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John-Luke/r/seduction13/02/14 02:07 PM
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This is literally all you need to know. If you invest into yourself to become the best version of yourself then it's game on. Just one more thing that has literally been the most vital factor in improving my game, be the life of the party. Be loud, be confident and do funny shit, anything that elicits your value.
/r/seduction25/11/14 12:38 PM
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You perceive women as being complete naturals because of the value society has given them as opposed to your average chump. Because of this value they don't give off bad social traits as often as these guys do, you can see the inverse when she comes across a high value guy and gets attached, jealous etc... so basically no they aren't naturals, it's just that social constructs have allowed them the ability to bypass what most guys have too go through to become good at game.
/r/seduction25/09/14 12:09 PM
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I'm sorry but this guide is terrible.
/r/seduction19/09/14 12:48 PM
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Speak to more girls at once
/r/seduction16/09/14 03:43 AM
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Not sure how the culture works over there so I don't want to give you dangerous advice, still it's more how you say it as opposed to what you say. Just don't come off as threatening and make sure you're body language gives off a friendly vibe.
/r/seduction25/08/14 11:01 PM
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Yep deleted them all, even from imgur. Hopefully no one's paid attention too the other side of the photo haha... thanks again mate
/r/seduction25/08/14 12:08 PM
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Thanks so much dude
/r/seduction25/08/14 11:57 AM
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Where are you from?
/r/seduction25/08/14 11:55 AM
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Hes out dated and fake. You might get lucky here and there but it's better to just genuinely focus on being a better version of yourself as opposed to hoping for a canned opener to work.
/r/seduction25/08/14 06:54 AM
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1: tell them, you have nothing to lose. 2: night is more effective for this sort if thing as opposed to grabbing a coffee because of social lubricants such as alcohol. If you want to get past that friend barrier then I'd recommend going to a club or bar, it's more of an intimate vibe. Wait for her to realise you are the nice friend she's been waiting for. Successfully escape the friendzone like no man has done before.
/r/seduction25/08/14 06:52 AM
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No reason not too. Just know it's their job to be nice, so if you do go for it don't be shocked when they say no or flake on you.
/r/seduction25/08/14 06:38 AM
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Focus more on quality of the interaction instead of quantity. No point approaching a set and doing well only to go for the number instead of an insta date.
/r/seduction04/08/14 01:32 PM
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Hey mate. Sorry this is the only once I've come across over the past 6 months that's worth recommending. I could post some of my message logs to help you out when I get home if you'd like?
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:49 AM
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For starters, tinder will give you varying levels of success. Personally I've had much less success than doing day game or hitting the clubs. I'd recommend you forget about tinder because sure you could get numbers but you still won't be able to escalate things unless you get that experience. There's too many things to know about trying to get it in so don't try and over think it, just let it flow. Approach = do anything, doesn't matter just do it. Use something generic e.g. "hi I'm.... thought …
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:55 AM
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Fair point
/r/seduction01/07/14 11:08 AM
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Its good you're trying to message her, ignore the people saying not too, you're only 16 it doesn't matter too much right now as you have nothing too lose. You already have you're emotional high, I'm not too well versed in the Quince thing so try and relate that, keep it short and sweet and say you'd like to do something like that again. High chance she won't reply, it's been ages so don't be dissapointed. Its a step forward but yeah just remember to keep texting simple for future references.
/r/seduction01/07/14 06:40 AM
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What's the context? Did you pick her up one day? Is she from school? Is she an old friend you havnt spoken too in ages. How you should message is context driven. Simple outline: 1) open with an emotional high point so she recalls you, remembers you at your best. 2) set up a date to meet up. 3) confirm date. Tips: - skip boring shit e.g. "hey how's it going?" - be original, you need to give her a reason to message back and come out over all the other guys she's seeing. - never over talk via text.…
/r/seduction01/07/14 03:57 AM
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Its not what you say it, but rather how. Just be confident and have fun. From experience simply saying "I thought you were cute so I wanted to come say hi" has worked and almost always puts a genuine smile on their face. Its also direct and states your intentions As opposed to some bullshit and irrelevant non direct approach. Just experiment around and you'll find what works for you. All the best op
/r/seduction03/06/14 02:05 AM
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What helped me the most was changing my group of friends. I know it seems shallow at first glance, but my former friends were unfit, lazy guys who played games all day. When I started going out with my new friends, I sort of moulded myself to be confident like them and experience life from a new perspective. I'm not telling you to ditch your current friends or anything, but if you don't have confident friends that bring out the best in you, find some, go out and put all the theory you've read he…
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:09 AM
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Its the smirk you pull when you make a Good joke, then you think back on it later and go fuck I'm clever! At least that's how I smirk
/r/seduction04/04/14 08:05 AM
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There's no getting past that anxiety until you just do it. Its hard at first but you can't do anything besides practice. My rejection count is in the high hundreds and before you even realize it, rejection won't matter to you and it will all flow naturally. My best advice it to not even think when you see a girl and are contemplating an approach. The second you think, you WILL find an excuse and miss an oppirtunity. Best of luck my friend
/r/seduction26/03/14 11:30 PM
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Yes. Just get rejected, what's the worse that can happen?
/r/seduction27/02/14 03:40 PM
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Woah don't do that. There are more efficient ways to get over AA. Just keep approaching and even getting rejected and eventually approaching becomes second nature. There is absolutely no need to hurt yourself in anyway
/r/seduction25/02/14 06:37 AM
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Progress is progress, it doesn't come naturally for some, keep working at it. Most importantly, desperation is very smelly and girls have a keen nose for it. Go out and have fun doing it, girls will notice you if they see how full of life you are and confident you are and are more likely to be open towards you. Its your business if all you want to do is fuck heaps of women but as I said don't be desperate and push it
/r/seduction16/02/14 01:57 PM
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From personal experience i never really walked up to a girl and talked when dancing. I usually do my thing, draw attention to myself by doing something funny/stupid (it could also be that I'm a half decent dancer). Once I have their attention I smile and do something like pretending to pull them in, wave at them or just do anything to get a response and get them to come closer to me. If they respond and come closer I extend my hand and go from there, its natural to get rejected though, don't shy…
/r/seduction16/02/14 01:48 PM
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A few things: Don't set a date of when you want to get laid, it will come. Instead focus on losing that weight and boosting confidence. Talk as much as you possibly can to strangers, no need to be flirtatious, just converse normally and then progress. As a bartender this should be easy for you. A thing me and my friends did to boost our confience. We would go out during the day and just go talk to whichever girls we could, doesn't matter who. If we got rejected then we all had a good laugh, if w…
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:45 PM
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This makes much more sense, thanks alit for the input
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:35 PM
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I did go with friends, it was near the end of the night So we were all doing our own thing, I had alreadybdealt with the girlfriends before, they just came back very pushy
/r/seduction14/02/14 08:53 PM
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I appreciate what youre saying, however and I don't mean to be a dick, but the the hell does any guy go out to a nightclub? He doesn't go there to make friends or have a long conversation, he goes to have fun and get girls. Maybe its a generalization to say that but I haven't come across I single guy that has gone out at night and not had in the back of his head that he wants to get with a girl. I still don't get how I'm creepy if she's grinding all over me either, its not like I tied her down a…
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:55 AM
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Seriously cannot be bothered to do that to 3-4 girls I have no interest in. Also won't that make me lose the girl I'm interested if it takes too long
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:06 PM
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Everythimg you just said is too true
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:05 PM
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Solid advice my friend, will definetly use next time I'm out instead of letting go so easily
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:42 PM
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Thanks brother, will do tomorrow
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:41 PM
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Not everyone has experience or is confident, no need to shut them down. Just give the advice.
/r/seduction12/02/14 01:05 PM
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It may sound stupid but i learnt how to shuffle really well, as in I can do the whole lot, glide from one side of the room to the other like a fucking angel while spinning and shit. It's not necessary but the basics I.e. the t step and running man are applicable to any style of music and you can always incorporate different moves in such as spins or the moonwalk if you can. Its honestly the best thing to learn, especially since I prefer EDM. It doesn't matter what dance you do, so long as you do…
/r/seduction12/02/14 12:40 PM
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You have a few options based: 1) keep dancing and have fun if she's into it 2) go for it then and there 3) isolate her by taking her somewhere and and continue on with your game
/r/seduction11/02/14 10:59 PM
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Just do it. Its funny, not like you are going to grab onto her and not let go. Chances are she'll like it anyway
/r/seduction11/02/14 02:00 PM
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Maybe you are trying too hard and it doesn't come across as natural. As a desperate beginner I didn't even know it but I came across as so desperate luckily my friends pointed it out. I mainly go out to have fun and dance with a fee of the lads. Going for the girls just comes naturally now when I'm not trying hard and my game gas improved heaps. Just take it easy and have fun, the rest will come and your game will be good as ever
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:56 PM
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Im a really good dancer so I usually get a lot of attention, I usually dance, make eye contact then click/point/wave them over in a playful way, they almost always walk over and dance with me. You don't even have to be a good dancer though and the non verbal thing could be anything so long as you get a reaction from them, hell even use a mime technique to pull them over. Why the fuck havnt tried that yet.
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:51 PM
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More confidence and a "fuck it im'a do it anyway attitude" as opposed to chickening out
/r/seduction11/02/14 01:46 PM
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Its not so much what you say, its how you say it. You could be talking about the most interesting thing in the world, but if you are monotone and don't use body language, interact or tease a bit then it doesn't matter. Try focusing on how you say it > what you say.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:14 AM
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I'm sorry but you are defeating the purpose of pulling. Sure, you shouldn't fear rejection and if you do get rejected then move on. But if you are making progress then why would you possibly drop that interaction if it looks promising? Maybe I'm a bit slow today but the main point should be to make as many attempts as you can, even if you do get rejected, not just move on for no reason.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:11 AM
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Do something stupid/funny but not offensive or down right retarded. E.g. I was at a club dancing and grinding with a girl. She gave me this weird look to say as if what are you doing, I made eye contact/laughed and continued on, she came right back over. The idea is to be confident even if you come off as weird, its interesting and you will stand out amongst the masses of boring guys. If it doesn't pay off, move on. Girls love weird though, its interesting.
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:20 AM
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