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1

What do you mean by asked out? I've expressed my interest in a woman twice (tho I technically expressed it 3 times to one person so that would make it 4 in total). If we're just talking asked out on a date, I've asked out someone maybe 3 or 4 times and been asked out a similar amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:05 PM
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I'd prefer to be attracted to someone but I'm attracted to people quickly and my attraction can grow the more I start liking someone's personality. So looks/beauty play a very small role overall. More important are compatibility w.r.t personalities, similar views on family and childrearing and compatible life styles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:03 PM
3

I never have sex so a decline wouldn't really impact me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:01 PM
1

She's a 6 or a 7? That still sounds attractive. If I really got along with someone I think I could love her no matter what she looked like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 03:40 AM
5

Why isn't there a both option for dominant/submissive? You're discriminating us switches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 12:40 AM
1

All I'd tell my past self is to go see a therapist already or he'll always stay a depressed piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 12:33 AM
3

I'd be flattered and possibly interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 02:45 PM
3

the core foundation is children imo. if in that sexually-incompatible person i still saw a great mother for our children i would still want a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 05:21 PM
7

Maybe a few times. They still didn't give me those tingles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:45 AM
32

I have never in my 26 years on this planet been in the presence of a man who felt like a "different kind of human being".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:33 AM
2

It literally does not matter one iota.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 06:39 PM
6

I have no problem calling men hot. I like Michael B Jordan, Chiwetel Ejiofor, Paul Newman, Orson Welles, Haruki Murakami, Barack Obama, etc. I don't really idealize them tho. I do admire men I know, like my dad and my best friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 09:15 PM
1

Sounds like a great partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:48 PM
2

I give zero fucks about chastity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 07:49 PM
3

I'm a virgin but I've always wanted to eat a woman out. I'm looking forward to eating a woman out far more than I am getting a blowjob. I guess I like the idea of pleasing someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 04:03 PM
4

Incels are people who don't try. They're only "victims" of their own insecurity and cowardice. And I'm talking as someone who used to briefly identify as an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 06:02 PM
12

I don't think incels are necessarily anymore attention-seeking than other people but they're definitely self-victimizing and self-centred.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 02:48 PM
1

Myself. If my companionship/partnership isn't enough she can go somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:01 PM
3

Yes, Ruth Negga is gorgeous as well. And she's half-Ethiopian, which makes me like her even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 05:35 PM
10

Zadie Motherfucking Smith
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 04:10 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:06 PM
3

IME as a mid-twenties virgin, no woman gives a flying fuck once she actually knows who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:04 PM
1

That kid will always be my child and I will make it my first priority to be there for them, even if his mom and I split up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:44 PM
3

I'm a virgin so I can't really say if it's overrated or not. I think a lot of people seem far too obsessed with (a lack of) it tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 04:35 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:24 AM
3

I'm a virgin at 26. I'm perfectly fine with it now but I did feel sad and like I was missing out when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 05:24 PM
4

Lack of intelligence and lacking a sense of humour. Being snobby or judgmental.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 03:05 PM
3

I didn't date when I was fat and I continued not to date when I got fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:10 PM
3

Sexual behaviour was far more restricted back in the day so exploration of one's fetishes was a lot harder. However, cuckolding has been used fetishistically(as in, with the intent to arouse) and described as a fetish in literature throughout history.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 10:44 AM
3

Me too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:44 AM
1

Fat guys can be successful with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:31 PM
16

Cuckolding is as old as time because of male insecurity towards competition. Blaming it on feminism is laughably stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:36 PM
1

Sure. I couldn't be in a relationship with her tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 08:18 AM
27

Cockiness is funny when combined with self-awareness and a little self-deprecation. Trump has zero self-awareness. It's why I don't find him intentionally funny, charming or intimidating/alpha in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 09:07 AM
13

As someone who's never had sex, I'd like to think I'd care about my partner's pleasure. I can't imagine sleeping with someone and not doing my best to make them feel as good as possible. Even if it was purely casual and with a complete stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:27 PM
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Love, intimacy, companionship and the ability to start a family. I've been single for my entire life and could probably stay single forever so technically, I don't need women. But I do really want a partner and I'd want her to feel the same way about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:20 PM
1

Taking some time out to work on yourself is a valid strategy. I think it's ultimately a bad idea to put life on hold tho. Better to get out and socialize even when you don't like yourself yet. After all, self-improvement is a lifelong journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:16 PM
2

Status and wealth comes with its own halo-effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:15 PM
1

I want women to need me as much as I need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:06 PM
1

This is completely foreign to me. I have never thought like this myself and as far as I know, neither have any of my friends or other men I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 01:46 PM
1

My low self-esteem. It makes it very hard to pursue women or to make use of whatever opportunities come my way. I'm trying to manage it/get over it through therapy and medication right now. I'm not really sure how to answer that second question. I have BDD and have always had low self-esteem. I can't really blame it on anything/anyone, not even myself. I do blame myself for not trying to work on it till now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:58 PM
2

How would the women here know whether the men of the generation they're in are more or less masculine than any other generation? This is such a meaningless and stupid question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:55 PM
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Yeah, I wish nudity for both genders was more normalized. I wanna see men be sexy and desirable nude and I want to see women be disgusting or funny nude. I just want more nudity all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:33 PM
3

For some men, it's bad because they just really like sex and want it as soon as possible. They're probably not compatible with someone like you. For others, it all depends on how quickly you slept with past partners because they believe that indicates your attraction to them/their value as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:51 PM
1

No, I don't sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:05 AM
7

Yeah. Vag boners would make the world a better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:44 PM
2

No. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who thought they were doing me a favor or "giving" it to me. Done right, sex is good for all participants. It can be done for all sorts of reasons but there shouldn't be giver and receiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:03 PM
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I'm a feminist. Not only do I have 2 younger brothers but I even happen to be a man myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 06:49 PM
5

That sounds exactly like a friend of mine. She's taken but I'd marry the shit out of her if she wasn't. 100% wifey-material.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 06:48 PM
5

Having an ONS shows that you can enjoy sex for what it is. So how is it more respectful to make a person wait for something you would both enjoy? I can understand wanting to wait for sex and I can also understand people changing with time/experience. But I have no idea how it could be about respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 04:40 PM
1

Maybe it's not extremely unusual, simply unusual. I still think guys like us pretty big outliers but again, there's nothing wrong with that. I don't think being a virgin at any age has to be indicative of "low value" or other such nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:41 PM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with being a virgin at my age but I'm pretty sure only 4% of men are still a virgin at 25. So I do think my virginity is extremely unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 02:29 PM
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I think MGTOW is weird in general. If you're really going your own way you don't really have to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 07:19 AM
1

This is already the case. A majority of men would have sex with a woman on the first date or without commitment. So men invest more by waiting longer than they'd like. That's enough IMO. No need to pay for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 07:19 AM
1

Being able to cook is always attractive, especially if you know old family recipes. I find it attractive when people are athletic and know a few sports. Rock climbing, hiking and dancing are especially attractive. I like creative skills/hobbies so being able to use an instrument or write music is cool. I like writing better tho. I find it more attractive. Being good in science subjects is nice too because it would be a counterweight to my own area (the humanities/social sciences).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 12:18 AM
1

Thanks. SSRIs are making me less suicidal so they're helping as far as I can tell. I am always going to be insecure and have low self-esteem to some degree. It's been a part of my personality for as long as I can remember. I don't even mind it all that much, to be honest. I just want to be motivated enough to want to be alive. I'm not overly concerned with being or staying single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 12:05 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:50 AM
2

Thank you for the compliment. I have had opportunities to go on dates or even to have sex but I have never taken them. I am too insecure and depressed to date normally so it is not a priority at this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:16 AM
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I've never asked for help directly or broke down and cried in front of someone else. However, I have openly discussed my depression with women and women themselves have approached me because they wanted to help me get out of my shell and be more confident. So I'd say that my experiences with showing weakness in front of women have been overwhelmingly positive. I never tried to date any of these women but some might've been interested despite knowing about my issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:12 AM
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Mid-twenties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:30 PM
1

I'm either no pill or blue pill. I haven't had sex. I'm at an age where that is extremely unusual so you could say I don't do well with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 08:01 PM
1

Patriarchal societies have tried enforcing this way of life for centuries so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 06:31 AM
3

I hate all these internet names for shit. Nice guys, cool girls, numales, soyboys, SJWs, etc. I mean, they just sound like spineless doormats. We don't need a new special word for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:30 PM
3

A lot of people hope or wish that their feelings towards someone mean something to that person and that simply expressing those feelings will make them fall in love too. "Doesn't my love and attraction make you feel special and wanted, therefore making you fall for me too". It's a little immature but I think pretty common. People who know that it doesn't like that probably still feel that hope every now and again. I have no idea why you think this is something that is especially a problem for un…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 09:38 AM
2

The feminist perspective on "LMR" is simple. Women are actual human beings. When they express discomfort or say no they deserve to be listened to. Nothing a woman does can make a man entitled to overruling her own bodily autonomy. Just because she came up and got naked doesn't mean you get to decide what's going to happen, even if she expresses doubts/seems no longer interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 09:27 AM
1

It all depends on what a person wants. If you really value looks it's worth it to wait long enough for those few women out of your league who will go for you. On the other hand, if you value other things or don't want to try as hard you can just go for women more your level, or even below.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:53 PM
9

Yes, your one friend and the women he sleeps with reveal the enormity of our masculinity problem today. Quick, somebody post some Jordan Peterson videos so we can all remember to clean our rooms and find our inner lobster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 09:51 PM
1

I didn't check.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 10:21 PM
0

Good on her making sure she gets what she asks for I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 09:43 PM
1

Atlas got to you too, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:39 PM
3

What justifies that comparison?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:28 PM
6

Is there any indication that this man is not an adult? And do you think a lot of adult women are deliberately exploiting interested children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:25 PM
8

Lmao are you comparing a thirsty dude with a mentally handicapped person? Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:14 PM
4

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/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:41 PM
1

Sure, as long as she's clean. I could use the money. My minimum to say yes to any clean and hygienic woman is probably 500 bucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 11:56 AM
1

You should try posting there. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:39 AM
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He flew all the way to Sweden in the hopes of getting with her, without knowing if she was interested. I mean, this is just a video of a dumbass. I'm not sure what's there to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:14 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/Femcels/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:13 AM
2

I don't like showing my emotions "in the moment" but when I've opened up to women about my depression and other deep-seated emotional issues they've always reacted with understanding and empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:02 AM
5

Because it's all a bunch of bullshit. They're nonsense terms and I've never noticed a real-life situation where they'd be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 12:21 PM
2

Because of traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 10:07 AM
3

I just want a woman who isn't concerned with that fucking shit. Just be yourself and let me be myself too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:51 PM
1

I have no fucking idea. I'm pretty in touch with my feminine side and don't really feel like I have to stick to one side of the spectrum. I'd like a woman who feels the same way. So I'm not turned off at all by women with "masculine" traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 02:50 PM
3

I think it's pretty common for men to want to date around before marrying. I think fewer men than women want to settle down young.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 04:39 PM
1

Being awkward makes her less attractive to a lot of men. Or at least a lot less noticeable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:30 PM
1

Not a fan, huh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 01:01 PM
3

You got me there. Boobs do sound pretty sweet. Of course, we can have something like boobs too. Just have to be overweight enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:49 PM
4

Vaginas can't helicopter tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:38 PM
2

There's a simplistic joy to having something dangle down there. It's fun to know it's there. Like a little buddy who's always by your side. When you're all by yourself it can be relaxing to just mindlessly wiggle it around. I mean, I already know what it's like to have a hole down there. I have one of those. So unless the vagina is somehow better than an asshole, and it doesn't sound like it because asses don't bleed, I think penis beats vagina handedly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:38 PM
2

A homeless man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:10 PM
3

Why wouldn't you want a penis? It's pretty fun to play with and doesn't bleed once a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:09 PM
6

I wouldn't want to be reborn. Or I'd want to be something non-human. But if I really had to pick I'd try female this time. Why not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:07 PM
5

Women don't approach us. They do approach men they're actually attracted to. Both directly and indirectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 09:08 PM
11

Most women will go for nr. 1, a few will go for nr. 2 and very few will pick nr. 3. Picture 1 focuses on the face and his expression while also showing off a hint of muscle and hairiness. That does a lot better with most women than a hairless gym picture with the focus squarely on the body. So it's not even about the men, it's about the type of picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:38 AM
3

Depression, social anxiety, BDD and a host of other mental illnesses are excuses?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:35 PM
7

I'm a blue pilled "incel". My hatred for my body/sexuality goes back to my BDD and depression. I wouldn't be able to say what portion of self-proclaimed incels are blue-pilled, not many of the ones I've met, but I think most have similar self-esteem/body-image issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 10:33 PM
1

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 09:07 PM
2

1) blue pill I guess, male, single 2) I just want to be a positive force in the lives of the people around me. 3) Right now I'm just trying to not be a suicidally depressed person. Getting out of this hole would benefit my family tho so in some ways I am pursuing my purpose. 4) I don't know. I'd want to write a novel and travel, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 11:53 AM
1

Be hygienic and take good care of yourself. Make sure your outfit, hair and makeup are on point. Making sure you're at a healthy weight might make you more conventionally attractive but it won't make someone more attractive to me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 08:22 PM
10

"Love the most" is some fairytale bullshit. Of course, you marry the woman you love when you're ready to marry. Only people that can't help but look back at the past with rose-tinted glasses think in terms of "people they loved more". It's a stupid and immature way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 12:31 PM
1

I like short hairstyles and am attracted to androgynous faces. I also do not mind masculine mannerisms. So I think quite favourably of butch women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:36 AM
2

Who is cheating if not the high-value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/18 04:34 AM
1

You can look for an LTR and hook up at the same time tho. Casual sex doesn't preclude looking for something serious so I don't see why it would carry negative consequences or be costly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 07:48 PM
4

How is you feeling empty costly? If it's not satisfying anymore just get into another relationship. Costly would be if there were long-term negative consequences and I don't think there are. Outside of the possibility of STDs and unwanted pregnancies obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 12:36 PM
2

Sadly, no experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 11:43 AM
18

Masculinity is everything we traditionally associate with manhood. It's dominance, assertiveness, aggression, stoicism, leadership, the ability to provide, etc. Physically, masculinity is being tall and big (preferable muscular). Deep voices are masculine. Beards are masculine. It's not one size fits all. A violent criminal can be masculine because of his aggression and domineering personality. But someone like Obama is masculine too. He is dominant, assertive, stoic and a natural leader as well…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:36 PM
1

Of course, you can lower your standards. Everybody can learn to love and be attracted to just about anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:19 AM
2

This is mainly an online phenomenon tho. I agree that online nerd spaces can be very hostile to women but I don't think many people use online fora to find women. Same goes for in-game chat. Hostile to women but also not a place to pick up girls. So when (video game) nerds complain about having a hard time getting women it's more about the judgment they receive in the real world. I doubt that judgment has to do with the hostility of online video game environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:18 AM
4

No. I didn't say you did either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:42 PM
4

You don't have to ignite it tho. You're just enjoying the results of a man doing the work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:15 PM
2

Nothing about the way y'all describe female attraction sounds fun. It sounds annoying. Men are much simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:35 PM
4

God, I wish I was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 07:19 PM
3

I'm attracted to all kinds of women, including ones that are overweight and even obese. I do not find slim women automatically more attractive than overweight ones. There is no why. I just find those women attractive as well. My experience with men and women who claim that personality and intelligence matters more is that they're often not fully cognizant of their standards for looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:07 PM
1

So you're saying I shouldn't have my Realdoll sit on the sofa when I'm having a date over?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 01:23 PM
14

MGTOW isn't really something you decide to do. Men Sent Their Own Way is more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 05:04 PM
12

I always thought marriage was for children...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 12:22 AM
1

I'd be satisfied with an intimate but non-sexual relationship. Just let Chad do the sexing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:49 PM
1

Cuddling up and watching Netflix is platonic couple stuff, right? I don't cuddle up with my buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:44 PM
4

Lack of confidence hurts men and women in different ways. I do think men are judged more harshly on lack of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:37 PM
2

Life is hell and people want to share that misery with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:33 PM
1

Friendzoned roommate, cuckold. I don't really care what you call it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:32 PM
1

I'm confident enough, just realistic about my personality. Just like OP. My hypothetical girl will probably need a nice soyboy beta numale to cuddle up and watch Netflix with. I'm there for when she's too sore for giga-anal with Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 10:24 PM
1

Nah, she'll spend time with me most of the time and get fucked by more alpha men occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 09:58 PM
7

If it's so bad that you're frustrated about not finding anyone LTR-material you're probably being too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:48 PM
7

If you can't get anyone at all and are frustrated about it you're too picky. As long as you're satisfied with your sex life/dating situation you're okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:43 PM
1

I'm not into it. Just saying that if you're not alpha enough to attract a woman it's probably your best option for female companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:42 PM
1

Don't normie women want alpha's too? And I think I'd rather have a woman cuck me behind my back than a domme stomping on my balls or humiliating me the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 06:41 PM
1

She'll probably still want an alpha at least some of the time. Don't think I can avoid the cuckolding entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:33 PM
1

So I should get my nuts kicked instead? That doesn't sound all that much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:23 PM
2

Just cause I'm a numale doesn't mean my nerve endings in my genital area are dead. Dick torture sounds painful. I'll just let my partner get her fill with alpha men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:01 PM
4

Women generally find it attractive but I think it's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:41 PM
3

Join the numale club buddy. Just try to get into cuckolding, it's our only hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 03:16 PM
0

So women get turned on by being the object of desire for strong, masculine, high-status men (like Trump... ). What a bummer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:47 AM
1

It's a very admirable achievement. Obese women are beautiful and any man is lucky to sleep with them. He's hotter. Obese women are pickier than slim and fit women. They are referring to all hooking up. It's hard no matter who you go after, obese women or boring ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 11:29 PM
8

You absolute Chad. Okay, I guess you'll just have to realize that everyone is shallow and that you didn't change for anyone but yourself. This is the real you now and you shouldn't think less of the people who like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 10:01 PM
21

Just give up on relationships and use your anger to pump and dump women. Take revenge on behalf of all us uggos bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 09:48 PM
8

Women with bad taste exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:49 PM
3

Of course. Being yourself doesn't mean be content with your life, it means going for the things that truly make you happy. To not let others decide the path your life will take. Your true self will probably repel some people but you'll end up surrounded by the people that actually, genuinely make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 04:09 PM
6

I think it's good to feel like you deserve love or the deserve whoever it is you're attracted to. As in, there's no reason why you wouldn't deserve something. Feeling inferior to others is bad and you shouldn't let your own insecurities stop you from trying to get what you want. Having said that, you obviously cannot expect something or feel entitled to it. Asking "why" when it comes to dating is never a good idea. There is no "why", people just do what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 01:14 PM
1

Preselection makes a huge difference. If you missed the social boat you're basically shit outta luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:47 AM
29

The women I know who are single in their 30s and desperate for a relationship typically dated a lot in their twenties. They are all rather attractive. I don't know why women here keep peddling this idea that it's the hottest and most popular women who get locked down early. That has not been my experience at all. Whether someone marries early has literally nothing to do with how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 08:46 AM
6

Not many men stay virgins throughout college. The ones that do either do so by choice or have specific problems holding them back and preventing them from putting in the effort. Whether these men do get to date later on depends on whether they want to and/or are willing to pull themselves together.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:23 PM
2

Q4ALL: How female loneliness differs from male loneliness? I don't think there's a real gendered difference in loneliness. Q4ALL: Is it possible for men to sympathize with women and vice versa? Of course. Q4M: Have you ever felt or feel right now lonely? Yes, loneliness has been a constant in my life and I feel lonely now too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 01:52 PM
1

My dad's a pretty good example IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:38 AM
1

I was joking. Also, feminists don't whisper excerpts from The Second Sex in women's ear as a way of seducing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 09:37 AM
4

Hot male feminists attract everyone. Ugly male feminists attract no one. That's been my experience at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 05:47 PM
4

Men with difficulties dating seem butthurt that overweight women still get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:34 AM
-1

It'll bring you into contact with more people who also happen to be kinky. Some of them might not think or care that you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 08:33 AM
2

Even if this was true (it isn't) what's so bad about it? Sounds like all the fun genes would get passed on. I wish I was a bad boy celeb with low inhibitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 03:39 PM
5

People will sacrifice other standards when their partner really excels in one area. This goes for looks, money, fame, talent, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 03:37 PM
1

Sure it's feasible for him to have casual sex. Join Fetlife or a BDSM club and start hanging out in the kinky scene is one way. Or just try extra hard at online dating. It's also feasible to have a happy relationship. How good looking the partner depends on the eye of the beholder obviously. Life's not over and sex is not impossible for unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 03:20 PM
1

I dunno, if it ever gets as convincing as in Blade Runner 2049 I think people might easily forgo actual relationships in favour of an idealized AI partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 09:42 AM
3

This is me but for Islam. I hate how people expect ex-muslims like me to virulently hate Islam or to join them in their thinly-veiled racist mocking of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:19 PM
1

If I like someone now their past doesn't really matter to me. So I'm definitely permissive in that regard. During the relation is another matter. I think I'm overall a forgiving person but I can't say for sure how I'd react to certain things (infidelity for example).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 04:15 PM
0

I'm not sure. I think that if you've put some effort into picking good pictures, writing a good bio and sending interesting first messages you'll probably be relatively successful on some online dating website. I've never approached people just out and about so I'm not sure what the typical success rate is there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:13 PM
14

I don't see the point in rejecting someone before they make their interest explicit. Even if it's totally obvious that he's interested in you, it is still his responsibility to actually do something. It's not on you to "protect" him by telling him you're not attracted to him. Especially since this can easily backfire and make you the target of verbal abuse or worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 09:56 AM
3

Why would either be bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:18 AM
3

No complaints tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:17 AM
2

You're responsible for your own satisfaction through good communication and initiative-taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:40 PM
1

One is overweight, the other is normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:50 AM
1

I think women's sexuality is mostly just stupid and doesn't make a whole lot of sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:26 AM
5

I'd say this woman and this one are pretty average.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 10:23 AM
2

I disagree because this does not in any way describe my sexuality. And I don't think I'm unique in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 08:04 PM
2

My username is very tongue-in-cheek. I don't really believe in alphas, betas and omegas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:00 PM
5

I'm getting better. My mood is actually on a major upswing thanks to anti-depressants and therapy. So a 7 currently. I'm a male, mid-twenties, single and blue pill-ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:53 PM
2

This is purely anecdotal but in my experience, very attractive women have often been less superficial than average and below-average looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:08 AM
28

Rough sex is like the first step up from simple vanilla sex. It's not surprising that so many people enjoy it because it's likely the first thing anyone thinks of when they want to spice it up in the bedroom. Also, I actually think it gets talked about a lot these days. It's kind of a "trend". A lot of women talk about it openly to advertise how "exciting" they are. I feel like a lot of people believe women wanting rough sex means something profound when it really fucking doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:23 PM
5

Nowadays? Definitely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 03:27 PM
6

If you've found your way to this subreddit you're kinda an outlier by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 12:53 PM
3

TRP actually encourages it's members to go out and interact with women. Incels bully you if you're not a NEET staying home all day. It's like how Republicans aren't as openly bad as Nazis but they do far more damage. It's what makes them a bigger threat. Same goes for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 11:45 AM
1

Even if I'll never have sex and a relationship I would still want to keep my desires for sex, intimacy and romance. They're a lovely part of my inner life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:58 AM
1

What attitude do women want?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:56 AM
3

Glad I'm not the only one in the losers club.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:54 AM
24

Men get sex easily these days? I certainly wasn't made aware of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:05 PM
2

Other people don't have to care about my preferences but there's no point in a relationship if it doesn't allow me to be myself. I'd rather be single than being forced to manipulate and play games.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:02 PM
5

Maybe I'm just a naive soyboy but I'd prefer honesty and communication between equals over a dynamic where you're constantly struggling to "maintain frame".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 03:08 PM
1

"The dance of dominance". That sounds like it'd make for a terrible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 02:41 PM
3

Yes, I do not judge people on their sexual past and do not think consensual sex acts between adults can be shameful or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 10:24 AM
2

A dude so hot that many women want to get fucked by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 10:23 AM
1

Because when I think "the average woman" I think Atlas_B_Shruggin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 03:18 PM
0

Lmao, why are you making weird-ass assumptions about me? I am witty, that's why I know it doesn't make a person attractive. I have no illusions of women loving intelligence or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 03:17 PM
1

My point was that wit isn't enough. Nobody's going to be attracted to you just because you're witty. Sure, it's plus when they're already attracted to you for other reasons but it doesn't really help on its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 02:15 PM
2

Yeah, it's not too surprising that male insecurity is a joke to a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 02:13 PM
6

Just based on the trailer it looks like young people having a good time. I don't see what's so shocking about it. Anything looks sinister with the right music under it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 01:22 PM
0

Yes, that is exactly what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 12:33 PM
1

Lmao. Women like status and money. A middling lawyer is 10x hotter than an electrician working his ass off. Women are not attracted to the actual work-part. Also this: no matter what they look like is obviously bullshit. EDIT for all you dummies out there: I am not saying blue collar workers don't get laid or that being an electrician makes you unattractive for fuck's sake. I am saying that as a job being a lawyer carries some status and is therefore attractive. There can be lots of attractive t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:27 AM
1

No, I wouldn't look down on them. Then again, I probably wouldn't look down on a woman that wasn't self-aware about her preferences. Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:22 AM
3

My parents are lovely people who did their best and yet I still grew up to be a failure. So I don't think modern parenting has affected anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 11:19 AM
1

You can still travel by car but if you don't have the means to travel by boat or plane there will always be places you cannot reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:47 AM
16

Straight women see sex as something a man "does" to them and so they want an experienced partner who knows what they're doing. As the do'er, having a more experienced partner isn't really going to benefit you. She'll just have more experiences to judge you against.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:10 PM
1

Wit only takes you so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:37 PM
5

I think women are sometimes a little too optimistic about the kind of highly desirable man they can get to commit to them. I also know women who completely underrate themselves however and who date men below their "level".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 06:59 PM
6

I don't know what Europe you're living in but it's definitely not the same Europe I'm in right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:28 PM
4

I'm pretty sure that at the last Council of Women they decided that anything under 6'3 was too short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:40 PM
6

Good social skills. Pleasant manners. Don't be a douche. Shower daily. Don't be entitled. IME, that is not all that it takes. And that dude is definitely above-average looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:36 PM
2

Part 2 of "I have a really hard time picking right partners"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:25 AM
6

Men aren't getting pumped and dumped by Stacey's. Only Chads get Stacey's so the chances of a man's problem being that he goes for Stacey's are nihil. Lower SMV men take whoever will want them. They often settle for a lot less than love and adoration. The idea that they're going for women out of their league is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 09:21 AM
1

Spades is going a bit far lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:59 AM
7

Sex is seen as a normal part of life that everyone experiences while growing up. Being a virgin at a later age makes you abnormal to a lot of people and abnormality always gets shamed. On top of that, sex is a measurement of a man's success. The more women you've fucked the better man you are. So not having fucked anyone makes you a huge failure. That's also a big part of it, people assume you've tried to have sex but failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:56 AM
0

You know, I'm convinced you're just the most well-adjusted and best at faking autist in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:48 PM
1

You know who compartmentalizes like this? Autists and people with OCD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:22 PM
1

Age has a lot to do with this, obviously. But yeah, for just fucking looks and game are far more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:25 PM
1

I'm not being sarcastic at all. I am in fact a mentally-ill mess that wants to become a sex fiend. Because I think it's definitely possible to have lots of casual sex without being an impulsive insecure wreck. And as long as you're cautious and do it with people you trust there is no reason it can't be fun. I'm a soft-ass beta who cares too much. The chances of me hurting the people I come across are close to zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:54 PM
1

Of course I have self-esteem issues. I'm a mentally-ill mess bro. Ironically enough I'm actually in professional counselling to finally become the crazed sex fiend I've always wanted to be. Being a crazed sex fiend sounds like tremendous fun. As someone who spends far too much time inside his own head being all introspective and shit, I genuinely wish I could follow my impulses like a savage animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:54 PM
2

I'd rather not waste my time with someone who doesn't try their best every chance they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:48 AM
1

Then consider the majority of women are asleep at the wheel. Lmao, okay miss I'm-not-like-all-those-other-girls. I'm not bothered by them doing it to feel hot and validated, those are probably the reasons I'd be doing it for too. Besides it feeling good obv.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:46 AM
2

Of course it's not like IRL but it still shows enough to trigger (immediate) attraction for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 11:31 AM
1

I am one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 11:28 AM
2

Tinder can also show a lot of social proof. It can absolutely convey status and the way pictures are taken/chosen can convey game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 01:00 AM
2

Like I said, my beliefs aren't really black pill at all. And it is not just about physicality. Women don't see the picture of a hot chiselled dude and think "I wanna hit that". Instead, women feel a desire to be the object of desire for a hot desirable man. Even if that they're that object only for one night or for casual encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:55 AM
2

Well, I don't consider myself blackpilled. I don't think it is far-fetched at all to say that women can, in fact, feel strong and immediate attraction towards someone. Anyway, we're probably not going to see eye-to-eye on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:48 AM
2

I'm not saying women's sexuality works like men's. Or at least when we're talking about generalities. I'm just saying that instant sexual attraction isn't a inherently masculine thing. It can happen in its own way for women too. Status and game are far more important to women than to men so someone who is just hot might not ignite their sexual desire like it would for men. Doesn't mean that it can't, just that most women wouldn't go gaga over a dude just because he has nice facial features. On t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:39 AM
3

I get that you don't agree with it but what do you think explains the way women respond to very hot or very popular/famous men? Isn't that instant sexual attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:27 AM
2

Anyone who's ever seen a hot guy's Tinder knows that some women definitely instant sexual attraction. I don't think those women are somehow completely different from all other women out there. Women can feel instant sexual attraction. It's probably brought by a combination of looks, status and game. It's just that relatively men are capable of producing it and some women don't (always) act on it so it can seem like women don't feel sexual attraction like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 12:13 AM
2

We'd probably be as unhappy as we are now, just more muscular. Face is just as, if not more, important as body and game.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 11:27 PM
10

Yeah, the women having loads of casual sex are a minority but the women have had occasional casual sex are a huge majority. And I think they've only done it so little because it was never worth it unless the dude was exceptionally hot. And I don't at all believe women cannot feel immediate sexual lust. They can, just for few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 11:24 PM
3

I'd argue that those women make up a tiny minority and they still have the same difference in standards. So they still think it's okay to settle for someone you don't feel immediate sexual lust for if he's "relationship material".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 10:04 PM
7

ONS is just one type of casual sex. Those women would still be FwB with someone because of physical attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 09:47 PM
1

Nerds are just people into certain niche subjects. It doesn't say anything more about them than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 09:45 PM
9

Yup. If casual sex is not possible for you than you might as well not date either because you're absolutely going to get settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 09:03 PM
1

Your experiences have been completely different because "beta nerds" don't actually exist and thinking of people in those kinds of classifications is dumb as hell. Y'all have dated different individuals and, surprise surprise, your experiences are different too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 09:02 PM
1

Aren't most men considered below-average by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 03:03 PM
4

It's not suddenly going to make you into some confident stud. It's just one thing that can add to your confidence. Doesn't mean other things can't still drag your confidence down and make you an insecure person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 08:57 PM
2

I think that's just something people say to make it seem men are the ones responsible for the fact that their partner lost interest/attraction. Women can simply lose attraction easily or have their attraction shifted towards someone else. Being "beta" or supplicating has little to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 08:47 PM
4

I'm guessing all it does is make you more confident and makes some partners more into sex and therefore more forgiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 08:40 PM
3

I agree with this but I think women underestimate the quality of men that could potentially love and desire them. That 4/10 who turned into an 8/10 will immediately revert to being a 4 once an actual 8 shows he's willing to love and desire you just as much as Mr. 4 will. Those 8's are probably out there and with the advent of online dating, they're easier to find than ever before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:58 PM
2

❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:54 PM
1

Guys that do it are just as dumb as the women that do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 02:11 PM
5

Negging is a deliberate attempt at making someone feel a little insecure. Playful banter, on the other hand, is fun and without ill-intentions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 12:21 PM
2

No, I'd probably still be a depressed and BDD-riddled failure of a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 12:13 PM
1

If I were to date one lousy woman who was really into partying would it be fair or reasonable to use every negative trait and tendency she had to call a whole imagined sub-group of women shitty? OP dated a shitty dude and decided he was a "beta nerd", whatever that means, and that his shittiness had to do that. It's dumb and a way of avoiding responsibility for her own dumb decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 12:11 PM
4

Stop trying to make your own bad dating choices about something bigger than your own inability to pick good partners. This has nothing to do with "beta nerds" or "incels" and everything to do with your lack of standards/taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 11:23 AM
4

This question is literally asking for a description of the ideal man for your own daughter. Down to his fucking looks. That's taking "what's best for your children" pretty goddamn far. But please, do continue straw-manning my comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 11:19 PM
0

I'm not saying it's hard, just that I cannot fathom why someone would do it. Especially lookswise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:38 PM
5

Why the fuck would I have an idea about the kind of man my daughter should date? Like, why would I ever think about what he should look like or what he should do for a living? I would just want my daughter to be safe and happy. If her partner provides that he or she is exactly who I want for my daughter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:09 PM
0

It has to do with rising beauty standards for men and that has to do with the increased importance/focus on casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:06 PM
2

People generally don't like spineless supplicating people. It comes off as annoying and fake. This is especially the case for men because it is also seen as unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 02:07 PM
1

Women of all body types get paid and worshipped by online followers for the way they look. There are certainly women whose looks keep them from ever experiencing male lust but those are few and far between. The truth is that most women are incredibly, intoxicatingly beautiful to at least a few men. If they end up getting settled for by a dude who's not really interested that's just because they would rather want someone of higher status/better looks than be loved and treasured by a low-value man…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 08:12 PM
5

If the mods start allowing threads about race here shit will get so goddamn ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 08:28 PM
1

Yeah, there's a subtle richness to my posts that often goes unnoticed. Decades from now people will look back on my Reddit posts and marvel at their brilliance. So don't worry, I'm used to people not recognizing my level headed genius.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 08:26 PM
1

I mean, everybody's having sex later according to statistics. That doesn't mean more men are "incels" nowadays. I don't think incel is a very useful concept in the first place. Having said that, I do think modern technology has made it easier for people to distract themselves from their problems and to develop unhealthy habits. Isolation and stagnation can definitely exacerbate mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:52 PM
1

Just because someone's mentally ill does not mean they can't also be level headed. I'm like the most level headed person in this fucking place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:49 PM
1

It stems from mental illness. I've got a kind of BDD and suffer from depression. I'm not sure where those "originated". Dominating women does not at all feel disrespectful to me. I used to partake in erotic play/chat with people online, including with a few women, and I felt fine "dominating" them. It's more that I personally feel unworthy of dominating a woman and fear that I'm incapable of providing them pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:44 PM
2

I could be called a blue pill incel. Well, I don't consider myself a "pussy-worshipping white knight" but I'm pretty staunchly anti-RP. So I'll answer from personal experience. Q4All: Why do you suspect blue-pill incels feel bad that attractive women have to interact with male sexuality? Q4All: Why do you suspect blue-pill incels feel bad about themselves when they see attractive women? I think it's more about feeling bad about the idea of a woman, any woman, having to interact with the incel's …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:16 PM
1

Nah, there's no reason why being unsuccessful in your 20s would guarantee that you're unsuccessful in your 30s. If you work on your career, get in shape and work on your style you could definitely start cleaning up in your 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:44 AM
4

Obviously, there are ceilings. The ideal dude isn't 7'6 with a 13-inch dick and a 34-inch shoulder width.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:41 AM
1

The right response to reading hateful posts about people like you is to think the writer is gross, not that you yourself are. Nobody should ever stoop so low as to try and be some internet weirdo's "unicorn".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:35 AM
5

They're free to ask once but they'll have to accept my no for an answer. I also wouldn't ever ask for nudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:59 PM
2

No, I wouldn't be upset at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:57 PM
3

Women as a whole are the gatekeepers of sex but only high-value men are the gatekeepers of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:51 PM
29

The "SMP" isn't fucked up at all. Most people, men included, are dating and having sex out there. The men that complain about their lack of success online often suffer from larger problems that keep them from approaching women or putting themselves out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:11 PM
0

I disagree. Women can propose an open marriage because they miss the excitement of those first flirtations or because they enjoy the novelty. Or women can propose because they feel insecure about their ability to please their man. There are lots of reasons why someone might want an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 08:06 PM
2

How is this even a question? This dude is a travelling documentary-maker, he is ex-military, he is tall, white and conventionally attractive. He couldn't be more of a Chad if he tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 02:28 PM
6

You (negatively) judge people based on the sex they've had in the past so I'm not sure why you're be surprised at being labelled sex-negative by some people. You can only judge something to be negative based on sex if you think there's something negative about certain sexual acts/ways of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:44 AM
2

Women put in a lot more effort to be presentable on a day-to-day basis and generally put in more of an effort into looks but men put more effort in when it comes to the actually approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:39 AM
2

It's not about excuses. This dumb insecurity some men have about women doing shit in the past that they wouldn't do now robs women of any complexity and humanity. As if women are just sexbots whose settings depend on the hotness of their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:37 AM
2

Why would someone never giving blowjobs be compatible? What I meant was that a girl not giving blowjobs would be enough of a dealbreaker on its own. The past wouldn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:17 AM
1

Not just too big to be able to deepthroat, too big and girthy to comfortably suck at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 07:16 AM
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I think most men grow up thinking it's awesome and manly to make a woman come. Porn tells men that when you're good women moan, scream, squirt and get drunk just because of your dick. So I do think most men strive to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:41 PM
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What if his dick is too big and hurts her jaw? What if the guys she gave blowjobs to in the past where abusive assholes who forced her to? What if she's had surgery on her mouth and is now no longer capable of comfortable giving blowjobs? I don't understand this idea of comparing your partner's behaviour with you with the way she was with her exes. Would it really matter if she never gave blowjobs at all? IMO, she'd still be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 11:39 PM
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See, I don't get this line of thinking. Feminism does not deny that heterosexual women exist. Women with their own sexual desires and who enjoy flirting with men they're attracted to. Why would this be shocking or hypocritical? Something is only crude if it is done inappropriately or against someone else's wishes. There's a difference between dancing and grinding against a random girl in a club and, as soon as you notice she's into it, whispering into her ear how great her ass is and rubbing up …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:52 PM
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That is just one person talking about her rather out there sexual kink. And she also says things like: You can be a hedonist and also be a decent human being who communicates your desires in a way that doesn’t offend anyone. ; Ideally, we would find a middle ground—a world where sexual bullies aren’t tolerated, but where respectful perverts are given space to hone their craft. Everyone has their own preferences when it comes to sexual dynamics. We shouldn’t treat stereotypically masculine or het…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:43 PM
1

Q4All: Do men and women learn sex from porn or through their peers or first-hand experience? These days, I'm pretty sure most people's first encounter with sex is through porn. So porn definitely creates some initial expectations and can influence the way people eventually have sex. Q4All: Is the male power fantasy represented in porn misogynistic/problematic? No. It's definitely worth it to have a conversation about the possibility of our sexual fantasies coming about through socialization but …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:23 PM
1

I'd crank it up at first because I've got no idea whether I have a strong or weak sex drive at the moment. If more turns out to be better I'd keep it that way and otherwise, I'd just go back to what it currently is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 08:30 PM
1

Maybe a little. Primarily in the sense that online dating and casual apps like Tinder have greatly increased the paradox of choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 02:19 PM
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None of that is really the blue pill. The blue pill isn't much more than "some of the shit y'all say/believe is stupid, false and/or misogynistic".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 02:18 PM
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Q4ALL: Why do you think so many women treat attractive men as the prize and willingly get pumped and dumped? Isn't sleeping and dating with attractive people kinda the point of the whole endeavour in the first place? Attractive people, men and women, have a lot of value and thus get treated like "the prize". Q4M: Would you date an emotionally damaged woman if it is a consequence of her sexual history? I'd like to say no or that it depended on the way that damage manifested itself but honestly, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 12:03 AM
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Honestly, when you're kind because that's just who you are there's no reasonable person that will find it unattractive. It's only when you're desperate for approval or validation, or when you're motivated by fear or insecurity that people start finding your "kindness" unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:17 PM
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Just don't do it if you're worried. Not like you're obligated to mentor them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:14 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:09 PM
1

I don't think a lot of people scold women for dating tall and/or hot dudes here. At most, women get scolded by some men for not acknowledging their shallowness. But yeah, looks obviously don't say anything about how nice someone is. There's an episode of the show Man Seeking Woman that's basically about that false notion. It's funny and involves multiple scenes of a man fucking a car.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 04:06 PM
1

Deserve's got nothing to do with it. It is what it is and we just have to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 07:11 AM
2

I'm the type of grown-ass twenty-something man that loves giving little kids piggyback rides and having the tiny shits clamber all over me like I'm a walking jungle gym. If I'm at any type of gathering with young children you can almost guarantee that at some point I'm throwing the motherfuckers in the air while the other adults sit around talking some grown stuff. I'm so low-t that when given the choice between adorable little kids calling me daddy or hot girls moaning the same, I'm going with …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 10:28 PM
2

Sadly, I'm too much of a soft-ass beta pussy to not go for the first option. It's the childlessness of option 2 that really kills it. Like, I'd probably prefer being a single dad with full or shared custody over option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:28 PM
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I don't get what's so difficult to understand about my comment. The OP was talking about basically being a part of some harem, where you're exclusive but your partner isn't. I was just making clear that I would never agree to be exclusive with someone unless they would also stop seeing with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 01:38 PM
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Self-identified incels are almost exclusively rather entitled and lazy men who feel incapable of making a move or approaching women. Few, if any, suffer from genuine deformities or live in poor, remote villages with unfortunate gender ratios or face any other serious issue that keeps some men and women from having happy, fulfilling relationships. So I disagree in the sense that it's not just women at the "bottom" who have it worse but I do agree that there are men and women who have it a lot wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:31 AM
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Yeah, by date I mean doing relationshipy things and being exclusive. And even if I don't have a choice in terms of being able to get other women, I always have a choice in terms of how much I invest in someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:25 AM
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I would never get into an exclusive relationship with someone that's not exclusive to me. However, I got no problem being friends with benefits with someone also sleeping around. So yeah, I'd fuck a woman who's also fucking other dudes but I wouldn't date her. There also wouldn't be any expectation of me being exclusive, even if my omega ass would be incapable of actually getting other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:54 PM
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There's plenty of casual disdain and disgust towards overweight women to be found on the internet. And the complaints about invisibility are about being invisible in all ways, not just sexually/romantically. There's obviously nothing wrong with not being attracted to someone but completely ignoring someone during a conversation in favour of her more attractive friends is pretty shitty. Same goes for being largely left out of mixed group outings or whatever. Also, I haven't seen a lot of women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 03:32 PM
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Yeah, that's what I tried to say. People that think transpeople are a "fad" are mistaken. There have always been people that felt that their gender didn't line up with their biological sex, it's just that society is now slightly more accepting and understanding towards those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 08:54 AM
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A TLDR longer than 8 sentences is exactly what I'd expect from a dude complaining about others being dramatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 12:59 AM
2

The Last Jedi has Rose save Finn's life at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:12 PM
2

Giving up just 'cause we failed a few times? That's a loser mentality if I ever heard one. Besides, starving to death doesn't sound so bad if it means getting to murder all those uppity UMC people first.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:58 PM
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I propose that we forcibly pair up the less fortunate with a well-off, conventionally attractive partner. It's that or bringing back the guillotine. Not like we need the tall, beautiful and rich anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:31 PM
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You always hear about people overestimating their looks but if there's one thing that people universally overrate about themselves it's their intelligence. And I don't think discriminating on intelligence too much is good. After all, intelligence is just one other thing a person is born with. It'd be better if we try to minimize the gap between unintelligent/uneducated people and those with above-average IQs and higher levels of education.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:21 PM
2

All that what do is test whether she's fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 10:33 AM
1

Why the fuck should every woman you spend your time with be good enough to be the mother of your children if you don't want any in the foreseeable future? Why the fuck should you go out looking for Miss future if you just want a lot of Miss Nows? Men enjoy sex and novelty. Casual sex combines those two so I'm not sure why doing it would amount to "losing".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:02 AM
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Option A is out of the question for me but B doesn't sound too good either. I'd rather be alone than live with someone dull, boring, stupid and devoted to me. That sounds like hell. So both options are not appealing at all but if I absolutely had to choose I'd go with B I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:51 AM
1

The only special snowflakes I've ever met are the sad and pathetic people complaining about special snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:45 AM
0

Are you going to give your son a traditional black name?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:44 AM
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No but this "new epidemic" is mostly older people. Too old for the anime sissy craze at least. There is absolutely no reason to believe anime and porn create transwomen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 10:35 PM
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Yeah, I'm sure Caitlyn Jenner used to masturbate like crazy to weird anime and sissy porn in between Olympic training.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 10:27 PM
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According to the red pill, quality women don't exist. So there's no use looking for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 09:30 PM
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No. No way my son has a white-ass name like that. Besides, it sounds dumb as hell these days. That name belongs in an 80s movie and nowhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 09:28 PM
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Except that post came with pics to prove it. It got removed so I didn't see it. And stop trying to conflate me saying you can determine someone's sexual orientation based on who is featured in their fantasies with you judging someone based on the acts in those fantasies. It doesn't matter if someone fantasizes about raping children or just caressing them, what matters is that they fantasize about children. That does indicate that they are probably pedophiles. I'm not judging them, just making an…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:56 PM
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Long hair is conventionally desirable in heteronormative mainstream culture. That's not the same as keeping it long for "Chad". Conforming to society's beauty standards is also for yourself because it makes you feel beautiful and therefore good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:48 PM
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First of all, /r/stupidslutclub is mostly just a place where people exercise their creative writing skills. Every post there needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Regardless, having a fantasy is very different from acting it out. And acting out a fantasy in a way that doesn't involve consent or that's dangerous (i.e. rape-baiting and beastiality) is not at all the same as acting it out in a safe, consensual and healthy manner. Blindfolding your wife and tricking her into fucking someone else t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:45 PM
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Yeah, but acting out a sexual fantasy can be done with a consenting partner. Even if the fantasy includes non-consent. In fact, fantasies about rape and ravishment often have nothing to do with actual rape. Like, rape/ravishment fantasies are some of the most common fantasies among women and non-consent is a huge genre withing erotic literature. It'd be moronic to think those women are all out "rape-baiting" dudes. And that's just the rape fantasies. What do you think you could tell about a pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 08:17 PM
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A person who fantasizes about sexually torturing people is probably a rapist. By your own logic. Not at all. I was purely talking about the target of one's fantasies, not the content. It doesn't matter whether someone's dominating, submitting, raping or ravishing someone in those fantasies. If you fantasize about men, women or children that will say something about your sexual orientation. It doesn't tell you anything about someone's personality. And you obviously have every right to judge peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:34 PM
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You can obviously tell something about someone's sexuality by looking at the object of their fantasies. A person that fantasizes about children is probably a pedophile. A person that fantasizes about the same sex is either gay or bisexual. But it doesn't tell anything meaningful beyond that. So judging someone on their fantasies is stupid IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 05:00 PM
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Well, the world is full of dumb judgemental pricks but that doesn't make the judging any less stupid. Plenty of women have rape fantasies and there's nothing wrong with that. The same goes for men with such fantasies. I think any sex-positive person understands that fantasies do not tell you anything meaningful about a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:18 PM
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What's wrong with rape fantasies? There's a big difference between someone that enjoys rape fantasies and someone with pedofillic tendencies. I mean, what would having a rape fantasy tell you about the personality of a man? And what about switches? People that can be both dominant and submissive. I don't understand people that try to use sexual fantasies to analyze other people or make general statements about their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:05 PM
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Of course. Anyone can have any sexual fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:03 PM
1

Men's imperative is much harder to fulfil. It doesn't even come close.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:02 PM
1

This video forgets about the people who can't pick at all. Some of us end up with difficult partners because we'll take whatever we can get and don't have the backbone to go without love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 06:36 AM
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Telling someone their preferences are rooted in racism or transphobia is criminalizing them based on their thoughts. It's simply having a discussion about sexual preferences and where they come from. Depending on who you ask, it's not even bad to be racist or transphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:47 PM
2

How is it feminism's fault that some dudes feel lost and low status?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:31 PM
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My point was that people need to be able to accept that others can call 'em out on what they perceive to be racism or transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 12:30 PM
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A lot of men would find easy and reliable access to casual sex with attractive women to be pretty damn impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 08:30 AM
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Women get off on being a high-value man's object of desire. Prostitutes don't provide that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 08:26 AM
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People can have whatever preference they like as long as they can accept that certain preferences probably go back to racism or transphobia. It's not the left that has a problem. It's the right that wants to have their cake and eat it too. They want to think and behave in a racist or transphobic manner but feel attacked when people call them out on their racism and/or transphobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 08:54 PM
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Do they? Do they embody values and attitudes like "women are children", "women all want to divorce-rape", "women are hypergamous", "society is gino-centric", etc because those are the values and attitudes the red pill gets criticised over. Or are successful men just men that take care of their looks, have game and who understand how to be sexually attractive? Because nobody disputes that those things are important and those things aren't inherently red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 08:52 PM
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Nobody likes body hair, it's just something people in the past put up with because they hadn't invented the full Brazilian yet. And our imagery has just grown more idealized. Guys like Hemsworth and Wahlberg represent male power fantasies. I mean, what's ideal about Connery and Reynolds? They look downright flabby in those pics. As for your point about manhandling... Anybody that can watch the old Connery Bond movies without cringing out of their seat from the way he treats women deserves some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 06:56 AM
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Because the men that go see Katy Perry live are gay. Seriously tho, if women only go crazy about the top % of men that means they can afford to be picky which in itself suggests that men want women more than women want men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:10 AM
1

I think alpha/beta isn't really useful but if you absolutely do want to use it, as sliding scale is your best choice. And behaviour is definitely predominantly genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:07 AM
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I mean, women don't need breast implants or butt injections to be attractive either. There are a lot more ways women can be attractive than the other way around. Women can be sexually attractive skinny, chubby, short, tall, fit, flabby, etc. Yes, we men spend a lot less time on daily maintenance but getting a physically attractive body as a dude is incredibly hard. Anybody can lose weight but getting muscular requires a lot of hard work and dedication. And a thing like height can't be changed at…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 06:05 AM
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Yes, why wouldn't I? I'd find it attractive if a woman came out to tell her story and it helped bring a harasser/rapist down.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 05:57 AM
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I'd love to say I wouldn't but I just know my beta cuck ass will probably go for it. Somewhere in the next 10 years I'm probably living with some washed up single mom and praying that her little brats will eventually call me "daddy".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 06:43 PM
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When (straight) men and women come together to form relationships women are more in demand than men are. That's only so because men want women more than women want men. Sure, women can want a specific man very much and put up with a lot from him but the truth is that there are multiple men ready to put up with almost anything for most women. Like, I don't see a lot of women paying men for their attention and feigned desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:42 PM
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For a lot of men living in places where it's legal, it's probably the easiest way to have sex with a beautiful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:01 AM
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When it comes down to it, men absolutely desire women more than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 04:57 AM
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Isn't the whole point of the red pill that all women are like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 11:52 AM
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The kind of men that look for dating advice or advice on masculinity online often believe that being sexually attractive and sexually active with lots of women is the prime indicator of male status and success. This is probably because those men feel like they lack that success at the moment. So casual sex is championed because having women only want you for sex must mean that you're incredibly high status or valuable. There's also another side to this which is that those men believe that women …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 01:57 PM
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I can't respect anybody that would say no to being Paul Giamatti's wife, man or woman. Haven't y'all seen American Splendor? That man is a national treasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 02:00 PM
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This is a weird article. He noticed her lack of enthusiasm, asked her if she was still enjoying it and stopped when she told him she felt uncomfortable. There is literally no reason to feel bad about what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 05:59 AM
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I'm rather surprised by all the yesses in this thread. I expected a hell of a lot more women to say no. It's why I've never told anyone about being a little bisexual in RL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 11:12 PM
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Honestly, you need to be pretty weird to get into this whole pill shit in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:27 PM
2

Yes, I genuinely wouldn't give a fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 07:24 PM
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Here's a great video on the subject. Just because something wasn't violent rape doesn't mean it's not worth talking about or that some line wasn't crossed. Coercion and intimidation do not belong in the bedroom. We don't have to criminalize every kind of bad sexual behaviour but we can discuss it. Bring it out in the open and name people who do it wrong, even if what they did wasn't illegal. Personally, I am of the opinion that affirmative and enthusiastic consent is vital to every sexual encoun…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 10:10 PM
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No, I do not think this is a common thing for men. I definitely haven't heard about it all that much from my friends. Some men and women can't get over an ex and that's sad but I don't think it's some big problem with men or women in general. Besides, the people I know who have trouble getting over an ex don't necessarily do so because of sex or looks. It can also just be about missing a certain period of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:49 PM
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So women lie about their N-count when they have real fears about getting judged for it. Seems pretty obvious to me. It's why women with high n-counts from conservative backgrounds or dating more sexually conservative men are more likely to lie about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:24 PM
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IMO feminism is about overcoming the sexual difference between men and women. It's about believing that the division between men and women has resulted and continues to result in an injustice against women (and human beings in general) and to strive to rectify that injustice. So a particular piece of art/media/literature/etc or a particular movement or idea is feminist when it in some way tries to represent or achieve that (struggle for) 'gender justice'. So something like the Handmaid's Tale or…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:21 PM
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Cheer up with their dick tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 01:15 PM
2

Yeah, that's definitely something that needs to be discussed. If you know you can't have kids, for whatever reason, you need to talk about that with your longterm partner. I mean, the possibility of having children will almost certainly come up along the way in any case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 01:11 PM
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Let's just say that someone introduced me to a group of people I normally don't hang with, where they do all sorts of drugs and I now completely understand why some people think hooking up is crazy easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 12:21 AM
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If she's attractive to me, sure. But that would definitely be difficult because doing your hair, wearing makeup and wearing nice clothes does make you more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 12:03 AM
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Vulnerability is when people are being real and open themselves up to potential judgement or rejection. I'm not really seeing why you'd make a distinction between female and male vulnerability. And people allowing themselves to be vulnerable around me will always be a compliment because it means they trust me. And no, crying does not make me horny. The fuck kind of dude gets off on crying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 12:01 AM
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Gotta give it to /u/MercedesBenzoAMG, drugs do actually help when you're an incel-like dude. So all you incel dudes, go make friends with some junkies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 09:03 PM
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Because they want commitment and exclusivity in return. Besides, some might crave a monogamous relationship or have values that prohibit them from having any other kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 08:57 PM
1

That's just porn IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 12:12 PM
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I'd be turned off if my partner wanted a sexdoll. I wouldn't consider it cheating, I'd just be creeped out. And VR sex without me is cheating if it involves other people also using VR. That's like sexting someone online. Of course, that's cheating. If it were singleplayer I wouldn't really mind. That's more like porn or erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 07:31 PM
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It is easier for men to get laid and date today than it was in the past. And that includes conventionally unattractive men. The dudes complaining about their lack of sex online are not primarily held back by their looks. This seems like an obvious attempt at trying to trigger ugly dudes. Well, too bad for you buddy 'cause I'm not gonna bite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 10:14 AM
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Yeah, I agree. Morality and attraction get linked all the time by both men and women. It's dumb as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 10:09 AM
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Nah, they'll never catch on. Sexbots, like pocket pussies and prostitution, will not have any real impact on the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 10:58 PM
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Nah, I don't think feeling like sex and love are separate things makes someone broken. Everybody experience sex and relationships in their own way. I thought the common stereotype was that women can't disassociate sex from love though. That's why some guys consider a woman cheating "worse". I personally do think that sex is a necessary component of romantic love. Like, I don't get the difference between love in a friendship way and love in a relationship way if you take sex out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 08:32 PM
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This is what too much porn does to the brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 05:19 PM
1

Yeah TRP quite obviously attracts men who are in some way or form dissatisfied with their relationship with women/a woman. People that are satisfied in that area of life will probably never even hear about TRP and they definitely won't stick around. But attractive men can still be dissatisfied with their relationship with women/a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 07:22 PM
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Yes, I do like women beyond just wanting to fuck them. I've found that conversations with women often delve into deeper and more personal subjects than with men and it often happens surprisingly quickly. Women also ask more questions and seem more interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 04:49 PM
1

Not watching something because it is drawn instead of captured on film seems stupid to me. Not every Japanese animation is as childish as Dragon Ball. Having now finished it, I can say that Devilman Crybaby is legit amazing. Some of the best TV I've ever watched.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:55 AM
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It's one of the many, many reasons he should step down.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:51 AM
3

I'd be glad because it would take the pressure to not be a failure off me. We could be failures together.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:39 PM
1

Within my age range (18-35) I'd probably fuck a good 80% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 07:35 PM
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Anybody else watching Devilman Crybaby? Because by god is that shit good. It's also PPD relevant because it proves women are evil by showing how getting possessed by the devil would totally make a dude more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 11:42 PM
1

Friends and family. They know me and what I'm like. Asking for advice from anonymous strangers is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:15 PM
4

Go spout your obvious self-hatred somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 04:14 PM
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I see prostitution the same way I see drugs. I think it's blatantly obvious that there are some very dark sides to both but I also think it's quite clear that people can and do use drugs or are prostitutes in a healthy and voluntary way. So I think legalizing and regulating both is the best way to enable and protect everyone involved in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 02:14 PM
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Seems I assumed that she didn't go as far as call it sexual assault but she did. I disagree with her there because he stopped when she gave him a clear and definite no. His behaviour was wrong but not illegal IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:15 AM
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The point wasn't to shame him for hooking up with her. I mean, how would you even do that? Nobody thinks less of a dude because he hooks up with someone. The point was to call out his sexual conduct and to start a larger conversation about consent, communication and boundaries. She isn't saying he assaulted her or anything else illegal and she isn't even calling for his show to be cancelled or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:55 AM
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Yes, you should always care that your sexual partner feels comfortable and always respect their boundaries. I believe sex should be mutually pleasurable. Aziz claimed to feel the same way: He asked her if she was okay. “I said I don’t want to feel forced because then I’ll hate you, and I’d rather not hate you,” she said. She told babe that at first, she was happy with how he reacted. “He said, ‘Oh, of course, it’s only fun if we’re both having fun.’ The response was technically very sweet and ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 07:09 PM
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It wasn't sexual assault but the girl doesn't claim that it was. Aziz had no regard for her boundaries or did not care that she was uncomfortable. He was definitely in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:51 PM
10

Who still doesn't understand that literally everyone cares about attractiveness the most when it comes to dating and sex. Everybody decides who they're going to sleep with primarily through looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:29 PM
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It's a sign that whoever they're with is committed to staying with them no matter what. For guys being a forever-boyfriend sounds awesome This is exactly why they want that marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:42 PM
1

In Calhoun's experiment the dominant mice became criminals That sounds awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:54 AM
3

What do you mean by average? Average as in, the average person falls within this spectrum? Then I'm pretty sure the answer is yes because lots of people are overweight. Averages differ depending on the specific group you're looking at of course but I think that overall, overweight people can still fall within the range of average. Average as in, would you rate her looks as average? Then it all depends. I'm personally attracted to overweight women so for me weight has little to do with being aver…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 06:58 PM
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Of course, women make assumptions based on looks. Everybody does that. Tattoos automatically make you stand out and are still kinda associated with attractive traits (aggression, impulsiveness, confidence, etc). But that doesn't mean physical attractiveness isn't still very dependent on genetic factors. I quite like the look of tattoos and might get them someday but getting them because women might respond favourably would be kinda sad. I know you don't say that in your post but it deserves to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 12:41 AM
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I don't really care how anybody uses the word but I'd personally only use it for people that do not respect other people's boundaries. Especially if those boundaries have in some way been communicated to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 11:43 PM
2

Imagine you were black and your best friend (who is white) calls you a ni@@3r to your face, that's what it's like. come on son...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 11:40 PM
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A man of value should do whatever he wants and not be concerned with how others feel about it. If that means sleeping with lots of women at the same time then that's what he should do. If he wants to marry one woman and have children then he should do that. In any case, nobody should be too afraid to commit because some men have gotten burned by it in the past. It's crazy to think a commitment to one woman is always going to go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 11:28 AM
2

I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:37 PM
2

Does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:31 PM
4

It's creepy when young teenaged girls hit on men much older than them, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:26 PM
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Overall, I think women have it harder. Women have to put up with more unwanted behaviour, women are expected to be less competent, women have to put more work into looking 'normal' and are judged more on their looks, women are preyed upon more, women bleed out of their vaginas once a month, etc. I do think women have an easier time getting a strong social network and finding people interested in dating them. Since that's the part of life this sub focuses most on it can sometimes seem as if women…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:25 PM
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Society, and that includes straight women, is indeed tougher on and more dismissive of men who seem incapable of dealing with their emotions. Men can get judged for whining incessantly, being ruled by their fears, being a blubbering mess, etc. However, that's not what is being encouraged when people tell men to express and accept all of their emotions. You can be open about your emotions in a responsible and adult way. But to do that you have to acknowledge them first. That's where toxic masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:51 PM
1

I now want David Lynch to adapt the inside of Alex Jones' brain into a TV-show.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:52 AM
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Saving the princess is such a small and superficial part of the OT tho. It's only really a thing in A New Hope. After that, it becomes a lot more about accepting your destiny, gaining the confidence to face your adversary and listening to and rejecting some of the teachings of your elders. Those things define Luke's story in Empire and Jedi. And guess what, that's basically Rey's arc in TLJ too. There is also nothing Oedipal about Luke's story. Luke only finds out that Vader is his father at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 11:48 AM
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Of course, the main character's gender affects the scripts. Gender (and sexuality) of the MC determines the love interests for one thing. But the differences aren't nearly as big as you make them out to be. Luke gets dragged on his adventure because of an attractive woman while Rey gets dragged onto hers because of an attractive man. Had Rey been a man and Finn a woman you wouldn't make this argument at all. And yes, TLJ did infuse some sexual tension into the relationship between Rey and Kylo b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:33 AM
1

The only reason you perceive it as a more feminine power fantasy is that it has a female lead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:12 AM
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If that's what they're attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:09 AM
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Most men and women enjoy and deeply desire romantic relationships and sex. Seeing as that most people identify as straight that also means most women want relationships with men, perhaps even to the point of feeling like it's needed. The whole bicycles to a fish idea was more a response to the people who thought women needed men more than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:07 AM
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There are many cultures renowned for their loving and/or controlling mothers while also being known for their sexually attractive and confident men. Like latin culture or Arab culture. So I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 01:03 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ. Don't drag Star Wars into this. SW was never just a male power fantasy. After all, the audience stand-in (Luke) didn't get the girl in the end. And instead of using violence to defeat evil Luke uses compassion to win in the end. How the hell is that an alpha move? You're right that the new movies are about a new and changed world but thinking it's a female power fantasy is moronic. Is the Matrix a female power fantasy too, seeing as that Neo is uber-powerful purely because …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:58 AM
2

It doesn't matter. Worrying about N-count is useless bullshit. Only reason to ever care is if you're religious and want a similarly religious partner who has waited until marriage before having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 08:12 PM
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Being morally good feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 01:47 PM
1

It can depend on the situation but on the whole, I'd say I'm naturally dominant. I often take the lead in conversations, discussions or group-work.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 01:07 PM
1

I'm pretty sure it's not right but I'm still interested to hear what kind of fundamental changes you had in mind?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 12:33 AM
2

Not currently but I am scheduled to see a psychiatrist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 11:31 PM
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I'll be starting my actual treatment in early February. So far I've only had two emergency meetings and a handful of intake talks. It's basically been to keep me from killing myself and to determine what I'm suffering from and how to best treat it. It has helped me get a grip on things and the prospect of actually treating my issues is something to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 11:21 PM
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I just never had a real sense of self-worth or self-esteem growing up. Successes felt shamefully undeserved and failures felt like they said everything there was to say about me. I felt, and still feel, too ugly, boring and terrible to date. It has lead to me isolating myself. I don't try enough new things and am afraid to put too much effort into things because I expect failure. It has had a ruinous effect on my life. Until recently I did a pretty good job at hiding it tho. So I never felt like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 11:06 PM
3

I just got home from a very nice third date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:29 PM
4

Yeah, for their mom. Nobody feels "love" towards a person they've only met three times. That's lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:26 PM
5

This isn't love, it's just lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:23 PM
4

Well, I can't speak for every guy like this but I recently got diagnosed with a mental illness because of this exact thing. So in my case, I'm hoping therapy will fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:17 PM
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I find it impossible to believe anyone could honestly desire me or find me attractive. A woman agreeing to fuck me wouldn't solve that. I'd automatically assume she'd be faking it. So no, I hate dishonest validation (I dislike overly friendly service personnel and would never go to a strip club for myself) and that kind of low self-esteem needs to be solved on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:15 PM
1

Of course. Love is just liking and trusting someone else a lot. I feel love towards friends and family and I've fucked none of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:11 PM
9

That's men for ya. In the battle between our head and our dick, the dick always wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 08:59 AM
1

Any woman that wants her man to support the diamond industry isn't even worth a lump of coal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 04:47 PM
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Whichever sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 12:57 PM
5

You probably didn't and still don't care about studies that say the exact opposite so why would you suddenly care about this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 09:03 PM
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1) no I don't. Only use whatsapp and a little bit of facebook. Started using it more because I get asked about it. 2) I don't date but I agree with you that online can be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 11:00 PM
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IMO lack of preference is always a good thing but it's silly to think all men or even most men don't have high standards or are just going to be happy with any women they can get. That's absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 05:51 PM
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A man doesn't ever have to get married. Marriage is a choice. Bachelor roommates aren't necessary. I'm pretty sure a healthy heterosexual man isn't going to lose his desire for sex in his thirties tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 05:48 PM
3

I'll go with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 04:20 PM
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What makes you think women don't know bad sex exists? I think they're more aware of that than we are. If women yelled rape every time they had bad sex most men would be in jail right now. This fear some men have regarding our changing culture around consent is so fucking overblown. The problem is that women too often disregard their own feelings or desires. The problem is that rape often goes unreported, not that it gets falsely reported. The problem is that women are too okay with bad sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 03:17 PM
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I think it's simply that people aren't completely aware of what's attractive to them. This goes for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:51 PM
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As someone who basically only flirts indirectly, always making sure to leave some plausible deniability because of my fear of rejection, I actually think it can be a bit of a turn off for women. Eventually, you need to step up and make your intentions clear. I've got a long history of indirectly flirting with women, getting them interested and then losing their attention because I'm unable to close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:47 PM
1

I disagree. There's a big difference between a one-on-one meeting set up online and approaching strangers in a more crowded social setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 02:05 PM
1

What I mean is that some people aren't all that good at approaching strangers in social settings like a party or at a bar. Maybe they're not that good at breaking the ice or whatever. Being able to do that shit online, before meeting someone, can help those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 01:55 PM
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Sure but for some, it's that initial approach that's the hardest. Those kinds of people will do better online than off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 01:36 PM
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By that point, they might already have built up some rapport. The ice will already be broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 01:21 PM
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I think it's probably less work to get a really successful online profile than it is to become a charismatic and assertive dude if you aren't that naturally. And while the quality of person you attract might ultimately be higher irl you could probably rake up higher numbers through online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:39 PM
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Most of the time, men and women aren't getting tricked into being with bad people. But it isn't necessarily because of change either. Instead, they willfully ignored red flags at the beginning because of love/lust. She didn't trick you into a deadbedroom situation, she was obviously never all that attracted to you and you ignored it because she has big tits. He didn't trick you into an abusive relationship, he was always manipulative and violent and you ignored it because it wasn't aimed at you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:36 PM
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On the other hand, text game can be easier than flirting in person and the simple act of swiping or liking a profile is much easier and less stressful than approaching a person irl. So I disagree, some men might be able to better show off their wittiness or intelligence online than when first meeting someone face-to-face. And online you can meet more people more quickly with little effort as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:27 PM
1

Yes, you can be an asshole and still be successful. Be hot enough, wealthy enough or charismatic enough and you can get away with just about anything. But the fact that you can still be successful as an asshole or all the famous examples of assholes should not mean you yourself also want te be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:22 PM
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Yeah, she is a great example. Motherfuckers talking about snowflakes but getting their brittle asses triggered when somebody says happy holidays. Chappelle had a great bit about it in his new special. Same thing with the dudes here posting fucking daily mail articles just to get mad about it. Or some random lifestyle blog from the NYT. Like, how the fuck do you not get that you're doing exactly what you think angry feminists are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 09:07 PM
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All of this sucks but there's nothing you can do about it. I also don't see the need for sympathy. If it works for you then just continue to do it. Fuck what anybody else thinks. It's right there in my first comment dude. Where the fuck am I expecting to get coddled or looking for your encouragement and support? I explained a certain cultural attitude, you seemed confused by my assertation that it existed and so I gave you an illustrative example of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:17 PM
1

Only stupid people believe in leagues and only pussies let themselves be contained by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:11 PM
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Everybody knows the people that are actually easily triggered and outraged are the ones blabbering about SJWs, trigger-warnings, snowflakes and victim culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 05:10 PM
3

There is no disdain for late bloomers or nerd who try and look for a relationship late in the game but some people seem to think that's all they should look for. As soon as those men go looking for lots of casual sex they're being toxic or immature and things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 02:44 PM
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Here's a recent article that more or less shows what I'm talking about. Throughout the article there's this sense of disdain and disgust towards these men who are trying to make up for missing out on sex or getting rejected in high school and college. It's almost like the writer and the interviewed women feel as if these dudes no longer know their place. It's merely a recurring undercurrent and I think the article has a lot of other legitimate things to say but it's something you'll find in a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 02:23 PM
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Not currently seeking it out but if I were I'd do it for the pleasure, the novelty, the validation and the appearance of social success. I'm also proud to have very low standards. I find loads of women very fuckable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 08:14 AM
1

That law is not aimed at protecting Islam and Twitter suspends hate-spewing accounts from other countries too, including the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:46 AM
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I wasn't talking about an actual natural order, I was talking about the way people see the world. There's this general disdain towards people who felt left out and grew up lonely and sexless becoming people that have lots of casual sex. Especially if they in any way embodied nerdy stereotypes growing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 06:43 AM
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You'll never get anyone to sympathize with your desire for help or advice to turn men incapable of having casual sex into men who can. It's seen as unmasculine to ask for help, especially when it comes to dating, and raking up a high n-count is seen as the privilege of "naturally" high-value men. Advice on how to turn "beta/nerdy/whatever" men into men with high n-counts upsets the natural order. All of this sucks but there's nothing you can do about it. I also don't see the need for sympathy. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:10 PM
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Most dudes would fuck a woman that spreads her legs for him. High n-count indicates social success and social success is incredibly attractive to most women, even if it isn't for you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 08:38 PM
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Leaving aside that this is obviously written by an Asian dude with a cuckold fetish, how crazy do you have to be to ask someone else to not date on your behalf? I don't give a fuck how mistreated you are at school and by your own parents, you don't ask your sister to not date for you. That's just fucking crazy. Man the fuck up and solve your own problems. Don't pathetically ask someone else to miss out on shit for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 08:32 PM
1

The higher a man's n-count the better. It signals his worth as a man. Being a "good" marriage partner doesn't really matter if he's high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 08:10 PM
1

How is Twitter, a private company with its own rules, suspending an account the same thing as Germany outlawing anti-Islamic statements? Come on dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:23 PM
2

Dave Chappelle had a bit in his new Netflix show about doing a gig for drug dealers and receiving 25k for it. So he had to travel to Brooklyn at 1 AM on the subway. He said he felt more scared than ever before. He knew he had something so valuable on him others would kill him for it. And then he made the brilliant comparison to women. Having a pussy means always carrying something so valuable on you that you always run the risk of someone forcibly taking it from you. I think that's what Gaby was…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 07:12 PM
2

Such people barely exist. It's honestly a boogeyman made up by rightwing morons. There's obviously such a thing as unreasonable offence-taking.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:34 PM
2

Taking care to convey your opinion without causing offense is not the same as holding back or being spineless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:24 PM
1

Aren't omega males supposed to be failed alphas? So an omega saying it should actually carry more weight than a beta. And honesty can be done carefully. I don't mince words or avoid tough topics but I am still mindful of other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:22 PM
1

There's blackfellas here on Reddit. There's the black culture thread on ResetERA, formerly GAF. And in some nerdy communities, like the fighting game community, there's a strong black presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:19 PM
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Yeah, that might be true. It has a big enough presence on the internet tho. And while mainstream black culture can be misogynistic it's often more of the garden-variety kind than the weird-ass shit you see in the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:11 PM
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Of course, it can be but I feel like even the progressive or nerdy parts of black culture have a healthier view of sexuality and the relationship between men and women than nerdy white culture or the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:08 PM
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Black people. I'm not even joking. Follow black media, get some black friends, anything. Black culture has all the good stuff of RP and PUA and it doesn't have the misogynist baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:01 PM
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Mine is the most upvoted comment in the thread. Obviously, it isn't as repulsive as you seem to think. And maybe, just maybe, I am poking fun at both myself, this subreddit and the general idea of alpha/beta/omega men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:58 PM
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Obama is mindful of others and I think he's careful not to unnecessarily offend people. And if he did and people called him out on it he'd probably be man enough to apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:56 PM
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Every person proud of how offensive they are cares more about how they're seen than people simply taking into consideration the feelings of others. I'm mindful of others because I'm not trying to be cool for other people. That's the exact opposite of being controlled.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:55 PM
5

Congratulations on being able to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:52 PM
1

Men that self-identify as incel or foreveralone or things like that aren't typical men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 05:51 PM
1

Firstly because sexuality as a whole has always been strictly controlled in every culture. Most cultures see procreative hetero-sex as the norm. Secondly, there is a huge stigma around men being the submissive or receiving person during sex. It is seen as an act that erases a man's masculinity completely. That's why even in our more homosexual-tolerant culture there is still a stigma around bisexual men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:51 PM
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OP is talking about a dumb stereotype that barely exists outside of the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 04:00 PM
1

Sure but it's the lack of sex that's bothering them. Not the lack of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:59 PM
2

Ask any prostitute and they'll tell you that their primary customers are average middle-aged businessmen looking for a quick and easy lay. Obviously, people that actually care about their partner will feel bad about a lack of attraction when it comes to a dead bedroom situation but that has little to do with validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:57 PM
0

The complaints aren't about the lack of attraction, they're about the lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:33 PM
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Edgy cunts lack the self-awareness to really be funny. Obama is mindful of others and witty as fuck. Trump loves to offend and I can barely think of an unfunnier person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:32 PM
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You don't have to be rich to buy prime pussy where I'm from. 50 bucks is enough. So it's really impossible to age out of the target demographic. And men are supposed to not care about mutual attraction so that shit doesn't matter. I have not noticed men being touchy about ageing. Definitely not on the same levels as women. Besides, a preference for young women doesn't mean you'll be unsatisfied with someone your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:28 PM
1

Beauty of being anonymous is that there's no need to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:14 PM
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What's wrong with not trying to offend others? It's heaps better than being an edgy cunt who's just "being honest". Being mindful of others is not the same as being spineless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 02:48 PM
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Fuck patience. When a person asks you to refer to them by the gender/pronoun of their choice you just do it. And working hard is exactly what trans activists are doing. They're are trying to raise awareness of their existence. Advocating for the government to respect their decisions is exactly the kind of hard work you say they should be doing. And the only victims I see are the entitled asswipes that think they've got the right to decide other people's gender-identity and that complain about st…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 01:16 PM
2

Why give a fuck? Why do you care whether someone feels genderfluid or not? If someone tells you they're genderfluid or nonbinary or whatever and your answer isn't a simple "okay" you're being fucking stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 01:12 PM
0

When you make it harder for others to get to know you it'll also take longer for them to get turned off by your personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:11 PM
2

Break up. I'll only do the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 10:46 AM
6

For the life of me, I cannot understand why anyone would give even the slightest fuck about what someone else identifies as. Like, get some amused mastery over your own life and stop giving so much shit about other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:52 AM
1

Men know full well the exhilaration from the display of dominance and ownership is unrivaled. Lmao, you motherfuckers are so childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:50 AM
3

My lizard brain tells me to. Believe me, I'd much rather be an uncaring sexless robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:47 AM
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Go read this dumbass article and tell me who you'd rather be. The dude married to Priya or the one fucking her. Yeah, marrying on the spot would be hard but that's because nobody would want that in the first place. Marriage is a contract that can be entered into for a variety of reasons, many of which have nothing to do with raw attraction. So casual sex is more validating. And I assume red pillers think happy relationships are hard because in their opinion women are high maintenance and kinda a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:46 AM
1

Who gives a fuck. That's a problem for old me to solve.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:34 AM
2

Yeah, marriage can work. My own parents have been happily married for 26 years and are still going strong. But I don't see what makes it "worth it" or why it's all that awesome. It's just another way to live. It's no better than being a serial monogamist or a lifelong bachelor or a polygamist. My parents are very happy together but I'm sure they could get divorced tomorrow and still go on to live happy lives. People that take marriage too seriously are just victim of the sunk cost fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:30 AM
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Casual sex goes against women's biological imperative or whatever reds call that shit. It certainly seems like a lot of women prefer relationships over it. So if a woman sleeps with you the night she meets you she must be very attracted to you. That's why it's more validating. I mean, a lot of men get told all the time to not go on Tinder and not go for hookups and to just hope for a relationship. That kinda implies that casual sex is harder to get and therefore more worthwhile than ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 06:19 AM
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Lower class people are the least worried about dating. They always have been. Shit comes naturally to 'em. All this pill and MGTOW shit is for insecure middle-class dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 01:41 AM
1

You are just like that guy that got ignored but because you're a woman a man eventually did all the work for you. Nobody's got any fucking need for your sympathy. All we need is for you to understand that you're no better than us and to not go on bullshit rants like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 01:39 AM
1

I thought it was till February. Goddamn Americans.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:17 AM
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they would be extremely grateful if a woman reached out to them. Fuuuuck that. Reached out to us? What are we, a goddamn charity? Spoiler alert, those dudes will get over their wonder for cuddling and holding fucking hands the second they get to do those things. They're no NAMALTS at all. All of 'em will be just as eager to try out some other pussy the moment they get into yours. We would not be happy to have you at all. We'd resent you for making us wait so long and either meekly stew in our ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:09 AM
2

You have to be absolutely crazy to think thick women are at a disadvantage. Thick women are the greatest beings to walk this planet. Thunderthighs are the female thundercock. Only men that prefer skinny chicks are impotent rich dudes looking for some arm candy, feeble nerds looking for a girl even weaker than they are and pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 12:02 AM
3

Everybody's way too smug on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:58 PM
3

If you're afraid you might be omega you probably are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 06:29 PM
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Who the fuck thinks Batman is exciting? Dude does nothing but brood and be serious all the time. Plus, he hangs out with little boys. And his only superpower is money. Take away his suit and gadgets and you basically got a less charismatic Kevin Spacey. Superman is so much cooler.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:47 PM
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Are personal attacks allowed now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:33 PM
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Let's hope 2017 was when I reached my bottom because I can't take another year like this. Failed academically and became suicidal enough to need immediate professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:32 PM
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Validation. Every upvote or reply feeds my considerable ego. I keep trying to leave but I always come back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 05:30 PM
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The only ones I ever liked here where onclejulian and his weird boner for a young Brad Pitt and the one rp girl who always had food puns in her flair. Oh and I guess gridrex is cool too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 03:30 PM
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I see a lot of stupid shit on this subreddit too and I'm sure most of you are dumbass white people. This is just insecure white losers trying to feel better about themselves by pointing to a racist stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 01:50 PM
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Violent, aggressive and psychopathic men actually get laid though. So I don't think any of us are actual psychopaths. That being said, I'd love to get institutionalized. Or better yet, sent to prison. Too bad I'm not alpha enough to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 01:40 PM
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