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What’s your tinder playbook like
/r/seduction30/04/26 03:24 PM
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Leading without being needy, it’s a fine line
/r/seduction16/02/25 12:16 AM
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Useless
/r/seduction15/02/25 05:08 AM
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Keep posting brotha, well done
/r/seduction27/01/25 03:17 AM
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Good shit, but more importantly how did you find what worked? Surely not trial and error …
/r/seduction17/01/25 04:40 AM
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Lust
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/23 03:36 AM
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Correct , who even gives a f about Jonah shill , sad how people spend their attention on this shit
/r/TheRedPill12/07/23 09:51 PM
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Have you checked out the high altitude cities in Mexico or sticking by the beaches ?
/r/TheRedPill12/10/22 08:30 PM
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Nice… haven’t heard of that title by Dunas, would you recommend it to a Dumas fan?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/22 06:35 PM
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Fa sho .. depends on family of course, but 90% u gonna improve once u not living w parents. Just the fact that you’re supporting yourself and not living under someone else brings huge confidence. Living w parents will hold u back in indirect ways, sometimes not even knowing it, just cause u associate juvenile patterns w them. Can make it impossible to advance and improve. Become own man, and provide for your family. Good shit
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:03 AM
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Was just reflecting on this last two days in my interactions. Was observing how a HVM (not rich but a very attractive criminal and has girls drooling) handles giving out attention. Very conservative with it, will many times ignore a person when they interact or try to get attention and continue doing what they’re doing instead (on phone, eating, etc) . My q was is this rude? Or is ignoring people in this way not rude? It’s certainly an artful balance of giving just enough attention to keep someo…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/21 07:31 PM
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Hell yeah.. Colombia way more accessible/promising than when you were saying Balkans. Btw, best cities in Colombia for this dynamic? Without giving your location which parts would you recommend--guessing not the metro cities since they're more westernized (bogota/medellin).
/r/TheRedPill23/06/21 06:59 PM
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Hell yuh how’s the English situation there?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/21 09:31 PM
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Does this shit work with plates? Flaking on chillin with them? Then hittin them up night after? Feel like they might get spiteful or something
/r/askTRP21/05/21 06:29 PM
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But I’m guessing language would be a problem there... no English?
/r/TheRedPill21/05/21 06:26 PM
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Nice, so what’s a good city to hit in the north? Or is Manaus your recommendation...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/21 10:32 PM
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What do u lie to em about? From what I read seems like u lead them on but in what way? Relationship/commitment type stuff? Like you have them thinking you guys are together, romantic etc.. always thought this stuff was turn off for hoes but not really sure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 07:55 PM
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Facts.. some of the biggest slayers I know really are too busy to keep the crib clean, so in between having a bitch clean it for them (free or paid doesn’t much matter) they will still absolutely slay with a dirty crib. Amazing, right? Btw, they’ll still say they prefer a clean crib and will recognize when it’s dirty. But there are so many more important things. Feel bad for kids finding the sub recently , o well.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 05:23 AM
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Just wondering which cities or areas you found the best for dating/higher quality women?
/r/askTRP19/01/21 11:51 PM
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Don’t they seem good at introspection tho ? Does it not take a bit of introspection to gauge which of her available options attracts her the most? Especially since the attraction is essentially just a modifier of her feelings. Who cares really, but I do think they are a bit more categorical/rational with their attraction—yeah women are aware of what attracts them most, and perhaps what attracts them least, but the in between area is indeed vast and wide and perhaps a bit trickier to navigate. Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:20 AM
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When you reference ‘men that excite her’ what quality of excitement are you referring to? Assuming ‘excitement’ here is in the same vein as ‘attracted’.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:57 AM
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No gas money it was right by campus, shit was nasty tho
/r/askTRP27/12/20 03:30 PM
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Sry bru but actually have had hos throw up on my dick in NM. Just sayin..Broaden your horizons!
/r/askTRP23/12/20 06:34 PM
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Interested too, pics look great. Serious tho
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 12:50 AM
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How do you move up the ladder instead of down, in general?
/r/askTRP06/12/20 04:05 PM
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Yo, few of my friends have had venzo withdrawals. I’m interested—is there any practical way to use the drug (xan) that is beneficial at all? In any environments/at some dose/with some type of frequency? Or should one stay away from them at all costs?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/20 04:30 AM
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She fell for you at the start, when she decided to have sex. ​ Her probing you bout what you're doing isn't her falling for you, almost sounds more like projection. She's thinking bout making some moves. Maybe have her give you more head
/r/askTRP04/12/20 03:45 AM
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Good point about the music/artist cliques.. Any circles other than bjj/mma/pickup sports you can think of that have higher quality people?
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:28 PM
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Were they recommending the spiritual stuff for increasing vibe or what? Moving up the consciousness ladder etc?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 10:15 PM
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How did you start to take action on that after the trip?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/20 10:09 PM
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How do men/women there feel about (attractive) Americans? Best cities to live in? And how important is learning the language?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 02:34 AM
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Quick question, was going to DM but figured I'd ask here- You say you listen to the video(s) on the regular. I know you post here regularly as well. At your level of wisdom and experience, approximately how many hours of mental bandwidth per week do you ration for TRP-related thought? As I see it, including my own personal experience, TRP consumes many people's mental bandwidth, almost insidiously, as a field of study that involves time-consuming reflection. Is there a goal or level of perceptio…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:20 AM
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Elaborate? Wonder what mindsets he subscribed to...
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:45 PM
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That sci fi saga paid off.. love those books btw.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 03:01 PM
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Lmao facts. Check out tempest tho if you haven’t already. Emperor concerto too, Bernstein-Serkin recording. Two of my fav from Beethoven. I put Emperor on for a plate I was trip sitting-her first time taking acid. She claimed she felt like heaven had opened its gates and she was walking amongst the clouds.
/r/askTRP29/09/20 08:02 PM
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Hopefully she’s not familiar with classical music or she might criticize you for the commonplace choices.. throw Beethoven’s Tempest sonata in the mix
/r/askTRP29/09/20 05:07 PM
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What’s your haircut (dumb question but wondering if it’s a buzz or what)
/r/askTRP24/09/20 09:09 PM
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Had to upvote for monte cristo quote..what a pimp Dumas must have been
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:03 PM
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is there no downside / 'brain frying' from taking LSD? I've enjoyed the trips I've taken and think I've had very valuable insights from the few trips I've had. Need to experiment more with shrooms-how often do you suggest, in keeping with healthy lifestyle, to trip? And I've only done two tabs as the highest dose, would you suggest a higher dose? ​ thanks
/r/TheRedPill21/09/20 09:13 PM
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This and the above comment is a gem. Birth control is a helluva drug and that’s a huge side effect. Shit can nuke relationships overnight...MHC is a nice concept
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:24 AM
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Shit.. I’m sold. How much love bombing do you do before tightening up the faucet ?
/r/askTRP14/09/20 06:51 AM
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For sure, good shit. One thing tho.. I’m guessing that love bombing is an essential part—but it’s the only one in that list that feels uncomfortable to me. Seems like you’d be coming across as needy/emotionally available etc. Is it just for a short period of time, then you cut the cord and it’s mostly pull from there on out? Does it really hook them? Could you elaborate a bit on that part.. like when girls love bomb it’s usually (with me) just exceeding kissing, blowjobs, massaging, calling me b…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 04:09 PM
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Last parts sounds like law of attraction stuff. Do you believe in that? Manifesting your destiny etc
/r/askTRP04/09/20 09:03 PM
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More on this?
/r/askTRP27/08/20 06:11 PM
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Which classical lit and which radical texts do you recommend?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 02:46 AM
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What do you think the best way for white males raised in America with the “progressive” mindset to adopt the Muslim/black traditional dynamics of masculinity? Can’t really think of anything besides hanging out with those guys, perhaps moving to a city where that’s the norm?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 11:04 PM
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Does this mean be emotionally unavailable and distant with women? Besides avoiding the emotional swings and removing yourself/your attention when she hops on the rollercoaster, how far should we take the stoicism in this regard? I’d wager there’s some situations where a certain degree of emotional availability/display of emotions is beneficial to attraction? I’m just not entirely sure which situations those are and to what degree I should involve emotions.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/20 02:08 AM
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Yo elaborate on the desire characteristics? Mastery over destiny? Not giving away attention to bitches?
/r/askMRP19/08/20 06:30 AM
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Yo does this style of game go against the “daddy” style? I feel like girls respect the daddy game mor. Your style definitely sounds effective, but do you think it’s better than dominant game?
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 02:26 AM
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Keep mass in b minor on repeat. Don’t Bach down
/r/askTRP13/08/20 07:12 PM
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Damn this is profound (as someone with a few girls acting submissive and loving to me)— besides Guitde training bitches in the sidebar, do you have any recommended reading on this nuance in particular? Using the protector (is this completely separate from provider?) selectively and voluntarily on girls who are deemed worthy? I think I’m at that stage—using trp “bitches ain’t shit” as default; I use it 90% of the time. Are there dangers to using this behavior with girls who are submissive and lov…
/r/askTRP10/08/20 01:13 AM
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Oooh that’s an idea
/r/askMRP12/07/20 07:20 PM
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Yeah..any good material on this—assuming the woman wants it and has repeatedly expressed her desire to submit? Or should I just pick up a decent dog training book?
/r/askMRP11/07/20 02:38 AM
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I’ve read and enjoyed that post. Currently in the stages of implementing it. , but you basically make yourself her most important source of validation Perhaps you can suggest some content on this apart from working on yourself, self improving, and being her best option (which is not possible unless the girl is isolated and cut off from society—she will always be able to compare you to better dreams/options/the unknown). I’m interested in the conditioning required to accomplish this manipulation.
/r/askMRP10/07/20 10:51 PM
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Is there any content that goes into detail on this? My girls fuck me enthusiastically and with desire, but begging to fuck seems like something that has to be trained/conditioned. Would like to learn more about this..
/r/askMRP10/07/20 05:55 PM
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Gem.. tricky part is how far can you take these extremes without the girl/plate breaking? I think being completely selfish and basically ignoring her opinions while demonstrating that you have a better handle and comprehension of the world, all the while including the girl in your fun (and piping her well) is a decent balance. The other method I’ve seen success with seems to be a less powerful method, only works with low self esteem girls (although this is many of them) and ultimately leads to a…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/20 09:24 PM
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Damn 40 times.. I’ve taken it a few times and the most instructive trip was with a girl I was piping..we were both tripping and it opened my eyes a bit to the attention/energy seeking nature of women. What are some enlightening/revealing trip activities/scenarios you would suggest? Haven’t taken lsd alone, that might be next..
/r/askTRP15/06/20 04:42 PM
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I'll start with Ride the Tiger and then Doctrine of Awakening. My reading level is decently high, but I'll definitely be keeping pholosophybasics.com open as a sort of dictionary to provide context while reading these guys. I am a big proponent of improving the mind by energizing/stabilizing/optimizing the body--'DO'ing things physically to reach and maintain a better mental state. Bioenergetics, yoga, sports, etc. I think these have their place, independent of the life-long journey of mindset d…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 09:12 PM
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tradition, metaphysics and Divinity. They connect man to a timeless, infinite truth and framework which fuels everything. Is this stuff what Evola focuses/dials in on? Doctrine of awakening sounds like it might have this stuff. If not, what existing ideology encapsulates this organic/divine alignment between man and the world in your opinion? Getting a Jordan Peterson vibe. ​ I am not that big on Mindfulness anymore. What about meditation? So it’s a modern philosophical text, followed by some sp…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 08:19 AM
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Strong trips will literally rip any sort of thoughts or insecurities buried deep inside of you and shove them right in your face. The harder you try to hide it, the more it'll show up. But the great thing is, it's the truth. It's who you are. So take the lessons you get from it, become more self-aware, learn from it, and make a plan of action to better yourself. good shit. btw are you just referring to strong mushroom trips? if so what dose, if not , which drugs are you talking about
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:43 AM
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I remember when I was in a similar dive bar scene. Lots of hot girls came and went. Bartenders were sexy too. I used to sell drugs at the bars and had a rep. Several times I pissed off plates (ones that frequented the same bars and that saw me with other plates) to where they’d be shouting “asshole!” at me towards the end of the night. Pretty standard behavior for college aged drunk sluts. Oh btw they all came back for more.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 12:23 AM
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Good shit. I’ll start with tiger. For some reason I’ve had a weird association between Evola and the RSD clowns talking about spirituality and moving up the rungs of the ladder (can’t remember the name of the author or the book , but it was some woo woo mysticism shit). I’m fairly certain that association is bullshit and will be dropped after the first chapter of Evola. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill12/06/20 12:56 AM
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Not completely sure why you’ve recently enlisted in the GLO camp, but I’ve followed and enjoyed your posts long enough to give these authors and their concepts an examination. It sounds like some of these books have prerequisite reading. Have you (or glo) come across a generalized order in which to read the books to maximize comprehension of the topics and efficiency in understanding? Is Evola first, and if so should one start with Ride the Tiger? I know you joked about 48 laws , and although I …
/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 07:17 PM
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Vas, I know you have experience living with girls and from what I’ve read you live alone these days. Have you written anything about living with girls, specifically an OLTR (open on your end, as I think you’ve coined) or do you deem living with them mostly an inconvenience? I know RP ideas and tactics should not be used to enact a BP ideal, but I don’t think living with an OLTR (maintaining your own independence and leaving as soon shit goes sour, of course), a slave girl even, is BP.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:03 AM
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True yeah I was just confused bout the certificate part
/r/askTRP31/05/20 08:18 PM
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Lmao wtf can you explain this
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:44 AM
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Bro you gotta do a bullet point list of “Chad does” and “Chad doesn’t “...the Chad commandments
/r/askTRP31/05/20 10:28 AM
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Do you know if Socrates encouraged journaling or anything similar? Good point about writing things down and its diminishing effect on memory/recall, never knew that was associated with Socrates.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/20 12:39 AM
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yo elaborate on the pistol whip a bit? Couple of my friends actually went to jail for pistol whipping their girls (they were dating tho not just plates), but I never really understood what situation could result in me hitting them w a pistol? Is it for like when they don't want you to bust on their face and they're being stubborn? What's the context , at least in your experience
/r/TheRedPill19/05/20 10:30 PM
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Yeah this, they’re always soaking wet after choking it down. My guess is it’s the ‘he’s using me to come’ is more attractive than ‘he’s trying to make me come ‘. Need a list of weird counter intuitive sex shit like this
/r/askTRP19/05/20 10:35 AM
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Interested in these
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:34 AM
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Maybe try men bruh idk what to tell you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:22 AM
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Lol women get huge, self-esteem altering levels of validation when desirable males (read: attractive) find them attractive and want to fuck/share their company--do they not? That is a defining part of how women gauge their SMV... And why dating apps have boosted it superficially? Ex. a fat ugly chick gets 0 attention from attractive dudes, and minimal action on dating apps. Does she think male appreciation of her beauty counts? Or is this just male solipsism, and females actually just care when …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 11:40 PM
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Uhh but what if a dude you’re attracted to doesn’t think you’re sexy? His opinion matters less to you than a female’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:28 PM
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Solid. Ferguson’s my favorite. He is tall and goodlooking, which shouldn’t be overlooked at all, but he also has a finely developed wit and charm. I was always impressed watching him be at complete ease, cracking sex jokes with some of the sexiest actresses on the planet. I suppose he already had the comedic skills and also had success with attractive women in the past (which was confirmed in his book) so it wasn’t much of a stretch to get paid for it on TV. Event when he had on guys like Brand,…
/r/seduction09/05/20 06:18 PM
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Lol bro how smart or clever is she? She sent you a pic of a bruise and left enough clues to cause you to doubt her story and lead you to think she got them from a dude. Are you giving her bruises when you fuck? If not, I’d wager this is her girly way of asking you to. Dial up the roughness-unless you already are giving her marks, in which case she’s just getting her cup filled by multiple suitors.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:35 AM
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The chess master model. I can only guess a girl of that intellectual caliber paired with model looks was a handful. What mental frailties, if any, did you pick up on with her? Or was your frame already strong enough, and her validation-fueled self esteem high enough, that she submitted comfortably without much hassle? It sounds like you observed a few nuggets of female novelty through her—did anything stand out? Did you ever see her intellectual/cognitive faculties falter on account of her femal…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 07:16 PM
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Lmao Jesus... what about child support?
/r/askMRP07/05/20 07:01 PM
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What about the idea that, at a base level, by sending those sexy pic/videos, she's seeking validation, and by answering, you're providing that validation for her? I think this is why the nuance of how/when/if you answer is key. With one girl who sends these, I wait (how long depending on whether or not I'm in town) a bit, then reply with an eggplant emoji. Just kind of an inside joke between us that I've used from the start, but I think it's just enough to provide her with validation while not a…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:55 PM
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Those FWB who send the sexy vids or sexy pics, how do you usually respond to them? Or do you leave on read? What's a safe response
/r/askTRP23/04/20 05:54 AM
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Didn't like the post either, asking for books about your comment
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 08:17 AM
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Sure. Sounds like a lot of mildly ambiguous and esoteric phrases that you've become familiar with, most likely from books on Jung and others in the same vein. If you think that this translates to IQ, yours may be tundra temperature. Any book recommendations tho? Or just what GLO recommends on that link
/r/TheRedPill19/04/20 07:37 AM
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What the fuck did you just say. Can you translate this to English or point me to the books that can?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/20 10:38 PM
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resources while not actually being fully attracted to you. Agree with everything, just wondering when you think men lose the ability to garner full attraction from women? Is it just a matter of not behaving unattractively? Keeping the balance tipped in your favor so you are getting what you want out of the situation with minimal liabilities/investment/downside? Or do you mean just looking like Richard Gere indefinitely?
/r/askTRP14/04/20 06:00 AM
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What was the biggest impetus for her being able to come? Sounds like the orgasm denial shit is powerful. ​ Also, what physical stimulation is usually required for her to come? Does she just finger herself while blowing you? Is she usually making herself come when you tell her to, or are you actually fucking her WHILE denying her orgasm until you feel like it?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/20 06:09 PM
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Good shit. Yeah of course IM is good stuff. Which article of his were you talking about btw? That Machiavellian thinking one is gold
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 07:22 AM
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100%...spot on here. Kind of like the way you'd act if she wasn't even there, or if it was some random acquaintance you don't care too much about. Unaffected behavior and body language with some emotional spiking sprinkled in. Of course it helps to have a silver tongue and wisdom regarding shit tests in case you're in the mood to riposte. What do you think contributes most to this behavior naturally? Abundance? Mindfulness? Experience?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/20 02:31 AM
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Considering that article, what do you think about men wearing cologne vs natural scent?
/r/askTRP02/04/20 07:35 PM
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Ahh the rival Chad. Brings back some memories. Getting salty about your girl flirting with them is always a recipe for disaster. I remember one time I got salty about this. It's the quickest way to get her to hop on the rival dick. Avoiding the mog is a tricky subject. I think if there's chemistry between the girl and the mogger, there's not much you can do. Might be why "I challenge you to a duel" became a thing.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/20 06:59 PM
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yeah I just read the article..makes more sense now. It's crazy how they're wired so differently. I've seen similar things even talking to gay dudes. Difficulty aligning their self-perception with a more objective perception. Blame shifting, lack of accountability and responsibility. I think the main takeaways as far as using this info for female attraction are emotional rollercoaster and treat them like a 5 year old -like you said. Oh and fuck them good lol
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 07:58 AM
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She plays the game continuously, with no understanding of it. Understanding it would kill her ability to deceive herself that there is no game. As RP men, we can never EVER explain to a woman what she does. Like explaining what shit tests are? or Negging? etc.. some of them definitely know about this stuff. I agree the best method is to appear naive about all game, especially PUA stuff or clear lingo. I've had several girls call me 'alpha' and even 'Chad' but I've always feigned ignorance. "Chad…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 05:18 AM
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And the best looking couple...
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:44 AM
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Chad
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:24 AM
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Kleos is more the ancient Greek equivalent of Fame today. People who will live on in the culture for several generations in the public's eye.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 03:23 AM
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Good shit. You’re right , everyone varies, just look at women who grew up with abusive dads—they’re going to be wired a bit differently. Btw , not sure if you’re interested or planning to write a detailed sex guide, but I think it’d be gold from a guy with your wisdom and success. Preferred dynamic, foreplay, mindset, how you make her come, when do you come, where etc. Or maybe just send it to me haha
/r/askTRP19/03/20 09:13 PM
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"Hey, having my ankles broken was FUCKING AMAZING and I want to do it again!" ​ Lol they might say it in an ostensively sarcastic way, but there's always a Freudian explanation for shit they say. Who knows. They also always say "my ex was an asshole/abusive" ​ Your tip about the green yellow red is confusing. How? -to quote this guy from this same thread And, you're only doing what the other person likes. There can't be resistance if the other person likes it. How can you dominate without resist…
/r/askTRP19/03/20 07:14 AM
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Just a q here, over the years (and a variety of girls with Daddy issues who enjoyed some degree of masochism) I've gotten more and more into being rough during sex, choking hitting etc. Your tip about the green yellow red is confusing. It seems like it's common practice in the kink community (not sure?) but from my experience (with certain girls) the more you let the girl dictate what is and what is not ok during sex, the less she'll be open to. You have a good point that they may just go along …
/r/askTRP18/03/20 09:04 PM
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I actually agree bro my comment was satire..the best friend dude in that story is a bitch basically prolly just good looking
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 11:59 PM
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Post a pic of your stereotypical LTR and ONS guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 05:56 AM
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nah bro that long text could've been the dude (his ex best friend)... ​ that ho and his ex best friend laying in bed together ho "oh my god he won't stop blowing up my phone" best friend "haha yep that sounds about right" ho "how do i stop it should i just block him haha" best friend "just give it here, i know what to say" ​ source: i'm the best friend
/r/TheRedPill12/03/20 07:51 AM
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Damn son how'd you get the plug connect in Medellin? Was planning on going there for a month
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 08:38 PM
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Great place. Best Sunday brunch
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 12:52 AM
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oh man.. some girls see it as a submissive act and hate guys going down on them. but they love giving head
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:53 AM
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Fair, so abundance mindset usually indicates a controlled/reasonable level of external validation, scarcity mindset more likely to rely heavily on external validation. I think that’s pretty straightforward. I think if you can display a stronger abundance mindset than the girl, or are just higher SMV than her, then you have the option of using her thirst for external validation (especially if she relies on it, but regardless) as fuel for her love for you. Push pull, dread, all that shit, seems to…
/r/askMRP04/03/20 08:15 PM
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How does one improve their recognition of the externally validated/emotional vampire type? Case can be made that everyone is externally validated to a degree, but I’ve definitely noticed certain girls to be consumed by it..
/r/askMRP04/03/20 07:08 PM
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For sure... The ones I've been with like that all said they were abused by Daddy growing up
/r/askTRP29/02/20 05:56 PM
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bro can you elaborate on dating the masochist.. like what kind of stuff did she like, getting black eyes and knocked out? and was it during sex or just all the time?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 08:29 AM
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i know the usual advice here is 'run' or 'x is okay but y? no way!'.. ​ i could explain the dirty shit that girls are actually into, but the foundational concept you need to internalize is that the girl will be able to tell if it's YOU who's into it or HER who's planted the idea in your mind. ​ if the girls is sufficiently attracted to you, there's not too much that's off the table sexually if she can sense you're enjoying it.
/r/askTRP29/02/20 02:56 AM
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A gem for sure, but if you think about it.. say a dude gets his dick chopped off, he's kinda fucked. At least the girl could turn herself into a top tier oral master lol
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 06:37 PM
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Cool yeah skimmed the contents looks like there are some gems. Read a bit about how women are looking for certain things and he lists "not violent" as one of them. I wish this nuance was more explored- I think displays of violence from a high value male, both towards others and even towards the girl, are attractive displays. Maybe this just has to be balanced by giving the girl the feeling that she will/can be protected BY you..
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 10:14 PM
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Bro what's the actual name of the book--if it's worth reading? Spot on about the untameable point btw
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 04:09 AM
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How does the high value man show a woman that she's the object of his desire without diminishing her attraction to him? Or does this just mean fuck her well, be dominant, soak up the joy and take her on an emotional/physical ride when together, and kind of forget about her in between hanging out?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:30 AM
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keep it going guys. "You are the sum of the company you keep" has always seemed true for me. Listening to you guys shoot the shit is not the same as hanging in person, but still helpful.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/20 06:25 AM
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What makes them get wet then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:56 AM
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lol @ Logician being largely screwed.. facts which site do you like best for the test / literature? and bonus q- which types do you think the most submissive/feminine girls tend to be? or girls with daddy issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:26 PM
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You talk about the Myers Briggs types a lot-in your opinion which ones tend to be the most attractive males? I took it years ago and got intj, but then later got entj or entp.. think it's time to take it again
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:48 PM
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The word you're actually looking for is mean. ​ So, the mean woman is thin with a plain face. ​ I don't fuck with mean women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:35 AM
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Yeah I'm good at casual sex , only problem I have is when I spend too much time cuddling after sex, walking around together, spending too much time together etc...if everything's good (top tier sex, both parties smart and socially adept etc), we both catch feels and start doing stupid shit to test who's more invested--this is where I usually fuck things up and just cut my losses lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:46 PM
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Best recommended material for studying/improving on this plane of being a true alpha/women alpha? Just books about psychopaths and dark triad stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:11 PM
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In the same way as guys (displaying affection, lots of cuddling and kissing and doing boyfriend shit)? Or for guys who are minimally invested in them and fucks then leaves? Or a push pull balance of these?
/r/askTRP20/01/20 02:39 AM
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Pretty much this. Btw, do you think women experience a similar thing? Assuming the sex is good and you're trp-savvy, do chicks get oneitis if they spend day after day fucking sucking and cuddling the same dude? Or is it different and just hacks away at her attraction for you?
/r/askTRP19/01/20 11:48 PM
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make her ride the rollercoaster just by fucking her well, keeping yourself busy, and seeing her ~once/week for sex? or is there more to it... "make her feel all kind of feels" is easier said than done, what would you say are the greatest contributors to that?
/r/askTRP08/01/20 05:31 AM
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quick q about this quote- “describe in lush detail scenarios to set her heart afire. Give your feelings freedom to roam.”? ... assuming it's a chick with whom you have good sexual chemistry, enjoy as a person, and have established dominance--does this quote insinuate you should talk about feelings (her feelings for you, yours for her) at all? in a romantic way... or just get HER to talk about her feelings in general (towards you, or just get her in her feels) and play with her in those conversat…
/r/askTRP08/01/20 04:43 AM
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Amen.. anyone disagreeing with this or defending themselves needs to reread until it clicks
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 06:51 AM
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what translation do you recommend? wish this dude was around to write the guide to love and sex life in 2020 lol
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:29 AM
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Appreciate your input-but here you're dipping into some of that same woo woo stuff that Owen/Julian talk about. A gray area that I can't really conceptualize and when it's explained I just think the language is awkward and not really sure what to think. Closest I can relate to what it seems like is when I'm a few drinks in, vibing, etc--but I also agree sober game is the way to go. I've looked the David R. Hawkins spirituality levels/letting go book a bit, but ultimately decided it was BS. Not s…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/20 02:51 AM
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good shit. I've seen lots of these vids before but haven't gone through Blueprint decoded. Always been focused on sales training because it's always had lots of carry over to game. thanks again
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 09:59 PM
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pretty zealous way of selling those 7 minutes of heaven. I like it... i grabbed the two r-s-d torrents you listed--plan to go through the blueprint and binge the youtube collection. Think there's a PDF of the greatest posts too but pretty sure I've read those at some point-- and the Evola book + GLO's recommended prereqs... anything else you can throw at me for material? Going to take this 2020 January to brush up on game, I've been coasting just taking sex easy from tinder, it's time to sharpen…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/20 11:18 AM
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Think what you mean is treating her like a sex object is good as long as there's genuine desire, chemistry, and some affection involved..
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 05:10 AM
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Fair enough. The best sex for me has been when the seduction is fluid, dynamic, and intense. But I can't help but notice the girl gets wetter and comes harder when I turn up the 'treat her like a sex object' dial a notch or two. Do you see any truth to this or is this something different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/19 03:04 AM
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Agree with this , question for you, as a woman , don't you prefer the 'being used as a fuckhole' dynamic? Assuming you're attracted and admire the man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/19 09:52 PM
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Good stuff. I think I have a solid understanding of tactical game, building attraction in person, minimal texting, not detracting from my attractiveness etc.. Trickiest part for me might be the carrot/stick game with a plate over the several month run. Minimizing the inevitable drain of her attraction that occurs just from familiarity, lessening of mystery and unknown etc. Any hints here? I use stuff like disappear for a few days randomly, keep visits to once or twice a week, and even stuff you …
/r/TheRedPill24/12/19 05:39 AM
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The thing is the more she thinks you did them to TRY to get her, as if she was the prize and you had to form a plan to get her, the less attraction they will generate in her. So you have to be smooth, and you have to be congruent across your looks, behavior, lifestyle, and not come off as a try-hard? Isn't this dynamic (her chasing you, you choosing/qualifying her) essentially about who cares less, who is less invested, etc.? ​ Interested in how you bolster the frame of her trying to get you, ap…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 08:52 PM
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Female attraction is paradoxically based on NOT TRYING to get them attracted to you. Men nearly always get this backward- they think the thing that gives them comfort/rapport gets them attraction, and that the thing that gives them attraction might give them more attraction, but is some cheap trick only mean guys do. Surely there has to be some hook point, such as the girl finding you physically attractive, you fucking her well, and spending time with you--but beyond this I think treating her li…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/19 12:56 PM
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Care to elaborate on this animalistic transformation? How are they business-like? The most I've experienced is a feral-like behavior when they're really attracted/turned-on, but not sure if I've gotten the cold/businesslike response. Is this some milestone I've yet to reach or are your bitches just on xans? ​ side note,I read some of your posts and it's good shit.. wondering where you've met the majority of your hookups. out at bars/clubs? social circle (if so, what kind of social circle?) job?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 10:22 AM
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Sexy 20 year old sorority girls aren't too different from other sexy 20 year old girls. On average, a bit more sensitive to male status (read: pickier, especially in the college setting) and also more open to casual sex culture. ​ If you can consistently pull sexy girls in that age range, pulling the ones in a sorority should be a cakewalk. I played ball in college and used that as my in, but simply find a way to broadcast yourself and enjoy the harvest.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:27 PM
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Seems pretty accurate. I take it this is why alcohol helps some guys whose anxiety manifests when it's time to shine (assuming they meet the other attraction criterion). Certainly the case for me--much easier to blow through shit tests with a buzz, though it's not necessarily ideal.
/r/seduction02/11/19 07:03 AM
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Glad to have a nuanced discussion. I've been around this community for 5-6 years and have lots of experience in the field and out. Your insightful and refreshing comments above caught my eye. Based on the context, you’re probably doing everything “right” and most of these cases just fall under the umbrella of chemistry IMO. Her level of attractiveness and relative promiscuity will have afforded her a variety of sexual experiences, some of which will resonate very strongly with her individual sex…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 11:29 PM
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I've actually been thinking on a post about anxious-preoccupied girls, since that's the primary type of girl who's out there for Red Pill guys on the casual scene. That'd be a helpful and intriguing post.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:35 PM
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B. Wind up with a less-desirable partner. The lack of empathy, the flaking, the cold text game, the curt attitude—this is the ultimate shit-test. She’s not going to empathize with you, but she will observe your behavior and compare it to her other options. Even if you play your RP cards exactly right, she may still have a more desirable prospect. She’s here to optimize her mating strategy. Empathy gets in the way of that process. That’s life. Good points. What, in your opinion, is the safest met…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/19 06:27 PM
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Great answer. I'm also somewhat familiar with the world you mentioned and everything you say rings true. I was personally able to detach myself from the scene after some time in it but I think that is rare. Very cool situation you've created for yourself. It sounds interesting, rewarding, and even hierarchically ideal--not unlike the criminal world, but like you said, finding a suffering that means something is far superior. It sounds like you've done that. Would be cool to see a day in the life…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 08:43 PM
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Not to hijack the thread here, but could you elaborate a bit here don’t get fooled by the broken bad boy, druggie bullshit attracting women. I think that the bad boy/druggie behavior is reliably attractive to many of the younger (and sexy) girls--assuming the girl is attracted in the first place and the man generally has his shit together. Perhaps you could shed some wisdom on what you've learned to be clearly higher value than the above behaviors? I've always understood that the bad boy/druggie…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 11:20 AM
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A nice guy that scores higher in social status,money and looks always trumps the bad boy biker/drug dealer. A good looking nice guy will always defeat a an ugly bad boy. Not sure that represents the black pill, at least the way I've seen it explained. I think the black pill is primarily focused around looks representing the bulk of what determines attraction. As much as I'd like to believe it to be true, I'm not certain that a good upbringing is a trait that women seek, though I can see it indir…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 12:01 AM
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Lmao /thread
/r/askTRP26/06/19 02:18 PM
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How’d you get caught?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 06:23 AM
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But if you actually fucking try, you will find you can fuck beautiful women just from your inherent value as a (foreign) man. You may find you have personality and game you never thought you did. You see, you are getting a little slice of alpha life in a way, even if the actual game you're running is BP. I have always believed that SIMPLY EXPERIENCING the reality of the "alpha fucks" guy for a short period of time is enough to completely transform your personality very rapidly. ​ What is it abou…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:48 AM
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Wouldn’t masculinity rather, at its root, be physically and biologically contingent?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 05:00 AM
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Do us a favor and write a quick guide to Medellin for Chads/guys who fuck? My best friend is Colombian and always raving about the paisas so I need to get him and a few bros together and check it out. Feel like a guide from a guy who knows how to do it right would be a big help.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/19 03:00 AM
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This is accurate. Manhattan is a city with a wide range of social strata, and OP was found out of his element in more ways than one. These girls, if truly 9s they were, have assumedly experienced some of the upper-end of what a big city like Manhattan has to offer and therefore picked up on OP's social blunders with lightspeed. Might be a good idea to hang around these bars a bit more--perhaps try the Rose Bar when you're ready to level up.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 09:11 PM
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Fair enough. Always trying to improve, and when I run into the same issues I try to figure a way around them. I'd like to think I'm on the right track and just need to fine-tune the nuances, which of course comes with more experience and trial runs. Just making sure I have the right framework in place.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:40 PM
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Of course. I've seen this before from you and know that it's usually fruitless to blunder your way through the initial back-and-forth communication by being too overtly sexual/forward. I've smoothed out the kinks and have good results getting girls to meet up just by being generally laconic and not sperging out on a sexually-wired invite, waiting until we are in person to progress with the seduction. ​ Mind you, I'm talking about social circle game here. With a tinder meetup, there's a latent ov…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 04:23 PM
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Good stuff. I know you often endorse Connery's Bond character as an ideal model for treating women-IMO he treats his women like younger bratty sisters, albeit with a more sexual vibe.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:46 PM
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I've fucked so many women like your girlfriend in her pre-girlfriend stage just by being nice to them and giving them hope. ​ This tidbit begs the question- is it ever good form to, with the goal of plating a girl, lead them on with a hope of a relationship? To be clear, by leading them on I mean incorporating some boyfriend things after having had sex with the girl. By relationship, I mean the limbo between strictly casual FWB and exclusive LTR. It seems to be easier to hold multiple plates in …
/r/askTRP13/05/19 03:41 PM
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Just jumping in here for some dialogue and clarification of your ideas. I agree that the mask/form/persona of a girl in this context is the most uninhibited, unadulterated, and basest representation of her primal/instinctual behaviors (I think this is your point as well). ​ Examples of this persona in full bloom can be observed at music festivals, spring break in Tulum, or out on the prowl in a foreign ruin bar. In situations like these, there is little concern for damage to her reputation or re…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/19 04:02 PM
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agree 100%. I've been running hypertrophy variations on 5/3/1/ for years and think it serves aesthetics pretty well all the while inching up the main lifts--just to understand correctly, are you promoting this 8x8 as an aesthetics program? Might try it out
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 03:02 PM
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Not to hijack this thread, but do you have any tips for improving one's calibration in this regard? I'd assume the go-to is isolate and escalate, which usually uncovers their interest, any other ideas?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 04:16 PM
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That last sentence hit hard-I guess that explains the droves of gay men hitting on me but relatively few women.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 04:27 AM
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This reads like a scene from one of Connery's Bond films.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/18 03:02 PM
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strong username to drug intake area ratio
/r/TheRedPill01/11/18 06:36 PM
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It’s easy to come off that way if you handle it incorrectly. I’m guessing you would just let the girl’s friend walk over you?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 04:57 PM
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What about when enforcing boundaries? Does this fall in the domain of negative attention? For instance, I’m talking with a girl I know and her friend shows up and interrupts the conversation impolitely to say hi to her friend. Would assertively (and in a non needy way) explaining that interrupting two people engaged in conversation is incorrect be a bad move? I’ve done this before and I don’t think the woman sees it as validation.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 02:02 AM
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Is there a workaround for this?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/18 05:50 PM
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Well written, engaging, and accurate...welcome back
/r/TheRedPill07/06/18 08:53 PM
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I see this nuanced debate from time to time on here and it’s one of the most intriguing. Usually, the people who say ‘The ripped good looking guy who will rock their world in bed trumps the high status guy, 100%’ have not observed powerful high status men have their way with women in real life. It’s a bit of a different environment than a gym. These high status men have a waiting list of women vying for sex with them, for free, NSA. At the parties these men attend, there are also top-tier models…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 08:30 PM
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Would you be able to recommend a post/more literature on this? Your perspective rings most true to me, and it's a refreshing viewpoint compared to the "just approach the girl and you're instantly attractive because you approached" stuff being peddled around.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 02:41 PM
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Any book/article recommendations on this gem of advice?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:55 PM
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Agreed, I notice the shift too. Maybe a chess analogy will get us further in this discussion. In a chess game, one uses Tactics (Forks, Pins, Discovered Attack, etc.) to work their way into an advantageous position, and Strategy (Control of the Center, take more Space than opponent, etc.) as a rudder to steer the game into their domain, maximizing their strength in a zero-sum manner. Without Strategy to conduct one's game, proper execution of Tactics will not suffice to overcome a strategically …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 06:51 PM
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Great post OP, btw, perhaps you can share ways in which you've managed to hone your EQ? It seems EQ and Frame are two of the more complex attributes to 'max out'. Awaiting your next post.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 05:54 PM
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I've seen the 'more-common occurrence' to certainly be true, but was never able to wrap my head around it. Girls who enjoy being choked, hit, handled quite roughly, etc. Why would this set of childhood experiences, ostensibly traumatic at the time, now be a source of sexual pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:00 PM
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This.. loved the post but he's right. Would love some elaboration on how you deviate from the TRP norms regarding empathy and connecting with women on this level.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/18 11:07 PM
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beautiful
/r/askTRP28/01/18 05:55 PM
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I'd like your input here, but as someone who is in and out of these social circles (mostly old money upper million/billionaires, but also go to the parties where celebs are), I would say that social proof is more attractive to women than the 'extreme wealth'. This may just boil down to the fact that women innately value social proof more than an inordinate stockpile of currency. Of course, extreme wealth contributes to social proof, but regarding attraction, I notice it is less a contributor tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:17 PM
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This hits home for me. Mind elaborating on the differences you made in attitude/aesthetics/mindset/etc. that elevated you from some masculine presence to 'high-octane'?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 03:49 PM
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Good post, lots of insight. Which euro party island would you recommend? I was considering Mallorca, ever been?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:40 PM
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A good post on this would be well appreciated, standing by...
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 06:45 PM
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Looking more for the damage control tips, not "don't drink if you don't want to get drunk", but thanks
/r/askTRP23/12/17 11:02 PM
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Last two paragraphs are gold. It’s on her to qualify herself to you when you give off this vibe. I guess the trick is balancing the virility/sexual vibe with the “quality yourself” vibe.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 03:23 AM
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What is required in a man to fuck them within 10 minutes? Assuming it’s consensual of course.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 03:39 AM
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I’ve had girls say, as we’re nearing the end of the night on the first time hanging out, “I don’t know what you think’s gonna happen,” or something similar. Only to be balls deep in them 15 minutes later.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:30 AM
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You don't want to be too sensitive to her signals, because women advertise their current state, not the state that would be the result of your actions. Ignore the "women directly mysteriously communicate their desires", they do not. The communicate ambiguously, and her response to escalation is a better judge of where she's at (and demonstration of your confidence) than either asking or looking for signals (both of which relate to current rather than possible state). gold..The banter and aloof/c…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 04:05 AM
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Definitely. I'm at a pretty good level of physical attractiveness, but also very mindful of the clear difference between my level and a top-tier model level. I can't help but recognize the claim that abundance, outcome independence, and to a lesser extent status and mission, all trickle down from physical attractiveness. My best rationalization is that if you happen to meet the threshold in physical attractiveness (ex. Cassel is unorthodoxically attractive, but his appeal comes almost subconciou…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:55 AM
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Good point on Cassel. One of my favorites and a prime example of charisma. What would you say gives him his swagger/confidence? Something makes me think he had it before he became famous.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 04:08 AM
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So basically Conor Mcgregor
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 11:44 PM
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I've heard this too.. wonder what factors give the "you can just tell he'll be so rough" vibe. Sounds like ripped, tats, and edgy?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/17 09:07 PM
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My guess is she would have to come into fairly regular contact with such guys, or one such guy, many many times before getting up the guts and working out the logistics to make that happen GIVEN THAT RISK. Again, women are hypergamous. I don't think that's accurate. Don't get me wrong, I agree with most of your reply. Stay the man she fell for, 100%. I even slightly agree with 'her need to branch swing won't be present'. If you're on your A-game, running dread, high SMV, etc., chances are her le…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 03:22 AM
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I agree with both of your replies here. You are most likely a fair amount higher SMV than your wife, and therefore you have fucked her friends, enemies, roommates, etc. Keep in mind, should you be closer to her SMV, this is much less likely to be true. The strange part of this is that you believe her to be loyal (90% sure), while she's fairly certain you're consistently cheating on her (only lacking hard evidence). Sure, you've almost been caught a few times, and have gotten away with it countle…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 11:17 PM
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Agree with everything.. a refreshing post after what has been looming in this sub lately. Improve your attractiveness/SMV until women start being attracted to you Would rather a sub be focused on this
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 05:42 AM
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100% correct.. makes me wish I had a younger sister.. almost every guy I know with a younger sister has almost natural/effortless game.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 03:53 AM
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You meet a cute girl. It's carefree and fun. You hang out Friday... she wants to hang out Saturday and you're free, so sounds fun. She'll come over Sunday "just to grab my toothbrush" and before you know it you're having sex, and she's in the area on Monday... and before you know it you have a girlfriend. And in the short term, this is an IMPROVEMENT to your life. You gradually don't notice the costs to your life.... you don't notice you're losing other options and friends.... and it's always ea…
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 12:24 AM
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Anyone have any definitive advice for correcting this properly? I've had it for a long time and noticed you has a beneficial effect, but besides yoga a few times a week and that oft posted YouTube video above, are there any other exercises to fix this?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:41 AM
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Good summation. Could you elaborate a bit on this point? So make sure to periodically reign in anything you do for her to lower her expectations again I presume it means keep your investment in her set at a certain level, and don't let her take anything for granted? Regarding the responding to her texts, do you mean periodically ignoring some texts/going rogue (dread?) What are the surefire ways to keep her expectations in check? It seems like this is an essential and beneficial factor in dealin…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:55 PM
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Yeah, very interesting view. It's only hard to digest because LOOKS tend to influence Power (specifically the Status subset of Power) heavily. I still can't see someone who is in the top 1% of power from money/status (not even sure how to quantify this, maybe a Sultan in Dubai? In which percentile would Jack Nicholson even fall?) would win out, for a one time bang, over one in the top 1% of looks. It is certainly not an either/or topic. And hopefully any stubbornness in understanding or yielding…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 09:11 PM
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Interesting argument. Two TRP masters whose opinions here are polarized. My dad used to joke around, "If Jennifer Anniston and Penelope Cruz were both 20$ hookers, which one would you pick?" See, for MEN, if we instead had to pick between the female equivalent of Jonah Hill (famous, powerful, but not particularly attractive) and the random 20 year old HBB, there's no hesitation in our choice of who to bang. Thompson, do you really believe the biological wiring of females is different such that t…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 08:10 PM
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Yeah, ignore seems the safest choice. My intentions with her are f-buddy when I'm in town, but that would be months away..I don't think ignoring her attempt to reach out now would ruin my chances of banging her in a few months (perhaps the contrary), do you?
/r/askTRP24/05/17 06:31 AM
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No intention on ever dating this chick again. Just interested in how to respond or to ignore
/r/askTRP24/05/17 05:17 AM
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This. The post reads as a somber but optimistic view on a past relationship in which the upper-hand was allegedly maintained. Kudos to OP for capitalizing on his SMV to properly frame the relationship, but let us all realize that the SMV difference between him and his ex was the key to success. Perhaps most interesting to me was the part on finding the right balance of emotional detachment-I tend (and I'm sure I'm not the minority here) to err on the side of more detached than not, having been i…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 02:02 AM
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"Dont be unlikeable" could someone elaborate on this? Usually being attractive and not being completely insufferable is enough to not be unlikeable.. correct?
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 12:58 AM
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I think it's important to add that even in an LTR, when a girl has emotionally invested in you (and displayed it), it is still imperative to invest in a 2:3 ratio, yours to hers. Many of the symptoms of emotional investment listed here (clouding your vision, sapping your mental energy) are ubiquitous in LTRs. IMO, the woman in an LTR thrives off of this, and when she feels secure in your investment, she experiences the polar opposite of these symptoms--clear headed, determined, hypergamous.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 05:21 AM
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So don't react? I can detect that they are ploys to get a reaction out of me, but I'm not quite sure how to convey that persona of non-reactive.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 08:21 PM
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I've listened to Patrice and I love his stuff. My question is definitely frame related but a bit more specific...can't recall Patrice ever talking about it, he might just say "take the L" for this
/r/askTRP21/01/17 07:50 AM
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I agree that having women in the hobby category is likely the healthiest perspective to maintain. Could you elaborate on why women (attractive ones with intriguing/intelligent displays of personality) are able to pull emotional strings with us in a way that our other hobbies cannot? And is it for this reason that it is best to keep them as a hobby, only engaging in them when it's time to fuck or shoot the shit?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:00 PM
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What a genius analogy...it's a shame he's not around for more commentary.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/16 08:48 AM
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Why would they beg for..their own commitment? That's obviously something within their own power to give or withhold. The only thing they can beg for is their partner's (OUR) commitment... Are you saying that they prefer the man to be exclusive to them, but have no particular yearning to reciprocate the exclusivity?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 04:14 PM
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women are more attuned to the emotional states of others The smoothest, most successful, almost "bravado on auto-pilot" encounters I've had with women have been directly after banging a new girl. The effect usually lasts a few days, for me at least. Colloquially we have heard that girls can "smell it on you," but in accordance with this post I'd argue it's likely their natural aptitude for 'Emotional Empathy". I'd also like to note that banging an old plate or someone in the regular rotation doe…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 07:11 PM
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Oooh nice find. Yeah, that Tomassi rule resonates well. I agree with you (and him). Plate at best. Just wanted some clarification on the optimal dynamic to hold. She really wants to get back together, "official." I guess I'll just try my best to ease into plate territory and learn as much as I can from the experience before it fizzles out.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 08:05 PM
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Pythagoras recommended keeping a daily journal. Pythagoras was a smart dude. Supposedly he would review the day's events every night, writing out any emotions, confusions, or peripeteia in his thoughts. He claimed this as an antidote to cloudy thought (today known as brain fog) and fragmented speech.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 06:00 PM
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/r/TheRedPill01/05/16 11:28 PM
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Good stuff gale...you might have rediscovered what has already been named as the door in the face technique. Also in Cialdini's Influence. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Door-in-the-face_technique
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 01:52 AM
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An eloquent revisit of many of pook's topics...good post
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 05:23 PM
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I would highly recommend a sales book or two. How to Win Friends by Carnegie is a gem, of course, but to that I would add Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:02 PM
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Nice, 5 essential books... Have you read any Ayn Rand, and would you recommend any of her works?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:33 PM
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Anyone else have good resources on meditation? Not the chanting/humming chakra stuff-the stuff OP mentioned. Checked out Michael Sealey, any other recomendations?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 05:30 PM
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Would you mind recommending a good diet, instead of adding nothing useful at all?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/15 06:46 PM
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clearly written and reminiscent of Patrice as always...good read
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:37 AM
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just have to confirm this situation and hope OP acknowledges that although girls can make the outcome sweet and comforting, in this instance 'all is good' is likely a falsehood reached through deceit. i have been witness to and on the giving end of 'guilt-free adventuring' joke several times. it's best you find out why she isn't bringing you 9/10 blondes and asking for a threesome instead.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:21 AM
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