Small fuck up today.

Very new to the TRP (Just a bit over 1 month) and trying what I'm learning out on Tinder.

Matched last night with a solid HB8.

Opened up joking with her profile, about buying weed from her. She replied, getting the joke. Naturally used the fake buying of weed to say we should meet up. Says she's up for it.

All good.

I suggest getting ice cream tomorrow night. She says that she has to stay home and take care of her baby cat. Weird enough, alright. I take a risk:

"Hey, as long, as your comfortable, I'm up to come over. For the baby cat, ofc".

She says it's good. Hell yeah.

I set up a time (the evening after) and get her address.

On the next day, around 12:00 she sends me 5-6 texts me saying that she has worked the whole day at home and we are going out, not staying in.

Ah, shoot. She had confirmed the fuck, now she's withdrawing it.

I then think: "Yo, I gotta hold frame here, she's testing you".

So I say "lmao you're a funny one. We'll meet at your place, chill, meet your feline, and then if we feel like it, we'll go out too. Spoiler: I make homes a lot more fun then they look".

After sending it, I regretted the last line. Went a bit too far. Aaaand...

unmatched.

Not surprised.

Thing is, I was initially comfortable going out with her and then escalating to go back to her place. But once I got the confirmation that I'd be going straight to her place, I wasn't willing to settle for going out with her. I did what I mistakenly thought was holding frame and ended up getting unmatched.

What do you guys think? Should I have settled with going out and then went back o her place? Should I change my idea of what holding frame is?