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LifestyleJob_looker18/r/seduction18/04/24 01:58 AM
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Field Report :orly:Job_looker18/r/seduction19/11/24 08:52 AM
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Escalation & CalibrationJob_looker18/r/seduction14/04/25 03:13 PM
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LifestyleJob_looker18/r/seduction21/11/24 07:22 AM
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You’re right about not wanting to drop it back down if the vibe is already that sexual, I give you that. In case its not quite there yet I think it’s good to give her an out or excuse as to why shes coming over
/r/seduction05/02/25 11:48 PM
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Then that means you did something else wrong before asking her. You probably didn’t flirt with her or gave friend zone vibes during your convos. The movie is basically just so you guys are not fucking in silence. Pick a silly movie everyone has seen already to get the point across. Disingenuous would be asking her to go the musuem or sky diving and then saying nevermind lets just fuck. In this case you are literally asking her to come over to your house.
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:33 PM
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It would depend on how your Autism effects you socially. For example if she asks you a question you may take longer to respond which can build suspense or mystery. In general you will probably notice different things about her to comment on then most guys. You may have a lot of knowledge in some subjects she is interested in. Frame your autism as a unique or quirky personality rather than a barrier to your convo. Perhaps join clubs or social groups with people who are like you. To get to the poi…
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:25 PM
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Lose weight, use your “autism” to your advantage as it can be seen as a unique personality which most guys lack nowadays. Talk to everyone and get used to rejection but keep trying
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:11 AM
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Find a hobby that gives you the same thrill. Maybe extreme sports or gambling 🤣 I don’t really know what else can touch that dopamine rush. Maybe get into sales or start a business since some say it is similar.
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:10 AM
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Girls like to think one thing led to another. Not “let me go hang out with this guy who views me an easy booty call”
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:06 AM
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I find with these girls the “be yourself” advice is actually useful. Focus more on the convo and real connection. Don’t rush or use as many “sleazy” pick up tactics but still make sure you are moving the interaction forward and aren’t scared to escalate.
/r/seduction30/01/25 09:40 PM
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fair, I am not
/r/seduction27/12/24 10:32 PM
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no one cares about this as much you do in your head. They will politely signal to leave them alone if its such a huge deal
/r/seduction26/12/24 06:19 PM
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I think its more of a shit test than “seduction” when they do it. I find girls do this more if she thinks you’re just a player or she has been around the block herself a few times if you know what I mean.
/r/seduction11/12/24 04:33 AM
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When I was in my early 20s I used to pull more or equal to my friends who were older. I did used to look older. To be fair I overall did better with girls my age or slightly younger. I imagine being older helps for relationships but not as much for a hookup or FWB. In fact I bet they give the younger guy more slack for not wanting to date them right away but expect older guys to be “serious” by now. But question to my guys in mid to late 20s, Do you guys find more girls are making the first move…
/r/seduction11/12/24 04:28 AM
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then you don’t talk to enough girls
/r/seduction02/12/24 08:47 PM
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How many girls do you talk to on an average night out with your friends? Now double that and come back to me. Also maybe find some girls to hang out with you guys, not necessarily to date or hookup with but it will just happen naturally and they can introduce you to more
/r/seduction01/12/24 11:57 PM
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You gotta maintain balance. Part of being a good business man is being able to communicate with the average person and being likeable. Even if your business doesn’t really rely on that. Better social skills can excel you further.
/r/seduction01/12/24 11:54 PM
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Dude no, talk about feelings and emotions. Not concrete information. How do you feel about xyz? Or what you want to move to “blah blah blah” are good to start with. Don’t ask a deep question. But go deeper after her responses
/r/seduction26/11/24 09:49 PM
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Maybe wear noticeable things for them to compliment or try to stand out in a way. Unfortunately a lot of guys are scared to approach attractive girls. If you’re in San Diego you should try meetup or Facebook events. Maybe walk around the beach.
/r/seduction26/11/24 09:43 PM
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It’s funny I’ve approached a lot too but I still stutter sometimes. An unfamiliar place can make it worse. I also HATE feeling like people are watching. I started to just do it even if they are and I noticed nobody is really paying as much attention to me as I thought. Or even if they are fuck it. Girls are just jealous you didn’t approach them and guys are either hating or inspired.
/r/seduction26/11/24 05:26 AM
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It is normal to be a little anxious and stutter. Girls know that and most will look past it. You can even say it with a smile “you’re so pretty im mixing up my words a bit” and then continue the convo as normal
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:16 AM
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Work on yourself while you’re with her and then go from there. It doesn’t sound like you can handle a break up right now but it also sounds like you are not fully satisfied. I bet she will actually respect you more if you’re not with her all the time and working on other shit. Communicate this with her but make time for her and make sure she doesn’t feel neglected. I would dedicate one full day to her, maybe two. But the other days are mostly for you and If she can’t respect your space then she …
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:13 AM
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Focus on good pictures and “relatable hobbies” (Sports, Music, Traveling) they don’t have to be that out of the box but try to niche. Also don’t stick to only one app.
/r/seduction26/11/24 02:07 AM
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Talk to everyone, I mean everyone. Get out of the house a few times a week and just start convos. If a girl seems receptive ask her to do an activity with you or grab a drink. Boom you have a date
/r/seduction26/11/24 12:31 AM
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Truth is most guys exaggerate or lie about how often they do so there’s that. If you don’t see it don’t believe it. My guess is that you aren’t actually talking to as many girls as you think and would benefit from more dates in general. Remember a date is not like having a beer with a friend. There is an end goal or else your wasting your time. Try to move locations on the date and find a reason for her to go back to your place without directly asking.
/r/seduction23/11/24 09:56 PM
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This is true. This is one of the few objective true comments. I find I do way better in real life then most guys. But online I had to make my profile more generic and guys do better than me
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:48 AM
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Lmao dude im not over here saying im super dope. The girls that are misfits or whatever vibe with me easily. The other ones not as easy
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:47 AM
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The thing is they seem to want me for my looks or vibe. They’re just used to different personalities so there’s not as much of a real connection
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:38 AM
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Eh wasting energy on it has helped me pull more but I try not to think about it much. I was more so curious to see if people relate or disagree.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:36 AM
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I’d rather you guys roast me and be honest then sugar coat all day. But remember the best seducers can adapt to different personalities. Ask yourself if you pull many different kinds of girls or mostly the same kind
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:31 AM
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Exactly this type of shit works
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:28 AM
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I still pull them I just find myself having to play into more familiar personalities.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:26 AM
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haha maybe
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:24 AM
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I agree that it’s important to have a strong identity. I will admit I am kind of a people pleaser / chameleon. I think I do stand out because I have a colorful style. What sometimes happens is a girl will think I am one of the stereotypes and be attracted to me but then realize i’m not and be disappointed. Hippy girls will like me then be disappointed that i’m not a vegan. Those basic corporate chicks will like me but then realize i’m too rough around the edges for them and not really a tech ner…
/r/seduction21/11/24 08:03 AM
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This is interesting cuz I was taught that girls get bored of predictable guys and like intelligence. I think society is dumbed down now so a lot of old school wisdom doesn’t apply as much anymore. If you watch old movies or shows guys often used indirect game over a cigarette. That kind of game doesn’t work on young girls now. You’d be better off saying shit like “your cute can I hit your vape” or “what’s your favorite Drake song.” I made a post about indirect game not working as good as direct …
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:51 AM
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To be fair I guess dynamic guys are more rare so I wouldn’t see it as often. It’s also harder to tell if someone is dynamic at a glance so I’m probably incorrectly assuming they are basic. I do see girls posting things like “Teach me stocks” or “I need a cowboy” pretty often doe.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:42 AM
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Damn I miss that place.
/r/seduction21/11/24 07:05 AM
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If I can chime in I’d say you’re both right in your own way. If you found what works for you maybe just focus on that. On the other hand it can be good to lean into what scares you or overcome weaknesses
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:49 AM
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Maybe you are putting to much pressure on her when you do it. I used to compliment girls and then there would an awkward pause while I would wait for her response. But now I follow it up with something like “This place has great music were you here last week.” You could also try to compliment her style instead of her face or body. I’ve even complimented something like a cute laugh or nice voice
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:47 AM
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Congrats now you know you can attract this level of hot girl. Find another one that is single if you don’t want to risk this guy coming after you or you think it’s bad morals. I wouldn’t blame you for taking the risk though. Think of it this way, she has already cheated on her husband by acting this way with you. If you don’t bang her some other guy will. She is clearly looking to cheat.
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:41 AM
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This sounds like such an Ocean Beach date
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:32 AM
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Some may not agree but when I was in your shoes I decided to punish myself for every cute girl I didn’t atleast say one word to. I would give my friend 5 dollars each time. This forced me to do it or I would go broke in no time 🤣🤣
/r/seduction19/11/24 07:22 PM
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because a prostitute wont be having as much fun as the girl who really wants to fuck you. Also diseases. Also why spend money on that and risk going to jail when I can just fuck a girl after spending like $50 bucks on a cheap date. You also wont develop the skillset to “seduce” women hence the name of this thread. You guys might as well join the “get my nut off by any means necessary” thread
/r/seduction21/07/24 08:10 PM
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Yea but there is a difference between a girl who would otherwise not deal with you and one that still would. For example if a girl will only agree to an expensive dinner date but will not agree to go for a walk and grab coffee. She is allowed to have her standards but a man should be able to tell when he is being used or seen as a chump. In that case I refuse to “pay to play” cuz that same girl will hook up or has hooked up with another guy for ‘free’ who doesn’t have to entice her with shiny ob…
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:43 PM
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People are hating on this comment but I find it to be true anecdotally. All my friends like that dont care about it anymore and the nerds who finally got good care a lot. I fall somewhere in the middle and still care a good bit
/r/seduction06/07/24 09:04 PM
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I used to think this too until recently. This would go against your inner nature (cavemen don’t care and will compete with other tribes for women). If this is your friend’s girlfriend you are a disloyal snake. Banging some random dudes girl isn’t the most immoral thing in the world. But it can come with consequences if they are seriously committed. If you still don’t agree think about many hot, dateable women are completely single and not talking to anyone. There’s your answer as to why people d…
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:19 AM
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This is why I think it is genuinely hard for most men and women to be purely friends. Usually atleast one person is a little confused
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:12 AM
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Just getting out the house changed my life, Kevin Samuals put me on. He said if you not sleeping eating or taking a shit get your ass out there 🤣
/r/seduction12/06/24 07:08 AM
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A women of class is not having that corny ass shit. Good shit doe I can tell you have confidence. It’s good to be funny just be smooth too
/r/seduction08/06/24 11:30 AM
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Yea I see your point. If you’re going for quality everytime im sure the 10% rate becomes a bit lower. I can find a girl who likes me and “would” hook up every night but logistics will catch up to you some nights. Like when you have her but she has to wake up early the next day or her friend needs to be taken care and is too drunk.
/r/seduction07/06/24 09:30 PM
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But that’s not how statistics work. Those are your odds but they are not guaranteed. If you flip a coin 100 times it is not guaranteed to land on heads 50 times.
/r/seduction29/05/24 10:36 AM
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This just shows how weak your conversation skills are if you’re not trolling 🤣. You can try to guess her ethnicity if it isn’t obvious though
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:35 PM
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These guys saying just tell her you don’t use it gotta be going for older chicks or girls who are so attracted that they don’t care. I tell them “Here take my number” and if she grills me I say “I don’t use it like that i’m on my grind and it’s a distraction but you can follow me.” If anything this creates mystery and value that you’re not some lame who scrolls on IG all day looking at girls. The fact they’re asking shows your doing something right 💯
/r/seduction03/05/24 05:33 PM
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Remember It’s her loss. When I get rejected I tell myself “Oh well let her end up with some loser instead” For all she knows you could have been the best man for her and been a loyal provider. But due to her being stuck up or in a bad mood - She missed out.
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:26 AM
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Rejection shouldn’t effect you too much but could lead to you anticipating it and giving off that vibe. Or even taking things to be a rejection that aren’t. For example I’ve had girls reject by saying “I’m here with my friends.” But one time a girl who I knew was into me said that and I almost ejected automatically but caught myself. Like no bro she’s just saying who she’s with relax and keep going and I closed her. People are conditioned easily
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:23 AM
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what about his comment is complicated? He’s basically saying don’t do the same exact exercise everytime you go to the gym.
/r/seduction27/04/24 10:16 AM
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curious why?
/r/seduction26/04/24 03:56 AM
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Your view which translates to your demeanor. So if you view yourself as the prize or as handsome your actions will reflect that. For example you will be confident to talk to girls and have good body language. If a girl rejects you then you will laugh and say “her loss” or think about how she must have bad taste. Losing frame in this example would be doubting yourself or asking your friends what you’re doing wrong, or trying to change your style of approaching.
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:49 PM
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People say “strong” frame but really you want a strong MASCULINE frame. You can have a strong “frame” but if your frame is trying to win her over or being a comedian that isn’t exactly helpful. A strong masculine frame is a man who is sure of himself and nonreactive. Think of how your Grandpa acts versus an anxious middle school nerd trying to lose his virginity
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:01 AM
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“How are you guys sisters” If they look a like “How you guys doing” I also have a signature one but the game is to be sold not told
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:12 AM
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If you already smashed but you don’t want to date her and she is looking for a boyfriend and not just casual sex anymore could it work? I feel like it could be good for improving your social circle or when you guys go out girls will know you’re a safe dude since she trusts you.
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:01 AM
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I did this once because I napped too long after work and it was so weird. I felt out of place and like people could tell I wasn’t on the same wavelength. I wasn’t even sober but it was still off
/r/seduction19/04/24 08:56 AM
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Groups of 2 are a gold mine. Large groups are often not worth trying to close that night.
/r/seduction18/04/24 11:28 AM
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I’ve gotten that respect too and agree with the growth part 💯
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:59 AM
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I’ve done it but just seeing which option is better
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:53 AM
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notice I don’t use negs and and that these aren’t really “dirty.” They just help you start convos and give you an edge if used correctly. I personally don’t even lie to girls.
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:36 AM
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Disclaimer: I do not condone any creepy or weirdo behavior, no means no, do not try to “push” past objections and use these at your own risk. No going for drunk girls. Getting caught doing some of the below will actually make it worse for you. GAME Pretend you know the girl from somewhere to open her. (We matched on tinder, You work at Starbucks right? Are you a Victoria Secret model? ect.) Approach girls who are with guys if the girl looks bored (Don’t wait your turn) “Accidentally” bump girls …
/r/seduction18/04/24 03:16 AM
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This is going to be something you get better at with practice. Try to connect on a common interest and mostly just tease her or set up a date when on the phone. You have to lead the convo. I like to think that if a text is not getting me closer to the girl or to hanging out with her it’s useless. For example if a girl asks “how was your weekend” I will probably mention some activities I enjoy (even if I didn’t do them that week) to see if she seems interested in any. I don’t ask girls “What do y…
/r/seduction10/04/24 04:44 AM
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also if you guys are at a party or bar and he talks to her first don’t go for her. This is the real bro code. Don’t listen to all this nice guy shit or you will always be the third wheel
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:04 AM
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I personally don’t like to step on toes or compete for girls with friends because most guys can’t handle it when you get the girl and not them. Also you need tough skin if she ends up chosing your friend. There’s so many girls in the world so its not worth it. HOWEVER there is no such things as dibs on a girl you both like and just met. If a guy tries to call dibs I will surely go after her because he is being a fucking child. You are entitled to go after what you want. But if he introduced you …
/r/seduction10/04/24 01:02 AM
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Calling dibs on a girl is fucking beta
/r/seduction10/04/24 12:57 AM
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There is no such thing may the best man win. If he can’t except some friendly competition than he isn’t a bro you need. If your bro is already dating or hooking up with the girl it’s a different story.
/r/seduction10/04/24 12:57 AM
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He needs to learn to grow a pair and tell her or you to fuck off in that situation and find him a new girl. I respect your intentions but this may hurt him more in the long run.
/r/seduction10/04/24 12:55 AM
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It’s not discrimination this is your subconscious biology
/r/seduction10/04/24 12:46 AM
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