Jonvalt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	LTR just admitted emotional affair Ah, this makes more sense given the context. :-)	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 07:09 PM
1	LTR just admitted emotional affair Get ready. The next steps will test your strength. The hardest parts are still ahead of you, and who you are 20 years from now will be determined by how much resolve you have now. :-) Not trying to seem grim. But if I was teaching you to ride a bike, I'd first teach you what it's like to fall off. Cuz it will happen. There is no "just" move on. There is move on. If it was easy, well, you wouldn't be on here asking all of us dorks. haha.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 07:06 PM
4	LTR just admitted emotional affair u/Brogba420 in case it's not clear. "Get better at being desirable in the first place" - for the NEXT girl.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:22 PM
2	LTR just admitted emotional affair Any change you make now can be (perhaps fairly) chalked up to "You're only doing this because now there's a threat" and will make you look LESS attractive. Not that it matters! This whole game you play as far as trying to re-gain her attraction during this time.... it's a waste of time. Don't do it for her. Make yourself into a better person for you. For your daughter. For your future lovers. There will be a time when you are over this. Anything you do that keeps you in it, later on you'll reali…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:20 PM
2	LTR just admitted emotional affair This is bad advice for this situation. This guy will go out and have sex with some girl, only to realize just how much he loves his current GF. And then he might never foster the strength to leave. How much this guy is suffering is a sign of how much he is in love with her. Should he be? That's a different question. But right now, the stage he's in, sleeping with another girl will just cement him in deeper. Plus there's the whole "well, you did it too" scenario.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:16 PM
3	LTR just admitted emotional affair Even losers get laid. Keep your head up.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:14 PM
7	LTR just admitted emotional affair She called her boss, bawled her heart out, so it seems they won’t work together anymore. Not sure how to proceed, I haven’t decided what to do next. ...because working together is the only possible way for people to communicate nowadays. :-) Trust me as someone who spent thousands of dollars hiring a PI to find out some facts - in the end it doesn't matter. If you were married and in a community property state, even then stuff gets pretty much split 50/50. All the time and money you waste in thi…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:12 PM
3	LTR just admitted emotional affair You're already across the line if you're CONSIDERING doing anything rash like limiting time with the mom. This is a really shitty thing that's happening to you, and your universe might seem to be collapsing. But I'll tell you man, this kind of stuff happens all the time. No it doesn't make it right. No you shouldn't just go on and make the best of it, forgetting it happened. I'm not suggesting that at all. Just take it from a cooler head that this is as ordinary and mundane, despite your investm…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:07 PM
8	LTR just admitted emotional affair "I’m sitting here contemplating wether to leave her and see less of my daughter or not." Yeah, really bad idea, especially since y'all are destined to break up (if you're doing it right) and you're withholding the ability for a mother to see her child. I'm in the "been there, done that" camp, and I'll tell you a couple things some of the closet blue pill guys on here (the ones who will give you advice to "fix" it) might not tell you: - Cheating on your spouse is not against the law. Y'all aren't…	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/12/20 06:01 PM