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I’m a feminist as hell and a lot of women still have this mindset that, “I can fix him”. No, you can’t sis, and when the man fumbles they act so surprised and traumatized. But shaming them into their mistakes won’t make them learn and make actual changes for themselves. It takes a while to know your worth and stick to your values. Self love is very important because if you fail to find your constant, atleast you are constantly committed to enrich yourself internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:38 PM
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Bro, why don’t you conservative Barnies marry Pearl Davis? That woman is craving for your attention by hating the rest of her gender. She is that girl who is conservative, will have your babies and will bend for the patriarchy. I am surprised Elon Musk haven’t planted his seen on her. Got it. Pearl is too easy and too ugly for conservative men. Conservative men want women who don’t want and need them. So you’re out here pandering on women who can’t find any single benefit in dating, marrying and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:34 AM
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<image> Can’t see your comment. My engagement ring is to bright for me to see your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:17 PM
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Sorry it’s not me you’re smelling. Maybe it’s your own projections in life. I’m not here seeking a rich handsome men online when I know where are my limitations and happy around it. Maybe you guys get together? Coz not everyone whose criticizing the red pill movement are miserable fat single women in their 30s with blue hair, piercings and has 10 cats. A lot of us here are high earning college professionals, married or engaged, with a normal BMI and less than 3 body counts. I think a lot of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:08 PM
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I believe I am morally superior actually. I don’t let people weaponize their incompetence against me. Not really insecure or resentful. Maybe the only things I resent is patriarchy and capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:42 PM
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Dude stop taking out surveys from your ass and claim it’s from CDC. You can’t fool someone who has a healthcare degree who has spent years doing research here. Here are the REAL facts from CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db508.htm NCHS Data Brief No. 508, September 2024 PDF Version (454 KB) Samuel D. Emmerich, D.V.M., Cheryl D. Fryar, M.S.P.H., Bryan Stierman, M.D., M.P.H., and Cynthia L. Ogden, Ph.D., M.R.P. <image> Yes there is more prevalence of obesity in the US in women mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:40 PM
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Okay. Just like a regular girl. I don’t care about perfumes hun. That doesn’t mask the body odor. Most of the blue pilled women here are not miserable 30-somethings who are fat and reeking with acne. In fact, we take care of ourselves a lot and we have partners. We just have supportive male partners who truly love and respect us for who we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:45 PM
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A lot of men think they are desirable when I can smell their body odor through the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:32 PM
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It’s because when people are depressed, they cope with whatever is accessible to them and for most working class, the most accessible is FOOD! When you’re stressed and anxious, you are more likely on a hunched position, you curl your abdominal muscles and it becomes painful thinking you’re just hungry so you eat. Most of the working class have no access to wellness therapies. In fact, some people with mental health issues have already sought mental health services in the past but also worried ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:53 PM
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You’re not reading my post very well. Psychologists are not allowed to prescribe psyche meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:46 PM
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Dude, therapy is just an ADJUNCTIVE THERAPY for mental health problems. If you want to medically treat psychiatric issues, you go to the doctor that specializes in psychiatric problems which is a guess what? PSYCHIATRIST! There you get prescribed medications that will help you and eventually you will have more motivation to choose healthy choices like diet, exercise, deep breathing and self-care. This is the exact same thing that I did. I did courses of therapy and anti-depressants, and eventual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:57 AM
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When I got depressed the first time my BMI is 24. Depression doesn’t hit fat women only. If that’s the case, then there will be no suicide cases in Japanese and Korean women who are majority skinny at fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:51 AM
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Not really. Sorry I’m a millennial and a little bit late bloomer and old school so I don’t really rate people on physical appearance etc. We’re more particular on facial characteristics. I myself are attracted to East Asian looking men but not necessarily buff. I have big eyes and browner skin so I want a guy who has yellow pale skin and small eyes. Job wise, of course most college grads regardless of gender will date another college grad, especially those who have profitable professions. Most f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:33 AM
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The boyfriend before or during college only works if you’re conventionally pretty in your country. If not, the job will help you afford better skincare products, derma visits, buy your own clothes and no more hand-me-downs, gym memberships and premium dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:12 AM
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Normal women in real life that social media doesn't show you: College ---> getting a job ---> having a boyfriend ---> getting married ---> grow old together ---> die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:07 AM
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As someone who has an A cup, we get the real tits as we get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:18 AM
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I used to live in the Philippines. When I like a boy I really tell them how much I like them. Then they reject me for another prettier girl. Most Filipino men like fair skinned girls and I have a dark skin. Eventually, when I moved to the US, I got a job and took care of myself, I met my first boyfriend. We met one summer in a major concert. I really like him and I can’t take off my mind outta him. I wanna tell him I like him but I now got scared this time to tell as I might be out of his league…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:09 PM
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You put a “Question for Women” flair but you don’t want women who didn’t engage in hookup culture give their takes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:00 AM
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I used to approach men I like when I was younger but I always get rejected coz men find it repulsive when a woman pursues a man. So I stopped chasing men. Eventually I got the men that I liked, they are the ones chasing me. But the moment I pursue them back, they push away. My fiance is different tho, he pursues me, I pursue him too. Mature adult relationships should be okay with pursuing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:51 PM
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I don't deserve a 6 foot tall, 7 figure paycheck and 8 inch dingaling man. Because I never wished any of those kinds of men. A lot of us average women don't want those kinds of men. We just want average men who can help with the bills, chores, kids and just basically life. Average men with well balanced emotions, not just the masculine ones. Same as women. We can't be feminine and meek all the time. Sometimes we need to show anger, rage, aggression and assertiveness when needed. We just want a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:52 AM
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I thought intersectional feminism means including Black, trans and queer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:51 AM
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I hope your girl reads this and dumps you coz you seem to be an asshole exploiting SEA women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:42 PM
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Good thing USCIS doesn't make you do so. You choose, career and money or pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:11 PM
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Well looks like you need to find a western woman and stop wasting my fellow SEA woman's time. She deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:07 PM
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Dude wants to bring her Southeast Asian girl to the US without marrying her because he wants to fuck her but doesn't want to commit to her. I avoid these kinds of men at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:00 PM
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I’m a leftist and I’m not on threads. I’m here in Reddit of course. If Elon who lacks attention, vitamins and slap from her mama bought this place, I’m outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:24 AM
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Physical: Nerdy guy. Not muscular but eats pretty much healthy food. No vices. Has a nice good skincare routine and hygiene. Very good at matching clothes and colors. Wears clothes properly and fashionably. Quiet person but talks with substance. Doesn’t earn a lot, but doing what he loves and has a good credit score and has savings. Practical. Would rather drive a Honda or Toyota than an expensive-ass car that needs a lot of maintenance or wear and tear easily. Always makes his research when buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:22 AM
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Most of my girlfriends never dated those kinds of guys. I’m getting married to a 5’8” nerdy Asian guy who works in IT, my friend is married to a man who is shorter than me (I’m 5’3”) working as a cruise ship nurse, my best friend is married to a nerdy British guy who works in IT, and one is married to a US Navy retiree who’s not that tall just around 5’7. We all have crushes or someone we admire from the opposite sex. But to marry them in real life is not always sustainable. I find it unhinged w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:15 AM
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My ideal guy is an Asian (coz I’m Asian and I only date within the culture) nerd with sunglasses. Not muscular, but with clear skin because he has a good skin care routine, smells good because he showers everyday and not wearing too strong perfume, not rich but has a 800+ credit score, a college graduate (coz I’m a college graduate too); and has a stable job where they can share the bills at home, house chores and childcare. I got what I wanted and I never settled with a muscular chad whose a fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:05 AM
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Men on online dating are disgusting AF. The moment you start talking to them, they will ask you how many times you want to have sex. They don't even care where do I live, what do I do for living and what do I do during free time. They want sex. All they ever want to talk about is sex. They think fucking with me is they greatest rizz they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:23 AM
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Nobody should depend their worth on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:20 AM
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Women get rejected at jobs too. Just because I’m a woman does not I can get hired automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:15 AM
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I have been applying part-time jobs on indeed for months and still, no one is hiring me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 PM
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I think he is just being a troll or this account is created by a 15 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:16 PM
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Oh no. It’s not just a sob story. Can you imagine if you’re a 12-year old girl, a man comes to you and rubs his balls on your shoulder. What would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:19 PM
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I’m a cultural Marxist and I wouldn’t even vote for Kamala. Cultural Marxists vote for Jill Stein, the leader of Green Party. The party of free healthcare, free education, free housing, abortion and LGBTQ rights, abolish patriarchy and most of all abolish capitalism. Democrats are republican light.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:41 AM
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I choose the right men but I still don’t like vapid incels like you. But you know what makes me hate a lot of men? Strangers. Men who still catcall me even if I wear Michellin-tire like sweats and usually very modest clothing. A man whom I caught masturbating in the staircase in front of the girl’s dormitory while I’m the outside study area. A man who rubbed his crotch on my shoulder while me and my mom are riding the bus when I was 12. FUCKING TWELVE YEARS OLD!!! I don’t have to have experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:34 AM
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South Korea has been giving us a lot of soft power recently. From K-Pop, to K-drama, to K-Beauty and now The 4B Movement. You don’t understand what this country holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:35 AM
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He is an Asian who doesn’t use a belt and his pants are sliding down. Like, bruh why you’re trying to be a Black person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:00 AM
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Born and raised in the Philippines, our country has no divorce and we have the highest poverty and teenage pregnancy rate. Yes not all foreigners are bad some are actually nice. But I also met and watched in the local news about several foreigners who are dating Filipina women and were also involved into sex trafficking. Plus not all of us agree with flocking of passport bros in our country as it’s causing the cost of living to increase for the locals and most of them fetishize our culture expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:20 AM
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A lot of locals I know hate it actually. They raise the cost of living and just gentrifying the area. I remember that Tweet from that white guy advertising Palawan and Siargao in the Philippines. Yeah sure it’s cheaper to live there but it will eventually raise the cost of living in the province that will make the locals eat almost nothing but shit after they get devastated by several typhoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:54 PM
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Another thing about passport bros is they increase the cost of living in the areas where people can’t even afford to eat. As someone who was born and raised in the Philippines, we hate passport bros. It’s makes everything expensive for us plus most of them are ignorant of the culture and socio-political issues that keeps most of us in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:51 PM
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Unpopular opinion but passport bros are mostly evil. Most of them go to corrupt third world countries, capitalize the corruption of that country’s government and lack of political will to enforce laws to fuck poor teenagers who have to do prostitution due to extreme poverty. They even go to the craziest lengths by going to underground prostitution dens where they auction kids and teens for sex. These people claimed women are after them and flexing they had very high body counts after going to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:32 AM
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The reason why divorce rates are low between a foreigner and a westerner especially with an Asian woman like me is because women in our countries are being frowned upon when they file for divorce. Most of all, my home country (Philippines) is the only country in the world left that has no divorce aside from Vatican City. Most of us have to stick to our abusive partners because the lack of laws and our Judeo-Christian society that demonizes divorce. This is aside from the fact that we are raised …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:57 AM
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As a Southeat Asian woman the only standard that most of us have is if you can help them migrate to your home country. Doesn’t matter what you look like and how much money you got. If you can give them a green card, you is ok 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:17 AM
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May I know how much is your body count? Coz I hate it when men demand women to have low body counts when they also insert their dicks in any hole they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:11 PM
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Hospitals are totally abuzz with nurses who spend most of their waking time there and the rest of the week recuperating. They're in no shape to date. What part of your sigmoid colon did you get this statement? I am a nurse and I opened a dating app 5 years ago where I met my life partner. I met a lot of men on the dating apps this is despite that I work 36 hours a week, I travel to two states every 2 weeks and I still go to the gym and do home workouts. You need to find a girl who matches your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:40 PM
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I agree on this one. We actually have a term for men like this in the Philippines. They are called AFAM - A Foreigner Assigned in Manila. These AFAMs go halfway around the world to find a woman who can’t find a way to get the hell out of our shitty poverty-stricken country. We are also pretty conservative and traditional. When I went home to the Philippines last year, me and my partner stayed in a hotel near a famous red light district and there are so many western men with old god knows if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:43 AM
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My mother told my brother when we were teens not to focus on things that you cannot change like height, nose, eyes etc. (genetic stuff) but focus on things like hygiene, fragrance, wearing fashionable clothes, breath, cleanliness, honing your talents, sense of humor and personality. Unfortunately, my brother really has an awful behavior. He was very insecure because he is in the middle of two sisters so he wants to take the lead but he is just #2 despite being a man. Our eldest sibling (sister) …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:47 AM
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Unfortunately, the best thing to do is to wait for that person that matches your ratings to come to you which is going to take a while. Relationships are not just face value. I know plenty of people who “married down” a parter who is less aesthetically pleasing and they have been married for years. This is why you see people like Kim K or Ariana Granda date someone like Pete Davidson. Coz sometimes they want personality, substance and sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:54 AM
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Then what’s the problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:26 PM
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It’s seems like you’re between 4/10 and below and you want to reach the mid girls. Now I know why y’all single. Y’all looking for someone that is out of your leagues as simple as that. I’m not really a fan of rating people. Sounds like Booking.com to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:53 AM
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I always believe you can’t have everything in this world. I never wanted the guys I watch on K-Dramas like this rich, handsome CEO who will take me to expensive dates. Usually they are assholes. I always believe that you will see the true personality of a person when you give them money or power and most of them when they have both they think they can buy anyone. I’m just an average looking girl who has a regular nursing job at a hospital and I don’t think doctors are something I would love to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:40 AM
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And this why both of you are single. Because y’all trying to achieve the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 AM
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Uhm food is different from sex. You’re not gonna die virgin for the rest of your life and you can die without eating. I don’t wanna say you’re stupid but you’re making me say it. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:05 AM
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Why these terms sounds like they are trading stocks? Are humans a business now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:01 AM
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People with kids with their past relationship/marriage is a no-no for me in general. I have a friend who has a kid from her ex and now engaged to a guy who was divorced and has kids with the ex. She always complains to us the ex-wife as she receives alimony and child support from her partner and it's making him hard to participate with their finances. Since then I stayed away from men who have kids and an ex-wife. They are just a lot of stress and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:45 AM
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Not really shit. If you can't be happy without sex then sad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:22 AM
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Uhm I'm not basing my life on what I see on the internet everyday. I don't treat people online as if they are showcasing their true selves online. What they are happy on social media but in reality they're not. And if they do it's not my business and I just focus on my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:20 AM
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Let me guess, you’re willing to give up your wife over a younger and hotter woman if you have a chance to attract one. Because that’s what you’re giving. You’re just basing your marriage on superficial things like physique and sexual needs and no more basic respect, compassion and empathy with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:14 PM
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Sorry I can relate to hypersexual people. We can’t just fuck everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:08 PM
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Dude you are just trying to make me feel miserable over a life that I am grateful for. If you don’t want men to be generalized, allow your gender to be different from your individuality. Same as women. I am different from other women but as much as possible I wouldn’t bring them down especially if they are not hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:07 PM
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Thanks for stalking me. Must be a Filipino hahahaha yes, you are the gago who wants me to keep in touch with my ex even if I don’t want to because social media is trash and it alters your reality instead of just living life to the fullest and intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:05 PM
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Dude, if you think food and sex have the same physiologic effects I think you need to go back to your basic anatomy and physiology class. You can die if you don’t eat anything at all for two weeks. You’ll still gonna be alive and functioning well if you can’t have sex for two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:02 PM
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Bedrooms are becoming deadlier because y’all keep doing it so many times until you get tired of it to the point that it becomes a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:54 PM
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Sex is more pleasurable when you don’t do it a lot. It makes you miss each other’s bodies. Will you eat at a buffet when you just ate???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:52 PM
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And this is why most people here online can only get fucked but can never be kept. People here online need to stop complaining about each other when they chose to date people based on looks, wealth and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:50 PM
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I’m actually dating a nerdy and introverted guy for 5 years now and I have dated men who are not conventionally handsome too. This man I have been dating for so long had been with me in my ups and downs. I gained a lot of weight until I become borderline obese. I was so scared that he will lose attraction. Weight loss is so depressing as I only based on the superficial reasons as to why I’m losing weight like keeping my man physically attractive to me etc. But when made a change just for myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:47 PM
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Not everyone who use antidepressants are actually depressed. Some who are using it in conjunction to opioid pain medications so they can have less dependence. I’m on Sertraline but it’s not for depression and just for anxiety. I work as a nurse and it gives me a lot of stress and anxiety. I thought I would gain weight with this meds but it actually made me lose a lot of weight. It helps me with my weight loss journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:33 PM
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Jesus Fucking Christ, sex ain’t shit! It’s nice to have it once or twice a month but everyday? You’ll get tired istg. There’s more to life than sex like talking about different topics under the sun and being kind and respectful with each other. And there’s more other physical touches that are intimate without the use of genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:28 PM
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I’m sorry if you feel that way. We are all vulnerable to fakery and grift. But we can’t just sabotage our own happiness and potential but always acting on a defense mode. I think most our problems come from the fear of being vulnerable, especially men. It’s always an imbalance of vulnerability and invincibility when you can actually be in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:18 PM
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But we also have other five senses, hearing, smell, taste and touch. If sight is the only sense that matters to attract a lifetime partner, I should feel sorry for the blind I guess. Most of the people nowadays depend on the internet in choosing their bf/gfs and the worse is our expectations are so high when the online world can be manufactured and manipulated and it’s sad that it affects our perception of the real world. I remember the time when I believe the hairs in shampoo commercials are po…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:13 PM
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Majority of the people I know personally met in school, workplace or they live within the city. Proximity is also a factor. Relationships from opposite sides of the world are difficult and filled with trust issues where needs can’t be fulfilled too soon. I always wonder where these people get the statistics from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:59 PM
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This comment is why I posted this opinion. You forgot to quote my main point here — treating people like humans first before something else. Don’t you think you will find an everlasting happiness in life if you are just focused on superficial characters of a person like beauty, body, wealth and status? All of these can go away. In example, since you’re a male you said you get attracted to women who are thin and submissive. But human bodies change in the long run. Once women give birth they gain …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:52 PM
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