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I’m a feminist as hell and a lot of women still have this mindset that, “I can fix him”. No, you can’t sis, and when the man fumbles they act so surprised and traumatized. But shaming them into their mistakes won’t make them learn and make actual changes for themselves. It takes a while to know your worth and stick to your values. Self love is very important because if you fail to find your constant, atleast you are constantly committed to enrich yourself internally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:38 PM
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Bro, why don’t you conservative Barnies marry Pearl Davis? That woman is craving for your attention by hating the rest of her gender. She is that girl who is conservative, will have your babies and will bend for the patriarchy. I am surprised Elon Musk haven’t planted his seen on her. Got it. Pearl is too easy and too ugly for conservative men. Conservative men want women who don’t want and need them. So you’re out here pandering on women who can’t find any single benefit in dating, marrying and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:34 AM
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My fingers are not fat. In fact, the ring is too loose I have to buy a ring adjuster on Amazon. Instead of being happy for a person who finally found true love and being well taken care of, you look for something to criticize like my “fat” fingers. So who’s really insecure here? Me of you men who can’t arouse a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:50 AM
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Then where's that CDC link coz I went to the CDC website and can't find anything that does not include overweight people? Yes, you are talking to a bright person who studied nursing and research for 4 years and you are not in a very good position to question my intelligence. How does it feel when women wield the same power men yield to women all the time? BTW, I didn't grew up here so I don't see myself as a modern American woman that most RP men hate. But I'm trying to break free from religious…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:53 AM
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Anyways, not my culture. I still eat a lot of Filipino foods and I rarely eat foods most white women eat. I think I am more likely to be overweight and obese because I tend to eat ethnic foods. I still prefer eating lechon and kare-kare over a piece of boring salmon and salad. Just decolonizing myself and being true to my Filipino heritage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:42 AM
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Alright I'm done. I am meant to lose this debate because you're deliberately cherrypicking and gaslighting me in this debate. I am not here to win debates but to study society and understand dark thinking of conservative Christian and autocratic societies. And my inference is that men who subscribe to patriarchal and conservative values will do dirty tricks to make them look themselves right and make anyone submit to them. It is very obvious that you didn't read my reply as it's stated there tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:40 AM
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<image> Can’t see your comment. My engagement ring is to bright for me to see your comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:17 PM
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Adults only conversation, btw. Skibidi kids not allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:15 PM
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Sorry it’s not me you’re smelling. Maybe it’s your own projections in life. I’m not here seeking a rich handsome men online when I know where are my limitations and happy around it. Maybe you guys get together? Coz not everyone whose criticizing the red pill movement are miserable fat single women in their 30s with blue hair, piercings and has 10 cats. A lot of us here are high earning college professionals, married or engaged, with a normal BMI and less than 3 body counts. I think a lot of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 09:08 PM
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I believe I am morally superior actually. I don’t let people weaponize their incompetence against me. Not really insecure or resentful. Maybe the only things I resent is patriarchy and capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:42 PM
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Dude stop taking out surveys from your ass and claim it’s from CDC. You can’t fool someone who has a healthcare degree who has spent years doing research here. Here are the REAL facts from CDC: https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/products/databriefs/db508.htm NCHS Data Brief No. 508, September 2024 PDF Version (454 KB) Samuel D. Emmerich, D.V.M., Cheryl D. Fryar, M.S.P.H., Bryan Stierman, M.D., M.P.H., and Cynthia L. Ogden, Ph.D., M.R.P. <image> Yes there is more prevalence of obesity in the US in women mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 08:40 PM
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Not me. I just hate mean men on the internet who devalue people based on their body counts or BMI. Like don’t you guys know anything about basic respect and decency? I get that some women are really bad but let’s begin there and you’ll see where most feminists are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:52 PM
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If it’s mild and not making any behavioral symptoms they should have just did non-pharmaceutical approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:50 PM
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That’s already expensive for me. During that time, I live in Sacramento and newly migrated so I am not yet incline to American diets yet. So our food is way more expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:48 PM
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Okay. Just like a regular girl. I don’t care about perfumes hun. That doesn’t mask the body odor. Most of the blue pilled women here are not miserable 30-somethings who are fat and reeking with acne. In fact, we take care of ourselves a lot and we have partners. We just have supportive male partners who truly love and respect us for who we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 07:45 PM
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A lot of men think they are desirable when I can smell their body odor through the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:32 PM
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When I was earning $12/hour working as a CNA, that’s shit’s expensive already for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:27 PM
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Do you have ADHD just like me? Lucky you. We can’t access those when I was a teen in the Philippines. They thought I am just a weird girl who’s having daddy issues (my parents were separated but I have a very good relationship with my father). Have you tried CBT? I wanna do those actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:21 PM
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I agree with you. I don’t eat ultra processed food and just eating clean most of the time. I also go to the gym 3x/day and lost some weight. But I also understand that not everyone has access to clean and organic foods. I was only able to afford this because I am a nurse who is earning $80/hour in California (I used to work in a psyche unit so I have a lot of experience and expertise in patients with mental health issues). But for others who earn less but gets the same amount of stress like me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:17 PM
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It’s because when people are depressed, they cope with whatever is accessible to them and for most working class, the most accessible is FOOD! When you’re stressed and anxious, you are more likely on a hunched position, you curl your abdominal muscles and it becomes painful thinking you’re just hungry so you eat. Most of the working class have no access to wellness therapies. In fact, some people with mental health issues have already sought mental health services in the past but also worried ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:53 PM
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You’re not reading my post very well. Psychologists are not allowed to prescribe psyche meds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:46 PM
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Dude, therapy is just an ADJUNCTIVE THERAPY for mental health problems. If you want to medically treat psychiatric issues, you go to the doctor that specializes in psychiatric problems which is a guess what? PSYCHIATRIST! There you get prescribed medications that will help you and eventually you will have more motivation to choose healthy choices like diet, exercise, deep breathing and self-care. This is the exact same thing that I did. I did courses of therapy and anti-depressants, and eventual…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:57 AM
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When I got depressed the first time my BMI is 24. Depression doesn’t hit fat women only. If that’s the case, then there will be no suicide cases in Japanese and Korean women who are majority skinny at fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:51 AM
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Not really. Sorry I’m a millennial and a little bit late bloomer and old school so I don’t really rate people on physical appearance etc. We’re more particular on facial characteristics. I myself are attracted to East Asian looking men but not necessarily buff. I have big eyes and browner skin so I want a guy who has yellow pale skin and small eyes. Job wise, of course most college grads regardless of gender will date another college grad, especially those who have profitable professions. Most f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 09:33 AM
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The boyfriend before or during college only works if you’re conventionally pretty in your country. If not, the job will help you afford better skincare products, derma visits, buy your own clothes and no more hand-me-downs, gym memberships and premium dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 07:12 AM
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Normal women in real life that social media doesn't show you: College ---> getting a job ---> having a boyfriend ---> getting married ---> grow old together ---> die
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:07 AM
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As someone who has an A cup, we get the real tits as we get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:18 AM
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I used to live in the Philippines. When I like a boy I really tell them how much I like them. Then they reject me for another prettier girl. Most Filipino men like fair skinned girls and I have a dark skin. Eventually, when I moved to the US, I got a job and took care of myself, I met my first boyfriend. We met one summer in a major concert. I really like him and I can’t take off my mind outta him. I wanna tell him I like him but I now got scared this time to tell as I might be out of his league…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:09 PM
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You put a “Question for Women” flair but you don’t want women who didn’t engage in hookup culture give their takes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 02:00 AM
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I used to approach men I like when I was younger but I always get rejected coz men find it repulsive when a woman pursues a man. So I stopped chasing men. Eventually I got the men that I liked, they are the ones chasing me. But the moment I pursue them back, they push away. My fiance is different tho, he pursues me, I pursue him too. Mature adult relationships should be okay with pursuing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:51 PM
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And men can be drama queens too. Check out the male gamer streamers who just break their keyboards everytime they lose. I remember those DOTA players in computer cafe’s yelling and cursing when they play. It’s always a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:23 PM
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You can be meek but not all the time. I think people are having a hard time to regulate their emotions, especially the younger generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:19 PM
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I think the reason why men in the west are having a hard time getting a woman these days because a lot of woman are leaving religion all together. Most of the men complaining they can’t find a feminine woman are men who grew up in conservative Christian families where they are being taught that women should submit to their husband, do the cooking, cleaning, take care of the kids, give sex when the husband wants it, have all the children he wants etc. This is not the norm in other countries that …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:18 PM
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Are women opening legs for all the men they see? Uh hell no. Same as men. Not everyone fucks with everyone they see and they all need to have the same judgement. Us millennials don’t have a problem with getting relationships. It’s probably because we seek people within our circle and we just get it. Meanwhile younger generations don’t have that avenue to make friends that could be potential partners. They all rely on online dating and social media that skews the perception of reality for everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 08:13 PM
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Really? A video from some podcaster? Of course podcasts have an agenda that birth rates are declining and all that stuff. You keep blaming for not fucking with average men (which is not true we date average men but not average people want to have kids) y’all forget the main culprit here — Capitalism. Capitalists only care about declining birth rates because it’s less workers for them that they can exploit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:09 PM
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Depends on where you live. Western feminism it’s probably applicable and most feminists only criticize the post war “trad wife” Christian nationalism concept which is not traditional at all because it was never really like that before World War II. From my country where I grew up historically society is more matriarchal. Women lead the family, were tribal warriors and also lead the governments. It only changed when Europeans came and shoved their patriarchal Christian/Catholic religion up in our…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:06 PM
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Actually men and women paired equally if we are going to trace its traditional roots. Marriage and relationships is not as individualistic as it was before. Parents pair their children to children of their likeminded people. Rich and attractive men get paired with a rich and pretty girl. Meanwhile if you don’t fit the standard, then you have no choice to settle for a fellow commoner like you. A lot of people here in this sub are delusional and always feel everyone deserves the Adonises and Aphro…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 07:03 AM
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I don't deserve a 6 foot tall, 7 figure paycheck and 8 inch dingaling man. Because I never wished any of those kinds of men. A lot of us average women don't want those kinds of men. We just want average men who can help with the bills, chores, kids and just basically life. Average men with well balanced emotions, not just the masculine ones. Same as women. We can't be feminine and meek all the time. Sometimes we need to show anger, rage, aggression and assertiveness when needed. We just want a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 05:52 AM
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I thought intersectional feminism means including Black, trans and queer women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:51 AM
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I hope your girl reads this and dumps you coz you seem to be an asshole exploiting SEA women for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:42 PM
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Good thing USCIS doesn't make you do so. You choose, career and money or pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:11 PM
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Well looks like you need to find a western woman and stop wasting my fellow SEA woman's time. She deserves better.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:07 PM
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Dude wants to bring her Southeast Asian girl to the US without marrying her because he wants to fuck her but doesn't want to commit to her. I avoid these kinds of men at all cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 11:00 PM
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I am not absolving the conversation actually. I think this loophole is an opportunity to seek power imbalance and divide amongst classes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:29 AM
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I’m a leftist and I’m not on threads. I’m here in Reddit of course. If Elon who lacks attention, vitamins and slap from her mama bought this place, I’m outta here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:24 AM
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Physical: Nerdy guy. Not muscular but eats pretty much healthy food. No vices. Has a nice good skincare routine and hygiene. Very good at matching clothes and colors. Wears clothes properly and fashionably. Quiet person but talks with substance. Doesn’t earn a lot, but doing what he loves and has a good credit score and has savings. Practical. Would rather drive a Honda or Toyota than an expensive-ass car that needs a lot of maintenance or wear and tear easily. Always makes his research when buy…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:22 AM
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I don’t agree with quotas tho. Not every feminist agrees with it. But I understand where some people are coming from. It’s probably because they want to eliminate stereotypes in job positions that are tied to gender roles. Like example, nurses. Nursing was a female dominated field in the past and male nurses are always being emasculated and shamed for doing feminine jobs. So they used to have quotas in some places where they will hire male nurses to match the quota. So now we have big guys worki…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 08:11 AM
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You gotta tell her so you won’t give her a sexually transmitted disease. Atleast she is aware you’re fucking another person and there’s risk that you might catch it and give it to her and you need to get tested before fucking with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:43 AM
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As someone who was involved in job interviews and hiring selection process, we do not have DEI quotas. We have a DEI committee where I was also a member only for celebrating cultural differences of our employees (ex. Celebrating Filipino American History month etc.) but we are not involved in the hiring process. We choose people that will carry the mission and vision of our company. We will hire them regardless of their gender and their qualifications. Yes, I’m playing fool because you guys are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:21 AM
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Most of my girlfriends never dated those kinds of guys. I’m getting married to a 5’8” nerdy Asian guy who works in IT, my friend is married to a man who is shorter than me (I’m 5’3”) working as a cruise ship nurse, my best friend is married to a nerdy British guy who works in IT, and one is married to a US Navy retiree who’s not that tall just around 5’7. We all have crushes or someone we admire from the opposite sex. But to marry them in real life is not always sustainable. I find it unhinged w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:15 AM
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My ideal guy is an Asian (coz I’m Asian and I only date within the culture) nerd with sunglasses. Not muscular, but with clear skin because he has a good skin care routine, smells good because he showers everyday and not wearing too strong perfume, not rich but has a 800+ credit score, a college graduate (coz I’m a college graduate too); and has a stable job where they can share the bills at home, house chores and childcare. I got what I wanted and I never settled with a muscular chad whose a fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:05 AM
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Okay next time if I get a job, I’m not gonna send resume. I’ll just show my pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:38 PM
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I’m a feminist but introvert. And of course I married a soft introverted guy. I am not attracted to those bad boys who drive some nasty Dodge Charger that he does donuts on intersection and listening to some music filled with drugs money and prostitution on lyrics. I don’t feel safe with that kind of guy, and most women don’t feel safe with aggressive men. I don’t even like big guys. I dated a 5’5” and I am married to a 5’8”. I like men who have a soft and cute personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:30 AM
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He's just telling himself right now. If you want a nice girl, you need to be nice too. Or else you'll get that loud, blue haired feminist woman you hate coz you share the same vibe with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:54 AM
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Blame capitalism for that bro. Your generation glorify materialism a lot like, "You ain't shit if you're not wearing Gucci". It's more of a symptom of late-stage capitalism than women want to date men of higher status for their flawed sense financial security. Our generation (millennials) has not that much problem like that. Most of us women in our generation want a simple yet decent living. And we date and marry around our circle of friends. I feel bad for your generation as you don't have thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:17 AM
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More like capitalism makes romance harder for younger generations. If only we have universal basic income, people don't have to settle for ridiculously rich people just to live decently.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:13 AM
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You know their life would be easier if they just focus on going to school, get a degree, get a job, eat fruits and vegetables, get a good amount of sleep and stop messing around with girls. Love yourself before loving other people. Yeah that’s Erich Fromm for you, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:58 PM
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Oh well not talking tho this user anymore. Maybe a throwaway account by some teenager who wants to make brainrot comments. Your generation is cooked for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:06 PM
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Bro, touch some grass. If women are marrying high status men, then I should be dumping my husband right now for some rich motherfucker driving a Bugatti. I think you’re the one projecting because the women you want doesn’t want you back and you want to blame them for your insecurities that are pushed by men that you follow on social media like rappers or those grifting rich men like Andrew Tate. You can never find peace on other people. Be your own peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:04 PM
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And that is something I want to change someday. Like, it’s okay for men to do jobs like social services, nursing, licensed family therapist. etc. It should not lessen someone’s masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:59 PM
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I wouldn’t like him even more if he adapted that thug image. A lot of women don’t like thug or aggressive behavior. Yes there are women who like “bad boys” but most of them came from toxic families and that’s just the love they known. I have friends who married a cheater and never left them for the kids all because that’s their abusive father and meek mother did. “Their dad hitting their mom because of love and mom stays because she wants the kids to have this facade of a ‘complete’ family”. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:36 AM
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Of course single dads can get a high paying job abroad while he has a new wife who can take care of his child. Woman has to stay at home and take care of the kid who didn’t even came from her womb. And it depends on the person too. We have single dads who get arrested for stealing and using their child to porch-pirate. As someone who studied statistics TWICE, I’m getting tired of y’all presenting data poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:31 AM
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He can say no to a single woman with a bad credit. Can he say “no”? Like why are you talkinh to women you don’t like, first of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:28 AM
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You are putting the word “projection” in a very wrong way, as if it’s a buzzword. Try using Merriam-Webster for once. I am just interrogating your logic on your premises. Try to think about what is causing your view of “scarcity”. Most people marry their people who are in proximity with them. They will marry their grade-school/high school/college friend and they are willing to adapt and compromise to keep this person in proximity to them. Now those who are unlucky to meet to partner in life in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 08:27 AM
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If you’re an educated woman, yes. But men don’t like their women educated. It’s gonna be harder to fuck. Instead of being impressed by men telling them, “you’re so pretty, fresh and tight”, they’ll be like, “nah, if you don’t have the same level of education, the amount of money I earn, the family background that I have, you are not getting a pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:42 AM
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Really? Tupac? Please don’t make these gangsters as life inspos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:39 AM
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It’s all because you rarely see single dads. Most single dads I know feel the same way like single mom’s. Or they just marry another woman to be a stepmom to their child. Go outside and you’ll see that what men do in real life are not the same shit online manosphere spreads.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:38 AM
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You attract what you are dude. Something in you that attracts the woman you hate. Same as women who are too damsel in distress and have daddy issues hence they attract the wrong men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:36 AM
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If you’re getting married just because you have to and not because you want to share your life with that person, then you’re doing it wrong. Suddenly, a man loses his agency in choosing a wife, while women have all the control. You can’t just manipulate anyone to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 07:35 AM
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I know women who date and have kids with men who already have babies from another woman and they are happy. A man who chose a to love a so-called "ran through" woman should deserve the same happiness too. Life is easier if you don't look at the technicalities of life and just be happy. Our time on earth is just borrowed. Fuck this red pill shit and start being an actual human being with competent life skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 AM
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It's not virtue signaling or making excuse. Those men accepted those kind of women and they are happy with them. If you're really that of a "nice guy", be happy with your fellow men who chose to be happy instead of waiting for that "perfect woman" under the standards of red pilled men. These men are not in competition with you to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:57 AM
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Men on online dating are disgusting AF. The moment you start talking to them, they will ask you how many times you want to have sex. They don't even care where do I live, what do I do for living and what do I do during free time. They want sex. All they ever want to talk about is sex. They think fucking with me is they greatest rizz they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:23 AM
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Sometimes I feel like those men at the #1 pretend they are those "nice guys" on subreddit but actually has 10 kids with other baby mommas. I grew up not trusting almost everyone so I rarely get scammed. Not even pickpockets can play with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:17 AM
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You want women to choose "nice guys" but when they choose other nice guys that is not you, you call women just settling for a "safe option". If a guy is nice, a woman should be safe with him, am I reading this right?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:13 AM
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Nobody should depend their worth on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 07:20 AM
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I don’t understand the narrative that jobs hire you just because you’re a woman. So do I need to send a resume and just tell them to hire me just because I have a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 09:26 PM
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Women get rejected at jobs too. Just because I’m a woman does not I can get hired automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:15 AM
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I have been applying part-time jobs on indeed for months and still, no one is hiring me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:19 PM
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I think he is just being a troll or this account is created by a 15 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:16 PM
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Oh no. It’s not just a sob story. Can you imagine if you’re a 12-year old girl, a man comes to you and rubs his balls on your shoulder. What would you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:19 PM
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I’m a cultural Marxist and I wouldn’t even vote for Kamala. Cultural Marxists vote for Jill Stein, the leader of Green Party. The party of free healthcare, free education, free housing, abortion and LGBTQ rights, abolish patriarchy and most of all abolish capitalism. Democrats are republican light.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:41 AM
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I choose the right men but I still don’t like vapid incels like you. But you know what makes me hate a lot of men? Strangers. Men who still catcall me even if I wear Michellin-tire like sweats and usually very modest clothing. A man whom I caught masturbating in the staircase in front of the girl’s dormitory while I’m the outside study area. A man who rubbed his crotch on my shoulder while me and my mom are riding the bus when I was 12. FUCKING TWELVE YEARS OLD!!! I don’t have to have experience…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 06:34 AM
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South Korea has been giving us a lot of soft power recently. From K-Pop, to K-drama, to K-Beauty and now The 4B Movement. You don’t understand what this country holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:35 AM
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The stepfather who fondled me when I was 6 is a male. The person on the bus who rubbed his crotch on my shoulder when I was 12 is a male. The who attempted to break into my dorm when I was 19 in nursing school is a male, hence why K have a knife under my bed. I haven’t been harassed by a female so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 08:19 AM
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He is an Asian who doesn’t use a belt and his pants are sliding down. Like, bruh why you’re trying to be a Black person?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/24 07:00 AM
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When women say, "I don't need a man" meaning they don't need to smash a man to function. It doesn't any man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:23 AM
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Born and raised in the Philippines, our country has no divorce and we have the highest poverty and teenage pregnancy rate. Yes not all foreigners are bad some are actually nice. But I also met and watched in the local news about several foreigners who are dating Filipina women and were also involved into sex trafficking. Plus not all of us agree with flocking of passport bros in our country as it’s causing the cost of living to increase for the locals and most of them fetishize our culture expec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:20 AM
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A lot of locals I know hate it actually. They raise the cost of living and just gentrifying the area. I remember that Tweet from that white guy advertising Palawan and Siargao in the Philippines. Yeah sure it’s cheaper to live there but it will eventually raise the cost of living in the province that will make the locals eat almost nothing but shit after they get devastated by several typhoons.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:54 PM
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Another thing about passport bros is they increase the cost of living in the areas where people can’t even afford to eat. As someone who was born and raised in the Philippines, we hate passport bros. It’s makes everything expensive for us plus most of them are ignorant of the culture and socio-political issues that keeps most of us in poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:51 PM
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I think you misunderstood my comment. A lot of passport bros fetishize our conservative culture and not knowing the dark side of the culture. Whiteness is so ingrained in our culture that the only way to have advantage in living there is to look eurocentric. This is why a lot of Asian women marry foreigners especially white. As someone who born and raised in the Philippines, this mindset has been shoved to us for almost all our lives. You are not pretty if you’re too brown and the only way to su…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:48 PM
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Unpopular opinion but passport bros are mostly evil. Most of them go to corrupt third world countries, capitalize the corruption of that country’s government and lack of political will to enforce laws to fuck poor teenagers who have to do prostitution due to extreme poverty. They even go to the craziest lengths by going to underground prostitution dens where they auction kids and teens for sex. These people claimed women are after them and flexing they had very high body counts after going to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:32 AM
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The reason why divorce rates are low between a foreigner and a westerner especially with an Asian woman like me is because women in our countries are being frowned upon when they file for divorce. Most of all, my home country (Philippines) is the only country in the world left that has no divorce aside from Vatican City. Most of us have to stick to our abusive partners because the lack of laws and our Judeo-Christian society that demonizes divorce. This is aside from the fact that we are raised …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 03:57 AM
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As a Southeat Asian woman the only standard that most of us have is if you can help them migrate to your home country. Doesn’t matter what you look like and how much money you got. If you can give them a green card, you is ok 👌🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 05:17 AM
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May I know how much is your body count? Coz I hate it when men demand women to have low body counts when they also insert their dicks in any hole they see.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:11 PM
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Hospitals are totally abuzz with nurses who spend most of their waking time there and the rest of the week recuperating. They're in no shape to date. What part of your sigmoid colon did you get this statement? I am a nurse and I opened a dating app 5 years ago where I met my life partner. I met a lot of men on the dating apps this is despite that I work 36 hours a week, I travel to two states every 2 weeks and I still go to the gym and do home workouts. You need to find a girl who matches your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:40 PM
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I agree on this one. We actually have a term for men like this in the Philippines. They are called AFAM - A Foreigner Assigned in Manila. These AFAMs go halfway around the world to find a woman who can’t find a way to get the hell out of our shitty poverty-stricken country. We are also pretty conservative and traditional. When I went home to the Philippines last year, me and my partner stayed in a hotel near a famous red light district and there are so many western men with old god knows if they…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:43 AM
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My mother told my brother when we were teens not to focus on things that you cannot change like height, nose, eyes etc. (genetic stuff) but focus on things like hygiene, fragrance, wearing fashionable clothes, breath, cleanliness, honing your talents, sense of humor and personality. Unfortunately, my brother really has an awful behavior. He was very insecure because he is in the middle of two sisters so he wants to take the lead but he is just #2 despite being a man. Our eldest sibling (sister) …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 04:47 AM
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Unfortunately, the best thing to do is to wait for that person that matches your ratings to come to you which is going to take a while. Relationships are not just face value. I know plenty of people who “married down” a parter who is less aesthetically pleasing and they have been married for years. This is why you see people like Kim K or Ariana Granda date someone like Pete Davidson. Coz sometimes they want personality, substance and sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:54 AM
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Then what’s the problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:26 PM
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It’s seems like you’re between 4/10 and below and you want to reach the mid girls. Now I know why y’all single. Y’all looking for someone that is out of your leagues as simple as that. I’m not really a fan of rating people. Sounds like Booking.com to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:53 AM
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I always believe you can’t have everything in this world. I never wanted the guys I watch on K-Dramas like this rich, handsome CEO who will take me to expensive dates. Usually they are assholes. I always believe that you will see the true personality of a person when you give them money or power and most of them when they have both they think they can buy anyone. I’m just an average looking girl who has a regular nursing job at a hospital and I don’t think doctors are something I would love to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:40 AM
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And this why both of you are single. Because y’all trying to achieve the impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 AM
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It’s okay if you think I’m sus but welcome to the internet. You don’t have to take my word and I don’t have to take your word. I’m just trying to end the male vs female war as people are becoming superficial and fictitious online which is not resembling in the real world anymore. Both men and women are experiencing loneliness and can’t find each other because both are looking for qualities that are too superficial and unattainable and forgetting what is deeper and important. My cousin is used to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:24 AM
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Uhm food is different from sex. You’re not gonna die virgin for the rest of your life and you can die without eating. I don’t wanna say you’re stupid but you’re making me say it. I’m sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:05 AM
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Yes. Something wrong about that. I am not a fan of mind-reading not basing people based on common behavior of their gender or race. Sex is something that has to be done consensually. If he is tired and I want sex, would I be offended? No. Because I have basic respect for that person. If I’m tired and he wants sex? Woulf he feel bad, according to him no because he knows that rejection is not a personal issue. He is capable of understanding people that can’t do it right now for so many reasons. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:09 PM
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I don't think I'm projecting knowing this person knows what he wants and this is what he wants. I don't go above and beyond as to what people say or do. But for most people they will think we are not doing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:58 PM
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Another thing in mind is we are preventing to have sex like it was a chore. If we do it frequently we might get tired of doing it until we just stopped doing it. I think it’s much better if we do it less but everytime we do it, the quality of sex is always at its peak and we appreciate each other because of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:34 AM
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Or maybe someone just don’t have the same sexual needs as other men. We always communicate our sexual needs. This guy knows what he wants and when he wants it. He’s very introverted and just stays at home and work and I also do the same except I go to the gym. A lot of people accuse him of being gay just because he is not as sex-hungry as other men. He doesn’t have a lot of male friends as he doesn’t like most men who are more outgoing and perverted. That’s just how he is. I can’t make someone t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:23 AM
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Why these terms sounds like they are trading stocks? Are humans a business now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:01 AM
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Masturbation and porn doesn't have to be together. You can masturbate without porn and you can watch porn without actually masturbation. Both can be an addiction but they don't go hand in hand. This is just your personal preference and experience but it doesn't have to be the standard behavior for men. What about the male same sex peeps who don't like sticking it in the vagina? Aren't they happy based on your logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:50 AM
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People with kids with their past relationship/marriage is a no-no for me in general. I have a friend who has a kid from her ex and now engaged to a guy who was divorced and has kids with the ex. She always complains to us the ex-wife as she receives alimony and child support from her partner and it's making him hard to participate with their finances. Since then I stayed away from men who have kids and an ex-wife. They are just a lot of stress and drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:45 AM
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You missed the last part where it says the following: [She noted that, overall, ejaculation has many benefits and few risks if done safely. “Sex can be a wonderful part of healthy relationships, and sex and masturbation can have positive psychosocial effects,” she said. “So, there is no downside to increased sex—or MASTURBATION—as long as it is protected sex.”] You don't need a woman to ejaculate. You can masturbate and ejaculate 2x a day and you can ejaculate with a same sex partner. You don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:31 AM
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Okay. Low libido people does not mean low testosterone. My partner just had his blood tests as part of his annual physical exam. Actually, his testosterone is very high. But there are a lot of factors as to why people decided not to have plenty of sex like many people. Most of the time it's our schedules. According to WebMD, ideally you should have sex once a week but there is no one size fits all number. In fact, in a study sample of 30,000 people, some of the respondents who have sex more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:28 AM
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So men who are not sexually active anymore because of old age can have testicular and prostate CA? I don't think so. Risk factors for testicular cancer: An undescended testicle Family history of testicular cancer HIV infection Carcinoma in situ of the testicle Having had testicular cancer before Being of a certain race/ethnicity Body size Source: https://www.cancer.org/cancer/types/testicular-cancer/causes-risks-prevention/risk-factors.html Risk factors for prostate cancer: Age (men 50 and above…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:05 AM
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Not really shit. If you can't be happy without sex then sad for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:22 AM
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Uhm I'm not basing my life on what I see on the internet everyday. I don't treat people online as if they are showcasing their true selves online. What they are happy on social media but in reality they're not. And if they do it's not my business and I just focus on my own life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:20 AM
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Let me guess, you’re willing to give up your wife over a younger and hotter woman if you have a chance to attract one. Because that’s what you’re giving. You’re just basing your marriage on superficial things like physique and sexual needs and no more basic respect, compassion and empathy with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:14 PM
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Sorry I can relate to hypersexual people. We can’t just fuck everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:08 PM
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Dude you are just trying to make me feel miserable over a life that I am grateful for. If you don’t want men to be generalized, allow your gender to be different from your individuality. Same as women. I am different from other women but as much as possible I wouldn’t bring them down especially if they are not hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:07 PM
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Thanks for stalking me. Must be a Filipino hahahaha yes, you are the gago who wants me to keep in touch with my ex even if I don’t want to because social media is trash and it alters your reality instead of just living life to the fullest and intentionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:05 PM
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Dude, if you think food and sex have the same physiologic effects I think you need to go back to your basic anatomy and physiology class. You can die if you don’t eat anything at all for two weeks. You’ll still gonna be alive and functioning well if you can’t have sex for two weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:02 PM
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Bedrooms are becoming deadlier because y’all keep doing it so many times until you get tired of it to the point that it becomes a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:54 PM
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Sex is more pleasurable when you don’t do it a lot. It makes you miss each other’s bodies. Will you eat at a buffet when you just ate???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:52 PM
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And this is why most people here online can only get fucked but can never be kept. People here online need to stop complaining about each other when they chose to date people based on looks, wealth and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:50 PM
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I’m actually dating a nerdy and introverted guy for 5 years now and I have dated men who are not conventionally handsome too. This man I have been dating for so long had been with me in my ups and downs. I gained a lot of weight until I become borderline obese. I was so scared that he will lose attraction. Weight loss is so depressing as I only based on the superficial reasons as to why I’m losing weight like keeping my man physically attractive to me etc. But when made a change just for myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:47 PM
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Not everyone who use antidepressants are actually depressed. Some who are using it in conjunction to opioid pain medications so they can have less dependence. I’m on Sertraline but it’s not for depression and just for anxiety. I work as a nurse and it gives me a lot of stress and anxiety. I thought I would gain weight with this meds but it actually made me lose a lot of weight. It helps me with my weight loss journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:33 PM
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Jesus Fucking Christ, sex ain’t shit! It’s nice to have it once or twice a month but everyday? You’ll get tired istg. There’s more to life than sex like talking about different topics under the sun and being kind and respectful with each other. And there’s more other physical touches that are intimate without the use of genitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:28 PM
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I’m sorry if you feel that way. We are all vulnerable to fakery and grift. But we can’t just sabotage our own happiness and potential but always acting on a defense mode. I think most our problems come from the fear of being vulnerable, especially men. It’s always an imbalance of vulnerability and invincibility when you can actually be in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:18 PM
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But we also have other five senses, hearing, smell, taste and touch. If sight is the only sense that matters to attract a lifetime partner, I should feel sorry for the blind I guess. Most of the people nowadays depend on the internet in choosing their bf/gfs and the worse is our expectations are so high when the online world can be manufactured and manipulated and it’s sad that it affects our perception of the real world. I remember the time when I believe the hairs in shampoo commercials are po…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:13 PM
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Majority of the people I know personally met in school, workplace or they live within the city. Proximity is also a factor. Relationships from opposite sides of the world are difficult and filled with trust issues where needs can’t be fulfilled too soon. I always wonder where these people get the statistics from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:59 PM
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This comment is why I posted this opinion. You forgot to quote my main point here — treating people like humans first before something else. Don’t you think you will find an everlasting happiness in life if you are just focused on superficial characters of a person like beauty, body, wealth and status? All of these can go away. In example, since you’re a male you said you get attracted to women who are thin and submissive. But human bodies change in the long run. Once women give birth they gain …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 09:52 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 08:34 PM
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