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Focus on her when you need a break. I'll fuck till I'm close, the pull out and eat her out while I calm down, rinse repeat. After a couple times of getting close then stopping I usually regain control and can continue on like normal.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 09:01 PM
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Don't play games. I.E. Acting a certain way for a result versus because of a legit reason. This is the main difference between those who have internalized RP and are still learning. Newbies will do something because its alpha and will make a certain reaction. Actual alphas do what ever they want. So to answer your question, unless its actually messing up your schedule, no reason for it to be a problem. If its a reoccurring thing from her, that's a different story, and you should demote. Personal…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 05:38 AM
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And of course that's the one Robert Greene book I haven't read yet.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:43 PM
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I disagree with this. I think her immediately nudging him to bring it to his attention is her handling it.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:02 PM
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For the record, I'm not anti-weed in general, just for myself. It negatively impacts my mind in a significant enough way that it is far better for me to not do it. I acknowledge that there are high-functioning and successful pot smokers out there, I am not one of them. Most people I know are not one of them.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:52 PM
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There's plenty of resources for lifting tips, just hop on over to /r/fitness. You're doing fine buddy, keep plugging away. It took me a day to swallow the pill, but its been nearly two years and there's much more to internalize. There will ALWAYS be more useful understanding to internalize. Just keep doing the good things and you'll get there. Read my old post The Great List of Non-Negotiables for insight into what the good things are. Also, I downloaded FL Studio many years ago with a fiery bur…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 11:03 AM
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It's not about the women, it's about the lessons the iron offers. The women thing is just a benefit. Also, no, women love big muscles. There are rare exceptions, but we dont give a fuck about rare exceptions around here.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:54 AM
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Drop your plates, refocus. Gradually introduce a plate or two after you've got your mind back in control of your dick. Stay conscious of how it's effecting you. Ease up if you begin to lose focus again. Basic problem solving.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:51 AM
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There's only one response to "How do I show ____ TRP?" Dont talk about fight club. Leading by example is the one and only good option.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:42 AM
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Definitely sounds like you failed a few comfort tests throughout the relationship. When she says she doesnt know if she can love anyone after you, it probably actually means "I dont think I could do any better than you". You didnt give a whole lot of detail, but presuming you're a high teir male, sounds like a classic case of Alpha Widowing. As for recovery, it's probably possible through admitting a decent amount of bluepill to shine through, but I cant say how much, nor do I really suggest it.…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:40 AM
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Dont reward that behavior man, I get where you're coming from but no, buying a girl something will pretty much never trump a shit test, even if the implication is smart-assy.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 06:09 AM
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I personally do not put up with passive aggressiveness like that and would next any woman who makes threats toward our relationship, especially over something that trivial. (Provided she actually does what she said she was gonna do.) You also didn't seem to hold frame from the start, as that shouldn't have lead to an argument. To answer your question, agree and amplify is what you should have done, as per uuuusual. "Oh great I'll go buy you some pasties and leg warmers" rolls eyes
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:08 AM
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Stop watching TV in bed (or altogether), get glasses/contacts. This isn't a "Basic Life Advice" forum. Keep your trivial questions on google.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:01 AM
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Who cares? Women don't, I'll tell you that, especially about scars. I wouldn't want to remove my scars even if I could. As for stretch marks, sounds like you're young and they'll probably fade. Don't worry about it.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:44 AM
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Lifting is always a good idea, and no matter your situation it will bring benefit. You may not need it for your SMV, but definitely consider its benefit for yourself and your health. As for the meal ticket thing, maybe don't do meals. There are plenty of other options that are better than dinner dates in terms of opportunities to kino and escalate. Picnics, amusement parks, bars, anywhere doing fireworks, swimming (although lifting makes or breaks this one), hikes, billiards, music shows, coffee…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 02:59 AM
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I don't set up or even bring up seeing her again till a couple days later, then I'll set up date two. You should at least be kiss closing by the end of the first date, or else you didn't escalate enough. A successful kiss close means she will see you again, so long as your text game isn't garbage (logistics only, as you should know.) Also worth noting, you can "gauge" if you want to fuck her within the first few minutes or less. Gauging for a main plate or ltr should be months; trickle truth is …
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:00 AM
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Next. If the shit test you in the first few messages (which is how long its should take to get a number), its not going to be worth the trouble.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:26 PM
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Read Models because its apparent you haven't. Polarization. Determine sexual interest as soon as possible through escalation.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:23 PM
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In case it hasn't been apparent enough, marriage is just a plain bad idea. Even prenups can be overruled in court. You don't need to be married to start a family. As for qualities to look for: maternal traits of compassion and caretaking, shows you respect 99% of the time (which is very dependant on you as much as her), gentle in all her affairs, a good relationship with her father, and sexually conservative (low partner count, low to no male friends) These traits should be assessed over 6 month…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 11:20 PM
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You don't know enough about TRP to know what you're asking, and I get the distinct feeling that you're concern trolling. The feminine imperative is the predominant paradigm effecting our culture currently. Gender dynamics, evolutionary psychology, and the sexual market are applicable to, and explanations for, nearly every aspect of life and society.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:06 PM
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AMALT is betahood. Women should be cautious of believing a man's frame to be strong until it is proven over time. Many betas can act like they have a strong frame at first, but the truth will be revealed sooner or later. They have to be aware of covert contacts and men who phish for validation. Men who do things with the expectation of return. They have to know that men can and will have sex with no emotional attachment. That's really just scratching the surface. Anything beta is essentially AMA…
/r/askTRP25/04/16 09:00 PM
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Keep reading. Look for my post "Meeting People 101" for some tips on that front. Get out of your head that you have a low value. Think of it this way, as long as you keep doing the things that will be truly good for you (look at my post The Great List of Non-Negotiables), you have an ever increasing smv. Smv is not static nor black and white. Be patient. Be consistent.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:09 AM
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She's just jealous and resentful.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 10:03 PM
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Fuck explaining yourself, let him stew in his inferior anger and forget about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 09:38 PM
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Because self-improvement is beating a dead horse at this point. My post "The Great List of Non-Negotiables" pretty well covers the entirety of the self improvement side. We are about sexual strategy, and thus the main topics of conversation are on the nature of men and women, and how to adapt our strategy to the cultural climate. People are pissed at us because truth comes before political correctness or people's feelings around here. People are pissed at us over the words of frustrated men who …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 08:10 PM
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Well, we are not a cause. We are not out to change the world, we dont care about creating a social narrative. The social narrative of feminism is useful in analysis of sexual strategy, but we arent an activism or mens rights group. "Creepy men" are men with little/no sexual value. The same thing could be said to the same woman, one from a sniveling mangina, and one from a chad thundercock, and it would only be creepy from the mangina. Yes we discuss divorce, custody, child support, and other mar…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 07:30 PM
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In case you forgot, or just havent read enough of the sidebar yet; women do not know what they want. Most women think they're supposed to want a bluepill man, but when they have him their pussy dries right up. They were put through conditioning just like men, and brought up to believe things that arent true too.
/r/askTRP24/04/16 07:15 PM
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Id argue that there is a great amount of newcomers whose presence is not known because they are too busy digesting the information. New influx always happens this way, the minority vocally opposes, the majority silently digs in.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 07:06 PM
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Afraid of competition eh? Will you shouldn't be, for two reasons: Fear of competition is a lack of abundance mentality, and shows insecurity through comparing yourself to others. The majority of men who find TRP will never actually start, let alone sustain, the transformation of their lives.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 07:02 PM
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Therapy can be of great value, provided the therapist is good. Get a good grasp on TRP, then do your best to find a MALE psychologist who is fairly redpill. Psychologists associated with Robert Glover (Author of No More Mr Nice Guy) would be ideal.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 06:13 AM
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The Misandry Bubble, while it has a couple discrepancies, is a great place to start.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 06:09 AM
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Your comment is very off topic considering my post isn't even about sleep. Half the comments in this thread seem to be from people who didn't even read the post.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:55 PM
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People definitely respond different. This is directed toward those who are hypersensitive, like me, who can get serious anxiety from one cup of coffee (and often not realize it because the onset of the anxiety is very delayed.) My game was really inconsistent before quitting coffee, I'd be great one day and completely shut down the next. Now it is consistently good. If I start drinking coffee again it reverts. I know quite a few people with a similar experience with coffee. Yes most of those cla…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 08:50 PM
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Get more sleep, don't drink more caffeine.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 08:37 PM
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For which part? A Google Scholar search will yield many studies about caffeine sensitivity, mental effects from prolonged use, adrenal release, etc. Edited op with sources
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 08:29 PM
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There is hate on this sub from those in the anger phase. But TRP doesnt hate women, in fact, TRP wouldnt really exist if we hated women, seeing as the whole purpose is to create more healthy and functional relationships with them. You dont have to be an asshole. I'm not, and I do really well. Being alpha isn't about being an asshole, it's about living by your own virtue, and not altering those values for the sake of a woman (or anyone). There's a line between not being a doormat, and being an as…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:08 PM
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I wake up around 5am, get coffee and breakfast, do audio engineering stuff (study, sound design, production, mastering, etc) for about five hours. Eat lunch and read. Workout and meditate. Then take a nap and do more audio engineering stuff until about 5 at which time I'll either go to a social gathering, hang with friends, or hang my hammock in the woods and just relax. Usually in bed by 9 or 10. That's pretty much everyday for the past 3 months or so.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 07:05 AM
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To have a female friend who isn't there for your resources (or for your prowess as an emotional tampon and validation machine), game is still necessary, for she must be attracted to you to stick around. No attraction and not gaining anything from the friendship means a girl has no reason to be there.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 06:46 AM
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Occupation: Recreational Herbalist I live out of a backpack on the beaches of Hawaii. I sell people their medicine and relaxation. I myself rarely partake in the medicine though, as the need to be sharp is important. While at present time I'm only making a couple grand a month, it is an ever growing demand, and am in with those who make much, much more. Skills necessary for this line of work are discretion and networking. The start up cost can be nothing if you get someone to invest in you. It's…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 07:55 PM
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I have a few, but my main is music production. I loved music to a great extent all my life, and my friends always told me I had great taste, and that I should make music, so I did. Been going hard on it for three years. I also love fantasy fiction, so I started writing. I love visual aesthetics, so I started making digital art. What do you love experiencing? Start making those things. That's how I found my passions.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:52 PM
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I like being forefront with my sexual desires. Talking primitively, bluntly. Expressing my lust uninhibited. Granted, a certain amount of rapport determines whether it's creepy or tingles. Also, it's not something I can fake. My loins must actually be burning for the person.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 06:19 PM
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This. I'd also look for No More Mr Nice Guy groups. Be sure whoever you pick is male.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:55 PM
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Hamster all you want, but realize theres no excuse for not lifting, eating well, dressing better, and applying dread. Again, it's obvious you havent read much. Please do yourself a favor and read the sidebar and the basic books (No More Mr Nice Guy, Book of Pook, Models, Way of the Superior Man, etc.)
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:53 PM
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Leave her. If you're not having sex why are you in a relationship? You're hamstering pretty hard if you're calling it voluntary. Also, you're on Red Pill, where you learn how to get sex without groveling or begging. You dont seem to have read the whole sidebar (we can tell). Get on that.
/r/askTRP27/10/15 04:44 PM
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If you haven't read No More Mr. Nice Guy, I'd make that a priority. It discusses that feeling of unworthiness, and does a good job of explaining it.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 12:16 PM
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You think you're clever, but I know you're Heartbreak111. The same guy that's posting twice a day. I'm guessing you got banned and made a new account? You need to get the fuck off reddit and actually focus on bettering yourself bro.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:03 PM
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RedPillJax is on the money. The best you can hope to do is set an example through actions.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:10 AM
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The ENTIRE sidebar. As long as your self talk is pathetic, so shall you remain.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 01:09 AM
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Only you can develop that desire for yourself. You need something you're obsessed about that isn't self improvement. Something that you want to master. Something that you want to be the top percentile in. Whether it's an art, a business, etc. The top 1% of men aren't there because they just did a bunch of self improvement. They are there because they have a passion for something, a dream so big it extends past even their lifetime. Without a passion, complacency will always find its grip.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 09:26 PM
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This. Your internal anxieties are holding you back, not reality. There are still available women. Also, stop viewing it as a competition. Stop comparing yourself to others. Become your own brand of alpha.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:17 PM
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TRP main sub is not for questions, especially simple ones like this. There is only one answer. You must cut her from your life. No need to be overt, but decline when she asks to hang out, if she asks why you're not ever around anymore, just be ambiguous. "I've been busy." Cutting ties is the only thing that will move you forward. Read the sidebar. Read the sidebar. Read the, what's that? The sidebar. Aw yeh.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:56 PM
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Because he's a troll and/or dumb. Check his post history if youre interested in what complete neuroticism looks like.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 09:52 PM
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The ones complaining are still angry. I appreciate sluts as much as I appreciate a good girl, just for very different reasons.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 07:34 PM
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I'm a fair mix of canned contextual jokes and top of my head. Watching standup has made a big difference for me. I've been told a handful of times recently that I should be a comedian. Pay attention to timing, think about and use metaphors a lot. Amplify things to preposterous levels. For example, was with some friends and a guy ashed his cigarette on the floor by accident. He was looking straight at it on the floor when a girl pointed and said "You ashed on the floor." I said "That's like going…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 07:17 PM
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I just realized you're the same guy that's been told a dozen times to get off asktrp and actually work on yourself. Seriously, stop posting every other damn day. no one is going to hold your hand. One month of half ass dieting is not a lot of effort. You don't deserve to even get responses. I'm starting to think you're just extremely thick, or a troll.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 07:02 PM
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You're chalk full of blue pill illusions. Cut this girl out of your life, youve got some hard oneitis. Read the sidebar, apply that knowledge. This is the only good advice. As for smell, yes. I've have been incredibly attracted to the way a woman smells, and extremely repulsed. Its called pheromones. This isn't even a remotely new concept.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:57 PM
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Go to a real barber. Ask for short on the sides and longer on top. It's a standard. Do some skin care. If you can grow a full beard, do that, keep a clean neck line and trimmed.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:52 PM
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If she says no and doesn't attempt to reschedule she's not that into you and you should move on. Also, you asked when she was free next and she said Monday, so trying to set up earlier is pretty dumb, is it not?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:47 PM
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Not only is there no question here, eating 1000 calories of garbage a day is why your face is still chubby. How about putting some real effort in huh?
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:45 PM
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Why'd you even bother asking when the answer is so obvious then? They see a skinny bald man with bad social skills and low self esteem. I'd wonder why the fuck a very attractive woman was with you too. Apparently she wondered as well considering she's not around anymore.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:45 PM
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Not enough info. Are you jacked? Are you rich? Do you dress well? Something about you was obviously showing a low SMV.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 04:34 PM
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This. And you know, reading the sidebar. There's no magic formula anyone here is gonna give you. The magic formula is learning the material and applying it.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:42 AM
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You're asking us to define your morality. That's not what we do here. Tell him, deal with the potential fallout. Or don't tell him and not be involved. I'd personally stay out of it, but that'd just be my decision. We're not here to make choices for you. List the potential pros and cons of telling him, and decide for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 10:23 PM
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AWALT. Don't know why you expected any different if you've been redpill "for years". Tell him or don't, either way AWALT will show itself to your friend eventually.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 10:14 PM
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Don't wait to lift for you to grow taller. That's ridiculous. I kept growing in height till I was about 20. So you might squeeze out another inch or two. Don't be concerned with your height, you cannot change that. Be concerned with lifting, and dressing well, and proper hygiene; the things you can control.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 10:10 PM
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I don't know how to start kino Just go aggressively straight for the cooter. They love that shit. But in all seriousness, search the main sub for "kino", look through the sidebar, read Models. There's a ton of resources available to you on the subject. And for some unsolicited advice: she sounds crazy, and I have a hard time believing a wall-hitting 30yo mother of 3 is an HB8. Like, what? There's obviously deeper investment in this woman than sex. I'd personally avoid that.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 09:08 PM
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I'm glad someone finally said this. Was fully expecting it.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:36 AM
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Richard Bransons biography "Losing my Virginity" is excellent. He is one of the most impressive and inspiring people on the planet right now, imo. Elon Musks biography is equally inspiring. All Quiet on the Western Front by Erich Remarque is intense and powerful and will practically leave you shell shocked. Walden by Henry David Thoreau is a must read IMO. He was the George Carlin of the late 1800s, and his prose is beautiful and rule breaking. This is easily one of my favorite books of all time…
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 09:55 PM
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Did you also see the reply to that thread about your perception of the tasks being more important than the quantity? This list is what got me off my ass because I stopped thinking about what I needed to do. It was concrete and full proof in my perception. I needn't do any more or any less. Its simple enough to carry around in your mind, or on a postcard. I decided these are things I wanted to do, and I stopped thinking about its importance, and rather thought about it as a framework for my day. …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:24 PM
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This is important. I say "stop reading TRP" for effect. What I really mean is stop reading it so much. In a world that is constantly trying to bring us down, it's important to compensate with information that brings us up.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 07:18 PM
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It's back now. Not sure what happened.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:40 PM
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Got removed? Is the post not showing anymore?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 06:13 PM
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What red said. Wanna slay the pussy? Develop a life worth living regardless of women. Lift. It's said all the time for a damn good reason. It will boost your confidence, it will develop discipline, it will make you tougher, it will ease your anxiety. Oh, and of course the added bonus of female attention. This is non-negotiable. Develop a Passion. What do you like doing? What do you love doing? Do a whole fucking lot more of that. Get obsessed with becoming a master at it. Never give up. If you d…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 04:02 AM
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Yep. Talk in emotions, speak her language if she asks why. "It just doesn't feel right anymore." "I feel like it's time to move on."
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 10:37 PM
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Exactly. Then don't give her validation and start making that hamster scuttle in its wheel. I'm not suggesting that plating an ex is a good idea, only offering what seems to work best in that situation if you so choose to do that. Look for the post called something like "Making your ex your first TRP experiment".
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 10:27 PM
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The best way to demote an LTR to a plate is to do a clean breakup, and if she was attracted enough to you she'll contact you a couple months down the road, and then plate her. Always be very clear that you are breaking up, never be clear as to why.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 10:05 PM
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If they're a plate, why tell them?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:57 PM
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Stop thinking. Seriously. Making an asktrp post because a girl hasn't replied in two hours just screams needy. Some women have lives outside of sex. Id take notes, cause it sounds like your life for the past two hours was waiting for her to reply. Theres nothing you can do about girls not replying to you immediately. It happens. No matter how much you think they are attracted to you.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:54 PM
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Your SMV is still low, and judging by the frequency and content of your post history, you're still an AFC. What women tell you means nothing. I dont care if they say you're the greatest human they have ever met. Watch what they do, not what they say, and what they are doing is treating you like shit. Judging from your language I'd say you've hardly scratched the surface of the side bar. Stop posting in asktrp every other day and go study and increase your SMV. And for your own sake, realize thes…
/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:16 PM
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Kinda have something similar. I was honestly better with women before TRP. I don't seem to get noticed nearly as much now either, despite better body, posture, and demeanor. But before TRP I was relatively directionless and unable to maintain good habits. Now I'm exceptionally healthier, have many good habits, a deeper sense of purpose, and happier all around. If I take a woman on a date I can still game well and get them back to my place no problem, but there's definitely less IOIs and attentio…
/r/askTRP10/10/15 01:10 AM
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I turned off my home internet, deleted my Facebook, uninstalled all games and time wasting apps, and am only subscribed to a small handful of productive subreddits. The only social media I have is Snapchat. You just have to cut it all out. The first few days you are going to be beyond bored. But you'll slowly start finding other things to fill your time. I'm pretty much always busy doing productive or social things since I quit my "screen" habits.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 10:15 PM
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She's just trying to get attention and validation.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 08:43 PM
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There's nothing at all inherently wrong with video games. Like all nonproductive entertainment its when and how you use it that makes it potentially detrimental. Moderation. I personally have lost all interest in video games since discovering RP and quitting marijuana. I still occasionally play smash with a certain group of friends as well, but I see it as more of a social activity these days.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:19 PM
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I've little advice aside from my anecdotal experience. I don't know the laws about being on the registry, and I have very little financial knowledge. But what I do have is a ton of experience in being homeless, and in giving up a well established life in a single moment and moving elsewhere. I've dropped a 60k salary in a growing company and moved 2,000 miles to a place i knew no one, simply because I was bored and wanted a change of pace. I got a job at a hotel making $10/hr and living in one o…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 09:37 PM
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I just ignore the new age shit, or bend it to fit my views. It doesn't bother me. Also, there's tons of free/donation based yoga studios. You need to get more hobbies. Search for the post series in the main sub "How to not be a boring fuck."
/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:05 PM
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What things do you like to do? Find groups who do those things, or visit related places. For example, I'm going to a secular meditation group this evening. My roommate and I also go to yoga. After yoga and meditation meetups there's always mingling afterward, which is perfect because its very easy to be in state and have a strong frame after those activities. I also LOVE fiction, so I often go to book stores/cafes and approach there. A coffee-close is literally a few strides away, and the common…
/r/askTRP08/10/15 07:39 PM
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So? I've gone a week without texting after a date and still went on another date.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 12:45 AM
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You already know what to do. Get your shit together, keep your hands off your dick/keyboard/bong, and go meet women.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:58 PM
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I just want to teach her a lesson she's been treating me this way for over a year now The only one who needs to learn a lesson is you bro.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:56 PM
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You're orbiting like the moon.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:23 PM
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We're about what works, and if that works for you, do it. Its important to realize how contextual behavior is. Beta traits can be seen as very positive if performed by an alpha. Traditional chivalry like that will also be perceived differently depending on demographics. If chivalry is something you enjoy, and the women you date seem to enjoy, then by all means do it.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 09:04 PM
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should I feel bad TRP cannot tell you your morality. Figure that out for yourself. Like the other guy said, you don't know what you want. There's also a definite lack in abundance mentality. Figure out what you want, and just do it. Also, you cant make a woman go to the gym. If you're in good shape and instilling dread the girl will go to the gym of her own accord.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:10 PM
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Set up another date. If she agrees or reschedules, great. If not, next her. And I don't suggest sending next day texts in reference to the previous night. Text for logistics.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 08:05 PM
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No matter what I do people think I'm kind and often tell me that my presence is very calming. At first it bothered me when trying to swallow the pill, but I realized I'm just a genuinely kind person who enjoys cultivating pleasant atmospheres. I still get jokingly called an asshole, I still tease, I still firmly set boundaries, I still tell morally dim jokes. I just give off a pleasant and safe vibe while doing all of that. Being alpha doesn't mean you can't be nice, it just means you're nice to…
/r/askTRP04/10/15 01:19 AM
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As a group that should be adept at comedy and satire, you'd think there would be more of this. I approve of Story Saturday.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 01:08 AM
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I believe it. I had that way of thinking before TRP and the 48 Laws.
/r/askTRP03/10/15 11:11 AM
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"Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others." -48 Laws of Power
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:21 PM
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That's an option. See, it's not so impossible. If you're new, devour the sidebar, read a few books suggested, and then put that information into practice. Then come ask questions once you have your footing.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:08 PM
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For fucks sake stop talking like a little bitch and making excuses dude. What do you mean what are you supposed to do to get consistent sex? You're on TRP. Read the fucking sidebar. Move out of your parents house, go to a bar, and approach women you find attractive.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:02 PM
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Whatever is stopping you from getting sex now, will be stopping you from getting sex in a marriage as well. Sexual attraction doesn't form just cause you signed some papers and stood on an alter. Also, if you get cuckholded or divorced raped, what you spend your money on stops being your choice.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:56 PM
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Sounds like you're using the arranged marriage idea as a cop out so you don't actually have to go out and overcome your fears of approaching and attracting women. Marriage is an awful idea, as you should know if you've spent any real amount of time reading here. Get up and go approach. Don't try to bargain with what you're afraid of, face it head on and grow. Also, AWALT. If you expect to find a women who won't leave when you fall into being a beta bitch, you'll be crying all the way to the bank…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:47 PM
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He's either a nice guy and trying to get out, or so lacking in confidence he knows a relationship will fail. They're both kind of related. Either way you're never going to get what you want from him. Also, show me dem titties.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:37 PM
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You're painting this too black and white. Both can be effective, but somewhere in between is optimal. I generally show sexual interest through body language (touching, dancing, etc) and sexual humor. Also, if you're asking about what will build attraction, that's called game and flirting. It's the push-pull. The rapport breaks. The escalation. Read Models by Mark Manson. Read The Book of Pook. As a side note, the primal no filter can work well with women whom you have prior relations with. Somet…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:25 PM
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They think helping/defending make them like them. Why did you even need to ask this? It's probably covered a few dozen times throughout the sidebar material.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 07:14 PM
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First things first, don't come on here asking for advice but refuse to hear negativity. We are here for the sake of truth, not fairness and love. Secondly, you're much better off asking about this in /r/redpillwomen. And finally, my thoughts: He's either not interested in dating and just wants to fuck, or he's not comfortable and confident within himself and is afraid of failing. If it's the former, there's not much you can do about it. If it's the latter, well, there's still not much you can do…
/r/askTRP02/10/15 04:31 PM
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I don't find being ripped and having a very successful career to be nearly as big of factors as they're made out to be in an LTR. (As long as you are more fit and make more money) I'm in good shape with a pretty toned body from bodyweight training (and added weight calisthenic exercises.) I'm by no means huge or bulging with muscle, im just fit. I'm a mechanic, which is a fairly masculine job, but I'm by no means wealthy, and often most women never even find out what I do for a living. Confidenc…
/r/askTRP01/10/15 10:03 PM
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I am 6'2" and weighed 145-150lbs for years. I'm now nearing 170. As someone else said, you must train your stomach to eat more. Eat another serving or half-serving after you'd normally stop. Get a Gainer shake or make your own with milk/peanut butter/oats. EAT A BIG BREAKFAST. Most skinny people who have trouble gaining weight either don't eat breakfast, or eat really light in the morning. Get enough sleep. 7.5 or 9 hours a night. Avoid Sugar, Alcohol, and Tobacco.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:46 PM
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Why would we care what anyone thinks outside of this sub? Take your concern trolling elsewhere.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 04:36 PM
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Because we are not a social movement, TRP is a sexual strategy.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 04:28 PM
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This doesn't always have to do with other sexual success (or lack thereof, as you stated.) I've been quite successful with women. At one point I had a couple plates and some recent ONS under my belt, and still fell into the trap of the dependency he described. Otherwise i agree, trying to stay in it and get his head straight could prove to offer valuable lessons. Just tread carefully.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 07:13 PM
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Stickied on the front page: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3l310a/the_red_pillers_guide_to_online_dating/
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:30 PM
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If the people calling you a douchebag are still hanging out with you and want to spend time with you, then yes, you're correct. If everyone is cold and distant to you then you probably are just a douchebag.
/r/askTRP29/09/15 04:25 PM
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If you're neutral it means you haven't put in any thought. If you don't give a fuck, WHY do you not give a fuck? I think he's encouraging it because it is something that increases self-importance, and in turn confidence. Part of developing and maintaining frame is having thought out opinions, and being uninhibited in expressing them. Having strong opinions in a wide array of subjects makes you a more interesting person, and opens up conversational doors all over the place. As for vulnerability, …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:26 PM
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don't want to offend her or freak her out Sounds like you're still needing women's validation. Since she sounds pretty low SMV and youre not experienced, I'd treat it as an experiment. Hit the sidebar and do some searches, brush up on escalation and try to implement it. If you fail you learned a lesson, if you don't fail you learned a lesson and got yours.
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:17 PM
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This is not how the dislike button will work from what I've read. It will give you the option of having negative posts, where dislike replaces the like button. It also may just be rumor. That being said I deleted my Facebook and it's one of the best decisions I've ever made.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:23 PM
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In moderation it can be useful. Frequent use will have tons of repercussions. Id take a moment to think about what other things are causing lack of focus first. Getting enough sleep? Eating well? Lifting often? Meditating daily? If any of those are no, fix it and see how your focus improves.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 08:08 PM
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Firstly, don't for a second think this situation is unique to you. Don't start thinking "maybe I'm just broken". Most of us have been there. Most of us were your typical beta. You're not alone. We've all thought we were too ugly or too short or don't have a real role model so its not possible. Just realize its all excuses in your head. Secondly, read. Have you digested the whole sidebar? Great, now start reading books. I personally love audio books. Two great books to start with are: No More Mr.…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 10:51 PM
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Definitely escalate prior to the movie. During a movie can be really awkward to escalate.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 09:43 PM
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Weird that I never even considered this as a shit test, because its playful. I honestly don't feel like I get shit tested much at all, but maybe its because I just rarely take women seriously.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 09:41 PM
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I have minimal interest in friendship with women. Being women, they rarely have much to offer me besides sex. I currently have two female friends, one is an ex-plate turned drinking buddy (who I occasionally still fucked before monk mode), and the other is an ex-LTR and a profoundly intelligent girl with very red pill beliefs and I love talking with her. Though once my Monk Mode is over I'll probably plate them both again. So it's really not fair to call either of them platonic. I think it's ver…
/r/askTRP23/09/15 07:31 PM
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True. I had a 22yo plate who has a child. Feel like milf just started meaning cougar at some point. It became an age thing, not whether they even had a kid or not.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:05 PM
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Good post. Majority of the time I answer questions about my life with amused ambiguity. A "wouldn't you like to know" attitude. Maintaining mystery is a powerful tool.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 05:18 PM
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I find cougars very sexually appealing to be honest. But it's definitely purely sexual. The wall is not necessarily 30. That is just the average. I've seen women nearing 40 who are still beautiful and youthful. I think milf and cougar generally apply to older women who still retain some beauty of their youth and still ride the CC. The wall is either later for them, or they just don't care about the wall.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 05:08 PM
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This outlines very well why I've gone Monk Mode, and really suggest Monk Mode to anyone going through this. After my last LTR dropped me I went around the block a couple times. Fucked a few women, couple of them became plates. The plates were even objectively much higher quality women than the ex. Yet after I fucked them and they went home, I'd lay awake thinking about the ex. I would compare these girls to the highlight reel of my ex in my head. I realized I wasnt emotionally available for thes…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 04:19 PM
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You're apparently emotionally hurt by this one comment. There were many other comments in that thread that didn't seem to make you so hurt, yet conveyed similar information. You need to realize this is a forum by men, for men. You will not find warmth and welcoming arms here. Many men here are very angry at the world. There are men here with prose and behavior you may find to be immoral and vulgar. I highly suggest you head over to /r/redpillwomen and learn and ask questions there. And to answer…
/r/askTRP22/09/15 10:40 PM
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If you weren't looking for validation from this thread you could have just looked at other comments within the mentioned post, you know, where people are giving their thoughts on the subject.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 08:03 PM
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RedPillJax and trpftw have good advice. I would also add that you should consider that the spacing should happen naturally from having personal ventures more valuable than the woman. If you have enough free time to see them everyday and have them spend the night, you may be a master scheduler, but more likely than not you don't have enough investment in yourself.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:36 PM
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"No hookups" and other such statements are more fuck boy retardant than anything. Never take that for face value. There's invisible fine print there that says "unless you're an alpha man".
/r/askTRP22/09/15 07:31 PM
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I don't do long pieces, but I'm pretty exceptional at condensing ideas into short simple satire on social media.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 06:37 PM
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Definitely do this. Like Mark Manson preaches, win women with honesty.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:23 PM
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Troll! In the dungeons! But seriously, you'll probably have better results if you actually take action instead of penning your daydreams on an online forum.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:21 PM
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"You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." -Jim Rohn Mediocrity will rub off on you just as easy as greatness, if not easier It's also important to ask yourself "why don't I want better than this?". It's likely you still have some esteem or confidence issues if you are settling for less than what you optimally want. To me it sounds like you are being complacent, afraid to put in the work for what you really want.
/r/askTRP22/09/15 06:09 PM
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"I don't keep count" is my go to response, because I genuinely don't know. A&A doesn't work for me with this most of the time. They'll just further press the question. Which just leads back to "I don't keep count".
/r/askTRP21/09/15 07:45 PM
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