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JohntheAnabaptist/r/seduction11/12/18 06:21 PM
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2

Sounds like you've got a long way to go.
/r/seduction28/09/25 05:32 AM
2

Hot take... Ask her
/r/seduction22/09/25 01:41 PM
1

Wherever you speak the language
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:07 AM
2

Start dating guys
/r/seduction24/04/25 08:25 AM
12

Take an improv class
/r/seduction07/12/24 01:51 AM
1

Listen to Beck on repeat
/r/seduction02/12/24 09:45 AM
4

Nope, it's auto marriage after the first night, gl
/r/seduction13/11/24 05:17 AM
16

Don't worry about the Moroccan Muslim part and just think of her as a nice sweet cool girl
/r/seduction08/05/24 02:26 AM
1

Practice
/r/seduction23/04/24 09:41 PM
2

Put it into percentages, what percent of women fit x criteria going down your list. Then maximize your odds to fulfill your goals
/r/seduction29/10/22 02:21 PM
3

See the word "generally"? 😁
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:35 PM
1

Colleges are generally 55% women
/r/seduction05/10/22 04:37 AM
47

Women have converted more men to the faith than Jesus ever will
/r/seduction19/09/22 02:49 AM
24

Here comes the guy with the bubbles again
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:25 PM
1

Don't listen to people on this sub and you'll be fine
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:25 PM
5

Believe that they want what you want. Then find out how many times you're wrong 🤔🤣
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:55 AM
10

Aww poor 5'9 baby. Don't worry some day you'll grow up to be 7'5 and you'll slay all the ladies. Wth is the question? Make efforts to be social, work out, look good, be intelligent. If you think height is all people are after you got a lot more to learn. Talk to hot Girls idk. Do you want a relationship or do you want to hook up?
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:41 AM
2

The real problem is being a teenager
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:16 PM
3

Use your gut, don't be creepy
/r/seduction18/04/22 10:17 PM
17

Power dynamics
/r/seduction16/04/22 06:59 PM
2

College
/r/seduction07/04/22 05:24 AM
9

Things change
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:05 AM
16

"do you want to make out?"
/r/seduction01/04/22 05:03 AM
1

I totally have too! just wanted to make sure to warn people here that drugs exist
/r/seduction15/03/22 12:28 AM
1

Yeah, its just the "removing the other factors" part that's often the issue. So many people these days are taking some drug, especially women
/r/seduction14/03/22 11:19 PM
4

Warning, there are a lot of anti depressants and other meds that cause dialated pupils. It often means they're on drugs
/r/seduction14/03/22 08:17 PM
1

It's a learning experience
/r/seduction23/02/22 03:06 PM
1

Switch your profile to bisexual and then you can flirt with all the dudes and you'll get better
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:57 PM
5

Why do you want to be friends with this guy? If he can cheat on his girlfriend to her face, he has no moral character. You need to figure yourself out
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:16 PM
16

Seriously... "I'm married and encountered my ex" why are you talking to your ex except to say, "hey nice you're still alive"?
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:13 PM
9

Hey guys, just wondering, how do I become smart? /s
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:40 PM
1

Date men?
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:58 PM
2

This kinda goes without saying, but be safe, some people carry disease
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:14 PM
4

The first thing in the post is a YouTube video, followed by a bold generalization about women even written in bold. You're selling. How about talk about your experiences rather than making general statements?
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:24 PM
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This post just summarizes the general consensus of this subreddit but makes everything sound sales y and bad. Don't try to sell here, it's annoying
/r/seduction24/10/21 01:09 PM
7

Can ihaz some of your drUgz?
/r/seduction20/10/21 02:57 PM
1

This is the beta mindset, it's why you're being downvoted
/r/seduction13/10/21 04:58 PM
1

See the forest
/r/seduction26/09/21 01:21 PM
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Respectfully just wanted to join the circle of respect
/r/seduction18/09/21 01:17 PM
1

Yeah, just think about it as networking but try to stay high value, abundance mentality
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:58 PM
0

Well I'm really trying to ask about your status with the mutual friend. If the mutual friend thinks you're a big improvement over the chick's current bf, that could be an angle. Alternatively continue to get closer to the mutual friend to meet that girl again or her other friends
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:31 PM
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Feign ignorance means to act as if you never knew. I guess you don't have any other way of contacting her except through the friend? Does the mutual friend think highly of you?
/r/seduction06/09/21 01:13 PM
-2

Do you have her number? Maybe text her feigning ignorance of the bf?
/r/seduction06/09/21 12:56 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction05/09/21 08:00 AM
2

Not really a fan of this kind of advertising on this sub
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:50 PM
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The amount of times the word "bonding" was used was very cringe. OP think about your "savior" style behavior.
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:40 PM
1

Thanks! Great report!
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:40 PM
2

Like are you on the street, in the shops, in the park, etc?
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:18 PM
2

Great FR, my only question was if you could describe your locale / location during your session since I didn't notice it in your report but I might have missed something.
/r/seduction01/09/21 11:44 PM
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Just invite the friend, she'll give you rapport and credibility and you'll be able to learn more about R. Get the one on one next time
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:53 PM
2

Good job. Classes starting is the perfect time to meet people, no one knows anyone and everyone has been home with covid.
/r/seduction26/08/21 06:33 AM
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True, glad you figured me out. Much respect. Well done.
/r/seduction22/08/21 01:50 PM
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Yep I'm sure you read me like a book. Got it all figured out. Nice, well done. Guys = peg, girls = hole; see? They're opposites. Try to develop a complex thought.
/r/seduction22/08/21 02:37 AM
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Get a better bar?
/r/seduction21/08/21 05:00 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vBesOFURek
/r/seduction21/08/21 02:21 PM
7

Yeah maybe we should spread the word, guerilla marketing or something /s
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:07 PM
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Seconded
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:00 PM
13

Abundance mentality
/r/seduction21/08/21 12:55 PM
2

Appreciate it
/r/seduction20/08/21 05:29 AM
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The true problem with cold approach is that you have nothing to talk about because you have no established history. You need to start building repor and understanding your audience quickly and correctly and trying to secure the coffee date that you're after.
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:19 PM
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I would start by reading about what it means for masculinity and feminity to exist as a bimodal distribution rather than the binary that you suggest it to be. Masculinity and feminity being opposites is just such a basic and naive understanding that I have to say "Sorry its not a comprehensive understanding but I did want to say that you shouldn't drop that quote".
/r/seduction19/08/21 02:52 AM
1

Masturbation?
/r/seduction17/08/21 12:27 PM
0

Why not both? Cross training bucko!
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:56 AM
5

This is just false and meaningless platitude
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:54 AM
1

If you've done well with home, car, job, you should be confident that you can get with many women. That kind of security and independence is very sexy.
/r/seduction25/07/21 09:11 AM
1

Haven't done it myself but Devin Nash, the streamer has mentioned in the past how much taking an improv class helped him engage with his stream. Just an idea
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:19 PM
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The comments aren't wrong
/r/seduction29/06/21 05:40 AM
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Everyone in the comments sounds ridiculous. This just sounds like a misunderstanding. If it's more than that the commenters might be right.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:56 AM
2

How many single women go to bars by themselves? I've literally never heard of one.
/r/seduction25/06/21 01:49 AM
2

Better yet, wolf psychology isn't actually the psychology of wolves. It's the psychology of prisoners, as the wolves in the study were captive strangers. Real wolf packs don't have alphas and betas,they have families
/r/seduction15/06/21 02:31 PM
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I thought for a sec i was the only one who noticed how new this account was and how much this post should be taken with a pound of salt
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:03 PM
1

Sounds like you can't fail, just do what you think is right
/r/seduction02/12/19 07:38 PM
3

Always the girl at the end makes it the end
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:19 PM
2

The ones that can move, do move
/r/seduction11/10/19 10:27 AM
2

Go bi
/r/seduction23/09/19 07:36 PM
3

Also just be aware that many women can be very cautious about receiving oral sex
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:23 PM
2

I'm saying that not matching will screw your confidence. Anything else would be fine.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:55 AM
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I feel like getting on dating app might take down confidence imo
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:47 AM
1

I mean sure, dating apps suck. My point is that they give actual data that can be measured so if you want to argue against data... Give data? I just thought I'd give some substance to the claim that Asians are disadvantaged because there is actual data that supports this claim.
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:30 AM
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Yeah was on mobile and didn't want to bother. Here's a start and you can Google from there. https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/5811840/amp
/r/seduction04/09/19 05:12 AM
2

Yeah Asians do worst on dating apps based on some studies
/r/seduction03/09/19 11:26 PM
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Source?
/r/seduction28/08/19 05:41 AM
3

It's ok, so does everyone in this subreddit. It just sounds like you really like him. If he's going on active duty, you really don't want a 2 to 4 year long distance relationship. For now, live in the now and be happy in each other's company
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:59 AM
1

It's also just been 3 weeks...
/r/seduction06/08/19 07:10 AM
1

Guys are dumb, be forward
/r/seduction05/08/19 05:54 PM
2

... Why wouldn't you just believe her words? If she's busy this weekend and not the next week isn't there a better chance she's telling you the truth than bullshit ting you? You need to think about why you're lacking the self confidence to immediately think that she's not interested
/r/seduction05/08/19 08:45 AM
2

Not the best look to hit on someone after they talk about mental health. Just make sure you are genuine and not just hitting on them
/r/seduction21/06/19 04:06 PM
1

In no way is that the best situation.
/r/seduction15/06/19 12:09 PM
1

I'll use the money you're giving me as collateral for now
/r/seduction11/06/19 01:15 AM
2

Lol while we're asking, send me some cash too!
/r/seduction11/06/19 12:59 AM
2

I kinda have to agree with this sentiment
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:59 AM
3

This is just very false
/r/seduction17/02/19 03:20 AM
1

Maybe just open up your mind to more polyamorous ideas and it won't be an issue
/r/seduction17/02/19 03:19 AM
4

What sort of "connections" does one get in on? All I imagine is all those internet services
/r/seduction16/02/19 05:10 PM
2

It's ok, you just need a little more confidence, then you'll be able to shrug it off and game women better /s
/r/seduction08/01/19 08:27 PM
1

Nope, not at all, are you mad my sarcasm is an attack on your post?
/r/seduction08/01/19 08:10 PM
2

No dude! Don't you get it?! Women are like cats! /s
/r/seduction08/01/19 02:16 PM
0

There are only two pills in the context of one of them.
/r/seduction29/12/18 02:22 PM
0

You're literally describing OP as blue pilled thus using the dichotomy to illustrate some point.
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:55 PM
0

All of that is still using the dichotomy
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:46 PM
2

Why do you think in pilled dichotomies?
/r/seduction28/12/18 03:32 PM
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Don't have sex in an alley
/r/seduction25/12/18 03:18 PM
5

Huh...? I'm sorry I don't understand, thinking for myself, please explain /s
/r/seduction15/12/18 04:34 PM
2

What's more likely going on is that tinder boosts new accounts and things slow down to try to drive sales and you know what? It probably works, paying for tinder probably worth if you're using regularly
/r/seduction14/12/18 04:32 PM
1

There's definitely a difference but I guess what I'd say is that men are looking for different qualities in other men than women are and this can make it much easier. Men are more direct whereas women are socially act like they're good girls, see the "baby it's cold outside" controversy
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:58 PM
19

Straight in, vampire style, teeth and everything. Leave canine imprints so she knows she can't return to the realm of mortals
/r/seduction09/12/18 03:19 PM
5

I think there's a fine line between shit test and teasing but I agree with the majority of your sentiment
/r/seduction08/12/18 08:58 PM
2

Agreed, supporting that mentality just leads to negativity.
/r/seduction08/12/18 12:07 PM
3

There is no way to ask for casual sex or cuddles with women. Now if you just switch your tinder profile to include men, you'll get a lot more attention
/r/seduction30/11/18 03:42 PM
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No I don't think such girls are a reflection of who you are in their personality. As they say, opposites attract but familiars are forever. It says more on how much you're willing to sacrifice to be with them after having noticed problems
/r/seduction30/11/18 03:22 PM
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If you looking at someone might cause them to "waste time and energy" and you're concerned about this, your concerns are misplaced. It reflects a huge lack of selfconfidence. If you are in public, you are free to observe others, to think that they're cute and to strike up a conversation with them until they otherwise decline
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:54 PM
7

Idk if you've reread this post but... you need to change your mindset if this is your thought process
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:15 PM
1

That's why you ask her if you can kiss her next time
/r/seduction26/11/18 05:07 PM
1

Sounds fake
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:38 PM
2

Your "good" sounds like it derives from socially infused Christian perspectives. Basically imo it sounds like you objectify others and are coming to terms with it. Wanting to tell someone that hooking up with you "decreases their value" is putting some strange valuation on people around you. You don't see a number on these people's fore head that just went down but it's the same. This judgement is simply not Christian. You're saying, "I know what is best for X person in Y situation and that isn'…
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:35 PM
2

It's also a matter of perception, "something I had being taken by someone else" just be careful of these thoughts, they can be toxic.
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:23 PM
2

Your first thought is simply wrong mindset or reflects the mindset you actually have "you're benefiting at the expense of others". This may OR may not be true, but in general if someone is continuing an interaction with you, it is reasonable to assume they are benefiting from the interaction until they have decided they are not and have attempted to withdraw
/r/seduction16/11/18 05:08 PM
96

I feel like without explicit examples of your behavior, any response is pure speculation
/r/seduction11/11/18 01:17 PM
5

Disagree, boys are stupid.
/r/seduction11/11/18 12:42 PM
1

Also take everything I said with a grain of salt, you know this person and I don't. Tailor to them.
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:34 PM
1

I always think in person better than over phone better than over text, the more reason to remember that you're a person and not an internet voice the better
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:28 PM
1

People don't like making decisions, so be confident in what you want to do and they'll follow your lead, calling over the phone better than text
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:14 PM
1

Get her number and ask her out for something more serious
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:05 PM
1

What are you looking for? Girlfriend or just to fuck?
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:57 PM
1

As your mentor, do it yourself and accept the results
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:52 PM
1

I feel like these people are fleeting and are used to being the center of attention, they don't know how to give attention so when conversation lulls they turn to the more interesting item, the phone. These girls, being attractive, are also social media addicted since they get likes just for putting their face in a picture. So does she like you? Probably. Could you continue to go for her? Probably. Do you know what you're getting into? No. Does anyone? No. Good luck!
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:48 PM
1

Nothing, her friend was trying to protect her. Get her number first instead so when you find out her friend was lying about the boyfriend thing, you slide into those DMs.
/r/seduction01/11/18 06:33 PM
2

Don't let it happen
/r/seduction01/11/18 06:07 PM
2

Generic advice for generic questions?
/r/seduction01/11/18 05:17 PM
1

It's not your looks
/r/seduction31/10/18 06:55 AM
1

Just look through stickied or top stuff
/r/seduction29/10/18 11:36 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction29/10/18 10:57 AM
1

Maybe read the sub?
/r/seduction29/10/18 10:52 AM
1

People are weird and stupid. Our minds generate expectations and projections. Find another I guess or give her some space so she comes around?
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:34 PM
2

It's hard to tell how much you've seen each other so far, but maybe just keep things going and be genuine, if she likes you as much as you say, just have fun and you'll be "official " wherever you decide to have that talk or w.e
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:37 AM
2

Does it appear to be avoidance or could it be busyness?
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:34 AM
3

You should tell her that you made a mistake not asking her out last night and you're not making the same mistake two nights in a row so that's why you've picked up the phone and dialed her cute ass
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:29 AM
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I'd say maybe read the sub...?
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:27 AM
3

Not sure what you mean by this
/r/seduction21/10/18 07:03 PM
2

Maybe start by saying what you are currently doing socially so as to find people? I can't tell if you are asking how to find people or once found, how to approach?
/r/seduction19/10/18 06:04 PM
1

I feel like if you're at the point of "hugging from behind", she probably doesn't care about feeling your bone
/r/seduction11/10/18 12:04 PM
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Labels are only helpful for generalizations, the dichotomy rings true in some regards but... a nuanced discussion alpha/beta talk is not
/r/seduction07/10/18 07:19 PM
1

It's more than a shit test on tinder, so many girls are just like bored and don't give a f about actually meeting up since they usually have a million other things they could be doing. Tinder is first and foremost an app (rather than an actual meetup with a person) so some people just use other people (through tinder) for occupying time
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:28 PM
1

Shit people write on their bios was a while ago and may not be relevant / shouldn't be given too much weight. Most girls seem dispassionate on tinder but that's just my experience.
/r/seduction06/10/18 05:18 PM
1

"She climbed on top of me with the lights off and started kissing me, is she into me? " Again, its impossible to know...
/r/seduction21/09/18 03:08 PM
0

You can always just ask
/r/seduction25/08/18 01:55 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction01/07/18 06:13 PM
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