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Johnny_Kilroy/r/seduction17/09/12 01:48 PM
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17

My friend is a six foot tall surgeon, good looking, and is a nice person. Has been single for years.
/r/seduction08/05/26 12:05 PM
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Yes, what is this witty banter you speak of? One a scale of one to ten in which let us call one mildly funny yet polite and even kind and ten is subversive and hilarious, what is the optimal number to aim for in Bangalore, India?
/r/seduction07/12/25 10:10 AM
2

It's always the hot ones. I had a crush on a girl I would occasionally see on the train to school. One morning she got on the train, standing in front of me. She turned around and bent over to rummage in her bag on the floor, pressing her ass into my dick. The train wasn't even crowded. Did that for what felt like way too long. Then straightened and turned around to face me. I looked down, frozen, and avoided eye contact with her for the rest of the train ride.
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:39 AM
3

Damn. I am a guy with girly hands. The closest thing to a compliment I've ever received relating to my hands is being told that for someone with no musical talent I sure do have piano player hands.
/r/seduction22/10/25 10:26 AM
22

I met a guy like this. I've mentioned this a few times on this forum over the years because it has stuck with me. He was fat, mid 30s, had four kids from previous relationships, and his job was a knife sharpener (ie employed but not exactly making big money) This guy's girlfriend was early 20s and very pretty. He somehow got her to not only fall for him but raise his kids for him. Although 10-15 years older and fat, he was hilarious. Just had an unlimited supply of one liners. Would make fun of …
/r/seduction26/09/25 09:34 AM
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It might be made up but there's truth underlying it. What's so hard to believe? I was reasonably attractive ten years ago (after I got fit but before I got old and bald haha). There were several really attractive women pursuing me at work. The most attractive woman even continued after I got into a relationship. I had no "aura" - in fact I was shy. I guess I was just successful at work, 6 feet tall, and had good skin and a nice smile. The level of interest I got shocked me, as I'd grown up overw…
/r/seduction05/09/25 11:39 PM
1

It is rumoured that if you experience one thousand rejections, including from girls in each of the seven continents, you will literally burst into flames. This has never been caught on video though.
/r/seduction15/08/25 10:23 AM
1

Not sure why you're being downvoted. This is largely true.
/r/seduction09/08/25 10:26 PM
17

Funny chatty cheerful guys tend to do extremely well.
/r/seduction06/08/25 03:13 AM
29

Yeah I'd love to raise my son to have confidence with women but I don't know how.
/r/seduction06/08/25 03:11 AM
4

I think fingers and tongue is basic requirement. Next level is guy who can act dominant and passionate in bed. Much harder to learn that, and probably largely innate characteristic not learnable.
/r/seduction30/04/25 03:48 AM
49

Yeah it was all sensible until then.
/r/seduction27/02/25 01:59 AM
0

Money
/r/seduction22/08/24 01:00 PM
42

The wisdom and the roids cannot be separated.
/r/seduction16/08/24 09:32 AM
26

No offence but I think you are kidding yourself hoping for success if you are a 35 year old overweight Indian guy who dresses poorly and tells girls you're just looking for something casual.
/r/seduction09/08/24 01:14 PM
14

True you look better. But it really is dangerous and it ages you.
/r/seduction07/08/24 08:03 AM
69

Yeah other than not being fat, eyebrows and haircut make the biggest difference.
/r/seduction06/10/23 05:14 PM
19

"the second date is where I will sleep with her" 😂
/r/seduction24/10/22 01:48 PM
5

Don't listen to this. If you do this you will have missed out on years of developing social skills and having fun.
/r/seduction17/10/22 03:43 AM
1

Hookers.
/r/seduction04/10/22 12:10 PM
1

Glasses were a disadvantage 20 yrs ago before nerds became accepted (and to some extent even fetishised), led by the tech boom and the wealth and status conferred on its progenitors
/r/seduction26/09/22 10:51 AM
3

To be honest, OP, most of the responses you get on this sub will be poisonous. So much of the discourse here is from guys in pain due to their loneliness and sexual frustration, that when a girl comes here feeling the same things they will respond with cruelty. My guess to your question is that the guy has other options. Some guys like the thrill of the chase and take a perverse pleasure in causing this kind of shock and pain. If he is good looking and successful he can probably routinely do thi…
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:44 PM
1

Thank you, that was great.
/r/seduction13/09/22 04:23 PM
14

Read good literary fiction. You need to get out of your head and temporarily become someone else. You will have a better sense of perspective when you return.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:11 PM
1

Can you share some further detail about what Shaq said? I was a big fan since his rookie year. Rare that you see this level of honesty from a famous person.
/r/seduction12/09/22 02:01 PM
7

Get surgery. There is unnecessary stigma around cosmetic surgery. Research it well, and pay a good price.
/r/seduction11/09/22 02:21 PM
2

Did you get along with her, I mean outside of the good sex?
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:45 AM
1

Hairspray and Finasteride. Saved me.
/r/seduction06/08/22 10:58 AM
1

How does your friend slaying the chicks do it?
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:38 PM
1

Why was it traumatic?
/r/seduction04/07/22 01:33 PM
3

It's not a pyramid scheme. People always think it's a pyramid scheme. But it's not!
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:20 AM
3

Nothing hurts with medication, actually.
/r/seduction22/06/22 07:29 AM
2

How did you go from ridiculously attractive to average? Got an old photo?
/r/seduction21/06/22 04:30 AM
1

This is very true. Last line in particular nails it. Other people's work is boring, and people who have little more than their work identity are bores. I find this particularly true for doctors - smug and out of touch with reality.
/r/seduction17/06/22 02:19 PM
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This is a troll post - but at least an entertaining one! OP probably delighted at the amount of attention this has got - the more vitriolic the response the better 😂
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:43 AM
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Meet someone else. You don't need their friendship. If you're being honest you probably mostly want to be friends just so you can leave the door open for getting together later. I distanced myself, met someone new who was awesome, and pretty soon I never thought about the ex. That's the way.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:36 AM
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I'm happily married so there's no point any more. But back then years ago i contemplated it.
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:59 PM
2

It becomes easier as you get to mid 30s. Women care more about the character and financial success of their man at that point. Or, if all else fails, just accept your fate. Go to prostitutes to satisfy sexual urges, or VR porn plus fleshlight or whatever works for you. And then be happy being single. There are advantages to it - complete freedom is underrated.
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:06 AM
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Are you happy with how you look afterwards? Have you had more success in dating after this? Also, how long did it take for the scarring etc from the hair transplant to not be visible so you could go to work and not have everyone ask if you've been injured in the head?
/r/seduction02/06/22 11:03 AM
1

Honestly, chatting with cashiers or anyone in a store is great practice for becoming a friendly person
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:21 AM
1

Don't try to copy this guy. It won't necessarily work for you. You've got to get your own demeanor which fits you. A lot of young guys see an older guy they want to emulate and they copy their posture, manner of speaking, etc. It just comes across as awkward. Plus, Years later if you were to encounter this guy you might think him as a fool.
/r/seduction28/05/22 04:29 AM
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I think he comes across as non-threatening and fun, which isn't a bad way for a guy on a dating app to be perceived
/r/seduction24/05/22 01:34 PM
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I hear this advice all the time. But I've also heard girls - friends IRL - complain that no one ever hits on them at the gym lol
/r/seduction23/05/22 02:06 PM
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Wow the misogyny in this discussion is just depressing. You guys have got to stop generalising like this. It's unhealthy to believe an entire sex - 50% of the human race - are completely self-absorbed. It's just not true. I've met so many women who are good listeners and I think most men who've had good relationships and friendships with women would agree. There are people who don't care about you. Men and women. Go into the "dating advice" sub and see the exact same complaint from women. That s…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:58 PM
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Yeah, Ive been reading this sub on and off for over ten years. I remember making some awful mistakes early on by taking advice from here. It is now infinitely more sensible than it used to be, but there is still some absolute rubbish spouted that I'm sure sends some guys down the wrong path (like anything on social media I guess!)
/r/seduction19/05/22 09:29 AM
1

I think being lean is critical. There is probably only a small segment of women who will be attracted to you primarily for the size of your muscles.
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:53 AM
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Respectfully, I disagree with this advice. I started stronglifts when I returned to lifting after a few years off. There are far better ways to improve your physical appearance. Stronglifts focuses so much on lifts which are very taxing but do not make you look a lot better, and the rep ranges do not optimise the building of size, which lets face it is what people are aiming for. It is not an efficient use of time and energy. I suggest a bodybuilding routine instead. Even for a beginner, just be…
/r/seduction15/05/22 06:49 AM
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I was like you. I was overweight in high school and got no attention from girls. Then I got lean and accordingly much more attractive in my first year of university but for years afterwards still had the self esteem of the fat kid. There were several girls interested in me but at the time I either convinced myself I was imagining it or where it was too obvious to believe otherwise, I lacked the balls to do anything about it. Women will drop hints but will almost never make the first move. (No, i…
/r/seduction09/05/22 02:11 PM
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I think telling her you have little experience could be a turn off. I wouldn't recommend it. Fake it till you make it!
/r/seduction09/05/22 01:50 PM
2

It's actually a great book, even if you're not a big fan of Obama. He's just a exceptionally good writer.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:24 PM
2

Sorry for the tough situation you are in. Honestly, this sub isn't going to give you the best advice. Post your question in r/dating advice and you might get some helpful or at least reassuring comments.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:11 PM
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You're a good looking guy. To be honest, the baldness is going to lose you some opportunities. Finasteride only restores hair for some people, not everyone. Amongst the people I know on it, one third grew back the hair they'd lost in the previous year. It's worth trying though. The problem with Rogaine however is that you've got to apply it every day for the rest of your life. Easier to pop a pill than rub that on your scalp daily for the next 20 yrs. But yeah, you are otherwise a good looking g…
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:51 AM
1

I don't think you have to give up porn and masturbating. There are literally hundreds of millions of guys fucking women out there. You think none of them masturbate? One way that works is to rub your penis against the outside of her vagina. Gets you rock hard again quick.
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:26 PM
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Yeah I get this. You can only make out so long before it becomes boring
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:20 PM
6

What country are you in?
/r/seduction02/05/22 12:44 PM
1

Do what you want. If you've got dark circles under your eyes or bad skin, I'm sure makeup could help. Just know that women know makeup 100x as well as you and will be able to spot it unless you are very judicious in your application.
/r/seduction30/04/22 11:11 PM
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This, I think, is the best response. If you are borderline cheating, you need to make your gf understand how serious the issue is. It's better that she set rules for you to satisfy your needs (eg you can do X and Y but not Z), than you cheat. Or it's better that you break up and then fuck another woman, rather than the other way around. My friend had the exact same issue as you. He eventually cheated. She found out. Years later he still calls it the biggest mistake of his life. In retrospect he …
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:33 PM
10

I like your writing. Your voice comes through.
/r/seduction22/04/22 09:17 AM
5

This is spot on and the third point in particular is both accurate and not often brought up.
/r/seduction20/04/22 03:36 PM
1

There's such a thing as library sciences?
/r/seduction06/05/21 09:24 AM
7

Me too! Such an easy mistake to make.
/r/seduction04/04/21 04:28 AM
7

Very true. This is the great loss resulting from the WFH shift. Office romance in a young workplace is by far the easiest route.
/r/seduction19/03/21 05:39 AM
8

When I started reading this forum several years ago I was led astray by generally bad advice (or perhaps I took the advice too literally). Resulted in some spectacular failures with girls who were otherwise interested. Embarrassing to think about even ten years and a marriage and a kid later haha I think the guidance on this forum has become far more sensible over time though.
/r/seduction13/03/21 01:22 AM
1

Is this the seduction forum or r/datingadvice? A tinder girl is inviting you for a movie in her home, alone. You must make a move, and do it early. It doesn't get much more clear cut than this. There are older guys who wish to the gods they were young again and having opportunities like this. If she rebuffs you, that's fine, accept it, maybe your breath was bad or you look better in photos than IRL.
/r/seduction07/03/21 12:14 PM
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I don't get the vitriol directed towards this guy. Isn't this forum supposed to be about seduction? Dude slept with 6 girls in 10 days. He has clearly perfected the art of seducing women using a very specific set of tactics which are clearly extraordinarily effective in that location. When I was single I would have loved to have been able to do that. Save class and character for when you want a relationship.
/r/seduction13/08/20 12:33 PM
1

Wow congrats, that's great.
/r/seduction28/07/20 01:22 AM
1

Aren't you worried that they'll fuck up the surgery? And isn't it embarrassing to turn up to work with a new nose?
/r/seduction18/12/19 10:37 AM
1

How do girls on dating apps know you have a porsche? Do you habe a pic of it on your profile?
/r/seduction30/10/19 12:02 PM
1

What was his line?
/r/seduction30/10/19 11:55 AM
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What's the story with the mod who might have died? That's so sad.
/r/seduction21/07/19 04:08 PM
2

That could be your problem. Not that many 18 y olds want to get together with 27 y olds
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:54 PM
1

Don't be so forward or flirty in your exchanges. Or put up less flattering photos. Grow an ugly beard to mitigate your unfortunate good looks :)
/r/seduction27/06/19 02:44 PM
2

If you follow some of the advice on here you are destined to have bad relationships. In a good relationship you are meant to put each other on a pedestal. You are supposed to sacrifice some of your time in order to make your partner happy. If that means you don't get to spend 2 hours every day at the gym or can't go out every week and get smashed with your buddies then so be it. That is the choice you make when entering a serious relationship. You can't have the complete freedom of your single l…
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:35 AM
1

Exactly this.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:09 PM
4

You seem like a decent guy who has some self awareness. The thing is it can be really hard to be aware of how we come across to others, unless a close friend or family member tells it to you honestly. Do you have anyone whom you can ask? The other thing is at 35 perhaps you should stop cold approaching. Your disadvantages are your height, age, and presumably something off about the way you present. These are all immediately apparent when you cold approach. Your advantages are your career success…
/r/seduction05/05/19 01:06 AM
0

Just say Hey, it's OK, no worries.
/r/seduction03/05/19 11:19 AM
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Did the girls who made you feel like shit make you feel that way because they were nasty to you, or because their lack of interest in itself made you feel like shit?
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:26 PM
1

Cool story. Why did you want friends at the gym in particular?
/r/seduction22/02/19 10:41 PM
1

I've had this too. For me it came from growing up never getting any attention from girls. So when I actually got better at this stuff the sense of validation was like a drug. But that sense wears off after a while so you want it fresh from someone else (or you try to pull the same girl back like a fucking yo yo). Terrible, self sabotaging behaviour.
/r/seduction07/09/18 09:48 AM
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When I was single I had this bizarre self-sabotaging compulsion where I'd flirt with a girl till she was interested, then when she started to like me I'd give her the ice treatment, then when she naturally moved on I'd desperately try and win her affection back. I didn't do this as part of some elaborate seduction ploy. It was all despite my pure intentions. So, to OP's point - you do have to strike while the iron is hot. It was always so much harder to win them back after I wasted the first opp…
/r/seduction15/06/18 09:41 AM
1

I've found that girls like you more after you give indication that you're into them. It's like a switch flicks on in their head saying "Huh - this guy. I never thought about this guy before. This guy is alright..." You plant the seed then they eventually like you.
/r/seduction15/06/18 09:37 AM
1

What's the music you bang women to?
/r/seduction15/05/18 02:08 PM
14

I did this once. It killed the relationship. On the plus side, it probably just expedited what would otherwise have been a slow death. So it saved time.
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:29 PM
4

Random tips (sorry if they seem obvious): Understand how to remove a girl's dress. There is usually a zipper at the top of the back of the dress. However some casual light summer dresses can simply be pulled over her head. Learn to remove a bra. Practice with a bra without a girl. Go buy a bra and practice unfastening it from around a pillow or a chair if that's what it takes. When making out, don't be too aggressive with your tongue the first time. It can weird her out. When making out, many gi…
/r/seduction18/03/18 01:43 PM
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This is very true. Guys who have never been in a serious relationship fantasise about how wonderful it would be to have a gf. Someone to come home to, to go out with, to fuck. But with a gf/wife comes all their hang ups, traumas, insecurities, health issues, family dramas and responsibilities, their unlikeable friends, their financial obligations... and the end of the total freedom you enjoyed when you were single. I mean, I am married and am happy. But I consider myself very lucky to have found…
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:14 PM
1

That's authenticity right there. I think women like that?
/r/seduction04/12/17 01:34 PM
1

She wants to be with you even if your different life paths mean it can't be forever. Why not just be with her for a while, travel, fuck, have fun together? Then if you go in different directions after that, fine. At least you had a great time with her.
/r/seduction16/10/17 01:27 PM
1

Agree with all of this. Two things I learned which changed things for me: Tonality is critical to being engaging. Be genuinely interested in people.
/r/seduction16/09/17 01:52 PM
1

Don't tell her she's beautiful. Find something more unique and specific to compliment her on. Preferably unrelated to her appearance (though clothing is all right)
/r/seduction22/08/17 02:52 PM
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This is good advice, but please be measured in your approach. You can fuck this up if you do not read her well. I went through a similar experience to yours. I was convinced I was in love with my coworker. With her blue eyes and pale almost translucent skin and waifish figure I thought she was some kind of angel. I knew she had feelings for me too but she was in an unhappy relationship and so we existed in this state of office banter and silent longing for two years. Then she broke up and I went…
/r/seduction26/07/17 02:26 PM
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You can easily fuck this up by coming across as arrogant. It can be humiliating for the girl if you don't immediately indicate that you feel the same way.
/r/seduction28/06/17 02:48 PM
1

Never admit to her you are a virgin. Lie about your lack of experience. Let yourself believe that she genuinely likes you. Look on the internet for basic sexual tips.
/r/seduction30/05/17 02:42 PM
1

Move to a different city.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:54 PM
2

Learn to pleasure the girl orally. Search it on reddit - there are good videos and tips. I am not kidding. Do that before you fuck. It is easier to learn to do that well than it is to become expert at intercourse.
/r/seduction03/05/17 03:11 PM
1

This kamikaze approach may work. But I do not think it maximises your chances if your number 1 priority is to date (and possibly enter into a relationship with) women. To get a large number of women to find you sufficiently appealing to date, you will need to give yourself broad appeal. That does not mean make yourself boring and exactly the same as everyone else. But it does mean you need to have the fundamentals in place - e.g. be fit, dress well, be aware of the world around you, be able to m…
/r/seduction03/05/17 03:07 PM
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This guy has very nearly nailed it. It is a great message. But it is written so convincingly that I almost found myself starting to agree with the parts I know are actually not true ("women don't know what they're doing when they tear your heart out" hit painfully close to home). Yes - some women will lay a trap for you. And they may lose interest once they have you. BUT... many women won't. If she loses interest, it's just as likely to be because you got slack and didn't ensure you remained app…
/r/seduction03/05/17 02:53 PM
4

The part your are saying about how girls might label you as beta forever is false. They are people. Their opinions can change.
/r/seduction10/03/17 09:49 PM
1

what was the concert?
/r/seduction02/02/17 02:40 PM
2

Agreed. When I was single, trying these PUA techniques - even basic stuff without the theatrics - almost always led to fuck ups. I had the most success when I was just normal and being entirely myself.
/r/seduction14/03/16 02:09 PM
1

I've read them and I can confirm that they are indeed shit.
/r/seduction17/02/13 01:35 PM
1

Good idea!
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:46 AM
1

It's easy for everyone to tell you to drop it, but they don't know how intensely you're feeling this. The things is - there's no point protracting this. She's no longer a co-worker, and you don't know her boyfriend - so why don't you straight out ask her what the deal is? Ask her why she's still with her boyfriend? Ask why won't she leave him and give it a go with you?
/r/seduction15/12/12 04:46 AM
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Exactly. At work I sometimes have like four hours straight of meetings. If I need to shit, I go in between a meeting, literally squat over the bowl, let the big loaf slide out, wipe and leave. There may be remnants knocking about in your bowels still, but those can be held in for hours without discomfort.
/r/seduction15/12/12 04:40 AM
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Not necessarily married. But in relationships.
/r/seduction22/11/12 01:54 PM
2

How old are you? Most handsome, successful, nice guys older than 25 are taken. Regardless - why don't you approach guys? You say you are very pretty. Every single guy you approach - even if they are not available - will be flattered at the very least.
/r/seduction21/11/12 11:55 AM
2

Yeah, true.
/r/seduction13/11/12 10:20 AM
1

Fuck you. Everyone's at different levels. Maybe just talking to an attractive girl and asking for her number and not crapping his pants was an achievement for OP. If it was an achievement, it means he's improving, and that's what counts. What - because he has no confidence or "game" he should just curl up into a ball and die? We've all got to start somewhere. OP's sense of satisfaction at making an improvement isn't pathetic - you berating the man for feeling happy at having made some progress i…
/r/seduction12/11/12 11:59 AM
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Check this article out. Perth is apparently the toughest. http://www.smh.com.au/executive-style/culture/blogs/all-men-are-liars/best-cities-for-the-single-guy-20120704-21gvy.html
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:07 PM
2

Which city? I've heard that Melbourne girls are considerably less approachable than American girls.
/r/seduction27/09/12 01:56 PM
1

Love this one!
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:12 AM
1

Thanks for that. The rejections are always horrific in your mind, but when you read someone else's (or when it actually happens to you should you ever grow the balls to approach), it's always like: "Oh. Is that all? That's nothing."
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:29 PM
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Thank you, this is a terrific point. Perhaps, as you suggest, the key is to utilise the fact of your success to develop a greater sense of self-worth, which sense will lead to more outward-directed confidence, which in turn leads to an improved ability to attract women.
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:25 PM
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This outcome-independence thing sounds like something from The Matrix, or the Upanishads. I'm not actually all that successful or wealthy, but I was curious about the community's take on this notion. What you're saying seems like excellent advice. However, on your point that people will subconsciously understand that I'm displaying my wealth out of insecurity -- that's really my question here: how does one use the advantage of success & wealth without conveying a sense of insecurity (or arroganc…
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:20 PM
2

Can I ask - is this subreddit only about how to pick up women for casual sex, or is it also for men looking to enter a relationship? Not being sarcastic here; honest question.
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:10 PM
1

What were the things you felt you could improve on?
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:42 PM
0

How did she reject you? As in, what did she say? At what specific point after rejection did you feel worst? Let rejection be "r" -- so r minus how many seconds?
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:40 PM
1

This is excellent advice. Be distinctive. Girls will notice you. Some will feel you are different, special, that you have a flair about you. Take advantage of your uniqueness.
/r/seduction17/09/12 01:37 PM
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Give him some credit though, you can usually tell when someone is flirting with you. 9 out of 10 shopping experiences in which you are served by a young woman will involve no real flirting. They may be friendly and complementary and slightly flirty... but the real thing just feels different.
/r/seduction14/09/12 02:59 PM
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