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Get out of the house to meet women is something all except maybe black pill agree on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 11:54 PM
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Agree with you for the time being. But we still are another 2 decades at least from women comprising most Executive leadership positions. Once that happens there is a possibility some celebrity really makes having an IVF baby on your own a status symbol and Exec women flock to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 04:04 AM
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Respectfully, you don’t know what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:25 PM
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Im not going to convince you. But I’d just say that what is good for the individual can be ruinous for society and so my overall point is that we need to change the calculus for individuals on this topic so society can survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:08 PM
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It seems even women in their 30s aren’t really taking advantage of the fertility treatments and “far fewer kids” becomes a societal problem. The solution is not to roll back womens rights, but we do need some kindof solution to raise the birth rate. I think we may need a complete re-architecting of society to make having a child a desireable thing again. Right now it just seems like a huge burden and thankless job.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 06:04 PM
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OK? I do insist on wearing one. I don’t know what “pass” you think I’m hoping for. I was sharing how I felt.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 12:59 AM
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I never hooked up significantly but I have a few hookups under my belt. A decade ago it seemed a foregone conclusion to always use condoms. These days I feel like women actually assume the opposite that no condom would be used. As a man I actually sometimes feel a bit of apprehension telling a woman I want to use a condom. It’s very strange. I guess the more the AIDS epidemic recedes from memory the more people do not take safe sex seriously until there’s another major outbreak of something that…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:27 PM
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Men can’t have checks notes human emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 04:23 AM
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9 men for every 1 woman on Tinder is how.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:50 AM
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Men tolerate it is the reason. That being said, I do think men should give their pregnant partner a lot of leeway and extend a lot of care for her. Pregnancy is tough. I’m a bit less sympathetic to menstruation given it lasts a few days and if a woman doesn’t live with her partner she should just isolate herself if she’s in so much pain she can’t show kindness to her partner. Again though this changes if her partner lives with her. In that case she can’t exactly physically separate from him in h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:30 AM
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I don’t really believe “the ick” to be all that real or a growing thing. Sure there were always things that might turn you off a person. And womens Icks may have always been a bit more behaviour based than mens icks which are more physical attribute based on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 06:40 PM
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This is semantics. A “lower threshold” inherently means one is more forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:38 PM
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The truth is that being submissive is a much lesser mental load. Someone just deciding FOR you means you don’t have to take much time coming to a decision and stressing over it. THAT is I believe why many women gravitate to submission. There is no stigma against a woman being more submissive (there is some stigma for men), and it’s a lot less work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:17 PM
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It’s been the opposite for me lately. I find all sorts of reasons not to get too serious with women. I’ve become somewhat picky but I don’t think unreasonably so. I certainly see some guys with women where the man looks way more attractive than the woman which makes me wonder why he’s gotten with her. However in fairness I also see vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 03:54 AM
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Honestly - not really. Probably by a little bit. But I only got in a few years until dating apps took off.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 03:25 AM
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It benefitted both genders. Then dating apps broke dating entirely so now everything is worse than ever before. But between 1960 and 2010 or so, dating kindof worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:49 PM
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The only time women make me uncomfortable that happens with any level of frequency (which is still fairly infrequent) is if they start talking about dating/men and talk in generalizations about men. Obviously some women can be bad or creepy in some way but for the most part women I’ve been around have only made me uncomfortable in the above scenario and no other real scenario where it’s felt awkward for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 02:41 AM
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By the definition of the study I am part of the 71%. I had sexual activity I didn’t entirely want due to a woman’s coercion. It wasn’t really long term scarring. There are degrees to it. In a sense a lot of things humans do, some percentage of doing it is under coercion for literally everything. Sex is no different. Doesn’t mean coercion is not harmful but it’s not surprising 71% of men report this given the very broad definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 05:52 PM
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lol what? Reddit hates a lot of these guys. Where have you been living?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:51 PM
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Redpill hasn’t advanced anything except the bank accounts of 20 redpill influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:19 PM
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A lot of wealthy women show their tits and ass proudly in sexy photoshoots they post on Instagram. So privileged people do find having a sexy body others want to look at as empowering. And I think that most women who support sex workers just don’t want others shaming those women for their chosen career.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 06:55 PM
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Women don’t do hero worship? Have you visited the Taylor Swift sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:05 PM
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More women report falling victim to romance scams. Of course - it might just be that men don’t even understand certain romance scams to be romance scams since some men are just so used to having to pay for everything anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 03:36 PM
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It is presently one of several reasons why the birth rate is below replacement level which IS bad for society. I believe there are sex positive feminist ways of solving it though. For one; any woman who has some IVF treatment to have more than two kids, twins or triplets gets $1 million from the government. People choosing to be childless would not be an issue if people WITH children were having 3, 4 and 5 kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 01:05 AM
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lol wow you are a 1 dimensional thinker. I offer a nuanced point for why some people like op may feel lgbt people have things better, and then you of course go for a simple minded sound bite response. I think being an lgbt person is horribly challenging and face much more persecution than heterosexuals. I didn’t say the fact lgbt have put a ton of work in to form community means they are in fact living better. But a hetero person who feels isolated may look at this and feel jealous, not seeing a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 08:13 PM
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People do think what OP thinks. And I think the reason they do is because LGBTQ2S+ people do at least have “community”. There are groups and gathering spots and clubs and online forums and subreddits specific to them and their sexuality. This fosters more of a sense of community and belonging than straight people have because nobody bonds or sets up community centres over being straight. The solution is maybe to look for other things to have community about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:39 AM
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At the moment I don’t need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:10 PM
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I don’t think men ever had limitless supply. However I’ve certainly heard when tinder was first introduced thst the ratios were much better which makes sense that men had a better time back then. I was too proud to be on tinder back then of course lol so basically missed out on that fun. Honestly I would love this if things went to matchmaking services and this is actually a great insight in to one possibility. Everything is being progressively privatized so dating becoming fully privatized is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:44 AM
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Dating apps gave women a massive advantage in the “gender war” as now a limitless supply of partners was available for them. But apps have peaked, probably due to troll issues, bot issues, and jaded men spewing a lot of vitriol to women making apps a sometimes scary place for women to be. So I’m hopeful the next iteration of dating is something less soul crushing now that society is destroying dating apps as a valid mechanism of meeting people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:49 AM
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As I age as a man, sex every day isn’t appealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 02:51 AM
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The world would be better off if most men did as OP suggests.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:23 PM
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For me it hasn’t really if it’s a situation where I want to date her and I can instead be friends in lieu of that. However I’m always open to be proven wrong and lately I’ve thought, what was true 10 years ago for me maybe isn’t true now so I am open to it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 03:23 AM
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Which is common. Despite what Reddit thinks women report more depression and single women report more depression than married women. Women however seem more “outwardly happy” as they curate social media and do outings with their friends more than lonely and depressed men. Single women also get a lot more attention on dating apps on average. They also are celebrated by society for saying they don’t want to date a man. So I think that’s why there’s a misperception.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:16 PM
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Why are women afraid of getting older? On here every woman basically says that men are easy and desperate and they have 500 men on tinder trying to date them. And then of course they also say they don’t need men and are happy with cats and reality tv. So given all that it really seems like there’s no real downside to aging whatsoever for women since men are always plentiful and many don’t want any man anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 04:05 AM
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This mindset incentivizes men to move fast as they really do not want to be seen as a sexless automaton.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:14 AM
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By your own logic if you’ve ever speculated on anything that has not been in place for 50 or more years you have committed a grave error. If you have any posts whatsoever that mention dating apps you’d better delete them since 50 years haven’t passed for us to actually see the impact of dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:27 PM
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Literally everyone on here including you speculates on dating trends. To claim you never make any kindof claim ever is asinine and shows you to be an outright liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:23 PM
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You don’t know what any dating app marriage or relationship looks like. Yet you speculate on it. The point is that it is valid to make inferences on currently available data. Otherwise no one is allowed to ever make inferences on anything. Nothing is ever considered “proven” in science. Everything is falsifiable. Including the fact lesbians divorce more than gay men couples. But this too is falsifiable if in 1000 years more lesbians divorce than sure. However it would be a true statement for som…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:46 PM
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So the evidence to date suggests gay men divorce less than lesbian women. 20 years of evidence so far. Perhaps next year 100% of gay men will get divorced in A great gay male divorce apocalypse. Perhaps aliens will invade earth and demand to be a 3rd party to all marriages. Your useless speculations really don’t have merit. We are basing this discussion on data we have available to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 05:26 PM
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You are speculating based on limited data! How dare you say they “may” drop in the future! By your own admission no one is allowed to take 20 years of data and do any kindof analysis on what it might mean. So you certainly are not allowed to make an inference based dating app data which is more like 10 years old at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 01:22 PM
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How ? You aren’t making sense. Birth rates started falling in the 70s. This is when abortion, the pill were widely adopted. And biologically a man is significantly more likely to impregnate a woman who is fertile and not on the pill through intercourse. Kindof the whole point of the pill. So are you trying to say in a world where contraception didn’t exist somehow the birth rate would still be as low as it is now? I seriously think you need your head examined if that’s your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:48 AM
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I did in my post? If we didn’t have abortion, birth rates may be higher If we didn’t have contraception, birth rates may be higher If men ejaculated inside women who were fertile and not on hormonal birth control - birth rates may be higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:54 AM
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I will often see you pontificating on dating apps impact on society. By your own standards, how dare you do that? Not enough data!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:36 AM
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But we can begin analyzing data as it’s a long time. My whole point. No one scientifically minded looks at any social phenomenon and would say 20 years of data is too new to even begin analyzing anything. Because frankly the patterns in gay marriage we see 20 years out are the same patterns we saw 10 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:28 AM
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Divorce has only been common place for 50 years. So yes, gay marriage existing for 20 is data to begin making an inferences. Do you use a smart phone? The radiation associated with that has only been known for 20 years. Better stop using it as we don’t have sufficient data. Of COURSE we can begin looking at data after 20 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:18 AM
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This isn’t a gender war. Women using contraception is also at fault for a lowered birth rate. I don’t think we should turn back the clock on womens rights or contraception. But one can draw a correlation and may even infer a causation to our low birth rates and things like abortion rights, widespread use of contraception, numerous sexual outlets for men that don’t involve ejaculating inside a fertile woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:09 AM
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We can definitely make inferences. We can check those inferences again in a few years as we do for anything. 20 years of data is ALOT OF DATA
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:06 AM
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I actually think mens sex drive is now responsible for our low birth rate. When new sexual partners are what men crave, settling down and raising a family doesn’t appeal to a horny guy. Mens sex drive being high served a purpose before widespread ubiquitous contraception. Now it’s possible it actually is slightly detrimental to society growing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:38 PM
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Gay marriage has been around in many countries for 20 years (Canada for instance), Divorce has only even been common for like 50 years so I disagree gay marriage hasn’t been here long enough to analyze.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 11:30 PM
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Not true dating is always so competitive - men willing to date old women (50+), men willing to date singl moms, men willing to date trans women, men willing to date new immigrants and racial minority women have a lot less competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:40 PM
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What makes you slightly prefer men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:10 PM
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I see no hypocrisy in the #metoo movement and OnlyFans existing whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:11 PM
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TikTok is incredible at it. But before TikTok, tv told women how to act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 01:11 AM
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When you exchange numbers does it fizzle in a few days?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:17 AM
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Not really. A stranger coming and talking to me, a woman’s reaction is what the fuck can I do to send him on his way to avoid rape. Why aren’t you complimenting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 06:03 PM
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Women are just being nice to you because they think you are creepy and going to rape them. If it’s so important to compliment strangers you can compliment other men. Otherwise maybe don’t bug people like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 05:31 PM
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I guess the tangible things women could do is to stop demonizing the male gender. Not use things as “I bet you can’t get laid” or “no wonder you don’t have a girlfriend” as insults to men (at least assuming that men isn’t doing something horrible to you or someone). I am not saying you do any of these things but just a general answer to your question. This doesn’t result in men getting companionship. But it at least might help men from feeling bad about themselves. Most men who spend a lot of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 05:36 PM
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Actually I applaud this poster for at least having logical consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 12:14 AM
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How did he approach the conversation to you on introducing you to Chad? I have a similar thing. I might have some Chad friend I don’t really want to introduce a girl to even though they likely would never take her. Just the idea she’d be a lot more in to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:42 PM
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While I agree with you, men also used to be seen as the intelligent and steadfast and stoic sex. Go back and watch a movie from the 1940s or 50s and see how respectable the men are portrayed as. Kindof like the adults in the room. In the 90s this shifted in a big way with every tv male being a bumbling idiot and his wife is the smart one. It carries over to this day. And now men are seen both as predators and also as stupid in the media. Basically nothing redeemable about men at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 05:37 PM
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There’s an element of truth here. I think some men do seek whatever physical contact they can get from an attractive woman friend. On the other hand I think women culture just involves much more hugging so men sometimes feel like that’s the right thing to do with women. I handle this by basically never initiating a hug with women but if they initiate that is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 03:34 AM
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George HW Bush grabbed womens asses while in a wheelchair. David cop a feel!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:48 PM
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Again r/whoosh The question posed was “why do western women complain so much when they have it best in the world?” The answer is “Because they are the only ones who can”. You seem to agree with me so your concession is accepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 02:11 PM
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r/whoosh Apparently the point of my post sailed over your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:49 AM
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It’s the paradox of liberty and freedom. The most free countries in the world have the most people complaining about them because their citizens are free to do so. If your workplace believes in open communication the management will receive way more employee criticism than companies that don’t. North Koreas objectively do not complain about their country anywhere near as much as us in the west do. Six figure earning Tech bros complain non-stop about work conditions while the employees of cleanin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:54 PM
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I feel like if some men just “gave up” it would indeed be freeing for them. If I apply for a job and get to final round interview and I don’t get it, I’m sad. If I hear about a job opening but never apply to it - I don’t spend a second being sad about not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:07 PM
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Maybe do all of the above?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:05 PM
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Yes it’s such a crime men say “hi how are you?” As a first message on an app 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:40 AM
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Dating App gender ratios are so unfair you want to cry. However the fact the gender ratios are so lopsided means there are tons and tons of women who don’t use them. Hopefully those women don’t have such an inflated ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:53 AM
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I agree with this post. Lol feel bad for step dad having some shitty step son calling him a chump. He does also call him a saint I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:46 AM
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He’s still going to be made fun of. Mostly other men and the media will make fun of his appearance. Women will ignore him mostly. They still might occasionally mock although yes women are just more likely to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:51 AM
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You aren’t wrong. But lots of men will also simp for those fat women. Meanwhile a guy who has a body type that isn’t hot - he will still get some level of abuse by society. He certainly won’t get any adoration though like fat women get.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:42 AM
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There are some men that I can make a good guess are virgins. They might not be though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:22 AM
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Of course having 1 extra option to stave off homelessness is nice. I mean objectively a person with 3 options is doing better than a person with 2 options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 01:18 AM
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No one ever said swiping right on a woman is “risky”. Moreover, while it does carry risks to cold approach in public - millions of men still do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:57 PM
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Not considering other races as dating options is racist yes. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:26 PM
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Simple. I’m not white and many women are racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 06:23 AM
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I agree with OP. Cold approach just does not work whatsoever. At best you’ll get a phone number where she ignores your texts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:51 AM
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Therapists have convinced millions of women they know the answer to life for $180 per hour. You see it on Reddit. Every single solution to every problem is “seek therapy”. In ancient times it might have been “kill 3 chickens and sacrifice them to the sun gods”. Today it’s “go to therapy”. But for many people the results are the same as if they sacrificed the chickens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:36 AM
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However, let’s say a woman accepted every invitation to a strangers house who solicited her to come in because she defined herself as educated in statistics and knew statistically most violence is committed by people known to the victim as opposed to strangers. If you guessed such a woman who regularly went in to strangers houses would be more likely to end up dead you’d be right. What you and OP leave out is that people are exceptionally good at avoiding danger from strangers because they take …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 01:14 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 06:37 PM
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It’s actually kindof psychopathic to have zero desire to ever have a romantic connection with someone. The idea that it’s somehow “good” to be so focused on one’s career they don’t even want a romantic connection once in a while is really bizarre. And for all this focus on career a lot of these people are making peanuts…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:25 PM
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If it makes you feel better, I was joking. Even socially inept women have rejected me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:18 PM
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If he is autistic he constantly masks it which may not be an easy or realistic option for many autistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 03:04 AM
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Society socializes men to be forward with their attention, and women are actively discouraged from doing so. So as a result, there are just fewer attention starved women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:57 PM
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OP can’t do that as I’m a socially mediocre to decent guy who isn’t autistic and I’m busy banging the autistic and socially inept women. I don’t leave them available for socially inept and autistic guys to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:14 AM
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Something can be sexual harassment if said in an office, but perfectly fine if said online. Remember sexual harassment rules are in place because people are forced to work together and share the same environment in a workplace. The rules for what is sexual harassment outside of work are lower because it’s much easier to just walk away or not engage with someone. Which is why I can talk about dick or pussy in a public park loudly and no one can have me arrested or get me in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:30 AM
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I kindof love this post. I actually did attempt once to “be a jerk” at a club as an experiment for if jerks get girls. Result? Did much, much worse than usual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:20 AM
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OK, but why is the onus on him to start? I get that you are “always ready” but why not initiate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 12:13 AM
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Clearly if effects them. Less women seek out sex and I do believe that while some of it is biological differences in average sex drive between genders, I think an overlooked part is that far more women are on medication than men, and at younger ages, so women’s libido is being chemically suppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:17 AM
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If many men took it yes it would solve most male dating problems by taking a ton of men out of the dating pool. I would not take it. But I think it’s fine if someone made a pill like this and put it on the market for men who did want to take it. We already give women many pills to kill their libido. Birth control, anti-depressants. Lots of medicines for women that kill their libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:26 AM
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I don’t like gender stereotypes- but women are accurate in saying basically all mass shootings and most crime is done by men. Society would be better served for men to be more like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:29 AM
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My issue is moreso women don’t even really seem to go to “normal” social spaces like bars and clubs anymore. Go to a bar or club you’ll see 70% men. 30% couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 07:44 PM
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I feel there’s a lot we could do. For one, men need to stop shaming other men for not having sex or getting women. Women do not back slap congratulate one another for having sex so men perhaps shouldn’t either. Next, men can normalize sharing emotions and feelings between eachother. Those are two steps that would help men as a gender a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 05:55 PM
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There’s a woman I see every 1.5 years when I redownload a dating app. We match but don’t talk. We did talk once and almost went on a date it fell through for some reason. She is OK looking enough I’d maybe consider going on a date but just barely. But the universe seems to really want to put us together somehow because literally for like 10 years I see her profile on every single time and I think we match every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:27 AM
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Yes except I tend to like lighter hair and I have dark hair is then only thing. But otherwise I’m slim, wear decent clothes, have a really good job, and like binging movies and such so would be great to find a partner with those attributes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:23 AM
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Women do a great job of suppressing sexual competition amongst other women by saying “eww you are a slut!” Every time a woman has sex or possibly even goes on a date with more than 1 man. Men on the other hand high five a guy who mentions he’s had sex or that he’s juggling 2 or more women. So men absolutely could do far, far more to suppress competition from other males than they do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:17 AM
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I can not disagree with OP because he’s right. Women are smarter. They tell women who are successful with men “ewww you are a slut” and that way there are plenty of men as no woman ever hoards men out of fear of being insulted. Men are so stupid they actually PRAISE and idolize other men who date many women thus basically stealing chances from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:30 PM
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So if you stopped doing all those nice things for him, he’d likely break up with you because he’s used to you doing all those things. But then after a year or two of him being exposed to the hellscape of modern dating, he would probably ask you out again to at least get pussy again.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:28 PM
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Escorts exist and are quasi legal. So that is basically always an option for people. However I actually do have some sympathy. It is frustrating seeing other men who can hook up and just get sex while you are always “the relationship guy” who has to go on many dates and maybe have sex after a month or 3 of dating. But the sympathy is more akin to feeling sorry someone lives in a tiny apartment with a slightly annoying roommate and not a nice house. Not the same sympathy as say, someone dying of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:49 AM
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Sortof true but while I’ve been to clubs where there seemed to be 2 men for every 1 woman, I’ve never been to a club with 9 men for every 1 woman which is what online dating is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:33 AM
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Someone being very nice to me because they want something from me is better than no one ever being nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:50 PM
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If you are a mega famous and rich celebrity you already have a chauffeur, maid, cook and can get a nanny. So a wife who is willing to do household labour isn’t too much value to you. In your example of passport bros they are looking for attractive women who will also do traditional wife duties of maintaining a home. But when you already have a staff that do that, that attribute isn’t so important. Other things become important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 10:43 PM
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Dinner and a movie is now like a low 3 figure amount. Easily $100. I wouldn’t blame men for dropping out of dating. I honestly don’t know how the average guy affords it. I think a lot of men are shifting to “coffee dates” for a first date for this reason. Next recession may see millions of men be priced out of dating entirely I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 04:11 AM
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Larger women. Women who aren’t the typical Hollywood blonde. Difference races. Watching porn you find a lot of different women can be hot and that attitude plays a big role. I still prefer a slim classically attractive woman all else being equal. And women still need to be very feminine and put together to find attractive. But i can find different things attractive now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 06:31 PM
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Movies and tv shows has given me physical beauty standards for women I’m attracted to that are a bit harder to find in the “real world” yes. Funny enough porn is a bit of the opposite. I feel like when I got in to porn and when I’m browsing porn, the range of women and body types etc. I’m willing to consider is wider and porn probably did make me more willing to be with the non-Hollywood beauty standard of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:05 PM
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As a man, I would never want to hang out with a man who isnt nice. Even when I did hang out with a guy one might say is a jerk, he was nice to me (until he wasn’t and then I friendship ghosted him).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:55 PM
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The reason men feel this way is because men as a gender are constantly shit on by women. In the media they are, in music from women artists, and online especially they are. Go to some female centric subs like TwoX and it’s frequent male bashing there. “I don’t need no man”, “men are dangerous”, “why do men?”. They trot out literal fake studies that have been debunked about single women being happier. The solution to every relationship problem is to break up with her man. “I’m just going to date …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:53 PM
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Sure. But has it really helped men to tell every other man that the greatest achievement is bedding as many women as possible? This sets up men to be in constant competition with one another. Women are smarter. They suppress competition by saying “ew you are a slut” so that fewer women are their competition for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:08 PM
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Reality doesn’t bare this out. The power grids fail often. As we speak in North America there is somewhere where the power grid is out. Men don’t run out and rape when this occurs. Male workers are actually the ones restoring power. Now if the power grid went out for a year and showed no signs of ever coming back, then yes a more lawless society may erupt. Although we didn’t have power in the 1700s and still managed to keep a relatively organized society with male police and military acting as e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:29 PM
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I think dating apps is a big reason. Before dating apps the field was more level. With dating apps every woman has a buffet of men to choose from and men do not have a buffet of women. This has led to frustration. While 2 decades ago I could ask out Sally, the pretty girl next door looking girl and stand a good shot of landing a date because she’s probably only been asked out on a date by someone already maybe once this whole month, these days Sally has 100 men in her DMs. Men kindof did this to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:22 PM
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Because there are so few lesbians is why the community knows eachother. It’s so stupid to think that with millions of lesbians worldwide, no lesbian ever mentions lesbian hangout spots on social media. I don’t think you understand how stupid that sounds that millions of lesbians have formed a secret society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:06 PM
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I’m directly telling you there aren’t. It’s 2023 in case you didn’t know. It’s not as if there are massive numbers of secret societies operating no one knows about. Information about everything is ubiquitous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 03:05 AM
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Seems doubtful. Surely there’d be some businesses that could be sustained by lesbians but there isn’t. It’s even a common joke in the lesbian community that all lesbians in a town know eachother and have already dated (as there are so few).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:08 AM
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You’ll die or be crippled in your 30s, but you’ll have a great 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 06:12 PM
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While true, some theorize there are more successful male entrepreneurs etc. because more men can deviate from group think and social norms and be comfortable with that. So men as less social creatures on average may also have less group think on average too perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 02:51 AM
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Women tell men this. “All I want is a nice guy” “I just want a guy that treats me well, that’s all that matters”. “Looks don’t matter much, women care more about your personality and character”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:28 AM
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This is a bad take. This is troubling but it’s not the only reason people think the guy is in the wrong. The guy is in the wrong because when a woman gives you short, curt answers that shut you down, the right response isn’t to keep engaging her and hitting on her. Pickup Artist culture in the late 2000s and early 2010s is responsible for this I think. They used to say “keep plowinf away bro! Don’t worry!” I’m glad there is backlash now. This guy should have known to stop 30 seconds in.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:37 AM
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Well stated. It’s actually rational to know something is unlikely to happen, but if it does happen it’s extremely damaging, so you still take some precautions against it happening. I sometimes still wear my N-95 mask in crowded situations to protect against covid for a similar reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:30 AM
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“Some women” means 80 women on TikTok out of the 50 million or so single women out there. Great for those 80 women but a societal trend this does not make. Also courts are equipped to handle divorces reasonably OK. They will be awful at trying to handle property divisions in these types of co-ownership cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:31 PM
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Again, there are like 20 people in the country in a “Mommune”. For something to be considered a cultural trend in the west, at least a few hundred thousand or million people need to be involved in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:10 PM
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Momunes are NOT rising in popularity outside of 20 people on TikTok who do this. Maybe 5 years ago it was 15 people that did this so I guess you could say it’s growing lol but off a small, nothing, base that will never amount to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:40 PM
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For one, no you aren’t richer than me. Aside from that point, neither of us represent the vast majority of people who have an income under $55,000 per year and would never be able to afford the $800,000 or more average cost of a home where I live. Yes there will be a few women who are single who can afford homes or mansions. This is irrelevant to the tens of millions of single women who can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:32 PM
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Life is getting less and less affordable for an individual. An average woman can maybe have a shitty apartment with a roommate and no children and eke out am existence. I’d agree there. I think society is reverting a bit to where a lot of women may find if they ever want to leave their parents house they need to get married perhaps. Economic marriage will return I think. As you state as well, men are increasingly doing more housework and childcare. There’s a bit of an irony that men are better p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:29 AM
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Such songs are considered vulgar though while the “I don’t need no man, men ain’t shit” songs are considered enlightened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:50 AM
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Doesn’t have to be long if you do it every day. Spend a month commuting in a car for 20 minutes a day with the radio on and you’ll hear every pop song out there right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:49 AM
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Thanks for agreeing with my point a man should never be in a friendship with a woman where he pays for everything. And any woman who has such a male friend is, at best, being willfully blind in taking advantage of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 11:32 AM
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No, reciprocation when I mentioned it did NOT mean sex. I meant there aren’t women friends where there is one friend who pays for dinner and movie tickets and the other friend never pay for anything over the course of the friendship in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:57 AM
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I think within 3 years, the filters available on Zoom will make it so that a 55 year old balding, overweight man can press a button and transform over a Zoom call in to a buxom 20 year old blonde woman, with a girlish voice to match. One this happens you’ll have a flood of men who will provide companionship online for people and the market will saturate even more than it currently is. No advanced AI even needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:25 AM
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Women don’t usually have friendships where one woman pays for every single activity the other woman does with no reciprocation. I think if a woman has a male friend who pays for everything she is being willfully blind to the situation she’s in because it benefits her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:19 AM
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I highly, highly doubt this is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:45 AM
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If women have a strong emotional connection with a man, they will buy him cars, co-sign mortgages for him, pay off his credit card bills. Romance scams actually impact women more than men (although part of it may be women are more comfortable reporting it/recognizing it as a scam). The issue is, for men its very hit or miss. Developing an emotional connection with a woman can take months, may not happen at all, is kindof scummy for the guy to do if he doesn’t feel the same way, and there’s no gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:45 PM
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I’m hoping AI girlfriends will take the edge off of male desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:33 PM
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AI companionship will remove some men from the dating market. Increasing social shyness and acknowledgement of women’s challenges like MeToo movement will begin to make women actually miss and crave male attention for a change. The dating and sexual marketplace will become a little more balanced as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:30 PM
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This is an old study. The most recent one showed slightly more men having sex in 2020 then women. I think given the pandemic we need like 2 years more of studies before we see wtf is going on and can see if there’s any trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:00 PM
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This is OPs point. Women like bigger, muscular guys and do mental gymnastics to justify their decision by claiming that physically weak men who struggle to lift 20 lbs are somehow more dangerous than a muscular man who could lift you up by the neck like a rag doll. No - the muscular man in this scenario is unquestionably a greater physical threat to a woman and if safety was women’s primary concern they would never go for muscular guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:37 PM
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This is a lot of mental gymnastics to say you despise men weaker than you and want muscular men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:42 AM
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You can find men weaker than you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:27 AM
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You said that fear still stops you from going on a date with these men so presumably a really kindhearted scrawny guy is a woman’s ideal because he’s no physical threat and he is very safe with a good character so by your logic these men should be top of the hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:27 AM
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By your logic a very nice, sweet, polite, short, scrawny guy should be swimming in pussy. I don’t see that though happen much. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:29 AM
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This is an odd comment. The thread is about mens advantages being single. I did indicate the father is still involved in the kids life. But often custody works with mom getting them 5 days a week and dad for 2 or whatever. Kids will STILL bond with their dad in this circumstance. The best situation is dad and mom are married in a happy family raising the kids but this isn’t OPs scenario. I’m just saying that a dad who has custody a few days makes him having a family easier. And pretty much all c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:07 AM
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I think that men can actually reap a lot of the family benefit you mention being single because men can impregnate a woman and just get custody a few days a week and still have a family that way. So arguably men have an advantage in starting a family for minimal effort. However - every other point you made is accurate that women who are single have more access to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:59 PM
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Wife material at a minimum is someone who isn’t embarrassing to be associated with publicly and who can conduct themselves socially without irritating others (actually being someone who is pleasant to be around) and not someone who is overweight and unattractive. There are not many women like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:49 PM
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Men are more forgiving about women’s shortcomings and seemingly desperate for women as I don’t think most put marriage front and centre. However, as a thought experiment if more men did evaluate a woman on wife standards you’ll quickly learn there hardly are any, anymore that measure up. So many women that are overweight and would be embarrassing to introduce to family, or who have severely flawed and annoying personalities. However society seems to be doing the opposite with women in terms of “…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 08:43 PM
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The oft repeated “fact” that the vast majority of divorces are filed by women comes from a survey of 2000 people. It is not some empirical fact someone got by researching court filings. So we should stop repeating it as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 12:32 AM
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In Dont Look Up I’d say that Meryl Streeps President character is the same kindof obnoxious idiot as the characters in OP. It’s certainly very rare for women in modern times to be depicted as stupid or lazy or unintelligent in movie or tv.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:15 PM
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Good point. Back in the 50s it was the women who were the idiotic characters - and men were the put together, intelligent, steadfast “I always know best” characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:13 PM
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I don’t see them being the same. The characters OP mentions are boorish, lazy, perhaps slovenly. Regina George’s mom is none of those things. She is a different kind of annoying (mom who forever wants to relive her youth in inappropriate ways).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:11 PM
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In the movie he objectively is rich and has sex with many women. That is what appeals to people. You are right that he appears to experiment with a submission kink in the movie as well and his wife grows to hate him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:07 PM
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The first date they go on, they have sex. They had a kid together so clearly they had sex. At a later point after the kid is born she is angry at his drug use and constant cheating on her and stops having sex with him. I’m not redpill but “rich and has sex with lots of hot girls” is the appeal to his character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:59 PM
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Because you think the girls will steal one another’s boyfriends is why you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:49 PM
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He’s rich and can do what he wants and get just about any girl he wants due to his wealth. It’s not as if the marriage began sexless. It turns sexless after they have children etc. and that is when he begins declining in the movie anyway. People want the good parts (being rich, getting any girl) without the bad parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:45 PM
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Lol yeah simple. Just produce some of the greatest, most popular songs and albums of all time that will be listened to for the next several decades and you too can find a woman who will obey any rule you say. This isn’t exactly a bar many men can reach no matter how hard they try.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:02 PM
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The guy sounds like a 50 year old lol. She is 18 according to OP. She didn’t report him to police and she didn’t dox him or even show him on camera. If she did either of these things I’d say she went too far. All she did though was post this interaction that was uncomfortable for her on TikTok. I give her a pass for this. The guy got a little embarrassed maybe in front of her and any bystanders and thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 05:00 PM
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Even totalitarian China can’t solve the low birth rate crisis. So this may get very bad for even more free western democracies. It is on paper at least though an easily solvable problem. Offer a massive financial benefit to all women who have 2 or more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 10:47 PM
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Your post has elements of truth but what I don’t get is that a man who wants an actual relationship should be swimming in options almost regardless of his looks. But this isn’t the case at all. Men who genuinely want a relationship still can’t find one often.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:33 PM
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I think this limit is a good thing for men honestly. Male desperation has devalued men and if men now feel it’s unacceptable to approach women anywhere, the pendulum will finally swing slightly back to where women actually place a tiny bit of value on male attention which is good for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:30 PM
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The behaviour of having you go check on strange women sitting alone is weird to me. When you go check does anyone ever actually say they aren’t ok? What exactly are you expected to do? Also what if he sees a man who looks worried and is sitting alone. Does he do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:21 AM
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We actually do the precise opposite today. Today we give 90% of single WOMEN tons of drugs to suppress their libido. Birth control and Antidepressants are a drug probably a giant double digit percent of single young women are on at least one of these. And both of these suppress libido as a side effect quite often. Men have kindof dug their own grave. These pills were all developed by men and the libido loss was not seen as an important side effect and now we have literally almost every young wes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 11:14 AM
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I guess women think that men are so awesome that if inclined, a man would rather be with another man than her?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:56 AM
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Competition is definitely present in a lot of male friendships especially in teens and 20s. However it is possible to be friends with men who don’t have this competitive spirit to the friendship or make you feel that way. It is rarer. And I’d also say by the time you are 30 it is mostly gone (although you reach another issue which is that finding friends just becomes harder in general). It’s also possible to have male friends you can talk about deep emotional issues with but again this is rarer.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:47 AM
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OP - I think your suggestions are great but the issue is that other apps won’t have those limitations and so people will flock to those instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:39 AM
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It can be hard but it isn’t impossible. I would say that women in these mixed friendships need to do a lot of work and not feel like the friendship is basically like “having a boyfriend but without the sex or romance part”. She needs to bring a lot to the table for it to be worthwhile for the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:27 AM
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Lol wow well I appreciate your honesty and problem solving skills in this situation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 01:33 AM
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Your ENM husband is competing with a lot of other men and likely dating nowhere near as much as you I bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:35 AM
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Don’t know how old you are, but if you died tomorrow, your bf/husband would eventually get with another woman. It’s not like there was truly only 1 person in the world for each of you. So this idea that fate ordained you specifically picked eachother is silly. If a woman sets her range on tinder 1 KM less, some people literally may have missed out on meeting their husbands. There is definitely competition and a healthy dose of randomness in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:32 AM
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Professional high achieving women are either going to have to marry house husbands or not have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 02:56 AM
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OP makes a decent argument. If women truly didn’t care about sex and dating as they often claim they’d be just fine to do without on here, than yes it should be a no brainer for a single mom not to date or hook up. However, OP also should acknowledge there are actually a large number of women who in fact do basically not date at all once they become a single parent or a widower etc. so clearly there are some women who do in fact not care about dating, relationships or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:19 AM
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The last part of your post goes off the deep end lol I mean you are right that women have more capacity to have a lot of sex in one day from a physical standpoint. But you contradict yourself, if women are hornier than men on average than female sexuality wouldn’t be capable of being so suppressed. The word “Fuck boy” etc, has gained prominence in recent years but no guy really is suppressing his sexual desires out of fear of being called a fuck boy. Yet women give up their supposedly giant libi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:15 AM
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Men don’t need to approach women in 2023 in a physical space. It’s moved online which has its own problems. And 55% of men in those age groups approaching women is still a lot of approaches. Plus you have the “pick up” guys who are approaching 100+ women a year. So yes it’s possible for a declining number of men to approach and women to still feel they get approached too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 12:00 AM
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Probably nothing. Covid lockdowns, single people weren’t having sex for months often. Sure, married and cohabitating couples were, but the world kept functioning just fine. Society isn’t breaking down if people don’t have sex for a little while. HOWEVER, a major impact long term would be a zero birth rate for the subsequent year. That would cause serious demographic challenges for society. Perhaps recoverable but it would take effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:01 AM
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Well the male birds are only competing against a few others. The female bird doesn’t have a portal she can go on and see that she has 1000 suitors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:11 AM
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I took care to say older millenials for this reason. The major point is that it’s fully possible to conduct one’s dating life without “approaching” these days and has been for a while now. So men not approaching/ committing street harassment isn’t a sign women are not getting date offers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:39 AM
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“Approach” has become an old millenial-boomer concept. Swiping or messaging or sliding in to DMs is what people do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:12 PM
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I have seen it in cases where he is a racial minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:54 PM
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Life would be really great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 01:30 AM
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This is a bit silly. If she ate lunch and dinner this way, it’s like 14 guys a week she needs to meet. Some will be repeats sure, but it’s still like 5+ guys to manage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:50 AM
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Actually you are right I misread something OP said. He said he’s had service jobs where women tell him this which I assumed to mean that he is too sex obsessed and women coworkers told him to quiet about it. But he might have meant women tell him to smile more.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 10:45 PM
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All men should be capable of not talking about sex for the duration of their working hours which is like 8 hours a day, 5 days a week for most people. The fact your service job coworkers were getting annoyed with you because you talked about sex probably means your self control and professionalism is shit and you should work on that. Now do men have sex thoughts at work? Sure. Women do too. The issue here seems to be you need to share with your coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:48 PM
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All men should be capable of not talking about sex for the duration of their working hours which is like 8 hours a day, 5 days a week for most people. The fact your service job coworkers were getting annoyed with you because you talked about sex probably means your self control and professionalism is shit and you should work on that. Now do men have sex thoughts at work? Sure. Women do too. The issue here seems to be you need to share with your coworkers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 08:46 PM
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I don’t find it to be a red flag. You are basically saying you know of an instance where a woman had a male friend and he wanted to date her. So what? You can turn down women with male friends if you want. I won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:24 PM
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It is far cheaper to have a spouse because you can share expenses like housing. Also if you lose your job or can’t work, a spouse will support you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 12:56 AM
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This isn’t 1870 No one knows if a girl fucks 100 guys anymore. This weird thing some guys have where they think some girls “past is going to catch up with her”. Does not happen. Every woman who sleeps with 100 guys can easily settle down and marry a guy who thinks she had 2 boyfriends before in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:53 AM
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Men are stupid and too honest perhaps. If men encouraged other men not to have sex, it would mean men who want sex have an easier time getting it as there is less on offer. But nope, men will literally shame men who don’t want sex in to seeking it out because they are too stupid to even understand that increased competition isn’t good for getting what they want. Men could learn a lot from how women self-police their gender to gain leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:45 AM
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What in this forum makes you think men think they are doing better than women? Most men in this forum say women have it easier in everything. I’d think that includes in terms of dying alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:38 AM
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I think it’s fairly difficult to date a woman who isn’t fat and unpleasant looking and has a personality that wouldn’t embarrass you in front of your family. Maybe if I tried very hard I’d meet 1 person like this after 1 or 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:36 AM
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I agree with the post. The world is very unfair and we are mad. Now part of it is that women gaslight men in to thinking it must be their personality is why they don’t get dates. Women are very reluctant to tell harsh truths in that regard. At the same time if women did just tell harsh truths, would it make things any better? Is false hope better than no hope? I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:32 AM
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Thought experiment let’s say there’s 1 Chad and 49 betas, and 50 women in any generation. Chad can’t have all the women. Let’s say he has 25. The betas share 25 women. Maybe next generation Chad + beta produces 40 sons. Chad + Betas produce 60 daughters (since beta genes daughters are more likely to have kids, daughters get produced, whereas Chad, sons are likely to be Chad, sons are made). The 1 Chad in next generation has 25 women. But now the 39 beta males have 35 women to pick from (prior ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 02:35 AM
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You are right that there is nothing biologically determined about harems. reason why sex ratio is 50/50 even if society isn’t monogamous though is explained here In essence in any environment where there are more males than females, a person who produces more female children is more likely to pass their genes on meaning females then become more likely and vice versa until near 50/50 is reached. The time scales here though are of course many generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 01:40 AM
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If I somehow was unable to have sex or even just orgasm from penetration as a man (which actually IS a problem I have sometimes) even if all a partner did was touch me while I masturbate myself off that STILL feels a lot better than masturbating alone. I imagine it would be the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 12:41 AM
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In a world of tinder swipes this is irrelevant that women don’t approach. Men don’t either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:04 PM
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I’m a man and tell other men who ask online all the time that sex and dating are more trouble than they are worth. If every other man did this it would take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:03 PM
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And Norway still has a low birth rate. So it isn’t enough and measures will become more extreme because even Norway has not solved this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:35 PM
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It causes excruciating pain and medically dangerous. It’s much more invasive than breast surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:43 PM
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Your scenario isn’t realistic to me. Women aren’t going to live 100 to a house. I can picture many women cucking their boyfriend with rich guys sure. So maybe once a month they need to drop their day to day boyfriend and go get on their knees for their rich bf to help pay their own rent. But I think as long as broke bf is good with being cucked that he will still have access to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:35 PM
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I think more men will drop out of the dating market and have VR girlfriends. I think women have topped out on dropping out of the dating market already so there isn’t many more women left to drop out anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:30 PM
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It already is leading to a cratering birth rate which will either result in humanity dying out in a whimper or central governments eventually forcing births to take place through extreme measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:28 PM
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Maybe this worked like decades ago but I feel these days marriage is rare enough that few people look for rings unless you are like trying to hit on a 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:26 PM
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Leg lengthening surgery is a horrific thing. I think the fact some men are doing it is a wake-up call we do need to instill more self esteem in short kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:25 PM
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Try being a very skinny guy. It’s maybe a step below being morbidly obese in terms of women not getting with you due to your weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:23 PM
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I knew one woman like over a decade ago who saw a male sex worker. Funny enough, she was a sex worker part time herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 03:20 PM
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Yes this is a Reddit wide problem. The topic of COVID in particular brings anti-vax idiots out of the woodwork in other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:49 PM
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I mean it’s possible that in every single celebrity divorce ever it’s the man’s fault. Just seems kindof unlikely. I’d think there’s like 1 case where the man isn’t at fault but not on that sub
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 12:57 AM
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Does it really prove that? If a multi-millionaire asked me to make babies with them and I’d get a huge portion of their wealth if things failed - that’s a pretty good offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:55 PM
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If that sub sees a breakup - they are on the woman’s side basically 100% of the time. I’ve never seen them take a man’s side in any breakup ever. It’s their default setting to say “man, bad!” In that sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:54 PM
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The entire media narrative EXCEPT the PopCulture subreddit here which is very pro Sophie. The reason seems to be that if there is ever a breakup - that sub basically assumes the woman is the victim and the man did something wrong. It’s actually wild. I like to participate in that sub but when it comes to breakup stories it makes me feel like every woman hates men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:51 PM
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If you read my post I said I don’t mind my taxes going to kids but their parents should also pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 11:37 PM
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Not standing on any pedestal. I’m saying if there are 90 absentee fathers and 20 absentee mothers go after all for child support payments, each gender. It is simple. Biology is cruel to women in giving them painful periods every month, a severe biological clock, and the responsibility to become pregnant for 9 months and deliver a multi pound baby out of a tiny orifice. Biology is also cruel to men in not having the baby as part of their body for 9 months that they can terminate if they want. Soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 10:25 AM
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OK. Then go after women as well. But you are leaving out that women are less likely to abandon their children in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:54 AM
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Obviously some cost/benefit analysis is needed but sure if one goes flees another country it’s unlikely to be worth it to get them back but if they ever set foot on soil again they should be arrested at the airport and they can get out of jail once they agree to pay retroactive child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:53 AM
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No one is blaming babies. I’m saying Deadbeat fathers and mothers should pay for their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:52 AM
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I would actually say given gender roles etc. mean women get a lot more offers to cheat than men do, it actually shows a lot more specific intent if men cheat. Like a cheating man REALLY wanted to cheat because he put in a lot of effort to make it happen. A semi-decent woman can literally just let her guard down on fall in a dick one night even if she didn’t plan on cheating that night. It’s kindof like first degree murder (men) vs. Second degree (women). Both are murder but the man would have ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:00 AM
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I Don’t know what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 09:28 PM
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Guess who makes up the shortfall that Deadbeat dads don’t pay? Me the tax payer does. As such - I support hunting Deadbeat dads to the ends of the Earth to make sure they pay for their kids. Because otherwise I will have to. And I don’t mind even my tax payer dollars going to help kids BUT I do mind it if their own dad is not contributing at all,
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:52 PM
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Women better have a summit really ducking quickly then and figure out how to raise the birth rate to replacement level. Because I fear if educated western women don’t come up with a solution to this themselves, a solution that isn’t good for them will be imposed on them by the far right.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 01:26 PM
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Another question if you don’t mind, sorry! So presumably with male partners you did it more than once a month. Was the sex above once a month just more of a chore for you or was it more of a case of you naturally don’t want it more than once a month but if someone else initiates it you can start getting in to it and enjoy it more than once a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:57 PM
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I’m curious, If sex is so much better with women, why only once a month for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:33 PM
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Yes pretty much. By 2010 it was definitely starting to get bad. But in that decade, people actually went out to nightclubs to meet dates. Women weren’t absolutely inundated on social media. It’s a stark reminder that things don’t necessarily get better over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:37 AM
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I think more men will fuck a woman for one night then will marry her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:16 AM
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I don’t think so. A woman looking for just casual sex can pick a really hot guy. A woman looking for marriage has a more narrow pool to choose from. She starts saying things like “well he’s not that hot but he does have a job”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:56 AM
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A guy can get a woman who might not casually fuck him to marry him. A girl can get a really hot guy to casually fuck her, but can’t get him to marry her. While their is some settling I still say men are less likely to be the on settling since they actually can get a hotter girl to marry them than have casual sex with them often.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:54 AM
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I think this study draws an outrageous clickbait conclusion from the study conducted. But clearly a lot of women are bisexual. Though I do maintain I don’t think anywhere near as many women are biromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:47 PM
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The scientists misinterpreted the data. Other posts on this forum in the past have illuminated why this study that single women are happier is bullshit. Basically the study interpreted “spouse absent” to mean something it didn’t and even the author admitted he fucked up. And yet a decade later his fuckup study is still used on Reddit to make the claim women are happier single.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:18 PM
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The survey about women being happier single has been debunked 100 times on this forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:16 PM
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I’m not sure we know that for a fact. Allegedly 20% of Gen Z women are bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 11:21 AM
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Here’s my data - on every social media site or dating site in existence, male users message female users more than the reverse. Look up OKCupid data if you want. You are going to pretend that women initiate conversations with men at the same rate, it is at odds with any easily googled data.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:28 AM
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This is an interesting perspective but it is odd to me. Are you saying women don’t even know what they find sexy in a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:51 PM
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Uhh the thread literally asks for individual womens experience and she shared hers?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:47 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. I’ve long maintained the study just HAS to be wrong because the math makes no sense whatsoever but never had the chance to dig in to it or even know where to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:32 PM
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Sure but if more women are dating eachother than men are dating each other this would contribute to the disparity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 11:26 PM
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How depressing that the best the VIP experience can offer is 1:1
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:47 PM
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It’s the difference between going to a party where you are guaranteed to not like talking to anyone vs. Going to a party where there is a chance you might like talking to someone. Which party would you rather attend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:36 PM
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Or you could try engaging with the conversation…. The point is that the life of a single man vs single women are different in this respect. You asked for how social,lives may differ and act like a child and stomp your foot when someone tells you how they differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:35 PM
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Men invite women out, sure. Often because they are attractive but that can morph in To just being friends. In my scenario, a single woman goes to a yoga class, vs. A single man goes to a yoga class, which one if you had to get $100 is likely to get someone to talk to them of the opposite gender. If money was on the line you’d always choose the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:56 PM
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OK. So you admit that you have dated men who at one point in time initiated a conversation with you. When I talk to gay men there is never a prospect of me dating them. So there is a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 07:01 PM
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OK have you ever in your life had a man engage you in conversation that led to a date at some point? If not then fine, but a lot of women have. The word “hit on” seems to be melting womens brains on here so let me rephrase that “hit on” in this context means “a man is engaging you in a conversation”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:56 PM
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Have you never had a conversation with a guy that eventually led to a date? I think the word “hit on” evokes some kindof weird reaction to the women on here, so let me instead of hit on say “a man engaged you in a conversation”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:54 PM
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Have you ever met a dating partner by him initiating a conversation with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 06:53 PM
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Wrong. For one the apps say themselves if you pay we will put you at the top of a woman’s feed. Women don’t swipe as much as men. In this example let’s say women swipe through just 10 profiles in a day. Let’s say 7 of those profiles are paying customers, 2 are men who get lots of matches, 1 is a ugly loser with no matches. That is what a woman’s pool is. Men need to pay to get a slot in her feed is the business model (with the odd non paying man sometimes making it in to her stack)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 03:10 AM
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Women already claim beauty standards are beyond attainable. And they allege men create the beauty standards. So if men raised their standards even more - I guess women would go in to massive depression and try to meet those standards (but also go on PPD and claim women don’t give a fuck about men’s standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:40 AM
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Not really. Sounds like he was going for an intentional vibe. That doesn’t sound like “man who is clueless at fashion” it sounds like “man who wants to project he’s a party animal to find other fun women”. You weren’t his demographic perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:37 AM
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OK my wording could be tweaked here. Your husband has no prospect of getting SEXUALLY TURNED ON by a gay man hitting on him most likely. A straight woman however, might get turned on by a man hitting on her. So the analogy is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:33 AM
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Again, you don’t seem to understand the companies literally already admit to doing this. They admit that if you pay you will be seen more. Congrats on your humble brag that you still get attention not paying. What I am saying is that most men can expect to be put in the back of the line by the app by not paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:31 AM
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Well that’s the beauty of the business model. The women are the product and use the app for free, the men are the paying customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:25 AM
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I bet she got like 1000 “likes” and pulled 5 men out of there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:24 AM
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Sure it worked in the past but what these companies I suspect are already doing is not showing any male profiles who don’t pay to women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:22 AM
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Why would I pay tons of money for a service where their are 9 men for every 1 woman? (Tinder’s gender ratio) If I’m going to pay “hundreds” I’d expect some service where there are 9 women for every 1 man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:18 AM
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If you were dateless for years and had to put up with the zero attention a lot of men get on dating apps and you had a severe need for human connection and touch and to satiate your sexual desire, you’d consider paying. You’d then pay and still not get any of these things, as a lot of men are finding. The dating app business is just fucking evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:16 AM
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Yeah but there is never a scenario where a straight man would enjoy being hit on by a gay man. There ARE scenarios where a straight woman might like getting hit on by a man though. So the analogy is poor as OP says.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:12 AM
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The survey HAS to be incorrect. I wish more organizations would conduct their own surveys. The results just make no sense at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 02:05 AM
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Ever spent time on Reddit? I’ve seen women on here saying men should go to jail for wanting to date women in their early 20s if they are old. It is completely untrue it is only men who have an issue with women dating older. I mean look at the Leo DiCaprio controversy. It’s women who say he is preying on these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:23 PM
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Not really. US, Canada, Western Europe, Australia and NZ are really the only places on Earth that support it significantly and it is still not exactly common. Though it also isn’t so rare as to be unheard of, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:29 PM
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I think many women are bisexual as in would do sexual things with a woman. But I don’t get the impression most women are biromantic. As in most don’t want to date other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:09 PM
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No one is a nun these days lol I might as well spend time hating unicorns. I bet almost no one in this forum even knows any girl from their school who grew up to become a nun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:35 PM
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Nightclubs in my area are also 70% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:34 PM
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They dont “bother me” in the sense I learn a woman is child free and get mad at her or would ever berate such a woman individually. However collectively the whole child free movement bothers me in 2 ways: 1) Society NEEDS a sustainable birth rate near replacement level to function. Do you want to be able to retire one day? Yes? In that case society needs a birth rate near replacement to let you do that. 2) Child free people are often HOSTILE to people who want kids or have kids or that don’t min…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:33 PM
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So much cope and gaslighting in this thread. It is obvious to everyone women want to get married more and yet women will rush to any thread that asserts this to say “no women do not want to get married more - I’m a married woman and I wanted to get married badly all my life, but that’s different” or they will say they don’t want to get married and aren’t married but proceed to make every single show with a primarily female audience a show about a woman who finds a man to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:30 PM
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How do you think a lot of men get dates ? They often have to invite out relative strangers. Moreover if we are both at a mixed gender yoga class, the woman going on her own is more likely to have a male come talk to her than the man going on his own is likely to have a woman come talk to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:13 PM
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It really does not. At all. Putting aside a match.com survey means nothing for making generalizations, it could mean that men are culturally conditioned to expect to change when married, the old “I need to ask my wife’s permission” and boomer “ball and chain” jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:10 PM
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You did not bother reading the article. The article goes on to basically say it’s the authors opinion because men are more likely to be willing to marry women of other ethnicities and a few other things. Nowhere is data presented that men want marriage more. If I make an article saying “Women prefer 7 inch Dicks” in the first paragraph and then later in the article I write “when showed a picture of a rhino, women preferred the pics of male rhinos with 7 inch Dicks” does that mean women actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 02:07 PM
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Will a woman ever see a male who is a stranger and randomly invite him to a party or outting? No she won’t. Im sure it has happened a few times but no by and large it does not happen and will not happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:30 AM
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I’ve certainly noticed this. Basically anything on Reddit that shows “women do not like or need men” is upvoted like crazy. It isn’t just Reddit, anything in the media that pushes this message is also favoured.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:12 AM
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Your post is emblematic of everything wrong with Reddit. You didn’t even read or comprehend your own article. It does not at any point state men want marriage more in the article. It basically says men are more open minded about who they marry than women are, and are more willing to make compromises and lifestyle changes once married, according to a tiny statisiticslly insignificant survey of 2500 men on a dating site that pretty much ONLY signs up men who are looking for a long term relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:09 AM
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I don’t get your point around men being a pain in the ass and how you can “plan for them as their wife” What does this mean practically ?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:06 AM
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Yes. This. It’s absurd how this study won’t die.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 05:05 AM
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For one, women get social opportunities from both women AND men. A single man doesn’t get any social opportunities from women. So automatically women have double the chance a man does at social opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 04:52 AM
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But you are acknowledging one can equip them with the knowledge of how to perform the tasks and eliminate that as a potential excuse for not doing it. The fact children learn things in school on how to behave and has measurably changed behaviours obviously refutes your points. Let’s be very pessimistic and say 1% of men change their behaviour as a result. In a society of 100 million married men that is 1 million more satisfied married women. And it is obvious to anyone with a brain the effects w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:45 PM
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And a girl who once sucked my dick got a promotion at work a week later. I don’t get your point - because there isn’t one. Your point is that schools do not teach children anything at all ever and “general culture and income” are what influences what kids learn. We can stop teaching calculus because “general culture” will make kids learn this through osmosis I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:09 PM
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Agree with this post. But I would add “becoming a man women want to have sex with” isn’t necessarily going to make someone better for society overall. A guy who works hard at his job and jerks off to porn so he can spend more time getting better at his career may be providing a lot of value to society. So men who use porn in lieu of women might not be having a negative impact on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:06 PM
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I avoid other people generally, and moreso with covid a concern. I don’t make eye contact if we are in a isolated place by ourselves like a parking garage. I maintain some distance. I dress well as people aren’t very afraid of more professional looking men generally. I haven’t really seen a woman visibly scared by me to my knowledge. Maybe once in a while a woman will look back to see who else is there/who is walking behind her is all but I think both men and women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:44 PM
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You are being absurd. Your view is that if schools did not teach kids about the health effects of smoking or safe sex that it would make zero difference. That is observably incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:29 PM
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I think that if we never taught safe sex or the dangers of smoking through schools that we’d have more teen pregnancy and more smoking. In fact with teen pregnancy we can quantifiably see that districts that teach safe sex have less teen pregnancies than districts that don’t. So the data does not support your view that teaching kids things makes them do the opposite. Your opinion is clearly wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:21 PM
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Anti-smoking campaigns, safe sex campaigns to reduce teen pregnancy have all been effective being taught through schools. I think your “it is impossible, let’s not try” attitude is pathetic and unhelpful and not based on reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 02:04 PM
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Again you fail at the point. People work through repeated instructions being drilled in to them. Students raise their hands in class because teachers drill it in, raise your hand if you want to ask a question. They learn to multiply through repetition. If students spent a year being drilled in this is how you mow the lawn, this is how you cook etc. then far more would see it as their role to do. You seem to think their is some kindof male gene that is opposed to cooking. There isn’t. We just nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 12:32 PM
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I’m not a fan of Andrew Tate but on a funny podcast (Your moms house - seriously the podcast with him on it was a riot), he gave a great piece of advice. When asked what this kindof man should do he said “take a train trip from Europe all the way to Asia and think about what a bitch you are - at least you’ll end the trip with some stories” The take away message is - do interesting things and you might become interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 01:28 AM
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It would be accurate to say I am an aging man. So yeah I’m happy that men who are older can be considered very attractive, and women find older men more attractive than 20 year old men typically. Your other argument is not worthy of comment and clearly an emotional outburst.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:09 PM
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You have to admit there is a self serving element here. You are not just a woman, but an aging woman. It’s in your personal interest for women to be considered sexy as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 11:01 PM
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Oh ok then. Women should just do every single household chore then and stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 10:28 PM
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You use the class as a subtext for teaching that these tasks are things people of either gender should know. This is the main purpose of the class. And no these aren’t easy tasks. They require all sorts of safety precautions, specialized tools, considerations. You could tell everyone currently learning anything at all in school that they can learn the same stuff on YouTube but school provides hands on opportunity is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:21 PM
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I just finished being a FWB with a woman in her 40s. She initiated the first date sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:18 PM
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I agree with you and I think in this course that female students should learn how to mow the grass, unclog a toilet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:05 PM
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You miss the point. The purpose isn’t to teach the chores themselves. The point is to use the chores as a teaching moment that chores aren’t male or female. So female students learn how to mow the grass and unclog a toilet in addition to cooking and cleaning and male students learn the exact same things. You can’t just have a course where you say “in this course I am going to indoctrinate male children to do an equal share of house work”. You’d need to use teaching chores as a subtext for teachi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:04 PM
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The pretext of learning chores is exactly how you teach children through school to share chores with their spouse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 08:02 PM
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I believe the only way to close the gap in doing chores at home between men and women is to begin a class in middle school where kids learn to do chores like cooking, cleaning, laundry and are taught these should be split as much as possible. I think it would be very useful for kids whose parents don’t bother teaching them these skills anyway and it would also lead to a lot more happy women in marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:57 PM
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Making 6 figures and having a million dollars in the bank these days still isn’t enough to easily get very hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:56 PM
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It is actually shocking and disappointing how much worse women tend to look at the same ages as men. There are definite exceptions but hopefully science can do something about it because it sucks that women tend to age poorly. Plastic surgery is helping a tiny bit but sometimes it also is making it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:26 PM
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I’m going to guess you are a woman yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:21 PM
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These KPop guys have nice faces (symmetrical, clear skin), stylish hair and clothes. The slim bodies can make very tailored clothes look good. I always kindof wonder if women like seeing slim male bodies in well tailored clothes, but they actually don’t like to see them shirtless/naked so much ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:06 PM
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While yes approaching in bars is fine (coffee shop approaches are still against social norms), any of these cold approaches will be met with a lot of rejection. Even getting a phone number, she won’t answer you 9 times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:02 PM
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Ever heard of prisoners dilemma or tragedy of the commons?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:05 PM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:09 AM
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Simple rule is your coworkers are off limits (unless it’s a job and career you don’t give a shit about). Now I do think in women’s defence they can’t win here. If they text a lot, she is leading him on, if she doesn’t text him at all “how come you deny people friendship just because they are male?”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:05 AM
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If you are a mediocre looking unremarkable guy (so not ugly Quasimodo, just someone that’s an NPC that isn’t too fat or anything), I think $1 million net worth you can start having a lifestyle that on its own attracts women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:01 AM
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It isn’t just attraction. People are awful at consciously stating what they like or want or dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:04 PM
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The largest and often only major asset most westerners own is their home. If a man did this he’d be leaving his $600,000 home asset to his wife while he fled with $50 K of money he has in the bank? So wife would get $600 K, he gets $50 K by fleeing OR they get a divorce and both get $325 K
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:01 PM
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Great post. This aligns with what I think and have seen is happening too. I also find intriguing the idea of women getting with a man kindof beneath them to marry so they don’t have to try too hard. Never heard someone put it in those words but it has a logic to it. It seems though your post contains a contradiction. You seem to be saying women you know find out the hot and/or rich guys they hook up with don’t want to get married, so they in turn don’t want to marry either. But then you also say…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:21 PM
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Yes. It’s weird to me we think we can teach kids English plays from 300 years ago and they will find value and take those seriously. And yet people don’t think we can have curriculum on healthy relationships and dating. Of course we can. And of course we should so people have some skills at navigating this aspect of their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:10 PM
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You are different from a lot of men then, maybe because lesbian sex is actually celebrated (im presuming you are a woman as what I’m saying applies to women). But for a straight man, he would typically rather have sex with the ugliest woman than Brad Pitt (or insert generic male celebrity women find hot these days) if he has to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:06 PM
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Speaking as Chad-lite, no not really but after like 2 women I don’t have time for anything else really. So Chad with 10 women might exist but I don’t think it’s that common. I’m not a very social person though so maybe an extrovert who loves being out can juggle even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:11 AM
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When men complain about women being able to do sex work the refrain from women is “you can have sex with men for pay too”. Even if this is true which I have my doubts it’s anywhere near as easy, this ignores the fact that women get to have sex with their orientation of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:44 AM
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Spending “months” talking to him on msn is way too long for the attention span of most highschool boy bullies. And frankly pretty embarrassing and gay on their part to exchange love messages for “months” with a guy in their school. It’s not impossible but unlikely. I can see bullies doing this for a day or maybe even a week max but people don’t have the attention span to do this for months with no payoff and every time they see him I’d have to believe no one made fun of him or spilled to him. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:14 PM
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Numerous things. I’m different from some guys in that I don’t really think a FWB can never become a girlfriend. Sex zoning might occur because of circumstances (she lives far and can only see her sometimes), life stage (I don’t want to settle down yet - this is me right now, I’m finally doing decently with girls so a committed relationship now that I am getting lots of girls doesn’t seem like my best strategy). It could also be that the girl is embarrassing in some way and you don’t want to intr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:24 PM
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I’d imagine if someone asks for a romantic relationship off the bat they like you a lot more so they’d probably feel more hurt. However a lot of especially young men confuse love and lust a lot and so “I want a relationship with her” isn’t really that different from “I think she’s hot, we get along and I and want to fuck her” in the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:34 PM
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1) Both suck I imagine. 2) Yes they would go for a FWB a lot of the time (every guy is different but most would I’d think)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:24 PM
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OK. You specifically called out that none asked you for hookup and only a relationship so reading your post I initially thought you were trying to say you may have been more open to hooking up. Clearly you hadn’t meant it that way though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:14 PM
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You mentioned the male friends liked you and wanted you in a relationship way and not in a hookup/sex way. If some of them were like “hey I value our friendship but want to hook up occasionally”m- something along those lines making it clear they just wanted sex, what would be your reaction? Would any friends also be pure sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 12:37 PM
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With women friends I had fairly strict boundaries around paying for stuff. All guys should. I am much looser with my guy friends about paying for their drinks or whatever. I don’t mind doing certain things like making sure they aren’t walking alone at night but honestly hasn’t really been much of an issue as often its been either both getting on the subway or both going to the parking lot right outside the venue so no real issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 11:01 PM
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Because men are generally the ones who propose marriage and get down on one knee, it is their decision on when or if to get married. This is where it comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:56 PM
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How am I able to change my race?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:48 PM
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Rejection is definitely a humiliation ritual we force straight men to endure. Agree with this. In 2023 though dating apps take the humiliation away in regards to face to face humiliation. The humiliation is moreso now on the fact you swipe for weeks and get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:59 PM
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And if you go around saying that people will think you are kindof a jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:54 PM
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All of the above. I found all the women in the link fuckable. If you put in a truly obese woman my answer may differ.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:13 AM
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You agree then that nobody ever asks what did you do for your man. You also agree that Valentine’s Day is a day we treat as a way to celebrate women exclusively pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 02:45 AM
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Sounds reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:58 AM
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I agree with this post. I think it’s concerning for mens dating and loneliness prospects that 22%, nearly 1 in 4 Gen Z women, identify as bisexual. Now I do think that number is perhaps overstated in that some girls who would just consider kissing a girl or having a threesome or something are considering themselves bi even though they’d never date women as an exclusive type thing. But since we don’t have a corresponding number of gay or bisexual men it means a lot of women will date women and a …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:57 AM
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We pretty much are. The birth rate is plummeting in the west and soon in the developing world too. We make maybe 1.3 kids per couple (remember a couple is 2 people) so each generation is like 25% smaller than the last. Play it over the next 300 years or so and humans don’t exist. Obviously I think at some point we just fix the issue and enforce people to have kids or maybe self selection will mean only people who want to have lots of kids persist so it self corrects, but yeah we already are seei…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:41 AM
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How come you admit that it’s scary approaching someone in the wild and yet only women get sympathy from you for having the guts to do so and men don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:38 AM
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No it isn’t. No office coworker in 2023 asks what did you do for your man yesterday. You are just lying here. They would ask what you did for your gf on Valentines
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 12:24 AM
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We have a whole holiday (Valentines day) where until extremely recently the question you’d pose to women is “what did your man do for you on Valentines?” And the question posed to men would be “what are you doing for your woman on Valentines?”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:21 PM
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I kindof like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:19 PM
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And then these married women seem to come on Reddit and complain about their partner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:17 PM
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Fuckboy is not a term of my generation but certainly if someone said I’m a guy women love to fuck I’d be very complimented. Even if they said I’m a guy who is good for sex but not marriage I’d still be complimented.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:23 PM
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You are cruel because you want to enforce a system where prostitution is illegal so prostitutes can not report their assaults to the police for fear of getting in legal trouble themselves. You sit their incredibly privileged while women who are doing the work want protections and your response is “fuck you”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 05:11 PM
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The recourse is creating an environment where prostitutes can come forward to law enforcement versus today where if they are assaulted they can not. You are horrifically cruel in an effort to satiate your anti-sex worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:55 PM
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You are absolutely governing sex. Your issue isn’t violence because existing assault law covers violence. Are you shutting down Hollywood sex scenes too? There’s a chance those can be exploitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 04:25 PM
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No it does not make the numbers go down. It puts women in harms way. And governing whether women can have sex is absurd comparison to what labour laws do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 02:51 PM
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Eradication does not work by making it illegal and why do you want to control what women do with their own bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:03 PM
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You are incredibly close minded on this issue. You can continue thinking a country where it’s legal for a prostitute to hire security to keep her safe, and that has government send occupational workers to ensure sex work is being done safely, is somehow less safe than a country where a prostitute needs to hide her work from authorities and can’t hire her own security to keep her safe. You are being deliberately obtuse because you personally don’t like sex work.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 11:50 AM
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I just explained. Australia and Germany do not have the sex crime rate of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:09 PM
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You are disingenuous and a liar then. Australia and Germany have much less sex crime than the US including against prostitutes in any case. So the evidence is clear you just have an agenda you are fixated to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 10:26 PM
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You are clearly being deliberately ignorant. Tell me. If you were meeting a strange man at your workplace, do you feel safer if a security guard is directly outside in the lobby or if there is no security guard at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 09:47 PM
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There’s lots? Are you denying there are security guards at Australian or Nevada brothels?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 08:36 PM
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You are making this up. It’s obvious that sex workers would be more likely to report when they aren’t doing something illegal. It’s obvious that brothels in places like Australia, Germany and Nevada offer a favour safe environment with security guards on site for hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:02 PM
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Every year I guarantee we turn away hundreds of thousands of single women who want to come. It’s just a question of giving them preference for being female which we don’t do today.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:53 PM
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And why can’t prostitutes report crimes against them or hire security or work in a secured facility now? Oh right because prostitution is illegal as is a prostitution hiring protection for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:47 PM
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Your post is bad faith. Violence would still be illegal. Sure maybe some men will be kindof rude to their prostitute. But plenty of women wouldn’t mind taking dick from a man who is mean to them in exchange for making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:57 PM
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Whatever the mechanism - I’d think we should show vast preference for female embryos.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:52 PM
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Yes this needs to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 04:44 PM
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True. Good point. I kindof wonder if we should only allow people getting inseminated through sperm donation to have female children to help the gender ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 01:44 PM
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Yes this post I agree most with on the thread. Barring sex selective male abortions though it won’t happen unfortunately. However one thing we can control is immigration. It makes sense to have immigration be 70% female immigrants, 30% male.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:32 PM
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It doesn’t even out until well past peoples prime dating years. So in 20s and 30s women have an advantage in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:28 PM
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Women don’t post pics on social media of their hookups. Men don’t either really for that matter. It’s typically not a thing people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:38 PM
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Others have already said it but women are the OG passport bros. I’ve known so many women who did “semesters abroad” in university. And suspiciously they all do it in France. These women are getting their backs blown out all semester.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 08:33 PM
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Googled it and can confirm Mackenzie never indicated there was an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:06 PM
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You are making that up she’s never said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:12 PM
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When women say all they want a man who is kind and will help with cleaning the house, then yes that is very reasonable expectation. But that isn’t the extent of their demands at all. They just claim that’s all to try and shame men. I would volunteer to do all housework to get with a very hot women but not like that would be enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 04:12 PM
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Yes they had separated. They both had agreed to see other people in advance of the paperwork. So no it was not an affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:11 AM
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See David Patraeus, his wife, and the woman he had an affair with. Patraeus is wealthy and successful and worked his way in to a very prestigious position. He kept himself reasonably fit. His wife looks like a dumpster. Why would a woman think she can just skate by looking like this as her husband grows in his career? I do think men should remember the woman who was with them before they were a huge success but at the same time, women do need to step up their game to keep him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:06 AM
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OP posted a very flattering pic of Mackenzie. Her day to day normal life she doesn’t look like that. Sanchez looks like she does day in day out though. Also Jeff and Mackenzie indicated they were separated when he dated Lauren.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:02 AM
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Flaking happens with both genders. I happen to think some probably flake more than men do. The safety aspect and men not wanting to have safe sex would indeed be something crappy. However I also don’t see why one can’t talk online for a few weeks and get a real feel for a person before moving offline. Dick pics are kindof whatever although I get that if someone just sends it, it gets old and you think they are just stupid. Filtering through profile matches and messages is a lot more fun than hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:37 AM
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Were you able to get sex with men you were at least somewhat attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 12:57 AM
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Yes. The common theme is they are not white. Sure there are non-white men who still do well with women. But whiteness does give one an edge in dating. Which is why I need to laugh at all the people who believe white people are the ones being persecuted these days or white privilege doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:29 AM
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Don’t forget r/PurplePillDebate as well !
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:14 AM
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I really don’t think that in 30 seconds the fat friend knows and is being asked to. More like fat friend just has a blanket “no guys” and imposes that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:44 AM
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Unless you are a celebrity or built like a Greek god there is no way to convince a woman you are so amazing that she shouldn’t listen to her friends dragging her away after 1 minute of conversation with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:10 AM
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I really don’t think every man who gets cockblocked was a bad guy. Fat friend often cockblocks before you’ve said more than a word. Women claim personality matters above all so there’s no way her friend can tell that she wouldn’t have liked the guy when they haven’t even talked. I’m of course assuming the initial approach was respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:08 AM
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I’d be really bad at this - but I’d try and make sure he was social. Had boundaries. Was educated on sex and consent. Felt that sex was a non-shameful thing he can talk to me about. I’d even let him have sex in his room as long as he kept it down (and I’d let my daughter do the same and take same approach with her).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:49 PM
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Maybe that’s true. Funny enough I feel like if more women had a harem there’d be less lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:28 PM
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Anyone that can do math knows polygamy doesn’t work out well for the vast majority of men. The proponents always imagine themselves as the polygamists. Women don’t seem interested in having harems of men so it never counterbalances by letting some men join a woman’s harem. Now today, many argue we have soft Chad harems and that my be true. However at least men wanting marriage still have a more equal playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 01:28 AM
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Well if you are doing substantial physical movement and still not losing weight I do sympathize. I assume this does happen to some people. Hopefully the whole Ozempic hype actually is a drug that can help people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:08 AM
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Excuses, excuses. No one is asking women to be a Victoria Secret model weight. But no one needs to be obese and “I can’t stop being obese because of crime” is a copout for laziness. I guarantee you don’t go from work to home and cower in fear. That you go out and socialize sometimes. If you can somehow overcome the crime waves to do those things (in a time where it’s actually safer to walk outside than in the 70s, 80s,90s etc.) you can get some steps in during broad daylight or do some exercises…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:53 AM
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Pace around living room. Run up and down stairs in your home. Do a sit up. Walk during your lunch hour in broad daylight. Don’t make bullshit excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:43 AM
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Or she could not get McDonalds for 3 months and kill 2 birds with one stone. Save the money plus get thinner. Or as I mentioned she can walk indoors. Does she live somewhere with stairs? Can she run up and down stairs? You are frankly being ridiculous thinking that if someone can’t walk whe it’s dark and there isn’t a treadmill in their home they can not lose weight lol - no wonder society is so fat if people like you think this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 02:42 AM
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Men somehow find a way to pay $100+ on dinner dates that go nowhere. A woman who was serious about not being fat could put away $5 per week for 2 years and get a treadmill. Alternatively - pace around your living room? There’s literally no excuse for not getting steps in.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 01:01 AM
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$500 for a treadmill or one can even just pace around their living room to get steps in. No excuse, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:59 AM
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“There are no ugly women, only lazy women” - Coco Chanel I’d agree this is an oversimplification but I’d say 80% of women in their 20s and 30s can take some basic steps to look very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:56 AM
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Subway groping is common in Japan. A treadmill is like $500. And if one lives in a condo there’s typically a gym there. So safety walking really isn’t an excuse for the obesity of westerners.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:54 AM
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You aren’t asking him out on a date for doing so though. You aren’t even going to give him a compliment. But a woman who dresses up very well is likely to get compliments and date offers. So she derives like 100X more benefit than the man would for putting in the same effort so is it any wonder men don’t bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:47 AM
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Women are 50% of the population so yeah given the protections the law affords us in the workplace it’s not really a surprise women are getting half the good opportunities now. As for being well dressed - this one I think has a simple explanation. A woman who is well dressed derives benefits from it like compliments and date offers. A man does not. If a man in well tailored expensive clothes had women asking him out on dates just because he dresses well we’d see men pour way more in to their appe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:44 AM
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Then what of all the constant posts “I don’t dress sexy for men, I do it for myself!” +. “I’m so sick of men hitting on me when out with my girlfriends just wanting to dance!” I broadly agree with you clubs and bars are certainly venues where men might meet women who want sex. But the gender ratios in a club are bad as well, not as bad as online dating but still often 65 men and 35 women in a nightclub of 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 07:02 PM
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Which introduces another challenge. Most people don’t take kindly to men in their social gathering approaching women with propositions for sex. Tinder - such a proposition might be permitted. But social gatherings it generally isn’t. So yeah your “solution” again calls for some level of obfuscation based on what polite society allows.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:10 PM
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There are men like me who aren’t all that bothered by promiscuity in the past. I’ve mostly dated bisexual women. However if a woman said she mostly just sleeps with other women in the past it would be far from a turnoff but I would have some questions for her around if women are strongly her preference as I’d have some nagging doubts if I as a male am what she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:07 PM
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Might surprise you to learn, but a lot of men living in major cities might swipe through every single woman on Tinder and by the end of it have maybe 2 chats where they got no response in their inbox. The dating pool is much smaller than you think. I agree honesty is best policy but I get the temptation to lie. And moreover I’ve even heard of women who are interested in casual sex be turned off if a guy says he is just interested in casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:02 PM
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Honestly as technology becomes more confusing and scary and actually useless in some ways - as image I start to see some appeal in Amish life. Not enough to actually do it ever though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:17 AM
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I’m attracted to dominant women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:37 PM
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Some Men tell sex stories and talk about women in overtly sexual ways when with exclusively male friends, yes. Women may do the same or similar in women exclusive circles. One is deemed wrong though and the other is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:35 AM
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Lol I kindof know exactly what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 12:27 AM
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Even the woman in the green shirt you linked actually has an OK face and big boobs, so put her in a cleavage dress and she will have 6’2” football players in her DMs. The last woman is super undesireable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:47 PM
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I do think society tends to default to making women feel good about themselves. So the answer that is more flattering to a woman is what mainstream society will say is the right one. This is because society believes women still to be more fragile in their emotions and mental state than men. Is that actually true? I don’t necessarily think so but society thinks so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:51 PM
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You see the issue right? You have no idea which women are good with being approached and which aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:54 PM
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An FWB relationship is kindof an open one. It is going well. Jealousy can of course occur but better to be jealous sometimes than sexless and without a close connection to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 01:19 AM
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Every woman can have 100 Tinder matches. Yes you need to Wade through some bad guys on there. So what? Women who complain they can’t find a decent date basically are just very lazy. Men who say they can’t find a date might be lazy but they also may be genuinely undesireable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 10:05 PM
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Maybe you have some special skills that one can freelance for. Many don’t. And going out and then fucking a guy who already you don’t find unattractive and maybe even like their personality and then getting paid for it isn’t on par with a side gig. It’s doing something you might even enjoy and getting paid for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 02:02 AM
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A full time career is a pretty high bar. But there are women who date a sugar daddy for instance and it gives them some side income. I as a man could do with a few hundred dollars extra a month. And I could pick out someone who I actually was decently attracted to. Not like I’d need to spend time with someone unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 01:30 AM
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I think online dating ruined dating because men became incentivized to cast so wide a net that now every woman has a hundred suitors on any online platform. So men did technically ruin dating but the technology to allow men to ruin dating is what enabled them to do so. Without the technology men would not have been able to ruin dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:17 PM
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Watch some interviews with him. He is smart. He studied the fuck out of YouTube. What thumbnail to use, what title, how to monetize.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:42 AM
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1) Yes 2) No it’s empowering to him because he gets off on it 3) Yes 100% stop being a bitch and let your wife fuck other men, you pussies. 4) Depends how much of a cuck he is
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 03:46 AM
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So if my girlfriend says my t-shirt doesn’t look good on me, is she controlling? If I say I want to eat pizza today and she says no I want Mexican food, is she controlling? By your vague definition literally every single one of us in Earth is controlling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:28 PM
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How is “I will break up with you unless you do X thing that isn’t a human right” controlling behaviour? If is maybe the colloquial use of “controlling” but a lot of arm chair women commentators seem to be saying Jonah is an abusive man when “I am going to break up with you unless you stop doing X” isn’t abusive. No one has a right to a relationship with someone. Women included. To be clear I thought Jonah was cringe and stupid and insecure. But not an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:32 PM
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I think that people are so blinded by the two things he did wrong (telling her not to talk to other men and telling her not to post bikini pics) that they are blind to the fact his ex was very malicious posting every other text where it’s just him basically being super insecure and cringe. He also told her a few times she might be better off with a guy who was good with her doing those things. People read that as him being manipulative but I take it as face value and him understanding his expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 02:43 AM
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Jonah should not have told her not to talk to other men or that she can’t post swimsuit pics. Other than that everything else he said was just him being insecure and low self esteem and it was super malicious for her to post all that. But I can’t say I ever feel that bad for a rich celebrity so oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:46 AM
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I agree with OP. Women who are fun and dress in an attention grabbing way and are slutty in loving sex can definitely get guys interested. No argument there. Some guys wouldn’t like it but a lot do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 11:43 AM
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I don’t know the answer here. But I will say in my community there’s been more southeast and Middle eastern young men coming in and one thing I’ve noticed is they are more physically affectionate with each other putting their arm around friends etc. some places in the Middle East men hold hands if they are good friends. This seems really weird to westerners and George Bush as you will recall was widely mocked for doing it. However I think that basic platonic touch between male friends might actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:21 PM
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Actually I was mostly told if you are a nerdy dork in high school and you work hard and get rich you can grow up to fuck the Prom Queen. Not directly told that but that seemed to be the gist. I’m an adult now. It’s kindof true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:17 PM
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On that we agree. A pretty good or decent looking guy who is world class at something beats a magnificently handsome man most likely in getting top tier girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:10 PM
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I don’t think the literal millions of people watching incest porn want to actually have sex with family members. Taboo can be hot in the porn version of one’s mind and disgusting or horrifying in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:25 PM
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Magnus is physically attractive though too so there’s a baseline to meet. If he looked like Fat Bastard being a chess champion wouldnt get Liv Tyler sexually interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:18 PM
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I think his girlfriend comes off kindof shitty here. It seemed very malicious. Jonah was wrong about 2 things. He shouldn’t have told her she can’t post swimsuit pics and he shouldn’t tell her she can’t talk to other guys. To his credit he says several times in the texts that maybe she should break up and get with a guy who doesn’t have his “rules” and is more in synch with what she wants to do. However most of the texts were really just Jonah Hill showing himself to be a pathetic, low-self este…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:06 AM
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It’s more the randomness and feeling of lack of control. I probably have had more sex partners than a lot of hot women. Many partners were hot as well. However my security in feeling I can get in a relationship or even just sex with a woman who is attractive to me never feels very secure. It seems to happen a bit by random chance. Contrast with an “average woman” who I’m lead to believe gets 100 options to choose from the day after she signs up to a dating app. And no I do not believe that all 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:03 PM
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I think humans in general are way more influenced by marketing than we think or know. I fully believe their is a world where everyone would think 300 lb women of colour are the hottest physical specimens in existence with enough marketing. Granted that would take a LOT. Like a multi-trillion dollar global ad campaign.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:07 AM
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I’m a man and disagree with this whole post. Now I know better than to even download tinder these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:43 AM
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As I age I find it surprising how few girls I can imagine presenting as a partner to my family without being embarrassed. Sometimes looks. Sometimes personality and intelligence. Not even asking for the moon but so few girls reach even a low bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:08 AM
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It’s true. It’s embarassing to be seen with a very fat girl in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:46 PM
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For what it’s worth, I’ve had a lot of luck lately explicitly asking for consent. I.e “is it ok to kiss you?” Etc. Society is changing. I think women appreciate this now whereas a decade ago they’d think it was unconfident and a turnoff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:45 PM
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I do not go out much but I see it almost never. A small number of times at a mall I saw it. A small number of times on the street. It definitely happens but not frequently enough to just walk past it happening as a bystander.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:24 PM
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Hollywood places a premium on women who are beautiful to men and women though. Porn is a better indicator of male taste and porn is diverse as fuck. You have 300 lb women who have more views than women who look like Charlize Theron on there. So I don’t buy it that there isn’t significant variation in women men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 07:07 PM
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I don’t mean that. Single parents should get big government supports as far as I’m concerned. Having children is a huge benefit to society. I mean scholarships for women. Gender quotas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:48 PM
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I’d say there should not be this sexual accountability you talk about. Instead we should recognize women have achieved a lot and there’s no need to continue special programs to support them. Basically end any government program intended to promote equality for women. They already have it. No need for more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:09 AM
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In my limited experience I believe women who are sex workers are the least likely to expect men to be masculine. Such women tend to be more socially liberal and supportive of LGBTQ rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:05 AM
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Reading even 50 womens blogs won’t give insight in to all women. You end up with vague advice still like “don’t send unsolicited dick pics”. That is good advice but doesn’t get anyone a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:57 PM
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Good luck thinking social science studies are an objective science lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:08 PM
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I would guess Taylor Swift has 50 eggs and embryos frozen and 100 women on standby ready to surrogate birth her babies. I hear on PPD and Reddit women sometimes saying they want to prioritize their careers which I think is generally bullshit. Like seriously? You are going to pretend your paper pusher assistant manager role is somehow what you want to focus your life on as if it matters? But in Taylors case - she is going to make nearly $1 BILLION by touring this year. I suspect she’s looking to …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:57 AM
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Disagree strongly. It’s you who are actually delusional if you think that social science is an objective field. You seem to believe one can demonstrate women are better leaders the way one can demonstrate the sun generates energy from fusion. Again, you can show that in a given artificial situation where you have 8 women in a group and 2 men, that group talks more about how to solve a puzzle, vs. 10 men in the group. Sure you can run a study and prove that. That says NOTHING about how a team of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:37 AM
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So here’s the deal. I actually appreciate that you cite sources and studies. I’ve read a few and I will read the rest. However we have a fundamental disagreement on the reliability of social science studies like these. In short I don’t think things like “collaborative environment” can be measured well. I don’t think any of these soft skills can be measured very well. As such - while I’m sure there are interesting findings here I believe them to be context specific and artificial. I don’t think o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:16 AM
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While I think women can make fine leaders I also think you are being ridiculous trying to pretend this is an objective fact. “Statistically speaking” in this instance means “I can cherry pick a random metric to show my case”.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:40 PM
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OP you seem like a nice person. I will tell you a lot of men online get the advice that the reason they aren’t getting girls is because they are ugly. Women online tend to say men don’t put effort in to their appearance and most men are ugly. It effects the way Redditors think about themselves. I think there are a lot of women who think like you but I don’t think they are very vocal. Also - for men, a woman being ugly is the primary reason they wouldn’t date her. If that is different for women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:54 AM
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Lmao oooof
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:48 AM
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I agree Deadbeat dads need to be shamed. The issue is it’s hard to tell who is a deadbeat dad. They don’t carry signs. For all I know the nice male cashier who checked me out and smiled at me today was a deadbeat dad. Really have no way of knowing. But in general yes - let’s collectively as a society shame Deadbeat dads I truly think they are the lowest of the low.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:21 PM
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We have a literal population crisis that people are blind to. Too few kids being born in the west and births plummeting everywhere. Single moms, single dads, don’t care. A lot more people need to have kids in western countries. Edit: Changed P to a B
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:57 PM
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They really aren’t maligned. I have nothing against sluts and am dating one. But in 2023 a woman can fuck 100 men and none of these men will know about eachother. She can walk in to Church or her conservative family gathering and not one person will know what she did. It’s like me staying at home over the weekend and not showering at all. Some may find that gross but they’d never know about it anyway so it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:25 PM
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For the same reason we don’t feel that bad about billionaires dying on a submarine. They have so much of what we want we stop caring about them because they are so privileged. That’s the male reason. Women hate promiscuous women because women are collectively smarter and always understood that if they discourage women from a lot of partners it means men need to lower their standards because it means fewer women to go around. Us men on the other hand are collectively stupid where we encourage top…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:19 PM
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Maybe true although at the 20 something age range in particular men tend to outnumber women even in places where overall women outnumber men. I Your city though seems pretty skewed to women so maybe that’s not true of your area though. I’d agree it could be im underestimating exactly how much surplus women we need.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:00 PM
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Get off the dating apps to start. I think even if we went back to a time when people had to send a written message of a certain character count length it would improve dating by not flooding women with options and devaluing individuals. Concurrently I think we need to teach men to be much less aggressive in trying to get women’s attention and affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:43 PM
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Agree with your points but I don’t think changing male culture is quick. So I think the only viable solution is to only permit women to immigrate in to our country so women of every age outnumber men of every age bracket. We need 100 women for every 95 men at every age bracket to restore balance. It fucks over other countries but oh well, the world is a zero sum game and most other countries treat women like shit anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 08:31 PM
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How do you know these women are down bad? I find women tend to be very good at projecting a sense that there singlehood is a choice. But I’m a man so maybe they hide their down bad nature from me and reveal it more just to women friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:34 AM
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I actually think OnlyFans is maybe an antidote to how giant women’s egos became after Tinder. Tinder made every woman feel like a celebrity. Starting an OnlyFans account makes all women except for maybe true 9s and 10s feel ugly as they recognize they get almost no customers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:53 AM
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Effort. Plan a date. Show you made an effort to do something you think I’d like. Get a gift of something you think I’d like. Show me you are putting effort in to making me happy basically and I’d really feel appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:16 PM
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Slut shaming is easy to avoid. It’s so easy it’s almost absurd whenever women even bring this up. But the physical safety aspect is very much top of mind and a worry for women. And if anything the media has ratcheted up womens worries about this. So I really do think if that was removed we’d see way more casual sex happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 09:05 PM
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A component of being healthy and functioning and happy is living in a functional society. Let’s solve step 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:53 PM
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Are these men starving to death on the street? Because that is what happens if demographics collapse leading to societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:48 PM
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If we find men need an incentive to impregnate women, sure give them incentive. Hungary has found they don’t I assume. We are going to do what works to keep society working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:45 PM
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If the woman has kids then yes. In fact I think the policy is she needs to have TWO or more kids in her 20s. Women who remain childless still need to pay taxes. We are encouraging births to go up. The alternative is society collapses eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:20 PM
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A decade ago we were in the eve of a massive outsourcing crisis. We have record low unemployment. That crisis never materialized. Automation is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:19 PM
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Not increasing the birth rate is sure to raise the amount of poverty. Those entitlement spendings depend on a reasonable number of young people making up the work force so people can retire.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:09 PM
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Sexist against men you mean? Nature has made it so birthing kids is far more onerous on women than men. When the options are to either make a policy that helps women more than men or face demographic collapse leading to society collapse, then we need to be prudent and do the thing that helps one gender over the other. Men will benefit down the road by actually having a workforce that can support paying for their retirement benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 02:08 PM
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The west needs to get its birth rate up and we’ve delayed facing this problem too long. Society needs to focus on this issue and I commend OP for recognizing it as an issue which few want to acknowledge currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:26 PM
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We don’t need to convince you. We need to convince women on average. And a bonus would do so. Hungary put in policy that if a woman has a kid in her 20s she no longer pays income taxes the rest of her life. It seems to be working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:24 PM
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Romantic connection and sex are major drives for people. Unlike most women, most men do not have people who just walk up and offer those things. It’s also a terrifying prospect to ask someone for those things. Opens one up to ridicule, shame, reputation damage, emotional (and more rarely, physical) hurt. And society is getting even more shy and introverted over time I feel. As such - a cottage industry around this fear men need to deal with to find connection has opened up. I think you oversimpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:22 PM
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Watch the British version of Kitchen Nightmares. It’s better anyway and he’s more contained. America needs to amp everything up to 11 drama wise on reality shows of course. But yes - I agree with the broad point that no manager, Chef or otherwise, should yell or scream.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 11:39 AM
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The most common mixed gender mixed age group is the workplace where power dynamics are in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:36 AM
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More women will have sex before marriage. Women are more likely to leave abusive situations. I enjoy working with (some) women. Women dress sexier than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 11:35 AM
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Sorry let me amend. You look very much like the obese woman Lizzo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:26 PM
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I think these men are just more likely to be younger. And younger people of course are less sexually experienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:26 PM
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So this woman is very fat and unattractive. If a woman is fat and unattractive men won’t think they need to put any effort in to a relationship either. I agree with her that he should clean just on the basis of having a functional household for them and their children. But obviously men will do less in the relationship when the woman is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:10 PM
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A younger generation that can actually replace workers and care for elderly is crucial. We really either need to raise the birth rate or cure aging so everyone remains forever youthful. I’d prefer the curing aging solution but obviously only one of these 2 solutions is actually viable right now and it’s not that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:02 PM
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The leader of the Pussy Posse
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:00 AM
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You look exactly like that fat fuck Lizzo! You’re welcome for your compliment!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:55 AM
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“I look better”. Lol women can be such bitches. A lot of your friendsare “dating men lower than them”. Lol you’d crucify any man who said how great he is because he dares women “lower than him” you’d tell that woman to break up with him for saying that. In any case, oh well, soon your guy will get bored of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:11 AM
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To think our bacteria ancestors just reproduced asexually lol. Now millions of years later here we are due to the 2 bacteria that decided to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:05 AM
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Shy and introverted seems to be the common profile. The dating game is very rigged against shy guys. It’s actually very sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:01 AM
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Neither are. That’s my point. Your anecdotes don’t mean anything. What does mean something is the government recognizes biological family is so likely to be care giving and a support for people that tax policy is even geared towards this assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:14 AM
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You aren’t going to pretend to me your Sunday brunch friends are doing shit for you when the chips are down. Biological family is who handles care and helps eachother. Friends might help at the margins but friends will prioritize their own spouses and family first. Your anecdotes don’t mean anything. I see tons of adult kids (men and women) take their elderly parents to appointments and assist in care. Speaking as a male adult as well I certainly take my parents and assist in their care as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:04 AM
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Biological family is generally who will stick with you through thick and thin. There simply isn’t a good replacement of people who care about you in your older ages or when you need care than your adult children. Elder care of one’s parents is most definitely something undertaken by millions. To pretend it makes no difference is a huge cope. People in general struggle with long term planning so it’s no surprise 20 year olds think life is like your 20s forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:13 AM
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Of course women in their 20s are content with no children. But women in their 80s literally all by themselves with limited mobility and failing health aren’t as content as 80 year old women who have a loving biological family. And no, the ladies you go to brunch with on Sunday aren’t going to be there for you in your 70s and 80s to help with your medical issues and care for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:00 AM
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As a man I’ve never really found this to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:29 AM
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They weren’t married. I’d call her evil if they were married as it breaks their vows. But they weren’t. People often say - “why get married?” I think as a society we need to actually start giving people reasons. And upholding vows is one of them. “In SICKNESS and in health”. A marriage partner is the only person who should stick with you when you are sick and they should be looked at as an asshole if they don’t. But if you want to stay forever boyfriend/girlfriend - then you can’t expect someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:28 AM
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You won’t hear any woman on her death bed saying she regrets having children. You just won’t. Familial love is never going to be replaced by the neighbourhood ladies you can go to Sunday Brunch with. Every man and woman can choose what they want to do but the idea that a woman’s friend group serves as a good substitute to biological family is just asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:21 AM
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The anti child bias amongst many liberal women kindof means women with liberal values inevitably die off in a generation. Now political views aren’t biological but certainly one tends to keep a lot of aspects of their parents belief structure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:17 AM
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It’s an obvious grift or joke page. However, women have created an absolute industry of slut shaming eachother so as to raise the price of pussy. I think men also encouraging other men to not focus on sex at least serves as a counterbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:29 PM
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Women, especially young women and girls, are not doing very well in modern society. Rates of depression for young teenage girls are really bad. However men still reign supreme on suicides, report less friends, more likely to be single, never married, childless, die alone, die at an earlier age. I actually do think the rise in women not having children is going to lead to a lot of depressed and regretful older women but that’s just speculation. In any case - loneliness is on the rise for all. Mee…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 11:26 PM
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I think they 100% do. A teenage boy can much more easily be manipulated to send nudes because while girls get told not to do that, boys never get told to not to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:44 PM
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Hot take - I feel that teenage boys are the fastest growing demographic that is facing sexual assault. Namely - I feel teenage boys are uniquely vulnerable to online sextortion and at least a few suicides have been reported based on this. Curriculum in schools needs to be updated for sextortion as soon as possible. Such an easy thing to avoid but it’s so easy to imagine how many teenage boys can easily find themselves in this situation without proper guidance or even acknowledgement. Too often w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:19 PM
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Because I’m saying what is possible here. Literally say it isn’t a competition in my post but a lot of people on here think men being lonely is an inherent part of the gender. I am saying no it isn’t an inherent part of the gender and I could imagine a world where there are fewer lonely men than women is how not a part of the gender it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:59 PM
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It’s an example of a gender coming from behind and actually showing it can achieve what the other gender did and more. We tend to frame male loneliness in terms of “men are different from women and don’t form the same emotional bonds” - and I am saying that might be as bullshit as saying “girls can’t do science or math”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:30 AM
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Women once did worse than men in school and now that has turned around and they’ve exceeded men in a few decades only. I truly believe that if men worked together on this issue they could surpass women in being emotionally supportive and the less lonely gender. Not that it’s a race but I don’t think it’s inherent. The will to do so needs to be there and to be honest, I don’t really feel a great urge to organize with other men on this issue. Maybe all other men feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:07 AM
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This post is more correct than not but there are no universal rules. Sometimes the friend is jealous. Sometimes what I don’t hear often is that the person is interested but meeting strangers is just so very awkward to begin with that it’s often just less awkward to let the conversation die and rejoin your friends than deal with an awkward pause or whatever. Cold approach is just plain hard
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 10:27 PM
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No. Genius would be not buying fake matches at all. It would be setting your profile to gay for a day with profile text saying you want to give a blow job immediately. Getting 1 million gay guys to match you immediately. Then once you have a a giant bank of matches set your profile back to straight. Change your bio. And now women think you are sought after.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:03 AM
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Matches would be a dumb metric because it would promote hot guys matching with ugly girls to boost their match percentages. “Likes” maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:00 AM
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OP I think you should try and have a direct conversation that the insults are bothersome to you from these 2 women. They sound like on some level they like you but saying no woman ever would want you is pretty cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:51 AM
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The issue with leagues is they are very context dependent. If you are short and fat you are a very low league….but if you are a celebrity you can still get women. If you are a shy, quiet, nerdy guy you are a low league. But if this guy cures cancer he can probably fuck tons of girls off that fame. More down to Earth, the quiet, nerdy guy might be awesome at wood working which attracts some woman who also enjoys that. An average guy might host a party and by being the party host he actually gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:40 AM
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My opinion, i could be wrong. When men say nice things about their partner on reddit and this sub in particular (I.e she’s awesome, im very attracted to her, she’s a great wife/mother) they don’t proceed to put down other women. When women talk about their boyfriends or husbands on Reddit and on this sub, they often put down other men (“there are no other men as good as him”, “men suck aside from my partner”, “I am not attracted to any man or feel sexual desire for any man except my partner”). M…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:46 AM
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This post reeks of racism. Basically saying that non-white people do not have any agency in deciding who they sleep with so never go to a non-white country because their people are incapable of providing consent? Racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:36 PM
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If a woman dates a guy for 2 or 3 months it doesn’t count as casual sex. But it basically is. And many women have short relationships periodically. I’m not shaming these women to be clear. I just think women play elaborate games to avoid classifying things as casual sex but the outcome of them having frequent sex with certain men is still the same outcome whether they call themselves serial monogamists or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:15 PM
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Given I don’t believe in redpill I’d not be a hypocrite for telling her redpill following men are idiots. Now that being said I’d tell her she’s free to date and fuck anyone she wants just make damn sure he never abuses her and make sure to use birth control. Call me if she ever has any issues whatsoever with anyone or ever just wants to talk - no matter how embarrassed or awkward she feels dad would be here to help her make a good decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:32 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:15 AM
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Then she immediately gets a new boyfriend. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:15 AM
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People think differently. I totally don’t worry about how I compare to her past lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:39 AM
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Lol no. Please don’t “nice pants” anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:57 PM
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Cut your hair very short, let your body hair grow. dress like a boy or a hag.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:05 PM
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Did so, “buddy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:38 PM
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It’s trivially easy to become ugly though. What stops you from uglifying yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:18 PM
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Part of it is just cynicism as one gets older too. Even if you are a sporadic dater women lose the romantic mysterious halo after a few years and they just become a sea of “I wonder what flaws this one has now”. I definitely only very sporadically as a more established adult ever feel that puppy dog love feeling and usually it isn’t mutual which further restricts me from even opening myself up to it. But yes having a lot of sexual access does make one also value women less on just their physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:13 PM
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Of course but it’s a tragedy of the commons or coordination problem. All men need to raise their standards for this to happen. But in reality individual men would benefit from defecting and lowering their standards. I mean it’s the same idea with women and getting commitment. If no woman in the whole gender ever had sex with a man unless he’s married to her, then women would get commitment easily from men. However that will never happen as individual women will not all fall in line.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:55 AM
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Women would lower their standards because they’d get so many fewer dating options that the fewer men who did ask them out would stand a better chance. Women would no longer delude themselves in to thinking they are a better catch than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:20 AM
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I don’t know what will happen but I actually do think society becoming a lot more patriarchal is possible. The main culprit I think will be massively declining birth rates. We’ve been blind to what a huge demographic problem this will cause. I can see an attempt to subvert back in to more traditionalism to get people to have kids taking place. I don’t think it’s likely but one can look at Afghanistan where women had equal rights for nearly 2 decades and then 5 minutes after the Americans left wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:05 AM
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I think you picked dog shit examples. I actually agree to a point with your point but your examples are such shit. Better examples would be violence. A woman slapping a man has been seen as an appropriate response in some cases (moreso in the past - thankfully this is changing). Being controlling is another way. A woman who expects her man to tell her where he is and check in with her wouldn’t have people thinking the man is in an abusive relationship the way it would with women. Expecting to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:42 PM
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I think it feeds a persecution complex that makes some men feel the world is hopeless and against them. I think very clear data on what is happening would help people at least get a clear picture. Hey maybe that clear picture is that women indeed are having way more sex than most men, but right now these studies just seem to be noise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:33 PM
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A dating app where me and women have different interfaces would be interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:15 PM
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I don’t like mass shootings, do you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:13 PM
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I think even his updated data is out of date. Latest data is 11%of women and 12% of men didn’t have sex in the last year. So roughly equal. That was another post on PPD I saw a few weeks ago although I don’t think that was just 18 to 30 data. I think these numbers are clearly super volatile. One way I could see RP creators spinning the numbers reported in the tweet is that fewer and fewer women want sex so this will lead to more competition for the few that do so a man really needs to stand out.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:03 PM
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Lol run this experiment and maybe you’ll find the heavy makeup girl gets 10,987 matches, while the no makeup girl gets 10,156 matches. And then you’ll declare victory of your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:55 AM
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I’d just say to the men, don’t ever become the man OP is mentioning. Call your mother on Mother’s Day. Go out with your own friends sometimes. Keep your own family engaged with the grandchildren (if they want). Don’t let the woman decide your social calendar, you should compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:32 AM
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I don’t think dominance is incompatible with being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:08 AM
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There is now an industry dedicated to keeping men lonely. And as a result we are going to write think pieces on why male loneliness is epidemic. The answer is right here. Men spend money when they are lonely so industries that make money off lonely men are going to do their hardest to keep men lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 12:04 AM
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Or perhaps it’s flopping because nobody knows what the hell you are talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:03 PM
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So if it was a man being stabbed you’d feel bad but because it’s a woman you do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:02 PM
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It’s 2022 bruh. Open up Google maps and easily figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:57 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:35 PM
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Sure. But yes I think a man who is desperate would wait months because….what else is he going to do? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:33 PM
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Sure. Then wait 2 or 3 months. It isn’t the norm these days I think most women who did this would find 95% of men bail on the relationship. 5% may stay. That doesn’t automatically make this 5% her best possible options but it does at least select for men willing to wait for sex whether out of respect or out of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:22 PM
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I mean having sex isn’t “bad”. The guy would leave either way after some time. Alternatively some guys will leave if they don’t get sex soon enough even though they would stay after getting sex. Dating isn’t a perfect science you have no idea what the other person wants. But yes if you are a fat woman you should be sceptical if a hot guy wants to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:13 PM
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I think a lot of men in dating do the equivalent of “going to the grocery store while hungry” when dating. Namely I think the reason PPD men think male standards are so low is that they are low when a man has been sexless for a long time. However if that man gets a fat, mess of a woman to date and fuck him i suspect in many cases after a month or two of fucking he is no longer “hungry” and seeks to actually not grab the first thing he sees at the proverbial grocery store.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:40 PM
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My solution is for men to release bot armies on all dating apps so they become unuseable and people need to meet in person again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:33 PM
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Yes this is a major problem in society. I think bots might eliminate this issue maybe. Because bots are quickly making dating apps unuseable for men so they will now opt out. Would be great if we went back to picking up people in bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:31 PM
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My kids don’t have to get shot in school. Awesome! I can own guns if I want and guns are not the be all end all of freedom anyway even if someone like you thinks they are all that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 02:53 PM
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No truckers still have their bank accounts frozen and few did anyway. I again remain more free than Americans where a woman has the right to choose, where marijuana is legal, where teachers won’t get fired for saying the word “gay”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:48 AM
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Not true. You have terrorism laws in the US to freeze assets of criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 01:05 AM
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Well Judge Judy can separate her personal views in this instance with men should buy gifts from the law. In that if a woman came to her and demanded a boyfriend return gifts she bought him she would throw her out the courtroom with nothing. Judy also obviously makes a lot more than her husband so she has some understanding of providing for men. Yes this was sexist and backwards speech from Judy but I think she was trying to shake this particular woman from getting in to a situation like this aga…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 11:14 PM
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Sir this is the internet. No we aren’t going to wait for all the facts before casting judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 08:43 PM
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Umm…this is literally false I can walk in to my local library and get any of these books.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:37 PM
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Stop watching Fox News. Canada is much more free than the United States. I can smoke marijuana, not be beaten and killed by police, not have books banned from my libraries.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 05:21 PM
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OP then why is it that basically every conventionally attractive woman posts thirst traps to social media if they don’t like attention? Or are you saying basically 85% of the 20-something woman population are narcissists? I can actually believe that…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:39 PM
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Not really. A beautiful racial minority person will still have less options than a beautiful white person due to racism and prejudice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:08 PM
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Yes racial minority women will be easier to land a date with for men. Conversely if there is a woman struggling to date she will find better success rate trying to date racial minority man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:36 AM
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You will have an easier time dating racial minorities because they have fewer options.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:52 PM
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This aligns with my anecdotal experience where a lot of women seem to be very interested in pain being inflicted on themselves for sexual gratification. Male fetishes are more varied but a lot of women seem to gravitate towards some level of pain for their kinks. I wish it weren’t the case. The idea of inflicting pain on someone beyond light spanking or something is horrifying to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:27 PM
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Anecdote but this is 100% true for me. I didn’t have sex because I didn’t go out due to covid worries in 2020 and 2021. 2022 I felt good going out and as such i had sex. 2023 I’m continuing to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 10:46 PM
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Mostly agree with you but I do think we need some protection against overly predatory behaviour. After all at a certain point casinos throw degenerate gamblers out. Bars cut off serving alcohol to certain drunks etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:32 PM
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More women have children than men so one could say it’s women who want to carry on their bloodline. In any case, having kids is a good thing for society as we need younger generations to work as we age. I kindof hate reddits obsession with hating peoples having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:14 PM
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I actually do believe psychology is largely pseudoscience. PUA makes very strong claims that it can work for any man, with any woman and that women think the same etc. A man does not need PUA theory to get a date with women. He does not need Negs, the 3 second rule, DHV, push-pull, last minute resistance, AMOG destroyers, to get a girlfriend or have sex. And thinking about things in these terms may stunt one’s progress at acting like something other than a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:21 AM
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So it’s pseudoscience. A bunch of people observe things and think their N=1 subjective observations are generalizeable (and often times this is too charitable an interpretation- most of them just make shit up that sounds good or will make them stand out)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:45 AM
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You didn’t read to my post. If cold approach does work for a guy it’s not because of some PUA tactic. It’s in spite of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:32 AM
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No it doesn’t work. It works in the same way if I told you to wear a magic red bracelet to your next job interview works. If you get the job you’ll think it was because of the bracelet. Maybe wearing the bracelet even gives you placebo confidence so you do better with the bracelet. But objectively wearing the bracelet has nothing to do with whether you got the job or not and may even be a slight hindrance to your success (an interviewer might think it’s weird you wear a red bracelet).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 12:05 AM
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If I were a wealthy playboy in the past before social media I could get hot girls by going to the hottest nightclub in the city and getting a VIP booth and either picking out a girl from thr crowd or just wait for them to come to me. A pretty sweet deal HOWEVER it meant my pool was limited to just which girls were in the club that night. I’d be assured of a very, very hot girl but not necessarily the hottest in the city. Now? The hottest women in the city slide in my DMs on social media or I sli…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:36 AM
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I agree with OP. When I think about women in a dating context I’m imagining hot women. However some facts still apply to even gross, ugly women. I.e they still do get a lot of Tinder matches and most can have casual sex reasonably easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:26 AM
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You are telling me a slightly above average looking girl you know said “Hi, how are you?” At the gym once and every man, woman in the building observed it and changed their entire behaviour towards you for all future interactions? I really don’t think it works like that. I do think used smartly there can be social benefits in having women friends that one might not get in having all male friends, but I don’t think her hello had as much of an impact as you think it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:10 PM
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Not really. It’s nowhere near that lucrative unless the woman in question looks like a Victoria Secret model, and even then not really. Attractive women certainly can make some money doing it but maybe 1% at most make enough money where the don’t have to work full time as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:01 PM
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I dont think most women think they can get any man otherwise they’d perhaps be more confident asking men out. I do think they are more aware a lot of men would be willing to have sex with them but they often prefer to just leave this unsaid rather than polling men around them. I think women are much more conscious of this now than in the 90s or 2000s or before due to dating apps. It was less obvious prior to that invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:41 PM
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Women teachers would often say girls are smarter than boys to the class.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:35 AM
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Online dating, speed dating events are two sure ways that women are asking to have men offer dates (they won’t always accept but they do expect offers). So even if you want 100% certainty than those are 2 venues where it’s guaranteed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 06:22 PM
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Ever had 2 chicks at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 03:16 PM
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I’ve found far more success in NOT using PUA methods but hey, different strokes. I do think men should be wary of any PUA tactics that are harassing or immoral though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:56 PM
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Dating advice is inherently scammy. Dating advice is either so general as to be useless and common sense (although yes, some people do need common sense explained to them) OR it’s so hyper specific that maybe it works for one person but doesn’t translate to another. I mean it’s silly to believe a 6’3” broad shouldered muscular guy needs the same dating advice as a 5’6” immigrant with a non-sexy accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 10:18 PM
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Majority are scammers. “Buy my program and you can get any woman in to bed”. They sell a dream they can’t deliver on. They also propose ideas that could be seen as harassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:25 PM
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Join app for 1 week. Have sex. Quit app. Go to bar once. Have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:14 PM
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The study measures “casual sex in the last MONTH” That is frankly an astonishing amount of casual sex even with the decline. It’s saying every month nearly 1 in 4 guys and slightly more than 1 in 5 women are having casual sex in the younger cohorts. I’d have expected these numbers for in the past year but not in the past month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:26 PM
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No, one must look at opportunity cost. If one is spending every single weekend cold approaching to get 2 dates a year, that’s a lot of time investment to do as well as a average guy on Tinder who can likely manage 2 dates a year at a fraction of the time investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:48 AM
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By “good personality” I increasingly mean a woman who doesn’t cause drama and embarrassment and might actually be someone I can introduce to family. It’s so hard to find a woman who wouldn’t be an embarrassment introducing to family by talking to them about essential oils or how vaccines don’t work or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:32 AM
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Geezus
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:52 AM
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Any woman in her 20s grew up with numerous sexual role models for women. Sex and the city. Every woman openly talking about vibrators and sex toys. Tumblr. Porn made for women. Erotic novels and fan fiction. Reddit. No young woman today can claim ignorance on their sexuality and how to experience sexual pleasure. Your post is maybe OK for a woman in her 40s but not for any young woman today that grew up with the internet before puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:33 AM
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Anyone who talks about sex as “so what?” Just isn’t a serious person to me. While I do have standards for who I’ll have sex with as a man, even one’s that might be a little high, I’ll never dismiss the ability to have a lot of choice in sexual partners as a not a big deal type thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:10 AM
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You’ll need to tell us what NC is?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 03:05 AM
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Not necessarily dating. I’m sexually attracted to them enough for sex but they might have an alternative look that is more extreme or believe a few stupid things. It is actually very hard to find attractive sexual partners so I likely will continue to enjoy sex sometimes with people whose views are dumb in some cases as I’m not going to be in a multi-year dry spell only open to having sex with a woman I’d want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:16 PM
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The real reason for fuckzoning if that is a thing is that for sex I don’t necessarily have high standards for personality but for meeting my family I need to trust the girl won’t be an embarassment. Very many women these days are not fit to actually trust to not embarrass one in front of family. Could be anything from a very alt appearance to not being very bright (I.e an anti-vax person or anything anti-science like that).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:23 PM
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Men are much more responsible for the destruction of the environment. You don’t need those big stupid trucks men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 05:57 PM
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I only see men doing this. Women will tell us it’s our profiles and attitudes is why we don’t have success. Would love if every single woman who said this selected an average guys pic and made her own profile and conveyed her own personality and saw how she did. Results will be predictable. They’d think it’s easier winning the lottery than finding a date as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:17 PM
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Does your MFM profile state you also want to have sex/interact with the guy? I wonder if you made it clear you were not doing anything with the guy if you’d get more takers? Also you are Bi male with a (woman) sugar baby? Why not save the money and just get unlimited dick? I feel like most people would do sugar because they can’t easily get sex with someone they find hot but as someone who is open to men I’d think you can get tons of guys you find hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:15 PM
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Again I urge you to consider how your numbers make no sense. There’s almost double the amount of single young men. 63% single men vs. 34% single women. You’d need to have 1 in every 5 or 6 women being in a relationship with another woman for your numbers to make sense. When you go to a Starbucks do you see 20% of women their on a date with other women? If there are tens of millions of lesbians how come almost no city can even make a lesbian bar profitable? You are just very wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:07 AM
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Literally women on this sub have talked about celebrities hitting them up. I think it’s quite common and easy now which further tilts the ability to garner any kindof interest from women more difficult for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:52 PM
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So you think there are vastly more women in relationships with other women than men with men? The gay male population is thought to be larger but still only 3% max. How people define relationship could be it but I think more study needs to be done here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:50 PM
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The number of single men in their 30s would start to be in line with women but does not. Seriously read the age breakdown of singlehood it just makes zero sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:32 PM
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I don’t really understand this post. Asian and South Asian men are very competitive with their white counterparts on average economically, often earning a bit higher on average and leave black and Latino men in the dust when it comes to average earnings. This would be even more pronounced if the US did not have negative affirmative action against Asians going to Universities. As soon as that is overturned Asian and South Asian men will really outcompete even white males economically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 05:43 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:51 PM
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Yes. Isn’t every preference ultimately a form of fetish though?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:49 PM
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Lol as if the male demographics of porn hub have so much more enlightened erotic scenarios. All this proves is many men AND women have incest fantasies. Doesn’t even mean they have any interest in doing this in real life. But clearly aroused in fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:40 PM
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11 million acres if true even (I doubt) is literally nothing compare to the size of the US. Especially since one can mount solar on rooftops as well. So happy your former bosses embrace modern clean technology and are making a difference to protect the environment despite what their backwards thinking former employee thinks!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:38 PM
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Username checks out!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:35 PM
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They’d be fine with it if those women were choosing them basically. But yes it is very against the interests of anyone who enjoys sex to shame people for having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:34 PM
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No. There objectively are women who get with feminine men. But it’s a niche. Like men who chase fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 02:33 PM
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I care about people. Not just people with a penis or people with a vagina. If a drug taken by giant swaths of humanity is having a side effect than I think in the 21st century when we are making so many breakthroughs that resources should be spent on mitigating side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:26 PM
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Again disagree. We can do a lot as society and we can certainly offer women an alternative that does not suppress your libido. It’s fine that you hate sex, but lots of women would enjoy a choice to continue to have a libido as well as birth control and it’s ridiculous you want to deny them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:35 PM
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The point is we should have a societal conversation on whether chemically suppressing libido is Ok and why there aren’t alternatives that have the same effect but don’t impact libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:14 PM
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It’s a side effect. Women don’t seek out birth control looking to lower their libido. It’s a side effect that happens and no one cares about it. Women are basically put on it at 17 often and don’t look back. Entire generations of women who never really got a say in being chemically altered to have a low libido and know no different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:03 PM
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But it still shows women in their 30s are less single than men in their 30s. The numbers really don’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 06:01 PM
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Average age gap is not 10 years in my experience (more like 3) and for the stats to make sense it has to be more than 10 years. I don’t question that age gap explains some of it but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:35 PM
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Surely we’d see way more 45 year old men with 20 year old women if this were the case. It really does not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 03:29 PM
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Yep we have basically drugged an entire gender to no longer desire sex and not only does anyone not care or question this, I often hear women on this sub LOVE the fact their libido is chemically suppressed. It’s so weird, women basically live in the Brave New Worlds novel and no one talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:24 PM
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I have more options now than I did before in my life and my standards for women are consequently much higher as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:25 PM
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Isn’t the flip side of meeting through friend groups that it makes it much harder to disentangle when the relationship is over? You are still in the same social circles? I guess most women don’t really care about that from the responses here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:16 PM
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To date technology seems to have more of a socially isolating effect in men than women. Men sit alone and play video games, watch porn more than women do. But anything is possible. We really don’t know what the future holds with AI. So far Replika or whatever has way more men with AI girlfriends. Women aren’t yet taking to AI boyfriends in anywhere near the same numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:09 PM
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Then I might as well just be friends with a guy. Again I think a woman needs to bring more to the table than a guy can get from his fellow guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:36 AM
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What does she bring to the table? Sorry to say but a woman seeking male friends needs to bring a lot to the table to be just friends with him. There’s one exception I’d call out, and that’s if she’s a coworker. The reason this is an exception is people love to bitch and gossip about work regardless of what gender the coworker is as long as they aren’t a tattle tale (and since you are coworkers there’s already sortof an implicit idea to keep things platonic).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:12 AM
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Add in the fact that at the age of being a widow - their are more single women than men. Once you get past 50 or so the gender ratio skews so their are more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:36 PM
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Shamed? Not really. I’d phrase it more as male sexuality is seen as threatening and predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 04:19 AM
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I think the path towards economic equality is less controversial than the path towards sexual equality. We already have taxes as long as civilization existed. The idea of paying even more taxes and giving to poorer people isn’t that far out of left field. However solving something like sexual inequality - there isn’t really anyone mainstream who would put their name towards having more women sexually satisfy more or different men. In a way monogamy and the institution of marriage was kindof mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 02:18 AM
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I don’t intentionally do anything to make myself unattractive to women. I do sometimes let certain things slip because women don’t approach men anyway. For instance while I do like dressing nicely, if I’m just going out to pick something up at the store I’ll wear an un-ironed hoody and dad jeans. You won’t catch me ever wearing pyjamas or some of the other stupid shit I see other people wearing outside though. I’m always at least minimally put together even if not “stylish” for a short outting. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:47 PM
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If this were true women aren’t as visual as men than women would be MORE likely to want to have sex with their male friends over time and compatability and trust is established. I don’t think this happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:33 PM
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The only countries that even have high birth rates are African countries. Most humans will be African in 100 years. The rest of the world will shrink in population.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:11 AM
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To a point. I do well for myself. I can sortof use money to attract women. Do those women stick around long? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 10:01 PM
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I would be unlikely to do online things because I wouldn’t want my reputation to suffer. If women were clientele I would offer in person sexual services to women and would happily make money doing so. I’m not sure I could get it up for all clients but if there was a way I could fuck them with a strap on if they aren’t arousing or use my fingers/hands then sure. I’d be open to quite a variety of women if these conditions were good.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:21 PM
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I’ve had sex with 7 women over the last year. If six men are going sexless, my dick has made up for those men not fucking by having sex with 7 women. So yeah I do increasingly fully believe diffusion of sexual activity is extremely unequal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:42 PM
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OP if you are a woman who doesn’t look like an ogre you will likely encounter a man who is patient and try’s to woo you and goes to great efforts to do so and you’ll look back on this post thinking how stupid it was you didn’t believe in love. If you are a man, sorry dude no woman is coming to save you from this. You are just kindof fucked. Maybe just learn to be fine completely on your own as a man because again no woman is ever coming for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:47 AM
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This post includes all sorts of references to people and shows I have no clue about. But In short - anyone can do YouTube and there’s a huge market for this type of content so if F&F go away there’s 20 other duos eager to spew the same exact things on their own show.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 01:05 AM
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Society has reached peak simp
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:22 PM
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You would call an Uber for a random woman who rejected you? Like pay for a strangers Uber?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 02:56 AM
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Most poor women think they are temporarily embarrassed future millionaires. So the fact you make the median income or something as an average guy might not be enough since she sees being poor as just a temporary state. So a man who is just $20 grand or so above her yearly earnings probably isn’t that enticing a prospect alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 03:23 AM
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Lol so again - you are the one getting off on female students doing a non-sexual activity at your workplace. And the whole reason you gave for liking womens sports are “women are beautiful compared to men”. You can’t fathom people watch things for any other reason than eye candy to turn themselves on. What I’m trying to tell you is that most people don’t watch sports to see attractive people. You on the other hand said that’s the only reason you began creepily watching women’s sports at your wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:54 AM
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Lol you fap to young women doing a non-sexual sports activity at some university you work at and you think Im a neckbeard 🤣 Guess what? Most of us don’t watch a game for jerk off material so the idea of I need to jerk off to either Brittney Griner or Lebron James and there is no other possible person to sexually fantasize about, is the stupidest false dichotomy I’ve ever heard on Reddit. And that is saying a LOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:36 AM
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I think it will lower self esteem in women. Women can not hope to be as beautiful and sexy as an AI generated image. So this should lead to even more body image issues in women. I’m not sure it gets a whole lot worse since filters and photoshop already mean we get a pretty constant stream of AI and computer generated women served to us. This is just an extension of that. I personally am unlikely to consume AI porn because I don’t like the idea of hooking myself on women who can’t possibly exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:32 AM
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So you watch women’s sports because you are attracted to some of the women? Cool story. The rest of us watch porn or R rated HBO shows to see hot women. Or click a few buttons on our computer or phones to bring up a million photos of hot women if we want to see. “Hey there are women who are decent looking that do X activity” is just not that compelling a reason to watch most sports. Besides most women’s sports the women don’t dress in a sexual way anyway. Women’s soccer or basketball etc. the un…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 02:17 AM
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I Will absolutely go in to an LTR with a woman who slept with me early. Just won’t go in to an LTR with a not very hot woman or super annoying woman who slept with me early.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:22 PM
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I don’t even think this girl looks good as a woman but fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 04:17 PM
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Women spend all day every day on Reddit telling eachother not to date men an they don’t need men. The woman saying these things of course always has boyfriends herself though. For men though we never say such things. So yes I do think more men should be encouraged to be alone just because we tell so many women they are better off alone and the math dictates those numbers need to be balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:01 PM
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Men use “getting laid” as really a short form for some kindof intimacy even if it’s not a full fledged relationship. If they literally just meant dick in vagina then even more would be using prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 08:45 PM
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While this is true in terms of looks - when you are older you can certainly use money to attract more dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:10 PM
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Nothing is more insecure than complimenting yourself on a message board Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:17 PM
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More likely through Google search. Reddit search function is cancer. If I want to find something on Reddit from a past date I’ll back out of Reddit and search on google to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:15 PM
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No change to maybe a bit worse. I don’t believe in any of this stuff so I’m not part of those communities however I enjoy reading them the way one can’t take their eyes off a car crash so I’ve probably wasted too much time reading dumb theories I know are false about how women work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:13 PM
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Match Group company is behind the awful dating scene and this monopolistic dating company needs to be broken up by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:53 AM
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Absolutely they do. However it’s also not true that if these guys gave up the video games they’d get sex or a girlfriend. A lot of gamers retreated to video games because they don’t like social situations, or they were made to feel unwelcome due to their personality in many situations, or are just generally unattractive and repulsive to people. I don’t want to paint too fine a brush on gamers. Obviously many are socially successful as well. But I think in most cases video game obsession is a sym…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 10:29 PM
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Women already go to Paris during University and fuck like crazy. Spending a year in a Europe to study or work is women doing this and they’ve done it for decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:34 AM
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I don’t care if my competition is in decline. This is part of the problem. The dating market has become this horrible Darwinian thing for men where I hope other men fail so I have a chance to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:58 PM
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The biggest thing you can do is make sure to support policies that crack down on deadbeat dads. Where a deadbeat dad doesn’t contribute to his child your taxes do. Millions of beta men through their taxes are contributing to paying for Chads children. What’s worse some of these betas are defending Chads right not to pay child support. This is backwards. I think we should all support harsh and oppressive laws against men who don’t pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 10:56 PM
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Yes I would although I wouldn’t want to tell family what she does. If she’s cool with some white lies about what she does then it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:13 PM
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Are you helping pay for his education?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:27 PM
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Again if PUA works, it works. It’s pretty binary. You can’t say it works some of the time in specific instances for only specific people. Because I can also say being a nice guy works some of the time in certain instances for certain people. I have literally asked a woman to come to my hotel room and it worked given consent is important to me. Yes I want you to state a tactic a man can use to “Demonstrate Higher Value” that is sure to impress a woman. I am going sure you are going to spout some …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:06 PM
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I think once a man is married he can maybe exploit his sexuality possibly. The wife can’t get sex elsewhere unless she cheats which most won’t, so she may make more concessions to get sex. But this assumes the husband wants sex less than the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:00 PM
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Again I think the truth is you have no clue how much success comes from looks, from the placebo effect, from practice, from getting older and therefore having a larger range of options, and yes, from PUA. Instead you jump to “it’s all PUA”. I think it’s all basic advice but let’s take an example. You “DHV”. What is a tactic you use to DHV that would be universally able to be applied to any man and would improve his success? I am going to guess you’ll list either some very generic dating advice o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 03:40 AM
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OK so out of curiosity I glanced at your comment. It was long so I did skim parts of it. To be honest I do not believe anything you are writing but I’m going to take you at mostly face value for the sake of argument and discussion. What you said amounts to: You are good looking and you took steps to become better looking You don’t pester women for sex You put yourself out there a lot I am not exactly seeing PUA universal truths here. I’m seeing some very, very basic dating advice. Look good, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:13 AM
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So if PUA works independently of looks and other attributes and one can just say the right words - again then why doesn’t it work for millions of men who have tried it? I am guessing if you are honest with yourself you haven’t seen spectacular success using it so why do you assume it works vs. Other things going on for men who are successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:47 PM
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So what you are saying then is PUA doesn’t actually work and the effect of PUA if any is a placebo. It makes someone talk to girls and they get better through practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 10:03 PM
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PUA doesn’t “work”. I suspect the guy who did this was attractive or at the very least was putting himself out there. But no there is no cheat code that works on all women or even most women other than being attractive and having social skills and approaching her at a time and place where she was open to meeting a man and her friends or group she came with won’t get in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:01 PM
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Wait what? There are strip clubs where a lapdance is $200 a song???
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 07:40 AM
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Oh I see. Yeah that’s a disturbing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:37 PM
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Morbid curiosity on what’s a weird but growing niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:30 PM
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Well you can’t just drop the hint and leave us guessing. What exactly is this growing weird niche you think you fill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:02 PM
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I think OF gets a 20% cut of profits but still probably way more money for the content creator than in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:00 PM
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Yep. As I mentioned in another post on here frankly men used to spend way more on strip clubs and way more men used them than OF. I mean a lapdance is $20 in a strip club. $20 will get you like a 2 month subscription on OF. If anything a man using OF is spending less than guys in the past who had strip club habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:58 PM
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It’s pulled out of OPs ass lol. I’d actually suspect men spend less on sex workers now than in the past. Strip clubs used to be ubiquitous and all are almost all closing now. There were way, way more men in the past who went to strip clubs than who currently use OnlyFans. And strip clubs were way more expensive too. $20 for a 3 minute lapdance while $20 will get you a 2 month subscription to an OF worker often. The difference is OnlyFans has more winner take all dynamics so a few women profit of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:54 PM
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“Well…if women can’t police a man’s sexuality as his wife, then we might as well profit from his sexuality as a whore.” 🔥🔥🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 09:51 PM
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So supporting legalization of prostitution would be one obvious way that women could help men here. And no don’t think that solves the issue entirely but I do think sexlessness is a societal problem people are uncomfortable to confront and if this makes the problem 5% less severe it’s worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:19 PM
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Most women’s male family members are going to be used and abused by women in their lives. The dating market is just so out of whack that women can basically be an abusive monster to a lot of men and they will take it because men literally have almost no options these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:56 AM
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Pretty sobering stats. Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:51 AM
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It is trivial to destroy social media as well in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:51 PM
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Your scenario will never happen Here’s where the only hope lies: Destroy all dating apps with bots and AI. Make dating apps unusable. Make the ratios 1 human for every 1 million AI beings on dating apps so that dating apps become a completely unusable method of dating. Then humanity goes back to meeting at the nightclub where we are at least 40 years off from a robot being able to pretend to be a human in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 06:19 PM
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That makes no sense because if it was career passion they’d have higher income. Your explanation does not explain why women would have more wealth but lower income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:04 PM
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Have not ever done that. Too nice is a bonus if she’s hot. If the woman is not hot I can see a man saying “she’s too nice” as a reason to let her down without saying “you are ugly”. Much the same way women might say “you are too nice” when they mean “you are ugly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 12:40 PM
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Wasn’t saying it was dude. I am not disagreeing with you. I was actually trying to bolster your post. We kindof all know that at high end men outearn women because just looking around you see way more male executives. But I was pointing out a reason men also outearn in the low end.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:27 AM
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Literally never not once have I ever heard anyone nevermind a sizeable number of people say someone is exploiting a woman’s maternal instincts by dating older lol - that’s legit absurd because it would mean that person thinks women mix their maternal instincts with sexual desire. The worst you might hear about a man dating a VERY old woman is that he’s waiting for her to die to collect inheritance but the exact same thing is said about women who are with a very old man. Likewise literally nobody…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:23 AM
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But why do you think it is that single childless women would have greater wealth than single childless men? It would seem weird if single men earn higher income but single women have more wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:33 PM
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We fail to appreciate that a good number of very unskilled men can make money by being able to lift 30 lbs or more which women generally can’t do. So a woman who is unskilled can only do unskilled labour that doesn’t involve heavy lifting while a man can do the heavier lifting labour and so commands a premium at the bottom rung.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:31 PM
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You’d need to swipe right for him to message you. You wouldn’t in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:21 AM
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You literally only know him because he’s a celebrity. In the show he’d be unknown to these women so exactly as you said, you’d not swipe on him to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:48 AM
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Now that I have a lot of women I can potentially hook up with I find my standards for a woman to meet for me to be willing to have sex with her are not as low as I thought. However they are mostly physical standards that are higher than I thought. I’m still pretty forgiving on shitty personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:47 AM
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The 98% heterosexual woman audience who listen to this song as fans of Miley Cyrus will interpret the same way I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:08 AM
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Yes was talking about that song. And it is pretty obvious that is what the song is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:58 AM
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Ever been to a nightclub? 3 men for every 1 woman there. Bars are worse. And basically no other venue is socially acceptable to approach strangers. Oh I know! I’ll join a hobby club. Like seriously I’m going to join a knitting circle in the hopes some woman who is single and not a cave troll is also there? Not very practical although I’ll admit if a given man has like a decade of singlehood maybe this is a decent option. But he’s also very likely to face rejection here in which case back to squa…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:52 AM
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It doesn’t help that the media actually hides how pathetic the average guys dating life is making him feel even worse about himself. If you watched Master of None with Aziz Ansari - there was an episode where he goes on like 10 different Tinder dates. I’m sorry but someone looking like him and being short isn’t getting 10 Tinder dates lined up in a week back to back. But Hollywood dare not show the reality of him getting 2 matches a year - both of which ghost him after a few texts. That would be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:47 AM
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I mean sure but it perpetuates this idea that intimate relationships aren’t worth the effort which I find is seeping in to society. And one must also acknowledge that a man with songs saying “men don’t need women and shouldn’t bother with relationships” might be classed as spewing hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:39 AM
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You don’t need a woman is not a message a male artist can get away with making a song about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:53 PM
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Miley Cyrus’s latest songs message - Women, you don’t need a man Lizzo’s songs - Women, you don’t need a man Women artists really seem to enjoy propaganda glorifying not having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:25 PM
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Perhaps don’t ascribe personal motive of “this guy just wants every woman to settle for him”. You dish it out, you take it in return. “Equality”. Your post would have been a great contribution if you could’ve resisted denigrating me. You don’t know me and it’s way too common for people on here to make personal attacks rather than substantive disagreements.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:21 PM
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Big difference between “settling” and holding out for a person who doesn’t exist in reality. And I don’t know why you made a weird personal attack in the outset of your post. Perhaps the man you referred to left you due to a grade school mentality? That was honestly just weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:03 PM
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He’s becoming more common. More men are doing domestic work than ever before in history. More men are stay at home dads than any point in history. You seem to think it’s an unalterable state but it may be in 30 years a lot of proud single childless women who made the decision to be in their 20s look around at their now 50 and 60 year old friends and see women with husbands who do lots around the house and are devoted fathers and who have children who love them and will be part of their lives unt…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:38 AM
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I think surveys still indicate more women than men want kids. And it is certainly true more women than men have kids. Women also tend to rate Family as higher in importance in comparison to career than men. Now why are their fewer women having kids than in the past? Urbanization has been a factor. We know as countries urbanize there’s some kindof mechanism that makes residents of urban areas not want kids. Men and women. But my point isn’t that more women are choosing not to have kids. My point …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:19 AM
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I think you make a lot of definitive statements with very little humility that you can be wrong. It would be News to most of humanity that women desire kids and family less than men. I’d say a poll of society you’d find the vast majority of society disagrees with you. Romance novels, rom-coms, wedding industries and movies and gossip articles about weddings - all tailored to women. I come from a Position that I suspect in 30 years we will have lots of women lamenting they did not start a family …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 02:42 AM
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This post is precisely what I mean. It will take a generation of women having no one at all in their old age before some realize that the women that have kids and grandkids are more fulfilled. I think a lot of women are just concentrating on the fact life as a single 20 year old woman is fun and of course that’s what life will be like forever. It isn’t. No one is giving them a reality check though because that is seen as sexist. I acknowledge it’s possible I’m wrong and the 50% or so of women an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:50 AM
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The issue is there is a lag in women finding out the consequences of their actions. Try and tell women that becoming an old childless woman will be very depressing and they won’t believe you and they won’t exactly know this for another 40 years. On a thread about Lady Gaga breaking up with her boyfriend I pointed out that she’s in her 30s and doesn’t have a lot of time to find a man if she wants to have kids. Women predictably downvoted and argued with me and I responded to one of them and patie…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:59 AM
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Yes some men would be better off celibate than with their current partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:38 PM
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I would say there are more celibate life paths than ever before. The issue is more one of marketing. Men might feel like a loser openly declaring a life of celibacy but that needs to change. Would be good to have male monasteries be a thing again in the west. I’m hopeful more men will choose that path as there are millions of men who are unlikely to ever get a relationship and society keeps giving them false hope as opposed to an alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:01 PM
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Sure women did work to get equal rights no one is saying differently. But given how dominant men were it required a lot of men to support these rights. And men continue to enforce a lot of rights for women (male managers hire women, men typically do step in if an egregious assault against a woman is taking place, more housework is being done by men than any other point in history) You didn’t address the second point I made - which is that a therapist is a paid friend which has value. But it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:46 PM
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I think the idea men don’t call other men out is laughable given the gigantic leap in women’s rights that occurred the past few decades that would never have occurred if men didn’t shame other men with regressive views. I do think men struggle to call out men for bad behaviour sometimes on the individual friend level. I am a man that does think therapy isn’t a cure all. I think therapy is a woman’s equivalent of seeing a prostitute but hey, prostitutes can provide joy so therapists can too. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:38 PM
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Has there ever been a documented case of a woman taking a bullet for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:35 PM
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Yes I have vastly more dating success in my 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:29 PM
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That is a lot of work but that’s not what she said. Her words were remembering birthdays and doctors appointments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:28 PM
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I let Siri or google calendar do it. I wish the bar was so low for me remembering birthdays was a bragging point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 04:10 PM
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They cleaned up a lot after that although the info comes from an exec at the company so obviously he’d be incentivized not to say it’s 1 woman for every 99 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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Listened to an interesting interview on the strictly anonymous podcast with an Executive at Ashley Madison website which is a site geared towards people looking to have an affair. Some interesting info out of the interview: Gender ratio on the website is 1 man for every 0.6 women (some regional differences - South America apparently has 2 women for every man though) Interestingly he says women on the site are typically looking for sex, whereas men are often more looking for emotional fulfillment…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:35 PM
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I think men will exercise power politically in terms of parties they support. But no I a, not seeing a serious, credible mens movement. I can possibly see some kindof movement to remove certain policies that give preference to women like women’s only scholarships one day taking off given the vast discrepancy in educational attainment between the genders. But I think the situation needs to be egregious before society labels men as victims of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:26 PM
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I think a lot of men sending messages to a trans woman on a dating site will find their response rate much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:57 AM
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Not all straight men are repulsed and those who can handle it probably can get easy sex. Hetero men are the largest consumers of trans porn. It’s not for me but more power to guys who can fuck a trans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:52 AM
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Probably wrong. Trans women have far fewer dating options than any demographic aside from perhaps trans men. As such dating and having sex with this demographic is going to be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:39 AM
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If you are a man and you don’t mind having sex with trans women then you absolutely will have an easier time finding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:36 AM
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I’d agree no one can dictate how someone feels. However repeatedly yelling “do not approach me sir” after the man is no longer approaching her can be criticized as we can criticize peoples actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:34 AM
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I watched her follow up video and she made a point of saying the guy looked homeless and like a beggar and if he looked more normal she may not have had this reaction. I don’t know whether that makes this better or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:32 AM
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When I go to a nightclub I see 2 men for every 1 woman so even if every woman pairs up a full 1/3rd of men will not have a woman. And not every woman is attractive of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:59 PM
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Wow this sounds very accurate for my experience as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:57 PM
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Triggered much? Saying sex is on Maslows hierarchy of needs doesn’t mean one will die without it so put down your straw man. Physical affection and sex is such an important part of the human experience your fellow women risk disease, unwanted pregnancy, violence, financial ruin to get it. You don’t argue in good faith so I know I am wasting my time talking to you. So I will say that no human will ever die from lack of sex or lack of intimate touch - however it is something most people desire ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:20 PM
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Ah is see - you don’t understand what I’m saying at all. “Rungs up” refers to Maslows hierarchy of needs where the bottom is actually where a humans base needs are (i.e Oxygen, water, food etc) and being rungs up would be things people need to survive less but are important. Does this clarify? I’m going to assume you didn’t understand what I’m saying in good faith and not strawmanning me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:49 PM
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I actually think a lot of married men in shitty marriages will turn to AI companions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:43 PM
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Lol how is a subjective thing of saying something is “a few rungs above food in human needs” demonstrably false? You have no idea what you are talking about. You can’t say something inherently subjective is wrong because you are a sex negative person or whatever your motivation is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:40 PM
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Bachelor. Sex and intimacy is a human need just a few rungs up above food. Now if for some reason there was a medical issue and my wife couldn’t do PIV sex but we could do other sex acts then I’d learn to live with it as long as she put in the effort to ensure we had a sex life. But that’s not really the scenario you painted so lifelong childless bachelor for me. Edit: Rungs up in this case means sex is less important than a base need like food but as one goes up Maslows hierarchy of needs - sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:00 PM
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So the answer is you can not answer my question without showing you stated something dumb. Men can not lie to women to get them to raise children that aren’t their biological own without their knowledge. Women can do this to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:48 PM
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Because I don’t object? 1 to 5 years is a lot of time. Again you don’t have a cohesive theory of privacy here. You are making it up as you go along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:47 PM
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Again concession accepted. Can you tell me how a woman would ever raise a kid thinking it is biologically hers when it isn’t. Absent switching babies at birth is this possible? Answer directly. Now is it possible men raise kids thinking it’s biological his? Yes? OK so again you concede that only 1 gender can lie to another to get their partner to raise kids that aren’t there’s while thinking it’s biologically there’s. Concession accepted again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:19 AM
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Definitely care about Deadbeat dads. But expecting non-sequitors from you. You don’t care that your doctor has your blood tests. You do care your doctor has DNA. I don’t think you actually have a uniform theory of privacy you just kindof make it up as you go along.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:16 AM
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Concession accepted. You have just tacitly admitted it is impossible for a man to lie to a woman about whether kids he had with another woman are his. As such the woman will NEVER raise kids that aren’t hers due to men lying. They will only ever make a fully conscious choice to raise kids that aren’t hers. You don’t seem to understand the concept of a fully informed decision. Let me help. Can you answer this: Case A - A woman knows a kid is not hers and raises the kid fully aware of this fact Ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:12 AM
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Sure it would make sense to erase the data still if people wanted. 1 year. 5 years. People can’t be totally untraceable that long generally and if after a year or 5 the father hasn’t been found we can assume he never will be. OK. Your emails are being read. Your phone records every location you’ve ever visited. Your phones microphone can be listened in to by the NSA. Your medical records are on an electronic database. Every search query you ever made is too. Your blood and urine test results fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:07 AM
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Why didn’t you answer my points I asked you to answer? You didn’t read and I answered your question already. Are you going to concede you were wrong to post that a man can fool a woman in to thinking children he had with another woman are her own biological children? Are you going to admit you were wrong to say that and that it was a very unintelligent thing to say on your part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:56 AM
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Yes a database would be private. Heck the law could even be written so as to erase the data after 1 year. And yes I do think eventually private companies will have our dna data just as private companies today read our email, know where we are at all times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:50 AM
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Are you failing to comprehend? In the scenario where a wife gives birth and the kid isn’t his but the husband thinks it is - he doesn’t have all the facts to decide to stay with his wife. Do you agree? Please answer this directly. In the scenario where a woman finds out her husband has a kid with his affair partner, in no universe can this man trick his wife in to thinkig the child is hers. Therefore from the second she learns of this she is fully informed and can decide to leave. Do you agree ?…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:44 AM
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Government doesn’t share information it obtains with court orders with private companies so that doesn’t make sense. However I fully believe that in a few years 90% of people will hand over this information voluntarily. We will likely have really advanced tech to screen for cancers and all sorts of disease and insurers are definitely going to require blood screenings as a condition of insuring people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:35 AM
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I wouldn’t get too comfortable. If we get a Republican President and Congress for 8 years from 2024 onwards that’s a LOT of time to unwind Abortion rights everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:27 AM
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A woman raising an affair child of her husbands has never once been under any illusion the child is hers. So the second the topic came up she was a fully informed adult with all the facts and could choose not to do it. Likewise we have many men who choose to be step fathers. That’s all fine it’s all choices adults can make. The only person in any of the scenarios any of us have outlined who isn’t make a choice with all the facts is a man whose wife birthed another man’s baby. Unless of course he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:25 AM
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Half the country is already working on denying you that option lol and making huge strides.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:23 AM
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Like what ? The government can already track your whereabouts through your phone with a court order. They can also get your medical records. What would worry you about them having your DNA?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:21 AM
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That a test is maybe prudent since a man’s lie never results in a woman raising a kid that isn’t hers for the rest of her life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 05:15 AM
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Being too hung up on match rates may make you eager to swipe right on ugly women you don’t even want so that your match rate gets higher. I have no idea about my match rate but if I measure my success based on how many women I talk to on a dating site or app that I am genuinely excited to meet for a date, it’s maybe 1 woman every 5 months or so if I’m an active app user the whole time. I tend to take breaks from dating apps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 04:16 AM
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Match Group corporate monopoly (owner of Tinder, Hinge - almost every dating app) is to blame in part. Their business model depends on preying on lonely and desperate men and keeping them desperate, selling them a fantasy. I think 40% of modern mens problems are this 1 company who keeps them fixated on chasing women who they can never hope to get or in some cases aren’t even real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:54 PM
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The potential for social embarrassment is what stops me from pursuing something with a woman I am attracted to if I’m available.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:08 PM
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The issue with your first paragraph is that if the man waits too long the he gets “ugh why do men pretend to be my friend and then want to sleep with me” from women (I.e friendzone). Second paragraph I agree. A lot of men need to just give up on dating and thinking they can get a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 06:04 PM
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A risk I see is there will be some amount of false readouts. Namely in some cases test will say husband isn’t the father when it actually is. This can be sorted by just doin another test if mother is insistent she didn’t cheat though. But may in limited cases cause some drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:07 PM
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And then women say “why can’t I enjoy hobbies without creepy men thinking they can date me”. I don’t even blame women. Once they find a partner it’s annoying having to fend off advances I’m sure but “just join classes and hobby groups bro!” is not the neat solution you think it is. There’s just way too many men looking and way too few women looking for dates. The honest truth for a lot of men is they’d be best served dropping out of the dating market entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:46 PM
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Be real - it’s not as if men who ask out the 39 year old 171 lb woman in the coffee shop are likely to get a date. Women are just not very receptive to meeting men to date outside of very narrow circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:15 PM
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I’ll give her a chance if she doesn’t change her ways if she is a good fit for me and if she also has. Lot of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:18 PM
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I know nothing about you other than your racism. Please don’t comment on my dick. That’s weird. You are making the claim that one can see a zoomed in picture of the skin pigmentation of someone’s forearm and immediately be able to assume what their personality and behaviour is. There is a word for people who think in such ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:28 PM
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Reality to you is that looking at a skin tone in isolation one can extract all information about a persons behaviour. Astonishing that racists like you still exist. Really hope you are not ever in any position of authority with your mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:21 PM
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Claims people are gaslighter manipulating people in to sex for checks notes saying making assumptions about a persons behaviour based on their skin tone is racist. If you want gaslighting please look in the mirror at your racist self.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:14 PM
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Interact with lots of non-white people given I’m non-white myself in a diverse city. If someone assumed things about my behaviour based on my skin colour they are racist. Very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 02:09 PM
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Expecting that you can tell everything you need to know about someone’s behaviour, likes and dislikes based on skin tone alone is very racist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:59 PM
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Lol the idea that someone of a different race is basically an alien being is a racist take I didn’t expect to hear so early in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:52 PM
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This isn’t what OP is talking about. Women lately have been encouraged to make laundry lists of things they want from a partner. OP is saying instead of saying “I’ll never settle” etc. women should “compromise” on some of those requirements. Very specifically - women should compromise on not having a 6 foot tall white Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:26 PM
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Not once in my life have I met a woman calling herself a boss babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:19 PM
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I’m not a supporter of his but he is a Grade A troll and doesn’t actually believe what he says even. Other people do but he plays a character to perfection. He is funny in a shock humour kindof way. He sortof is like a real life Ali G - some differences but the overall idea is similar. His interview on Your Moms House podcast was hilarious. One of the Best interview I’ve ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 01:12 PM
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In my experience yes they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:15 AM
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It’s not all stay at home moms though. I believe there’s lots of stay at home moms who are intelligent and who allow their husbands to have emotions. I’ve met total idiot career women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:10 AM
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You’re welcome bro thanks for the recognition.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:08 AM
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Kristen Stewart cheated on Robert Pattinson with some Director. Robert Pattinson was a sex symbol and celebrity even back then. Of course she has since come out as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:08 AM
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Why is women B smart and women A a dumb woman who is involved in MLM? Your bias is showing. A woman being stay at home doesn’t make her an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:04 AM
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Your comment seems to be at odds with the sentiment women express about literally every other domain where they say women are not a hive mind, there is no difference between men and women, women can do anything men can do etc. If our cognition is so different about sex due to gender then surely one thinking cognition is different in other domains has some evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 12:00 AM
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I think women who complain about being pumped and dumped should in fact just get over being pumped and dumped. So what? You had someone you were attracted to and hot for in the moment put his dick inside you and you likely gained some pleasure from it. But retroactively it’s “bad” because you don’t hear from him again? Who cares? Women should stop caring whether the person dumping them had sex with them or not. They should get over themselves that sex makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 09:29 PM
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I can believe it. Although proportionately fewer women are Republican but certainly still many millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:47 PM
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I mean, angry white men were able to destroy abortion rights in some regions of the US and i believe in South Korea, angry Korean men abolished a ministry devoted to gender equality through voting. Some men are organizing a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:38 PM
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Men don’t have an expiry date for having kids. We can have kids when we are 70. Yes I know that kid may be more likely to have issues but it’s possible and more likely than not the kid is fine. Women have a shockingly tiny window to have kids which I really don’t think young women appreciate. As such - one group needs to act with more urgency than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 08:29 PM
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You said obesity isn’t something people are allowed to complain about when it comes to other people. I am saying yes it is. Being anti-natalist is stupid if you understand demographics. I want more children born. We are already converging on a society where it used to be 5 workers supporting 1 retiree and now it’s 2 workers supporting 1 retiree soon. Taxing exercise is stupid. 99.999% of people who exercise become healthier. We want to encourage pro-social healthy behaviour. Jack up taxes on cig…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 03:31 AM
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I want their to be a larger pool of hot women, or at least utterly disgusting women. And moreover your assertion was that being fat is no one’s business. I advised it becomes my business at a population level because obesity is horrifically costly in medical care. Covid taught us this as obese people used hospitals a lot more. Obesity is a lifestyle choice. Smoking is too but we already tax smokers so that’s good. Motorcycles I’d favour a high tax on motorcycle. Driving fast - we already ticket …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:52 AM
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The solution would seem to be not living with the man. If you don’t live with someone you aren’t cleaning and cooking for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:10 AM
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He’s married to you and doesn’t need to impress you is the reason. Marriage has always been moreso something women want so from his perspective his contribution was marrying you and now he really doesn’t need to put in effort at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:09 AM
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It’s pretty funny a woman was listing all the emotional labour they perform and they wrote “remember birthdays and doctors appointments”. Women seriously think that’s a lot of work. Siri can replace her “emotional labour”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:04 AM
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Tinder vault as described in the link seems very confusing and stupid. A “24/7 dating advice concierge?” No thanks. The only way Tinder Vault makes sense is if it somehow flips Tinder’s gender ratio so that if you pay for vault you get access to a pool of women who aren’t bring inundated by other men. Like it segments off hot girls and shows them either total losers or Vault members so they see you as their only dating pool. But women would quickly catch on that Tinder isn’t serving them Chads a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 02:01 AM
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Obesity also causes health problems which me the tax payer needs to pay for. So yes obese people incur a direct cost on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 12:19 AM
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Yeah you are probably right about his future. But people can sometimes surprise you. The desire to be liked by the opposite sex once he gets far along in puberty or sees other guys his age dating in college may end up getting him to change his life. But yeah more likely than not you are correct about what the future holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:07 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:05 AM
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Your husband seems like a jerk if he can’t leave you 20 minutes alone in a bathroom or if you can’t tell him you need to masturbate. Sick or not that is a jerk move.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 02:04 AM
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Obesity is a solvable problem. It’s nice to have a pool of slim girls to choose from and not have 70% of one’s dating pool be fat. I’ve seen fat girls who probably would look incredible thin. It’s a waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:57 AM
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I think a lot of men will be given 30% of men are sexless in their early 20s now. What makes you think your brother specifically will be?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:55 AM
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I really don’t think her survey participants are reflective of the population however - men cheating far more than women is believable. Men cheating is literally the only explanation I can think of for why every dating app is 80% men (or even as high as 9 men for every 1 woman in some cases).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:39 AM
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Then yes in my case. I do enjoy every girlfriend I’ve had as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:28 AM
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There are men in marriages today who prefer porn to sex with their partner so photorealistic VR porn will definitely remove some men from the dating market. I think enough to have a noticeable effect on it. Artificial wombs will really just spare women from childbirth but I suspect most women will still want to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:21 AM
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Have liked my partner but would be very unlikely to be with them if sex and intimacy in general was a no-go. So in that sense their non-sexual company isn’t “enough”. However their non-sexual company and me enjoying it is actually more important it’s just it can’t be the only thing. I could make an exception if they had some medical issue like chemotherapy or something which killed their sex drive of course. But if she just says “I don’t want you to touch me” then no matter how good her non-sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:19 AM
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Your own links paint a conflicting picture. It looks like in most cases Indian men marry out of their demographic about on par with black men in the Twitter links. Other cases it shows 1/3 rd of Indian men marrying another race which seems way too high. I will say Indian men are the richest race of people in the US so it seems reasonable that women can look past some stereotypes that don’t apply to the majority of their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 12:27 PM
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They aren’t equivalent no. Humanity has this weird obesession with “fairness” so the fact some men have these strong feelings for friends who are sexually repulsed by them while many women (though not all) can easily have sex with their own friends seems unfair. As such people invented sex zoning as this horrible thing women correspondingly have. If you have a brain though it’s obvious that one can have sex and be friends with someone just fine. The women equivalent of friend zoning is a woman b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:33 PM
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So what you are saying is the advice of “just communicate with her!” In the scenario you painted is accurate. If they both communicate and she says not doing dishes makes her not want sex and if he wants sex he will do dishes, that gives very clear terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:41 PM
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I’m a corporate guy who would probably date her but she doesn’t swipe on me I’m sure. I am positive the issue is with who she accepts advances for and not who wants her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:31 PM
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I remember a university lecture where a jacked dude in a tight t-shirt walked down the aisle and every single woman looked and make a comment to the woman beside them. Some said they don’t like huge muscles others said they liked it. But literally every woman saw him and evaluated him as a sex object which you hardly see. Almost every man is just an NPC to women so having every woman see him as a sex object to evaluate is something in and of itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:29 PM
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Mostly agree but some men get mad if a woman brings out a vibrator or something during sex. The man is clearly wrong if that’s the case. In fact I think men should always ask if anything would make the sex feel better and even suggest if toys would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 04:22 PM
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We need women like you to articulate this to society because men will be shouted down for suggesting women’s hormonal cycle impacts them in any way. And it is frankly horrific that societies solution for women has been to chemically suppress their hormonal cycle and libido and women collectively just shrug and take that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:32 PM
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They both have such an insane impact on womens libido it is astounding we aren’t having a societal conversation about how we are chemically suppressing womens sexuality. Even worse a lot of women seem to LIKE that their libido is being suppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:30 PM
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This post isn’t real but if it was she could go on Tinder with her jail sentence and release date in her bio and will get more matches by noon tomorrow than every man on this thread added together will see in a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:47 AM
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Again you make no sense. If I can occasionally eat 1 sprout of broccoli (I.e masturbate) I’ll never be so hungry I eat a worm but doesn’t mean I don’t desperately want food
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:11 AM
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Nuns aren’t isolated and yes I guess it does mean that certain women are very good at handling celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:59 PM
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I basically never hear women say “why don’t guys chase anymore”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:54 PM
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I find obese women unattractive and I’d be embarassed to introduce them to family members or friends as my girlfriend. A lot of men find obese women just embarassing to be in public with. You feel like a failure. Her fat body is like a constant visual reminder that you have utterly failed at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:50 PM
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If redpill was literally just “go to the gym and get your money up” I don’t think women would care about it and may even love it. But we both know redpill is far, far from that. Redpill may say that but it’s also about denigrating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 11:46 PM
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OK. Myron is free to keep working on his fitness so he can pay prostitutes to sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:13 AM
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Leo hasn’t gone on a video offering dating advice on how to get girls while leaving out that he got a girl by offering her a part in a movie. If he did then he’d be doing what Myron has done. But he hasn’t. If Myron ever said in a video “I pay women for sex and I also offer them spots on my show as one tactic I use to have sex with women” than link me the video of him saying so. He doesn’t. So he isn’t being honest about how he gets girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:05 AM
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Leo isn’t offering me dating advice. Myron is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:55 AM
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Orientation is perhaps more powerful than even high libido. My hunger doesn’t make a worm I see on the street look tasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:45 AM
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So adderall made you horny and wanted to masturbate. Curious though did it make you want to engage in casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:41 AM
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I’d like to see them to learn. I mean if you spent all this time studying I’d think you’d have a passion for sharing your knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:35 AM
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I found OP easily understandable and I also think you brought up good points. Ultimately you can both be right since there’s no universal truth of human nature. Didn’t love your shot at OP just now though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:30 AM
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Myron is the guy who was caught using his show to try and trade giving women exposure and views by being on his show for sex. He was caught on a Sugar site for paying women for dates. He simultaneously thinks women should be modest in dress but only has women on his show dressed in club wear. He somehow thinks it’s mathematically even possible for women to be chaste and virginal while also men can get a lot of sex. Myron is a joke. However I will give him credit that he has a rage bait show form…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 01:08 AM
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The ECs?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:31 AM
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And yet we get told repeatedly how “women don’t meet men online”, “women don’t take dating apps seriously”, “if you want a date get off the computer”. Shocking frankly. And kindof hilarious how meeting through friends is nose diving because no one has friends anymore 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:29 AM
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I think that a lot more women are shut ins than we think.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:28 AM
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I feel like context is what gets me friendzoned. If I meet a girl online or in a club or something - never friendzoned. If I meet her at school or work - always friendzoned. I think it’s a mentality thing. I kindof just believe girls at school or work (especially work) to be off limits as it’s a more professional situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:51 PM
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A career can be a cool thing but no I would rather be with a hot barista than an ugly doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:48 PM
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When people give men dating advice online there’s also often the unspoken assumption that the person they are giving advice to is a white male I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:15 AM
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Everyone is just getting mad at you so let me offer some actual advice as someone who has a similar-ish mindset to you: I don’t know one can get over it but you can mitigate it a bit. I think you are responding to the fact it seems unfair. You, a man, wants easy sex and can’t get it. She, a woman can get easy sex. It feels very unfair because you prioritize easy sex as the key to happiness. It’s envy is what you experience. The best I can tell you is try and find other things that are unfair for…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:21 PM
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I think it’s hard to disentangle the elements women might like of Tate from what they wouldn’t. However I’ll offer one: Money It’s easy to see a lot of women will be with a man for money. One can be a nice guy with money and still get women. However this simple fact that money can be used to get girls interested is actually concealed by a lot of women, even on PPD. And therefore men think not only is it that Tate is rich but one must also act like an asshole to get women. It would be easier if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 09:13 PM
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I mean kindof jealous in the sense I’d be think wow I wish I had her if she’s breathtakingly beautiful. Had that happen in a store where the 11 out of 10 woman dressed to the nines came in. I also look at the guy and try to see what she sees in him. But I’d never say “he doesn’t deserve you” unless the guy clearly had zero redeeming qualities I might ask more as a question of “so how did you get together and what do you see in him?” If I had the chance to ask the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 05:19 PM
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Yes agreed. She is in self imposed singledom. She can cure her “problem” in the next 30 minutes with a download.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 02:46 PM
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“I won’t use online dating where I will be surfaced with thousands of options for partners so I can keep complaining that I don’t get interest from men”. Other dating venues include nightclubs but I am guessing you are going to tell me that you don’t want to meet men there either. So the answer is yes. An average looking woman whose life is going to school then going home and posting to Reddit, rinse and repeat each day, is going to have a dating life that resembles an average man. Still probabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:52 PM
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Where did I say it was OK? I am pointing out that celebrated cultural icons have made jokes about rape and so it’s not like fresh and fit doing so is touching some 3rd rail that’s never been touched. Now if you want my actual opinion I think rape jokes can be done so long as they don’t incite violence or contradict hate speech laws but I also think and can totally understand people who would boycott and seek to cancel people for making rape jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 01:24 AM
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I’ve run in to Fresh and Fit on YouTube. It was entertaining for a few hours and then so goddamn repetitive. I can’t believe they do a show multiple hours a day saying the same thing. As for jokes about rape and laughing at rape victims - nothing Howard Stern didn’t do back in the 90s.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:40 PM
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Until we get the 2023 and 2024 numbers I don’t think we can know anything about trends. Covid was just such an all encompassing situation it really can’t be used to gauge the regular state of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:26 PM
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Really, Las Vegas? Maybe it’s male population is higher but it gets millions of transient people visiting every week so I’m sure the gender ratio fluctuates wildly on any given night.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 04:24 PM
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I would choose A If she looks 40 at 23 years old then she’s doing meth or smoked since 9 years old or something. If she’s that young and looks that old she is going to look 80 by the time she’s in her 30s. The Option A girl should be able to retain her looks for longer if she looks 20 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:30 AM
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I think career matters less because it’s so hard to figure out what a persons job is anymore. There are so many niche jobs and niche titles. Two people with the same title can do completely different jobs in different companies and get paid drastically differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:45 AM
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I mean hell - in a few years I might don a AI filter that turns me in to a buxom blonde with a sultry voice on camera and make a few thousand dollars camming (I’m a man for context).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 AM
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Japan and South Korea still have powerful economies though and they are safer than most other countries in the world. People may be miserable and unhappy but society is not degrading at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:32 PM
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Yes. We are already seeing men embrace technology to fill the romance gap in their lives. I think companies will become more subtle about it so they don’t come across as preying on lonely men, like they will introduce an AI girlfriend for your video game character so you can pretend you are just playing a game but in actuality she’s your virtual girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:28 PM
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I don’t get bothered by her male orbiters no. I find it kindof funny. One time a woman had her orbiter pet sit for her so I could take her on a weekend trip. Use orbiters to your advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:24 PM
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Agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:22 PM
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Do a lot of men have bad profiles? Yes. Do literally millions of men have decent profiles where they present cleanly, wear decent clothes and write a bio of their interests but also don’t get dates? Yes. A bad profile will kill your dating chances but a good profile doesn’t make you a dating god. There’s still 9 men for every 1 woman on Tinder. That ratio alone means no matter how much effort you spend you are unlikely to get a woman off of an app.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:20 PM
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A leftist would look like polyamorous circles maybe. If you are OK with your woman fucking other men than there are more women in general to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:15 AM
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If men cheat a lot more it makes perfect sense why more men are sexless. If you have 100 men, 100 women, 50 women are in a relationship with a man, and let’s say 100% of women are faithful. Let’s say half of attached men, so 25, cheat. That means for a single woman population of 50, they have 75 men who want to have sex with them (50 single men, and 25 attached men). So 50% more choice than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 11:27 PM
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According to the women of PPD and Reddit more broadly, being rich does not matter and is even a turn off. According to what I have personally experienced, being rich has made me 10X more successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:22 AM
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Why is it always seen as a bad thing that strong, intelligent women might want to date? OP is maybe a tool who knows but the general idea that a man who dresses well when every other man dresses poorly would “dominate” those other men in landing a date seems sound.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:04 PM
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OP didn’t insult the intelligence or badassness of Eastern European women. He basically said the men dress ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:59 PM
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Boys can talk with more than 1 person. Have you ever asked 1 person for their thoughts on something and then another person? Maybe instead the scenario is you see your boy crying in his room one day and ask him what’s wrong and after a ton of prompting he says it’s his inability to get any girls. Lots of reasons a functional relationship with one’s son might uncover this. Again not in your case clearly but for others who would have a functional relationship with their child.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:44 PM
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It’s not that he doesn’t like her. It’s that he has tried to get a date with women and she is the one who will have him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:51 PM
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Perhaps not in your case. In other cases sons have a good relationship with their mothers that includes open conversations about dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:49 PM
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Settling for someone you can get in no way implies you don’t like someone. It means you are being practical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:16 PM
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I don’t think most men consider sex toys a satisfying substitute for sex. He never said he doesn’t like her. Just obviously she isn’t exactly his looks match to an outsider (though men are needing to date lower in modern times) and she’s the first woman who he has ever known romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:10 PM
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To keep getting sex. She is expecting marriage at some point. Otherwise she may as well keep fucking Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 02:05 PM
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Parents aren’t generally involved in who their kid has gone on a date with a few times. But certainly nearly every family who is functional introduces their fiancé to their parents. Marriage is adding people to your family after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:54 PM
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OP is correct that mens larger libido leads men to pursue women to a high degree. We see with lesbians that many women don’t pursue eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:45 PM
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Sex for one. Dude has not known a woman’s touch prior to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:37 PM
0

To answer your questions: His face looks like a male version of yours so depending on your own face he may or may not have acne He meets trailer trash woman from dating apps where most people meet partners these days He is friendzoned by women in his social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 01:31 PM
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Fair enough. And your question about face, since he’s your son let’s say he has a male version of your face.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:44 AM
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Q4Women - let’s say your adult son is a reasonably tall, fairly fit, no social butterfly but can socialize and hold a conversation, works a good job with a higher than average salary. Reads books and knows what is going on in the world. He brings home his fiancé to you. She’s ugly. Acne filled face. Fat. Kindof trailer trashy. Works a shitty job barely making any money. Personality is talking about what reality tv show she watched lately. You ask him about this and he says that in modern times -…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 06:11 AM
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Your son promptly gets fired for sexually harassing women at work and is now both sexless and in poverty from permanently ruined career prospects 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:57 AM
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Some women on this forum express frustration that men don’t listen to women about what women want. Perhaps your theoretical son is wanting to listen to women about what women want and how to attract them as opposed to a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 05:51 AM
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Tinder has already been nearly destroyed by bots. AI will make it worse. Good riddance frankly. If Tinder and dating apps become unusable and die then that is a positive for dating. Men will become forming emotional bonds with AI chat/voice bots so even more men will drop out of attempting to date. Video games, porn, and an AI waifu who is just a few steps below Samantha in the movie “Her” will satiate a lot of men. Women will be mostly unaffected by AI other than AI generated images and videos …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 04:08 AM
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Don’t think it’s generational. If anything current generations are probably better than past ones. But what I’m saying is expecting your teen son will get solid dating advice from his peers is probably not a fool proof plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:04 PM
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To which his peers would tell him to send girls pictures of his dick, to “just ask her out bro!”, to just give up because he’s ugly and weird. Not sure women realize how cruel boys are to other boys they deem “lesser”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:29 PM
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Surprised to see bars rising so much since so many clubs have closed in recent years. And many blame dating apps. I honestly think “we met at a bar” is used as a cover story for “we met online” for people in 2017 that didn’t want to admit to online dating. I feel it’s destigmitized now mostly but in the 2010s and certainly the 2000s online daters were stigmatized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:21 PM
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I mean that guy Reddit loves who I often see on a front page, F1NNSSTER or whatever, is a better looking fem presenting person than 98% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:34 PM
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There just aren’t that many attractive women who are available. So attractive guys need to go after normal girls too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:28 PM
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This is an impossible argument to win. Any woman who locks down a “HVM” you will just change the definition of what HVM mean to exclude him. I would agree it’s quite possible for a hooker with a 350 body count to lock down a wealthy man. Wealth is one of the few quantitative measures of high value male. As I always say to women who cry about double standards on body count - nobody knows your fucking body count so the double standard even if it exists is irrelevant and doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:25 PM
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Just watched a YouTube video of an OnlyFans woman who made $60,000 in 6 months off of her OnlyFans. Thin blonde girl with big tits. Selection bias is at play. People would only make a YouTube video about how much money they earned if it was a lot of money. Also possible it’s just a lie. If true however that is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 06:28 AM
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As a guy with money I’m fine if women owned wanting a guy with money personally. But women really don’t own it and I don’t even think it’s totally true. I still think women prefer certain looks over a guy having money although some women truly just want the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 01:59 AM
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Largely agree with OP here. I think that some regular ways men express their sexuality are demonized now by society (I.e men being very visual). I also agree the left is starting to alienate men and I say this as a man who is leftist. Really sick of the lie that is the gender wage gap. The left is demonizing men significantly but not really offering much other than “you all suck!” I don’t think we need to do anything special to help men. But I do think we have achieved a lot of equality and ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:33 PM
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The way I see it is guys who like fat and ugly girls mean I have less competition for slim and attractive girls. So carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:25 PM
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What does it matter what men tell you? You have your own free will. Get on a dating app and tell us if you only find lazy, useless losers to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:32 AM
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You made women relevant to the discussion by specifically saying men uniquely get together to bash women and also saying men lack emotional intelligence (of which the only barometer is to say they do compared to women). I actually don’t entirely disagree with your original post however what I think you miss out a bit is that women also get together to bash men and people in general love to bitch about things. I think when men do it, it is seen as much more nefarious and to be clear it sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:03 AM
1

What is your version of “never been overwhelmed with messages in OLD”? Even if you get 3 messages a week that is a giant number of new potential dating partners per week. I mean in a year that’s more than 150 potential men to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:55 AM
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The “good men” are very busy at work and they really at best can join Tinder to meet women, where they are subsequently ignored because they don’t have giant biceps or aren’t white.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:34 PM
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Those of us who grew up in the 90s and early 2000s spent our entire lives with media showing us white blonde girls are the epitome of hotness. So yes - it does lead to attraction and yes it does even lead to what one might call internalized racism where thin white “bombshell” blonde girls are seen as the most attractive even by people who are not white. I think with more Latina, Asian and mixed race sex symbols this might change a bit for the upcoming generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:50 AM
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I mean I’d leave it up to peoples judgement. I’d expect if you’ve been married 10 years and happy that you’d be Ok to take her back home. Maybe there are some paranoid guys that never want to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 05:36 PM
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A few options: 1) Stay put, continue enjoying family, don’t bother dating, use escorts occasionally if you want or just go without sex 2) Become Passport bro - no guarantee this will result in meeting a girl though. However if you do there’s no reason after some time you couldn’t bring her back to your home country if you still want to be near family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:41 PM
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I have game good enough that I’ve gotten a 1 night stand at a nightclub and many, many make outs. However I still find meeting women and dating a huge struggle. I really think lack of game explains very little of mens lack of success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:36 PM
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2 very tangible and quantifiable ways women are treated than men overall is: More male suicides Far more male homeless
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:33 PM
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The phrase “doesn’t matter, still had sex” comes to mind when unattractive men try to feel empathy for unattractive women. Most people want: 1) Sex 2) A nice relationship Ugly Women get 1 out of 2 guaranteed. Ugly men get 0 out of 2. Women try and gaslight and say “well actually 0 out of 2 is just as bad as 1 out of 2” but men aren’t stupid enough to fall for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 04:29 PM
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You live at a strip club? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 12:02 AM
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Not really (though I do make sure to hold first dates in public places for my own safety generally). I have no clue what any of your post has to do with what I wrote. Get off your soap box and stop silencing people who express frustration with your trauma Olympics.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:12 PM
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I don’t expect you as a woman to have any sympathy whatsoever for mens dating issues and I’m not asking for any. I’m just saying most men find dating so demoralizing and that’s why many like OP are desperate to grasp for any potential light on the horizon.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 07:10 PM
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Women strippers have unattractive or crazy male clients too. That type of client comes with the territory of strippers. Money from an ugly person is still money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:36 PM
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Software has some cost to develop but cheap to make copies of. An AI girlfriend is just a learning model. Once the software is done, making a new AI girlfriend is a right click copy, paste.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:25 PM
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I have a desire and inbuilt drive for connection and sex as a hetero male. Your solution is like saying “if you don’t enjoy working a job then go live in a box under a bridge and steal food”. Technically possible but not practical. And I literally say in my post I’m finding dating easier lately however in my past it has been difficult often.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:03 PM
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As a woman you may not appreciate what an utter hellscape finding a partner has been for a lot of men in the past decade. Men need to feel a source of hope and that there is a spec of light at the end of this nightmare tunnel. Now strangely enough I’m finding dating much, much easier this year than any other point in my life prior, but 1 anecdote doesn’t mean much I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:03 PM
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A YouTube Vlogger who a lot of women watch who offers strip shows and lap dances in person on weekends could be a hit. Women would feel they know him from watching his blogs so they’d build that connection and then they’d come pay to see him live and touch him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:00 PM
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The only man I know in real life that for sure follows red pill does not get any sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:57 PM
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I don’t understand your point. Just because some men may be willing to spend money on sex doesn’t mean they can spend unlimited amounts. They need to eat and pay rent and gas. An AI girlfriend that costs what a Starbucks coffee costs per day or less would definitely make more men (certainly far from all though) opt for the AI girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:52 PM
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Prostitutes are a bad analog because a prostitute leaves after an hour and can cost a huge percentage of the man’s weekly take home pay. If I’m paying $100 a month for an AI girlfriend I can have sex with in the metaverse 24/7 and who provides me emotional care 24/7 as well that is absolutely nothing like what one can get from sex workers today. Frankly it’s less expensive than a real girlfriend too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:50 PM
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1 in 50 isn’t that rare. So it is comprehensible someone with your husbands stats is only 1 in 50 men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:35 PM
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It could be they are enamoured with the attention. Men get very burned out from being ignored but if as a woman you get served a literal buffet after having eaten only the same 1 meal for years before i bet it can be pretty intoxicating for a bit. Of course - women end up burning out too when they go on dates with Chad and find out he has little to offer outside a great Tinder photo. And they also get burned out after a bit from the more violent messages they will receive. Right now though maybe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 12:33 PM
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Believe it or not - this message convinced me maybe I should give friendship a go. I used to always just reject the offer as a “if you don’t want to fuck me anymore I’m taking my ball and going home so you suffer too” type of thing. No one likes to feel rejected. However thinking about it - we already had sex so she’s already done more than most women have for me. I figure maybe I can give it a go and since I fully planned to lose her as a friend anyway I can just be very clear on expectations o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:01 PM
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Biggest thing we could do is to stop celebrating losing mens virginity/stop using virgin as an insult to a man. Also stop idolizing and backslapping “players”. Men need to stop encouraging eachother to place sex as the highest achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:47 AM
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Women are definitely very, very suspicious of men. It is maybe a sign of progress in that it is ironically the safest time in history to be a woman objectively but women probably feel the least safe. Eventually it may settle but men today have the unfortunate reality of living in a time where women are terrified of them despite being less scary than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:46 AM
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Are you a woman? Why is that do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:19 PM
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Yes I largely agree here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:29 AM
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I got a “let’s be friends” speech from a woman I had slept with a few times. It does seem a genuine offer of wanting to be friends. I don’t really intend to. However it did make me wonder why friendship would be valued. Women tend to make friends at the drop of a hat. Seriously it feels like women can’t even leave a nightclub bathroom without making new friends. So it is a bit odd to me women still seem to place such a high value on “staying friends”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:16 AM
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Again, if me as a straight male had sex with a man, I also would say I would like to have sex with women. It’s not as if one can divorce my orientation from technique. A gay man may suck dick better than any woman but I wouldn’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:33 PM
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Objectively there are almost no lesbian bars in North America. Whereas the the continent is littered with gay male bars.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:32 PM
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So people who are self described lesbians have told you they’d prefer to have sex with women than men? Do you not see your logical fallacy there?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:55 PM
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Lesbians have such little sex there are barely any lesbian bars in North America. Lesbians have to monkey in on the fuck fest of gay male bars to even have a chance of meeting another woman who might want sex and if she does they quickly experience lesbian bed death.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:53 PM
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Women don’t really experience a feeling of not being able to get sex so therefore want it less. If I tell you you cannot eat for 12 hours today you will be starving. However you’ve probably had days where you didn’t eat for 12 hours and didn’t notice - you knew you could eat if you wanted so it didn’t seem hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 05:51 PM
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I personally like that men are constantly talking about what they can do better and criticizing other men to be better. Maybe women can learn from men as opposed to spending all their time “uplifting”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:17 PM
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I read his methodology and it makes no sense. He doesn’t even attempt to explain his methods and kindof just assumes 20% of men are having all the sex. Seriously read OPs link. The guy has no data backing him up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:58 AM
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I’ll believe MGTOW is a large movement when we actually stop having every dating app be 80% men and ever pickup spot like a nightclub being 70% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:52 AM
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I would like to see more stats on same sex encounters. Something like 1/5th of Gen Z women identify as bisexual. That is massive and surely must be having an effect on the distribution of sex (namely I’d think more women are having sex with other women now and as a result less men are having sex). However I also kindof think a lot of women are just “theoretical bisexuals” as in if a hot woman aggressively pursued them for sex she would have it or would have a threesome with her boyfriend but wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 06:43 PM
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Haha fair. Maybe I should have said numbers ending in 0 or 5 are a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 11:41 AM
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Round numbers are always a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:33 AM
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What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 04:33 AM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:59 PM
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Not so sure. I’m skinny but lazy. If a fat woman with a nice face took a pill and became hot and skinny I’d love to spend all day eating chocolate and watching movies on the couch with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 11:58 PM
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Game as conceptualizer by PUAs just works incredibly poorly. Cold approaches on the street don’t work well and even considered street harassment. There are literally men who have been banned from campuses for doing this behaviour. Cold approach in nightclubs is hard because nightclubs are a dying industry and have been for over a decade. There really aren’t many venues where one can “game” and in any case the tactics were always rather bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:51 AM
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If I take the converse of your example, a man who hits on women lots but has never gotten in to a relationship - likely that man has developed a lot of creepy behaviours that tell women to avoid him after meeting him for a first date. Sure I kindof agree with you that a true Chad who never has girlfriends and only hooks up with tons of women with lots of FWB is always on the prowl gets good skills. But most men who don’t get girlfriends aren’t Chads. Having a girlfriend probably will help the no…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 01:48 AM
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No one is. But if someone says they don’t want to get the covid vaccine I say fine. If someone says they don’t want to get a covid vaccine but posts a “study” saying the vaccine gives you cancer and makes you impotent I’m going to get pissed off at them. I am annoyed when people cite bad science to justify their opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:20 AM
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Sure but every single woman links to the debunked study to justify herself. They need to stop doing that since the study is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:47 PM
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The articles make no sense because - at least the Psychology Today article says in part the pandemic has made women turn towards academic and financial goals as opposed to relationships. But this makes no sense because the stats say that only 30% of young women are single vs. 60% of young men. So it isn’t remotely the case women are choosing singlehood and that’s resulting in more single men. The only explanation is a lot of women dating older (I’m currently in a 10 year age gap relationship). W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 11:46 PM
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In response to me saying India and countries like it won’t be an immigration source much longer you said “So?” Saying “So?” Means you implied you don’t care that the only countries with immigrant sources are declining in birth rate too and raising their own standards of living making immigrating from them less desireable. And again you are taking a myopic view. It’s not an issue next year. It is an issue down the line and just saying “technology will figure it out!” Is wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:58 PM
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You said in your post that it doesn’t matter that countries like India will remain an immigration source for much longer. So yes you did say eventual difficulty getting immigrants isn’t an issue. You don’t seem to understand that the whole world that is even moderately developed is rapidly declining so there is no infinite pool of importable people out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:38 PM
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I don’t think you understand the math that 1 worker supporting 2 retirees isn’t sustainable. This is the western gap in population that the low birth rate is going to realize. You also are trying to play both sides. You are saying we don’t need immigrants than saying the false assertion letting in immigrants fixed our birth rate. Which by the way it doesn’t. Once immigrants are here they and their kids when the next generation has kids quickly lower their expectations of family size to be at or …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 10:28 PM
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I kindof doubt this is true. I do think given that in most red states an abortion is just a 5 hour drive away to a blue state means a ton of abortions will still occur so any increase in births will be fairly mute. However I do think there are a number of women that are very on the fence about getting an abortion and the fact red states made it so inconvenient to get one now may impact births at the margins.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 09:48 PM
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There really isn’t going to be an abundant supply of people to import. Every country with any skilled labour at all is declining in birth rate. And the west would never permit the number of immigrants needed to fill the gaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:39 PM
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India would potentially be the only country that has enough skilled immigrants to plug western gaps. But it won’t be an immigration source much longer. I don’t think you understand demographic collapse. Our economy could handle a gradual drawdown of working age people. It can’t handle falling off a cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:35 PM
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The west I’m talking about. And the ratio of young to old is a consequence of the birth rate. Frankly society wasn’t a dystopian hellscape in 1960 when we were at replacement level. We don’t even need to hit replacement level of 2.1. A birth rate of 1.9 would at least permit a managed decline. But our current situation is a demographic cliff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 06:32 PM
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Frankly - putting the fact I’m pro choice aside - the only thing may be what the US is doing and banning abortions may be one piece to increasing birth rate. Will be very interesting in another 2 or 3 years to see the result of Roe v Wade overturn in red states. Hungary had some very limited success with government payments I believe. Point is that we don’t really have a choice if we want society to continue. The birth rate problem will need to be resolved in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:55 PM
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The whole world is declining in birth rate. Immigration at best can plug the gap for another decade or two but even India is declining rapidly in births and the standard of living is improving so the average Indian isn’t even going to want to immigrate elsewhere in a decade. Also saying “our birth rate of 1.5 average in the west is not as bad as Asia” is a bit like saying “this stab wound is better than your bullet wound”. Both are likely to end up fatal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:48 PM
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South Koreas birth rate is an astonishingly low 0.78. And the rest of the western world and China is closing in on that number rapidly. How is western society not spending all its energy on trying to raise the birth rate? In like 2 or 3 decades we are going to be incredibly fucked by this. Government pensions are going to need to be cut. There will be hardly any workers anywhere. I also think that feminist thinkers are way too silent on this issue as a very low birth rate is the number one threa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:43 PM
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So basically todays situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 03:45 AM
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Something like 20% of women claim to be Bi. I think women over-inflate their interest in women. I think a lot of women think themselves Bi when in reality “Bi” for them means “would make out with a good looking girl if she begged me and was a hot celebrity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:30 PM
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Nearly All of them claim to be bi but my point is all these “technically Bi” women who are currently dating a man just about always end up dating a man again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:10 PM
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Mail order brides are not for me but as long as the man is respectful and not abusive and we put some protections in place for the women I think that’s fine. It sucks that we are “robbing” poor places of women but I guess those countries will need to figure things out - maybe sex selective abortions to abort more males would help in the developing world with a woman shortage. Sex tourism - if there’s a country where women are attractive and easier to have sex with sure I might want to visit but …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:08 PM
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It’s internet cosplay - not anything serious. Basically All these women would date men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:38 PM
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Agreed but it’s silly and cringe for them to even say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:26 PM
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Oh sorry - wasn’t sure if you were agreeing or disagreeing with my statement 🙂 yep it definitely has “I’m taking my ball and going home - but not really” energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 10:02 PM
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They would what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:57 PM
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So many women on any thread about how much they hate men in a dating context posts something along the lines of “if my perfect boyfriend ever died I’d date women” I am going to guess in 98% of cases these women would just date men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:54 PM
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I don’t think there is any decline in men putting themselves out there. Ever nightclub, bar, dating app is a massive sausage fest. Any venue catered to dating is filled with men. Men are putting themselves out there way more than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:24 PM
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No simping anymore please boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 09:00 PM
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The article proffers the explanation that the mens wives are supporting them. This seems logical. More women earning more money working more hours might mean some men are stepping back entirely from working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:59 PM
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As a man - I’m loving the collapse of men. Means less competition hopefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 08:46 PM
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It was cool hearing the breakdown of your mini-sample size friend group of 12. Good post. It obviously isn’t definitive of anything but always interesting hearing real experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:24 AM
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Many years ago when I used to play video games - I don’t anymore, there was a game where you rescue this woman who was a fellow spy and you and her battle lots of bad guys to escape. Over time I began to feel very protective of her and developed some level of feelings I think. At the end of the game she betrays you and I felt a tiny bit heartbroken by that. All that from a video game character. Nevermind once we get a AI woman with an avatar personalized to your taste who caters her entire perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 02:15 AM
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There’s enough perma-virgin men it has to be the case that being a forever virgin for men will become normalized and we will see a lot of men going their own way as it were. It’s looking like we need about 30% of men to just quit dating and some sense of balance will be restored.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:59 PM
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Yep I saw that and hope we keep getting 10% declines.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 05:03 PM
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If you are bisexual and think most men are non-sexual or gross, why did you get a boyfriend? Not trying to be confrontational, just curious. It feels like a lot of women are Bi but only date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 01:02 AM
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A lot of single gay and bisexual men on the study. 63% of gay or bi men are single apparently vs 30-something for women. This is probably contributing at least an extra percentage point to the single male total. I am really hoping more men lose interest in dating because the current situation isn’t sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 12:52 AM
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Huh? No I was responding as a fictional character disagreeing with you to bolster your point dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 10:07 PM
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My only worry for your friend is that the government may consider them in a common law marriage after a period of time and she becomes entitled to alimony or some of his money or something if they split. Not sure how that works. He should make sure he’s protected legally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:45 PM
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He’s so pathetic! (Says the married guy who literally does everything OP describes)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:44 PM
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Would you rather be in the women’s squadron if the relative death rate for an all womens squadron in battle was 10X higher than a mixed one? Because I’d assume an all women’s squadron would be less capable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 07:41 PM
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If you would fuck someone but that person would not fuck you - is that sufficient to say that person is out of your league?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 01:15 AM
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You clearly don’t want an escort so don’t get one if you don’t want one. But if you ever want to just have some sex then yes you should get one as it is a hassle free way to get sex and you can get it fairly immediately with no rejection. I feel for you dude. I’d consider going after certain racial demographics that don’t get as much dating interest to maybe experience an actual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:15 AM
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What if he instead bought her lots of gifts and stuff hoping for sex? I’m sure you’ve dated guys who spent more money on their ex-girl before sex than he spent on you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:13 PM
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The major advantage men have is they can have children later in life. This is not a small advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:10 PM
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Well there are a decent number of female centric fantasies and media about a guy who gets tons of girls and then eventually picks her. So you can easily see from that, that a woman might get in to a soft harem expecting a man will come to his senses and choose her exclusively one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:07 PM
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Once men are married they feel like they’ve given the woman their greatest gift (his commitment) and the impetus to be successful isn’t there (because he doesn’t need to attract women anymore, he has his) therefore I bet a lot of men just take it easy or opt out of trying to work once married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:03 PM
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I don’t care about N count but women always come on here to say they don’t care about having sex with lots of men so no I don’t think men worry about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 11:00 PM
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I don’t think you understand the scale of the problem. Society literally can’t function much longer with how few kids are being born in the west. We will have many retirees and few workers soon. We need a birth rate more like 1.95 or something. Single motherhood is better than societal collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 10:58 PM
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It’s part of it. Women don’t like introverts quite as much. But it’s actually more the race part. I’m not totally dateless but what I’m saying is women don’t throw themselves at a 3 six men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:34 PM
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Sure it is. If you look at graduating classes majority women for like a decade or more now. Sure there are still lots of 75 year old male doctors kicking around who will retire in the next few years though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 05:20 AM
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If some pundits are right and AI like ChatGPT will eventually mostly replace computer programmers - then one of the last occupations men dominate and vastly outearn other professions will fall. This will mean we will likely finally see women pull ahead as outearning men on average in white collar professions. Other occupations with a relatively large number of people in them and high salaries like doctor, lawyer are already majority women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 03:34 AM
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Yes as a racial minority being a 3 six means I do about as well as an average short white guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 12:08 AM
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You make more as a model though because it’s irregular work. It’s not like you can do a 9 to 5 as a model. Well - unless you are a cam model then I guess you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:35 PM
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There was a post on Reddit where a guy uploaded a picture of a table as a woman’s profile and got hundreds of right swipes in an hour. It’s the messages that count more than “likes” although yeah, even messages are in the hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:51 PM
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As a man of 3 sixes, even this is not enough these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:49 PM
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Therapy sessions are the women equivalent of seeing a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:37 AM
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Your own post fails to acknowledge the follow up to the 2018 study on 2020 that shows more 18 to 29 year old men had sex in the last year than women. So yeah our data on this is shockingly messy and contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:30 AM
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I want a few more studies before confirming that 1 in 3 women are part of a harem yes. I don’t think it’s impossible. But the lack of societal attention to this massive shift if it’s true is strange. I do want further confirmation for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:03 AM
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I really want to see another survey because I just do not understand the math behind this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:54 PM
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I think redpill will increase male suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:17 PM
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To me that is pretty shocking if 1 in 3 women are wrong about their relationship status. It means there’s mass delusion and mass stupidity amongst women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:28 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:47 PM
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Getting a woman’s time and attention to become attractive to her is what is hard for me. Attracting women if I have that isn’t as hard. I wish there was a place I could volunteer that was stacked with hot women who have to be around me all the time due to necessity of the volunteer work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:47 PM
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At the margins maybe - but on this scale? I find it hard to believe that like 1/3rd of women are mistaken about their relationship status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:45 PM
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I find him an entertaining and funny personality. But I do not believe in what he says is reality. His interview on Your Moms House podcast was hilarious and entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 01:46 AM
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I think this post has reasonably solid reasoning. If you are a redditor and male your best shot at sex is to ask ugly women to be your girlfriend and date her as long as you can tolerate her. You won’t be getting sex otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:05 PM
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Nice chocolate. A watch if she was feeling very generous maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 12:55 PM
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We are in a demographic crisis. An absolute crisis in the west. We can’t afford to have children starve. It literally costs society more to lose kids now then to subsidize their life for a few years. If anything we need to do more policies to have more single women give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:11 PM
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It’s not about the defects, it’s just about my own preference for wanting to see real people no matter how good the facsimile is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:20 PM
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I don’t personally want to watch photorealistic AI generated porn. There is something to it being real people I want to maintain at least that. I worry a little bit about my perception of real women becoming skewed. Instagram filters already did that too much. As Kendrick Lamar said “I’m so fucking sick and tired of the photoshop, give me something natural like ass with some stretch marks”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:59 AM
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Men and women are not that different EXCEPT in the area of sex and dating where the differences and experiences can be very extreme. And given most people spend up to 20% of their life thinking about sex and dating, at least if they are single and looking, it does mean there can be a lot of lived experiences that are so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:56 AM
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I believe it. Before dating apps destroyed dating for men, I had a decent view of women. Progressive by thr standards of the time. An average-ish guy felt he had a chance back then and kindof did. Dating apps happened and I would get very upset with my perceived unfairness for how difficult it is to get a relationship with a woman.. These days i make a decent living and while getting women still isn’t easy, it is easier, so I have again a slightly better outlook on women. So yeah my own views on…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:56 PM
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The main issues I have with women friends is I need them to do most of the work to hang out with me just like my male friends do most of the work to hang out with me because I’m a homebody introvert. My guy friends will drag me out occasionally. Women might be more passive about it or see it as the guys role to plan stuff (even if the guy is a friend). That doesn’t work for me. The second issue is if the girl gets a boyfriend often our close friendship can get strained I’d think. So there’s a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 05:53 PM
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The thing about close woman friends is that often if they gets boyfriend they don’t want to continue friendship. She will prioritize a serious relationship over you. Her boyfriend very well might want her to not have a close relationship with you. There’s a lot more risk of losing a close woman friend as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:08 AM
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This might happen the first few years but 3 years in - everyone has a deepfake about them and no one knows what’s real. Hell if a boss fired me for porn they found that was deepfake of me I’d just in turn make a deep fake of my boss and CEO and release it. They’d get the point very quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:05 AM
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I love the idea of deepfake porn. Why? Because it makes revenge porn pointless because nobody knows what’s real anymore. I can make as much porn as I want and if it gets out on the internet “omg! Someone deep faked me!” Even though all my porn is real. We finally with deep fakes go back to a society where what we do is anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:03 AM
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Why do you say it’s common? Any evidence it’s more common now? And doesn’t Sweden accept tons of immigrants? Could it be the case there’s just more southeast Asians in Sweden in general now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:06 AM
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How does it feel knowing his attraction isn’t the same and he’d stick his dick in another pastry if your cake wasn’t available?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:55 AM
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I wonder which gender will be first to retreat virtually? I’d think it’s more likely men since men already are heavier consumers of porn and video games (and virtual reality for that matter currently) and so lIfelike sex in VR seems like it would be quickly and widely adopted by men. I have to confess it’s starting to seem like a good deal to me as a man even after seeing how bad the dating market is getting. However I do think women retreating in to being the VR character in a romance novel mig…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:50 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:44 AM
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Look up victim complex. Most people aren’t wealthy doctors. When I interact with a random redditor I assume they aren’t a doctor who could offset their doctor spouses salary. More women are doctors then men in med schools these days so I have no clue why you think I’d assume if you were a male redditor you were a doctor. Anyway you insisted on marrying a socioeconomic equal. If you married below, like many men do there’d be no conversation on who does childcare. The man would have.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:33 PM
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Putting aside the fact he asked you a question and you could have also asked the same question - you just spent multiple posts trying to convince me your husband is sexist. OK. I agree. Your husband sounds very sexist. You have culpability in picking a sexist man for marriage. Again if you married a male nurse or janitor, he wouldn’t have expected you to give up your job. So I have no idea how you are turning this in to a “all men are sexist”thing vs. “My husband is sexist”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:09 AM
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So you didn’t ask him because of your own internalized sexism and gender roles in your head about men and womens roles. That’s fine but it’s your own sexism that caused you not to ask. As for him not adjusting to being a parent - doesn’t seem gendered to me. Again if you wanted a super involved parent, you’d not have married a fellow Doctor. Some men marry down socioeconomically for this very reason. I don’t know why women can’t figure the same thing out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:56 AM
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So what you are saying is he asked if you’d stay home more for childcare, you said no. And then you both decided to get a nanny. Where was a burden placed on you at any point? You could just as easily have asked him to stay home - if you asked that simple question would you think he was being a drama Queen if he marched on to Reddit and said “my wife expects me to take on the burden of childcare because she asked me if I would, I said no, and then she said ‘OK let’s get a nanny’ “
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:33 AM
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I am telling you this because he isn’t here to tell the same thing to and you did not state your own job until just now. If he came on here and said “gee I wish my anesthesiologist wife didn’t assume I’d quit my job or reduce hours to be stay home to take care of kids” I’d tell him, well how the fuck did you think kids were going to be taken care of when you know she had a job that didn’t allow for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:22 AM
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It’s your choice and fault you are in this situation. You knew a surgeon wouldn’t be able to do these things and support your career given how In demand and critical the job of surgeon is. Marry an office drone who doesn’t care much about his career next time if your career is so important to you. That way he’d jump at the chance to stay at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 02:44 AM
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Pussy is just considered the term it is the outer part the pussy lips that can sometimes be somewhat visible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:58 PM
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Camel toe
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:35 PM
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I bought some very expensive mens jeans that have a material that is almost like womens leggings I think and men - I finally believe women a bit when they say they wear tight leggings that show off their ass and pussy because it’s comfortable. It actually is 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:04 PM
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That $70 was drinks and appetizers at a hole in the wall bar lol. Shit is getting expensive. I mean I get people can do a coffee date though for like $15 or so at a shitty coffee chain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:49 PM
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I wonder why so many women who say they don’t want to date or have sex congregate on dating forums…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:27 PM
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I hope so since I do decently well financially. I notice this a little bit because every date costs like $70 minimum - I’m wondering how guys date a lot who aren’t rich. I kindof wonder if we see mass unemployment if tons more men will drop out of dating to save money. I think we give poor men VR headsets so they can watch VR porn and hopefullly ChatGPT can give them a VR waifu who fulfills some of their emotional needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 02:14 PM
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Old women don’t really take young guys seriously so if you were an average 20 year old guy - no you couldn’t just match with a 50 year old divorcee to have sex with. Those 50 year old women would have filters applied not to match with men half their age on Tinder to begin with so they don’t even see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:20 AM
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Basically it went from nerd subculture to huge male following and when men congregate in large numbers, conservatism can happen. The PUA culture of the 2000s was more like internet hacker nerds trying to hack womens brains to go on dates and have sex with them. Eventually lots of men got in to this topic and so it took on a much more political veneer and less about very arcane nerdy concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:10 AM
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I mean gay men aren’t very picky many times, so I think there’s more to it then who puts their sex organ inside you clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:06 AM
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Context needed. She clearly showed you a video and you called it oversimplified and she was offended by this. Was the video dating related? I feel like you are misrepresenting her by just saying she’s rambling when Im assuming the video was some dated related video maybe about who should pay for dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:05 AM
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I think this is true aside from the Chad part. Women are only like 20% of dating apps so they aren’t even on there. They may have a few Chads from a long time ago they keep though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:26 PM
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Are those ratios 3 men to 1 woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:25 PM
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I find most clubs are more guys than girls no matter how upscale. Sure the more upscale the better the ratio is but I’ve rarely ever been to a club with more girls than guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:38 AM
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Because Match Group company (owner of Tinder/Hinge/OKC and everything online dating related) is basically a dating monopoly and whatever they do - decides the online dating game whether anyone likes it or not. If some Executive at Match finally grew a conscience and realized their company is ruining mental health for an entire generation and destroying society - and out this in place, every online dater would have no choice but to adhere. As for why women might stay - don’t women always say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:54 AM
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I actually would say most bars have a 3:1 men to women ratio. Clubs maybe a 2:1 ratio. I swear I feel like there’s some vortex women disappear in to because everywhere in the world is a sausage fest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:51 AM
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No need to apologize I am not offended. I’m moreso just interested in your worldview. Just so I am clear on a few scenarios: Man gets told to fuck off - he walks away and doesn’t acknowledge the comment - your pussy remains wet? Or no? Man gets told to fuck off - he fights guy who said that to him and ends up losing badly and in hospital for months - does your pussy dry during that time and you break up or were you aroused he fought in first place? Man gets told to fuck off and he beats the man …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 05:14 PM
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De-escalating can mean backing away from a fight though. Someone tells me to go fuck myself and I walk away instead of instantly getting in to a fight and risking injury/death/prison time - your vagina dries like a desert?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:17 PM
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So any man who de-escalates is disgusting to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:55 AM
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What if your partner was scrawny? It sounds like you are OK if a guy loses a single fight but you still want a man that can fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:54 AM
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I’d love you to get in to it and hear these jokes lesbians make. At least one or two you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:50 AM
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I’m not sure I get it. If there’s tons of bi women out there that should increase lesbians options and dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 10:42 PM
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This analysis makes no sense, if you have few options aren’t you MORE likely to be in a bad relationship? You might stick it out but your relationship is more likely to be bad. And if women were marrying godawful men is the reason than lesbian divorce wouldn’t be higher. Women appear to just be more dissatisfied with everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:55 PM
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The numbers between gay men vs. Lesbians don’t seem that drastic. It’s weird how gay men feel drowning in options and lesbians feel like they are in a desert given the population numbers are about the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:52 PM
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In some cases sure. In other cases people need to adopt realistic standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:50 PM
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Most large companies are 50/50 men and women. Maybe 60/40 at most. So most meetings are half women or so. Women can also interrupt and talk over people if they claim it happens to them. It gets used as a weird talking point for how oppressed women are when everyone with a mouth and a finger can unmute on Zoom or open their mouth in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:00 AM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:04 AM
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Doesn’t apply in the 21st century. There will be no violent male uprising because it’s easily crushed. And any men who will protect women will get laid so there’s a powerful incentive for protecting the women from any uprising. However I do think we are seeing a slow and gradual reversal of some womens rights and at the very least I do think “gender equality” initiatives are going to become a toxic political football. The perception will be women already have everything they could ever need so t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:00 PM
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Be a femboy who passes as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:22 PM
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None of those are almost entirely women though. This is a good post but I do think society would have an easier time replacing the roles women vacate than the ones men vacate.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:15 PM
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Divorced men use antidepressants more than single men and they are both men. So yes men do go to the doctor when mental health is serious enough. Single men just don’t need chemical help as much as single women or other groups apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:17 PM
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Divorced men use antidepressants more than single men as per OP. So men do go when they are in a bad place. It’s not as simple as men never see doctors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:17 PM
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I’d rather my girl is a whore too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:15 PM
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Men that want the world to burn because they arent having sex aren’t stable no. but they are a much smaller share of humanity than severely depressed single women who need medical help to function in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:13 PM
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It would suggest a subset of single men are extremely unhappy. But antidepressant use is far more prevalent than suicide. A gigantic percentage of the population uses antidepressants. A meaningless tiny fraction of humanity commits suicide. So antidepressant use would be a better gauge of how content respective genders are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:11 PM
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Women tell us looks don’t matter and all women like different looking men. There isn’t a single sexy standard to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:09 PM
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The data doesn’t seem to bare out your experience. Women tend to have more and closer friendships in surveys. Although there could always be demographic and regional differences that national surveys ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:56 PM
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Nope. If she puts effort in to her appearance still and doesn’t just get a Karen haircut, she will still be treated well. If she looks frail and old and is 70 or something she will just seem like a sweet old lady to everyone and still be treated nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:55 PM
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By extension though it sounds like you are having as much sex as he wants so basically it isn’t compromising it’s the lower libido partner always sets the sexual frequency.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:48 PM
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I’ve never found women very helpful in this regard. It sounds nice in theory but in reality it doesn’t pan out. I’ve had one woman bring along a friend she thought was attractive to lunch with us hoping I’d hit it off but the friend wasn’t my type as women tend to inflate the attractiveness of their other women friends. Now if I were to be platonic friends with a hot woman I would expect she’d try and help me get other women as a reason to stay platonic friends with her, but from this thread it …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:46 PM
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Not sure if it’s likely but there it is certainly more likely to have a bachelor tax then a bachelorette tax. Married men and all women would support a tax on single men. No demographic at all would support a tax on single women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:03 AM
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Please tell me in detail about your experience going to the Principles office for having an erection. I want to hear the story because it never happened and want to see how committed to this lie you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:35 AM
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Who goes to jail for getting aroused in public? I mean men don’t need to take their penis out of their pants in public to deal with a boner. And jeans which are 80% of the pants men wear, make it mostly unlikely a boner is casually noticed given the thick material.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:18 AM
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If Russia ever gets its act together and becomes a liberal democracy with first world living standards - it could be an interesting place after it loses the Ukraine war as it will basically have killed so many of its single men and be nothing but a paradise of tons of single women. Unfortunately Russia doesn’t seem like it will ever become a liveable non-corrupt country by western standards in my lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:05 PM
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You need to be extremely wealthy for this to happen. I’d guess once you are at $10 million net worth this is an easy arrangement to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 11:02 PM
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OK then make it so if a man is 180 lbs he is also refused entry. I don’t care personally I’m 150 lbs and a man. I just did a different standard because most women think a 180 lb man is pretty slim especially if the man is tall. But sure. Make it 160 lbs max for everyone for all I care. My major point is everyone is too fat. Women are way too fat today. Men too but as a hetero guy I don’t really care about how men look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:42 PM
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But many were housewives as well. Or they worked part time. The point is that womens options aren’t a wage slave or sex slave because the vast majority of husbands don’t treat their wife as a sex slave. I can understand wanting one’s own money but it’s not as if the options are be a woman who focuses on nothig but career or become a sex slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:51 PM
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So pursuing being a corporate cog in a machine is a much higher purpose than pursuing pleasure? Everyone needs to eat and buy material things so career is important but the idea that basing one’s self worth on career is healthier just feeds in to how dumb people are at taking in capitalist propoganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:00 AM
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As a man I don’t feel pressure to date a fat woman. If she’s attractive in other ways I might date one but no one is asking me to do so or shaming me that I don’t. I wish fewer women were fat. I think obesity is a health crisis among all people - but I think too many women in particular get told being fat is OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:47 AM
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We hear women say this directly. Tons of women go around pretending work is what gives their life meaning. Women post tons of content on LinkedIn. Some men claim to love being a corporate cog too to be clear. But women are on another level in saying they are focused on work and career which is why they don’t date, have a family, whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 09:41 AM
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What world do PPD users live in where they think women in the 70s, 80s, 90s felt like sex slaves to their husbands? Did some feel this way? Yes. But far from a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:31 AM
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There’s apparently an epidemic of women who can’t talk over people at business meetings themselves since it seems to happen to them so often. Literally never seen it happen that women get cut off every meeting they go to which listening to women on here you’d think is the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 04:05 AM
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OP literally contradicts the Madonna-whore complex. She says these strippers get men proposing marriage to them. I believe it. Finding a woman who is hot and actually can fake pretending to give a shit about you is intoxicating for a man as it’s so rare to find. Not at all surprised if strippers can easily find rich men to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:49 AM
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I think the growing numbers of single men with few dating and marriage prospects will be less receptive to hearing about how bad women have it, sure. But capitalism is powerful and people will keep working to survive. Young men can live off their parents for a huge chunk of time but eventually parents die or drain their savings and their son will need to get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:44 AM
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In fairness to women - they do seem to be. They supplement by having the occasional man pay for her dinner and drinks. But women have by and large seemed to resign themselves to being wage slaves. Some even pretend being a corporate cog in a machine is an enjoyable thing and call themselves “career women”.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:39 AM
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I don’t know about that. Sex is generally an interpersonal experience. Not having a desire to think of it being that does feel disordered to me. If a man told you he masturbates while thinking about ice cream cones and never thought of people you’d probably think he was a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 02:51 AM
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Women say this proudly but it seems psychopathic. The idea that sexual pleasure for you doesn’t even involve imagining another person is just very bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 01:23 AM
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I’d love to see this experiment. I think women would have more mental health problems or at least different ones. But I don’t think they’d pick up the male role. If womens sexuality is responsive than women might just not feel horny very often without men constantly trying to make them horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:38 PM
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Good call. This is a great option too. Where’s a good place to go you’ve found?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:02 AM
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Lol you are absurd. Male attention when they don’t pay = worthless Male attention + $50 = worth $50 When A + B = B It means A is worth nothing. Zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:28 AM
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Well - women feel safe with friends boyfriends because they are warm introductions and they know her friends boyfriend won’t try and sleep with her. It’s not as if this woman would have gotten to know him without being friends with his wife and she would have had her guard way up talking to him otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:28 PM
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Short guy, not white, wears glasses, was a little bit pudgy but actually worked out a lot and is now decently fit. Kindof cheap. A bit of a dorky personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:18 PM
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I think you need to stop and think logically. What you wrote makes no sense. Women are requiring men to give money in order to give them attention. So male attention is worthless unless they pay women money to give it away is what this means. Tell me, if required you to pay me in order to hangout with me, vs. another guy I let hang out with me for free, which guy do you think I see as more worthless?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:00 PM
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In the old days we didn’t overhear a girl say she wishes was a boy and rush her to the doctors to giver her chemicals to block puberty and then put her on a path to surgically mutilating her body before she’s old enough to even order a drink at a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 11:38 PM
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This isn’t a common thing. The last thread i read from a trans man was him having a meltdown on Reddit on how literally no one gives a shit about him and how strange women when he was a woman used to give him emotional comfort but now don’t as a man, and how no man wants to really be friends with him and even if he is friends with a man, they really don’t provide emotional support. I don’t think this one poster speaks for all trans men but I haven’t come across tons (i haven’t come across any ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:58 PM
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It’s unquestionable that doctors are far more willing to prescribe puberty blocking drugs to child patients than they were in the past. So you need to stop shoulder shrugging about a growing issue is what really needs to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:44 PM
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They certainly aren’t the top of the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 08:02 PM
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Well first of all, being straight and being gender non-conforming don’t relate to eachother so I have no idea what you are saying. And yes absolutely it’s concerning because these days the second a girl says she may want to be a boy they will put her on drugs to stop puberty and have her see medical professionals that will put her on a path to mutilating her body when she’s still almost a decade from being trusted to order a beer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:41 PM
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Concerning thread on how young girls wanting to be trans men is a social contagion
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:34 PM
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