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Women love easy. He gave her that. The puppy dog routine is popular among guys who suck at game. Their mentality actually can work, for some women but repel others. He exuded confidence, but physical attraction likely had a larger play here.
/r/seduction08/03/20 05:18 PM
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Apple juice? Grape juice, in a box... with straw. Maybe some kool-aid? I have an old Yoohoo, you’re welcome to that.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:57 PM
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“Want to come up for some Mr. Pibb or Shasta Orange, baby?” Sure.
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:53 PM
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I use, “Let’s go to my place for onions, garlic, and coffee.”
/r/seduction25/02/20 01:50 PM
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Hey, you’re sticking your dick into crazy. Don’t whine to us when she acts crazy. You knew, you love the pussy, and clearly she will continue being her. Don’t think for a second she will ever change - even if you give her that exclusivity she wants most ... or at least seems to want, who knows. I doubt she does for sure. It’s all mental games she enjoys playing and ways she uses to justify to herself for getting the D she desperately wants but doesn’t like feeling slutty when she gives in.
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:43 AM
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He’s breathing.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:11 PM
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Hope he has plenty of ice. Well, she may be on her way over to watch Golden Girls reruns.
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:55 AM
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No. Not at all. From what you’ve said, she wants to come over to do a little gardening.
/r/seduction18/01/20 10:50 AM
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I’m not good in heels.
/r/seduction16/12/19 03:55 PM
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They are full of shit, “no hookups” just like you’re completely full of shit about going to your place to “watch a movie”.
/r/seduction16/12/19 09:42 AM
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It’s almost as if they all met at a gaming convention, or an online game. All of them appear to have vitamin D deficiency, complete lack of sun.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 02:35 PM
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Yes, yes she does. Sadly, men are so desperate and lack true self-esteem she won’t have any problem finding a dude to shack up with and raise her children. It will be only a small challenge with the kids as a package deal.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 02:32 PM
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Oh don’t try to tell people that met on a Fuck Me app that is what it was. They vehemently deny it, come up with several justifications about how it’s used for that but you really can meet someone for a relationship on it. They will then spew examples of a friend or relative that met and married from meeting on Tinder. Downvote City too, lots of people like to lie to themselves and use blanket justifying to ignore the fact they met on a fuck app, pure and simple... so what if they kept fucking a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 02:18 PM
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Brilliantly true, and a concept lost to majority of women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/12/19 02:08 PM
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Women love attention. Hmm, so do men.
/r/seduction25/09/19 07:52 PM
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Thank you, yes. Absolutely.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:15 PM
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Unfortunately, most women have a very hard time sizing up a man’s value and they often prefer easy, accessible, funny, and signs of wealth - especially attractiveness (shallow). Value isn’t usually a consideration until much later, well after the seduction process. The only time I could think of value coming into play during the seduction process is when a woman is trying to choose between two or more men. Most women are absolutely shitty at choosing men, in general. We know this is true because…
/r/seduction12/08/19 11:33 AM
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I turn down far more sexual offers, than anything else. Sometimes, just not into her, the situation, or the quality. I prefer quality to quantity. There is more to life than a pursuit to getting your dick wet.
/r/seduction08/06/19 04:37 AM
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Y-E-S. Fuck yes they do! To some, it’s a game.
/r/seduction31/05/19 06:20 AM
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What you wear matters to women, all the way down to your shoes. They judge you on how you dress. Each woman has a checklist, some are more pickier than others and make you go through more hoops before she will consider you.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:20 PM
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You look fine. Style is depending on the types of women you are looking to attract. I can’t see what you’re wearing. Yet, I can tell you that women do size you up by how you present - example? Male Peacock. Look it up.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:12 PM
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Looks matter, attitude matters, how you carry yourself matters, being well off matters, and your approach matter. You look different in the mirror each time because you’re a shape shifter.
/r/seduction05/05/19 05:05 PM
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We have a large population of people terrified of confrontation. So they opt to being passive, it’s lazy. It’s men and women. Whole group of people who ... can’t be honest with others or themselves about what they want or need.
/r/seduction24/04/19 09:54 PM
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It’s truly amazing when all the sudden girls who profess to not be ready for a relationship are quickly in one or riding the guy like riding a horse when “he” checks all their mental boxes. Money - Check; Car - Check; Buys me Shit - Check; Hot - Check (Big Cock, Taller than 6Ft, Muscular, etc); Job or Wealthy - Check; Other Girls Will Be Jealous - Check Strangely, “I’m just not looking or ready for anything right now,” changes like wind direction... and it wasn’t you that she chose, practically …
/r/seduction12/04/19 07:53 PM
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No girl alive believes the “go to my place to watch a movie” line, nor the “give you a massage” shit either and a ton of other BS. Lots of guys think they are just so slick using those lame pickup lines. She knows it’s 5 minutes opening credits and the rest of the fifteen or less minutes with her legs in the air. Or massage only a couple areas for a few seconds then rub her naughty bits. Girls see through this shit.
/r/seduction22/02/19 04:23 AM
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And do not be dumb and think that leaving her a bigger tip is going to ensure she is obligated to contact you later. Sorry. It doesn’t work that way.
/r/seduction04/02/19 06:14 AM
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Absolutely. If I'm a smurf and she says, "Purple!" I'm going to bolt immediately. I can't have her insulting my blue color.
/r/seduction25/01/19 02:49 PM
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I think the internet and phone apps only got a lot more people laid.
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:41 AM
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Dude, she can really cook too. You might think I’m crazy for not making her more, but there are unavoidable reasons I can’t easily explain. Benefits it is. I have a zero tolerance policy for female mind games. World is tough enough. Last thing I need is a bitch toying with me because she knows she will never sleep with me or get into a relationship but wants to get attention and see how far I’d go.
/r/seduction18/12/18 08:44 PM
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Here is how I specifically deal with hot/cold or leading or teasing with no intent or too hard to get - which all of those are the same, btw: I'll get her to her place. We'll make small talk, I'll clearly see what she's doing and likely been doing most of the night. Then, I'll make an excuse that I need to get something from my car or take a quick call. I step outside. I then step all the way to my car, turn the key and DRIVE OFF. That's right, I leave without even a goodbye then ghost her. I'm …
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:58 PM
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I found my nightstand at IKEA. It was pretty easy to put together.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:08 PM
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So this is what pornography has taught you about women.
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:31 PM
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You do not shit where you eat. It’s tempting, but fucking people you work with is not advisable because while it may seem cool and sometimes easy but it can fuck up your revenue stream if found out, things get awkward, sexual harassment claims, all kinds of ways it can mess you up. Get whatever you want with people not associated with your workplace.
/r/seduction15/11/18 09:12 AM
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One. That’s it. Life is too short for women mind games. The women out there totally willing to take you for a ride, letting you think you may have a chance when you never will, far out number the genuine women who are serious about meeting someone awesome.
/r/seduction10/11/18 01:48 AM
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True. But the goal is to contact him to start a conversation. You get zero results hiding in your room. I liked the suggestion above on liking his photos, that is ok - but not too many - just one or two. How can you advertise to this guy that he is missing out if he doesn’t try to get to know you?
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:15 PM
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You can’t find an email for him? Or Facebook?
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:13 PM
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What would be wrong with sending him a message to break the ice using something you both have in common? “Hey, I saw we connected and we have X in common. I saw them in concert a few years ago - really cool. What else are you interested in? Or what do you like to do?” If he doesn’t ask to meet during the conversation, suggest meeting in person. Then, it’s up to life and luck once that happens.
/r/seduction09/11/18 07:06 PM
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When searching for this, there are a LOT of bullshit sites just trying to scam you. It’s a book on Amazon and Audible, and not even a very good one 3.5 stars, at best. I wouldn’t use that to wipe with.
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:15 PM
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How-To for Women and Seduction: Show Up. You could be fugly, matted hair, sweats, no make up and men would line up for miles and miles. How-To for Men and Seduction: 9,000,000 pages of text, videos, blogs, practice, websites, training courses and still zero guarantee that you’ll be successful... likely 10K “No” vs 1 to 5 “Yes”. Majority of the time you’ll end up home spanking it to Cinemax soft core porn. Only way your odds are better are when your genetics played into your stunning model good l…
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:00 PM
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This is right on point.
/r/seduction07/11/18 04:29 PM
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Sure. Here are just a couple, but there are a lot more. You can also see evidence of this within online forums, dating sites, and even media (facebook, twitter, tinder, TV, movies, etc.) "Previous research has largely ignored the implications of adolescents’ exposure to sexually explicit online material for their sexual attitude formation. To study whether adolescents’ exposure to sexually explicit material on the Internet is related to recreational attitudes toward sex, we conducted an online s…
/r/seduction09/10/18 08:30 PM
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Porn is a huge problem. It is easily accessible, mostly free, and a massive amount of content available with a wide variety to choose from. The problem, as you pointed out, is that a lot of men that are now exposed to it at earlier ages grow up now with digital access, 24/7, and without any real guidance. Therefore, you have a ton of guys out there who think that the women on videos and photos are ... well, how real women in real life are, but that is very far from the truth. It's hard for a lot…
/r/seduction09/10/18 06:14 PM
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This is thoughtful, intelligent, and right. Too bad today’s millennials are all, “Dude, I’d smash her! Duuuuur.” Or better when they encounter a girl their age..., by texting or PM, “Hey, wanna smash?” And majority of them likely have zero idea, let alone the patience to even read what you eloquently wrote because... hey, tl;dr, with the attention span of a gnat. This leaves LOT of women completely and utterly unsatisfied, but do note it’s not as if they themselves (females) even know what great…
/r/seduction09/10/18 11:41 AM
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That may very well be true. What bugs me is that women, today, are a lot more interested in $$$ and social status than anything else. I’m not saying all women, lets be clear, but a healthy majority on dating sites, clubs, and in person chance meetings. A lot of guys are completely oblivious to signs when a woman is interested anyway. Women can be very subtle, in fact too subtle when I’m sure “she” thinks she is being obvious. Then there are the men who mistake “friendly” like from a person perfo…
/r/seduction08/10/18 02:37 PM
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I’ve only met maybe one or two women in my life that were true seductresses - the rest, mostly just disappointments... women who couldn’t seduce a paper sack. When it does happen though, just wow - hands down an awesome experience, just sucks it’s 1% rarity of women. Most women sit on their asses waiting for Prince Charming to show up because let’s face it, zero effort required, lazy women can just wait for guys to appear. Men, on the other hand, have to work at it. This is why this sub is major…
/r/seduction08/10/18 06:12 AM
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I know that. I also know what makes long-term relationships work, Tinder - sadly, still has that stench of hook-up attached to it. Lots of people think Tinder is a great way to start a great relationship, ... it isn't. Just because you can, doesn't mean you should. You can defend Tinder all you want, but the truth is still that hooking up doesn't equal awesome foundation for a relationship. And hey, people try anyway... good for them. Just can't seem to figure out why things are always so fucked…
/r/seduction24/09/18 03:10 PM
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Ok, so let's see. You "dated" a girl on Tinder, the "fuck me" app, thinking erroneously that you could make a relationship out of a hook-up app. I see. Then, you saw a ton of red flags and decided to keep sticking your dick into crazy. That's the same as driving your car down a dark street, seeing several signs that say the road is out ahead, but yet you keep driving thinking it couldn't possibly be that bad until... you crash... which, btw, this is where this story is headed. Why would you poss…
/r/seduction24/09/18 01:06 PM
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I’ve met women that put that statement to shame. Women, most, love to fuck. They don’t always want more than that either. She is saying that because that has been HER experience with men in her life, her observations, or what she’s learned (by parent or friends). Her perspective is very narrow sighted.
/r/seduction17/09/18 12:44 PM
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Explain to me how most guys know the difference between light and too much. Right. Most do not.
/r/seduction16/09/18 09:05 PM
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I guarantee that someone was smoking 420 while reading this and immediately dismissed it. “It’s natural, bruh.” When scouting, getting drunk or high or on substance literally kills your game, period. It isn’t cool and doesn’t get you results. In fact, it fucks up your night and leads to shitty decision making. The man who abstains will always score far better than the loser on substances. To work the floor of women correctly, you must have your brain at 100% functioning. You can pretend to drink…
/r/seduction16/09/18 06:03 PM
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Worst advice. Just because he has a girlfriend doesn't mean he can no longer watch porn or masturbate. Grow up.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:53 PM
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Yep, because a woman would think that what just happened wasn't enough to satisfy you and she will think SHE didn't do something right, she wasn't able to please you, and she might feel as though you need more than her to get satisfied - in other words, she will do what most women do and take it personally. Well, on second thought - I suppose if a man had a woman that did this - he might also feel the same thing. I know some guys are weirded out when a woman uses a vibe or toy right after they h…
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:52 PM
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There is nothing wrong with watching porn. Men AND women do it, a lot. It’s a billion dollar industry fueled by people watching it.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:33 PM
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In a group setting, it’s tough because each girl has her own agenda. The more there are, the tougher. You have to win the group or it’s a no-go. If the group has an anti-guy or anti-outsider stance from the very beginning - it can be a huge uphill climb to get to the girl you actually want to take home. Sometimes, in a group, they have very large sticks up their ass and that is NOT on you. No matter what you do or say, they counter to ensure you’re not successful. You’ll have to try to contact h…
/r/seduction30/08/18 01:33 PM
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She is playing games. Hot, Cold, Tease. It's a woman specialty. She knows she can get away with it because you're acting desperate, clingy, and showing her that she has all the power and control over the situation. You're too accessible, too. I know what you're thinking, "I'll give her ample options and opportunities to see me and out of all those times - she'll likely select me." No, that isn't how it works. If you're going to get into seduction, Mr. 40 Lays, you're going to need to do it with …
/r/seduction27/08/18 01:13 PM
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Thanks, Les Brown.
/r/seduction22/08/18 07:53 PM
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Don’t shit where you eat. Find pussy elsewhere, plenty of it. Don’t dip your pen in company ink. ...and what others do is on them. If I had a dream job, a decent income - pussy at work is NOT worth losing it over. All it takes is one harassment complaint, one situation that went sour, one psycho coworker... anything that spins quickly out of control. It could come from external too like a jealous bf or husband as you find out she was taken. Plus people keep secrets at work only to the water cool…
/r/seduction21/08/18 09:08 PM
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I really really like this post, because I resonate my own life and some of the lessons I've learned as I've made my way through a few decades. You present excellent takeaways, which guys shouldn't just shrug off. I guess the surprising lesson that I learned is that majority of women are very lazy when it comes to men. This is true in a lot of places, but I'd like to hone in on New York. There are quite a few women I met there that wouldn't even entertain a guy unless he lived literally within a …
/r/seduction20/08/18 07:00 PM
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Don’t make yourself so accessible. Don’t buy her shit. Don’t call and talk to her for more than a few minutes. Don’t make her feel as though you’re out for sex only Invest time getting to know more than her name, ask the right questions - not just a bunch of pointless ones which add zero value Have hobbies other than chasing women - makes you interesting, things to talk about Don’t gush. Keep it aloof, but interested. It’s a balance. Women sense desperation like sharks smell blood in the water f…
/r/seduction18/08/18 12:07 AM
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This is the best post on Tinder I’ve read yet.
/r/seduction12/08/18 02:43 PM
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Yep, perfectly right. They settle, some with low self esteem (even really hot women) thinking it’s the best they can do. You’d be surprised how many women will take Mr Average compared to Mr Perfect because they hate themselves and think the great guy would never give them a chance. As long as he checks off a lot of her ridiculous boxes - he will do. Good enough. Ironically the same laziness women use in men selection carries into their relationships. Then there are the gold diggers. These women…
/r/seduction28/07/18 01:57 AM
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It would except for one simple reason. Laziness. Why make effort when you have tons of options? Have you ever been to a restaurant where the menu is 10 pages or more? Overwhelming, right? Women face more choices than ever. A woman can post a single ad through a dating site and get thousands of messages. When they go out, same thing. Plenty of choices. They don’t have to work hard at all. Some women won’t even venture more than five miles to meet a man. They want someone down the street. They go …
/r/seduction27/07/18 10:51 PM
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It’s actually complicated. There is no magic formula. What each woman wants or likes can be vastly different to the next. When you cold approach - there are many variables, but think about first impressions because women do judge and size you up upon first meeting.
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:53 PM
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You’re asking the rubix cube of questions. Ive often thought about it, cold approaching. I just shrugged and guessed that majority of those women grade you upon first impression - period. ...if you aren’t attractive to them, it gives them a license to maintain that huge pine cone up their ass they appear to enjoy sitting on.
/r/seduction27/07/18 04:11 PM
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Cuck orbiter is highly likely, plus he’s a prick.
/r/seduction23/07/18 08:25 AM
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Only women who use money as a qualifier are: 1. A Hooker (doesn’t need to be the street corner walker to qualify as one) 2. A Dinner Whore (Only out for you to take her to the best restaurants in town, without any reciprocal benefits) 3. Money Grubber aka Gold Digger (Only out to use you like an ATM like a sucker) Guys fall for those three women ALL the time, and are usually sucked dry like a wet vac, then dumped. Sales and a Bartender? Try women who regularly get hit on by PUAs and know the gam…
/r/seduction22/07/18 04:26 PM
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ProTip: One spray from the bottle. Putting on enough cologne or body spray where a woman can smell you for six blocks is NOT sexy, is overpowering, and does NOT get you laid regardless of what you’ve seen on the commercial. Men constantly over spray, thinking it increases their chances significantly - it does not. Cologne masks our natural pheromones - as does anything you put on your body to mask your natural scent.
/r/seduction21/07/18 12:39 PM
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You’re in quite a blessed situation compared to a majority of guys who have zero choice but to extend serious effort. Of course some women are jealous or upset with your lack of required effort because you’re in that 1% niche of guys where the “getting laid or not” is on YOUR terms, not THEIRS. They do not like the turn in power and control, especially when it doesn’t benefit them. If you want to talk lazy, women are just that. Which frustrates a lot of guys. They simply have the upper hand, amp…
/r/seduction15/07/18 10:03 AM
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Tinder and date shouldn’t be in the same sentence. Clearly she thought Tinder was a dating app. Nope. That’s why all the guys were extra handsy. Plus... she lead them on. Just to see what you’d do, like a test monkey in a lab. It was all a gag. She had zero intentions unless you checked off majority of her mental boxes on what she wants in a man aka Mr Perfect. She’s giving up on Tinder? Ok. Wave. No point in wasting time with her since it seems even she has no clue what she really wants. “I’m n…
/r/seduction12/07/18 02:14 PM
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You cannot put “hook-up” or “casual sex” as options on your profile. It is an instant turn off and you won’t get any replies from women. If you were a man seeking a man - you CAN put that and get a ton of replies, especially if you’re cute. See the difference? Women operate differently. Only way is to approach it as if you are looking for a relationship, even if you aren’t. I respect you want to be honest from the beginning about just wanting to fuck, but that is not how the game is played. Wome…
/r/seduction12/07/18 01:53 PM
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They falsely think that Tinder is a “dating” app. No it isn’t. It’s a “hook-up and fuck” app. Putting that you only are looking for a relationship is just stupid, unless that relationship is full of sex and nothing else. Want to date? Want a real relationship that is not based on sex? Use something else. Just because you have the opportunity to meet the opposite sex on Tinder to fuck - does not in any way start a solid basis for a real relationship. Yet, people try... dumbly. Those relationships…
/r/seduction12/07/18 11:04 AM
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Everywhere. Anywhere. Just don’t get caught.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:03 PM
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That is a beautiful white horse you’re riding on there. Have you been a White Knight long? Hold on, let me grab my violin. I’ll play that while I read your post... sounds more dramatic that way. You clearly do not understand women, at all.
/r/seduction08/07/18 11:51 AM
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lol
/r/seduction08/07/18 11:46 AM
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It happens. I’ve lost count. Women can be subtle, some bold, and others aggressive. I’ve misread a few too. Women aren’t always blatant or obvious and for that reason I’m positive I’ve missed a few opportunities that could have been great. Later upon reflecting you may realize... “Holy Shit, she was totally hitting on me or trying to seduce me... just didn’t see it at the time.” I’ve also had women try to seduce me or aggressively have sex with me when I wasn’t interested. Women do not handle re…
/r/seduction08/07/18 07:59 AM
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Quietly.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:04 AM
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She has zero intentions of anything no matter what you try. She just soaks in the attention and smiles inside at all your attempts. A lot of men would chase that rabbit but ... it’s fruitless. Best thing to do once mind games are detected, walk away. It’s best to invest time in someone who is actually serious about taking it a step forward. Trying to impress a mind manipulator is like riding a stationary bike. Sure, you’ll pedal, break a sweat, exert energy, get tired but you didn’t go anywhere …
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:14 AM
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Know that lots of women, a healthy majority, play mind games. They can be expert manipulators. Some women will flirt and play you just to see how far you’ll go to glean her attention and potential (not reality) affection. The game she is playing never materializes anything and you’ll end up burning cycles trying to woo her but from the beginning it was all a ploy to get you to TRY. That was all she wanted. Meanwhile, you’ll walk away frustrated realizing that it was all bullshit. Watch how they …
/r/seduction07/07/18 01:00 AM
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Who cares what others think? Part of being Alpha: You do what makes you happy, and doesn’t give a fuck if someone else’s opinion differs. If crochet is something you love, find satisfying, and makes you happy... well, do it and get rid of the shame.
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:54 PM
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Best advice... but op may not be up to the task.
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:18 PM
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He’s alpha, or trying to pretend to be. Pissing around her in a circle trying to mark his territory. She likes the behavior, makes her wanted, validated, and safe - even if he’s a prick about it. Meanwhile op is being beta... by leaving, by avoiding confrontation, by staying quiet. Which is why... alpha bangs her later... not op.
/r/seduction05/07/18 07:17 PM
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Fuck off! No one owes you pics of thier junk.
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