Something that has always hindered me from pursuing a woman sexually is because in life I have resolved to never gain value at someone else's expense.

I feel any time I've had sex with a woman, I've increased my value and decreased hers, particularly if I don't end up marrying her.

The other thing, possibly related, is I am completely turned off by a woman who has multiple tatts, or sends off signals of low selectivity, or has poor character. Can't even do a hookup.

My sex drive has been really low. Just started T treatments.

Any thoughts?