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Unless you plan to travel, or live in a major city with high risk demographics, waiting until the child is 18-24 months for their immune and generally all systems to develop more is a good compromise.
/r/RPChristians13/07/26 04:20 AM
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100% - being grateful for what I have, what I am capable of daily/monthly/long term, and owning the choices I've made for my life now that I built something real with my own hands and mind, vs what I "could have been/done" if chose differently, has been a huge part of finding the right balance for me of riding my edge without always having my finger on the trigger. I still have a ton of work to do, so satisfaction with what I have now doesn't equal complacency or lack of vision for where I'm bui…
/r/askMRP03/06/26 08:43 PM
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Build habits - consistency will get you farther than your day to day feelings or assumed "capacity" after a long day ("we always go for a walk around the block after dinner before the bedtime routine") Being energizing is not the goal, it is the by-product. You are enervating because you are lazy and your inner shit is not sorted yet. Have you ever started a project at home or at work where you were super hyped every day for weeks to get to work on it? Everything else you had to do you glady too…
/r/askMRP03/06/26 04:17 PM
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To be attractive to anyone, you need to be scarce. Maybe that's the proper reformulation: "If I'm not constantly present, it makes me more attractive in general"? Do you understand why HVM are not available much, and why this can make them more attractive at a fundamental level? Because what you're describing is an attempt to artificially manufacture this natural effect caused by the real root of what makes a HVM, a HVM. You can't fake this and should stop trying to figure out how to do so becau…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/26 03:55 PM
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I'm operating within a covert contract even though I thought I was not. the "doing xyz should result in her being more attracted to me" is technically correct, but the wrong mindset. It's making me performative, dependent on her response, and borderline resentful when things don't work out. I need to be completely outcome independent, own my shit, be missional not as a means to an end, and not worry about her as much. Otherwise I'm a dancing monkey This still isnt really the correct mindset, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/26 08:58 PM
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You literally just described a covert contract. Until you can understand that my advice will fall on closed ears
/r/askMRP28/05/26 08:08 PM
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Just from your title alone - you have some deep seated covert contracts. I didn't read your post because I don't have to to know what's happening. That's how obvious you are to a complete stranger on the internet. Imagine what your wife sees.
/r/askMRP28/05/26 06:56 PM
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You're the back up plan bro She's been using you for attention while getting dicked down by anything that moves where she lives. Any chick that says she "didn't know mini golf with a coworker was a date" is gaslighting you. She is known as single at work, maybe you're known as a cousin or an old friend from school, if you come up at all. Enjoy those sloppy fourths
/r/askMRP27/05/26 05:56 PM
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The fact this comment went so far over your head tells us exactly where you're at. If you have read, you need to start over and read the main sub posts again. If you havent been OYS Weekly, you need to start. You're so far up her ass you cant even comprehend that hes talking about basics FOR YOU. "She doesnt matter" Why would he bother talking about your wife?
/r/askMRP09/05/26 09:42 PM
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This guy is about to get divorce raped so hard with no lube Most of the advice "ask her why she said that" is completely tarded. If she's going so far as to fake audio recordings of OP physically threatening her, asking her will just alert her that he's onto her. Pointless. If she isnt doing all that and honestly misinterpreted you, still pointless. Move on. It was her mistake or her purposeful action - either way is irrelevant to what OP should be doing. You need to be 100% covert ops if you de…
/r/askMRP23/04/26 12:35 AM
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r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/26 02:48 PM
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Your problem is ego. You won't even allow the possibility that you're the issue. Do the work. The real work, not the work you've been avoiding with surface level busy bee shit this whole time. OYS Weekly or keep living your next best life.
/r/askMRP11/02/26 05:56 PM
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She's "do nothing, say nothing, defer defer defer" with you, right now because its what you looked for specifically. She's afraid she'll make a mistake and shatter your Madonna image of her. She has options throwing themselves at her from every angle possible constantly. Newsflash: shes a human being. In her 20s. Unless she has extreme trauma, she gets horny regularly. She has emotions, desires, etc.(shes not showing you who she really is yet because you havent shown her who she should be - ie, …
/r/RPChristians17/01/26 04:04 PM
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She's "do nothing, say nothing, defer defer defer" with you, right now because its what you looked for specifically. She's afraid she'll make a mistake and shatter your Madonna image of her. She has options throwing themselves at her from every angle possible constantly. Newsflash: shes a human being. In her 20s. Unless she has extreme trauma, she gets horny regularly. She has emotions, desires, etc.(shes not showing you who she really is yet because you havent shown her who she should be - ie, …
/r/askMRP17/01/26 03:43 PM
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No difference You're still a tard
/r/askMRP21/11/25 01:30 AM
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But same issue? Go figure. Wonder what the common denominator is?
/r/askMRP21/11/25 12:25 AM
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He's a classic female - he wants to have his cake and eat it too without doing the work to earn it or burn the calories afterwards
/r/askMRP20/11/25 03:39 PM
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Wrong. I know his wife because I'm married to her. Mine regularly says "no one can ever know I'm sexual but you" "I don't want the kids to hear!" "What if someone sees?!" Etc etc etc Didn't stop her from blowing me in a family member's bathroom in broad daylight then sitting on the edge of the sink while I fucked her brains out after she got hot n bothered by me during our time at the pool. Or from going outside and laying on a towel in our yard right outside the kid's bedroom window under the s…
/r/askMRP27/10/25 10:55 AM
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This is the age old argument between "vetting" and just having solid boundaries and Frame. One is looking for a unicorn that somehow you think will always stay a perfect unicorn for just you if you did find her. The other embraces "she's not yours, its just your turn" and recognizes that ironclad Frame eliminates these problems for you without all the inspector gadget BS, because women who are too damaged by a high body count literally self implode when faced with a solid Frame and boundaries. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/25 10:25 AM
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Just a reminder for all you boring skinny fat fuck lurkers out there... this applies to all of you context: little sex For you now there is NO sex With you, an unattractive negotiating bitch she has several time brought up this as a problem (no possibility for sex) lately Because you're always pushing for it and you're a whiney little bitch who is boring, has no Frame, no Game, and just sucks in general (yes i lift, smell good, is not fat an so on) Skinny fat and fat are the same thing You're no…
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:39 PM
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You have roommates and still think you're the prize and that you have your shit together? What the actual fuck? Your situation is worse than I thought. Maybe try reading the sidebar itself and not just random books from it. Maybe try posting in the OYS Weekly thread. Maybe try realizing that she doesn't matter. Get to work and quit naval gazing.
/r/askMRP16/10/25 03:29 AM
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You're delusional. You literally said you were the one putting in all the effort not that long ago until you "put strong boundaries" and now you're enjoying things again. Where were those boundaries before when you were allegedly dating more than one girl? How were you even able to put so much effort in with your "so busy schedule" and "late nights working" The problem is clearly you and your false sense of how things are in your own life vs reality. If you want her to cook for you and come over…
/r/askMRP16/10/25 02:50 AM
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This, OP. Separating her (valid for her) emotions from reality is important... for you. Don't try to get her to do that because women don't work that way. If/when appropriate, you can validate her emotions without changing the actions you'll be taking. (Also known as comfort) If her emotions aren't valid, then its your job to ignore and do you, and long term to lead teach guide her to being better (also known loosely as passing fitness tests)
/r/RPChristians10/09/25 11:37 PM
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What time did you want me to fuck your wife for you?
/r/askMRP07/09/25 04:59 PM
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A little slow in some spots pacing wise, but very authentic to ancient Hawaii from everything I was taught in school. The acting is good too.
/r/askMRP03/09/25 02:07 AM
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How would you know what I am or am not now? Old post history? Judge much? Maybe make a counterpoint to my actual argument. For someone who doesn't even know the basic posting rules of the sub you're coming in hot bub
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 09:18 PM
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And anyone who can't find it themselves is part of the problem anyway
/r/askMRP26/08/25 09:04 PM
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I'll have an unpopular opinion here... But unless she is showing you she is 100% dedicated to getting well (herself, personally) and does that consistently for at least 12 months straight (never misses therapy, always takes meds, etc) Then 1. DO NOT get her pregnant 2. at the end of 12 months, divorce her. Unless you're willing to stay in a childless marriage until you die in which case you stay married to her. You have a duty to your unborn children to make sure that they will not come into the…
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 08:58 PM
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At your age? Why are you seeing one girl twice a week instead of two girls once or twice a week each? Let them cater to you, let them earn your commitment. They will instinctively know the other exists and want to compete for your time and attention, especially if you've made it clear you're not exclusive. LTR should be very little effort on your end, you just keep doing what you'd already be doing anyway, just focused on one girl instead of many. You have no Abundance. You are not the Prize.
/r/askMRP24/08/25 04:49 PM
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You haven't found the right therapist You need someone who you start with the goal you've presented here, who can help you dig out the roots of your real issues. Ready to dive deep and cut through your BS - and you have to be truly honest with them while introspecting during sessions - no BS from you to the best of your ability when they ask piercing questions
/r/askMRP14/08/25 04:48 AM
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Tell gpt to search the YouTube channel Squat University for any content related to your specific shoulder symptoms. It's possible its a lack of mobility issue that's causing you pain, as a tight/locked up part of that muscle group isnt pulling its weight and others nearby are trying to compensate.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/25 06:18 PM
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Similar, but my shoulder-demon came from an authoritarian control-freak stepfather, and it didn't tell me to apologize because I hurt people's feelings, it told me that because I wasn't the perfect, highest performing version of myself at every moment during every choice of my life, that meant I was a piece of shit who would always be a piece of shit. Didn't tell me to quit or give up, I just had to know that I was shitty. Had to sit in the failure. I was just a loser. When I found MRP, part of …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/25 06:46 PM
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So much DEER. No one cares. You're not special. Everything you wrote is thousands or millions of men's story, word for word. Not only that, its all been addressed nearly continuously in the sidebar posts on the main sub for a decade at this point. Its torn apart repeatedly every week in the OYS Thread where the real work is done. Think you're being a compassionate and considerate man Since when do women get wet over compassion and consideration? Wtf? This theme is repeated throughout your post a…
/r/askMRP26/06/25 11:15 PM
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And yet you stayed Sounds like YOU made a choice, over and over again, to decline the wild stuff as a staple in your life. Every time you've stayed you made that choice again You need to own up (to yourself, not to her) that she was honest from the start - its you who has been lying. Can you fix this with SGM? Maybe (doubtful tbh) Do you need to be willing to rip up the roots you grew yourself if you want to walk to find water in the desert? 100% Stop being a half assed pussy - either go get wha…
/r/askMRP26/06/25 03:17 PM
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If "I used to be Alfa but now I've got Oneitis" had a spirit animal, it would be you
/r/askMRP24/06/25 12:26 AM
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Fake it til you make it bub! Good for you, we've all been there
/r/askMRP08/06/25 06:41 PM
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But only because you're trying to win her back 😂
/r/askMRP07/06/25 10:29 PM
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"Never dig through the trash"
/r/askMRP07/06/25 10:29 PM
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She her She She her She she I wonder why when your head's this far up her Frame? MRP fixes the man not the relationship or the behavior of the woman Once you start focusing your attention where it should be you might start to see some progress
/r/askMRP04/06/25 06:18 PM
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Why is this so fucking hard? You don't have to have a performative massive anger chastising moment to correct a poor behavior from your wife on the spot. Wtf man does this happen with your kids whenever they're misbehaving too? You put up with it until they piss you off enough that you "explode" and reset the dynamic? You could also be praising when she's doing the opposite of these poor behaviors and is regulating herself (you should be able to tell) and/or is expressing gratitude for what you …
/r/askMRP25/05/25 06:41 PM
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spent hundreds on dates How to tell you have no Frame, no Game, and not even basic social skills - spending any amount of money on a first date is completely unnecessary if you're a man of value with any amount of social awareness. The real reason you're not getting American pussy isn't because you "opted out" it's because you fail every time and eventually got pissy and just decided to take your ball and go home like a little kid. That's your ego trying to protect you from taking personal accou…
/r/askMRP25/05/25 01:20 AM
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I finally internalized that it's a build-your-own adventure once you beat the tutorial, and I don't have to sprint everywhere I decide to go. I've acting like it for years, but only within the last 1 or 2 did it become organic and acceptable to go at my own pace. My latest success has been finally seeking real, deep treatment for my PTSD. Turns out a lot of the other things in my life I've been calibrating/compensating/regulating around unravel and get a lot more manageable when there isn't a su…
/r/askMRP20/05/25 02:54 PM
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I think of it as using my dick for good instead of evil 😂 How you been Horns?
/r/askMRP20/05/25 06:19 AM
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I'll say two more things about this, one is just to go the other direction as an example of a possible mindset shift that might be helpful to you. It's a bit of a ramble and it isn't new info, you can find this in the sidebar, but fuck it. If it was a Saturday (assuming both off work) and you both had To Do lists that you worked to check off throughout the day, we already talked about how it's your job to make sure you both get your well deserved "fuck break" after jobs well done. But the second…
/r/askMRP19/05/25 10:09 PM
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Why do you still have so much energy at the end of the night if you spent "all day getting shit done" My wife's got to jump me as I walk through the bedroom door to have a shot at getting any dick at the end of the day, I'm fucking wiped. And if I'm the one who wants to fuck, I don't get excuses because I set the conditions up so that everything is easy and fun as we transition into it - either while the iron is hot in the day regardless of kids or other obstacles, or later in the evening after …
/r/askMRP19/05/25 09:11 PM
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Be the Oak when she's being shitty, and offer comfort when she isn't being shitty. It's really that simple. Pay a bit more attention than you normally would to giving praise for things to help keep her spirits up. There may be a handful of times, especially during second trimester, when it's shitty/comfort and you should ignore the shit and just offer comfort anyway even though it's annoying. If you're doing what you should be, either she'll still be horny up until the last few days, or when you…
/r/askMRP19/05/25 08:56 PM
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Lots of great answers for the masses out there already. I'll just add this: If you read this and think "OP has a point! I don't want my wife to be afraid of (losing) me! I just want her to fuck me because I'm awesome at life, including meeting all her needs/wants/etc" Then I'm sorry but you've missed the plot entirely. You need to read (or reread) Rollo's books, because you clearly don't understand the psychology of attraction. You're thinking like a man, and expecting that how things work for y…
/r/askMRP24/04/25 05:51 PM
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Take note newbies, this is what happens when: You look for cheat codes instead of internalizing material from the sidebar You drop into exclusivity with the first girl to suck your dick submissively after a bad break up You don't actually work on unfucking your mindset and continue to be a chump seeking external validation from new pussy and special sex acts like a TRP dancing monkey moron You stop the few good things you had going for yourself like lifting and eating right in favor of empty dop…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 11:49 PM
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You clearly did this to get some kind of reaction out of your wife - you made this big explanation to us of not telling her, so don't bother denying it - and now that you got a reaction you want us to tell you what your wife's reaction means is happening in her head? Really think about this, don't just give the first thought that comes to mind - why do you care so much what she's doing/saying/thinking, or her motivation behind it? What's the end goal there? Dancing monkey much?
/r/askMRP26/03/25 10:51 PM
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Go ahead, keep failing the shit tests. Maybe if you understood the difference between a shit test and a comfort test, you'd understand why you're an idiot.
/r/askMRP10/02/25 09:29 AM
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"Do you even care about me?" "Yes - about your ass mostly" "No but really, it's not funny. Do you care?" "Come with me baby, let me show you exactly how much" (escalate to sex) If she rejects you or says you only want her for sex, then you're back into the AM/A&A loop - "Not true! I love you barefoot in the kitchen too 😁" These are all basics. You suck. She's drawing you into her Frame everytime you break from being playful and get serious like she is. Sidebar. Post to OYS Weekly. Do the fucking…
/r/askMRP10/02/25 07:05 AM
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I also thought about what I should say when she finds out. I thought about just plainly saying that I went through her phone and saw interactions between her and her drug dealer and also that I know she's been talking to her ex on Snapchat and that I'm through with the marriage. Part of me thinks I should just keep this info to myself to mitigate any contentious behavior on her part from me knowing what I know. Why say anything? What is the goal, the desired end result from telling her you know?…
/r/askMRP09/02/25 01:07 AM
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She's not in your frame, because you don't have any. There's a reason why you can't get a decent woman in the US, and it has nothing to do with promiscuity. MRP fixes the man, so at least you're in the right place... maybe there's hope for you yet You're not special. Sidebar STFU OYS Weekly Thread
/r/askMRP08/02/25 09:54 PM
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No matter what, you stay living in your house. Make sure you get as much alone time with/caring for the kids as possible without her around/involved, showing you can handle 50/50 custody (if possible/practical for your life - this will help greatly reduce child support) and things like dropping them at school or picking up will help a lot towards showing this. Keep records of all these kinds of things you do. Sounds like you've got two options here for how to proceed. Play the better beta, beg f…
/r/askMRP28/01/25 10:50 PM
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Tell me you have a scarcity mindset while trying to tell me you don't have a scarcity mindset.
/r/askMRP28/01/25 09:49 PM
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This post can be summed up in one sentence: SHE does not matter. Low value, low effort, fluff
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/25 06:12 PM
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MRP would say to withdraw attention, how is that different from discipline? Does Christ discipline the Church, or is it simply a natural consequence of sin? Until we repent, are we not still in a state removed from God? The same applies to removing time and attention. The man is not punishing the wife to try to teach her a lesson or force her submission. When the wife through her actions creates a situation where the HVM's precious time is being squandered, he sees his greatest gift being wasted…
/r/RPChristians10/01/25 07:58 AM
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I barely give my gf a few minutes of a phone call at night. This reply OP made to another comment is hilarious. OP, your "LTR" who doesn't even want to see you that much is at best a plate based on her own actions, but she's getting "girlfriend" level time and attention from you, and lives in your head 24/7 as you try to figure out how to monkey dance so she will play with your swizzle stick more often. Are you even fucking anyone else? Is your Game and Frame even low level good enough that you …
/r/askMRP08/01/25 04:44 PM
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You don't have enough to do. Get a hobby or a new passion project related to your mission. Be someone you think is worthwhile outside your wife and your nuclear family. You're pretty clearly having sex for validation. Stop it. Search the main sub for this, there's a couple great posts about it. Eventually your wife is going to get tired or resentful of you needing her to do things to make you feel like a man... before that happens maybe fix that and read that book you mention not having read yet…
/r/askMRP02/01/25 04:58 PM
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Pay attention to her actions, not her words. Remember to add "right now" to the end of everything she says as she's emoting. As reminded already by others, verbal intercourse is optional. You obviously have shit boundaries man, I wouldn't tolerate that kind of behavior with any regularity.
/r/askMRP04/12/24 12:43 AM
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With how you have your finances set up, why even bring this up? Makes no sense at all to tell her about this. Get better goals that have a path forward for your family to move towards together. "I dream of buying mother a house because my favorite book is Oedipus" just makes you look like a fucking loser who is in his mom's Frame long after being on your own. Learn how to properly STFU, dumbass - OPSEC
/r/askMRP16/11/24 05:02 PM
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This isn't banter, its womanese. I instantly understand why you were banned.
/r/askMRP26/10/24 08:11 PM
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There are posts in the main sub about this (cheating, frame while cheating, getting caught, etc) Go find them and read them. No I don't have links, but I recall reading them.
/r/askMRP14/10/24 07:20 PM
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You want us to confirm you're a HVM, that's why you're really here. External Validation. 😂 I'm laughing because I've been there, we all have. And better you come seeking it here than from your ex, another woman, or society at large. Maybe at one point you did read the sidebar, but you've forgotten most of the important parts. It's time to read it all again in addition to posting in OYS Weekly for accountability. And like others have said... no reason to date another single mom. Plate them if the…
/r/askMRP12/10/24 07:45 PM
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u/hornsofapathy I sent you a message
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/24 10:25 AM
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Wow bro. You suck so bad that your ex prefers a dude without a dick. Should probably unfuck yourself before spending time and energy on spilled milk, don't you think?
/r/askMRP09/09/24 12:45 AM
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What part of "doesn't matter, got laid" do you not understand?
/r/askMRP04/09/24 10:49 PM
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Deflection.
/r/askMRP30/08/24 07:11 PM
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You're getting so many totally on point answers yet can't pull your ego off your eyes for long enough to actually see what's right in front of your face. It's sad really. Unless you actually WANT to be an uninviting asshole, you did handle this terribly. Likely have been for years. You keep coming here to get feedback, then continue to ignore the actual info you need in answers that guys are giving you. Instead you ignore, deflect, or twist what they're saying to suit your ego shielded view of y…
/r/askMRP30/08/24 07:08 PM
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The fact your wife is still giving you duty sex despite that level of "morning sickness" and overall nausea is a good sign. Channel your extra energy and sexual frustration into your MAP.
/r/askMRP27/08/24 08:08 PM
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Better sex than "right now" or better sex "in general from the relationship as a whole outside of pregnancy"? There's a big difference. In the first trimester women's libido goes way down. (Imagine feeling like you are about to puke any second 50% of the time all day everyday for 3 months straight, plus disturbed sleep. Might affect your libido, no?) 2nd trimester it comes right back though. 3rd trimester generally depends on the woman. Game, Kino, and escalation still apply - more so in fact. Y…
/r/askMRP27/08/24 08:03 PM
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You made you a beta bitch. Not her. Stop externalizing your own choices.
/r/askMRP26/08/24 03:09 AM
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Remember that you can't (and shouldn't try to) control your son or his reaction to this. His brain is not fully developed yet and he literally doesn't have the same brain capacity to self-regulate and think things through that you do in the heat of the moment. Once he knows, this may implode everything you have going on right now. He may decide he no longer respects you, for example. And be dead set on that feeling for some time. That would be the worst case for me personally if I put myself in …
/r/askMRP15/08/24 09:13 AM
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The old Millennial Red Pill tactics of 2013 do not work on Zoomers I'm guessing for you, they never worked at all. Frame and Game in the real world beat social media every single time, no matter the generation of women. If anything it's been my experience that younger generations (18-24) are less perceptive than their older counterparts (27-35) and you basically have to metaphorically hit them over the head with a club and deal blunt force trauma with your dominance vs with older women it is oft…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/24 11:30 PM
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No no no. You need the splash guard or you'll get tuhha on your good trousers
/r/askMRP20/07/24 05:41 PM
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Please come back and let us know when the hysterical bonding ends, and when you figure out that she's already cheated. PS with all the crazy sex don't be surprised if there's a pregnancy that you find out is due "just a little early" compared to when you started getting the crazy sex
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/24 10:09 PM
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Find a boring cunt with no creativity or initiative. Like you! You'll get along great. This topic has been covered so extensively that should you have performed even the most basic of searches, you'd have found a string a mile long to start pulling on. Instead, you came here with flowery language to ask the vets to spoon feed you. Fuck off.
/r/askMRP07/07/24 09:18 AM
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You posted to OYS 3 times, four months ago. Then stopped. Why? The secret sauce you're missing is in OYS Weekly. Get back in there every week like your shit life depends on it and learn to stop typing the words "she" and "her"
/r/askMRP18/06/24 04:49 AM
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It plugs into your butt
/r/askMRP12/06/24 06:36 PM
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There was literally within the last week/month a post about how to have a home office and boundaries about that office so you aren't disturbed while in there. You're a lazy boring askhole, aren't you, aren't you boy? Yes. Who's a lazy boring askhole? You are! You are! Here's a bone for you, go get it boy! https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/SnCPocAbZV
/r/askMRP12/06/24 06:29 PM
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I'm not telling you shit until you post in OYS, where you fucking belong. Your problems are way bigger than this post or a single answer from some dumbass on the internet can solve.
/r/askMRP08/06/24 02:55 PM
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Maybe there is a magic bullet. If you think about it, we hand them out like candy - every guy who comes here gets four magic bullets: Sidebar Lift STFU OYS Weekly Thread Not our fault the askholes won't load the gun...
/r/askMRP07/06/24 12:25 AM
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That you've only just now realized was actually rotten underneath Do you fuck as often as you want/initiate? Be honest She was probably so busy raising the kids that she didn't have time to be bored and have wandering eyes. Now they mostly take care of themselves and you're finding out things aren't as you thought. You got complacent. Just focus on you and fix it. Sidebar. Lift. STFU. OYS Weekly. There is no magic bullet
/r/askMRP04/06/24 08:25 PM
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Maybe you're too stupid for dread 🤔
/r/askMRP03/06/24 09:51 PM
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To me red pill is acceptance of biological realities of sexual nature of woman. To you it seems redpill is men being more masculine and competent. It's both, really one and the same thing just different parts of saying that same thing. Masculine, competent men trigger the biological nature of women's sexuality. And like I mentioned, even if she consciously thinks she wants you to be "equal partners" or whatever, biologically, that's not at all what she wants/is attracted to. She wants you to be …
/r/askMRP01/06/24 03:41 PM
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I don't disagree with you about her being wife just meaning more/different logistics to a plate. And I don't think I said anything about a wife being special. What does that have to do with "your wife wants you to take the blue pill" being false?
/r/askMRP01/06/24 03:12 PM
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Society wants you to take the blue pill True your wife wants you to take the blue pill. False. If your wife is healthy and you've got your shit together, she secretly (or not so secretly) wants you to win. She may not even realize it herself if she's still brainwashed by society. Healthy wives don't want to be with a beta loser. She tests you because she needs to see that you're at minimum able to handle a shit test from her, before you go out into the world as her mate. Pass, and attraction bui…
/r/askMRP01/06/24 02:05 PM
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see it referenced here a lot as something that can bring problems and should be avoided. It's only a problem when the man has no Frame, no Game, and no Leadership. Is that you? For guys with those bases covered, it's mostly heaven on earth. YMMV.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 06:46 AM
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We've pretty much contracted that there'll be no fucking until I've had my nuts sorted If you agreed to this then why the fuck are you complaining? WTF? Ever heard of pulling out or NFP you fucking moron? varicocele I think I'll call you Bubble Nuts. and work on frame control. I realised I do this pretty well naturally and find it easy with the wife (have full agency to exercise my frame whenever I want [critique?]) so going to try it with others. https://youtube.com/shorts/0kja30aeU80?si=9lP53p…
/r/askMRP29/05/24 04:44 AM
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childish behavior What a fucking dumbass. What healthy, properly adjusted child of any age do you know that would threaten to kill themselves because they aren't getting their way? Are you seriously this deluded?
/r/askMRP28/05/24 08:20 PM
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I lost my temper and yelled at my oldest last weekend. Volume 11. I remediated the situation immediately after the outburst It's nice that you recognized you were in the wrong based on your own metrics, and that you took accountability for it, and that you can play your wife like a fiddle back into compliance, but (assuming you want it to change) what have you done since to look inward and find the root cause of your outburst? Not seeking perfection but deeper understanding of why did I do that …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/24 01:13 AM
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Glad you decided to edit this and be honest - I was about to lay into you when I saw the emailed original version. That earlier comment is ego protection plain and simple, and is a big part of what every man going through this process needs to focus inward on. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/24 04:39 PM
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Does divorce really take this long in other states? I filed on my own (it was uncontested at least) with all the proper paperwork signed by both of us and it was signed & sealed by the judge within 4 weeks. That time frame has gotta be for the lawyers to make more billable hours... brutal
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/24 07:08 AM
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the drama related to the divorce that will absolutely ensue if this is eventually discovered. Also split off to my own phone account so I can go on bumble, tinder, hinge. The absolute fastest way to have this be discovered is for one of your wife's single bitchy friends to see your profile on one of those apps. I see you're still not just stepping on, but actively shooting yourself in the dick as often as possible... Have you read 48LOP?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/24 06:58 AM
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They may not promote it on the RPC side, but the book Sex God Method has a lot to offer for guys who need an instruction manual like you seem to. DEVI is the key, for a man that's worth a woman giving herself to. Don't Rambo it. Baby steps are key, and ensure it's when she's horny and ready for it, not just because you got excited about an idea. This is important for you because I can tell from your post and responses that you don't look all that great naked yet, so your wife's raw just for your…
/r/RPChristians23/05/24 08:10 PM
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Doesn't matter, got laid. If your problem is not getting laid any other time, you won't find the answer in trying to duplicate whatever conditions exist in her head when you are getting laid. That's called being in her Frame, dummy
/r/askMRP23/05/24 05:34 PM
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This is an honest question you shpuld answer for yourself, and probably points to your lack of progress irl too Why aren't you posting in the OYS Weekly thread? You've been making these posts since over a year ago. Same (worsening) problem the whole time because you have a partial solution from only reading the sidebar material. There's a very good reason the baseline advice given is three parts, not two. Lift. Sidebar. OYS Weekly. You're not getting anything else from me and I hope the mods loc…
/r/askMRP10/05/24 07:21 PM
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ices me out How can she ice you out, when you're too busy being awesome? This implies you're seeking her attention and paying attention to her state of being. (In her Frame) This is likely your real problem. You care way too much about where she's at, and you're giving her time and attention (whether you know it or not) that supports that kind of behavior from her
/r/askMRP10/05/24 07:16 PM
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how I never answer to her, I’m only accountable to myself You're right, I don't answer to you, but if I can trust you, I'll listen to what you say and consider it seriously You're right, I'm only accountable to myself You're right, I'm much more concerned with X y z (value you want from your woman, family/wife/mothering, etc) than I am with your career.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 07:11 PM
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The only question I have after reading all of this including comments, is this Have you sat her down and told her how your life is going to look, and what you want from the woman that will be in that life with you? Because it sounds like you're finally coming from a place of strength and OI (maybe, maybe you're full of it, and will crack like an egg, who knows) so now having that talk might actually be taken seriously. It's not a talk about her It's a talk about you, and what your life is going …
/r/askMRP10/05/24 06:41 PM
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Sorry to say, your mistake was not striking first when involving the cops. He who calls first, owns the narrative. You set up a phone or something recording audio (video better) and then the first time they hit, you CALL.
/r/askMRP10/05/24 06:35 PM
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What are you talking about? Stay plan is go plan He already said if she enters his Frame and stops competing with him he'd be fine with keeping her, she brings value
/r/askMRP10/05/24 06:28 PM
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I noticed that during this conversation I mimicked his demeanors and personality. I realized that I do this with my other project managers too. What does this say about myself? Weak frame This only says "Weak Frame" if you don't know you're doing it. I do this kind of thing in a non-submissive way sometimes, subtly, with my boss because it let's me manipulate him into believing that we have more in common than we really do. But I do it consciously, because I'm working to manipulate him so that w…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 10:59 AM
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You're fat with barely intermediate lifts. You're also boring. Get to work.
/r/askMRP07/05/24 04:33 AM
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223 is right, you need to be able to sit in your emotions and just fucking live in that for a while. If you can't sit within suffering you've created for yourself without just bailing, then you suck, and it doesn't matter what you look like on paper. You need to read the sidebar, you clearly haven't. You need to post to the OYS Weekly thread, it's your best chance at changing so you're no longer an anxiety ridden panty boy who can't figure out what to do with his life after everything was basica…
/r/askMRP07/05/24 01:26 AM
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Honestly, not a ton has changed since then in my head. Life is pretty fucking great. Most of what I've had to work on the last few years has been calibration, I was going too hard at almost everything in my life, and it was hurting my results. I wasn't getting what I really wanted. The biggest lesson I've learned since then is that sometimes, patience gets more done than just bull-rushing forward through a problem (aka - timing) That instinct to hard-charge as the default solution is still very …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/24 03:57 AM
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How tf am I first, 10 minutes after it's up?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/24 08:39 AM
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having a social life with mostly male friends MRP promotes no such thing. Some notes that some guys have submitted over the years have said that having a social life with mostly male friends was helpful to them. No where does it say that is required to avoid having a beta mindset. I want to be the best version of myself. I want to be a living embodiment of MRP. MRP isn't a prescription you can take, and its not a new mask you can wear to hide your true colors and protect against bad things happe…
/r/askMRP26/04/24 08:11 AM
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What do YOU want? For fucks sake
/r/askMRP26/04/24 07:44 AM
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To be clear, what you're doing isn't "wrong." It's an important part of the process. You're just not nearly where you think you are. Sidebar. OYS Weekly.
/r/askMRP23/04/24 09:49 PM
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(no more playful touching, no more leading conversation, no more proactively seeking humorous ways to make her smile) I do plan on re-introducing these types of actions in the future, though more limited and reward-based to reinforce positive action (i.e. if you start being silly and flirty with me, I’ll hit you back with a taste of the charm that you were originally drawn to) Do you see the covert contract? "If I withhold from my wife, she will realize what she's missing and will be the one to …
/r/askMRP23/04/24 09:47 PM
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Sure, and I bet before you read NMMNG that you consciously thought you weren't concerned with it either. Your own words contradict you
/r/askMRP23/04/24 08:04 PM
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One month per year of being beta, minimum. That means 10 months, not 10 weeks. You're a dancing monkey trying to figure out what buttons to push on your wife like a video game. Spend more time on the sidebar and on the BFE, and OYS Weekly thread Good luck
/r/askMRP23/04/24 07:30 PM
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It means she's the Captain You can guess what that makes you If you haven't already set the overall direction, and she's just fleshing out the details (because you delegated it to her or she took initiative that you've nurtured and praised in her in the past) then you're not the Captain
/r/askMRP19/04/24 01:51 PM
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ABL Always Be Leading It's not that fucking hard. Even if they take the lead on something, it's because you delegated it to them, not because they had to take care of it because you're a lousy Captain. And like others said already, have a life you boring fuck https://youtu.be/GrhSLf0I-HM?si=dRya12SNUaaP-GoW
/r/askMRP18/04/24 02:55 PM
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Just took a quick look at your history... Jfc man if you spent half as much time working on yourself as you do on reddit commenting on shit you'd have figured this out by now.
/r/askMRP15/04/24 11:25 PM
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Giving you a response to this situation isn't going to help you. Since this is the way my wife works You mention she, her, wife - a total of 13 times. You should focus a lot less on trying to read her mind, doing what you think will cause her to react some kind of specific way, as doing so automatically means you're in her Frame. She doesn't like I'm standing firmer against her tantrums one bit. Is this based on her words, or her actions? I bet if you've ever actually held truly firm against her…
/r/askMRP15/04/24 11:17 PM
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I'll PM you
/r/askMRP02/04/24 03:56 AM
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OYS Weekly thread
/r/askMRP01/04/24 03:34 PM
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Not posting to OYS Weekly thread regularly is Do It Yourself MRP "Fail rate" for guys using OYS Weekly feedback is likely 98% "Fail rate" for guys DIY MRP is more like 99.8 - 99.98%
/r/askMRP01/04/24 03:33 PM
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First, unless you dated her for at least a year before the LTR of 2, you've been in a LTR for at most a year. You're not as great as you think you are, and she's met someone else at your caliber or better and has started weighing her options to branch swing. This is the best case scenario, she might already be fucking him. Or, you fucked up at some point recently and didn't realize it - some massive DLV or massive break in Frame. If its another guy, she's trying to establish boundaries because i…
/r/askMRP31/03/24 08:07 AM
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Your excuses and deflections for why you aren't continuing to post to OYS are growing to a deafening volume, that's for sure
/r/askMRP29/03/24 11:26 PM
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You’re too stupid to create a new profile and think the problem is your wife?
/r/askMRP29/03/24 05:52 PM
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Objective: discover what actually makes me happy and pursue relentlessly Is that what you think life is about? Doesn't that sound a bit... hedonistic? Think maybe pursuing temporary pleasure/happiness "relentlessly" might have something to do with your vice addictions? Objective: understand and live out Gods will Do you think that the first objective is what God wants? I think there is a major difference between what makes me "happy" and what gives me a sense of general life satisfaction and ful…
/r/RPChristians14/02/24 11:24 PM
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I'm starting to think these are AI generated
/r/RPChristians01/02/24 07:06 AM
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You made this just so you can link to it in OYS comments
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/24 02:41 AM
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You're trying to lead someone when you're not even effectively leading yourself. If you haven't even been doing MRP, OYS, and reading the sidebar for a year, then you haven't really internalized anything, and you aren't actually leading yourself internally. Stop expecting her to change faster than you've even done yourself. Focus on the sidebar. Stop trying to control other people when you haven't even mastered basic control of yourself. Your first lesson in control is figuring out how to Close …
/r/askMRP10/01/24 11:34 AM
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Another thing, are you seriously so prideful that you can't come back 2 minutes later and say "hey, I see you trying, and I want you to know that I appreciate it. Things are far from perfect for either of us right now, but we can do this! I love you." smooch If you can't do that, you should really take a much deeper look in the mirror, because you're what failure actually looks like, not her. She has filled the container you've created for her, like the feminine liquid she is, and now you resent…
/r/askMRP10/01/24 10:04 AM
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Look at my post history
/r/askMRP05/01/24 05:25 PM
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You've just now passed the tutorial bro. Now you get to actually play the game. Great news - its an entirely open world concept, and the only thing holding you back is you. So, What Do You Want? Around this point in my life, I just started studying things that interested me while maintaining what I've built in my life. You've built a platform that allows you to see the land around you, now where do you want to go? For some guys, figuring this out is one of the most difficult things in their life…
/r/askMRP03/12/23 06:34 PM
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Realized ... I lost a lot of friends due to quitting partying and focus more on my family and my career ... Work and kids cost a lot of time so managing that is sometimes hard. Excuses Realizing i am a Nice guy is still hard. But its a road i have to take and get over to grown. What are you doing about it? What BFE are you on? Selfpitty suck and does nothing. Glad you came to this realization. What's next? This is your whole OYS. The rest is either about your wife or navel gazing nonsense or mor…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/23 03:44 PM
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The biggest thing I overlooked when I got divorced was how I had to change in relation to my kids. I'm assuming you'll have something close to 50/50 custody. Especially if you have girls, but younger boys as well. Older boys (over 10) can usually handle it with less difficulty (they may experience some issues to work through in their 20s but who doesn't have that in some form anyway) but the point is you should still recognize: Once you're separated/divorced and living alone, their mother is no …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/23 09:23 AM
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Start working on next week's comment for OYS now. Post it on the first day when the weekly drops. Be on time if you want to be taken seriously for feedback. Go back through this comment - how many times did you say she or her? As a useful exercise, try to rewrite everything - use wording and phrasing that doesn't say she or her or references to your wife or what she is thinking or doing. (can be in your native language since this is for you and no one else will bother to look anyway this late in…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/23 08:18 AM
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Still focused on wife after 5 years - check Still focused on sex after 5 years - check Still not posting to OYS Weekly - check I hate to tell you this man, but I didn't really comment to help you. I did it to remind myself of things I already internalized years ago that might have started to slip, because they don't usually apply to me anymore. But it's core stuff I need to remember and not let myself slip back into by way of complacency. If you haven't started posting to OYS by now, with everyt…
/r/askMRP17/11/23 07:32 AM
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No more excuses about your shoulder. That doesn't stop anyone serious from continuing to fanatically build the rest of their body. If 3 months from now you aren't bone-tired, soul-weary, and feeling sleep deprived even though you're getting 8 hours per night, then you aren't lifting hard enough. That doesn't mean Ego Lift asshole. The weights are your crucible. You shouldn't have any energy left to be angry when you leave the gym at this stage in your journey. Get to work. You say you read the b…
/r/askMRP14/11/23 08:26 PM
1

Define "mess things up," person who is motivated to have customers continue to come to him for treatment
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/23 11:14 AM
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The teeth whitening that you pay a lot at the dentist for is not any different chemically than the strips you can buy at the store and use on your own. Why are you waiting until February?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/23 11:13 AM
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I’m HV for myself. Not to get some ass every week. Yeah, just keep telling yourself that. If every random on the sub is telling you that you come across as having a huge covert contract, we're all probably wrong and you don't have any blind spots when it comes to this, right? My point is yeh I could work on game etc but I FEEL I’m already good enough to get that ass every day. you get me? Oh I didn't realize that MRP and the world in general was based on your feelz, my bad my point is because I’…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 11:19 PM
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But Horns, he wants his pussy NOOOWWWW (Mimic of OP's child-like tantrum when he doesn't have sex on tap because he sucks but his ego refuses to accept its his responsibility and his fault, not his wife's)
/r/askMRP08/11/23 10:52 PM
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Aside from the gigantic covert contract, what's so fucking hard about having a baby sitter take your 3 kids out of the house to the zoo for 3 hours? She probably won't fuck you because you don't create time and space for each part of DEVI (such as immersion) when she's been in work/mom mode all day (And because you don't Game her all day, and you haven't trained your slut to be able to drop into being your immersed slut at a moment's notice) Don't try that higher level shit until you've sorted o…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 10:48 PM
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Wouldn't matter if she was coming into his Frame (or living in it) and he had set up life properly to have sex at home.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 10:43 PM
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Literally nothing I said was original. It's all from the sidebar. Either from the books or the posts. You need to read them. All the books and all the posts. Because this is your last freebie - if you come crawling back with another post later instead of posting every week on the OYS Weekly thread, no one credible is going to help you. Remember when reading, the posts are men swapping notes, they aren't always going to be something that fits nicely for you where you are now but they are all succ…
/r/askMRP07/11/23 04:57 PM
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A lot of guys have posted notes here about a method called "pretend you live alone" When you are just starting out it can be a very helpful tool to move your mental models in the right direction internally. Basically the idea is, whenever things in your personal, financial, or family life come up and need to get done, pretend like your wife doesn't exist. What would you do if she died tomorrow (after you grieved your loss)? (Keep in mind that this advice applies to things that your wife doesn't …
/r/askMRP06/11/23 06:38 PM
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Why game or kino and be nice if nothing is coming back in return? As the other guy said, big covert contract here. 100% in your wife's Frame, revolving around her to determine your (re)actions, your mental point of origin is not from within, its based on something external - validation from your wife of your attractiveness through her willingness to have sex with you. Not a great dynamic for your sex life! Extremely repulsive to women to be relied on for that validation. It takes a heavy toll on…
/r/askMRP05/11/23 02:33 PM
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Waiting until the ex has a high paying job (especially if it's only a few months away) is one of the best ways to minimize child support and alimony.
/r/askMRP03/10/23 01:35 AM
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No. Haven't seen others with this kind of approach that actually works. The others all blindly stumble on a small piece of the principles and strategies in this book, which is why they find limited success. This book provides the full picture in a way that you can design your own parenting style while keeping to what actually works
/r/askMRP26/09/23 09:19 PM
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Aside from your poor choice in a woman, I'd strongly recommend you the book Transforming The Difficult Child- The Nurtured Heart Approach Doesn't matter if your kids are "difficult" or not btw this book is gold
/r/askMRP25/09/23 05:50 PM
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I'd look into therapy, prescribed sleep medication, and the book Atomic Habits. Pay particular attention to the inverse laws and how you can make it harder for yourself to do habits you don't want to have anymore. Like you noted, make sure you're also replacing the wasted time with good habits you do want. Your whole approach just seems kind of fucked - like you're subconsciously making it as hard as possible for you to succeed - and this is why I suggest therapy. Seems to be some under the surf…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 02:38 PM
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But that could take anywhere from 6 months to 5 years or even more, can't know. So you've got no concrete clue where you're going or how to get there. Makes more sense now why she feelz like she needs to set the tone. Edit: btw, it's not like you need to have it all figured out at 27 man. Just stop pretending like you do, and put that wasted energy into your personal growth.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:31 AM
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Leading doesn't mean doing what she wants dude. It means knowing where you're going and letting her know how she fits into that path, if you actually want her to.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:28 AM
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the thruth is, I'd rather wait a bit more before making that decision. Why is this a secret? Are you afraid of her reaction? Are you afraid of becoming a father? What is it you fear here? Why aren't you leading on this? (See above) She feels like she needs to set the tone because you haven't led in this area. That's what's most likely happening. It probably isn't a fitness test.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 09:08 AM
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Respectfully, you're wrong. You're kid has trained you that if you give them the attention they want, then they will stop the tantrum. A clear cut consequence with little to no interaction other than enforcing the boundary/consequence is the best course of action when kids are misbehaving. Enjoy being played like a video game! It's not too late btw. An 8 year old should have the emotional regulation skills (unless they're actually on the spectrumnot just adhd etc) to not scream, if you're applyi…
/r/askMRP16/08/23 10:24 AM
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THIS
/r/askMRP15/08/23 08:31 PM
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Get this book: Transforming The Difficult Child You read and absorb first, then have your wife read and guide her on how you want to implement. You'll both have to be consistent for it to work. I'd say good luck, but that has nothing to do with it. Most parenting books are shit. This one isnt.
/r/askMRP15/08/23 06:56 PM
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There used to be guys here every week fighting to be the first to post. A few years ago, I was one of them. It made a huge difference in my progress. 43 min after it drops, and still no one? WTF? This year's newbies are lacking... can't wait for 60DoD'24, it's gonna be extra entertaining this cycle, I can tell. If this process isn't what you think about every spare waking moment, if you aren't feeling absolutely bone tired exhausted in mind, body, and spirit every week for the first 6 months of …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 09:25 AM
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It's not BPD, it's lack of leadership. She sounds like every other under 25 yo female who has no leadership in her relationship. When they have leadership, they have boundaries they know and respect, and this let's them have a positive outlet for their anxiety and wonton feminine energy - the water flows in a planned direction instead of just splattering everywhere chaotically.
/r/askMRP14/08/23 07:51 AM
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I was trying to give him the dumbed down version, because he's at step zero, and the full solution is all the way at step 100. He doesn't need step 80 advice, he needs step 1 advice. His real issue is that he wasn't leading his relationship and reinforcing behaviors he liked while training out the behaviors he didn't like. That's a simple looking statement but there is so much behind it. But you can't expect someone who can't even lead themselves (doesn't know what he wants, or even how to go ab…
/r/askMRP14/08/23 07:37 AM
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Two things. First, verbal intercourse is optional. Second, if you had Frame you wouldn't be confused about this because a man with Frame will decide based on his own judgement if the feedback he is receiving is worth doing anything about or not. A few examples of the second point, if you had Frame. She could be wrong, you give enough (based on your judgement), she is just extra needy or not a good match for you. You decide not to change, so she will eventually disqualify herself or you'll get an…
/r/askMRP14/08/23 06:50 AM
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Stop blaming COVID. YOU got fat. YOU stopped your hobbies YOU didn't keep in touch. YOU let yourself get depressed YOU CHOSE to become unattractive.* The virus isnt responsible for any of this shit, you are. Stop being a fucking victim and stop fantasizing about "when I get back to how I was" because there's no going back in time. There's only moving forward, and what you choose to do Today, Tomorrow, and every day after that. Make your choice, because right now you're choosing to think and ment…
/r/askMRP13/08/23 09:32 AM
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Look at the sidebar reading list askhole
/r/askMRP13/08/23 09:20 AM
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Why do these guys never read the actual sidebar? They always come in claiming to have read the books, never the sidebar that provides so much context for the books and fleshes out the gaps.
/r/askMRP12/08/23 05:54 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 07:43 AM
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If you're traditional, why aren't you marrying this girl? Her family is clearly trying to set her up in a marriage, so if you want it to be you, you'd best put your hat into that ring sooner than later. Otherwise, move on Donkey Kong. Maybe if you read the r/MarriedRedPill sidebar before/during your marriage you won't end up like the majority of guys. Who knows, worth a try I suppose. Make sure you come back with Field Reports Also, not my business, but why do you need cash to start a commercial…
/r/askMRP31/07/23 11:04 PM
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Feminine women who love and respect a man and his leadership do this in a non-manipulative way. It's just their nature. Your situation sounds different though. More like a desperate woman who is about to hit the Wall and knows she is very near expiration is using all the tricks she learned from her cock carousel days to try to convince you to settle down. And the reason she doesn't have genuine desire is because you suck. You're a validation seeking loser with no Frame. If she truly felt you wer…
/r/askMRP28/07/23 05:58 PM
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No stats, no effort... Lift STFU Sidebar OYS Weekly
/r/askMRP28/07/23 02:58 AM
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There are plenty of women out there whose focus is to find a quality man, get pregnant multiple times, and raise a family. They aren't at the club and they certainly aren't on Tinder 99.99% of the time When you are a quality man, living his awesome life, these women present themselves in subtle, Feminine ways. If you haven't found one yet, either you aren't that quality man, or you're looking for the wrong things in the women you choose to allow into your life. MRP fixes the man. You need fixing…
/r/askMRP26/07/23 10:09 AM
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Most men here are not doing this for their families - they're Nice Guys who have already done far too much in the name of "the family" MRP fixes the man and is amoral. Not the marriage and not the family. Any other benefits to other people are after the fact and a side benefit, they definitelyarent the main goal. If he decided he needed to leave his family in the middle of the night and start a new life under a new name in a new city, so be it - at least he'd be operating from his own Mental Poi…
/r/askMRP18/07/23 03:59 PM
1

OP this only works if you're attractive and have options and she knows that is true
/r/askMRP14/07/23 01:24 AM
1

HOA is right. Until your woman knows, unequivocally knows (and this has nothing to do with anything that comes out of your mouth these days) that you're willing to walk away if your needs and standards of life aren't met, she has Zero reason to fuck you on your schedule. Also like HOA says, it's guaranteed that your game sucks big fat sweaty man-ass. You could be Brad Pitt with the Adonis Bod and still blow it with any girl long term if you're fucking boring. That's most guy's biggest problem wi…
/r/askMRP14/07/23 01:00 AM
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Hope to see you posting in OYS - weekly. Follow through is what makes, or breaks, many would be men who choose this path. You've opened your eyes for the first time, don't assume that vision equates to action or even to understanding. If I were in your shoes my goal would be to have a harem by 40, 2-3 regular girls with more waiting for their shot in the wings who all want nothing more than to have an awesome time with you while draining your balls in all the filthy ways you've imagined, before …
/r/askMRP26/06/23 08:45 PM
1

You always deliver HOA
/r/askMRP23/06/23 06:12 AM
5

You need to make sure your Game is tight, fucktard. Sounds like you aren't making her feel tingles, and that makes sex with you something she has to cross off her todo list instead of something she looks forward to with excitement
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 06:11 AM
19

Have you read the sidebar? Look up "Validation needs that poison your sex life" and stop trying to play your wife like a video game MRP principles fix the man, not the marriage - you'll get quality sex from women, but not necessarily your current wife
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 03:22 AM
15

Give her "The Surrendered Wife" by Laura Doyle
/r/askMRP23/06/23 12:32 AM
1

For someone who claims to be so aloof, you have way too many fucks to give. If you want to fuck, then fuck. If you want to ignore, ignore. Why are you in charge of fixing her emotions exactly? Oh that's right, it's because you're 'tarded
/r/askMRP15/06/23 07:32 PM
9

Oh my bad, I think I got you mixed up with the last idiot who stuck his dick in crazy. He was making more money than you. The person who cares less wins. You need to show your wife that you aren't afraid to blow up everyone's lives if she doesn't stop throwing tantrums. You do this with actions, not words. Get your profession sorted. Maybe take up a trade like plumbing, all those guys are in short supply and even apprentices make bank. Eventually once licensed you could own your own business.
/r/askMRP08/06/23 07:10 PM
10

"Officer, I seem to be the one most capable of taking care of the children at this time. What if she hit one of them next in her fit of rage? I'd like to make this a formal report. Please provide me a copy of that report. If possible please issue a 24 hour cooling off period requirement that she as the abuser leave the home and not contact me during that time." "What? You're not going to do that? I'd like to speak to your supervisor. There is an escalating pattern of abuse occurring here and I'm…
/r/askMRP08/06/23 06:08 PM
19

I had success with starting to record on video, then going and standing in the way of whatever she's trying to wreck. "I'm just trying to prevent things from being broken and wasted" Never lay a hand (or finger) on anyone
/r/askMRP08/06/23 03:32 AM
4

Association goes a long way. Your best bet since you aren't that attractive would be to spank her increasingly more firmly during incredibly intense orgasms and the ramp up to them, as her brain will start to associate this with the pleasure she is feeling. You can work up to it getting more and more forceful slaps in until you'll be leaving pink handprints and needing to apply lotion during aftercare. It needs to be a slow, gradual process over months or she will balk
/r/askMRP31/05/23 08:27 PM
34

If you want this to be a positive experience that might repeat, then your wife feeling secure that shes in your top spot and will stay that way is incredibly important. Phrases like "yeah she's hot, but she doesn't know that secret meatball recipe I love" "I bet she's great fun to fuck, but she doesn't know how to milk my cock and savor my cum like you do" "her tits are huge, but she didn't nurse my children from them" go a long way to acknowledging the truth that she's attractive, but not your …
/r/askMRP20/05/23 08:19 PM
1

You don't keep your LTR barefoot in the kitchen like the rest of us? Did you miss that part of the sidebar?
/r/askMRP02/04/23 12:39 AM
31

Go post in OYS Weekly where this belongs. This isn't a Field Report, it's a victim puke followed by an appeal for attaboys from the sub. Have you started Lifting free weights yet?
/r/askMRP24/03/23 05:59 AM
18

My needs and goals for forward momentum in all areas of my life will always be met first before I GAF about hers. Once you have those things locked down with a solid routine, then you can spend extra time pursuing women, spinning plates, or spending time with your LTR. But if you're not owning your shit, you're in no position to be giving up your valuable time to her. That's a distraction and a shield from you facing your own ego and BS. For example, when I'm in a LTR, she knows by my actions (c…
/r/askMRP23/03/23 10:38 PM
10

Guys like this really need to up their work productivity. Who the fuck has time available for personal bullshit when they're actually working? OP, it's simple. You don't answer the phone or texts when it's not an emergency unless its to text some quick Game and keep her thinking about your cock. And mostly not even then because you suck. Because you should be busy being awesome at what you do, getting that next raise, promotion, etc...
/r/askMRP22/03/23 12:17 PM
6

If only someone wrote a book about Frame...
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/23 09:32 PM
9

Have you been doing shrooms again? This is way too thoughtful for you Red, people will start to realize you're not just a roided out rage monster if you keep slippin
/r/askMRP06/03/23 10:24 PM
16

I see a lot of red pill moralizing from guys here who don't know wtf they're talking about. From how you made it sound, like Red said, she was only trying to fuck to make up for your failures. So the real question is, when she's trying so desperately to keep your family together at any cost, even doing something she doesn't want to do anymore that will likely leave trauma for her to deal with later, why are you so focused on punishing her for your failures? Again this is all dependent on your re…
/r/askMRP06/03/23 06:21 PM
6

Btw to be clear you're getting the tests so you know if you'll be raising and paying for these kids, one way or another, it has nothing to do with your decision to keep their mother around or not. That's what I mean when I say to know where you stand.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 03:11 AM
8

She's willing to end your entire relationship over a vape while drinking, not even something she feels she needs daily. She clearly doesn't value you nor respect you. You're not the Prize, you're not the best she thinks she can do. Women in that position often (not "always", but AWALT, so "often") fuck other men You think you're the only guy who looks like you. Hilarious. Get the tests bro. Know where you stand.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 02:01 AM
3

Are you married to her? 99% chance she's already been fucking other guys by the way. I'd get paternity tests for those kids without telling her about it. You need to know exactly where you stand before making rational decisions to move forward.
/r/askMRP06/03/23 01:55 AM
7

You missed the dog. That's your best source of unconditional love.
/r/askMRP05/03/23 10:17 PM
28

If only there was a book filled with examples of these tactics listed on the sidebar... IF ONLY
/r/askMRP25/02/23 03:03 AM
3

OP still enjoys playing the Victim. It's his identity, that's why he can't comprehend a version of himself that wins - it takes away his "self" and forces him to be accountable for how he fucked his life up. Right now there's nothing left if he's not the Victim, he can't bear being nothing. Frankly that's understandable. Fortunately for him, if he keeps doing more than just reading, if he shuts up, and lifts heavier and heavier weights, and just does that shit for a year straight while keeping h…
/r/askMRP23/02/23 08:14 AM
5

Bars are an easy layup. For ANY man willing to put in even the most basic amount of effort. You can find it on youtube, some of the most gnarly ugly motherfuckers - short, fat, only decent money, no Bugatti - but their Game is so fucking tight its got only a razor thin margin of error. Alcohol involved? Sheesh. Fish in a fucking barrel. So for guys with their mouth shut (fork included here, you obese fuck) who don't even have "the physique" - as long as their Game exists, they at least have the …
/r/askMRP22/02/23 03:53 PM
3

You seem to lack the basic maturity to even introspect to the point of knowing that you've got FOMO, no clear purpose, and no discipline in your personal life. Especially if this girl is as good as you say she is, you should cut her loose with instructions to find a fit 35 yo man who's got his shit together and knows what he wants. Because you're not ready for what she'd provide, she's too young and dumb to know better than to be with you, and it sounds like you'd make a very shitty captain. But…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/23 05:23 PM
6

If you don't want to do it, don't do it. If you want to do it, do it. Anything else and you've got yourself a covert contract with a side of Oneitis.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/23 05:06 AM
2

Huberman
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/23 04:27 PM
1

the dopamine loop That you Andrew?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/23 03:45 PM
2

I think someone around here recently published a book about this
/r/askMRP11/02/23 04:06 AM
7

You're right man, she lost complete respect for you at that moment and that was the end. Those ioi for your brother is just what you saw, she actually fucked him raw and took his load straight to the womb while you were there. Your next kid was floating around with cousins for a few days. But what are you gonna do? You have to wait for someone's reaction to you to convince you that you're HV again so until then she's probably fucking the real winners all around you. AWALT, even the green flags.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 05:11 PM
22

Your self worth is based on the opinion of others hope for an occasion to prove my worth again. Who exactly should you be proving your worth to? And why? Get out of her head jackball. I can't stand not being her 'hero' anymore. It gave me great confidence That shit was all in your head before anyway, so just go back to believing it again if that's what will give you confidence... fucking moron Maybe read Rian's new book on Frame, idk. At least you'll do someone some good.
/r/askMRP01/02/23 10:35 AM
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Stop being autistic Address the behavior immediately as it is happening in a direct way, and don't hold grudges - my guess is that she isn't arguing in bed as she's cuddling with you, so why are you waiting until then to try to covertly show her your disappointment? This is called being passive aggressive. Why aren't you being assertive?
/r/askMRP17/01/23 03:14 AM
2

pleasing another woman. See anything wrong with this?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 09:53 PM
4

It's on Kindle/Amazon.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 02:05 PM
21

Rian's got a new book out on Frame, you should probably check it out. "Frame isn't what you do, it's who you are" I guess if it's within your Frame to be treated like shit, and accept and even participate (read: validate and enable) that shit treatment more than once, you could try to claim you don't have oneitis. You'd be wrong, and you couldn't claim to be truly operating in your own Frame (unless who you are is actually a spineless piece of shit?) but whatever floats your boat. The truth is y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 09:10 AM
48

One look at your post history tells everyone just how full of shit you are. Being in shape, successful in business, etc doesn't matter if you aren't operating consistently from your own mental point of origin. You still had oneitis for a girl from high school decades later for Christ's sake Drop your ego, it's not helping you make progress You need that accountability more than you think
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 08:08 AM
4

Way to dodge the questions bub, do you always deflect this much when seeking advice? You're right, I reread most of the sidebar at a rate of about once a year, and I check in on the Breaking Free exercises every time I read NMMNG. A lot of value in that book, maybe you should take a look. Seems relevant to you. But like others have already said, you're looking for a particular answer, and it appears that answers that require you to work at changing yourself or even just take a look behind the cu…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 04:12 PM
7

I probably work more than you, I work 10-12 hours every single day Could it be you're bullshitting yourself with busy work? How much of your 10-12 hour day could be automated, trained and delegated, hired or contracted out, or is just you fucking off and not being productive in a flow state? If your business requires you and only you to work 10-12/7/365 you should probably examine your business plan, because it sucks, and you suck as a leader, manager, mentor, and trainer. I don't know many jobs…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 03:37 PM
45

It's been said too many times to count There is no magic bullet There are no cheat codes There is only the endless, unrelenting work for the men who are making something of their lives, and the endless unrelenting sexless misery of the men who aren't. Sex with women comes as a happy byproduct of that work, but it cannot be the goal or you will fail (dancing monkey) You fucked your life up over a long time, it will take a long time to fix None of this will have instant, long term results You're a…
/r/askMRP13/01/23 10:12 AM
13

https://youtu.be/bHb5CFGYz1A
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 10:21 PM
2

All of you askholes are so fucking lazy. Less than a month ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/zm00nf/starting_marriage_counseling_any_advice/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button
/r/askMRP09/01/23 01:49 AM
3

Your reading comprehension sucks. You sound all excited about #3, when you haven't even sorted out #1 yet. There's a reason he wrote them in that order. Don't put the cart before the horse like you've already been doing. You've seen how that ends
/r/askMRP07/01/23 07:59 AM
8

Underrated comment
/r/askMRP06/01/23 02:31 PM
1

How's your marriage counseling going bud?
/r/askMRP05/01/23 10:21 PM
8

Shit sex is your fault. You suck. More importantly, you suck as a leader. You can't even fucking lead yourself competently. You think she doesn't see and know this? And you expect her to willingly follow you to bed with authentic desire? WTF? I bet you suck in bed too. Can you see why she doesn't want anything to do with your dick and all you get is duty sex? Fixing your shit to get better sex won't work, but it's a good initial motivator to hopefully get moving in a better direction. You aren't…
/r/askMRP05/01/23 07:24 PM
3

If it matters enough to you, you'll do what it takes to find out. Or you won't. Simple. The real question is, could you replace her if you decided to? For whatever reason. And if you could, would you end up in the same fucking place 5 years from now? Focus on and fix your shit. Everything you're complaining about is a symptom of your continual fuck ups
/r/askMRP05/01/23 04:24 PM
14

Getting fed up with constant posts by delusional lazy fat pieces of shit who put in zero effort and expect porn stars for wives because they started doing literally bare minimum bullshit thats still entirely in Her Frame... You're not 16% BF with those lifts at 5'11" - Not even close. More like 26% Hate to break it to you but chances are high your wife cheated on you in some form or fashion the week/month before your "good sex week"
/r/askMRP05/01/23 04:10 PM
33

I’m apologize if at any moment I offended you….or made you feel bad You're a fucking idiot if you think this is an apology where she's taking accountability for her actions. "Sorry if me living my best life made you feel bad bro" Does that sound like an apology? Because that's what she said. Why would you have Oneitis for a woman who respects you so little... ffs
/r/askMRP30/12/22 10:30 PM
14

You hope for more examples of men choosing to put themselves in neverending opposition and stress at home, instead of peace and a well oiled family unit? What kind of modeling and example did his sons/daughters get about motherly love from the woman he chose? You think they didn't feel her not wanting them when they were young? This guy either didn't vet well enough, didn't lead well enough, didn't have strong enough Frame to pull her into his world, or all of the above. Why do you hope for that…
/r/askMRP25/12/22 09:03 PM
44

First, she's not special. She might be higher quality than most of the human refuse floating in the world of shit out there, but she's just a less stinky turd than you're used to eating. You're a shitstain too btw, I'll get to that later. Second, she does want kids, just not right now and/or not with you give it 10 years and she'll either have them already or be pining for them. AWALT. Back to point one... You're LARPing RP but really blue pill if you think like this. It's probably why all the w…
/r/askMRP25/12/22 06:03 PM
1

It's called vasclip implantation
/r/askMRP23/12/22 02:50 PM
0

They tie it off. It's more likely that they come untied and you get a girl pregnant than that they can't just untied it when you're ready. What you're looking for, they shouldn't be cutting or searing anything, just tying off the tubes that supply the sperm. Hell of a lot more effective than a condom or any other birth control, and the ones that untie themselves are extremely rare. You'd have to have super weak balls from the jump for it not to function after getting untied
/r/askMRP23/12/22 02:22 AM
-5

Get a reversible type of vasectomy, then you can raw dog all you want and get it untied when you're ready for kids
/r/askMRP23/12/22 02:16 AM
2

Was there a question in here somewhere? r/askMRP dipshit
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/22 06:16 PM
10

Why are you still leading towards mediation/divorce if it's not what you actually want? Don't you have the right to change your mind about what's best? You're right that you haven't internalized much... you have the tools but keep trying to hammer in screws when you have a perfectly good Phillips head sitting right next to the hammer. A hammer isn't meant for every job. Learn the difference between a nail, screw, bolt, etc and act accordingly if you want better results than just busted drywall. …
/r/askMRP19/12/22 05:40 PM
18

Don't. One of the vets has linked a comment or post he made years ago on this subject, go find it if you want. Not my problem Basically the summary is one of two things is going to happen: The wife and counselor will gang up on you and try to convince you that you need to be more beta The counselor will try to hold the wife accountable for shitty behavior, in which case wife will flip out, go Rambo, not return to counseling, insist on another counselor, or just generally be more of a bitch and m…
/r/askMRP14/12/22 07:51 PM
3

Early I'd guess with an "I'm here, where are you?" text, with the enema done, her best lingerie on under her little black dress and come fuck me heels, while having done a workout and not eating much that day to look the absolute best possible It's amazing the length girls with genuine desire will go for HVM they really want to like them, without even being asked
/r/askMRP14/12/22 06:34 PM
4

If he also had Jessica, Tawny, and Brittany ready in the wings, would he be so concerned about what Sarah is thinking? 🤔 I guess we'll never know since he doesn't really have Abundance, or Frame, and J T B are out in the world with no one interesting to talk to... 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/askMRP14/12/22 06:33 PM
10

You're Not Special Sidebar ---> Jesus. So this is why all the 25 year olds I fuck have to be anally trained from square one, they've all been traumatized by imbeciles like you
/r/askMRP11/12/22 11:20 PM
-3

She's got gut issues from all the cum she has sprayed up her ass by Chad and Tyrone. Theyve been taking turns at the back door during their DP sessions You're not special. Keep lifting heavy STFU Sidebar https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3fw7wa/from_trp_every_unhappy_wife_is_a_rape_victim/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Now imagine how she feels if she doesn't even have the comfort of divorce raping you at the end of…
/r/askMRP11/12/22 11:05 PM
2

r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 08:20 PM
25

Great metaphor. There's so many starving neighbors everywhere, must be why there's always such an abundance of choice at the supermarket for those of us who go shopping 😄
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/22 11:13 PM
3

Fuck. r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 10:23 PM
27

Don't ever call a combative woman "wonderful" again if you don't want to end up like the rest of the sad saps who crawl in here from deadbedrooms at age 40 with sob stories about how their wife doesn't fuck them anymore. This is a plate at best, not a wife. At least for you anyway - she probably wasn't combative with her ex before the breakup, and probably won't be later when she's gagging on Chad's dick either - you're just the beta bitch plow horse to her. Women make rules for betas and break …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 10:22 PM
8

Underrated
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 08:49 PM
4

Kids (custody / access / guilt) - Frankly, I don't think custody would be that important to me, but having enough access to my kids as well as the guilt of "abandoning" them and how they perceived it Not sure if you're naive here, or just legit don't care that much, but if this is truly a real concern for you, you're far too cavalier in this area. I'd suggest you get into the divorce guide on the sidebar and create a plan for how you can achieve 50/50 custody, at least legally if not also physic…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/22 08:48 PM
2

You've got to be trolling. No man who has actually been applying MRP sidebar material for years wouldn't "get" what you're fucking up here. STFU isn't a catch-all solution. It's for beginners to learn that they're spewing their fee fees all over the place and they should learn not to do that, and to think before they speak. If your wife slaps you in the face, you gonna try to apply STFU to that too? Fucking idiot
/r/askMRP27/11/22 06:43 AM
3

You have multiple great answers now that cover just about every angle on why people don't STFU. Mods should lock this thread so that you can practice what you suck at
/r/askMRP26/11/22 04:15 PM
2

If only someone had made a post about this on the sub... I think it's happened more than once
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 04:31 PM
1

Educate me then. Give me a link I can follow on my own that says different. This is what I know from the research I've seen in multiple places.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 09:58 PM
5

The second thing I recall seeing a lot of men lacking, is do you praise her enough when she does the things you like her doing to add value in your life? Or do you mostly just show her where she's failing? It's a leadership failure on your end to not provide a clear lane for her to follow to where you want her to be, and one side of that lane is your boundaries when she isn't doing what you want/need and disappoints you, but the other side is you providing a lot of positive reinforcement in a su…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 04:55 PM
1

Leptin is a critical part of the body's relationship with weight. As you lose fat, (fat cells produce leptin) your brain has less leptin and the receptors it binds to are freed up, causing measurable changes to the brain's che.istry and signal output around food. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2430504/ There are also studies showing that sustained weight loss causes involuntary metabolic shift by the body to conserve energy due to the fat loss. This is another major factor in stall…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 04:44 PM
5

Have you consulted with a divorce lawyer to know what will happen in your state and situation? Are you prepared for threats of the same? For her to actually lawyer up and serve you? If the stay plan is not the go plan you know where you have work to do. Any weakness whatsoever, any hint that her playing chicken with you will get her what she wants (leverage back in the dynamic) and she will mercilessly exploit it. You can't afford a single crack in your Frame now. Bring your A Game. She's not th…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 07:56 AM
1

eating out of boredom Two things to try First, Intermittent Fasting: if you make a plan to not be eating all day until dinner, it's a lot easier to not eat when bored. Its also hard to eat when you already feel full (like after a big but healthy dinner when you haven't eaten anything all day) Second, Why the fuck do you have time to be bored? Get off your ass and do something useful, or read a book.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 07:46 AM
6

Looks like a lot of success and methodical planning for future continued success. Good job. That said this seems like a FR looking for validation, why did you post now when you haven't since August? Where are you actually struggling right now? What are you hiding from yourself or pushing aside in favor of other "more important" priorities? These are the things that will come back and bite you in the ass and indirectly fuck with your success in the areas you're focusing on so hard right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 07:32 AM
2

I'm doing StrongLifts 5x5. BP, BR, and OHP on pause as I work through some shoulder tendonitis. So you're only doing squat and deadlift? 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 07:23 AM
1

Calories at 1600 a day. Protein 160 g How long have you been on a 500+ calorie deficit? If it's been more than 3 months you might want to go to maintenance for about two weeks, you've most likely depleted the hormones you need in your system to be able to lose fat efficiently. The lower they get, the more your body will fight you to keep every ounce of fat. Also, your protein intake sucks. Minimum 1g/1lb is the general rule of thumb but if you're trying to cut while maintaining or increasing str…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 07:20 AM
0

Your post sucks, you suck, and I'm here to have fun not get you to suck my dick
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 07:35 PM
3

Sunk cost fallacy. Type this out: "Why do I care so much about one fucking plate if I'm actually spinning plates properly?" They're supposed to spin themselves with very minimal input from you. This doesn't sound like that at all. Sounds a lot like Oneitis with a side of Ego Shielding.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 07:27 PM
1

I’m a sexy looking twig Not a real thing. Eat more and lift heavier. canned lines When all the guys who came here have the same fucking basic bitch problems, is it a canned line or do you all just suck the same? You have our permission to continue over-analyzing stupid minutiae that doesn't matter since you obviously have nothing better to do. Are you even spinning plates? Who knows. All I do know is that this is not a Field Report, because Field Reports talk about you and what you did/are doing…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 07:23 PM
1

You still haven't figured this out 2 years later after allegedly plating women that whole time? Did you even read the sidebar in that 2 years? Also, whatever this girl weighs now, add a minimum of 20 permanent pounds per kid that are never coming off. With your "Frame" it's probably more like 50 lbs per kid. Look forward to that life my dude. Relish in the hole you're digging for yourself. See you in 2 years askhole
/r/askMRP17/11/22 09:38 PM
-7

she had a significant health event at a work conference recently. it is something pretty serious that can be life threatening and hasn't happened in over 10 years. She had an explosive orgasm while Chad was fucking her?
/r/askMRP08/11/22 08:42 PM
22

Be better than her ex. That's all. If you can't it's likely you're always going to be BB to her anyway. Don't do it because then she'll want you more than him, she might not, but because you'll be the kind of man who would drop her like a sack of rocks if she pulled hoe behavior like that, and other girls will be scratching each other's eyes out to take her place. Its called Abundance, asshole. Get some. Lift heavy weights STFU Read the sidebar OYS Weekly (This is a covert contract. I don't want…
/r/askMRP07/11/22 06:40 PM
13

Does investigating your side chick's social media searches rate above or below your wife's?
/r/askMRP07/11/22 06:05 PM
30

You won't be 22 for long and 30/hr doesn't go far with kids on a single income. Grow, or stagnate and decay you pick - and don't be surprised if you pick staying stagnant that your wife doesn't change either. If you grow, even if she does stay stagnant at least you're in a much better place to be able to leave and start again, hopefully with your kids in tow or at least 50/50
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 04:07 AM
78

Stop working 11-12 and work 10 instead. Use the extra 2 hours to straighten out your home or to learn a marketable skill for a job that pays better than yours with less hours. Stop blaming your wife for your shit leadership and get to work on the sidebar. Start posting in OYS Weekly
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/22 03:58 AM
2

Denial. Classic Ego protection here from you. Once you're willing to admit the truth, you can begin to actually tackle the problem. Until then, you're going to be stuck in an endless loop
/r/askMRP26/10/22 06:23 PM
1

You reinforce good behavior with praise. If she wants to be in a relationship with you, she pays attention to that praise. Same goes for breaking rules/boundaries - ideally you've shown the rule/boundary in advance, and depending on the boundary that was broken there already may be no chance at redemption, but just like you'd call out bad behavior, you also call out the good. Consistently. When she was behaving properly, did you go out of your way to praise her for that behavior? My guess would …
/r/askMRP23/10/22 01:01 AM
2

Poor thing. Lost what you hoped would be your new validation drip feed? Maybe it's time to learn to self validate instead of relying on external sources of sustenance. Where could one learn such a skill? ----->
/r/askMRP22/10/22 02:14 AM
13

Sounds like you've studied a lot of mostly useless stuff that doesn't interest you for your whole life, and that you have an insanely inflated sense of self importance. Reality check - you aren't special, or important, or known, or cool, or even that intelligent, and you probably never will be. So what to do with the rest of your slightly better than average, extaordinarily normal life? Maybe consider learning the two things you seem to have never caught on to as a weakness in your skillset? 1) …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 12:59 AM
1

What kind of husband/wife relationship do you want to model for your children? Whatever dynamic you and your romantic partner (whether your wife or someone new) have as they grow up is what your kids will see as normal going into their adult lives as they search for a mate. Do you want them to subconsciously see your life/dynamic as "normal" and end up with your life?
/r/askMRP15/10/22 06:29 PM
4

Stop throating your wife's Frame so deep that you're shitting it on me for 3 seconds and listen to me. You're an idiot. Your wife is a slut, AWALT. She loves cum, and sex, and could be bi for all we know. Just not for you, because you aren't a HVM You aren't attractive, and youre superbly unattractive as well. You suck, so why would she want to suck you?
/r/askMRP12/10/22 08:15 PM
10

I actually read your post now because I was bored during a long drive. Your wife is another child in the house, the difference is you let her do anything she wants without repercussions. If one of your children didn't like the way the housekeeper was cleaning up their room, and wanted to fire her, what would you do? I think it's pretty important that you remember that you're not getting sex from this woman, and haven't for some time. So WHY THE FUCK DO YOU CARE IF SHE IS MAD, OR LIKES YOU, OR PR…
/r/askMRP12/10/22 07:36 PM
11

Delusional. Everything in this post and comment is about her. You exist as an extension of her. I told you this the last time you posted. You're not listening. Actually Try it this time: Stop thinking about sex with her. Stop thinking about her, or what she thinks, period. What's left in you when you remove her? What do you want outside of anything to do with your wife?
/r/askMRP12/10/22 05:51 PM
6

When I met my current LTR, she was literally in a cast on crutches. She still fucked on the first date, eagerly. This guy is delusional
/r/askMRP12/10/22 05:04 PM
5

Hello MRP friends, We're not your friends. You should be banned and forced to OYS Weekly... since you post here weekly anyway Askhole
/r/askMRP12/10/22 05:02 PM
5

If you want a sex slave then buy one. If you want a willing sex toy that will do any depraved thing you tell her with a smile on her face and will only do this with you... that can't be bought or found, and you don't have the Frame to achieve it. Those books you don't want to read only get you to the very start of the path to becoming a man who can actually maintain a woman in a state like that. Do whatever you want with the crazy bitch you're seeing now, but don't get her pregnant. Don't get an…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:58 PM
32

"Clueless Beta & The Case Of The One Night Stand"
/r/askMRP06/09/22 06:49 PM
2

OYS askhole, that's what the weekly thread is for.
/r/askMRP30/08/22 09:53 PM
4

"No" would have worked. You're a wordy one like I was. Free advice, stop ego shielding. The more brutally honest you are with yourself and accepting your lack, the better your progress will likely be.
/r/askMRP30/08/22 09:51 PM
11

Start with Steel's guide. There's a book list and a post list. Take it one post and one book at a time. You should consider therapy. Being able to be alone, being ok with being alone, is a cornerstone of an absolutely critical part of developing Frame and mental point of origin. If you don't become ok alone first before finding that woman, you'll end up like all the other sad saps that find their way here
/r/askMRP23/08/22 10:18 PM
15

Read the MRP Sidebar. Not the TRP sidebar, which makes you a validation seeking, no mental point of origin having, ONS machine. Relationships are Red Pill on hard mode for a reason, you cant LARP in a LTR. You suck at being a part of a relationship because you've been playing Easy Mode the whole time. First step is to get over your obvious Oneitis for this girl. You'll find info on that in the MRP Sidebar. Second step is to find higher purpose outside of pussy. No, making money or getting status…
/r/askMRP23/08/22 09:09 PM
10

Excuses. Develop your legs and back properly and dunking gets easier not harder. She probably fantasizes about a big strong man picking her up and carrying her effortlessly to bed to fuck her senseless, but from you she expects tender lovemaking because you're a fucking twig. Can't wait to see what other excuses you make in your first OYS for changing nothing and continuing with your unattractive habits. Luckily for you, Lucky has decided not to ban for Rule 9 for the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 06:50 PM
2

Come back in a week and read my question again. Keep coming back and reading it and pondering it until you understand what I'm actually asking you. Or go about your business and enjoy that starfish for the rest of your life, your call.
/r/askMRP07/08/22 12:23 AM
2

Why is this particular type of sex with this particular woman so defining for you and who you are?
/r/askMRP06/08/22 09:48 PM
5

You think your pathetic need for validation is justified? Exactly what do you do to deserve enthusiastic sex and desire? You're not a HVM You're not gigachad Even if you were you can't force anyone to do anything, so... Why does she or anyone else owe you this, please explain.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 06:08 PM
9

Or any pussy for that matter
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/22 07:19 PM
21

Who tf cares about how you get genuine desire from a woman you're actively trying to cut out of your life? To everyone else - this is a perfect case study in what happens when Rambo plays with dynamite
/r/askMRP12/07/22 08:57 PM
16

Is there even any fucking? Zero mention of sex. Makes a difference in this equation...
/r/askMRP07/07/22 02:33 PM
2

Well aside from you being banned for being an idiot... If you want to fuck other women from time to time, it should probably be part of your Frame, and your gf should know it about you. This eliminates the headache - if she can't accept it, you both get to move on. Otherwise, have fun fucking with your eyes closed for the rest of your life...
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/22 03:56 PM
1

Check out his YouTube channel.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/22 11:59 PM
2

Underrated comment
/r/askMRP16/06/22 05:27 PM
4

Why do you need to compromise? Find a girl that will agree with you doing both. Look into one-sided Ethical Non-Monogamy. Your girlfriend would be your Primary partner, you'd spend more of your time/energy that you dedicate to sex and romance on her, but would still go out on dates and have hookups etc when you want to. A better question might be, why do you want to dedicate so much time to pussy when you should be on your purpose and building your life up physically, financially, mentally, etc?
/r/askMRP06/06/22 04:27 PM
2

I don't know his story that well so you're probably right. I'm not around much these days.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/22 12:28 AM
6

I agree with what you're saying about action, 100%. It took action for me to figure out what I actually wanted out of life when I was still figuring out the basics. I had similar FR type OYSs a few years ago about getting out there. He's asking the right questions, and as long as he answers them from within his Frame, everything will turn out fine. His words about others indicated he might not be in his Frame when he posted this. And I want to note that especially since so many of the guys who j…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/22 12:06 AM
8

There's no need to hurry - there should be a deep focus inward to discover what is most congruent to your Core and who you want to be when you've stripped away Ego, Fear, and Scarcity regarding what others will think of your actions. What do YOU want?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/22 07:21 PM
2

I'm 3 inches taller than you with better lifts and I'm still above 15% bodyfat at 190lbs. You're well above 20%.
/r/askMRP04/06/22 06:51 PM
6

I felt lots of guilt and shame about what I was doing, what would people think, what would these girls think if they knew my situation? what would my parents think, and my friends, and what would my wife think. How could I explain something like this to my kids? What do I think? Don't I loathe people who try to cheat on their spouses. Am I really going to consider cheating when the opportunity presents itself? Why on earth would I do that? Why on earth wouldn't I do that? I didn't get that far b…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/22 06:44 PM
1

Keep meditating, often. It will help to widen your pinpoint focus, which can easily blind you to important details outside of that intense area you're currently focused on. How is your progress on looking at your actions related to your female boss through the lens you talked about previously? Idc about your working relationship with her, I care about what progress you've made with your "autopilot" in this area. I'd still strongly suggest you read/listen to 48 LOP soon. It really helped me to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 04:57 PM
12

MRP fixes the man, not the relationship the man fucked up
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/22 03:55 AM
1

With that being the consequence, the covert contract is eliminated, and there is no dancing monkey routine. Obviously getting other women wanting to bang will be a problem for many guys. If no other pretty women want to bang you, you can have a good idea why the wife will not. That is the first problem that needs fixing. A good first step, yet the deeper covert contract remains, and unfortunately the dance continues
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/22 07:35 PM
1

So close, yet so far
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/22 05:24 PM
1

Maybe if the raccoon is your spirit animal? Trash Pandas with Oneitis... now there's a funny thought
/r/askMRP09/04/22 04:08 PM
32

I've got better shit to do, why don't you?
/r/askMRP29/03/22 02:08 AM
11

You're one dumb fuck if you think she doesn't fully intend to "have it all" in this situation. Let me paint the picture She gets the house from you because you're a pussy She gets the passport for her daughter because you're a pussy She gets full custody of daughter because you're a pussy and most state's family courts are rigged She sells the house near the top of this market for a pretty penny She takes your daughter to a foreign country anyway because, why not, she has the support of the Amer…
/r/askMRP28/03/22 06:30 PM
1

what is making me unattractive? Why am I presently unfuckable? she just doesn't want to hear me whine Was that a serious question? You're not just boring, you're also annoying. Why would she want to fuck an annoying, boring man-child?
/r/askMRP28/03/22 03:23 AM
1

No shortcuts f&ggot. OYS and Do The Work
/r/askMRP24/03/22 04:28 PM
21

Waiting for/expecting a woman to apologize is like watching paint dry in an enclosed space - its a waste of time and makes your head hurt. Take a look at your covert contracts bub, you should be focused on yourself and what you need to do, not what you want her to be doing, because you've got a long way to go with your mental models Also, I didn't see any boundaries being crossed in your post. I saw you being a fuck up and you not leading, and her trying to figure out what the fuck is going on a…
/r/askMRP19/03/22 09:31 PM
3

You are very blind
/r/askMRP17/03/22 05:58 PM
15

Assuming everything you said is true, this is not your problem to solve - but leadership can help her solve it herself, to a small degree. Is she in active therapy, working hard on resolving her internal trauma and healing from it? If not you would guide her to it, but you can't force her - she has to want it herself and push for it herself. If she won't do it I'd suggest you find the exit, because this will get worse as you get older and the problems that come with it are not worth dedicating y…
/r/askMRP17/03/22 08:55 AM
14

"Eh" for effort.
/r/askMRP13/03/22 12:06 AM
1

Another rudderless ship with a wannabe Captain. Why is it so hard for people to figure out what they want anyway? Or is it more that they know deep down, but admitting it out loud means if they don't go after it they've given up on their dreams and if they do go after it but can't achieve it they just weren't good enough? (Ego driven?)
/r/askMRP03/03/22 01:16 AM
3

Overt Dread isn't the best, it's try-hard and women worth having around smell it a mile away. You can use it as a tool in specific situations, but it's too blunt. You want subtlety, you want her to know you're the Prize instinctively, you don't want to be covertly "telling" her you're the Prize. Passive Dread is best, but you'd have to be doing the real work for that...
/r/askMRP02/03/22 09:41 PM
2

Only at askMRP can an idea (that the guy should have had himself) that would literally lead to hot, wet, repeated sexy times, be the "straw that breaks the camel's back" causing him to want to file for divorce. Seen some 'tarded shit in my day, but this is pretty 'tarded
/r/askMRP01/03/22 06:04 PM
1

He's hoping it sticks and will be his MRP claim to fame
/r/askMRP01/03/22 05:59 PM
7

Ewe dun reed two guud, huh big feller
/r/askMRP01/03/22 05:54 PM
28

She's not a virgin.
/r/askMRP15/02/22 05:51 PM
27

The typical progression is one month for every year you've been together - if everything goes right with your internalization and changes (you don't get stuck somewhere along the way) You're on Week 3. Put your head down and stop opening your mouth, fatty You've got bigger things to worry about than wife not talking
/r/askMRP11/02/22 06:22 PM
6

I guess askMRP is fucking Quizlet now
/r/askMRP06/02/22 05:37 PM
6

Who wants to tell him? I'm not the one with the spouse who finds me so unattractive she feels like a rape victim, I'm the one getting pulled into the bedroom the minute I walk through the door after work with the door locked behind me, my pants pulled down and my dick sucked and fucked while my kid watches a Disney movie in the living room. That's my Thursday, on weeks where I have my daughter. Weeks without her are even more... aggressive... Maybe you should sit down and STFU until you've got t…
/r/askMRP29/01/22 12:40 AM
4

Who cares. You're still in her head. Are you a man who fucks? The answer right now is no. Do you want to be a man who fucks? What are you doing about it?
/r/askMRP28/01/22 07:54 PM
8

Look at my history, I have one answer. The bottom line is if you aren't fucking, you suck, and it has nothing to do with a lockdown or Pandemic. If anything girls are more horny during lockdown and more willing to fuck. They're just not willing to fuck you
/r/askMRP28/01/22 07:01 PM
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She's your only option for sex and she knows it. Fix this and at least you get to the stage where she's fucking you for survival If you don't know what I'm referencing then you're not far enough into the sidebar to be worried about this problem you think you have yet, you have beginner shit to worry about
/r/askMRP28/01/22 05:48 PM
1

Better use of yours maybe. I got free intermittent entertainment from the retard play pen for 2 days Then I got bored and decided to throw you a bone
/r/askMRP09/01/22 01:36 AM
1

I'm not trying to belittle you, I'm pointing out your blind spots. One of which is your ego, you stupid fuck. "Others should do more work than me in order to help me" Is basically what you say when you make a shitty post like this "I can't handle criticism" Is what you say when you fail my intentionally idiotic shit tests "I haven't done any introspection" Is what you say when you can't put two and two together about how both of these things relate to your self-created problems at home with your…
/r/askMRP08/01/22 05:20 PM
2

"I don't always ask retarded questions, but when I do, I make sure people have to dig through comments and my ineptitude to find the info they need to help me" The Most Retarded Tard In The World
/r/askMRP08/01/22 04:20 PM
0

Oh, my bad, let me take time away from my own journey to spoon feed you, ugly duckling: OP doesn't bother to research what a good askMRP post should look like, but shits up the sub anyway OP doesn't even bother to include stats, something critically needed to calibrate answers about his question Effort I put into answering is often mirrored to effort put into asking a question. People are living in much worse situations than the f&ggot who made this post. He doesn't "need" anything immediately e…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:55 PM
-1

Let's start with your stats
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:52 PM
3

Sidebar askhole
/r/askMRP07/01/22 04:42 PM
1

Try reading the sidebar instead of being an askhole, you'll get better results and better answers
/r/askMRP05/01/22 08:18 PM
1

Try reading the sidebar instead of being an askhole, you'll get better results and better answers
/r/askMRP05/01/22 08:17 PM
1

Try reading the sidebar instead of being an askhole, you'll get better results and better answers
/r/askMRP05/01/22 08:13 PM
1

The part where you wrote a post asking for permission
/r/askMRP05/01/22 05:03 PM
5

Like some kind of ass-backward cure for oneitis. Doesn't matter, got laid
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 04:25 PM
8

Oh no, will you promise to hard next this sub if I refuse to listen to you?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:33 AM
1

Get back to the sidebar lurker f&ggot And maybe after some study, internalization, and increasing your PRs by 100lbs, you'll see that I am giving him actual advice
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:22 AM
0

You should get fucked in the ass as punishment for forgetting something so simple as showing her how to invest... I mean you're ruining her financial future by not following through on what you said you'd do, so seems like a very light punishment to me Oh and if you don't want the anal, there will be other consequences
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:17 AM
3

Probably a train running every night, I remember how the chicks at my boot camp used to get down with every guy with a 6 pack like it was nothing, they were competing to see who could fuck the most guys. Something about being restricted and "not allowed to fraternize with opposite sex" soaked those chick's pussies like a leaky faucet. Having their options taken away just meant they fucked whoever was closest at hand. I bet most of them didn't count any of the bodies they picked up in boot camp, …
/r/askMRP27/12/21 11:05 PM
2

STFU and read the sidebar or GTFO. Start with The Rational Male because you don't even understand AWALT.
/r/askMRP27/12/21 10:50 PM
1

Nah this guy's a mess. Mods should lock n ban. He also posted to another sub about MRP being tryhard days ago, yet here asking advice still. Can't make this shit up
/r/askMRP27/12/21 10:35 PM
4

She's already gone, it was just your turn Now what?
/r/askMRP27/12/21 10:28 PM
7

lets say a marine upholds all the MRP basics versus a Music Teacher Every career has its niche women - there are groupies for everything. The real question is why do you care what your wife thinks about your career?
/r/askMRP27/12/21 10:17 PM
1

Wtf does amount of time you spend with someone have to do with Frame? You were LARPing, and now the cracks are showing. That's all. Spending less time with her won't fix the fact that You Have No Frame
/r/askMRP27/12/21 03:37 PM
9

The overwhelming majority of guys who make it focus inward and make posting to OYS weekly their new religion - make introspecting properly your new do or die life skill to develop, and you're on the right track
/r/askMRP26/12/21 02:46 AM
31

Hot girl summer preparations complete Time to invite Chad and Tyrone to the daycare opening party
/r/askMRP20/12/21 12:40 PM
9

You know, what you fat lazy fucks never do, is give us your stats. But it's OK, because we already know you're a fat, lazy fuck like 90% of the rest of the population. If you were at least in shape, you'd be proud of it and would include it in your novel above. Look at yourself in the mirror with no clothes on. Would you want to fuck that, and only worsening versions of that, for the rest of your life? Get to the fucking gym
/r/askMRP11/12/21 04:08 PM
1

She wants to get railed by Chad the Science teacher in the classroom down the hall. If you come it ruins her evening. Don't you want her to be happy?
/r/askMRP09/12/21 04:03 PM
39

Life is a continuous test of your congruence. Why would your woman be any different?
/r/askMRP08/12/21 06:33 PM
2

continue working on my day game to build abundance, continue to add new interesting hobbies and activities. Keep bodybuilding. Who are these for? The way you phrase things makes me think these things aren't for you, they're for the world and validation. They're what you think a man should do to be seen as better. Do shit you enjoy and that gives you internal satisfaction, not shit MRP or the world tells you to do to become better. Frame, f&ggot
/r/askMRP03/12/21 04:17 PM
2

She didn't love you the way you loved her, and they never will - AWALT Read The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi
/r/askMRP22/11/21 04:28 PM
5

Since you're asking for our Frame, just post her number, you obviously need us to fuck her properly too, but you know - from our Frame.
/r/askMRP21/11/21 03:38 AM
1

Idk. Send me her number and I'll take fucking her off your plate so you can focus on making more money
/r/askMRP18/11/21 10:14 PM
2

Why? Peel back the onion. And stop watching Porn and stop jacking off
/r/askMRP18/11/21 09:35 PM
1

What's your Mission f&ggot
/r/askMRP18/11/21 09:31 PM
15

If you're asking this question, the answer doesn't matter because you've got more important shit to take action on
/r/askMRP18/11/21 03:51 PM
1

I can't even imagine where I'd be right now if I'd been making the progress you are at 25. I have realized this week the key for me is to not try to say or do the right thing, but instead judge my own actions independently. What you've realized is the key to the foundation of Frame and is closely tied to being your own Mental Point of Origin consistently. Still being able to know and understand what their Frame is, while maintaining your own point of reference and mental integrity for what you w…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 03:47 PM
3

In 2-3 weeks you'll update us on how she was ovulating and it all makes sense now. Why are you in her head? What do you gain from being there so often? Make sure to get a paternity test early if it turns out she's pregnant
/r/askMRP04/11/21 08:33 PM
1

What does not fucking strangers have to do with approaching women outside the home? One may lead to the other - but I guarantee you're at least 3-6 months away from that even being a possibility if you're approaching 6s or better Stop making excuses about why you don't want to add the rejection of other women to your life and go start the painful process of desensitizing yourself to this rejection instead - start cold approaching immediately- not with the goal of fucking, just with the goal of h…
/r/askMRP29/10/21 04:06 PM
2

Called it. Her and you. Rambo McRamberson Expect her to flip flop several more times, because she is still your mirror, and you're a conflicted little bitch.
/r/askMRP26/10/21 04:51 PM
2

Then don't get a divorce - but don't expect your wife to respect that decision or you when you're using her as a practice cum dummy because you're too much of a pussy to go after whatever the fuck it is you might actually want in life.
/r/askMRP26/10/21 03:30 AM
8

You're still sacrificing quite a bit even right now - look how deep in her head you are, making assumptions about motivations, all kinds of BS. I don't really get why you made her choose to kill the puppy anyway, I guess you're too much of a pussy to do it yourself and was hoping she'd do it for you. That's not leadership. I told you this the last time you posted, and in your DMs Your leadership sucks. That's not going to change just because you divorce your wife, but it shouldn't stop you eithe…
/r/askMRP26/10/21 03:18 AM
10

Good boy. Sit. Stay. If she isn't sleeping upstairs then she gave you her real answer, didn't she? She wants you to stay without having to respect your boundaries. If she did sleep upstairs in your bed, expect the first big shit test to be sleeping downstairs again. When that happens, are you going to repeat the cycle, or cut right to the chase of continuing with your divorce? Make your choices and own them. This is the time when you need to find your Mental Point Of Origin if ever there was one…
/r/askMRP26/10/21 02:44 AM
12

Keep fixing yourself first, because she's right, you still ain't shit At least you have fitness, but that's one of the bare minimums to not being unattractive, its not an accomplishment or something she should be following you because of. You're not far enough in your journey for her to respect your leadership, or maybe she never will. The point of MRP has always been, the above shouldn't matter because MRP fixes the Man, not the relationship. That's her job. Welcome to the 1000ft rope, you're a…
/r/askMRP20/10/21 08:40 PM
8

You're not the Captain. You may be doing you but she doesn't feelz like your FO because your leadership sucks
/r/askMRP20/10/21 07:48 PM
12

Stop pushing buttons expecting your wife to react like a video game Covert contracts bruh
/r/askMRP20/10/21 06:32 PM
1

I have been talking with a HVM I had class with for several months now and I think it is going well. Do you know what a HVM is? If he's in college with you, not working full time at a real career (not just a job) or running his 6 figure plus business as an entrepreneur, then he's not a HVM. He may have the potential to become one, but he isn't one now. Also, you don't mention a very important piece of this - how is your fitness and weight? If he's a HVM or obviously going to become one, he's goi…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 05:08 PM
23

Stop role playing as a red-pilled man and start figuring out who you want to be. I'd add that for most guys who could be called successful from whatever this place is, that means walking away with what worked for them and their lives, and never looking back. It's just retards like me who stick around out of some save-a-tard hero complex, still working out my last few kinks. Oh and for the never ending supply of reminders of what a POS f&ggot I used to be, embodied by askMRP. Sometimes entertaini…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 01:45 AM
3

At least she has Frame, and gets Push Pull
/r/askMRP16/10/21 04:38 AM
5

Your post is... overwhelming
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 06:32 PM
1

Have you even read the rules? We have up and downvotes for filtering value. No. Up and down votes from the masses mean nothing for value. There's a reason why the 80/20 rule exists, and it's not because 80% will vote for things that are actually good for them.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/21 07:18 PM
41

I want the storm to pass If I do everything right, I'll have a smooth, problem free life That's you. You could start by reading the sidebar, Mr. Nice Guy
/r/askMRP12/10/21 03:56 PM
4

Shouldn't you be better at this if you want to be an HR Executive?
/r/askMRP09/10/21 03:27 AM
1

He realized he actually had a shot and completely fucked it up. So he shame/rage quit
/r/askMRP07/10/21 05:48 PM
1

What have you got to lose? Only some Ego... why is it that most people can't take any action that will harm their Ego?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/21 05:31 PM
1

I didn't have the heart to tell him, he'll probably stop reading and lifting and go back to games and porn now... 🥺 /s Crazy how your AFC can't take even a single lighthearted question or shit test. No wonder women flock to guys who take it as the flirtation it's meant to be and respond in kind. Boiled down its always been her: "Are you The Prize?" Him: "I am The Prize." Take the next exit to Bone Town, have a nice day
/r/askMRP07/10/21 05:23 PM
1

There are a lot of dumb 17 years olds out there
/r/askMRP07/10/21 05:21 PM
1

aren't you smart enough no You really aren't... At least you're (allegedly) hitting the sidebar and lifting.
/r/askMRP07/10/21 05:04 PM
1

No need. There's plenty of expansion in the main sub posts and sidebar.
/r/askMRP05/10/21 04:38 AM
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damaging a masculine frame I’ve been working on. Frame is not a STFU/alfa mask you wear to trick the world into thinking you've got your shit together while internally you're an emotional needy little bitch. You have no Frame. Stop worrying about your marriage and start worrying about fixing your lack of mental point of origin.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 10:00 PM
1

Does she peg you every night before bed, or only when you've been a good quiet little sissy?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 06:25 PM
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a problem I need to overcome for the sake of my relationship. MRP fixes the Man, it doesn't fix the relationship. We tell you that if you follow the teachings in the sidebar in a way that is congruent to you and your Masculine Core, you will have a fulfilling relationship - we don't say it will be with your current partner. It might or might not be. Coming to accept this is one of the biggest hurdles new guys have. The relationship is her responsibility, not yours. Go read the MRP sidebar.
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:31 PM
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You're lazy. Glad we've found the root of the issue, now everyone can move on with their day. Go fix your laziness issue or watch it destroy the little castle of sand you've built
/r/askMRP29/09/21 06:15 PM
4

I take cucking requests on a case by case basis
/r/askMRP29/09/21 01:46 AM
4

I could use some spending money, I'll undercut. 900/hour over here for the first 2 hours, then $1000/hour after that. I'm having a retard special!
/r/askMRP28/09/21 04:04 PM
4

But why were all of your examples of terrible mental models? Not even one good example of a mental model of a guy in his own Frame. You should probably think about what that means about your own internal mental models. Your very next point reinforces my belief further. Motivation is not to score a goal. Motivation is to score a goal so that I win the game and get the attention and status that comes from being a winner (at least in your case and the case of most other average guys out there) You …
/r/askMRP26/09/21 11:03 PM
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I read the comments first, then your bottom bit. Don't think it made me biased to know your age. I stopped reading after your first three examples. They were all in someone else's Frame, which tells me either you're bad at sharing notes that help others, or you have no Frame. It's probably both.
/r/askMRP26/09/21 05:36 PM
3

Your idea that it should end in a romantic relationship is flawed. Start by fucking her, if that isn't good then theres no point in being in a romantic relationship. Use protection.
/r/askMRP26/09/21 05:28 PM
1

Why are you watching porn?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/21 04:25 AM
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Do you lack mental discipline? That's the only reason I can think of why you're half assing so many things. "Doc gave me all clear but not lifting yet cuz excuses" You know that 5×5 StrongLifts starts with the empty barbell, right? "Still drinking a few nights a week even though my goal is to only drink when out" It's pretty easy to fix this if you follow the inverse of the 4 Laws in Atomic Habits. Probably hitting LMR a lot of the time but don't have the game to get through it yet. Doesn't matt…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/21 04:22 AM
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I asked her if she wants to go sleep with Daddy at the new house and she didn't want to I don't give my kid choices that I wouldn't be ok with her picking either option. I'd have just told her "on Friday we're going to see the new house and have a slumber party and build a blanket fort! Yay! Daddy Time!" Or some shit like that. Make it fun, not needy. Only you can decide if this is the case, but you almost sound needy in those words about your youngest. I'd think about that. Are you somehow seek…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/21 03:51 AM
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Don't assume you have low T, get checked out by a doc or a T clinic. And the mental shit you're talking about requires treatment with a psychologist, not just drugs from a psychiatrist. Get the help you need. Don't rationalize or self diagnose.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/21 03:46 AM
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What exactly do you think enlisted gets to do that officers don't? You just weren't the cream of the crop, F&ggot. You failed. Own that failure or be doomed to repeat it. Don't let your ego lie to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/21 03:42 AM
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He's raising her well
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/21 10:08 PM
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It's not a threat. It's overt A&A with a bit of an indirect pressure flip mixed in. All depends on your Frame when you deliver it, and obviously you wouldn't care about her being butthurt and sulky afterwards if you even wanted to be that much of a dick
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/21 12:17 AM
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And if you wanted to really juxtapose the asshole bit: "Can't run from reality. Go get Mr Perfect a cold beer ...before one of your friends does it for you."
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 03:28 PM
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Stop with the solution cock blocking. Figure it the fuck out. Buy your own weights to have at home. Or make your own. Or change gyms. Or tell your wife to go fuck herself. But whatever you do, stop posting here every month. It's annoying. Post in OYS Weekly like every other eventually successful POS f&ggot has done for nearly a decade, or go fuck yourself. THAT is where the real work gets done. Not in these stupid fucking posts that you delete later because your ego can't handle it.
/r/askMRP15/09/21 08:35 AM
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Stop wanting women to think like men. They're not going to.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 07:21 AM
5

Stick to it young blood. Possible recommendation, look into chirunning. Solved my stressed joint and bone issues. https://www.chirunning.com/
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/21 08:19 PM
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Last week I was feeling like the prize Here's some sex for a week little butthurt boy, now that you remember what that's like it's time to cut the flow off and reign you back in... back to mommy's Frame where you belong. Good dog. Sit. Stay. The funniest part is, most of them don't even realize that they're doing this. It's not a conscious choice. You don't have OI. You don't have Abundance. If you did, you wouldn't do validation seeking things after rejection like go "out" and stay out until yo…
/r/askMRP14/09/21 07:27 PM
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Changing her name is the least of your problems. Yes we can tell that much just from what you wrote above. Sidebar>>>>
/r/askMRP14/09/21 05:22 PM
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I already guide her to that. I'm training her jaw strength and teaching her techniques I like. I have a ritual greeting established for when I get home that she knows signals her to drop into her submissive and feminine. But when I travel for work or when I'm busy getting shit done I'd like for her to have something that feels enriching to her.
/r/askMRP12/09/21 11:12 PM
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You can also lead her into hobbies that you think would broaden or deepen parts of her that you value. I took mine to a painting class for her birthday, and encouraged her talk about wanting to learn to draw. I'm going to get her some sketch pencils and books and praise her when she uses it as a means of relaxing into her feminine after working/getting stressed. It doesn't have to directly add value to you, it can add value by giving her something to do so that she isn't feeling like she needs t…
/r/askMRP12/09/21 06:52 PM
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Everyone else is right, your mission sucks. But one thing I didn't see anyone else say - you need to show her how to add value in your life. You do this with Praise when she gets it right. Abundant praise, and fuck her lights out to show how much you like what she did. This is how you validate her, show your love, and strongly reinforce behavior you want more of all at once. It also provides a much stronger dose of validation than what you've been doing because it makes her think she is doing it…
/r/askMRP12/09/21 05:39 PM
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"I don't put time and resources into commitments that are one sided. When you start showing me it is mutual commitment, I'll consider including you in my plans." Like I said, your Frame is non-existent. I wouldn't tolerate this type of behavior at any time. Anniversary has nothing to do with it.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:37 PM
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Are you the Captain or not? Hope you have consulted a lawyer and are ready to nuke if necessary, because if you aren't, you're going to lose this game of chicken, and be in an even worse situation next time. Assume she will take this over the edge and be ready for it. Overall, what do you want? Visualize that in your head before reading below . . . . . . . Is what you want based entirely in things you control? (I.e. only requires action from you to achieve?) If not, you need to adjust your expec…
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:13 PM
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Shit advice.
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:11 PM
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He can't handle it when we hit him with that "medium tone"
/r/askMRP07/09/21 09:10 PM
2

Because if you make a shitty post that I bother to read (God only knows why, I was hoping for value if it was in the main sub, hoping for entertainment if it's here) and then when I find out it was shit and I wasted my time, I'm going to shit on you for making a shitty post. Shit rolls downhill, as they say in the military. What threekindsoflucky said is on point. If you can't take a little pounding without your pussy getting all achy, maybe you'd best keep your pussy off the internet instead of…
/r/askMRP07/09/21 04:36 PM
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Not talking about you, unless you have 6+ accounts. I was getting down voted when these comments first were posted. The numbers have since equalized. Haven't seen that happen in a while, but when it does, it's usually because a bitter truth has been exposed by one of the more "harsh" ECs and lurkers who were silently cheering on the half baked concepts in a post have their covert contract ridden dreams crushed by reality. Ego is a real bitch, and doesn't like to be exposed for what it is. Even i…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 11:11 PM
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Yeah that was my last one. Always funny when the lurker brigade gets butthurt though, makes it easy to tell when you're really hitting deep in the Ego
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 07:58 PM
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"If I practice being calm and follow a process to get from here to there, I'll have a problem free life" Go reread your post in a day. Don't read or respond to anything else that gets commented in the mean time. Then think about the "tone" your post has.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 04:59 PM
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There are no magic bullets f&ggot Half measures usually make things worse You end up in the big boy pool without your floaties on when you haven't figured out how to actually swim yet, wondering why you're sucking in a lung full of liquid when all you were supposed to have to do was "use that medium tone" You can't do both One is an artificial mask - more BS In line with Nice Guy behaviors and covert contracts "If I use this tone, she will respect and love me and I'll have a problem free life" W…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 04:38 PM
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If you use too high tone, You seem emotional. Too low and you sound butthurt Modulating your actions to get a specific response from her How about if instead, you just stayed out of her Frame and DNGAF? Continued with refining and executing your MAP while you focus on reading, internalizing, and doing so you become less of a pile of f&ggot habits and shitty mental models and more of the man you were meant to be? You know, put your energy where it would do the most good? Nah. Maybe you're right. …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 03:58 PM
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In my experience, Rian's focus on boundaries works best. I'm not looking for something in her whether positive or negative. I accept what is, I don't think about it. This prevents me from seeing what I want to see, as is human nature. It also keeps me out of her head and Frame by not trying to analyze the motivations behind her actions. Instead I focus on myself, and what I'm ok with happening in my life or not. I reinforce the things I like with praise, and I establish boundaries about the thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/21 04:25 PM
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Just to be clear, you don't "need" to fuck. You want to fuck. You need to find and pursue your Life's Purpose. Being a man who lives as his best self quite frequently results in fucking women regularly.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 09:49 PM
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Edited my comment You've got no Abundance because you have no options. Your wife knows this. Kino vs needy cuddles are the least of your problems
/r/askMRP30/08/21 09:40 PM
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Kino is "I want to fuck you" energy Sexually Needy cuddles After a week of denials is "I need security, hold me mommy" energy It's not fucking rocket science.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 09:22 PM
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There's nuance to this. initiate when you feel like it /want it Do you feel like initiating out of a healthy masculine desire to fuck, or are you initiating for external validation? Be careful and dont initiate often or just when you are certain to succeed Extreme scarcity mindset. Very shitty mental model. You'd be better off spending the mental energy and effort you're putting into analyzing your wife's state of mind on other more productive things. Like reading and implementing Day Bang techn…
/r/askMRP26/08/21 05:45 AM
5

I wonder if you realize that you're in her Frame
/r/askMRP24/08/21 07:38 AM
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Your level of effort in the question contributes to the quality of many responses here. Just keep sprinkling a 'lil Alpha on it bro, you'll be fine
/r/askMRP23/08/21 03:44 PM
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u/threekindsoflucky is gonna have a feast today
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/21 03:30 PM
3

I feel like Merch. Shirt's in stores.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 04:05 PM
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Go to the main MRP sub. Read the sidebar. Profit.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 03:40 AM
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I was going to say most of the same things. She's feeling the pressure of time passing (as well she should at 28) and so she's trying to press OP for security. Since OP says he doesn't want to move in and all that jazz, he should probably start getting his pipeline/rotation flowing again because his LTR is likely going to become increasingly more of a headache and time sink as she becomes more and more overt in her attempts to press him for more commitment. AWALT... maybe he's HV enough that she…
/r/askMRP22/08/21 03:34 AM
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Fuck out of here, no it's not. You came here with questions for retards on the internet, not to have a deep dive conversation with your inner self. Here's a tip on Frame: you can't develop your own while you're so busy trying to figure out how to be in ours. The answers are in the main sub and the sidebar, but you've also got to do the work. Just reading about changing your mental models isn't going to change them. The world doesn't care about your problems. I care only enough to tell you that i…
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:43 AM
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Wow. You're right, you don't get it. “I am the prize” like I truly do believe this. No you don't. The Prize has standards about the people he allows to be in his life, because he knows that his time and gifts are too valuable to be wasted on those who do not appreciate them. beta shit goblin pops in my head and I think we’ll she’s asking for comfort She's not asking for comfort. She's keeping you in her Frame, making you her bitch. She knows you know you won't get blown unless you stay her bitch…
/r/askMRP19/08/21 02:04 AM
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You're definitely a burden, probably also an autist. RP is not the same as MRP. Go read our sidebar because you don't know shit about shit - the TRP sidebar was just the tutorial. Time to learn the real game champ
/r/askMRP18/08/21 04:53 AM
1

Get a hobby... its not that complicated
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/21 06:16 AM
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If you've already read it and still don't get my chicken/egg comment, you can't be helped here. If you haven't read it yet, go read it. The End
/r/askMRP12/08/21 09:31 PM
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You really have a problem with critically applying reading material to your own life then. You already have all your answers. Go away and do the work
/r/askMRP12/08/21 08:52 PM
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Read "Atomic Habits" by James Clear. That may help you with this whole "chicken and the egg" question about how you change your mental models
/r/askMRP12/08/21 08:49 PM
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185 lbs, 6'2 Bp 215PR 165 5x5working weight Op 140PR 110 5x5 working weight Squat 245PR No working weight as my quadricep tendons are fucked up right now (rolling and stretching instead) Dl 275PR No working weight as my quadricep tendons are fucked up right now (rolling and stretching instead) Bf% 16.5% At least you mostly kept your weight down while you milk your injuries as an excuse to not try in the gym - but I mean honestly all that takes is doing nothing, so... I have a feeling half assing…
/r/askMRP12/08/21 05:38 PM
2

Thank god. Alphalfa, you know better than to spend your time on BS like this. Less is more. Lead the horse, don't drown it
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 11:01 PM
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Why is everyone down voting this, it's symbolically exactly the same as what OP is doing verbally
/r/askMRP11/08/21 03:14 PM
2

No one cares. Own Your Shit.
/r/askMRP11/08/21 12:00 AM
2

It's not just that. She's feeling overwhelmed. She isn't actually overwhelmed (especially if she's sitting on the couch watching TV) Eventually ( like weeks or months from now) you'll also want to put a stop to the fact that she is commandeering your time by committing your time for things to other people ("Dada will change you now" I'm guessing isn't the only place she does this)
/r/askMRP08/08/21 07:51 PM
2

Me: “I understand hes been a challenge. I’m going to shower and then I’ll help out” You want to reframe the narrative, so your language use should be a little different. Your son isn't a challenge, he's a bundle of joy and his own person, even on his worst day right? Even if he is mostly an eating pooping observation machine that needs constant stimulation right now. Remind her of that subtly. "I hear you saying you're feeling overwhelmed. I'm going to shower now and I'll be back to spend time w…
/r/askMRP08/08/21 05:39 PM
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MITW already said it, so pay attention. Having empathy is actually a critical positive Beta trait. It's one of the good ones, and difficult to cultivate for those who don't naturally have it. So don't try to "not care" It's what you do immediately after you understand their Frame and perspective (after you care) that you need to laser focus on and modify. What you need to do is care about yourself more It's that simple. You should care deeply about your wife and kids. You should just care about …
/r/askMRP08/08/21 10:51 AM
2

You mentioned When I'm on the road Do you work full time? Why do you live in the middle of no where if you travel for work and could live anywhere? What percentage of the household bills does your income pay for? There are no other couples with small children that live where you live that you might be able to trade care with? Zoom is always an option, yes. I'm hearing a lot of excuses and noticing a lot of holes in your story
/r/askMRP06/08/21 11:11 PM
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What you're talking about has nothing to do with your son. It has to do with you, internally.
/r/askMRP06/08/21 10:59 PM
2

Are you in therapy with a male/masculinity positive provider? If not find one and get on it.
/r/askMRP06/08/21 10:54 PM
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One of your best comments I've seen 👌
/r/askMRP30/07/21 09:47 PM
1

You've been doing this for 24 weeks or more and that's the extent of your lifting progress? Sounds like the rest of your OYS - you only make the safe, no rejection/failure, guaranteed win moves It's time to go All In and start racking up some L's, f&ggot - you aren't getting any younger
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/21 03:57 PM
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I was in a 2.5yrs LTR. It wasn't amazing, we had a lot of disagreements but she checks almost all my boxes for ltr, Sounds like you need better boxes Men who don't have proper standards for the women they invest their time and presence in don't have respect for their time and presence. Aka - they don't respect themselves. You should probably focus on that and stop breaking the Iron Rules by digging through the trash
/r/askMRP28/07/21 08:47 PM
1

Hey Re(tar)d-Author, Learn how reddit karma works
/r/askMRP27/07/21 03:53 AM
1

Questions and retards go to r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/21 03:40 AM
10

Username checks out
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 04:21 PM
10

Do what you want to do, Drunk Captain
/r/askMRP24/07/21 09:04 PM
10

You're not HV/attractive enough and or she needs to be dropped. 9 times out of 10 it's the first one, she'll do it, just not for you
/r/askMRP22/07/21 09:33 PM
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You claim to have read yet haven't even picked up basics like fogging? WISNIFG my young f&ggot Women, especially young women like that with literally unlimited access to attention, are going to challenge you constantly on why you don't fall in line like the rest of the beta bois. Why? Because you aren't a HVM she truly loves and respects and knows she can't do better than you. You haven't become yet. Focus more on improving your life while you're young. Don't put so much mental energy into this …
/r/askMRP20/07/21 04:02 PM
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What is your Mission? (Life Purpose) Does she add to it enthusiastically? She doesn't matter, what she brings to the table to assist you and compound your efforts toward your purpose is what matters And if you don't have a purpose for your life beyond "be attractive, don't be unattractive, get money, get pussy, repeat" well then you have bigger problems than worrying about whether or not it's time to settle down.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/21 08:11 PM
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Isn't it funny how that reason is always 100% in her Frame, too?
/r/askMRP19/07/21 07:08 PM
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Pay attention here OP
/r/askMRP19/07/21 07:04 PM
2

Yep, exactly. You're their father. They aren't your little emotional support animals. They aren't your friends. They are your offspring and most men strive to give their kids a solid role model of what a healthy adult male is and does.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:43 PM
2

You need to face why you feel "lonely" - thats codependency talking and you need to become your own Mental Point of Origin or history WILL repeat itself. Get used to, and comfortable with, being alone. Don't substitute spending time with your children into alleviating the loneliness, you'll just fuck them up with your codependence instead. My current LTR had to work hard to get me into that space, and I Still take a lot more time than she would want, "just for me" - I need it to recenter and ref…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:25 PM
2

I have the right to change my mind WISNIFG
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:33 PM
1

Game other women. Catch and release. Don't be retarded, have OPSEC on lock. It's the fastest way to learn good Game.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:17 PM
1

You've got Oneitis. Read the MRP sidebar. Get your shit together.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 03:11 PM
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You have a lot of work to do. Your wife fills the container you build for your life, and right now you've built a shitty, Leaky container with lopsided edges. No wonder she's spilling all over you at the slightest provocation. Best way to fix this is to start posting in the OYS Thread every week. You can't see your own blindspots
/r/askMRP18/07/21 04:54 PM
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You sound young. Is your life in order or are you wasting your time chasing pussy? Rhetorical question... You made your own bed, and now aren't ready to lay in it. The world doesn't work that way. Regarding LTR being over you so soon, she is also young, and has Abundance you could never dream of, let alone understand. That's why she doesn't gaf about losing you. She probably fucked an orbiter that same day. Move on.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 04:45 PM
2

What are your stats f&ggot? Can't help you without them.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 03:47 AM
2

What is your contingent plan if this next "last look" doesn't pan out? I'm not looking for an actual plan, more a feeling inside that you won't be crushed/lost/floundering around if things don't go your way. Before you whiplash to a "yeah, I'll manage, I'm resilient, rah rah" remember that it's OK to feel loss, failure, to have feelings, and to feel them. What's important is that you don't let those feelings run you or your life or dictate your words or actions. If you did all you could, then it…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/21 10:40 PM
2

Like one of the other guys said, if you'd been posting to OYS weekly, you'd have found this out a long time ago. We can't see our own blind spots, they're blind spots.
/r/askMRP13/07/21 06:18 PM
2

You're looking for a reaction from her, doing X to achieve Y - you're trying to play her like a video game "which button combo finishing move will unlock the sex bonus level?"
/r/askMRP13/07/21 04:41 PM
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you chose her to be your wife cause she is your partner your equal. Wrong yet again. Most of us who end up here chose the (ex?)wife because we believed in the Disney fairytale you're still pedaling with this comment. You say you should lead, then say she's an equal partner. No. At most she is a capable First Mate. Remember that. You're the fucking Captain. There is no Co-Captain on a tightly run ship. She may be an equal human being, but the relationship dynamic should be crystal to both of you.…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/21 08:25 AM
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That was the point of my sarcastic comment. Instead of not gaf and improving himself, he's focused on how she responds. It completely misses the entire goal in favor of a new version of the same shit that gets most men here in the first place
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/21 07:35 AM
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Questions go to r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/21 08:47 PM
2

Can't wait to see your "I used to be alpha" post in 10 years Learn to fog, f&ggot
/r/askMRP09/07/21 09:44 PM
4

Start by developing your own Frame so you can stop living in hers
/r/askMRP09/07/21 12:15 AM
1

He vibes 'round here
/r/askMRP05/07/21 04:00 PM
5

I don't know of a single HVM who has dry spells. Fuck out of here with this low value half measure bullshit Go back to fucking yourself in the corner while the men do the work and reap the rewards of a fulfilling life, f&ggot.
/r/askMRP04/07/21 10:29 PM
5

Remember the difference between a bulking diet and a cutting one. There really isn't a time period where you'll be sitting on "maintenance" if you're taking your muscular growth seriously - you'll either be on a calorie surplus with a workout regimen to match, or you'll be on a deficit with a focus on avoiding injury and much smaller/slower gains "Maintenance" in my experience is the gateway drug to complacency, you're basically saying "I'm good enough right here, no need further improvement" an…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/21 08:41 PM
9

Works much better than OYS. Especially for the wife, she loves not having to deal with his semen
/r/askMRP25/06/21 08:10 PM
23

How does it feel to be an RPWife? I've always wondered.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 06:23 PM
1

In a way, I'm glad he deleted before I saw this 😆 still had the title so I know exactly what I missed.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 06:21 PM
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You talk too much without saying anything
/r/askMRP25/06/21 05:55 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/acvzgx/steels_guide_to_married_red_pill/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/askMRP24/06/21 08:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/o772jc/my_wife_46_years_old_of_17_years_is_having_a/h2x6hqs?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/o772jc/my_wife_46_years_old_of_17_years_is_having_a/h2x04au?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/askMRP24/06/21 08:18 PM
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You're going to get banned soon, this place isn't your emotional tampon. You can either take the advice you've been given here and study the material in the links you've been provided, or you can keep wallowing in the shitty life you've created for yourself while doing nothing productive and most likely making things worse. Either way, no one cares. Maybe I'll see you in the OYS weekly threads, maybe I won't. Either way it's about what you want out of your life for you...and that has absolutely …
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:48 PM
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You're a no-accountability-taking f&ggot who got lazy and you deserve what you got. If you weren't attracted to her because of her weight you should have told her and if she ignored you, divorced. Your happiness and self respect isn't worth losing over someone who obviously doesn't care about you
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:36 PM
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how I FEEL? Stop acting like a woman. You're a man, and no one gives a shit about you, or your failed marriage. It's all your fault because you failed to be that man who excites her, so she found it elsewhere. Your wife may not be depressed or anxious, but this generally applies nonetheless. She filled the relationship container you provided for her https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/asqi8r/depressive_and_anxious_wives_how_its_all_your/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:19 PM
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My wife and I have not been the most loving couple the last 5-7 years of our marriage. Good core Then you don't have a good core. Those two statements contradict each other. I'm guessing you're in a dead bedroom (sex once a month or less) which means you're not getting your primary need as a man met. She's getting some of her needs met through you (provisioning, security) and now getting the rest of her needs met through Chad (attention, tingles, feeling good, validation from a man she respects,…
/r/askMRP24/06/21 07:03 PM
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in order to keep her in the slightly manageable state she is in now and I'm walking a thin line as far as my ability to keep this up You can't control other people. Trying to is a fool's errand. You can set yourself up ahead of time to be in the best position possible so that when the divorce needs to happen, you come out without bleeding too much. See HornsOfApathy's post on being willing and able to nuke your family unit. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ge79vq/why_you_must_be_…
/r/askMRP24/06/21 06:40 PM
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Balls deep in your wife's Frame... fix that first before worrying if you can keep her, Mr. D. Monkey P.S. you shouldn't be worried about keeping her either
/r/askMRP24/06/21 05:51 PM
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I glanced through about 5 yrs of your posts but not comments and didn't see anything MRP related. Link(s) to your story?
/r/askMRP23/06/21 05:13 PM
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Guess you slipped past legend and into untold myth
/r/askMRP23/06/21 03:27 PM
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Never heard of you f&ggot
/r/askMRP22/06/21 07:26 AM
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His original comment was genuine, in its entirety. "Good for you for removing Time and Attention, because even you're mother shouldn't be tolerated in your presence if she spoke to you in that manner." Your self respect isn't worth any cost, including separated households for your kids if it came to it. Which is worse - two households where the parents are happy and love them, each doing the best they can and setting healthy examples, or one household where both parents are miserable and set atr…
/r/askMRP21/06/21 09:03 PM
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You've gotten a lot of good advice now, so I'll just add that you shouldn't marry this girl until you turn 30, at the very earliest. If you're not ready even socially "interesting" why would you put yourself in a position where she will slowly but surely lose attraction for you over time and you'll end up in a dead bedroom with ILYBINILWY like so many other older guys here? Just don't do it. Also don't have kids. Make these priorities #1 and #2 and you'll come out far ahead of your peers. Add in…
/r/askMRP21/06/21 02:17 PM
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What are your stats? Height weight big lifts? How much of the sidebar/which books have you read? Annual income? How long did you date before becoming exclusive and/or moving in together? What are your goals in life? Edit your original post to include this info
/r/askMRP21/06/21 04:25 AM
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Maintaining the relationship and his attraction to you is your job. Do whatever it takes. Him being awesome and living a congruent life is his job. He probably isn't there yet but sounds like he's giving it a go.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 07:01 PM
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Bad bot
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 06:57 PM
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Best comment on this thread
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 06:56 PM
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I used Kirkland protein bars as my "desserts" and "treats" Not sure about carb count now but before they changed their formula this year it was very low carb with high protein for the mass (20g+ per bar), and when you've cut out all other sugar it hits the spot. Chewing something vs just drinking some protein powder mixed with water felt different to my brain somehow. feel ravenous by 11. Didn't say you wouldn't feel hungry - you alwayswill on a cut - it's about drinking enough water (typically …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 03:58 PM
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Also low effort ones.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/21 02:53 AM
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I don't think all the lurkers realized why this is your fav
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 11:54 PM
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By the time vets become vets, they either have a solid rotation of plates that replenishes itself as I described above or one or two plate(s) has proven worthy of promotion if that's the direction the man wants things to go. More than half the active vets at MRP are married or in a LTR, and most of them aren't actively plating. When/if these vets happen to choose to become single, they spend very little time if any "approaching" women because the women are pursuing them even if not directly/aggr…
/r/askMRP16/06/21 09:04 AM
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What is the point of this? Do what you want. Stop being a f&ggot. Nobody cares. If you were actually a HVM your intrinsic social proof during your everyday interesting life activities would bring women to you. They don't all approach but they do make themselves known as approachable if they don't. At a certain point scripts are for low value losers. A man living an interesting and fulfilling life with the basic required social skills to play at a HVM's level just doesn't need them. Lastly we don…
/r/askMRP16/06/21 08:28 AM
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I want him to feel he did a good job Wait, now you're trying to validate his ego in addition to your own? NMMNG much? Let him ask you about it. Done deal. If he's interested then he will, if not then who cares, talk about something else. Are you really telling me you're so boring you can't think of anything else to talk about?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:04 PM
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She never initiates Genuine desire from a woman doesn't equal her initiating. Women also initiate in very different ways from men. Initiating for her may be a light touch on your arm and a coy look in her eye. If you want a girl who initiates in a more direct way more often, its probably to validate your ego and you've got more mental work to do in this area.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 05:00 PM
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Fat loss If you're serious about this, I see two main options. Both require you to set your Intention and then follow through. Imagine that, needing to be able to follow through as a HVM... I'd suggest combining either method with Keto or Low Carb if you want to be able to actually eat a decent amount of food, your limited calories are going to bite you in the ass hard if you eat carbs like most normal people do. Remember to give yourself a different number of calories on workout vs non workout …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 04:54 PM
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Nice Flair man. You earned it, not us. Now keep earning it every day - never lose the mentality.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 08:40 AM
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100%
/r/askMRP15/06/21 12:38 AM
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17-18 years means a minimum of 17-18 months for your MAP to show sustainable, tangible results in the relationship - one way or another. Keep that in mind. Write it on the margins of your MAP so you don't forget it. Many guys get impatient after they start putting in the work, thinking, why doesn't she see all this hard shit I'm doing? Is she fucking blind? I'm working my ass off here! what they forget is that they're literally just digging themselves out of the grave that they settled into over…
/r/askMRP14/06/21 10:05 PM
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OP would do well to learn the distinction you bring up here.
/r/askMRP14/06/21 09:57 PM
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There's a good reason why MMSLP is a beginner/basic book. It's meant to start you on the path and be a step in your transition, not be your ending mental model. Get back to work. The End
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/21 03:58 AM
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Go (re)read the posts on STFU. The rule to STFU is not just about shutting your mouth. As long as you continue to measure your ongoing success by her responses, you're a monkey, looking for his next banana split.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 10:18 PM
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Your entire post can be summed up as the basic rule to STFU. Get back to work you fucking monkey, because she's not going to be impressed for long and you'll need some new dance moves soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/21 08:20 PM
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u/SorcererKing I nominate u/TheDatsyukian for 60DoD 2021 flair. Check his OYS posts if you weren't following over the last month and need to verify, I know you've commented on his posts before. His progress on releasing fear especially is solid and he has been posting thoughts similar to your main theme for this year, but before you've made your 60DoD posts on several occasions. He dun good
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/21 12:17 AM
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Most likely you didn't vet her properly and even if you suddenly became Chad, she would leave you. Why? Because the deal she signed up for was for you, the Beta Bitch, not some "red pill aware" f&ggot who suddenly decided he wants the power dynamic to shift in his favor even though he's done zero real work
/r/askMRP05/06/21 12:55 AM
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If you have your shit together then it isn't possible to have no experience or have read nothing about Game, Escalation, and Kino. You don't have your shit together.
/r/askMRP03/06/21 12:39 AM
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If she's not attracted to you, nothing else matters. Point blank. No amount of Game, Kino, or pro techniques from the retard collective can save you from being a low value f&ggot. Before I got my shit together, sex with me was regarded as a chore. Now women literally beg me to fuck their dripping wet pussy. The only difference in what I was doing and saying to escalate before and what I'm doing and saying now is that I have a nice body and I Am The Prize. There are no cheat codes or secret scrip…
/r/askMRP03/06/21 12:03 AM
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Do me a favor, mention what you're currently reading from the sidebar when you post. Don't slack on the recommended reading list. Stuff you've already read early on will come across waaayyy differently for you now than it did when you read it in the past, rereading is always recommended when in doubt If you haven't read Way Of The Superior Man by David Deita (audio is amazing too) and 48 Laws Of Power (get the abridged version) then you need to read them immediately. Both are extremely applicabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 10:18 PM
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You want it more than they do, and they can tell you're only doing whatever you are to get pussy and don't give two shits about them as people, and don't have enough value (if you did point one would be irrelevant) I'm guessing you have no Game and are probably a bore. Nobody wants to fuck a meat head who can't hold a simple conversation (build sexual tension as well as comfort in a short period) Your resources to fix these issues are the same as anyone else's. Sidebar my Thirsty F&ggot
/r/askMRP31/05/21 04:20 PM
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Yep, that's a better way of phrasing it. Thanks Horns
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/21 12:53 AM
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I must have not been paying attention, what about that phrase do you hate? What I think of when using language like "self improvement" is that its kind of like trying to explain color to a man who had never opened his eyes (never seen anything) and doesn't want to believe color or sight are possible. If he can't hear it smell it feel it or taste it, how do you get through to him? He has to get to the point on his own where he can at least accept that sight is a possibility before you can explain…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/21 12:48 AM
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A “good morning, how are you?” Text is normal For you hard to pivot Yes, I imagine it would be difficult for you to maintain attraction while pivoting from Beta supplication to Seeking validation My original conclusion has been thoroughly reinforced by your response - you aren't ready or calibrated for effective texting game. Get back to the basics (or start): Lift Read STFU Post in the weekly OYS thread
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/21 08:23 PM
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If you can't think of anything interesting to talk about from your life or to ask her about, you should probably be more focused on self improvement
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/21 08:03 PM
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OP deserves some flair Maybe King of the Lurkers?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/21 03:00 PM
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Had a kinda important typo in my comment above. Edited and clarified. Read through it again when you can
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/21 02:08 PM
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it took me a few days A few months with the ex -> a few days now Let that sink in. Where will you be in another 6 months? Days -> minutes? The world is your fucking oyster bed from here forward, you just have to make the effort to shuck those bitches, then you get to slurp um up And I'm not really talking about women, although they come through this process naturally I talked to her and concluded that I wasn’t her first choice. And then you promptly cut ties when she didn't get with your program…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 09:02 PM
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Bad bot
/r/askMRP22/05/21 07:48 PM
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And replied using this account to the other post. Yep. He's retarded. And hairy! Check out that pressurewasher porn
/r/askMRP19/05/21 02:45 AM
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I usually throw in the whole "post to the OYS thread every week" bit, but yep, you nailed it without spoon-feeding.
/r/askMRP19/05/21 02:42 AM
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Start posting weekly in the OYS thread. It's pretty much the only way people actually make it out the other side of this process 🤷🏼‍♂️ Otherwise have fun as just another dumb fuck now holding dynamite
/r/askMRP19/05/21 02:39 AM
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I haven’t been practicing red pill. sorry if I seem oblivious to redpill methods but it’s not something I follow religiously What exactly did you want from us?
/r/askMRP18/05/21 09:30 PM
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It's not "STFU and listen to me" It's just "STFU" If you'd just STFU and did more reading, you'd understand why you need to STFU.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 07:59 PM
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Here's the other problem - even if you've minimized your most atrocious unattractive behaviors (even this post shows how far you have to go though, ffs man you monkey dance harder than an emo kid on Molly at a Skrillex concert) You're just not that attractive Both your body and You You still fucking suck bro. So stop worrying about her pussy and your dick and get to work. If you put half this mental energy into the actual internal work of shifting your mental models and taking congruent action i…
/r/askMRP04/05/21 09:29 PM
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Hawaiian shirts and a couple pairs of shorts Get them tailored when they come in to show off your physique. It's one of those subtle things that guys who are hot shit with their shit together do that guys who are just hot, don't. “packages” I think you mean a packet? Could be a service branch difference. playfully talking to some girls Your tone here still sounds like you aren't the Prize. I know you don't feel like you are yet but I'd recommend reading the post by our resident wordsmith u/ancie…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/21 08:56 PM
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I'd watch Kevin Samuel's YouTube channel and also maybe The Roommates to get an idea of what you don't want in a woman. Put yourself in the correct frame of mind when it comes to what are realistic expectations on her part from you (assuming you're high value) (Are you truly that kind of HVM) Here's the thing man. In order to keep this type of woman, you have to actually be congruently High Value, and you really can't slip. High Value women are in some ways even more hypergamous than the rest, a…
/r/askMRP04/05/21 02:21 PM
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Good point. I always hate getting to the entertainment too late on discord. Now we can all find him unless he fully deletes out
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 04:35 PM
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>COVID is over. Its time to fuck and news flash - it wont be with you. >Your wife or LTR sick and tired of looking at your ugly face. I have an underlying condition that puts me at higher risk for COVID complications, so my LTR has been really careful about staying home and avoiding too many situations where she can get exposed and pass it on to me. Now that things are dying down, she's gotten used to being at home with me (I work from home also) and doesn't want to go anywhere by herself. Also,…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 03:56 PM
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If you're so boring and predictable and DEER so much that there's no mystery even when you're not together Let That Sink In... Probably time to rethink what you're doing for fun in your life and learn to STFU Or just keep being a boring, lazy, unimaginative f&ggot
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 03:52 PM
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Sidebar Atomic Habits is good even if you think you don't need it. I still get bitter Stop making this so complicated. You're in her Frame when you think about this so much. ("Am I supplicating? Am I being unreasonable?" All that shit is focused on you thinking about her in some direct or indirect way.) "Do I want to do this?" yes then do it no then don't. And don't be an autist - if you're right next to the blinds, chances are it isn't a compliance test from her. If she's sitting and you're sit…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 01:43 AM
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I remember getting my flair based on my success in this area (and others) last year as I was finalizing my divorce. I fucked more women in more strange places (and have continued to do so) in that 60DoD than in the rest of my life combined. I had a lot of catching up to do after a year in a dead bedroom... haven't looked back and will never tolerate anything like that again. It was a major catalyst for many of the breakthroughs in my mental models to where I am today. Just get out there and DO s…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 11:49 PM
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In your personal experiences, have you ever found any one of them to not apply to you? You're not a special snowflake, and this isn't a forum for discussion. Refer to u/ancient_resistance 's comment and post in the OYS Weekly thread f&ggot
/r/askMRP28/04/21 09:53 PM
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Expect said pre-nup to be overturned. Hilariously, sadly realistic
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:40 PM
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Based on post history OP is 22. Lost "a lot" of weight and gained most of it back 5 years ago, was almost 2 years no fap up until last year when he relapsed. This is likely a hot mess y'all. Let's see if he answers.
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:37 PM
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Your age height, weight, lifts, income? What have you read in the last 5 years? Why do you want to be married at 22 years old? How long have you been dating this LTR, and how long after she became your LTR did you propose? How old is she and how many past sexual partners do you know about? Edit: after seeing your post history, how is NoFap going after your relapse last year?
/r/askMRP28/04/21 08:32 PM
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ie her mommy skills are not her #1 priority.
/r/askMRP21/04/21 11:03 PM
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The other guys have already given you some advice, so I'm going to give you a reality check. You need one, desperately. Sidebar You mean to tell me that you've been at this for over 6 months and this is all the material that you've covered? And you wonder why you're still struggling with this basic shit I think realize the difference now between between shit tests and general bitchiness. I struggle to handle general bitchiness. What is the guidance there? Remove Time and Attention. Should be eas…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 09:31 PM
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By now you're probably starting or about to start motivational burn out after pushing so hard at so many of your comfort zones for the last few months. Your key focus now (aside from completing 60DoD) is to integrate as much of your positive changes and progress into your daily routines and your overall personal discipline regimen as you can manage. Automate everything you can. Basically, hold the line against your old self and his pussy lazy f&ggot ways which are going to try to creep back in b…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 10:14 PM
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You GAF enough to be indecisive and post the question f&ggot
/r/askMRP17/04/21 07:28 AM
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In that case you should definitely bask in the validation that you're the better man FOH with this retard question man. Do you seriously care that much about 15 year old nudes in her spank bank? Here's a spoiler: her memories of him and the way he made her feel are way better when she cums thinking about him, and his dick is definitely much bigger than yours in those memories too, whether it's true or not
/r/askMRP17/04/21 07:21 AM
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Depends if he has a bigger dick than you or not
/r/askMRP17/04/21 07:14 AM
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Good God you're boring. Been sucking up everything but the rules of the place you want help from, ay? This belongs at r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/21 09:22 AM
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Watch videos of professional lifters doing the exercise and videos that go into depth on proper form. Then along the way as you increase weight over the months, record yourself from the same angles and try to figure out what you're doing wrong and correct it while the weight is still "light" and you don't have bad muscle memory.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 10:31 PM
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being fat, lazy and unattractive I’m unsure how to undo this Seems pretty straightforward to me..... Stop being fat. I.e. keep your mouth shut not just for STFU, but to stop stuffing your pie hole. Try intermittent fasting. Switch to only eating dinner. No breakfast, no lunch, no snacks. Only eat between 4-7pm each day. Feel hungry? Chug 24oz of water. You'll be amazed at how fast you learn to prioritize healthy foods that provide the nutrition your body truly needs, because you'll literally sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 09:09 PM
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Sidebar is over at r/Marriedredpill Much better posts are there than found here Good luck f&ggot
/r/askMRP13/04/21 08:10 PM
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Yep, getting your feelz out with verbal vomit always helped men become better /s MRP is about the work. We have no sympathy for the situation you put yourself into. Get to it or gtfo
/r/askMRP13/04/21 05:21 PM
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Kinda fucked up the freedom play a bit when you knocked her up You have no control over what mommy does
/r/askMRP13/04/21 05:14 PM
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What does a win look like for you man? What is your long term play here?
/r/askMRP13/04/21 04:58 PM
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3 scenarios. .#1 You had a kid with a woman who is still in her prime SMV years. You think you're the only one fucking her while being casual. (Laughable btw) .#2 You are way too deep in her head (evidenced by your "emotional state" and bothering to try to read her mind at all instead of just deciding what you want and doing it) and actually have a form of Oneitis. She's just good enough at stroking your massive ego (convincing you you're in control by acting like a slut for you) that you don't …
/r/askMRP13/04/21 04:47 PM
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Are you really that retarded? Make a new account and go OYS. Don't be so much of a f&ggot and you won't get banned again. STOP. Making. Excuses.
/r/askMRP08/04/21 03:28 PM
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protein intake difficult without cutting the other macros Excuses. If you need more calories for your other macros, then do some cardio. Just drink 3 more scoops worth of protein a day and you're there. That's probably 360 calories worth of powder. You can't find a way to burn 360 more calories per day? Seriously?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 05:44 AM
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And this is where you not posting in OYS, or even reading OYS, or having read past year's 60DoD posts, and your overall lack of knowledge about this place, becomes rather telling. People who do those things I just listed? They know that there are much more actionable guides and advice right at their fingertips, compared to the half assed description you threw at the wall here. You comment is dogshit, sorry that it doesn't add the value your ego thinks it does. It was a decent attempt at owning y…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 05:31 AM
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Have you read the 60DoD posts from past years? They are gold, and should fill your reading time. They will get you pumped. They will inspire you to your inner greatness. My suggestion is that you read each week's past posts along with this year's new post for each section as they come out (ie don't skip ahead in sections even in the past year posts) I'm a little jelly it's your first year. You can make so much headway in your first year it will blow your mind man. Newb gains are a thing in MRP. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 05:09 AM
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put it in OYS. That's the last thing SK said to do. But you don't post in OYS, and think you're special. Also apparently have a hard time with reading comprehension. Hence Johney's "and?" followed by your ego ridden reply. You're not adding any value by seeking attention/validation with your self disclosure about your love of chicken tacos. Btw, your protein intake is too low. Shoot for 300g/day and if you hit between 250-300 on average you'll do better.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 05:02 AM
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Go read it all. Asshole. Or bask in the glory of your wife's "receptiveness" while nursing your 18 months blue balls. EDIT: HAHAHA just read your latest comment. Guess I was on point. Your job is to become the man you want to be, live just past your edge, and be congruent to that HVM, not the ego and covert contract ridden autistic fuck you are now. Your job is not to manage her or your relationship with her. If that includes being a great father, then be a great father. But it better not includ…
/r/askMRP08/04/21 03:43 AM
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I don't even think it's that she wants to avoid it, it's that she literally knows he has no options, and so she knows that she doesn't even have to avoid it - she doesn't even have to consider it - she can just say "No"
/r/askMRP28/03/21 09:46 PM
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The foundation of the marriage is her job... I feel like you're a ridiculous f&ggot too! Hugz Pandemic has made life easier, simplified so much I must have missed the part where her mouth and ass were bleeding from the IUD too. She's just not attracted to you, f&ggot If she was, and if she desired you or even respected you as a worthy mate and a HVM, she would be initiating sex with you on a regular basis just to ensure that your balls were drained, and there would be no reason for you to seek s…
/r/askMRP28/03/21 09:39 PM
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Most of the guys responding here aren't flaired and are f&ggots themselves, take everything said at askMRP in that context with a grain of salt. There is no quick fix or easy answer to your situation. You arent getting serious responses from people qualified to give them because you aren't worth the time to respond to seriously yet Start posting every week in the weekly OYS thread on Tuesdays. For the vets and regulars who could actually help you, you're not worth the time and effort to respond …
/r/askMRP27/03/21 05:10 PM
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He knows and loves what he has now, weren't you paying attention? He knows and loves that his wife has cheated on him multiple times with multiple men. Who needs respect when you can just have unrequited love?
/r/askMRP09/03/21 05:32 PM
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Well he currently knows and has known his situation for years, and apparently loves it. So fuck him. What kind of question is he even asking? This is bread and butter MRP shit, he's nowhere near special and obviously hasn't done the work. He really asked for the cheat code... so I gave it to him. Not my fault if he still loses anyway.
/r/askMRP09/03/21 05:30 PM
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Tell her you now have an open marriage and you're going to find out what she's been enjoying all these years. She also needs to be available for your sexual needs anytime, anywhere. The word "no" doesn't exist in her vocabulary anymore. She can either stay faithful to you as your little anal cum slut while you work the desire for strange young pussy out of your system for a few years or you can get a divorce. You get to live your life of "integrity", get strange any time you want it (assuming yo…
/r/askMRP09/03/21 05:14 PM
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https://youtu.be/Oc81b9PjRsw
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:32 PM
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It's the simple things in life you treasure
/r/askMRP02/03/21 11:27 PM
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All I can say is I can't wait to see OP's quality post on Frame. Literally can't wait. This is gonna be great guys.
/r/askMRP02/03/21 09:17 PM
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It's always entertaining how easy it is to put guys like you on full tilt Probably because I remember when I used to be the same way Like looking at the past... nostalgic
/r/askMRP02/03/21 09:07 PM
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No one forced you to do anything f&ggot. The most basic of the basics is learning when to STFU. A strong Frame is not moved to action by other's views that conflict with their own...
/r/askMRP02/03/21 06:10 PM
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Maybe you can't OP, plenty of others have done just what he suggests
/r/askMRP02/03/21 06:06 PM
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It's been done https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/337uvx/the_elements_of_frame_0_introduction/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share New f&ggots have to go through that process because their egos won't accept that they've got shit mental models/shit ways of doing things. Also, advice about Frame doesn't do most "newer" guys any good because they don't have the basics implemented yet. Having the concepts at least known if not yet internalized makes it possible to make the leap and…
/r/askMRP01/03/21 08:55 PM
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From my perspective you sound like you're just chasing highs. That's fine, but the thing about highs is that if you're on that long enough, you plateau, and then suddenly it doesn't have the same effect it once did, because its been normalized. So maybe you don't want to fuck more, because you've been fucking more, and it's become normalized. For some people these things come and go in cycles. Sometimes I cycle into "being in the zone" in life for a few months - I'm full of productive energy, I …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/21 06:33 AM
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It's amusing how easy it is to get you to respond. Lose some ego man, its not doing anything in your favor. Or just keep LARPing away and being RP aware like so many other f&ggots here. Anyway this is all the time I have for today. Maybe look internally first before responding this time, you seem so eager to give advice, but can you take any?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 08:34 PM
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Because it doesn't have anything actionable for you
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 08:27 PM
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Is this meaningless stream of consciousness going to help you progress?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 07:53 PM
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Nothing about your family, nothing about your social life, nothing about your mental work. Just came to brag I guess? 🤷🏼‍♂️
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 04:02 PM
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This is the only OYS you've posted that tells anything even close to resembling something about you that others in this community might be able to help you with. I hope what you're doing is actually working for you internally, because the way you're posting right now follows the path of the type of guys who hide behind theory and words to avoid exposing their own vulnerability. We can't help if you don't bear your heart. We don't care about your cerebral brain "we need emotional content" -Bruce …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 02:42 AM
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I'll just leave this here. https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/dnhq16/stfu_ground_zero_for_dummiesnfaggots/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 12:10 AM
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Go read up on it on the main sub. It starts April 1st this year (no foolin) but there's many previous years with epic material to read over in preparation.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 01:58 PM
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You should consider participating in 60DoD this year. Last year it catapulted me forward in my physical and Game progress and really helped me establish myself solidly in many of the habits and mental models I have now.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 08:30 PM
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You think women aren't capable of using casual sex to secure a beta? You're more of an idiot than I thought. Please, Tell me more about how your indecision and weakness around this girl is so Alfa. Please?
/r/askMRP16/02/21 01:04 AM
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Now you're hiding behind theory. Hilarious. This isn't TRP. This is MRP. Similar, but different toolbox with a little overlap in a few areas. Our toolbox builds men of high value, and doesn't really give a shit about dual mating strategies other than peripherally as an external measure of success for new retards like you who don't get it yet and maybe never will. Also hilarious that you're hiding behind the ego-driven assumption that she's still fucking you as an "alpha" and not just keeping you…
/r/askMRP16/02/21 12:51 AM
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I never said it was her Frame. Just that it damn sure isn't yours. If you were living Authentically you wouldn't have bothered to come here with this question, you'd already be taking action in a way you'd decided was best (and win lose or draw you'd own the results of those actions) Instead you're here looking for a magic bullet to get you what you think you want out of life today There isn't one other than to become a man who doesn't need magic bullets. See my original advice and comments
/r/askMRP16/02/21 12:27 AM
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You're using all the RP lingo, but in such a bitchass BP way... You're deep in a Frame, that's for sure. It's also certain that Frame isn't Yours.
/r/askMRP16/02/21 12:16 AM
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Read the Sidebar and post in the OYS Weekly Thread f&ggot. I'm not gonna give you free fish, but the community will teach you how if you put in the work to learn
/r/askMRP15/02/21 07:16 PM
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You've got Oneitis. /thread Fix that shit fast before you get burned. You're too young, and your "relationship" is too young for you to be exclusive with someone
/r/askMRP15/02/21 07:03 PM
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He should say it more effectively. What he wrote, how he wrote it, is shit advice There's a difference between Being controlling - which implies you expect a certain response from others in relation to your actions preferences etc And Having standards - you don't expect anyone to act in any way they don't want to, but only spend your valuable time with people who meet or exceed your standards.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/21 01:47 AM
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We explain in various books Who the fuck is "we?" Are you the author of one of the books on the sidebar? You must find a way to deal with it that doesn’t involve getting stressed, and doesn’t involve directly telling her to quit it. This is wrong. If you don't like some type of behavior, you enforce the boundary that you won't be in a relationship with a girl who does that behavior. Usually the boundary if crossed means you remove your time and if the behavior continues, escalate removal of your…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/21 01:28 AM
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Reading, even memorizing material, does little. The heavy lifting is the internalization and changing your mental models.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 06:48 AM
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Journaling helps tremendously with the internal work. Write that shit down. Added benefit you can then read over it a year from now and potentially gain even more insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 07:27 PM
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The reason isn't something you express with words you LARPing f&ggot If you were a HVM, or at least self assured, you'd understand this. But you don't. So I'm done wasting my time. This is the last advice I will give, and is all most of us ever need anyway. Improve yourself first, and the rest will follow. Literally. Become a man worth following and no one will care when you say no, and neither will you, because at that point you are the prize and you aren't worried about all this "balancing" bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 10:33 PM
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The point is, stop worrying about her. Are you a selfish, lazy asshole? Yes? Then fix yourself (unless that's who you want to be) before taking this brevity advice. No? Then don't Feel Guilty about saying no, and don't DEER about it. Stop justifying your actions to other people. You're in her Frame instead of your own (if you even have Frame) and give way too many fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 09:11 PM
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Keep dancing on her board, f&ggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 08:53 PM
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Way too many words. "No" Works just as well, and leaves less opening for discussion. Get used to being comfortable while she tries to make you uncomfortable. That's where you're failing
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 08:14 PM
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Yes
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/21 08:10 PM
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In addition to the usual bashing Nope, just bashing since you can't be assed to provide basic numbers for stats, and think you're funny without ever having added value to the sub. Sad, because if your question hadn't been so goddamned vague and confusing, it might have actually gotten answer by some charitable retard
/r/askMRP31/01/21 04:40 PM
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Once you trim the fat, keep it trimmed and see in a few weeks (4+ minimum) what you actually miss or that brought real value to your life that is now absent. Add that back in, permanently ditch the rest. You may be surprised by what stays and what goes, you may not. After that, possibly explore why you felt compelled to continue doing the permanently trimmed things over the last few years. What does this reveal about your ego, your Frame, and your willingness to follow the herd?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/21 04:56 AM
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You're still getting you ego validated by (7), and thats why it felt so guud when you fucked her. "I am better than that guy I was Jelly of, fuck yeah dats!" You need to figure out your priorities and make a schedule ahead of time, before you continue to spread yourself too thin and start failing in multiple areas. Focus down. Strip away the BS until things settle down from being so mentally draining.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 09:03 PM
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You really think these chicks can't see through your BS in person when we can over text online? You've been given the answer several times. Your Ego won't let you accept it. It has nothing to do with your technique. It has everything to do with you, mindset wise. You're pedestalizing them before even meeting them dipshit Of course they smell that needy f&ggotry on you and don't want to fuck you. Religious girls are the absolute freakiest. Bar none. Just not for you, Beta Boi
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:29 PM
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Who has no Frame, and apparently no Inner Game either
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:24 PM
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You're an idiot
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:21 PM
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Huh. Just so happened to be here when this posted. Keep up the good work, those of you posting every week and early, and pushing yourselves to make internal progress. Thats where the money is.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 08:33 AM
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You're clearly lost, also full of ego. You've got a reasonable foundation, but many flawed mental models. Get into Steel's Guide, on the main MRP sub. Someone else posted the link. By next week Tuesday morning, have your first Own Your Shit post ready for the weekly thread. No one is going to spoon feed you here. Do the work or fuck off Btw anything over 12% BF is considered fat here. So you're fat.
/r/askMRP26/01/21 02:22 AM
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Hows that Dancing Monkey Improvement Program working out for ya, champ?
/r/askMRP26/01/21 02:08 AM
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I'm guessing this means you Decided that you want to be a man who keeps playing the victim, and doesn't make changes or own his shit. Your life, your choices. Only you can make them. I was right to make that a post and not just a reply to you... Hopefully some day you benefit from it in more than a cerebral sense
/r/askMRP23/01/21 04:22 AM
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Read my OYS posting history if you want an example, I did this but with two kids. Basically get your own life, and go live it, unapologetically. Stop having her be the center of or any part of that life, because that's where she is in your life right now. Read my post about changing mental models, maybe that will give you somewhere to start as well. Your situation should be far less complex than mine was.
/r/askMRP23/01/21 04:00 AM
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Better practical advice than OP deserves, might or might not fix his real problem. No way to know since he shared so little
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:40 PM
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Gotta love the downs on my original comment. The real truth always wounds these ego driven fucktards at askMRP
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:39 PM
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No. I'm pretty sure he wants permission to cheat and feel justified. He has no interest in the work of leading his wife
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:20 PM
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Do you watch porn and jerk off? What are your actual stats? When is the last time you fucked your woman? https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/gq2d5d/when_was_the_last_time_you_fucked_your_woman/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share While that may be an interesting read for your inspiration, in the end, its all your fault, f&ggot Your wife is a reflection of you and your leadership. YOU are getting more and more unattractive. SHE is just following along on your 1000 ft rope
/r/askMRP18/01/21 05:12 PM
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Just one note, this is my personal taste, but WISNIFG I didn't get the audio, only the digital or paper copy. Its a very dry read, I imagine it's an even drier listen (might be hard to digest the material in audio form when so many parts are technical/boring) And the part I'm specifically talking about you needing right now is the "bill of assertive rights" section/chapter at the beginning for you to internalize right now. (The whole book is recommended reading for a reason, and can help militar…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/21 04:27 PM
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I'd recommend two audio books to you. Atomic Habits by James Clear And If you haven't listened to WOTSM on audiobook yet, buy it and use some of your listening time for that. What you describe here Outside of that goal, I am having a more difficult time. Isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it really depends on you internally. We can't see into your head to know if this is just you focusing down and putting everything into the mission, or if it's you making excuses about why you aren't pushing thr…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 10:12 PM
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You're a mess and in no position to make decisions like this I resent her and I resent myself. I'm honestly not sure if the relationship can be saved, it's looking more unlikely than likely. This is just your weakness talking. The first sentence is the truth, the second is just you being a feelzing little bitch. It definitely can't be saved by you as you are now. How bout you stop obsessively focusing on how your wife is responding to your f&ggotry, and start obsessively focusing on improving yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/21 02:54 AM
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You're not asking about lockdown, you're asking about forced long distance for a few months. You also tell us literally nothing about you. No stats. We can't help without the basics. But here's a suggestion: Put on some fucking muscle. Lose a shit load of fat. Call her from a restaurant or other loud or social setting occassionally so she feelz a lil Dread. Improve yourself in all ways over the next 4 months and come back to her a new man. Also, you're a giant covert contract ridden f&ggot who i…
/r/askMRP09/01/21 09:45 PM
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I think laziness and avoidance stems from them. YES! This is what I came to realize as well. Once you know it, it becomes like any other variable - you compensate for it and calibrate accordingly. You've got such a bright path to ever higher peaks ahead of you my friend. Remember that at times when your sensation is running high in the negative side.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 06:09 PM
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You remind me of me in a lot of ways AR. So many similarities in our stories. Truly, a lot of ways... You've been talking about laziness, fear of failure, and your specific "ism" for a while now. So here's a challenge for you. Now that you realize you're doing this lazy fuckwit/ego deluding stuff in those areas you mentioned above, how much of the "ism" stuff youve mentioned in your past OYSs do you think is just also more of the same ego protection/laziness? I find my personal "isms" to be a hu…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 04:55 AM
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spinning plates or be in an LTR with someone who adds value to my life Who said plates don't add value? Mine cook for me, buy me shit, cut my hair, wash my clothes if I ask them to... all the shit you get from a traditional LTR. And they do it willingly, and because they want to add value to my life Again, you're letting your BP scarcity mindset make your decisions for you. If you want a LTR, like I eventually do, great, look for that. But don't make these creative excuses about why you need a L…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/21 03:58 PM
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Keep doing good work Ego BS If you had been doing good work, you'd have been promoted with your peers. Figure out a reasonable game plan, and timeline to improve social life. I am not sure how much progress I can make on this during COVID. Excuses. Our relationship is very fine. very mediocre sex Its not very fine then, is it? Next up: Start gaming Next up: stop seeking sex for validation of my covert contracts (Fixed that for you)
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 06:58 AM
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This might have partly been due to some feelings of guilt and shame: 1) continuing to have sex with women that I wasn't interested in LTR'ing, 2) being afraid to get too close, and 3) being "disloyal" by seeing more than 1 girl at the same time Your 1) isn't necessarily a bad thing. I have this as a general rule of thumb unless the girl and I both are interested in continuing as fuck buddies. I tell girls early on (like within first 3 dates) that if I decide they aren't long term material, I wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 06:43 AM
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You forgot the option all the retards at askMRP actually choose though: keep doing nothing and wonder why shit isn't improving
/r/askMRP31/12/20 06:08 AM
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Maybe try playing more video games, I'm sure that will help your squat form, which will definitely impress the wife. Btw, is this the same girl you posted about in askTRP 9 months ago? As having dated her for only 6 months before that? And now you're married and wondering why shit is falling apart? What a joke. Why aren't you in OYS every week F&ggot? Edit: I forgot to answer the question. The best course of action is to Read the MRP sidebar Lift Heavier STFU Post in the OYS Thread every week F&…
/r/askMRP31/12/20 03:42 AM
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I can’t say enough how good it has felt https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/f3x2kf/it_felt_really_good_to_write_this/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share You've got such a long way to go. You aren't special. Read the Sidebar and books. Lift Heavy Weights. Shut The Fuck Up about it. Post in OYS weekly.
/r/askMRP30/12/20 04:54 PM
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my workouts lately All fine to train for your upcoming PT test, but make sure at least once a week that you lift heavy with lower reps to keep your muscles reminded of what you want them capable of. Maybe go at 80-90% of your usual working weight so you keep from being too sore and risking injury the following days with cardio work etc, but don't lose out on the progress you've made with PRs just because you're prepping for the test. That's my advice. I'll wait to see more progress from you ment…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:46 AM
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an image Its not an image, its who I am now. Back then, its who I knew I was capable of being, but now, its just who I am. If I slip from that, I hold myself accountable and do better. Thats it. I'm still a f&ggot, just a bit better of a man than I used to be, a bit more disciplined, a bit more driven, and a lot more picky about what I spend my valuable time and energy on. basic lines along which you measure your progress come fully from within and are not based on the expectations or ratings of…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 02:18 AM
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With all the times you were "broken up" for a week or more, combined with her history of hooking up for wild sex just hours after meeting Chad at the club? Are you high or just stupid? How did Chad's cum taste when you kissed her after first getting back together? Salty and delicious?
/r/askTRP26/12/20 06:35 PM
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Merry Christmas to you and yours Lucky
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 08:03 AM
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MRP fixes the man, not the marriage or the wife. Why don't you try r/deadbedrooms They focus on the wife, too
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 07:11 AM
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Does this mean we can respond without getting banned? https://youtu.be/4F4qzPbcFiA 😆
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/20 07:11 AM
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focusing heavily on avoiding external validation. This is the way met all my financial, athletic, and work goals for the week. This is the way I am focusing on building this MAP. In general, I’ve focused on internal change and plans I went out but was having an off week Don't feel off about this. Embrace it, you can't be all things at all times. Also don't feel the need to get it all figured out now, a MAP is just a working draft anyway - always shifting to meet your ever changing priorities and…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 04:51 PM
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Nature isn't closed because of Covid f&ggot. Go outside. Its not that hard. Go hiking. Go to the park. Go for a walk. Go fuck yourself. Stop eating so much and keep working out with heavy weights. Why is this rocket science? Why do you want us to tell you what you enjoy outside your home?
/r/askMRP21/12/20 03:40 AM
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I can't find the anal reference. Who hacked you Red?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/20 03:45 PM
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Keep going back to that livestream maybe once every 2-4 weeks. Just like NMMNG, there's no way you worked through everything they talked about in a day/single read. Looks like you got your motivation back up - thats great, but use this high performance time to put systems, habits, and structures in place to make the good shit you're doing now while motivated into permanent discipline based (instead of motivation based) actions. Automate everything you possibly can as well. I highly recommend you…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/20 09:21 PM
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A few additional notes Not all girls will kiss on the first date, no matter how good your Game is. Her turning to kiss on the cheek means nothing. Dont count it as a fail. You did what you wanted to do, good. You then based your success on her reaction, bad. Don't let how someone else feels about you doing what's authentic for you affect your feelings about your actions. That is the definition of living in other people's Frames. Simplified version: learn to give less fucks about what others thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/20 05:57 PM
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I feel something is not right here This is pretty obvious to me. Where is your Anger Phase? Why the fuck aren't you mad? You do realize that for women, the emotional part of cheating is way more important than the actual sex, right? You realize that "walk in the park" with Chad 100%, 1000% at a bare fucking minimum ended in her passionately kissing him while he fondled her tits and fingered her sopping wet pussy right??? That she sucked his hard cock in the car because she wanted him so bad? Rer…
/r/askMRP09/12/20 03:41 PM
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LEG DAYS Make sure you don't add insult to injury by overdoing it on legs and injuring yourself there, too. not thinking of exes. I like your focus. reading Bang Don't forget about Day Bang, its the balance to the Bang "cocky Alpha" night life side of things. Elderly Chat to open chicks in normal everyday settings is honestly more successful for me than Bang techniques at bars and parties at night. When you get the number close in broad daylight and set a real first date later, you have automati…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/20 03:50 AM
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Chad definitely tapped that. They worked alone a bunch of times? 💯 OP is in denial. Poor guy, let him enjoy his hysterical bonding while he can.
/r/askMRP05/12/20 01:53 AM
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“it’s water under the bridge” It isn't though, so that response is just your ego talking. It isn't ok. So don't pretend like it is, because she will read through that and know you're incongruent. Assertive and congruent would be "I don't want to talk about this again" and then STFU/Broken Record or distract her with shiny object/something fun Let her hamster do the heavy lifting.
/r/askMRP05/12/20 01:48 AM
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how would be the best way to conduct myself in her presence Never speak of it again, and get your shit together. If you have to communicate the boundary directly, its too late and you've already lost the battle.
/r/askMRP05/12/20 01:06 AM
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It’s too late to go back. It might be too late to go back, but its not too late to own your shit and not fuck up another guy's life needlessly. IF you actually care at all about the "unfairness" of the guy's career potentially being ruined, then there are steps you could take. (Contact her boss and tell her about their affair, and what you saw. At least this guy won't have a false harassment charge on his career and/or criminal record!) But my guess is that you are a f&ggot through and through, …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 07:04 PM
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I know I also mentioned this last week, make sure your goal is to practice your Game and Escalation techniques, not getting pussy. There's a huge difference in mentality and DNGAF between those two and women smell that difference for miles. You've really got to not care if they end up down or not, and the best shortcut to that is to not have getting in their pants be your focus, you've got to have a stronger focus and motivation on something else. You can still appreciate a solid approach, escal…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/20 03:04 AM
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You let menstruation keep you from having Intercourse? Weird.
/r/askMRP02/12/20 09:21 PM
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I'm going to focus on pacing better because this is becoming a reoccurring theme. Hilarious, didn't I just bring this up last week? Great job making moves without the "comfort level" related BS from last week though, you get a real taste of what that Abundance mentality feels like and the results and you'll be hooked, I promise you. Pussy flows like water when you have that locked down, but you'll just be thinking "this is fun, but I've got my X Y Z project/focus on my MAP, so I'm not gonna drin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 05:00 PM
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You're going Rambo. I had not done any of the introspection that I had committed too in the previous OYS’s. I have been saying for three weeks that I was going to do some of the exercises in NMMNG. I have not done it. I have said for two months now that I was going to write out my MAP - I have not done so. I am procrastinating. I have tons of things that need to be done in my house. They stare at me every day and I have not addressed them. They are a constant reminder of my procrastination and l…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 06:45 PM
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The drinking is just There's nothing wrong with 2 beers over the course of 4 hours, but if your focus during these outings with girls is to Game them, you shouldn't really be drinking much if anything - you should be staying sharp and focused on your real goal, which is NOT getting laid by the way, its practicing Game and escalation. That should be your mindset all the way through each encounter, including if it goes well and you take a girl back to your place. You're practicing your Game. Once …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/20 06:43 PM
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Just went through a pretty painful breakup When was this? What month/year? Nutrition: Eating well to make up to occasional alcohol binges. What does this mean? No porn (4 weeks Good job, keep it up. Keep learning to master funneling all that excess sexual energy into your goals for now, and once you're Plating at least 2 girls, learn to funnel some of it into them, while keeping what you need for yourself and your drive. Reading Day Bang, Bang, and the Escalation Ladder and Physical Touch barrie…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/20 04:57 PM
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When you're attractive enough, the women game you f&ggot. What a fear based bullshit comment. You either do what is needed for Abundance or you don't.
/r/askMRP22/11/20 10:42 PM
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got a little triggered earlier this week and it's tough to shake again When it isn't turning into anger, then it's usually involves some form of toxic shame. I don't always catch it right away but when I do I get it that shit under control and press on. This is again what I've mentioned to you several times about your self esteem. You think you are low value (and maybe you are, I don't know you) but that thought is entirely in your locus of control. You can change that negative self perspective.…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/20 06:38 AM
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We don't know because he hasn't posted, f&ggot. We've only got his word for it, which is worth less than nothing. Posting in OYS exposes the self deluding lies and ego protection measures we ALL have, especially when starting out.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/20 12:50 AM
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See my comment to u/HornsOfApathy below. I Don't know if he'd be willing, but fucking A this is one of the best examples of when to ask someone with more experience about a specific situation you're heading into that I've come across, and he likes you so he just might go for it. You're not asking him what to do with your life like most retards here, you already know what you want, and are just asking for some help with calibration. You'd be spitballing about your specific skills and your company…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 03:11 PM
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Hey Horns, I think if you're willing (and I haven't missed that you've already done it) that a bit of direct mentoring/ back and forth specifics with Walrus in DM about his career situation would be an extremely valuable thing/opportunity for him right now. I think he's possibly got a shadow of his old BP bitch self holding him back here - unless he lacks certain required skills, why can't he ask for the VP of Sales position (or a new one created for him while they work to transition to him and …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 03:06 PM
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You've been living in TRP/MRP's Frame for some time now, ever think its time to make the leap and establish your own? The second piece of practical advice I'll give you is this. No matter what her age is, you should find a woman who legitimately doesn't want to have kids. (Not just doesn't have, but doesn't want them either)
/r/askMRP17/11/20 09:05 AM
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Post on Tuesdays or GTFO, this Friday shit is annoying, stop being lazy and prioritize Owning Your Shit. I won't respond to you again if you aren't timely. Even if that means not much to report in your next OYS, get it in on time. Look at stuff about Mayor Game, its the evolved and effective version of this idea: approaching strangers with no real objectives and an easy out Read Bang and Day Bang, but let them enhance and educate your developing Game style, don't start running scripts. One of th…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 05:45 PM
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A lot of it is basically "don't act like everything's ok because it's not" If your wife isn't going to play along, then this is not training in the ring. This is something different that will not help you in your next relationship, because if it somehow got to this point again it means you didn't do your "boxing" the whole time until it somehow got back to this point again This type of behavior is unacceptable from a wife, it sets an insane example of what a relationship should look like to your…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/20 04:48 PM
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Don't enable his excuses. He doesn't list his weight because he's a lying f&ggot like they all are
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:36 PM
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Might be time to reread WOTSM
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 11:17 PM
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Your next step in becoming your own judge is to get to the point where even legitimate serious criticism doesn't make you defensive, no matter how confrontational it is presented to you. Instead, you consider it openly, take what is valuable, and move on. For this you need two things, not caring what others think of you, and comfort in your skin with your flaws to the extent that you can accept that valid criticism without needing to defend against it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 08:23 PM
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My wife is replaceable Yes, she is. And I know that new and improved life would never be the one I imagined (with the intact Disney family), that's only possible with her. Are not congruent. You're mouthing the words but you don't mean them. You've still got Oneitis for your Disney fantasy. I've come to terms with it. If you had, you wouldn't be eating up so much of both our time. You've realized what the problem is, but you have not at all come to terms. That is where you're not getting it. You…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 06:48 PM
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"I'm gonna have to push this button, aren't I? Well damn, you're makin' me do it!" Is like a weird covert contract. You are not the center of this, she still is. "I'm not getting the response I want from you so this is how I'll dance now in response, and in this case the dance is to play chicken over ending our relationship" vs. "I know I could end this relationship at any time I decided to and everything in my life would be ok, and would improve over time. Not only that, but I'd be ok with it t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 06:29 PM
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There are multiple posts about this from over the years man. Read the sidebar. HOA's was just the latest one that addressed the end play after you've done the work to get to that point, and what your mental model has to look like before you get to that point and has to keep looking like afterwards if she falls in line and she stays with the new you and the new dynamic, or has to look like with your next LTR Look for them. There really aren't that many posts in r/marriedredpill from the last 4 ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 04:53 PM
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You really don't get what Horns has been trying to explain to you man. At all. You can't have both as your #1 priority, because there is only one #1 To try is an exercise in ego protection. Either you're first in your life, or you're not - by trying to have both, you're not prioritizing yourself, so the question is answered by default. You're not first. This is what it means to be willing to nuke your marriage, and walk away from a relationship that isn't meeting your needs. You do it because yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 02:28 AM
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I wasn't trying to lead him when I wrote that... Probably some of my own unresolved, unwarranted Nice Guy guilt over my own choices at the end of my marriage that caused me to get angry while reading his OYS. I'll have to look into that and unravel the knot. Thanks for the gut check Blarg. In my mind at least the difference is that he's too much of a pussy to go after what he actually wants. He doesn't have the balls to ask let alone tell her to use the fun things he bought, so he's basically fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/20 07:04 PM
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makes me nearly cry sometimes
/r/askMRP08/11/20 07:09 PM
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I was able to pull myself together and get back on track she's initiating more told me she's glad "I'm back" Can't have your partner let themselves go. At least someone in the relationship has standards. Has she been initiating for you to go down on her, or just to fuck you when she wants sex? What about anal, has she been sticking it in you? You know, since she's The Man and you're her lil Bitch? Has she suggested a three way with another guy to spice things up yet?
/r/askMRP08/11/20 07:03 PM
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the dread meter has been turned up baby is due soon I'm not saying not to go out with your male friends, but you need to read up on the posts about Dread during pregnancy. She may need more comfort to stay stable while you get your much needed time with the guy(s). That comfort is not your responsibility (at all), but if you like her you might take it into consideration and not hardball her with direct dread. I.e. don't push dread buttons just to see her reaction while she's pregnant, just matte…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 07:17 PM
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Your general apathy Is a defense mechanism to protect your ego from the fact that no one gives a shit about you, and make you feel tough. Embrace the truth instead, it will make you stronger. If no one cares, doing what you want to for your own sake makes sense, doesn't it? Welcome to rational self interest. Like MITW already said, your "boundary" is bullshit and riddled with covert contracts. The one person you've let a little close to you makes you feel unimportant by not texting in the time y…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:59 AM
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custom built dashboard monitoring web page Why not build it anyway in your spare time, then sell a monthly subscription to it to your company? If they can then hire cheaper labor, and you make money by updating and improving functionality and utility of that page and charging them a % of their labor cost savings, you've basically created your own value and "position" in the company, with them dependent on you for continued savings. If they don't buy it, you learned while building it and can incl…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:41 AM
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Way to check the box this week, bud
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:37 AM
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Social Is about your guy friends and what hobbies you do outside the house with other people, not women you're trying to fuck. What you wrote about would fall under "Game" or "sex life" or "plating" You're chasing pussy. I know its hard when you don't plate properly and have no options available, but the more you seek it, the lower value your mentality of your self will be, and the less attractive you'll come across, because you haven't developed OI, abundance mentality, and Frame and you as you…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:30 AM
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questioning in my head whether or not she was actually flirting with me This is the wrong question. You're placing her as the Prize this way, she comes before you. Don't do this. The question is, regardless of whether she's flirting with you or not, "do i want to flirt with this girl? Is she interesting enough to merit my attention and time?" If the answer is yes, then you flirt, because its fun and you enjoy it. If not, you don't. When it happened I felt all nervous and excited Because you thin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:20 AM
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It makes me feel more measured in life I'm not a doctor, but feeling more measured and being more balanced are not the same thing. Be careful of that distinction, observe changes in your productivity while using as objectively as possible with hard data, and decide if its worth any downsides you come across, like deadening your self or emotions etc. Only you can determine if its actually an aide, or just a crutch you're using because you lack self discipline and time management.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:10 AM
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Like Horns is implying, you're relying on her moods to determine your happiness. If I can keep her happy, my life will go smoothly and I'll have a problem free life and be happy, too! Recognize that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 05:04 AM
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This guy reminds me of my mental models before finding out my ex was cheating on me. I still consider myself lucky to have had that discovery as a catalyst, it cut the imaginary infinite decision tree that I was letting paralyze me to pieces and made it much easier for me to decide my path.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 04:55 AM
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Shooting for 1g / lb bodyweight ~150grams If you're trying to bulk, this is the bare minimum daily on your rest days, it won't cut it for your workout days. You should be shooting for 1.5-2g/lb daily. Do what you gotta do to hit that range everyday or don't complain when you don't gain muscle. Every meal should be at least 50% meat, with 2 or 3 "snacks" between meals that are basically straight doubled protein shakes. That will get you there. Its not easy, but you gotta eat to gain.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 04:37 AM
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You're doing ok in other areas so its time for a reality check in the physical department: I’m cutting (due to the torn pec in March? Or was it the strained groin? I can't keep track) And having lost 16 pounds since July... Doesn't add up You may have done good the last week but anyone can "cut" for a week. Stick to it without any fuck ups even on holidays and date nights for at least 60 days, and then you can say I'm cutting Until then, you and your ego protection can go fuck each other sensele…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/20 04:18 AM
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Re read, and pause and apply the 4 laws and their inverses directly to this issue. (You're slightly bastardizing the concepts in your notes, which happens naturally when you summarize.) thoughts of hopelessness This happens in general, but especially when you're aimless like you appear to be. You need to look inward, deeper and deeper, and keep introspecting until you figure out what you (currently) want your life's purpose to be. You need to start figuring out your Mission. Even the process its…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 07:38 PM
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I'm probably coming across as just the same cunt that I ever was, but now I'm vain and even more self centred, and spend my time at the gym. Thats not what you're coming across as, thats what you are. You've internalized nothing, you play with dynamite daily with no exit strategy in place, and apparently could give a shit about your kids because they're going to hate you when this all blows up in your face - and they probably should, since you're just being a selfish cunt anyway. Its like you're…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 09:04 AM
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It's incredibly boring Then you're still doing it wrong. Your entire being should be focused on utilizing the right muscles in the right ways, at as much of their capacity as you can force them to give without an actual load. That is how you perfect form, by shadow boxing the real thing while you're working up to the real thing. You're welcome, you'll never be bored again. F&ggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 08:51 AM
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None of this has anything to do with fixing or owning your shit. No one cares about your finances or job, and especially not your covid fears. Are you really at OYS #39?!? what is this garbage, man? You should know better
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 08:34 AM
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didn't find it any easier to actually want to do them Time to grow up, this is called discipline. No one "wants" to wash the dishes or fold their laundry. You do it because you know it needs to be done and you're the type of man who runs a tight ship. (Are you? Or is that not part of your idea of Owning Your Shit?) Would you still be able to DL 365lbs if you treated your workouts like you treat your schoolwork? I get that you want to work out, but I'm sure there have been plenty of times where y…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 08:28 AM
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So according to your posts, between OYS #1 (July) and OYS #2 (Oct 27) you stayed at 258lbs. Yet apparently in 9 days you lost 8lbs, because OYS #3 you say you're 250lbs. So in 5 months you lost 8 lbs. Not much of an effort. Been maintaining my diet and lifting routines That means you're either lying, or you meant you've maintained for 9 days? Either way. Lame. Speaking of lifting. You don't mention weights or what kind of lifts you do, except in OYS#1, where you mention Last chest press on the c…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/20 06:15 AM
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There's one part of this journey that no book or online group of retards can help you with, and that's the leap from taking advice to giving it to yourself (becoming your own mental point of origin, and establishing your Frame)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 10:42 PM
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it's more of a case of not being Forest Gump. And you and I know it, and can laugh about it and at them for it, but if becoming "a Warrior" or "the bedrock of their family" is the initial mental model that gets shit moving and their life improves because they actually stuck with it, I'm not going to judge their results based on where they started. They'll figure it out or they won't, but its one more potential entry point for the mentally handicapped that lurk around here. That's all this is mea…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 08:37 PM
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Is that a rhetorical question? I've already acknowledged that they're starting from the wrong place mentally in this scenario. Why does that matter, if they start doing the work and stick to it? They'll figure out why its wrong as they do the work. How is starting to fix your shit for a problem free life or to feel like you belong any different from starting to fix your shit for more access to a particular vagina?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 03:10 PM
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Glad to see you develop these thoughts into a full post, I do understand what you're saying here and my post was purposefully agrandised. I get that it wasn't this way for you, and shouldn't be this way for anyone ideally, but some new guys need to feel like they're doing something cool or important, or part of a group when they are starting out, because they haven't ever been alone or a leader in their own right - of themselves, or anyone else. They have no self worth, so "fixing themselves" as…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/20 03:10 AM
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Repost to r/askMRP This will be removed shortly
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 08:34 PM
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Can I maintain frame while still having empathy? I have to be able to, or is it really a frame at all? Your Frame is just your conviction in your own views, beliefs, and your resolve behind your choices and actions. A strong Frame can consider and even incorporate new info and ideas that aid on the path to your chosen destination. A strong Frame is also able to see and even in some cases feel for or feel through the perspective of others, without being moved by that experience from your own conv…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 03:31 AM
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sometimes wonder if I just like being busy for busy sake. As opposed to what? Sitting on ass doing nothing, watching TV? Or actually applying more time to the real internal work most men avoid? Your whole OYS is vague. What are your specific measurable achievable relevant and time-based goals for the next week? Month? 6 months? You sound like a Captain without a destination, out on a pleasure cruise. Where are you going and why? No one can tell from this OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 03:21 AM
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So why are you having it? Learn to STFU. For someone coming to the sub for advice, you should learn to check your ego at the door. You'll progress much faster.
/r/askMRP30/10/20 08:44 PM
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Normal resistance to the transition of power? What transition? Her pussy (and mouth) still consume you. Everyone knows it but you, apparently. I do care about my wife('s orifices) and hate to see her depressed (that I'm not currently fucking them)" FTFY. Obviously I was hoping to have a wife that was DTF all the time Most guys like sex, yep. But most guys don't keep it as their mission like you have. Especially not when they've been doing it this long. You haven't internalized past being a TRP v…
/r/askMRP30/10/20 03:05 PM
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OP's narrative would probably include a schedule for weekly vaginal and oral sex, so maybe the autistic fuck should focus on finding an actual mission outside of his wife's pussy... I'm hoping your question to him at the end was rhetorical? (He's not ready for this. It would be him negotiating desire and going Rambo if he had this conversation now based on this post and all his comments about the situation)
/r/askMRP30/10/20 02:41 PM
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I wanted to link to the post about "going 90-180 days with a way of doing something to give it a chance to work, and then evaluating and recalibrating" (I'm paraphrasing here) I know I've seen u/HornsOfApathy mention it and link to it. But I couldn't remember exact phrasing to search for and couldn't find it. Either of you guys have it laying around? As mods, I'd actually think that post might be worthy of you guys adding it to the linked posts on the sidebar or beginner's guide but I could be m…
/r/askMRP30/10/20 02:14 PM
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You're 3 OYS deep. Just hold the Captain's Wheel steady on the path of improvement. Just hold the wheel steady. Get to OYS 30 while just holding steady and making minor adjustments for further progress and see if you still feel this way then. Stop expecting wife to follow your lead, because you're not in a position to even offer her the end of her 1000ft rope yet, let alone expect it to have snapped taut. This is a covert contract on your part: "I'm doing my part, why isn't she responding the wa…
/r/askMRP30/10/20 02:32 AM
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No one needs a personal trainer. Form videos are available online for free. He'd be better off doing SL 5×5 or ice cream as a starting program than some trainer who only cares about keeping him on their payroll
/r/askMRP29/10/20 02:38 AM
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Hilarious. Thats exactly what I told him when he posted a couple days ago. These idiots always think there is a sexy secret cheat code, when in fact the real process is boring as fuck - you just consistently do the work, day after day, for years, until one morning you wake up and look back on where you started and realize how far you've come.
/r/askMRP29/10/20 02:35 AM
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Consume the MRP sidebar like you future depends on it. Everything you're asking about can be found in this sub and its sidebar, along with consistently posting in the OYS thread weekly for feedback on your personal progress. Stick with the reading/learning (sidebar & books) and (most importantly) the application of that newfound knowledge, (OYS & Lifting free weights) and in a year you won't even recognize yourself.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 03:25 AM
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Why does it matter when you found the red pill? Being red pilled means doing what you want and what you think is right for you. Not what a bunch of retards on the internet tell you is ideal for a red pill man. If you want to get married, get married. If you don't, then don't. Its as simple as that.
/r/askMRP28/10/20 03:12 AM
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She's an alcoholic to make putting up with you easier, because she's so disappointed in how you've turned out. She thought she was getting a man, instead she got you. Hit the sidebar "bro" Do the fucking work You have no Frame, no mental point of origin, and no boundaries. So it doesn't matter what books you've read or how many push-ups you do (lift heavy weights you dumb bitch) because you haven't absorbed the material and applied it to your life
/r/askMRP27/10/20 04:11 PM
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It may be focused on your actions, but you're setting yourself up to be in your kid's Frames. You're setting yourself up to have them be the judge of whether or not you're a "good dad" - this is not you being your own judge, nor you being your own mental point of origin. Go back and think about how you can phrase this in a way that gets across that you want to be a father whose children respect and appreciate him in their lives as a side effect of him being who he is and adding tremendous values…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 04:07 PM
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Hows your other health issues coming along?
/r/askMRP27/10/20 12:04 AM
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If you cut down to 1500-1700 calories a day but still want to hit your protein target for your weight while lifting (1-1.5× bodyweight in grams per day) you're basically forced into a PSMF diet. I didn't know its what I was doing at the time but thats how I hit the numbers I did for 60 DoD 2020. You're right, it is a lot of fun, but especially if you're under 18% BF it can't be done for much longer than I did it. I was getting black outs and brown outs while doing DLs at the end. Never experienc…
/r/askMRP26/10/20 08:47 PM
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Thats because you have something called "Abundance" and "options". OP has zero knowledge of these mythical concepts
/r/askMRP22/10/20 05:24 PM
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a fear of vulnerability is a lack of frame You're still afraid of mental and emotional pain, and they are 100% right - it means you lack true Frame in this area. A man who is in touch with his core isn't afraid of that pain, because he knows he is more than strong enough to deal with it if it happens. Yet at the same time, despite forging those deep and intimate connections with a woman, he maintains the mindset that he could cast her off the boat in an instant if it became necessary - You are t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 10:10 PM
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First I want to say, you sound like you've got your shit together 80-90% this week RBB, and usually I gauge you at hovering between 40-60% mentally, so good for you brother. Make sure you ride this productive wave as far as you can, and set yourself up with automation, structure, whatever works for you to cement habits - to maintain at a higher level the next time the cycle goes to the low end (ebb and flow of motivation and momentum) I've got some notes for you to consider. She has realized how…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 08:49 AM
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It exists already. Look up 60 DoD from previous years. Or make the post yourself after you go do it, ya low effort fuck
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/20 08:23 AM
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The problem with this method is this: The dog houses you built over the last 15 years are all decent, reasonable quality... right? Sure they're not engineering marvels but they get the job done and don't fall apart in 3 weeks. That means that your skill there doesn't need as much focus as other areas of your life do. Put the dog house building on autopilot. I may as well also study how to build a better dog house while I'm at it. Meanwhile as you focus on becoming the Michael Angelo of building …
/r/askMRP17/10/20 08:46 AM
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The post says $40/week, not per hour
/r/askMRP17/10/20 02:34 AM
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Deserves an appropriate flair, no?
/r/askMRP16/10/20 09:46 PM
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You're missing a lot. after 4 months You're already trying to figure out what life having kids with her will be like? After 4 months? Sounds like your vetting sucks. Are you crazy or stupid or both to think you don't have some form of Oneitis? Are you living together already? I know the answer she gives now will likely not be what she actually does. This is true, but you're not getting it. It doesn't matter what she says she's going to do, now or later. What matters is what you want things to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 10:32 PM
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I am starting to extrapolate out what life may be like in different scenarios and using it as an excuse to have doubts about the relationship. This is ridiculous and I need to either accept things as they are (which is good) or talk about what she sees her life being like and see if that aligns with what I want. I am hesitant to do the second as I know what she says will not be what she really wants or would end up doing. You say things are good now. Thats good. That's in your Frame (unless she …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 09:32 PM
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It doesn't matter which one it is. The answer to you being a mess is the same. Lift heavy free weights multiple times a week and get your diet on point ("healthy BMI" is not attractive. The dad bod is NOT attractive. Fuck wings are.) Read the MRP sidebar posts and books (especially NMMNG - you've got multiple indicators) Learn to STFU and be congruent when interacting with her and others. Start with Steel's Guide ->
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:49 PM
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You're boring her. She found a (temporary) outlet to increase her emotions during sex since you're not cutting it anymore This is the beginning of a slow slide into a dead bedroom, as she runs out of ways to supplement her feelz since you aren't providing them Or she cheated on you Or you've upped your game and self improvement the last 6 months and she got the dreadz You don't give enough info to tell which but I find it unlikely to be #3 since you posted here
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:36 PM
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You're willing to do more than I am after seeing all the answers he's already got above Really not sure why he posted at all, he knows exactly what we're going to tell him, as well as why we're all biased and wrong about his special BPD unicorn! 🤷🏼‍♂️ I'm finally starting to see what you meant about the dilemma you commented on months ago - do you tell a guy to end it when he's with a girl who requires more Frame than his current self can acquire (AWALT in some really bad cases, because the guy …
/r/askMRP10/10/20 01:50 PM
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You tried to abide by the rules and expectations of the community, yet didn't post: Lifts, book titles of Readings, height, weight, length of LTR, any kids, etc These are all things that can help Vets of the subs to get a read on you. You've never once posted in OYS, and that is basically the Fourth Unspoken Commandment of MRP Lift Read STFU and post in OYS How about instead of lurking for another 9 months after this post looking for a magic pill, you post in OYS like every other guy trying to g…
/r/askMRP10/10/20 07:15 AM
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You just defined the opposite of what was suggested. Your setup is she has access to Our money, and it looks like: Our money > my money Our money > her money What was actually suggested is that the setup should be My money > our money Her money > our money If she doesn't work and doesn't earn any money, then the setup should be My money > our money > her (agreed, budgeted) money And in this setup she has no access to the "my money" account, and maybe only has visibility of the our money account …
/r/askMRP08/10/20 04:38 PM
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My question: Why do 35+ women think that just by providing their presence they deserve everything? Probably the same reason why you think your no value added basic bitch question deserves replies when you've made no effort yourself
/r/askMRP29/09/20 08:46 PM
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This is the best answer IMO. OP has no dragon to slay, so worries like a woman about what to build his nest out of.
/r/askMRP28/09/20 12:24 AM
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Treat it like the fun foreplay to mind blowing sex that it is Oh wait, you have no Frame, so you'll never get that mindblowing sex... well shit. Better divorce her I guess
/r/askMRP27/09/20 07:20 PM
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The sacrifices we make for science
/r/askMRP24/09/20 09:39 PM
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So instead of focusing more on and buckling down on unfucking the mental shit that's causing your difficulty sleeping, you've decided to set the precedent that you and wife don't need to sleep in the same bed. I hope it ends up being worth it, but I think this is you giving up on facing that she isn't interested in fucking you, being intimate with you, etc instead of experiencing that pain and coming to terms and acceptance if it. This looks like avoidance behavior
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 04:13 PM
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getting my new bed set up and sleeping on my own. Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 03:27 PM
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No shit, this was the only thing I want him to expand on this week. There's a post that just came up about being autistic that immediately springs to mind...
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 03:26 PM
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I don't think we're talking from the same view. When i recommend this, its because what I see from dark is the same thing I found in myself. I'm not recommending monk mode, I'm recommending he take a step back so that he can learn to separate his motivations, and only act on the healthy ones. Before making progress, I was initiating for these 3 reasons, with 1) >>>>> 2) >> 3) (if 3 even played a role at all at a given event): 1) validation of my existence as a man - her desire or at least willin…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 02:28 AM
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It's not helping. Glover was wrong about telling your wife about plans for a premeditated sex/porn/jerk moratorium... but the moratorium itself, done in a state of STFU (as in just do it, don't tell anybody) can be pretty eye opening for an addicted individual like yourself. I think one or two months of my first 6mo of OYS, I was in exactly the same situation you seem to be. I leaned into the pain. I cut all porn, all masturbation, and stopped initiating. I stopped talking to my (now ex) wife fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 09:24 PM
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Women don't want to fuck butthurt crybabies who rely on them for their happiness. 🤷🏼‍♂️ You're angry because your hose is still connected, but you shut off your pump that was draining her energy, and she didn't take the initiative to keep sending her energy to you on her own. (Covert contract about your "effort") And now that she has that energy to use for herself, she is a tiny bit revitalized and experiencing a smidgen of happiness, and your covert contract ridden butthurt ego can't take it. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 04:42 PM
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That makes sense, I can see how it would come across that way. Thanks.
/r/askMRP08/09/20 01:31 AM
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Justify and excuse your time wasting habits however you'd like. How much time and energy have you spent thinking about other people's problems (trying to escape your own shitty reality you created), and seeking approval from flaired sub members (since you still have no internal judge), in this last week alone? Is Seneca part of the Main Sidebar material? Or is it supplemental, meant for after you're actually making good progress with the beginner books and Manning 101? Stop avoiding the real wor…
/r/askMRP07/09/20 04:04 PM
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Its good to have you back OP. I'm glad that you're glad to be alive. That's a good attitude. You have our permission to keep it. Now spend less time on Reddit and much, much more time following the MRP basics. Lift. Read. STFU. Focus on those 3 and those 3 alone. With everything you described in your OYS, we shouldn't hear from you outside of OYS because you're so focused on Owning Your Shit right now so you can get back to where you were before you fell off the map. I'd suggest you stop followi…
/r/askMRP07/09/20 09:59 AM
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Proving to myself that I am worthy of my own love This is the most important statement you made this week. Possibly this month. You have a deep lack of self esteem. You don't value yourself, or think of yourself as the Prize. If you ever do manage to think of yourself that way for a quick moment, you feel guilty about it or like its a bad way to feel and be. Maybe your instant thought is an indignant or self righteous "I'm not one of those selfish assholes! I care about others" Ask me how I know…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/20 04:09 PM
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The drama was most likely created by you and your inconsistencies. She is your mirror faggot.
/r/askMRP23/08/20 08:10 AM
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(took a lot of work). You're falling prey to the sunk cost fallacy. At 19 her convictions and morals are fluid and get influenced very easily, no matter how conservative she is. This girl is going to change rapidly over the next decade, and you just don't have the Frame to guide her to be your LTR based on everything you've shown here. You may be able to keep the gravy train going for a few more months, but you should be actively developing new options into your pipeline in the meantime because …
/r/askMRP22/08/20 06:04 PM
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If fucking was all it was then it would be fine, but OP obviously has at least a taste of Oneitis already. He doesn't have the Frame or DGAF to be able to just fuck the pussy. He's already running on that hamster wheel she hung for him when she locked down the LTR. So for him the answer can't be to just keep fucking her and ignore the rest while fucking other girls, because he literally is incapable of doing so. This is why TRP always screams "NEXT" until your ears bleed - because that is the on…
/r/askMRP22/08/20 06:47 AM
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NMMNG chapter 3 breaking free exercises Some of these exercises can't be rushed and will take more than a week to complete properly. you're still rushing, and its going to hurt your progress By not posting your lifts you hide whether or not your "10% BF" is bullshit or not. Is that intentional, or accidental? Fix it next week, and post on Tuesday like everyone else faggot. You aren't special so don't expect to get feedback again with this late posted crap.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/20 07:24 AM
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With your lifts where they are, you're minimum 20% BF. Just FYI. You're fat. When you look in the mirror, would you want and desire to fuck you? I think not. I basically did my own thing and it was awkward "For me" FTFY. Pretty sure for your wife it was just another week of darkae doing random shit looking for a response from her while freaking out because you can't handle your own emotions, let alone attempt to Oak hers. She's onto it by now, so its only awkward for you. After waiting for shit …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 03:28 AM
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When I Think About How I Might One Day Get Divorced I Feel Guilty
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/20 02:51 AM
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Said it before I could. SGM before WISNIFG? Why do these faggots always insist on skipping the real work?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 10:45 PM
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When I say I don't care, I mean about things I do Kino and initiations are things that you do. And they're supposed to be done for you not for her or for her reaction. You do them because you want to because its fun to do them, not because you're desperate for sex. Don't be unattractive Men who tiptoe because they're desperate to get laid are extremely unattractive Once you actually stop GAF about if your kino and initiations will lead to sex, and actually start having fun, and letting her join …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:27 AM
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All I got was a dirty look. Followed up by a chase around the room and tickling her or some other kino physical manly action, you might have been able to escalate. That was a very minor, very easy shit test that you failed, miserably. It also shows how much farther you have to go with I mostly don't care what she thinks of me and my actions Because if you didn't care, the humor and flirtation in that situation would have come naturally to you. Instead you let her pull an HOA on you and she put y…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:15 AM
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What a train wreck. Tldr; you need to read the sidebar and the books in it, and just STFU while changing little to nothing except incremental self improvements while you absorb the material. This is a long ass wall of bullshit. Use fewer words if you want better feedback. At least tell us your age, height, weight, and lifts (even though we know you're a fat fuck because you have to watch porn to get your wife turned on enough to fuck you, if you don't list your stats most guys won't even read yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 09:01 AM
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I wonder if this will be the post where the mods ban you, since you're treating r/askMRP as your personal weekly OYS thread at this point.
/r/askMRP17/08/20 09:40 PM
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which is a failure in prioritising my actions. Diet is literally the opposite of action. Put less shit in your faggot fat ass mouth and poof instant weight loss occurs. This is a failure in planning, execution, and discipline. This is mental failure. This has nothing to do with your busy bee cover up buzz words like "failure to prioritize my actions" You're under 6 foot and over 200lbs. You're a fat fuck with zero self control.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/20 07:08 PM
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I noticed that you never mention your lifts, even in previous OYS Is that because you're a faggot waste of time for the sub? Asking for a friend. P.S. what did you do for 60DoD? Since you were in back then and all
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/20 06:57 PM
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The Kino has been met with shitty remarks to which I STFU and remove attention, but I can't say I truly DNGAF. Removing attention only works if she wants your attention more than she dislikes the Kino that is coming from a known beta faggot. This is all a big covert contract anyway btw, and you should really focus in on your OI/DGAF You should be doing Kino because you enjoy touching, caressing, and teasing your wife and building sexual tension not because you're trying to figure out the key to …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/20 06:32 PM
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She was obviously enjoying the teasing. In an effort to come to her defence I This doesn't make sense. She was enjoying good natured teasing from family, yet you felt the need to come to her defense, or to mate guard at a family gathering? Or did I read this wrong? Was there a flirtatious undertone to the exchange?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/20 06:02 PM
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Did you get all the attention you were hoping for OP? You know, since you don't have any male friends IRL to share your feelz with?
/r/askMRP14/08/20 05:53 AM
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You recognize that TRP is childish, yet somehow fail to recognize that your mental models and Frame mirror TRP nearly identically. Ironic. Key points: You don't have a focused vision for your future (a MAP at lower levels and a Mission at veteran levels) to guide your actions, just thoughts and dreams. You live for the external validation of others. All types of it. Fix these two root issues and you won't be asking your OP question anymore. You'll just know your answer.
/r/askMRP13/08/20 04:37 AM
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https://youtu.be/gADgM89skZQ Dance Monkey, Dance! Your Squat sucks ass btw. Look into your form. I'm 6'2" and within 4 months of 5×5 my SQ went from the bar to 250, what happened with you? In a crowded bar, the skinny dude who never touches weights but Games on the daily gets the most girls. Your question is so obviously a desperate attempt to have at least part of the community validate your own opinion that its a bit sickening honestly. You should really look into these external validation iss…
/r/askMRP12/08/20 03:39 PM
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So far I've figured out 3. 1, carry on as usual, carry the whole load for 6 months until she gets the skills needed and move on. 2, I move back to London and do my own thing, while she does hers. Or 3, I end this and move on. Any advice is appreciated. Translation: you've figured out 3 options so far. Be a Man and Own Your Shit Be a Man and Own Your Shit Be a Man and Own Your Shit Sounds like any of these options, properly executed, will work out well for you! Congratulations! So maybe quit puss…
/r/askMRP09/08/20 07:00 PM
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You forgot the option OP is actually going to do: continue with the wedding he doesn't want as planned because he's a low effort LARPing faggot
/r/askMRP09/08/20 04:30 AM
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Mindset might be the best single word to use to summarize it, I committed to the program and it worked for me because I was relentless about it. I wanted these changes badly enough to push through all the pain and shit along the way thus far - I refused to let anything, especially myself, stand in my way. That and finding out at just the right moment in my RP journey that ex was testing her branch. That catapulted me forward because it resolved by default a lot of the "did I try everything" and …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 09:33 PM
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We know you're our special angry unicorn, Red. Just because Rage turned out to be your spirit animal, doesn't mean this post is wrong. It means you use your anger as a crutch to keep you moving in the right direction in certain areas of your life, instead of doing the work to both fully resolve it internally and set up structures/processes/habits outside your anger to keep you from falling back into who you were before with a different Chick. I'll be interested to see if you mellow with old age …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 04:35 PM
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Tldr; Dancing Monkey lost his preferred validating audience and is now deep in his feelz about it
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 09:47 PM
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Height: 6’0 Weight: 234 Fat: 20% Try 25-30% BF, fatty mcfaggot. Unless you Squat more than 400lbs, no way in hell you're 20%.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 09:45 PM
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I get that You clearly don't. That is probably my biggest LARPing DEERing is not LARPing. Removing time and attention in an attempt to get a specific reaction out of your wife, is LARPing. They are the actions that an actual HVM might take, but for reasons completely different than the ones your mindset currently has. Based on your response, you made it clear that you dont understand some pretty basic concepts I'm talking about above. This seems to be a bit beyond your understanding right now, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 12:44 AM
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I need to increase my SMV by lifting and gaining muscle. Then, I can start flirting / gaming other women successfully, which I think will help with an abundance mindset. This is an excuse to avoid rejection and failure. You can start flirting/gaming other women for catch n release today but you don't want to deal with the fact that your Game is Lame and you'll just get rejected repeatedly in the beginning. If you're actually interested in this, read Bang and Day Bang. Day Bang especially breaks …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 10:04 PM
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Reading: JBP, 10 RFL, Book of Pook Is that really all you've read in 13+ weeks? No basics like Rational Male, NMMNG, & WISNIFG? Wtf man? My controlled calm and DNGAF "My LARPing" ^ FTFY, she can tell you are incongruent. I can tell you are incongruent because of your word choice. You are taking actions to get reactions out of her, not because you are a HVM with better things to do. Doing a medium withdraw of attention and affection. Trying to find a balace between mean card and showing what she …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 09:47 PM
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I'm comfortable And thats your problem. Keep making excuses and half assing it, it's been working so well for you! That fear of rejection and failure isn't going to disappear just because you talk about the weather. Faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 01:07 PM
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So you lied by implication and or omission. How can you identify practices without looking at the whole of the material? That's like learning half of the instructions in a manual. Last week’s intentions: look at Day Bang and “How to Make Friends…” and identify practices to work with. Result: Done.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:55 PM
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You read or listened to all of Day Bang?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:31 PM
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He's in the bed frame. After years out of it. All it took was sex and she pulled him right back in. Easy as pie that another man has been sticking his dick in all these years. This dude is so deep in her Frame that he's taking responsibility for her actions and blaming himself in order to rationalize staying with her. He's literally doing the legwork for her - she hasn't had any type of hard path to forgiveness, he literally just gave her a hall pass and said "it was my fault anyway" Like HOA sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:27 PM
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With my kids, my standards are clear I'm guessing that unless you're a complete retard, they also respect you enough (for now) to (mostly) try to live up to those standards. Not so with the wife - and you're bitter that she doesn't give you that unconditional respect That your children give you due to your positional authority as their father. (Here's a hint, the older they get, if you don't get your shit together, the more they will act like mommy) But have you actually earned her respect? Like…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:15 PM
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You: "What were you up to last night?" Her: "Sucking Chad Family-Fun-Time's dick." You: "Why didn't you tell me your plans?" Her: "You woulda told me not ta suck it, and I wanted to suck it" You: Something doesn't feel right Guess you aren't the leader you thought, huh champ?
/r/askMRP04/08/20 04:26 AM
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because it is a natural and healthy way for a man to think Always easy to pick out the validation whores who drive by from TRP. Keep LARPing faggot.
/r/askMRP03/08/20 07:14 PM
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I suppose I do not set expectations for others very clearly. I don't really have much in terms of expectations of others. This is not a bad thing. Expectations are for Nice Guys, you shouldn't create them and if you have them you should rid yourself of them. You need to set Standards, not expectations.. there is a significant difference. One is in your Frame and how you choose to live and the environment you choose to create as your home, and the other is you trying to control other people's beh…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/20 07:07 PM
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Focused on owning my shit in the household (but not shit that isn't mine) Are you the Captain or aren't you? If the answer is yes, then Everything in the household is your shit. Period. You may not be responsible for the oldest child's (your wife's) emotional well being, but you damn sure are responsible for those dishes in the sink and the toys on the floor if you want to claim that title as Captain. You set the standards, and then, you Earn the right to delegate when those under your command r…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/20 03:13 AM
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You missed the point again. Your complete and utter inability to take charge of your own life and commit to even a simple action like this is my point. The solutions to your problems have been laid out for you clear as day, yet you sit here "Maybe its this, maybe its that, maybe its a bit of both... oh no, what do I do since I can't quantify the human experience?!? Oh well, guess I'll just do NOTHING LIKE ALWAYS then! :D" Are you seeing yet why you're such a gigantic faggot? You have an excuse f…
/r/askMRP01/08/20 06:06 PM
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Your statements in your post and here prove you might have read some stuff, but you haven't swallowed the Red Pill. There is no Unicorn bro. Enjoy each plate, each girl, each gf, and each LTR for what it is at the time. If you've been to TRP I'm sure you've read the Bitch Ladder - even branch swinging girls fit into that. Apply it religiously, and do not deviate from it
/r/askMRP01/08/20 05:22 AM
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Dude if there is even this chance that you're so concerned about, then Next this girl and find another. There are literally thousands of others exactly like her. Why are you so stuck on her? Find another. Easy fix. Now fuck off with your bullshit
/r/askMRP01/08/20 04:56 AM
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You need to read The Rational Male. It lays this out in plain language If a woman loves you, shouldn't they do that shit anyway? Women don't love the way that we do. They aren't built that way. So stop expecting her to.
/r/askMRP01/08/20 04:39 AM
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I'm also trying to protect myself from an abusive relationship. All that bullshit about you "wanting to know you tried your best" and also "protect yourself from her abuse" its all cognitive dissonance. Take it from someone who was literally in your shoes 12 months ago, except with actual physical abuse. Its one or the other. Either she's too much for you, and she's abusive, and you should leave OR You're a man who can handle his own shit, and lead his relationship (lol - can't seem to say that …
/r/askMRP01/08/20 01:24 AM
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I can't wait until Red reads this steaming pile of dog shit. I love his one-liners. SB3 too. Always good for a laugh.
/r/askMRP31/07/20 11:47 PM
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how else am I going to generate her “feelz?” Jesus man. Even if you are a monkey, why are you eating paint so hard? Why do you need to generate more feelz in her right now, of all times?! You don't think she's dealing with enough that is putting her off balance without also dealing with your covert contract ridden manipulation attempts? Does that make any fucking sense at all with everything else that is putting her off balance? "Generating feelz" is so beyond you right now. Just stop. You don't…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 09:29 PM
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Wow, you really have no understanding of STFU. You're also Dancing like a monkey in your mindset. Badly. I have to make it up to her... "I hope more fun in the evenings will make this ok for you, princess" There's a difference between providing comfort when it is actually warranted and sticking your head up your wife's ass What you need the most is more sidebar and more books. Unfuck yourself before trying to unfuck others...
/r/askMRP31/07/20 06:20 PM
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looking for a (my version of a) unicorn Lowering your standards, aka "settling " is the first step to very long term misery. Ask me or tons of other guys on this sub how we know. Best to just not make that mistake in the first place simply because you have no patience and no Frame. seems like a waste to be honest. It isn't a waste, on a planet of billions I guarantee there are literally thousands of "your version of a" unicorn. The important thing is that you not treat them like unicorns when yo…
/r/askMRP31/07/20 06:08 PM
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/thread
/r/askMRP26/07/20 04:07 AM
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I eat two meals, 4 hours apart. I usually eat at 4pm and 8pm. A protein shake with each meal.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 06:47 PM
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Do what you want, but your lifts will survive. You need to cut your lard... that's your low hanging fruit physically. OMAD is the most efficient way to melt the fat in a short time. All your little smoothies keep you from burning fat, you burn that new food instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 04:40 PM
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I will initiate every day this week and let you know my results. Don't get autistic. Initiate when you want to, because its fun and you want to. If all you're thinking about is sex because you haven't had any in so long, reflect on why you're so desperate for that validation from your wife (that she finds you attractive enough to fuck) and learn from what you find. Then clear out whatever rot you can internally. Its time to be a man, and men aren't desperate for pussy. Little boys are.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 08:31 AM
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Why don't you try OMAD IF for one week with 1200 calorie/day. Come back and tell us how much weight you lost. Basically only eat within a 3-4 hour window daily, the rest just water all day (critical, you MUST stay hydrated) I'd stick to mostly protein (50-70% of your 1200 calories) if you want any shot at getting 1-1.5g/lb to maintain your mass and lifts... I lost 25lbs in 45 days basically on that diet. I never went above 1500 calories even on days where I "failed" and "overate" The fat just me…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 06:17 AM
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6 foot 240lbs, even with your lifts, is somewhere between 25-30% BF. At 28 your best years of life are just now about to start happening, anything is possible, including getting proficient in a martial art. During the height of COVID as a skinny fat POS faggot I got plenty of matches and fucked plenty of girls during this late Spring/early summer during our 60DoD event. Monk Mode is a choice, and a mindset. You've got neither, you're just making excuses. Going to try and meet Are you the prize? …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 02:49 AM
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My wife seems to respond better to me when I Dance Monkey Dance
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/20 12:14 AM
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vs her laundry list of shit that I do wrong. Aaannnddd you're right back into her Frame. Pretty sure that's why she rewarded you with sex, you opened your mouth for hours like the good little Beta she trained back in 2013. I had a similar experience in either Spring or Summer of 2019 before finding MRP. I thought we were connecting and finally making a step of progress toward mending our relationship - looking back I can see that she just got me to bend a little bit further over backwards around…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:56 PM
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I get bitter Sounds like you still haven't actually internalized that initiating is always going to be your job. So you're putting the blame on her instead of yourself like you should, subconsciously. Stop being a faggot. Earn your Flair and fix that internal rot. You may also want to get your T checked if you haven't since your "year long shitty cut" - that done wrong can affect metabolism and T.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:39 PM
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I can't see a strategy to relieve it. Are you serious? Go outside to places where people are and talk to them. Over and over again. I fixed that particular useless excuse of yours. Go do it this week or admit you're a coward and then fix it. Read Day Bang. Elderly Chat with both men and women is your new mission until you cure yourself of this hermit BS
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:29 PM
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This is to create abundance for myself Your improvements are for you, not so that you can have options. The options are merely a byproduct of your self improvement. Abundance is a mindset. Even if you were the ugliest, fattest faggot on this sub, you could have Abundance and realize that some HB1 somewhere would still fuck you for your Beta Bux. If you were further along mentally, you'd already have Abundance. Because it is a state of mind, not a progress report that you get from external source…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 11:12 PM
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I'll give you a hint. If your wife wasn't your wife, and was a teenage daughter instead, and she decided not to invest her allowance with you, would you "punish" her by "excluding her from the fruits of your labor" like you're talking about, or would you include her because she is your teen daughter and you've chosen to be responsible for her, despite her sometimes poor choices? Would you rub her poor choices in her face or let her join you and just have the fun? Your wife is the oldest kid in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 07:07 PM
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Welcome to the rest of your life brother. What a blessing that you have finally accepted for yourself. With every passing day you will be less in pain and more grateful for this opportunity to be who you always believed you could be. Having just finished an entirely "amicable" divorce process myself, it may be helpful to you to look back at my past OYS and my askMRP post "blind spots" and find the "play beta" strategy I used and think about if it might also work for you. The main ingredient was …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 06:23 PM
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Still not doing this! What are you scared of? Stop allowing that fear to hold you back and just do it already. Rejection is not a big deal if you hold the right perception of the situation (think "big picture/over time", instead of "this moment/my feelz")
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 05:59 PM
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My plan is to move along with what I want and if the first mate is not on board than she will miss out on the fruits of my labor. The first part is good. The second part is not (if I'm reading you right, based on your current level of progress) Do you know why? If you don't, you have more sidebar post and sidebar book reading to do. "Stay Plan is the Go Plan" loosely applies here, and you are not applying that concept. You're making a Nice Guy decision instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/20 05:45 PM
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Having her sit with your parents once means literally nothing. Anyone can make a decent first impression and be on their "best behavior" for a few hours. What matters is what you think. Why are you asking any/everyone but yourself for opinions on such an important decision in your life?
/r/askMRP20/07/20 05:09 AM
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in response I asked her how late she stayed up the night before in an annoyed manner This is the real issue. Its not that you brought up her lack of sleep, its that you were passive aggressive while doing so and didn't lead. You weren't leading, you were harping, and that is what you paid for. "Let's go to bed early tonight babe, I'll fuck the shit out of you and you'll sleep like a baby. Bet you're right as rain in the morning!" None of the passive bullshit, and it doesn't look as desperate to …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/20 03:40 AM
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When was the last time you flew? They've upped the snacks on those flights... Actually good cookies and cakes. I can't tell if this is a joke, or not, but it damn sure isn't funny while you're at 215lbs at your height and lifts. The last time I traveled for work and couldn't go to the gym? I lost 5lbs because I went OMAD IF and kept my calories under 1500 per day. I like cookies. I like cakes. And I still occassionally will even eat them! (Like 2-3 times per month, 1 cookie or 1 thin slice of ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 04:10 PM
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Sounds like just the reduction in health insurance costs alone would be worth it in his financial pinch. Add childcare expenses funded through an HSA or FSA for tax write offs and he's already halfway there or more depending on location to paying a quality caregiver's salary before she makes a dime in Net Income. He should probably keep going with the business while actively looking for a solid job as well. Once he gets one, "pause" the business or go silent on the partner until conditions impro…
/r/askMRP12/07/20 04:56 AM
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36 isn't pivotal. You're not even halfway through the average life these days. Figure out what makes you both happy and fulfilled, and go from there - either find a way to monetize that, or find work you can do that will let you do more of that in your free time. Stop dwelling on what you aren't doing and start making detailed plans for what you're going to do next Then go do them, and forgive yourself when you fuck up or things don't go as well as you planned, and get back at it. We humans are …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:01 PM
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Read NMMNG to fix your self sacrificing mental model, and become your own mental point of origin. Figure out what makes you feel both happy and fulfilled, and work from there.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:46 PM
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She wasn't into you, she was into the Game you ran for her and the way you made her feelz - your external Game is obviously just fine, so now it's time to work on your Internal Game - you are not your own mental point of origin (not where it counts) and your Frame in this regard needs serious renovation. I am the Prize - do you believe it, know it, truly accept it? That's rhetorical - because at least in this particular case, you ended up in her Frame, and she was the Prize Maybe a quick re-read…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:20 PM
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If you've been at MRP for 18 months, then by now you should be well established into Gaming your SO. You've already been doing AM and A&A, which apparently is not the exit her hamster is looking for right now, or she doesn't buy your shit because you aren't authentic. So stop eating paint and try something else: STFU, and Anytime she brings up Jill, initiate sex with your SO. Then and there, on the spot, and don't do it like a pussy. STFU and escalate like crazy physically. Whether or not you ge…
/r/askMRP10/07/20 03:42 AM
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OYS#40 I need to figure out what I want out of life, and I'm not going to do that by posting forced meaningless weekly status updates in OYS. So stop PMing me faggots. I need some time alone. This is the last thing I'll be posting until I have something real to report, or I need some outside input again. My divorce is official today and my ex moves out August 1st. I got 50/50 custody of my 3yo while protecting what I cared to in assets. I got everything I wanted to get, while plating, and withou…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 06:55 AM
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From one of your other Reddit posts: 7 years in. Can't do it anymore. Don't have the balls to leave the kids. Love the kids, but the s.o. and I ain't clickin at all anymore. Basically just treading water until shit falls irreparably to pieces or I die. Realize she never found you funny, she just used to play along to make you feel good about yourself. And if she did, well, people change, and its probably you who changed, and for the worse not the better. What is your age, weight, and last big li…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/20 03:29 AM
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You don't need to cut back, hold exactly where you are, just don't add anything new And don't eat paint - calibrate as you go without losing Frame.
/r/askMRP27/06/20 04:05 AM
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Keep running, hamster
/r/askMRP25/06/20 07:11 AM
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You're going to want to get consultations with the Top 5-10 divorce attorneys in your area so that you conflict them out for your wife. Worth the 2-4k investment in long term dividends.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:29 AM
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Don't be a fucking idiot. This is (or should be) a turning point in your life. You've just had your life laid bare, in the nicest way I've ever seen SB3 do it for anyone on this sub... He just gave you a tremendous gift. Don't fucking waste it. Now that reality is staring you in the face, are you going to accept it or keep burying your head in the ground? Are you going to react emotionally like a faggot and confront her, or get your shit together while Shutting The Fuck Up so that you come out o…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:08 AM
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In the MRP sidebar you'll find the divorce prep section. You need to suck it up for the short term and STFU about your desire to divorce if you want to have the best outcome for yourself and your children. The divorce section is now your Bible. Read it, then reread it, then make yourself a plan of action with all the steps you will need to take to have 6 months of journal entries, records, and documentation backing up you as the better positioned parent for full custody (this will hopefully give…
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:01 AM
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I'm fine with him being with STBX. He's actually helping me by encouraging (or at least allowing) her to GTFO of my place. How's that for Hypergamy in action? Helping raise my kids? Not so much... not at all really, but I don't have control over STBX or her life choices, and I'm not willing to sacrifice the rest of my life and be a cheating cuck for the rest of my life just to "Guard" my kids from the influence of another man, so I have to let that go. All I can do is let him know that if he eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 11:58 PM
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OYS#39 31yo 6'2" 188lbs ~17%BF, STBX 7yrs, kids 14(step) & 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 5% TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 70% NMMNG×2 sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue SGM WOTSM WISNIFG All in lbs, 5×5: SQ 200 DL 235 BP 140 BR 150 OHP 100 I realized this week as even the crappy temporary job was taken from me, that my self image and positive vibes have been way too wrapped up in my professional life. All it has taken for me to basically fall into a low place was for my l…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 09:47 AM
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Its pretty obvious from your replies to everyone's comments here that they are going over your head. That's ok, we all started somewhere, and most of us are still faggots just like you... just less of a faggot on most days. Here's my advice: Go to the sidebar ---> (if you're on mobile its the 3 dots on the upper right/the about section) Start with Steel's Guide. Then read the whole sidebar over the next few months. Read the beginner books like MMSLP, NMMNG, & WISNIFG, then read The Rational Male…
/r/askMRP21/06/20 12:14 AM
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I'm not talking about the institution of marriage, I don't see any conflict between being a HVM who is Red Pilled and being married either. You don't have to fuck thots to be Red Pilled. I'm talking about you and your relationship with your southern belle specifically. There's a subtle slant to the language you use that let's me read through and see your Oneitis. Plus our previous replies on another sub.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 02:52 AM
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You've got Oneitis and its going to fuck you over in the end dude. Hit the sidebar and kill that shit. OI. Abundance. DGAF. Before its too late.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 11:39 PM
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We achieved our collective dream, and we've been soaking it up in a sort of cruise control mode for a few years now. I relaxed on the constant efforts to better myself This is how it starts. Find your next big dragon to slay over the next 5-10 years ASAP dude, and soon, or she is going to lose the attraction she had for you and you'll realize eventually all you would of had to do was not coast. She will seek those Captain qualities elsewhere and you'll never know what hit you.
/r/askMRP19/06/20 11:36 PM
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"Something" is when your focus shifts to doing this improvement for you instead of to impress your wife and get sex from your wife. "Something" is when you consult with a divorce attorney to see what divorce would look like for you (even if you aren't actively considering it now) so that you realize financially I'd be OK without this woman after our divorce, probably even have more freedom and accomplish more of my goals Another "something" is after you've made some solid improvements, when you …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 05:40 AM
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"Something" is when your focus shifts to doing this improvement for you instead of to impress your wife and get sex from your wife. "Something" is when you consult with a divorce attorney to see what divorce would look like for you (even if you aren't actively considering it now) so that you realize financially I'd be OK without this woman after our divorce, probably even have more freedom and accomplish more of my goals Another "something" is after you've made some solid improvements, when you …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 05:39 AM
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Are you still plating? Yes I am, and I'm making real progress on sex being for me instead of for validation, expressing myself as a sexual being during the act, etc - instead of doing shit for validation or to affect her. Its better every week. But what frustrates me is that I'm basically turning to my plates for comfort. I go, practice my HVM behaviors, boundaries, DGAF, OI, and all my other "MRP Skills" - and thats the good, but I'm still using them indirectly as a means of external validation…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/20 02:47 AM
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Why would I try to be feminine? What a boring attempt at manipulation. Also, did you just assume my gender? I think I'm triggered /s 🤣😂🤣 Its always funny to me when people hear the truth, it hurts their ego or challenges their world view, and they make the immediate pivot to "that's rude/disrespectful" as a means of shielding their ego from actually having to consider what challenged their image of the world. Reality is reality, it doesn't matter if you think its rude or disrespectful, it simply…
/r/RedPillWives19/06/20 01:45 AM
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One of my favorite books and series growing up, and the movie was so outrageously ahead of its time for effects.
/r/askMRP17/06/20 09:09 AM
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OYS#38 31yo 6'2" 188lbs ~17%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) & 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 70% NMMNG×2 100% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue SGM WOTSM WISNIFG All in lbs, 5×5: SQ 195 DL 235 BP 135 BR 145 OHP 100 In simplest terms, I just took a week off from trying to improve as a man. Didn't do much while I was on my business trip aside from work and train. 4 months straight of concentrated effort is more than I've …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 04:40 AM
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feeling 'enough, just the way I am'? I had to take a very real look at what I "felt" I needed to see in myself to feel like I was good enough. (What did I feel like was missing before I could start to call myself a HVM?) Some places, my views made sense. Others, I had to adjust those goal posts to sync with reality and what was a reasonable expectation. And then I planned out exactly how I would get the missing pieces, and milestones along the way to each of them. Since then I've been moving alo…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/20 12:49 AM
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Yes, because the person who can show that they have the best living arrangement and that the child is settled in their home has the best chance of winning both physical and legal custody. Every day that your child spends where she is now makes it less likely you will get 50/50 custody. She needs to be in her original home. STBX leaves, moves 100 miles away, that's fine, she can go. Child stays in her home, where she has stability. But you're right, by now, you've probably fucked up the chance yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/20 10:48 PM
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Fuck you dude. Seriously, go fuck yourself. You haven't done shit for weeks since you replied to Barracuda's FR. Is there a restraining order or some other form of legal reason you can't just go get your kid like I mentioned to you? There isn't, is there. No reason other than that you are just a piece of shit. Have you planned out and made arrangements for how you're going to care for your kid in all this time? No? Then quit wasting everyone's time. You don't really give a shit about your kid, o…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/20 10:11 PM
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I'll elaborate further for the newest guys who are actually paying attention and trying to learn (not you OP, since you're a low effort bullshitter) what I'm about to describe is going to be wrong in part as well, but hopefully its more "right" than your current way of thinking is now and may help some of you bridge the gap a bit to get to the point where you can see why even what I'm saying here is "wrong" despite being a step better than OP's thinking. The RP set up is: Approach a hot chick yo…
/r/askMRP14/06/20 08:54 AM
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Shit tests are unattractive to you because you're projecting your disgust with yourself for being either too low effort or just plain unable to pass them, onto the woman who is giving you the test. Its an Ego protection mechanism so you don't get your fee fees hurt bi da big bad wamun bean meen two yew. If you were actually a man who valued himself and had even a reasonable SMV, the shit tests would be an enjoyable challenge (or just enjoyable, no challenge at all), a chance to practice holding …
/r/askMRP14/06/20 05:57 AM
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nobody will love me for me', Sounds like you're having a similar problem to the one I was having. Similar but not quite the same angle. I've more than half way changed this mental model - maybe look at the comments on my last 6 or 7 OYS's - there's gold in there from the guys on the sub that you can use to look inward and fix this broken mental model, and its broken in more ways than you think. You're lacking internalization of the "I am the Prize" mentality, and this indicates you don't accept …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/20 12:02 PM
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Nice new flair ya got there AR. Congrats on your internal realizations as well. Granite is shaped by chipping away, wedge after wedge, until the final key hammer stroke hits and the separation occurs. Keep chipping away brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/20 03:39 AM
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I can't remember if it was 5 yrs, 7yrs, or just any time married period, but after a certain time married she gets a fat chunk of your pension when you retire, too. The military is worse than the civilian world for guys who divorce. The advice is always do it sooner than later if you think it might be necessary. I browsed through your prior comments, the feel I get is that instead of building a maze for your wife with an exit you wanted, you built yourself a maze with no exit, handed your wife t…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 05:31 PM
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Do you have kids? Have you talked to JAG to find out how fucked you are in a divorce? What work have you done internally to examine why your validation is coming mostly from external sources? What part of your childhood led to these validation habits? Have you done the NMMNG Exercises? Actually done them as described for the week/month etc? (The ones MRP recommends anyway, not the opsec-breaking ones or the sex moratorium)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 04:59 PM
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How about instead of a ton of stuff you want to do, just pick one thing. Just one. And do that one thing, and do it consistently. Do it for a month. And don't be a faggot and put off choosing the one thing. Just pick any one thing positive and do it!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 07:17 AM
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We can't give you feedback when there's so little substance
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 07:11 AM
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I'd read MMSLP before you read 48 LOP
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 07:09 AM
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She has a legitimate issue with being overloaded with house work, which is entirely due to her choice to cook a different set of meals every fucking day. I will help her out eventually but will not sacrifice my gym time, or social life when it comes back How about instead of helping her, you do what a man would and Lead Her to what you want her to do? And if your kids are running around "out of control" while you ignore them to "focus on your breathing" you may want to create some actual boundar…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 07:07 AM
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You're 34, 6'1", can't SQ even your own body weight, and need Cialis for sex? need to get my T-levels checked. Ya think??? I should How about "I will" (because it actually matters), or "I will let it go" (because it doesn't) Everything you wrote after that is a pile of excuses and feelz. I feel like the 'slim' cut dress shirts are still too large Maybe you should get your T checked and get back to work putting on some fucking muscle then...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 06:17 AM
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FYI I will not have an OYS next week because I will be in the wilderness without computers/internet. Learn to STFU. Acta Non Verba This blurt of yours is a combination of DEERing and validation seeking. No one cares, just share what you learned when you get back. Part of that reflecting should probably be on why you're so desperate for some external rando on the internet to you to tell you you're doing a good job, instead of believing in yourself and your plan/MAP
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/20 06:06 AM
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Same problem as every other faggot out there that comes creeping to MRP - you got Oneitis and instead of vetting properly you let that Oneitis and your feelz push you into marrying someone who showed from the beginning that they should have been dropped early on. Don't despair, it was my problem, too - so many of us come from just such an origin story. I was really happy with my unicorn. Oneitis Caught her "hanging out" with her ex-bf once without telling me, sending a suggestive photo to an orb…
/r/askMRP09/06/20 04:19 PM
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OYS#37 31yo 6'2" 188lbs ~17%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) & 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 70% NMMNG×2 85% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue SGM WOTSM WISNIFG Physical All in lbs, 5×5: SQ 190 DL 225 BP 135 BR 145 OHP 95 All of these numbers represent a significant drop, especially in SQ and DL, but I've only lifted twice since the gym opened last Wednesday. These numbers are going to go up and pass my previous PRs, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/20 08:24 AM
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During the last 75 days: The biggest habit I changed is that instead of trying to fix symptoms, I now look for ways to improve, automate, or delegate systems, in both my career and personal life. I look for ways to free up my time to do more of what only I can. While I definitely lost lower body strength, I made across the board upper body gains. The gym is finally open again and the iron is joyously re-embraced. I lost 25lbs and 7% BF to get below 15%, and I plan to stay below 17% while rebuild…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/20 09:16 AM
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2 is such ego filled BS I'm not even going to bother. If you can't predict what a kid is going to do when you put candy in front of them, you don't get to call yourself an adult, let alone a man. I was able to hold frame 🤣😂🤣 That isn't holding Frame. Its merely Broken Record with a touch of boundary setting, through a fitness test your dumbass created for yourself, because you don't know how to STFU. Holding Frame would have been not DEERing to her about Fight Club in the first place. The fact y…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/20 01:17 AM
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Have you consulted a (or a few) divorce lawyers? (So you know what would happen and are mentally ready for it, and accept how your life would change - doesn't sound like much would) Have you mentally divorced your wife? (Act like she's a live in housekeeper, and don't bother talking to her outside of anything logistics/household related, and keep those short. If she engages you, don't re-engage your pursuit, instead, keep pulled back and reserved from her, because she's just the live in "help") …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 04:39 PM
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OYS#36 31yo 6'2" 187lbs ~16%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) & 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 65% NMMNG×2 80% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue SGM WOTSM WISNIFG Physical After the brown outs and low blood sugar I was experiencing the last two weeks, I decided to do basically what I did when I hit a wall the first time I cut from 225 -> 195 last year, except this time I'm not going to gain back 15 lbs. I'll stay below 19…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/20 08:44 AM
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You couldn't tell I was being sarcastic. Awesome. How much of the MRP sidebar have you read? (That's rhetorical btw)
/r/askMRP29/05/20 09:11 PM
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If her attraction fades, its because you're a LARPing faggot with no Frame and no mission. I say do it, great chance for you to find out the truth about yourself, since apparently you don't know if you're a real man or not and can't measure that yourself.
/r/askMRP29/05/20 09:01 PM
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Waiting for the next post to drop a month after he moves in "guys she says I got her pregnant, what do I do? I'm thinking white lies about not liking the label 'father' for the next 18 years, is that a good strategy?"
/r/askMRP29/05/20 08:54 PM
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There's two things here I'll double down on. If I'm wrong, ignore me 🤷🏼‍♂️ that equation has more pros than cons for me. What I'm still trying to get you to nibble at is, "pros and cons" don't seem to factor into it for a whole HVM who is truly, congruently living on his edge and putting everything into his mission. A man like that can't afford to take 3 years weighing that out, he weighs them, makes a decision, and then executes. You've talked about how for you personally, your mission is fluid…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/20 02:18 PM
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TLDR; The only thing that happened is that your wife realized you're a dancing monkey who's been LARPing Alfa. It has nothing to do with Corona. because mom and wife dont get along NNMNG mama's boy much? that was the beginning of the end No, it just put your wife to a quick end instead of your death of a thousand faggot cuts, but you insisted on reviving her corpse to cut some more helped me understand some of my issues but did nothing for my marriage. This statement alone makes it easy to tell …
/r/askMRP29/05/20 01:53 AM
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I wouldn't You've danced around this divorce topic for a while now, it came up in all 3 FRs, and openly admit your wife is far from the best you could do, so I'm curious what it is exactly that keeps you married. The kids are, at the end of the day, a DEER. A fairly valid one depending on your actual specific circumstances, but a DEER nonetheless. If you're so certain that you would divorce if they weren't in the picture, I don't understand what you're letting hold you back. Maybe your fear of d…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/20 08:20 PM
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Go get your kid from wherever she is, with no warning from school or daycare or whatever. Then when you have your child in your possession, send a text saying you're spending time with your child as is your right as the father IF there isn't a court order granting her custody, or a restraining order, or something else legal saying you can't do this, then you have the same right to do that, as she did to disappear with your child. Its not kidnapping when its your kid. Don't do this unless you're …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 07:22 PM
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Repost In r/AskMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 04:38 AM
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Yep. I look like I used to in my days wrestling at ~160lbs in HS... fuckin scrawny as shit. I'm betting it all on u/hackage 's broscience about starting a bulk from below 12% BF being the best way to put on muscle without Test.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 02:42 AM
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I do network and that can involve different dinner parties and functions but realistically this could end with 1 or 2 drinks max which would have no carry over to hurting my next day. It’s when I rationalise that I can have “just a few” drinks that I start to slip into old behaviours. You're already doing that, here in your OYS. You don't have to drink alcohol to network. Just be a man with convictions. You don't need to DEER to anyone about why you aren't drinking either, just drink something e…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/20 01:17 AM
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Have you read the sidebar, specifically the posts on divorce prep? Much of the custody parts of those posts apply to what you're asking here. The short version is, be publicly and socially known and well documented (keep detailed logs and records) as the better parent. Then if it comes to divorce, you kick her out of the house and your kids keep living with you, because everything about their lives is run by you anyway. Tldr; Own Your Shit faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 09:28 PM
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I have no idea what's going on in her head And that right there is your problem. Why are you trying to figure out her head? Your 3 options are shit. Here's one that might actually work, but certainly won't make things worse like yours will. 4) Go live your life, and ignore her. You're needy and she finally realized it. End of story. She will either come to you or its over anyway. Read the sidebar. Lift Heavy Weights. STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 09:15 PM
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You're spinning your wheels... Who's Frame? Is it possible to just be living in no Frame at all? Or to not believe/trust in your own Frame even though you're living in it, and ignore it in a self destructive way? I'm "waiting" for shit I've been working on to wrap up so I can see some basic tangible changes in my life. Future Me is apparently not the real deal because he is still an external evaluator to some degree - he finds it hard to like/accept me when so little about my actual situation ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 05:22 PM
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OYS#35 - 60DoD Week 9 31yo 6'2" 184lbs ~14%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) 3 Reading Bought NMMNG and WISNIFG on audiobook to take away my own excuses about "lack of time" for reading. I utilize my commutes to listen and reflect now, pause when needed to think more, even pull over to make a shorthand note for fleshing out later when I journal/OYS. WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 60% NMMNG×2 75% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/20 08:32 AM
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When does it come out on Audible?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 10:27 PM
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Initiating every night won't do you any good if you don't have the proper foundation behind it. It may even actually hinder getting laid by further conditioning your wife to saying "no" every night. Are you flirting, gaming, Kino, teasing, fun, playful, sensual/sexual at random moments throughout the day with wife? If you aren't, there's not much point to initiating at the end of the day like a cold calling salesman/paint eater. You should really reread NMMNG and do the exercises, because there'…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/20 02:09 PM
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Are you always this easy to bait into DEERing? Steele's Guide includes links to posts about how to emote as a HVM. Maybe its time to look at more than just two, faggot
/r/askMRP23/05/20 06:21 AM
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Its easy to tell you've never looked at the MRP sidebar "bro"
/r/askMRP23/05/20 04:02 AM
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How old is fit chick? Over or under 30?
/r/RedPillWives23/05/20 01:05 AM
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You can find that out by doing the work and reading the sidebar material and books found on r/marriedredpill A good place to start for Red Pill Theory would be "The Rational Male" - Red Pill Theory (the missing context) and what makes a HVM can't really be reduced to a single comment reply. As far as properly answering this question goes, I think Kenshi gave the best answer with Future having an honorable mention.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/20 04:45 PM
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he should inform her what he's doing with his body? I said its an option he should consider. As in he needs to think it through carefully and make a decision he is ready to own both now and later. If she does find out on her own later, and had told him previously she wanted more kids, she will be pretty upset about the inexcessibility of his sperm. Not necessarily his problem, but I doubt that him being congruent with himself and his integrity includes an omission of that nature, he didn't sound…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/20 04:38 PM
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Thanks for solidifying my point: You obviously don't understand the social/sexual dynamics laid out in Red Pill Theory. What your wife is/does has zero to do with you being or not being a HVM who has swallowed the Red Pill and could call himself a Red Pill Man. (Kudos for at least admitting as much btw, Purple Pill is about right, and to speak to you in your own language, "you're lucky to have her") You're not qualified to answer this question because you don't even fully understand the context …
/r/RedPillWives22/05/20 01:20 PM
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You don't sound like a Red Pill HVM.
/r/RedPillWives21/05/20 10:32 PM
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Probably because part of me, the old me, agrees with him. So I'm trying to DEER my actions to myself, not really to him. I've had similar arguments in my own head, and still have lingering self doubt about my chosen course of action, so it gets expressed here rather than out there. I'd also say STFU/brevity is my biggest weak point when it comes to the sub. I keep thinking I need to find a NMMNG group or a safe person or whatever. I like discussion too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/20 12:16 AM
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I expect that she will do her share with the kids, 50%, and I expect my parents to stay out of my personal business. If either of those conditions are not met, I will do what I need to do to ensure the kids are cared for and that I have control over my life, not my parents. The only thing my parents need to do to keep me there and the situation stable, is not try to dictate what I do with my own time. Simple. Not an unreasonable condition. You say in one breath to take her out of the equation, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 10:37 PM
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Passing shit and comfort tests. Developing and staying in my Frame. Boundaries, being assertive and other WISNIFG skills. Being fine with her being uncomfortable. Leading interactions. Etc Every interaction I have with her is a chance to learn where I need to make improvements the most, and reinforce what I am doing well. Even if I already know that long term we want different things, so there isn't a future there, I can still make productive use of the time I spend with her, and she is fun to h…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 08:38 PM
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My support for my children will not go away, they will live with me if I move, for a minimum of 50% of the time. I will provide for them and raise them the best I can. My ownership is for them, and for me and my development and my needs. The rest of the "giant mess" is just noise, and yep, not my problem to solve. Why are you suggesting STBX's living arrangements are my responsibility? My acceptance of my current arrangement is conditional. I will not be told what I can or cannot do with my time…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 08:25 PM
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Purposefully good
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 04:07 PM
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I’m getting a fucking vasectomy as soon as I get the money together. If you have an even half way reasonable insurance plan, this shouldn't cost you more than $300... Is this something you plan to share with your wife first or are you going to do it and then deal with her feelings of betrayal later when she finds out you didn't tell her? Not saying her opinion should matter to your decision but something to think about, there isn't a right or wrong answer
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 07:06 AM
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You’re overthinking That's the whole fight. My brain tries to think shit and be a faggot and I keep pushing the off button. Sometimes it gets a few mood killing thoughts through before I can shut it down again. Sometimes I have a great session and my "beta brain" just stays off. I'm dealing with some guilt and self-shame/loathing about the time I'm spending with these women instead of being with my kids everyday after work, but I remind myself when all is said and done I'm not going to have them…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/20 03:11 AM
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I'll find out more as I keep working through NMMNG again. Toxic shame and all that
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 11:17 PM
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Question to ask yourself is "What am I afraid of so much that compels me to tell other people about it?" Can you phrase this differently? Or is there a missing word? Not looking for a paragraph but I don't understand what you mean by this
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 10:00 PM
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You're not understanding me. Your pride/sense of accomplishment that she has "changed for you" is what is showing through so clearly. "Her" changes, wouldn't affect a HVM the way they are affecting you. Her changes are validating you and making you feel that pride because you give too many fucks about her and where her head is at. "Her" changes should have been a pleasant surprise but not such a big deal as they appear to be for you. You tried hard to play it off, especially evident in your adde…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 03:15 PM
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You do realize you're gushing external validation, right? She's validating you so hard right now you're planning anal toy purchases like you're at a honeymoon. I wonder how much more she'd have to do to get you to pause a workout or change your mind about something. Fix where your motivation springs from.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 11:00 AM
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OYS#34 - 60DoD Week 8 31yo 6'2" 186lbs ~15%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 10% NMMNG×2 10% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. I have moved to the most advanced progressions on all of my Body Weight exercises, and I started on the lowest progressions on many of them. My r…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/20 09:27 AM
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I ask because you may benefit from counseling by a male doctor. Your deep seated issues, you seem unable or unwilling to dig out yourself. Maybe talking through it with someone professionally will. Specifically your lack of self value and where that came from and why you can't let it go
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/20 10:40 AM
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So basically eat more and burn more, or at least eat before working out, and also don't be an idiot who cuts 22lbs in 60 days. Yep, makes sense. Well #60DoD is over next week and I'm on track to meet my goal of sub 15%BF as of now. I'll adjust my intake up at that point as I continue down to sub 12%.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/20 02:38 AM
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... I’ve had ... back issues. DEERing - Further evidence you have no clue what Frame even is, let alone have it. I have the same problem. I also have little/no Frame, and I DEER on this sub a lot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/20 12:40 AM
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This is a serious question - do you have reasonable health insurance?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 10:17 PM
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I might be trying too hard - yesterday during my workout, every rep where I had to brace caused my vision to swim and I would involuntarily lose balance if I held my breath under load for longer than 5-10 seconds. This was at the end of an 18 hour fast, with average of under 1500 cal daily intake the last few weeks before - not sure if low blood sugar, or what. Isn't it true that with ketosis, blood sugar shouldn't even play a role at this point for me? I'm only eating meat, protein, vegetables,…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 10:11 PM
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Depending on the laws in your area you may already be in a common law marriage, legally speaking. You should probably look into that. Also, it will have no difference (small chance) or hurt it (best chance) Getting married will hurt a lot of other things like your finances if you ever want out, like say if you find out that while she was giving you starfish she was forcefully self gagging on Chad's cock on the side.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 05:10 PM
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recently started gaming again as a group The fuck? This is not great. This is you replacing one vice with another. No wonder your fiance isn't attracted to you, you do everything under the sun to avoid facing your problems and bounce from one time wasting, expensive vice/habit to the next. "I stopped doing drugs, except weed hehe, but now I'm a gamer" You mention nothing about your diet or exercise program so I'll assume you spend your days eating crap, gaming, masturbating compulsively, smoking…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 02:48 PM
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Haven’t lifted since 3/3. This was all I needed to read. What the fuck man? Where are the basics? Read. Lift. STFU. You're reading Becoming A Supple Leopard but you haven't lifted in over 60 days? Not even BWF? WTF is that book going to help you do? Remove all the pent up knots from your evening leisure strolls? Maintain a Positive Frame You don't have one to maintain. Want to know how I know? You haven't lifted or even exercised consistently in 2 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/20 02:14 PM
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You definitely didn't Confront ... yourself relative to his Criticism Publicly, no. It did spark an internal calibration check though which was valuable. Confronting red about the more generalized topic would be wasting my time and energy. I'm willing to write out the personal discussion here because it will help me see my thoughts better and assess again, what happened internally immediately after red's reply felt shielded and not fully honest. ... As HOA pointed out, up until about 6 months ag…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 05:46 PM
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give it a little time, they'll push a boundary. don't even hesitate; just smash the plate and move on. she'll cry, your're an asshole. who fucking cares? I will care, especially if I follow Tyred's advice about being authentic, but it will be a good opportunity to work on how or if I express that emotion, and to reflect later on why I did what I did in the moment and if it was worthy of who I want to be or not. Very good advice, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 03:51 PM
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I didn't DEER for him, and I'm not going to for you either. I would love to see a 60DoD week from him though, that would be... unique. Unique is almost always good.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 03:44 PM
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Working on it. If not for COVID divorce would have been final by now and I'd be to the stage of pushing her out. I'm not going to kick out right now because first I don't want to jeopardize my uncontested divorce and second my kids would have no place safe to go when they were with her. That's my choice at this point in time. I'll reevaluate as time continues to pass.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:49 AM
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Thank you. You're right, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now, but that doesn't mean I can't let myself feel what I feel. Its another opportunity to practice STFU and expressing emotion as a man that I would be denying myself, and Future Me is not a Robot.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/20 02:45 AM
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And then what happened
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 03:24 AM
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Two things, I'm not ready for that internally, I need to develop Frame first, so I'm not opening myself to that depth of feeling. And when I am ready, I'll still put myself and my mission first and my kids second. "She" will be third, maybe.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 03:22 AM
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Actually I like all 3 of my plates. Only 2 of them still have potential to keep vetting for possible LTR material and I enjoy both of them as people, but I'm happy to keep fucking plate #3 anyway. I dont understand, how is that a mind fuck? Or did you mean if I'm going to fall in love with one of them or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 03:16 AM
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I've never visited MGTOW, not even once. Went to TRP to check out their sidebar but thats it. I feel like I'm missing your point.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/20 12:45 AM
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Almost, you're right but with a small tweak. I always knew that the rewards for fulfilling my potential would be very high. What I decided back then was that I was willing to settle for the lesser reward because I didn't want to risk failing and because I thought I'd be happy enough with that lesser life, without having to put in work towards meeting that potential. Turns out I'm not happy enough living a shit life, and I'm willing to fail as many times as I have to now to better myself and get …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 10:17 PM
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Thanks for the double tap. I'll adjust further.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 09:59 PM
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Aww, thanks red. Nice to see you still look in on me from time to time. How's the current cycle going? When do we get to see a "#60DoD Week _" post from you my man? Looking forward to it!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 09:02 PM
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My mission isn't ready to be defined yet. In the mean time I've thought deeply and this is something I would want to do "when I felt I had time/if I didn't have to work/when I retire" so I'm making long term goals that will build the foundation in my life to be able to make this happen, and that will position me in my local community to be able to create something like this and have it thrive. I want to start a local non-profit for veterans that connects them with resources they don't know about…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:55 PM
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You think a 3 year old is gonna understand that? That she's going to understand the consequences of both sets of actions? I know she does, she's shown me she does in her facial expressions, tone, etc when she responds to being told what will happen. She gets it to some degree, I'm sure not the same way we are discussing it now but she gets the basic "if a, then b or if x, then y"
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:44 PM
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Its more about me and my control issues, and that I need to say things in a way that reminds me that I can't force others to do things. I get what you're saying about the naughty/good part though. I think of it more as explaining what the consequences of both sets of actions will be
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:35 PM
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Btw - your 3 year old has better frame than you. I know. There's a line I have, "if you keep doing that, you're going to be punished." And then my daughter gets punished. The only difference here is that I'm the only one who was consistently following through between me and STBX. Once I get to that type of language I don't give more warnings, but I used to start with language more like a negotiation. I'm working to adjust that now, and start from a place of authority rather than putting myself o…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:32 PM
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I already started next week's OYS, but it seems better suited to this discussion. I'll have a different perspective by next week, I'm sure. This is what's been happening yesterday and today as I was finishing my OYS and reflecting a final time on this week, and specifically on my feelings/inner thoughts about my cutting back on time spent plating that I built into my schedule this next week: Another anger phase is coming through, I know its source, and it simply angers the Better part of Me even…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:23 PM
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The priority here is making progress where progress can be made. I fought this fight when STBX was actually still trying to make things work and she didn't listen then either. I'm working 60+ hours per week, STBX is working two 5 hour shifts per week at this point. Who do you think has actual control over the kid's routine? That excuse/puke out of the way, I'm working on it. I've set a fixed schedule now so that there's 4 nights a week that I won't be out. On a minimum of 3 of those nights I'll …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:13 PM
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I slipped in my diet 3 times the week prior, ate a single cookie or small piece of cake that was available at work. That contributed, knocking me out of Ketosis and fucking up my body's grind on my fat. I was also looking for the weigh in close to OYS - I was unconsciously doing what we used to do for wrestling meets in HS - when its close to weigh in day you stop eating and stop drinking water to lose as much as you can. You also go running in sweats and shit like that to force more water out (…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 04:05 PM
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Yes, mostly. Barracuda's recent post was on the money about this, I'll borrow from how he laid things out to explain. Wherever I lack the internalized ability to handle something as myself right now,, I'm projecting Future Me's Frame and personality to fill any gaps in my own current personality whenever I'm with a plate. Especially because its always in small doses, less than 6 hours at a time, its great practice and not that hard to do, vs. trying to do it 24/7 while stuck at home with a wife …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 03:59 PM
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None of them know where I live. If it comes up, I tell plates that its for the safety of my children because I've had a bad experience with crazy before and my kids have nothing to do with me dating again. They've all respected that they won't even meet my kids for at least a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 03:40 PM
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Marriage STBX is having car issues. Keeps dying in random places because she hasn't gotten proper maintenance done on it. I need to reflect on why her negligence with her car maintenance makes me angry... it doesn't put the kids in danger really, just inconvenience and embarrass them and me (at least according to my feelings, and I don't want to make decisions based on that) After reflection I've come to the conclusion that (as usual for me) it stems from my lack of control of the situation. I c…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 08:34 AM
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OYS#33 - 60DoD Week 7 31yo 6'2" 188lbs ~16%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(step) 3 Reading WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 10% NMMNG×2 10% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Day 1 http://imgur.com/a/HT3NZYY Week 1: 207lbs ~22%BF Week 2: 201lbs ~20%BF Week 3:…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/20 08:33 AM
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Unusually detailed for you SB3, had some time to kill? I'm surprised OP didn't [Deleted] [Deleted]
/r/askMRP09/05/20 02:33 AM
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This is like a shitty Cliff Notes of Atomic Habits. MRPers - just go read Atomic Habits by James Clear
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 12:35 AM
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I may be a hypocrite, but someone still needs to tell you that its wrong - because your reasons for doing it may not even be the right mental model, and you need to have the right end state in mind to do it wrong anyway just because you can. I already have internal abundance in nearly every other part of my life. I know that I'm valuable professionally. I know that I'm valuable mentally. I know that I'm valuable to my family. I know that I am valuable socially. I'm not sure you're in that same p…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 04:58 PM
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I know you won't, but just for shits n giggles: Everything you want to know is in the sidebar of r/MarriedRedPill Everything. You. Are. Asking. Is. There. Read it. Absorb it. Follow it. Live it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/20 06:56 AM
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I guess at least kids are stuck with you and can't divorce you? Wrong. They can. Its called emancipation. Having your children hate you is 1000× worse than having an ex wife hate you. If I was a better or stronger man then I could have kept this as my one and only marriage and a good relationship. This is Oneitis combined with scarcity mindset. Who cares how many times you get married? Also, why would you marry again? Its pretty clear you're lying when say you've read the books in the sidebar ma…
/r/askMRP07/05/20 02:19 AM
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The key for me both the first time when I dropped 25lbs last year and this time was doing OMAD and Keto at the same time. I started with just OMAD and had the same issue you describe. If you're truly in ketosis, you don't get dips in energy. You just don't. Steady all day. The downside is you also don't have "bursts" of energy readily available like your body can provide when fueled by glucose
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/20 05:18 PM
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Update on diet - I wasn't drinking enough water. Stupid mistake. Keto OMAD did the trick, plus maintaining at 1000 cal below TDEE. Just broke under 189 this morning.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/20 05:14 PM
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If you had internalized the Red Pill, this wouldn't bother you. If you thought you yourself had value, this wouldn't bother you. If you were actually willing to do hard work to reach your potential, this wouldn't bother you. Stop being a little bitch who wants the promise it will all work out - that's not how life works. Stop trying to figure out a way to have your cake and eat it too (not have to work hard and yet still get your BP fantasy of a nuclear family, hate to break it to you but if you…
/r/askMRP06/05/20 04:55 PM
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Part of me just wants the comfort of that blue pill life. Another part just wants the validation that someone other than your wife wants you enough to fuck you. This isn't TRP, this is MRP. What you're describing as your goals will just make you a dancing monkey. Abundance may be a necessary part of an MRP man's mental model, but it isn't the most important one, by a long shot. You should be focused on internal rather than external abundance - ie that you are the prize because you just know you …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/20 12:03 AM
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One last note - sounds like you're planning to manage your time better this week, but cutting out the TV watching at night would certainly free up some more time for either reading, introspection, maybe meditation, basically anything more productive than television. Make playing with your kids the part of your day where you program yourself to feel like you're "relaxing/unwinding" instead. Or your work out if you do them in the evening. Take away the allure of vegging out on the TV. Its somethin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 05:02 PM
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My question remains: how does it help you to let your hamster convince you that during a lockdown when social distancing prevents nearly all casual contact, its better for you to "focus on making friends" (with who exactly?) Rather than to develop one or two or three (not random) regular plates to fuck? This is BS - if you were actually going out during this time and making new friends I might accept this, but instead you've created a view for yourself that literally allows you to justify to you…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 04:13 PM
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The ROI from those dates has been very low. Sounds like your fear of rejection is combining with your ego to create this BS way of looking at things. Let me ask, if you had fucked a girl on the first date, would you still be saying this? How many dates have you actually gone on during the lockdown to say your "ROI is low"? 1? 2? 3? Not exactly a large sample size is it. Now I let the plating take over a large chunk of my time for the last month, but in the last 4 weeks I have talked to over 30 g…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 02:10 PM
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Courts here in Hawaii are shut down, and what has to happen next requires that they be open. So no further progress at this time. Relationship with 14yo I hope will grow because after divorce is final I'm going to kick STBX out within 3 momths of divorce decree in hand. I may also move out for a few months in order to emphasize that we are not living together that she can't afford to keep the place we have now on her own (also have strategized this step with parents - they don't plan to let her …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 01:00 PM
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OYS#32 - 60DoD Week 5 31yo 6'2" (192lbs ~17)%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading Finished 48LOP, now reading NMMNG again. Listening to Atomic Habits again. WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 15% NMMNG×2 10% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/20 08:25 AM
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I need to timetable the work necessary to achieve my goals "I need to" is procrastination language. Be Specific. Be Measurable. Be Achievable. Be Relevant. Be Timely. Be SMART in your language and how you define your goals. "I will timetable the work and steps necessary to achieve X specific goal by Monday of next week and report my success or failure on Tuesday's OYS"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/20 07:23 AM
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No sex yet, though. I don't instigate but have been flirting. Who's job is it to initiate if they want sex? I've got a theory what do you think would happen if you just pretended like your argument had never happened? If you pretended like COVID wasn't going on and just started escalating your wife to sex like when you were first dating and first married? my theory is that YOU are the reason you're not having sex. All this shit is in your head, she sees it, and like you've said has happened so m…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/20 07:01 AM
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What goals and MAP do you have for the unfucking of your brain from the validation? Nothing as concrete as this yet, I'm still in Identify mode to assess the issue. But I have started rereading before I text, both to assess if I'm just looking for attention as well as my word use (always too many words. Always.) and doing the same in person. (removed unneeded braggy crap) Each time I fuck I look more at identifying what I'm doing to try to impress her vs what I'm doing to purely get pleasure fro…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/20 05:46 AM
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After 12+ weeks of OYS, you aren't working out consistently (running next week won't count either, do some BWF faggot), you're gaining weight because you don't track what you eat or your TDEE, you're reading nothing, and you just now managed to STFU for the first time, and it honestly sounds like it was dumb luck. Why are you here? What do you want out of MRP? A new week so im trying not to feel bad about last week. You're stuck in your feelz instead of actually holding yourself accountable in a…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/20 04:56 PM
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OYS#32 - 60DoD Week 5 31yo 6'2" (192lbs ~17)%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading Finished 48LOP, now reading NMMNG again. Listening to Atomic Habits again. WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang UFYS 48LOP Atomic Habits×2 10% NMMNG×2 10% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/20 08:24 AM
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I like how your ego let you skip past the meat of what I said. Proves my point even more. How about you address the rest of my reply instead of continuing to argue about the semantics of covert contracts? Face Your Failures Faggot
/r/askMRP26/04/20 05:53 AM
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I do expect sex That's a covert contract in a nutshell, especially when the other person doesn't know or agree with your expectations. Would you say in a relationship with bad sex? I'm getting divorced for a different reason than bad sex, but let me ask you this - Would you stay in a relationship where the bad sex was caused by you? Because that's the reality here. The bad sex is a product of your shitty leadership, and your failure to be a man worth fucking with enthusiasm. Why is she the scape…
/r/askMRP24/04/20 03:19 PM
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after all this work Your ego still blinds you. I told you already. All that work was only shit to stop being unattractive it isnt going to make you attractive Its possible to be proud of what you've accomplished in the past while still understanding and accepting that you're a shit eating faggot with so much improvement left to do that you've barely begun. Welcome to Hard Mode. Its also obvious that even if you read the books and sidebar, you didn't understand them. I have set an alarm in my pho…
/r/askMRP23/04/20 10:53 PM
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DEERing DEERing DEERing... and then I've been a fuck the last few weeks Finally the truth. The day my gym closed I had researched a Body Weight Exercise program and started it. That same fucking day. Don't make excuses, it just annoys the men here who might actually choose to spend their valuable time helping you become less of a faggot. Own Your Shit. Go reread the OP at the top and then reply with how you're going to fix this in measurable steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 07:32 AM
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There's 80% of them (BP'ed men) to the 20% who get the cream of women for a reason. Be happy. It makes our lives easier when they buy into BP BS
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 07:19 AM
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I'd hazard the method of exchange was much less subtle as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 07:17 AM
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I wanted to say something less articulated than this, but you had already done it better. Thanks for that. Basically, how does knowing men also have a dual strategy help me with women? Why is this useful information? What does it have to do with what MRP is actually about, which is building better men?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 12:47 AM
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A more optimal path than real actualized OI? No it isn't. He should be thinking something along the lines of "not a big deal, I've got x y z that I can also be doing right now. I'll take care of z. Its a shame she doesn't want the gift of my time right now, but I'm a HVM with options, and she isn't my only source of sex if I wanted it that badly." (Obviously all of that should be true, not lies of the ego) Then once he's moved on from that critical first reaction, he would carry on about his bus…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/20 12:02 AM
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No arguments there. But this guy switching over from blaming his wife to blaming himself isn't going to help him develop OI, it will just keep him coasting on his feelz, but on a different current.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/20 08:11 PM
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focused on how it was my fault, not hers. This is unhealthy in the opposite direction. Indirectly it may be your fault but that shouldn't be your focus in that moment. It simply is what it is, and you need to accept it as a perfectly acceptable outcome. It doesn't matter because you're going to fuck, even if it isn't right now When you go to that polar opposite direction, that does not equal OI anymore than blaming her does.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/20 07:55 AM
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There will always be another mountain to climb or dragon to slay. Absolutely, but I "feel" like I've yet to even slay my first, which is dumb because I've already done things only a small segment of people even can do. My "feeling" is that I'm behind where I expected myself to be at this age. I haven't come to acceptance with it yet and probably won't "feel" better about it until I'm officially promoted into management at my main job and get my lifts past beginner and into intermediate. I defini…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 06:09 PM
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Really truly deep down believe it? Not yet, im dancing here because I'm not even 50% there for where I want to be physically mentally etc. So my mental thinking fallacy is, if I don't think I'm even at 50% of my potential, why would I be the prize? I've got a lot more work to do
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:46 PM
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You're right it doesn't matter. I'm doing my best to simply explore my options and see what I actually want my life to look like. I definitely don't think plating is what MRP success looks like, and like I've already hinted at I know the pace I was going at with plating isn't sustainable for me personally. I'm already fixing that. I've got a long road ahead, but I can finally begin to actually see the path up the mountain... I'm not just trying to grow eyes to see anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:44 PM
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Ok bro. Thanks for your time and opinion, honestly. I appreciate anyone who takes the time even if I end up going my own way or doing it the hard way anyway. I'm going to continue to do both, seeking experience with life to face my fucked mental models, and introspecting to learn from those fresh experiences. I'm not going to stick myself in the corner and meditate for the next 6 months. I have started to reread NMMNG and WISNIFG though, its time to have that fresh for context against these new …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:33 PM
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you have deeper issues you need to look at. Seems to me more like your internalized value is paper thin I'm not sure I've mentioned this previously here, but this is accurate in this area of my life. I grew up religious, so didn't date through junior year of HS. Bucked at 18 and lost my virginity, but still bought into the whole "One" BS until very recently - I have an N count less than ten even including current plates, and STBX was my first LTR, the rest were a month or two, tops. I simply hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 05:10 PM
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I do have a sense of self worth, what I'm working through is that the external validation is still a strong pull that if I'm not careful would continue to be a stronger motivator than that sense of self worth. Its obviously possible to have both playing a role at once, it isn't black and white. STBX wasn't a source of validation for literally years, didn't give me "positive reinforcement" as the marriage counselor called it (aka validation) so I haven't felt it for years in this context. Wanting…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 04:36 PM
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OYS#31 - 60DoD Week 4 31yo 6'2" 195lbs ~18%BF, STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14 & 3 Reading NMMNG WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang Atomic Habits UFYS 48LOP 80% Conv Tactics 10% SLSM 60% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Day 1 http://imgur.com/a/HT3NZYY Week 1: 207lbs ~22%BF Week 2: 201lbs …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/20 08:47 AM
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What you're missing is that your motivation for doing all those self improvements is misaligned. You didn't do them for yourself, you did them for your family, your wife, to improve your marriage, to better your social standing. You did them for the approval of others. Your self approval may have also been mixed in there, but it certainly was not the main motivating factor. You're now operating under the covert contract "well, if I did all this and she still doesn't appreciate it, then I'll just…
/r/askMRP18/04/20 05:48 PM
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You skipped the first question bub.
/r/askMRP18/04/20 05:18 PM
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I'm defensive because plating is very new for me, and despite what I said before about it, deep down I am unsure of the decision to plate. I made the decision and I'm sticking to it, but when parts of that decision are being "attacked" I'm defending it because I see it as part of the whole decision. I had a similar issue with STBX - she used to complain about my parents and how they would do some things, and I would take it as a personal attack on me, my thoughts being that they raised me and I …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/20 04:23 PM
1

I have an unhealthy desire to feel like I'm in control, and one of the best ways to grow out of it is to expose myself to situations where I don't really have any, and I have to accept things as they are and accept the consequences of my actions if I let that desire for control dictate my actions. Dating is one of those exposure points. Parenting my 14yo including her resistance is another. These kind of things help me internalize that I can't control anyone except myself, which is the most impo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/20 05:39 AM
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OP's wife appears to have taken to MRP quite well, passing OP's shit tests, leading OP even when he doesn't want to be led, and not giving a fuck about a member of the opposite sex with no value and no effort made to develop any. We should invite OP's wife to start posting in OYS, it sounds like she's been progressing nicely despite a challenging harpy spouse and maybe even has started to be her own point of origin with some Frame, too.
/r/askMRP16/04/20 05:15 PM
1

Oh yeah absolutely its easy mode. I know her motivations behind it, that's obvious. The mindset stuff is more about me, my thinking, and am I going to RP thoughts/mental models or BP ones initially in these situations I'm putting myself in (before there's any response from "her" at all). I have to be used to being dominant to get shit tested about being dominant, if that makes any sense. My Game is irrelevant to a woman's age, and has more to do with just me being me, and their basic intelligenc…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/20 10:32 PM
2

I'm not fantasizing about being with her long term, in any way. I realize that may not have been clear. There was never a future with her, I always knew that. I am using her to practice movement toward the type of mental model that is extremely foreign to me that I need to be maintaining 24/7, if she wants to accommodate that, great, if not, perfect I get practice with shit tests. There were more than the ones I mentioned, I'm sure according to you I failed those too 😆 As I already stated better…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 10:21 PM
2

I wasn't looking for validation, I knew I'd get dog piled before I posted this. I definitely have validation seeking mental models, let other's judgements affect me at times, and talk too much in general, but I posted this for the reason in the first sentence of the post - I have no illusions about where I'm at or how far I have to go. Check my most recent OYS, I'm still working on my shit. If even one guy sees this and is motivated by it (even though its for the wrong reasons for now) then it w…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 08:11 PM
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I will stop vaping ... tomorrow This is you in a nutshell man. WTF? Why tomorrow? You're a serial procrastinator, and you've wired your brain to accept it. You need to rewire your brain, and its going to suck. Drill into Atomic Habits, implement each step along the way, without skipping through, and fix your shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 07:59 PM
1

Dig that shit out, face it, and either make a plan to change your time commitments or come to full acceptance of it. Not doing so is Nice Guy behavior.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 07:25 PM
3

Nice man. There's not a lot in here about you, so I hope you're still Journaling or using another means of self assessment.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 07:22 PM
0

The mirror is super old, its actually the adhesive holding the silver backing to the glass showing its age. There are a few water spots though but I'm pretty sure that wasn't what you were talking about
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 03:34 PM
1

On date_and_time_that_match_my_schedule And it's mostly been for walks in the neighborhood around their house, which I park at, or on the beach, or to hike a trail, or yep, strip mall for a takeout snack they buy me to eat on the pavement. It's the same "free" activity based shit as always, just repackaged as COVID friendly. The key is don't be a boring fuck Also, be forewarned, women are banned on sight here.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 09:08 AM
3

OYS#30 - 60DoD Week 3 31yo 6'2" 198lbs ~19%BF (photo method), STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading NMMNG WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang Atomic Habits UFYS 48LOP 70% SLSM 60% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Day 1 http://imgur.com/a/HT3NZYY Week 1: 207lbs ~22%BF Week 2: …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/20 08:26 AM
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Since when are field reports about earning respect? I didn't even mention Alpha, because it also wasn't important to my point. I'm not Alpha. I'm also not trying to be. I am becoming a man that understands his worth, and won't accept less. The point of the post is simple. Stop making excuses. The rest is just window dressing to make the point more appealing to a particular target audience.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/20 12:22 AM
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I get that most longer time guys will see it that way, but for the faggots still stuck at the starting line, consumed by validation seeking and pussy worship, maybe one or two will take a few steps when they see beginner progress like this. Maybe they read a bit more and start to see how fucked their minds are. Read my previous OYS's if you actually care to look into what I consider to be success. This isn't about me, even though I wrote it that way, it's about showing what's possible even at th…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 10:20 PM
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Thanks mama bear, I can feel your validation coursing through my veins. I've made good progress on internal validation in other areas, that's part of why I want to start plating now, I'm ready to get to work mentally on validation seeking where women are concerned. STBX isn't a source of it for me anymore, so I need to have new test subjects available to measure my own responses and continue to make improvements.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 09:13 PM
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Thanks WAS. Check is in the mail.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 09:00 PM
3

Yep, uncontested divorce is going through the process right now. I don't need the warnings, I've thought this through and made my choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:32 PM
1

That was fixed the moment I found out STBX was cheating. The disney fantasy was broken for good at that point.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:31 PM
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Christ, I had no idea having the before photo first would cause so much fucking confusion. It's fixed now.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:28 PM
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I decided now was the time to start plating, and didn't let a pandemic stop me from making it happen. This is for the newer guys, I'm not expecting you or anyone else to be impressed.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:26 PM
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Another drive-by proving the TRP sub's reading comprehension needs improvement 😂
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:19 PM
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"A couple dozen at least" is 24lbs or more. I'm 200lbs right now and estimate 18-20% BF. You do the math, I think it's pretty close. Thanks for the feedback
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 07:51 PM
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Read the first sentence and sit down. Hell, read the actual post since I know you're mixing up the photos. If I lost a couple dozen more pounds, I'd be sub 8% BF.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 07:34 PM
1

I swear to god your account is run by different people between askMRP and MarriedRedPill. Fucking eerie sometimes man. I do get why it seems that way though. Nice new flair btw
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 08:04 AM
1

I want to stress that I don't actually disagree with you, my view is that I'd want my 3yo and my father who has diabetes, cancer, etc to get it now while hospital beds and equipment are available, not when the second wave hits. I didn't need to do the research to know that they will eventually have to lift most of these restrictions. Same shit I'm telling the possible plates on dating apps: "I've been weighing that myself, but I also get that "Flatten the Curve" isn't about stopping the virus, j…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 02:32 AM
1

And they aren't all old young diseased either. Healthy people dying too.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/20 01:58 AM
1

The purpose is 1) for me to do whatever the fuck I want, welcome to being a man tyred 2) continue to practice leadership when other women are not available 3) Helping her exercise costs me nothing. Keep her thinking of me not as an enemy but as a Beta with a couple neat alpha traits that even in divorce is willing to include her and do shit for her. That way until the divorce is finalized, she will continue to go along with it without resistance.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/20 04:20 PM
2

B) Talking about fight club I don't think he was saying he told her about MRP, I think he was talking to us but just didn't separate the sentence context better for clarity.
/r/askMRP08/04/20 08:46 AM
2

U/altruisticpound This is your best response here so far. Pay some fucking attention and answer his questions.
/r/askMRP08/04/20 08:44 AM
1

You should repost this in r/askMRP because the mods will delete it soon. The only advice you need is to read the sidebar ---> If you actually do, you'll have all the answers you're seeking plus more you didn't even know to ask. Then if you actually follow it and unfuck yourself, you'll be the type of man that "tall well built white dudes" wish they were. Women will be clawing each other trying to get in your good graces and fuck you or suck your cock. Read. Lift. STFU. Read the sidebar. All of i…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 08:48 AM
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OYS#29 - 60DoD Week 2 31yo 6'2" 201lbs ~18%BF (photo method), STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading NMMNG WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang Atomic Habits UFYS 48LOP 55% SLSM 60% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical 60DoD Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post cropped before and after pics as evidence. Day 1 http://imgur.com/a/HT3NZYY Week 1: 207lbs ~20%BF We…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/20 08:24 AM
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Maybe that's why you still look like a fat faggot
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/20 12:44 AM
2

I feel like this post belongs in the boy's playground of askTRP
/r/askMRP02/04/20 03:53 AM
4

You handle Corona the same way you handle anything else not served to you on a fucking silver platter in life - own your goddamned shit faggot. You whined about all these "inconveniences" that happened "cuz corona guys" and not once, not even in these comments, have you mentioned or even hinted at what you're going to do to start taking control of your own pathetic excuse of an existence. You have nebulous goals like "lose 20llbs" but no path (and no MAP, let alone Mission) on how you will get t…
/r/askMRP01/04/20 09:23 AM
1

Like I said, probably won't work, but when I threaten to tell family and friends - ie ruin social reputation, it may work
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/20 06:51 AM
2

This was already my plan before I started reading it, but your advice when you told me I was ready to read it was seriously dead on timing wise. I wouldn't have been able to explain it this way before reading 48 LOP. I mentioned this to WAS a few weeks ago, but there's a side of me that I had been suppressing since childhood, I'm talking like age 4-7, before the organized religion started to "stick". When I was 5 I used to pound 6th graders into submission, fought whenever people decided to squa…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 04:01 PM
3

I'm "saving" it for when the divorce is finalized as added pressure when I tell her she needs to find a new place to live. I didn't want her knowing I plan to make her move out of the place I'm fully paying for right now before the divorce is done. She might (probably would!) Try to use it as leverage or would use it as cause to fight the divorce process, lawyer up, etc and destroy both our financial lives. If "you need to move" suddenly comes out of nowhere right after the divorce, she will rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 03:13 PM
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OYS#28 - 60DoD Week 1 Physical 31yo 6'2" 206lbs ~20%BF (photo method), STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading NMMNG WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang Atomic Habits UFYS 48LOP 55% SLSM 60% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Nvr Split The Diff Meditations Physical 60DoD Goal: don't just maintain muscle, gain muscle over the next 60 days. Measurement: post before and after pics as evidence. Day 1 http://imgur.com/a/HT3NZYY Plan Of Action (POA): I…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 08:24 AM
1

60 DoD happening now too? No better time like the present to make a change. Let's fuckin get it man.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/20 06:47 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/420fuh/the_elements_of_frame_3_emotional_basis/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share Start at the first one, don't read part 3 first.
/r/askMRP31/03/20 06:04 AM
2

the very fact that I want it is what is preventing me from getting it? No. More along the lines of you can't seem to understand why it isn't already happening Even though you think you're doing all the right things. And even though multiple vets here have explained it to you, in multiple different ways, you still don't get the difference. Best I can do for you at this level of "not getting it" is recommend that you go read the links on Frame that I'm going to post as a reply to this comment. Bec…
/r/askMRP31/03/20 06:03 AM
3

Did red-sf hack you?
/r/askMRP29/03/20 03:07 PM
1

That spin cycle you're talking about, it's because instead of jumping right back to holding on the positive side of the line when you fail for a bit, instead after you hold the positive side for a bit you fail and then sit on the negative side - allowing your weaker side to take over with whatever justifications run through your head. Treat this cycle like physical weight training - make every "set" on the good side of yellow a little longer than the last. Improve your technique to hit new PRs. …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/20 04:08 AM
3

I don't need you to DEER to me about it man. This is guys swapping notes. If what I said doesn't apply, then don't respond. The fact you felt the need to respond with all that extra may indicate that your ego is frantically rewriting history to cover up your insecurities, or it could mean I read it wrong. Either way, get a new mentor.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 09:36 PM
3

If your mentor was actually red pill aware, they wouldn't have mentioned what's good for her while advising you You need a new mentor.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 11:57 AM
1

current missions You mean current goals. They are not the same thing as a mission. Search it up in the sub. About plating...not exactly keen on that so much. So why are you wasting time texting a girl you have no intention of fucking? Again you are simply looking for external validation that someone likes you enough to chat with you. Seems like you are a good feelz addict, just like a woman. Be your own mental point of origin. Be your own judge, don't depend on others to decide your value for yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 11:55 AM
3

I missed this from your OYS last week: Hobby Woman Two (HB8) gave me her number the other day, unsolicited, and we've been texting a bit. I doubt anything will come from it since her husband 100% mate guards her and keeps her on a very short leash. She is half Indian and comes from a very religious family where she'd get her ass kicked if she did anything remotely like cheating. It's probably a big risk for her to even text other dudes. None of that shit matters if you're a HVM. STOP putting ass…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/20 03:58 AM
2

Read 50 pages of NMMNG. How about "Complete one exercise from NMMNG" Instead of speed reading past all the parts that make you feel squishy inside. You seem like the obsessive type - video games, porn, wife's frame. How about this time you obsess on something that will benefit you. You. Introspection isn't easy, but it is necessary if you ever want to stop being a dancing monkey.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 09:01 AM
3

Energy and momentum All it takes is one area. Just hold the fucking line at yellow in one area and make it your new "normal". Watch what happens as you adapt to that new normal. I promise you, it will feel very much like what you are describing with how you are starting to see with RP eyes. You will start to raise other areas afterwards and it won't feel so heavy like it did when you tried to raise those other areas before. Prove to yourself that you can do it once, and hold that line even if yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 08:42 AM
5

At the rate she's packing on pounds, he'd have to buy the whole department to keep her in silk for a year. Growing like a newborn
/r/askMRP24/03/20 08:32 AM
1

OYS#27 31yo 6'2" 207lbs ~20%BF (photo method), STBX 34yo 5'7" 200lbs, married 7yrs, kids 14(f,step) 3(f) Reading NMMNG WISNIFG×2 TRM MMSLP MAP Pook×2 Poon WOTSM Day Bang Atomic Habits UFYS 48LOP 50% SLSM 60% sidebar 95% (posts) Book Queue Bang Natural Never Split The Difference Meditations Physical Current 5×5+/5×10+ weights: lbs SQ 250/170 BP 165/105 OHP 110/75 BR 165/105 DL 260/165 Gyms closed now due to COVID-19. Took the advice from one of the posts and started this regimen on Sunday: https:…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/20 08:25 AM
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sexually I'm losing interest. I don't want to break her heart This is all that matters with your post, plus i have this urge to talk to every nice chic i ran into (several have flirted with me Your problem is you have no purpose, you have no balls, and you seek external validation instead of being your own judge. Your girl knows all of this instinctively and so she knows subconsciously that she doesn't need to keep her weight down and she doesn't have to make an effort with you for sex. Basicall…
/r/askMRP24/03/20 03:09 AM
1

Knew I was feeding them for a good reason, just forgot what it was until COVID-19
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/20 06:44 PM
5

usually will ask me to play while she watches me. Ahhhhhh it makes even more sense now. She wants to fantasize about you actually accomplishing something worthy of being considered a man in her brain. And since playing video games is already her chosen method of escaping her reality, this just kills two birds with one stone. OP you better get your shit together, and as always, not for her. Robo-Chad is going to turn into a real Chad the moment Chad decides to show even a little interest in her, …
/r/askMRP21/03/20 06:07 PM
3

You won't.
/r/askMRP21/03/20 05:58 PM
1

Something like, cucked by Robo-Chad while drinking paint ??? Or maybe The Rabbit gets laid more than I do
/r/askMRP21/03/20 05:54 PM
2

Trust me, she sees through your alleged I acted positive, encouraging Straight to the angry and or feeling lied to You're not a good actor. Your questions about this subject at all prove to her your real emotions and doubts on the subject, no matter how you try to mask it.
/r/askMRP21/03/20 05:51 PM
3

This is a state by state thing so far then. My weekend drill for April was postponed until further notice. We are ramping down, not ramping up. I think it depends on the Governor and conditions in each State.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 08:15 AM
1

If you learn to simply enjoy socializing, the rest will take care of itself. That's what I really aim for, and have the most success when I'm in that frame of mind: "I'm going to enjoy myself, no matter what all these other people are doing" and then I just try not to think too hard about it or "trying" to make it happen, and just let it happen. Be myself, and have fun. Right now while I'm still "re-learning" it's a balance between pushing through my fear and making approaches because I'm having…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/20 01:02 AM
1

I believe I said something to that effect in my OYS, with a side of rationalizing. But, you're right, I didn't need to reply with the DEERing to you and Cam. Owning my choices is enough in this case. Yep I'm not sure if I'm going to put in the effort to fix this right now. I am still making progress physically with strength increases, it's just slower. I am prioritizing the mental energy, discipline, and time that would be required to fix this into other areas of my life right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 09:19 AM
1

For fucks sake. How many of us live in Hawaii? This is ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 05:57 AM
3

I basically wanted to just link him to Barracuda's post... but I don't think he would "get it" yet
/r/askMRP18/03/20 02:45 AM
1

I can't tell if it's you or the OPs that are getting repetitive
/r/askMRP18/03/20 02:36 AM
1

I appreciate the time you took to deliver it. Message received, despite my whining and complaining.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/20 02:34 AM
1

In hawaii? On Maui? Which Safeway are you shopping at? Also, I'd stop eating tilapia if I were you...
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 10:20 PM
1

It's also a matter of cost. If I was eating 200g protein or even 150g from real sources each day, I'd be spending 3-5× as much on groceries. The ON is $50/bag and lasts me about 25-30 days. Spiral ham is 2.99/lb., turkey breast is 3.99/lb., beef and fish are both more than those. We call it "the cost of living in paradise". It's not in my budget to get the majority of my protein from whole sources. That being said, the rest of my diet outside protein IS in the budget, I'm just being a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 07:42 PM
1

I don't want what?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 06:00 PM
2

That protein intake comes from ON Gold Standard, I'm not counting anything that adds on from other sources I eat. I do 3 scoops twice a day (72g×2), either by themselves as "meal replacement" or as a sweetener blended with spinach, chia, and hemp heart seeds. That's breakfast and lunch M-F. On workout days it's always the smoothie and sometimes added food for lunch. Then dinner is "whatever reaches my mouth" that's around the house. I'm just being lazy/undisciplined, taking advantage of whatever…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 03:10 PM
1

Photo method. I used to see the top abs at all times but never the lower or middle set, even on a full stomach, first thing in the morning, etc - now they only make an appearance first thing in the morning, after a workout, or fasted.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/20 03:03 PM
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