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JustRuss79/r/seduction21/05/14 07:29 PM
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naked women don't do it for me by themselves, but the best times I've had at a strip club were when I was with a group, who all disappeared to get private dances, and I wasn't interested. Ended up talking to one or two girls for an hour.. they kept leaving so the manager didn't get mad at them, but they kept coming back. Good time for both of us. Do not mistake them being interested for yoru game being strong though, they are still working. At the least, you get a pass for not trying to game the…
/r/seduction16/06/26 03:03 AM
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Take the L and move on. You got caught, doesn't matter how. Accept the consequences of your mistakes/plans.
/r/seduction14/06/26 08:37 PM
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Point of Order: Women are from Venus
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:16 AM
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I apologize it came across that way. But its a deep lack of physical attraction...the only thing I could compare it to was appetite. I know which foods I can not eat to the point I'd rather not eat at all. It has absolutely nothing personally to do with being black... but there is one common denominator. Again, I've dated and even slept with several black women in the past, but I was turned off every time. I could perform, but as a chore... I understand why some people take that personally, or c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:06 PM
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Skin and hair even directly out of a shower using my soap products. Taste and smell disagree with me sexually, a turn off. I've tried to date several lovely women who I was very friendly with...but I'm not sexually compatible. It has nothing to do with the personality or culture. It's pure physical attraction (or lack there of)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:44 PM
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It isn't bigoted, its discriminatory. Possibly Prejudiced. But bigotry implies unreasonable or obstinate prejudice. I've dated and had sex with black women, and I am exactly as attracted to a black woman as I am to a man of any race. It's chemical more than anything else, smells, tastes, textures. I can make it work...in the same way a Gay guy can be married with kids. Doing so doesn't respect my truth. If that makes me a biggot, then so be it. But I won't date a black woman, because she is blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:36 AM
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Because true game is natural game. Everything else is fake it til you make it. When you lock in it just flows. Same with hitting a home run. Same with bowling a strike.
/r/seduction23/04/25 05:02 AM
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Some are just into the kink Some just want no comparison But why can't you have both a virgin girlfriend you are her first, then marry her? Happens more than you probably think. Now, how many women here want to lose their virginity to a virgin guy, or did and wish he'd known what he was doing? It's all fucked... well, except the virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:37 PM
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Married men, especially with kids, have accomplished their biological purpose and are subtly rewarded by society for it. Other men nod solemnly even if they think "never me", women are attracted to men who have girlfriend wives and kids as proof they are reliable and virile. They have probably been out of the dating game for at least a few years after divorce. Women can (if they want to lower standards) pick up their phone and have a date or no strings sex within an hour. No matter the standard,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:14 AM
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If asking for a test is enough to end the marriage, there are larger issues. Faith is useful when there is no way to prove truth. Women need to get over this, and offer the test themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/24 07:20 PM
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Again I say. The best time to ask is before she gets pregnant. The second best time to ask is any time before you sign a birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 05:54 PM
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Have faith that he isn't calling you a cheating whore, he just wants to never ever, even in the worst fight or no matter what this kid does, to ever question if he's the father And to remove the ammo from friends, family, enemies and even you, from being able to make him question you. It's a test that will make you stronger together. Women should suggest the test themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 07:05 AM
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That doesn't make it off the table because you waited too long. The best time to tell her was before she got pregnant. The second best time is before you sign a birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:05 AM
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1/3 of those tested, are not the father. That doesn't translate to 1/ 3 of all women cheating, but it does show some cause for concern. Women will always know 100% who the mother of their child is. Why do men have to have faith, when it is a simple test with a known outcome for a partner who has not cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:03 AM
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A woman will always know exactly who the mother of her child is. Men have to have faith?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:58 AM
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Ha! So anyway..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:23 AM
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Well considering any girl over 12 has likely been at least uncomfortably lewded by an adult, just call the whole relationship thing off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 01:29 AM
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I get along better with women. But if normally want to sleep with any of them absent social or work related issues it would cause. I'm usually attracted to my female friends and just ignore it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:38 PM
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Women can be just friends with guys, even really close friends. It's why all her friends become his friends. Unless she doesn't trust that one friend, then she keeps him away from her. Guys... can just be friends if they aren't attracted to a girl or are otherwise attached. But even a decent looking lesbian with straight guy friends... they all want to fuck her. If she's off limits because she is your buddies gf or wife it can put enough distance in to make it work. What women want though is guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:26 PM
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That's valid, it should just be a requestand able to be turned down. But kinks should be shared and explored together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:19 PM
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They just want to try it, plus he doing it for him once makes him feel loved and trusted... if she enjoys it then it's something new to do together. Also built in birth control. Curiosity mostly Not a deal breaker for me, I assume it's not for most. Personally my ex wife liked it more than vaginal and it got routine and boring...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:12 PM
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Nah. Sign here expressing explicit consent to the following acts. I am now taking a video of your verbal consent while holding the contract and today's newspaper. Then sending you the video as well as to my lawyer, along with scanned copies of the document. The entire encounter is also being recorded for both of our safety. You may take your own video if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:11 PM
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Men chase. They court. They have to prove their worth. Improve themselves. And if they catch her attention, even marry her...she will leave/divorce if he slows down or stops. Easily an 89/20 split in romantic effort put into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:31 PM
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Dating multiple people used to be the norm. You didn't get frisky with them until maybe you were "going steady". Parents worried when you got too serious with one person because that's when the pressure and hormones and puppy love got the best of you. That was before the 80s though, probably before Woodstock. By the 80s kids were "going out" which basically meant 0-100mph possibly without even a single actual date. Just deciding you were suddenly bf/gf together skipping all the courting and dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:26 AM
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You stop fearing rejection by building a tolerance e and "fuck it" attitude
/r/seduction18/07/24 06:54 PM
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With anyone who finds out about their past, yes. Their dates would winner why she was so easy for anyone else and is teasing and making them wait. We know it's because she wants to change and have a real relationship. But it's going to make anyone wonder what is wrong with them selves
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:07 PM
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It's not that it's called or treated as a need for sex. It's when it's treated as a right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 06:15 AM
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It's called equality
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 03:41 AM
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Men can't be raped, they are hard, it must means they want it! As for assault...yeah, but slaps, nut taps, chest caress, hands on thighs, boobs on the back or shoulder...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:44 AM
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Not threatened in general, I don't automatically treat them worse or anything. I wait until they start being a dick because of their prettyboy privilege and THEN I judge them for it. But most dudes are chill, even if they are better looking/buffer/richer/more alpha than you are. If you roll up on my group and I don't know you and proceed to try and pull on my female friends or acquaintances then we might have a problem. Unfortunately/Fortunately, I am not usually there just for picking up women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:26 PM
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As a 6'3" guy I concur. 6'4" and above guys are fuckin strange my dude. What kind of genetic freak is taller than me? How's the weather up there Hightower?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:22 PM
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at least 2 generations of mothers telling their boys "just be yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:05 AM
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Don't be average. "Attractive" is half about attitude, a natural 6 can gain 2 or 3 points just by having the right attitude, a natural 10 can lose 2 points for being an asshole or having no social skills. Women who are 1's and 3's have the same problem as men, between 4 and 7 they have a problem approaching 8's to 10's. Just be above average, that's attractive. Whether those women are attractive to YOU is a different matter, but if sex is so important to you then you'll lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:04 AM
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Don't deny anything, just change how you feel and act about it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 08:40 PM
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Be Attractive, and then ignore them. They will come to you. If they don't come to you, it doesn't matter. It's only sex (unless you want a baby). Take pussy off the pedastal, don't shame virgins or men who don't have sex, don't celebrate those who have lots of sex. Don't blame women for being women, don't be jealous of other men. Also: Diamonds for Gold theory still holds. Sex is the Gold, Diamonds are companionship, dates, adventure, intimacy.... make sure your exchange is equivalent and don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 06:36 PM
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OMG I'm such a <star sign>
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:01 AM
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Small seemingly unimportant things become really big annoyances down the road. Besides... wouldn't you rather know they are an asshole up front than have them hide how they feel about your hobbies until they blow up about it later in some stupid argument? People these days have short attention spans, if they aren't interested after 1 or 2 episodes they'll drop the series. Unless they can binge it all at once to get to the good part and THEN move on. I like Taylor Swift up til about the album 'RE…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 05:46 AM
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I agree "what I want from the friendship" is wrong. But from the 'relationship" is not. A friendship is a relationship, but if you want to be more than friends and can't, then you are not getting what you want from that relationship. You start as friends, you think it is moving toward something more. You are told in no uncertain terms you are just friends. Thats the friend zone. She doesn't see you as a mate, or is afraid to lose you as a friend if the relationship doesn't work out. STAYING in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 01:16 AM
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You can recognize someone is sexually attractive without having to have sex with them. Still be friends. But if you catch feelings and they aren't returned then you either learn to suffer watching her date other guys (girls?) and complain to you about her dating trouble... or you leave. She literally is telling you that you are in the friend zone. If you stay there and become bitter, you become that "nice guy" trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:36 PM
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You missed social media. If teenagers and young men mostly get their exposure to womens thoughts, from women, on the internet... they see a lot of toxicity towards them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:10 AM
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If you could see that I'm the one Who understands you Been here all along So, why can't you see? You belong with me Kinda bitter and angry, definitely pining
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:14 AM
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Chads are getting 80% of the girls (that other guys want to get)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:08 AM
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Better. She invites him to Iron Maiden.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 02:01 AM
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Most men aren't raised, even by their mothers, to open up about the deep shit. They still get things like "boys don't cry" and "you want something to cry about I'll give it to you"... raising boys is "easier" than girls because boys trend in this direction even if you don't tell them these things. Whether that is just societal reinforcement who knows. So they don't know how to "open up" to the correct level you are looking for. She pokes holes in the damn and then can't handle the flood. They ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:50 AM
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In my experience... women have opened up to me, and I have learned to let them vent AT me rather than to me, and it washes off a ducks back like water. If I try to offer solutions to problems, I get told I just don't understand. The eventually get angry at me for not understanding (they just wanted to talk, they don't actually want my advice) and to a guy that starts to sound a little crazy. "Why are you telling me all of this crap if you don't want my advice?" basically... its very frustrating …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:29 AM
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I think you, like me, are just that type of person that ends up being everyones therapist. It's flattering at first and you like helping, but eventually you learn that you cannot be responsible for other peoples happiness. INFP
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:26 AM
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When I hear "women approved problems" I think "problems that don't need a solution, just someone to vent to" Men don't do good with problems that don't need a solution, we come up with a solution and act on it rather than wallow and share... or at least most of the ones I know do. Been married twice and have two nearly grown teen daughters. None of them liked me offering advice most of the time, they just wanted to vent at me. They probably are all 4 upset that I don't vent back to them about st…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:24 AM
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This is funny because some time in my teens I got tired of being bullied and adopted the "punch sadness in the face" attitude. I don't actually punch people or things, but I do tend to either self-analyze and dismiss my feelings (why do I feel this way, is it helping resolve the situation? then stop feeling this way) or get angry instead. Anger can be a very useful emotion to combat fear, sadness, loneliness, depression... unless you end up with an anger problem. Know why you are angry, and chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:20 AM
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More likely to hook up with a stranger than a friend too. A guy they are serious about they want to respect them. That is even more confusing with a friend who knows you hoe yourself from time to time and still wants to hook up or date you LTR. You can't just sleep with them because they'll lose respect or expect more than you are willing to give, get jealous of any other LTR or hookup, and you lose them as a friend and potential boyfriend. Can't make them wait because they will call you full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:39 PM
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Partly true I guess? The freindzone exists because low tier guys have no chance and Average guys don't indicate interest early enough or escalate correctly. Normal situations, women aren't looking at guys for romance and dating. Guys meet them and think they can be friends first and then build to something more, but that is the trap. Unless you are really really ridiculously attractive, and maybe even because of it, women don't want to risk their friendship with a decent guy for the chance at ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:27 PM
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Sure you can, just join a religion and go to church. Get institutionalized and stuck in a neutral setting with women where you can make friends and connections and that one old lady thinks you would be nice for her niece and sets you up on a date. Or date in the workplace... But you are right, normal dating is a vanishing thing. "Wanna get coffee sometime?" Borrrring. How about we hook up in the copier room and see how well we fit?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 03:48 PM
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We need a big old war with a draft and to lose 50% or so of our men, thin the herd a bit, make the remaining men more valuable. But really... what do men have to strive for? They either do things for themselves and women flock to them, or they do things to attract mates and pick from the leftovers who couldn't get or share one of the more successful, attractive men. Just watch porn, wait for a sex robot or legal prostitution, and find enjoyment in video games and geek fandoms. Plenty of fulfillm…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:50 AM
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it's not that they have to treat women like equals, its that women treat them like they should be more like women... then flock to the ones that don't. A generation or two of mothers raising sons to be good boys and giving dating advice like "just be yourself" and "she doesn't deserve you if she can't see how great you are" It's not that Toxic Masculinity isn't bad, its that all masculinity is toxic unless you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 05:42 AM
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because men still want to get laid, and women still hold the cards now... legalize prostitution and see how quick women pursue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 05:03 AM
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One of the other problems is men are wired (either by nature or nurture) to solve problems. Women will spill a bunch of problems not really expecting an answer, just to vent and be heard and affirmed. Men will often try to offer advice that isn't really wanted, and get frustrated when she doesn't take it or gets upset that he isn't "listening". They often get the feeling of "What do you want from me?" When this happens... leaving them even less likely to offer solid responses in the future. I'll…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:47 AM
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Men who have never met can usually communicate simply with posture and eye contact. Men who have spent a fair amount of time around each other can literally communicate like cave men with nothing but grunts and gestures. Words are reserved for more important and complex things. Not that we don't have full conversations, especially about complex subjects (just watch a couple guys geek out about cars or video games or star trek or football). But when words aren't needed, we can be perfectly happy …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 02:43 AM
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Nothing at risk anymore. Who cares how they feel when you both have a broken heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 02:02 AM
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High value women can be hard to approach, and may simultaneously complain about the lack of good men and have very high standards for themselves. Everyone wants to be with the 10, but nobody wants to be the lower value person in the relationship. Makes you insecure no matter what you say. If she's above an 8/10, she can only really date 9 and 10's long term. Unless she's hiding some emotional baggage or disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/22 01:28 AM
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Maybe in a world of man vs nature, being the one guy that can impregnate a bunch of different women whether you have the resources to support them or not... makes you hte Alpha and The Man. But in this world, with contraception... even if you can afford all these kids... you must really love kids? I guess if you want your own football or baseball team worth of kids, and can't find a woman willing to birth that many (also... I guess they wouldn't all be in high school at the same time, that would…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 12:03 AM
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Because Male Privilege, oh boo hoo you got half your money and savings and house and car taken away but men have been oppressing women for millenia so its just me taking my fair share. Something like that I'm sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 07:22 AM
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Of course they did, nothing was colder than approaching her father; or having your father approach her father to set up a courtship agreement with an eye toward marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:43 AM
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No wait, DON'T fuck golddiggers
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:35 AM
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There are cases of condoms being retrieved from trash, or spit and saved for later, or wiped off and inserted. He has to use a condom AND keep track of it. Not impossible, but not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:47 AM
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I think what is considered "attractive" and what is considered "acceptable" are different for men and women. Being a 7+ is great, but men are thirsty and many will date a 4 or 5, especially if they are a great caregiver or sexually available (or both). Women are simply less likely to date or sleep with someone that isn't "worth the risk" based purely on appearance. Mostly because reputation suffers and no birth control is 100% fullproof unless you are completely sterile. From that standpoint it …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 03:05 PM
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Spinning plates is from PUA (Pick Up Artist) more than redpill, but the two can be conflated... PUA/Game encourages you to improve yourself to attract women you are attracted to, and not "put the pussy on a pedestal" that is, don't fall in love with any woman who will sleep with you, and don't think any woman is worth lowering yourself to be with. PUA is incredibly misogynist... but natural game is what is supposed to be the end goal. You should be attractive for yourself, and interesting for yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:46 PM
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They aren't mature enough to understand the lesson in full. They want to use it as a scapegoat for their own bad behavior the way they see women as being allowed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 07:33 AM
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Part of being redpilled for a guy, is realizing these things. It's not about turning into an asshole as much as realizing YOU are the asshole for letting yourself be used and then being angry at a woman for using you. Being redpilled should be a good thing, it represents emotional maturity and not making the mistakes of the past. Moving forward treating women as people instead of sexual objects...unless they want to date you and be your part time sexual object... Many like it in the correct cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:06 AM
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they don't want to be the adventure, they want to go on adventures
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 05:55 AM
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that isn't the way I use the term. You can be in the friendzone and be fine with it, or you can be "friendzoned" meaning she will never see you as a sexual object. There is also the "friendzoned" guys, where she says she would be afraid to lose a friend if it didn't work out. That is fine, but worse because its like saying if he'd made a move sooner he would haveh a chance. Basically its the guys fault for not standing up for himself, if he only wants to date her he should say so and if she says…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 06:54 PM
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Friendzoned guys are the same as strung along girlfriends, Don't give that kind of emotional support and investment without sex (if that is what you are looking for). The Milk/Cow in reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 02:08 PM
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Average? That would imply 49% are much worse and 49% are much better. This looks like the extreme to me if anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:15 AM
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Daddies are hypocrites. We want you to be strong, independent, self sufficient, and have a man who is worthy of you. We don't want you to get married young because we don't want you mistreated by the wrong sort. We don't want you trapped in loveless marriages. But we also want you to be virgins when you get married at 25 or 30, after you've accomplished all the great things you wanted in your youth. We want your husband to be super attracted to you, you to be super attracted to him, but for him …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:09 AM
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Is that a Yeet or a Kobe... Reverse Kobe?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/20 01:02 AM
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Doing chores isn't sexy... Not having to do chores gives her more time to feel sexy. Not feeling like your mother, or a maid (unless its roleplay fetish) helps her feel sexy Doing chores doesn't turn a woman on exactly, it makes sure there is energy available to do things besides take care of you and the house and the kids and pets and her own job even if you "work harder" or earn more money than she does. Including wanting to have sex with you. HOWEVER... its still possible she will just lose i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 08:22 AM
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Mostly their mommy, who wanted to raise them to be a little gentleman and nothing like the assholes she dated before meeting their dad / nothing like their father who is absent. Also, the message seems to be repeated everywhere for guys as much as girls. That its what is on the inside that counts, that you don't want a girl who can't see you for you. Bullies are just jealous of you. etc etc etc They are not told it is about sex, they are told when they get interested in girls (because sex) and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 04:59 AM
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its only illegal if you marry them, or possibly if you try to claim them as dependents
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 06:25 PM
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I've always appreciated hot women, the only time I've been tempted was when my bedroom was dying/dead. While a man might think about other women sometimes, as long as they have a steady sex life with their gf/wife they wont stray. Except assholes. There are always assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:28 PM
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Women are having sex with Women, Men are having sex with Men, Some women are having sex with multiple men or women, same for men! Some couples swap partners! Some people were born with a penis but claim to be a woman, who are lesbian and still like women! We need to stop pretending this is normal!!! /s /s /s There are a lot of things that aren't "normal" but rough sex is suddenly a bridge too far? Leave people alone, other than worrying about unwanted pregnancy ( a whole other debate other than …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 09:50 PM
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Sounds like Adam West
/r/PussyPassDenied01/03/20 07:50 AM
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Going to the gym makes you the best you, presents your traits better. Ugly buff guy vs handsome buff guy, the handsome one will still win out... but ugly buff guy will still beat out a lot of okay looking overweight guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:34 PM
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I have no idea where you are getting your "originally" from... that sounds incredibly dumb to me... Marriage is pair bonding, two people compatible with each other deciding to share resources and responsibilities, and to provide a stable environment to raise children. Traditionally, women used their sexuality to attract a strong mate who would protect and provide for them, in exchange they kept the home and raised the children. With all non-traditional jobs taken away and government support syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 04:26 AM
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If children grew up faster into adults, like animals, then women moving from man to man to man wouldn't be as big of a deal. Women will ALWAYS know that the offspring carries their genes and thus investment into caring for and raising the child is directly, genetically, naturally a positive for the woman. The only way a man can know the child carries their genes, is by defending their territory and ensuring only they have sex with that woman. If they have the resources to support several women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 02:43 PM
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Because a lot of these guys are skinny and flabby at the same time, they are awkward geeky types like Revenge of the Nerds, not chic geeks. Saying "Go Diet" is great for their health, but it doesn't accomplish the same goals. You could just include "Go Diet" in "Go Lift" if we are simplifying things. Might as well say "Go Cardio" because lifting won't help you lose much weight (though it will help keep it off when you lose it).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 11:15 PM
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Boys are simple to figure out most of the time. Girls start getting "odd" pretty early. Even those who are surrounded can get lost trying to figure them out, and a lot of women make a game out of being mysterious and screwing with a guys head. So even if you were exposed and had female friends, most men will never understand women as well as women understand men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:50 AM
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Why do men love damaged women? Because if it's damaged you can swing a 10 for the price of a 6. I'm being an asshole using points, but its true. Women like a guy they think they can fix and then he'll be perfect for them. Hot guy with issues like being abusive or an asshole, its okay "I can fix him" and then he'll be everything I ever wanted. Hot girl with issues (Borderline, Bipolar, Depression, etc) "I'm the only one that understands her" so she'll be forever grateful that I'm willing to put u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 10:11 PM
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Valentines: Put your dick in a box!
/r/PussyPassDenied06/02/20 06:57 AM
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I've never thrown hands at a woman, but I've felt that rage when I was being provoked to. I do not, because I knew that the slightest bruise would see me in jail, my kids gone, my reputation ruined forever; and it would take almost nothing for me to bruise her. MOST men today in civilized society, have been raised to never hit a woman and don't. MOST men today see a guy get handsy with a woman and immediately jump in to White Knight and save her. I've wanted to hit a woman, because most woman ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 06:38 PM
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I think most guys want to be a manwhore... until they figure out the field is full of unattractive women and it stops being "worth it" just for sex with anyone at the end of the night. They want to be part of the cock carousel, but be able to choose who rides. Quite honestly... most RP dudes were average or underwhelming in their teens and 20's, and tried to do all the things society said about being a good man and finding a good girl... instead of chasing any willing female and getting drunk en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:29 PM
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What about if she's sad because a pet died, or a friend, or a parent... and he "takes advantage of her"... are we implying that emotional women shouldn't be able to make choices any more than drunk or drugged women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:22 AM
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It could be even older than being drunk and having sex... it implies that a woman wasn't in her right mind and should not have been making decisions for herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 01:11 AM
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Surprisingly... my search did not turn up anything close to beastiality, a person in a monkey suit or mask... no zoophilia... top result was "Fatty getting railed" and looked rather ho-hum... Not sure if I'm disappointed or not... I SWORE you were correct, and first result would be at least a gorilla suit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:48 PM
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Go on an adventure, not be the adventure
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:42 PM
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Probably porn site searches
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:40 PM
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No you are 100% correct, it would be a horrible world and I am glad that men today are generally woke enough to understand that. I personally prefer empowered women to slaves. I was a very sleep deprived and depressed mood when I wrote that this morning. Being super realist and boiling it down to exactly what you said... back to caveman days, reset minds and technology, and men being generally more physically powerful will do the hunting and protecting. On balance women would fall into the "prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 03:34 PM
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Women in an all woman society would be fine. But with anywhere close to equal numbers, men on average have more natural muscle mass and thicker bones, men are built to survive and fight and women are built to have children and provide nurturing. it would be a slaughter. In todays society, despite the economic and political difference... even if you swapped every woman for a man like a mirror world... men would hold the power in a physical confrontation. It boils down to men voluntarilly chaining…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 09:04 AM
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If all men are rapists... maybe thank men for not raping you. If all men are violent, thank them for not hitting you. If all men hate women, thank them for not taking it out on you. I agree that thanking white knights is dumb, because white knights are dumb. But if you meet a decent guy who doesn't rape you, beat you, or treat you like shit... thank them for being decent. Praise them for being the kind of man you wish all men were. IDk this whole argument is dumb. There need to be consequences f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:53 AM
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How does that body politic protect everybody? Police are not there to protect you 100% of the time, most of their resources are dedicated to investigating crimes after the fact, not stopping them before they happen. I understand what OP is saying... in the last 70-ish years, women have gained close to equality and even surpass equality in some areas. But the disturbing truth is that it is only because enough men decided not to just take and use women as they want. It is not pretty, but women nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 08:46 AM
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Having been in the swinger "lifestyle" when I was younger I was exposed to all manner of "deviancy". There is no set standard of beauty/attractiveness. Swinger husbands and wives ran the gammut from 18 to 60, skinny to fat, attractive to ugly, Being only into other women, only into other men, only into swinging with other couples...`Beautiful women that enjoyed watching their ugly husband have sex with other beautiful women, ugly wives who's husband got off on better looking men with her, handso…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:19 PM
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It is common courtesy for some people... but it has to be taught. You weren't being hated for being unattractive...you were being treated like random due #63. If random dude #63 tries to flirt with most guys...they will get shut down hard the same way as average guy #400 getting shut down by attractive girl #45 at the bar. Being completely average, or below average in looks makes you a background character...and people in general are annoyed when they have to interact with background characters.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:59 PM
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If you are not attractive (not unfeminine) then you might as well be a random dude. Random dudes coming up and talking to me, are annoying if I'm not looking for a new friend. Random dudes that "oh fuck off already" from me, and I get them from other guys all the time. It isn't hate against you, its that you are being treated like everyone else until you hold value to random stranger #3. Becoming slightly more attractive gives you value without having to say a word. Pretty people get the world h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:55 PM
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Most men never get approached no matter how good looking they are. Approaching a woman is extremely nerve wracking for most men. Being rejected HURTS most men. SOME men do not take rejection well, especially if they thought they had a shot with a more "mildly attractive" woman than they usually approach. I believe, and have anecdotes that I won't use to back me up... that MOST men do not CARE about average or below average women... they are just non-gendered people that don't register on any sca…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:38 PM
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Well... Chad is Chad...because he's Chad ya know? Natural Alpha in looks and possibly charisma (the latter because he's been beautiful his whole life and had everything handed to him). One doesn't really "become Alpha" they just are... you can change your mindset and "fake it til you make it" by emulating Chad. 'Pickup Game' is all about learning to become the best version of yourself (in order to sleep with tons of women) and stop "putting the pussy on a pedastal" by not caring if you get rejec…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:20 AM
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"Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks" is a Redpill thing. Basically the couple percent of "Chads" (very attractive, assholish men) sleep with 50%+ of the women until their 30's when the women decide to settle down and start looking for long term partners who are more than just physically attractive. At this point the "Beta", those men that are not physically/sexually stunning or only become attractive because of their income/social circle/ability to provide..become more attractive... The redpill is that men…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 09:03 PM
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Pure sex appeal is a large part of it, especially from across the room or when using a scale among other people who would be attracted to her. Other traits are harder to contextualize for those that are not intimately involved with her. Social Status, Economic Status, Level of "crazy", and other traits like intelligence, how well she cooks, how she treats other people, how she is in bed, and "personality" add to initial perception and can make a woman much much more attractive to an individual g…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/19 07:01 AM
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I'm a guy, I kinda agree to a point. Whatever point guys notice that girls make them feel funny becomes locked in. Which is why a lot of guys can still recognize that a teenager is attractive (that doesn't make it okay to approach them/date them/sleep with them). I disagree that their tastes don't evolve... the difference is they add new things to like, they don't stop liking the things they used to like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:42 PM
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Sounds like women should be arguing for polygamy, if this guy can support 5 women he should be allowed to marry them instead of one woman getting the good man, and everyone else being forced to breed with the crappy ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:47 AM
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Based on the several women I've spoken to that have had abortions... every single one of them said it was the hardest thing they'd ever done and most still feel guilty about it. Totally an anecdote and not evidence, and there are plenty of screaming twitter types that claim otherwise. But its not as black/white as the loud minority of pro-choice people try to make it out. It's a wedge issue that really isn't much of an issue for most women. They want the choice but most would never take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:17 PM
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If they can prove its his kid, they don't even have to marry him. They just drop a note to his chain of command, and his paycheck gets docked for child support automatically and sent to her. Her kid also gets on Tricare and he has to pay for that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:14 PM
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I think you misunderstood, or I did. "Aint Shit" is the kind of dad that runs off, never pays, won't ever marry you, or stays and beats you and the kid because his life sucks. There are plenty of those in every neighborhood, and easy to get if a woman tries a little bit and makes herself available. Women treated like that by those guys may very well want a baby so they can have someone that HAS to love them and can't run away from them. Or possibly they just get a bio-clock ticking and decide to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 07:12 PM
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Power
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:04 PM
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This is a really odd strawman... No women shouldn't be "forced" to marry men they aren't attracted to. But marrying who they ARE attracted to instead of sleeping with ALL the men they are attracted to should mean they stay sexually satisfied and thus, no dead beadroom. The argument here is actually the opposite of what you are saying... women aren't "forced" to marry unattractive men... they sleep around with Chads until they get older, then settle down with men they are less physically attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/19 05:15 PM
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I didn't want to just be a hack... I should have posted a gif You're right. 10 more times! I'll be back...later
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/19 05:26 PM
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Reminds me of Chapel and the Car story. The Lesbian and the Gay don't really get along, the gay is a white dude so he's driving because his people built the roads. Both the lesbian and the gay hate the bi-dude in the back seat, they pull over and the Trans person says "I don't know where you all are going, but I really want in this car."
/r/PussyPassDenied02/10/19 06:36 AM
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If I didn't have children already, it wouldn't bother me. But my kids are 14 and 15. After my divorce I realized a clock had started, a woman can't be more than 15 years younger than me. Lines up pretty well with the /2+7 rule 40/2=20+7=27 minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 04:00 AM
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New plan... cuff her ankle first, then cuff whichever limb you can get hold of to her ankle. Hogtie style There is an opening for Security Specialist at my local Target and I was thinking about applying...but my security experience has all been IT not Physical or Retail...
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/19 05:20 AM
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How many weaker hits to the face equals one heavy punch to the face? Would it hold up in court if you say you waited 6 hits before retaliating, then backed off, and she attacked again? At what point are you within rights to put her on the ground and make sure she stays there? In this case.... I think the white knights waiting just about the right amount of time to move in... It's like when you lovey dovey pitbull suddenly snaps at the little dog annoying it. If it was just one warning nip it wou…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 07:49 PM
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If she hit him in the shoulder or arm I'd agree. But you go for the face and ALL bets are off.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/09/19 07:42 PM
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It's a sad reality, but a lot of those guys probably harbor thoughts of "waiting in the wings". It is no reflection on the woman, necessarily, unless she is actively cultivating these friendships with "back-up" in mind. I had a female friend in a serious relationship. Before I knew she was in a relationship I made my intentions clear, she was secretly dating another one of my friend and he finally told me to back off. We all remained friends after that, it was a joke between us that I was always…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:48 PM
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The sun doesn't have to be aware of its gravity to have planets pulled in to its orbit. She may not actively cultivate them, but if she has any male friends or co-workers or acquaintences at the gym... those guys are waiting for their chance. That isn't her fault, but its natural.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:10 PM
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Inertia: Relationships in motion tend to stay in motion until acted on by an outside force Family Ties: You may not be very happy with your partner at the moment, but you love their family or you have a shared group of friends Finances: A lot of couples, even unmarried, share bills or finances and splitting causes more trouble than its worth unless its something major. ie Who gets to keep the apartment, who paid for the TV, the couches, etc...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 10:05 PM
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Not in California
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 09:50 PM
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Men have been low-key afraid of being accused of sexual misconduct at work for over a decade. They've been told over and over that even the appearance of impropriety means they did something wrong. Now there is a movement that allows women to weaponize accusations easier than ever before. So men are being even more careful. It's a direct response, it isn't that men don't know how not to be rapey or creepy...it is that they don't want there to be ANY question
/r/PussyPassDenied01/09/19 06:29 AM
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Maybe it has something to do with the feminization of our young men? How do you relate to a woman when you've been told your whole life she is better than you, when feminists tell you they don't need you, when if you look at a woman the wrong way you fear they will cry Creep or Rape? For decades now, its been trending towards #metoo and believeallwomen. The news is full of stories of men being accused of rape... the definition of rape changes so that you can now decide after the fact that you di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 12:25 AM
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You know she puts out?
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/19 04:58 AM
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I think in general, physically attractive men tend to be more self-centered, egotistic, bully, and / or low-key psychotic. This partly comes from growing up beautiful... they act this way because there has never been a downside to being beautiful. They always get away with more because they are beautiful. So...its more that women like men that are attractive, and overlook things that are red flags. I don't think women would find an ugly bully attractive for being a bully. it's a total package th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/19 01:12 AM
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They are... but it is now accepted instead of shamed by popular culture. It has increased, and the number of never-wed/single mothers has increased. Boys used to TALK big about it, but if they did more than talk; they all ended up with that one easy girl and shared diseases with each other because of it. Of course, people used to get married a lot younger too. The whole thing is KINDA moot... because as a whole younger people are NOT having sex anymore. I haven't really seen any studies or anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 06:42 PM
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Don't have sex with teenagers is stupid, look at the animal kingdom. As soon as she's ready to mate the guys line up around the block Don't fight over mates is stupid. If you study the animal kingdom you see males fighting over females. Don't rape is stupid, look at the animal kingdom to see examples. Ducks developed opposing corkscrew vaginas to make it harder for unwanted males to rape them because it was so common. Don't kill is stupid. The animal kingdom is kill or be killed, sometimes not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/19 04:22 PM
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There should be a legal waiver if you decide NOT to have it done. Explaining out loud to the person, if it is ever found the child is not theirs they will still be responsible for child support. Do not assume intelligence level or self-interest, spell it out to them. If the law required that all fathers be confirmed by dna at birth, then no father would be responsible for accusing the mother of anything. Until then, it will always be "you don't trust me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 04:32 PM
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Women the predators and men, the willing prey. Primping rabbits trying to get the wolfs attention, because being eaten is their purpose. Or the aliens in the claw machine. This is a depressing thought process no matter how true it rings. Moving past the primping rabbit stage and becoming a wolf yourself is the goal. Not all wolves like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/19 04:45 PM
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That women are actually attracted to "hot guys" without regard to character and will sleep with them much easier in early life. Then as their youth wanes and they settle down, they look for guys they are not necessarily physically attracted to who can provide monetary and emotional support. Redpills call it AlphaFucks and BetaBucks or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 05:20 PM
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Yes, and should include all the same No-No spots. Chest, Bottom, Legs and Crotch. If a man is single and unattached and has no moral or religious objections to casual sex...its much easier to write off a sexual assault... So like a teacher/student type thing would probably just be chalked up to a good/bad experience...if she's attractive but a complete bitch at least they can tell themselves "yeah but at least I got to fuck her"...I don't know, it hasn't happened to me that it went that far and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:44 PM
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They can learn to hide it better. Or possibly become numb to it; but thats a dark path.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/19 07:05 AM
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One does not preclude or exclude the other. I'd guess hotter, less inept guys who are rapists just get past the initial screening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:38 PM
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Everyone has intuition, its not magical, its a "gut" sense that is based on your life experience and can serve as a base for quick decision making. However its just as stupid as Gaydar, there are plenty of signs about a persons basic self that you can pick up within a few minutes of meeting them...but you should use that as a base to move forward and see if you are wrong or right rather than reject a person outright. Intuition is often wrong, or only uncovers part of the truth. If you never igno…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/19 04:31 PM
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Oh! Right... we did all that too. Calling collect from a payphone and when it asks for a name saying "Red Tugo" because you spent all your quarters at the arcade. Going to the county or state fair...or even Six Flags, and being told to meet up at a certain place at a certain time so you could split from your parents. Imagine trying to let your kids out of site today without a cell phone, in a theme park... or at the mall... I have kids, and it drives me a little nuts to not have immediate reach-…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:10 PM
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Just think of how adults today would react to their children ranging around town like IT, Stand By Me, Stranger Things... hell even just those examples are about the horrors kids can get into by themselves. Maybe 'The Sandlot' is a better example... but that was pretty suburbian... ET maybe? My Girl? I'm noticing a trend... 70's and 80's movies were all about kids getting into real trouble when left alone to roam around town...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 05:01 PM
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A lot of Malls have instituted policy to keep unsupervised kids (under 17 I think) out during most normal hang-out hours. Library might be better, as long as the kid is well behaved... Anyways, these things are true...but I don't see it happening anymore (and my City is only medium sized). The only 'arcades' are in the mall or serve Alcohol. If the kids live close to a park (2 or 3 blocks?) they might be allowed to walk there, or get dropped off there... but going to the park I don't see a whole…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:58 PM
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Transitional time period I guess. Kinda like how some Millenials ended up with different experiences based on which end of the scale they were born in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:52 PM
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In the 80's, I was under 10 years old and probably roamed with my friends 2 to 3 miles from home every day. Granted, we lived outside of the city but I know plenty of kids that used to ride their bikes all over town to see friends, find places to hang out, get into small amounts of trouble and learn how to get out of it or hide it or lie about it. The friend groups grew stronger by getting in and out of trouble. In the 90's I had a bike, from 10-15 I rode my bicycle all over creation... I used t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:40 PM
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20-30 years ago you could still rely on other adults to semi-supervise all the kids in the neighborhood, and kids respected the adults because they would tell their parents and they would get in trouble. Now adults without kids, and even those with kids, do not want to parent other peoples children (understandable but sad) and parents don't want to deal with other adults complaining about their children in public. Add to this, that "Stranger Danger" has been a pretty hardcore message since at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 04:20 PM
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Marriage is no guarantee of faithfulness anymore, its an shackle with an expensive key. You can get all of the same benefits from a long term relationship and in fact, both partners may try harder because the Sword of Damocles is hanging over their heads if they don't keep their partner interested. I do agree that Relationships are good for men, but Marriage carries a ton of issues and the benefits have slowly been outweighed by possible negatives. Even a solid prenup can be thrown out by courts…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:07 PM
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The brain may be stimulated nearly the same, but the body and the actions taken are different. Anyone can be stimulated by seeing ice cream, like Pavlov's dog they start drooling. But where a man would be like "Oh yeah I'd eat the shit out of that" the woman would be more like "But think what it would do to my figure, is it fat free, I wish it had toppings..." This is a really bad analogy... basically women consider much more about something that is visually stimulating only. If you don't engage…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/19 02:31 PM
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Unless you drink enough you can barely stand or talk, and other people do things TO you. But if you are drinking a little, continue to flirt, actively help take clothes off... but no, I'm always going to take a girl for coffee if I pick her up in a bar, wait for sober consent just to be safe. I'm not going to be the next guy in the news.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:22 PM
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First of all, this is seriously outdated. If women are drunk, at all, they cannot give consent. This is the new normal, even one drink and they can say they were impaired. We need to get away from this idea completely. Not that it won't happen that way, but encouraging it the way you phrased it. Second, men like to drink too, and like free things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:15 PM
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This is what mothers tell their boys that are not naturally attractive. It's what is on the inside that counts...but the outside is what is used to actually attract a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:05 PM
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TRP is taking Seduction/PUA and internalizing it. Turning your fake game into natural game. Improving yourself until you aren't faking it. Becoming the person you want to be, comfortable in your body and mindset, so that you can then grow as a person. Then you can mellow out into a Purple Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 04:03 PM
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TRP can make a man attractive FOR ONE NIGHT, if he's subtle about it or she isn't in the know about Pickup Game and TRP ideologies. For many men, that is enough. For short term, TRP helps a man act and appear like Chad who has women flinging themselves at him. Chad might be able to keep a decent girlfriend for a while, but one of them will get tired of the other one soon. For long term, TRP can improve a mans self confidence, and after several flings he may find a girl he can stop being Fake-Cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 03:56 PM
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My theory, off the cuff... Most of the developed world has an excess of opportunity and resources at the moment. Standards have been changing for what a good partner looks and acts like for decades. What we are seeing is the beginning of an evolutionary shift where only the alphas (Smart and Loaded, Good Looking and Powerful, or Good Looking, Smart, and Powerful) are being chosen as mates. Many of those kids don't have a father because the men were not providers, but most of the kids aren't from…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/19 08:58 PM
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Slightly more women than men in the world, all of them want sex, but they only want meaningless sex with like 5% of men in the world. Meanwhile men will have meaningless sex with at least 10% of women, possibly up to 50% of women. It isn't that women don't want sex, it is that they have both Higher Standards, and the ability to enforce them (outside of rape)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 06:59 PM
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I still don't understand how anyone could be attracted to Mick Jagger or Stephen Tyler, other than their voices. But I admit that there are female singers and voice actresses that make me tingly based on their talent to the point I ignore how they look. Amy Lee from Evanescense isn't actually super attractive to me, just looking at her. But knowing her voice, seeing her drives me nuts. Granted, not a good example because she's still attractive enough I'd want to date her....she just isn't super …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:59 PM
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I don't think I can change this view because I agree with it. In fact, if you have game you can be out of shape and funny looking. Skinny or Overweight. A lot of the time it is MUCH more important for you to have a great personality or mystery about you, being engaging, making her laugh, telling stories, keeping her friends entertained... Chad doesn't have to try... but that seems kinda empty to me. I think I'd get tired of being Chad. I'm happy having improved myself all around and not just rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 01:54 PM
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Women should request the test themselves, so there is never any question. It would be seen as a gift to most men, they would go on about how "you didn't need to do that!" but it would make them super happy. My first daughter is beautiful and looks just like my ex-wife with no apparent relation to me or her sister. My second daughter looked exactly like me at birth. I've never asked the question out loud, and don't really want to know, because she is my daughter no matter what. But I know the nam…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 04:51 PM
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Everyone needs to teach their sons that a normal part of the relationship should be paternity testing at birth. Maybe make it a DNA test for other things, with a screening for mother and father... We used to have blood tests when people got married... I know its kindof an invasion of privacy, but DNA is everywhere can be easily compelled, better it be done with HIPPA protections than placed in government or private databases. DNA test at birth against mother and father to look for any health ris…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 04:48 PM
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It is truth for most relationships. If you are truly compatible then your friendship and loyalty to each other will last past the honeymoon phase (when the hormones stop triggering). There is a lot to be said for inertia. That said, knowing that there is a transaction expected between lovers can help you keep the fire lit in an older relationship. If neither of you stop trying, and keep paying into it (sex for romance and stability) you can make it last. Love is what is left after the hormones s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 07:34 AM
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The healthiest woman in the world will not outperform the healthiest man in the world (physically) without the introduction of testosterone. There are differences when it comes to certain things. Women can still outperform men in some physical areas that are more subtle, based on those same biological, physiological differences. In other areas there is a LOT of societal input that makes men and women different in what they pursue and how they choose to pursue it. Some of it may be down to instin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 07:01 PM
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Also somewhat true of people who were raised to be colorblind, taught that race/skin color doesn't matter...and now hated and railed against as racist for not seeing skin color or treating people differently. There is enough real racism still in the world, people are making enemies they don't need by painting with a broad brush. Telling kids men and women are the same and then rigging the game against men wherever possible also makes enemies out of those that would otherwise be outspoken support…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/19 02:51 AM
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I grew up white in the lower mid-west USA in a large town. I understand some of the prejudice you are talking about, but I've never seen real racism directed at anyone around here (despite St Louis being only 2 hours away). I don't believe I grew up sheltered, I like to think I was simply raised right. I'm on the liberal side of Republican (or Libertarian) and get called out for being racist constantly for holding conservative views on things... and I have zero problem with interracial couples. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 04:42 PM
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In these cases, entitlement is actually being used accurately because laws were passed granting these things. Those who are citizens, are entitled to these things. The hate is not necessarily at the entitlement itself, but in the laws that made them so. People may agree that single women with children should be taken care of, but they don't feel there should be a law entitling these people to public funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:28 PM
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"I need to get laid" does not mean "I'm going to die if I don't rape someone". Need a phone, Need a car, Need a surround sound system... people "need" all sorts of things but most of them (including redpills but less so, incels) understand that these are actually wants. Perhaps extreme wants in the case of sex, with crippling emotional consequences, but still a want.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:25 PM
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I've seen this mostly in movies, depicted as minority women being angry at white women for taking "one of the few good ___ men". I don't see it (whore woman) much in the wild or in the movies, outside of religion or quasi religious heritage (Muslim, Jewish, Catholic).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:22 PM
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I agree that a single no, or even several no's are not something you should be angry about. But a pattern is hard to justify. When you resort to keeping a journal or calendar of "no" or have to actively think about when the last time you had sex was... is that entitlement? Is it okay to feel angry that you've had sex one time in 1-3 months? Or does being angry at long terms between mean you are feeling entitled? Surely there is some implied sex component to the (unspoken) contract of a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 03:14 PM
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The same can be said for men, that they are wired to look for younger, better, or stronger mates. Especially when sex dries up at home. There is a reason that oxytocin exists, it creates a chemical dependence on the other partner... but it wears off eventually. Why would it wear off if it wasn't the best sexual strategy? It's called the honeymoon phase for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:59 PM
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I'm INFP so I wouldn't really know... but I've also never actually tried the idea, just thought it would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:53 PM
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I would like to be able to have separate bedrooms/bathrooms, only share during intimate moments. Getting dressed, putting on makeup, shaving, pooping...etc... all done in privacy. Keep some mystery and don't force people to be together. Gives a good reason to plan "dates" together which help with romance and preventing dead bedrooms. I've been married twice, and there is such a thing as being "too comfortable" around each other. I don't want to watch my best guy friend poop, shower or shave. I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 05:39 AM
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This a question for women, but I'd like to say something... Female "friends" that I've slept with, were not deep friendships. The deep friendships that I've slept with the girl, DID get awkward... we are still best friends, but had to put artificial distance between us when she got married later...because there is a chance one of us would snap at some point, and the other would have to be strong enough to say no...and possibly hurt the other one even though its for the best. We would not be comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:13 PM
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This a question for women, but I'd like to say something... Female "friends" that I've slept with, were not deep friendships. The deep friendships that I've slept with the girl, DID get awkward... we are still best friends, but had to put artificial distance between us when she got married later...because there is a chance one of us would snap at some point, and the other would have to be strong enough to say no...and possibly hurt the other one even though its for the best. We would not be comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:26 PM
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No no... I said if children is your goal that marriage was the best option... If I didn't state that outright I apologize and retract. The best way to raise children is with a mother and a father... or rather, a masculine presence and a feminine presence... I don't really disagree with same sex couples raising children, but I do think they each need to take a certain role and not both try to me Mother or Father. However...Marriage just to tie a girl to you, because you don't want to lose (access…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:07 PM
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I think the exclusions tell the truth, men in HAPPY marriages live longer healthier lives. Also, that Successful men get Married. Healthy men get married. Men that stay successful and healthy STAY married. I don't think there is a causal relationship. I do think that less "chad-like" men benefit from marriage, if only because they can stop putting resources into searching for sexual opportunities. But generally... unless you are looking specifically to have children and want to have a part in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 01:02 AM
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Outside of some sort of emergency requiring physical strength... I don't see it as valid anymore. Children should go first regardless, they are the least useful and most at risk in an emergency situation. Infirm or Disabled people next... then weak women and men, then strong women, then strong men. Basically... if you need someone to hold open a falling metal door, or carry heavy boxes, or pull people to safety... There are perfectly capable women, and and women MORE capable than men of being ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 06:06 PM
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I take umbrage to the phrase "easier to manage" in this context... I mean... for some it is "easier to manage" a relationship with a woman who takes care of herself and doesn't need protecting. But... okay, I'm not going to argue overly long on defining the words and phrases you use to express yourself. I guess I'm glad we agree...and I'll just assume I misunderstood your intent with "easier to manage" as an attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 01:40 PM
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I don't have a problem "managing" women, but I prefer feeling like I contribute something to the relationship just by being bigger and stronger...that I can protect her. A woman can be a mental powerhouse and make more money than me, but I absolutely have be physically attracted to her for it to work... it just so happens that younger women are smaller and trigger those instincts. I don't act on them. it has nothing to do with dominating her in a relationship...but it does have to do with domina…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:24 AM
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I think the reason younger, thinner, smaller women are attractive to a lot of men is not about "dominance" but more about protection. Men feel more fullfilled when a woman needs them, looking young and innocent speaks to a primal part of men that says "she needs me to protect her, and I will be rewarded with sex." It is not necessarily even subconsiously about procreation, I think that need has been bred out of most modern men. It's about gratification... physical and emotional. Women who are ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 12:18 AM
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I have never heard anyone brag about an obedient wife, outside of actual S&M type conversations. Talking about difficult wives happens all the time, but guys with good ones usually don't participate...or lie and say theirs is hard on them too (you can usually tell the liars apart, and you let them get away with it).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 09:13 PM
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Women have a much lower bar to entry. As long as they are a little bit cute/pretty/attractive they will have more opportunities to date given to them (even if they don't like the guys asking them). Once they are on a date, they have a much lower bar to impress the other person for any reason.. mostly because guys are thirsty and for several dates women will be forgiven for basically anything as long as their is still a chance for sex to happen. Granted... this means women HAVE to be more picky, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:27 PM
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Perhaps I should change my personal belief... to men stay attracted, to the women they were attracted to when they noticed women sexually. ie... some people were attracted to their fellow 12 year olds, a lot were attracted to 16 year olds, and probably even more were attracted to the model on the hood of the car in their magazines and posters.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:35 PM
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As much as I hate it (having teen daughters myself) I completely understand why Freshmen want to date Seniors... It's not that they are more mentally mature, teen boys are Icky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:48 PM
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As a man approaching 40... If you don't have children of your own, its easy to still find teen girls attractive (from a distance). That does NOT mean you want to date them, or have sex with them. All it takes is trying to have a conversation with a teenage girl to kill most of the attraction / make you realize how awful any sort of relationship...even purely sexual...would be. Mens tastes DO evolve, but I think they ...expand more than shift. If you have a daughter, or teenage sister, it is VERY…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:45 PM
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Let me deep dive my own reasons here... I'm very introspective and willing to admit my own faults... Yes. I believe that most men remain attracted to girls starting from the age they first noticed women, for some that's 13 and up...that doesn't mean they would act on those feelings, just that they can appreciate a beautiful teen girl. This especially gets easier to get over once you have children (either your own daughter, or having to interact with a teenage girl at any time). yes... partially …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 02:42 PM
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The issue with adultery being a "civil matter" is that many states have no fault divorce. But the rest of your arguments seem reasonable. I did not read OP as stating that financial abortion should be available any other time than a normal abortion is available, so this reads somewhat as a strawman...but then, I can see other people arguing exactly that so... still reasonable to point it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 01:48 PM
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edited to be "anymore than they can replace women", twas a typo I'm sure that doesn't change your reply though. A sufficiently advanced bot, all-in-one that can take out the trash, open jars, kill spiders, reach into a disposal, etc etc... all things women CAN do but choose NOT to do when they can get a man to do it. That sufficiently advanced bot is not a sex bot, sex is just part of what it can do. At that point...the men will be as happy as the women to have one. I say not very, but content e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 01:50 PM
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You have high standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:48 AM
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I think you overestimate most men. A good bot that has reactions and noises and can get into sex positions is a LOT different than AI that is able to clean, make food, etc... More likely all of those jobs you are talking about will have non-human looking bots doing them. The more human ones will be task specific... Nothing will replace the real thing for those that have had it, but to the new generation of guys that can get "good enough" sexbots?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:20 AM
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The realdoll guys got shutdown for having rentable units on premises... sexbots are going to get shoved into the "Prostitution" area the same way that vape gets shoved into "tobacco products". Otherwise, those companies you are talking about would open up shops with rental units for the average wage person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:17 AM
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Mostly... because women already have all those things, men who have a sex doll won't care what women are doing with theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:14 AM
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Likely a sex bot will not be anywhere near capable of more than laying there and looking/feeling good. By the time we get to the level you are talking about...basically sexy androids...we'll probably have moved on from natural reproduction anyway... in the meantime... bots can't replace men "around the house" anymore than they can replace women... but a realistic sex doll? Probably enough for most bachelors, those who have moved on after divorces, or those who are too shy or unattractive to get …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 04:13 AM
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Social Skills are the biggest part; being able to talk to anyone about anything while remaining comfortable with them and with themselves. That is probably something much more "Nurture" than "Nature", though it is possible that hormones can lead to one naturally being more open and comfortable in any given situation. Physical attributes are definitely part of it. Hitting the genetic lottery, or working very hard to be in peak form go a long way to breaking down the above social barriers and comf…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 04:14 PM
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I'm not flaming you, but "eat your cake and have it to" is the way the phrase is supposed to go. Makes much more sense logically. Ignore my discomfort and correcting you. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:34 PM
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If you have a clinic near you, and a few hundred bucks (in some cases less, but up to 1000), and time for the procedure... its outpatient, like getting wisdom teeth pulled and being down on pain meds for a few days while you heal. If you are used to gyno exams or ever had tissue taken to test for HPV / Cervical Cancer then you've been through very similar things (not exactly, and I'm not saying having your uterus scraped is easy). Overall, its a "simple" procedure in most cases, and cost effecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:25 PM
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I've seen John Candy in 'Stripes'
/r/PussyPassDenied26/02/19 03:38 AM
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I completely mangled it. I don't even like my own version... too much like the open/closed soda, or lock/key theory. I try hard not to fall into these because I did get to enjoy plenty of youthful carousel membership. But I think I understand nice guys, because in Middle and High School I had lots of female friends, but was not attractive enough to them to be more. I can relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 03:13 AM
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Not going to pass it up, but not dating high n-count women looking for a wife. If it clicked that would be different, and worth considering...with n-count in the Cons category.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 02:09 AM
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Did the cars let everyone but you drive? Do you only get to drive the minivans and lemons? Did the car get driven around the block and not let you drive it until you had more money/age/status and the car was ready to stop being a sports car and become a pampered classic car? If you buy a really nice car, but it is a 3 year old ex-rental car that was driven hard. You don't like that car as much as a car that has never been driven by anyone but you, or only gently driven by 2 or 3 previous owners.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:57 AM
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Buried. 90% of the men complaining about the CC are ones who were not part of it. The ones who were "nice guys" watching women ride, but never getting any or only having meaningful or LTR's. To a guy who watched women ride the CC, but did not get to be part of it...who is now successful and "suddenly" looking like a good marriage prospect. He wants a woman who did not ride it either...or he is now attractive enough (being older, or finally out of his awkward looking phase, or wealthy enough) tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/19 01:50 AM
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Good point. No I don't want anyone arrested, and I actually lean more toward the woman in question being 19-20. But the argument could be made. Debating whether to take it down, while it argues my point... I think everyone here has seen these type of girls on Reddit and asked themselves the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:23 AM
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NSFW photo of a girl posting to reddit. How old does everyone think she is? I could easily mistake her for 12 or 13, or 20something. Justice was served, it is still up to the adult to verify and call bullshit. I can feel for a bro and still agree with the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:10 AM
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In CA it is illegal for a child to have sex with another child. That aside...I find it hard to see a 12 year old at 19... 15 or 16 maybe on the outside. Unless maybe she is Asian, I've met 40 something women who look 12 except for the smile lines around their eyes that can be negated by makeup. Personality should still clue you in. But yes, pubescent and possibly at this age, post pubescent children definitely think about and want sex, and with older men/women too. Sucks to be an adult, but its …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:05 AM
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It is! For high school girls, and only ON Dads
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 04:15 AM
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In most cases, including my own, children are used as weapons in a divorce. The amount of child support never adds up to the amount paid in when all parties are living in the same house either; its far and away more than typically needs to be budgeted for family expenses. I got 51% custody of both my girls, and luckily my ex got help and cleaned up her act enough we split time equally. But she threatened to take them away, move to another state, and say I abused her. This is not an uncommon stor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 08:03 AM
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Pedantics. In this case its like you were trying to deny 98 years of women's voting. At least be positive and truthful about it next time. Something like "Women haven't been voting for a century yet, I've got the date marked on my calendar for 2020." Then you get to be technically correct, without being an asshole. Unless you want to deny 98 years of voting in favor of your own agenda. If the story doesn't fit your scenario. Then I guess you can't be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 07:05 AM
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I'm not necessarily agreeing with the above poster, but women gained the right to vote in 1919. Dingus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 11:07 PM
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I have jokingly stated it in the past, and it is an asshole thing to say I admit: "A guy who is a 5 (in looks) can get a 10 (in looks) at a discount if she's damaged in transit."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:55 PM
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Basically, men who have dealt with these behaviors have PTSD. Their response is basically Anti-BPD... It could even be its own mental health issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:53 PM
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I don't disagree with you, I was answering the question of why TRP uses it the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:46 PM
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I meant if you care about her. Despite all the crap they put you through, it is possible you love them. Get them help before you ghost so you don't risk feeling responsible for anything they do to themselves. But you are also 100% right
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 06:45 PM
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BPD is real, and it's very likely that the type of women RP'ers are/used to be attracted to (or are, know they are, and have to remind themselves) exhibit several signs of BPD. BPD is very undiagnosed because people don't know to seek treatment, especially if ex-friends, family, ex-boyfriends/girlfriends; just call them crazy bitch/asshole. The warning signs are very easy to spot once you've taken the time to read up (or if you ever dealt with a diagnosed person). The warning signs as written, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 08:53 AM
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A priority, not The priority
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 09:38 PM
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Oh that's fine... but random readers may have no idea. I frequent this sub and have not seen MBTI classifications thrown around... and I had to look it up to make sure I knew what it was (I did, but not by the acronym)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/18 12:06 AM
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All those words, and not a single explanation of what MBTI is. https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/18 05:49 PM
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Welcome to the experience of at least half of the female population. They have no idea. Personally I don't doubt that you know what you want because I don't know you. But I've been with several women, and they range from completely aware of their needs to completely ignorant and just going along with their fingers crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:46 PM
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I think the problem is that Reddit is generally more liberal and "woke" than the average, in all respects, minus conservative strongholds. So real world experience by these redpill men outweighs your narrower views. You say, "Women wouldn't lie about this! I don't, and no woman I know does!" Meanwhile millions of women are playing coy, or are suppressed, or oppressed, or confused, or "settling" to get a steady man instead of a hot shallow guy. Collective straight male experience, even anecdotall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/18 03:42 PM
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Crazy is not hot by itself, but a LOT of attractive women are "crazy" meaning they have BPD, BiPolar, Abandonment, etc issues. The point of the saying is to stay away from the crazy ones no matter how hot they are. True "perfect fuck doll" type women would get boring fairly quickly, but that doesn't mean the drama itself is attractive. For the most part, men are attracted to women DESPITE their issues, their games, their manipulations, their "crazy", and their drama. Do Not mistake acceptance of…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:31 PM
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I can't remember where I first heard it, but basically. If you (man or woman) try to "fix" someone to make them perfect for you, rather than accept them and love them for who they are; and you succeed in changing who they are to suit you. They will not like you afterwards because your efforts to change them, will change their view of you. Encouragement to better themselves is fine until it becomes nagging. Either you are going to dislike them for not changing to suit you, or they are going to ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 04:42 PM
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"If you are able to change someone to suit you, they won't like you when you succeed."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 12:33 AM
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Commitment is like the prize you really want out of the vending machine, but instead you just get child support. Unless you choose a cheap vending machine, then you just get child support coupons that you can't cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 12:32 AM
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That was partially in jest, but the remainder is what I stated. Because men are overwhelmingly expected to initiate, women should make sure their intentions are clear. Surely women, who are so observant of how creepy and perverted men are. Who recognize all the rapists-in-waiting, are observant enough to say "I appreciate everything you do for me, but I want to be clear that we are just friends." It won't stop thirsty guys from buying them drinks and carrying heavy objects for them with expectat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 02:15 AM
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Women who continue to accept and dole out "nice guy points" are part of the problem. They are enablers. Somebody needs to break the cycle, and since men historically and currently are still the ones that have to initiate a relationship. The women should be the ones to recognize the signs and shut down any thoughts of romance or sex early on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:22 AM
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"Sleep on the couch" is a direct denial / show of power. The fact that men obey ever is a sign they are a slave to sex and the wife/gf is the master.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:15 AM
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A man they do not know, buying them a drink and expecting anything from them up to an including sex. This statement makes a bit of sense. But many use this argument even in a marriage, where she "makes him sleep on the couch" and other nonsense. Withholding sex as a punishment or using it for other manipulation. A relationship is a contract, and if either side is not upholding the contract then the other side is free to leave it. Men should start witholding emotional support and gifts and favors…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 01:13 AM
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An oddly worded request that makes me think oddly specific answers: I've had "meaningless sex", a woman I wasn't attracted to beyond her being female. A woman who was a "dead fish" in bed. A person I didn't really know and who I did not have a visceral sexual reaction to (lust) when I met her. Meaningless Sex Sucks! Sex with "meaning" doesn't have to be magical... just... is the woman someone who made me feel funny just for looking at her (that happens very rarely to me). Was she someone I know,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 12:35 AM
1

If you are carrying concealed so you can react to threats like Criminals or Home Invasion etc then that is fine. It's when you start brandishing the weapon so everybody knows you have one that you stray into beta territory. I've had this discussion with my best friend about Open Carry... yes I think everyone should be able to open carry, but I don't consider that brandishing a weapon. Sticking it in your waist band where you can use it to threaten people, or pulling it out and pointing it at peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 01:58 PM
1

The Lion King: Mufasa is the Alpha, doesn't go around looking for fights but is ready to defend the Pride and the Prideland. Scar is a Beta, even after he colludes with Hyenas to kill Mufasa, and becomes the King by default, and has all the females in the Pride forced to worship him... Scar is still Beta, being in charge doesn't make you Alpha, beating an Alpha doesn't make you Alpha... Beating the Alpha puts you in charge... but if you aren't actually Alpha, then a real leader will come along a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 01:24 PM
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Until you give a beta a gun. Weapons, but especially Guns, enable the tiniest weakest person to defeat the giant. There is nothing Manly or Alpha about upping your threat level with a weapon unless the situation specifically calls for it (namely, defending what is yours not seeking to take what is someone else's) There are probably exceptions where you have to use a weapon to take care of your family or go to war as the aggressor... but even then... One on One is much different than countries go…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:33 AM
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Guns, to threaten people, as a tool of intimidation...is beta as fuck. Guns are the great equalizer, give a 90 year old grandma a gun and she can take down the biggest dude in the room. There is nothing Alpha about carrying a gun, displaying a gun, being known for having a gun. Avoiding a situation where a bunch of beta dicks are carrying guns to make up for their insecurities is the Smart thing to do, and is the Alpha thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:29 AM
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It depends on why you are fighting. If you are just looking to start shit, want to show off, etc... that's pretty beta man. If you are defending yourself and your people, then putting the idiot in his/her place is alpha. But if you can use your words to destroy them instead of your fists, that's even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:26 AM
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TBH what happens is you don't care about what they are saying, they can't phase you. You control yourself and your reactions, talking is shit, actions speak louder than words. If the guy gets handsy, you put them down quickly and efficiently. If their words are hurting people you care about (not yourself, what they say to you is beneath you) then you make them back down/back off. Redirect their attention to yourself, because you can handle anything they can dish out. And if it's really bad? Get …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 04:23 AM
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When that shit happens to me in real life I show them I can get 10x as loud as they can. I'm a big dude and they need to step away from my personal space. I'm normally pretty soft spoken but I will not take that shit from anyone. I put my hands in my pockets so nobody thinks I'm balling up about to hit a bitch, but it basically boils down to; "ARE YOU TRYING TO ESCALATE? ARE WE BEING LOUD NOW?" and if she continues to be loud and in my face I just start mocking her, "LOUD NOISES! LOUD NOISES! LO…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/10/18 02:58 AM
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This is well and fine, so long as she is also doing dishes/laundry, picking up clothes, taking out the trash etc. My relationships seemed to devolve into her making me do chores while she fucks off to do other things...its very unmotivating! Especially if she nags me to do things, I do them, and then don't get any reward other than not being nagged. I like many men my age who have been divorced... have basically given up on finding a compatible woman for the long term. I haven't had sex for year…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 04:34 PM
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I'm mildly red pill, a dead bedroom will completely kill the rest of a marriage for me (and has...). I need physical intimacy or I start looking around and being unhappy... part of that may be ADHD too. However... I get 90% of my pleasure during sex, from giving her pleasure. I don't even like blowjobs much but I'll give her head for hours if my tongue holds up and she doesn't pass out. I don't want to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex... but I want to have sex... when I'm actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 04:23 PM
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I don't think it is "abused" as much as people think, more that the mere thought of becoming a #metoo story, especially if you have any sort of business presence or social life... is a chilling prospect. It isn't that it HAS been abused, it is that if it were there is almost literally nothing you can do about it. It isn't a rape accusation that could lead to legal issues for a false accuser, its a post on social media... I'm hyper-aware of my behavior now so that I can avoid ever being a metoo s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 06:21 AM
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Does it matter if it has actually happened? How does the trans person's right to use whichever restroom they want have more import than the non-trans person wanting to "feel safe" in the restroom? Do cis-gendered people just have no rights? I don't think you can use the law to avoid being kicked out regardless of behavior, but you can use it to sue or have licenses revoked.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 05:20 PM
1

I agree that inclusive lockerrooms should be something a private business can decide to do on their own. If you have inclusive locker rooms then let people know and let them decide to buy in or to not use those facilities. However she should have been offered a pro-rated refund or termination of her contract if the facilities / policy was not up to her standards. I think this person was an asshole, definitely, but on the broader topic I think business should be able to have whatever policy they …
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 05:15 PM
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in the case of locker rooms and bathrooms I'd say the phobia is of people pretending to be trans, not of actual trans people. in the case of sports its scientific facts that make someone with a male body better suited at some activities than someone born with a female body.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 04:26 PM
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We should push for all-inclusive bath/locker rooms if we want equality (a la Starship Troopers). However until that option is available, you should use the room you present as. All transphobia (using it correctly) centers around uncertainty if this person is actually transitioning or is simply abusing the system. It's not even fear of people who want to be the opposite gender, its fear of people pretending to be trans. (in this case, in the case of sports its the equivalent of allowing someone w…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 04:22 PM
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I think once you have had reassignment surgery you can call people total assholes for being prejudiced. Before that there is too much uncertainty. If you present as the gender you are transitioning to, and keep your equipment to yourself. It is likely nobody will know or say anything. There is no good answer besides having an all-inclusive bathroom/locker room alongside men/women.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 04:18 PM
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I'd say probably not; if you can pass as that gender you can still get away with it so long as you don't leave dangly bits flopping around. Creepers are gonna creep regardless, but this stops opposite gender from using law as a way to get their rocks off. Without making a bathroom/lockerroom for every sexual identity the best solution is probably to offer a mixed gender bathroom alongside mens / womens - and enforce a policy to kick out offensive people.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 04:12 PM
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Another word that no longer has real meaning. The phobia part literally means fear. Trans prejudice? Probably. Fear? Not in 80%+ of cases.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/18 04:07 PM
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For me.. I think it is at least partially about attractiveness. If you do not think you are as attractive as the woman you are interested in, then you "know" that she or her friends will call you a creep or creepy for trying to hit on them. Creepy is a very standard phrase for being hit on my someone she isn't attracted to. Actual creeps are far worse than most men, but like "racist" its a label you do NOT want to be given in social situations. It will follow you if she has a large group of frie…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 03:13 PM
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Other than several court cases where the man found out later on that the child was not his, but was still ordered to pay child support. A lot of people agree with this because "its for the children".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:28 AM
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O--kay? I'm sorry my offhand intentionally blunt and stupid comment triggered you. I don't actually believe there is an agenda in Little Mermaid or anything. It's one of my top 3 Disney movies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 08:13 AM
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She's the youngest princess, that could make her worth more or less depending on which deviant prince charming comes calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 07:42 AM
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I've personally known several women with BPD. There is a difference between "because I'm a girl" and "that's okay, I'm shit and going to kill myself because I can't help but fuck up other peoples lives" Maybe BPD is misdiagnosed, and is actually several other issues that are comorbid. But the "group" of illnesses it encompasses are real.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/18 06:21 AM
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Not when 75% of profile pictures are with friends (often behind them) or from the neck up (thin face, doesn't match body)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:50 AM
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Hell yes. The knowing is half the fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:44 PM
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If she is into it and takes care of herself, an attempt will be made at least. I enjoy it, I enjoy her enjoying it, I enjoy having the power to make her come undone, I enjoy making sure she's about as satisfied as I can make her before I penetrate her. I actually prefer not to get service in return unless no sex will take place. It's just not my thing. I think guys who don't do it are missing out. I would almost rather eat out any female I'm attracted to, than have sex with them. Almost.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 06:40 PM
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Any habit is hard to break. It becomes a mindset and you not only "look" or "fantasize" but you are used to taking the next step so you are more flirty and prone to intimacy with others. I'm a guy with a high N count because I used to be in a swinger relationship. I make emotional and near physical connections with basically all my non-family female friends now... and even some cousins I have to remind myself to watch my wandering hands. It's been 10 years since I did any of that and I feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:39 PM
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Any habit is hard to break, some people won't date ex smokers or ex-near-alchoholics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:32 PM
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Depends on why you think a large number of partners is a bad thing. If it is because you don't want them to be experienced then the hardcore single partner is worse. If it is because you believe you are sleeping with every person that person has slept with, then the larger number is worse. If what you care about is someone being slutty it might be both, or you might still consider the degenerate 1 or 2 partners okay because "as long as she's my slut". Generally... I think most would side more wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 03:29 PM
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Red Districts kindof ruin that since there is only one real reason to go there. Porn by itself isn't seen as that big of a deal anymore, but going into the XXX part of a video store, or going to a sex shop is still seen as shady and shameful. Asian Massage places all get a bad rap because "everyone" knows the real reason men go there. If every massage place had it on the menu then there would be less stigma (probably as much suspicion though). I guess I'm not an incel though, as I'd totally go t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:29 PM
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If you live on the east coast or hell, even the midwest. Nevada is possibly an entire Germany away. (or close to) If you are a US American then you know this already, but if you live close to Nevada it may have slipped your mind just how big our country is. If you are not from the US then this is a gentle reminder. It might even be cheaper and easier to fly to another country, plus you know... another country! Nevada gets boring very quick even in Vegas... I'm babbling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:25 PM
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But why would they get a say? In a world where we have to bake a cake for anyone and can't refuse service any longer based on a sign on the wall... If its legal, then its a service, and if it's a service then people have a legal right to partake of the service... right? I mean... I guess Incel isn't a protected class, maybe it should be! very tongue in cheek, but I can already see the arguments in the media... Maybe there would need to be a license to practice prostiutiion, and one to partake...…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:14 PM
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That is what I was thinking... his argument starts to fall apart when applied to other types of threesomes than cuckolding. Where he is treating her as a possession to be loaned out (often times to her excited pleasure...sometimes her submissive shame...sometimes her submissive pleasure...).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:53 PM
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While I an agree with you in regards to cuckolding; I have issues with other threesome type scenarios in which the man initiates bringing another male into the relationship. In fact... There is a large section of porn dedicated to MMF threesomes in which the boyfriend/husband greatly enjoys sharing his wife... making her property to be shared. This is empowering for the man. Of course a new woman to play with is usually preferable to men but there is something visceral about offering your posses…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 06:51 PM
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Fellow fat guy checking in, maybe she passed out from lack of oxygen. Laying on the floor is hard.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/17 03:23 PM
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Rosemary had a little lamb
/r/PussyPassDenied21/12/17 03:22 PM
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Depends, if they were in college a lot of them put on freshman pounds from being able to eat whatever they want and be as lazy as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:05 AM
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unscientific idea: Women are looking for fantasy experiences and crappy ones just make looking for the best more appealing. Many men can be happy with a wet hole, the quality of most encounters hinges on "doesn't matter, had sex". I'm more of a woman now in my 30's according to my unscientific idea. I had enough meaningless sex when I was younger that I'm looking for something more fantasy now. I'm rambling, grain of salt, probably just my own twisted interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:03 AM
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YOU don't break up a fight, if I see a little dude get the shit smacked outta him and the point has been proven, and the big dude is still ready to accidentally kill him? I'm gonna jump in and give him a second to think. If the fight looks equal I'll let them duke it out, again, until it looks like someone might get killed.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/11/17 02:27 AM
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Legally yes, socially? If your family decides to disown you / make you leave the house and not support you because you chose poorly there is nothing illegal about it after a certain age. Incidentally I don't hear the "arranged marriages" argument nearly as often as the "married at 14" argument which is much more real. I'm rather conservative in most things but being a virgin when you got married was much more reasonable when you were under 17. Making sure your daughter would be taken care of was…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/17 05:34 PM
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to be fair... very many men have been on the receiving end of screeching arguments from women. They get emotional, their voice gets higher... Happens to men too but less noticeable because they start lower (generally). Men don't usually screech or scream, they shout or yell (the same but less ear splitting)... I know I'm being somewhat disengenuous here... but I don't find these terms to be sexist so much as context sensitive... Howling though... I havent heard in regard to women ever... unless …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 06:01 AM
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You keep adding expenses back in, taxes are not expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 12:29 AM
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Man how to put it into words... I have several "dream girl scenarios" but in most of them I have close enough to unlimited resources that I might as well have infinite money to spend. In these scenarios I meet the "perfect" girl who is beautiful but has some sort of emotional flaw that fits perfectly with me who is very empathetic. She is very outgoing and very much her own person in public, but in private she loves to be my plaything... With my unlimited resources, I would have a house with her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/17 05:50 PM
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Typical Red Pill / Seduction saying is, "Women don't want to BE the adventure, they want to GO on an adventure." Going to a fancy party, being treated to all sorts of perks of being ear a rich guy. Even if you don't land him long term being CLOSE to "royalty" is enough of an adventure to be a turn on, even if the physical attractiveness quotient is way off. Stock these parties with hot women and the chances of the below average millionaire getting laid go up a lot. The women are their for an adv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:00 PM
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It's pronounced FayMay /s
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/17 11:58 PM
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Qualifier: ADHD means you lose interest or get bored more quickly sometimes so my thoughts with a grain of salt. As long as there is not an abrupt change in the sexual dynamic between man and woman, men can pretty easily stay monogamous. However if she starts withholding yes, men want to cheat. The fact that more do not is really something they should be praised for in those situations. Base instinct would have me and many men I know moving on after 2 or 3 years max if they are able to attract a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:08 PM
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While I'm glad she got what was coming to her, he waited too long. Made it obvious he chose to hit "a woman" rather than just hitting whoever hit him. Obviously he held back or she'd be unconscious though, so good on him even if holding back will never teach her a lesson about picking her battles (physical altercations). Not that anyone should be allowed to verbally assault someone like that without expecting escalation. I think "fighting words" needs to make a comeback as long as you only respo…
/r/PussyPassDenied17/04/17 03:53 AM
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Bootcamp reduces you from an individual to part of a group, these are your shipmates / brothers and sisters / etc. Bootcamp is partly brainwashing you in to thinking and reacting a certain way, you are not allowed to be an individual in bootcamp. You wear the same issues eye glasses, you wear the same uniforms, you have the same haircut at the exact same time every week or two. You do not wear visible jewelry or watches (wedding rings are overlooked). You are part of the whole, part of the team,…
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/16 12:58 AM
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the poor and middle class make up the bulk of the american public, are you saying that upper class should be disproportionately represented in our military?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/12/16 12:44 AM
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ze and zim actually according to CNN
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/16 04:00 PM
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'The Game' was essentially a "what not to do" story of his life spiraling out of control. I'm not sure what book you read but his first one was not a glowing review of the PUA lifestyle.
/r/seduction05/02/16 07:34 AM
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Not as much as you might think. Mainly that she has an active imagination AND she wants to go on an adventure with a guy, not be the adventure for the guy
/r/seduction29/01/16 01:56 AM
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Precisely the reason people wonder why she is still employed. MU was one of if not the best j-school in the US before this.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/16 01:48 AM
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Ostensibly, they only wanted reporters that were sympathetic to the cause and would show them in a good light. All others were invading their "safe space" and being racist.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/16 01:46 AM
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Being from Columbia, MO but not from MU... I am ashamed it took this long for any real punishment.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/01/16 01:43 AM
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To be honest after reading 'The Game' it is more of a cautionary tale about being a giant bag of douche than a manual on how to be a pick-up artist. Mystery may not still be (quite such) a giant douche, but the man portrayed in the book was very much so. They were all living life with no reason except to hook up with as many women as possible and "live the lifestyle". If I were caught with the book on my shelf, I'd turn it into a conversation piece and a "what not to do" story.
/r/seduction07/09/15 02:39 PM
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You Like That! You want some!? Come On! Get Off me! checks out
/r/PussyPassDenied31/08/15 12:47 AM
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I think White Knighting is allowed to an extent. He made his point physically and she got what she deserved. She (probably) didn't deserve what else she had coming (luckily the gentleman stopped after the slam) I would have stood up to defend her if he went too far, saw him back off, and congratulated him on his awesome use of minimal force.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:34 AM
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Because once he became the aggressor someone was actually in danger of getting the shit beat out of them. Yes she deserved what she got But he didn't deserve what she could have had coming to her. I'd have stood up to stop him, saw him backing off, then congratulated him on his excellent use of minimal force.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:31 AM
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She deserved what she got, but there was no guaranteeing there wasn't more coming...and she didn't deserve what was coming to her. I'd white knight too if a dude continued to beat her after making his point. I'd stand up to stop him, see him backing off; go congratulate him and commiserate with his forthecoming suspension.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:29 AM
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A solid shove of about 12 feet would have been more appropriate but much less satisfying. This dude saw the video of the big kid getting bullied by the little kid and body slamming him.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:23 AM
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One might call them queer
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:21 AM
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It's easy, you send it to someone as MMS and the phone asks if you want to resize it to fit.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:20 AM
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I love that he only looks about 4 years older than the students.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:18 AM
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This is the only acceptable reason to White Knight. Because she deserved what she got, but not what she had coming.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:17 AM
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The most tame way? Maybe a good 12 foot shove across the classroom.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:16 AM
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Makes me wonder how many times she has called her colleagues Nigga.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/06/15 01:14 AM
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If she says it as a joke that is one thing. But straight up "I don't date..." with a dismissive tone? Move on, she isn't worth it no matter how hot, and you will look like a dick. If she's alone, then bail. If she's in a group then neg her and move on to a friend, "I was just trying to make you feel better, I don't date insert attribute" Somebody in that group probably likes you and hates her being opinionated. But don't just stand there all desperate and take that shit, and quit trying to pursu…
/r/seduction18/04/15 06:24 PM
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Make it easy for her to say yes by being 'the planner'. You give her a time and she will say yes unless she knows she has a prior commitment. You already got her to meet up on a certain day, so now you are just figuring out when. The hard part is over.
/r/seduction17/04/15 04:48 PM
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Yep, she will either say "you don't need one" or "why?" which tells you whats happening next.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:55 PM
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Practice with Polyurethane too! Otherwise the first couple of times you try it will feel like wearing a ziploc bag or plastic wrap and you'll lose your woody partway through.
/r/seduction25/03/15 11:54 PM
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Unless you know a few other groups and can point them out. It shows value because you know everybody (except her/them)
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:11 AM
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Use it to open and get to know her / the group then bail for a while. When you come back you can use another opener on the target without worrying about the group closing up on you because you've already been pre-approved. Double Indirect Opener? "Hey! So my friends are being boring, I'm much more interested in you, mind if I hang out with the cool/attractive people again for a while?."
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:08 AM
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At 15, most of those girls are considered "easy mode" because they have not yet fully developed their "bitch shields". You do not need to go at them with everything you learn here because otherwise its like using a huge glowing noise-making fishing lure to catch small fish. It just scares them off. Tailor your game to the circumstances and the girl. Those freshmen girls can't handle you at full power, dial it back a bit. They are already stuck in the social situation with you somewhat because of…
/r/seduction09/10/14 01:37 AM
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Getting started young will help out the rest of your life. You don't need nightclubs and bars because being in school gives you a built in "trapped audience" to practice on. Just don't be that asshole who abuses the power and goes through all the women. Treat them all like they are special even if you don't mean it, Cassanova not manwhore. Then they will remember you fondly even if it was just one night; and it will help if you find one you really really like that your reputation is not as a hea…
/r/seduction08/10/14 02:51 AM
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Except if a man commits a violent act because someone "looked at me funny" or "I didn't like the way he looked" he would rightly be called out on it. People who do that in movies are depicted as jerks and criminals because that IS WHAT THEY ARE. Women cannot justify simply following our example because it is well defined that it is not acceptable behavior!
/r/MensRights12/09/14 03:43 AM
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Talk to more girls so it becomes a common occurrence instead of a trigger (aka get used to it) Don't be self conscious about it, because it is natural and girls will realize it is natural. Get older, as your hormones even out so will the random boners. But they will always be with you unless you end up completely impotent.
/r/seduction28/05/14 05:16 AM
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Peace burp0, we made up :)
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:44 PM
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Peace burp0, we made up :)
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:43 PM
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The tribal leader thing is probably one of the first things I internalized, I've been following seduction since 'The Game' came out though only actually trying it out in the last couple of years. But thank you for the conscious reminder.
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:42 PM
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I suppose, if enough of you call me Neckbeard I will get over it. I'm more of an Otaku though, which admittedly means something different in Japan than the US.
/r/seduction22/05/14 11:36 PM
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Being a non-neckbeard in a sea of neckbeards will help then.
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:29 AM
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"You neckbeards" Thanks a lot fucktard, just because somebody is into anime and sci-fi that doesn't mean they have to be a fat shut-in with no hygeine. Now, perhaps you just meant the girls will be used to neckbeards in general hitting on them, in which case I apologize. Otherwise fuck off. That said... Thank you for the advise on an easy neg with the "who are you supposed to be" bit. That will be very useful. I'm giving you an upvote anyway even though I feel insulted and defensive for no reaso…
/r/seduction22/05/14 04:24 AM
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True, I suppose I was looking to try out pre-canned material for laughs, but my only goal was to put myself out there and give myself a boost by talking to attractive girls (and their friends) in costume without coming across as the creepy loser guy. Or not caring if I came across as creepy because it was pre-canned material. Oh well, guess I'll just wing it for the most part.
/r/seduction21/05/14 11:51 PM
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Oh no doubt, my natural game is pretty good as long as I let myself go so I'm really not that worried. I just wanted some go-to material to try out, and wondered what seddit could come up with. It definitely helps that I am A) going with one male and one female cousin (though she is only 15) and B) that I have zero expectations and really don't even want a number or a fclose. This is about the experience, and the material. Not about the endgame.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:10 PM
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The Game It is a great look at how everything works, as well as how not to lose yourself. It may be a bit dated now considering it is about Style meeting Mystery, but the basics are all there.
/r/seduction15/04/14 12:47 AM
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The point being, you have to remove yourself from the situation. Upon returning, you cannot give her all the emotional support of a relationship, without getting it in return. Don't let her treat you that way if you want more from her. It is an old saying from Mystery and Style, that in a relationship you have Diamonds and Gold. Diamonds are emotional support, dates, gifts; the things a boyfriend does for the girl he loves. Gold is sex physical intimacy. The key to a healthy relationship is to k…
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:18 AM
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The sub pretty much covered my response already but I have one thing to add. A) You don't project needy while you are in a relationship B) You do project "I'm great without needing to have sex with you" and 3, I add that many of those women who are openly more flirty when you are with an SO, are likely feeling comfortable enough to do so, because you are safe. If you actually escalated they would probably change their tune pretty quickly.
/r/seduction08/01/14 05:24 AM
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Diffuse and Ignore. The thing about being alpha, is that alpha doesn't TRY to be alpha, he just is. Subtle or otherwise, your best bet is to ignore it as if you didn't even notice. If you know their names then don't respond with "bud" or "buddy" use their names and treat them like a long lost friend or something. Give them a big hug when they put their arm on your shoulders, getting into their personal space, let them think you might be a little gay (because you don't care what their perception …
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:57 AM
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I know what girls like, girls like boys like me
/r/seduction16/10/13 10:37 PM
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Canned routines and other peoples material for outer game... these are really just training tools. Get you mind out of the moment by using those which gives you longer to slip into something natural. If you rely too heavily on "outer game" without changing your inner game, then you are going to fail much more. Of course, the whole point of that canned material is that you will always be rejected by 100% of women you don't approach. By using the stuff provided, you at least approach more women wh…
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:48 AM
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The things he got wrong are explained well in 'The Game', those two go together well. 'Style' is one of my favorite PUA's to emulate in many ways. The part of him that moved on from just "sex sex sex".
/r/seduction15/09/13 03:38 AM
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Never say never, but keep it light and don't pursue too hard; enough she knows you are interested, but also knows you don't care if it ever happens. Then, if one day she decides she wants a little D, she might keep you in mind. Don't plan on it, and don't care if it never happens, but don't "expect" it to never happen. Never say Never.
/r/seduction07/09/13 04:48 PM
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Frankly, it seems most women I've known will even let you massage them as long as you stay away from the nipple...or at least, don't go straight for the nipple. Not just "hey you want a boob massage?" but its easy to work up to in the right circumstances. The point being overtly sexual, vs just nice being touched.
/r/seduction06/08/13 01:53 AM
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So you see a girl in real life, talking about a club she was at over the weekend, and you do the exact same thing. Pretend you met before, find out more about her, play the game. She can shut you down right away, or she can decide you are interesting and want to keep talking to you. Of course there are guys who would creepily stalk her photos and facebook posts, there are creeps in every crowd; especially in seduction. But you don't continue to bug her when she doesn't show interest. I'm not con…
/r/seduction27/07/13 09:39 PM
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My online game is actually really damn good because I'm a bit of an author. So for shits and giggles I went through a bunch of "random local girls" in facebook search and found a few HB7+. I then proceeded with the following, "Hey. Are you the <insert name here> I met at the <random place, possibly from her posting history> on Friday night?" You'd be surprised how many responses I got, either "I might be, what did we talk about?" at which point I make shit up until she calls me on the fact we ne…
/r/seduction27/07/13 07:58 PM
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This was wonderful. Thank you very much for the "other side". I have not gone full-blown sedditor yet, I've been following PUA/Seduction for a couple of years now, since I watched Mystery on VH1 and decided to read 'The Game'. I'm a big dude (6'3") but also a big dude (300+ lbs) so I have self confidence issues. Basically, I am not afraid to open, I am not afraid to talk to anyone for the most part, and I'm supremely confident I can pull off that "Alpha" attitude. I just don't go out much. When …
/r/seduction22/07/13 01:05 AM
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There was much backdoor dealing and extremely questionable practice about how healthcare was passed. That was all Pelosi and Reid (I'm sure with pushes from Obama). And Healthcare just got dealt another blow, not being enforced until 2014 instead of this year as stated in the bill. There is a lot wrong with it, as was pointed out before it was voted on, and the opponents keep getting proven right. Meanwhile every other piece of legislation was stopped in their tracks. CardCheck, Energy, Immigrat…
/r/MensRights03/07/13 09:00 PM
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And I'm not saying there is anything wrong with this (though there are issues with a woman being captured by the enemy, targeted for being a woman in the middle east, feminine hygiene issues, separate quarters issues... Honestly though, if a woman is willing to meet the same requirements, then let her do the job. There will be other issues to deal with though, because no matter what, men and women have different issues which can't always be dealt with in the face of the enemy.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 04:27 PM
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As an American reading this, Obama was a long time social agitator who preached "hope and change". Following the edicts of "Rules for Radicals" until he got into power. He spent his life fighting against "the man", now he IS "the man" and much of what we have seen is the fallout of a man who only knows how to fight "the power" not wield it.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 04:10 PM
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There are good arguments for why these jobs are male dominated though. Specifically the military, women will be required to meet the exact same guidelines as men for physical fitness and health to be on the front line. In all other aspects of the military women get a pass on physical fitness (easier weight and bodyfat standards, less sit-ups/pushups, longer to run the same distance, dead hang time instead of pullups, etc). If a woman is capable of doing the same physically demanding job as a man…
/r/MensRights03/07/13 04:03 PM
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actually a variation of the same comment I made above, led to losing 300+ comment karma as SRS descended on the thread. No matter what they say, being put on SRS leads to them tracking and attacking. It's a feminist circlejerk, and they don't care about context.
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:30 AM
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ShitRedditSays...I expect them to jump on this thread before long.
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:16 AM
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Women always (unless sterile) have a chance of getting pregnant, so they get to be choosier. It doesn't mean they don't want sex as much as men. That being said, I still maintain that any woman could have sex with just about any unattached man, any night of the week. All they have to do is ask. At a bar, "I like how you look, would you like to come back to my place and screw?" Woman will slap a man most of the time, Men will likely get out of the bar as quickly as possible, following her. Sex is…
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:00 AM
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They do it for other women more than for themselves. Showing off to men is secondary to being better than other women. "Doing it for themselves" translates loosely to "Doing it because I want other women to be jealous, so I can feel better about myself" Granted...men do this somewhat with our toys (cars, boats, entertainment systems, etc) but at least we can enjoy those things by ourselves and still be happy. I don't think most women really enjoy having bigger boobs unless there is someone to lo…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:54 AM
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This: This is why women are constantly scheming against other women even if it is just to look better than them, often very jealous, bitching about each other. They ask a man what he is thinking when he is quiet...and when we say "nothing" they don't believe us. Men don't often have frenemies, we either like someone, or we don't. Some of us are better at tolerating the ones we dislike, or even don't have any feeling about. Women on the other hand seem to keep their friends close, their enemies c…
/r/seduction04/06/13 03:51 AM
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This honestly sounds a lot like what happened in 'The Game' where Mystery ended up in a deep depression and Style got the hell out of the game when he recognized some of his own tendencies. I'd say you are just having a slump, and you can recover. Don't let it get you down it was just a couple of girls with fucked up priorities and sending mixed signals. There are other women out there, if you aren't ready to settle down then don't. If you are, then don't try to meet "the one" using canned mater…
/r/seduction24/02/13 05:24 AM
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...have you read 'The Game'? I was referencing that things like emotional involvement, listening to their problems (or nonsense talking), and yes; dates/dancing/gifts are Diamonds. Sex and things that lead to sex (physical) are Gold. In a perfect relationship, the ratio of Diamonds to Gold stays equal. But for a nice guy like me who listens and gets emotionally involved with a girl without expecting anything in return. I more often end up the best friend who she could never sleep with because it…
/r/seduction18/02/13 02:14 AM
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/sarasm But honestly, the real answer is "Stop thinking, have sex". I was just pointing out the problems with deciding its okay to lower your standards.
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:42 PM
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Is a bird in the hand worth two in the bush? You could easily close on some of these, but do you want to even if it means chancing being alone that night? The real answer is of course, yes, but when you are actually faced with the question it is much more nuanced. Especially because if you feel like you are lowering your standards just to get easy ass, then you have now set the bar lower for yourself at all times. No more 7+ for you, that's okay though, we all need good wingmen to take one for t…
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:11 AM
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Diamonds for Gold, being a nice guy I'm generally very broke from all the giving I do without anything in return. Doesn't mean I don't wish I got it, but I don't expect it. Next time I am in a relationship though I am going to pay super special attention to the ratio's and make sure they stay the same, even if it means explaining it to her
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:04 AM
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"raised" to enjoy the chase? Nah, its history and genetics. T-rex doesn't want to be fed, she wants to hunt. Same with men and women, you can bring me a perfectly pretty female who is willing to lay down and let me stick my penis in her, but I'm not going to enjoy it as much as a conquest! Since we can't just club them over the head and drag them back to our caves, the chase is the next best thing. Side Note: when taking a girl back to your cave, make sure you drag her by the hair, otherwise the…
/r/seduction17/02/13 08:01 AM
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