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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 581 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure” | RANT | Just_Raspberry_7459 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:01 AM |
| 546 | Any thoughts on this take on the “heterosexual double bind”? | DISCUSSION | Just_Raspberry_7459 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 11:56 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 6 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Yeah lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 47 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Fr! That was part of my issue, as well! Because I personally wouldn’t want a guy to stare at me while I’m in public. So I was upset not only that my ex would disrespect our relationship but also that he would stare at women like they’re objects | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:39 AM |
| 7 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:33 AM |
| 10 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Yes exactly! I kept thinking that I would never find a guy who wouldn’t check out other girls. I thought it was something I would have to live with if I ever wanted to be with a guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 06:32 AM |
| 62 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Exactly this. It’s definitely intentional of society to demonize us women for being cautious. People who think like that are just enablers. They call it “trust issues” when, most of the time, it’s really just being careful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:46 AM |
| 35 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Oh wow. Don’t be too hard on yourself tho. I too have moments when I hate myself for allowing him to walk all over me. But if you and me can recognize that we shouldn’t have been so forgiving, especially of men who wouldn’t have done the same for us, I think it shows that we’ve both grown and come a long way from where we were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 23 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Most definitely. And my ex would even say that he couldn’t help it. He said it was “instinctual.” I had so many people telling me it’s normal for guys to do that. I’m so glad that I didn’t really buy into it all that much. And I’ve learned not to doubt myself anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:37 AM |
| 47 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Lmao. Yeah sometimes I wonder what would’ve happened if I had actually checked out other guys with my ex around. He says he wouldn’t have cared, but I kinda doubt that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:31 AM |
| 43 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”That’s terrible. It hurts a lot more hearing that kind of stuff from women in your family, but ESPECIALLY your mother of all people. I’m so sorry she would say that to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 122 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Exactly. And it seems a lot of these men like to play dumb when you confront them about it as well. When I told my ex I didn’t like him ogling girls, he said that he wouldn’t mind if I checked out guys. But he knew damn well that that wasn’t the issue. I wasn’t upset that I couldn’t check out guys since he was checking out girls. I was upset that he blatantly disrespected my boundaries and our relationship. But by acting coy, he thought that would give him the upper hand to avoid taking accounta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:57 AM |
| 98 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Couldn’t agree more! In fact, I think putting up with disrespect would be a better example of lacking confidence or being insecure. But unfortunately, lots of people believe that the opposite is true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:47 AM |
| 78 | When having boundaries makes you “insecure”Yikes. I hate it when they use religion to justify their shittiness. I’m sorry that happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 02:07 AM |
| 26 | Pewdiepie is a scrote to the world and to his wife. Look at their couple quiz and see how deeply imbalanced with their relationship and how normalized it is. 🤡 Raise your standards, ladies.God that’s so gross :( And I bet his equally pornsick fan base defended it too, saying how “everyone watches it” so it’s “okay.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 06:13 AM |
| 54 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileGod wouldn’t that be nice. I don’t know where you’re from, but I live in the US. And the misogynistic men over here would call the act of women trying to distance ourselves from men “segregation” as a way of slandering us. As if women prioritizing our safety is even remotely similar to Jim Crow laws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:37 AM |
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