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ECA stack 2X per day
/r/askMRP03/01/23 08:32 PM
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You are totally in her frame. Nobody cares how "woke" she is. Just use it to stir her up occasionally .
/r/askMRP26/12/22 04:18 AM
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First of all, stop with the goddam "crayons". Self-deprecating will not curry favor with this group. You have started down the right tract at at last. Fix yourself, physically , mentally and emotionally. Get swol and get your money right. Your marriage is most likely already over, so accept that. Once they are gone, they are gone. Lawyer up, protect your assets and your kids as best as you can Get swol, become a stoic, work on YOU
/r/askMRP26/12/22 04:15 AM
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Field reports are usually good reading. If you've applied a red pill concept in your life and had results you'd like to share, you should go for it and ignore the haters
/r/askMRP23/05/22 01:48 PM
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You've got your initial victim-puke out of the way, congrats. Lifting and reading are a good start. You should rent out your house and move back to civilization. Your little private compound/homeschool is just going to produce weird children with no ability to socialize and a miserable wife that has gone stir-crazy.
/r/askMRP02/05/22 05:25 PM
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Good. Here's your homework: Read "No More Mr Nice Guy", Robert Glover Join a gym and start with Stronglifts 5x5 app Post an OYS comment every Tuesday
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 08:03 PM
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OYS – Own Your Shit (weekly progress post, this is where the real work is done) MRP – Married Red Pill DEER – Defend, explain, excuse, rationalize WISNIFG – When I Say No I Feel Guilty (book, see the sidebar materials) STFU – Shut the fuck up NMMG – No More Mister Nice Guy (another sidebar book)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 01:46 PM
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Great post! Agreed, the pics speak a thousand words. My only advice would be to consider transitioning to an actual gym instead of a home workout. There are benefits to getting out of the house, away from the wife and kids when you work out. Less interruptions, less excuses. Her hamster wheel will spin hard whenever you're there. A good location is one that is on your way home from work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 07:58 PM
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lift, sidebar, stfu, post in OYS Perfect advice. There should be a bot that just fills this in as the first reply. "lift, sidebar, stfu, post in OYS". Think of the time it would save
/r/askMRP27/12/21 06:20 PM
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I don't disagree with this answer but he needs to fix himself first or he'll just make the same mistakes with the next twat
/r/askMRP04/12/21 08:37 PM
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This. Don't complain about a lack of sex if you aren't initiating
/r/askMRP04/12/21 08:36 PM
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How old are you? Go to the testosterone clinic and get your levels checked. Talk you your general practitioner about getting a prescription for Cialis
/r/askMRP10/11/21 02:19 PM
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This is a classic power struggle. One that OP has traditionally lost as she whittled away at his self-esteem on chip at a time. you gave her an ultimatum If she fails to comply simply stop wearing your own ring and go on the trip by yourself. Vacationing alone is a amazing. we’re done for good if I go without her If that's all it takes to run her off, she's already gone.
/r/askMRP13/09/21 06:13 PM
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Single moms have the BEST snacks. There's nothing like an uncrustable and a juice box after sex
/r/askMRP10/08/21 02:18 PM
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Dr. Widowchaser wrote a whole thesis just to rationalize his Oneitis for some widow
/r/askMRP10/08/21 01:59 PM
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After you fix your body and hair, get professional photos done for your dating app profiles. The pics are everything.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 08:36 PM
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The key for me is going to bed early enough I can get 30 mins in the morning to run The key to losing your excess weight is in the kitchen, not on the road. You can't outrun a shitty diet, fatass. Bench 250/Squat350/DL315 Are these current numbers? If your schedule is so tight, how often are you hitting the gym? I'm calling bullshit.
/r/askMRP27/06/21 11:10 PM
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Nothing special here, this is a simple shit test. Her name calling and contemptuous tone turn any simple request into a test of your frame. Which you failed. It's important that you realize this had nothing to do with the laundry, it could have been anything. She is making sure that your mood and actions are directly under her control. Reasoning with her, or trying to explain, is pointless. Even if the laundry was perfect, she will simply replace it with something different to bitch about. Just …
/r/askMRP25/06/21 08:32 PM
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worse for your kids than seeing you emasculated every day This. A thousand times this. u/2009p71, if you insist on hanging in there, you need to get out of her frame and start working on yourself. Lets start with the fact that you are obese. She has no attraction or respect for you because you are a fat, lazy slob. Fix your diet, lose the fat and your confidence will start to climb. I'd suggest you start by tracking calories on MyFitnessPal. Next, you need to get out of her frame. When you incre…
/r/askMRP23/06/21 01:47 PM
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5'10, 155 lb With your stats you should be bulking. Download the Strongelifts 5x5 app, it's a good place to start. Manage your macros and prioritize protein. Forget the cardio, it is working against you. You should be trying to gain mass, not lean out.
/r/askMRP09/06/21 04:32 PM
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Already met with a lawyer last week to explore my options Talking to a lawyer can be very empowering because it takes away many unknowns. The easy answer is "Hard NEXT and spin plates". But you're not here for the easy way out, are you? Give the MRP process a chance. The rule of thumb is once month for every year of relationship to see results. So it would take 5-7 months to start turning things around. Devour the sidebar reading material, be consistent with the gym and nutrition, improve groomi…
/r/askMRP08/06/21 07:52 PM
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There's a self-evaluation test here: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/newCDV_90.htm
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/21 01:37 PM
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Will fall flat if OP doesn’t have high SMV to the point where she knows it and feels the dread True. He claims to be an "8-9" and she is "5-6". Also will fall flat if he’s faking it and he’s not attracted to her. Also, true. But if he's not attracted to her why would he be here writing the magna carta to ask how to pass a shit test?
/r/askMRP06/05/21 06:12 PM
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If she's not fit, and you are, this may be more of a comfort test. One reply to "are there pretty girls at the gym" would be to agree and amplify, but thrown in some comfort. "Yes there are plenty of pretty girls there, but you're the only one I think about, babe". Another approach would be to tell her "why don't you go to the gym and see for yourself".
/r/askMRP06/05/21 05:54 PM
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Become more attractive. Lift heavy weights, improve your wardrobe, improve your haircut and hygiene. Lose the gut. Cut down on beer. Lay off the porn. Get some hobbies. Obsessing over her makes you less attractive, so it makes your problem worse. Focus on improving yourself and she might come around.
/r/askMRP05/05/21 02:53 PM
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It was no bluff. u/Fixinmashit the bad news is she has lost her attraction for your as your appearance and frame have deteriorated over time. And it's most likely true that it's not salvageable at this point. Marriage counseling is a waste of time and money. It will not make you more attractive so it won't fix this. "Words of affirmation" is just fancytalk for "kissing her ass", which will just cause her to lose the little respect she still has for you. ALL you can do is start to rebuild yoursel…
/r/askMRP26/03/21 04:07 PM
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+1 burn it all down and start fresh. She destroyed the relationship when she was unfaithful
/r/askMRP10/03/21 02:44 PM
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Your wife overreacting to your every comment is just a garden variety shit test. She is testing to make sure you are still operating in her frame (which you are, 100%) and that she is in full control of your emotions (which she is). Instead of being a whiny bitch, be an oak. Her outburst or emotional rollercoaster don't affect your mood. Calmy and stoically address her concerns. Just don't allow her to get you riled up. Take back control of your mind. Sending her back to her mother is the opposi…
/r/askMRP14/01/21 02:52 PM
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Probably should see a doctor about the dizziness. Download Stronglfits 5x5. You start by squatting just the bar. You can handle that.
/r/askMRP13/01/21 02:42 AM
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u/2741 you should order a nanny cam from Amazon and have it delivered to your work or a trusted friend's house. Set it up at home where you usually fight and get some good video of her bitch-slapping you. It'll come in handy when you go to divorce court, or when she accuses you of domestic violence. Both of these things are coming. Meanwhile, why don't you start actually doing something to follow the advice you are repeatedly given here? Like lifting weights or reading the sidebar material. What…
/r/askMRP12/01/21 04:04 PM
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If they were at a party and she was sitting on some guy's lap, there are others there who saw it. Corroborate the story. Then hard NEXT her and go no-contact. You're lucky you didn't marry her or give her a crotch demon
/r/askMRP28/12/20 08:01 PM
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u/ComoMariposa you should definitely find a therapist. You can do it over Zoom these days. The value of it is being able to talk about your shit to someone who has no stake in the game. Just a neutral third part who can give you objective feedback with no judgement. Secondly you need to punch your step brother in the fucking face. Wait until the next time he's drunk and starting shit and bait him into taking the first swing so it's self-defense and you won't catch a case. Then beat the shit out …
/r/askMRP28/12/20 07:55 PM
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If it flies, floats or fucks, rent. Don’t buy.
/r/askMRP09/11/20 02:54 AM
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+1, she wants him to lead her
/r/askMRP27/10/20 02:10 PM
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Yes, you are trying to go too quickly here. Slow your roll, sparky. You are just starting out. Being Alpha doesn't mean being an asshole. Playing video games while your wife is trying to sleep is a dick move if it keeps her up. Video games are a huge waste of time, leave them for the kids. Use your time productively. You need be the man of the house, which includes owning your shit with regard to childcare, finances, everything. A little one with health issues is a huge burden on everyone, you s…
/r/askMRP08/10/20 01:31 PM
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My wife cooks for us all and this is preventing me from getting a handle on what it is I am eating Is she holding you down and shoving food in your mouth? Go to the store, buy healthy food, and meal prep for the week. It's not that difficult. You're a big boy now, stop depending on mommy to feed you and then blaming her that you are fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 01:54 PM
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So you're fat and unattractive. Your wife married you to secure some betabux, and locked you in with a crotch-demon of your own, and now she can't stand the sight of you. Congratulations, you are in the same general vicinity as everyone on this sub when they started out. The question for you is, "what are you going to do about it?". Are you going to wait another 11 months to log on to MRP again (like you did this time) or are you going to start an actual improvement plan? Start reading the sideb…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/20 03:58 PM
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Paragraphs are your friend.
/r/askMRP09/09/20 11:34 PM
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12 weeks of 5x5 SL. No more than 2 weeks stalled at any one exercise. SL works very well. Just follow what the app tells you to do and you'll love the noob gains I can't unfuck myself and focus properly Have you gotten your testosterone checked yet? Are you getting enough sleep?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 04:26 PM
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You stoically and matter-of-factly inform her your position has been made redundant. You’re confident of landing a new gig because you have the skills. You aren’t worried about her reaction or opinion because you know you have it under control.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 12:07 AM
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“Crabs in a bucket” mentality. You’re making her nervous so the instinct is to hold you back. So just treat it like any other shit test.
/r/askMRP26/08/20 02:26 AM
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Yeah she’s fucking her old bf. Just DON’T KNOCK HER UP. Cut your losses and count your blessings. Divorce and a fresh start
/r/askMRP25/08/20 05:29 AM
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u/savageinthebox is wasting our time, dabbling in RP up to the point where it makes him uncomfortable in any way. After his wife gets fed up with her fat drunk captain and starts going to Zumba classes and loses 20lb, some random dude will stick his dick in her and she’ll be out the door and onto the next branch. At that time he may or may not get serious about self improvement
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/20 06:29 PM
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You're all talk. A year ago you wrote on askMRP you were going to quit drinking after you got hammered and made a complete ass of yourself in front of your wife and kids. Shortly after that you joined the r/bourbon subreddit. "Fat, drunk and stupid is no way to go through life, son" https://youtu.be/mkoPq5AOCOA
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 06:54 PM
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I let myself go during lock down You let yourself go long before lock down. Being at 250 prior to Covid is nothing to be proud about. You just lost the meager progress you had made, that's all. Since mowing the lawn yesterday caused me to re-aggravate it I have to assume any strenuous activity would do the same That's a huge crock of shit. Mowing uses your legs. You could work your arms and upper body with dumbells from a sitting or laying position. Your groin muscles aren't involved in any way.…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 05:20 PM
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You have more excuses than a man going to jail. Covid has nothing to do with your weight and drinking. Zero. That's just a lame EXCUSE. No amount of exercise can outrun a bad diet. Weight control is all about what you (don't) stuff in that pie hole in the middle of your face. You, and only you, have complete control over what you put in your mouth. Cut out the carbs, load up on proteins and healthy fats and the pounds will fall off. You already know this. There are ton of exercises you can do wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 03:50 PM
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And I ate 280g of protein a day That's dedication right there
/r/askMRP17/08/20 10:50 PM
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Yes, you are still operating within her frame when you allow her words or actions to dictate whether or not you initiate. Eventually you'll grow to the point where you initiate when you feel like it, and hold back when you don't, regardless of her squawking.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/20 06:45 PM
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The way to get rid of her is to do the Rodeo. While you’re fucking her doggystyle, jam it in her asshole and call her by her sister’s name. When she starts bucking and kicking trying to get you off of her, see if you can hang on for the full eight seconds. Be sure to take some video and post the link with your next report. Good luck!
/r/askMRP11/08/20 08:03 PM
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It’s not what happens to your business that defines you, it is how you handle it. If you have become a whiny, cranky little bitch over it, yes she will start looking for someone else to “play guns” with. If you are an oak, dealing with it stoically, she will be attracted to your strength. So stop with the wallowing in self pity. You should be making plans for survival in the short term, and success after this shit blows over, which it eventually will.
/r/askMRP04/08/20 11:15 PM
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stfu when she comes home Or don't be there when she comes home, u/sodarishnod . Go to the gym for a good long workout. Leave your phone charging on the nightstand so when she calls you she hears it ringing. Get out of your wife's frame and stop obsessing about what she is up to or what she is thinking. If she is going to cheat on you, she will make it happen regardless of any "gun safety" rules you put in place to prevent Chad's gun from penetrating your wife. All you can do is make yourself mor…
/r/askMRP04/08/20 03:00 PM
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Hit the three little dots on the upper right side of the screen and then click "Community Info". Slow your role, sparky. You're just getting started. Find a way to lift heavy weights, read everything. Post updates in the OYS (Own Your Shit) post every Tuesday on the MRP main page, that's where the best advice is being given.
/r/askMRP28/07/20 01:44 PM
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see a lawyer and prepare properly Going for an initial consultation is a good step. They will lay it all out for you so you know how the division of assets will go, and how much you'll be on the hook for monthly, custody, etc. Even if you don't go forward with the divorce, the initial consultation will arm you with knowledge, which will take a lot off your mind.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 05:25 PM
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Divorce her. Never contact her again That's all you need to read. Hard NEXT and move on. You dodged a bullet. Keep working on yourself.
/r/askMRP09/06/20 03:46 PM
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Stay the course. Hold your frame. Maintain 100% outcome independence. Your relationship is about to reset. Either with you in it or not, but there's no going back from here.
/r/askMRP06/03/20 05:25 PM
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u/SelfFramed if your wife was on the pill when she first met you, her preferences in a mate and her resultant attraction level toward you could change when she goes off the pill. This has been proven in multiple scientific studies, including: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19818527?dopt=Abstract https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0956797614532295 Go ahead and get snipped if that's what you want to do. Just be sure to keep hitting the gym and keep your attractiveness level maxed out, b…
/r/askMRP03/03/20 05:54 PM
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I don't know where you read that red-pill is treating your wife like shit u/LabelOtherSide a real man takes care of a pregnant woman. You should be stepping it up right now. Making supper, changing shitty diapers, the full monte. Not because anyone else expects this, and not because you want anything in return (it's not a covert contract). You take care of your house and family because that's your job. You do it quietly and without the need for praise or recognition. You don't need to report to …
/r/askMRP25/02/20 07:17 PM
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She is experiencing Hysterical Bonding. It's a reflex when someone is cheated on by their partner, or is broken up with, and they want to do anything to win back their ex's affections. This will not last. If you have not done more to increase your attractiveness her desire for you will go back down to starfish levels. When this happens she will torture you for what your did an possibly seek a revenge affair. Lift weights, hold frame, read the sidebar books. Whether things work out or not, you'll…
/r/askMRP21/02/20 09:00 PM
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Right now your MAP is just a huge covert contract to try to get your wife to become attracted to you. You need to work on developing Outcome Indifference. You are on your own mission of becoming an Alpha Male, someone who is physically fit, attractive and owns his shit. Quit worrying about her reaction.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 03:08 PM
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doubt that those are your kids Even if they turn out to be his kids, he'll be a much better father removed from that shit-show of a marriage.
/r/askMRP03/12/19 04:30 PM
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Get off your miserable ass and quit feeling sorry for yourself. If you're looking for pity, you're in the wrong place. Get to the gym and start lifting weights using the stronglifts 5x5 app. You start by lifting just the bar, so even your skeletal self can do it. Read the books on the sidebar and you'll find out exactly how this happened (it's your fault) and what you should do about. The bad new is that your marriage is probably over and your soon-to-be ex-wife is looking to upgrade. The good n…
/r/askMRP25/11/19 05:27 PM
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Do you see a man who has his shit together? Do you see a man who is in top physical shape? Do you see a man who controls his emotions? Do you see a man who has a large social circle? Do you see a man who leads his family - nurturing, protecting, educating? Do you see a man who has interesting hobbies? Do you see a man who has a vision for his life and a mission that he follows with 100% conviction? A man who women crave to be with and other men envy? Well shit, add "style" and "hygiene" and this…
/r/askMRP20/11/19 04:49 PM
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"I'll be bad to get some of mommy's attention". "Oh, it finally worked, she mentioned my ring". This whole childish game of yours reeks of insecurity and covert contracts. Get your head out of her ass and get back to the gym to improve your weak-ass lifts.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 09:36 PM
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He should cancel the date If you want to stop your dog from pissing on the carpet, you punish the bitch when she's pissing on the carpet, not the next day. Yes, he should withdraw attention at the moment of the bad behavior. Not send a butthurt text message the next day. By acting hurt he's failing the shit test and letting her control his frame.
/r/askMRP09/11/19 02:14 AM
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Remember to reset each day. Start each day by playing the "nice card". Here's a good post from BPP: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3qplxm/the_husbands_dilemma_when_to_withhold_affection/
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:23 PM
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If she declines, you should go out anyway. Leave your phone off and let her wonder where you went and what you did.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 04:21 PM
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The "stay plan" is the same as the "go plan". Keep lifting, holding frame, studying the material and passing her shit tests. You need to indifferent to the outcome, because you are an alpha male who can find a new and better mate in a heartbeat. Treat her little hissy-fit as a shit test or comfort test. I wouldn't cancel the date, it's a sign of weakness that her emotions are controlling your actions. I'd carry on like nothing happened.
/r/askMRP08/11/19 03:37 PM
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You can't put the genie back in the bottle. You messed up, so own it and apologize and move on. You need to take your anger out on the iron at the gym. To your wife and kid you must be an oak, stoic and strong. Don't ever let her shit rattle you like that again. And if you had been drinking, it is time to quit drinking.
/r/askMRP25/10/19 06:51 PM
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You don't owe us, her, or yourself an explanation for it That is the only thing you might have done differently. Instead of "I say no, that I'm feeling bad today", a simple "Nope" would have been sufficient. You don't need to defend or explain yourself to her.
/r/askMRP24/10/19 01:31 PM
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OP all butthurt u/mrpalt1 this is key. All kidding aside, her mood should have a sum total of zero effect on your mood.
/r/askMRP11/10/19 02:24 PM
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This is gold. u/mrpalt1 what we have here is a garden variety shit test, nothing more. She is testing your frame. I'd say you passed, but just barely. When you get to the point where her harpyness truly doesn't bother you at all, and you just walk up to her and give her a kiss on the forehead for her effort, then you will have swallowed the red pill. You've still got a long way to go, Mr. Chief of the Towel Police.
/r/askMRP10/10/19 05:37 PM
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Your wife does not want you to touch her because she is repulsed by your beta tendencies. She is doing the very bare minimum to keep you from whining too loudly about sex. You need to continue to improve your attractiveness (fitness, style, hygiene, frame). She will either come back around to being attracted to you, or she won't. But either way your life will be better as a ripped dude who owns his shit. You are still in your wife's frame. You care too much about what mood she is in or what she'…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 06:48 PM
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I can’t leave now. Maybe in a few years, but this is part of my life and I need to own it. If you've resigned yourself to staying then you need to improve your SMV to the point your wife is attracted to you and your marriage doesn't suck. Either that or start spinning plates on the side. It's time for your relationship to get busy living or get busy dying. Regardless of the pregnancy.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 07:08 PM
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She knows the formula. Nine years ago she roped some dope into 18 years of child support payments. Now she feels you slipping away so once again she has a beta on the hook for child support for the next 18 years. You'll look bad if you leave now, but you really need to make your marital decision based on the marriage. Living in an unhappy marriage is bad for everyone, including your spawn.
/r/askMRP20/09/19 01:12 PM
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Your growth points are Frame and Abundance Mentality. You are living in your wife's frame, and you have Oneitis to the point you are concerned about some random dude waving at your wife.
/r/askMRP18/09/19 03:10 PM
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If you could see the entirety of her stomach she’s a fat chick. Tie a pork chop around your neck and she’ll be all over you.
/r/askMRP16/09/19 07:48 PM
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'1. Cancel all credit cards. It is important to actually cancel them because she will have the credit card numbers saved at her favorite vendors. Open one new credit card for emergencies only, but you keep the card. '2. Set up 3 checking accounts and fund them with a fixed auto-transfer from savings - His Money, Her Money and Our Money. Rent, bills and groceries are paid out of Our Money. His and Hers are each of your private and independent spending money. '3. Set very firm boundaries - When Hi…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 02:43 PM
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Do not confront her about this. It is insecure and weak. You are not concerned with what goes on in her phone because you are a high value man who can replace her on a moment's notice. You should be texting only for logistics. Eliminate the continual text messaging. If it makes you feel better, change the pass code in your own phone.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/19 03:38 PM
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There is no conflicting advice on this matter. Do your own review and you'll find out quickly that all of the research has shown free weights promote quicker strength gains than training on machines. This is due to the need for more balance and coordination when using free weights than when using weight machines. Free weights recruit more muscle groups and more muscle fibers than variable resistance machines, which tend to only isolate specific muscles. The machines are for senior citizens and p…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 03:32 PM
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not alcoholic, but enough that I’m operating at 60% most of the time You're an alcoholic and you know it. We don’t do enough together as a family anymore Take the time to actually plan activities and then communicate the plan with everyone so they can schedule the time around jobs and activities. built a power rack at home You should still go to the gym when you can. It gets you out of the house and around other lifters. I can’t seem to make the shift to do these things for their intrinsic value…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/19 02:48 PM
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I have tendinitis and can’t lift until it gets better Can't lift at all? So you have full-body tendinitis? Wherever you are having pain there is always another body part you can work out. Stop using that lazy man's excuse and get your fat ass to the gym. She was definitely submissive to me early on in the relationship before I turned into a drunk captain Judge your wife on how she was at her best, not how she is at her worst. Her worst behavior is entirely your fault. And her best behavior will …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 06:41 PM
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I only use machines currently Forget the machines, you are wasting your time, they are for old ladies. Lift free weights. Download the Stronglift 5x5 App and follow it. Your gains will come much more quickly. I want to be single and enjoy an endless supply of strange pussy Resilience, happiness and freedom come from knowing what to care about - - and most importantly, what not to care about. Right now your (un)happiness is based on the need for the external validation of banging strange women. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 12:51 PM
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She's keeping a hold of her branch in case the one she's swinging to breaks. u/aita2899 this is Solipsism at it's finest. She's covering all of her bases to maximize her chances for an upgrade, while keeping you orbiting around as a safety net. Chances are Chad will be done with her soon and she'll try to slither back to you. I’ve been flirting with her and doing things like a&a when she shit tests and flirting with her daily. Why?!? Why the hell are you wasting your time flirting with her? Go a…
/r/askMRP04/09/19 03:21 PM
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The wife has been... she has gained... I think she may... she is 36 now... wife is killing it... her boundaries... she was like... she came home... Do you see the problem here? Get your head out of your wife's ass, it's unattractive and she will have zero respect for the pathetic little boy who is following mommy around.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 03:03 PM
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AWALT, she's no special snowflake. You need to deal with that and move on. MMSLP should be next on your to-read list.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 02:54 PM
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It's time to lose the Oneitis for your LTR and concentrate on improving yourself. She'll either regain her attraction for your or she won't, but your task is the same either way. You need to develop an organized MAP and then report progress against specific goals. And if you don't know what that is, you have more reading to do. What are your physical stats? What are your lifts? What have you read/ are reading? What hobbies and social contacts are you developing? What is your financial/career/edu…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/19 02:39 PM
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Health is OK Are you lifting?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 11:14 PM
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So I should definitely stick to me cancelling going on the trip then Obviously, only you can decide that. Going forward you need to learn to keep your cool and not let her pull you into her drama. When you allow her to piss you off she has control over your emotions, and she gets off on that power. She will lose a little more respect for you with each tantrum she is able to trigger. And whenever you speak, make sure what you say is the gospel truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 08:37 PM
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When we were arguing I told her I wasn't going anymore but I think she just saw that as me reacting because I was mad Do you see the problem with that? You're a paper tiger in your own home. Your words mean nothing because they are spoken in anger and you don't follow through with what you say. When you open your mouth, your words should be delivered in a cool and calm way, and you should mean what you say 100%. Only in that way will you start to regain credibility.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 05:17 PM
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Text only for logistics. "I'll be home by 5:30, stopping for bread and milk", stuff like that. Never argue converse over text, it's a coward's way of communicating. Living in your own frame is your growth opportunity. Right now you are doing everything in relation to how she will react. It's hard to let go of that, but when you finally do, it will be very liberating. The next time you feel the need to send a bunch of whining texts to your wife, just get up and go to the gym instead and take it o…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 02:32 PM
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Get the divorce, start clean in Colorado u/gulpinsculpin you'll never be able to sleep with your soon-to-be-ex wife again without wondering whom else has she has been with. The nice thing is you'r entering the peak of your SMV (if you put the work in) and she's going to hit the proverbial Wall very soon. After you've been in CO for 90 days you can file there. No child support and no spousal maintenance and 50/50 division of assets. You walk away clean. And I'd take Colorado over California any d…
/r/askMRP03/09/19 01:47 PM
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not married and without kids. u/sykepsycho you dodged a bullet with this one. More importantly, nice deadlift at 405, but why aren't you squatting? It's the best lift.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 01:38 PM
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the manipulation saying she loves you suddenly u/themerovingian01 this was what we call Hysterical Bonding. When you went to the wedding without her, the reality of divorce hit her, so she sent you the love bomb texts. It means nothing and is just part of the process of her leaving you. The best move in this situation would be to turn your phone off and leave it in the car. Let her rationalization hamster run wild with thoughts of you looking good in your wedding suit and chatting up some pretty…
/r/askMRP28/08/19 01:33 PM
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you're living your life in her frame u/raw-with-love this is all you need to read. You need to think of yourself high-value man on your own mission, and her criticism should be like the buzzing of gnats to you. It's just another shit test, and you need to learn to just laugh her shit off and not get rattled. Now that she knows you will react to that comment, she will surely use it again, so next time be ready for it. If she wants a man "with an income", you should be indifferent to that, because…
/r/askMRP27/08/19 01:56 PM
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Fuck that, you get to cry over your loss u/RP_PO you have unresolved grief issues over the loss of your boy. It is definitely going to come out at times when your frame is already under stress (travelling, when you have a few drinks, etc.). Promising yourself never to cry again is just bottling it up tighter. This is not he answer. Consider getting into grief counselling so you have a safe outlet to explore and resolve your grief. Otherwise it will continue to spill out when you don't want it to…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/19 12:50 PM
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No you do not tell him. You nail his lonely and ungrateful wife every day while he is gone carrying water around all day long, If he finds out, she'll just take his buckets and move closer to the village where the water is, because she is practical like that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 03:09 PM
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Who knows what past trauma or guilt has has lingering around that specific act. Dial it back, Rambo. The juice (on her back) isn't worth the squeeze. Keep improving your attractiveness. Don't get hung up on these small details.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 04:49 PM
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You are not OK. You are in a world of shit. You seem like you are in denial. u/anxiously_synonymous read that again, slowly. Your marriage was over the moment she hooked up with her side-Chad. It's time to go the the mattresses. NEXT her and keep working you yourself. When you're in shape and have a younger, hotter babe on your arm, she'll realize her mistake. But be clear, you don't have a choice in this matter. She's long gone and it's your fault.
/r/askMRP19/08/19 02:10 PM
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start reading the sidebar and start lifting u/barelyevenhere000 remember, "The best revenge is amazing success". You need to go no-contact with that filthy whore and make sure the next time she accidentally runs into you, you're in great physical shape, loving your life with amazing friends and hobbies, and seeing one or more younger, hotter women. Congrats! You're at the bottom and it only improves from here if you put in the work.
/r/askMRP15/08/19 07:58 PM
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Shortens recovery time for round two as well
/r/askMRP09/08/19 06:50 PM
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Waitresses are friendly because they want bigger tips. She was probably tolerating your advances and not being rude because that's how they make money. You'd be better off to take your LTR to a bar or club and have her pick up a woman to bring back for the both of you to enjoy.
/r/askMRP05/08/19 01:45 PM
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Go to a men's health clinic and get on TRT with HCG. They might also start Anastrozole if your estrogen jumps up. If you need more lead in your pencil, get on Cialis too. It's all generic now and cheap. Almost free with insurance.
/r/askMRP05/08/19 01:42 PM
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u/Vegasman20002 this is the real question. What are you trying to accomplish? MRP is a sexual strategy, so if your Krispy Kreme wife is not attractive to you, passing her shits or not passing them doesn't matter. Once you finally get out of her frame and operate truly and completely independent of her reactions, you will find this to be very liberating.
/r/askMRP01/08/19 01:35 PM
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Lifting heavy weights is always the first priority, but I like to jog on my non-lifting days for the sake of my heart and lungs. I had success with the Couch to 5k (C25K) app. You do it three times per week. It starts you off with mostly walking and increases the ratio of jog-to-walk a little each week. In eight weeks you're able to jog for 30 minutes. If you follow the program you won't get sore. To help prevent pain from runner's knee, shin splints, and plantar fasciitis make sure you buy good…
/r/askMRP23/07/19 08:12 PM
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except this clothing has been bedazzled to highlight your faggotness Just spit my coffee out.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 04:31 PM
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I did Taekwondo for a couple years. Not recommended. The sparring part was a good workout, but it's worthless in a real world scenario.
/r/askMRP22/07/19 02:06 PM
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She does everything you ask, but you're so insecure it's not good enough because she won't say "NotResultsOriented, you are the king" out loud. You're overplaying your hand. And the name thing is irrelevant. You should drop that shit. It's another sign of your insecurity and weakness. If she's yours, she's yours, regardless of what name is on her drivers license. You're selling after the close. Take the win and keep improving yourself. Work on developing your own frame and self esteem regardless…
/r/askMRP22/07/19 02:01 PM
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u/PayingDwyaneWade be thankful you dodged a bullet. Let her ex or whomever have her skanky, cheating ass. You don't even owe her an explanation, just NEXT and ghost. Edit: Get yourself tested for STDs.
/r/askMRP02/07/19 04:15 PM
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"Redpill-Rambo" is when a newb goes overboard and tries to apply everything he learned at once and goes way overboard with it. You can be an alpha male without being a douche.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 08:40 PM
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Saying she feels I only act closer to her if I receive sex Remember to still be fun. Still be her friend. You've gone full Rambo and now it's time to dial it back a bit.
/r/askMRP01/07/19 02:31 PM
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you want to make sure she is neither shitting on you or associating you with shit This is where the line is drawn between listening and being her emotional tampon. Great reply.
/r/askMRP23/06/19 07:25 PM
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u/illhavetheredone when you put this much effort into pondering her motivation behind a simple question, you are still living totally in your woman's frame. You are obsessed with what she is thinking and how your actions will affect her and your relationship. Eventually you need to develop your own frame. At that time you'll be able to answer a simple question with a simple answer, and not worry about how it affects anyone else, or the motivation behind the question.
/r/askMRP20/06/19 02:49 PM
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Be careful not to develop Oneitis for your new spinner. Remember, AWALT and she'll cut you loose at the first opportunity to upgrade.
/r/askMRP11/06/19 02:33 PM
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Read that again. “Alphas don’t mate guard”. It’s a sign of insecurity, which is unattractive. You need to have enough confidence in yourself to know she would never risk losing you.
/r/askMRP08/06/19 07:49 PM
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gets into it during sex 90% of the time Nothing to complain about there. genuinely acts like it is hurting her feelings Maybe you're confusing holding frame with being an asshole. Holding frame does not mean acting like a jerk. It means your emotional state is solid as a rock not dependent on her changing moods. You're an oak and her moods are just the breeze blowing by. You should still be caring and affectionate. Remember to have fun. Being a dick is not attractive. Being calm and confident is…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 04:11 PM
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sex is different now, and she doesn't like it Observe her actions, not her words. Is she getting into it, or does she lay there like a starfish? As far as the pills go, there's no shame in using modern science to put a little extra lead in your pencil. I would totally own that shit. She enjoys the benefit as much as you do. The deeper issue here is that you need to get out of her frame and find your own. Everything you do and say is revolving around her reaction. This is very unattractive beta b…
/r/askMRP23/05/19 01:54 PM
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Work on that, not on training your wife not to trigger your beta anxiety OP this is key. You can't change anyone else's behavior, but you have full control over your response to it. I wouldn't even mention her bitching out the mall cop, just laugh that shit off and move on.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 01:40 PM
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No! Your issue is you are an insecure whining little faggot. Who cares whose cock she sucked? She still has her mouth, and they still have their cocks. You’re just jealous because she fucked around while you were home jerking off to the underwear section of the Sears catalog.
/r/askMRP21/05/19 01:52 AM
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This applies directly to your situation: https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/askMRP20/05/19 12:54 PM
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You’re doing fine. You’re still fat and you exist in entirely your wife’s frame, but you are moving in the correct direction. Keep lifting and reading and for God’s sake get out of your wife’s frame. together for 2.5 years. 1 child (1.5 year old son) So she had your son after you’d been together for one year, meaning you knocked her up three months in? And she was 32, the age that women, after being used up by Alphas and hitting the wall, tend to dismount the CC and start looking for nice secure…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/19 03:09 PM
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You should consider a change in career
/r/askMRP16/05/19 10:16 PM
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You’re in the Anger phase, which is normal and will pass. The next time she wants to play the lesbian game, suggest a threesome.
/r/askMRP16/05/19 03:04 PM
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Do you see the irony that your original post was full of spelling errors, and yet you're asking for suggestions on how to reduce your rate of errors in your work?
/r/askMRP16/05/19 02:23 PM
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Early in my career I worked as an engineer and made similar mistakes. It is very difficult to check your own work, because you have already seen it once, so it looks correct to you. What I found helpful was having a colleague glance over my work, and I did the same for him. A "fresh set of eyes" can always see things that you missed in your own work. in bed at 9pm, wake at 5am (alarm set for 6a) Side note: Why is it bad to sleep in, but it's OK to go to bed early? #allsleepmatters
/r/askMRP16/05/19 02:19 PM
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I would say this was less of a Main Event and more of you attempting to negotiate desire, (and succeeding in the negotiation to an extent). You want your wife to desire to please you, so you threatened her with basically "lust for me, or we are done". So she went through the motions for fear of losing her situation. It's not genuine lust, but she gets an A for effort. What you are seeking from your wife is the thrill and passion that only comes in the infatuation stage of a new relationship, dur…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/19 01:56 PM
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This great reply is wasted on OP's low-effort shitpost
/r/askMRP15/05/19 02:26 PM
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You need to work on yourself. That's the only one you can change and improve. Whether you stay or leave the marriage, maximizing your attractiveness, gaining stoic confidence, having a life outside your marriage, are all things you need to do. Either way, you're the best you.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 07:43 PM
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MRP would dictate that to un-fuck yourself (and hopefully your marriage along with it) you need to put in a minimum of one month of work for every year you've been with her. You've got the fitness part locked down, but you have zero frame. You are living in her reality. Keep lifting, read all of the sidebar books, watch the Blue Pill Professor videos on Youtube. When your wife finally bottoms out with the drinking (probably a car wreck, DUI, or being served divorce papers) and WANTS to give sobr…
/r/askMRP14/05/19 07:40 PM
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the third I have made a condition that she attend You can't force someone to benefit from therapy. They have to want it. You're wasting your money. Drunk driving with the kids in the car is something you need to create a clear boundary around. Zero tolerance.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 05:20 PM
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In addition to your appointment with a therapist, you need to make an appointment with a lawyer. Your marriage is already over. Time to go scorched earth.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/19 04:19 PM
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This was a textbook Compliance Test, which is a low level shit test. The correct response is "would you get me a glass of water while you're up getting yourself a shirt"? Although she will act butthurt initially, it would be worse for her to lose respect for you and start seeing you as her errand boy.
/r/askMRP14/05/19 12:52 PM
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You're off to a good start. Don't rush things and start going Rambo until you've made more progress. Continue to work on yourself and improving your SMV before you start trying to play dread games. You have the tendency to become addicted to things, whether it is booze or video games. See if you can make lifting heavy weights your new addiction. You should have a good program to follow, just showing up at the gym isn't good enough. One thing you haven't mentioned is nutrition. You should be tryi…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/19 02:26 PM
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OP this is the best response. Quit lying to yourself and everyone else and do the work.
/r/askMRP08/05/19 01:46 PM
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She tries to pull some garbage on me… fuck that That, my friend, is holding your frame. Sex is mediocre How would you self-rate your SMV on a scale of 1-10? I need to be able to organize child care, figure out a fun place to go... Great leadership. Then drop it on her "get dressed, we are going out"
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/19 04:07 PM
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After two years you are still totally in your wife's frame. Your progress report is written from your wife's perspective. Everything is about how it affected her reaction to you. You're a beta who happens to lift and has now cheated on his wife. Until you develop your own frame she'll never see you as an alpha male and she'll never be attracted to you. Soon one of her single friends is going to see you on the dating sites and send a screen shot to your wife. So be prepared for that.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 08:07 PM
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Two carriage returns for a paragraph.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 12:35 PM
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Don’t go picking through the trash. Ignore her and live your best life.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/19 02:19 AM
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When she becomes aggressive or physical, turn her over your knee, and then take it from there
/r/askMRP17/04/19 02:21 PM
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Oh noooo! Mommy didn't make me any dinner! Waa waa fucking waa. Re-frame your thinking. You are the prize and eating in your presence is a privilege. Cooking for the king of the house is an honor. If your wife has already eaten, it's her loss. Make yourself something amazing and savor the food and the time alone. (Then clean up your mess, you lazy fucking slob)
/r/askMRP10/04/19 05:26 PM
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Bad spot to be for my buddy If your buddy chooses the plate he gets divorce raped. If he chooses his wife, the plate will narc on him and he get's divorce raped. Checkmate, plate.
/r/askMRP09/04/19 03:42 PM
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Some cars just aren't worth fixing. The cost to repair is more than the car is worth. A woman with bonafide BPD or NPD isn't worth salvaging. Better to scrap the bitch and go shopping for a newer model.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 11:03 PM
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You might keep her exclusive for a period of time while she labors under the illusion that you're going to leave your wife for her and live happily ever after. When reality sets in and she realizes she was just a toy, she will start fucking other dudes or boil your pet bunny in a pot on the stove and start messaging your STBX wife. Probably both. Enjoy the ride.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 10:56 PM
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Should I go out with a friend and stay out late this weekend to get the hamster going? You're not in a good position to start playing silly little dread games. Your wife isn't attracted to you at all, and you are on the verge of losing her, whether you believe in divorce or not. At this point in the process she would probably welcome the opportunity to have you out of the house, so she avoid your weak beta-ass self. Lift heavy weights on a structured program, read all the sidebar books, improve …
/r/askMRP08/04/19 02:18 PM
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I've started a strict IF protocol Intermittent fasting doesn't work if you binge on booze and chips when you replenish. Cut the drinking and empty carbs out of your diet to see real progress. I check them before bed (not 100% true and she knows it) Start CONSISTENTLY owning your shit. You are the man of your house, start acting like it. Take responsibility for the security of your home and your property. Your wife needs to feel like you have the ability to protect her and her children at all tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/19 09:52 PM
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How often do you get black-out drunk like that?
/r/askMRP29/03/19 03:37 PM
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just become a better man and see how she reacts Do this. Now get to work.
/r/askMRP29/03/19 03:33 PM
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Here's a good essay from The Rational Male about how men and women are hard-wired to process emotions differently, but in the feminine-primary social order (blue pill) we’re taught to believe that the way women process emotion is the correct way for men to process them as well. https://therationalmale.com/2018/05/07/emotional-differences/
/r/askMRP26/03/19 01:42 PM
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Every woman has 4 sets of rule books, one for herself, one for other woman, one for unattractive men, and one for attractive men u/toomanynames1998 the problem is women are working from the "unattractive men rule book" when they interact with you. So you are getting one-word answers and dull, disinterested conversations. If you were more attractive she'd be hanging on your every word, giggling at your jokes, touching your arm, flicking her hair to expose her neck, and all the other IOI's that ma…
/r/askMRP25/03/19 05:29 PM
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OP finds interactions with females to be boring. It's because he's unattractive and females don't respond to him.
/r/askMRP24/03/19 04:41 PM
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To become more interesting to women, you must become more attractive. If a female finds you attractive, everything you do or say will be interesting to her. Your jokes will be funny and your stories will be interesting. If she does not find you attractive, everything you do or say will be creepy or boring.
/r/askMRP24/03/19 03:22 PM
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At first I thought his OYS was a troll post. Sadly, I think he's serious
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 07:22 PM
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Your emotional state is still tied too closely too your wife. You are still operating completely in her frame. Remember Iron Rule of Tomassi #1. "Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of whose frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are." Congrats - That home gym looks almost too nice to use. Very nice work. What program are you going to use to get your lifts up? You should be using a structured system and a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:59 PM
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Thank you for the report. Congrats on getting your tooth fixed and getting high as fuck and not giving a fuck. You are clearly owning your shit and holding yourself accountable to specific measurable goals. Progress is sure to come your way. Keep up the good work and let us all know the next time you visit the dentist and get high as fuck. We will all be waiting for the next post.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/19 03:44 PM
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We make “heroes” of men who marry the single mother and assume the parental investment costs of the man she chose to breed with In addition to the social construct of making the stepdad a hero, the legal obligations of child support and spousal support make single mothers that much more desirable. Personally, I have no problem dating a single mother if I find her sexually attractive. Single moms rock! They have nice new houses and new cars (thanks to child support and spousal support), while the…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/19 05:03 PM
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I'm having issues progressing How's your macros? Are you getting enough protein? Have you tried a pre-workout with creatine? Getting enough sleep?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/19 05:28 PM
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If you attempt to engage in further gamesmanship tactics I will impose monitory punishments Hopefully her lawyer will be gun-shy now after getting a wrist slap by the judge. So the next time your STBX wants to start playing games, her lawyer won't allow it. Could she be dragging the process out because she wants back in?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/19 06:43 PM
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Judge your wife's character by how she acted when she was at her best, not how she treated you when she was at her worst. Because her worst behavior was entirely your fault (for letting yourself deteriorate into a fatass beta pussy). If your wife at her best is still not good enough for you, then consider other options. But don't make that decision based on how she acted toward you while you were a worthless fucking blob of a husband.
/r/askMRP14/03/19 05:10 PM
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Gift him Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. Maybe it'll sink in. Maybe it'll help. Unfortunately Red Pill is something you have to find on your own. It's impossible to turn someone on to it.
/r/askMRP13/03/19 02:16 AM
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You're doing what you think you need to do to support your family. BUT a sure-fire way to ruin your marriage is to turn it into a long-distance relationship. You've lost your work permit, so it's time to go home and run your car wash. Rainy season is over so business will pick up now. Get rid of the accountant and lawyer, that is needless overhead that you can do for yourself. Money will come and go, like the tide coming in and going out. Right now it's low tide. Continue to work hard and lead y…
/r/askMRP13/03/19 02:11 AM
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If you are on mobile, click on the three little dots on the upper right hand corner of the subReddit. Then choose “community info “ It does work better from a web browser though.
/r/askMRP12/03/19 09:27 PM
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u/Suck-Less OYS stands for "Own Your Shit". Every Tuesday on the main MRP subreddit there is a thread called Own Your Shit Weekly. In the comments you post the progress of your Male Action Plan (fitness, social, financial, etc.). The feedback on your OYS is the best value in MRP. If you had read the sidebar, you would know this. As far as data tracking goes, I did the same type of thing when I was balls-deep blue pill. The problem is you are totally in your wife's frame. Worry about yourself and…
/r/askMRP12/03/19 01:40 PM
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He’s afraid you’re going to fuck his wife. You should totally fuck his wife.
/r/askMRP04/03/19 09:43 PM
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I am like the Billy Mays of askMRP Just don't end up like the ShamWow guy who got arrested for beating up a hooker who wouldn't stop biting his tongue
/r/askMRP04/03/19 01:42 PM
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Until you get your own copy, the author posted a brief synopsis of the book here: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2lpafb/the_12_step_plan_of_dread_book_excerpt_from_my/
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/19 05:54 PM
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She's cutting her losses And u/mundocorde she is being very savvy about it. She goes back to mommy and daddy for free room, board and babysitting. Then she files for divorce and gets full custody because you abandoned your family. You will see your daughter one weekend a month and two weeks each summer, while paying out the ass for maximum child support so she and Dr. Chad can take some nice vacations on your dime. Depending on the state, she'll also rape you for spousal support since she deferr…
/r/askMRP27/02/19 05:42 PM
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How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie is a great resource for learning to come out of your shell. The language is dated (published in 1936) but the lessons are timeless.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 06:32 PM
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You still have Oneitis for your wife and your MAP is all a huge covert contract to getting "mommy" to love you again. Time to switch it up: Read Bang and Day Bang by Roosh Graduate from CF to lifting actual iron, using a structured program and lifting heavy weights. Start practicing catch-and-release by gaming and getting numbers. As far as Chad goes, you need to develop actual Outcome Indifference. She's getting validation from his attention. You need to increase your SMV and dread level so tha…
/r/askMRP25/02/19 03:09 PM
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I totally forgot that I was married I'm calling bullshit. This is totally unbelievable. marital property separation contract If she won't sign it, sell the property to your business for $1
/r/askMRP22/02/19 02:58 PM
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You need to ACTUALLY not care about your plates And wrap it up. No glove, no love.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 03:28 PM
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Step 1.5 - Paternity tests
/r/askMRP19/02/19 04:16 PM
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In the end, give freely because you want to, not because you have to u/redshift835 "No More Mr. Nice Guy" should be at the top of your reading list. You are plagued with Covert Contracts
/r/askMRP15/02/19 03:48 PM
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You need to slow your roll, young man. It took you 10 years to fuck this up and your aren't going to fix it overnight by pretending to be alpha once in a while. Start by reading all of the sidebar books. Lift heavy weights regularly using a structured program like Strongelifts 5x5. Watch Blue Pill Professor's videos on Youtube. You are at risk of "going redpill Rambo" right now. Take it easy.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:28 PM
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No matter how you slice it, your woman is looking for something else in the bedroom. Which means you aren't sufficient. If your wife had a higher opinion of your SMV and had more Dread of you leaving for greener pastures, there is no way she'd discuss the idea of allowing another woman in your bedroom. Continue to work on you. Unfuck yourself, before it's too late.
/r/askMRP11/02/19 02:54 PM
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Go zero-contact except for logistics regarding custody.
/r/askMRP08/02/19 03:45 AM
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This is exactly right. I see it often
/r/askMRP06/02/19 06:19 PM
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It follows that the woman stops taking hormonal birth control as a direct result of the male becoming sterilized. No I don’t think a woman can “smell” a vasectomy
/r/askMRP05/02/19 03:18 PM
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Your frame of reference is irrelevant, because you entered your current relationship already snipped. However, you entered your relationship with your ex-wife intact, and got snipped while you were with her. How did that work out for you?
/r/askMRP05/02/19 07:29 AM
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https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-problem-with-the-pill/
/r/askMRP05/02/19 02:13 AM
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Don’t get a vasectomy. Your wife’s lizard brain will see you as less alpha when your semen is sterile and then her attraction to you will be reduced. If she is on hormonal birth control and goes off it it after your vasectomy, her desire for a fertile alpha will increase because she’s ovulating, and you won’t be a fertile alpha.
/r/askMRP05/02/19 01:34 AM
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Autistico et retardo +1 What's the point of fucking if you don't get off?
/r/askMRP02/02/19 04:57 PM
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I did the same thing early on. It's easy to get caught up in the excitement and want to go out every other night. Eventually you become sleep deprived, and it also can get expensive. So you start to burn out on it. One option would be to pare it down to one or two plates for a while and slow down to one or two nights per week. Also, there's no shame in getting into a LTR if you choose. There's virtually no risk of going back to Oneitis now that you have swallowed the red pill and you've seen fir…
/r/askMRP30/01/19 08:28 PM
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with that other man’s dick in her u/fruitylad you'll never be able to go down on your woman without wondering whom you're tasting in there. You'll have Chad's swimmers on your tongue, think about that. Every time she closes her eyes during sex you'll have to wonder if she's remembering her best sex with him. I'm not sure why you come on here asking for advice and then follow none of it. If you just need to victim-puke you'd be much better off over in r/survivinginfidelity or r/Divorce. As for yo…
/r/askMRP25/01/19 05:49 PM
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“Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a fucking thunderbolt.” ― Sun Tzu, The Art of War Another man has had his penis in your wife's vagina, repeatedly. Your marriage is already over. STFU, get a lawyer, get your ducks in a row and serve her the divorce petition. You and your kids are better off being together half of the time in a stable, happy home than living in the shitshow that your marriage has become. Quit being such a fucking cuck pussy. NEXT tha…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 11:47 PM
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You’re off to a good start but still deep in your wife’s frame. Make this about you, not her.
/r/askMRP17/01/19 11:37 PM
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Instead of editing, just post a new one next Tuesday. Look at the format of some of the more comprehensive posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 08:07 PM
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if you dont win enough battles then you cant win the war Take the advice of Sun Tzu - "to fight and conquer in all your battles is not supreme excellence; supreme excellence consists in breaking the enemy's resistance without fighting. The best victory is when the opponent surrenders of its own accord before there are any actual hostilities... It is best to win without fighting." If you play the sweet card, she'll be thrown off balance so badly she'll agree to anything. Try it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 07:14 PM
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Can’t decide if I should re read the first two, or continue down the side bar. thoughts? Read MMSLP next. You cover your reading, relationship and your lifts, but you should round out your OYS with other areas of your improvement plan. Do you have some cool hobbies and friends, and a social life outside of your marriage? Where are you with your finances and career? Clothes/style? Hygiene? Etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 05:16 PM
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Your problem is that everything is win/lose to you. You want to win the custody battle. You want to win the legal battle. You want to win all of the battles. But in fighting your battles you are losing the war. In the end, the only winners will be the lawyers. They will drag things out and stir things up until you are essentially working full time for your lawyers. You will pay more to settle disputes than the material value of whatever you are fighting over. And your kids will be worse off for …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/19 05:03 PM
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turned the wife from indifference to hate There's a strong possibility for hysterical bonding here. She'll suddenly become full of lust for you. Hate is still a strong emotion focused on you, and is actually better than indifference. It could be the catalyst to start you two toward a reconciliation. But if you don't want her back it's irrelevant other than the possibility of plating her. If she sees you with another woman, it could also trigger hysterical bonding.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 05:38 PM
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You're posting this a day early (or six days late?). OYS comes out on Tuesday. 245lbs; 16%BF How tall are you? That's a low bf% for 245 lb. What method are you using? What are your lifts? STBX asked if I was going out with a woman. I said yes. Good for you. Own that shit. Sneaking around would be a beta move. There's a remote chance that executing Dread Level 12 (telling her you have a new woman) will shock her back to desiring you like she once did. And if not, good riddance to that harpy shrew…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/19 08:42 PM
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Apple is your enemy +1 Apple has the desire to make all of your devices integrated, so your iMessages are also being recorded on your iPad and Mac. Cheap burner phone is the way to go. You can get a Tracfone with minutes for under $20.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 05:44 PM
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Yes, you need to read No More Mr. Nice Guy (and the other sidebar books) before attempting to apply red pill principles in your relationship. A covert contract is an agreement that you have made in your head to trade this-for-that, but you're the only one who knows about it. You haven't articulated the contract to the other party, but you get butt-hurt when you've done your half of the deal, and the other party doesn't pay (even thought they are unaware of, and never agreed to the contract). The…
/r/askMRP04/01/19 06:44 PM
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Her emotions are the weather, that's all. Its raining. Get an umbrella and move on. Plus OP had an accurate weather forecast. He knows well in advance that she struggles during the holidays. "We have a 90% chance of Shit Tests between Christmas and New Years, so bundle up, people".
/r/askMRP04/01/19 03:51 PM
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You are still totally in your wife's frame. You micro-analyze everything she says and does, down to the expressions on her face. Quit being so needy. When you initiate, you need to be truly outcome-indifferent. Either she puts out, or she doesn't. You don't care, and will try again tomorrow. At this point, your MRP journey is still a huge covert contract with your wife.
/r/askMRP04/01/19 03:47 PM
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I found it helpful to email my list of questions to my lawyer in advance. In this way, if there was more data needed, I had the opportunity to gather what was required in advance. If you end up going through with the divorce, try to keep things as friendly as humanly possible until it is finalized. If you can work together on the division of assets, it's in your best interests. Then as soon as the divorce decree is issued, go no-contact. Good luck.
/r/askMRP03/01/19 12:58 AM
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I tell her I love her so much and wouldn’t put myself in that situation again or without her So you basically told your LTR you'll have no social life without her present? That's a much bigger mistake than telling some random bar thot you think she's pretty.
/r/askMRP02/01/19 05:17 PM
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Your woman will reach a point where: She is very pissed off about losing her cozy position of being married to a supplicating beta who does everything for her for very little in return She has come to the realization that you have other options and feels actual dread of you leaving her for greener pastures. At that moment she will find some bullshit reason to have a major blowout fight. The original reason for the fight will fade quickly as her hamster spirals out of control and she "garbage can…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 11:11 PM
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when I broke the two days I DEER’d. Essentially explaining punishment This is where you went wrong. Withdrawing contact will be a very weak tool for you going forward, because she will always see through it as an attempt to manipulate her. N count over 100 That's over 30 different women per year for three years. Unbelievable.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 04:23 PM
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They don’t fuck around anymore. No wait for sure they do Make up your mind, son. Do they fuck around or not? I still contend that it’s better to not to deal with holiday shit tests at all. I had a wonderful Christmas with my kids and no drama. Later that evening after the kids were gone back to my ex, plate #2 came over for some fun and I plowed her ass. Life is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/18 12:42 AM
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shrew wife, destroyed house and kitchen due to the mess and carnage left over from 10 hours of cooking and complaining about choosing to cook Haha this. Women have covert contracts of their own. "I will cook a huge meal, and in exchange I get to be a martyr and bitch about how hard I worked all day, and leave a huge mess in the kitchen for others to clean up". I sure as fuck don't miss that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 08:08 PM
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Could this be considered "insider trading", since u/Persaeus is getting confidential merger information from a company officer to make trades to his advantage? Like Martha Stewart style? And u/RuleZeroDAD have you been following our mutual friend Robert Shiller this week?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/18 02:53 AM
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I was scared of losing her That was the precise moment you lost any remaining power in the relationship, and she lost her last sliver of respect for you. You're doing the right thing with regard to constantly increasing your SMV. When you finally get fed up with her constantly playing the victim and then you start applying some Dread, you'll be in a good position to move to a better relationship, either with your wife or with some plate. Just don't waste too many years waiting for her to come ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 08:25 PM
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I went to a men's clinic and got the initial blood test for free. I was in the 300's (I'm 53 years old and lift heavy 3x per week). I give myself separate injections of T and HCG every Wednesday and B12 and HCG every Saturday. They do labs after every four weeks and adjust the dosage accordingly. Recently I started with a low dose of Anastrozole as an estrogen blocker because my estrogen was creeping up. After six months of steadily increasing dosages, my T is in the 900's. I have noticeable imp…
/r/askMRP20/12/18 07:50 PM
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I do love a good rationalization. People can talk themselves into anything. When you write: I'm letting her feel more comfort than necessary because I care about her and want her to finally deal with her past because it's going to make her life better I read: I am terrified of the emotional shit-storm that will ensue if I rock the boat in any way. So I will pretend to be magnanimous by putting her happiness before mine. You're a very Nice Guy. And if you're content in your situation then good fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/18 03:14 PM
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Well done
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 04:41 PM
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She is using her "trauma issues" as a means of manipulation. When she plays that card, you feel guilty for making sexual advances toward her. In this way she controls the relationship, and she controls you. Her issues aren't going to go away, because she will never willingly give up that power over you. 15 years ago, when your wife was more attracted to you, and she felt the need to qualify herself as your mate, she was able to overcome her alleged "trauma issues" and have a normal sexual relati…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 03:28 PM
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Nice progress on your lifts. Where are you with improving your style and hygiene? (Lifting is great, but if you are wearing mom-jeans and have bad breath you won't get far). You still need to get your head straight. You are totally in your wife's frame. It's time to stop making excuses for her frigid ass and start ramping up the dread. Have you read BPP's "Saving a Low Sex Marriage" yet? If not, that should be next on your reading list. There's a good summary of the book here: https://www.reddit…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/18 05:30 PM
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Spending and hour with a beautiful woman catering exclusively to your physical pleasure, ending with a climax, versus fapping. There's no comparison. I'm told.
/r/askMRP09/12/18 07:47 PM
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The idea that your woman has the only available pussy in the world leads to neediness. And neediness is the #1 killer of attraction. Getting some strange, whether it is paid for or not, will reduce that neediness.
/r/askMRP09/12/18 07:44 PM
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Allow the experience to reduce your Oneitis for your woman. By internalizing that there are plenty of other options in the world, you'll increase your confidence and become less needy. And keep your mouth shut about it.
/r/askMRP09/12/18 05:29 PM
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That was a lot of words to say "my wife is a lazy fuck who won't get a real job". Yes, you created this monster by allowing her to freeload this long. You allowed her to dick around the yoga studio instead of getting a nine-to-five job. Grow a pair of balls and lead your wife. Tell her she needs to get a job, period. If you divorce her, she sure as fuck will find a job real quick.
/r/askMRP02/12/18 05:27 PM
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Solid OYS post. Nice work.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 03:09 AM
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Look capn B, I love a good rationalization as much as the next guy, but you put "need to cut back on drinking" in just about every OYS post. If you have your drinking under control, you wouldn't identify it as an improvement opportunity every time. Your doctor told you to cut back on the booze. And the fact that you have to count your drinks is an indicator as well. Again, I suggest you quit for 90 days and see how you feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 08:11 PM
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I’ve limited drinking to only about 3 days per week, but still some room to cut down the # of drinks on those days Getting hammered three times per week is way too much alcohol. It'll fuck up your life in every area, not just fitness. Consider taking a 90 day clean break from booze and see how you feel. (And if you can't take a 90 day break from booze, consider that you might need help).
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 05:08 PM
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Well I can't write where I go without doxing myself, but it's plastered all over the front of the building, "Free Testosterone Screening". If your insurance covers diagnostic procedures at 100%, that's another way your out of pocket cost could be zero as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 04:55 PM
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Once I drop my body fat down to 15% or so, I'll likely get test levels checked If you get your T level up, getting your percent body fat down will be much easier. Men's clinics offer the initial blood test for free, so you shouldn't procrastinate. My health insurance covers TRT at 100% because it's considered "wellness".
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 03:45 PM
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Get the fuck out of her frame. You are seven weeks in and your OYS post is entirely a victim-puke about your woman. It's all "she" this and "her" that. It should be about you, your goals, and your mission to become an awesome guy and amazing father. As far as being trapped, your mantra should be "The stay-plan is the same as the go-plan". Work on your fitness by lifting heavy free weights. What are your lifts? What is your goal for this week? Become stoic to her rejections and shit tests. Don't …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 03:35 PM
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You’re still totally in her frame. When you get to the point that her words do not affect your mood (other than mild amusement) it’ll feel amazing.
/r/askMRP17/11/18 04:58 PM
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Haha she sounds like a fiery one. Is she Hispanic? You’re still very much in her frame. Everything revolves around her reaction. Just concentrate on self improvement. Keep lifting, dressing well, etc. and her hamster will run wild
/r/askMRP11/11/18 10:55 PM
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The key is to stay in your own frame at all times. You don't let her words or mood affect you in any way. You find her little tantrums to be mildly amusing, nothing more than that. She's a little girl who is acting up, nothing more. By the way, your woman has Borderline Personality Disorder. There's no treatment for that, she's just wired that way. The good news is, she will be exceedingly easy to dread. The bad news is she will wig the fuck out every time you rock the boat.
/r/askMRP11/11/18 07:02 PM
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Don't bring anybody around the kid during the process Unfortunately you don't really have any choice in this situation. You can make all the rules you want, but she has no obligation to follow them.
/r/askMRP10/11/18 05:09 PM
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Great FR. It's good to read that you've moved past the anger phase and are starting to see results. Also you've seemed to have let go of your lingering insecurities of a possible cheating episode from years ago. Have your lifts gotten any better?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/18 02:56 PM
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The Millionaire Next Door is a good read as well
/r/askMRP09/11/18 01:27 PM
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What you're describing is an overt and transparent effort to induce jealousy in your woman. It will only make you seem weak and pathetic. True dread comes from increasing your actual Sexual Marketplace Value. Demonstrate that you have value as an alpha male through peak physical fitness and being social leader, and the dread will follow naturally, without your effort. Your little shallow attempts to make her jealous only expose your insecurities.
/r/askMRP08/11/18 02:42 AM
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ensure she doesn't smell any jealousy (of which there is none; I am upset because the event in question reminds me of my failure as a man way back when.) I'm calling bullshit. You are totally jealous, and your pathetic hamstering doesn't fool her, and it doesn't fool us. You got jealous and lost frame for a moment. It happens. Be a man, own that shit, and move on with your fucking mission. Next time, let that shit roll right off your back and don't sulk. An alpha male isn't threatened by ancient…
/r/askMRP08/11/18 12:07 AM
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ensure she doesn't smell any jealousy (of which there is none; I am upset because the event in question reminds me of my failure as a man way back when.) I'm calling bullshit. You are totally jealous, and your pathetic hamstering doesn't fool her, and it doesn't fool us. You got jealous and lost frame for a moment. It happens. Be a man, own that shit, and move on with your fucking mission. Next time, let that shit roll right off your back and don't sulk. An alpha male isn't threatened by ancient…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/18 12:00 AM
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Video of the 315x2 on tired legs I like the pregnant chick in the background hitting the dumbbells. Get some!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 05:21 PM
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This was an outstanding first OYS post. I like how it is mostly about you and not a victim puke about your wife or anyone else. I know I have to be more consistent with my lifting 90% of success is just showing up. If you get yourself into the habit of going to the gym 3X per week, and just doing what the SL5x5 app tells you to do, the gains will come.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/18 05:13 PM
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What benchmarks are out there for me to compare initiation conversion rates? Taking into account the standard deviation, the MRPSCR% (MRP Successful Conversion Rate) has been determined to be 79.4%. Just kidding. Forget about comparing yourself to anyone else or to some benchmark number. The question is: Are YOU satisfied with your relationship? Obviously the answer is NO. So get to work, lose the pot belly, lift regularly, consume the sidebar materials. You'll know you're successful when you're…
/r/askMRP07/11/18 03:59 PM
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We have a one month old child Yeah, she gets a pass until the hormones settle down. Suck it up, buttercup and enjoy the ride. Just concentrate on being an awesome husband and father, at least until she's done breast feeding.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 07:43 PM
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You did a nice job holding frame during her little tantrum. You didn't react or let it get to you, or try to fix her feelz. Eventually she got it all out, (until the next time). She could have seasonal affective disorder is she goes off in the fall every year. You might look into light therapy or medications.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 07:35 PM
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Stop trying to negotiate with her. You’re not a five year old asking for mommy’s permission. STFU and stick your dick in her mouth and see what happens.
/r/askMRP26/10/18 09:55 PM
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It will be 6 years for me next March Congrats on six years of sobriety! Did you go to meetings or just quit on your own?
/r/askMRP26/10/18 04:23 PM
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not completely optimized according to the doc. I can tell I am not either based on my symptoms When your T gets over 800, that’s when you really start to feel the benefits. Libido, confidence, aggression, deeper voice, strength etc. My only complaint is I’m finding it hard to sleep. Be sure to monitor your estrogen level as well. It reads like you're starting to get over-emotional in some situations. gym, tan, laundry Snookie will be all over you. he decided to push it further and pushed my butt…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 08:30 PM
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once I flash the cash Yes, but you need to find a "working girl". Much cheaper than a wife, btw.
/r/askMRP24/10/18 04:36 PM
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They're quoting 6.5k at the dealership Sometimes cars get stolen. People drive them into bad neighborhoods at night and accidentally leave the keys in the ignition, and they never see the car again. It's quite unfortunate when that happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 04:15 PM
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I have already put some cost saving measures in place over the last couple months but this goal needs more work. Spend less, earn more, until you're earning more than you're spending. Put the surplus in savings. It's that simple. I don’t drink anymore Good. I’m a piece of shit I'm a faggot I'm a pathetic loser Self-deprecating does not serve your mission. Knock it off. I’m leaning towards telling her about this shit. Absolutely not. The first rule of fight club is that we don't talk about fight …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 02:09 PM
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Overhead press is hard because those are small muscles. Try narrowing your grip to break the plateau. Also make sure you're shrugging your shoulders at the top to avoid shoulder pain. You took your wedding ring off because you thought it would shock your wife into coming around sexually, and it didn't work. The problem is that she isn't attracted to you in that way. You need to increase your SMV and rebuild attraction. Taking your ring off does not increase your SMV, it's just a weak-ass attempt…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/18 01:50 PM
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The bending over already happened The next time the friend is around, make extended eye contact with her. One trick is to study the iris of her eye and try to figure out exactly what her eye color is. Her face and neck will turn pink and she will stammer her words at least once.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 03:15 PM
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It's immature and disrespectful to ask someone how much they make. She was showing off in front of your wife and her other girlfriends. It was a snarky way of saying "you don't make very much, do you?". It is a test of your frame and she caught you off-guard so you answered honestly. The key is to hold your confident frame and not let her rattle you. By confidently flipping the pressure back on her you remain in control of the conversation. I would keep an eye on that one for other Indicators of…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 08:21 PM
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Issue is the kids and her That's your problem in a nutshell. The "Issue" is YOUR failure to lead your family. Wife doesn't work, it's all your fault. You're out of money, it's all your fault. Get your head out of your wife's ass and be a man. Own your shit. Lead your family out of this storm like a good Captain. Your wife is not the enemy here. You are in this together, but ultimately the responsibility for the success of your family resides with you and only you.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 05:48 PM
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You are completely in your wife's frame. You approach everything you do and say from the perspective of how she will react. Your post mentioned your wife in every sentence. It's time to rise above her shit. You need to stop letting her words define who you are. Insulate yourself emotionally from her control. You do you, and stop worrying about the effect it has on her feelings. Read, lift, own your shit and work on improving yourself in every facet of your life. You are a man on a mission and sh…
/r/askMRP17/10/18 04:50 PM
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SMOKING Quit being such pussy and stop smoking. It's expensive and terrible for you and everyone around you. No weak excuses, just fucking stop. I'd like to get my teeth whitened after I quit smoking. So go to the store and buy an whitening kit and start using it daily. It's easy and it costs less than a pack of your fucking cancer sticks. One of my wife's friends asked how much money I made. This was a shit test, which means she's attracted to you. A good answer would have been "I'm supplementi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:39 PM
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$390.00 in bank/interest fees spent $2,018 in credit, and I only paid of $1,492.00 This needs to be your top priority. Running up credit card debt will eat you alive and undermine every other aspect of your life. You need to rule your finances with an iron fist and shut that shit down, like right now. No sex, and I didn’t initiate anything this week. You won't get laid if you don't initiate. You know that, right? Remember to reset every morning start each day off by playing the "nice card". You …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:24 PM
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low RP energy level Have you gotten your testosterone level checked yet? I'll read some PUA-books and practice game Read "Day Bang" by Roosh. Start out by talking to everyone youmeet. Even if it is to just say "good morning" or "nice shoes". Build from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:10 PM
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Was there sarcasm, initially, though Yes, there absolutely was sarcasm. Instead of answering his question with a simple "yes" or "no", she challenged him with a rhetorical question "When do you think I would have had time for that?". That is a very sarcastic way of saying "no". Then she pestered him for an answer to her rhetorical question (which has no answer, because it is a statement and not an actual question). This was a total shit test on her part and he let it rattle his frame. A good res…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 02:03 PM
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You should both read “This Naked Mind” by Annie Grace. It’s a game changer over alcohol.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 10:17 PM
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I said "well you are in a bad mood so I just wanted to make dinner and let you chill" "stop being a bitch, I'm cleaning and making dinner for us, show some gratitude" You started to DEER but then swatted down that shit test hard. Good job. Question: You two aren't married, but you're buying a house together in both of your names?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 08:21 PM
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Tasks from last week: All failed So you're another week older and no closer to your goals. Actions are all that matter. Get off your fat ass and do something. I stfu but should have tried to agree and amplify or something The problem isn't in your particular response. The problem is that you still allow her words to affect your emotional state. The key to passing shit tests is to stay in your own frame and not let her bitchy answer spoil your mood. In this way you take back the power in your rel…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 07:50 PM
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Her words should have no bearing on your life OP, this is the essence of Frame. Suggest you paste this whole comment as a separate post in the main sub.
/r/askMRP15/10/18 12:41 PM
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Go for an initial consultation. It'll cost you around $250. You'll walk out knowing exactly where you'll stand regarding custody, child support, and division of assets. Even though this is not what you want, you will be much less afraid of it after the consultation. Knowledge is power.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 08:12 PM
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nope she isn’t up this early Great job using Agree and Amplify Do you think I’m Fat? You: "I'd have to see you naked to know for sure..." In this way you sexualize the interaction.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:23 PM
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In fact, I think I'll confess This is way to overt and will be a transparent effort to make her jealous. Keep some mystery around it and let your LTR wonder with whom you're texting. Let her hamster wheel spin like crazy. Then when she asks you about it, just be honest, "it's just my friend Jane, we were chatting about the movie". Actually there has been this one girl who's been texting me every month or so This is a great start. There's nothing wrong with cultivating a friendship with a female.…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 04:17 PM
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A man with no other options is a low value man. This is why she has no respect for you. This is why she feels comfortable playing her little jealousy game. She gets pleasure from exerting her power over you and watching you squirm. Her low perception of you will eventually dry up her sexual desire for you, and the frequency and quality will slow down to a trickle. You don't need to break up with her. You just need to demonstrate that she is not your only option in this world. Otherwise she is go…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 03:11 PM
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245lbs (down from 283) Great progress! You should use the MyFitnessPal app to track your macros and caloric intake. Don't drink any calories. Drink only water or zero calorie beverages. Cut out all alcohol. Don't eat white bread or sugary foods.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 02:54 PM
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Would appreciate constructive advice. Ignoring the "faggot haha this guy wow" and "stats?!? lift more" and "beta this and that omega" useless posts from bitter twats. I post here for help just like anyone else. You'll catch some shit because you come across as a guy looking for the "cheat code" without putting in the work first. That aside, forget the phone incident for a minute. Your biggest problem is that you lack the mentality of Abundance. You are the poster child for acute Oneitis. (If the…
/r/askMRP12/10/18 02:36 PM
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You're off to a fine start. Download the Stronglifts 5x5 app and start lifting real weights. Forget your other "exercises". There are videos on proper form for each lift (there are only five lifts). Read Married Man Sex Life Primer next. Develop a MAP (it's in the book) and start posting in the Own Your Shit post every Tuesday. Look at some of the better posts for format. Think about an additional hobby that gets you out of the house and socializing with other men. Like a league sport or martial…
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:51 PM
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It reads like you stopped at Dread Level 5. You've improved your SMV, now it's time to take it out for a spin.
/r/askMRP10/10/18 06:34 PM
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Shitty Life Pro Tip: Contract HIV for rapid weight loss
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:19 PM
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Welcome! We are here to help. Please fill out the following form: Age: Height: Weight: Body Fat%: T: Squat: Deadlift: Bench: Side bar/books read: Hobbies: Years Married: Kids: Date swallowed red pill: Dread Level:
/r/askMRP10/10/18 04:15 PM
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the jack buckled, and now I have probably a couple grand to get it fixed Your jack was not positioned to properly "hold frame". It's all about frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 12:46 PM
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And a boob job is cheaper than a divorce
/r/askMRP09/10/18 12:38 PM
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I still haven't fully embraced frame A good first step in preventing your emotional state from being controlled by your wife's words is to just pause and take a breath before responding. During that moment remember that you refuse to be defined by others.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/18 08:33 PM
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The original post has been deleted now, but they were destroying OP in the comments.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 07:49 PM
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But it's clear I have no respect from my wife This is all you need to take from that comment. Put your hurt feelings aside and get back to work improving yourself before it's too late.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 02:34 PM
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No, he didn't do the right thing. The problem is that he is addressing the symptom (her need for attention from Chad) and not the the disease (his lack of attractiveness in his wife's eyes). Even if he manages to sabotage his wife's little emotional affair, he comes across as weak and needy, and she'll just find a different outlet for her desires (still not her husband). A better response would have been to increase his SMV while being indifferent to the outcome of his marriage. Then she will re…
/r/askMRP08/10/18 02:23 PM
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you're just above concentration camp victim He's rocking that Auschwitz look with his hot yoga and "lifting"
/r/askMRP07/10/18 12:39 AM
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Since when is physical attractiveness measured by how well you can perform in 3 specific exercises It's not, but it's a start. You're a "fit" string bean faggot who does hot yoga at the Pink Lotus Studio. You need to start power lifting and bulk up. I'm white What does that have to do with attractiveness? I guarantee that given the choice, your LTR would let Dwayne Johnson fuck her in the ass in front of you. She definitely must find me physically attractive She was once attracted to you, but yo…
/r/askMRP07/10/18 12:26 AM
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How much can you squat? DL? Bench?
/r/askMRP06/10/18 04:59 PM
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Work on becoming more attractive, and you'll have more success regardless of the time of day.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 04:38 PM
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She will text me. Asking why I have to ruin her day. Text only for logistics. "I'll be home at 6, do we need bread?" Serious conversations need to happen face to face. It's too easy to misjudge tone when reading a text
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:47 PM
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If you want to try the sex moratorium from NMMNG, then do it. Stop initiating for a period of time while you focus on un-fucking yourself. But never discuss your strategy with your wife, just do it.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:42 PM
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Yes, you should be mad. Mad at yourself. Now channel your rage into your weightlifting and take all of your aggression out on the iron. This will have a double benefit. It will reduce your stress level while making you more attractive. And when your are a low-stress, attractive guy, maybe she'll quit being such a fucking cunt.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:40 PM
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I segued into us not having sex for the rest of the year The first rule of fight club is that you don't talk about fight club. If you're going to stop initiating for a period of time, just do it. You don't discuss your plans with her. Let your plans be dark and impenetrable as night, and when you move, fall like a thunderbolt - Sun Tzu
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:35 PM
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Don't feed the troll. Just downvote and move on.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:29 PM
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I suppose I was expecting validation on that You are getting in shape for yourself, not to get praise from "mommy". She knows you're looking better whether she says so or not. The next time she makes a big fuss about taking her ring off, do not react. Just quietly slip your ring into your pocket as well. This will demonstrate her ring trick has no power over you.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:26 PM
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Gift him a copy of Married Man Sex Life Primer. Chapter 28 deals with "How to Chose a Wife". But he would benefit from reading the whole thing. Obviously he shouldn't share this with his LTR.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 06:07 PM
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Your wife being your only friend is needy. Needy is unattractive. So ask yourself, are you looking for a friend or a lover. She can't be both. You need to build a life apart from your wife. Get a hobby, join some club, join a movement. Then you'll get some friends independent of your marriage in whom you can confide.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 05:27 PM
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I'm only going to get the answers I'm looking for after putting in the work. That's correct. Give it a year. Lift heavy free-weights, be a leader, own your shit around the house, and ignore shit tests. As the pregnancy progresses and after the baby comes you need step it up and be super-dad to the baby and your son. Go above and beyond what you're expected to do without expecting anything in return. You do it, because that's what men do.
/r/askMRP05/10/18 02:52 PM
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Unless one spouse is incapacitated, the state I'm in does not recognize alimony or spousal support
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/18 05:26 PM
1

If you're convinced it will hold you back, it will. It will erode your self-confidence. I had acne scarring corrected this year and it was money well-spent. I would totally do it again. I'm considering having some other work done as well. You should go for an initial consultation and see what they can do for you and how much it would cost.
/r/askMRP26/09/18 04:39 PM
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It’s a matter of personal preference. If you’re content with your current girlfriend after playing the field for a while, that’s fine. I love variety. I’ve been divorced a little over a year, and I still relish spinning plates. I had a goal to fuck a white, asian, black, hispanic, blonde, brunette and redhead within year of my divorce, and I completed the mission well ahead of time. Then my buddy pointed out I hadn’t dated an Indian (dot, not feather) so I’m on the lookout for one of those. I en…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/18 02:47 PM
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a man wants a woman to need him a woman needs a man to want her This is better than the original post.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/18 05:35 PM
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Go to your wife with a story about how the plate came on to you, and you (of course) flatly rejected her. When the plate outs you, she'll come across as a crazy spurned woman who is telling lies. And you're the dutiful husband who stood by his wife despite the advances of this evil temptress. If you play it right, your SMV will go up in the eyes of your wife because it will validate your desirability.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:32 PM
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On the bright side, she is definitely starting to feel some dread. Her hamster is on steroids. She's probably twinning your phone on an Ipad or Ipod touch.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:26 PM
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We accept the love we think we deserve. You clearly have an advanced level of self-loathing to remain with a morbidly obese harpy with severe emotional disorders. We have lived together for 5 years So you're not married? That makes it so much cleaner. Run, don't walk.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:19 PM
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acting like a chick and giving trickle truth "It just happened. I was only going to get a little high."
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:24 PM
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No one else at the gym cares what you are lifting. Everyone is concentrating on doing their own thing. Watch the Strong Lifts 5x5 video on Youtube and download the app. You start out just lifting the bar, which is 45lbs, and no one else cares. Before you know it you'll be huge. It really works.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:18 PM
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Good thought, but we have shared custody so there still needs to be occasional communication. If she calls she gets voicemail. If she texts she gets a bare minimum reply.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 12:19 PM
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Offer her a glass of red wine Might hold off on that one until she's done with breastfeeding.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 03:51 PM
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Welcome back, and thank you for your service. I would avoid going out to dinner with your STBX or hanging out at her place. Keep communication to the bare minimum necessary for custody logistics and preferably in writing by text or email so there is a record of what was written. In my phone, the contact name for my ex is DO NOT ANSWER, as a reminder not to pick up when she calls.
/r/askMRP20/09/18 03:47 PM
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Now you're DEERing your original DEER. It's like DEER2 DEERING in only a problem for faggots with no frame One might counter that DEERing is an indicator of a weak frame. A stronger-framed reply would have been "I'll fuck whomever I want, one or ten. And if I choose to be in a LTR then I will."
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 07:35 PM
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Get the picture? Yes, but the picture I got was one of a DEER Defend I don’t have oneitis. Explain Oneitis is a label for men with no abundance. An unhealthy relationship with ONE women. Three months Excuse The juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Rationalize I could be balls deep in a min of five old plates in the time it takes for them to finish their work day and drive to my house Fuck. Shelly could be here in less than 10 mins probably.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 07:10 PM
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d). Going to the gym gets you out of the house for a few hours a week and stops you lurking around behind your wife trying to Kino her, fog her or whatever the fuck else you’re trying to do with her that she doesn’t want you doing to her. d). Muscles Why is there two d)? Are they of equal importance?
/r/askMRP19/09/18 05:19 PM
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You are building a new you. Get to fucking work. Great post. Question: My girlfriend is an excellent girlfriend Have you gone from one LTR directly into another LTR before the divorce is even final, instead of spinning plates? It reads like you've displaced your old Oneitis only to transfer it to a new Oneitis.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/18 04:40 PM
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dumassedry I just expanded my vocabulary.
/r/askMRP17/09/18 08:01 PM
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I have my 6 Sigma Black Belt and still have Minitab on my computer, but I've yet to run into a situation that required that level of statistical analysis to solve a problem. Still it does look good on a resume, and if your employer is willing to pay for it you should do it. For that matter, if your employer offers any type of tuition reimbursement and you don't take advantage of it, you're essentially leaving money on the table.
/r/askMRP17/09/18 03:16 PM
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Just finding someone who is willing to get up in the morning and show up every day on-time is a huge struggle this year. The self-discipline that usually comes with military experience is sought after. Nothing is guaranteed, but if the candidate had some type of leadership role, even better yet, because they'll be a good fit for a team lead and eventually supervisor.
/r/askMRP17/09/18 03:07 PM
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Your timing is very fortunate because the economy is cranked up right now and employers are struggling to find good workers. Military experience is a huge feather in your cap and you will have no trouble finding a good paying job. If you can find a decent place in the same school district as your STBX, it will make transportation and school choices much more simple.
/r/askMRP17/09/18 02:23 PM
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You have returned from one battle only to face another one. You don't go into battle with just your dick in your hand. You need to be proactive and get a good lawyer right away in the jurisdiction where your cheating whore soon-to-be-ex-wife is shacked up. A lawyer will be expensive. It will be worth the expense. 50/50 joint legal and physical custody is in the best interest of you, your daughter and your bank account. You need to have a job and a clean apartment with at least two bedrooms to de…
/r/askMRP17/09/18 02:03 PM
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Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom. Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way. When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. Viktor Frankl
/r/askMRP17/09/18 01:53 PM
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There will be one hot bar for each night Thursday through Sunday. Go to the hot bar late, like one or two hours before closing for easy pickups The grad students are on Match
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/18 05:12 AM
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Your wife has nothing to do with it. You put the pizza in your mouth. The whole "sabotage" story is a rationalization to take the blame from yourself and place it on your wife. Have some self-discipline.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:57 PM
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If you're over 25 years old the reality is you are going to have a lot of nagging injuries and pain when you start moving heavy weights around. This is true. I'm 52 and my knees "snap crackle and pop" like a bowl of Rice Crispies when I squat. If I waited until every little pain went away I'd never work out
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:52 PM
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And buy a squat rack with he proceeds
/r/askMRP13/09/18 04:53 PM
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Well done. This should be a separate post.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 04:51 PM
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OYS 9/11/2018 Physical SL 5x5: Squat 245, DL 300, Bench 145, Row, 165, OH Press 130 Had a momentary lapse in my form on a deadlift and fucked up my back. I’m pretty sure it’s nothing serious, but it will set me back a few weeks on DL. Bought a MummyFit adjustable grip strengthener that I keep in my office. I’d like to build up my forearms. A friend and I signed up for a Tough Mudder next year. As much as I hate cardio, I’m going to have to start running to train for this. TRT/hcg: T is running a…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 03:39 PM
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You can get a DNA test off the shelf at Walmart for $24.99, and then there's a $139 lab fee when you mail it in. You get the results online.
/r/askMRP09/09/18 04:34 PM
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I could have accepted their shit offer. It was in my dream city An alternate approach would be to accept the offer as a stopgap measure to keep the bills paid (especially if they are offering a good relocation package to your dream city), but then continue the job search until you find someone who'll pay you what you're worth. You will much be more hire-able if you are already employed in your field. An unemployed person who left on disciplinary terms is damaged goods and employers will see that…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 01:52 PM
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Lawyer the Fuck Up right now. With a good one. This isn't the time to be cheap. And welcome home.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 10:26 PM
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Your wife has done nothing wrong. The old photos are from before you were together. Use this as a reminder of the slut that dwells within your wife (all wives), and motivation to continually improve your SMV. The next time you want to skip the gym, remember what she is fully capable of doing with Chad when you slip up.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 04:54 PM
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Intermittent fast for that Which version of IF have you found to be most effective?
/r/askMRP30/08/18 07:04 PM
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It means NEXT.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 06:58 PM
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She doesn't have any respect or attraction for you, so your advice has no effect. shop online (with her own money), browse Facebook and Instagram and text her WhatsApp groups all day So she's getting her dopamine fix from these activities because she doesn't get it from you. Here's your prescription: 1. Read all of the sidebar materials 2. Lose the gut. 3. Start lifting weights. 4. Get some new friends and a cool hobby. She'll either jump on the train or she won't. Either way, you'll be better o…
/r/askMRP29/08/18 07:21 PM
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It depends on your wife. Sometimes a harpy will use such information as a weapon against you. Others will have the maturity to appreciate your effort toward self-improvement and be supportive. It's your call, but the fact that you're here would indicate you should keep your mouth closed, at least until you're further along. Nothing in the sidebar is gospel. Absorb the information and then tailor it to your own unique situation.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:58 PM
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Slow down, you're both too young.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 02:50 PM
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Solid post, thanks for sharing. It was fun to read. when two people divorce, mutual friends no longer exist I'm finding this to be true as well. There's no joint custody of friends after a divorce. They will land in one camp or the other. Even without that complication, I don't think you and ole Bob were destined to be friends. The next time you are all together, just for fun, flirt with Bob's wife. That will be like throwing gasoline on a fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/18 01:40 PM
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Haha excellent!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/18 11:56 PM
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You are correct, there is zero reason to get married. Ever. It is a completely one-sided contract. And the vows you recite at the ceremony are unenforceable and have nothing to do with the litany of obligations to which you are actually agreeing, which are actually contained in state divorce laws.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/18 07:27 PM
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This is funny. But deep down, it's what too many men expect. The woman must be virtuous. And, of course, a virgin. And apparently she need to fuck on the first date. It's a tough combination to find.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 07:02 PM
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This is a stupid fucking move Agreed, it was a huge mistake. It was a desperation move on his part that only dug his hole deeper
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 02:23 PM
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before the next big meeting, come up with some questions or comments before hand By using less words, but contributing actual content when you DO speak, you will have people listening to you. They'll know that when you speak you are adding real value and not just blowing hot air like the grand-standers.
/r/askMRP24/08/18 01:54 PM
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Too bad about the foot, but that's life That statement embodies her natural female solipsistic nature. It's not her fault, it's programmed into her firmware
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:37 PM
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Peter set himself on fire twice. First the job that changed his marriage into an LTR. Second the truck Hopefully there's a lesson there for someone.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:32 PM
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This is true. Also, in a smaller plate pool, excluding single mothers isn't really practical. All three of my current plates have spawn in tow, and I'm fine with that. I don't plan on marrying any of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 01:21 PM
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They simply don’t all put out on the first date, son. It’s a fact. Anyone who claims to get laid on every first date is writing fiction. If by the third date she’s not dtf then it’s time to move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/18 12:01 AM
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Fuck ‘em all. Why discriminate?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 11:10 PM
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Alice’s boyfriend, the meat man, was probably hitting that ass the whole time That explains why Sam was always smiling
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 05:51 PM
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It's counter-intuitive how that type of elaborate gift would actually make her lose respect for him, but that's how it works. Skittles would have been the better choice.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:48 PM
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How quickly do you recover from amputation I hope I never find out. Did you bang jan? Not yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:46 PM
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Marica was way hotter, but she's probably still a virgin. Davey Jones couldn't even hit that. Jan would be way more fun. It's the same argument and Ginger versus Mary Anne. Mary Anne was cuter, but Ginger would be much more fun.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:44 PM
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You're correct, she did the full ex-husband puke which is so common on a first date with a recent divorcee. And nope, I didn't get down her pants yet. And I always fuck on date one Congrats, that's a very impressive stat, to always fuck on date one. That's an unbelievable success rate. You'll have to share your secret, it's worthy of it's own post for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:42 PM
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Yes, communication is the key, haha! not a bad catch She's good looking, educated, has her own business, makes very good money. One could do a lot worse
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:29 PM
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No I didn't fuck her. I'm not giving up though, she looked pretty good in those jeans.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:25 PM
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The state we're in doesn't do alimony. As far as child support calculation, she is the custodial parent and has the vast majority of overnight stays, so he would probably owe, her despite her higher income. I didn't ask if either was paying.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/18 04:24 PM
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This helps with Tennis elbow: https://www.amazon.com/Venom-Elbow-Brace-Compression-Sleeve/dp/B01N2U2A67/ref=zg_bs_5006370011_2/132-0669234-4470136?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=9Y83NDGVGRT22RYRWZDV Download the app “StrongLifts 5x5” to get your lifts progressing
/r/askMRP22/08/18 10:01 PM
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be her friend This is exactly right. I played my wife like a fucking stradivarius until the final divorce decree was issue. Pretending to want to help her out, fixing stuff at her new place, assembly furniture, helping her move, everything. Once the divorce was final and she had agreed to very unfavorable terms (I kept the house, my retirement and most of my assets), I flipped the switch and went no-contact. The only communication is by text regarding custody logistics. Congratulations on your n…
/r/askMRP17/08/18 04:42 PM
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Next time, you put the laundry away and have the kids help you. Make it fun if you can. I play the "sock-match game" with my young ones. This way everyone in the house is working as a team under your leadership to get the chores done. If your wife decides to sit on her ass rather than participate, it will go without saying who is failing to contribute. Kids are smart, and follow actions much more than words. Take it slow. Don't go all Red Pill Rambo, mate. Judging by your stats, you have a long …
/r/askMRP16/08/18 01:28 PM
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You did the right thing. Instead of going full beta-pussy-bitch with your wife, you bounced it off of a group of strangers on the internet, and then cooled your jets. No harm done
/r/askMRP15/08/18 02:11 PM
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No matter how good you are you can't guarantee that a better Chad doesn't cum along It's true, and the fact that we are aware of this fact puts us at a distinct advantage over the general populace of average fucking chumps. The most you can do is continually work hard to increase your own SMV. Then the population of Chad's that are of higher value than you decreases exponentially. The solution is to become Chad.
/r/askMRP15/08/18 03:12 AM
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if OP's wife comes home from work with ligature marks on her wrists and ankles, that's a little clue
/r/askMRP14/08/18 08:46 PM
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deal with this shit If you can get to the point in your self-improvement journey where you don't see her crush as "this shit" at all, and instead just calmly and confidently see it as just another female acting the way they are all pre-wired to act, then you will have truly swallowed the red pill.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 06:34 PM
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Nah, her leaving would make this problem a lot simpler The fact that you characterize it as a "problem" proves you lack outcome indifference. Teasing her about it is weak and will reveal your jealous insecurities. At best, she will be less overt with her admiration of her boss. At worst, she'll have even less respect for you than she does now.
/r/askMRP14/08/18 05:18 PM
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her crushing and probably thinking the branch swing is possible, that is challenging me The root cause of the problem is that you are living in her frame. You and your goddamn oneitis have her pussy high up on a pedestal, and you think you can't do any better than her. Your mood, emotions, and thoughts are all tied up and obsessed with what you assume SHE is feeling. You are living in fear of her leaving, and this is very unattractive and will ironically result in the very thing you fear the wor…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 04:02 PM
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There will always be men with a higher SMV than you. There will be dudes with more money, better fitness, smarter, whatever. And the lizard portion of your wife's brain will recognize superior breeding stock and she will feel attraction toward men with a higher SMV. All Women Are Like That, whether they admit it or not. It's no different than you thinking a bikini model is hot. You can't help being attracted to things that are attractive. You need to have enough confidence in yourself to believe…
/r/askMRP14/08/18 02:05 PM
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one who wants to lock you down This is the key
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 07:47 PM
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I left my decent job to move for her career The irony is that you sacrificed your job for her, and then she lost respect/attraction for you in return. I've let my finances go to shit When you develop your MAP and start posting an OYS post every Tuesday, be sure to include a section on getting your career on track and a section on getting your finances back in order. Whether you're married or otherwise, those items need to be part of your mission.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 07:06 PM
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Troll post
/r/askMRP13/08/18 05:28 AM
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Shaving a fat man looks retarded. Looks like a baluga whale Fucking hilarious
/r/askMRP13/08/18 04:50 AM
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Your post reminds me of how miserable life was with a mate with whom my turn was over, and how messy yet liberating the process of ending that turn proved to be. Welcome to the party. Welcome to the sunny side of divorce. Welcome to more fun, more money, more pussy, more of everything good. You still have a lot of anger toward your ex and your previous self. It's good you're taking it out on the iron and by hatefucking thots. I am somewhere between still being in the MRP group The MRP group is s…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:13 AM
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The first thing to do is get a Red Swingline Stapler and display it prominently on your desk, Milton. If they take that fucker away, you know what you need to do. Kidding aside, your workplace should be a good barometer of your progress. Getting in shape, dressing better, improved grooming and hygiene, stronger ambition and motivation will all be noticed. You will receive much more respect than the fat, lazy, unkempt pussy you used to be. At some point you'll be promoted or you'll outgrow the jo…
/r/askMRP10/08/18 02:15 PM
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You will never "keep up with her twists of thought", she's a female. Don't even get on that roller coaster. Logic does not apply, they run on feelz. You need to grow a pair of balls and get out of her frame. There's nothing wrong with getting her feedback, after all she is your first officer, but do not allow yourself to be interrogated like a two year old who got caught with his hand in the cookie jar.
/r/askMRP10/08/18 01:52 PM
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I love your sandwiches sammiches too! FYFY
/r/askMRP10/08/18 12:40 AM
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just got off the phone with my sister after trying to get her to go to family counseling together with our mom (they have not been on speaking terms for like three years) It's not your job to fix their dysfunctional relationship. Don't get dragged into the drama, even if you share some DNA with them. Let them work it out for themselves, or not. Either way, stay OUT. Yes, this was your eavesdropping, meddling wife fucking with your frame to test your reaction. You defended, explained, excused and…
/r/askMRP10/08/18 12:38 AM
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You should post an "Own Your Shit" update on the MRP sub each Tuesday. It's a good way to make sure you are setting clear goals and working to achieve them. You will get some great feedback, (and you will also get shit on if you're being lazy or bullshitting yourself). Yes, your marriage is most likely cooked. She will be fucking her New Chad while you are travelling. Use this as motivation. The best revenge is great success. Continually improve your SMV into the stratosphere. It'll drive her ha…
/r/askMRP09/08/18 03:42 PM
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The peaceful mood in the car on the way to the airport was because she was eagerly thinking about the fresh cock she is now free and clear to ride while you're out of town for the next two weeks. First got rid of the affair, began dread on my wife and it was working well Without reading your post history, it seems like you jumped from stopping the emotional affair directly to playing some dread games. You skipped the hardest and most important step, self-improvement. What have you done to increa…
/r/askMRP08/08/18 04:04 PM
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Thanks, I'll try to find a good lens and tripod. It came with a Tamron 171D 28-200mm Lens. I'm trying to do this on the cheap in the beginning, until I decide if the hobby is for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 03:18 PM
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500px.com Great site, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 03:02 PM
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I have definitely been doing it incorrectly, with my elbows flared. I have not been shrugging my shoulders at the top.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 03:01 PM
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I found the camera game book on Amazon, and it will be my next read. I had no idea that was even a thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 02:58 PM
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The missus is really paranoid with her appearance She's starting to feel the Dread
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 02:22 PM
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Shark week so nothing on the cards Is there something wrong with her mouth, asshole, and hands?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 02:06 PM
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OYS 8/7/2018 Physical SL 5x5: I’ve reached a 5-rep max on overhead press of 115lb, which doesn't seem like much weight. You’re supposed to be able to overhead press your girlfriend’s weight, so obviously I need to find a smaller girlfriend. The problem is I get a sharp pain in my left shoulder during this exercise and the barbell goes up crooked. Probably will need to de-load and work back up. At my age I can’t stop for an ache or pain or I’d never work out. Insurance has denied coverage for TRT…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/18 02:00 PM
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and the man-poodle said: "What? I thought you were into alpha males?" It's interesting that he said that. Perhaps you've been "talking about fight club" to your wife, and she naturally tells her sister everything
/r/askMRP06/08/18 06:58 PM
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You just described my ex-wife to the tee.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 01:17 PM
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Look at it this way. She's a puppeteer, and you're the puppet. Her leaving the ring on the table was her pulling one of your strings, and you moved for her just like she wanted you to. This was a simple shit test, and you proved to her that you are still completely in her frame and she controls the tempo of your little puppet dance. If she were up to something more sinister, she would wear the ring out of the house and then put it in her purse after she left. She was just testing your reaction, …
/r/askMRP03/08/18 01:03 PM
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Best post on here in a long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/18 01:22 PM
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Remember the rule of 3. For every past sexual encounter she admits to, multiply that number by 3 and you'll have the true total. Now get the fuck over it, it's not your problem what she did before you met. This is very unattractive, weak beta behavior on your part, and it will dry up her vagina when she's around you like the Sahara, and drive her into the arms of the next douche who comes down the pike. Start lifting weights. Download the app Strongelifts 5x5, and when you start to feel jealous …
/r/askMRP31/07/18 12:27 PM
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It depends on the state. I live in a "no fault divorce" state where it doesn't matter. Secondly, he's deployed. Overseas. Should be safe enough.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 08:45 PM
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Regardless of what she says, the medium is the message. She punched you in the face because she wants you to end the relationship. It's time to move on.
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:21 PM
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If she has informed you that you're coming home to an empty house and you are separated, you are free to stick your dick into every crazy expat you see. This is not "cheating", this is you living your life after your wife bugged out on you. Unfortunately all of your suspicions turned out to be true. She swung to a different branch while you were away serving your country and supporting her and your daughter. You do you, and stay out of her frame. Her reaction or response to your family is not yo…
/r/askMRP30/07/18 01:13 PM
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I guess the best thing for my kids would be if he's a Bob and supports her expensive ass. I'd hate to see my young ones get attached to someone and then have him bug out on them.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/18 12:28 PM
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guess will find out if his name is Chad or Bob. i'm betting on Chad and splat! I don't get it
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/18 08:01 PM
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drunk Sunday night McDonalds and Tacobell she's begun to put on weight Boozing and eating fast food, and she's putting on weight. Shocker
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 03:57 PM
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Bless me, Father Figure, for I have missed OYS last week Three Our Fathers and Three Hail Mary's.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 03:52 PM
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OYS 7/24/2018 Physical SL 5x5: Squat 190, Deadlift 255, Bench 115 TRT/HCG is progressing nicely and I can feel and see the difference. Recurring eye infection won’t quit, will need to have a procedure on my lower eyelid to dig out the puss. Family Took the kids to the beach for a week. It was a win all around Need to squeeze in one more trip before school starts back. Social During a recent business trip to a southern state, I re-connected with a lady I had met on Match a year ago. She had moved…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/18 03:48 PM
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FYI - Used Harley fatboys in great condition go for under $10k
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/18 01:02 PM
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I just googled it and you're correct. Thanks, I'll need to stop doing that before my daughter grows a pair of nuts or something
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 08:12 PM
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OYS 7/3/2018 Physical TRT is going well. I think my facial hair is actually growing faster and darker, and I’m certain my voice is lower. Turns out a good friend of mine has also been doing TRT at the same clinic, just neither of us ever brought it up. My insurance has denied coverage for the T injections, so I might have to switch it up to a mail order clinic. Sometimes I’ll take a drop of testosterone and rub it on my neck as a little extra cologne. I really think it works on plates, or perhap…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 02:45 PM
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It only gets better from here. Party time! Buckle up and enjoy the ride!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/18 03:34 PM
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What's good for the goose is good for the gander. He should install Tinder on his phone and sit there swiping in front of her. The real problem is she has lost attraction for him and is looking to upgrade and swing to a higher branch before hitting the wall. He needs to improve his attractiveness in all areas. If that restores her attraction for him, that's great. If it doesn't, his improved SMV will help him when he re-enters the dating pool.
/r/askMRP26/06/18 12:36 PM
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Always take the kid for an extra day when the chance arises. Sooner or later you'll need her to return the favor so you can take a long weekend with your new, younger, hotter girlfriend. Other than that, go no contact except logistics.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 05:31 PM
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Change her name in your phone contacts to "Do Not Answer". Zero contact except logistics regarding the kids. Best to do everything by text message so there is a record of the conversation. Something is broken in her house, New Chad can fix it. She needs advice on the best place to order pizza, Google is her friend. She wanted wanted to kill the puppy, now she will need to deal with the consequences of that decision. She doesn't get to divorce part of you (lover, friend), and keep the parts she w…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 04:32 PM
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I've come to the conclusion that some women get off emotionally more on vengeance than fucking And some broken things are simply not repairable
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 04:04 PM
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I have a prescription for Acyclovir (Zovirax). When I feel or see a cold sore starting to come out I start taking it. It will usually prevent it from emerging altogether. Worst case it goes away quickly. It's available in generic, so a full bottle is like $5
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/18 02:34 PM
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I'm glad to see your first wife has been forced to live a more humble existence. I'm sure she wakes up every morning regretting losing you. You could look for side-hustle gigs where you can put your replacement wife to work as your helper. If she is putting in equal hours and effort, then if things split up later, she has earned her half of the assets. Write down your financial goals and start working toward them. How much do you want to have in an emergency fund? What type of house and applianc…
/r/askMRP14/06/18 12:35 PM
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And you're still in her frame if I know all these things about your ex-wife. True, so true. It'll take time before I'm completely indifferent to her situation. With shared custody, maybe never. Until I get there I will indulge in the occasional schadenfreude Yesterday I took Plate 3 out for some Taco Tuesday action, before hitting her taco. Walking into the restaurant, I saw the ex's besty sitting there and made sure to stop and say hello, and she immediately started fingering her phone with the…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 04:57 PM
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OYS 6/12/2018 Physical Got the second round of three procedures to correct acne scarring on my face. The first round there was quite a bit of pain, so this time I took a Vicodin I had saved an hour before the appointment, which took the edge off. Next time I might take two. I didn’t see much difference in my scars after the first round, but this time it seems to have made a difference. TRT/HCG therapy going well with no change in dosage. I’m getting better at the injections so I haven’t had brui…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 01:09 PM
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Only you can be the judge of that. There is no set formula. Try to game your wife and if she's still repulsed by you, you'll know rather quickly.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:58 PM
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"are you mad?" Hero: "Yes, now get naked and I'll show you how mad"
/r/askMRP07/06/18 05:30 PM
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was that a shit test or a comfort test? A shit test is about you, to test your frame. Usually given in a harsh or disrespectful tone. A comfort test is about her, to test your level of commitment. This was a low-grade shit test. You did just fine.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 01:37 PM
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Mark Manson wrote about in Models: Attract Women Through Honesty. Page 151 No porn Fap once per week on the same day Think only about women you’re trying to bed Use lube to avoid Death Grip
/r/askMRP06/06/18 09:44 PM
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The soft “no” is becoming easier to penetrate I see what you did there
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 06:02 PM
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No, there is no gender equality in solipsism. Males are genetically predisposed to be the disposable gender and will routinely place the lives of women (and children) before their own. One Example: On the Titanic there were 412 female passengers and 108 died. Meanwhile there were 776 male passengers and 648 died. If males were solipsistic the could have easily overpowered the females and taken over all of the lifeboats.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 04:56 PM
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Solipsism: ALL women will act in their own best interest. Depending on their upbringing and social circle, sometimes that best interest involves remaining monogamous because their perceive payoff is with their chosen deity or reputation amongst their peer group or family. But they are still acting in their own best interest.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 04:31 PM
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most of its evangelists cite bullshit doom and gloom to make themselves feel clean, like a religion Can't be as bad as Vegans or Cross-fitters
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 08:37 PM
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I think you're taking the "Carbs are the enemy" comment out of context and and too literally. The full comment was: "Yes do keto. Carbs are the enemy". The macros on the keto diet are 60-75% of calories from fat, 15-30% of calories from protein, and. 5-10% of calories from carbs. That's quite a difference from "no carb religion" Keto works, it's delicious, and it's simple to follow. In the end it's the calorie deficit that matters most.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 07:50 PM
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Accuracy of my body fat tester Why does it matter how precise your body fat measurement is? If you are getting to the gym, your lifts are progressing and you look and feel better than yesterday, a percent or two difference in body fat measurement is irrelevant. Spend your time and energy on something that will benefit you Should I do Keto Yes do keto. Carbs are the enemy I plan to open two new accounts This is a great idea. Then when the discretionary spending account is at zero, the discretiona…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/18 01:29 PM
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Fuck that cunt. It's tough at first, but trust me, she's doing you a huge favor. Some day you'll look back at her rejection as a huge stepping stone toward your life becoming SO much better than it ever was. I got divorced last year and I've never been happier. The sky did not fall down after all. My number one concern now is my OWN happiness and that of my children. I'm no longer worrying about whether she's happy or what she's doing. I have money, toys, hobbies, women, and time. Just concentra…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 09:22 PM
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Will probably get Lasik in the next couple of months I got this done in 2001, still can see 20/20. Highly recommended.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 03:30 PM
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The best outcome would be if he could get some time with his kid (after DNA test) and maintain the same support payment. That would be an accomplishment.
/r/askMRP22/05/18 02:14 PM
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Feeling like I'm on the edge of what I can deal with and will break soon Go and lift
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 01:31 PM
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awful meeting where I panicked and lost my frame Some day you'll look back at that awful meeting as a learning experience and stepping stone. At that time you'll be the seasoned guy who holds his frame and never panics.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 01:30 PM
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Bobnick is the founder of modern Approach Anxiety
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 01:15 PM
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I'm going to take my kid to the park every Saturday 1-on-1 now that the weather's better A two-year-old at the park could work like having a puppy with you. It's a good ice breaker with ladies.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 12:54 PM
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So on Sunday evening I ran 13km, a new personal record. Quit a game I'd been playing that had stopped being fun. Really enjoyed my second week at a new team sport as well; good to meet some new people. Also catching up with the guys I regularly lunch with tomorrow finally finished 12 Rules for Life. These are all good successes for one week. How's your weight lifting going?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 12:50 PM
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OYS 5/22/2018 Physical First round of followup blood work shows my T is up from 334 to well into the 800’s. The clinic said it sometimes jumps up high in the beginning and then might taper off. Getting some bruising at the injection sites on my thighs, in one instance I must have hit a vein because it bled bigtime and then left a huge bruise. (Plate saw the bruises and assumed I was doing the rough stuff with another plate, which I did not deny, I told her my safe word was “skittles”). Lifting 3…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/18 12:43 PM
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I can only get better from here As long as you are better than yesterday, you are on the right track.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 04:14 PM
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he lives here where I live not 2000 miles away This is why she is moving back. Not for you, and not for your son. She is moving closer to her new BB. You should play her like a grand piano. Give her occasional bread crumbs of interest. This way you can manipulate her into the custody and child support arrangement that best suites you. If you get 50/50 custody, your child support payment will go down substantially, regardless of your change in income.
/r/askMRP21/05/18 04:13 PM
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Here's a good article for you, amigo http://muscle.iuhu.org/2013/07/the-army-has-to-train-too-improvised-gyms-made-by-those-who-love-bodybuilding/
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 06:59 PM
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Excuses are like assholes. Everyone has one, and they all stink. Hand sprain so can't grip You can squat with a hand sprain. (should also help with noFap) Nearest gym is 100km away A 300 lb Olympic weight set is $239 brand new, including shipping
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/18 05:49 PM
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sweet social security benefit for the parent of a minor child My first wife passed away and I experienced this first hand. And then I fucked up and got remarried
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 05:22 PM
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Not drinking is definitely agreeing with you. Good job. Why aren't you lifting weights?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 03:48 PM
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Congrats on being free at last! Life is awesome after divorce in every way. Enjoy it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 03:05 PM
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She did mention suicide again there is no alimony and you get 100% custody Damn, son
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/18 02:48 PM
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In the state where I live, you have to sign for Bronchaid because it is a precursor to meth, similar to Sudafed rules.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 06:45 PM
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To summarize Your MAP: Didn't Lift Didn't Read Didn't Dread Didn't Fuck And then 1000 words about your wife. How is this working for you?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 06:20 PM
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if I did get into this house it could derail other parts of my mission Smart move ,and great leadership. Buying too much house is a common mistake. Being house-poor will suck your finances dry and add underlying tension to every other part of your life
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 06:16 PM
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I had never believed I could be entirely acne free Have you tried Accutane? Or PRP Micorneedling? I would vouch for both. the kiddo came Congrats, that's awesome! I hope everyone is healthy.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 06:12 PM
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The lawyer says they have zero case with just her testimony months later. They're the same age and they were in a long-term consensual relationship. He thinks the detective will just go through the motions and it will die on the vine with no charges filed. He called the detective and followed up with a letter. I'm keeping my fingers crossed this will all blow over.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 06:00 PM
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Did you find it having effects? The main benefit is as an appetite suppressant. It's all over-the-counter, and available at any CVS. I take (1) Bronchaid (ephedrine), (1) No-Doze (Caffeine) and (1) Low Dose Aspirin first thing in the morning, around 6:30 AM. I feel zero hunger and it rev's up my metabolism. If I get hungry around 11:00 AM or so, I'll take a second stack. When I'm on this I have to remind myself to eat and the weight just falls off. I avoid taking it after noon, or my sleep will …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 05:56 PM
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Don't bother, it's too early. I did bloodwork 4 weeks in, TT was midrange. Next bloodwork was at 3 months, TT was over the top of the range. The men's health clinic is running the show, I just do what they tell me, haha. Make sure you bag it up Good advice across all demographics. STD's don't discriminate.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 05:50 PM
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OYS 5/15/2018 Physical Started TRT and HCG injections two weeks ago. So far not noticing much difference other than my weight jumped up a little and I think my voice is actually deeper. Going for bloodwork today. SL 5x5 lifts progressing nicely. Lifts values are nothing to brag about. I’ve added biceps and triceps curls (because I like that pump). Started IF and EAC stack to cut a few pounds and get better ab definition prior to summer. Bought a new sportcoat jeans and brown wingtips for my son’…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/18 02:15 PM
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For the love of God, hit enter twice for a line break. Twice.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 04:21 PM
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he can start getting HBs in their late 20s; why stay with the 45 yr old wife Why not do both?
/r/askMRP10/05/18 02:18 PM
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Make sure she washes her hands first
/r/askMRP09/05/18 07:15 PM
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"Hey, after you're done cleaning the sink and changing that diaper, make me a sandwich".
/r/askMRP09/05/18 03:52 PM
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Men and women process emotions differently, that's a given. But to recognize any inherent difference between the genders is considered to be misogynistic. Personally I can't fathom how women can tolerate processing emotions before facts. It sounds like torture to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 12:44 PM
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Slowly and gently jerking you off so you'll go back to sleep, sated and sedated Where is the site? (Asking for a friend)
/r/askMRP07/05/18 08:06 PM
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20-40 hotties I'm definitely going to look into this
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 01:21 PM
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Do you get much benefit from yoga? I've considered it but never really researched it
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/18 02:33 AM
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if she wants to go off and make life difficult Difficult for whom? If you chose not to let it affect your happiness she is not making life difficult for anyone but herself. Read the autobiography of Vicktor Frankl. The man had his family murdered and was thrown into a concentration camp. But he decided he had the ultimate power to decide how it affected his outlook. That, my friend, is FRAME.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 08:38 PM
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Just Do It. Get your nose fixed. Get the Orthodontia. Regardless of what others say, it is important to YOU, so it affects your self-image and therefore your confidence. Recently I cosmetic surgery to correct acne scarring I've had since high school. Best thing I ever did, and I'm worth it. Also, I had Lasik surgery years ago and I love not having to worry about glasses or contacts. Take care of yourself, no one else is going to do it for you.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 08:33 PM
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for three or four days she is unbearable Holding frame means you do not let this affect you in any way. She cannot control your mood, and you cannot control her behavior. Once you get to that level of frame control, your life will be better because your mood is not tied to hers, and your sense of worth is not tied to your ability to control her. You might find that her PMS isn't so severe when she realizes it is wasted on you.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 08:24 PM
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Stop procrastinating and NEXT that bitch. You could be with someone so much better right now. Life is too short to live this way. She has done nothing to deserve your support. Nothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 02:23 PM
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Continue to improve my SMV from the standpoint of physical appearance, behavior, and dress. I don’t think I have maximized this 100% yet and I see some areas that could still be improved. That is correct, you must never become satisfied and complacent. Continuous improvement is the goal. When we have sex, it is usually rushed and she feels that bodily fluids are “icky” No, she feels like YOUR bodily fluids are "icky". She is not attracted to you, so you creep her out. There may come a point wher…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/18 01:35 PM
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You called that one a mile off.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/18 03:30 PM
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$2k is expensive, it depends on how badly he wants the photos. Might try a college kid/computer hobbyist who's willing to tinker around with it, but you'd risk losing the data.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 06:56 PM
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My hard disk crashed last sunday, lost quite a bit of files - both work and personal, including irreplaceable personal photos It's possible to recover most of the data from a crashed hard drive. There are companies that specialize in data recovery. It's not cheap, but the personal photos are worth the cost
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 04:41 PM
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It does not relate to my mission, other than being mildly amusing.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 04:13 PM
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Great first OYS post. It's clear to me that my wife lost attraction to me This is everything. Improve your attractiveness and things will get better. You've been together for 10 years so figure on 10 months of regular lifting, reading the sidebar, and improving your frame before you can expect significant results. Don't drink alcohol Add the book "This Naked Mind" to your reading list. It is a game changer if you are struggling to quit the booze.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 02:24 PM
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She’s usually not a snooper, but has done so in the past. She's a total snooper. You only find out about it when she finds something she thinks is a smoking gun. To test this, just do an Amazon search for something to which you think she'd object (sex toys, lingerie, Harley Davidson, whatever her hot button is) and then see how long before she calls you out on it
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 02:14 PM
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I mean, how on earth do people pick up in a place where you can’t hear anything? Agreed, it never works will if you have to yell at each other to communicate. When the music is super-loud (like with a live band), I have more luck talking to people in the perimeter areas away from the racket. Like if there's a side bar or adjacent room.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 02:07 PM
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My divorce consultation was the best thing I did for my frame. If your wife is prone to threatening divorce (her ultimate power play), the consultation takes all the teeth out of that threat. Once you know how it will all go down, there is nothing to fear.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 02:01 PM
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OYS 4/24/2018 Physical T level came back at 334. I’m debating doing the shots or not. I don’t have any symptoms of low T, but I wouldn’t mind the improved muscle gains. I’m in a good rhythm doing Stronglifts 5x5 three days per week. I started with the empty bar per the instructions so my lifts numbers aren’t very impressive yet. I’ve been trying to gain mass and have been bulking on a high protein diet. Some belly fat has accompanied as expected. In three weeks I’ll start a cut for summer. Famil…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/18 01:56 PM
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To really ramp up your SMV, have a big glass of "Tuscan Dairy Whole Vitamin D Milk, Gallon, 128 oz"
/r/askMRP20/04/18 01:57 PM
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This is about YOU and not about her +1 u/tylerhooray you are entirely in her frame. Frame control is your low-hanging fruit right now. Stop worrying about how she's going to react and concentrate on fixing yourself. Changes in her demeanor should occur naturally as you become less unattractive and needy
/r/askMRP19/04/18 01:30 PM
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Just keep at it. You have good momentum right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 08:13 PM
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So, I failed a shit test She was afraid I would have drinks and do something silly Unless she was harsh or disrespectful, this sounds much more like a comfort test than a shit test. A comfort test is about her, a shit test is about you. I re-assured her that that was not what happened Not a bad response to a comfort test
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 03:02 PM
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Nice post and progress. Are viewing your MAP from the perspective of your wife and how everything affects her? You mention her multiple times in every section except your workout stats.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 02:56 PM
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your wife would probably be in the 20% that cause 80% of the pain This is spot on, and ignoring her only seems to make matters worse. Maybe it's time to change things up.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/18 02:26 PM
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Ok, so you've gone a little Redpill Rambo here, but the damage is minimal. You wrote in your original post: I found a message to a lawyer friend of hers asking for a consultation for divorce. The message specifically mentioned one child and the fact the marriage was ending So you went and had your own divorce papers drawn up. I don't see a huge problem with this, and you are simply matching her trump card with one of your own. You are sending a message in response to her seeking a consultation f…
/r/askMRP17/04/18 01:46 PM
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OYS 4/17/2018 Goals: 1. Be in excellent physical condition 2. Have a full social life 3. Remain financially secure 4. To fuck a variety of beautiful women Physical I’m going to get my T checked this week. Lifting 5x5, 3x per week, going fine. The Y where I work out during the day is a piece of shit. Rusty ass lockers, ancient lifting equipment in a cramped weight room, you can’t even find a decent set of clamps. You get what you pay for. Slipping back into drinking too often. One of my plates ow…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 12:13 PM
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Did you start the TRT through your family doctor or did you go to a men's health clinic? Same question on the HGH, is that through a clinic. And could you please ballpark the cost per month? Do you drink alcohol at all, and if so how much and how often?
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:09 PM
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It's just my humble opinion, and there is zero science to back it up, so take this all with a grain of salt: Everything about a woman's pre-programmed sexual strategy revolves around getting pregnant with children of the highest quality genetic material available (Alpha Fucks) and then keeping them alive until adulthood (Beta Bucks). After you get a vasectomy, her limbic cortex (lizard brain) knows your genetic material is no longer available and she will lose sexual attraction for you. You will…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 01:55 PM
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I take a whey protein shake with 40g of protein each day and 5mg of creatine. Google "creatine and hair loss". I was taking creatine and started noticing hair on the shower drain. Doesn't happen to everyone, but it is something to be aware of. I bitched early-on about having a hard time gaining weight. Seems I’d never really tried hard enough. Good self-awareness and accountability. also read The Daily Stoic (Ryan Holiday) each morning. Is this a book or an email gig? I also inquired about a vas…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 04:55 PM
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DUUR HURR HURDURRR Had a guy like this in my TKD class years ago. He only could go full speed and full contact, even when sparring way below his belt level. And the instructors made no attempt to corral him. It got to the point where I refused to spar with him any more. You should do the same. It's not worth getting injured and delaying your progress by weeks or months because some jack wagon doesn't know how sparring is supposed to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 04:34 PM
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It varies wildly from plate to plate. But they all seem view plate-status as a temporary condition, tolerated for a period of time toward the greater goal of a committed relationship. Once they realize that it's not going to happen, the plate falls. I'd imagine there are some out there with a low enough self esteem to continue as a plate indefinitely, but I haven't found them yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 04:12 PM
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OYS 4/10/2018 Physical Using Strongelifts 5x5 (they started charging for my previous app, and I’m a cheap bastard). I like the simplicity of the 5x5 program, I will probably augment with some isolated exercises and cardio. I had the first of three cosmetic surgery procedures to correct acne scars on my cheeks. The next day my face looked like I had lost a fight, but I went to work anyway. I’ve had these craters for many years and I’ll be glad when they’re gone. I never would have spent the money…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 12:53 PM
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"How would you feel in my shoes!" To which I respond, "Your shoes? Babe you know I could never fit in your shoes!" This is very quick and clever. I show wife the first post which is her in Miami wearing a red swimsuit ala Baywatch and running slo-mo with her tits bouncing. I tell wife that me and this girl were both in Miami last weekend and isn't that funny? This is way too overt and actually shows weakness on your part.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 04:50 PM
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The consult is very empowering. It takes much of the trepidation out of the divorce process and gives you confidence because you know what you're facing. Write down all of your questions about custody and assets etc. and then email them to the lawyer in advance. This way you won't forget anything and you will get the most out of your hour.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/18 04:45 PM
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Most often, they will try to manipulate you into anger Bait, bait, berate and then bait. And then if they are successful at getting a rise out of you, they get to play the victim. They will bring up the one time you lost your temper to anyone who'll listen until the day they die, but they've blocked out the 90 minutes of pure shit they fed you to get you to that point. Every frame has a limit. Ignore them at all cost This is the only solution. There is no fixing these folks. Distance is the best…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/18 12:43 AM
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Post history indicates troll
/r/askMRP16/03/18 07:10 PM
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You're actually condemning HIM for not confronting her about it sooner or more often?!? He should hang around longer to make sure she's a lying cheating whore?!? A man who sides with the feminine imperative (in this case by forgiving and defending his roaming slut of a wife) is what's known in the Red Pill vernacular as a White Knight Beta. Your lifelong conditioning dictates that sticking up for a woman (even anonymously on the internet) will somehow get you laid. It does not work. Being femini…
/r/askMRP16/03/18 05:08 PM
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(especially when) one partner messes up? It's good to make a counterpoint (here, have an upvote for that), but she messed up twice (that he even knows about). Once with the sexting relationship with the old online friend, and the second time getting busted cuddling some random dude at the bar. So there are probably ten more things he hasn't found out about. This is a trend, not an isolated incident. He should be thankful he has discovered her true nature before they had kids. NEXT!
/r/askMRP16/03/18 03:55 PM
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she promised she’d stay there for a few days to help out. She’ll be back this weekend If you think that's the reason she's travelling this week, you're fooling yourself. NEXT the vile whore.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 03:54 PM
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Any idea what is going on with my body ? Instead of asking strangers on the internet, go to Urgent Care or the ER before you have permanent nerve damage
/r/askMRP13/03/18 06:08 PM
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If your LTR approaches her nutrition as a "diet", then she may lose some pounds temporarily, but she'll gain it all back again once the "diet" concludes. What she needs is a permanent lifestyle change that includes good nutrition and exercise, and then her weight will take care of itself. As for you, google how to "bulk and cut" to gain muscle mass. What are your macros? I would suspect you need more protein.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:32 PM
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She should be immediately demoted to plate status. She's not LTR material.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 01:20 PM
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Once you go Amish, you never go back.
/r/askMRP09/03/18 04:27 PM
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OP - Two carriage returns for a paragraph. Two.
/r/askMRP08/03/18 08:12 PM
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don’t know what you’re asking for sidebar Bobby is asking you which materials you've read from the sidebar list. Posting questions prior to reading the perquisites is considered poor MRP etiquette.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 07:32 PM
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Quit being a pussy. Get the massage. You'll love it.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:03 PM
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You should be chatting up women wherever you go. The supermarket, the gym, school, wherever. There's nothing wrong with talking to people, making good eye contact, setting conversation hooks.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:03 PM
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Good point. He doesn't need her permission.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 06:00 PM
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Getting a professional massage is another good tip. It's like "catch and release light". There's nothing like having another woman rubbing her hands all over you. And it's perfectly acceptable for a married man to have this done, (as long as he is not going for the happy ending).
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:23 PM
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No More Mr Nice Guy, Married Man Sex Life Primer, and When I Say No, I Feel Guilty cover the very basics. You should have them down pat before you do anything.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 05:21 PM
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When you have a mentality of scarcity, you feel like your wife is the best you could ever do and you'd be lost and alone without her. This is known as "Oneitis". She will have all of the power in the relationship, and she will look down upon you. Eventually she will lose her attraction for you, because you're a weak and needy little pussy. She will own you, and she will not want to fuck you any more. Maybe she'll give you a little duty-sex once per month to keep the paychecks coming, but that's …
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:55 PM
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places where they can get with women Those are great places to practice Catch and Release. Do some flirting, get some phone numbers. By doing this you'll increase your confidence and your abundance mentality. It seems counter-intuitive, but it will help your marriage immensely.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 04:28 PM
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If your wife is going to cheat on you, she'll find a way, trip or not. Objecting to her taking a girls' trip will come across as insecure and needy. By all means take a guy trip with your buds. There's a lot of fun stuff to do in Vegas. Tiajuana is nice this time of year. The fishing is good in Canada. So many possibilities she has opened up for you with this suggestion.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 03:15 PM
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I'm on Dread Level 10 at the minute, have read the side bar. Didn't click the links but I've read it about 8 times since yesterday. So we're supposed to read what's IN the sidebar, and not just "read the sidebar"?!? Shit, so much wasted time.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 01:18 PM
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Any update on your PI?
/r/askMRP05/03/18 09:32 PM
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I was trying to be funny. It's a line from the Woody Allen movie "Hannah and Her Sisters"
/r/askMRP05/03/18 09:08 PM
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Nice work. Anyone who does that list to completion should not have any questions.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 06:55 PM
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You can trust her. You can trust her to trade your ass in the moment you show weakness and she feels she can do better. Lose your job, you can trust her branch swing to greener pastures. Get fat and squishy, you can trust her to fuck Chad Thundercock after a few drinks. Trust her hypergamy. Trust her solipsism. Stay frosty.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 03:59 AM
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Tomorrow morning she will be hung over and apologetic as hell, if she even remembers what happened. You may need to remind her about her drunken violence in front of your children. If you decide to keep her around, you'll need to set a firm boundary about drinking. She's a violent drunk and she can't handle her alcohol.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 03:54 AM
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Start small by keeping up with simple home maintenance items. Change your furnace filter, keep up lightbulbs, patch cracks in the drywall, clean out the filter on your washing machine (yes, there's a filter you need to clean). Then graduate to more complicated repairs. Most home and vehicle repairs consist of simply finding the bad component and changing it out. You aren't actually "fixing" anything, per se. If you call a repair person, ask him if you can watch over his shoulder because you're t…
/r/askMRP04/03/18 04:14 PM
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You've been granted the wonderful opportunity for a fresh start. New job, new women, everything. Make the most of it, it's a gift. There are so many men trapped in a bad marriage who hang in there for their kids, or for fear of the unknown, for financial reasons, or whatever. It's time to fully detach from that vile whore and explore the possibilities. A year from now you'll be living the good life, up to your armpits in fresh 'tang, and your ex will be fat, broke, miserable and alone. Mark the …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 06:00 PM
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I am willing to help Buy him a paperback copy of This Naked Mind
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 05:51 PM
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So your wife is seven months pregnant. You need to STFU and just be the Oak. Good luck with the delivery and new baby.
/r/askMRP02/03/18 04:08 PM
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not being able to stick you dick in your wife while she sleeps naked He just wanted to put the tip in
/r/askMRP02/03/18 04:00 PM
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angry wanks Hey man, don't knock his hobbies
/r/askMRP02/03/18 03:59 PM
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Saving a marriage where your whore wife has had strange cock up her is never a good idea. OP, read this and take it to heart. Now go and get some strange, you deserve to be happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/18 03:54 PM
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I'm 52, divorced almost seven months. My only divorce regret is that I didn't get out three years earlier. My life now revolves around my own happiness, and no one else's. Physical: I feel your pain on the physical side. Pull a hammy? It'll hurt for a fucking year. Tennis elbow? Feels like it'll never heal. If you slack off lifting, the crippling DOMs lasts a solid week. But the cool thing is, if you're lifting and working out, you're ahead of 90% of males, and 99% of over-50 males. Take a good …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 06:43 PM
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Creatine: 3-5 grams Creatine made my hair start falling out along my hairline. Watch out for that. just try to socialize and meet people. FAILED If you tend to be more of an introvert, try reading the Dale Carnegie book under "General Awesome Guy Shit" on the sidebar. It's quite dated, but the principles are timeless and they can be a game changer. Also Day Bang by Roosh is a good read.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/18 05:54 PM
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miniature JUNGLE that I create WITH MY OWN HANDS that is also DELICIOUS? Fair enough. A real man grows whatever he wants. Also, your whole house is your Man Cave.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 05:27 PM
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Good first OYS post! You put some effort into it. My primary motivation is to … become a man my wife can respect. Nope. This is a covert contract. You should want to be a man ANYONE would respect. Your wife is just another woman, and there are millions of them. If she doesn't respect you, there will be plenty who will. Do it for YOU. I'll focus on cutting out other carbs when that's easier. I love a good rationalization. “I’ll cut carbs when it’s easier”. Just do it, man. Protein is tricky Whey …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/18 08:52 PM
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Threesome. Dump her afterward if you choose, but get the threesome.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 08:49 PM
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You don't even have to decide if you don't want to. Remember, you are the prize.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:44 PM
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So basically you're writing: "My girlfriend is playing games to pressure me into moving in and committing to a long term relationship, what should I do?" The solution is: Continue to do what YOU want to do. Her drama is just static noise in the background.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 02:18 PM
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When they make you an offer, always reply "can you go any higher with the salary?". Usually they'll bump it up a little to close the deal. If they won't budge, you haven't rejected them, so you're still in a good position to accept the position if you choose. If you take their first offer, both sides are left unsatisfied. You'll always be wondering if you could have gotten more, and they'll always be wondering if they could have gotten you for less.
/r/askMRP25/02/18 04:30 PM
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There is not a single word in either book devoted to “attraction” and this “world-renowned” therapist clearly has NO CLUE about the difference between making women wet and making women warm and comfortable Great write-up, that statement nails it. The problem with Gottman's work in his "Love Lab" is that he studies only Lagging Indicators of a relationship that is already severely stressed. Contempt, Criticism, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling are all signs that the attraction is gone and the rela…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/18 07:17 PM
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tell em' you're interested in geneology That's brilliant. If the wife wigs out, you have your answer for free.
/r/askMRP23/02/18 02:27 PM
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If you want something that will hold up in court, take your kid to a lab that does paternity testing and they will swab both you and your alleged child's mouths. They will document the chain of custody of your samples. This company has locations all over the USA, and the cost is around $200: https://www.anylabtestnow.com/location-directory/ If you don't need it to be legally-admissible then the CVS kit is $25. Let us know how it turns out. Edit: Either way you can have the results sent to a thro…
/r/askMRP23/02/18 02:22 PM
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F-close that night? This one has been a sure thing since the second date. she's running out of money? I'm sure that's part of it. Also her branch-swing isn't working out as she expected. Either way, it's not my concern other than for amusement.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/18 02:05 PM
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Copying and pasting the same OYS every Tuesday isn't going to get you anywhere. You need to take action. Get off your ass and go join a club or something. Actus Non Scribo
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 05:58 PM
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Sounds delicious! A Claussen pickle has 5 calories, zero carbs, zero fat. It's a great alternative to chips if someone is craving the crunchy/salty experience.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 05:42 PM
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Good OYS post, you have a lot of self-awareness. Last pay period's budget was decimated from doctor visits from sick kids and such. But, made it through. cleaning house on Saturday, etc. I think I want to hire someone to do some of this for me These are two conflicting goals. You're squeaking by financially but you want to hire a housekeeper. A better solution would be to get everyone out of bed an hour early on Saturday and clean the house as a team, with you leading. That should free up some t…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/18 02:41 PM
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You might re-visit the decision to bring a kid with "ADHD on turbo mode" to a movie, where he is expected to sit still and be quiet. I have a son with ADHD and he excelled at martial arts. They benefit from the structure and ritual while giving them a healthy outlet for their energy. It might be a good father-son activity. Also swimming is a good activity for ADHD kids (Google " Michael Phelps ADHD") spending has been out of control A simple budget method is to use envelopes. You make up envelop…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 05:22 PM
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You've lost 32 lbs and you're getting laid. Great progress, keep it up! SSRIs are shit I tried taking Zoloft after my first wife passed and it wasn't for me either. Life is meant to be lived and felt, even when it sucks. No fap is still not going anywhere Try Installing a porn blocker on your phone and computer
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 05:07 PM
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Her 35, 5'0, 150lb @ high 30's BF% Why are you posting her stats? Concentrate on improving yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 05:00 PM
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Wife accidentally included me in a friend request There are no accidents. She is playing the jealousy game and you took the bait hook, line and sinker. You need to have enough self confidence and outcome indifference that this doesn't bother you. By objecting you appear weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 04:57 PM
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OYS 2/20/2018 Physical Gave up alcohol and meat for Lent, 6 days in out of 46, so far so good. Living on whey protein and Chipotle veggie burrito bowls. Started back lifting despite tendonitis in both thumbs. If it hurts, it hurts, but I’m done waiting for them to get better. Family I’m excited about my upcoming trip to Orlando with my youngest to swim with the Dolphins. Will need to do the Magic Kingdom at least one day, although I’m not a huge fan. The magic has gone from that place, it’s just…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 03:50 PM
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That’s a great point
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/18 11:53 PM
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stop making your wife's desire the cheese Great metaphor. Turns out I'm lactose-intolerant and was better off without the cheese.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/18 01:48 PM
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A female who experienced premenstrual irritability would be less likely to remain in a relationship that was not producing offspring than a female who didn’t become irritable
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 03:59 AM
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The male who successfully impregnates the female would experience much less frequent PMS. That's the difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/18 03:25 AM
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You did the right thing. Knowledge is power and know you will know for sure one way or the other. lifted 4 days out of the week; rode 12 miles today, and starting to train for a triathlon as I always wanted to do one. Lifting and riding are good healthy outlets for your anxiety.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 08:54 PM
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wear a short skirt No panties.
/r/askMRP16/02/18 02:17 PM
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Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 08:37 PM
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bought her some jewelry go out for a dinner/show I'm expecting booty time but not initiating Textbook covert contract. Go back and re-read NMMNG.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 05:02 PM
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DNA paternity test is $24.99 at Walmart
/r/askMRP15/02/18 04:32 PM
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Christmas Visa bill I’m spending money like a drunken sailor How well are you owning your shit in the finances department?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 04:27 PM
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“I, tongue emoji, cat LOL’ing emoji, rain drops emoji” I need to remember this
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/18 04:25 PM
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I was horny So you can't wait five minutes for her to get moist? That's high school shit.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 04:10 PM
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She then brings up issues from the old me that I've done my time for. Please be advised of your Miranda Rights: Anything you've ever done or said can be used against you at any time. It's just another shit test. She is testing your frame, and since this has worked in the past to expose you as a DEERing sniveling little beta, she will continue to use it. Smile and hold your frame and OWN it. "Yup, I sure as shit said/did that". After the initial shock wears off she will see you differently.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 04:02 PM
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You need to customize your approach to your audience. our sex routine would often commence with her lying on me for 5 or more minutes If in the past this has led to closing the deal, what's wrong with her laying on you for five minutes? If that's what it takes to get her warmed up, I don't see a problem with that.
/r/askMRP15/02/18 03:56 PM
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it's time to check the ego and enlist the help of a good real estate agent A good realtor will have a large network, so they have the inside line on properties as they come on the market. Just remember that all realtors are ultimately on the side of the seller. The higher the price, the higher the commission. And they want the deal to close, so they can get paid, regardless of whether it's in your best interest.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 09:38 PM
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Read BPP's Married Dread book Great book. Check out his Youtube videos as well. I may also be putting off lifting because weights intimidate me--I have NEVER lifted in my life. I just need to suck it up and start doing it though. Bite the bullet and go to the weight room. There are videos on Bodybuilding.com for every lift that show proper form, which will help you avoid injuries. Always warm up with an empty bar for each lift. No one in the weight room could give a shit what you're lifting. Eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 09:34 PM
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Go back and count how many times you wrote "wife" and "she". Your MAP is about you, not your wife. Get out of her frame. Male Friendship : No progress. What are you doing about this?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 03:07 PM
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But it didn’t happen this time. Instead, something that had never happened during our relationship took place. I did not respond to her provocations. Good use of stoicism in response to a fitness test from your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 02:13 PM
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The nice thing about MRP is that whether you stay with your wife or move on down the road, the improvements you make to yourself will make your life infinitely better going forward. If you embrace the concepts, you really can't lose.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 07:48 PM
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Risky click
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/18 07:45 PM
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Tinder is a hookup app. Women swiping on there will be seeking superior genetic material. She'll be more interested in your sperm than your portfolio. You'd be better off showing off your abs than your lab coat. By putting out hints that you're wealthy (expensive car, big house in the background, etc), you'll be more likely to get hits from women seeking a SB/SD relationship. This is where a young lady provides 'companionship' to a 'generous' older man. Which is fine, if that's what you're into.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 01:57 AM
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I would imagine she deletes incriminating texts as they come. Great point. He could demand she log onto her billing statement and see whom she's been texting. But even then, she could be using WhatsApp or SnapChat or any other App which will leave no record.
/r/askMRP11/02/18 08:30 PM
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OP's default at this point should be DONE Agreed. If she unlocks the phone, he'll read her texts to Chad and know she's been fucking around. Then he'll have closure and can Next the vile whore with no doubts. If she refuses to unlock the phone, he'll know she's been fucking around. Then he'll have closure and can Next the vile whore with no doubts.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 09:56 PM
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and demand the truth Or ask her to unlock the phone and let him go through her texts. That would reveal the full truth of her communication with Chad(s).
/r/askMRP10/02/18 06:15 PM
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I think your mentally mastrabating talking about “exit strategy.” He has Exit Strategy Fuckarounditis
/r/askMRP10/02/18 06:06 PM
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Very simple. The boundary between Owning Your Shit and Choreplay is in your motivation. Why are you doing a chore? Choreplay means you do a chore expecting something in return (usually sex from you wife or some other recognition). It is a Covert Contract. When you don’t get the reward, you become butthurt and pouty and no one knows why. You become less attractive. Owning your Shit means you do what needs to be done because you are the MAN and you do what is needed to be done. The toddler has a s…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 11:40 PM
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I grabbed him roughly and he was crying. You transferred your anger and hurt over getting bitch-slapped by your wife to your son. You need to hold your frame and refrain from taking out your frustrations on your little boy. Hitting is not acceptable, Ever. Removing yourself from the situation was a good response. Going drinking was not the best move, since alcohol will only weaken your resolve. Next time you need to remove yourself, go to the gym or a coffee shop instead. You need to establish a…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 05:09 PM
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Act normally until you have met with lawyer and are prepared Once he has his ducks in a row, he should call her on her burner phone and say "the divorce papers are on the kitchen counter"
/r/askMRP09/02/18 03:38 PM
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Being in shape doesn't entitle you to anything. You are essentially a drunk captain, but your drink of choice is working out. You aren't leading your household, you're hiding from your responsibilities at the gym. There is much value for you in the sidebar materials. Start with reading all of it. Then you need to start leading your household. Shake things up. If it is a clutter-fest, clean it and keep it that way. If you want to take a vacation, book the vacation and a sitter, and she can come o…
/r/askMRP09/02/18 02:46 PM
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Thanks! I need to look into that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 03:34 PM
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OP you wrote in the comments: It will be going it's a trust I have. My daughter is the sole beneficiary of it. If the inheritance is going into a trust for your daughter, how is this related to your suspicion that your wife is cheating on you? She had an emotional affair prior to you leaving for six months overseas? Yes, she it most likely cheating on you. There is no harm in hiring a PI if you can afford one. That will remove all doubt. You can expect to pay around $50 an hour. So figure on aro…
/r/askMRP08/02/18 02:27 PM
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Put the phone back, don't confront her, but visit a lawyer, find out what your options are. THIS^ She's already gone. She has a boyfriend, or several. If you confront her about the phone you'll just get lied to.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 08:41 PM
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But here's my point... None of my other relationships lasted. You are lacking abundance mentality. You have Oneitis for your wife because none of your other relationships lasted. If you can develop abundance mentality and are truly indifferent to the outcome, you will gain the courage to handle her 1.5 Week Shit Test instead of hiding from her and walking on eggshells
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:07 PM
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Cognitive Dissidence Dissonance FTFY
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:03 PM
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this feminist harpy shrew. that message is the first to get me real angry I am fucking fuming You are still harboring a lot of anger toward your ex-wife. You have not fully detached yet and her shit-test text has the power to affect your mood. Don’t let her control you like that. A letter from your lawyer will reveal to your ex that she can still get to you. Continue to ghost her and text only regarding custody logistics.
/r/askMRP06/02/18 06:43 PM
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This falls under the classic definition of the shit test know as a Compliance Test. “Go and get me a cup of tea” or “Hold my handbag" or "Go and start up my car" She is really asking whether or not you are a complicit beta that will take her orders like a good little boy. A good response is an amused "What, do you have a broken fucking leg?!?"
/r/askMRP06/02/18 03:07 PM
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OYS 2/6/2018 Physical Failed to cut ten pounds for trip to Cabo. Made it to seven. Put most of it all back on during the trip (for some reason when I hear “all inclusive” I think that means I have to gorge myself and get fucked up every single day). De Quervain's tenosynovitis in both thumbs. Hurts like hell and isn’t improving much. Prescription Prednisone didn’t do shit for it. Haven’t lifted since this started, just all cardio. A week from Wednesday starts Lent. Giving up alcohol and meat for…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 02:43 PM
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I could see that. However, wouldn't it have been better to have that moment of self-discovery and release of his long-repressed emotions in a private counselling session, and not in front of his mate? His Ned Flanders shriek, while therapeutic as a catharsis, probably destroyed what little scraps of attraction his wife had left for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 08:05 PM
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First put a TLDR summary at the bottom for those of us who do not have time to read the Magna Carta. Second, forget the marriage counselor. You can't negotiate desire. Improving communication will not create desire. Marriage counselling is a waste of time and money. Your wife's hamster will use it to alleviate guilt when you divorce ("hey, I did all I could, we even went to counselling"). It's as though a failed marriage counselling experience is a medical diagnosis that your marriage is termina…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/18 07:55 PM
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There is no value to calling her out about the trip. You will come across as weak and needy.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 07:20 PM
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Agreed. Excessive "Days on the Market" is a good indicator of a potential bargain. It doesn't cost anything to make a low-ball offer on a property that has become shelf-worn. Another angle is making an offer paying 80% with a conventional mortgage and having the seller hold a land note for the remaining 20%. Then you ask for a couple thousand back in the "Response to Inspections". You can acquire the property with no money down and walk out of closing with a check in hand. By living there, you c…
/r/askMRP05/02/18 05:08 PM
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rent an apartment Stop renting and buy a duplex. Live in one unit and use the rental income from the other unit to pay the mortgage and utilities. When you've built enough equity, refinance the duplex to free up the cash to make the down payment on another one.
/r/askMRP05/02/18 04:56 PM
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She will be out of town on business for a few weeks starting middle of next week The timing of her renouncement of your romantic relationship is not unrelated to her impending travel. She has some "extracurricular activities" planned and her hamster has now relieved her of any guilt, she is not cheating if she has "broken up" with you (even if you're still married on paper). She will possibly come back at you after her trip is over and she has gotten that little adventure out of her system. Be p…
/r/askMRP05/02/18 03:44 PM
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Being obsessed with, and pissing away hours watching sports on TV and managing fantasy teams on your PC is akin to masturbating while watching porn. You are wasting your time living vicariously through the activities of others.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/18 09:54 PM
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we are looking to have another kid. Obviously things change significantly, but last time there was very little sex for 15 months. Trying to avoid that again, During pregnancy and breastfeeding her attraction will be based more on your provisioning ability versus your exhibition of good genetics. In addition to constantly gaming her and initiating, make sure you are owning your shit around the house, doing your share of taking care of the toddler and newborn etc. When she is done breastfeeding an…
/r/askMRP04/02/18 07:50 PM
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I'm in the same boat. Things were too far gone when I found out about RP. The advice given here is still very applicable. You should start posting an Own Your Shit post every Tuesday. The real gold is in the comments to OYS.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 07:34 PM
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You can affect the probable gender of the baby using the Shettles method. Get the book "How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby", by Shettles and Rorvik. Here is a study from the New England Journal of Medicine that backs it up http://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJM197906283002601
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:29 PM
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Making six figures does not make a woman want you in the way you want. Rosie O'Donnell has an estimated net worth of $100 million. It doesn't make her attractive.
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:12 PM
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The idea behind a proper shit test response is that you don't let her words affect you. You remain in-frame and in control of your shit. If you don't have a quick wit, Agree and Amplify is not for you. You can't use pre-rehearsed phrases, that will come across as phony. Have you read "When I Say No , I Feel Guilty" by Manuel J. Smith? Fogging would be a better technique for you to deflect a shit test. You just glibly accept the shit, or a part of the shit, even if it's bullshit, and you repeat i…
/r/askMRP04/02/18 06:08 PM
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Busted; by the semicolon police
/r/askMRP04/02/18 05:56 PM
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"Cpt. Slow". Name calling. Now you've lost your frame to a random stranger on the internet. Not sure if this is funny or just sad.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:45 PM
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So "dude", your two options are Let her go 2. Don't let her go. Brilliant! Why didn't I see that?
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:27 PM
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This isn't about another dude hitting on his wife and him getting possessive and butt hurt. That would be mate guarding. The calendar entry is a shit test by his wife to gauge his response.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 03:13 PM
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my wife’s has put in our calendar that she having dinner with an old work colleague It's very interesting that she put that in your joint calendar, weeks in advance. You need to ask yourself why she would put that on the calendar where she knows you would see it and have plenty of time to respond. Wouldn't you expect her to mention it to you "oh by the way, Chad is going to be in town and we are going to catch up", and then put it on the calendar after that discussion. If her intention were to c…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:59 PM
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I think you are taking the easy way out. A good Captain doesn't scuttle the ship at the first sign of bad weather. Ask yourself, are you making the problem better or worse. For your kids' sake, before you throw in the towel, send your wife to a nutritionist. She's depressed, isolated and is drowning her pain in carbs. It's a viscous cycle. And get the shitty food out of the house for her sake and the kids as well. If she starts losing weight, her confidence will grow, and she will continue on an…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:43 PM
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Haha brutal
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:34 PM
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A shit test is a sign that she is attracted to you.. She is testing you to make sure you're still the Alpha to whom she was originally attracted. You should welcome shit tests with open arms, over and over. You need to smile and STFU or respond with Amused Mastery. Agree with her and amplify her response to comical levels. Then kiss her on the forehead like the naughty little girl she is. The point is to hold your frame and not let her control your emotions in any way. Don't let her change your …
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:30 PM
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If your objection is truly over money, then you should set a boundary called a "budget" (Google it). A budget defines how much each of you can spend on things like restaurants, entertainment, etc. Then if she wants to go to Tahoe for the weekend and it's within the budget fine, if not then she needs to keep saving. But if your REAL fear is that she will cheat on you (and the money thing is just a cover), then this is the classic GNO Shit Test, and you need to STFU and have enough confidence to l…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 08:03 PM
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I'm thinking of getting lasik You should totally do this. I had Lasik done 17 years ago and I still see 20/20. Pro Tip: Ask them for a second Valium prior to the procedure. I'm fucking done with offering her increasingly expensive gifts to avoid her getting mad You've answered your own question here. If you're done getting her expensive gifts to pacify her greedy materialistic ass, then you're done. I'd suggest you do something from which you both benefit, like a long weekend in Vegas or Cancun.…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 07:46 PM
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about something I don't even remember But then you write it was because she was in "severe distress" with back pain. Which is it, do you remember or not? I watched her struggle getting into bed after she tweaked her back. When she was about 95% done and in, what appears to be, severe distress before I asked if she needed help That's not a shit test. That's you being a dick.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:37 PM
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You are being a paranoid, needy, beta schlub looking for something to bitch about. You are totally in her frame and obsessing about what she is feeling and considering. This is all very unattractive. Don't be unattractive. Take action to make yourself more confident. Lift weights, get a social life, read up. The next time you feel the urge to go onto facebook you need to give me 100 pushups.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:30 PM
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That is exactly how it would play out. Men get jealous of their mate having intercourse, because they need to protect their genetic investment and make sure they are not raising biologically unrelated offspring. Women get jealous of men having an emotional affair, because they need to protect their provisioning. OP needs to exit this shitshow of a marriage ASAP. He got one good looking girl, he can get plenty more.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:26 PM
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The mattress pad is a symbol of the power struggle that is now emerging in your relationship. She is used to having control, and now that you are in the embryonic stages of MRP and responding properly to shit tests, she feels the need to assert herself and hold onto the upper hand that she has enjoyed so long from her ass-kissing beta mate. If it wasn't the mattress pad it would be the thermostat, choice of restaurants, or some other petty issue to assert control. You probably haven't improved y…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:10 PM
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You're right, it's probably not the best advice, one could end up locked up, but... your SO won't mention to her girlfriends the next day about that time you made good strong eye contact with some drunk bully at the club. But pop him in the face once, and she'll be on her phone complain/bragging about you the entire next day.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 06:42 PM
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Second best strategy would be to simply jack his drunk jaw up one time. If you're quick enough, get maybe a second shot in before the bouncers are all over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 06:14 PM
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It doesnt end in one year. Unless you die. Good clarification. The dead are the masters of stoicism and outcome indifference. Nothing disturbs them.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 05:04 PM
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Child support is calculated using a worksheet provided by the state, so there's nothing to resolve. It's very straightforward. This website has a calculator by state: https://supportpay.com/resources/child-support-calculator/
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/18 02:43 PM
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This technique worked well for me. I played nice and kept things as friendly as possible as we crafted the dissolution agreement. As soon as the judge issued the divorce decree, I went no-contact as much as practical with shared custody.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/18 07:05 PM
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Hang in there. Since my divorce I'm so much happier, healthier, and still can't get over how much money I have at the end of the month. Best of all, I'm getting more ass than a toilet seat. Once you adjust to the change, you'll find you are much better off. Get (or stay) in shape, keep your bank account healthy, and build your social life. The best revenge is massive success. - Frank Sinatra
/r/askMRP25/01/18 06:25 PM
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I was going to tie it into MRP tactics You could do a follow-up post
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/18 07:38 PM
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Healing Back Pain: The Mind-Body Connection
/r/askMRP19/01/18 07:54 PM
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Nothing sucks like an Electrolux! This was an actual advertisement. http://echeck.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Nothing-sucks-like-an-Electrolux.jpg
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 04:47 PM
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The main utility of marriage counselling is so a spouse who has lost attraction can check off the box "Hey we did everything we could, we even went to marriage counselling", before moving on. It saves face and hamsters away some of the guilt. What a great job it must be to be a marriage counselor. $120 per hour to sit there in a comfortable chair and nod, with no expectation of actual results of any kind. When the couple gives up there is an endless supply of unhappy couples waiting for their tu…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 04:45 PM
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OYS 1/9/2018 Physical Successfully cutting weight for my upcoming Cabo trip. Three pounds down, three to go. Leaving in six days. Going to the tanning bed a couple times per week so I don’t completely fry with my Irish “Casper” complexion. Still nursing De Quervain's tenosynovitis in my thumb. Hurts like hell. Haven’t been lifting since this started. It’s hell to get old, haha. Family Took the gang to Chuck E Cheese for the last Saturday of winter break. The noise level in there was amazing, but…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 03:01 PM
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definitely want to put on more muscle on my top half - arms and chest I agree, that's your opportunity. Lift heavy weights and consider supplementing with whey protein and creatine. Cool clothes.
/r/askMRP05/01/18 04:40 PM
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Wall Street types will line up to belittle and shame you for your decision That's because the bookmaker only makes money if you are making bets (present company excluded of course). It doesn't matter if you're winning or losing. He doesn't want you to take your winnings and go home. That's why at the casino the ATM is in plain sight, but you have to go up two escalators to find the cashier and cash out.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 04:32 PM
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I’m not planning on putting on a huge amount of muscle. That’s not me You might reconsider this decision if you want to maximize your overall attractiveness
/r/askMRP05/01/18 03:43 PM
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best to just buy in harder after the crash Why not do both? Move things away from domestic and foreign stocks now, to lock in the gains, and then jump back in hard AFTER the correction. I'm no expert like others on here, but what is the downside? What am I missing?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 03:15 PM
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Thank you for that detailed, lucid reply. It is worthy of being its own post, perhaps on a different sub. not a clue, not even a guess, it is unknowable This is true, because market behavior is not a function of math or economics, it is a function of psychology and sociology. I like the red pill/blue pill analogy with Wall Street. It is similar to MRP, in that people try to use historical data and field experience to predict the psychological behaviors and actions of others. In one case investor…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 02:19 PM
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Just make sure you do go validation seeking or ask for praise or anything. Just clean your shit, and move on. There's a good chance that when she see's him stoically cleaning the house a few times without expecting anything in return, she'll join in the effort.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 05:47 PM
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Just for shits and giggles: DJIA crossed 25k today. Do you think she'll hit 30k before the next correction? Which do think will trigger the correction: a. U.S. tensions with North Korea b. Economic slowdown in China c. Brexit d. Trump renegotiating trade deals/retaliation e. Federal Reserve Chair Janet L. Yellen stepping down f. Other
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 05:29 PM
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I'm no Oracle of Omaha, but this is how I think it will play out: We are ending a long period of irrational optimism among investors that created a bubble of overvalued stocks compared to earnings There will be a triggering event (political unrest somewhere, interest rate hike, poor economic performance report from China, something like that) There will be widespread panic that begins a sell-off Algorithmic trading will kick in and accelerate the drop as automatic sell orders flood the market. M…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 03:06 PM
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60k in investments to 140k If you are heavily into stocks I'd consider squirreling some of your gains away into conservative fixed-interest bond funds. The market is seriously over-valued right now and it won't take much for it to crash. See the link to the Shiller PE Ratio that I put in my OYS post today.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 02:52 PM
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OYS 1/2/2018 Physical I’m on a hard cut right now, getting ready to escape the cold and relax in Cabo in a couple of weeks (if the trip isn’t cancelled due to cartel violence down there). I would like to drop 3lbs per week for the next two weeks. I’ve developed De Quervain's tenosynovitis in my thumb, which hurts like a bitch. Wearing a brace and taking prednisone. Can’t grip anything, so I’m concentrating on leg/core and cardio. Family I spoiled the shit out my kids (and myself) for Christmas. …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 02:36 PM
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I don't know that I actually have a drinking problem, but it was interfering with work, lifting, and emotional state the day after a heavy bender Yes Virginia, you have a drinking problem. Take three months completely sober and see if your life is better or worse. I somehow got a beer gut That was sarcasm, correct?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 02:01 PM
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OP, you're getting beat up pretty badly over this post. I get the message: "If you're planning to have an affair, do it only as a last resort with the knowledge that there's a high probability of getting caught, and be ready to end your marriage when the shit goes down". The problem is that your story just reeks of Oneitis over your AP, so your message gets clouded over in a fog of infatuation over your "stick'n chicken". I'll give you credit that it was very entertaining to read and you related…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 03:25 PM
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Book a non refundable ticket someplace hot and go crush some strange OP, this is great advice. It will cure your oneitis for your wife and boost your self esteem.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 08:49 PM
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Waste of time if your wife has checked out mentally and emotionally This was my precise experience with a marriage counselor. It only can help if you are BOTH motivated to improve the relationship, otherwise it is just an expensive bitch session. As I'd sit there listening to her whine about what a mean prick I was, I would watch the second hand on the clock going around, and every time it reached twelve I thought, "there goes another $2" (he charged $120/hr). merely checking the box so she can …
/r/askMRP14/12/17 08:39 PM
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OP, this is a public safety announcement: You need to follow this script, but don't actually use "Johnny" and "Mrs. Klubnitz". You have to substitute their real names. It should be obvious, but this is an emotional time and you aren't thinking clearly.
/r/askMRP08/12/17 06:29 PM
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I'm fine with cat or smaller dog, but puppies and large breed dogs can do some real damage. I'd imagine an actual service dog would be very well trained. I love the rental applicants who smell like an ashtray, but on the application they claim not to smoke. Then when you call them out on it they say "I don't smoke in the house", which may be true in the summer, but won't be when February arrives.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 05:55 PM
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Notice I wrote "recently" divorced men, the guys who are in the process of moving out of their marital home and need a place to stay. They have no stability on all fronts, and are the absolute worst. So when you're showing the unit you make small talk, like you give a shit about their life. But what you're really doing is sizing up their situation to weed out the crazies. I would rent to a guy who's been single for a while and has his life back together. There's nothing illegal about it either, …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 05:39 PM
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Young men will have parties, they don't clean up after themselves, and aren't worried about getting their security deposit back. "Hey I know, let's get drunk and punch holes in the drywall, yay!". The majority of recently divorced men have no stability in their lives. They are in financial trouble because of the divorce and child support payments. They are emotionally troubled, which fucks up their employment. They tend to move in for a few months to have a roof over their heads, and then disapp…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 05:25 PM
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Yes, I learned to speak Spanish using the audio series "Behind the Wheel Spanish" I and II, while commuting to work. The funny thing is I can carry on a conversation, but I can hardly read or write in Spanish because it's all audio. Buyers in the lower price ranges are much less picky. Usually they only do the minimum inspections that are required by their lender (like termites).
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 05:09 PM
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I did the flipping thing back before it was popular. Then the reality TV shows ruined the market for flippers. The trick with flipping is SPEED. If you don't sell it quickly the taxes and insurance will eat you alive. To have speed you need to have a strong relationship with a contractor who is willing to cut a few corners (installing a second roof for instance). My niche was to buy a distressed rancher in the 30's in a so-so neighborhood, have them come in and do the roof/siding/windows/carpet/…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 04:19 PM
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I have been doing all of the fixing in the house and i can literally see my wife turning in a more submissive little girl. This is the definition of a covert contract. Look honey, I did my chores so you would become more "submissive". OP, fix the broken shit in your house because it needs to be done and you are the man of the house, not to alter the behavior of your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 04:05 PM
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I would not want to get into "lower quality" tenants if you know what I mean. Offering a different perspective, longtime landlord here. I've had luxury townhouses, middle income and low-rent places. I've found that the best money is to be made on the lowest end. Yes, I'm a slumlord. My best returns have been in buying a small, distressed home with cash, getting it up to minimum living conditions, and then renting it out for a few years. The payback period is usually two years or less, and after …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/17 03:54 PM
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She was abused by her brother when he was a teenager and she was little. Want to know the part that pisses me off the most? We still have to see the motherfucker and play nice at family functions like shit never happened. I’ve never said a word to him about it. It's no wonder she has some hang-ups in the sack. She has adamantly refused therapy or going to counseling together. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make her drink. (Nor can you can drown her punk-ass child-molester brother i…
/r/askMRP01/12/17 05:59 PM
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I get a “please don’t” when I touch her now. So what have you done to address her psychological issues from childhood sexual abuse, other than the dishes?
/r/askMRP01/12/17 04:54 PM
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Assuming she was molested by a male authority figure or clergy, that would be understandable. She would do better with a female therapist or group, and without you (another male authority figure) in the room. Do you see the connection between her guilt issues and wanting to fuck in the shower? Anyway a definition of insanity is to keep doing the same thing and expect different results. Be a leader. Fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 05:48 PM
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she was abused sexually as a child and has some hang ups What have you done to address this? Obviously it's a huge issue in your marriage, and it is clearly not going to fix itself after 18 years. she feels guilty afterward sex then dries up Each time you make love to her, she's reliving the shame and guilt she felt after her incidents of childhood sexual abuse. The greater the pleasure, the greater the guilt afterward. This is no way to live and there are alternatives to enduring it. As Captain…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 03:29 PM
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Overall, it turned out to be a good week for leftovers
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/17 03:08 PM
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You can keep her vagina warm with a curling iron. I’m told.
/r/askMRP29/11/17 08:15 PM
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Nicely done. I love a good troll post. I suggest you divorce the bitch and cut off her health insurance. Then start up some online dating profiles and begin shopping for replacements. Keep the receipts from the Christmas presents. If she kicks before the holidays it will be easier to take them back.
/r/askMRP29/11/17 07:23 PM
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Social interactions are fairly draining. This is a normal trait in someone who is an introvert. Extroverts gain energy in social interactions, introverts expend energy in social interactions. You should read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie, which will make social interactions easier for you. It's an easy read. It was written in 1936, so the language is old fashioned, but the wisdom in that book is still relevant.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 06:34 PM
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dry January is quite the thing in our social circle Dry January would be a good thing for you. And then limit yourself to a couple beers during social events. It'll be hard at first. Two IPA's every day is still dependence. It's a cop-out, and you know it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:53 PM
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OYS 11/28/2017 Physical The workout app I was using (Lee Labrada from Bodybuilding.com) had an update, and now it is no longer free. Bummer, it was very useful. It laid out the workouts each day and linked to videos showing proper form. But it isn’t worth the $9/month subscription fee they’re charging for “All Access”. I know enough to proceed without it, but it was nice while it lasted. Saw the link to an article (on the TIL subreddit) that when men don't ejaculate for 7 days their serum testos…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 02:21 PM
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My brother and his wife came over for a board game Were you drinking while playing the game? Booze dissolves frame into a sticky pink slime
/r/askMRP27/11/17 09:48 PM
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cannot remember how old they are My youngest is five. but IMHO this is excessive and may be contributing to your ex not letting go If it's in the best interest of my kids, the effect on my ex is a matter of complete indifference to me your kids will be fine going 48 hours without talking to you. if you want them to be independent someday you have to start dialing out rope slowly. That's great food for thought. I need to research this more thoroughly.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/17 09:11 PM
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I'm sorry to read you're going through this. Any good pointers on post-divorce parenting are welcome There is a free online co-parenting class at: http://www.uptoparents.org There are plenty of good tips in there geared toward minimizing the trauma to children during a separation or divorce. I'm not proud of it, but seeing what it did to my daughter wrecked me mentally. Agreed, this is the very worst moment in the process. The good news is that you are past that now. I might have to swallow my p…
/r/askMRP27/11/17 03:48 PM
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My relationship with my ex-wife is nonexistent. I usually ghost her. She’s blocked on social media. For matters regarding the kids I prefer to send an email. She attempts to text me almost daily. This time I slipped up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 09:26 PM
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Weird. Weird is right. There's nothing to be gained from conversing with an ex-father-in-law who has never called him before. Most likely the call has nothing to do with a birthday. It COULD be that OP is separated (not divorced, so still married) and his wife is finally finished with her two-year sojourn on the Cock Carousel, and now she's ready to come home to her loving hubby (with Chad-juice dripping down her leg). And it COULD be that she is too ashamed to ask to come home directly, so she …
/r/askMRP22/11/17 04:42 PM
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increasing the pussy is a great plan. Is there a hidden need for validation in there? That was an attempt at sarcastic humor. The actual solution would be to deal with negative emotions as they occur instead of avoiding them with booze, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 03:56 PM
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That’s funny about the old tongue scraper . After you scrape your tongue try rinsing with Thera Breath. It’s a little pricey but kicks ass on halitosis. Also use a Neti Pot with the little packs of salt/baking soda to keep your sinuses fresh Lastly if you have frequent heartburn that will kill your breath so take an acid reducer like Prilosec
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 06:09 AM
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You can't argue with a woman's hamster. It eats logic and shits more hamsters. That is fucking gold right there, people. Gold. Where was this shit 30 years ago?!?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 05:58 AM
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Haha thanks! I totally stole that “I’m the Coach” comment from u/bluepillprofessor
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/17 04:28 AM
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Look for alpha M on YouTube. He has some good style tips and the price is right, free. Do not let your wife dress you. That is very unattractive for her. She’s not your mommy.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 10:10 PM
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Great post! Another common abuse of "statistics" is to be caught in the "Post hoc ergo propter hoc" fallacy, by believing "since event Y followed event X, event Y must have been caused by event X." When Y is actually independent of X. This type of thinking can lead to covert contracts. Example: I did the laundry yesterday, and my wife fucked me (never mind she was ovulating and just finished reading 50 shades). Therefore laundry=sex. Then every time you do the laundry you think you'll be getting…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 08:59 PM
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Join a gym. They'll have all of the weights you'll ever need. Plus you'll be out of the house and around other dudes, which is good for you. If you can't afford the gym, join the YMCA. It's cheap, and when you join the Y, you can go into any Y as an "away member".
/r/askMRP21/11/17 08:18 PM
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Where are you with reading the sidebar materials? There is nothing in your post about that. Reading and Lifting are the two biggest band-for-the-buck things you can do right now. Now that things have settled down and we have manifested our dream life- the kind we had talked about so often. She is bored. Things in many ways have never been better for us. It's not that she's bored with life, she has lost her attraction for YOU. Get in shape, hold frame like an Alpha, it's still possible to turn th…
/r/askMRP21/11/17 08:13 PM
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OYS 11/21/2017 Physical I’ve been slacking off on working out lately. Too many excuses, not enough lifting. Starting today I will be back on track. Concentrating on getting my bench/squat/deadlift total higher. Bench still holding me back, tennis elbow keeps coming back, brace doesn’t do anything. Family Kids were with the Ex this past weekend, but I text or Facetime with them every day. I have to confess, it’s nice having the house to myself every other weekend. No need for a booty pad. Had “Fa…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 01:53 PM
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Kudos to you for being so attractive "she never says no". That is the ultimate goal. And it's good you understand women and sexual dynamics more than the likes of Athol Kay. You should publish your theories on the matter, I'll be the first to read it. For the rest of us who aren't at your level of attractiveness and expertise yet, u/Rollo-Tomassi covered the concept very well in the Rational Male in his article "Your Friend Menstruation": https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/25/your-friend-menstr…
/r/askMRP20/11/17 04:44 AM
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I disagree with your disagreement. Knowledge is power. Re-read chapter 15 of MMSLP. It’s basic theory toward understanding and anticipating a woman’s mood and interest level in sex. Ignoring it is naive.
/r/askMRP20/11/17 04:20 AM
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her admission that she doesn't know what to do, that maybe breaking up would be for the best. We left on very amicable terms, saying we'd be in touch. I haven't heard from her since, and have no idea what is going on. Listen closely, this is what is going on: Chad was hitting on her and she didn't know whether to stay in the comfortable relationship with you or upgrade. She has gone to fuck Chad and see how it works out. She is intentionally ambiguous as to your relationship status so she can fu…
/r/askMRP19/11/17 04:47 PM
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The root cause of your problem is that your wife is not attracted to you. You putting the sexy moves on her repulses her and puts her in a bad situation. She can either deny you and feel guilty, or let someone she is repulsed by fuck her. She is in a lose/lose situation. Keep improving your level of attractiveness. Work on your fitness, don't let shit tests control your frame, lead your family in a fun way, and own your shit. Keep initiating, especially when she is in the horny week. You do trac…
/r/askMRP19/11/17 04:20 PM
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wife probably has a bit of anxiety disorder and is very "trigger-able". I'd suggest you read "I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality" by Jerold J. Kreisman MD. This will explain why your wife acts that way, and how you can best interact with her. Giving her the silent treatment might reduce the frequency and severity of her "episodes", but you will continue to grow apart, which isn't the objective here.
/r/askMRP18/11/17 11:57 PM
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Make more money and spend less money. That is the secret to your financial problems. Until you can accomplish this, your wife will be looking to upgrade to a better provider. MIL asked my wife if she’d like to go shopping for a bit just to get out So you're broke and nearly homeless but wife uses shopping as a form of entertainment. Unless MIL was paying the bill, NO. I made the mistake of engaging her in this argument. You failed to hold frame and instead you DEER'd and got drawn into her frame…
/r/askMRP18/11/17 11:49 PM
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His post history points to a porn addiction
/r/askMRP17/11/17 05:23 PM
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Your Honor, she called me a wuss during the Fig Newton Affair (as it has come to be known). Judge: Divorce granted. Next case please.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 05:21 PM
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A real friend would buy a plane ticket and go down with him to sample the local alcohol and women. +1 on this reply. He should go with his friend for the friend's safety. While he's there he can have some ceviche and bang her fat cousin.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 04:34 PM
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In Peru it is actually against the law for maids (who are mostly very poor Andean women) to swim in the ocean at the upscale beaches during daylight hours. It is a scene straight out of the Jim Crow south. It's no shit, I've been there. The point is, if his prospective Peruvian mail-order bride was brought up in this environment (and if he met her on the internet, she was), she won't be big on housework in general.
/r/askMRP17/11/17 04:03 PM
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Remember, she's not yours, it's just your turn. You are correct, if something better comes along and you're not at the top of your game, she WILL swing to another branch. It's not her fault, AWALT. A million years of human evolution has hard wired that into her brain. Some anxiety and discomfort on your part is a good thing. Use it to motivate yourself to stay frosty, lift hard, and ingest the side bar like it is The Antidote. When you are in great shape, dressing well, smelling good, and an exp…
/r/askMRP16/11/17 06:12 PM
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Part of being the Leader is making sure your subordinates are in their optimal roles. Making sure all your passengers are in the "correct seats on the bus". The problem with your wife is that she has no mission in life. Being a stay at home mom is not fulfilling for her. She is not realizing her potential or making a contribution to society. Outsourcing childcare and housekeeping while she sits on her ass will just make it worse. I would guess there has been a recent event that has made her refl…
/r/askMRP16/11/17 06:00 PM
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It's the same as holding your frame not allowing yourself to be drawn into an altercation with your spouse when she throws a shit test your way. Don't take him so seriously. If he says something shitty just smile and STFU. Even if you are seething on the inside, hold your frame and don't show weakness, he's a piss-ant little bully and you're the alpha male of the group, and you won't let him bother you. Fake it until you make it. At first he'll get frustrated because he can't control you any mor…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:48 PM
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two weeks before her first birthday and I flat out told him that he's not welcome. He wasn't going to ruin something special for me That's the point, your daughter's first birthday party isn't "something special" for you, it's something special for your daughter. And his presence can only ruin things for you if you allow it to by operating in his frame. asked the sitter for pictures and special visitation of my daughter So your father is desperate for some photos or a visitation with his grandda…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 03:27 PM
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because my daughter was never off limits to my mother So is your daughter off limits to your father? Are you punishing your father by limiting his access to his granddaughter? Regardless of your differences with your father, that's a total dick move because it is your daughter who pays the price for your squabble with your old man. Be careful not to weaponize your kid. As far as your making amends with your father, fuck that prick, he sounds like bully and you should stick to your guns and maint…
/r/askMRP15/11/17 02:45 PM
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European descendants, usually taller and lighter skin
/r/askMRP14/11/17 09:39 PM
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There is a large population of very poor indigenous people there. They do all the cooking and cleaning for very little money.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 08:23 PM
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The problem is the maids all look like this: https://farm4.staticflickr.com/3809/9803463685_4bf97d9875_z.jpg
/r/askMRP14/11/17 08:22 PM
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Pisco Sours are amazing. You don't see them served in the USA very often because of the raw egg white in it. There's a Peruvian restaurant in Chicago called Tanta that makes a mean pisco sour.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 08:14 PM
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Peruvian food is amazing. I love Arroz Chaufa or Lomo Saltado. In the typical home in Peru the wife does very little cooking or cleaning. Even lower middle class homes have maids for everything.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 08:12 PM
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Also, tell him to see the Nazca Lines while he's there. You fly over them because they're only visable from a high altitude.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 03:16 PM
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Yes, you should do an intervention for your friend. He's making an epic mistake and you will not be able to live with yourself if you don't say something loud and clear. She'll get her green card and and anchor baby/child support and then send his ass down the road. If he's hell-bent on getting married he should at least bring her over on a tourist visa and get to know her first. He might find that Peruvian women make lousy wives because they have chola maids that do everything for them. Btw, wh…
/r/askMRP14/11/17 03:00 PM
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I like this response. You can Day Game her and use the old person talk all day long to flirt. If your wife finds out that's fine, you it's not like you did anything wrong, there are no rules against talking to people you meet. And there are legit reasons to get her number. Maybe you are going to set up a play date for your kids. Maybe you want to sell her life insurance. Maybe you want to know who details her car. Whatever. You should reflect on your real reason for holding back and talking your…
/r/askMRP14/11/17 02:50 PM
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I drive long distances for work occasionally, and I've used the Kindle app on my Iphone and played the sidebar books in my car. It's true you don't get the deepest understanding of the material, but it's better for you than listening to music or Howard Stern. You can always go back and read the books. After having listened to them once, you will surely get a deeper understanding out of it and it will go easier. I also did "Behind the Wheel Spanish" which is another good use of wheel time.
/r/askMRP14/11/17 02:41 PM
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Congratulations, and good job getting that increase. You made a goal and you executed it. What's next?
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:40 PM
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Now I’m dating a size 2 sexy doctor Does she have a sister?
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:31 PM
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I've de loaded twice ...which means you are at the gym lifting. Still better than 98% of the competition My diet has been shit You are in the middle of a separation/divorce. There's no time to be be Betty Crocker right now. Cut yourself a break. show ready in preparation to sell Good job, you'll sell it way faster if you've decluttered Only been putting a small amount of effort towards online dating The pay sites like Match and Zoosk are the way to go. Way higher quality on there and no scammers…
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:28 PM
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It's common to see one indulging in some plastic surgery while burning through divorce settlement money. Lipo, new boobs, botox, laser treatments. All for a short term boost in SMV while re-entering the market. It doesn't really matter unless you're planning on banging a divorcee. If it's your own ex, there's always the casual interest but it's not worth much of your time thinking about it.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:12 PM
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hambeast sitting at a table with other hambeasts "hambeast". That's hilarious. Today I added a new word to my vocabulary. Thank you for that.
/r/askMRP13/11/17 03:07 PM
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because they never look as good in person There's a lot of truth to that. Ones that only show face shots are a big red flag. And by big, I mean they're large girls. ex is trying to get the relationship going She wants me to be her friend, handyman, and financier while she fucks around like a single chick. No thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/17 03:02 PM
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I could see that. Son is confused and insecure about his home life situation, so he acts out.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/17 02:56 PM
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Great progress and great report! Keep it up. 6'4", and weigh 270 pounds (up from 255 after of bulking) Nope. Even at 6'4" tall there is no "bulking" at 270 lbs. You let your diet slip and gained 15 lbs. Stop bullshitting yourself and get off the fucking carbs. You're still obsese, own it and fix it. Finances are fine When you reach your target weight consider surgery to remove the excess skin. It'll do wonders for your confidence. I've improved, so has every aspect of my life. Fucking Awesome!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/17 06:16 PM
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Great analogy! But you’re not into car restoration. The cost can be too high and parts are not always available. Haha the parts to fix "cra-cra" are impossible to find.
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:50 PM
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Good job spotting multiple red flags. The crazies are great at giving you the Love Bomb early on to get you attached. You have taken the bait and she's reeling you in quickly. Only after you're good and hooked will her true colors shine through and she can stop masking her emotional instability, and you'll spend all day tiptoeing around landmines. On the one hand I'd tell you to run away as quickly as possible before you find your pet bunny boiling on the stove. On the other hand you might want …
/r/askMRP08/11/17 04:48 PM
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This post feels very purple to me User name checks out
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 03:18 PM
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I like the idea of the chart and weekly progress pic. I may have to copy that.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 06:51 PM
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How to Hide Your Assets and Disappear -Found it in my house, no idea where it came from Any chance your SO was reading it?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 06:47 PM
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Yes, like everyone said, she definitely fucked him while you were separated. And it's all your fault. As far as forgiveness goes, you don't need to forgive her, she needs to forgive you for letting drugs take over your life and leaving her with the kids. She acted the way she's programmed to act in that situation. She moved on. Read War Brides in the Rational Male to understand how that works. https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/ You need to put it behind you and concentrate on the…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 06:21 PM
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It's good that you've researched it.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 04:48 PM
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Great post. Congrats on one year.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 03:17 PM
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Have you tried talking to a mental health professional? Between the panic attacks, addictions, and self-loathing you probably have some issues that need to be worked through. Perhaps addressing the underlying problem will make all your other goals more attainable. Podcasts are great but they can't answer questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 03:10 PM
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She has a mid $200k bequest coming Does it make sense to delay your divorce until that happens? It would be marital asset to which you are entitled half. don't chase her, be happy, be nice, work on your life outside of her Sound advice, regardless of the situation
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 03:03 PM
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OYS 11/7/2017 Physical Over did it on leg day and was practically crippled for a few days. Sitting down on the toilet or going down stairs was the worst. I haven’t reached my short term goal of 600lb Bench+Squat+Deadlift yet. Part of the problem is I rarely have spotter so I can’t really find my single-rep maxes in a safe way. Also my bench press weight sucks ass. I going to cut ten pounds that I had gained over the summer. I’m using the EAC stack which is extremely effective for me. I’ve cut wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/17 02:30 PM
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Not every hole you stick your dick into is worth the effort. And this dumpster fire will never go out. Your little game playing special snowflake is going to become Lucifer’s personal cock-sucking whore in hell, swallow his fiery cum and spew it all over you in court to burn your shit down. They always fucking do. Your life right now looks and smells like shit because your head is up somebody’s ass I think that is the most awesome thing I've ever read
/r/askMRP06/11/17 09:27 PM
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If he is unable to save the marriage, one thing that worked in my personal case was to offer the STBX a cash lump sum up front as divorce settlement, so she doesn't have to wait for the sale of assets to take place. She might snap at the shiny object or negotiate a higher number, but if she takes a lump sum he can keep his businesses, the house, and his retirement intact while she leaves for Neiman Marcus with her "Go Gurl Friends" to start pissing it all away. If he's wealthy and he's ripped, t…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 08:51 PM
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It's brilliant, really. Until he improves himself and starts dating, she has her cake and is eating it (and Chad's jizz) too. It's an insidious female manipulation. The "separated" wife has a free pass for a test drive on the cock carousel, knowing hubby is home pining away for her. She keeps him on the hook by dangling the slight hope for a rare piece of ass in front of him. Meanwhile he is trapped in the rationalization that she's not fucking around, so he won't date and risk losing what's alr…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 06:37 PM
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Divorce is not a bad thing. Life is good on the sunny side of divorce. Living in a bad marriage is a bad thing. So either fix your marriage or get the hell out. My kids are doing fine after my divorce. I asked my son recently how he was doing with the divorce and he said "the only difference is there's less mess" (ex wasn't big on housekeeping). My relationship with my kids is better than ever. Part of it is that I'm trying harder to make my time with them count. Part of it is that I'm overall a…
/r/askMRP02/11/17 06:20 PM
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Our situations do have a lot of similarities. Engineering, younger second wife, compulsive-spending spouse, martial arts, no clear mission. If you figure anything out, let me know Will do
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:17 PM
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Do I confront her about this and ask her once and for all if she cheated on me or is this my burden to bear just going with the flow. [Sarcasm Font] Yes absolutely. If you want to kill off the last fragment of attraction she has for you, then totally bring it up. Seriously though, if she cheated on you, she's going to deny it to the grave while losing respect for you for obsessing over it. If she didn't cheat on you, she's going to say "No!" and lose respect for you for obsessing over it. Asking…
/r/askMRP01/11/17 07:40 PM
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You should set up a POF account for her That would be hilarious. She has no trouble attracting attention from men (for the time being). Hopefully she'll lure in a rich dude to support her spending addiction.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 06:55 PM
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She is very hot, and very expensive. I dangled a nice cash lump sum in front of her, and she gobbled it up like it was Chad's baby batter.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 06:26 PM
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Section 7.7 Legal Representation. Husband is represented with respect to this action for dissolution of marriage by the law firm XXXXX. Wife affirms that she has had the opportunity to retain counsel, and that she has elected not to obtain the advice of counsel. She had an attorney when she filed but she had them withdraw their appearance after we agreed on all of the major points.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 06:05 PM
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I hope I'm wrong and things work out for you two. Keep improving yourself and you'll be better off either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:59 PM
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I don't know how much weight this holds, but here is a copy/paste from our settlement agreement: Section 7.9 Full Understanding. The parties hereto each warrant and represent to the other that he or she fully understands all of the terms, covenants, conditions, provisions and obligation incumbent upon each of them by virtue of this Agreement to be performed or contemplated by each of them hereunder, and each believes the same to be fair, just, reasonable, and to his or her respective individual …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:56 PM
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I hope your settlement was airtight, and that you've talked future risks through with your lawyer. I'm no lawyer, but my lawyer is a lawyer, and I like the way this part reads: "Section 1.3 Finalitv of Agreement. Once the Decree of Dissolution is entered each party agrees not to file an appeal or Motion for New Trial with regard to the contents of this Agreement. Unless this Agreement is executed by Husband and Wife and approved by the Court, neither party shall introduce the Agreement in eviden…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:49 PM
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made appointment with new dentist for next week for cleaning and new patient work then whitening You can do the whitening yourself and save a ton of money. The toothpaste aisle is polluted with whitening kits. This goes along with your goal to get out of credit card debt. found lawyer for pre-divorce consultation You will find that first hour consultation to be very empowering. Make a list of your questions and then email them to the lawyer in advance of the appointment so you don't forget anyth…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:28 PM
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I got pretty drunk Avoid this. It's unattractive. A little buzzed, but less drunk than the crowd, is the place to be. I will max out when I get my game plan on paper There are plenty of free apps for this as well
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:16 PM
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When your wife asked for a separation, she was asking for a hall pass to mess around, and you gave it to her. The whole "black out drunk" piece is her hamster making an excuse, and you lapping up her rationalization like a beta punk because you don't have the balls to get mad about it. You dumped your former best friend for doing what most drunk dudes faced with a threesome opportunity would do, yet you've stayed married to the real offender here. You need to get angry at yourself and take it ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 05:08 PM
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when she runs out of money in a few months time First she'll max out her credit cards, which were all paid off at as part of our divorce settlement. Hopefully by then she'll have met a new provider to leech from, and she won't bother me.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/17 03:53 PM
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OYS 10/31/2017 My Mission: Some recent, very insightful MRP posts made me realize that I have no idea what my actual fucking mission is. When I was a young man it was seemingly obvious: 1. Get a degree, 2. get a good job, 3. marry a nice girl, 4. raise kids that aren’t assholes, 5. retire comfortably, 6. play with the grandchildren, 7. Die After my first wife died I plugged in a replacement, much younger trophy-wife, and I thought I was back on track on my “mission”. Now that I’m divorced (it’s …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 04:59 PM
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Are they on the road to success, or were they collateral damage It's hard to say what road they're on. One of the kids is disabled, one is going to community college. The 8th grader has gone wild, acting out, running with a bad crowd, probably in a ploy to try to get his father to move back into the house. Might be a phase, might be the start of a bad trajectory in his life.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 06:57 PM
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Jack was unwise to let her "drive him out of the house" I think he was under the delusion that some cool-down time apart could help to repair their relationship. Meanwhile she was just needing some privacy and room to maneuver and act on her instincts.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 06:12 PM
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Guess what happens when the GF locks him down When the GF locks him down he will fall into the same pattern, only more quickly because of his slower metabolism and prior conditioning/habits. The real victim here is their children. My buddy failed his family by letting himself become unattractive and following his father's old-school example of concentrating on being a provider. His wife lost attraction for him, which is programmed into her genetics and not a conscious decision.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/17 06:07 PM
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Once you get rolling on reading and working out, post your progress as a comment every Tuesday on the weekly Own Your Shit post. The best work is in those comments. You'll need a thick skin, they give it to you straight up and don't pull any punches.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 02:20 PM
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OYS 10/10/2017 Physical Back on track. Need to lose 10 lbs to get back to my fighting weight. Weights have plateaued. I tried creatine once, but it made my hair start falling out. Family Proud parent of an NHS inductee this weekend. My kids apply themselves at school much better than I ever did. We celebrated afterward. Had a great weekend with the kids until the ex started showing up. Social Leaving tomorrow for a convention for my hobby for five days in the “big city”. I’m looking forward to i…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/17 04:16 PM
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It's true, the fuck-it fund gives peace of mind. But anything over a one-year reserve is for TOYS, haha.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 04:05 PM
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It is the focus you put on your ex. It's true, I haven't fully detached but I'm trying. Get another Vette! They're so much fun to drive.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 04:03 PM
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actually you can. "I don't think about you at all". Good call. That's what I'll do.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 06:24 PM
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The downside of having your snooping "outed" is huge. Besides the legal implications that could spill over to family court and $$$$ out of pocket for you and the potential loss of access to your kids, I hadn't considered this. Your're absolutely right. I need to stop the snooping.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 06:24 PM
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lmao, almost spit out my coffee. no bitch, i feel nothing at all. watch this "I don't think about you at all". Awesome! you can do that while staying in your frame. are you? I was trying to make a joke that I was in love with my car purchase, which I am. So yes, I hold frame when I drive her. as a single man on the prowl this does not make sense? Agreed, but I am probably exceeding a "healthy" amount lately
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 04:48 PM
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this snooping indicates you care too much what's going on in her life I know it's true, every time I look into her shit I am wasting my time on someone who I used to know. But it's like a train wreck, you want to avoid looking but you can't.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/17 04:45 PM
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I've kept in close contact with my CPA to accrue for the tax burden. To make matters worse I lose two dependents this year and I received a small inheritance.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 07:18 PM
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OYS 10/3/2017 FAIL - Physical Drinking way too often. Porn way too often. Lifting only around twice per week. I need to get back into a routine. Family I’ve got my kids this coming weekend, and I am planning to take my daughter out on a “date night with daddy”, it’s been too long since we’ve done that. Also I’ll need to do a bro-date with my youngest son to keep it fair. Geocaching has gotten stale, I think I’ll hold off on that for a while. Time for a nice fall hike at the local state park if t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/17 03:28 PM
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Still no excuse for my 15 years of suck. Good job owning your own 15 year slide and the resultant branch-swinging tendencies from your wife. Yes, it's all your fault. So what, we can't change the past, but we can learn from it. All any of us can do is work our asses off at self-improvement and become so damn attractive it'll be her loss if she leaves (or becomes disloyal and you leave her). Keep kicking ass. Remember, you're the prize.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 05:35 PM
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Well the good thing is that flip-flop season is over
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 12:39 PM
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The subreddit Stop Drinking can be very helpful. This Naked Mind is free on the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 08:24 PM
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$25,000 of credit card debt I have been there, and that shit will eat you alive if you let it. $25k in credit card debt at 18% and you are paying at least $375 per month in interest alone (5 grand per year would pay for some nice Disney action rather than feeding the credit card vultures). Make one late payment and they will jack the interest up to loan-shark rates. Your first goal as captain of your ship is to get yourself and your family out of that trap. Cut up the cards and find a way to con…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 08:18 PM
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then started back tracking and she doesn’t want our marriage to end she wants to keep working on it Listen to her actions (hanging out with another dude), not her words. Where there's smoke there's fire. Keep improving yourself and being as attractive as possible, so if she bolts you'll be ready to upgrade.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 05:51 PM
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2nd treatment for foot fungus I ended up getting fungus from my sparring partner when I was doing TKD. Are you taking Lamisil? That shit will kill it off right away and then you just have to wait for the damage to grow out, which feels like forever.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 05:41 PM
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Good job initiating and taking good care or your pregnant woman. What are your specific goals: Physical, Mental, Financial, Professional, Family, House, etc. How are you doing versus those goals?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 05:39 PM
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I know the feeling of "where was my mind at when I wifed her up?" I wonder if I had found MRP sooner if my marriage would have gone better. Then I wonder if I had swallowed the RP earlier than that if I would have gotten married in the first place, probably not.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 05:25 PM
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OYS 9/12/2017 Physical Had a good week lifting. One day back-biceps, One day chest-shoulders-triceps, One leg day, ran 30 minutes on active rest days. At one point I was sore everywhere except my hair. Family The kids and I built our first Geocache and hid it after a hike in the woods at a local park. The kids were surprisingly generous with the items they put into the cache. Social Took my (only current) plate to a college football game Friday night with some friends. I ended up tagged in a pho…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/17 05:21 PM
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This is rock solid advice for anyone dealing with a breakup. OP, have this engraved on a plaque and hang it over the mantle.
/r/askMRP07/09/17 02:40 PM
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I'm going to try your method, it sounds like a good shock to the system but not total torture. If I want complete discomfort I'll get married again. How do you shave the remainder of your back? I need to find a good solution to this but I'm too cheap to go and get waxed.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 02:33 PM
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Fix yourself and the rest will follow. Be a better man and your life and relationships will improve. Finances: Cutting money too close every month and going into debt, and then expecting your tax return to bail you out every year is a vicious cycle. The interest will eat you alive and the tax money will find other uses every time. Increase your income and cut costs. You need to live within your means. Give away the fucking dog, pets are a money-suck. Quit BJJ, you can't afford it. You can afford…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 07:26 PM
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I'll be keeping her. This decision was prompted by her strong show of devotion over the past few months Good for your both. I hope it works out for you. Just remember AWALT and deep down they are all ready to upgrade the moment the opportunity arises. Stay high-value, keep kicking ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 04:31 PM
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Yes, the urge to kill is real. And an emotional affair is as disturbing as a physical one. In the end we can only blame ourselves for not staying more attractive. Lesson learned.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:33 PM
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I agree, they go hand in hand. And no one wants to work out with a hangover the next day. After I read what I wrote I went and ran 3 miles. Last night before league night I had water and a salad. Today is back/biceps day. Back on track.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:31 PM
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Damn that's terrible. I'm very sorry for your loss.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 08:02 PM
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4 words to her in four years What were the four words? I need know.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 05:22 PM
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I let my wife start paying the bills. I hated the pressure and thought it might teach her to be more responsible Good job taking this back over. I made this same mistake thinking if the bills were her problem she would be more careful with money. It was like putting the fox in charge of the hen house. By the time I took the finances back over we were drowning in debt and she had been borrowing money from our kids' accounts to make minimum payments. Her shoe closet looked fabulous though.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:47 PM
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Saw a family attorney Great move. Knowledge is power and you don't want to go into the unknown not knowing. buy a small building, keep one flat for me, one for my wife and children, and rent the other ones This sounds like a terrible idea. Ask your lawyer how the division of assets would work in that situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:38 PM
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I will be on a business trip this week It is a huge challenge to eat well when you're on the road.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:24 PM
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Please explain the benefit a cold shower every day. That sounds horrible and I don't know what you gain from it. I love a long hot shower when I have time. And is it straight ice cold tap water, or do you feather in a little warm water so it's not completely North Atlantic Titanic-icy water?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:23 PM
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OYS 9/5/2017 FAIL - Physical They closed my gym for two weeks to remodel, and I used that as an excuse to sit on my lazy ass and not do shit. I am sinking back to my previous sloth-mode. I need to crack back down, like now. I’ve been drinking too much and too often since my divorce was finalized one month ago. I need to dry out for a while. Family My ex has the kids half the time, and I have to admit I enjoy having the house to myself every other weekend. When I do have them, I try to lead them …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 02:08 PM
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Congrats on filing. You'll be happier in the long run. Our custody is 50/50 Ex has them Monday Tuesday I have them Wednesday Thursday We alternate Friday-Sunday This give us equal time, equal weekends, and maximin stability for the kids.
/r/askMRP29/08/17 06:06 AM
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I'll tell you, life is damn good here on the sunny side of divorce. Friends and family are going to take sides, that's what they do. Your real friends will always be your friends, the rest can go fuck themselves. Even if you share some ancestors, disloyalty isn't to be tolerated. You do you. Work on your MAP, continue to improve yourself, live an awesome life with your kids. Keep contact with your stbx as minimal as possible. The shine will wear off Vegas, and when she comes slithering back afte…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 04:47 PM
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Never forget you were stupid enough to marry her once, so you (and I) have a proven capacity for stupidity with shitty people I had to laugh out loud at this. It's funny because it's true.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:42 PM
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The money that you lose in the divorce seems to be less than what a lot of men have to pay to keep her around. When you pencil it out, it's a real eye opener. Maintaining another entire adult is very expensive. Add up the cell phone (plus data overages), extra vehicle (including insurance, gas and maintenance) medical insurance and healthcare bills, compulsive clothes shopping (Jimmy Choo will need to remove me from his Christmas card list after this year), gifts for her side of the family, rest…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:37 PM
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Don't get lulled into complacency. Thanks for those words of advice from your experience. My ex has BPD bigtime, and part of that is she is capable of being cool when she wants something. I could see myself falling for that after the memory of her psychosis is too far in the past.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:27 PM
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Audi and bummers You're the second person that has suggest this to me. I've never driven an Audi but I'm definitely going to test drive some. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/17 07:25 PM
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OYS 8/15/2017 Family I took all the kids and a couple of their friends to a smaller amusement park about 45 minutes away. We all had a great time. Got all the school supplies and backpacks purchased. Went to the “back to school bash” at my kids’ school. Tonight we are going to have a pool and pizza party at my neighbor’s house to celebrate the last day before school starts back up. I need to continue to find some new adventures and activities to bring them on. I’m running out of ideas. Physical …
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 02:41 PM
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How did you manage to convince her of that? She moved into a new house and is buying herself all new furniture etc. She needs cash in the short term instead of waiting possibly years for the assets to sell off. So I made her a lump sum offer, we negotiated a little, and now she's paid off. Wasn't her lawyer telling her to go for the jugular? Yes, he was. She actually had him withdraw his appearance and we used my lawyer to file everything. Is it 50/50 custody? Parenting time and custody is strai…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 02:05 PM
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Kudos to you, u/SoloAlbum. You have mastered the fine art of formatting on Reddit, and that is no small feat
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 03:40 PM
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You are not getting a good grade on that goal. True, so true. My diet has been going to shit lately and I need to crack back down. I had an good streak going on MFP and I blew it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 03:38 PM
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Thank you for the response, I agree with you completely. Although that particular relationship issue has been ultimately "solved", the problem will always be mine to own. If I had swallowed the red pill and started my MAP a few years sooner, I'm certain things would have turned out differently. Instead, I idled along as a beta schlub as my relationship with my wife deteriorated, and this is where it ended up. Now I'm re-entering the dating world in the nearly the best shape of my life and with a…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 05:11 PM
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OYS 8/8/2017 My Goals: Physical – To look great naked. (BF<10%, visible abs, Bench body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift) Social – Minimum two hobbies and my own social network with friends outside of my current network of married people. ¬ Family – To be the Family Alpha at all times and lead my family on regular adventures. To be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt and to have three months of expenses in an emergency…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/17 01:59 PM
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You ghosted her and now this is her only power over you. She no longer regulates your access to her intimacy, you no longer give her your attention, access to your child is the last arrow left in her quiver. She is screaming for attention and you should give it to her through your attorney. A letter from a family law attorney will let her know you mean business. You won't need to go to court, she'll most likely back down when she receives the letter. Hopefully as time goes by she will detach and…
/r/askMRP29/06/17 07:44 PM
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This is great advice.
/r/askMRP28/06/17 01:01 PM
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Thanks for the advice, I'll check that out. From the photos online it looks like a total sausage-fest.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 03:19 PM
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Squats If you have knee problems, switch to box squats
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 01:42 PM
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Wife is moving out. We getting divorced. Seems to be the best course of action. Congratulations on your impending freedom. Keep focusing on you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 01:40 PM
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OYS 6/27/2017 My Goals: Physical – To look good naked. (BF<10%, visible abs, Bench body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift) Social – Minimum two hobbies and my own social network with friends outside of my current network of married people. ¬ Family – To be the Family Alpha at all times and lead my family on regular adventures. To be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt and to have three months of expenses in an emergency…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 01:36 PM
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That's an excellent point. Most of the data on MFP is user-generated so there's no guarantee it's accurate The items with a green check are the only ones that are verified
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/17 10:18 PM
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And the wife is off of them too?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 07:20 PM
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I second the recommendation for MFP. The app has a bar code reader which makes it super-convenient. Also most people eat the same shit over and over (especially breakfast), so you can use Copy Yesterday to quickly add your calories.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 06:33 PM
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I'm very sorry for the loss of your baby. Last year I got help for me as I couldn't work as much anymore. Therapy and medication get things going again. If either (or both) of you are still on anti-depressants a year later, you should talk to your doctor about starting to taper off. They will get you through a bad time, but they will also kill your sex drive, big time. Don't go cold turkey, it could make your depression worse or cause a seizure. But do get off of them eventually, life was meant …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 06:28 PM
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A woman is never yours, it is just your turn. Your turn is over with this one. She has already swung to the next branch(es). It is time for you to adjust to your actual reality. Secretly consult with a good divorce attorney. It costs about $250 and is very empowering to know exactly what your rights are and where you'll stand after a divorce. Start hoarding cash in a safe place. Probably in about two years, with her bills piling up and her ass getting bigger, she'll see the awesome life you are …
/r/askMRP20/06/17 03:48 PM
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OYS 6/20/2017 My Goals: Physical – To look good naked. (BF<10%, visible abs, Bench body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift) Social – Minimum two hobbies and my own social network with friends outside of my current network of married people. ¬ Family – To be the Family Alpha at all times and lead my family on regular adventures. To be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt and to have three months of expenses in an emergency…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 02:57 PM
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Thanks for the feedback! PoF and OKcupid are the bottom of the online pool. Since I want to game younger women, this might not actually be a bad thing. I'd be willing to bang some gold diggers as long as they're hot. Bumble is pretty much where the high class bitches hang now. Tinder is OK. I know a few higher class ladies that like "Zoosk". I'll definitely check out Bumble, Tinder and Zoosk. Any suggestions on how to improve Text Game? Last time I was dating the phones had a crank on the side. …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/17 02:48 PM
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Sorry you're going through all of this. You can't make your wife (or anyone else) love you or be attracted to you. However you can make yourself more attractive and likely to garner affection. The best thing to do is get off your lazy, whiny, fat ass and get to work on improving yourself, like now. Get in shape (lift weights), dress to the 9s, maximize your income, develop a social life outside of your marriage, expand your mind by reading the books on the MRP sidebar, learn how to hold frame, l…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/17 04:24 PM
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I have allowed myself to become lax with the precision of my daily intake. Do you log your calories? Do you have daily goals for your macros?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:53 AM
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I know it’s dangerous to compare TV to real life but it has helped me There's a scene in the movie Goodfellas when Henry comes home after partying all night to a hysterical bitching wife and mother-in-law, and he just laughs out loud and gets back in the car. I love that scene, it shows Zen Level Frame. Earlier in the movie, his girlfriend talks about how she was turned on by Henry beating the shit out of her neighbor with a gun. Alpha male giving her the 'gina tingles.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:50 AM
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Whenever I catch myself on weekends sitting down on couch watching tv/reading the paper I jump up and play a board game with them/take them to the park/something. Well done. This is the single biggest benefit I have gotten from MRP. Catch myself in the chair, get up and take the kids on an adventure or just play with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:44 AM
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Visited Bosley for my 1 year checkup post hair grafts last summer. If you don't mind my asking, ballpark, how much do hair grafts etc cost?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:41 AM
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Good job posting an Own Your Shit post. I hope this is a great start in your journey of Self Improvement. You need to set some solid goals and quit “thinking about” what you’re going to do. This is standard operating procedure for me. Get excited about something, tell myself I'm gonna do it, don't follow through. Good self-analysis, my friend. This is a common theme. Admitting your weakness is the first step in conquering it. Now Own Your Shit and stay the course or your life will continue to su…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/17 12:30 AM
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OYS 6/13/2017 My Goals: Physical – To be “cut” and “swol”. BF<10%, visible abs, Bench body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift. Social – Minimum two hobbies and my own social network with friends outside of my current network of married people. ¬ Family – To be the Family Alpha at all times and lead my family on regular adventures. To be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt and to have three months of expenses in an emerge…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/17 04:14 PM
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Women lie when you make them uncomfortable. You won't get the truth, don't even bother asking. This is a rock-solid fact. Asking "did you fuck that other guy" is pointless. If she did fuck him, she'll say "No!" and act offended that you asked. If she didn't fuck him, she'll say "No!" and act offended that you asked. You gain zero information from asking. And if you ARE asking then you have reason to believe she did fuck someone else, and you have answered your own question.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/17 03:24 PM
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As long as you allow her to control your emotions, she is the dominant partner and you a the submissive partner. In that that arrangement she will have zero attraction for you. You have no control over what she says or does, but you have full control over how you react to it. If you can't get out of Dodge, and you can't lift, you might try meditation as a relaxation technique
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 09:55 PM
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only socialize outside of their immediate family as a tangent to a task Probably not a bad thing. Especially if/when her hypergamy rears its ugly head.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 05:17 PM
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Are things like her asking me to stop by the store on the way home because she forgot something a form of shit test or a legitimate request? Don't go all Red Pill Rambo and refuse to do anything she asks. Stopping by the store on the way home is something every husband does. You need to be a good partner and help each other out. What makes it a shit test is her tone. If she's talking to you like you're her child, that is a compliance test, and if you fail it she's your mommy, and mommy is not tu…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 03:15 PM
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waving the shiny object for the win, lmao This. And I guarantee she'll piss through that money in the first year and end up on food stamps unless she finds a new BB to support her.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 02:59 PM
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Commands from your wife are a form of Shit Test called a "compliance test". "Don't eat that! Get me a drink! Hold my purse!" The content of the command is irrelevant, she is testing to see if she is still the dominant person in the relationship and if you will continue to submit to her. As long as she has the upper hand and can control your mood, her vagina will remain quite dry and dusty. The key is to always hold your Frame and stop getting sucked into hers. Read the remaining sidebar books. E…
/r/askMRP06/06/17 02:56 PM
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Not going to the nuclear option yet. That will be the last resort. She's been on a huge guilt trip about what this is doing to the kids so I've convinced her sign over the equity in our family home and also to leave my retirement alone, and she'll take a cash settlement that is way less than what she would be entitled to by law. I'm going to have my lawyer draw up the settlement agreement and see if she'll stay on board and sign it. If she flakes instead of settling, I'll have to go to the mattr…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 02:44 PM
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my little Agoraphobic snowflake out to no avail (joking with the phobic thing . . . I think) On the one hand, you could get your family doctor to write a script for an anti-anxiety medication to help her overcome her phobia about going out. On the other hand, a wife with agoraphobia might not be a bad thing if she stays home, cooks and cleans, and can't get to the mall.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 02:16 PM
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OYS 6/6/2017 My Goals: Physical – BF<10%, visible abs, Bench body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift Social – Minimum two hobbies and my own social network ¬ Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt and to have three months of expenses in an emergency fund Marriage – To keep things friendly with my STBX Mental – To crank the sidebar and to the point where the concepts ar…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 02:09 PM
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Mommy didn't cook you enough food, so you got butthurt? You know it's a hot button for her and her Family of Origin issues, so be a man, steer clear of the leftovers to begin with, cook your eggs, and enjoy them.
/r/askMRP06/06/17 02:02 PM
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Avoid the overhead press if it's causing you pain. Try side lateral dumbbell raises to develop your shoulders instead. Have you tried creatine to break the plateau?
/r/askMRP01/06/17 10:11 PM
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Great FR, thanks for posting it! after off and on texting for 2 weeks I got her out to drinks...She offered minimal interest at most through this exchange Do the math, two weeks difference is the period of time between her being in her horny ovulation phase and shark week. If you couldn't close with HB8.5 on the first night, you should have waited for the horny time come back around to initiate again.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/17 07:38 PM
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Sorry you are going through this. I am in the same situation, I discovered MRP way too late and the marriage was too far gone. We are in the mandatory waiting period as well. I believe if I had found this sooner things would be different. The best thing you can do is read the sidebar materials and truly ingest them. Develop a Male Action Plan which covers all the areas of your life and work your ass off to be the best version of you. Post on the Own Your Shit post weekly, it is a great way for y…
/r/askMRP31/05/17 08:29 PM
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I had not hear of a PUA Lair before. I googled it, and sure enough there is one listed, so I emailed the mod. Have you joined one of these? How does it work?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 05:48 PM
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the feeling of freedom was amazing Did you end up getting back in the game, or stick with the simple life?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 05:22 PM
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scorched earth that shit That actually doesn't sound too bad at this point.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:16 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I do have one tenant who is want to purchase the property using a land note from me for the first 20%. I'd prefer to sell them outright, but seller financing might be the way to go if things start to drag out too long.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/17 04:15 PM
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Thanks for the input. I reached out to my lawyer this morning to determine how it works in my state.
/r/askMRP31/05/17 04:13 PM
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Ten years ago I married my oneitis. I was a lonely widower, and she was 19 years younger than me, and were very much in love at the time. I had substantial assets entering the marriage including a home and investment properties. She brought the shirt on her back and the snatch between her legs. Today we are in the middle of a divorce, in the mandatory waiting period between filing and the final decree. Everything I own is considered to be a marital asset, and she is entitled to 50%. If I try to …
/r/askMRP30/05/17 06:33 PM
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OYS 5/30/2017 My Goals: Physical – I want to be Chad Thundercock. BF<10% ripped with killer visible abs, Bench my body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift Also to complete the Lee Labrada 12-week workout program. Social – To develop a fulfilling life outside of my home, with at least two hobbies and a good network of my own friends. Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – To eliminate all debt and to have…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/17 02:20 PM
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Afterwards she acted like it only got done because of all of her hard work and creativity. That’s what pissed me off the most, she got in the way, while I hustled, and then she saw herself as some kind of HGTV star or something. Why does it bother you so much that she took some of the credit for buying the investment property? You did it because it was a good financial move, not to gain her acceptance or to look like a real estate mogul in your wife's eyes. If you're a smart captain you'll liste…
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:29 PM
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its that right now you can not control adequately - to YOUR satisfaction - other aspects of your life when you drink This is true. I'm switching to water until my current shit storm blows over.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 03:49 PM
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You're having an amazing time with your boys and don't notice or care what she does This is great advice. Get out of her frame and continue to be an awesome dad. You do you and she'll follow, or she won't.
/r/askMRP24/05/17 01:14 PM
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Get the mom's boyfriend isolated and then get him drunk, and the truth will present itself. Take him fishing or ask him to help you with a project outside and feed him beers the whole time. After he's good and hammered, casually bring up the Hawaii trip "I wish I had been able to go with you all to Hawaii, how was it?". His guilt will overcome him and he'll spill the beans, just be ready for what you're going to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 12:58 PM
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You're right. I know you're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 12:20 PM
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Thanks for the advice! If I have another baby I'll have to name him Houdini because I took care of that shit
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/17 01:30 AM
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are you still sleeping with your STBX and occupying the same bedroom Most nights we share the same bed. We only fuck if she's drunk and horny, which isn't very often.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 01:51 PM
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OYS 5/23/2017 My Goals: Physical – BF<10% ripped with killer visible abs, Bench my body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift. I want to turn the heads of horny young women at the pool, and then look great naked when I get them back to my room. Social – To develop a fulfilling life outside of my home, with at least two hobbies and a good network of my own friends. ¬ ¬Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial – …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 12:04 PM
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The problem with marriage counselling is that it is all words. Desire cannot be negotiated with words. Spend your time and money at the gym instead.
/r/askMRP20/05/17 06:55 PM
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Back off old man, or I'll knock your fucking eye straight Priceless, awesome response. Disloyal bastard had it coming. Yeah you lost your frame, but you're human and you're a man, so own that shit. He might not like you, but he's going to respect you.
/r/askMRP18/05/17 02:47 PM
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Sorry you're going through all of this. You should have one word for her, my friend. "Next!"
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 04:01 PM
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OYS 5/17/2017 1. My Goals: Physical – BF<10% ripped with killer visible abs, Bench my body weight, 600 total bench/squat/deadlift. I want to turn the heads of horny young women at the pool, and then look great naked when I get them back to my room. Social – To develop a fulfilling life outside of my home, with at least two hobbies and a good network of my own friends. ¬ ¬Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be a fun, attentive, nurturing father and masculine role model. Financial…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/17 02:54 PM
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Thank you for the reply. I think that my MAP helped move my deadlocked marriage forward. In this case, forward toward divorce but still better than deadlocked.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 11:26 PM
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I took one 250 mg tablet once daily for 12 weeks. There were no side effects. Nothing else worked but the pills knocked it out. It takes a little time for the damaged nails to grow out and look normal again
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/17 01:05 AM
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nail treatment on a foot that has a persistent fungus on it A while back I had success with a prescription anti-fungal drug called Terbinafine
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 05:54 PM
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Thank you for commenting. Are you going for half-time custody? I will be seeking equal time with our shared children. Where it might get sticky will be if she tries to get time with my children from my first marriage (widowed). My lawyer said she has no rights in that regard, but she could still go to court (read: expensive) You know what works better than all that modern app shit? Walking the fuck up to a woman and start talking to her. I think I read the same thing in the sidebar material in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 02:45 PM
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Good self-analysis of your victim puke. Next time you start to feel that internalized anger building up, take it out in the weight room. And go back and read NMMNG again. You slipped up and lost your frame. It happens. Get back on that horse, cowboy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 02:20 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I just did the math, and if all three go up proportionally, it comes out to 601 lbs I'll adjust the goal to 600 for next week's OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/17 02:12 PM
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I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders. Whatever happens, at least something is happening.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 07:03 PM
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You should assume that this won't happen and keep moving forward, but you might wish to think about whether you would be open to it or desire it, and if so how to keep the door ajar, and if not how to firmly close it His story is interesting indeed. I would consider it a very low probability, but there's always hope. I'll be sure to leave the door cracked open should things change between us.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 07:02 PM
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After we are divorced and my wife is working full time as a nurse, that responsibility will remain with her and her siblings.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:46 PM
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She has family in South America, including her father. When he became disabled, we went together equally with her siblings and came up with a plan to support him. Beta or not, I would do it again. It was just the right thing to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 01:28 PM
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OYS 5/9/2017 1. My Goals: Physical – BF<10%, Bench my body weight, 500 total bench/squat/deadlift. I basically want to look good naked, and be able to lift a writhing lover and throw her around like they do in the porn movies (I’m told). I’d like to get swolested for the first time, and then regularly after that Social – To develop a life outside of my home, with at least two hobbies/activities that involve young, horny women at the peak of their SMV Family – To lead my family on regular adventu…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/17 12:24 PM
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It sounds like your girlfriend doesn't do much for you besides look cute, that's a bad dynamic to be in as it sets you up to be a prime beta bux. Keep your standards high for yourself and your woman. Shit that hit home, you just summed up my marriage
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:57 PM
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Women will usually forget over time If it's something to bitch about, it'll go in The Vault to be brought up at any time between now and eternity
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:53 PM
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Joan Baez Lol!
/r/askMRP04/05/17 08:52 PM
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5/2/2017 Owning my Shit, Every week My Goals: Physical – BF<10%, Bench my body weight, 500 total bench/squat/deadlift. I want to look good naked. Social – To develop a lift outside of my home, with at least two hobbies/activities Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be an attentive, nurturing father Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt Marriage – To easily pass all shit tests and fuck 3x per week minimum Mental – To read all of the books on my reading list, some twice S…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/17 02:50 AM
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I get that. There's a fine line between STFU and going mute.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 11:39 PM
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view this as an opportunity My marriage will either "get busy living, or get busy dying". Either way, I look and feel better than I have in decades.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 11:37 PM
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They may see lawyers, they may entertain the possibility, but they'll never pull the trigger unless they have plan b. She did this a few years ago, but never pulled the trigger. But I'm sure she found out what her rights and options were then. In any case prepare yourself discreetly. I'll do exactly that.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 11:35 PM
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If you want to save your marriage, you can try a lot of things. BUT, if she has checked out already, you are wasting your time and money, and, her time and money Agreed. I'll keep working on my improvement plan regardless, so my time and money will be well spent. In the meantime I'll also consult with an attorney and see if there's anything I should be doing to prepare for the divorce.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 08:01 PM
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This is awesome.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 07:59 PM
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it's going to cost you big I doubt the outcome was affected by that one comment. Any time she's pissed she threatens divorce, it's like background noise
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:39 PM
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There's a good quiz on shrinkformen.com to determine if your LTR is a bona fide BPD. I read the book "Loving someone with Borderline Personality Disorder", and it is very useful for knowing how their mind functions and how to respond. There is no effective treatment
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:37 PM
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If we divorce, she'll depart with cash and prizes, and I'll make a game of replacing her and the assets
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:35 PM
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if you tie one up that is way above your SMV, she is settling for beta bux I should have seen the red flag from the beginning. She actually included this in our wedding vows: "Do you, Higher SMV younger woman, take this older and lower SMV dude to be your beta bux?"
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:32 PM
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guys that post on askmrp get the same amount of ridicule from us as they do from tbp. It's cute. There's plenty of good advice in these comments, even in the ridicule. I don't get butthurt, especially when it is deserved.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:28 PM
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keep working your MAP I'll do that.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:26 PM
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I saw this on the Sopranos. Once a spouse makes the initial consultation, the law firm can't represent the other spouse.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:24 PM
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No fucking idea why you'd go and say "well then file!" Pride. Feigned indifference.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:22 PM
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she married Daddy Warbucks; and now he has chopped up her credit cards and changed the rules. whitetrashkiller's favorite axe to grind of turning hamburger into filet mignon writ large. I know it is MRP porn to ditch the bitch and go 20 years down. Sure enough for fucking, but for LTR/marriage . . . you might as well just put the gun in your mouth and have her hold the trigger. Some lessons you have to learn the hard (and expensive) way.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:05 PM
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Perhaps.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 06:01 PM
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Let's hope you had your divorce lawyer lined up sooner Nope, but I will.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:59 PM
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I still make a mean chocolate "martini". If I had stumbled on MRP sooner, things may have gone on in a different direction.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 05:57 PM
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Better get your ducks in a row and see a lawyer yourself. Ask him what steps you need to take to prepare. Also, ask if there is any advantage in filing first. Thanks, I'll do that.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 03:41 PM
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Do you want to be married, or not? I would like our marriage to survive if possible, but not in its current state. I'll talk to a lawyer and see what I need to do to prepare.
/r/askMRP01/05/17 03:41 PM
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Agreed this is a great way for her to make bank, and OP to get fired
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 04:08 PM
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You have to treat these hoes like you would scratch off lottery tickets. Hit on 500 women and maybe 10 will actually be interested. This is an awesome analogy. I need to remember that one
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 04:07 PM
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Any chance she's snooping your browsing history? Are you on a shared computer? Is she tech-savvy enough to install a keystroke logger?
/r/askMRP28/04/17 01:47 AM
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Thanks for the response. just inform her and move on. Make a decision and own it, every fucking day. I'll do that. He'll be grounded for the rest of the school year. No phone, no electronics, etc. standard approach is to draft up paper and lay them down. sign or STFU bitch I've done this in the past. In my state you can fill out the divorce papers online as a pdf and print them off. She did not sign them, she just made a big stink about custody and money and stormed off.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:13 PM
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Thanks for the response. Monday is the first of the month, and I'll replenish her account, minus what she over-spent in April.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:09 PM
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Mommies dress their kids, not their man. If it's shopping for her, don't go. Or, if you can pull it off, take the lead. Talk to the clerk, pick out clothes for her, send her to the fitting room, etc. Thank you for the response. I'll adhere to this going forward.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:07 PM
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Thanks for the response. Going forward I'll buy my own clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:06 PM
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Thanks for the response. I like tailor my responses based on the shit test. For minor shit tests like "why are you parking here?" I just ignore and do what I want. If she takes an abusive or disrespectful tone, I'll use a more nuclear option, something like "don't take that tone with me, try again".
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:06 PM
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When I get to Dread Level 11, that's a possibility
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 01:02 PM
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Duly noted. Buy my own suits and clothes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/17 12:59 PM
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I was buying a new suit. Her opinion is actually quite helpful in that department, as my fashion sense isn't always the best.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 10:19 PM
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What's the strategy for getting from one point to the other? What are the intermediate steps? If I knew an easy answer to that, I wouldn't be on MRP. As it is, my plan is to lift weights, read everything on the sidebar, increase my attractiveness, and gradually amp up the Dread until I reach Level 12, the nuclear option. I'm currently at Level 1-2.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 10:04 PM
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Thanks for that. I hope you're right, because in the short term it feels like things are getting worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 01:34 PM
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Owning my Shit, Weekly *My Goals: * Physical – To look good naked. BF<10%, Bench my body weight, 500 total bench/squat/deadlift. Social – To develop a lift outside of my home, with at least two hobbies/activities Family – To lead my family on regular adventures and be an attentive, nurturing father Financial – To eliminate all non-mortgage debt Marriage – To easily pass all shit tests and fuck 3x per week minimum Mental – To read all of the books on my reading list, some twice Improving – Physic…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/17 01:32 PM
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apologizes for snapping at me. She feels so unwanted and unneeded in my life. She thinks I get pleasure out of her hurting or failing. Shes really trying. This smells a lot like a Comfort Test. If she takes a pleading and supplicating tone, the correct response is: "Take her in your arms, give her some of your masculine energy and calm, and don't let go until she is reassured that everything is going to be all right." LPT: If you have an iPhone, you can swipe right to left to enable the camera w…
/r/askMRP20/04/17 04:34 PM
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Great advice, thank you. No need to get myself all stirred up without a healthy outlet for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/17 12:38 PM
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Are you saying you are not running the 12 steps of dread? I'm definitely following the 12 steps of dread from the BPP book. In fact I'm probably following it to a fault, because I have the dread levels summarized on a spreadsheet with target dates (this is how I roll, lol). I'm currently at Dread Level 1 & 2 where I'm recognizing and responding to shit tests and following my self-improvement plan. Also I'm starting Dread Level 3 where I'm "getting a life of my own". I have a hobby where I play i…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 03:54 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. Probably the emptiest mission statement I've found Agreed. I'll work on expressing more specific, measurable goals. she most likely will leave, not right after school but the moment a better option comes around, question is, why are you sticking around long enough to find out? Great question. If not for young children and real estate I'd have next'd her already. As it is, I'll give the MAP and Dread process a try first. At this point I have nothing to lose except a littl…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/17 03:13 AM
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Great double entendre. I need to remember that and use it next time
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 07:59 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. We have this fancy gala to go to Saturday night and I was thinking of taking the kids on a hike Sunday afternoon if the weather is decent. I'll definitely invite her to join us.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 07:06 PM
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instead focus on your goals and longer term mission. it will be obvious when it is time for FMoFY. This is great advice, thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 06:48 PM
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given the drop in weight, are your muscles showing through? where is your BF % coming from? I'm showing much better muscle definition and vascularity. I can see my top four abs, but not the bottom ones. I have a body fat caliper, and I get the same result from this body fat calculator: http://www.shapefit.com/calculators/body-fat-estimator-calculator.html I've been following the Lee Labrada Lean Body workout I found on Bodybuilding.com It changes up the exercises for each muscle group and also p…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 06:46 PM
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Why don't you just bring the ingredients for your most popular drinks upstairs. Thanks for the feedback. This past weekend I did exactly that. Vodka Tonic and Moscow Mule are the currently popular drinks, so I had the ingredients set up in the kitchen and the limes already cut. No more beta running up and down the steps, just me being a good host making sure everyone had a full glass.
/r/askMRP18/04/17 05:26 PM
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Thanks for the feedback. I'll have to check for tonsil stones.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 05:21 PM
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Thank you for the feedback. I will get Certain-Dri today and give it a try.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 05:19 PM
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I know exactly what you mean. It used to be when I drank I had "no brakes". The book allows you to understand the subconscious reasons you desire alcohol and effectively shuts down the cravings.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 05:18 PM
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4/11/2017 Owning my Shit, Weekly My mission: To continually improve myself for the rest of my days and become the most Awesome me I can be - physically, mentally, spiritually and financially. I am doing this for myself. Improving – Physical On days I can’t get to the Y during work, I’ve been lifting with my sons at the community center in the evenings. This has turned out to be good male bonding time. Ran for 30 minutes on the indoor track on “active rest” day, my boy lapped me several times. I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 04:53 PM
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I still binge drink I read "This Naked Mind" by Annie Grace and it changed my life. I can drink a beer or two and walk away and feel great. No more binges, no more hangovers. I'm a better father, husband, etc. than I ever was. The book is Free on the r/stopdrinking sidebar. If you want I will email you a pdf of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 04:09 PM
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Oral Hygiene versus Stanky Breath: I have always been good with my oral hygiene, brush teeth 2x per day, floss 1x per day, mouthwash 2x per day, but my wife still complained about me having bad breath, sometimes even right after brushing/flossing/mouthwash/waterpick. So I did some research and I’ve added the following to my daily routine: Tongue Scraper: Removes the shit from the back of your tongue. Thera Breath mouthwash: It’s a little pricey compared to your standard Listerine, but really see…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 03:44 PM
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Call it whatever you want, it's still the bomb.
/r/askMRP14/04/17 12:07 AM
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4/11/2017 Owning my Shit, Weekly My mission: To continually improve myself for the rest of my days and become the most Awesome me I can be - physically, mentally, spiritually and financially. I am doing this for myself. Improving – Physical Continuing to log on MFP and lifting as heavy as I can using the Lee Labrada workout. Doing some lifting exercises for the first time in my life, getting sore in muscles where I didn’t know I had muscles. Started lifting at the community center with my son on…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 09:33 PM
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I'm going to buy an decent body fat caliper to replace the inconsistent cheap plastic piece of shit I've been using. I'm going to continue to log my food intake on MFP, but work to stay within my macro goals. More protein, less carbs. I'm going to prepare my lunches on Sunday night, cooking some lean meats and fresh produce.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/17 02:36 PM
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4/4/2017 Owning my Shit, Weekly My mission: To continually improve myself for the rest of my days and become the most Awesome me I can be - physically, mentally, spiritually and financially. I am doing this for myself. Improving – Physical Starting weight, 204. Current weight 175. I can see my top four abs now without flexing. Will continue the cut until BF % = 12 This week I will start to upgrade my wardrobe. Most of my pants are 36” waist and I am comfortably fitting in 32” waist pants. This w…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 02:00 PM
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I'm going to start lifting at the community center near my house on days I can't get to the Y near work during the day. This way I have no excuse to miss a workout.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/17 01:57 AM
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Thanks for this explanation of frame, it's the best I've read so far. IMHO, Viktor Frankl is one of the best and most extreme cases of holding frame. Working as a slave laborer in a Nazi concentration camp, he held his frame and viewed his world as he chose, and helped many others to do the same. Reading his story, it makes passing a common Shit Test seem like a walk in the park.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/17 12:51 PM
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3/29/2017 Owning my Shit, Weekly My mission: To continually improve myself for the rest of my days and become the most Awesomest me I can be - physically, mentally, spiritually and financially. I am doing this for myself. I finished reading BPP’s “Saving a Low Sex Marriage”. This was by far the most clear, direct, applicable information I’ve read so far. MMSLP would be a close second. IMPROVING – Physical People keep telling me how I look like I’ve lost weight, which is encouraging. I want to ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 11:50 PM
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Thank you, I'll remove that one from my reading list.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/17 12:16 PM
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3/21/2017 Owning my Shit Weekly My mission: To continually improve myself and be the most awesome me I can be - physically, mentally, spiritually and financially. IMPROVING – Physical Still going to the gym 3X per week. Switched from the machines to free weights, started using StrongLifts 5x5 app. Jog 3 miles after lifting. Logging calories daily on MFP. Using IF and only eating between 11:00 AM and 7:00 PM. Weight has plateaued in the 179 lb / 17% BF territory for the last two weeks. Keeping up…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 02:45 PM
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More fun. Less dickishness. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 08:57 PM
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Thank you for the sound advice. I am in this situation due to my failure to lead. Going forward I'll either control the finances in my marriage, or pay a fixed amount of child support in a divorce. Either way, the financial liability is stable and predictable.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 12:33 AM
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I'd have to say because I've allowed her to become one through a lack of leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 12:27 AM
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Honest answer: No, not lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/17 04:18 PM
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My strategy was to build up some basic strength and then move to free weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 05:11 PM
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Yes, I'm being a spiteful prick. It's time to get over it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 05:10 PM
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Fair enough. I need to focus soley on myself and get over my anger/butt-hurtiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 05:09 PM
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3/15/2017 Owning my Shit Weekly IMPROVING – Physical Keeping up with the YMCA 3x per week. I jog three miles on the indoor track to warm up and then do the Nautilus full body workout. Logging calories on MFP. Eating clean between 11:00 AM and 7:00 PM. Still at BF 17%, short term goal is 15%. Starting to see a shadow of abs on the top four muscles, still have a small spare tire/love handles to eliminate. Downloaded Anthony Ellis’ “The Secrets to Gaining Muscle Mass – Fast”. Has anyone used this p…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/17 03:02 PM
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I was able to restructure some of the CC debt with Lending Club. Their rates aren't the best, but it's still less than the cards.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 05:28 PM
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Lot of evidence around these parts there are two types of BPD cunts: real mental illness (she was always this way, and your a dumbass for marrying her) and beta overdose induced BPD cunt. Which one do you have? If it is the first, your entire MAP should be built around "Escape from BPD Cunt". I think she is a natural at being a BPDC, as there were glimpses of it before I fucked up and got married, also it affects her other close relationships such as with her immediate family. Then I made it 10X…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/17 05:02 PM
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What's a good simple men's face moisturizer that doesn't smell like flowers and doesn't cost a fortune?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 06:39 PM
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I drink a ton of black coffee so I bleach the shit out of my teeth using Plus White. Usually I'll use it twice in a row before going to bed. It says 5-minute but I'll leave it on for 20 minutes. https://www.amazon.com/Plus-White-5-Minute-Whitening-Improved/dp/B007C5Q9FQ/ref=pd_sim_194_3?_encoding=UTF8&refRID=AEDVG61KMDJFSYN9VTQP&th=1
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 06:37 PM
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That's a good point. Eating empty carbs just because I'm shocked and grateful that she actually got off her lazy ass and got a fucking pan dirty is a total bitch move.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/17 04:53 PM
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15%BF (by appearance) If you want a more precise BF% using a tape measure, this site has a calculator: http://www.shapefit.com/calculators/body-fat-estimator-calculator.html I have verified the results with a BF caliper and the results are the same. Had meditation practice for many years Can you recommend a good guide to get started with meditation? Finance: Biggest area of neglgence on my part. It helps to pay for everything with an ATM card and then download your bank statement to a spreadshee…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 02:31 PM
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Owning my Shit Weekly Intro: 51 yo, 5’11”, Married 10 yrs to hot 32 yo BPD cunt IMPROVING – Physical Starting weight 204, Current weight 179, Body Fat 17%. Goal 15% body fat and then see how it looks, need to see those elusive abs Gym 3 or 4 days per week Completed C25K Run 3 miles to warm up and then lift Nautilus full body workout (I’ll graduate to free weights after building up some basic strength) Eating clean and logging on MFP religiously No booze (if you struggle with this like I did, rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/17 02:00 PM
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Typo? It's all your fault.
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