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The desire to message her probably is coming from a place of neediness… I didn’t though and she texted me this morning and asked for another date! Patience pays off haha
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:12 PM
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Someone else mentioned asking before going for a kiss too. I’ve heard it’s good to just go for it sometimes but I think this girl would appreciate me asking before I kissed her. Hopefully it shows I want her to be comfortable with me before I do anything. Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:21 PM
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Okay thanks for this. I’ve been trying to just act like my normal self around this girl but I feel like I have a tendency to over analyze things and overthink stuff. Just being normal and doing what feels right seems to have worked so far and she seems like someone who is good at open communication about what she likes/doesn’t like and wants/doesn’t want. Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:17 PM
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Okay big thanks for this! I’d rather be slow and gentle than aggressive with how I come on to her so this is exactly what I feel like I should do. I don’t want to startle her with a kiss that seems random to her because I misread the situation. That’s a lot of embarrassment and I’d be so nervous I’d never see her again if that happened. Thank you so much for your thoughts!
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:13 AM
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I mean that’s kind of what I was doing lol, naturally bumping into her on purpose. Like as we were walking around the museum I’d get close to her and just sort of bump her slightly but in a natural seeming way. Same thing walking down the street, and she didn’t seem to mind because I feel like she was doing the same. Thinking about how it might look to random people watching though is funny because it’s two kids just bumping against each other walking down the street lmao.
/r/seduction04/10/21 06:10 AM
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That’s exactly what I’m afraid of happening. I’m a bit more hesitant to do things since she said she was only comfortable holding hands. But I also don’t want to be too slow and have her think I don’t have confidence. I think asking with this girl won’t be an issue though and that she would probably appreciate it, so whenever the chance finally comes up that’s what I’ll do. Regarding my other questions, do you think I should wait a few days for her to text me this time? I’ve read Models and 3% m…
/r/seduction04/10/21 03:48 AM
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I think that she does like me, she may just want to take things slow which is totally okay with me, I don’t want to rush into things. I’ve read conflicting views about asking vs not asking to kiss her but it seems like asking to kiss her once the moment feels right instead of just going in for it will be more wise. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/10/21 02:54 AM
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Funniest comment ever made by this bot lol
/r/seduction18/09/21 08:23 AM
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This is the motivation I’ve needed to start approaching the attractive girls I see on my college campus, thanks!
/r/seduction18/09/21 12:04 AM
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Wow man I could learn a lot from you! I’ve not got much experience with dating/seduction but it seems like you’ve got hella game. I’m gonna dm you a few questions I’ve got!
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:30 PM
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This is solid, I’d like to try this!
/r/seduction16/09/21 06:38 AM
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Yep I was thinking of messaging her tomorrow evening after she’s been finished working for a bit because I feel like it will have been a reasonable time to have waited. I’ll suggest a few days/times and hopefully she’s still interested in meeting up!
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:41 AM
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This is what I’m thinking too. I think she was being honest when saying she’ll let me know and not just using it as a way to get out of it without actually saying she’s not interested. I’m thinking of messaging her tomorrow evening though after I think she’s been finished working for a bit to just suggest a couple possible days/times to see if she’s still interested. I’ve messed up texting game before so I’m trying to play things cool this time and not act too interested, but I feel like by then…
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:39 AM
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Thanks, I was fortunate to get accepted to my dream school directly out of undergrad. So we last texted Monday night and I haven’t heard anything yet. I’m thinking of messaging her tomorrow evening after I think she’s been finished working for a bit if she’s still not said anything to just suggest a couple days and see if she’s still interested. Hopefully that doesn’t come off as too needy/too interested because I want to keep relaxed easy going vibes.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:34 AM
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Lmao I will simply accept an update on how it goes if you use this idea.
/r/seduction13/08/21 12:18 PM
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Getting a lego set and building it together would be a fun after-dinner activity that could wouldnt take too long depending on the size of it! It might also be a decent way to break the ice and find some good points for conversation. I planned on doing that with a girl on a coffee date once. The lego set was going to be a surprise so she didn’t know about it and flaked on the date but a few of my friends I told about it thought it was a really sweet idea.
/r/seduction13/08/21 02:44 AM
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I used to have this problem as well and also solved it by being good friends with attractive girls. I was friend zoned by (nearly) every one of the girls I am now very close with. It showed me that they are just as normal as I am, they just look a certain way I found desirable. Having good looking female friends is definitely a great thing to do to overcome the idea that attractive women are perfect. Spot on my guy.
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:04 AM
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I’m 5’7, so definitely on the shorter side. I style my hair in a way that adds a little bit of height though. Look up “quiff hairstyle” to get an idea.
/r/seduction07/08/21 07:47 PM
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Could you explain what predilection in this context is? I’m unfamiliar. I assume it’s more or less the fact that I chose to be seen with my female friend which likely gave me some social proof and led to the nice looks I noticed.
/r/seduction07/08/21 01:16 PM
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Seriously. I’m only 5’7 and haven’t considered myself a particularly good looking guy for a long time, but the changes I’ve made have done a lot to change the way I see myself. And it seems that they have also changed the way that other people see me too, for the better! I had no idea that self confidence was such a super power!
/r/seduction07/08/21 01:13 PM
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Headed to Detroit for a few days, then Chicago, and then back to Charlotte NC where I’m from. I’ve heard that older women can be a blast and am not going to rule out that option, but I mentioned in another comment that I would have had to pretty much throw my standards away if I did anything with them and it’s not that important to me. Happily and gladly passed up this opportunity haha
/r/seduction31/07/21 08:11 PM
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So I did get a number from one of them after she told me to take it from her. I don’t look at this as a waste of time or an L though because I had an awesome time hanging out with them and went out of my comfort zone by bantering with them and just being normal and not trying to “be on my best behavior” like I sometimes tend to do. I felt like I was pretty much my natural self with them which has been my goal to do more of lately and I finally felt that this time was the closest I’ve gotten so f…
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:30 PM
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Haha there probably could have been a chance but I wouldn’t have taken it. None of them were very attractive to me but they were just a blast to talk to! One gave me her phone number but I’m already on my way back to a different state and wouldn’t have used it anyway. If I had really tried to make something happen though I think I probably could have!
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:13 PM
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None we’re fucked because I wasn’t attracted to any of them in the slightest bit except for the fifth but even with her I would have had to seriously lower my standards quite a bit which I’m not interested in doing. I did isolate one in particular, I guess the most milf-y one of the group but mostly just to flirt with more than anything because again, I wasn’t actually attracted to any of them. If I had legitimately tried though I think I would have had a decent shot at getting the one I was ban…
/r/seduction31/07/21 04:18 AM
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As long as you stay less needy/invested in her than she is in you, you shouldn’t have too much trouble.
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:45 AM
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Hey this is great! It’s really not that hard to actually do, the hard part is convincing yourself to just do it. Say fuck it and ask yourself what you have to lose (which is nothing since you will have nothing if you don’t approach her anyway) if you get cold feet. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain from doing an approach; the potential risks are pretty much none and the potential rewards are huge! And if she says she has a boyfriend, tell her to let you know if she wants another on…
/r/seduction28/07/21 02:30 AM
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Okay yeah that’s a really good idea!
/r/seduction24/07/21 12:41 PM
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False. Pretty girls are incredibly scary lol. But it doesn’t mean not to approach them or treat them any different than any other person. This is something hard for me to realize but before I wouldn’t even have acknowledged it. Now at least I know it’s what I should do, just breaking old needy habits takes time. Thanks for the support!
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:51 AM
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Definitely read it again! Read it as many times as it takes for you to see some real benefit from it! The author’s entire plan revolves around rejection, which at least to me implies that women aren’t attracted to you… at first. But the changes that he recommends making in our lives help us take the filters off of our personality and freely express ourself which leads to polarization, which ultimately leads to attraction when paired with other things (which you surely understand having read the …
/r/seduction20/07/21 08:16 PM
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Check this out, it gives a summary. You don’t need to have women attracted to you to benefit from the book because it’s kind of about going from the place of being a non-attractive guy TO being an attractive guy. The book isn’t about the intricacies of sex. It’s about how to be a better person overall and how to use the qualities you have as a better person in a way that will attract women to you. You say you don’t have women attracted to you, but that’s probably some bullshit because you most l…
/r/seduction20/07/21 12:44 PM
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Read Models by Mark Manson. All the elaboration one needs.
/r/seduction20/07/21 02:56 AM
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if you treat someone as above you’re league, it subsequently makes them treat you as below their league. Man this is literally gold. This is something I unfortunately have not realized until this week. Girls don’t want guys that feel like they’re leagues below them because it just tells her she could do better. I have a big problem with thinking attractive women are somehow better than me and that sucks because I more or less am rejecting myself before I even approach, even though I’m pretty suc…
/r/seduction11/07/21 01:02 AM
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Haha yeah so far I’m 1/1! From what I’ve read in here I’m pretty lucky to have succeeded on my first approach, especially when I went in knowing I wasn’t going to get her number because she had a bf. The conveniently split up recently though so right place right time I suppose!
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:51 PM
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I mean you’re right. We made out a few times but in an empty section of our university’s library but that was pretty much it. That’s not the type of thing I’m interested in though so I’ll definitely take your advice!
/r/seduction09/07/21 05:47 PM
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22 and a virgin is just fine! I’m 22 and just arranged my very first date ever today and I’m super excited about it! I know what it feels like to feel like time is running out but in reality, there is still PLENTY of time to meet someone. Focus on yourself and getting to the point where you’re okay with being patient and you should eventually find some success!
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:32 AM
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Meaning don’t text her all the time? I’ve had a “sort of” relationship before that was basically us texting all the time but we never went on a single date. That lasted for about 2 months. I’m going to try to avoid that this time and instead try to meet up with her in person more. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:44 PM
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So my favorite university professor and I were talking a few weeks ago and I roasted him for a receding hairline (he knew I was joking) and he brought up that he actually uses rogaine and that it works well for him. He’s been using it for about 2 years daily I think in addition to a few supplements that may or may not have any real effect, one of which is stinging nestle root. He claimed that rogaine and the extras worked pretty good for him because he’s in his mid 50’s and still has quite a bit…
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:19 PM
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Hopefully the door isn’t completely closed yet! I didn’t realize what she was saying were positive signs but it’s clear now they were, so I’m going to go back soon and talk to her and definitely shoot for her number or a date!
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:43 PM
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My parents are part of a super conservative religion and wouldn’t allow me to date anyone outside of that faith. That big limitation combined with the simple reality that there were very few attractive girls that fit within that rule is why I’ve never shot a shot before. But that’s all changed and I’m no longer part of that religion and am free to be interested in whoever now!
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:38 PM
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That’s what I’m hoping happened. That way when I see her again she might still be interested and I’ll make a move.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:35 PM
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Thank you so much for this! I’ve been feeling like a fool for not asking for her number but this makes me feel better about what I did. I didn’t know that the things she was saying were positive signs but I do now and hopefully will detect them next time I’m in a similar position. Hopefully she is thinking similarly to what you’ve said and I haven’t missed the opportunity yet!
/r/seduction07/07/21 03:53 PM
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Yeah many others have said that she was hinting that she was interested but I didn’t pick that up at all, likely because I’ve got no experience. I won’t make the same mistake again though! I also appreciate the second half of what you’ve said a lot because, for nearly all my life I’ve been someone that gets infatuated very quickly and have done that (and dealt with the hurt from doing it) up until fairly recently. Everything I read on here says to pretty do the opposite of that so that’s what I’…
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:18 PM
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This is solid. I didn’t realize it, but I did pretty much just reveal how I was processing the situation. Sometimes I think that can be good but perhaps not in this case. Thank you!
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:12 PM
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Right. When she told me this I didn’t want to make her feel pressured into anything. Seems the opportunity might still be there so I’ll try again soon!
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:08 PM
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Ugh i wish I had known this yesterday! I guess having such little experience got me this time. There’s a couple comments saying this same general thing about her being subtly interested though so it seems like I did miss an opportunity. Luckily I’ll probably see her again soon so I will definitely try again if the door is still open!
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:06 PM
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Interesting, because I hadn’t thought about her perhaps trying to mask interest in that way. As I was walking away I instantly thought that maybe I made a mistake by saying what I did, but maybe not. I’m sure I’ll see her again so I’ll definitely ask her next time!
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:59 PM
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Yeah I got a taste and realized that I was scared of nothing and was freaked out only by things I thought of not what actually happened! Stopping myself from putting girls on pedestals and thinking that my life would be ruined if she didn’t talk to me has helped a bunch!
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:55 PM
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I actually did my first cold approach in my life today! It’s difficult finding ways to convince yourself to just go for it, but realize that the risks are way lower than the potential rewards. If a girl is going to reject you, it most likely will be in a polite way and you just move on. If you have a good conversation with her and are able to get her number, that can lead to something really great! Confidence in yourself really helps too, but that isn’t going to come overnight usually. Do whatev…
/r/seduction07/07/21 01:10 AM
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Ah this is solid advice! Kind of giving her things to talk about by making statements like you like x type of student is a great idea! Thank you!
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:04 AM
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Does this seriously work? For example if I’m (22M) sitting in a cafe working on my laptop and an attractive woman walks by, I could politely go start a conversation with her using this really straightforward approach? Where do you go after you say this? She might say ah thanks and not say much else, so how do you gain momentum in that situation?
/r/seduction26/06/21 11:03 PM
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