| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Trying to prove that banning hate communities has positive effects on recovery communitiesDude. Just go read: "The FBI defines organized crime as any group having some manner of a formalized structure and whose primary objective is to obtain money through illegal activities. Such groups maintain their position through the use of actual or threatened violence, corrupt public officials, graft, or extortion." or "International Organized Crime refers to those self-perpetuating associations of individuals who operate internationally for the purpose of obtaining power, influence, monetary … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Trying to prove that banning hate communities has positive effects on recovery communitiesI literally was raised around organized crime. I get it much more than you realize. But if you're giving up already, okay. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Trying to prove that banning hate communities has positive effects on recovery communitiesTo counter your argument, when does that threshold get met? When is it okay to cancel them? When they reach Hitler level? How about how Tate created a network of mindless drones to do his advertising for him (literally called proxy recruitment in cults because unless charges can happen under RICO or other organized crime laws, the patsy is the one that gets the heat. You should REALLY learn more about organized crime and see if you still have this opinion after. OC is no joke, ESPECIALLY when th… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/10/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | I can't leave the Red Pill because I have a redpilled friend that is insanely good with womenMeetup.com | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is the RP community so against being friends with woman?Because then you're a beta orbiter who isn't alpha enough to just fuck the bitch and leave. Betas stick around to become a "friend". Pfft. Duh. /s | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | How can a grown 30+ year old man fall for this stuff?Me and my main partner got into it at 30 ages ago because it was sold as a way to fix our relationship. We were both dedicated to it, but we're both raised religious and very behind. It certainly caught us up, but did so much damage in the process. Made my partner very hostile and abusive for many years, I lost the man I loved, my thoughts and intentions were accused as being 'hidden', I was constantly punished for things I didn't do or even think about, etc. It was an absolute disaster. I hate … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Another Reason why I left the Red PillWell, you can't have proper cult formation without the "us vs. them". And people really want to close their eyes to these facts. It hits so many cult checkmarks it's not even funny. They primarily function using a 'Quote Mining' style technique where a lot of the stuff is technically true but there are many other factors involved to making a situation happen, that they'll deny it away, say it's not important, etc. But since when can we create quality studies by hiding data points that are also t… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Another Reason why I left the Red PillI think AWALT becomes easier to swallow when we forget that people have a ten thousand plus different reasons why people do things. Red Pill paints only a few broad strokes over women's actions. This can make a statement technically true and feed into our natural biases and cognitive distortions when we see a woman do a thing and our brain goes, "She did that because of X and therefore Y", but in a lot of cases, Red Pill has been completely off the mark. Same as men though. Men don't like being … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I make real connections with women? Looks, Money, StatusI personally looovee funny guys with a good banter/flirt game. I'm a firm believer to make time to flirt with your man often, but it's gotta be reciprocal. Having a good sexting game can be good too. I loved it when my exes would send me filthy texts when I least expected it. I have fun chilling and playing video games with my guys. It honestly depends on the type of woman you're looking for. I mean, LMS is a perk sure, but it's far from the thing that will keep a relationship going on strong. K… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/10/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How can I help?Sorry, I don't do DMs anymore. Feel free to ask here. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/10/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Why has there been a trend of white autistic males becoming male feminists?Please enlighten me to your thought process on how male feminism damages your brain because it's a form of self-loathing. Help me see your perspective please. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Girls say im very coldPolyamorous people exist. Not everyone who has multiple relationships are cheaters. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why has there been a trend of white autistic males becoming male feminists?Male feminism damages your brain? Did I read that right? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/10/22 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.You do realize that psychosis can't be controlled, right? Like you get psychosis from being gaslit, among other things. People don't choose to get it. It's like the flu but in the brain. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.Common baiting tactic of the trolls. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.I think this is just poorly worded honestly. I think they're trying to say, 'do you hold yourself accountable for staying so long'? From my own experiences with dating those with mental illnesses, staying even when I was being treated so poorly, was obviously an issue I needed to deal with. I did the typical, 'maybe they're just having a bad week' and tried to let it go. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 03:51 PM |
| 6 | How can I help?To add to this, this is exactly why my help (care of my buddy who killed himself because of Red Pill) by just sharing the distortions and biases they promote to help people see through some of it on their own. I listen to them, try to find the sources of their hurts (a lot of the time it's actually how they've framed the situation and their processing path), and share tons of resources, books, etc. that can help them work through it until they can get to a therapist. While you're not a therapist… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about women with BPD.As a woman who has been "held accountable" way too many times for having BPD when I didn't actually have BPD, I can say, from experience, your viewpoint is incredibly dangerous. My life, career, and reputation was decimated by this viewpoint and very much why I left most of my Red Pill friends and circles. I was married into Red Pill long ago and it's been a very unfortunate and traumatic thing to have in my life. I had too many men in my life suddenly 'diagnosing' me and treating me as per thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Why would women nowadays want to be monogamous?This guy gets women. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why would women nowadays want to be monogamous?Sex isn't always about numbers either. My count is very low, but I have a lot of sex. Sex brings couples together, it builds intimacy, it builds tension, it helps couples learn about the one they love, etc. Sex is and can be a very legitimate focal point for a lot of couples. Especially ones with high sex drives that love exploring each other all the time. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/10/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | New to ex Red Pill-is hypergamy even the norm? Do women love cocky Dbags? Is any of this stuff even true? Here is my story.I come from a broken home I'm cocky and somewhat full of myself because that personality developed from consistent abuse in childhood I needed to be somewhat narcissistic in order to survive the trauma that I went through I definitely have a cocky, douchey personality. That evolved from a lot of childhood trauma. Fellow broken home girl here who was in this similar position and I'll try to chime in a bit. I was (still sorta am) very cute, house wife trained, cook well, used manners, sassy but st… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/10/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | I need to break free of this...You may want to remove that last one if you want to be taken seriously. Julian has quite the colourful past. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is body count so important when the numbers can't be verified anyways? What if a man says he's only been with 5 women when the real number is 125?I 100% agree, just trying to make a point regarding one of the previous posts. The down side of Red Pill is it keeps us hyper-focused on certain things that don't always matter in the grand scheme of things, you know? Maybe this was my failed attempt to get them to see that. Thanks for your input. :) | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Why is body count so important when the numbers can't be verified anyways? What if a man says he's only been with 5 women when the real number is 125?None of this answers the main question (and it seems to be woman-focused not male-focused like my scenario). If men and women are different, we should focus on those studies no? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?What are the other variables that can have an impact? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?It's your argument. I'm just asking if you even looked. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do ex red pill people say body count doesn't matter?Did you check for ones that don't confirm your bias? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/10/22 07:35 AM |
| 3 | Why men prefer younger womenWell yes, those experiences happen too. But I'm talking about abusive relationships as was the context of the comment I was replying to. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:08 AM |
| 28 | Ex RP’ers, I have a questionWelcome to the dissonance trap that is Red Pill. I believe it's intentional. It's called "doublethink". | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Why men prefer younger womenThere is also the financial abuse aspect. Younger ones are more likely to get 'stuck' not being able to leave them as well. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 06:35 AM |
| 3 | The red pill is bad but… what other option do we have?They do though. They have AA, CODA, and other 12 step meetups throughout the country. They're there, they just don't have the same advertising power. Men in general need to go back to having a good and healthy brotherhood again, open chat groups that are supportive based on new mental health science, etc. and not this, "you're not worthy because you're not making $100k crap". | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/22 10:38 PM |
| 1 | When meeting old acquaintances that knew during the time I was heavy in the RPMY BROTHER DID YOU WATCH THE SAME FUCKING FILM? Same with Matrix. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/22 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Redpill experience - how to deal before rationalization?Being able to express what exactly was wrong was so incredibly hard without some background in psychology. Once I did psychology 101 in a free training thing and finally started therapy for it, it was like a ton of new doors in verbal communication opened and suddenly I could tell people exactly what I was feeling, the why, what I needed, when I needed rest, etc. She may just need the right 'language' to tell you in. Fostering trust is huge with women with mental illnesses. She needs to be able … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/09/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Redpill experience - how to deal before rationalization?To add to this great comment, I have OCD myself and it can be somewhat isolating if you're self-aware because 1) OCD is just plain exhausting, especially if you have compulsive rumination which 2) causes us to seem as if we're tired from your trauma dump but is often because OCD like your moods vary based on our daily stressors and can be dealt with properly but sometimes not 3) sometimes we just have bad weeks and it literally has nothing to do with anything external and 4) OCD can cause other … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/22 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Many Red Pill coaches confuse "emotionally damaged" with "morally/ethically corrupt" and it confuses so many unnecessarily.There are a lot of variables to the scenarios you put there that can have many outcomes depending on deeper context. Repeatedly chasing looks is pretty shallow, but isn't isolated to those with emotional damage and/or morally corrupt. We see decent people do that all the time, especially if they're similarly woo'd by the fakeness of it all (makeup contouring, fillers, fake lashes, etc.) I don't personally see chasing looks as either. My personal standards are fairly low, so it's hard for me to s… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/22 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Within a single day, two people brought up red pill theory to me.The thing I notice, especially with a lot of these coaches is their view counts are substantially less than their overall subscribers. This guy has over 500k subscribers, but struggles to get more than about 40k to watch. Things like this, especially coming from a business background myself, they'll pay for subscribers to make it look as if they're more popular than they are (I tested this out with some of my own followers to prove a point). Red Pill is dying whether they want to admit it or not… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/09/22 02:32 PM |
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