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Just ask? Have you just been flatly asked and said yes?
/r/seduction09/07/20 02:33 AM
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I'm sorry, but this stuff has been suggested, and it doesn't work for me. No one I've found on YouTube will go into specifics on how to have charisma; it's all about self-improvement with no connection to how to flirt effectively or keep someone's attention. People like self-starters, and if you can't give me enough specific advice on how to lead conversations well or create fun, then unfortunately there is nothing that I can glean from this. There is a very, very fine line between too sexually …
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:20 AM
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Lol, "that's a you problem" in a support forum That's why I'm in this sub. Can you be any more specific or not?
/r/seduction07/07/20 03:31 PM
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So, if I'm the guy, how am I supposed to know that you're letting me take the lead? How am I supposed to distinguish that from disinterest?
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:19 AM
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That sounds like a big waste of my time if everyone I talk to doesn't have any interest in me. And that's a very real possibility.
/r/seduction07/07/20 08:17 AM
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Please explain what you mean by "more open ended with yourself"
/r/seduction03/07/20 05:08 AM
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Well, how do you get laid? If you're gonna call me an incel, are you actually going to help me try to flirt with people when I think there's mutual interest? I can guarantee right now that all you're going to provide is something empty and easy to say. I've had plenty of opportunities that I missed because I have no idea how to react to them, and we ended up being friends, or she ended up avoiding me because I missed all those really bad signals. You're the real loser for making fun of people fo…
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:20 PM
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Sorry I said anything. I will just resign myself to a life of having friends, missing opportunities, and hearing about the sex other people are having.
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:07 PM
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It goes really far in making friends and missing opportunities that I apparently had. But I guess I'll settle for having to be a mind reader when it comes to this stuff
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:04 PM
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Are you going to take the lead when you start finding him attractive?
/r/seduction02/07/20 05:59 PM
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It's true that no one should be seen as an object. But like you said in another comment, you keep conversations too platonic, and if I'm ever attracted to someone, I want to know how to flirt in a way that isn't too forward. Hookups happen. It's just a matter of knowing how bluntly to ask, because otherwise you'll just be a creep. But I've also had friends who wanted to hook up and I didn't know how much to take the lead. So "treating girls like human beings" is good life advice, but that's not …
/r/seduction02/07/20 05:56 PM
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We are literally in r/seduction dude
/r/seduction02/07/20 07:09 AM
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It actually gets you laid? How?
/r/seduction02/07/20 07:03 AM
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This has nothing to do with the actual art of seduction. I am ridiculously good at an instrument, have one more semester of college, have a great job, have joined multiple clubs where people have seemed interested in me, and have had zero hookups despite all that. A hooker doesn't think I'm attractive, and I don't have all the money in the world to pay hookers. And for the amount of nookie that is happening around me, by people who don't have the same appeal I think I do, no one wants to tell me…
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:34 PM
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Do you realize how much of a fallacy it is to say that because you were able to, everyone else can? I have terrible social skills (didn't go to public high school), and seduction is a pretty hard game on its own which involves a lot of luck. The line between "taking the lead" and "rape case" is really slim, and no one will fuck you if you outright ask. If you can give me a step-by-step guide or somehow get personally invested in getting me a hookup, I will listen to this motivation. Otherwise yo…
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:22 PM
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Have you ever gotten laid before?
/r/seduction24/06/20 07:03 PM
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And have nowhere to vent about it without hearing this bullshit?
/r/seduction24/06/20 09:12 AM
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Why don't you take initiative if you're so tired of men's shit?
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:37 AM
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So what signals do you send that are positive?
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:34 AM
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Now what signals do you use to tell a guy that you're attracted to him or not? I don't want to waste my time if it was doomed from the start.
/r/seduction21/06/20 04:33 AM
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Once I'm convinced, I'll absolutely be able to seduce some girls? I don't even think that's really too true. It's too based on luck
/r/seduction13/06/20 05:32 AM
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Okay, I've had plenty of female friends. That doesn't mean they've ever been attracted to me or would ever be okay with sleeping with me.
/r/seduction13/06/20 05:29 AM
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Because telling engaging stories is hard
/r/seduction28/05/20 02:50 AM
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Wow thanks, I'm cured!
/r/seduction27/05/20 07:49 PM
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How do you know if it is?
/r/seduction25/05/20 09:08 AM
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A life filled with girls is nothing more than LUCK. Opportunities are NOT results. You don't control what the other person says or quite a few circumstances. I was with a girl visibly nervous, giggling, and tripping over her words (giving me those eyes) when she asked me to come to her party that evening. We exchanged numbers. After calling/texting a couple times, I didn't hear anything back. EVERY time I get a girl's contact info the scheduling is so difficult that she loses interest. I keep up…
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:47 AM
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Yeah, so there's no perfect way to gauge how interested someone is. And if you can't be straightforward about it then basically you have to be a mind reader or just do it without asking when you think she's into it. Which is basically assault
/r/seduction25/05/20 08:15 AM
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I try to do that. Having an actual conversation with people and trying to connect with them is an important part of any conversation. That's a baseline for friendships, seduction, professional relationships, and life. The point of this post is to be a fun person, and there are definitely some specific pointers to get there.
/r/seduction21/05/20 09:22 AM
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So what are some ways to be a better leader in conversations?
/r/seduction21/05/20 03:41 AM
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Some people are not gifted with the best social skills. These are mostly people with good intentions who want and deserve to experience romance and stronger relationships. THANK YOU. I know I can't have everyone I want, but conversations have to strike a really delicate balance between flirty and matter-of-fact to make it a possibility. Specific advice in moving things along or making my own fun is all I'm looking for.
/r/seduction20/05/20 11:07 AM
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I'm sorry you had to experience that, and I hope you are healing from it or feeling better. I should have looked at the thread more carefully before jumping to a conclusion.
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:51 PM
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What's the balance that works for you? My understanding is you can't bring up your intent to hook up in the middle of the first conversation or first text. In fact, it doesn't strike me as something anyone would agree to if you're blunt.
/r/seduction18/05/20 05:57 AM
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Months of my life gone
/r/seduction18/05/20 05:54 AM
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So you're arguing that Girls who are about that party life they been partying they been having sex is more derogatory than Its okay my fiancée was a trump supporter when i met him, I helped him realize how wrong he was. Im sure you will also see the light someday. You literally don't think your boyfriend can think for himself. You just called me stupid because I'm not a full left-winger. Nobody here said girls were bad, or stupid, or unworthy of respect as people. Hookups are transactional. Peop…
/r/seduction18/05/20 05:45 AM
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If someone decently attractive just flat-out asked you to hook up after talking for a little bit, would you? Hookups are more emotion-based for women than for men. No need to deny it
/r/seduction17/05/20 07:01 AM
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I Make Women Instantly Comfortable – Simply because I’m comfortable with myself. Yeah, problem solved!!! Years of social inexperience can all be solved by thinking this.
/r/seduction17/05/20 06:59 AM
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You mean a discussion among people who don't have as much success as you apparently do?
/r/seduction17/05/20 06:54 AM
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How is thinking lowly of some girls any different than thinking lowly of some guys?
/r/seduction03/05/20 02:41 AM
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r/lostredditors
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:51 PM
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then you work on showing the people around you a great experience This is DIRECTLY proportional to personal development. This is the piece I can't do because I overthink conversations. And before you say it like everyone else... "just stop overthinking" is a simple piece of advice, but it's near impossible if your social skills are lacking.
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:48 PM
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And if you visit any frontpage political post, the comments are a pity party circlejerk that will downvote motivational comments to hell. But heaven forbid someone should be discouraged in a sub like this one
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:39 PM
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You can be afraid of damaging your ego in front of a huge crowd of people when she doesn't take your advances well.
/r/seduction01/05/20 11:33 PM
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Waiting sounds like the perfect way for her to lose interest in you
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:36 AM
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Would you have been attracted to him if he wasn't that physically attractive?
/r/seduction17/04/20 06:33 AM
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The fact that you are making it seem like getting laid is hard is whats making it hard. Even if you were raised without social skills and have to put in a million times more work? Where girls will ignore you for someone more fun than you? Getting past that shit is simple but not easy
/r/seduction19/11/19 08:39 AM
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This culture keeps reinforcing traditional roles so that social self-improvement falls entirely on men. That said, most women do work pretty hard to live up to societal expectations surrounding hygiene and propriety.
/r/seduction15/11/19 04:54 PM
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u/recentstudies put your money where your mouth is and post this video
/r/seduction13/11/19 07:29 PM
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That's too vague to be helpful. Could you point us to some resources you used?
/r/seduction12/11/19 11:24 PM
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I'm automatically a troll because I'm questioning advice that's too vague to act on?
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:29 AM
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"These things always have fucked shit up for me in the past" and yet you still don't want to get into specifics. This still isn't concrete evidence of what made you successful in previous years.
/r/seduction11/11/19 09:53 AM
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That shit takes time, and fashion is very subjective. And I'm probably not alone in saying that you are lucky to have gotten good social skills, confidence, and a sense of leadership in your youth. Quite a few of those well-groomed people are the ones making oversimplified posts here. It doesn't do me much good to see "you need to toe the line between creepy and beta" and "all you need is confidence" when I was taught that "you absolutely must be a gentleman" and "your subservience makes you dis…
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:00 AM
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That fish hook analogy is the entire problem here. I can go to the store and buy the best bait in the store. Then, by sitting on the lake for a couple hours and reeling the fish in slowly, I can get several catches. Life is so much more unpredictable than that. There are so many extra variables. Giving specific advice for specific circumstances (field reports, etc) would be a lot more helpful than yet another copy of the same circlejerk I read on tristansbootybible.com last week.
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:24 AM
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"Natural seducers interact with women in a way that has women naturally attracted to them" "You do that by going in and just being you, being fun and funny as if you were hanging out with your best friend" These things don't overlap for some people. I am not naturally interesting. Which one takes higher priority?
/r/seduction10/11/19 03:10 AM
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The disconnect and failure to communicate is that u/superlonely69 is assuming everyone giving him advice is naturally talented, and that none of these people he's surrounded by have to put in much effort. And he honestly does have to put in a lot of effort, facing a big uphill battle. But everyone here is making it out to be something extremely easy. Dude, I am in the same boat as you. I want this so bad. I'm starting to take therapy, work out 3 days a week to get better posture, up my game, and…
/r/seduction26/06/19 12:53 PM
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