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I took it as a compliment, whatever hell it was. For the first time in a while, it felt unexpected but nice, and I wasn't looking for any hidden meaning or past resentments as I was doing with all compliments about looks, wardrobe, physique, or anything else. For a second, I questioned whether keeping it all in plain sight was a way of seeking validation and started to overthink it, but ultimately, I just shut it down because I don't think it's relevant at the moment. That's a lot of thinking ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/26 05:52 AM
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While those statements sound like improvements, they also might just be driven by menstrual cycle and age in general as we soon have to decide if there is gonna be a child or not. Also they are just words, I haven’t met the ‚sexy wife‘ during sex yet, so I keep pushing. Just make sure you stay out of her head. Things are what they are, don't worry about analysing the why. If you do, you're now doing it for her, not for yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/26 05:14 AM
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I see your point for the most part when its small things, but for the overarching relationship is there no guidance? Don't fuck other women unless that's chill, don't maliciously manipulate, lie, STFU, etc. There is no guidance. I don't understand how this is difficult. There was a series on dark triad triats back in the day. Use whatever tool you want. Up to you if you want to use that particular tool or not. We literally have a rule called 'no moralising' for this exact reason.
/r/askMRP29/07/26 04:31 AM
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I don't think there IS a focus on morality here. It's praxeology. It's like asking if its moral to use a screwdriver or a hammer to fix a pipe.
/r/askMRP29/07/26 03:42 AM
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Your question is not dumb It is dumb, and you are also dumb. Do you think he should go be moral (and chaste lmao) because you told him to? And if it doesn't work out, does he get to come back to you and complain that you ruined his life? Fucking retards.
/r/askMRP29/07/26 03:41 AM
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No it's like going into the town square and yelling 'What's right and wrong?' You deserve whatever answer you get.
/r/askMRP29/07/26 03:39 AM
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We can't dictate your morals for you. Your question is dumb because you're asking it. Why would you ask a bunch of internet strangers about whether moral sense of right and wrong derived from Christianity is appropriate or not? Isn't that your call to make? Do you want me to tell you how your moral code should work? Do you not see how ridiculous it is to even consider asking that question?
/r/askMRP28/07/26 11:06 PM
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It's nice to want things. I don't see any plan on how to get what you want. But I suspect it felt nice to say these things. That little dopamine hit but without the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 11:16 PM
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What in the fuck is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/26 01:34 AM
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It means he's illiterate.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 11:26 PM
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This sucks. Do better.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/26 10:58 PM
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Fucking wowie. That ego is something else. You can fuck off for 14 days. Edit: It doesn't make what you said wrong. It's the why that is the problem. Edit 2: I've changed my mind. I think it's a fair bump to him, play on.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/26 12:17 AM
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He's not wrong. Don't know why this was downvoted.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/26 04:29 AM
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This reminds me of a night out with a good friend of mine in our early twenties, both into all the old mystery stuff etc. We were walking around the city quite intoxicated in between bars. We'd chatted to a few girls as we walked, but we both got completely caught up in the absurdity of the whole thing. So we started exhuberantly yelling to eachother 'This is supposed to be FUN!', acting like we weren't having a good time and losing it in laughter. This was while we had two random girls with us.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/26 11:29 PM
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/r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/26 11:29 PM
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They are all powerless bystanders in their lives.
/r/askMRP21/05/26 09:57 PM
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None of her actions are anything other than evidence that there is a change in the relationship, if that makes sense. You are looking to her reactions to gauge whether or not you are making progress. Are you doing this for her, or for yourself? Because at the moment this is coming across as the dancing monkey attraction program.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/26 12:14 AM
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I will be honest, hit my ego, but I will read it once again with an open mind. That was my intent. I poked there for a reason. You kept your ego in check in the reply. Good. Freeing myself but not fully. Whatever I am doing now I do not feel I am putting a new mask, its authentically what I want. But I still have fear that is stopping me from fully breaking the mask I put on myself for years. Your job is to understand what you are afraid of. And then find the way to let go of it. Usually it's fe…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 07:02 AM
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This is fucking terrible.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/26 04:25 AM
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Man kisses a girl and spirals when it doesn't go anywhere. Trying to figure out what I’m feeling: guilt, disappointment, rejection? No fucking clue. You're feeling a lack of options. But this girl was younger and hotter, but probably also a wreck And now you're hoping you can post-hoc rationalise your way into why being rejected is a good thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/26 04:25 AM
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P.S. If one of the MODS can remove the "Masturbation Addicts....". It's been a while and don't see a purpose. Self-conscious about flair in a subreddit. Look at you. Even more reason to leave it exactly how it is. My Mission: Kill my ego Hows that working out for you? But what if after all that, I regret leaving this good woman simply for a one-time pussy" Spoken like a man without options. Other moments, in front of her friends she said several good comments about me. I simply accepted it. Yet …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/26 04:19 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/26 11:40 PM
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This makes me think about 'chasing the dragon'. I've realised that I can affix value to the games that are hardest to play (based on my own interpretation). The value itself doesn't exist. But the drive to play those games is incredibly strong, as if I've apportioned value there purely because of the challange. If I can catch that dragon, then I'll prove to myself xyz. When I play and successfully chase the dragon, I realise that I never actually wanted the dragon, I just thought I wanted it. On…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/26 12:24 AM
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Checking in for the sake of maintaining the streak of OYSs. Banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/26 02:54 AM
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/r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 01:53 AM
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Your comments are the only reason I still read OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/26 11:29 PM
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She tried to draw me into a discussion and I just smirked. I got rejected and it made me angry so I pretended that it didn't matter by incongruently smirking because I've heard smirking is a good trick. but then I lost control and blew my load. I stopped, and she responded “oh we’re done.” I'm bad at fucking. I got up, cleaned myself up and went to bed , not saying another word. And I'm ashamed of myself. Last May I did ATOL’s FMOFU talk, which obviously didn’t help. But I still want more sex, s…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/26 11:41 PM
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Good job building something. If people don't add value, then what motivation do I have to help them? Especially if they won't even help themselves by doing the most basic of shit, e.g. a quick search through the sidebar. Everyone thinks that their situation or issue is so unique that it needs a specific response. There are no specific responses. There's just the praxeology for which there isn't a 'right' answer, just an answer that works for you. And that information is on the sidebar. If you wa…
/r/askMRP10/03/26 11:30 PM
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Everyone's a critic.
/r/askMRP06/03/26 10:04 PM
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Don't tone police.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/26 12:02 AM
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Ego is a hellova thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/26 01:46 AM
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/r/askMRP I'll get around to banning randos and Rule 11 when I have time. Don't be disappointed, it's coming.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/26 10:01 PM
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The changes that come when you're start to be worth a damn...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 09:21 PM
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Moving in the right direction, but there's a way to go before you move from 'Trying not to do things that I shouldn't do' to 'Doing what I want to do'. For you it might be worthwhile pondering what you actually want, and trying to seperate that from doing things for validation. There's a needle to thread here to seperate the two, as 'what you want' is effectively 'validation'. But if you were to be validated from your own choices and actions, the world opens up to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/26 10:38 AM
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/r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/26 08:54 PM
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Rule 9
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/26 12:01 AM
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No value added
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/26 06:57 AM
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No value added
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/26 06:57 AM
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/r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/26 11:15 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/26 08:08 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/26 08:08 AM
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Sucks to suck.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 11:36 PM
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If you spent more time doing the work and less time complaining that other men are lifting while you are not, you might actually make it. But because you're so helpless, it's best that you leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 11:36 PM
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I wish could be divorced from the whole MRP sub. Your wish is granted.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/26 11:34 PM
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IMO Good thing your opinion doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 12:18 AM
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The weekly own your shit thread is the only part of this sub that actually matters, and it remains active. It's where actual work is done. It's the lurkers and those who don't put in the work (i.e. those who aren't in OYS) who seem to think the lack of new posts is a sign the sub is dead. Dead, dying, not dead - it's all irrelevant. If the OYS thread remains active, then there's work being done.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 12:15 AM
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tells the truth about what's going on You bet. We've been busy suppressing the truth about... women, or relationships or something. Can't let it get out.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 12:09 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 11:32 PM
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It's not complicated. It's not about whether or not you would cheat. It's about being someone who is capable of cheating. It's always the guys who suck who declare they won't cheat simply because it's not really an option for them anyway, and it's an easy way to salvage the ego.
/r/askMRP18/12/25 10:28 AM
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Rule 9 and 13
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/25 12:04 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/25 12:03 AM
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Finally something I agree with.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 11:49 PM
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Nah, pointing out trends in existing literature does not constitute value.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/25 11:55 PM
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Rule 11
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/25 12:04 AM
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Rule 11
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/25 12:04 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/25 12:04 AM
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Rule 11
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Rule 9
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Rule 9
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/25 11:53 PM
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I get that some of you guys are trying to practice how to be a hardcore red pilled dude. I also get that askmrp is a dumpster fire. But most of these comments are absolutely fucking terrible. Not only are they off the mark, you come across as bitter and jaded that this guy seems to have more of his shit together than you guys do. The advice is bad, the questions are stupid, and the conclusions are wrong. Pull your shit together askmrp. Fuck me.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:11 AM
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Who the fuck decides these questions are important? You? You're fucking retarded, so your opinion clearly doesn't matter.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:05 AM
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Why keep doing the pageants and mentoring young, hot women? The pageant is a sub part of our festival, and since I do a lot of the media appearances, partnership relations/meetings, and negotiations, I’m in charge of mentoring all of the youth, some of which are the pageant girls, so it’s incidental. Yup. Was just about to say, none of that impresses me. Not sure why you’re even going on about it. Had nothing to do with what I said except as DEER Just because you don't like the answer, doesn't m…
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:04 AM
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The replies in this thread are downright awful.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:01 AM
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Crabs in a bucket. You're the crab, and you want everyone else to suck as much as you do. Does it upset you that this guy appears to be somewhat successful?
/r/askMRP21/10/25 04:00 AM
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The fuck is this shit. Does OP owe you a reply?
/r/askMRP21/10/25 03:57 AM
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It's a fucking retarded question.
/r/askMRP21/10/25 03:56 AM
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Haven't seen an excellent field report in a while. There's a whole range of useful lessons littered throughout this, which is what makes it so valuable.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/25 09:09 PM
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Don't worry. Her kids will have blue eyes and blonde hair. Your kids however...
/r/askMRP07/09/25 11:44 PM
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Don't make me cull the discord channel list again.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/25 01:00 AM
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How to fix sex in your marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 11:41 PM
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The intent of my comments wasn't that you'd use them as lube to jerk off to. It was so you'd realise that Doing things is better than not doing things.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/25 11:39 PM
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aligns with MRP values. wat
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 08:24 PM
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And they're almost never told why. The 'why' has turned many incoming tantrums into an 'ok dad'. It's not to be understated.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 04:13 AM
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If they're wins for you, then write it. Doesn't matter what anybody else thinks. Even horns.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/25 04:08 AM
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Sex and the obsession thereof Apart from that, here's a fun thing to remember. You decide to be moody. Nobody makes that decision for you. You may premise that decision on what somebody else says or does, but that sounds unwise to me. Do you really want to go through your life basing how you feel on other people?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 11:42 PM
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share some masculine energy. Gay I guess it's not exactly what he was referring to, but as I read this OYS, I can't help but think it sounds a little boring. Sure, there's progress, but it's not life changing or exciting. Boring isn't the issue. There's no you. You write like you're doing an end of year financial report. There's no emotion, no passion, and little sense of drive. And without those things, it seems like you are clocking in and out like a daily boring job that you do because you ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/25 11:38 PM
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You want things to be one way, but they're the other way.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/25 03:44 AM
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You've been doing this for 9 months now. Your post has three main points. Hubris - I'm terrible and I want to be told I'm terrible. Frame - I'm terrible and I want to be told I'm terrible. Also I lift which is good I guess. Sex - I'm terrible, but I don't get as upset anymore. That's 9 months of work. Right there. Oh wait, sorry, I forgot one thing: I’m starting to make a plan Sick one.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 06:41 AM
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Firstly, that mission reads like a gay wish list. Secondly, its clear the only thing you really care about is whether or not your wife will have sex with you. The first four headings are just a bunch of regurgitated words that aren't interesting. The fitness heading is some words about how you're doing something there, righto cool. The last heading is where the 'meat' is, and unsurprisingly it's not interesting either. Plugging along indeed. You're just coasting, doing the bare minimum, hoping t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 06:15 AM
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This smells like someone who is mostly doing the same things but with a few little changes sprinkled in, enough to make it feel like you're making progress. Truth is, I don't think you know where you need to go to, nor how to get there. Just that you probably should do something. What do I want? It's nice to want things. I doubt you even really understand why you want them. Mentally, you're still in the same spot as you were when you started. Except you might have some new ideas about how things…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/25 06:10 AM
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It's not her vibe. It's yours. Underrated comment.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/25 11:46 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/25 11:04 PM
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That's why we're big winners.
/r/askMRP25/06/25 02:35 AM
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I heard about something once, a term thrown around here every now and then. Some sort of hidden deal? No that isn't it. Stealthy agreement maybe? Doesn't sound right. Unspoken arrangement? Anyway, whatever it is, I'm sure it wouldn't matter anyway. What I do know is when life feels unfair, I always double down on the exact same actions and make no changes.
/r/askMRP23/06/25 11:32 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 06:39 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/25 06:38 AM
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Here's an idea. Make your own decisions.
/r/askMRP07/06/25 08:35 AM
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This is better.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/25 11:16 PM
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I'm disappointed that not a single user looked at the name of the poster.
/r/askMRP12/05/25 10:50 PM
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Nobody cares that: she is now facing me she sticks my dick in her mouth she feels how hard it is She takes it out she sticks my dick in her mouth she puts my cock in her mouth she cuddled me after None of this shit matters. On top of that, you write it from her perspective. Do you not even have sex in the first person? Go away.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 04:24 AM
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How to fix sex in your marriage
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/25 10:20 AM
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The more I talk to my wife about things, the more she gets confused because of how incongruent I am. How's trying to be in your wife's head working out for you? She adjusted, and acted the same. That night, she fucked hard. Im not sure who holds frame here It's not you. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 12:04 AM
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Build an unshakable foundation—physically, mentally, and emotionally—so I lead my life and relationships with confidence, clarity, and control, acting from abundance rather than scarcity or fear. control We all want control. It represents stability. Order. But with control you cannot grow. Chaos is the adventure. Order is stagnation. It's natural to want to control, to strive for it. But the stability it brings won't give you the challenge that you need. It is better to be someone who can ride i…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 12:01 AM
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The problem is you take the words seriously. Take it from someone who followed that road as far as it leads: There's no solutions here. The road just loops around. Here's how you deal with this issue: Don't talk about sex. If the topic of sex is raised by your wife and it's not 'let's have sex', shut the fuck up and say effectively nothing. The more you talk about sex, the more you'll both be in your head, which means the more you'll talk about sex. The trick to this issue is to just have sex, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 02:51 AM
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She knows she isn't willing to help she's rationalizing all the reasons she doesn't help she listed 40 excuses wrapped in guilt. she didn't do it the way I asked, she snapped at me why she was irritable today and she said that she didn't know but her attitude She apologized but she followed and asked why She tells me she has already she quickly interrupted Rule fucking 9. Edit: lmao WNS already banned him.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 11:33 PM
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thus I can remake myself in different image. You can do this regardless of understanding the why. You guys make this more complicated than it needs to be. There is no 'building up'. Guys like to think that they can 'clean the slate' and 'rebuild themselves' and all this other nonsense. You are the collection of all the experiences and shit that happens to you. That's you. That's it. You can try reframe it in a bunch of different ways, but there is no rebuilding. You can change the way you interp…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/25 11:31 PM
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Nope. This does not add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/25 08:56 PM
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STFU is a tool used to stop retards from saying retarded shit. That's what it achieves. It doesn't gain you anything. It also doesn't lose you anything. Unless you're retarded.
/r/askMRP18/01/25 11:45 AM
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My wife argued at counseling, but it was not an argument. You start this post with your wife as a main character. I suspect that this will be the case throughout the post. Lets find out. started to gain weight back. So you're fat, or are becoming fat or whatever. Well done. Guess its hard to give a shit about yourself when you suck. During the ride home, I had more to say. I bet you did. Carrying all those feelings, all that resentment around? You're like a big wet ball of emotions that is barel…
/r/askMRP15/01/25 04:10 AM
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Thats enough of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/24 12:09 AM
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Retardation at its finest. I guess you forgot the only consistent theme of MRP. You can control one thing. You. That's it. What would I do in this situation? Make sure I look sharp as fuck. That's something I can control. Why would I do that? Because how I look is always important to me. What would be the outcome? Only that I know I look good and I'm attractive. What 'might' happen? My wife might feel insecure when she sees the attention that I get. Dread I believe is the term. Or she might not.…
/r/askMRP10/11/24 01:08 AM
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Is my ego getting in the way Yes. You're permenantly banned for your retarded responses in the comments.
/r/askMRP23/10/24 07:49 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 07:45 AM
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What do I want? - I don't know. You don't know who you are. Women and sex will not fill the hole inside of you. Most of this post is you flailing around trying to fill that hole with more sex, or different women. You're down the wrong path and it's not going to lead to satisfaction.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 07:43 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 02:24 AM
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It's not a joke. If she's not happy then she's free to leave. That's it. That's as far as the conversation needs to go on your end. But instead: I let it be known I’m not responsible for her feelings You engaged. The implicit meaning behind 'feel free to fuck off (leave)' is there's an easy way for her to deal with all these negative feelings. She can leave, and infact, you would want her to, because ultimately you want her to be happy right? And if she doesn't, then she's made her own choice an…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/24 01:35 AM
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Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/24 07:05 AM
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As already said, you say way, way too much. I get the whole 'you want to give her something to engage with' but talking about pets is a waste of time. It starts the interaction off in the wrong direction. Get to the fucking point. The less time you waste with text the better. Shoot your shot and shoot it quickly. To do anything else is to waste your time. And you do value your time, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/24 11:39 PM
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A nuanced view, and the right one. But doesn't fit this specific scenario.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/24 11:12 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 12:08 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 12:07 AM
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Be a man who lives authenticly, who don’t negotiate core believes. A rebel who don’t give a fuck about norms and expectaitions Like spelling expectations correctly? Fight the power! What happens though is that my fight or flight response kicks in and i don’t manage to move forward. What a rebel. My jabs aside, good to see you are doing things rather than not doing things.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 12:03 AM
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Initially I wrote up a wall of text about this thinking that someone might parse something out of my experiences that would be helpful. u/boringandsucks quite accurately pointed out that it was a massive and shitty wall of text. I realized that yeah, nobody wants to read a fucking novel. Nice frame. Good to see that some random on the internet can make you change the way you convey your story. You made it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/24 12:00 AM
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There was an older gentleman here who was not having any sex and his wife had cheated on him. By the end of it, his wife (practically a grandma) was blowing him while he was driving and acting like a typically slutty woman. Age is not a factor. Yes, menupause presents some unique challenges, but it is not a major factor. A woman who knows the man she is with is her best option, and is encouraged to be free with her deep desires is a woman who is happily getting fucked. The notes remain the same …
/r/askMRP08/09/24 11:50 PM
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A recent post here by u/threekindsoflucky describing how he's always be in a bad mood, always hoping to have sex and how it rules his life resonated with me so deeply it depressed me for days. I understand what I need to do and have started implementing it. You missed the point of this post. You read the top part where I described how things were, and then clearly stopped thinking after that.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 01:13 AM
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Gayest post on the subreddit. Rule 9 says you're not my friends Wrong. /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 09:25 PM
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I introduced a daily chore chart for my oldest a year ago, which has been successful. Each completed task earns a point that can be spent on rewards, like video game time, and all tasks need be completed in order to play with friends. Tasks include packing lunch for school and cleaning the bedroom. Is there a reason that playing with friends is the stretch goal? I would've thought it would make more sense to flip those around - video game time as the stretch goal, playing with friends as the eas…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 02:39 AM
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I am delegating more at work and at home. It often takes twice as long to accomplish a task while overseeing it than for me to just do it alone, but the won't improve with investment. My newest subordiante has a steep learning curve to overcome, and his performance has been only borderline adequate. What are you doing to set up your children for success?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/24 12:15 AM
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Not bad. Not bad at all.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/24 12:05 AM
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Rule 9. You need to move the focus from your wife onto yourself. This is literally a story about your wife. It's like a short chapter in a novel where some side character gets a quick first-person section which is intended to only provide an alternative perspective on the main character, your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 08:51 PM
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Rule 9 and 10.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/24 08:45 PM
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Not surprised you post in purple pill debate. Explains why your response to 'you're an idiot' is 'no I'm not!'. Compelling response. Anyway you don't fit here so thanks for playing. Edit: Fkn lol already banned, wmp beat me to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/24 11:52 PM
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Interesting questions indeed: Honestly my first response to this is 'it's irrelevant so who cares'. But given the excercise is to provide an actual answer - "3KL never tried to be something he wasn't, and reveled in being who he was, whatever that may be at any given point" Career - That I often walked into situations knowing very little about a given thing, but could always grasp the bigger picture and provide direction far better than those who technically knew more. I'm proud of the way I'm a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/24 02:42 AM
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Too many fucking words. Your life isn't that unique and your story isn't that interesting. We don't need your full batman origin. Be concise. Also Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/24 12:36 AM
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Too many fucking words. Your life isn't that unique and your story isn't that interesting. We don't need your full batman origin. Be concise.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/24 12:36 AM
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Im also in the process of training her to swallow my load. I got about 25% in her mouth last time I tried. I can tell she`s warming up to it despite some complaints If you feel the need to write this then I honestly wonder where your head is at. Rule 13.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/24 12:19 AM
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'Doing the work is for idiots, check out my MRP speedrun!'
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/24 12:24 AM
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You missed my point. You've stated the mission correctly 'Improve my sex life' rather than 'Have more sex with my wife'. That is good at least. I just doubt you understand what that will actually mean. I suspect that you will focus on trying to have more sex and better sex with your wife, thus putting the responsibility on her. Effectively this will set you up for failure. I think I can admit that posting yesterday came from me believing that I'm not going to make any changes without some kind o…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 01:48 AM
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Mission: Improve my sex life. Fucking lol. What's the bet that you're going to put the responsibility of achieving this on someone else. No doubt this will be an absolute disaster.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 12:43 AM
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Rule 9 and Rule 13.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 12:42 AM
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The most sane response here. Lets reflect on the points raised by other commenters. This is about refocusing his priorities so he stops seeking her sex for validation and has some standards of what is attractive and what is not attractive I’m not suggesting he always make her initiate forevermore…but to recalibrate I think it’s a good Effectively what this commenter was suggesting is that rather than fucking in her frame, he should not fuck her.. in her frame, and add a covert contract to it as …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/07/24 03:43 AM
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Struggling to find oportunities. You're struggling to find opportunities where you can approach in a way that limits the risk of damage to your ego. Welcome to pickup. I really don’t like cold approaches as it seems a bit harassing and also has no plausible deniability. There's a few intersting things that are implied with the term 'plausible deniability': If you're going to approach a woman, you want a relevant social excuse for doing so If you are instantly rebuffed, you can regain social stan…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/24 06:29 AM
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The way you frame the question tells everything about the way you think. I want to make this clear. I'll give you a list of things you can change: You. That's it. It's a long list but I do trust you can remember it. With that thought in mind, I'll also tell you what you can do to reliably change your relationship: Leave and find another woman. That also links back to the first point, you control you. That means, you control who you're with. Ok, so that's the obvious shit out of the way. I'll get…
/r/askMRP23/06/24 11:46 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:33 AM
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My position is I don't need compliments from the crew, and if she really wants to show appreciation it's in the bedroom for her. Oh for fucks sake. You can LARP it if you want, but both you and her know that's not true.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:31 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:30 AM
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My wife seems to be watching her tongue. I think this is related to me... This is real Rule 9 territory. Next time get her to write your OYS with you, and that way you can cut out the middle man and just write exactly what she thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:29 AM
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The thing about writing is that you need to outline the journey that you're going to take the reader on, and then provide signposts along the way. Additionally, you typically write something when you're trying to bring a new perspective or build and/or challenge an existing concept. If I got this right, the only 'new' thing you added was the 'learn from rabbits' concept, which you approached in your third paragraph and then that's about as far as that ever went. Also, it's a shitty concept. I ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/24 12:18 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/24 10:12 AM
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Never thought I'd read a post about heterosexual sex that was so gay.
/r/askMRP25/05/24 02:27 AM
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But, I think the extreme example disproves the rule. I wouldn't call it a rule. Pointing to extremes doesn't disprove a trend. But what I see on here are guys who focus more on making sure their wife is enjoying it rather than themselves. There is a degree of projection occuring here on my part as well. I am finding that it's harder for me to finish (or better said, it takes more time for me than it does for her). She is putting in the work so I am not critical of her performance. As a result, I…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 11:12 PM
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Posting for accountability and reflection. You better hope that's for your own accountability to yourself. If you mean that you want 'MRP' to hold you accountable, I will ban you. Last week, I was debating about divorce. Yeah? This week, I have decided no divorce. What a courageous decision. I am in the beginning of this journey. I need to run my MAP, figure out what I want out of life, and the reevaluate whether the relationship works for me. Convienent for you. The excuse, that is. I realized …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 12:34 AM
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It's interesting to me that when people discuss sex with a high degree of detail (i.e. 3KL sensitivities), it very quickly becomes apparent that the actor in the story is 'she'. Most men are fucking with the intent of maximising their partners enjoyment. And yet, women prefer when men go get theirs and use them rather than seek to focus on them. Why is this the case? For some, it's certainly because they want to encourage their wives to have more sex by providing a positive experience for them. …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 12:19 AM
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Shame It's not. The specifics aren't necessary, e.g. you don't need to know that he waits until his member is at maximum throb before he thrusts it deeply inside of her (i.e. shit I will ban for). There's a relationship here between how people write about sex and how they talk about their wives.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/24 12:13 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 04:06 AM
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Did not initiate sex during the week as I didn't sense any interest on her part. Can't get rejected if you never initiate. Heaven forbid that your wife believes you're a sexual being. To be fair, she clearly doesn't find you attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 02:12 AM
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I have absolutely no idea what you're doing, what you're trying to do, and where you're looking to go. But I'm sure you won't get there, because the effort you put into this is likely as poor as the effort you put into your life.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 12:20 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/24 03:21 AM
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Your entire life is focus on your wife. Everything you do is focused on it. And that's why you're in a bad place. There are obvious things you need to address that have been noted in the comments already. It's the lack of options that bleeds through. And your wife knows you don't have any. If you're going to spend your time reading, I wouldn't bother with anything to do with the relationship. Focus on game. You need to live and breathe game, practise regularly and learn quickly. Outside of that,…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/24 12:30 AM
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What’s good is not just that I said no to someone more senior, it’s that I felt comfortable doing so. The reason this is good is that not only does it seem like you implemented tools from WISNIFG, but it's back up by the way you think. You stood up for yourself, and you felt comfortable doing so, becuase you know what you will and won't accept. As we talked, she asked for my opinion on what to do. I said “In the end it is your career and your decision, but let me tell you what I don’t want - I d…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/24 05:47 AM
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hit all my workouts even one while out of town visiting in-laws. Good. Got a huge batch of new clothes via stitch fix and tbh I looked damn good. It feels weird not dressing like a sloppy middle-aged dad but I'm enjoying it. Good. Afterwards my wife more or less apologized for it. Good. Sex 2x and HJ Who's counting? You are. Don't count, it shouldn't matter. I'm still feeling slightly adrift on what to do next with my mission and figuring out what I want in life. Most people are like this. It's …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 12:15 AM
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What you did here was good. I approached her and asked if we could share the table. This is spontaneous and I like it a lot. Many others would have just left rather than 'disturb' someone. When my wife finished lunch I told her to meet me at the cafe and she found me sharing a table and chatting with a cute girl (which she wasn’t expecting). The action here is great. My only comment here would be that you specifically wanted to your wife to see you sitting with another woman chatting casually. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/24 12:02 AM
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For the last 3ish years she has refused to use her tongue when we kiss. She says it's because of covid. It's because she doesn't really want to kiss you. I stop, look at her and say "use your tongue." She did, hardly, then stopped. I pull away again, with a smirk but assertively - "did you not hear me? or did you forget what a tongue is? did you lose it?" she starts giggling a little, almost nervously. I go to kiss her, and again she holds back. Can't force a woman to actually want to be intimat…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 12:03 AM
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My boss just announced he is retiring, and is recommending me as his successor. Very cool. The nice guy that believes everyone should be honest, do their best, and not play games/politics (and is probably seen as naive as a result). Part of this is right, and this mindset isn't necessarily wrong. You should want honesty from those you work with, and encourage it rather than the alternative. Games and politics are a part of corporate life. But it's not all 'shady backroom deals', its more about k…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/24 12:00 AM
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But didn't you read that women looked at him? Surely he is now a master of seduction.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 11:52 PM
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My technique of having a spreadsheet tracking Spreadsheet man has returned. Sex: zero. I have started to track my wife’s cycle (which is back after the birth) Good, good, this is a smart play. Now you'll know exactly when your wife is at peak ovulation so you can get extra angry when she turns you down. I like this. She dismissed my playful invitation to take a shower together. Oh bummer, that's no good. I acted with OÍ Excellent, good frame man! and attempted to go to the gym Smart! Get out of …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/24 11:50 PM
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First time posting since my ban 10 months ago. Before I was trying to be a perfect OYSer and never say anything that would get me attacked (and consequently never say anything vulnerable or of value). I also wanted to check all the boxes (read all the books), maybe to get a pat on the head or feel like I had some level of mastery. So that was dumb. Good. Shame it took 10 months, but good. I want to be quick witted but I don't know how to get there from here. Open to ideas. Don't try to be someth…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 07:29 AM
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Rule 9. You get extra credit for replacing 'she' with 'wife'. Good thing I filter for that too.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 07:26 AM
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I realize that I want more than to join social circles. I want to build/create groups. I am considering creating a meetup or group of people who enjoy my hobby. I don't have a plan and have yet to make any progress here. Why do you specifically want to build and create groups? What is it about it that you find interesting? If you can answer that question, you might find the 'doing' part a lot easier, as it may not be 'making groups' that you actually want, but rather something else. For fun, I'v…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/24 07:24 AM
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Someone concerned with the flack Vitrail2 got on their field report. To me that was the goal. To see progress quickly made me say atta boy. Then to seem him torn apart by mods while none of them gave much guidance made me wonder what the point was. Sure he got his butt handed to him but why? That thread upset you so much that you had to include it in your OYS? When you've been here long enough you can pretty quickly see through the bullshit that people write. This particular poster was pretendin…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 06:05 AM
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There's not much in in this. Briefly glancing at your past OYS posts, I see that you write primarily about your wife, and sometimes just tangentally instead. You've got your little opening statement you always open with, which yeah, ok fine. You've got your lifts, which is a tick box, well done. Situation 1 can be summarised as 'Parent does some parenting'. Good job! Situation 2 is effectively 'Wife wants to have sex with Husband'. There's nothing 'wrong' with that story. Outside of doing a few …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/24 05:45 AM
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This is very, very silly. The only reason to re-write your original OYS and post it on the same thread is for approval. If it wasn't about approval, then you would've done this entire thing privately. But no, you wanted to be seen to be taking comments on board, and show that you're so proactive that you've already tried to address them. You don't get two in a single thread. You get banned for 14 days instead. And I'm taking both of them down.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 06:51 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 06:39 AM
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I'm happy that I continue to push for what I want by telling and not asking, "after your period, I'd love to use that butt plug on you" That's literally asking. You phrased it like a statement, but it remains a question as you're waiting for approval. Here's the thing. You don't have options. It comes across clearly to your wife. As a result, you're not a desirable man. If you were able to actually attract a woman who was hotter than your wife, the way you approach this entire situation would dr…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 04:59 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/24 04:40 AM
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Oh look it's this again.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 01:32 AM
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I ask the question to get you to think. If I wanted to remove it, I would have already done so. Fucking horses to water I swear.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 12:47 AM
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because I don't have frame And you still don't. Which makes me wonder where is the value in this story of yours, except for being some sort of weird mix of self-flagellation and flexing?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/24 12:41 AM
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Nice frame
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/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/24 08:32 PM
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Spoke about this with WMP
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/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/24 11:47 PM
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FYI this is a Rule 9 violation but I won't ban you for it this week. Take on board the advice provided.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/24 01:55 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/24 10:06 PM
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That post came to mind as soon as I read this.
/r/askMRP31/01/24 12:59 PM
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Your ego is not doing you any favours. It's going to be a onoging challenge for you until you either learn to drop it, or you get banned.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 12:18 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 12:09 AM
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Can confirm. I have severe scoliosis and run Romanian deadlifts consistently. As a result, I no longer suffer from constant back pain caused by the condition.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/24 12:02 AM
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I have started incorporating some (beginner level) dominance in the bedroom too, and my wife’s reaction could not be more positive. An example from this week: Wife: starts taking panties off, sending me a nonverbal message that it’s time to start fucking Me: “No. I want you to suck my cock first” Wife, eyes lighting up at being told what to do, gets to work It’s a progression from here, but the more I put my hands on her head, the more enthusiastic she gets. The more I run my hands through her h…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 11:59 PM
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Yeah, I guess I do. I thought declining would cause her to not want sex as much though. Not how it works. It doesn't actually matter. I've had my wife tell me that she gets more horny when I didn't want to have sex with her. Full blast. I think I was just being a bitch though, I should have just taken the reigns. Not necessarily. If she wanted to have sex, it is reasonable to overtly state that she'll need to put the effort it. I have literally told my wife 'Look I'm pretty tired so you're gonna…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/24 12:23 AM
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Fuck if I hadn't banned you before I would've for this comment thread. I'm extending it to three months just because of how fucking retarded you are.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/24 11:48 PM
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You were warned. Come back in two months when you've got your shit together.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/24 11:45 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/24 07:08 AM
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Wife Texted me in the middle of the day that she wanted to have sex after we put the baby down. That can't be a bad thing. I took it as an opportunity to have sex somewhere other than the bedroom, so I led her to the living room. Yup, DEVI and all that, lets continue. I wasn't excited for some reason, though. I knew I was going to go through with it, but the whole day I was in work mode doing college, not even thinking about sex. Ok... you don't have to say yes to sex. You have that option, righ…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 12:25 AM
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I held frame That can't be true if the following is also true Inside, I was struggling not to fucking nuke everything. Therefore one of those statements is true, and one is not. But it's not surprising. If you have to say that you held frame, then you never really had frame to begin with. To quote some dickhead on a fantasy TV show "Any man who must say I am the king is no true king"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 12:13 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/24 12:05 AM
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Go be a mgtow or incel or blackpill or whatever the fuck term people use these days to describe losers. Bye now.
/r/askMRP21/01/24 12:12 PM
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Shark week. before it started I attempted to live out a situation I’d daydreamed earlier in the day when thinking about how to dial up the DEVI, it involved restraints and a blindfold, neither of which are new, but once I had her set I slipped some AirPods in and started playing a chosen playlist to take away that sense too. Putty in my hands, something to bring into rotation now and then for sure. Sex and the obsession thereof
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 04:45 AM
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Thanks for playing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/24 01:47 AM
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No. You're deep in the anger phase. Read all of your comments in OYS this week. It becomes clear pretty quickly. This is a lot of work to get mediocre sex with an aging woman you’ve fucked a thousand times already. Humans aren’t meant for lifelong monogamy. Just fuck a new chick. Bite the bullet, divorce and move on. It starts with projecting. Most of the reports I see on here where guys successfully get sex from the wife, sound exhausting. You initiate, get a no, push forward, sometimes more no…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 11:27 PM
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You haven't criticised the content. You're problem is with how it's delivered. And last I checked, it isn't MRPs job to make sure that your fee fees aren't hurt by how something is said.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/24 11:16 PM
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How do I know things are improving unless I talk about her?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/24 11:44 AM
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I fucked up and got myself Elden Ring when I purchased the PS5 for the kids during Christmas. It has been a distraction, but is also teaching me about failure. Fucking lol - it teaches you about failure? What, the fact that you're wasting time playing games when you don't have your shit together? I guess that is teaching you about failure. Hot tip. I play games as well. But I don't feel guilty about it like a little bitch because my shit is under control.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 12:09 AM
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Sex: had great sex three times during the holidays and everyday after it. I initiated the majority of the occasions. Kino and dirty texts have seemed to get my lady in the mood a lot more. I was wondering why on earth you were counting, then I realised you're on OYS 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 12:06 AM
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I'm going to go and see what a marriage in my frame looks like, what I want, and then I'm going to operate from there. The fuck does this even mean? You don't put the marriage in 'your frame', you simply 'have frame' in general. There's just one frame. That's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 12:05 AM
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we have a great friendship but poor sexual compatibility. I've been trying to fix this for a year, but it hasn't worked. Trying to fix it was the first mistake. I suspect you'll be the sort of person who will end up in a similar dead bedroom in a few years with the next girl.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/24 12:03 AM
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You've recieved feedback and have responded. Now it's time for what I'm sure you knew was coming. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/24 11:08 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/23 02:34 AM
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Congratulations, you had the only response that didn't break the rules and you haven't been banned. Unsurprisingly it is down voted.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 06:23 AM
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This is /r/askMRP material. Anybody who tried to help is now banned. MRP has standards. You are welcome to insult and/or ridicule low effort/low value posts. But any proper advice will result in a ban. We wouldn't want to encourage people to leach value from the sub, would we?
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/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/23 03:17 AM
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I call it 'political weakness' because I do have ambitions to be in a leadership role at work and his title is something I should have known I don't like politics at work but I will definitely need to play the game if I want to be successful in moving up the ladder. The fact you saw this as some sort of 'failure' really does reinforce that you know fuck all about office politics. Given you don't know the guy's title, it's clear that you're a long way down the ladder. In which case, you're effect…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/23 12:03 AM
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Or even at a baser level: being compassionate and loving. Nobody in this sub is going to tell you those are beta qualities No. You're wrong and retarded, and banned for both.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 12:39 AM
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They are 'beta'. Fucking hell you guys are retarded. Beta doesn't mean bad. Alpha doesn't mean good.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 12:38 AM
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This started well but you went a bit too far with this. [H] “What time will you be back?” [Me] “Absolutely no idea, maybe 3am with a dirty kebab, do you want one bringing back?” [H] “Remember my mum’s coming tomorrow, don’t drink too much.” [Me] “Will she want a kebab too? - Cheesy grin” This is really nicely done. Note that she is trying to treat you like a child. The response to this is great as you're not taking it seriously. If you'd taken it seriously by either responding as if they're legi…
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/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/23 11:51 PM
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Or of shitty guys. I guarantee most of those guys deserved to be cheated on.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 10:05 PM
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Why do I spend money on booze/weed in social situations ? It's really when I hang out with certain people No you spend money on booze/weed in social situations because you have no fucking self control. I got her number and plan on meeting her on-site of my property which is currently empty with the intention of hiring her to find me a tenant.. but I can't help but fantasizing about escalating the situation when we are alone and then fucking he in the empty unit. I want to fuck her and I would tr…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 12:16 AM
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I wouldn't post them because frankly I don't give a shit. Do whatever you want. OYS is for you, by you. If you find copy/pasting a list of book acronyms every week is somehow useful or adds value, then by all means. But if you're doing it because some internet random told you that you should, well, that's on you. Learn to make your own decisions.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/23 12:09 AM
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I've started letting loose with dirty talk, but I have yet to call my wife a "slut" or a "whore" or anything really nasty. I think I might enjoy this though, and I think she might too. Probably, given this: My wife cheated on me during our engagement and for the first year of our marriage. But hey, who can blame her, you suck. What exactly is your plan here? You going to go down the 'use her as a sparring partner until I can leave' path? Probably not I'd guess. I suspect you'll pick up just enou…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 01:55 AM
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I had an outburst this week towards LTR. The underlying cause of the anger is my (ever present) deep seated resentment. I still remain deeply angry at her as a person, at the state of my relationship, at women in general, and at the world. You poor fucking victim.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 01:48 AM
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Prior to my first OYS, I established the following boundaries: No, I will not spend my evenings listening to anxiety-riddled retellings of my wife’s day’s events If you want to make that a boundary, go for it. But you're essentially trying to make a woman stop being a woman. Love to see what the consequence would be for crossing this boundary. Withdrawl of attention, of which you aren't giving anyway? No, I will not tax my mental energy and focus helping others feel confident in basic, adult tas…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 01:43 AM
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Rule 9 Also Changing my OYS format as it was too wordy. I'd hate to see how long they were before. Be concise, because I guarentee most of this doesn't matter. I wouldn't know ofcourse because there was no way I was going to read it all.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/23 01:31 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/23 05:01 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/23 12:14 AM
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Honestly I'm tempted to lock the thread here. I don't see what else needs to be said after this.
/r/askMRP01/11/23 04:12 AM
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In the weekend I attended one of my best friend’s bachelors party. We threw my friend in the pool in his normal clothes, as is traditional. He managed to catch another friend and throw him to the pool and they ganged up on a third, and so on. At the end there were 6 wet dudes, a bit homoerotic but not homosexual. I was surprised they didn’t try to throw me, but also grateful. The fuck is this? Banned for talking about shit that doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/23 01:14 AM
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You're not wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 11:03 PM
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My advice for guys that are as fucked as I once was. Decide what you want. None of that shit is worth anything if you aren’t living the way you want. Great takeaway messages. The situation is irrelevant. It comes down to the same things every time. What do you want? Are you going to live your life in fear of losing your wife, or are you going to live your life the way you want? And as you clearly demonstrated, living your life to try make somoene else happy just results in two unhappy people. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 12:24 AM
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Moralizing
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/23 12:09 AM
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Better. A long way to go, but better.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 12:30 AM
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Have you started to reflect on why comments roasting you are getting upvoted and your responses are getting downvoted? Why would he care about things that don't matter?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/23 10:52 PM
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You have successfully capitulated by playing the exact game your wife wanted you to when you dared to step out of line. And she's better at that game than you.
/r/askMRP20/10/23 10:26 AM
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Strange. I never thought or cared to ask the question of my father. It's irrelevant.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 02:32 AM
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Lucky might ban it for being so explicit No, it's fine. There's a reason behind why he is explicit his OYS, though he's testing the friendship a bit. but there's way, way too little sex in here considering it's literally a forum for dudes learning how to fuck their girls. That's because there isn't much value in knowing that the OP recieved: a blowjob complete with ball sucking, salad tossing etc. I specifically ban people for discussing sex in intimate detail when it's intended as a validation …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 02:28 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 02:33 AM
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Yeah. I'm particularly happy to see me walking a guy through how this works got downvoted to oblivion. Shows me this is something that goes against the grain and is hard to grasp. That might lead some guys to reflect and eventually try something new. And it leads me to the answer to your question. I wouldn't worry about downvotes. There are more subscribers compared to commenters by a large proportion. And most people upvote things they 'want to be true' and downvote things that 'go against what…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 10:57 PM
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Not every good person needs to be a mod.
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 11:38 PM
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Yeah this one is actually pretty terrible. This isn't a field report, its an OYS, and a bad one at that. If we remove the fluff and the detailed history of how you used to be alphatm you can boil the entire post down to the following: I found MRP. I’m still working on my MAP as I am new. I’ve been getting my fitness under control, reinvesting in hobbies, practicing STFU, reading (outside of MRP books), rebuilding friendships, and more. As I work on things, her attraction is slowly returning. Tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 01:14 AM
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You need to reframe your social section. If the old PUA's considered every set that didn't convert into sex as a failure, they'd have lasted about one week before they gave up. Everything that you do is progress, as its experience that you can use to improve for next time. Here's a useful mindset. You open new women with the intent to test and improve. If you get laid, cool, but not the intent. Fail #1 A walk around the neighborhood with kids asleep in the house. I got direct statements of inter…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 11:12 PM
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Good for you. Doesn't need it's own post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 07:09 AM
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Ur a fkn retard.
/r/askMRP27/09/23 10:01 PM
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A week ago my wife sat my down and gave the ‘I love you but I’m not in love with you’ talk. Bummer. Luckily a few days later a woman contacted me on LinkedIn saying her husband told her he’s leaving for my wife. It's always the same story. To be fair, it sounds like you sucked for a really long time so it's not unsurprising that your wife found someone else. Can you blame her? Yeah, you stopped being an absolutely useless peice of shit in the last year, but that is a long way from being attracti…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 11:14 AM
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she wanted a certain kind of sex (Dom/Sub) dynamic So do you wear a collar? How does that work? Do male subs get given discreet necklaces? Summary: In any case, my mission remains the same – build some self-esteem and my financial position because I’m all I really have. So your mission is to double down on the things you're good at, and just continue to languish everywhere else? That doesn't sound like a very good strategy for change.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 11:02 AM
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FYI if your post is a question, it's for /r/askMRP. It can stay for now though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/23 11:48 PM
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Maybe you should work on your actual issues, since it clearly isn't this random internet person that has you mad.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/23 11:55 PM
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If we still had flair I'd flair you in a heartbeat. FYI this will be the last time I suck your dick so openly though. I'll be more subtle next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 07:01 AM
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Beat me to it. Very 'she' heavy, which is to be expected 1 month in. If this was an OYS I'd be considering banning him for Rule 9. That said, I do see the attempt to frame it from his perspective with 'I' statements. There's also a clear indication of what he's tried, and what outcome he saw from it. Good to see a field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 04:00 AM
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Why are you having “serious talks” about her “low libido”? Also doubt there’s any hysterical bonding going on giving that you didn’t mention the constant fucking and also because she’s hitting on with Chad. You're fucking landing the hits today. Completely agree with both these points.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 12:30 AM
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I want to Rule 9 you for your focus on these women.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 12:28 AM
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Maybe fear of rejection or something. This “trick” gets passed around a bunch and it’s mostly bullshit guys tell themselves to avoid rejection. “Turns out when I stop initiating, I don’t get rejected as much.” Obviously. If you initiate less, you get rejected less. You also have sex less. But you hamster this into some kind of trick for stronger initiations when it’s really a trick to avoid rejection. If your wife knelt down in front of you in lingerie and said “baby, let me take care of you”, y…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 12:25 AM
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Cut down to 185. I lost interest after fucking a few hot girls, but want it for myself now rather than chicks. Yeah at this point it ain't your body letting you down, its you. Given your stats, you're unlikely to get a significant return on investment on the cut if it's purely to improve your attraction. There's nothing wrong with doing it, but I see this as a reactionary response to things not playing out the way you wanted, rather than something you personally are driven to do. The one thing I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 11:52 PM
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Why did you even bother posting then?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/23 06:06 AM
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Congratulations to those who managed to avoid Rule 9, although for some of you it was barely. Otherwise, it looks like most OYS posters were banned this week. Maybe try doing better next time.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 11:47 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 11:42 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 12:46 AM
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Fucking crabs in a bucket.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 11:05 PM
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Rule 9 - Noting that I did like the little story at the end, but doesn't make up for the focus on your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/23 11:19 PM
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Just terrible.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 05:00 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 11:05 PM
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A small slap on the wrist ban. It's for your sake, not for RPeeds. He is known to come out slapping, and I'm happy for people to slap him back in return. But you lost control of your emotions in the reply. You can do better than letting some internet tough guy rile you up.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/23 10:57 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/23 10:45 PM
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The 'that said' iis if your pain is because your life is shit and you refuse to do anything about it, that's on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/23 11:40 PM
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“You cannot have an easy problem/heartbreak free life” I really like this as a point, and one that MRP does not really talk about (mind you for good reason). There is always pain in some capacity. A guy who's got his shit together isn't shielded from pain. And to not feel pain was never the point of MRP. Pain does not mean 'lack of frame'. It simply is a part of life that cannot be avoided entirely. And to close yourself off from feeling is to be an unintegrated, scared little boy. There is a 't…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/23 10:54 PM
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Isn't the first question the entire basis of Dread? Sure, but dread is retarded in its own way. If she wasn't changing at all, I'd take it that I need to make more progress - which was the plan anyways. And this is the point I'm trying to get you to. You measure progress based on response from your wife. This is inherently the dancing monkey attraction program. When your progress is based on how someone else reacts to it, you don't have frame, you're operating from someone elses frame. And so ye…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/23 12:24 AM
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Those are markers of progress I've made So to be clear, you're saying that how your wife responds to what you're doing is an indication of progress? And if, for example, there was no change in what she was doing, you would consider that to be a lack of progress?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 11:54 PM
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The focus on your partners is becoming a problem again. The vast majority of OYS this week is rittled with 'she' this and 'her' that. You guys realise that OYS is supposed to be about you, right? As such, I'm getting mighty close to putting Rule 9 back into place.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 10:44 PM
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We're in a good place Great. Maybe you guys can write your OYS together too. I used a flogger on my wife for the first time ever - she loved it so much she proceeded to blow my to orgasm and swallowed without me asking (she rarely ever swallows). I fucked her brains out the day after too so things are doing great in this department. You had sex. That's great, I'm very happy for you, but I really don't give a shit about how she swallowed your load. Keep that shit to yourself. I think I've actuall…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/23 10:40 PM
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Fucking hell. No. Locked.
/r/askMRP13/07/23 01:48 AM
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He can do whatever he wants. That said, every case I've heard of a man buying his woman something sexy results in her wearing it once and it disappearing, never to be seen again. Woman prefer to pick their own shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 11:10 PM
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Buy something sexy for my wife to wear in bedroom Don't do this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 04:27 AM
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I accept that her depression is my fault, and work on providing a better container. Fault is irrelevant. I remember in my earlier days having arguments with my wife where the main focus was 'who is at fault'. I got to the point back then of saying 'Cool, whatever, I'm at fault. Now that I've admitted that, can we move on to actually solving the fucking problem?'. I don't have time for fault or blame. It's an emotional response to a practical problem, and the need to assign fault/blame is just a …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/23 01:05 AM
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This is /r/askMRP material. I will leave it up for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/23 10:56 PM
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Everything in your FR is awesome. In fact, this sort of mini FR is the type of thing that would make a useful post. Is there anything groundbreaking in what you did? No, but there are lessons in this story for both yourself and others.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/23 12:56 AM
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Cool. You have identified your weak areas, have already started working toward improving those areas, and have a plan to reach specific goals. It's still a bit broad in terms of how you're going to get to where you want to go, but as far as first OYS posts go, pretty solid.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 12:41 AM
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but last night my wife begged daddy to choke her and fill her with my load. Don't write this shit. No-one cares and nobody is impressed. After reading your OYS I have absolutely no idea what you're trying to achieve.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 12:39 AM
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I do a small amount of work, see positive results and then ease off the accelerator. I turn into a lazy, comfortable piece of shit if a conquering army isn’t at my gates. There's two ways to consider this. The first way is the typical response of never ease off the accelerator. This is a reasonable thing to say in most cases, especially where guys put in effort, see result and go 'job well done!' and then watch it evaporate in front of them. The second is the more realistic response, targeted at…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/23 10:56 AM
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How about fuck off.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/23 04:13 AM
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I think we should start giving people a pat on the back and a lot more credit for being brave enough to post their victim pukes. It takes a lot of courage to come out and tell a bunch of internet strangers what a bitch their wife is for not fucking them. Sounds a lot like a testicular cancer meeting. I hope your bosom is warm and your shirt is dry, bitch tits bob. what a bitch their wife is for not fucking them. Have you ever considered that they are the type of men who are not worth fucking?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:52 AM
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So we're doing this again. I guess we were due, it's been about six months. The rule of thumb for MRP posts is 'can someone read this and get value from it?' The majority of posts are removed by auto moderator before they even make it to the sub, because they fail to meet the low bar that is set. Those that do make it through are either victim pukes or asking basic questions that should be asked on /r/askMRP. In essence, they don't add value. I have, and continue to encourage those people postin…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 03:02 AM
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Oh look, its this again. Have you stopped to consider that maybe the reason people get called out as retards is because they are, in fact, retarded? Could it be that people don't think they add value and so aren't interested in engaging with them?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 02:54 AM
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You're a fucking retard. And as always, you miss the fucking point. I'm not about to drop working on a spiritual practice that is congruent to me No-one told you to drop shit. You were poked to see if your focus on this shit is actually beneficial or not. You could've simply answered with 'Yes, I find it beneficial'. Disagreeing is completely reasonable. But no, all of your responses have been 'Well, you just don't really understand do you, silly simpletons' and other such passive aggressive rep…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/23 11:28 PM
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When I bore of it, I'll be onto something else. Maybe your posts. There is an underlying holier-than-thou vibe in some of your responses. This is one example, and your reply to my comment is another. What's going on there?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/23 12:14 AM
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Try again in another two months.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 01:25 AM
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You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 01:04 AM
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I assume you are familiar with Dr. McGill in your journey. I've no idea who this is and don't really care. I have seen a physio in person - it is a process. Good, this is more the point I was making. Scoliosis is a genetic structural injury that is different. That is not the point that I was making. I am confident in this program and not deviating. You do you. My prodding is to make sure you've considering a range of options and have selected an option that you're confident in after reviewing th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 12:40 AM
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Sigh. Main goal is to look in the mirror and not hate what I see. I trust you're doing something about that? You've included some pretty poor lifts, but no information on what your doing to action this goal. I want to be a man with his shit together. Wow, those are certainly words. Any idea what this actually looks like? Thing about goals, is they need to be actually attainable, and be made up of steps to achieve said goal. This is vague, and therefore its a wish, nothing more. I’ll do better th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 12:15 AM
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Have read: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, MAP, The Rational Male, Book of Pook, The Red Pill Handbook, Models, The Charisma Myth, SGM, The Way of the Superior Man (x2), Bang, Practical Female Psychology, Sex at Dawn, How To Answer "Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat?" No one cares. This isn't a book club. It's been two months since my last OYS. And yet you have nothing to say. What exactly is the point of this OYS?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 12:08 AM
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She has no management experience so it’s been a mess. Poor you. The thing about abundance is that it isn't limited to women. Be good if you had other options for a job as well, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 12:04 AM
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following Dr. Stuart McGill’s protocol in rehabbing my back and since last month working with an online coach who has rehabbed lifters with back injuries as well. Overall, I do panic at my back sometimes For someone pretty worried about their back, you should probably do more than just enlist the help of some online coach. There are, you know, medical professionals that help in that space. I had major back issues due to severe scoliosis, and after trying a few different physiotherapists I found …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/23 12:01 AM
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SBIII was permanently banned from reddit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 11:56 PM
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How long have you been at this? I know it hasn't been a short time. You're doing a lot of research and reading. I assume you also did this back in the day when you first started here. At some point all of this just becomes diminishing returns. You're looking to other sources to help you figure out who or what to be. When are you going to take off the training wheels and just live life? When are you going to feel confident enough in yourself that you can put the books down once and for all? At so…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 11:52 PM
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She is into some freaky stuff and was really open about it. Then afterwards she texted a ton of pictures showing all the freaky stuff. cancelled on Sunday because she's "not in a good place emotionally and needs time to sort it out" Red flags ahoy. Just be careful about sticking your dick in crazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/23 11:40 PM
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You get out what you put in. And you're putting it very little. Come back in a month when you've actually done something.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/23 11:03 PM
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(which I wanted to, but advice here was to not, fuck you guys I should have done it, resentment doesn't go away if the other person doesn't get to talk). You're a fruitcake. You can fuck off from OYS if you don't want to accept responsibility for your own actions you spastic. No-one here made you do shit. You made your own choice, and now you want the sub to be responsible.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 12:22 AM
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wife 35, married 5 months, met - year and a half ago, whirlwind airport erotica romance, loads of sex, got married, now in the doldrums (my fault) with sex weekly at most. Lol. That dropped off quickly. Sucks to be you. she blames not being horny on being stressed which makes sense since I’m a drunken captain. Yeah? You think it's the stress? That's good, it means you can do lots of things around the house to try make her life less stressful. Then she'll probably want to have sex with you more o…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 05:13 AM
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Since last OYS' notes I have been contemplating a lot. My level of accountability is getting better, but it is not on the point where it should be yet. My ego still wants to find a way out of full accountability once there is some sort of situation going on in my relationship and deep down I know it. I am happy that there is a no-bullshit place to uncover the bullshit that I am selling myself. It is easy to blame other people when things go to shit, but taking responsibility is where the growth …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 05:02 AM
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This is own your shit. The only requirement is that you own the shit that you're doing. You're correct that it's not a place to get lifting/parenting etc. advice. And nor should it be. It's a place for people to own their shit, typically focusing on the application of the tools on the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 03:22 AM
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RP is about fucking. Yes If that's fixed, there are better places to source advice and feedback. Sure but, also no. It's not a 'oh, you fucking lots? Cool, you're done'.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/23 09:12 PM
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It's pretty fucking obvious. I watched the kids all week while my wife was away on business. After the wife ghosted me for almost 2 days First thing - wife who is regularly away for 'work'. By itself it's not a clear indicator, but it is unusual. Most women want to spend time at home with their kids, and wouldn't want to be working away for consistently long stretches. Also notice that his wife ghosts him when she's upset. Woman don't just 'disappear' for two days. And here's the part where it b…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/23 02:51 AM
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Too focused on your wife. Take 2 weeks and reconsider how you frame what you write.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/23 12:00 AM
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OYS 47 and there's still a lot of focus on your wife. Some of it is framed from your perspective, which is good. Some of it is not. For this reason, nothing here stands out as 'she focused' as per se, but there is something underlying this that is bothering me. I've made this comment to you previously re 'she' focus, but I see that you did not get the hint. So I'm going to try it from another angle. I'll look through most of the sentences that mention your wife in some capacity. Lately, I've shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/23 11:56 PM
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Lots of talk of boundaries, no enforcement of boundaries. So what you have aren't boundaries, they're 'things you don't like but tolerate'. See, the thing about boundaries is that they're bullshit unless the person you're establishing the boundary with actually gives a shit about the consequence of crossing it. Additionally, since you seem to have a habit of letting people cross your 'boundaries' without any real consequence, it's doubtful that anyone would believe that you're actually going to …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/23 07:41 AM
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I have no game. I need to study kino and talk with people more. Do something about it. Don't state that you suck at something with no actual implementable plan to make a change. When I feel myself starting to get stressed out, or taking on negative vibes externally, I've been using pre-planned exits (running errands, going to gym, relaxing somewhere). When I have feelings I run away from them. We have already talked about this kind of behaviour, she knows it is not acceptable. Not acceptable? I …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/23 04:01 AM
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I am struggling with getting her to respond to me. What this actually means is that you are doing things hoping for a specific response, and not getting the response that you want. What do they call it when you do something with the goal to get something out of it, but you don't explicitly state that? I try to make sure to have one date night away from the kids every month. Planned date nights. What an exciting life you live! Just imagine the anticipating knowing that one of these date nights is…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/23 12:30 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/23 04:34 AM
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She she she. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/23 04:32 AM
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Maybe if you focused more on your life rather than the sub, you'd actually get somewhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/23 11:10 PM
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I think this quote answers the question. 'What are you saying, that I can dodge bullets?' 'No Neo, in the end, you won't have to.'
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/23 06:25 AM
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Most of this isn't that interesting, but you did things. That's better than not doing things. There's some good in here. If she asked about an outfit on a particular woman, i would say exactly what was on my mind. "Makes her ass look nice, and brings my attention to her waist" or something along those lines. This is good, because at least it's honest. And surprise surprise, when you actually engage with her honestly and do something interesting: She was very open to it, and I ended up finding he…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 11:23 PM
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The emotional rollercoaster might have been good for passion and whatever, but I'd rather avoid this since it bumped me out of my frame a little bit. In other words - I'd rather avoid having to deal with a woman's nature because it makes me feel insecure. During the two weeks we were together non-stop I felt my masculine polarity getting weaker. Who talks like this? What a strange thing to think or worry about. It's also pretty gay. no power to get the fuck away from her to think, these are all …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/23 11:17 PM
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No-one knows how to self-reflect.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/23 07:50 AM
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It's turning out that this is a very well-aimed comment. And if you intentionally aimed it in the way that I'm chewing on it, I'm very impressed by your gift for this and appreciate very much being the beneficiary of it this morning. I am very smart. Yes, it was intentional. On one of them, I remember WMP saying " lie to yourself, it's great." And this is exactly what I was referring to. Rian calls it 'the moon is cheese', aka believe whatever you need to believe if it makes you do things that a…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/23 12:28 AM
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I preferred false confident oobertas more than this honest oobertas. Maybe not all false confidence is bad, if you can begin to believe it yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/23 07:41 AM
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Probably missed clicked mid fap.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/23 06:06 AM
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The self pity doesn't fly here. What are you actually going to do about this? There is no 'clean slate start at step one'. It's bullshit. You know where you went wrong. How are you going to learn from it?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/23 06:06 AM
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But I'm finding anger coming from it-- I'm angry at myself for putting all this time in with someone who is barely trying. Because you are doing this for her, you fucking idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/23 11:24 PM
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Made her cry in the cafe at the gym: I ordered a protein shake and before I could get the straw in she asked if she can have a sip, and I said "no" and took a sip. She said she was sensitive and that was mean and she teared up and wiped it away. I laughed because it was cute and said she can have some, I just wanted to drink MY protein shake first. She ended up pouting and not wanting my shake after I offered; her loss. What an amazingly boring and pointless story. Thanks for sharing this ground…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/23 11:21 PM
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She is still carrying around post pregnancy bod, and isnt trying that hard to get rid of it. Ok, that sounds unfortunate. I wonder why that would be the case. I also havent tried hard towards my own self and being attractive. Wow, I am shocked. Boy am I surprised to read that. I would've for sure thought you were leading by example. I wonder why she doesn't try to take care of herself. Can you think of any reasons why? I'm stumped. Had sex a couple times, but its all bullshit sex, me trying to "…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/23 11:20 PM
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got rejected yesterday - I did a much better job with the way I carried myself afterward. Just moved on with my day but did not attempt to reduce time/attention that much. First of all, sex will happen either today or tomorrow. It is not such a big deal to get rejected. For most guys, this will end up being a year long battle. So strap in, because you might be able to avoid 'getting butthurt' now, but at some point that'll slip because you'll feel like that surely, after how awesome you've been,…
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/r/askMRP29/03/23 12:56 PM
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My prior attempts have been some combination of seeking validation for my own experiments with the MRP tools, seeking flair and recognition for being good at this, trying to spar with other commenters to measure myself against them, and trying to be provocative and entertaining. Don't worry, it was pretty obvious. At least now you realise. Lets see what happens when you do OYS with that in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/23 11:32 PM
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Congratulations. You've just shifted the dynamic. This is what happens when an attractive man who knows what he wants and refuses to accept the old dynamic any longer provides a door for his wife to walk through. And this is how you present that open door to your wife, and give her the space to make whatever choice she wants. I hate quoting the dumb movies this stuff was originally based on, but seriously, this is very much 'I can only show you the door, you're the one who has to walk through it…
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Dun worry he is banned anyway.
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Or you know, I'll just ban you for the sake of it. Since you don't add value.
/r/askMRP08/03/23 11:32 PM
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It comes back to the question that is asked often but rarely understood. What do you want? The answer is usually something mundane. It's 'I want that which I currently don't have', be it more sex, a wife who doesn't nag etc. Once you achieve that there's a period where men are briefly happy. And then it fades. Then it's on to the next thing - that didn't satisfy me, so what else could I want? And so it is that men can end up chasing the dragon, not realizing that they are the dragon. Most men st…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 11:28 PM
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OP - I drew a hard boundary on smoking/vaping and my partner crossed that boundary, did I handle this correctly? You - Vaping isn't as bad for you there should be no issues health wise. I'm sure your going to rush to point out that you said: I think you did the right thing rp.wise. But it doesn't make your comment, and by extension you, any less retarded. This isn't a discussion on the health risks associated with smoking and vaping. It's about boundaries and boundary enforcement. What do you th…
/r/askMRP08/03/23 08:22 AM
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Way to miss the fucking point.
/r/askMRP08/03/23 03:54 AM
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Idiot. Come back in 2 weeks when your ego can take the hit without being a little bitch about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 03:38 AM
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Around each other so much, I have trouble holding in resentment over sex and chores. And there's your frame if you wanted to know. You don't have one.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 03:36 AM
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You get out what you put in. And you're putting in fuck all. What do you actually have going for you? You have a job that barely pays the bills. You work out a bit. You have sex with your wife which you talk about in great detail in all of your OYS posts. I cant even tell what it is you're looking for, but whatever it is, you're giving it the bare minimum effort.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/23 03:30 AM
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not massive enough for them to drop whatever they are doing You're an idiot.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/23 05:02 AM
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Did a very beta thing This sort of thinking is terrible. Don't think like this. It isn't 'alpha good, beta bad'. I think about it afterwards. Why is she being so jealous? Then it hits me. I was complaining she wasn't jealous at all, now, out of the blue, she's jealous without any reason and I don't like it. But that just means she cares. Or you know. You are with a woman who is being a woman. Maybe don't take it so seriously. We then had a disagreement, details are long and not important but lon…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/23 04:57 AM
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This is the reasonable way of thinking about it. Probably less of a shit test and more of a 'You're having a fun life and I'm not included, so giving you shit is the only way I know how to breach the topic without looking insecure'.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/23 07:23 AM
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Your holiday away with your wife has a lot of focus on your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/23 11:05 PM
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You're right. Red Pill properly implemented makes you top of the food chain in fuckability. Once you are, you pick the girl(s) that add sufficient value. Your wife may or may not have stepped up to make the cut. That's it. Nailed it - now we have something we can agree on.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/23 11:10 PM
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These are goals. Not a mission. But when you remove enough detail, it's no longer clear what happened. A lot of the guys whose posts you modify are still deep in their wives' frames (Yeah, I'm self aware enough to know I'm not out yet either), and changing the words doesn't change that. Me changing the words doesn't change shit. Them learning how to write without using she/her/wife is what the change is. That's the mindset shift. Rule 9 was designed to force you to write from your perspective. T…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/23 09:48 AM
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applied that the caveat "best case", indeed Still don't care for it. It's a covert contract either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/23 06:14 AM
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The red pill is mainly going to change one thing in your wife: her desire for you. I hate this. Sets people up for failure.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/23 11:09 PM
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https://imgur.com/4xB7Be3 Look at this, and then tell me what your mission is. At the moment, all I see is a man who bases everything on what his woman says, does, and thinks.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/23 11:07 PM
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something will happen when drinking and I will tear shreds off people I don't have a drinking problem. I have an assertiveness problem. Good insight. Clearly you're letting people push past what you think is ok, and only when you're intoxicated do you have the courage to say what you actually think. You're thinking and doing, and moving in the right direction. Keep putting in the work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/23 12:39 PM
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The other side is telling me I only think about sex when I initiate.. And that I always want sex.. That she does not have that much libido or interest in sex.. mouth noises. I read this as perceived pressure to have sex, i.e. everything has to lead to sex. Whether or not that is actually the case is irrelevant. That's how it's interpreted. I went through a somewhat similar situation. Sex and the obsession thereof
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/23 01:17 AM
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I want a fresh slate from which to build. There is no fresh slate. You'll find in a couple months you're still the same person doing the same things. I understand the idea behind this because I've been down that path. Didn't lead anywhere useful. Have some social events this week. Will really focus on not fucking up, getting drunk When you say fucking up, what does that mean? How are you 'fucking up' your social events? If you want to get drunk, go get drunk and enjoy yourself. But own it for wh…
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Either be critical of the post and point out why it was a waste of your time, or don't comment on it.
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This is bad. You should feel bad for asking this question. Removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/23 10:16 PM
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You're heading in the right direction. This was more a reminder to you that you've made progress, but you have further to go yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/23 11:41 PM
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Read: WOTSM x 6 Six times? Really? Surely your time could've been better spent doing pretty much anything else. Mission Its wordy and long and has a lot of 'self improvement' feel to it. Kinda sucks. Career You have said pretty much nothing with this section other than you're enjoying your time before you go on holiday, yet it was the 'primary focus' for the week. I would hate to see what your secondary focus looks like. Finances: I'm still heavily improving in this area and I am now also taking…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/23 12:27 AM
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She was immediately wet, and I handled her until she was telling me “you’re so dirty” while raising her ass in air. I let her know that she’s my dirty girl. This is bordering on Rule 13, I don't need to know that your wife was 'wet' and that she was 'raising her ass in the air'. You wrote it this way because you are proud of it. That's not a problem per se, but rather is reflective as to where you are. The marker for reaching another step forward is when you no longer include these sorts of deta…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/23 12:12 AM
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You're a fucking retard. Moralizing.
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No lad. You're too young for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/23 11:03 PM
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I don't think you could've rammed more platitudes into this comment if you tried.
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/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 11:02 PM
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Generally don't allow thanks posts but I'll leave this up because it contains a good lesson on frame. Every time I miss a workout, I think about this sub. Every time I start to feel small, I remember this sub. Every time I doubt myself, I check my perspective against my goals, and then I think about this sub. I wonder if someone else will pick up on the lesson.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/23 07:38 AM
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Yep. This is pretty much all he needs to hear.
/r/askMRP13/01/23 11:23 AM
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It's nice to want. Trick is figuring out how to get what you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/23 09:24 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/23 05:51 AM
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He is.
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Better suited for /r/askMRP Letting rule 11 bans go through to the keeper on this one. (that's a cricket reference)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/23 11:21 PM
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girls trip against my ultimatum Little bit insecure are we? Don't worry. I'm sure you'll fuck up the next relationship too.
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/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/22 09:52 PM
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The tools are simply tools. The more you use them, the better you get at knowing which tool to use and when. Eventually, you stop thinking and just do what you want. In this situation, I wouldn't have fogged. You were asked for your opinion. You provided it. She doesn't get to bitch that she doesn't like it. In my world that's a boundary cross and gets dealt with as such. Fogging is a 'make it go away' tool. It's non aggressive and non confrontational. It has its place, and it's a good tool too.…
/r/askMRP20/12/22 08:30 AM
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It's gonna be really fucking hard not to say something to this other guy Say fucking what? Do you not trust your wife to handle this shit by herself? Is she attractive? Would you not expect an attractive woman to get hit on? The fuck is wrong with you. What would you possibly say? "Listen here cunt, I saw you messaged my wife and called her 'love', don't you fuckn dare do that you peice of shit I will fuck you up?" And what exactly will that achieve you insecure retard? You think your wife would…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/22 11:55 PM
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“You only care about my body and my looks. Do you even like the person I am?” to which I replied “I have to confess… I do like your sexy body” then she just laughed This is good. Earlier this week I forgot to use a discount while grocery shopping. My wife was furious for the entire evening, throwing “How irresponsible can you be”, “It’s not like we’re rich or something”, “don’t you have any value for money”, etc. I answered, “oops, I’m such a dummy” then just STFU and made sure to remain happy f…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/22 05:08 AM
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blanket banning of anyone who remotely hurts an admins feelings or disagrees with them publicly This doesn't happen. The only people who get banned are those who break the rules (primarily no value add, moralizing or giving shitty advice) and people who create new accounts to circumvent their bans. I know quite a few dudes who were banned by merely insinuating an admins point was wrong. I'd have to see examples to believe this is the case.
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/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 11:04 PM
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Men with no frame and the things they do.
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/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 10:55 PM
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Commit to whatever you want, just don't lie to yourself and us about it. It's nice to commit to things. Feels good, doesn't it? That resolve? You don't deserve those feelings until you've actually accomplished something. You don't get to feel good about saying you're going to do something. Do things, don't talk about doing them.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 01:46 AM
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I put on some fat thanks to Thanksgiving. I ate too much over Thanksgiving because I'm undisciplined and only stick to things when they're easy, and I am happy to let them go when it gets hard. recommitted to staying in range. I've forgiven myself for being undisciplined, and I've recommitted myself to only doing the work when its easy. I can't understand why I don't make any progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 11:57 PM
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I've read a few of your comments you've made over the last few weeks. Always reeked of ego. Glad to see I was right. Your biggest obstacle is yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 01:52 AM
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You were wrong but that's ok. You've dropped your notes on OYS, and someone might take something of value from it, or have a thought or interpretation of it that is useful for them and you. That's what OYS is.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/22 01:36 AM
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It's worth listening to /u/_RPeed he knows what he's on about in this area. Guy is pretty jacked.
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You're welcome to contribute a valuable post.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/22 01:56 AM
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Listen to this man, he knows what he's talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/22 03:28 AM
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We can play with definitions if you like, but I don't think there's much value to be had. If I'm trying to assemble a table from Ikea, and I read the instructions on how to do so, is it the author of the instructions who is helping me? If I build it wrong, do I blame the guy who wrote the instructions? Now if the guy who wrote the instructions came around my house and helped me build that table, he's actively helping me. That's what I consider 'men helping men'.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 11:47 PM
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We continue to argue about where we want to ultimately live and if we should move for my career. We are arguing hypotheticals at this point however (there is no imminent opportunity or job offer on the table), so these discussions are probably a waste of time and I should stop them. There's a lot of 'we' in this, and a lack of clarity and vision. What do you actually want to do? Where do you want to live? What would be the plan, and how would that benefit you, and your family? Vaguely throwing o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 11:34 PM
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I hope you feel better soon.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 11:15 PM
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I'm gonna reply so that others can understand the rationale. This guy is irrelevant, he got banned and it has been a traumatizing experience for him. Who the fuck made you the flagbearer of MRP? The mods run the subreddit. You don't like it, go make another subreddit somewhere that fits your vision. And who the fuck do you think you are to mold its definition as per your convenience? MRP has always been about swapping notes. That's it. It's not my definition, its what the place was built on. MRP…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/22 11:10 PM
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I'll do it since blarg didn't.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/22 09:57 PM
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Dumbass.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 06:27 PM
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No it is you who is mistaken. Fuck off now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/22 06:25 PM
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Getting banned for Rule 9 has helped me think from my own perspective Cool. This is exactly what it was designed to do. And the examples above are provided to help people see that it is possible to re-write from your own perspective, despite the claims that it can't be done. Banning people for Rule 9 isn't some way I get my jollies off. It's work. And I do that work so that the few guys who have the grit to stick it out are better for it.
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In case it isn’t obvious, I am still really having a hard time with the balance between “be attractive” and the inherent covert contract that it creates vs just be you and “do whatever you want.” What if “do what you want” makes you an unattractive bitch? Everything in balance. I play video games for around 1-hour about 3-4 times a week. Is it attractive? No. Do I give a shit? No. Why don't I care? Because my life is filled with other shit that would be considered attractive. And more importantl…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/22 11:14 PM
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My Mission: Be an uplifting force and leader for my family. Be within the top-most respected/sought after professionals in my profession in my region. First sentence isn't the worst, but I would note that your mission becomes unachievable if your family breaks apart, or dies or something. Second sentence is clearly a long-term goal, not a mission. Lifting You've been hit already on this, but I will highlight this one. I have been down this route before and usually plateau around 160lbs Doing the…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/22 11:23 PM
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Move your comment to the correct thread. This has been removed.
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:26 AM
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lol gotem
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:26 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:25 AM
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No-one cares what you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:25 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:24 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/22 03:24 AM
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You're not at all hurt by his comment, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 11:07 PM
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To be fair, you're doing things, and that is always better than not doing things. My criticism should not be taken for 'stop doing things', but rather, 'think about why you do things'.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 11:04 PM
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who is worthy of respect is. Respect from whom?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/22 04:38 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:21 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:16 PM
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She sent back a single emoji in favor. You feel better because 'she' agreed to it. This was the longest I held a role during sex This was the longest that your wife let you hold that role during sex. Good for you for trying new things, but the whole 'separate sex chat' is weird as fuck. Why can't you guys just be normal?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:14 PM
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I want to be a man that gives from a place of abundance without any expectation of return. You don't just give everything freely. You give to those who add value to your life. But when you give, you give freely with no expectation. There's a subtle difference. At BJJ I'm panicking when I get into positions I perceive to be "bad". I found some videos on YT that talked about mental/physical techniques to deal with that. I know I need to continue putting myself in those positions and I'll get more …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:12 PM
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Standing up to disrespect is a focus area. Have you ever considered that you're the kind of guy who deserves to be disrespect?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:05 PM
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Do us a favor and modify the formatting a bit so it's not a physical wall of text.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 11:02 PM
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I'll be banning for Rule 9 (she focus), Rule 10 (other focus) and Rule 13 (written porn) this week. This is to remind people to focus on shit that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 09:51 AM
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The fuck is wrong with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/22 01:40 AM
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OP did you have some type of significant event? No significant events. I just put in the work consistently. I didn't have a specific moment that motivated me. I just grinded. If it's some significant event or occurrence in your life that motivates you, once that well of emotion is tapped, you're done. Discipline is the only way.
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/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/22 01:48 AM
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Glad you picked up on it too.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/22 03:41 AM
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I tried to NGAF and be cool about it… but the truth is internally I overthought it.. wondering why.. making up stories in my mind.. making it about me.. thinking about that ‘every unhappy wife is a rape victim’ post etc etc. All just stupid shit that does not help me mentally and is the opposite of DNGAF. I also realize this is why I avoid initiating at times - to avoid this shit in my mind. The truth is yes it might be because I am not attractive.. because I am fat.. whatever it is. I should no…
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/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/22 02:00 AM
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Following up last week's work with this week's masterpiece. This is excellent execution. The underlying premise of "Well, what did you expect would happen" is the only honest way to approach this. Your game is pretty hit and miss, but I don't think anyone can hold that against you since you successfully pulled and closed a girl in the same day. The way you handled the situation is an excellent example to others of what 'frame' looks like.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/22 11:24 PM
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You really know how to trigger them. They're both gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/22 01:33 AM
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This stung, but it was valuable This is the attitude that makes change. Here is a guy doing shit in a subreddit filled with guys doing their best to make it look like they're doing shit while very much doing shit all. Nice work.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/22 12:44 PM
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This is terrible. No ownership. Victim mentality. Circumstances are all due to your wife. Yeah I don't have numerous OYSs, as I was reporting into Rian's community until he correctly Rule 9'ed me tf out a couple months ago. Fkn lol. Pretty impressive since Rian doesn't even agree with Rule 9. I'm locking this. There's no value to be had. It doesn't have any detail that is useful for others. It's not a field report. It's just some guy flailing around randomly. The best part is that the whole prem…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/22 02:30 AM
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After the above I was horny again 12 hours later and made some joke about eating her pussy after she had been touching herself with coconut oil during sex. Her response 'your dirty talk is funny' me 'do you like it' her 'sometimes'. Goodness this is cringey. Lets unpack this mess. made some joke about eating her pussy Using humor as a protection mechanism is not sexy. But I guess its easier to take the risk of being honest about what you want by having the fallback of 'Hahaha no I was just jokin…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/22 11:57 PM
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After reading the 4 steps of breaking sex for validation, I decided to start a 21 day break from jerking off. Jerking off is a problem for me and I want break the habit. During this challenge I'm going to try to only have sex when I desire to fuck. I tested it out last Friday and it was very good. If I find myself seeking validation I will start the challenge over at day one. I have a question though. If my wife initiates sex do I go with it? The issue isn't physical, it's mental. Assuming you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/22 11:41 PM
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But so many dumb smart mother fuckers continue to delude themselves into thinking that there different, and they're big ol brains are gonna go in their and Explain/Rationalize/Negotiate it better. This is such a great statement.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 04:19 AM
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Sure, but what else should you expect when you go hat in hand to a forum filled with internet strangers? Why do they owe you an explanation for your shitty situation? STFU and lift is good advice for people that suck. And most of you suck. If you have a history of trying things and not sucking, and have a question on something specific you have actually tried to implement you will get a different response. If you're posting a new thread on MRP or askMRP because you just have to get insight into …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 03:51 AM
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Sometimes that's all you need to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 02:14 AM
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I used to have a lot more “categories” when I tried this before but now realize I was trying to conform to how I see others format their OYS’s. This often would cause friction trying to focus on too much. I am keeping this simple to what matters most to me. Cool. Conforming is not what this place is about. Overall your OYS is decent for a first one. Going forward, you should be focusing on what you did the week before and reflecting on that, with less focus on what you're 'going to do'. Reason b…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 01:12 AM
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You guys will probably tear me a new one, have fun. Fuck off. Take your sad story and come back when you've actually done something.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 01:03 AM
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What a shitty OYS. So this week you took some mushrooms and shifted a gym routine. Yet you still wanted to write that out and post it like its some sort of accomplishment. Everything else is excuses and rationalizations. I'm banning you for 2 weeks for wasting your time, and more importantly my time.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 01:02 AM
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Don't stress - you're moving in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 12:55 AM
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Goal #1 - learn how to be fucking concise.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/22 01:27 AM
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There's an interesting take in here. That vibe you speak of, the energy - its the same as guy who dances because he just really wants to dance. Not because he wants to look cool dancing. It's the same as a fat guy with his shirt off at a pool or beach laughing, jumping around and having the time of his life. It's people who do things because they want to do them, not because they want to be seen doing them. That energy - people pick up on that. Call it congruence. Being genuine. Being real. It's…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/22 08:45 PM
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Extending to 60 days.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/22 04:20 AM
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Pulling the eject cord on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/22 12:09 AM
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It's got nothing to do with sex. It isn't now and never was about sex. You do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/22 11:40 PM
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Any particular suggestions of places to start? With you. Lead by example. Tell her what you want. Praise her when she does what you want. Lay out what you want her to wear. Tell her how much it turns you on when she looks like that. Lots of options here to encourage her in that direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/22 01:05 AM
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OP has been banned for being retarded in OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/22 12:27 AM
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You're done. You suck, go be shit somewhere else.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/22 12:26 AM
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Mission: Graduate. Move Cities. Break up with GF. Goals. Not mission. Part of my dissatisfaction is that she gained a little bit of weight and hardly works out. In the past I tried so hard to get her to work out with such limited results, I ended up just giving up on the endeavor, and aiming for passive dread instead. I guess most of my turnoff is due to my anger from the times when she was being more controlling and wasting my time that I could've been putting to graduating earlier. But also, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:29 PM
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So in summary: My wife won't fuck me as much as I want so I have decided to talk her into fucking me. I have also enlisted the aid of several third parties who can witness this. I hope this means that when she says something infront of the third party, and she is accountable to it, that she will fuck me more. After all this, she has fucked me more so I've put off thoughts of divorce, because that's all I really wanted. It really was all about sex all along. I can't see how focusing on sex is a b…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:23 PM
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No sex this week Sex and the obsession thereof I had a very hard time being motivated and attracted to my wife. Nah. You're upset because she won't fuck you, and now you're reframing it so you don't have to get upset by the fact she won't fuck you. Much easier to think 'she sucks and isn't attractive' than 'I suck and I'm not attractive'.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:10 PM
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Sex and the obsession thereof
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:05 PM
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My favorite part is that he refers to the other woman as a 'snake'. His girlfriend has conditioned him well.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:02 PM
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You make me feel uncomfortable.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 01:17 AM
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Fuck it - I'll leave it up. There's a lot more of these types of posts hitting the sub now. We'll see what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 10:58 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/22 05:34 AM
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Second downside of removing flair. No-one knows the old names anymore so they figured you're just a cunt. And you are a cunt, but you're our cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 11:01 PM
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Swing and a miss. Firstly, its the wrong field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 11:00 PM
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Fuck you, you're not my real mum.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 10:59 PM
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What do you mean there are consequences for my actions?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 01:17 AM
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Not sure how I could have handled a comfort test better. At the store, I rubbernecked hard mid-sentence to check out a woman during a relatively deep and vulnerable conversation. It was painfully obvious. I joked, hugged and told her she has my full attention now. Then I stopped and stared at a dessert and said "See, I get distracted by other tasty treats, too." Then in the parking lot I kept staring at her tits while we walked home and told her I also check her out. Yeah this is dumb. It's alre…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:50 AM
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During my guys trip we went out a ton which made her rather jealous the first week, second week the effect wasn't really there. Not sure why. Why would you think about this or care about this? Why is her reaction to what you are doing important?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:44 AM
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Last week's men's group was promising. Weekly meetings are virtual, which I hate, although each member hosts an in-person event each year, so there's potential. Most guys were absent due to end summer vacations, but the group appears well organized and resourced. What are you getting out of this? It's not a loaded question. Still enjoying planned time with the kids. The side effect of being the fun parent is they always want my attention, which can wear me down pretty quickly. This is cool, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:41 AM
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Not away, just not strictly adhering to the Rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 12:12 AM
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That's askMRP - and flairs will stay there because who cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 11:15 PM
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Also, hope Rian Stone reads this one. Fuck you, pay him. I'll leave this one up as a lesson. This is a bad field report, and it would be good for others to reflect on why that is.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/22 12:07 AM
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This post seems to have brought a lot of randoms to the sub who are outraged at this guy. No idea how that happened but it doesn't matter. Firstly, the OP is banned because he sucks and the post sucks. He's been banned before but comes back with new usernames. Dunno why, don't really care. Secondly, randoms who came past to do an outrage drive-by have been banned. This isn't the place for you. What a waste of my time this was.
/r/askMRP12/08/22 01:50 AM
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Are we writing for other people, or for ourselves?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/22 11:03 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/22 03:58 AM
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Mission: To have high SMV, to be happy regardless of outcomes, to maintain positive frame, to do the things that I enjoy doing, to initiate sex whenever I want. Not a mission, and terrible. Appearance: This is one area I need to work on a lot. Will either have product in hair or wear hat. Tired of looking disheveled and that I do not consistently put effort into my appearance. When going out, also want to step my game up. Just trying a little more, no longer wearing same sneakers with everything…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/22 11:59 PM
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Age 38, Ht 169cm (5′ 6), Wt 66 kg (145 lbs), BF 18% navy. Married for 13 years, 2 kids NMMNG x2, MMSLPx2, WISNIFG, The Mindful Attaction Plan, SGM, Bang, Day Bang, Way of the Superior Man x 2, Ego Is The Enemy, 48 Laws of Power, Practical Female Psychology, Open Her, TRM, Multi-Orgasmic Man, The Book of Pook, How to Win Friends and Influence People, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, Atomic Habits, How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk. SQ 5x120kg/264lbs, BP 2x80kg/176lb…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/22 01:40 PM
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It took a while for my wife to warm up, maybe because it’s not the dynamic she is used to seeing, but she did. Rule 9 - I'll remove it if you get your wife to write the section about how she thought the party went.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 11:33 PM
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I was halfkidding about the R9 Nothing Rule 9 worthy in his OYS. Using 'she' isn't reason enough to ban.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 11:30 PM
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Nope, flat out wrong. Banned for retarded advice.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:04 PM
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Should be askmrp content but I'll leave it up for now. Edit: That's enough for now. It sucked.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 11:01 PM
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she is not that attracted to me, bored and directionless Probably because you suck. This realization is fanning the anger that I’m then trying to harness to lift and cut body weight. Or you know - just do the things you should be doing anyway not because you're in a mood, but because they're things that have to be done.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 06:57 AM
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This is a garbage OYS. Go away.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 06:53 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 06:50 AM
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Doesn't matter how many times it's pointed out - the vast majority still follow some dumb format. Desperately need those railroads. I still remember a few years back someone pointing out that my OYS post doesn't have a consistent format and for some reason that was a problem. Everyone wants some sort of consistent process. Post weekly for x number of weeks. Write on these topics. Do exactly what you're told and you'll make progress. There is no neatly laid out process, no well travelled road. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 11:36 PM
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I went to Rule 11 the comments but you already banned them. This is nice. While I'm sure you're only blowing through here for a quick laugh and shake of the head, appreciate the help cobba.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/22 10:55 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/22 10:48 PM
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This was fun. Time to pull up stumps.
/r/askMRP01/08/22 05:04 AM
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red pill veterans Wat red pill protocols Wat DO THESE SHIT TESTS REDUCE IN FREQUENCY The actual question is 'do women do less of that thing which is in their nature'. Why would you want a woman to stop being a woman?
/r/askMRP30/07/22 04:32 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 11:34 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 11:33 PM
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Rule 9 Lol nvm you got permanently banned by Blarg.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 11:32 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 11:31 PM
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You've been terrible for far too long to have this sort of ego about your dumb post.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/22 03:55 AM
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Cool. All good stuff. I thought you were full of shit before but this OYS is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/22 09:40 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/22 11:24 PM
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I consider this a woman worth procreating with We broke up for around a year Right. Out of interest what makes you sense anger in my future? I don't want to spoil the surprise. And in truth, it doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/22 11:17 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 11:21 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 11:19 PM
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It was pretty nice to not be thinking in MRP terms for a couple weeks and just enjoying life. Almost as if, life isn't MRP and shouldn't be constantly thought about in MRP terms. I get it, I did the same thing. Especially since you still have shit to sort out, I understand the mindset. Ideally, you want your end state to be that you don't think about MRP at all because you've taken what you needed from this place and moved on.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/22 02:16 AM
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OYS 2 (4 months since OYS 1) So what have you done in 4 months since your last OYS post. Relationship- Struggle street here. I have put very little effort in over the last few months. House- I have let a lot slide this last few months. I'm not surprised. You put as much effort into your OYS as you do your life. Which is to say, fuck all.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 11:41 PM
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This is a good comment.
/r/askMRP19/07/22 11:24 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 09:35 AM
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Age: 27, partner 25 Together: 3 years, 2 y/o son. Ooft. So got her pregnant 3 months into the relationship and stayed for the kid. And then ended up at MRP. I sense anger in your future.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/22 09:32 AM
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OYS 27 and its still the same old shit with you. No doubt you'll do the same thing again even after this 'realisation'. Rule fucking 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 11:14 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 11:00 PM
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23 weeks in and you're doing the basics. Either you're gonna be in the same position at week 40, or I'll ban you out before then. You're wasting your time. Plan actions to further develop and improve myself as a person. Currently, my initial thoughts are to (1) Develop my mission and code as per Unchained Male (2) Articulate and pursue what I want in my relationship with my wife and family (3) Identify more boundaries (if any) that I choose enforce and uphold Sounds more like: (1) do what the bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 07:28 AM
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8 weeks in and you've got nothing to show for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 07:23 AM
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You suck. Lots of excuses and a whole lot of nothing going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 07:22 AM
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It's a shame that entire comment is a covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/22 06:54 AM
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Once again I can't get into my server. There's a shock. Been good man, living the good life. And no, a girlfriend asking to open the relationship up is actually a good sign that she respects you enough to let you know she wants to cheat. It's a green flag. Hold onto that girl.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 11:20 PM
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You're back! And not dead. This is pleasing.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 11:13 PM
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Since my main focus is to gain experience and skills at this early stage, I want to set the standard that I provide far more value to my clients than what they’re paying for. I’ll admit, the only hesitation is being able to deliver on my promise to their satisfaction, especially being so new to this. Just be careful that you don't undervalue yourself in the medium term. If your value is good, then clients should pay for it. However, as you've correctly identified the first step is to prove you a…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/22 11:40 PM
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I also have a child with her, so yeah I’m going to grasp at straws should they exist. Commenters who don’t have kids can STFU and jack off to the mirror. And that's my cue.
/r/askMRP13/07/22 11:27 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/22 11:19 PM
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Despite correctly identifying that Rule 9 is the key in what you call MRP 2.0, you still manage to focus on her. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:38 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:16 PM
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Fucked twice, one blowjob. Felt a twinge of validation need when she left for the weekend without getting me off, but I squashed that fairly quickly. Sex matters until it doesn't. Your focus on sex is telling. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:15 PM
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thoughts follow actions not the other way around. It's always been like this. It just takes people a while to realise it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:12 PM
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attempt to get guys write from their perspective which is really asking too much. Is it though? I stand by it. Best thing to happen to the sub. Gets rid of time wasters.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 11:22 AM
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This is the point that i’ve come to, just wondering if anyone went down that path and if it nuked the entire situation. I've never had to take it to that level regarding her career, but I was willing and able to do so if required. My preference is always to set my wife up for success. I want her to independently make decisions that are good for her, and as a result are also good for me. I also make it clear that if I need to step in, I'll do what has to be done, in the way that I want, in a way …
/r/askMRP01/07/22 12:57 AM
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Seems simple enough. Wife played the same game that got her to where she is in her career, except this time the game didn't work. And since being successful is a core identify for her, that failure makes her question her entire identity. 'If the game I've always played and been very good at doesn't work, then what do I have? Am I even good at my job? If I can't do this well, then what value do I have?' My wife also went down the path of career, as did I. I encouraged her to do what she wanted in…
/r/askMRP30/06/22 11:36 PM
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Yeah nah you're gone.
/r/askMRP29/06/22 11:38 PM
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Rule 9 The Fraternity Sounds pretty gay.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 11:12 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/22 11:11 PM
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I often get a sense that they don’t want me talking to them, and two of the female cashiers were legitimately rude to me. Not everyone wants to be talked to. Could be hundreds of reasons why. There's two skillsets at play here. First is having the social awareness to know when people are open to talk or not. The second is having the social skills to bring people into your frame, so they want to talk regardless (mostly) of how they feel. Probably a third one too but less of a skill. Having a fun,…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/22 12:45 AM
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Rule 9. You might be the most Rule 9'd poster ever on MRP. Which probably means I should just ban you for a year.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 11:25 PM
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You're heartless 3. I used to feel a twinge of guilt when it was an older dude. Now I realize that if I ban him, three more with the same story will turn up to replace him. If he cares enough to do the work, he'll figure it out. If he doesn't, not my problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 11:24 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 06:02 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/22 06:01 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 11:08 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 11:07 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 05:10 PM
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So is that all this week? Or are you just blending previous stuff you've done to make it seem like you made a bunch of changes this week? It's ok, I already know the answer. So a better question is, why do you feel the need to embellish what you did this week to impress some internet random? Do you need me to validate you and tell you you're a good boy? You're a good boy. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 09:50 AM
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I am lying to myself to protect my ego and rush to the results, instead of focusing on the process. I need to be fully present and explore each area without looking for shortcuts. I’ve been looking for the golden egg that would unlock my wife’s pussy when I just need to keep re-visiting the basics. Just like lifting weights, BJJ, meditation and so on - the true essence is in a few basic concepts repeated 10,000 times. Everyone’s journey is different and at different stages, but these steps canno…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 09:22 AM
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Nah.
/r/askMRP14/06/22 02:18 AM
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You guys find a way to make the most simplest things an issue. Read them whenever you want. If your wife asks just reply with something like 'I heard these were interesting books to read' or whatever the fuck you want to say. Do you really think your wife cares what you're reading? And if she did, does it matter? And what if she googles MRP and finds it, does that really matter?
/r/askMRP14/06/22 12:47 AM
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No value added from your uninteresting and uninspiring origin story.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/22 11:08 PM
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Again, no problems here. Sex is on demand every night I want it. The wife even reminds me to fuck her every night. We have hit and quit it sex most nights, but every few days we have “Perverted Adventures” where we go all out. She sucks my cock while I finger fuck her pussy and ass and say shit like, “Suck that big cock,” “You are my little slut,” “This is my tight little pussy.” We also bust out some bondage stuff, I put a cock ring on and fuck her in the ass, etc. I work my wife up with all th…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 10:59 PM
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As always, thank you for coming back year in year out to run these. Wouldn't happen without you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/22 11:34 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 12:52 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 12:52 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 12:52 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 12:51 AM
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Also Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/22 12:49 AM
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get the life I earn. You got the life you earnt.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 12:32 PM
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What the fuck is your point? Parents bad blame your parents? Stop saying retarded things.
/r/askMRP21/05/22 06:03 AM
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Congratulations. The general rule is that no-one is special, but you do appear to be a unique snowflake. Now that I'm done being pithy, if you want to share field reports on the main sub I'm all for that, provided that they: Are from your perspective ('I' statements not 'you' statements) Clearly define a problem or situation you found yourself in Outline what you did to solve said situation/problem If your actions had the desired outcome
/r/askMRP20/05/22 02:38 AM
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It's pretty simple. People who are happy with their life don't type into google 'why won't my wife/girlfriend have sex with me'. Things that aren't problems don't get thought about.
/r/askMRP20/05/22 02:29 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/22 11:17 PM
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With women, I went the opposite way from /u/impatientzen [+1] in a lot of ways and fell into serial monogamy. Had a December girlfriend, a January girlfriend then got in deep with February’s - who I still see now. Dinners, flowers, weekend trips, meeting friends and even the parents (twice now). Truth be told, I would see myself following a similar path if I ever divorce. I like relationships. Sex is great but I have always found myself gravitating towards women that I enjoy spending my time wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 11:27 PM
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It's fine most of the time. Key things to avoid are not writing from your perspective, writing about sex in graphic detail, and saying the word fap. As long as you're actually owning your shit then you'll be fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 11:12 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 03:20 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 03:19 AM
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Rule 9 and 10
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 03:12 AM
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You suck
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 03:01 AM
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Enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/05/22 12:49 AM
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This started out the same as all OYS posts. Everyone is great at writing from their perspective when it comes to lifting and social, but as soon as it turns to their relationship, it's she this and she that. Everyone struggles to keep it about themselves. Here's an example. We had a long conversation where she essentially told me that she feels like we’ve drifted apart, and that we’re different people now. She was crying and said that I’m growing (citing my socialising, hobbies, passive income p…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 10:00 AM
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Seriously. Enough with the pictures. Why does anyone want to prove shit to a bunch of internet fucking randoms. This is not some brotherhood of manliness and we're not your friends here to hold you accountable.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/22 07:59 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 11:21 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 11:19 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 11:17 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 11:16 PM
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Hahaha wow, you just did that thing that the other guy did, but you made it about him instead!
/r/askMRP08/05/22 10:51 PM
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My memory failed me. Fast seduction was the website. No idea why sosauve sounds familiar but anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/22 11:23 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 10:57 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/22 10:56 PM
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You didn't get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 11:14 PM
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Well, now that you mention it. Rule 13 as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:36 PM
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I have to choose to not cheat on my wife every fucking day. And this chick is 8 years younger and smoking hot, like fucking gorgeous. She is married to a beta bux who she loathes. I know with 99.9% confidence she would cheat on her husband and 90% sure she would branch swing. You think I'm joking but this is actually difficult as I don't know if I could turn her down if she really was aggressive. Just shows getting pussy doesn't stop you from putting it on the pedestal. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:33 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:23 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:23 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:22 PM
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Rule 9 + Rule 13
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:20 PM
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Not even sure what's out there anymore. Sosauve might be worth a check if it hasn't turned to garbage. Haven't been back in many many years.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 11:19 PM
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Game is not talked about often enough, but is an absolutely key part of any attractive person. I picked up a copy of Neil Strauss's book when I was 18, and went down the rabbit hole. Spent years scouring the sosauve forums and picking up as much information as I possibly could, and constantly put it into practice. Good thing about being young is you can make something your entire focus as you don't have much else to worry about. I spent so many years focused on game that most of it comes natural…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 02:43 AM
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This is a very good comment. When my boy popped out, one of the things I had to come to terms with was prioritization. That meant that for the first month or two, I had to decide if I would still prioritize the gym/BJJ over taking care of the kid. At first I tried to slip in a session here and there when I wasn't too exhausted. Didn't take me long to make the call to stop entirely until things were more settled. I realised what I cared more about was being there with the baby, and being there to…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/04/22 11:31 PM
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This isn't rocket science. You could.. I don't know, initiate at another time that isn't right before bed? Or even better - not focus on 'showing her I don't care that she turned me down'
/r/askMRP28/04/22 12:46 AM
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Asking dumb questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 10:41 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:43 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:41 PM
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Certainly disappointed and dispirited with the higher number. Sure. But you did something that most guys don't do. You decided you didn't want to deceive yourself with made up numbers and wanted to actually know what your body fat percentage was. You went and got something done, with the risk of being disappointed. Now you know, and now you can make actionable goals to do something about it. The RMR test gave me a Resting Energy Expenditure of 2218 calories per day. The suggested weight loss tar…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:35 PM
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Well, you took the ownership part of OYS seriously. I can respect that much at least. /u/fix-the-man raises a good point. This is your 'I suck' OYS. That's fine. In fact, it's a good starting point. Most guys fuck around for a month or two before they realise it. But you don't get to wallow in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:30 PM
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Some old friends are going to Mexico in the fall and sent us the booking information. We have not gone the last three times they invited us. I started thinking about all of the reasons we could not / should not go. Stopped thinking and booked it. Cool. Most people will stop inviting you after you knock back invites several times consistently. Mostly because its hard work organising shit and if you can't be relied upon, then you've got nothing to add. Quick way to lose friends.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:25 PM
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That evening, when we were drinking, cooking, and having fun together, I straight up asked her why she’s less interested in cumming these days. She responded that she’s just never been a very sexual person, and that it’s ‘too much work for too little reward’. She's just never been a very sexual person with you. It seems like I’m establishing a situation where I am able to get off with my SO more frequently, but she has no interest in being pleasured. She has no interest in being pleasured by you…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 11:00 PM
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I kinda wanna ban you for the wife focus. But I wont this time.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 10:58 PM
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Besides, am I the only one that thinks asking guys to post shirtless pics is gay? No, its definitely homoerotic and I don't understand why anyone would be motivated to do so.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 10:52 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 10:50 PM
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As I've aged You're 36. Lets do some translations. I have given myself permission to be less sexually active. I've placed myself in a cage where my wife is the only person who I have any hope of having sex with, and since that's not working out, I guess I just have to come to terms with not having a sex life. I give my wife attention when I want to, not because I need something from it My wife isn't having sex with me so I'm desperately trying to remove the pressure that my attention means I wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 10:43 PM
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Don't think I was going to Rule 9 you, but I'll ban you for deleting out like a pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 11:39 PM
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I'm also questioning whether sex itself is the be all and end all, or whether it is the social connections that are truly important, and while I cannot have abundant sex right now, I can have abundant social connections and I can direct those as I please, to have fun with whomever I choose. It is cute to see the mental gymnastics people will perform when they're not having sex. It's not that you're wrong. I agree, sex is not the be all and end all. But its much easier for me to hold that view wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 11:22 PM
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Not to piss in your pocket but it's great that you're still around.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 11:20 PM
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Just imagine when he gets to a point where random internet strangers don't need to define short term goals for him. What a world.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 11:18 PM
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I had to go back and check the username half way through reading this as I thought only /u/sbiii is so liberal with the word cunt.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 10:23 PM
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Removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/22 02:18 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 11:13 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 11:11 PM
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I woke her up, and asked her where the headphones were, she said they were in the kitchen, she had plugged them in to charge up. I was surprised how calm I was, I was surprised at how calm she was. She hasn't mentioned it since. A first step in killing the nice guy. It's not much but its honest change. OYS 33 That said, I do wonder what you've been doing for the past 32 OYS if this is considered a big step for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 11:10 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 11:07 PM
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Sometimes what people crave is a clear opportunity to add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 10:59 PM
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My wife has held me back I’ve let my wife hold me back I've held myself back. it has been a I have created a negative growth and hostile environment for years and my daughter is also suffering because of it. Fixed it for you. But the truth is I’m still pissed at myself for the covert contracts and reacting to things I would have done in the past At least you realized. Something about the way you write is like a man defeated. You're angry and lashing out because your life isn't what you want it t…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 11:00 AM
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This is your fault /u/hornsofapathy Removing
/r/askMRP14/04/22 02:51 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/22 12:17 AM
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Wife keeps trying to step in when I'm taking care of shit....asking why I am doing it and if it so I can hold it against her later. I just keep saying I want to be in more control.The lack of libido is impacting my want to be around her... I really just want to work on shit and relax right now. I know it is impacting her cause she told me so... Im not going to neglect her exactly but engagements are going to be on my terms. In other words, I'm playing a scoreboarding power game and I'm playing t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/22 11:58 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 11:44 PM
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I wont lie about who I am. I'm sure a mod or two has already guessed it. I am u/loveisconditional. Come on man. Yeah, obviously I'm banning you for ban evasion. Do you really think we care enough to try figure out if your some other older poster we banned? I wouldn't be surprised if we have a bunch of OYS posters who were originally banned and came back under new usernames and we never knew. But you couldn't help yourself could you? I wont lie about who I am We don't know who the fuck you are. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 11:09 PM
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In short, this seems like it's not addressing the root of the problem. It's sort of eliminating the issue instead of solving it. You're not a smart man, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 10:56 PM
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You're asking the right question.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/22 11:08 PM
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First thing he lists is a 'beta' trait...
/r/askMRP10/04/22 09:06 PM
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This belongs on /r/askMRP. Removing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/22 09:00 AM
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Why not spend sometime with the old crew :) Those of us who are left anyway :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/22 02:01 AM
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Good to see you're still around.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/22 12:45 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 11:36 PM
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That is where this could blow up in a dudes face, if he doesn't recognize that he still has inner game to work through, as he is building his life. Yup. Don't eat paint.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 10:56 PM
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"Get busy building your own frame and life and unapologetically create the sex life you want." I really didn't want to say don't eat paint. Frame, mental point of origin, be attractive etc. are all prerequisites to this. This entire post is pretty much my example of 'build the life you want'. I'll agree, it does seem less important for me and you but it's not. It's just that it's on tap and easy to mold once you do the things you outline without covert contracts. You got the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 10:55 PM
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Being busy helps dampen my sexuality but its also important to make time to be a sexual being not just a fisherman in pyjamas. It's not about dampening your sexuality. It's about redirecting the obsession. I thought my sexual needs were a lot higher than they actually were. When I had other shit to do, I figured out what my real sexual needs were. without you having to lower your standards You missed the point. It's not about lowering your standards. It's about putting sex in the right place in …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 10:52 PM
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I heard someone say the other day that “Sex is overrated”. I’ve heard Stone say that sex is like the cover charge. Over the weekend I probably got my dick wet over 15 times. I think I have true abundance in this area, yet I still want sex all the time. I think if I had a better sense of personal mission and purpose I wouldn’t be so focused on women and sex. Yup. You can get sex when you want it. And it didn't fill the void in your life. Now what?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 04:42 AM
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Rule 9: It’s always been about her. My entire MRP journey has been about her. I’ve tried to frame it otherwise, but it was all Larping. Many guys have observed this over the years. Took your time getting to that conclusion. This is good. You still have some way to go to accept these new mental models. But you've made a big step in the right direction. I’m just really beginning to realize just how fearful I’ve been in all aspects of my life. Everyone feels fear, to some degree or another. Acting …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 04:36 AM
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Only way to push through fear is to take the leap. Courage is acting despite fear. So for you, this is courage. It was courageous. Doesn't matter what the outcome is. You did something you were afraid to do. This is a good example of writing about shit that matters.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 04:29 AM
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This is a non retarded question so decent answers are encouraged for a change. My quick two cents. The idea of 60 DoD is to build up and change habits. Each week, you're looking to see how yoy can change or improve what you're doing for that weeks topic, and then document what you're changing in that space. But the idea is to make them habits that you keep up. So you might get to week 6 for example, but still be implementing the changes from week 1-5, building on what you're doing. You want conc…
/r/askMRP02/04/22 11:50 PM
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Fucking hell retards. No. I'm such an asshole. Glad to see you're coming to terms with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/22 03:54 AM
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Thanks, I hadn't gotten to this yet.
/r/askMRP31/03/22 12:23 AM
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And yet, most people who write missions still write them as goals. Even this bloke did even though he knew better.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 12:56 AM
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Mission: Freedom. Abundance in all areas provides freedom. Achieving and maintaining self-actualisation provides abundance. Certainly a bit different to most missions on here, as it includes a pathway to maintain. The difference is I can see that you're on your way with this already. The abundance you've achieved with women is clearly demonstrated. And I suspect you feel some freedom as a result of this. What other areas do you think you need to achieve abundance to stay on track with this missi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 12:05 AM
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Mission: Hit a big milestone last week. I have yet to celebrate as I'm focusing on the next beachhead. But I booked myself a trip in the next week to a tropical location I've always wanted to visit. A treat to myself for such a great year. How the fuck is this a mission?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 12:00 AM
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You got me thinking with this, as most missions are either goals or plain garbage.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:59 PM
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Mission- My current mission is to lead a happy, adventurous, exciting life surrounded by people that bring love, positivity and value to my life. This actually isn't a bad mission. Its a bit long winded for my tastes, but the concepts are good.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:58 PM
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comprehensive list of seven missions. You mean a list of seven goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:57 PM
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Mission: Live free in order to experience all life has to offer with my own happiness as priority. Achieve financial freedom to live anywhere in the world. Give to others by setting an example and sharing my knowledge and experiences. I'm going to focus on mission here as a lot of people seem to struggle with it. I've no interest in telling you what your mission should be - that's for you and you alone. But, I will point out why a mission is potentially retarded. Live free What does live free me…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:53 PM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:36 PM
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I struggled with the BP conditioning and oneitis. Fuck I am so tired of hearing you say this. 'It's my BP conditioning I can't help it!' Edit: you did use past tense so I'll give you a pass with this.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:33 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:29 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:28 PM
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Starfish
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:27 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 11:26 PM
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Starfish
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 11:11 PM
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Keep on sucking.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 11:06 PM
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Leave him in your hands. He's unbanned.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 07:08 AM
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There's lots of "she" to be sure, but the agent is our resident chubby aussie, and the results his attractive/not unattractive actions are getting him. You're not wrong. That said, I think a two week break is probably good for him at this stage. I don't really care either way, so if you'd prefer him unbanned just let me know.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 06:58 AM
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Also Rule 13
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 01:23 AM
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First of all, good work actually doing some approaches. Doing things is always better than not doing things. This is actually the perfect mindset. I genuinely DNGAF if they like me. They are auditioning. There are two things I'm failing on here. First, I'm not polarizing enough by being "too neutral". I need to add in more flirt. Second, I bailed on getting a number again, which was the most disappointing. I decided up front I was going to ask assuming she was decent, but I didn't have a "reason…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 12:28 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:20 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:19 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:18 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:17 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:16 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 11:16 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 12:00 AM
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Nothing like a bit of sweeping on a Monday morning. Can't have this place getting too dirty.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:26 PM
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Yup, you get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:08 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:07 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:06 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:06 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:06 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:05 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/22 11:05 PM
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Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 11:26 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 11:22 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 11:21 PM
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You're unplugging, although I do hate that term. Well done. just told her I was insulted and confused by her behavior and wasn't accepting it Only thing I would have done different here is to say 'I didn't really care for your behavior' rather than 'I'm insulted'. But that may be more of a personal preference.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 11:15 PM
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If she asks you 'what the fuck are you doing' that means it's working.
/r/askMRP13/03/22 03:59 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:36 AM
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Thanks for the pickup. I didn't bother to read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:36 AM
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Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:34 AM
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however, I did go home and tell the wife about it and let it sit for a couple days. Fucking retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 05:32 AM
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I reserve the right to make retarded decisions.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 04:34 AM
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I'm really not an interesting person, just a Dad with a Dad-bod and a bunch of kids. I started journaling things about myself that might sound interesting, I will look at ways of formulating them into bait, for when I plan to move beyond superficial conversations. Here's an idea. Try living a life that is interesting. Then you don't have to pretend to be interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/22 12:23 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:45 PM
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Short term pain, long term gain. I have friends who tried the same method but couldn't cope. They are still getting up every night to help their kids go to sleep at 9 months, and another at 2 years old.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:27 PM
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I really want to Rule 9 you for your reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:24 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:21 PM
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and with all the stress she already has she doesn't need that What an understanding man. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:20 PM
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Pretty much. Some other stuff but that's the gist of it. Not exactly revolutionary but did the trick.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 12:02 PM
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Having a 3 month old has been an interesting experience. I've loved spending time with the little dude, he is far more fun than he has any right to be. Sleep has been a problem. It's been so bad over the last three weeks that I had to make some decisions. The first decision was how much do I value my sleep? Do I take an extra hour of sleep bringing it up to 4-5 hrs a night, or do I wake up and go to the gym before work, leaving me with 3-4hrs of sleep. Initially, I wasn't prepared to sacrifice t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/22 11:45 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 12:07 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/22 12:06 AM
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Thanks, thought about this for a bit. And yet all you did was double down on the same response. I'm not going to pick this apart for you. You'll either get it at some point, or you won't.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 11:24 PM
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This is terrible. Everything about it is terrible. You are terrible. “I really want to just have at least 1 yr of not being with anyone in-order to build independency, because I doesn’t want to be with someone for the sake of being dependent on him.” Bet she's going to enjoy that one year of exploration. It's certainly about not being dependent on a man. Yep. That seems reasonable. Definitely not about wanting to get out of the relationship. Not at all. Definitely won't involve finding another m…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 01:36 PM
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Like the fact that your wife section is actually about you. her response was what I got upset about. The issue was that I was listening to her words instead of focusing on the emotion behind them. No, the issue was that her emotional response made you feel upset. You didn't want or expect that emotional response. So you engaged. I just need to remember that the words and ideas are always going to come out like scrambled nonsense, but there's an emotion buried in there somewhere. No. You need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 01:05 PM
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Fuck sake I should not have looked at your post history.
/r/askMRP25/02/22 11:58 AM
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You poor fucking victim. Rule 9.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/22 11:15 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/22 12:03 AM
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Noted. I will do something about it this week. Just remember why you're writing this. It's not for us, its for you. And I doubt you need to remind yourself of the same basic stuff every week.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 02:42 AM
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Alright you guys have had a chance to have some fun with this. Shows over.
/r/askMRP23/02/22 02:38 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 11:08 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 11:07 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 11:05 PM
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Mission This doesn't need to be some sort of complicated problem to solve. Here's my mission: To enjoy life. Simple. No 'be the best man I can be', no 'be a strong role model' none of that shit. I will enjoy life, and if I don't, I'll make changes so that I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 10:51 AM
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The fuck do half these acronyms mean? I'm sure if I could understand it I'd say it's a good OYS, but I didn't bring my sypher.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/22 10:42 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/22 11:19 PM
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Why the fuck am I here? Why don’t I want to fuck my wife all the time? I don’t trust her. If this is true, it amuses me that the vast majority of your post still focuses on your wife. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 01:12 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/22 01:08 AM
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Rub her butthole while she falls asleep every night for a week. This did not go well. Do retarded things, get retarded outcomes.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/22 02:36 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:54 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:54 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:53 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:51 PM
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IV. Improving my sex life You've had this as a section of your OYS since you started. You're now on OYS 37. And you still haven't figure out why this would be a retarded thing to do. At this point I don't know what to tell you.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:44 PM
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This whole thing is retarded. It goes from 'I fucked up' to 'I punished her for my fuck up' to 'I dragged this out for several days until my wife exploded, is this my main event?' Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 11:31 PM
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Nah. You've been 'fogging' advice every week. We're all very impressed you know how to fog, but I've grown tired of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 02:01 PM
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Nobody cares.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/22 08:17 AM
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This isn't the place for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 11:28 PM
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I checked my phone the next day and noticed that she deleted me, doesn't affect me whatsoever. Didn't affect you at all, but you still went and checked, didn't you?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 12:37 AM
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Rule 9 I am sick of it all. Poor you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 12:31 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:24 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:23 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:21 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:19 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:18 PM
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So now that sex isn't an issue anymore you finally realise that it doesn't actually matter. You're looking for the next thing to chase. We'll see how your drive for 'exceptional' goes. I suspect it won't stick long term. Gotta have a real good reason to operate at the highest level consistently other than 'because'.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 01:46 PM
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Since being less angry, it pisses me off that I won't have the recovery I want post lift Think you got some more work to do there. That said, I found your OYS interesting.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 01:38 PM
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Look, I get the books are on the sidebar and we always tell idiots to read the sidebar but at some point you gotta take the training wheels off. They're a starting point, some simple beginner tools that you can pick up and play with. You know what helps you make actual progress? Figuring out what it is you actually want, coming up with a plan to get there, and then adjusting the plan, and probably the target, as you move towards it. The problem with me saying that is every idiot on here will mak…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 10:38 AM
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As I see it, the alternative to "continuing to put up with bullshit" would be to tell her to go fuck herself and bang a bunch of 25-year olds instead. That's called Rambo. The answer isn't 0 or 100. People will only treat you as shitty as you're willing to let them. You do not have the mindset to do anything else other than accept the way she treats you, as you are terrified of the consequences. So yeah, I am continuing to put up with bullshit, but while I do that, I'm not passively hoping that …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 11:01 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 01:50 AM
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My wife still won’t fuck me. Last time I had sex was in early August last year. Sunday was funny in this respect, because it was so transparent. She sensed an initiation about to come and decided to thwart it by picking a fight about something that had absolutely no base in reality. The second she got started, I knew exactly what she was doing. I could see it in slow motion. So again, no sex this week. Go find someone else to have sex with then. You don't get to make her the gatekeeper for sex a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 01:36 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 01:11 AM
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If I had to guess you're probably an engineer or a programmer. Your whole mindset is approaching this from the angle of 'i don't like how my wife responds so I'm going to make some changes and hopefully she'll respond differently'. Think about it this way. If you could go out and get laid tonight, would you really give a shit that your wife is disgusted by you?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 10:02 PM
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I didn't realise we were playing MRP lingo bingo this week. Maybe try saying something of substance rather than trying to say the right slogans to fit in. Especially since you still have no fucking idea what a shit test is.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:23 AM
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Keep running that dancing monkey program. When in doubt, double down. Also: A question for the MRP group, I understand the recommended MRP workflow is [lift, STFU, sidebar, OYS]. What would be the weightings of importance or impact for each of these? My thinking [lift (60%), STFU (10%), sidebar (10%), OYS (20%)] Fucking lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:19 AM
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Hat in hand post - do as you wish
/r/askMRP01/02/22 02:52 AM
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Post to /r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 02:50 AM
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Idiot
/r/askMRP29/01/22 01:09 AM
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I feel like I'm dragging myself out of failure and towards being a functioning adult, at which point I'll be better placed to think long-term. Sounds like a reasonable goal to me. What I'm curious about is when do you know you've reached that point? a life which is not governed by fear. Fear can be a good thing. Fear of the unknown means that you're living near your edge. However, too much fear and you'll descend into chaos. Courage is doing that which makes you afraid. Doesn't mean that you don…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/22 01:45 PM
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This is an excellent OYS. Guy who gets shit done. Looks like you have things under wrap at the moment. What are you aiming towards? What does success look like for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/22 10:30 AM
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It's a chrome extension called 'Pearls extension'. It took me 10 minutes to sort it out, and once I had, reading the weekly OYS became a lot easier.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 11:08 PM
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This is the mens locker room. Post at r/RedPillWomen
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/22 07:23 AM
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I'm Bench pressing, 40-50lb as I don't wanna go rambo. Fuck off. You're trolling.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 03:34 AM
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How I know you don't get it.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 02:12 AM
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Automod is removing them, we have to manually approve.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 02:10 AM
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I thought you said you were a long time lurker.
/r/askMRP13/01/22 10:12 PM
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/u/dirtynuke if you're still around, you should have some advice for this guy on moving on from an affair. Diamond my boy. If you haven't read through dirtynukes OYS it might be valuable for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:14 PM
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You're kidding. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 11:08 PM
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Doesn't matter. This should be Rule 9'd. And so it is. Edit: I'll throw you a bone. You're playing covert contract sex games, and she knows it. If I do x, she will want to have sex with me. It's not genuine.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/22 05:20 AM
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Marriage You're both playing power games with sex. You're not being open and vulnerable with your initiations. You're playing the same game that she is, but she's just better at it than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:57 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:30 PM
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You guys are generally getting better at Rule 9 and 10. No bans last week, and no bans (so far) this week, although a few got close. Seriously, good work. Edit: Spoke too soon, /u/NicestGuyIKnow and /u/reborndude blew it. Edit 2: Add /u/SirOYSalot to that with some egregious shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:29 PM
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This bloke has been doing this for years. Who knows. Certainly hasn't helped him progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:27 PM
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Ha. Well, I really should've read his previous OYS posts before replying then.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:26 PM
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Gaming the girl at the buffet - pretty big of you to sit down with her. It's not a loss, it's further along than you were before. Yup was thinking the same thing. This was a big win. A loss would've been 'I thought about talking to her but decided it was too awkward etc.'
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 11:07 PM
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So close. For some reason my sex drive is really low at the moment. I don’t feel attracted to her and just don’t feel like sex with her at all, kind of just want her to go away. She hasn’t done anything so I’m not sure where this is coming from. I think it’s just having been in isolation with her, and all the court shit but fuck, who knows. I mean, you already said it. Resentment is my own fault What a shock. Resentment makes you less attracted to the person you resent. I've not kept up with you…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 10:20 AM
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Despite being in quarantine, I've managed to lose 8 lbs with OMAD over the week. It's a bit uncomfortable at times but I'm becoming excited by the progress. Quarantine got 1 proper gym session before locking down. I went for a few runs and did some dumbell sessions at home. Cool. This is good discipline. Very easy to use it as an excuse to take a break. I'm sure I'll join you in quarantine once omicron is let rip in WA.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 10:11 AM
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If you can't value what you have in front of you, how do you expect her to give you her best? It's clear she is losing interest as you are withholding commitment. You need to marry her. This way, she'll take the relationship seriously, and is likely to lose the weight and become more attractive to be worthy of you. I've read countless stories from MRP of poor relationships being fixed by marriage. You'd be surprised how much things will improve when she's got that ring around her finger.
/r/askMRP11/01/22 01:33 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 10:43 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 10:43 AM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/22 10:43 AM
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5 minutes later she just overt tells me "you are boring". Then I realized that's what the shit tests were about. It made me think of that Chris Rock bit: "You're gonna stop talkin', and you're gonna stop fuckin." Yeah but at the same time, did you sign up to be the entertainment committee for the trip as well? There's nothing wrong with this, but I would be careful letting someone else set expectations for you, and then trying to fulfill their expectations. DEVI also applies to conversations The…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 01:18 PM
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Probably get rule 9'd again - my bad. Maybe if you tried to figure out why it's a rule and what mindset it's there to teach you. It's almost as if you might gain something from it. But I guess it's just easier to throw up your hands and go 'lol prob get banned again, lmao oh well, too hard'. It's not difficult. Write about shit that matters. Write from your perspective. Here. Watch. Fiance said how she has noticed in all her relationships that she starts off with a super high sex drive, then thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 10:44 AM
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OYS #31, 35 weeks in. I thought I was reading an OYS 5-8. Goodness.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 10:14 AM
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Leaving this one up as there are some decent comments. Should be /r/askMRP material and you should all be rule 11'd but it's a new year, new me.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 04:31 PM
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Moralising
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 04:26 PM
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The question is inherently flawed. No one vision of what a good husband may be is the same from one man to the next. The whole point is for you to figure out what you want. The fact you ask is a clear indication of your mindset or lack thereof. Wanting a nice definition, a clear guide. Something you can understand and try emulate. Something you can LARP. When you get it, you'll realise that only one person gets to define what 'good' is. You'll probably read this and go 'oooh' but no, trust me. Y…
/r/askMRP31/12/21 03:19 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 01:40 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/21 02:31 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 01:10 PM
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The fuck? Who is this we? And why would 'we' hold anyone accountable? Go to a support group if you want accountability.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 05:09 AM
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/r/askMRP for questions
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/21 11:53 PM
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Rule 11
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/21 11:38 PM
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No.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/21 11:35 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/21 06:55 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 11:55 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 11:25 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 11:21 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 11:13 PM
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Cool. This is neat.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 12:32 PM
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Merry Christmas
/r/askMRP20/12/21 12:34 PM
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Heres the deal. If you're gonna call yourself SirOYSalot, you don't get to have another post in /r/askMRP until you post in OYS for at least 6 weeks straight. And if you don't post for 6 weeks straight in OYS, I'll ban you from both subs permanently. You can keep this garbage post, its your last one.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 01:19 PM
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I've not seen you exasperated before. Don't forget you're a mod now. You can ban for stupidity.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 01:13 PM
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Your own fault for having standards.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 01:10 PM
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No shit sherlock
/r/askMRP16/12/21 04:11 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 12:20 AM
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To be fair, he did talk about it from his perspective. His OYS is a hot mess and makes absolutely no sense, but its mostly 'I had, I was lost, I could, I still, I have etc'. It's barely a pass, but I won't ban him for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 12:17 AM
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You've made some good realisations this week. The mental work is far harder than the physical.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 12:11 AM
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I don't care about the wife part Yet you pretty much wrote entirely about her. Look at how you frame things and I even got anal. The good boy was rewarded by his wife. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 12:55 PM
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Baby So the baby has come. I must admit I had a cheeky cry when I saw his head pop out. It's strange - it was nothing I consciously thought of. It just happened. Pure joy, seeing this healthy child emerge. He's been a good little boy, despite the lack of sleep and crying. There really is something special about it. BJJ Grading and club drinks happen once a year. Been looking forward to the club drinks, but the baby had other plans. Came out in the late afternoon the day before both events, one w…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 09:41 AM
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Yup this is bang on. I bought a bunch of new clothes online recently. Picked stuff I know suits me and will look good. Then picked out one shirt that I thought 'hmm maybe I can pull it off' Opened the package and tried it on. Pulled it off. Sometimes though it doesn't work. But always find your edge and push just a touch past it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/21 10:05 AM
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Questions go to /r/askMRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/21 12:13 AM
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Everything is better than I could’ve imagined when I first started OYS. Sex 4x last week First thing you say after 'everything is better' is how many times you had sex. Think about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 07:47 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 07:44 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 07:44 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 07:43 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/21 07:43 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/21 04:01 AM
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Idiot
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/21 11:10 AM
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You didn't understand the rules. Posts need to add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/21 10:06 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 06:22 AM
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I really want to Rule 13 you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 06:21 AM
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Rule 12
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 06:17 AM
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This is shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 02:55 AM
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I have been watching a lot of RP content on youtube the past couple weeks. I have probably watched over 20+ hours. Specifically videos from Rollo, Rich Cooper, and the guys at Fresh and Fit. These videos make me more resentful towards women. Because thats what gets views. Everyone can get on board of the 'lol the womenz are bad, look at how bad they are'. Its an easy message to sell to poor men who feel hard done by. Harder to sell 'women are what they are, you're the bad one'. At least you unde…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 01:16 AM
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respect to rule 13, not trying to overstep, just showing signs of progress Thank you, it is well known I have delicate sensitivities.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:35 PM
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I agree
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:10 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:09 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:05 PM
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Still too much 'she' in this post. Well picked Nostradamus. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/21 11:04 PM
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r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 05:07 AM
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I'll give you credit for one thing. I didn't think you'd last this long here. But a part of me doesn't want to let go of these emotions because I feel like it's giving me drive and motivation. Just remember that when you drink the emotion well dry, your motivation will go along with it. Discipline is where the long-term change is.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 04:48 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/21 01:29 AM
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I believe this relationship section really toes the line of Rule9 You didn't make it. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:46 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:45 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:43 PM
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Thank you for making some of us feel better about how far we’ve come Fucking crabs in a bucket. I should ban you for this.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:26 PM
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Boy do I have an app for him!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:18 PM
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It also helped that /u/threekindsoflucky gave me a hit to the forehead with a crowbar on my FR post to really make me understand what was happening and course correct. Take the value, leave the rest. Glad some people get it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 11:17 PM
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You missed the point. That's fine. Come back and revisit it in a few months.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 12:30 AM
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I was operating in her frame Made the realisation, but still wrote in her frame. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:31 PM
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However, on the drive home, wife starts in on me about how I behaved towards my mother. She knows how I feel about my mother but still needed to get onto me. Held my ground, told wife that is how it's going to be with my mother, and broken record the shit out of that. Lo and behold, wife changed attitude, agreed with me, told me she is on my side. I know this doesn’t sound like a lot, but to me, it was an accomplishment on both accounts. Why the fuck do you care what your wife thinks about this?…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:29 PM
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She knows I’m married and hates me. Still, when asked how she can say that when she likes me so much she responded, Just goes to show that having sex with someone else does not maketh a man with frame. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:27 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:26 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:25 PM
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She has cleaned the house 3 times in the past 2 weeks without me saying anything, which I never have. Prior to this she hadn’t cleaned the house in months. It was all me. I would normally just Rule 9 this. But I'm going to try a strategy of giving a little slack, when I feel like it, to OYS1 posters. I am happy for you that you're seeing responses to your changes. But you are focused on those responses. I did x, she did y, and now I'm pleased with the result. Do you see the error in this equatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 11:05 PM
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which ones? This is more me admitting that since I don't have kids (little bugger is due in two days but won't come out now, will he?) I can't make a decent judgment call on a few of the parenting points, so I'll leave it to those who know better to agree or disagree.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 09:45 PM
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This is a she fest. You're early on, so it's not surprising. You write everything in terms of your wife, what she thinks, how she feels, what she might be doing or thinking. First thing you need to do is learn how to figure out how to write from your own perspective. I, rather than 'she'. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 12:02 PM
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I just hate the idea of straps, if I cant grip it then whats the point of pulling it. This is dumb. You don't deadlift to increase your grip strength. You're gonna stay on the same weight purely because you can't grip it for the full set of reps? You'll happily put yourself in a position where your gains are hampered purely by your grip strength? Get some fucking straps.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 10:42 AM
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This is a quality post. I like how you've kept the focus on rule zero. People may agree or disagree on some of your points, but the overall message is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/21 11:30 PM
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I've had offers from a few other places this year, one only a few weeks ago. They offer significantly higher salary. Equity is also an option for the other places, but not in the same ballpark as my current job. Equity is where real money is made. Salary isn't as appealing to me. I turned them down as I see more potential growth where I am now. My boss said it to me yesterday: "We offer shares to people we see leading this company in the future. That's why we don't just offer shares to anyone." …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 11:27 PM
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He deleted out so the story has ended. Long story short, wife and guy had some issues, wife wanted more kids. They hired a babysitter, he starting banging the babysitter. Got her pregnant, wife took it surprisingly well.
/r/askMRP17/11/21 11:17 PM
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You can call it a field report, but that doesn't make it one.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 11:04 PM
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Days to be assigned to either the gym or BJJ. Ignoring the rest of the garbage in this section, my advice is to lift in the morning, and to do BJJ in the evening. I do BJJ with doms so bad that I can barely stand. And you know what? It fucking hurts when you roll. A lot. So what. You just deal with it like an adult and do it anyway. To be fair though, you probably won't sign up so it doesn't really matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 06:17 AM
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Sex: Your wife is working to improve your sex life, but you're too busy being worried about dumb MRP concepts to just do what you want. I got in the mood quickly, and told her I didn’t want to make love I wanted to fuck. Why? Because its some cool alpha dominant thing to say? There's nothing wrong with 'making love', she clearly wants to feel a connection with you. All I can see here is a wife that's working to do better, and a guy who's head is too far up his ass to take advantage of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 06:08 AM
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Did you catch it? Everything was good except the relationship part. Immediately noted how that was not right, my relationship goal was based on what someone else does for my ego. I value relationships that add value.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 05:58 AM
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I thought it was time to start approaching women to give it a try so over the last few weeks I’ve been chatting with women whilst out and about which was a good start but I need to keep progressing so moving to approaching was the next step for me. First up was a woman in the grocery store who was short but wearing some great black boots and mini skirt to give her height. Nice bod and she looked hot. I approached and said those boots looked great on her. Got a good reaction had a little chat and…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 05:16 AM
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This could've made for a shitty OYS post, or a shitty /r/askMRP post. It doesn't belong here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 03:15 AM
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Even better then.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 03:13 AM
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When out at a bar with my friends there were this group of hot young women sitting a table away from us. I have always been afraid of talking to hot women and just the thought of approaching them made me scared as fuck. I have zero game and need to start work on it. It's not just game you lack. Its mindset. How do you think you learn things? By doing. How do you get better at things? By failing. Ever decided to pick up a trumpet and play it? Notice how you need to first learn the fingerings, the…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/21 02:17 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 11:39 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 11:38 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 11:15 PM
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I'm not saying anyone would ever know or if you even care, just pointing it out in case you didn't know. Fringe benefits tax. I'm about to find out how that works as you're right, I will owe the tax man some dollarydoos of some sort.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 11:10 PM
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Cheers cobber. The really cool bit is it means I had sex with my wife. I mean I didn't want to say it openly, but I was hoping you picked up on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 09:39 AM
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Yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 09:30 AM
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Career Had my performance review today. Hadn't really been thinking about it. Boss and I sat down, looked over the old 'performance review' document. Bunch of goals, bunch of kpi's etc. Both of us glanced at it - its mostly irrelevant. I know how important I am to the company. He knows the same. Looking at a list of goals doesn't change any of it. At this point - the career is a sandbox. There's no longer value in hard KPI's and set targets. Lets chat about some potential strategic goals that'll…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/21 09:22 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/21 11:31 PM
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This is why active dread is a terrible concept. It overloads the hamster. You might need to let it slip to your wife that passive dread is more effective. Hopefully she'll get the hint to switch.
/r/askMRP15/11/21 11:15 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 11:48 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 11:47 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 11:47 PM
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If it was anybody else I would Rule 11, but I just can't do it to you :)
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/21 11:16 PM
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RP says this thing so I must do this thing that RP says. Fucking idiots.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 11:26 PM
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Wish list. Come back in two weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 11:25 PM
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The guy was talking to me about TWOTSM, I suggested he read rational male also. His wife kept mentioning how we both look 5 years younger. His wife asked mine if she considers me an alpha male, she said no. Why write this, why does it fucking matter? Rule whatever number, I don't care - 14 days for writing about shit that doesn't matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 12:17 AM
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Rule 10
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 12:14 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 12:13 AM
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Why can't you shut your damn mouth whenever you talk to your wife? It seems like every time she says anything, you respond with some long ass diatribe trying to show how alpha you are and how much you really don't need her. I imagine a conversation in your house goes like this. 'Can you pass me the coffee?' 'I could pass you the coffee, but really I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who expects coffee to be passed when asked. I want a woman who understands her own worth, who can st…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/21 12:03 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 11:23 PM
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Some might very well tell me “None of that shit matters, Alphalfa. Rule 9! Watch what is done, not what is said.” But without the context, I think what was actually done since the above conversation would not have the relevant context needed. Rule 9. You tried to get around it by saying 'Wife' but its still the same thing. I've heard the 'context' argument so many times.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 11:19 PM
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An empty thread. To be fair its better than most posts on here. Edit: Just checked your post history, you're spamming this shit on a bunch of boards. No value added.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 07:43 AM
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/r/askMRP
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/21 01:03 AM
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I need to STFU more. I'm better at it than I was, but I still have a long way to go. I talk for a living, so I need to remember to shut that off when I go home at night. My default has always been verbal diarrhea, and I would fill any void in conversation with chatter. There's nothing wrong with talking. It's what you talk about that matters. If you're dumping feels, stress, worries all over your wife, that is dumb and you should stop. If you're just talking about things in general, that is fine…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/21 12:42 AM
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Wife has sex with husband. What a shocking turn of events. This is garbage even for askMRP.
/r/askMRP05/11/21 12:06 AM
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I'd rather read an honest OYS like that instead of something fake. Agreed. It's raw and ugly. But it's the unvarnished truth 'at the moment'. Sometimes the only way to move on is to break it down and rebuild.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 11:23 PM
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We're not here to make decisions for you.
/r/askMRP04/11/21 10:20 PM
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Labelled a section as About me: And then instantly talked about someone else. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 02:45 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 02:43 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/21 02:41 AM
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I'm not going into any details for 3KL's sake, but it was great. FYI you can provide some detail, I just don't want to read that she slurped your cock with enthusiasm or whatever other bullshit people write. The main point you're trying to make is that you tried something new and it went well. That's the important part. Action is good. When I have a win, I think great that's the problem solved and am then disappointed when it's still not plane sailing There are going to be ups and downs. Changin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 12:43 PM
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I didn’t have a comeback for that, so I didn’t say anything but held her close The lack of congruence is palpable. Did I want to build her comfort with being naked and sexy around me without the pressure to have sex. Yes. You wanted to have sex with her, but instead of admitting that you failed, it's nicer for your ego to pretend it's about building comfort. Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 12:36 PM
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Nearly Rule 9 worthy, this is your warning. Yup. I was close to a ban, but I was vaguely curious to see where he goes with this next week.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 12:33 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/21 11:37 AM
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You're retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/21 09:48 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:31 PM
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Congratulations. You made it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/21 11:12 PM
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I can piss further than both of you.
/r/askMRP28/10/21 12:36 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 11:21 PM
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I've missed you.
/r/askMRP27/10/21 10:14 PM
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Stick to TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/21 01:11 AM
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I will finish BOP this week. I will research this week this week I will map I will set one night I am going to set a goal Look at all that future tense. OYS isn't about what you 'will' do, its about what you 'have' done. Two weeks should be long enough for you to put the future tense into present tense.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 11:48 PM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 11:14 PM
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This isn't a field report. This is a 'she' riddled mess. Removed.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 11:03 PM
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I'm quite confused. If I follow the advice here sex goes up, quality goes up, my libido goes down, my motivation on self-improvement goes up and my relationship becomes emotionally more unstable (more like 2 people who met each other for the first time and go rough and instinctively). If I go back to my old self, sex goes down, quality goes down, my libido goes up, my motivation goes down and my relationship becomes more stable (more like a standard marriage with a lot of sweet and love words). …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:24 AM
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Cool. Someone focusing on one thing properly. Personally, I would include some 'break' time in between your big chunks. I'm all for improving time usage, but too much at once is unlikely to be sustainable. You're not your own tyrant. Knowing you're about to do an hour solid of work is fine, but also knowing you're gonna relax for 5 minutes at the end of it will help keep you focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:19 AM
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I am almost disappointed that it worked because it was probably self sabotage and covert contracts that pushed me to do it and it didn’t back fire like it should have. This is some pretty shit reflection. I forgot to do the work Not for 2 weeks or so. I wouldn’t fuck me either tbh so who is counting anyway. You are. Have some self worth. the work Ordered new skincare products because for the first time in my life I look older than my age. Ordered new clothes after I found some new styles on pint…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:09 AM
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Rule 9
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:05 AM
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wife: SAHM 32, together 9 years, married 7 years, 2 kids (5 and 2) Tell me why this matters. Actually don't. You're Rule 9'd anyway for your focus on your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:04 AM
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When we were fucking I told her that she’s not allowed to cum and that I owned her pussy. She responded with moans of pleasure. I told her she loves daddy’s cock. She moaned some more and said “yes daddy”. I pulled out and came all over her waiting tongue. You had sex. That's great. Here is a ban for making me read about it in detail.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:00 AM
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An example of how you can be 'Owning your shit' for a long time and still be spinning wheels.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 02:00 AM
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The only correct response.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 11:12 PM
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Post to Christian RP sub.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 10:39 PM
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OYS reads like relationship advice. No one is blazing their own trail. Everyone is just 'reporting in'. Compare this week's OYS thread to any OYS thread 2+ years old and it's a night and day difference. I don't see any of the current crop making it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 01:02 PM
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Nah I'm pulling the plug. It's like talking to a 5 year old. Why daddy? But why? But why?
/r/askMRP21/10/21 11:01 PM
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Stop trying so hard to fit your entire relationship into the RP lens. You're overthinking this shit. Either it's a deal breaker for you, or it isn't. You get to decide that, not us.
/r/askMRP21/10/21 06:10 AM
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I remember my first girlfriend as a teenager...
/r/askMRP21/10/21 06:00 AM
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Guy sucks and doesn't deserve any advice. Locking.
/r/askMRP21/10/21 12:34 AM
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Idiot.
/r/askMRP21/10/21 12:33 AM
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But a captain viewing the efficacy of his leadership based on FO (and crew) behavior is not without value. You can explain it however you like. The section in a nutshell is - Look at how my wife's responses have changed. It's so much better than it used to be. Tell me, what part of her responses to your changes are important to your changes? Is it how she responds? Is it because you like those responses? Would those responses change your behavior?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 11:57 PM
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To be fair it wasn't egregious.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 11:58 AM
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It sure does.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:22 AM
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You've been saying this for weeks. You're not going to get another warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:11 AM
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Enough about her reactions to things that you do. I don't care. It doesn't matter. OYS is supposed to be about you, not about this bullshit. This is a warning shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:08 AM
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No. You don't get shit. This is a warning shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:07 AM
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Relationship This is about your girlfriend. I don't see anything about you. Family Mostly focused on a third party.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:06 AM
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DIVORCE/ROMANCE This entire section is pretty much about her. Consider this a warning shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:04 AM
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[Disclaimer, I have to use quite a lot of she/her] And why is that? This is a warning shot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/21 12:03 AM
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You talk about your wife too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/21 11:56 PM
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