Jordanthecomeback Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Ex Wants to Take Over Health Insurance	Lawyers	Jordanthecomeback	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/24 02:27 PM
2	Child Support Case Opened in New State?		Jordanthecomeback	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/25 02:21 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Therapy Suggestions? Therapists aren't interested in helping men, but they'll gladly take your money	/r/Divorce_Men	14/02/26 03:20 AM
5	Nearly 3 weeks later and still no word Lmao bro you said it all last paragraph, you're in limbo because you haven't acted. You gotta act to get past it. File. You don't want to be 6 months from now saying the same thing, that you have that feeling of shit fading, yank the fucking bandaid off my guy, healing starts after the crash, not while you're slow motion driving into it. Good luck, I do feel for you, but you know what it takes and I hope this helps you get there quicker	/r/Divorce_Men	04/02/26 04:01 AM
1	House Bro, find someone to take those plants, it's messing with your head and they deserve to be taken care of, they're living things, put them on fb marketplace for free asap	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 07:13 PM
1	I am 44, lost my family, my money, and my home. Now I plan to move to Vietnam to start from zero. Is this a leap of faith or madness? I just read the title but I think it sounds cool, I've always said I'd go full Colonel Kurtz if I had to go through another one, you either make it or you don't but at least you're making a radical change. Good for you dude, hope it works out	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 06:43 PM
1	How do you find shit to do? Time for introspection, it's to your benefit not mine, don't even respond just think about this. How much time did you actually spend trying. Was it multiple times but spaced out far? Everything I'm good at I do daily, everything I'm bad at that I've gotten good at I've done daily. You have a mental block and it's something that's going to undermine other areas of your life, and it's something absolutely normal and average. If you want to be above average, read that twice and good luck	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 04:10 PM
1	How do you find shit to do? Bro, it's a skill, you'd love to do it so do it. Own that you suck. Laugh it off. And apply yourself, if you do those things you'd get the hang of it and have a blast, it's the blueprint of everything. Innate ability matters extremely little if you have time and focus, and it sounds like you have an abundance of the former	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 04:08 PM
1	How do you find shit to do? In some ways I agree, participating in the rituals of likely peers allows you to connect with them, it has a purpose and you've hit the nail on the head with that sentiment. Where I very strongly disagree is this comment: "If "I successfully got to the end of that box set" is something that will make you feel good, there's nothing wrong with that." Fat, lazy, slovenly people everywhere are living, and, more importantly, dying, in that trap	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 03:11 PM
2	How do you find shit to do? I understand what it "means" but as a practical matter, recharging and being at your best when alone often leads people to not develop proper social skills so my advice stands in all matters remotely practical. My point to OP being, he can overcome any hurdle, including personality and preference, if he has a goal and breaking those barriers becomes a consideration in achieving it.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 03:09 PM
1	How do you find shit to do? I always met cool dudes at the cigar bar, great hobby and great excuse to get out of the house for a bit	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 02:18 PM
1	How do you find shit to do? Someone said read below, do not read dumb fiction trash that's TV in book form, potato chips and junk food, read something that's going to awaken a spirit of creativity in you. For me it's Rousseau, Confessions and (the much much shorter) Discourse on Arts and Sciences jerked me loose from the holding pattern I was in. They may not for you, but it couldn't hurt to try Goals should inform how you spend your time. Are you single? Get online and go on dates, date ugly girls, go to those Meetup grou…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 02:16 PM
2	It's the idea that I'll always love my wife a dangerous one? It's not an issue healthy well adjusted dudes should be having. Don't mean that as a means to cause offense, but don't want to tiptoe either. You talk about addiction, your lying, and then go on to how great she is. Ok, sounds like she's way better than you, and you're broken up, right? The solution is to become the best version of you that you can. That's what hit me during my divorce, I'm old, I've gotta fight and get back out there, what the hell am I doing, etc. so I stepped back from it and…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/25 03:35 AM
2	Ex Wants to Take Over Health Insurance Yeah unfortunately I don't have a lawyer, we had a pretty simple divorce, I know I'll probably end up having to get one but financially would love to put that off as long as possible	/r/Divorce_Men	29/10/24 03:13 PM