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1

"Owned up to my mistake", what mistake ?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 07:18 PM
6

This sub is shit. Why the fuck would you post all this shit ? You are a shitty friend to your pal, sitting there with his ex-wife/baby mama listening to her all her crap
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 07:12 PM
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How do you just start a convo?
/r/TheRedPill05/04/22 06:23 PM
1

Its easy to understand women care how you make them feel, but how do you make them feel good ?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 09:04 PM
17

When asktrp closed, this sub is flooded with shit. This wont help anyone.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 08:32 PM
2

Not helping somebody that is asking for help, just to look "alpha", seems kinda weak??
/r/TheRedPill17/03/22 09:58 PM
5

But he had pretty hair right
/r/TheRedPill03/02/22 06:37 PM
2

You seem like you know your shit. Im shit at talking to girls, so even though i have a girl who practically invited me over her place for a drink, i dont go cause i dont know anything to say. Social banter or teasing or anything.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 06:14 PM
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Cool. Lets say you dont have any fun stories, would you just get her to tell crazy party stories while escalating ? Seems like escalation really is the only tool you need, that and not saying something dumb
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 05:07 PM
6

How should he have talked to her then ?
/r/TheRedPill31/01/22 05:01 PM
1

You know guys only approach because they want to sleep with you? If they mention looks or not
/r/seduction30/01/22 07:20 PM
0

What method do you advocate then ?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:03 PM
6

Still op's point is good. Its not about convincing people to like you
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 07:00 PM
1

I will pm you later, thanks
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 07:16 PM
0

Difference between overtly and covertly ?
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:35 PM
2

You dont think it was the blunt communication that ended the relationship rather than you not texting?
/r/seduction28/01/22 06:28 PM
1

Do you remember what is said during your good conversations ? I really cant imagine what i would talk with a stranger about. And thats because i dont care about the girl, i just want to fuck. Maybe i need to take more interest in girls personality
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 06:08 PM
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Lets say you approach a girl, in the back of your head you want the number, set up a date and fuck. How do you then go about it like "i just wanna have fun". Isnt it limited how much fun you can have approaching a stranger ?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 05:13 PM
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Im on it. Obese at the moment though and feeling far from confident in my own body
/r/TheRedPill28/01/22 05:11 PM
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What do you say to them? What mindset do you have when approaching. Did you memorize anything or any techniques ?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 11:19 PM
3

Say what though ? And if you look like a slob then what, still say something?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 11:14 PM
4

How do you meet most of your women? Do you share cool stories and use push/pull and negging or what do you do ?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/22 11:56 AM
7

Then what was the AWALT part you realized ? Sorry if its personal
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 08:48 PM
3

What happened when she divorced your dad ? She became a ho ?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 08:34 PM
16

How balding are you ? I take inspiration from bald guys doing good with women because i myself is bald. Did you notice any downsides after buzzing ?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 05:37 PM
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Are you very attractive ? Feel sorry about your son, im happy you came out of it like this
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 04:52 PM
-19

My thought is to stop using the word slut to describe girls that have alot of sex, when all us guys want is alot of sex
/r/TheRedPill18/01/22 11:57 PM
1

Its pety still, whats the point?
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:10 AM
2

You really went this far ? You got butthurt on behalf of someone else
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:01 AM
1

Wow, cool man. How do you talk to these girls?
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:00 AM
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And how does it end then ? Sure girls dont mind explaining a exercise, to be friendly, but do you get the girls ?
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:28 AM
-10

Okay, since you make it sound so easy, come up with a line right now.
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:27 AM
-2

Well then tell how you are so smooth mate
/r/seduction17/01/22 09:26 AM
2

When you cant start an interesting conversation the problems start
/r/seduction16/01/22 11:24 PM
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What if you dont enjoy conversation ?
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:17 PM
1

How do you do it though ? Do you memorize techniques and shit
/r/seduction28/12/21 04:10 PM
2

So now that we know this, how do we use it to our advantage ?
/r/seduction27/12/21 10:20 PM
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Im not full of shit. I gave him advice because im sure he will keep wondering about his past. Its way better to line a replacement up in that case
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:51 PM
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Sure. The last girl i banged is 21, and she has been wirh 50 dudes and done threesomes and all types of shit. She liked that i spat on her, choked and slapped her and called her a bitch. Its not from porn, i dont watch that anymore
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:45 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction25/12/21 10:37 PM
5

To prove the point that it is not the amount of people that is troubling, but the way it happens
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:59 PM
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I do know alot of girls do alot of shit that guys never imagined
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:03 PM
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Never said there was
/r/seduction25/12/21 09:02 PM
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Listen, the dude made a post about it, he is clearly thinking about this, and it will eat at him, slowly, and he probably will end up asking her more questions. Been there done that. And its not about beeing with other people, more about how you been with other people. Gangbangs and degrading sex is a red flag
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:29 PM
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This only applies for the guys she finds attractive. Just a reminder so the Gollums dont get their hopes up
/r/seduction25/12/21 04:22 PM
1

I dont think you should. Keep going to bars and what you are doing. You dont have to have females to socialize with constantly
/r/seduction25/12/21 02:34 PM
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Chatting about what ? Did you try to use any lines or techniques or anything ?
/r/seduction25/12/21 01:31 PM
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What does he say to them ? What does he talk about ?
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 06:22 AM
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Banter and flirting is just hard to explain/understand. Obviously i have done everything right before, but now im so in my head i overthink everytjin
/r/seduction13/12/21 05:45 PM
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"His personality is not good enough, but he is so good looking" Find a new guy
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:31 AM
1

Do you mind elaborating ?
/r/seduction12/12/21 04:07 PM
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Makes sense, just being happy and positive with no filter, without being crass of course. You said you started talking to her, do you remember how that started and about what ? I generally feel i have nothing to say at all
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:28 PM
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What about when you honestly dont know what to say ?
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:56 AM
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Any examples of your good banter skills ?
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:22 AM
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What do you talk about when you approach ? Do you try to use techniques or is it just normal conversation ?
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:02 PM
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This was perfect. Well written. I kind of beleive that we are not seducing anybody. The girl know if she wants to sleep with you or not, you just have to lead it there
/r/seduction09/12/21 10:15 PM
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Who the hell wants first time divorcees with kids ?
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:31 PM
1

I watch AMS videos, and in one video he says "you are not seducing shit, if she finds you attractive, you just talk to her and be careful you dont talk yourself out of the pussy" I think thats a releiving way to look at it and can possibly ease the mind
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:30 PM
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Thanks. In all modesty, i have a handsome face, and good looking eyes, i just think so much about the baldness, when i see other bald guys i always think it looks stupid. Im actually going the clean stubble look. Buzzing the head and face with a no guard trimmer. I dont like the bald/bearded combo
/r/TheRedPill09/12/21 01:49 PM
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So he started to get girls when being bald? Was he slick bald on top, or did he have a hairline? Did he get pretty girls ?
/r/seduction06/12/21 10:43 PM
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Appreciate your words, really do. And i know i have good game deep inside when im in a natural state, i have just gotten so god damn self conscious since shaving my head that i kind of feel like no woman would want a bald guy you know ? Maybe i need to see a shrink about it
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 10:32 PM
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Im 6'4, green eyes, good face, but im bald and that has taken my confidence to an all time low. Your method sounds way more natural than just going up to someone and trying to win them over
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 10:21 PM
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How do you get to the point of plate spinning though ?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/21 04:42 PM
1

Im quitting finasteride right now
/r/TheRedPill05/12/21 06:25 PM
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How should we approach ? What to say and what NOT to say. Help a newbie out
/r/seduction03/12/21 09:16 PM
1

Okay, what did you end up talking about though ?
/r/seduction03/12/21 06:49 AM
2

Great comment, just like my 6 year old son is doing all the time ?
/r/seduction02/12/21 11:11 PM
1

Seriously, what do you talk with them about ? And are you by any chance bald ?
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:08 PM
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What is observe, share, ask ?
/r/seduction02/12/21 09:51 PM
1

Well greeting everybody is easy though. Its finding stuff to talk about thats hard
/r/seduction02/12/21 03:27 PM
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Looking forward to it, thanks
/r/seduction02/12/21 03:21 PM
1

Thats a great way to look at it. I like the way you explain. If you dont mind check my other reply where i mention the wife of my friend, and give your thought
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:20 PM
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You seem like a knowledgable person. Do you know how to get out of ones head and just be in the moment ? I know i psych myself out, because my friends say im one of the best socially persons they know, one of my mates wife thinks im the funniest good vibing guy ever, and thats because when im with them im completely myself.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:19 PM
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Lets say she agrees. We meet for dinner and then what ?
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:12 PM
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Im so in my head i wouldnt know what to say, like at all. Going up and introducing myself is the easy part, but after that you have to have something to say, and then again, should i get on a date, i wouldnt know what to say either
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:03 PM
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Hoped so
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:00 PM
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Thanks. I think my body image issues and hairloss has fucked me. Im actually good socially, its just when it comes to girls that im interested in, my mind is blank. Do you know the thinking like "i have to say this or that for her to like me". But i beleive alot of it will sort itself out when i actually feel good and comfortable in my own body
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:54 PM
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George Clooney is goat in looks, perfect hair though. Understand what you are saying. Im gonna work on my self image cause its been fucked since i shaved my head
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:49 PM
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Cool, i was actually hoping you would say all those techniques wasnt needed. I been trying to understand seduction and how to interact with women, but as you say, it messes with me more than it helps. When i was a teenager, before ever reading any seduction help, i was natural at talking to women
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:43 PM
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So no fancy push pull, neg or high value stories ?
/r/seduction01/12/21 04:33 PM
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In my opinion its the type of sex. If she likes to bang several guys a week, get choked, gagged slapped and spat on, she is slutty
/r/seduction27/11/21 06:36 PM
2

This is easy to say, hard to do. I dont have anything to say. I can easily approach the hottest girl when i have something to say. Asking directions for example. But right now, when i see a girl giving me signals that she likes how i look, i cant come up with anything to say. I dont really care what she's about, i just want to fuck when i see a pretty girl.
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:55 PM
2

How do you progress then ? I dont know how to walk up to a guy and talk also
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:49 PM
2

So go up to women on the street and say i really want to ram it up their butt, gonna start tonight
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:05 AM
2

What do you say if you cant make it sexual ? I never know what to say, even when a girl is giving me strong signals that she want me to approach
/r/seduction25/11/21 07:57 AM
0

And didnt it make you want his validation even more ?
/r/seduction14/11/21 11:15 AM
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So you have sex with a hot girl, and her keeping her bra on makes you feel like you should have jerked off instead ? Fuck off.. The hottest girl i have been with left her bra on, i tried to take it off mid sex, she stopped me, and i accepted and kept on. She was flat as a washing board, but the experience was great
/r/seduction12/11/21 09:48 PM
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I have no issue talking to people, i just dont have anything to talk about. You really put in some work!
/r/seduction11/11/21 08:02 PM
4

How were you before, and what did you do/read to get this far ?
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:51 PM
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This is well thought out, well written, and seems like really good advice, well done! I remembered AMS on youtube saying that he would approach a girl, ask for number, and if she wasnt interested, he would leave respectfully, cause he also said that women will be nice just to avoid getting slapped or some other stuff. Can i ask you, when you see a guy you find attractive, is your first thought "i would like to fuck him" or more like "i would like to get to know him" ?
/r/seduction11/11/21 07:49 PM
1

So is teasing kind of "overrated" ? Is it really about just showing interest and leading back to bed ?
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:41 PM
1

You ever have a plan on what to say, or use certain techniques, or do you just ask plain everyday questions ?
/r/TheRedPill05/11/21 02:39 PM
6

Sure, what i got from your eye contact post was that you was a player who got girls. Not trying to hate or disprove you, you are way ahead of me in this, i cant even approach when girls give me obvious signals
/r/TheRedPill04/11/21 01:01 PM
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You are the one who wrote a post about eye contact right ? How does that line up with you seeming like a "newbie" now ?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 06:50 PM
1

Can you give good examples of proper teasing and escalation that you have used ? What do you talk about, on approach, dates and at the house before sleeping together
/r/seduction03/11/21 04:19 PM
1

Thanks. How long did you spend on each ? I have a hard time remembering what i read
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 03:59 PM
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So is it "just" the sidebar and then go out and practice ? Even though i could get girls back when i was confident, and got a kid and all
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 07:04 PM
1

Obviously aint it ? Mad that we have to filter through shit posts like yours before we find good stuff worth reading. Dark triad my ass
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:03 PM
1

There should be a mod on this sub to delete this kind of shit advice
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:00 PM
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You say "i happened to chat this girl up, fun convo" and all that. How do you do it ? How do you just chat a girl up and make her laugh ? I cant make anybody laugh
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 10:57 PM
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Leagues do exist, thats why looks matter a hell of a lot. Solid advice though
/r/seduction28/10/21 07:45 PM
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Do you mean OP post is shit or ?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 04:09 PM
1

I didnt gain any insight from models, at all. Even though i wanted to
/r/seduction23/10/21 08:12 PM
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He is. He gives "weak" advice, and then try to sell his real advice through a dm.
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:57 PM
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So if your money was shit, and your mental health also was bad, how did you do it ?
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:51 PM
1

Then what is it ? Game ? If i go up to a woman thinking "i have to make her laugh" then i already lost
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:25 PM
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I asked him once before, and he then dm'ed me and ended up wanting money for his teachings
/r/seduction18/10/21 03:24 PM
1

What do you talk to a completely stranger random guy about in a bar ?
/r/seduction17/10/21 07:37 PM
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Dont feel like it. Cant do interesting thing without friends and money
/r/seduction13/10/21 08:38 AM
1

Cool thanks. The thing is back in my young days, when i was fit and had good hair and confidence i could talk and "seduce" without thinking. Now i got fat and bald and have read so much shit online that im to in my own head to even do the most basic small talk
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:32 AM
1

Im boring as hell so nothing to talk about there
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:24 AM
3

Could you give an example of a question that wont make it sound interview like
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:24 AM
2

Dont have alot of friends. But when we are together we dont talk that much. I feel im boring and dont got shit going on. I kind of rely on my friends to have something to tell
/r/seduction13/10/21 07:23 AM
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What do you talk about on dates ? Never been on a proper date
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:00 AM
1

Whats the right way to use them ?
/r/seduction13/10/21 02:42 AM
1

What do you say to a girl you just walked up to ? Do your mindset sound like "i have to use this technique" "have to impress" "have to demonstrate high value" ?
/r/seduction12/10/21 08:46 PM
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I got it on the dick and i feel lucky i dont have oral
/r/seduction06/10/21 05:49 AM
3

"Theres a spider on the wall behind you"
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:53 PM
1

Been to therapy alot in my life, also after my ex dumped me. Shit never worked, and it was many sessions each time. But thanks for your concern, have a good evening.
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:10 PM
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Trying, and i see my muscle definition changed since started working out. The chest and belly fat are still there and looks shitty. Bald head and eating finasteride everyday probably isnt helping either. But when i see a completely bald man i get confirmed how shitty it looks. Then i get sad that im bald and lonely, then i comfort eat some shit and the circle continues
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:06 PM
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How do you figure that ? Im obese and insecure because of my fat and my bald head, so therefor i dont socialize because i dont feel comfortable in my own body. When im with trusted friends i know, i feel pretty good.
/r/seduction02/10/21 08:01 PM
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What did you talk about when you was trying to start conversation?
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:32 PM
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The answer to all your questions in the first part is sadly, but truthfully, a big NO. 30 year old, single dad, fat, bald with minor gynocomastia. Unskilled labour, no education and no social life. I work, workout and see my son every other weekend. For example, you say build a little rapport. What does that even mean ? I know deep down im good at talking, my friends all say that, but i block myself mentally. I can easily be completely honest with a women but that would mean me going up to a hot…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 07:21 PM
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Well i was able to do this before i became a bald fat dad and fucked myself up by consuming to much seduction info. Now im sitting here like a ultra loser thinking "what should i say to her when i meet her, what should we talk about when she comes to my apartment" All that overthinking and reading online guides has fucked me up. When i was a teen i did it all naturally without nobody telling me how. I got the girl i wanted in high school, but now i cant even approach a girl that is giving me the…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 07:19 PM
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Go to work, workout, eat, watch tv, sleep, repeat. And then I see my son every other weekend. No social life, unskilled manual labour.
/r/seduction02/10/21 07:10 PM
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For fucks sake. Enough with the same old posts. Everybody knows this. But when you really are far from a prize, its not possible. Self improve instead
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:30 PM
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Dont know. I dont think so
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:21 PM
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Dont know. I just constantly think, never have a quiet moment in my head
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:19 PM
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Exactly. Im nobody, nothing special, no hobbies, interests or good stories to tell. Dont have strong opinions and no good observationskills. I used to, but now im living in constant brain fog/being in my head. I always have my inner voice questioning everything, not thinking im good enough, thinking about what if's and overthinking everything. I cant just be present in the moment and say whats on my mind.
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:15 PM
1

So how does one become polarizing ?
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:55 PM
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I didnt get one useful advice from it. Nothing changed in my mind after reading it.
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:42 PM
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Im gonna read this later when i got more time, im looking forward to it. Realized it was short, and just read it. Obviously you have social skills, know how to escalate and all that. So this didnt help me. What do you talk about with these girls ? What do you do to get what you want ?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:25 PM
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So when you have zero interest, hobbies and no life stories to tell, then what ?
/r/seduction02/10/21 05:21 PM
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Are they by any chance tall, slim/fit and handsome, otherwise this sounds like bs. How do they train bitches like dogs on the daily
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:20 PM
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Quickest way : investment banking. Got it, just gonna go take 5 years in school, thats quick
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 05:09 PM
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Are you serious ? Doesnt matter what to say ?
/r/askTRP28/09/21 06:35 AM
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I also think its hard, so hard im not doing it. I have noticed in situations where im forced to interact with a women, im pretty good, but just walking up to someone and starting to talk is hard, cause i have nothing to say.
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:32 PM
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Everybody says "no reason you cant game while being ugly". But the guys that say it probably arent ugly. Im obese for example, and im not going up to a stunning blonde 10 of a fitness babe and trying to smooth talk her, with my man boobs, love handle and gut showing through my shirt. And im sure as shit not trying to game ugly chicks that im not turned on by, so its monk mode for me until i look good in a t-shirt. If you are not obese, i would say fitting clothes, good haircut and hygiene and yo…
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:27 PM
5

Dont pay for something thats free online
/r/seduction24/09/21 08:36 PM
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Thanks. So you didnt think "i have to neg, I have to push/pull" and i have to tease and be funny in the interaction ? Cause i have to say, when i was a teenager i didnt have this anxiety. I somehow developed it and after i have started to read about seduction, i have been so in my head i cant do shit. Even when a girl is giving me a clear look that she wants me to approach her. When I was 15 i havent talked to anybody about pulling girls, but i still got the girl i set my eye on, and did all the…
/r/seduction24/09/21 08:23 PM
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If you dont know what to say after complementing her necklace its still hard. I would complement her, she would thank me and i wouldnt know shit to say so i would stop the convo right after making it awkward as hell
/r/seduction24/09/21 05:21 AM
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What do they start talking to you about ?
/r/seduction18/09/21 05:24 AM
3

How do guys get your number then ? And we only have looks to go by when we approach, then setting up a date to get to know the girl
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:04 PM
-1

How hung are you ? Im guessing 10
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 09:49 PM
1

So how do you do it ? How did you get her so invested in you ?
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:30 PM
1

I read sockpuppets guide on teasing. Read up on amused mastery but it doesnt click with me. Im gonna check your link now
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 07:04 PM
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Not strong opinions that will make for good discussions. Im being honest now. I go to work, go to the gym, and then go home and watch tv. Every other weekend im with my son, and then very rarely i go visit one friend at his house, or another friend at his house. 2 friends is what i have, and they live with their wife and kids, so we always just sit and small talk, eat and then i go home again. The few guys i used to hang with before i got a kid, we smoked some joints, played fifa and sometimes w…
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:37 PM
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Been in 2 relationships, 5 year each. And in those relationships i didnt go out and do shit. Never been on a holiday with the guys. Never done any interesting stuff to talk about. No education, manual unskilled labour. So its acutally easy to go through life without doing much
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:16 PM
2

So asking a girl about herself and getting her to talk is better than trying to impress and make fun ?
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:38 PM
1

I understand what you mean and appreciate you helping, but teasing and joking is something i have a hard time wrapping my head around. My friends has told me im funny, and their girlfriends usually enjoy my company alot, but when it comes to me trying to pull a girl, I get so in my head that i almost get performance anxiety to the point of me never even trying
/r/seduction14/09/21 04:33 PM
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So just ask her about her self then. I kind of noticed something at work. I work a place where we have alot of small interactions with lorry drivers, and i noticed when im in a good mood i always ask them about their day and what they are up to in the weekend. And when they come around again 1 or 2 weeks later, they remember and are happy to see me. Although its men, i guess the social aspect of it is the same with women
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:34 PM
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Thats a good advice. Trying to vision in my head how i could go about it without it coming off like a interview
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:31 PM
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I watched AMS and he approaches girls, asking if they would like a drink some time. He said girls will entertain and talk with you just for the sake of doing it, even if they are not interested, so he just gets it out there as soon as possible. I wouldnt have a problem walking up to a girl asking her that, but i fear the aftermath of conversation where i feel I have to perform and be funny and flirty and all that shit
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 02:36 PM
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So, its not a problem going up to a girl saying hi, the problem comes after, when you have zero things to talk about. Even going up and asking for a number is easy, either she gives you number or not. But if you get her on a date then what ? I have zero things to say. No funny stories, no strong opinions, no knowledge, nothing.
/r/seduction14/09/21 08:50 AM
1

Sounds genuine. Reading about all these techniques got me fucked up to the point of being anxious, feeling like normal getting to know eachother is a chore
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:48 PM
2

Can you elaborate on the small talk ? And your thought process througout. What i mean is did you think of any seduction techniques and all that And with all respect, i must say, she is insanely pretty, well done.
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:04 PM
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Did you just walked up, introduced yourself and asked for her number ? No small talk, making jokes or something iike that ?
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:14 PM
1

So when you already fucked up and read about it, how to "unlearn" and basically just be natural ?
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:01 PM
1

It seems so simple, that i dont understand why i make it out to be such a big deal in my mind. I thought you have to do this and that, make it sexual, and all that shit. Appreciate you helping out
/r/seduction06/09/21 10:18 PM
1

How are guys like you allowed to post on the main sub ? I thought it was only for EC content.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 10:00 PM
1

Yes i actually was. Not kidding in like i want to hear how you keep a convo and make the move though
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:56 PM
3

You dont use any pua stuff either ? Push/pull, neg all that shit ?
/r/seduction06/09/21 08:05 PM
1

So when do the slick suave push/pull neg peacoking come into place ?
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:22 PM
1

Talk about what ?
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:12 PM
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You said your friends get girls without having game, no push/pull and all that. That just shows that its not needed, and as some wise man said, you cant talk yourself into pussy, you can only talk yourself out
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 05:11 PM
1

How would you tease based on those replies ? I really struggle to see how the responses gives possibilities to go further. I admit im not very social
/r/seduction05/09/21 02:04 PM
1

How do you just talk to all these people ? What do you say, how do you keep it going ? I know since you are handsome they also make it easier to have a convo for you but still, impressive
/r/seduction04/09/21 09:38 PM
1

Thanks, will check it after. I see hygiene talked about alot, do some guys have very bad hygiene or what ? I thought everybody showered and brushed teeth daily
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:02 PM
1

Will do. Im seeing this video right now https://youtu.be/45q_06gl0f8 That guy is laid back as hell
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:51 PM
1

Thanks, im 1/3 through models on audiobook right now. Just looked up some tykwandoe videos, the videos he reacts to are good, but tykwandoe himself is annoying as hell
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:30 PM
1

But HOW do you say things then ?
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:39 PM
2

Where do you find what to read ?
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:35 PM
1

Sounds simple, and i would rather avoid focusing on techniques.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 05:45 PM
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My friends say im good at it, i just get in my head thinking i have to "Make her laugh" "Push pull" "Demonstrate value" and all types of shit. I was better with women when i was 15 and havent read a single piece of litterature on seduction, funny how that works
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 09:14 PM
1

Im so inexperienced socially that i wouldnt know what to say anyway, at the first approach or all that. Been reading around but cant seem to figure it out
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 09:10 PM
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What do you do with them on these dates, and what do you talk about ? These girls seem like the type that dont make conversation, so its up to the guy to do it all, but how do you do that?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 09:05 PM
1

Would appreciate your help, if you want money for it i got to pass
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:02 PM
1

This makes alot of sense. I have this crazy expectation that i have to be funny, demonstrate high value, neg, push/pull and all this shit, that got me so nervous i dont even know how to do it anymore.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:33 PM
1

"If conversation is good"... How do you make good conversation ? Do you HAVE to be funny ?
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:58 PM
4

Where do a guy go to learn all this you describe as what you want ? -make a woman think about me sexually -make her horny - interesting convo The likes of that
/r/seduction24/08/21 12:43 PM
5

Tinder is for whatever you want. You get the biggest selection and the prettiest people on tinder, at least in my area where its the most popular. Alot of people use it for finding relationships here
/r/seduction22/08/21 06:36 AM
1

I have noticed you, giving good comments in a lot of threads. How do you approach women ? Do you have it planned in your head, do you always make them laugh, and what else ? You seem like you know some stuff
/r/seduction17/08/21 07:15 PM
1

Something witty ? This is always the hardest part
/r/seduction17/08/21 06:51 PM
1

Thanks, i think you are right.
/r/seduction16/08/21 08:00 PM
1

Looks are all that matter to anyone
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:54 AM
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No you dont have to. But being obese and trying to make a move on a women will probably end with a rejection, making the obese guy more self conscious
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:31 AM
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I have read alot like this, but sometimes its not true. If you feel like shit in your body cause or overweight, then the last thing you feel like doing is to present yourself to some of the other gender. You have to feel good/sexy about yourself
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:11 PM
2

How on earth do you do this ? Cold approach during day or at a bar ? Do you remember how you followed up that line ? Guess it wasnt just normal boring conversation
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:52 PM
1

You end up sleeping with that girl or ?
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:23 PM
1

29, we can talk in chat if you would like. Appreciate all the help i can get from like minded people
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:02 PM
1

I know, but i based it on our troubled past, she used to be afraid of me due to my emotional abuse and anger outbursts. So i didnt want her to think that the good time we had yesterday was a front from my side, just to get in her pants. I have always been chubby in our relationship and let myself go at the end, im a tall good looking guy, so when i become ripped i sure hope she will try to come at me again, even though we been 2 years apart, i still hope she dreams of a good family with me. She …
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:48 AM
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I apologized to her today, and she thanked me for my apology. I will work on fitness, and everything now, and let her come to me if she feels like it. I wrote in the apology that i just had such a good time talking and laughing with her that i wanted to continue the day in her companionship.
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:31 AM
1

What is good books then, "models" maybe ? Be interesting, in what way ? Right now i dont got alot going for me to be a interesting guy.
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:37 AM
1

Oh okay. Im thinking of texting her an apology today if i crossed a boundary yesterday, but i just enjoyed her company so much i wanted to continue the day. I wanted to have sex with her, because i want her back. Not just to use her for sex, but i can see now she might think that
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:24 AM
1

Working on all of those. Just got worried that i messed it all up by indirectly asking for sex yesterday. Really want a family with her again
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:48 AM
1

It was not JUST to fuck. It was because i want her back i tried to do it. Should i apologize for it to her today ?
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:33 AM
1

Well it was only the winking emoji, but i see what you mean
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:32 AM
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I just miss her so god damn much, and everything she brought to my life by being a good mom
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:32 AM
1

Wow. Thats rude
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:31 AM
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Will look into the book thanks. When you or others say "something like a joke" i always get nervous. Cause i cant think of jokes, or come up with them
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:50 PM
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Appreciate it. This sounds like you just approach to get number, you dont do any conversation in the first approach ? If you get her on a date then, how do you have a good convo ? And between getting the number and going on a date I guess you also have to text her. Im a complete newbie at this
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:13 PM
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Care to explain ? Im admitting it because once she mentioned it as a reason for the breakup i looked it up online and saw my behaviour sometimes was close to what i read. I had never heard the term emotional abuse before that. And it wasnt something i did to hurt her or a purposeful act, it was just how I was. And i also know where it comes from. Done therapy since then and worked on alot of stuff, i just cant let go, cause now i see how good she was for me and our kid, and i know how i should h…
/r/seduction11/08/21 10:11 PM
1

How you know so certain ?
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:48 PM
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But seriously, talk about what ? For me it seems weird to go up to a stranger and try to force a convo
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:34 PM
1

Thanks. Im halfway through how to not give a fuck, so im gonna finish that and then get the others
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:00 AM
1

This hit hard, thanks. I actually feel its me feeling i lost the family life, cause i dont think i cared to much about her at all, and thats why i acted like i did. And then its the good guy thing, where i want to make it up to her by showing her how i should have treated her. So maybe its my ego talking. She was never really my type Edit : hope you see my edit and will reply. When i think about the past, the 6 years we shared, i was way happier in life when I was with her. Her body and apperanc…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 06:53 PM
1

Well i have been doing therapy and working on myself. In what you have seen, did the man initiate it again, or let the women come ? I kind of feel like i have to let her come to the conclusion that she wants something, and i just have to be cordial and happy and respectful whenever we see eachother, at drop offs for example. I want to ask her to do something with me and the kid, but last i suggested it she said she had work, so guess its up to her now right ?
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 06:48 PM
1

Really appreciate you helping me. Im not on instagram, guess thats kind of weird these days. I really like your explaining of things, and i think i do this naturally when i feel good. So getting in shape will probably help me alot. I dont like to talk about myself so thats sorted, but the thing i have most trouble with is when you write "strike up a little convo", how is this done ? And then i have a mental hurdle like "if i ask her questions she knows i want her". Im gonna read How to win frien…
/r/seduction10/08/21 03:40 PM
1

So you dont HAVE to be funny, or cocky, or push/pull, negging all that pua shit ? Cause i kind of got into my head that i have to do certain things. Im in the gym 6 days a week right now
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:50 AM
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I know nothing about women apparently. Appreciate it. Do you as a women think its possible to get an ex back after emotional abuse ? The women i have a kid with dumped me, and was justified in doing so, i was a horrible man. But now that im slowly getting over it i realized what i had, a good girlfriend and a good family.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 09:56 AM
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Can you explain what the motivation and priorities needs and perspectives are in a woman compared to a man ? Genuinely curious
/r/ExRedPill10/08/21 08:44 AM
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I see, good point there about why she did what she did. All i want now is the family back, since i realized how good of a woman she was for me, and a good mother. I will try my best to detox
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 08:32 AM
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Where do i find it ? Are you happier now than before ? Cause thats all i wanna be, just happy.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/21 04:45 AM
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I have 3 good friends, 2 of them have wife and kids, not alot of time, and third friend work different hours than me. But still, im not the guy who sits and talks and talks with my friends, and thats probably why my social life has died out. Now at 29 years old with no life, its not easy going out to make friends. I honestly dont know where to begin
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 06:35 PM
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Well, 2 years ago, she dumped me after 5 years. 6 months into the breakup we had sex and i had a chance to get her back, but i messed up by still behaving badly. Now to this day, i still miss her, and the whole family environment, all the trips we took, car rides and family dinners, everything. I miss it to the point of crying when i think about it. I cant seem to move on because of this. I still hope that when she sees me being ripped (i was always abit chubby, but i let myself go completely in…
/r/ExRedPill08/08/21 04:44 PM
3

Spam what ? I got "error" message when trying to post, so i tapped it some times, that may be why
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 08:46 PM
1

Thanks. Im gonna look up the chapter about sexual transmutation. It was just the whole "think it and it will happen" buzz that got me turned off
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:57 PM
1

I understand that, and guess thats healthy. But it sounded like a cult to me, and it has alot of made up stuff, in my opinion. But in general, be positive, and have a positive outlook on things is solid advice. I dumped the book and started "Subtle art of not giving a fuck" by Mark Manson
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:42 PM
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I understand that, and guess thats healthy. But it sounded like a cult to me, and it has alot of made up stuff, in my opinion. But in general, be positive, and have a positive outlook on things is solid advice. I dumped the book and started "Subtle art of not giving a fuck" by Mark Manson
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:41 PM
3

And you live in the west ?
/r/ExRedPill05/08/21 02:12 PM
1

Im about 50 or 60 pages in, at the point where they start to mention how to use the secret in different aspects, like to lose weight, and i must say, i feel kind of weird reading this. It seems like a huge scam some clever people came up with to make money. Im interested in how you liked it
/r/seduction04/08/21 07:55 PM
1

Who mentioned my mum ? Quit acting so hard. Cant you hear how stupid it is ? "Booohooo another man teached her, i should be the one teaching her" Insecure shit
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 04:39 AM
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Wont eat, drink or use shampoo, got it.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 04:06 PM
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I think you gave this to much thought. The way you are describing this seems abit off. So you think all girls will do this or what is it you are getting at ? Or maybe you are the boyfriend ?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 07:27 PM
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Maybe because its abit stupid. A girl isnt a slut cause she likes a proper blowjob. They are just freaky and dirty, as all are
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 11:32 AM
1

Did you develop your social skills based on something you learned here on reddit or ? Nuclear engineer sounds exciting
/r/seduction02/08/21 04:42 AM
1

Guess i gotta stop worrying about finasteride and just shave the shit. Been buzzing for 2 years with no guard and still dont like the look. But in my head i sometimes think its baldness keeping me from girls, while its probably more being obese and feeling uncomfortable in my own body. The baldness shit really took a hit on the confidence.
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:37 PM
1

Will look into it. We have free education counselor in my country, so i think i should call them
/r/seduction01/08/21 04:09 PM
1

How much do you think the weight loss helped your future success ? Was it the thinh that got everything rolling?
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:48 PM
1

Im not interested or like any things. I kinda feel im in depression at the moment. Hoping working out and getting fit will sort some of my problems
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:40 PM
1

Dont know exactly what you mean by the dad stories, but one thing i always felt i lacked when it comes to dating, is stories. I have lived such a boring life until now
/r/seduction01/08/21 03:37 PM
2

Appreciate this. It feels completely overwhelming to do anything at the moment. Even cleaning my car or apartment seems like big tasks. I just had my son for 3 weeks straight on vacation, and after dropping him off i became depressed, cause now i got nothing.
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:25 PM
1

Skilled trades, what is that ? Like carpenter ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:22 PM
1

Just picked it up at the library, thanks
/r/seduction01/08/21 02:17 PM
1

Holy shit, Tim Ferries ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:52 PM
1

Who is it by ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 01:10 PM
2

Hahaha yes sure it is. Fucking a 60 year old when you are 25 is fucked up, you done the same ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 10:14 AM
1

You got a head full of hair ?
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:26 AM
1

Isnt it the time at his moms place that will make him into who he will be ? And i want to show him what it means to be a man, although i havent been acting like a real man since he was born. I have been bitching and nagging, yelling at him, talked down to him, emotionally abused his mom and that type of shit. I dont feel like a man, or know how a man acts since i didnt have a good role model when i was a kid. My dad brought food on the table and made good money, but i cant remember one single li…
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:22 AM
1

Dont do it. I speak from experience. This will nag on you in the back of your mind for the entire relationship. On another note, its fucking disgusting of her.
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:20 AM
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Can i ask you what you mean exactly ? Althoug i only have him every other weekend, i try to be there for him, its hard though. Just had him for 3 weeks vacation, and when i dropped him off i felt depression kicking in right away. Life felt so quiet
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:16 AM
1

Thanks
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:14 AM
1

Thank you !
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:13 AM
1

So no girls in 10 years, or was it because you were in a relationship ? Would you mind telling me more ? It can be private message if you want
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:12 AM
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Appreciate the comment, but i dont have that energi, or know how to entertain conversationally. Im boring, and dont care about anything. I put all my life away when i became a dad, and then when she dumped me 2 years ago, i felt lost and now i dont know who i am anymore
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:11 AM
1

How so ? Sounds interesting
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:09 AM
2

Only one. And he is the sole reason of all my worries
/r/seduction01/08/21 08:08 AM
1

Comforting. I have a habit of comparing to my chad friend, and my ex wife who is killing it jobwise. Gotta just clean my apartment, car and diet and then sort shit out
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:28 PM
1

Well we all have to be willing to push through, right ? Cant just give up
/r/seduction31/07/21 11:01 PM
2

Im gonna go to the library monday and check the self improvement section. Gonna try to replace night time netflix with nighttime reading
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:51 PM
1

Appreciate the comment. Its just been hard since i had to borrow money from the bank to spend on holiday with my boy, and getting some car bills spread out on instalments. It doesnt feel like the thing a grown up dad does, to me.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:48 PM
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There is absolutely zero. When i was a kid i dreamed about being a cop like i saw on tv, now i dont want anything like that. I cant remember anything from my childhood about what i liked to do. I was always anxious and nervous, scared of my dad and scared of the big kids at school. There is some mental problems, but i have seen different shrinks and none of it has helped.
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:37 PM
2

What was that neat little trick ? How did you turn it around, i mean what did your life end up like ?
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:07 PM
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Will check it later. Thanks. But having a family with a wife that supports is abit different to being alone and having apartment and car bills. But i have to do something, dont want to be an unskilled labour worker for life, the thing is i dont have any interests at all
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:58 PM
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Hope so. Just went out with a friend tonight to play pool, and everybody was talking and having fun, and i miss that from my teenage years. I could make people laugh and just be fun in the moment. Now 2 years after a bad breakup, weight gain and hair loss i feel like a different person
/r/seduction31/07/21 09:57 PM
6

The weight part is "easy", the getting friends and women and education is harder
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:47 PM
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I take comfort in your comment. I would like to get an education so i have a good job, and be a good role model for my son, but he is 6 years old now, so when im done he is a teenager. And if i have to quit my job now to take an education, my salary goes down and i cant take him out doing fun shit
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:46 PM
0

Is that really true though ?
/r/seduction30/07/21 07:25 PM
1

I think its depression to be honest. I have so much negative shit floating around in my mind
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:56 PM
2

Thanks
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:51 PM
2

Dont know no jokes. And literally cant think of things to talk about
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:42 PM
1

You say "learn to lead, be funny and have a conversation" We all want to learn, but how do you learn ?
/r/seduction30/07/21 05:09 PM
1

Okay, this is way to much work for me. Im trying to imagine the scenario in my head, and im exhausted. Respect to guys that do this. I guess im to boring
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:18 PM
1

Yes but the wording, leading towards sex and being cocky funny is hard when you dont know shit, and dont do shit but work, workout and sleep. How would you gather info on common interests without interviewing her ?
/r/seduction30/07/21 04:17 PM
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Yes, but im evil at times, and i emotionally abused her. Although i could have changed if i knew she was about to dump me. I didnt see it coming cause i was focused on the wrong stuff.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 04:15 PM
1

"Pull up a chair and TALK" about what if i may ask ? This is what always makes me nervous to the point of not making moves on girls i know are interested in me, dont know what to talk about.
/r/seduction29/07/21 09:55 PM
1

Did you by any chance go from "zero to hero" and if so what litterature helped you ?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 09:36 PM
3

Smooth operator. Im trying to learn all this, but feel overwhelmed with info at times.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 08:26 PM
2

You must be handsome as hell right ? What do you talk about on these dates to set the mood ? Or doesnt it matter what you talk about ?
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 07:47 PM
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One tip is to never call someone your buddy and then proceed to go on a date with their ex gf.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/21 07:44 PM
1

What is the purpose of this rant ? You would appreciate a hot girl hitting on you more than a ugly whale, its just normal life
/r/seduction29/07/21 01:13 PM
1

You do know your girlfriend knows about the insecurity and she will gladly lie to not hurt your ego, right ? With that said, 5 inches is fine
/r/seduction29/07/21 10:24 AM
1

Isnt it sad though that its the women who are done whoring around and now wants to settle ?
/r/seduction27/07/21 10:03 PM
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This was a humble, but not so humble brag, on a sub dedicated for people who cant seduce. You clearly have no problems seducing girls left right and centre, gotta respect it anyways, good job ;)
/r/seduction24/07/21 09:48 PM
2

That takes some balls, elaborate on the convo and the texting that followed.
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:05 PM
2

How the hell did you do all this shit looking like that ? Are you by any chance handsome in the face and hung like a horse ? Im contemplating starting propecia to save my hair, but if you could do all this shit with a bald head, i can to
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 07:55 PM
1

How bald were you though ? And how the hell did you do all this with a dad bod and being bald ? Dad bod isnt obese right ?
/r/TheRedPill24/07/21 05:26 PM
1

But watching other people fuckin is still weird ? Would you sit in a corner beating your dick to your friend fuckin a girl ?
/r/seduction23/07/21 08:02 PM
4

Is this also found in the seduction sidebar ?
/r/seduction22/07/21 04:54 PM
2

His mom wont tell him, she is a good person and wants him and me to have the best relationship possible. What i meant was is i told him about how i made her cry by being abusive, he will hate me. When he was 3 or something he walked in on her crying and tried to comfort her, because she was unhappy with me. I havent been the best father also, i just took the emotional abuse out on him lately, so i wont speculate in it anymore. Im trying to redeem myself as a good father
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 07:48 AM
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I cant tell if we agree, but im gonna teach him about women, from the things i read here at TRP, but the stuff i did to his mom i wont tell, cause he will hate me for it. I can tell how i wasnt a good husband, but the specifics about emotional abuse is not something to take lightly
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 04:54 PM
1

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 08:12 AM
1

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:56 AM
1

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:55 AM
1

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:54 AM
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Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:53 AM
2

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:53 AM
2

Or maybe when he's a teenager. What im not going to tell him is how i made his mom cry because i was evil
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 07:53 AM
2

Which guys have you found useful ?
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:03 PM
4

Do you mean watch them to learn, and then stop watching and go out and put into practice ? How do you internalize something ?
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:47 PM
5

What if you cant start or hold a conversation, and dont know shit about flirting ? Isnt a guy like AMS aka Alpha Male Strategies a good guide ? Its not like he tries to sell or make you feel or do anything.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:46 PM
2

Why does he deserve to know ? As a 5 year old kid or what do you mean exactly ? She is a slut, she was a slut before i got her pregnant, and im sure she is a bigger slut after 5 years relationship with me. But nobody wants to see their parents as sexual, and telling him his mom is finding guys to be with wont do him good. If he asks when he gets older, im not gonna lie, but me doing an effort to tell him about seems abit off to me. The thing is i dont know is she frequently does anything. We liv…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 03:33 PM
2

Im not gonna tell him his mom is with alot of men. Thats not good. And she left me because i was being emotionally abusive. Me calling her a slut is because she is active on online dating/hook up sites, so i dont know if she bangs 100s of men, i just assume it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 12:44 AM
2

Thanks man, those words means alot to me. Any example ? My dad and mom lived together, but my dad didnt teach me anything i remember
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 02:58 PM
-3

She is a slut because she fucks around, she can still be a good mom
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 02:58 PM
2

I live 1 hour away from him, always have been, and for the first 3-3,5 years of his life, when i was with his mom, we also lived like this, so i mostly saw him on weekends, although it was every weekend then. Right now i cant give up my work and everything to move to a new city. Have no money saved up, and no education, so right now, this is the only way. Sometimes 50/50 isnt whats best for the child, its whats best for the parents, but when he gets older i have to move close to him
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 02:20 PM
3

His mom is not a bitch though. Full custody isnt possible, at all. He loves football, fighting and is a real boy. Thanks for your advice
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 11:55 AM
6

This is the type of family my son is growing up in. He is with me every other weekend, and his mom is a mega slut sucking and fucking thousands of men. What will the consequenses be ? He is 5 now and seems like he has it good, and i dont think he knows his mom is whoring around
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 11:23 AM
2

Im on it, working out and tracking calories
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 09:38 PM
1

No can do sir. Im obese and bald, pale skin tone and got nothing, absolutely nothing going on in life, cant talk with a girl, got nothing to talk about, no stories to tell and dont know how to sexualize. But fuck it..back when i was on tinder i got 2 girls ready to meet, but i didnt do it since i dont feel good in my own skin
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 09:17 PM
1

Sure they do, im just fucked mentally. Cant see bald guys without thinking it looks disgusting, seeing guys with good hair and getting jealous. Im in a deep rut at the moment
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 09:11 PM
2

Neil Strauss, is he the ugly as hell guy? How do we know he's legit and its not a set-up ? Really hard to beleive his stupid trick like the cube or what it was, combined with that look works
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 08:57 PM
1

No my face is pretty good. Good jaw and eyes. 6 feet 4 but overweight at the moment
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 02:42 PM
0

Any of the guys in your story bald ? Cause being bald at 30 years old means no young girls
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 07:59 AM
2

How did you get to this point ? Via RedPill, or are you just a natural ?
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 01:24 PM
1

Admire that attitude, very much. Well, im in the process of going from obese to fit, i think alot of my insecurity and bad feelings come from being obese and not feeling comfortable in my own skin and clothes. Next im gonna figure out an education. 29 years old with a 5 year old son and no education always gets me down when i think about it. The thing keeping me back is overweight, and going from a blue collar salary down to student pay, it will be hard to have my kid with me when we dont have m…
/r/seduction13/07/21 08:39 PM
3

Love this, no nonsense post, just gold gems
/r/TheRedPill11/07/21 08:55 PM
1

Good advice, well written. It makes sense, im just feeling i cant add anything to a girls life, and deep down i dont care about her, only want to fuck her. Guess that mindset is toxic
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:16 PM
2

Well, being socially inept isnt funny, and i cant just go up to a girl and talk, because im boring, and deep down, im not interested in her, only in fucking her
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:13 PM
1

Yes, why not
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:12 PM
1

Well, i have noticed that when im with friends that i trust, i can talk, also with their girlfriends, but when it comes to making moves on a girl, even when the situation is there, i get stone cold. The hottest girl i have ever seen, decided to use one of the two water coolers at the gym recently, right next to me as i was using the other one. Since i know im tall with a pretty face, even though im bald, i assumed it was a IOI from her, but i didnt do shit. Felt like a bitch afterwards, because …
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:11 PM
1

Bald men are fucked
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:30 PM
1

Is this something you can learn ? Start, hold and close
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:30 PM
1

Dont do anything with a dating coach. Just do you, and go get it. I will follow you for upcoming field reports, and please include the conversations, so guys like me who knows fuck all can learn
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:09 PM
2

What do "i flipped a bitch" mean ? And what did you talk about in the car ? Dont know why, but conversation is so hard for me.
/r/seduction10/07/21 09:02 PM
-9

You could have fucked both in an alley that evening. If i could get girls to say they were the fun ones in their group, i would go for it, i cant even approach a girl. How the hell do you just strike up conversation ?
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:59 PM
1

This is so easy to read and say yes to, but hard for me to do. How do i go up, start a convo and lead it to the bedroom, when i dont know what to say, what to do and how to lead anything anywhere
/r/seduction10/07/21 08:53 PM
1

Dont date old women. Enjoy being 18, and dating 18 year olds. When you get older you will wish you could still bang young girls
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:53 PM
1

I have no purpose at all. 29 year old dad to a 5 year old, living paycheck to paycheck with zero savings
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:31 PM
5

Not mine obviously. Im not interesting, or know how to talk to girls, so of course i decline since i get nervous in these situations. The thing is, when i talk with friends and my friends wives i have no problem
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:15 PM
3

But how though ? Walking into a room full of ladies, what do you do then ? I have a friend who, and im not kidding, on demand, can set me up with girls, but i dont know how to seduce so i always decline when he lines something up
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:44 PM
1

Your game ? You didnt do anything game related, you just danced. Game is seducing girls
/r/seduction04/07/21 09:52 AM
3

Im not getting any girls, at all, and it bothered me to begin with, but now i know it will come when the time is right. Its not important to me and i think in todays world its way to much how everything is about sex
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:04 AM
-3

Its important to you to hook up with pretty girls ?
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:17 PM
15

You may benefit from not putting so much attention to your sex life, or lack there of
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:01 PM
3

I just stopped finasteride. Didnt handle the side effects well, most people do though so have a talk with your doctor. My plan is to be bald and jacked
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 01:24 PM
3

Problem with a transplant is you have to take finasteride if you want to stop further loss, unless you get all of your dome transplanted, dont know if thats possible
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 12:35 PM
-1

Op mentioned his friend ?
/r/seduction01/07/21 11:21 AM
-1

Dont like the fact that porn addicts get alot of girls
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:49 AM
2

Remove him and forget about him. Tell people at your job you matched with a weirdo, and if a tall guy asks for you, they should tell that you stopped working there months ago
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:45 PM
24

I just want to tell you one thing, being a virgin at 25 isnt a bad thing in itself. Take the pressure of, and let it come due time, no rush.
/r/seduction29/06/21 09:39 PM
1

I got an idea that if you dont make her laugh you wont get the girl. And branching off topics is also abit hard. But i noticed when i talk to my mates girlfriends, its not hard, and they usually end up liking me, and i know its because theres no pressure, since its my mates girl, so its not a girl im sexually interested in
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:35 PM
1

So its actually fine to ask basic "boring" questions, and you dont have to be funny ?
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:03 PM
1

You are wrong sir
/r/seduction27/06/21 01:46 PM
-1

It does not matter what they are looking for. Why does it matter to you ?
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:56 PM
9

Forcing humor is never good, but i think alot of people do it, me including. I always heard girls tell me how much they liked a funny guy. But now im sure, that the guy a girl likes, will always be funny to her
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:48 PM
2

How did you have a convo ? Elaborate on that part, having a convo is the hardest for me. It was cool you went for the number. Asking a girl for her social media info is so lame imo
/r/seduction23/06/21 07:14 PM
2

Weight until you feel like it. Im obese at the moment, im 6 feet 4 so i carry the weight better than some could, but when i take of my shirt and look at my body, i feel disgusted. You have to feel good about yourself, no matter what. I know for a fact when im feeling good, i can shoot the shit with anybody, when im feeling down, i cant even talk with my mom. Take your time, sort your shit out and everything will follow. Thats what i think at least
/r/askTRP21/06/21 07:50 PM
1

Why ?
/r/askTRP21/06/21 05:12 PM
5

Did the sidebar save you ? Did you cut out porn ? What job did you end up getting ? Your story sounds inspiring
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:41 AM
4

I have been a bluepill beta most of my life, and i still think you sound weaker than me, wtf you on about ?
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:17 PM
3

I understand how you think. Im to fat at the moment, so im not doing anything regarding girls. Im uncomfortable in my own skin and clothes so im waiting. Respect if you just go out and approach anyways
/r/seduction13/06/21 06:45 AM
1

What wouæd turn you on then ?
/r/seduction09/06/21 10:17 PM
1

Okay. Guess its a mindset thing for most people then
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:10 PM
0

I meant, you said you got good looking women. But did you still have hair on top of your head ? Shaving your head looks way different depending on if you still have a hairline.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:59 AM
0

Did you really ? And you werent just buzzed? You only had hair on your sides ? Cause right now im buzzed without a guard, yet i still have a NW2 hairline, when that is gone and i only have hair on the sides my head will look distorted
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:05 AM
2

Her own medicine i see, good luck on the date
/r/seduction07/06/21 02:50 PM
1

Would you like if your ex got a guys number in front of you ?
/r/seduction07/06/21 02:39 PM
4

But how to push buttons sexually in the first text conversation ?
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:56 PM
1

I have a friend who get girls after plowing through, when the girls seems uninterested, so i guess it varies alot
/r/seduction31/05/21 02:24 PM
1

Extra hint : Girls are on tinder for different reasons. Some are legit looking for a boyfriend
/r/askTRP30/05/21 04:33 PM
1

Then its not how you say it always, if you say it cant be boring
/r/askTRP30/05/21 02:52 PM
5

Cant knock a guy for needing to read trp/pua stuff though
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:21 PM
1

What is free association ?
/r/seduction21/05/21 06:37 PM
3

How do i meditate and when in the day is it best ?
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:54 PM
1

How ?
/r/seduction21/05/21 05:53 PM
2

So telling girls you do want a relationship with the right women, when all you wanna do is fuck is settings yourself up for failure ?
/r/seduction19/05/21 11:23 PM
1

Appreciate your response mate, really do. In 1 week the gym opens again after a long corona lockdown, and im in there as soon as. I was just started on a good PPL program 6 times a week, tracking my workouts and all, and then everything shut down, and i fell back in my old habits of over eating and doing nothing.
/r/seduction11/05/21 06:20 PM
1

No problem ;)
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:46 PM
3

Oh my god. Such charisma you have. You cant teach that
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:57 PM
1

Watched alot of "charisma on command" on youtube. But sitting and trying to be charismatic seems unnatural
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:08 PM
1

How to be charismatic ?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:05 PM
2

Vin Diesel is ugly as hell. The rock isnt handsome. Just huge. But of course some girls like that
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:32 AM
1

So you fucked her ?
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:39 PM
1

Did you end up doing something with the 2 girls ?
/r/seduction09/05/21 06:27 PM
1

So lets say i want a girlfriend, but i live a boring life. How to go about it ? If i own who i am, im an overweight bald single dad who likes to watch movies and workout, and eat good food. Zero hobbies or opinions
/r/seduction09/05/21 01:40 PM
3

So just sit on the couch eating doritos ? Got you !
/r/seduction09/05/21 08:49 AM
1

Appreciate your answer. I know i wont do anything about it at the moment since i feel like a fat loser. Im counting calories and working out so its a matter of time
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:47 PM
2

Okay. If you dont mind helping, listen to this. At the moment im obese according to bmi standards. Im 6 feet 4 with a big frame so i dont look like a balloon. I have a good face and green eyes, im bald though. I also live a very bland life, so i dont feel i can give anything to a woman. All my friends and coworkers think im witty with fast remarks and that shit, but when it comes to girls i freeze. Dont know if its the confidence hit from looking at all the excess fat in the mirror. But girls sm…
/r/seduction05/05/21 07:03 PM
1

Sounds basic, not in a negative way, in a good way since it shows you dont have to do tricks and say some stupid shit like some people advocate. Do you REALLY wanna get to know them, or is it a front because you want to bang them ?
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:30 PM
2

Do they just reply "yes" and then you set up a date. No push/pull, negging or trying to be funny ? I have gotten in my head about all this, that i have no idea how to just be real.
/r/seduction05/05/21 06:15 PM
1

How do you approach, what do you say ?
/r/seduction05/05/21 05:41 PM
1

So when my only reason for talking to her is to get in her pants, then what ? Cant be authentic interested when you dont care about her at all
/r/seduction04/05/21 02:44 PM
2

Im sure girls dont wake up to another guy everyday
/r/askTRP02/05/21 07:45 PM
1

Cool. I dont know shit so i got confused
/r/askTRP30/04/21 09:09 PM
0

So there is no mack talk, smooth talking ? Its either she likes you, or not ?
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:01 PM
0

When would you do this ? First date ? Seems like it could go down very wrong whispering things like that
/r/askTRP30/04/21 08:00 PM
-1

Please elaborate that story
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:58 PM
1

Because it feels weird to ask a girl "what turns you on"
/r/seduction30/04/21 03:58 PM
1

What are the fundamentals of game then ?
/r/askTRP29/04/21 10:07 PM
8

You "struck up a convo" How ? I respect that alot, fuck the outcome, you won by going up to them in the first place, imo.
/r/seduction29/04/21 10:06 PM
5

Probably because you are not white. They love foreign
/r/TheRedPill27/04/21 11:43 AM
1

Example please. "More substance" Sounds reasonable, yet i dont understand
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:44 PM
1

Can you elaborate on "result is out of hand"
/r/seduction26/04/21 07:44 PM
2

Thats cold as hell, nice move
/r/askTRP26/04/21 06:20 PM
1

Hoping this is true, but do you know exactly what they are telling the girls, they could be teasing and doing all that shit 1on1 with the girls ?
/r/seduction26/04/21 01:07 PM
1

Got it on pdf, will start tonight
/r/askTRP26/04/21 12:57 PM
1

Did you guys learn this after finding trp, or is it just natural ?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 09:00 PM
4

New stuff is what makes most sense to me. Trying to manipulate and be fake seems like to much work
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:53 PM
1

What is the updated advice ?
/r/seduction23/04/21 06:41 PM
1

Will try, it seems abit unnatural to talk to a stranger. What the hell should i say to someone doing grocery shopping
/r/TheRedPill23/04/21 08:03 AM
4

In my case, being obese and therefor having zero confidence, isnt it advisable to become fit and feel good about yourself, before you start to invite somebody else into your life ?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 10:39 PM
1

Makes sense, appreciate it
/r/seduction22/04/21 09:16 AM
8

Im very bad at this, but what is the opposite of this ? Do guys try to act like they are not attracted to a girl or ? Isnt this also kind of giving her free validation ?
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:20 AM
7

So when you are 29 years old with no education, friends or any skills, then what ?
/r/seduction21/04/21 03:46 PM
1

Okay, now it makes more sense to me.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:35 PM
1

Appreciate you trying to explain, but i must be autistic cause it makes zero sense. Talk to them emotionally is something I dont understand. I will look it up though, thank you
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:06 PM
6

Okay, im shit at all this knowledge
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:49 PM
3

Could you give me one example of flirting you have done recently ? Im sure i have done it in my teen years before i got so in my head
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:44 PM
3

I have read sockpuppets guide on teasing, but it didnt make any sense to me. How do you say it then ? Do you make an effort to talk a certain kind of way ?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 01:34 PM
5

But even then, what do you say ?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 09:05 AM
9

Like the advise cause it takes alot of pressure off. But still, "dont talk and vibe", what does that mean ?
/r/seduction20/04/21 01:53 PM
2

Is that what he will get from soaking in quality content ?
/r/seduction18/04/21 08:04 PM
1

Whats wrong with it ? What should he have said ?
/r/seduction18/04/21 07:39 PM
1

Yeah okay. Well if you ever upload anything, i would like to hear it. Now i dont know shit, so take my advice with a grain of salt. I would advice you to do rapping as your side thing.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:46 PM
1

But its easy to hear if it sounds good or not, regardless of language.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:42 PM
1

Can i hear one of your songs ?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 09:41 PM
1

Exactly. Though im obese right now so im holding off on dating until i get down to when i feel comfortable. The advice is solid anyways
/r/seduction17/04/21 03:51 PM
18

Its also fine to NOT be dating someone constantly. Im obese and dont feel comfortable in my own body, so im not going out trying to charm a girl. If you dont feel good about yourself, you wont be able to charm and seduce a person. For some its knowing they have a good job, for others its feeling good in their new clothes. Dont beat yourself up.
/r/seduction16/04/21 07:36 PM
10

She is hot as hell. What did your bio said, and what was said in the voice message ?
/r/seduction15/04/21 09:17 AM
5

Ice cold
/r/askTRP14/04/21 08:46 AM
1

Any example ?
/r/askTRP14/04/21 01:10 AM
2

This sounds so fucking good. Any more specific advice to get to this stage ?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:27 PM
0

And even when you do, the bitch sometimes leaves and then your fucked. Never marry no matter what.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:25 PM
1

Okay, gonna check them out
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 11:24 PM
1

Is it the one where he is walking home with the girl in white jeans ? If so, it only shows one girl, and i think its the same girl everytime
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 11:21 PM
1

Lets say the answer to all of them is "nothing" What you gonna do next ?
/r/askTRP13/04/21 11:05 PM
1

Yeah okay, i get your point. That exact moment just felt weird when i watched it. Im not gonna act like im a RP guy, not even close. It just seemed insecure as hell that he would even care what a unfit waiter was doing. Do you think he is right in what he says, in general ? And where is his field report videos, is it something you have to pay for ?
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 11:03 PM
2

I really like him, but the video where he got butthurt that the waiter gave AMS' date more wine, ams seemed insecure as fuck in that video. And it makes me think, do these youtube guys practice what they preach.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/21 10:48 PM
1

Chris pratt doesnt look masculine. He looks goofy
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:44 PM
0

Have you done it also then ? Why isnt everybody doing this ?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 09:38 PM
1

Wet dreams isnt a problem for you ?
/r/askTRP11/04/21 11:41 AM
1

Already subscribed, good channel. All the info is damn hard to remember though
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 11:22 AM
1

You say with basic game you can do more than 1 girl a week or was it every other week. What is basic game and where can i learn it
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 06:54 PM
7

Cool. Is coding something you can become very skilled at, if you also have a full time job to take care of ?
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 06:18 PM
2

Im grateful that there are guys like you willing to give advice like this. Im gonna start slow, i have this mindset where i think of all the problems like weight, no friends, poor career and then i wanna fix it all at once. I think weight is the starting point, cause right now im so uncomfortable in a basic t shirt that id rather put on a hoody even when the suns out
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:48 PM
10

How did you become a software engineer just by learning coding ? It sounds like you learned coding by yourself and then was hired as a software engineer, if thats the case, how ? I have always been good with computers so this might be the way for me also, sitting as a 29 year old guy with zero education
/r/TheRedPill10/04/21 04:45 PM
1

Thanks. You hit the nail on the head there. Because right now im not interested in anybody or anything. When we went up there yesterday, all i wanted was to fuck the girl, i didnt give a shit about anything she said, i only listened and tried to talk as a front, guess that makes me come of fake. How do you go about "have interesting shit going on" so you can drop stories ? Right now, being completely honest, im at the bottom of the barrel when it comes to dating. No education, warehouse job, bal…
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:08 PM
2

Thanks. We all had drinks. I tend to get in my head alot. And instead of just being present, im observing my friend while he is entertaining both girls, and im just sitting there getting bitter. I kind of think feeling uncomfortable in my own body has something to do with it. My mate is a good friend so we have talked alot about this in the past, and he always says im way better at talking than him, he have noticed it before, so i dont know why i get so in my head
/r/seduction10/04/21 03:35 AM
1

Have a good evening
/r/askTRP08/04/21 06:43 PM
1

His flair isnt lying i guess. Its fun defending girls who probably wont hesitate to talk shit about a bald guy, short guy or whatever other thing they might find a turn off
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:52 PM
2

I think what he means is you have to be joking with the "the guys who wrote the sidebar"
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:18 PM
1

You said you came a long way. Im interested in how you would describe yourself before red pill, compared to now.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 10:36 PM
1

So which ones would you stick to ?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 10:33 PM
1

It wont chang anything. Its not a sex 4 pay site, just a hook up site, but where most people dont put their face up, instead they put nudes. She had her face as profile picture and she is abit overweight so dont think she put nudes up, and even if she did, im not gonna get custody based of it. So im gonna spare myself. Right now i cant even have him living with me since i live 1 hour away and he just started school. I will improve myself and my financial situation, so i can move to the city they…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:08 PM
3

If women want what you describe, how do some women end up fucking bad boy losers in parking lots or some other shit that you often hear on redpill forums ?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:43 PM
2

So 6 inch is on the smaller side ?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 09:57 AM
1

Do you need to be packing a big d to do this you think ?
/r/askTRP05/04/21 08:08 AM
2

Thanks. Will try in air fryer
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 08:37 PM
1

Well i dont like none of them, i havent eaten veggies for over 10 years. My vitamin, hormone and blood profile is perfect anyways. But i feel it would be better to eat some greens, we have everything frozen. Broccoli, beans, peas. I like cucumber, green bell pepper, onions and finely chopped tomatoes with the wet part cut out
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 08:12 PM
5

Could you give me some tips ? I am a very bad cook
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 07:35 PM
2

But veggies taste like shit, and have a very nasty texture
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/21 04:48 PM
1

Im all for helping guys out, but shaved head look weak as shit
/r/askTRP03/04/21 12:38 PM
1

So being a complete newbie at 29 is pretty fucked
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 12:17 PM
3

Yes, i know, but how ? You just explained it in different terms
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 12:16 PM
1

But what does he do exactly ?
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:36 PM
16

Zyzz is deadpill
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:07 PM
1

But how ? What makes the true seducer ? Im tired of not being able to seduce anybody
/r/TheRedPill02/04/21 09:04 PM
3

Get on meds. Girls are getting pickier and pickier, and rightly so. Today any fat chick can doll herself up, go on tinder and get crazy likes from thirsty guys. And alot of guys are also getting hair transplants today. Hair will always beat bald.
/r/seduction02/04/21 08:38 PM
1

Yeah okay, i understand. Hats of to you for learning all that.
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:28 PM
1

Why cant you get tinder dates ? Dressing well with a bit of rock might be a problem, dont know what you mean exactly, but if its punk style its shit.
/r/seduction01/04/21 05:25 PM
-1

Fuck it all. Watch taysocial on youtube. Although he is a black guy, he chats girls up with "boring" shit, and pulls
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:25 PM
-1

Black dudes are a "type". I have a arab friend who simps hard. First line to girls is always "youre to beautiful" or something, yet he always pulls pretty girls. Being arab and fit in my country is catnip to some girls, like being black probably is in us.
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:22 PM
1

Can you give example of what is smooth in the us ? Im from europe, just curious
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:15 PM
2

Im sure that it wasnt everybodies dad. And even then, it was kept a secret, and probably frowned upon. Its kind of like peeping on women. If you think about it, its abit weird to look at a naked lady in a magazine, or on your phone and then beat your meat
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:46 PM
30

It would be best to just cut it out. Back before internet porn, it was the weirdos who had porn magazines and shit
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:22 PM
6

Earn your own money, cook your own food, clean your own house, and have your own life. Enjoy being alone, like really. Sometimes one of the best things i know, is to come home late from work on a rainy night, put on a great movie and just zone out. I know its time I could spend on better stuff, just an example. I only need my son in this life, everybody else is only extra.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:08 PM
1

You dont need to know. Do your own research. If something sounds to good to be true, it probably is. If its just friends shooting the shit it doesnt matter. Alot of good stories can be tweaked abit for the audience
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:05 PM
5

I honestly didnt know, that people could feel like this. Going up to a stranger and asking for directions is one of the most natural things for me. Im glad you overcame it and realized its no big deal.
/r/seduction28/03/21 08:55 PM
1

What you mean by full of shit ?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:53 PM
1

Whats your view on porn ?
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:52 PM
1

True. Its just easy to go overboard with the beard look. Imo it can easily look untidy
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:19 PM
2

Could you elaborate on your story ? Im 29 in 2 months, with a 5 year old son i see every other weekend, overweight, and pondering about life. Thinking about becoming an engineer, it would take me about 6-7 years, but after that 7 years of living with small money, i would be able to live good for the rest of my days. I like to read other persons stories to use for motivation
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:51 PM
0

Jason statham has been pulling the best looking girls since before being famous. Dont grow a beard, keep a light stubble at best. Bald and beard is a shit look. Try finasteride before anything else
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:45 PM
1

I will do that once I start myself when the restrictions is lighter
/r/askTRP28/03/21 02:39 PM
0

I know we can do whatever we want, just didnt think it was worth any to go to mma once every other week. Right now im just stating how it is. I live one hour away from them, he has lived with her from he was born, and we never lived together. I have, in her opinion, emotionally abused her, and sometimes i have been a bad father. But now im a great father, and of course i want him to live with me when he gets older. Just dont know how to do it. When he hits 12 years old, i think in my country, th…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 08:52 AM
1

Will never talk bad about her, but im not gonna parade girls around my son. Right now im to fat and insecure to get any girls, but when i do im not gonna use it to rub in her face. Cause she will just start bringing all her guys around my son, and i dont want that
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:51 AM
1

Thanks. Im just afraid i cant explain it properly, so he will end up starting fights instead. And i know when he tells his mother "dad said i could hit back" she will tell him not to listen to me
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:48 AM
1

I cant decide anything for him, cant sign him up for sports, or just decide he should live with me. Thats not how it works.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:47 AM
2

Appreciate your comment none the less mate !
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:04 PM
1

Covid put a hold on that, and sadly i cant sign him up, his mom can. I think he will start football/soccer when covid restrictions is gone. And yeah i try to mold him, but when i only have him 2 out of 14 days i know who gets the last touch on him, his weak ass mother. We got an agreement so i get him every other weekend. He will never experience her push me around, or me being dominant, this is just life now and it works. I just want him to live the best and happiest life. Im gonna talk to his …
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:03 PM
1

The thing is, this happened in kindergarten, he is now at preschool. Different location, different adults. As far as i know, no problem at school, except for he said he plays by himself sometimes. Im gonna talk with his mom about that, but she is naive so probably wont get through. I said to him if anybody wants to join him and his friend, he should let them, never exclude people, and if somebody dont want to play with my son, he should just find somebody else, maybe play with the girls. I know …
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:50 PM
1

Is it this one https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1251757/
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:42 PM
3

Give us examples of the things you say that worked. You wouldnt really know if it was the things that worked, or just YOU that worked for the girl
/r/seduction27/03/21 12:56 PM
1

Flirt flirt flirt.... but how ?
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:02 PM
1

Could you link it ? What is the film about ?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:51 PM
1

Is this covered in the sidebar ?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:46 PM
3

Plain and simple, well written. The thing is, the whole PUA/canned stuff isnt me, and it seems very awkward in my opinion. I might just be in a bad place in life where i dont feel interested in other people.
/r/seduction26/03/21 12:13 AM
29

I will give you an advice, my fathers father gave me, when I said to him i lacked direction. He said, pick something, and even if you dont find it interesting, if you give it your all, at one point, something about the job will start to interest you. He was a veterinarian (spell check), an animal doctor. And when he got tired of that, he went on to do food control, going out to labs and checking that everything was in order for food to be made. He is 83 years old, his wife passed away years ago,…
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:13 PM
4

Appreciate your reply, it makes alot of sense. Even when i get the opportunity to go out with a chick, i block myself because my thoughts go like this "What should i say" "What should we talk about" All kinds of self sabotaging thoughts, even though im tall, green eyes and good jawline, althoug its covered in fat at the moment. Being bald messed my confidence up bigtime, that and of course gaining weight. When you approach girls, do you always make them laugh and shit ?
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:53 PM
3

You make it sound easy. I have been binge watching ams videos, and he seems dull/boring when he gives examples of his conversations and conversation topics. Guess its hard to fuck up when you find a girl that likes you.
/r/seduction25/03/21 08:49 PM
27

So so called "smooth talkers" are just attractive to the girl ? I watch HonestSignalz on youtube, he is ugly, in my opinion, yet it seems he pulls alot of very hot girls
/r/seduction25/03/21 10:29 AM
2

You make alot of money, get a hair transplant
/r/askTRP25/03/21 10:25 AM
1

Whats wrong with engineers ?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 11:00 PM
1

I dont think i am. Im not diagnosed. Im an overthinker thats for sure. And sometimes abit anxious
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:18 AM
1

And when you talk, is it just mundane everyday shit, or do you deliberately use tease, push/pull and all that ? And you never make the convo sexual ?
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:17 AM
2

Please explain how you go from meeting a girl to fucking her in the gym bathroom.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 11:36 PM
1

Dont know what that means
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:46 PM
1

Im so social uncalibrated, that i take everything to serious when i read it. I cant even play out a date in my head. Dont know what to say or talk about.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:39 PM
1

Okay. We talk about the most basic shit, me and my mates. Will try it
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:32 PM
1

Guess im socially inept cause i wouldnt know what to even say to start talking. Respect what you do, wish i will get to that point
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:23 PM
1

In what way ? Matching with a girl on tinder, asking to fuck ? Cold approach and be honest about your intention ? Or do you go on a date and talk ?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 08:43 PM
1

How so ? I feel like being honest and letting them know i just wanna fuck, but that never works
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:20 PM
1

Straight up in what way ? Telling her you just want to fuck ?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:18 PM
3

How did you "fix" your inner game ?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 09:00 AM
1

Well im 6 foot 4 with pretty green eyes and a big frame. Just gotta get jacked. I do lack in the conversation part and making girls laugh.
/r/seduction23/03/21 08:21 AM
5

Getting in the mindset "lets see if she is someone i want to spend time os" is impossible for me. I see a sexy girl, i wanna fuck her. I dont care at all about who she is
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:58 AM
4

Dont girls, just want to fuck also ?
/r/seduction23/03/21 01:56 AM
10

I have read all his text convos from when he matches with the girls, and some of it is laughable
/r/askTRP23/03/21 01:11 AM
46

I have a friend who "simps" hard. Telling girls how pretty they are, why such a pretty girl is single, all kinds of shit i heard on trp that you shouldnt do, and he still bangs the girls, they fall madly in love with him, and he is average height, average face, fit body. He also is giving the girls alot of non sexual attention, yet he pulls more girls than anyone i know. Guess if a girl is attracted to you, its hard to fuck it up
/r/askTRP23/03/21 12:37 AM
2

I saw one of the first AMS videos, where he said he had a 1 year dry spell when he was overweight back in the day
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:15 PM
1

Were you ever introverted, or not good socially ?
/r/askTRP21/03/21 08:14 PM
1

Dont really know my problems, except for overweight.
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:06 AM
1

It sounds easy, but im not interested in shit. Im really not lying when i say im boring, and always has been. Im not contributing to conversations either. Kind of a loner. But the hardest part is the "be funny". And every girl always say "please be funny" or "as long as he's funny" Im to much in my own head. Back in the day everybody called me funny, after my ex dumped me and i let myself go i lost alot, if not all that i was
/r/seduction20/03/21 10:28 PM
2

Thanks man, this was very deep. Im sure its because im feeling shitty about myself, bald head, overweight and shitty job. I felt compelled to go chase ass even if i didnt want to. Got caught up thinking i was only post-poning talking to girls because i was afraid, but i guess im really not in the right headspace these days. Even getting a date 5 percent of the time is very good. And the fact you can keep up conversation with random strangers is very cool, i respect that alot, and i want to be ab…
/r/seduction20/03/21 10:25 PM
1

Exactly. I havent done shit. Had girlfriends for 10 years combined where i didnt do shit. Otherwise i just hung out with friends, watching movies, smoking some weed. So i cant relate, or tell about my last vacation, never had a group of boys. All my friends each had "the boys", but i never fitted in
/r/seduction20/03/21 02:16 PM
7

What do you do then ? Walk up to a girl and tell her she's cute, ask for number and bounce ? Im 28 years old, been in two relationships that lasted 5 years each, so thats 10 years where i should have improved myself, but didnt. And now im at a place where i cant have a fun conversation, and im not really interested in a girl, except for sex. But the worst is, i dont have ANY stories i can tell. No experiences to tell when i want to seduce a girl. Basically i have led a very boring basic life
/r/seduction19/03/21 11:21 PM
6

No. I would tell the guy his wife is doing him wrong
/r/askTRP19/03/21 11:17 PM
2

Isnt work kind of a serious/boring topic ? Not trying to be smart, just really wanna get this shit. I can sometimes be very social, but i feel i lack the edge to make the girls interested
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:59 PM
1

Im interested in how you got to the point where you can get the convo going and making her laugh
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:23 PM
1

What about wet dreams ? When i dont beat off i get them
/r/askTRP18/03/21 11:45 AM
1

Can you on your feet give one example of push/pull, and a tease ? Whenever i read about it, i cant come up with anything. But im sure i have done it all before i even knew it was a thing
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:25 PM
1

How would one know if one had a porn addiction ? I i can go weeks without, but i always end up watching because it feels good. You say nofap is like a fat person doing a fad diet instead of doing the obvious. What would be the obvious to do in regard to nofap ? Before i accidentally stumbled upon nofap, i fapped to porn, socialized and pulled a girl here and there. But i would also go home from work, have a quick porn fap, before going home to my gf and kid, which seems kind of weird to me.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:58 AM
4

No fap making depression worse ? How about porn ? I feel more social when i dont fap, what gives ?
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:51 PM
3

I would feel exactly like i would if i would go to a prostitute, a failure
/r/askTRP16/03/21 10:46 PM
1

Nothings hard when its natural. When i try to think of somethimg, i cant.
/r/seduction16/03/21 09:30 PM
2

Little shithead, made me laugh
/r/askTRP16/03/21 07:07 PM
0

So how the fuck did he do it? Im 6 feet 4, and depressed about being bald
/r/askTRP16/03/21 06:42 PM
1

This actually makes it easier, in my head at least. I always worry about what to say, so much so that i dont even approach a girl, even when she gives me ioi
/r/seduction15/03/21 10:57 PM
1

How did you get to where you are in the girls department ? Gaming chicks becoming easy is something i would like. Were you bad with women before ?
/r/askTRP15/03/21 06:44 PM
1

So it does matter what you say, flirting. Cant even flirt, this shits hard as hell
/r/seduction15/03/21 05:25 PM
1

When you say "approach, chat, escalate" what is the escalate part ?
/r/seduction15/03/21 04:44 PM
4

I would assume, you can say whatever, as long as you say it for the right reason. I think neediness shows in everything, and its hard to fake not being needy
/r/askTRP13/03/21 07:57 PM
4

This. I envy my muslim friend. He can bang all the girls he want, and if he asks his mom, she will find him a decent girl from the home country he can marry
/r/askTRP13/03/21 05:52 PM
53

If girls see you driving a lambo, it will be EASIER to pull her than if you rode up on your unicycle. But you have to initiate, always
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:35 PM
4

Text them trying to meet them. Dont text them to make friends.
/r/seduction13/03/21 02:29 PM
1

Dont
/r/seduction13/03/21 01:03 PM
1

Yeah i know, tough choice though. Hairline is already receded to a M pattern, and have been buzzing it down with no guard for a year and a half now anyways
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 06:45 AM
1

I have failed all shit tests in my last ltr. Got dumped after 5 years, we even have a kid, and afterwards i simped for her, fucked her once i started being more myself again, then i fucked up, simped and failed tests again, then found the red pill. So im a rookie at everything, but i know where i did wrong and lost frame, and I would really advise you to let this slip. If she still acts the same, but without pet names, dont give a fuck mate.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:32 PM
1

Not this type of communication, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:12 PM
2

Try to imagine the scenario where you mention it to her. You will sound like the biggest bitch ever. "Babe, why dont you call me pet names" You go on as usual, nothing can make you doubt in yourself. Of course i know alot can make us doubt, but try thinking that way.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:49 PM
1

Trying to think this way, and have actually been buzzing down with no guard for 1 and a half year. It still gets to me though, when i see pictures from back in the day. Appreciate your insight sir
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 09:47 PM
1

I was inches away from picking up finasteride/propecia today, doctor prescribed it. You kind of convinced me not to. I should just get jacked and tan
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 09:29 PM
0

And he is bald bald, not full hairline with a buzzcut ? Guess i should stop thinking my baldness is a problem, even with a big frame at 6 foot 4 i still worry about baldness
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 09:23 PM
1

I guess baldness falls in here also ? Im gonna save your reply, very well written
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 08:23 PM
1

I dont mind it at all, but i dont think im a good help. Im shit at taking pictures myself. But dm away, i will help if i can. There is a subred called tinder, try to seek help there.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:19 PM
3

Try tinder. Dont dedicate all your time to girls. Theres no shame in a low body count. The fact that body count is such a normal thing to talk about today, is actually stupid
/r/askTRP11/03/21 07:15 PM
5

Could you explain in abit more detail ? This sounds interesting.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/21 07:02 PM
3

How ? When people disrespect you, isnt it losing frame when you let it get to you ? I thought it was about not giving a fuck
/r/askTRP11/03/21 08:46 AM
2

Few dates and lays ? Asking if your game is on point ? What do you think ?
/r/askTRP10/03/21 10:35 PM
18

I fuck with one of my friends who is insecure about his big nose. I joke about his nose, but I dont think less of him when doing so. So when he calls me a fat bastard after, i assume he dont think less of me either. Know your worth, take nothing personal
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:14 PM
8

Hahah love replies like this, cold as fuck
/r/askTRP09/03/21 11:10 PM
3

Do the braces man. Only a year, fuck that year. You have perfect teeth for life. Im 28, soon 29 and single. If i could afford it i would get the shit done tomorrow
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:09 PM
8

This seems like some crazy overthinking/analyzing just to get girls. If it works i salute you, i feel confused reading it though
/r/seduction06/03/21 10:03 PM
1

If you feel like smashing their heads in, you got an issue you should figure out. Its not porn or fapping. Good luck
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:57 PM
1

So you dont have approach anxiety
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:54 PM
1

You wont magically be able to approach girls just because you dont fap for 90 days. Im not saying that is how you think, just letting you know it wont work like that. Let me ask you, are you afraid to go up to a random, hot girl, and ask her for directions ?
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:48 PM
1

Its a good decision, now you need to stop thinking about it and go live a meaningful life. And if the lust becomes to big, fap it out without porn and get back on it
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:37 PM
2

Heres my experience. When i was young, like 12-13 i had my own stationary computer, and i fucking beat my dick like it owed me money. I remember i sometimes would rather jerk off than do stuff with people. So i guess i had a problem. Im 28 now and try to limit my porn and fapping, and i cant say why, but when im on a good streak, i feel better. My streaks always end because i purposely go on reddit and seek out guys who talk about "porn is fine, i fap and spin plates and have a great life". So i…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:32 PM
1

Average also
/r/seduction05/03/21 07:11 AM
1

I understand. The same friend of mine, texted a girl hearts and she said she loved him before meeting. Its crazy sometimes
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:36 PM
2

Arab
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:11 PM
1

So do you advocate texting alot or ?
/r/seduction04/03/21 02:52 PM
3

Fit body, average face
/r/seduction04/03/21 01:53 PM
2

Why so angry ?
/r/askTRP04/03/21 12:19 PM
176

I have a friend, who bangs alot. He gets girls on tinder, and he always texts to get to know them. Not even smooth stuff. Just "what do you do" compliments and shit. I mentioned the idea of only texting for setting up a date, and he acted like it was the most ridicoulous thing ever.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:43 AM
3

Dont understand the joke, care to elaborate ? Not a english speaker
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:46 AM
13

Its not pussy not wanting to walk past you without a mask. Masks on, everybody gotta follow covid regulations. Him talking about fucking you up was pussy though
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:04 AM
1

Thanks. Can i ask, are you genuinely interested in getting to know the girl when you date ? Or is it just for sex ? I have this mindset that i only want a girl to have sex, i think that might hinder me sometimes
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:17 PM
1

Maybe im overthinking everything. This was natural for me when younger, i dont know why im so fucked now. Appreciate your replies mate
/r/askTRP03/03/21 08:11 PM
1

How so ?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:06 PM
1

Good answer Then on the date, conversation is still hard as hell for me
/r/askTRP02/03/21 10:10 PM
1

I havent seen the profile, my mate has, and only her main picture. For all i know she could have decent pictures up there, just looking for a hook up. Everybody i talked to about it said that its allowed to do so, and i probably wont get custody based on this, so i dont think i can stomach checking up on her profile
/r/askTRP02/03/21 04:40 PM
1

Ate some shit
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:30 PM
1

Didnt decide to get her pregnant. And funny about the links
/r/askTRP01/03/21 07:30 PM
1

Yeah sure. Get over myself while my sons mother is publicly being a whore. Everybody can find her online, my sons school teachers, parents of the other kids and my son could end up bullied over his mother being a whore. I dont give a fuck about her. Feel bad for my son though
/r/askTRP01/03/21 01:36 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP28/02/21 06:17 PM
1

Yeah okay. Well guess im on my way then. I have backed down on my need to control her, and just left her alone, only communicating about the kid. And now I get to see him tomorrow even though its her weekend. Funny thing is during mid week, i asked specifically if i could see him tomorrow, but her answer was "no it doesnt fit with our schedule", fast forward to today she text out of the blue "wanna play with him tomorrow, he misses you" Maybe she found a fuck date, maybe he just misses me, or ma…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:51 PM
1

Can i ask how much you saw them when they were young ? I have a 5 year old son, that I try to raise, teach him how to be social, and other stuff, but knowing his mom have him 12 out of 14 days is tough
/r/askTRP27/02/21 10:48 PM
1

Coaxing her would be bad also. She has it under control, as far as i can tell, and my mom also thinks my kid seems happy and healthy. Its just the slutting around thats messing me. Knowing what type of kinky shit she is into, will now be done to her everytime im not around. But she has mental issues.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 07:26 PM
1

Listen, she gets sick to her stomach around me. And i get sick of her. Fuck that. I have my son when i have him. I cant do nothing. Trying to game her would not go down well.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:55 PM
1

What you mean by staying home more ? And i appreciate you taking time to help me, but im not gonna get a relationship with her. She's a ho. I gotta set up my future so when my son gets older, we can do all we want together
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:43 PM
1

She ate some shit she couldnt handle, just told me. Shes not the drunk type, just the fuck my issues away type. And no, the emotional abuse was oh so hard on her she cant be near me. And i dont want to spend a minute in her house. I will take care of my son when he is with me, and trust shes taking care of him. Shes an educated social worker so she gotta have some brain. I know she can fuck a new guy a day and i cant do shit anyway. But im never gonna game her. I dont even know how I would do it…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 06:23 PM
1

She had him yesterday so she better not be hungover. And i cant be at her place. She wont let me and i dont want to. She ended the relationship due to emotional abuse. Im close to text her and ask if she's hungover
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:58 PM
1

Im not fucking her ? Never will again, she's disgusting. Dont know how i can pacify her, could you explain that ? I live 1 hour away, my son is with me every other weekend. Tomorrow im picking him up for the day, and dropping him off again after, even though its her weekend, we agreed upon that. Then she asked me tonight "can you pick him up now, im lying on the bathroom floor throwing up" But i said no i cant. She probably got knocked up again, or is feeling sick of some of the shit she done
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:45 PM
2

Can do between 10 and 15 in one go
/r/askTRP27/02/21 05:04 PM
2

Thank you sir. Im doing unskilled manual labour at the moment to make ends meet. I have started saving up, and will look into small risk investments together with my dad. When the gym open again in in there 6 days a week. Was just getting started when the country shut down
/r/askTRP27/02/21 04:52 PM
1

Well look at me all fun and exciting now ;) I think i have consumed so much self help red pill stuff that i got so much in my own head that i cant even have a simple conversation with a girl without thinking about strategies and shit
/r/TheRedPill27/02/21 04:41 PM
2

Thanks man! So unless my son is being harmed due to her slutty behaviour i shouldnt give a fuck ? Ive decided to let go of the balding thing since im 6 foot 4 with a big build, i just gotta get jacked as fuck. Contemplating starting night school after work, just gotta man up. Appreciate your honest reply, very much
/r/askTRP27/02/21 03:38 PM
1

The tinder dont matter. The sex hook up site does though. I hoped the reason she is doing it is because she was miserable. I got opportunities to get laid, but when it came to meeting up my confidence level and being in my head blocked me. But yes of course it bugs me the mother of my son does this shit. It would bother any man. She said she was on the pill, and i saw her taking them in the beginning, but i think she stopped on purpose. I never knew there would be girls who would trap guys on pu…
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:52 AM
1

Are you together with the mother ?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:52 AM
1

Appreciate your honest reply. What is the right way to think when i find out about this stuff ? And besides diet and working out i dont know how to fix myself. At 28, soon 29 years old with zero education and not liking how i look and feel, im getting kind of depressed, even more so when i know shes advancing at work, and fucking every guy she can with no remorse
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:46 AM
1

Basically yes.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 02:39 AM
1

Lets say she's sugardating. Is that reason for me to do something ? Cause i noticed she changed her picture on a mobile payment app, since my son was born it was a picture of him, suddenly its a picture of her. And im sure its because guys transfer her money for sex
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:58 AM
1

Easier said than done though
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:34 AM
1

Fuck her and her life, but my son is my everything, and i cant stand that he is growing up around such a slut. And i cant do nothing about it either. She probably saved all my bad angry messages. Her girlfriends will back her up saying i emotionally abused her if it ever comes to court. So im forever stuck on seeing my son every other weekend
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:32 AM
1

No i was not redpilled 6 years ago, never said i was, never said im redpilled now. She should feel bad though, she should get smacked upside her dumb slut head, honestly.. No mother should act like that
/r/askTRP27/02/21 01:25 AM
2

His environment is fine for all i know. I have no reason to think he will suffer. She is an educated social worker, but a slut And sole custody is not possible at all in the near future
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:56 PM
1

They all are
/r/askTRP26/02/21 11:54 PM
1

Because im fucked. Sorry ;)
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:45 PM
1

Trying to be funny ?
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:38 PM
1

He is in a fine environment. She works and takes care of him. Dont know what i could get going for myself, but im working on becoming fit. May look into propecia since this bald shit is messing with me. And 50/50 isnt possible now, due to 1 hour travel between us, and I work odd hours. Plus its not the best for the kid, switching places every week living out of a suitcase. Appreciate your help mate
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:16 PM
1

Okay. Fuck it then. I just got to get my swag back. When i pulled her i felt she was a slut, even though i didnt know about redpill i sensed the red flags, I was just to dumb to think about wrapping it up. It never occured to me she could trick me into getting pregnant, but im sure she was on the pill, and then stopped on purpose without letting me know, fuck it. Hope i can get back to how i was before meeting her
/r/askTRP26/02/21 10:09 PM
1

My idea of fun is watching a movie. Im boring as hell
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:47 PM
1

But on these dates you have to talk and give her a good feeling. Thats where i fuck up. At least when i think situations in my head
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:30 PM
2

I know this is the way, and if i had shit going for me i probably wouldnt care this much. The covid factor still makes me feel like i kinda have to say something, for protecting my son, kind off, even though it will end in conflict no matter how formal i mention it.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:28 PM
0

So by having strangers over in a pandemic is not putting him in danger ? I have almost decided not to do anything, and i hope she is doing this because she is miserable
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:59 PM
4

Tough luck. I feel shitty as hell
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:58 PM
2

It is my kid, love him to death, and its not a pay for sex site, sorry i didnt point that out. Its basically just a dating site, but for sex with nasty pictures.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:47 PM
1

When you dont know how to have fun, then what
/r/TheRedPill26/02/21 09:45 AM
1

If it cant be learned through reading, whats the point of the guide to teasing in the sidebar ? Not trying to be smart, just wondering how people tried shit for themselves. How did people all of a sudden come up with teasing and everything ? Maybe im just to socially awkward at times. Other times my friends tell me they think im good at talking so maybe im to much in my own head
/r/askTRP25/02/21 09:32 AM
1

So me, being bald, a shit conversationalist, dont know how to tease and escalate, what do i do from here on ? Yesterday, before going to sleep, I read humansockpuppets "how to tease bitches", but somehow if try to think of a girl i know and a tease, i cant come up with anything
/r/askTRP25/02/21 08:05 AM
1

No not at all, Denmark. Education is free, you get paid while taking an education, although it will be about half of what im paid now, and im only making ends meet. If i would become an engineer, it would take more than 4 years, but it will still be paid all the time. Its the trade type of work like carpenter and blacksmith, electrician and so on, they all take about 4 years to finish
/r/askTRP21/02/21 09:14 PM
1

Finance and banking has been on my mind before. Is it true you have to have a high interest in it to succeed ? Or is it enougg you have a high interest in money ? Thanks for the talk by the way. Delayed gratification seems to be a good virtue
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:24 PM
1

In my country, i could become a doctor. But it will take me between 8 and 10 years school from now. I live in Europe, and its all about good grades, not what college you go to, plus its free. But i get what you mean. Craftsmen dont make 100k a year here, its a middle class job. They make abit more than what i make now. Not trying to talk down on it. Im hesitant as fuck, because i feel like i have to be certain, that if i start something, i will finish it, and working with my hands has never inte…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 10:06 PM
1

So lets say, i could become a doctor, or civil engineer in 8-10 years, but with a small income during those years. That would be better than becoming a carpenter and living middle class ? I might be able to take the education after I get off from work now, so i would keep my income, while getting a education
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:56 PM
1

Thats a good point. Its just i only have him every other weekend, it would be nice with female companionship in the days where im alone. Dont know if i see myself going back to school as a 29 year old bald guy. My biggest hurdle right now in social aspects is my overweight and not feeling comfortable in my body, so im gonna fix that
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:40 PM
1

I mean in the start picking them up, when i dont even know her.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:34 PM
1

Then i understood correctly. In my country, to become a electrician, you switch between school and apprenticeship during your 4 year education period, and then when the 4 year ends you are an electrician, carpenter and so on. Not trying to be negative, but if financial freedom is the end goal, wouldnt there be a better way ?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:31 PM
1

I guess its where im seeking validation, kind of a bitch mindset when i think about it. That, and the fact im comparing myself to my ex. I can hear how stupid it is now that i type it
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:23 PM
1

Appreciate it. What degree did you get ?
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:17 PM
1

Strong advice. Education is free so i can basically choose what i want. When you say dont use rp mindset to pick up girls, how do you pick up girls then ? After i get my life in order of course
/r/askTRP19/02/21 09:14 PM
1

I dont understand what you mean here. But whenever he is with me, we are doing stuff and playing football and exploring the beach and all kind of good stuff. Me him and my dad will go fishing once corona has settled down. Raising him is where i sometimes get lost, since its hard to influence him when i see him two weekends a month.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:32 PM
1

Im making 15k in my currency a month. Thats 2400 us dollars, 2000 euro. I have always been good in school when i put in effort, so i feel like im wasting a good mind if i do manual labour. But becoming and engineer or doctor for example seems out of the question now. 8-10 years without a good paycheck
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:28 PM
2

Thanks. Hope i still can "raise" him even if i only see him every other weekend
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:25 PM
5

It means alot to read this, and all the other good replies. What is a trade ? English isnt my first language. Is it something like carpentry, blacksmith/welder and that thing ? It takes 4 years to become one here. I have never been a crafty guy who was good with his hands
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:24 PM
1

Thanks man ! Yeah i have the sidebar as pdf and asktrp sidebar as pdf, also book of pook. But sitting down and reading on my phone can be abit hard sometimes. Do you remember how long you spent reading trp sidebar ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:20 PM
1

Do you know any trades that make good money without much education ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:18 PM
-1

No i havent even read one
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:17 PM
1

Plant material as in veggies ? How come ? And the last part seems interesting. You did that with success ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:16 PM
1

What you mean ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:15 PM
2

Love this reply, thanks man! I guess whenever he asks me something i dont know, i shouldnt beat myself up for not knowing, but see it as a chance for me to learn something together with him
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:14 PM
2

Thanks man, im not passionate about anything, but i have also been stuck in a rut for 1,5 years since ex left. I invested all my free time into visiting her and my son for the last 5 years, so when she broke up with me i suddenly felt like i had nothing, and i have let my body go and lost my hair. But im getting my diet in check, walking between 5 and 10 kilometers everyday and as soon as the gym open again im in there 6 days a week. But a passion is something ive never had
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:12 PM
1

Wise words, thanks alot !
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:36 PM
1

What ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 05:08 PM
1

The end goal of education would be a better job for me and more money. Appreciate the well written response
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:42 PM
2

Thank you
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:10 PM
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Real shit, got to kick myself in the ass and read it
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:09 PM
7

I have no purpose at all. I kind of neglected myself for a very long time. 1,5 years since my ex left, so i have spent my energy on trying to get her back and working it out with my son. Now that i got that in check, i can feel something missing from my life, and i guess thats a purpose like you said, appreciate your response. How do one find his purpose ?
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:16 PM
1

Good point
/r/seduction16/02/21 10:05 AM
14

Pre planned material should never be a thing, imo.
/r/seduction15/02/21 10:17 PM
1

Cool thanks. I was afraid i was pre diabetic, but my bloodwork showed the opposite, although overweight, blood sugar, hormones and vitamins are all perfect. And i eat no greens at all. I have started 16/8 today. Looking forward to a fasted morning walk tomorrow
/r/askTRP13/02/21 07:36 PM
2

Elaborate please
/r/seduction13/02/21 01:55 PM
1

If i got enough matches to test shit, i would. But youre spot on with the over investment. Did you read anything to go from kissless virgin to suave gentleman ;) ? I guess i try to be something im not, all the time. I want to be a player, but im just a very regular guy
/r/seduction12/02/21 11:54 PM
2

I would kill for such healthy hair. May i ask how you always come up with something other than "hey" When I get a match, my mind is blank. When i just chill with friends im witty, but as soon as its girls, i get in my head to much
/r/seduction12/02/21 11:36 PM
1

Will IF do me any good if i keep eating oats, whole whest bread and potatoes ? I apologize if you already told me, im just abit confused
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:21 PM
1

I do love meat more than anything, and since my dad had success with LCHF, i tried keto, but i felt lethargic and had headaches. I will start with the 8/16 eating window and see if i can make it work. I want to lose as much fat as i can, as fast as i can
/r/askTRP12/02/21 11:00 PM
1

I see you mention ketosis, i guess that is just an example, and not needed for IF, right ? Really love my whole wheat bread and potatoes
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:42 PM
1

Cool, i hope this will be easier to stick to for me. Gotta do it now, tired of being fat. How is energy throughout the day ? I have a physical job, and every other weekend i have my son, and he has energy for days
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:21 PM
1

You are great sir, thank you. I will try IF now, im about 60 lbs owerweight. Your advice is to stay away from fruit, alcohol and grazing, right ? So im gonna eat big meals of whole foods in my 8 hour window ?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:05 PM
3

Dont listen to guys telling you to beat your dad. Dont beat your dad, defend yourself if you have to. But just get out man. Call the cops, your mom, family members, anything. I dont know the rules in your country, but just listed the things i would do. You say it would take 4-5 years to make it by yourself, thats nothing and it sure is better.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 10:00 PM
1

Why avoid fructose ? This means no fruit ?
/r/askTRP12/02/21 09:36 PM
7

Whats the bio like ? Great hair
/r/seduction12/02/21 09:33 PM
1

So simple stuff like what they did for the day and asking follow up questions work ?
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:36 PM
1

Exactly. Im introverted and i hate being social, but still i would like to just chill and watch movies, going on walks and car trips with a girl. But keeping it fun and interesting conversation wise is hard for me. At least i make it hard in my head
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:24 PM
1

My only goal is to fuck them. I dont care about anything else these days
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:18 PM
1

What did you say to her ?
/r/seduction08/02/21 05:50 PM
4

This is some weak ego shit. Im talking from experience, dont do it, absolutely no go
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:20 PM
1

I struggle with being myself. I remember when I was a teen, even though i didnt think i looked good back then, now when i look back, i can see i was handsome as hell. Now losing my hair has actually fucked my confidence alot, hate to admit it cause i feel like a bitch for caring about hair, but still. So now when i interact with people, i sometimes censor myself, i sometimes act in a way i think i should, and feel like i shouldnt hit on the young hotty cause why would she date a bald 28 year old…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:48 PM
1

Great reply! I guess i feel like im in such a hurry because im 28, losing hair and no career, while my ex and baby momma is looking better than ever and advancing at work. I know comparing is stupid, but i fall in the trap anyways
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:43 PM
1

I would say, when at work, im pretty good at talking to the guys, at least its easy for me to ask them something and then get them talking by asking follow up questions. But when it comes to girls its a whole other thing for me
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:39 PM
1

Your advice is great, cause i remember before they closed our country, lifting was the best part of my day. I was just starting to get the hang of it, following my program 6 days a week consistently, and then the country got locked down, including all the gyms. When you say go meet new people, how do you make them friends without seeming weird ? I dont have alot of stories to tell from my life, so when in company of others, i dont talk much, and i think i come of boring
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:36 PM
1

Maybe this sounds dumb, but lets say i take up kickboxing again, used to do it back in the day, and i really liked it. How do you make friends from it, if the people there qre not up for it ? In my mind i have an idea of people being closed and already deep in their own social groups, at least when they are close to 30 years old
/r/askTRP06/02/21 08:34 PM
1

Everything is closed at the moment. Always felt out of place at bars unless im drunk. The thing is i have zero interests or stuff i care about.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:23 PM
1

Will do thanks
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:19 PM
3

Well, the basics you mentioned are the easy part. Socialise is the worst for me, and i dont know why. I dont like being alone, but at the same time I dont like being with people, or at least not strangers. So the "talking" part becomes tough since i dont really care that much. I can easily ask a question to somebody at work, but all my conversations always die.
/r/askTRP05/02/21 10:17 PM
1

Great response. I have my son every other weekend now, and he is 5 years old and about to start pre-school. I talk on the phone with him sometimes during the days where i dont see him, but it's still shit. Any advice on how to make the most out of it ?
/r/askTRP05/02/21 09:35 PM
2

Im going through a situation, thats abit similar to yours, and its been making me messed up in the head for 1.5 years. Gonna follow this thread hoping for advice
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:19 PM
1

What do you do when you "meditate" ?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 11:39 PM
5

Okay my bad. Seems weird to me, but to each their own. I dont think you can do it without it being creepy. Unless you casually meet a midget you find attractive
/r/askTRP30/01/21 01:15 AM
6

Stop watching porn. Its making you want this sick shit
/r/askTRP30/01/21 12:20 AM
3

Been in the same situation. Its hard, but if i could have done anything different back then, i would have let go from the start. It gets easier day by day
/r/seduction28/01/21 02:10 PM
10

No. You shouldnt be sure, and you shouldnt show her anything. Move on
/r/seduction28/01/21 02:04 PM
5

If you broke up, you should leave it be
/r/seduction28/01/21 01:52 PM
1

But, talking about what ? Texting feels abit unnatural sometimed
/r/askTRP25/01/21 11:29 PM
1

Cool. Ive been fucked in the head since losing my ex. Dont feel like i am anybody anymore. No hobbies or friends i hang with anymore. Just work, home, work home and being with my son every other weekend
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:44 PM
1

They are down. Im just to weak at conversation and being social in general that im nervous of meeting them. That and a lack of confidence
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:43 PM
0

Whining about what exactly ? Lacking a basic skill like making a convo last and interesting is holding me back. And these 2 girls a contacting me now and wanting to talk instead of the other way around so some of it must work. My best friend who bangs tons of hot girls simps on them, dashing out compliments galore at first. So confused as to what to beleive
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:50 PM
3

You have a full head of hair ?
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:15 AM
0

I also hear you mate. When you see a woman, sometimes its hard not to want her. I have a son, and i fear one day his mom will date a teacher, a parent or soccer coach. And then it might get out and my son will be teased for having a slutty mom, you know? Im a crazy overthinker so i always go through the worst case scenarios in my head. But my advice would be, see all adults at your kids school, as you see the adults at your own work, off limits
/r/seduction21/01/21 12:47 AM
0

I think its kind of wrong to go after a parent at your kids school. It might end up bad, and affect the kids in ways you havent thought about. Theres tonnes of women all over the world, find one of them ;)
/r/seduction21/01/21 12:33 AM
-1

Thanks man. The only time i fear it is when im sleeping in bed with my son. Happened once, but luckily he didnt noticed
/r/askTRP20/01/21 12:34 PM
1

Why semen retention ? Im doing it right now, only been 5 or 7 days and the thoughts of banging girls keep coming to my head. Fearing a wet dream any day now
/r/askTRP20/01/21 09:56 AM
5

Thanks. Heard i should never validate women, and witty and smooth is easier said than done. But i get what you mean
/r/askTRP19/01/21 02:30 PM
11

"Learned to say the right things" How and what are dem tings man
/r/askTRP19/01/21 09:28 AM
1

Thats a good plan. Hope you succeed. You got good knowledge already. One thing though, how come two of my good friends, who watched tons of porn, still was the most social guys and good to talk to all people, also girls ?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 09:03 AM
2

You are a fucking good guy sir. Youre right i gotta find a hobby. Lifes been just work and my son for the last year, nothing else. A boring life. Gotta get moving on to something bigger
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:56 PM
2

Okay porn is off, trying to stop fapping but its hard when i dont have no girls. But will try to put the sexual energy into something else. Also im trying to cut sugary foods and fast food. Trying to do a kind of dopamine detox. Theres not much to do at home, but push ups and long walks. Apreciate it, thanks!
/r/askTRP18/01/21 08:51 PM
1

So its a natural ability thats been suppressed by to much tech ? I have been watching porn on and off for a long time. Right now i feel down but maybe its withdrawal ? I will eat better and hit the gym as soon as they open.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 06:56 PM
1

Thanks for the well written response, appreciate it. Guess i have to stop looking for women now. I have been hell bent on finding girls so i would get quicker over my ex, and because it messes with my head knowing she has it easy and is getting new dick everytime i have my kid. But the social aspect of picking up girls is my biggest fear. Even when i know a girl is into me, i cant keep a convo interesting. But its the same with guy friends. They are all able to talk for hours with their other fr…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 06:07 PM
1

I have basic shitty pictures, but im also 28, overweight and bald, but with good facial structure, body frame and eyes. But when i match with a girl who is lower smv than me, i cant have an interesting convo. Conversation is the hardest thing in the world for me at the moment
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:58 PM
3

How is tinder easy ? Even when i get a match, i get unmatched quick into the convo. I almost never get matches, but when i do it goes like the above.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 05:51 PM
2

Gotta ask, if you have hair on top, or only sides ? And when you say you are doing well, is that with younger chicks ?
/r/askTRP18/01/21 12:36 AM
1

Okay. Im getting wet dreams when its been a certain time since my last release. Sexual transmutation sounds interesting
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:41 PM
1

Why do you need to ask this if you are a player who can just get other girls ?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:49 AM
1

Say youre tired
/r/askTRP15/01/21 10:54 PM
1

How to combat the hornyness, and wet dreams ?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:48 PM
1

Serious ?
/r/askTRP14/01/21 09:40 PM
1

How did they become that way in the first place ?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 01:55 PM
1

Okay. Are you experienced with addictions ? Because i really dont wanna feel withdrawal for long periods of time
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:40 PM
1

Not three times in a row, and by crazy, i mean bigger girls, which im not that into in real life. I have tried quitting, a couple of times, but when i get angry and sad, i dont like that.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 08:04 PM
1

To porn, or masturbation ?
/r/askTRP13/01/21 07:14 PM
2

Yesterday i was on a 5 days nofap streak, felt angry, sad, annoyed, not social. Got home late from work, fapped 3 times since to some crazy porn, and today im happy as hell, social as fuck out at work.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:33 PM
1

What was your anger about ? You are still with your baby mama right ? But yeah i know her smv is low, its the fact that she's whoring around and is the mother of my son that bothers me. What is waatgm ? Im gonna check it out later
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:48 PM
1

It was because I got more and more abusive. But fuck it. I cant even look at her now, knowing she fucked around under 1 month after dumping me, and when she drops my son off, she's dolled up with slutty clothes, probably on her way out to some random dude as soon as me and my son goes in my apartment. It makes me wanna harm her
/r/askTRP10/01/21 08:56 AM
1

Yeah okay. Our relationship was in her words, full of emotional abuse, so much she would get sick to her stomach being with me, so guess its out of the question. But i just gotta stay strong and be there for him everytime he needs me. And then fuck that bitch
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:39 PM
1

Im sorry for coming at you that way. Im not on finasteride, i really want to though, and i just think it sounds so crazy to be that effected of 4 days only. But again, im not gonna call you a liar, sorry. It must be hard to suffer like you. And its so messed up that they havent found a cure yet
/r/askTRP09/01/21 08:31 PM
1

Dont understand your suggestion. Do you mean doing stuff together all 3 ? Thats sadly not possible
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:44 PM
1

Still doesnt prove that you fucked yourself up by taking it for 4 days. Unless its backed by science then its impossible to prove
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:34 PM
1

Im glad you took the time to write that. And i really wanna see the good in this, but i cant. Back when we were together we were both 100 % with our son, maybe she was more than me actually. And we would all explore. The thing that made me resent her was her looks, her tattoos and her sexual past. But now i know i was wrong because my life now isnt good compared to the 5 years with her
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:29 PM
1

I feel like writing her about it would be wrong of me, but thanks for the suggestion. We have talked it out alot and i have apologized and all that. And now we have it running where she drops him off at my place every other weekend, and i drop him off at kindergarten after the weekend. That will end soon when he starts school though. So then I will have to face her 2 times every other weekend. And one day she will get a new guy. Messing my head up overthinking
/r/askTRP08/01/21 04:22 PM
1

Thanks. We wrestle, go to the beach and dig in the sand, watch cartoons and play with toy guns and bows, cars. And right now, it seems like he is doing okay. I guess the fact that, for all his life, he only saw me during the weekends even when i was with his mother, makes it easier on him. Its just hard not getting to share the good times with her. And it was also way easier back then cause she planned alot of shit, i just had to show up. She actually wants me to be close with him so i guess im …
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:45 AM
1

The talks, notes, texts has already been done. Its a year now since we broke up. So theres no closure to be had anymore.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:39 AM
1

I yelled at her, and was jealous alot. Dont know if it classifies as abusive. I was raised in a household with yelling so i never thought it was wrong until she pointed it out. My son has lived with her his entire life, so getting full custody is next to impossible. Also when she has a daytime job and i work from noon till evening when he is going to bed. If i move to their city and get a daytime job, i could get 50 percent custody, 7 days with me, 7 days with her. But of course im not going to …
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:36 AM
1

No and no. Why dont you answer ? Theres no evidence that fin can fuck you up like that
/r/askTRP08/01/21 09:32 AM
1

If you wouldnt mind, please elaborate on whats good about being single dad, and seing my kid every other weekend ? Im taking all the positives i can right now ;)
/r/askTRP08/01/21 12:21 AM
1

This is bullshit. 4 days and you are fucked ? You are probably just thinking alot about your hair that you give yourself brainfog
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:11 PM
1

What are you experiencing ? And how you know its not mental ?
/r/askTRP07/01/21 04:10 PM
1

When you say both parents in the mix, do you mean both are involved, or living together ? Yeah i hope he grows up okay. Im afraid of alot of things regarding him living with a single mom. He might hear her fucking, she's loud and he may walk in on her getting slapped or choked by some guy. I know its beta to think like that, but i feel sick knowing it can and most likely will happen
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:11 PM
2

Thanks for this, i appreciate your way of helping 💪 I know im fucked in the head, and some days im fine, and other days im getting emotional and crazy. And yeah, i regret everything cause the only problem i had with her was her appearance. I dont know where to go to get my life moving, but i will look into it. Thanks again
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:49 PM
2

Dont understand your last part. I didnt leave her. And the thing i feel fucks my sons life is that he now lives with parents that arent together, and he cant experience the proper upbringing. Opportunity for me and my son, could you explain this ? Right now im stuck at a unskilled job, shitty apartment, 1 hour away from them and im pretty dependent on my paycheck to see my son and spend time with him.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 01:26 PM
1

I was horny and she was kinky, but overweight. Had a pretty face and was fun to be around. Its not about being stuck with him, you dont have children i assume ? But yes, i gotta get my hair and body fixed
/r/askTRP07/01/21 11:21 AM
1

Okay. I fucked 1 hot girl couple months ago, as the first one i fucked after my ex, and i felt like i was over her after that, so guess i have to keep going. At the moment i have zero confidence due to bodyfat and balding, and horrible social skills so plating women is a long way out in the future
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:25 AM
1

I apologized alot. We ended sleeping together 6 months after the break up, but i lost frame after that. Dont know if i romantacize the past, cause one of my best friends said after the break up, that during those 5 years, he mostly heard me talk bad about her. But im keeping it cool with her. Its hard though when i know she is out fucking around and the fact i wont get the good family trips and times back
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:11 AM
36

Wouldnt it backfire if he keeps ignoring? He has to set up something at one point right ?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 11:12 PM
2

This isnt true though. Its not like every single girl on tinder is like that
/r/askTRP01/01/21 10:10 PM
1

You overcome this by not going after old hags and start going for girls your age ;)
/r/seduction01/01/21 09:55 PM
3

Cool, if it aint broke ;) I also wished i didnt have to have contact with my ex and could be cold as hell, but my kid makes it harder
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:10 AM
2

Everything is not black and white, and no maybe he didnt gain anything, but again, he didnt lost anything. The only thing is he is now wondering "what if" and he would have done that no matter if he answered or not. As long as he doesnt do anything more, he is golden
/r/askTRP01/01/21 02:07 AM
3

Well, he didnt gain anything, but also didnt lose anything. She texted him a greeting, he replied and thats that. Now you could say he lost his peace of mind, and i guess that sucks
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:55 AM
0

I dont know shit, but i have a friend who is good with girls. Although he always validates the shit out of them before even meeting, he usually gets the girls he wants. Once a hot girl was late to answer, and he wrote something like "wow, you take 8 hours to answer🤣" and ended up banging her.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 01:53 AM
1

Cool. I mean of course head is nice, and when you are really horny it seems like a good idea. But you will sure as hell regret it ;) Just make sure you dont give her any sexual vibes, and let her down gently
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:47 AM
2

Dont do anything. I never understood guys who want head from a girl, but dont want to fuck her. For me its both or nothing. But just stay friends with her
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:43 AM
6

Nobody knows, but you did the right thing, and now you dont do anything again. Maybe she hits you up, maybe not, but you sure as hell dont hit her up first
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:41 AM
59

If a girl says you are to ugly for me, then fuck her. Thats not a test, thats her being a bitch
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:26 PM
1

Dont fool this guy. He will spend time with you for the 1 month free period, but you will feed him scraps so when the month expire, he feel like he has to get another month, and another. OP, you can find everything you need to know, for free if you look around
/r/seduction31/12/20 06:15 PM
1

Well, cool then. Good evening
/r/askTRP31/12/20 12:02 AM
3

You spend alot of time going through strangers profile online ? 🤣 Go work on your debt and apologize to your dad, he loves you
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:14 PM
0

Yes but for real, its so far out to beleive all the stupid shit being posted from people who think the world is lying about corona
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:10 PM
1

Its people like you fucking up the herd immunity that we are working on. The world is not lying to you
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:08 PM
1

Cool
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:04 PM
0

Yes but still, come on ? You really beleive the entire world is lying to us at the same time ?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 11:03 PM
3

You are far from redpill, hope he breaks your jaw next time. What the fuck is wrong with you
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:41 PM
4

He should have slapped you as soon as he found out instead of waiting till you were asleep. You hitting him back and breaking his phone was a bitch move. You saying "i like the free rent" is also weak as fuck. Respect your dad and realize he was disappointed in you, and wants the best for you, and he probably wanted to whoop your ass
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:39 PM
-1

We do it because we now have technology and we have never seen this shit before. Nobody is trying to control us, track us, or depopulate or all the crazy conspiracy shit.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 10:36 PM
13

If you know you are gonna get fucked up beyond belief by 10 thugs, then its not worth it if all the guy was doing was hitting on your girl
/r/askTRP29/12/20 07:40 PM
2

Could you update your op with their names so other people can avoid them ?
/r/askTRP29/12/20 08:51 AM
1

I dont think much about that to be honest. But listen, its all hypothetic, you go on your trip, and stop worrying about stuff in the future. My advice right now is to dial back your emotional investment in this girl, because one day she might dump you for whatever reason, or you might dump her. Stay fit, keep good relations with your boys and family at all times, good career and then you are golden. And remember the RP way is blown out of proportions these days. Theres guys asking "should i buy …
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:16 PM
1

Well, what i would do isnt what you should do, i know what we suppose to do, but i cant always control myself. I would get jealous and controlling back in the day. And i would have interrogated her when she got back ;)
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:10 PM
2

Im telling you what you should do, not what i would do, im a fucking emotional lunatic when im in a LTR, and thats why i will never emotionally invest in a girl again. But the fact she is your gf, and you 2 are exclusive, i guess you wanna keep her, so i think by acting the way i described, is the way. I dont think she will cheat if you do it like that, and have a strong relationship anyways
/r/askTRP28/12/20 11:06 PM
1

Then you say something that shows you dont give a fuck, but in a good way, like "cool" and then just go on with whatever you were doing when she brings up that she's going, and you dont ask questions, dont snoop around, demote her og pull back your attention or anything. Nothing in your behaviour should change when she tells you.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:47 PM
1

What you mean exactly by "then what" ? Nothings happened. Or did i misunderstand something?
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:43 PM
2

You know what, when im in an LTR i would think exactly like you. But now that im not, and i can look at your situation from the outside, it sounds stupid as fuck. Dont get to invested, go on the trip, if she ever wants to go on a trip, dont say anything at all besides "have fun babe"
/r/askTRP28/12/20 10:40 PM
2

I think you handled it well. Also ignoring it and changing subject could work. Maybe as soon as she said ex say something like "lets go get something to eat" or some basic shit.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:37 PM
2

Thanks. But as you said, she probably been doing the sickest shit since breaking up with me, my kid seems to be doing alright though so fuck her
/r/askTRP27/12/20 11:32 PM
3

I only stayed with her because she got pregnant back in the day, never liked her that much so she can go do whatever she wants, when i have my son. But when he stays with her, i expect her to behave, and not go suck a guy off just before picking my son up and giving him a kiss. Its being a regular decent human, and i expect her to act like i would myself. I know whores are gonna whore, but still.
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:33 PM
5

No you are not right. You see her as a plate, she sees you as a plate, its all good
/r/askTRP27/12/20 08:00 PM
1

Make money
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:09 AM
-2

They are that way because they know they have to do whatever it takes to please, they know they are low value. And its not about choice. If she sucks some nasty guy off, and then go pick my son up from kindergarten, she should get a beating. Luckily for her theres no way for me to find out
/r/askTRP27/12/20 06:08 AM
3

Dont know what is wrong with me but i know alot of technical stuff, but i cant get myself to practice anything because i cant hold a conversation for shit. Respect to you for just doing it
/r/askTRP26/12/20 09:05 PM
2

What made it possible ? The sidebar ?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:47 PM
16

Haha exactly. Gotta give it to op, he internalized the frame part. Fucking boss 😜
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:45 PM
8

Because they are desperate god dammit. The fact she told you she was picking up her son is sick. Maybe its because im a single dad, but if i knew my ex was acting like that, there would be trouble
/r/askTRP26/12/20 08:32 PM
2

I feel you, i went through the exact same thing 1 year ago, but with a 4 year old son involved. So im telling you now, what somebody told me back then. Forget her. If she was the only thing making you happy, then your life dont have any meaning now, and that in itself, is sad. But i understand you completely, i felt the exact same, and now im almost completely over it. I also had a gift prepared before she dumped me, and i gave it to her anyways, and felt stupid when i didnt get a reaction, and …
/r/seduction23/12/20 10:37 PM
2

DONT ! I know in your mind you hope she gets emotional when she opens your gifts and she then wants you back. She wont. Dont give her anything, not even a "merry christmas" text
/r/seduction23/12/20 10:18 PM
1

I had it done because it was needed, so for me sex was way way better after i got cut, if its not needed, then keep your willy intact
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:01 PM
1

My bad. Get back in shape, and fuck them when they want, dump them when you want
/r/askTRP23/12/20 02:27 PM
26

You wouldnt treat your plates the same way if they got fat so stop complaining
/r/askTRP23/12/20 12:39 PM
1

The whole meaning with plates is to have more options, so dont complain when girls do the same
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:24 AM
1

The fact she wants to know the parents of your friends is good. As a parent you fear the worst for your child
/r/askTRP23/12/20 10:23 AM
1

Talk about what though ?
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:23 AM
3

Do you get girls though ?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:51 PM
1

Nowhere. Stay safe and wait till the vaccine
/r/askTRP20/12/20 06:51 PM
1

Cool, thanks. I thought you meant when approaching and being honest with your intent ;)
/r/askTRP19/12/20 09:59 PM
2

What you mean by the shit you get away with by telling the truth ? Any examples ?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:29 PM
1

Or maybeee they have a boyfriend ?
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:27 PM
19

Thats a good one ;) Who comes up with this shit
/r/seduction19/12/20 12:22 AM
4

Yeah okay, then i guess it may benefit you. Go by your gut, if you feel your picture with the filter looks close enough to the real you, then the girls probably wont notice anything ;)
/r/askTRP18/12/20 10:24 PM
5

I havent read the tinder guide, and never will. But i can tell you this much, altering your apperance in a picture, is weak as fuck. Unless your camera takes shitty pictures i see no point.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 10:21 PM
2

Wtf are you saying ?
/r/seduction18/12/20 10:13 PM
23

Give us the line
/r/seduction18/12/20 10:12 PM
11

Dont use a filter
/r/askTRP18/12/20 10:11 PM
1

What type of school did you start at 26 ? Im 28 now, doing unskilled labour at a warehouse with a 5 year old son i see every other weekend. The only thing i want is a proper career so i can take proper care of him later on. I have a good head on my shoulders, and can learn anything, jusr dont have any passion or interest so dont know what to do
/r/askTRP18/12/20 08:01 PM
4

This sounds right. To many games being played is not fun for anyone
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:57 PM
2

I see alot of points, but no info on how to achieve them ?
/r/seduction18/12/20 07:40 PM
1

Guess im lucky that my face is handsome with good eyes and jawline, just have to overcome the insecurity baldness gave me. Back in my young days when i had hair and was slimmer i ran game on girls without even knowing it. Now after being dumped by my ltr of 5 years, and getting fat and bald i lost all my swagger and confidence
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:09 AM
3

But you can work it out ;) my baldness only gets worse qnd worse.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:44 PM
3

At least youre not bald ;)
/r/askTRP15/12/20 06:22 PM
4

You wouldnt know, and i am shaving my head, still its not fun walkinf around with a shiny sign that shows im losing my youth
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:51 PM
11

Im 6 foot 4 with a big frame, but im bald. We all have shortcomings
/r/askTRP15/12/20 05:48 PM
6

I think the superpower shit is bullshit, but i also think that if you can utilize it right, it might help motivate
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:07 PM
2

How the f do you strike up a convo with the cashier ? Seems so weird when other people do it when in line for example
/r/askTRP13/12/20 10:40 PM
2

I would say text game is whack. But then again, my best friend practically gets girls to fall in love with him, before they even meet him, just from texting
/r/seduction12/12/20 06:16 PM
2

Well, that explains it
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:53 PM
3

How do you know anything about your mothers sexual past ? Unless she was a child bride in the middle east, she could have banged who ever and just lie about it, not saying she is, just pointing it out
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:30 PM
1

Good contribution
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:27 PM
1

Well, then next time, you go and eat, and then eat her for desert. Good response though ;) Do you get talkative after banging ? I know i myself sometimes talk more than whats good for me after sex
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:20 PM
1

May i ask why you refused first time ?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:11 PM
3

Exactly. Do you get good response during sex ?
/r/askTRP12/12/20 04:09 PM
5

Just remember, everything isnt black and white, and sometimes guys let a good girl go, because of stupid shit. You do you, trust your gut
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:59 PM
1

You are way fucking cooler than i was at 17, hell even now at 28. If my girl got a dickpic i would accuse her of all types of shit. You got this man, do whatever you feel like
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:48 PM
1

If you look up porn, trying to get horny, you have a problem. If you are so fucking horny you constantly think about sex, then open a tab of porn, bust a nut and get on with the day
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:43 PM
5

Dont bring it up, that way she know she got to your head. Ignore her tantrums and have fun with it all, you wont be with her forever anyways
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:40 PM
5

What the fuck are you talking about ? This is not the worth of a girl, a pussy or whatever. This is just a price for some dirty prostitute
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:35 PM
1

I dont beleive any girl in the whole god damn world would think "he's spending time coming to see me, my time is worth more than his" Seriously, nobody thinks like that
/r/askTRP11/12/20 11:28 PM
1

Dont do a follow up
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:22 PM
1

U are very handsome, right ?
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:09 PM
5

Dont smile ? Why ?
/r/seduction08/12/20 11:08 PM
-1

I really got you with my comment ;)
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:44 PM
-1

No, but for fucks sake, you copy paste this comment to anybody who is doing something that isnt as "AcTiOn DaTe" If he have a girl watching a movie with him, he has reached the finish line, what the fuck would a action date do for him ?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 11:26 PM
-1

Build a snowman ? Wtf you on about ? When has watching a movie with a girl ever been a lame ass recommendation ?
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:21 PM
0

You trying to be cool by mocking the pandemic or something like that ?
/r/askTRP04/12/20 11:10 PM
-1

I did to 1 month ago, but i feel bad for it now. Putting your family at risk for some pussy. But yes, just do netflix and chill dates
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:58 PM
-4

You shouldnt hang out with strangers these times anyway
/r/askTRP04/12/20 10:49 PM
3

I wouldnt risk it. It would be hard for me to sleep with maximum peace at night
/r/askTRP02/12/20 07:57 PM
3

What is he doing wrong ? I might have misunderstood, but to me it sounds like your buddy makes the girls talk about themselves, but it doesnt work ?
/r/askTRP02/12/20 05:38 AM
1

Thanks, im bad at small talk, like insanely bad. Do you have another example of direct vs indirect compliment ? My friend who bangs hundreds of new girls constantly always starts with "you look nice" or lovely or some shit like that. And sometimes "how come s beautiful girl like you is single" and he gets the girls wrapped around his finger. And its not like he is high smv so i wonder how
/r/askTRP01/12/20 09:52 PM
1

If she dont fills up the convo ? You know maybe you lock eyes with a girl and you compliment her looks or something, and she just says "thanks" ? What to do after ?
/r/askTRP01/12/20 09:03 PM
1

2 thirds of the world has hsv by the age of 50. You can even get it, and show no signs of it, and pass it on without ever having an outbreak. Just remember that before doing anything
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:40 PM
1

BUT, you cant deny you are fucking handsome, if pretty fit bodied girls just come over.
/r/seduction29/11/20 09:01 PM
2

youre clearly very handsome
/r/seduction29/11/20 08:57 PM
3

Sure thing, dont get attached emotionally, if you can stop yourself of course, sometimes its hard. Nobody gets so drunk that they dont know they are about to fuck, but you have other plates, and it sounds like you could easily get some more, so be cool
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:55 PM
1

I cant tell you how i would feel, but my logic tells me you cant say shit about it, and i find it weird that you even know that she is ?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 08:36 PM
1

Then you are either fucking huge or you do some crazy exhausting activity every day
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:34 AM
2

You cant walk around like that, winter isnt hard for a bald guy, just wear a beanie when outside. Buzz it, get jacked, and dont grow a beard, maybe some stubble
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:24 PM
1

You dont. Fuck that
/r/askTRP28/11/20 09:15 PM
1

No, why you think that ?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:01 AM
1

Take your weight in pounds times 12, thats your cutting calories. Find a site to calculate your protein requirements Meet protein requirements, fill up on whatever makes you feel the best afterwards
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:17 PM
2

She doesnt want you
/r/seduction27/11/20 07:23 AM
2

If you could choose, always go rugged masculine
/r/askTRP24/11/20 10:41 PM
2

Fucked once 10 days into the streak, yesterday i busted a glorious nut, today im as energetic, witty and in a good mood as i was before, take from that what you want
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:07 PM
2

Im insecure as hell about my eyes and my bald head. Im 6 foot 4 though
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:39 PM
2

Youre stupid. I already told you nobody wants to be as ugly as you sound like. I am already bald, and my eyes are uneven due to uneven facial structure and a lazy eyelid
/r/askTRP22/11/20 04:26 PM
2

You are fucked in the head. Go see a shrink
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:55 PM
8

Hahaha have a good evening sir
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:53 PM
2

Your minds not the problem for fucks sake. Of course i wouldnt like to be ugly as hell like you are. But what im saying is you have to change your mind, or go off yourself. Your whining is pathetic
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:47 PM
2

No, im telling you when your sick mind is not preoccupied with being a victim and why the horrible evil girls wont look your way, then maybe you will be open to a opportunity, you wouldnt have seen before. Change your attitude, its pathetic as fuck. So what girls dont want you ? Are girls the end all be all of this life ? Girls aint shit
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:38 PM
2

No, you want somebody to come with an example of a butt ugly guy killing it with women. You will find a girl one day, when you stop focusing so much on it. I wish you the best
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:31 PM
2

So this post has been a complete waste of time
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:28 PM
2

Fine, stop trying, and go do something else with your life
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:21 PM
2

So whats the point ? Theres no point and im gonna stop answering
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:19 PM
2

Whats the point of this post ? Your short and ugly, get out there and find a ugly female dwarf and bang her
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:16 PM
5

So do you jack off once a day to porn, and still pull girls and do great career wise ?
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:10 PM
2

Then dont date
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:01 PM
13

Glad i didnt look it up. Been 35 days since i watched porn last
/r/askTRP22/11/20 03:00 PM
2

Then date lower if dating is that important to you. Your energy is better spent developing skills and maybe paying a escort to get off
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:56 PM
2

Okay, go look for her
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:53 PM
9

What is trap porn
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:51 PM
2

Yes, and you wouldnt fuck a chick that was as ugly as you, but maybe you should
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:49 PM
3

She wants to fuck you
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:38 PM
2

Listen, of course some people are to ugly to get laid. Men and women, and nobody would like to be that ugly. But what the hell will you do about it ? Save money and get it fixed. You cant do shit about it other than that. Give us a pic of you, or someone with similar features
/r/askTRP22/11/20 02:36 PM
1

Fake ;)
/r/seduction21/11/20 09:08 PM
1

Well, right now my issue is im not comfortable enough in my body, due to overweight, and that coupled with me being bald has fucked my confidence. Im on the path though, lifting and cardio 6 times a week, tracking all food. But still, i know social cues and rules, and even when a chick i think is hot, is giving me the eyes to come talk to her, i dont do it, because i literally dont know what to say. I get in my head thinking what if she knows i only wanna fuck, what if this and what if that.
/r/seduction21/11/20 08:03 PM
1

But what if talking is the hard part ?
/r/seduction21/11/20 03:20 PM
1

If you have a kid with her, otherwise you shouldnt even be talking to a ex
/r/askTRP20/11/20 08:05 PM
4

You cant be jacked without a thick neck ;)
/r/askTRP19/11/20 04:19 PM
12

Dont grow a beard, maybe a slight stubble. And getting jacked is the most important thing, that and a good tan
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:59 AM
1

Because i dont beleive in things that cant be proved. And i think the whole idea about a god is stupid. Its a leftover thought from back in the day where people didnt know better. But when my muslim friend for example, talks about it, i try to be open because its important to him. So faith is needed for some people
/r/askTRP19/11/20 07:03 AM
3

Of course there is no god
/r/askTRP18/11/20 08:58 PM
1

Maybe she is desperate because she is old. But try to invite her out again
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:48 PM
1

You did a royal fuck up saying "admit you wanted a hot guy" and all that shit. I know when you typed it, you wanted to sound confident, but i think it came out as very try hard. But fuck it, you can get another girl One thing i noticed though. She said "next time someone say they cant, ask them when they are available" Isnt that straight against the advice normally, of when they dont come with a counter offer, leave them be ?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 07:41 PM
-1

Can you give a summary ?
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:08 AM
-2

Stop it right now, wtf is going on. Taking drugs to maintain frame is stupid mate. Drop it and keep working on yourself, we will all get where we want eventually
/r/askTRP17/11/20 08:03 AM
2

You dont have to time anything, or limit or anything else. Protein per day, and calories in vs out, is all that matters for your body
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:20 PM
3

Wtf ? Look up nutrition on google. But to help you, its all about calories. Protein requirements and calories in vs out is all you need to know
/r/askTRP15/11/20 08:12 PM
1

Young is always better imo
/r/askTRP15/11/20 04:04 PM
2

Dont fuck cougars unless you have to
/r/askTRP15/11/20 11:45 AM
1

You wouldnt be interested in a poor, overweight chick either. Bang the bitches like theres no tomorrow ;)
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:15 PM
1

Why the disgust ?
/r/askTRP13/11/20 08:10 PM
3

;)
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:22 PM
2

Dont. If it turns out awkward you will think about it everyday when you see the girls.
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:50 PM
7

Well, then you could have told her you loved her and lied to her until she would break a couple of months later anyways.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:19 AM
9

"Thanks" "Me too" Some cocky funny stupid shit and change the subject
/r/askTRP12/11/20 10:04 AM
1

Start to be abit unavailabe
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:57 AM
1

Set up meet ups, at her place or yours. Sluts wanna fuck even if there is a lockdown
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:29 AM
1

Dont ask them that question them. Try to set up dates
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:27 AM
1

Im no expert in any way, so dont take my word for it, but i would say that it doesnt matter. I dont think you will get a woman who will answer "i just want to fuck" And if they give a straight answer, and that answer happens to be "im looking to settle down, find the guy who can take all my shit" then your attraction to the girl goes down
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:19 AM
1

Yes, but why ? Hit them with "me neither" or some shit and get a small convo going about some trivial shit
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:14 AM
1

Doing it because you cant have children, and really want to give your love to a kid, it would be good to adopt a child as a single father, only you and your kid. But doing it after having a child of your own seems abit weird imo
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:14 AM
1

When they say they dont know, why tf do you stop answering ?
/r/askTRP12/11/20 08:11 AM
2

Yes it is, and i would even go so far and say fapping is beta.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:42 AM
1

Stupid ass question. Its preference, like food, cars or anything else.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:12 AM
28

Getting cosmetic surgery is more beta than having a weak chin
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:10 AM
64

Maybe she is a huge slut with intimacy issues who cant look the fuck of the day in the eyes.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:54 AM
1

Have the minimal texting worked for you ? One of my best mates, who is also the best at pulling girls, has an average face, with a fit body, and he compliments girls way to much, and text way to much, yet he bangs alot and the girls always want more
/r/askTRP10/11/20 09:08 AM
3

Exactly 1 year ago, my ex dumped me after 5 years together, and we even had an amazing son. I was depressed like there was no tomorrow. My good friend suggested me to lift, so i started lifting, eating better and was seeing a shrink. After lifting for a short time, i stopped seeing the shrink cause I felt i got nothing from it, and i started reading, and now, i dont even miss the bitch. You gotta let go in your mind, never contact her no matter how good of an idea you think it could be, and lift…
/r/askTRP10/11/20 07:20 AM
1

Probably because im low status then
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:55 PM
1

Seems weird to be in a group chat with 2 girls, that you say youre not interested in
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:35 PM
1

But the whole start conversations thing, is where it gets tricky sometimes. I am a genuine guy, and i really dont care about anything anybody say in a conversation, so i dont see the reason to talk to a girl, other than i want to bang her.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 07:56 PM
2

What do you and other guys mean when you say ".... run game" I might be socially stupid, but i really dont know how to run game on girls
/r/askTRP07/11/20 06:09 PM
2

Its fucking weird, stop it
/r/askTRP05/11/20 10:13 PM
3

I think its more about not letting women dictate your happiness, because they can fuck you up in so many ways. If you can stop yourself from getting attached, i think women can be used for alot more than sex. But to me at least, its hard not to get attached
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:42 AM
2

Yeah okay, i see. Well as long as you always have your kids emotional well being as the first priority, in every interaction regarding your ex, then you are doing right. My heart breaks every time my kid seems sad, because i think it has to do with the change he experienced when my ex dumped me a year ago. I also dont want to see her at drop offs, but often i have to and put on an act.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:49 AM
5

Whatever you do, dont use your kid for anything besides giving your love and attention. The 3rd party drop offs is also a bad idea, the kid isnt at fault, and shouldnt feel somethings wrong. Just be chill. What did she do that you would get her fined for ?
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:34 AM
1

It feels alot better when you got the pussy by yourself, you feel good knowing you "seduced" a girl to let you fuck her. Felt like a boss leaving that night after fucking, but that feeling went away quick again knowing she fucks everybody ;)
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:31 AM
2

Gotta stop thinking. It was the first pussy since the breakup a year ago, and i knew she was easy, still dont have the confidence to approach women or tinder date so guess its back to just lifting and working
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:24 AM
1

Thanks, appreciate it. When the summer comes and i have a great body, im sure she will give me some attention again
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:23 PM
1

Cool, well its off now, so no worries anymore. Annoying though, it was the greatest fuck i had
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:22 PM
1

Great response, thank you. Well i admit i did think way to much about her, but when i found out she fucked the other dude a couple days after i fucked, i decided i could be a bit more forward and rude, i know she likes to be dominated so i think my message today was okay, i dont hope she thinks im pining for it. Im gonna do as you said and forget about it, and just be friendly at work. Exactly what does play it coy mean ? And the Sister-zone thing sounds good, can you explain ? And luckily she d…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:42 PM
0

I dont think fucking equals a connection, it just got to me the way she acted after fucking, like she was really into me. But yeah, im gonna keep joking around with her. She texted me something work related, and then there was some banter regarding slapping, So i texted she could hit me up if she wants to get slapped around later tonight, but this time we dont have time to sit around and talk. She said she couldnt today, already made plans. And i replied that i just said she could hit me up, i d…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:46 PM
0

Cool, gonna follow your advice. Im not gonna plan anything with her. Apparently she just fucked some other guy from work also, i knew before i fucked her that she fucked 2 guys from work, but after i fucked her, she was with a new guy from work couple days ago. So even if i suggested another meet up, can i still say i "won" as long as i dont suggest anything more ? I know its a stupid ego thing, but i dont want her thinking she's all that now. The weird thing was she was all over me, sending dro…
/r/askTRP02/11/20 05:56 PM
2

I would like it to keep going. So im just gonna chill and let her come to me in her own pace. If i havent been acting needy in any way, and just seems unfazed about it all, i hope it will drive her towards me in due time
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:02 PM
1

So to rehash it. Just act normal, dont ask her to hang, face to face, or text, and just be cocky and funny like before. That was how i got her attention firstly
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:58 PM
2

Sounds tense, i dont want to date the girl, the sex was just amazing, and my ego want one more time, now that she rejected the last
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:49 PM
1

Why did it end bad ?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:44 PM
2

Okay. Im gonna drop the texting, and just smirk at her, and make fun of her as i did before we fucked. Back then i didnt care. My relationship ended a year ago, this is the first fresh girl i fucked since. Thanks for helping
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:39 PM
0

Cool. So no more texting, and just joking with her as i did before i fucked her, right ? And i shouldnt ask her in person, here at work, to hang out in the evening ?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:37 PM
1

Yes we see eachother at work, but rarely talk. What is buffering ? The first meetup was arranged over text after work that day though. So asking in person to hang again would be over pursueing ?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:29 PM
1

Thanks. This wasnt even a plate though. Just a girl i banged once, but would like to keep banging. But i wont gain anything asking her to hang again then ? You know in my mind i keep thinking "she a girl, they dont ask us out, so maybe she is waiting for me to make a move again"
/r/askTRP02/11/20 03:21 PM
-3

So i should leave her be ? Cool thanks
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:39 PM
0

So im just gonna keep on doing exactly what got me in her pants to begin with. Have fun at work
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:39 PM
4

You are right. Im just not at a place physcially where im comfortable with myself. Im lifting and on a good diet so its a matter of time, so this one was heaven sent. is your advice to not hit her up, and just smile at her like we always have done and let her come to me ? Showing her that her rejection dont mean anything?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 02:09 PM
2

Cool, then i have to reach out again at some point ;)
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:59 PM
0

Yeah i know, its hard not to want it when it was crazy good and she has a hot body. I dont think i have shown neediness yet. Would you say its needy if i try to set up a meetup again, after she declined the last one without putting effort into coming up with an alternative ?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:53 PM
2

Sounds right. Care to elaborate on "what i need to do to keep it from tanking"
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:35 PM
1

So i fucked up by texting her instead ? I did ask her late in the day, so she could have had plans in the evening, but i see what you mean. God damn
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:31 PM
3

The only girl im fucking, since my ex and i broke up, thats why im hung up on making it work
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:29 PM
2

Cool. And you got that from her just declining my attempt, without coming up with a alternate ? Not trying to be smart, just trying to learn abit
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:22 PM
2

Dont think so, but will do
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:11 PM
2

Will do. If nothing happens, can i just hit her up suggesting to see a movie again and gauge her interest that way ?
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:02 PM
2

Thanks. I got all worked up over if i should initiate plans again. I fucked her good, like she wanted, choked her, slapped her, some kinky shit, then i left to go home and sleep. And the next two days at work she was extra nice bringing me drinks, without me asking. But now she dont bring me anything or text me. But im just gonna keep doing nothing then. The thing is, i know she has alot of dudes, but i really wanna plate her so i can keep fucking her. And then i saw a ams video where he talked …
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:55 PM
4

Its good advice, but sometimes its abit extreme. If it can fuck up your work, obviously dont do it
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:44 PM
2

Cool, care to explain why ? Appreciate the help
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:43 PM
6

It doesnt matter in any way at this job
/r/askTRP02/11/20 12:29 PM
3

I wouldnt pay for anything, that im sure you can find for free online. Like right now, in my country and probably all over the world fitness coaches are the shit, i know a guy who drives a new range rover, lives in a nice apartment in the capital city, and just got it made basically, by being a online coach, and everything he teaches, can be found online for free. So i would advise you not to pay for anything
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:20 PM
2

Dont beat yourself up about it, its not like my answer is right or wrong. Just the first thing that came to my mind. Im sure you can end up fucking her. Dont act any different towards her at work at all
/r/askTRP21/10/20 01:12 PM
0

What is the price of a rolex ?
/r/askTRP21/10/20 07:56 AM
3

When she said she liked to learn new things you could have said that you could teach her a new thing or 2
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:54 AM
7

I dont even know what the point of this is ? Why does it matter to you what women eat ? I only care what she eats, if it is my dick, right now nobody is, and my dick dont even have carbs
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:46 PM
13

Why do you ask this question here ? Seems like it doesnt have anything to do with red pill at all
/r/askTRP20/10/20 11:37 PM
0

No bracelet, no necklace, no fucking rings, finger rings, ear rings nose rings. You can buy yourself a beautiful watch, and some cuff links, and stop there
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:53 PM
1

Because even though you fuck one 9/10, it will get boring so having a couple others is a great way to go. Not that im experienced in it, just my thought
/r/askTRP19/10/20 06:59 AM
2

A guy who dont want to break his other plates. My advice is find some new bars if its important to you not to fuck it up with the other girls
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:35 PM
35

Everyone else doesnt matter in any way, only you and your family matters. Im 28, soon to be 29, and if i knew what education i would like, i would start as soon as possible. Look at it this way, you may first graduate at 29, but if you keep on with your life as it is now, you will be 29 some day anyway, so why not make progress anyway
/r/askTRP17/10/20 09:59 PM
1

Maybe you show to much ;)
/r/seduction16/10/20 11:13 PM
2

I dont think you shed virus all the time. I just know my ex had a tingling sensation in her mouth, and after a blowjob i got herpes on the dick
/r/askTRP16/10/20 11:41 AM
3

How do you inform them, and do you inform them before a one night stand ? I got it from my girlfriend back in school when we were 17. She had a cold sore inside her mouth, without knowing, and then i got it from a blowjob. I would much rather have genital herpes then oral thats for sure
/r/askTRP16/10/20 06:44 AM
2

Cool, i admire you put so much effort into it, respect the commitment
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:25 PM
3

This sounds like, to me, that you overthink the fuck out of this.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 11:19 AM
3

When you say the sidebar, is it sidebar on this sub, or the original redpill sub that is now quarantined ?
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:04 PM
1

Okay, i thought it was because they were easy ;)
/r/askTRP11/10/20 09:21 AM
1

Yeah okay. Its not because im an expert on this stuff, at all, but i would suggest you to not bang someone because they are easy. Only bang people you are attracted to, if that is milfs, then fine.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:16 PM
1

Just curious, why do you want milfs ? Is it a fetich you got from porn ? Young and childless women seems way better imho
/r/askTRP10/10/20 07:45 PM
1

Can you give examples that would likely be useful in a first date situation?
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:43 PM
2

Thanks, will check it out
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:05 PM
5

Yeah okay. So basically, agree and suggest something else afterwards ?
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:43 PM
13

Strong post, but what is "yes and"
/r/seduction09/10/20 09:14 PM
1

I feel the same, but im inspired by hearing you pull ladies without it.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 06:22 AM
1

But still, the whole gaming girls thing seems like the biggest hurdle. Making them laugh, all that shit, escalate and isolate. And my job isnt a place where my position would be affected if i slept with her
/r/askTRP07/10/20 09:35 PM
1

Cool, i also was pining over my ex, but it was mainly because we have a son together. Now i started working out, tracking calories, but i still have no clue how to game girls. Theres a girl at work, who shows strong IOI's. Looking in my eyes for second while we walk past eachother. Smiling and getting annoyed when i make fun with her. But i have zero clue how to escalate from this, maybe i just dont have the balls for it
/r/askTRP07/10/20 07:54 PM
1

What did you do to get to that point ? Im also no ladies man, but finally got over my ex and feel ready to do something
/r/askTRP06/10/20 09:59 PM
2

Explain the game you talk about please
/r/seduction06/10/20 09:43 PM
2

Can you talk more about what you mean with "the guy i know with best game is stoic" Is he boring, good looking, how do he get girls ?
/r/seduction04/10/20 11:28 AM
1

What did you talk about ? How did you keep a convo exciting for 2 hours with a stranger
/r/seduction01/10/20 08:17 PM
1

Did you learn all this, or have you always had it ?
/r/seduction01/10/20 06:34 AM
2

You sound skilled socially. I couldnt even imagine walking up to someone and find something to tease or joke around with. I respect it !
/r/askTRP30/09/20 06:27 PM
1

Approach how then ? If you didnt have any outcome in mind, what did you approach then with, and how did it go ?
/r/askTRP30/09/20 04:50 PM
1

Okay, cool thanks. Today one of the girls at work showed up with newly blonded hair, and me and her exhange smirks and sometimes flip eachother off when we walk past. I wanted to compliment her hair and say she finally got the hair color that suited her. Implying blonde girls are bimbos/stupid. But i felt it was awkward so didnt do shit. Would that be considered a tease or a neg ?
/r/askTRP28/09/20 03:19 PM
1

I see, good explanation. And i can understand that, if in a relationship, you dont wanna put your girl down. But lets say your only goal is to get some girls to bang, isnt negging good then, or ? You know getting her to feel she isnt hot shit
/r/askTRP28/09/20 08:32 AM
1

I see, thanks. Im still confused about the big difference, cause when you mention teasing, you write "mean" comments. It seems like its a hairfine balance
/r/askTRP28/09/20 07:38 AM
1

Why are you against negging, and can you come with two examples of negging and teasing ? I remember reading about negging back before i got into a LTR and thought it was the shit
/r/askTRP28/09/20 06:48 AM
1

Oh, i thought this was a situation you was currently in and asked for advice ;)
/r/askTRP25/09/20 10:09 PM
6

"Looks like her pussy has cheese" Wtf is this shit ? Why do you wanna fuck a girl like that ?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:19 PM
1

Well, that sounds like a low carb diet anyways ;)
/r/askTRP25/09/20 04:48 PM
3

Why carbs ? Can you suggest a good diet ?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 01:17 PM
-1

How did the face look, bald?
/r/TheRedPill24/09/20 02:03 PM
5

Please do elaborate on his looks. The most helpful comment so far is yours
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 09:37 PM
1

That is a really good advice, appreciate it. I dont have any hobbies though. I watch tv, work out and sometimes take a car trip going nowhere
/r/askTRP22/09/20 06:17 AM
1

I dont know shit about anything that this sub teaches. But imo you should absolutely not go on dates with girls that you are not attracted to.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:56 PM
2

Easier said than done, unless your a natural funny guy
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:53 PM
2

What did you say that was positive to move it along ?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:13 PM
1

The problem is i cant see myself building a connection strong enough that would make the girl want to bang. Because im not interested in anything they have to say. Im not dating or spinnin plates. Im not doing shit other than work and see my son every other week. Has been this way since my ex left 1 year ago
/r/askTRP21/09/20 06:10 AM
1

He is insanely good looking, even if he tells us that he is average ;)
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:09 PM
6

Do you feel it easy to build a connection ? I have a empty feeling inside, like i dont even have the desire to engage with females, at all. I want to bang chicks but not anything else
/r/askTRP20/09/20 06:05 PM
3

Youre a boss, thanks. Hope this will help with my insecurity issues about lazy eye and baldness ;)
/r/askTRP18/09/20 08:45 AM
1

What to do if you have zero interests ? I go to work, unskilled labour work, work out and spend time with my son every other weekend
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:08 AM
5

Sadly im 29 years old. Been in two 5 year relationships since i was 17 years old, so i havent been gaming any chicks as a youngster. But good advice, thanks. Will try my best
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 01:17 PM
11

How, how and how. I feel like im socially handicapped. Thinking about approaching a girl and talking with her makes me anxious
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 11:24 AM
12

But when you get to her place, then what ? What to talk about ? I get so in my head even thinking about it
/r/TheRedPill14/09/20 07:02 AM
2

Approach how ? Z Say what ? Do what ? I suck at it so bad, that even when i know a girl likes me, i cant get myself to do anything about it
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:23 AM
1

He was sexiest man of the year at some point. Im pretty sure alot of women find him handsome
/r/askTRP22/08/20 09:36 PM
1

What do you mean by most people cringe at it ?
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:13 AM
1

I go to the tanning salons, take between 15 and 20 minutes. 2-3 times a week gets me a good tan and then i maintain it when needed. You could use some tanning lotion, but i dont think that would end up looking good. I fear the day my hair loss progress to the point you are having now, but it sounds like you dont bitch about it, so maybe i should man up myself instead of feeling down.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 07:53 PM
1

True, guess im just a bit cynical these days.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:18 PM
1

Of course, but that look isnt exactly what 20 year old girls like
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:11 PM
28

A 7 is also a good looking guy ;)
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:00 PM
1

Honestly, that hair is the worst look. It looks sickening. But nothing to do about it. Get a tan as a minimum. Bald and beard is whack so dont do that
/r/askTRP04/08/20 04:00 PM
42

You are probably pretty good looking. Guys usually say "im not good looking" when they look great
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:56 PM
1

I feel like looks is huge in this. Im sure you are a above average looking. For example, a simple thing as balding will remove all those hot young girls.
/r/askTRP04/08/20 03:35 PM
3

Maybe because his face isnt very handsome
/r/askTRP01/08/20 01:31 PM
1

Once you get what ? How does it become the easiest thing ? The thing i feel i lack in my life, is being able to get the girls that i want
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:41 PM
1

Thanks, it helps alot. The asking her questions part is always tricky to me, because deep down i really dont care about anything she has to say, and if she dont talk alot herself, im not great at keeping a convo going. Went out to pubs with the boys past weekend, and even though a very sexy girl was giving me looks from across the room, multiple times, i wanted her, but i didnt knew how to approach
/r/askTRP27/07/20 05:14 PM
1

Thanks. I actually had the opportunity to set up dates with a couple of matches recently, but i bitch out because of 2 reasons. Im afraid i cant be funny or interesting enough. I dont have much to talk about with anyone. And second, im obese and im uncomfortable in my own skin, also balding. Its hard unless i get the girl to openly say she is willing to do a one night stand
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:02 PM
1

How would one get better then ? I myself am not the best at this
/r/askTRP27/07/20 02:19 PM
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