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If I were you I'd stick to hitting up girls who shared mutual followers. More social proof that way.
/r/seduction21/01/19 09:46 AM
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laughing at me and wouldn't explain why This is my opinion, it is not the right opinion, it is just my opinion I've gathered from my own personal experiences. Light heartedly laughing at a girl without explanation is a sure way to make her think: 'What am I doing that is funny' 'Is there something wrong with my hair or my make up? ' ' I must act in defense and laugh back at him ' . This indicates you have the ability to provoke different emotions in her. If it gets to the point of no return just…
/r/seduction17/01/19 10:13 PM
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Haha thanks for that. Seriously I was too lazy to do this.
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:49 PM
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Meh. I've done it a million times and it always works. However my opinion is not the right opinion, it is just my opinion that I've developed from my own experiences. Others may be different and thats fine. Our game is based off the general guidelines but the icing on top of the cake can only come from learning what works for us from our own unique real life experiences.
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:48 PM
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All girls have different theresholds, but to be on the safe side, I'd keep it to: -Exaggerated voice impersonations -Height jokes (if shes shorter than you) -Make light fun of music taste -Laughing at her for no reason Avoid: -Weight jokes -Clothing comments (to some extent) -Making fun of her serious opinions
/r/seduction17/01/19 12:03 PM
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Agreed. I don't even have a personal mobile number. I just use IG and FB for contact. Its a lot less 'personal'.
/r/seduction16/01/19 09:11 AM
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I've experienced this before. To put it blantly, if you play push/pull long and hard enough, most (but not all) girls will start to initiate everything. When you do this, you come across as 'above' her, and she will chase you to satisfy her cravings for validation.
/r/seduction13/01/19 08:50 PM
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Yea. Don't get me wrong, pussy makes men happy. What doesn't make me happy is constantly gaming every girl I meet, which means putting on a big act. Was fun at first but meh. Rather just be genuinely confident and happy with my life and see what I get.
/r/seduction17/12/18 09:28 PM
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I understand game. I would like to question your perspective on the correlation between more pussy and happiness. What I'm trying to say is that there is only so long one can go when putting on an act despite all the pussy they may get. After all thats what it is. You have to abide by the rules to get a lot of women. I'm just saying when you focus on improving aspects of life in general as opposed to improving your 'game' (solely in the interest of seducing more females) you will live a more ful…
/r/seduction17/12/18 03:21 AM
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We all want pussy, but sometimes you just go through phases where you dont really care about it. I haven't seduced a girl in months because I've just been focusing on myself. Sometimes I wish I was born asexual. Your mind is clearer and its easier to focus on important shit.
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:54 AM
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Man forgive me bro. I'm a novice on this thread. I just read the rules now. Will delete thread.
/r/seduction06/11/18 01:01 PM
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It shouldn't be hard to build attraction with an insecure girl just be everything shes not. Be alpha, confident and SECURE. She needs something to stabilize her, and you can be just that. And be attentive and understanding of her emotions she'll come running to you
/r/seduction28/10/18 01:44 PM
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Being social will make you more social. So you gain more social proof. Great. It will make women more open to engaging with you since they think you're popular. Now once you open with one of those girls you can start throwing in 'game' tactics to really whip her.
/r/seduction28/10/18 01:04 PM
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Definitely agree man. Social proof goes a long way. Just the mere fact of knowing each other will boost her feeling of security and assurance. If we had the chance, most guys will plow anything sexy regardless of if we know her or not. Its super different for girls. I could dig in to the whole primitive nature but fuck it you get it man. Its the same as in nightclubs. Regulars will hook up with regulars instead of randoms even if the random dude displays attractive traits.
/r/seduction28/10/18 01:00 PM
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Dude you'll find a better response in r/dating or r/relationships but since you posted in seduction i'll give you a seductive answer, anyway an insecure girl should be easy to emotionally manipulate. Why? She craves validation. Its her source of oxygen. Go light with push/pull. Give her compliments. Shes insecure so she needs them. But be distant at times. I wouldn't use teasing as a method of push as she will take it much to heart. I'd just go cold turkey and ignore her for a bit. She'll litera…
/r/seduction28/10/18 12:54 PM
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Imo it just depends on the girls personality, honestly. I brought a very outgoing hot Indian girl over one night, put on a randon bollywood film and heavily made fun of her the whole film and we ended up having sex. Due to her personality she was very receptive of the banter. I made the kiss move when the film (and the mocking) was over as we were both in light hearted moods. Another time I brought over a typical little scaredy cat girly girl and played a horror movie. The film made her frighten…
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:25 AM
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Good sound advice. A lot of emphasis on the core fundamentals of seducing. However, just from my observations, social status and social leverage is a massive factor in club hook ups. You'll usually have 100 dudes in a club with a shit load of confidence (they still lack emotional intelligence) due to all the alcohol and drugs and about 40 women seeking some attention and validation (most but not all). So in the females eyes the mating criteria is going to get tighter. Girls biologically love con…
/r/seduction28/10/18 05:03 AM
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Yea man. Push/pull at clubs and bars is great. Keeps a random girl around wayyyyy longer I have noticed. I'm having problems lately though, their friends will come in and cockblock me because '[I'm] an asshole' just before Im about to get a number. How do you get around this?
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:37 PM
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If you guys have some mutual followers or live in the same area I guess thats more power to you. Social proof and common ground is important. Sending completely random girls messages won't work most times.
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:32 PM
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Im sort of like you. Grew up very religious, was the quiet weird kid at school. After convincing myself Girls value confidence > all, I just started to fake my confidence by acting very careless and obnoxious. Sure, a lot of girls started to genuinely hate me, but a lot of girls digged it too. Once I started seeing how my fake confidence got me results it just evolved into natural confidence. I have confidence in the fact that girls like confidence.
/r/seduction11/10/18 09:24 AM
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Dude, even if I was gay, the fact still remains she is a cold hearted bitch lol. And I do find her physically hot, just not the hottest, but yes u are right, the fact shes a bitch and will most likely reject me just makes her 10x hotter. You can thank human biology for that
/r/seduction29/09/18 04:53 PM
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"we are not together" Women are confusing creatures and have many motives for doing or saying certain things but for the sake of simplicity shes just shutting you down man. She sounds like a bitch bro, you weren't even implying a relationship and she shut you down with that. If I was you I wouldnt even bother trying to lay her. Next girl bro.
/r/seduction23/09/18 05:16 AM
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Everyone has different perceptions of what a first date should be like but what gets me and my friends going is just being chill about the whole thing. I learnt A LOT from my over-bearing formal first few dates, so now I just show up in a white tee jeans and air forces, with this whole laid back 'I don't really care, go with the flow' attitude. I don't ask where she wants to do or eat, its a first date, shes not Queen of the Kingdom just yet, so I'll take her to somewhere simple like Burger King…
/r/seduction23/09/18 12:16 AM
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Just break things off man. Try to do it subtly. Emotionally damaged and vulnerable girls like that are usually easy to manipulate into bed due to the intensity of their emotional state, but its not a good thing to do, plus she will try to murder you. So just quietly leave the room. Or you could just be direct and break things off, up to you. Whatever you do just don't be an asshole about it.
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:50 PM
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Stop gaming girls at 26+.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:47 PM
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Being too direct removes the thrill of it all. Being indirect makes you look like a beta pussy.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:44 PM
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However, you don’t have much to lose so I’d say go for it anyway. Yep. Just shoot your shot.
/r/seduction22/09/18 12:39 PM
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Imo catcalling is just done to impress other men
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:49 AM
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Ghost forever or place her on a pedestal so she loses attraction. You can't argue with hard wired biology.
/r/seduction06/06/18 05:41 AM
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IMO a lot of girls like chivalry but not right off the bat. Maybe a few months into dating you can do it, when you are both assured you both want this relationship. It shows she has unlocked your 'good' side I guess. It feels exclusive. Being chivalrous straight away will signal that you will do this any girl even if you don't. I feel sorry for the genuine guys that are courteous towards their crushes, cause girls just think they are needy nice guys trying to kiss ass in exchange for sex.
/r/seduction02/06/18 06:31 AM
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I disagree also. When I was 16, I had a hot girlfriend who was obessesed with me, treated me like a prince and loved me all up. It was cool because I used to cheat on her and she never did anything about it. I always had my hot girlfriend to bounce back on to love me. Guess I was just insecure and super shallow. Glad I grew out of that stage. On the other hand, a lot of secure dudes would like those kind of girl. Its just primitive gender roles I guess. Women = accomadating, nurturing. Men = alo…
/r/seduction02/06/18 06:23 AM
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Bang on. Unfortunately, in this conditioned society, there is a global standard on what girls are supposed to want regarding hook ups. Fake it til you make it. Or be real and don't feel. You've got to make sacrifices to get what you want. Its sucks but thats not your fault its this fake fucking societies fault.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:54 PM
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Just be yourself bro who fucking cares? If you want to appear less innocent because you want to be less innocent then go for it. If you want to appear less innocent just for some pootang, then I'd question it. Explain your personality and actions more, and we'll figure out why you're viewed as innocent.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:50 PM
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Its semi-ironic how seduction is viewed as a numbers game. You know, the more you try, the more likely you are to succeed... sounds good on paper right? I would not knowingly hit on girls from the same friend circle if you prioritize getting laid. As you said, rumours fly. No girl likes being 2nd choice. It just won't work dude. You'll be that dude that hits and misses. Just like Johnny Bravo, and he never got laid. But hey hitting and missing is better than not hitting at all. Which leads me to…
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:43 PM
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Try getting your friends to be your wingmen. If not, then advertise on craiglist. I doubt strangers would want to do you any favours, throw a few bucks their way and you'll have some wingmen.
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:20 PM
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Of course you are. Thats normal man. This is a typical generalisation, but 8-10 girls are most likely used to being worshipped by beta men trying to hopelessly get into her pants. We're all guilty of it. If I had a dollar for every time I tried to kiss ass to get laid I'd be richer than Bill Gates. Anyway... Just remember that PUA tactics such as negging or your general push/pull will work better on girls with self perceived 'high value' as a result of social conditioning. The balls in your cour…
/r/seduction31/05/18 11:28 AM
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Dude I have aspergers and dyspraxia so I'm more weird than you'll ever be. I will share my experience with you, might be your thing, might not. The way I normalized my social skills was getting a part time door security job in a bank at 18. My job was literally watching people. Being retarded, I saw this as the perfect opportunity to OBSERVE human behaviour. You and I already know what is considered normal human interaction, but due to you possibly landing somewhere on the autism spectrum we can…
/r/seduction31/05/18 11:10 AM
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I agree with most of what you're saying. Going out and 'winging' it isn't' bad if you are new depending on who you are. You must have at least some basic understanding of seduction/PUA techniques and the emotional psychology of females if you really want to up your chances, but just go out and try your luck if thats the kinda dude you are. Going in with a step-by-step plan has its obvious benefits for us males being logically inclined, but just 'winging' it (with decent knowledge) will connect y…
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:46 AM
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Bro. IMO you already have a good understanding of pick up artestry and you are good to go! From what it sounds like confidence and 'lines' are holding you back. Like I keep saying, there's no black or white, but in my own experience it dosen't really matter about coming up with specific words. Just say anything. How you say it is more important than what you say. This is very cringey, but accurate; Mock it til you Fock it. Tone/mood > right words. As for confidence, I get what you mean. But plea…
/r/seduction29/05/18 11:25 PM
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Buying drinks is ass kissing. You're literally trying to lure her into your presence. Asking for advice is beta. You dont need a females opinion if you're alpha. All you need is your own. Don't get me wrong, I can see why you do what you do, but this just wreaks of husband and not attractive fuckboy.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:50 PM
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Dude. Of course you're there to meet chicks. But who fucking cares? You're a male and you want pussy. Go join whatever club and give it a try. If you get bounced from women, just take it as a lesson and do some re-evaluation. If you get laid, great. There's no black and white in pick up; its all about your own experience.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:43 PM
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Every PUA has their strengths. I am good at emotional manipulation, as I have a strong understanding of the psychology side of seduction/attraction, which can only really be done by talking. I go to the smokers area outside to meet girls. However... The best way to pull in loud settings (from what I've seen) is just to dance with them. Make strong eye contact and flirty facial gestures when you do it. Take her hand and lead the routine. Escalate into some sexual dancing. Then kiss, and exchange …
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:36 PM
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Picking up in real life is more exciting imo.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:23 PM
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just mock her
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:20 PM
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You can't. You have to stand out somehow. Either look like Brad Pitt, have a shit load of money or be in a gang with a strong presence in the nightclub scene. Game wont help you. Theres a handful of girls and so many dudes with game as well, not just you. So just call it a night bro.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:17 PM
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Dude no offence but this is some chivalrous beta shit. Kissing ass wont get dudes laid (most times). But if this is genuinely how you prefer being with girls, and if it works for you, then more power to you, I respect a man who is himself.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:11 PM
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fuck them bro. If you like the way you look and dress, don't change it.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:07 PM
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Masturbate away. Low test= no sex drive= clear mind.
/r/seduction29/05/18 01:01 PM
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Any place where you at least have some sort of common ground with a girl in order to build rapport. It just takes the strangeness out of the equation... e.g Sports clubs, Dance studios, hell even the workplace is fine. It elevates you from stranger to 'oh I know that guy'. Get what I mean?
/r/seduction29/05/18 12:59 PM
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I will speak from my experience on what works. Might not be your thing, might work for you, might not. You probably wont even read this, but will share anyway. I had no idea how to flirt with women when I was 17. I rdecided to run my own little research project on 2 females where I worked to put all this online seduction theory to the test. Obviously, these girls didnt work at the same place. I had 2 part time jobs. So, believe it or not these were my earliest flirting experiences. Now, Im not a…
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:55 AM
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Dude same thing happened to me when I first started to get in the 'game'. Because I wasnt used to female attention, the first Girl that showed interest would have me hooked. Just objectify women and pursue more and more, eventually you'll lose that attachment.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:53 AM
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Dude. I used to be socially awkward and had terrible confidence. Being emotionally confused and trying to figure out if shes into you is a sure way to catch some strong feelings bro. Just make a move dude. If you get rejected, who cares bro. If you dont, then great. I could go on and on about seduction forever, but the take home message is- just be bold and make a move. If it dosent kill you its not that bad. Edit: Shes still reasonably young. So make a move.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:45 AM
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It depends on your relationship with him and how he says it. If its banter? Just laugh. If he is doing it to belittle you, fight him.
/r/seduction29/05/18 09:10 AM
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