| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 59 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl? | KD_42 | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 11:58 PM | |
| 41 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive? | Inner Game | KD_42 | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 12:24 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Time to hit the gymMy bad, when I say gym I mean more or less just exercise in general | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 09:25 PM |
| 7 | Time to hit the gymWhile going to the gym isn’t a fix it for everything, there’s less than 1% of people where going to the gym wouldn’t be beneficial | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morrorGood to see someone on our vibe, sometimes it can feel a little cuckoo discussing spirituality | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Confidence isn't built in the gym or in the bank, it's build in the morrorConfidence is knowing what you value in yourself as a person and are actively living in a way that aligns with it. Confidence isn’t wondering how you compare with someone else, confidence is not having to compare in the first place. I used to be deathly afraid of people and interactions with women because I was constantly judging myself, wanting things not necessarily to actually enjoy them but just so I can say I “have” a hot gf or people think im cool. All that stopped when I realised that nee… | /r/seduction | 05/05/25 11:26 AM |
| 9 | I’m 31m, is it unethical to go after a 23yr old girl that I know?Just wanting to add something positive but still consider that it def can be a challenging choice but: My step dad is my hero, I call him dad because I view him as my real dad and I’m eternally grateful for hi | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 09:44 AM |
| 15 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive?Online dating sucks dude unless you’re an Adonis, why wouldn’t girls be super picky when every swipe right is a yes for them | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Former insecure people when /how did you accept you are attractive?Yeah I’m 29. The brain is a crazy thing lol | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 12:45 AM |
| -3 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLJust curious, how tall are you | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Banned from dating apps forced to approach IRLIt is relevant if he got banned for being a creep then yeah he needs to fix that shit not saying OP is a creep but why he got banned is not irrelevant | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 01:15 AM |
| 111 | This girl set me up perfectlyIf you’re not tall then you’re pretty much short it seems no in between | /r/seduction | 21/06/23 10:02 AM |
| 11 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Lmao if cold approaching becomes obsolete that means every single man on earth has become a pussy | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Question about eye contactYeah I thought that too but decided to ask here cause this sub generally points me in the right direction | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Question about eye contactI normally do that but I've read to hold eye contact until they break it first so just wanted other people's views on it, thanks man | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Question about eye contactWho's saying I don't talk to them? Was just wanting clarification mate | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?Cold approaching | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 01:51 AM |
| 7 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?Conversations usually go alright after a while, there is a back and forth and not me constantly asking questions like an interview but i just want to not start my interactions like some boring schmuck anymore cause that's definitely my weak point, maybe i just really hate small talk lol | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:47 AM |
| 4 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?I get that but I want to know if other people know how to have actually interesting conversations off the bat, i swear to God I'm gonna lose it starting another convo so boringly | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Anybody get told to "be good to her or else"?I mean I wouldn't because I would never intentionally hurt a girl because im being petty but the urge is there | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 06:58 AM |
| 5 | Anybody get told to "be good to her or else"?When people say be good to her or else, it does nothing for me except making me want to hurt her (emotionally) just to find out the or else | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 05:03 AM |
| 19 | Why does she keep texting me after I got rejected?If she's busy and interested she would have proposed a different time that works for her | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Your tinder pictures suckI have a shirtless picture of me in muay thai sparring gear, even though its legitimately how I'm always dressed at the gym and I still kinda cringe over it lol | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 08:44 AM |
| 4 | Eye contact while talkingIs that actually a thing? What are some benefits you've personally notice? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 9 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!There is plenty of women who date guys shorter than them, I'm not gonna say the majority but still plenty. Not gonna comment on strength because most of the time even the weakest men are stronger than a lot of women | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 29 | Smoothest rejection I’ve ever had, we both got a laugh outta itHaving game is making every circumstance smooth. | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 14 | Can I ask for casual sex?Lol OP probably is just an awkward dude and made a weird comment now he a murderer all of a sudden | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 11:56 PM |
| 6 | Sometimes pain is nature's way of incentivizing you to develop and grow into a better person.Feeling uncomfortable means you're growing | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 10:40 PM |
| 8 | Do I break eye contact?If a chick stares at me without ever breaking eye contact I'd find it creepy as well, dude is giving OP direct advice regarding OP. He's not gonna give unsolicited advice to some random imaginary chick is he | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 8 | Don’t blow your opportunities.This same mindset is what got me to finally cold approach | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?Yeah woods are a good idea, being in nature in it is awesome. Like I said, as long as you keep remembering that you're under the influence because you can actually forget sometimes while talking to people who aren't tripping, and be sensible you will be fine. I dont live in the US so I can't really answer that for you but i've heard around 10 or 15 bucks for one tab. I wouldn't do more than one the first time. If you wanna be absolutely sure then find places that sell test drug kits, if you don'… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 01:01 AM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?maybe try a quarter of a tab and work up to just one? Sorry I'm just a strong supporter of psychedelics but just trust yourself more than some random dude on the internet . You can achieve similar results with meditation and mindfulness | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 12:51 AM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?Yeah sorry bad advice, it was alright for me and all my friends who did it alone but everyone is different. Ask yourself this objectively, are you stupid in general? I'm not trying to be rude but if you're smart enough when sober then you should be fine, just be sensible. You don't randomly think that you're bulletprooft or you can fly, LSD just makes you question things you've been taught whilst growing up, it gives you a new angle at looking at things you've always thought was one way but only… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 12:47 AM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?First off, if you or your family has a history of mental illnesses then proceed very carefully if at all. Set out a whole day if not two for it, as a trip will last for up to 8 hours or more and the next day you might feel a bit out of wack, you might not but better to be sure. Don't be scared, you won't see any flying unicorns and talking inanimate objects and you will learn a lot about yourself during the trip if you have something in the back of your mind that's bothering you be prepared for … | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 12:06 AM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?I work out,make music, play basketball, skate, try to meditate as much as I can, play Xbox, I read and dabble in psychedelics from time to time as they've always helped me with my self improvement | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:42 PM |
| 2 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?Uh I don't really like to blow my own horns, it seems a bit too narcissistic lmao so I'll just say I like my hobbies, I like my personality, I like my circle of friends. I feel like if you're good in at least those aspects regardless of your situation it would greatly improve your life | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:27 PM |
| 5 | I’m so lonely and depressed, and full of self hatred. Should I just go see an escort?No offence dude but the only two positive things you wrote were you have a nice job and a nice truck. If those two are the only things you value about yourself, self improvement will help a lot more than seeing an escort | /r/seduction | 28/10/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Short guys, should we even BOTHER approaching taller women?http://www.cosmopolitan.com/entertainment/celebs/a12004759/justin-bieber-allegedly-hollered-at-a-girl-on-instagram-and-got-denied/ Never thought I'd live to see the day where I'm out here linking cosmopolitan on my free will | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 06:57 AM |
| 3 | Short guys, should we even BOTHER approaching taller women?Kinda only somewhat relevant but I was reading some article today(I usually hate tabloid shit but you do what you gotta when you're bored at work), about how Justin Bieber got swerved by a chick through instagram lmaaaaooo the fact that one of the biggest acts on earth can get rejected speaks for itself | /r/seduction | 17/08/17 05:11 AM |
| 3 | You're Not A Round Peg In A Square Hole.You might have a point with your post but lmao wtf is up with that weird ass only white people dance to techno shit | /r/seduction | 22/03/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How many of you stopped smoking weed, and how did it improve your game if at all?Hahaha holy fuck I read his reply whilst stoned and I legitimately laughed out loud. How the fuck does smoking weed have to do with a rape victim holy shit lolol Not trying to be condensing to OP but that is a stupid train of thought | /r/seduction | 29/03/16 08:29 AM |
| 3 | 22 year old male virgin. Never even kissed girl. Social Anxiety. Lack of Confidence. All Because of Penis Size.Yeah you can grow it but I feel instead of worrying about superficial shit why not just learn to be cool with yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 12:28 PM |
| 6 | 22 year old male virgin. Never even kissed girl. Social Anxiety. Lack of Confidence. All Because of Penis Size.You have what you have. No point stressing over it, I know its easier said than done but if you're gonna be a guy with a small penis why make it worse worrying about it. You have a small penis so what? Imagine what happens if a girl says that. "You have a small penis" she says So what? What actuslly happens to you besides your feelings get hurt for a bit? She tell people and they know you have a small penis? What will happen to you? What exactly happens in this situation? Do you die?? Does your … | /r/seduction | 12/02/16 11:56 AM |
| 15 | I feel like I am too boring for girls my ageCompletely unrelated but I gotta ask when people say they don't smoke weed because of their moral compass or something along the line of that. Do you view weed smokers as bad people? I'm not trying to insult your choice at all I'm genuinely curiois | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 09:53 AM |
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