Then he'll think back and go "oh, yeah …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 04:57 AM
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At the end of the day action provokes fucks. Fucks provoke rumination. Rumination provokes internalization. Reading ruminations does not provoke fucks. You can read all day about how 2+2=4 but until you go get 2 things, and 2 other things, and find that you now have four things, you just dont get it. Thinking you're the prize does fuck all. Being the prize leads to fucks. If we're here to help other men...rumination will not help. If we're here to help ourselves......But it's not my call.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 03:57 AM
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Before you guys tell me, Why so defensive? She really got to you huh? She's chosen a hill to fight on. Question is, is it a hill she'll die on? Likely no.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 05:22 PM
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There's more to it, but all you need to know is its toxic for you to treat these statements from her as anything more than a passing breeze. No need to AA it. AM it by smiling, winking, and saying nothing. You're smiling because you know this is her nature. And if you can't do this then simply ignore it, literally, as if she never even said it. If she starts doubling and tripling down once she realizes it's not getting to you, remove yourself to do something funner than listening to some yammeri…
/r/askMRP11/03/18 06:30 PM
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I respect /u/PurpleVeteran 's fire. I don't believe the universe is sentient and does things for you. It's a figure of speech to go along with the idea of paths opening where there was none before. Your brain is dominated by the fight or flight response, and the will to live until tomorrow. Fight can easily be compared to ego. Someone does something unfair? Fight. Women/wife shoot you down? Fight. You've been emasculated? Fight. Why do we DEER? Fight. Flight can be compared to the inability to c…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/18 12:59 PM
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It really is eerie sometimes...motivational speakers will often tell you that if you start down a path to a goal, that you will come to find that the universe is on your side. Does that mean it won't be hard/painful/you wont get hurt? No, but it means that you CAN do it. It is a viable outcome of your life. Simply start walking off your current path as if another is available, and another will appear where before there seemed like none. The ability to make that switch, that barrier, that when bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/18 07:31 PM
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Can't tell you how many times showing up to a place with a group who all seems like they're waiting for something. That something is for someone to take control and frame the interaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/18 10:32 PM
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I was wondering this too...
/r/askMRP07/03/18 04:21 PM
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I was browsing WISNIFG the other day and the beginning talks about raising kids by telling them you want them to do something or act a certain way because that's what you want...and that by telling them instead something like "because it's the proper thing to do" takes the ownership of wanting them to do something off of you and puts it on some intangible judge of right and wrong (morals). So knowing and owning the onus behind why you act allows you to maintain a locus of control within yourself…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 01:57 PM
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Whatever you feel communicates the level of gratitude you think is necessary. Note that sometimes the best way to create a value feedback loop is to create a polarized relationship where you don't always come back immediately in a 1 for 1 manner. Maybe her MIL gives you a home and food in her country for a weekend and you send something small in return, then at a later date you do something larger like invite her to your home or out to dinner and a tour of your country and she does something sma…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 12:09 PM
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this wouldn’t bother an alpha There's a difference between attempting to act like a person with traits you don't currently have, and setting a goal to grow yourself into a person with those traits. One views the difference as two separate entities that cannot be combined, merely mimicked. The other views the difference as a single entity separated merely by time and effort.
/r/askMRP07/03/18 11:56 AM
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What seems like conflicting advice may simply be situationally dependant.
/r/askMRP07/03/18 11:43 AM
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There's probably a corollary in HTWFAIP or 48 laws somewhere but if saying thank you to your MIL will continue to allow you to reap the benefits she is providing...then it's within your best interest to say thank you. The fact that your wife thought of this first and communicated it to you (albeit in a slightry disrespectful but not completely out if line) way is her being a useful first officer. The fact that you're considering not doing it is your ego getting in the way that you didn't think o…
/r/askMRP07/03/18 10:08 AM
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This means that your wife is going to see you... Stop keeping score in her eyes Stop caring what people think
/r/askMRP06/03/18 10:07 PM
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I agree.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 09:59 PM
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By fixing them. Like literally...that's how people learn 99% of the time. Youtube usually has a video. For cars, search forums for the make of your car and problem...it's very likely in there with pictures and a timetable of how long it should take. Also know your limits. I'm not spending 8 hours and possibly fucking up my engine fixing that timing belt. That one I'm taking in.
/r/askMRP03/03/18 04:33 PM
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This
/r/askMRP01/03/18 03:51 PM
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Agreed. I would imagine it's even easier to reach top of the pack. How many guys at 50 are ripped and cut? How many actually know and use game? For sure the ratio is less than those in their 20s and 30s.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 12:30 PM
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I bet all that validation was awesome. And some attaboys here too? Sweet sweet validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 10:54 PM
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Don't be hatin runners.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 10:52 PM
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Consider the lesson he may be trying to teach as well. Is the boy constantly being carried? Is he overly cuddly and your husband may want to curb that? If your husband rejects him at every turn, that's one thing (and as long as its not abusive, not entirely "wrong"). If however he sometimes shows a soft side, then there's nothing wrong with also showing a hard side. In fact it would be a disservice to not show him that sometimes people do not want to be emotionally open, or expose him to emotion…
/r/askMRP28/02/18 06:15 PM
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I've upvoted nearly every reply in here. You are getting good advice.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 03:54 PM
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It's like a direct line into his flight mechanism. "Do you think that woman is attractive?" BAM he's passive and on defense. I wonder how many other dog clickers she has on him.
/r/askMRP28/02/18 10:00 AM
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Read your update. So her hamster ran out of gas and she fell in line. Then the demand for marriage counseling compliance turned into a request for guidance. "I see this is the way things are, lead me." As I've learned with many things that are said on these boards...here again lies truth in the words but not in the way you thought. Do what you want and lead her isn't simply fuck her thoughts and do what you want, and offer her a door to walk through...it's KNOW that she will likely fight against…
/r/askMRP27/02/18 04:50 PM
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You can't expect loyalty when none is give [sic] True, but not because of your lack of loyalty, instead because you shouldn't be expecting anything from anyone. But you can demand it.
/r/askMRP27/02/18 03:04 PM
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I haven't initiated either I get it, but the fact that you haven't had sex in 4 weeks is your fault. No initiation? No sex. You're shooting yourself in the foot. Don't like her when shes like that? Lead her out of it. Initiate anyway, get the no, continue on. She will come about...or she wont. But if you don't initiate, she wont. The basketball? No. Take a look at the female message not the male message. She's still playing the game, still keeping score. "I bitch about basketball, he owes conces…
/r/askMRP27/02/18 11:37 AM
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Sounds like stoneys/Jacks reference to hamster stuck in the maze then. As he warns...if it doesn't find / isn't lead to a way out...it may gnaw it's way out. My other question was, what did you do in the past when YOU were upset with the relationship? In my case, I withdrew and became angry/anxious. That's what my wife does now. I'm wondering if there's a connection. I'm wondering if the wife we deal with now was built in part from following the actions we lived by in our blue pill days.
/r/askMRP22/02/18 08:45 PM
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Are there threats of divorce with all this or just breakdowns? Mine is elsewhere on the spectrum ReddJive describes. She withdraws and becomes anxious. I can't really tell if I grew that behavior in her with 10 years of betadom or she always acted that way. Curious...in your beta days, did you handle your breakdowns in a similar way?
/r/askMRP22/02/18 08:30 PM
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I've heard the 'say it quick' mantra. There's nothing wrong with that if that's how you roll. But caution may need needed, so that purposefully shortening posts in an effort to self police ego investment isnt itself an act of ego investment: "I don't want it to look like I'm ego invested, so I'll cut this down to its short and sweet." Ultimately, like /u/ReddJive said, writing it out often gives that lightning bolt of clarity. Because while we like to think we "got it" in real time...our minds a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 07:19 PM
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We agree. The temptation lies in the possibilities, but I am as fond of those words as you: it just is.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:31 PM
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It is surprising how creating a fulfilling life that gives value in multiple places allows you to adopt a frame of OI for any one case. Like diversifying your money. You're still upset if one investment tanks, but you'll be okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:27 PM
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wonder if you are invested in whether or not your wife stays Remember the plan is always the same I'd be lying if I didn't admit the thoughts in my head between being invested in whether she stays and my path is blurred recently, when it should be clearly defined. Moments of weakness. But I know the path/plan I need to follow, I know I can and am following it. This post spawned from realizing the temptation of possibility...you grow up with everyone telling you you can be and have anything...wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:23 PM
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So there's an ideal balance between initiating enough to get what you want, and efficiently putting your energy in other tasks. The question is: What if she doesn't agree with that balance. What if that balance for you is X effort initiating for 3 times a week, and her is Y time? My point is...you aren't likely to agree on that ideal point. So you control what you can. Put your energy where it works most for you. And accept that might not be the ideal outcome you can dream of. BUT might be the i…
/r/askMRP19/02/18 01:55 AM
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Everything that you do not learn yourself through a process by yourself, you learn through other people. To learn it yourself, you often need to repititiously try it and fail/succeed to solidify the idea. How many guys on here had done that enough before visiting MRP with enough women to solidify the ideas and adopt the tools needed? I'd wager a good bet that the answer is no one. Who had the time for that? No one. The colaborative collection of notes, however, splits the time needed for each gu…
/r/askMRP18/02/18 01:37 PM
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Be careful that you aren't hysterical bonding here.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:30 PM
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Due to work I haven't seen my daughter for a week Due to work and the choices you've made outside of that to not see her, you mean. Don't want to see her? That's fine. But don't go hamstering that you couldn't have gone to see her instead if going out partying after you closed the deal. As for the upcoming divorce, you moved out and have weeks of time where you don't see your daughter. You're setting a terrible example for the courts. Now? You know where she lives right? Go over there. I smell t…
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:28 PM
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You're investing too much energy into her. You're heading to divorce...why do you care who she's talking to anymore? She's going to get over you, she's going to start fucking someone else. Be okay with that. The goal is to leave and keep improving your life.
/r/askMRP17/02/18 01:22 PM
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Fine time for you to come to this conclusion. So what do YOU see as your options?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 12:53 PM
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If not knowing where to start is your barrier, then mission 1 is figuring out how to start down paths.
/r/askMRP13/02/18 12:43 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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