LTR just admitted emotional affair

threekindsoflucky · 2020-12-05T00:24:04+00:00

How the fuck are there so many comments on this.

Most of you have been rule 11'd. Why would you try to add value to this sort of post?

Bibliophile5 · 2020-12-04T17:49:02+00:00

Am I the only one thinking that sex has happened but is being framed as an 'Emotional affair'

Don't think any affair can be just emotional. If it hasn't happened already it will soon.

Also, I think the ultimatum you gave makes no sense. Why would she call up her boss when she wants to be with the guy?

Only thing I can say is the more you act freaked out the worse the situation will get. Adapt the don't give a fuck attitude bro.

Someone better will come along. Just don't freak out so much.

Brogba420 · 2020-12-04T17:40:54+00:00

Ask the charming buff guy what he is doing, then do that.

jakibby · 2020-12-04T18:06:36+00:00

leave her and work on yourself. if you don't do this, she will consume your mind daily and she will continue cheating. emotional and physical are the same cheating. the more you cry, whine, and give her an ultimatum, the more she wants to leave and/ or cheat on you.

aaaGreg · 2020-12-04T18:22:34+00:00

Sorry dude, that really sucks. If I were you I would cut the cord and give her the boot.

broneilbro · 2020-12-04T18:38:05+00:00

I went through this. Instead of focusing on what she has said look at her past actions and her actions moving forward.

She fucked him and accept it and move on. You will not want to but you need to and move on.

The awakening has happened and you just need to make sure you stay awake.

Look at my old posts to see what happened in my case...

soukyfi · 2020-12-04T18:58:21+00:00

This post is making me realize how many beta soy boys are in this thread so I might just leave it. Any of you that say to stay do not know your values as men and are fucking betas. Realise your value as men and wake tf up. If you were spinning plates like you were supposed to, it would not even be a question whether or not to stay because you would have had the option to leave and be with a woman that is equal of "value" or better! That's what spinning plates is about. Having options automatically gives you confidence and therefore frame, if you were on your purpose making bread and working out. But no, these people on this thread want you to work your ass off so you can be cucked in the future. These people on this thread are so beta, they are sympathizing for the Alpha that just screwed up your LTR! WTF? Don't get me wrong, it is still your fault for not being the Alpha, but wtf? Lift weights, get money, fuck bitches, then maybe...just maybe...settle for a non-existent unicorn ( a woman of more maturity from which you have molded with your own frame). Have it your fucking way, not hers. You are the prize. Men are always the prize, the breadwinners, the conquerors. Women are only a compliment to our lives! Not the sole purpose of living. GTFOH with that repairing bullshit. She shoulda thought of her kid or you or etc. before she decided to act on her lust. Sloppy. Just sloppy.

jacques_cousteau007 · 2020-12-04T17:28:19+00:00

What the fuck is an emotional affair?

Did a penis enter a vagina or not

Sounds like either boundaries were not imposed (by you) on the relationship or were not enforced (by you), if she thinks her actions are ok

Savings-Yak-1449 · 2020-12-04T19:02:19+00:00

Sorry to bust your bubble but contrary to the popular opinion there ain't no thing called an emotional affair. Sex is almost always involved. For heavens sake, don't start comparing yourself to the guy. I am sure you have several great attributes about yourself that makes you unique. Take pride in who you are, embrace your identity, your true self, not be embarrassed by it. Never change yourself or try to mould yourself to fit the feminine ideal. Lastly, move on and find a woman that has a genuine desire for you. Good luck and congratulations. May a great new chapter begin in your life.

MaxamillionGrey · 2020-12-04T19:55:48+00:00

Made her call her boss and she said it wasn't consensual even tho it was?

Lol she cheated on you and now you're making her call her boss and lie about it.

Yeah you should have walked away. You got way too emotional here. You did the opposite of what everyone told you which means you did what you wanted anyways...

Theres going to be so much animosity now. She already cheated on you so now you're going to stay in a toxic relationship with someone you dont trust.

Who would want to be in that situation?

Now she has this fake relationship with her boss that she has to keep up. A facade. A lie. You potentially got the other dude fired. He was hugging your girlfriend at work and she let it happen. She then called their boss at your behest and lied about this dude. Watch your back he likely knows where you live.

Don't you fucking bring this shit onto your child. You were emotional and did exactly what you came here to be talked out of.

Why the fuck did you even come if you were going to do what you wanted to do anyways?

El0vution · 2020-12-04T20:03:06+00:00

Dude you need to STFU. That’s the most practical advice I can give you. It’s fine to freak out on Reddit, but you’re freaking out in front of her too. Getting her to call her boss was a beta move. STFU. Focus on yourself. You should be busy AF. Of course scenes from this unfortunate situation will flood your mind but you must resist on acting on any of them. STFU. A bomb has gone off and you need to wait for the dust to settle. Study RP harder, it’s obvious you’re not that immersed in it. It will become clear what to do in time. For now, just STFU.

2020-12-04T19:45:28+00:00

Wow 😳 , it's like the book "practical female psychology". I think you better start thinking of leaving her . She already did it , and there is no going back . Be strong .

Reddit1984Censorship · 2020-12-04T17:27:26+00:00

I recommend to chill its just brain chemicals dont let them control your mind.
I think the best way to achieve this is to have casual sex with other girl or prostitute or just date for fun to ''wash up'' from the betrayal, so that way you get sooner to the ''life goes on'' state.

red-sfpplus · 2020-12-04T18:59:55+00:00

dealing with benzo withdrawals

Whoa, whoa, whoa.

Bro. Feelz for you.

Wanna chat 4 real?

Mods: Leave this pile of trash up just for this one admission.

Title	LTR just admitted emotional affair
Author	Brogba420
Upvotes	14
Comments	76
Date	December 4, 2020 5:23 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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